WEBVTT - Dean There, Done That 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.440 Hell, I Suck at Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared 0:00:04.720 --> 0:00:10.440 and I Heart Radio Podcast. Welcome to another episode of Help. 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:14.000 Welcome to another episode of Help. I Suck at Dating 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:18.720 with Dean Unglert, No Vanessa, no Jared, Just Dean Unglert 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:22.400 in studio with Easton and Mark, just like it used 0:00:22.400 --> 0:00:25.239 to be, just how it's supposed to be. Here we are. 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:28.720 Where is everybody today? That's a great question, Mark. I 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:33.120 think Jared and Vanessa both quit, so who knows this? 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:34.600 I think we're just gonna go back to the old 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:37.440 standard of of the three bros hanging out in studio 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:41.040 talking about dating. Um, two of them, two of us 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:43.839 are married, one of us is single, and we're just 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:46.920 gonna get through it together. Um. Today it's gonna be 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:49.360 an episode. We have Shri Healey coming back into studio. 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:51.599 She is the possibilitarian. We've actually had her on quite 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:53.440 a few times and we love having her back here 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:56.640 because she's so insightful. We're also we we didn't ask 0:00:56.680 --> 0:01:00.960 Dean anything on Facebook on that which a great UM. 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:02.640 And then we have some emails, so it's gonna be 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:04.520 a pretty you know, bear bones episode. And the fact 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:06.880 that we're going minimalist. We're gonna be talking a lot 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.679 about me, which I absolutely not a fan of. Usually 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:13.920 we're all fascinated by you. We're gonna talk about poop, yes, 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:17.160 because um, Ashley and Vanessa were butting heads last week 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:19.520 on Almost Famous about whether you should poop with it 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:22.200 in front of your significant other. Vanessa was pro, Astley 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:24.040 was anti yep, and I have I mean, I have 0:01:24.080 --> 0:01:26.000 some thoughts on it. I don't know anything. Okay, great, 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:28.000 By the way, I do want to hear about last night. 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:29.640 We talked off air a little bit about this because 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:32.160 I'm fascinated. I'm a huge baseball fan. I'm a huge 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:34.640 Milwaukee Brewers fan. And you were there at the Angels 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:36.560 Brewers game in Anaheim last night. Yeah, so this is 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:38.440 being recorded on a Thursday last night on what I'm 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.000 sure this is gonna air what next week? UM. I 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:44.040 for some weird reason, MLB reached out to me and 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:45.240 they're like, hey, we want you to throw out the 0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:49.120 first pitch of an Angels Brewers game. UM. And it 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:51.400 was something where it's like I never had really thought 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:53.160 about throwing out a first pitch at a baseball game 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:55.200 because I never thought that it was really possible, you know, 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:57.000 like it's hard to put something on your bucket list 0:01:57.040 --> 0:01:59.240 that you can almost objectively say that's never gonna happen. 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:00.880 And Marco was just telling me him and his father 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:02.880 had tried multiple times at the Brewers Games because they've 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:06.240 been to thirty two straight opening days and no interest 0:02:06.280 --> 0:02:07.720 in us throwing out the first I haven't even been 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.560 alive at thirty two years. Mart I hit him and 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:12.800 fathom what thirty two years is? And we started eighty 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:16.280 one and went to and how why was it three? Well, 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.960 it's a sad ending to the story. I was living 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:21.040 in l A. And I was driving to the airport 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:23.120 for a red eye was one thirty AM flight. I 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:24.960 got got up and I slept a little bit, got 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:26.720 up like eleven PM and was driving to the airport 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:28.400 and they shut down the four or five freeway at 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:30.840 Mulholland for a big accident. And I sat there and 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:32.239 sat there and sat there. I finally got to the 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:34.919 airport at one I just dropped my car right there 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:36.679 at the airport because I'm not gonna be gone that long. 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:38.520 I would fly out and come back the same day, 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:41.120 and I'm running in I'm thinking I'm gonna make it 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:45.000 because they probably just started boarding. T s A closes 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:49.520 at one am. So even though I could see passengers 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:52.600 down the hallway boarding the flight I should be getting on, 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:54.760 there was no T s A to go through my 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:58.639 suitcases and let me suitcase single carry on, to let 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.080 me through and get on that plane. Wait, that's I 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:02.920 had no idea that was even a thing. I didn't 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:05.480 either until that night. I begged the security guy. I 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:07.920 just l a X security guy, Can you please, here's 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:09.440 my bag, you can go through it? And he said no. 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:11.400 If I let you through, I'm fired for sure. And 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:13.320 so I couldn't do it. I looked at other flights 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:15.680 to get me there, and then we just decided, well, 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:19.560 it had to end someday, better than it ends this way, 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:21.520 than one of us being in poor health or something 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:24.639 like that. They live in Arizona. I live in Los Angeles. 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:26.760 It's weird to be flying in Milwaukee for one day 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:28.680 every year. It was becoming a bit of a hassle. 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:30.639 So that's what your father was in. Your father went, 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:33.000 he went with my mom. Yeah, okay, it was sad. 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.480 Was there a thirty four? I mean the following year 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:39.080 we just ended there thirty two years was good. It 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:42.480 was becoming a lot. That's actually really interesting though. Okay, so, um, 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:44.760 you guys were never able throughout the first pitch. And 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:47.720 it's kind of funny because dead hard I'm sorry, die 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:50.640 hard Brewers fans that have gone to thirty two consecutive 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:55.160 baseball games, who you think like the team is like, okay, 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:57.440 these guys are die hard fans. We love them, we 0:03:57.480 --> 0:03:59.520 want to like include them somehow. And then all of 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:02.000 a sudden, some guy who's a Rockies fan but who 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:04.120 was rooting for the Dodgers last year. And then the 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:06.400 Angels are like, hey, comes out throughout the first pitch, 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:07.920 and it's like, you know, it's it's kind of funny 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:09.840 how that happens sometimes, but um, yeah, it was a 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:11.600 great experience and we'll be reached out. They said that, 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:13.640 you know, they wanted to activate a campaign and have 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:15.400 me throughout the first pitch, and you just never say no. 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:17.599 It's funny because you get down on the field during 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:20.240 batting practice and there, um, you know, the ground screws 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:23.480 out there raking and chalking and all that kind of stuff, 0:04:24.279 --> 0:04:26.680 and they go, do you want to throw from the mound? 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:28.440 Or do you want to throw from like twenty ft 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:31.400 in from the mound. Do you know how much crap 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:33.320 I would get if I didn't throw from the mound. 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:35.920 Whether I throw from the mountain and it goes fiftt 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:37.960 in either direction, if I throw from off the mount, 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:39.919 I'm never gonna hear the out of front of my friends. 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:41.599 The thrill of being on a pictures mount in a 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:43.680 major league stadium as it's worth. I was like, I'll 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:45.160 go back to second base and I'll tag out the 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.560 runner and throw home if you guys will let me. Uh, 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:49.560 sure enough, that wasn't allowed, but yeah, it was funny. 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.120 I gotta walk up on the pitcher's mound. You know 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:52.640 how on the back side of the pitcher's mound there 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:55.320 is that it's like a spiky thing where you find 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:56.840 off your cleats. I like, I did that for a 0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:58.120 little bit. I was like, I gotta get make sure 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:00.160 that the shoes are clean. Got up to the the 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.359 picture stop and like backed my heel up into it 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:04.480 was a cooler the rubber yep, And uh, it was 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:07.400 a cool experience because it's a it's a professional mound 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:08.800 that the next person to throw a pitch off that 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:11.480 mound was a starting picture. You can watch actual pictures 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:13.480 on that same amount the rest of the game. Yeah, 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:16.560 and uh, I hadn't practiced. I I played baseball up 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:18.280 until my freshman year of high school and I quit 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.600 because I was got awful at it. Um. I was 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:24.039 a right fielder, you know, if that speaks the best 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:27.839 player on the team. Um. And I hadn't learned baseball 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:28.840 in a decade. And I was like, you know what, 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:30.520 I'm not even gonna practice. I'm just gonna get out 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:31.960 there and do it. And I threw it literally right 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:33.800 over the plate, sunk a little bit at the end, 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:35.760 hit the dirt. But I asked the catcher. I was like, hey, 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:37.280 that was a strike, right, and he goes, yeah. Man, 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:38.320 I was like, that was a called strike. And even 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:41.440 the p announcer was said, uh, he goes and that's 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:45.040 a strike and I was like yes. And the p 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:47.359 A and alcer mentioned helped my second daity, which is 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:49.400 very excited another thing too. And I went up there too, 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:51.080 and I was like, I stared at the catcher and 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:53.040 I shook off the first call. I shook off the 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:54.839 second call, and then I was like, all right, the 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:57.520 third thatcher I don't think it was a real catcher. 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:00.480 I think he was just like, I don't know, some coach, 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:04.479 security guard. He was a player. Yeah, I think he's 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:06.720 like maybe a backup catcher. But that's that's fine, that's 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:08.640 a real player. Yeah. But the funny thing was, Yeah, 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:11.720 so they gave me like a little introduction and they 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:14.320 mentioned the help I Suck a Dating podcast on I 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:16.960 Heart Radio, and that was It was one of those 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:18.600 moments to where it's like, yep, I'm standing here in 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:21.359 front of ten people telling them all how much I 0:06:21.400 --> 0:06:24.120 suck at dating, and like it's fun. It's one thing 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:26.160 to do it on air because it gets projected out 0:06:26.160 --> 0:06:29.000 to however many people. But in the stadium where it's 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:31.920 like Dean Anglert sucks at dating and everyone's like, oh what, 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:35.320 I would think they would have gotten a laugh. Just 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:36.920 the title of it alone would have gotten a laugh 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:39.600 from the Anaheim books. And it was a good experience. 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.600 I'm super fortunate to have been able to do that. 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:43.000 I hope you get to do it again because I 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:45.479 would like to do it. It was seventy bucks and 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:49.039 you got all the free food and drink and like 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:51.480 it was like a box and box and all that 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.560 kind of stuff. Going to a baseball game is seventy 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:56.360 bucks anyway, And I mean, I know it's early season, 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:57.919 and I know no one really cares about the Brewers, 0:06:58.000 --> 0:07:01.400 but you know, I don't argue that I can't. I 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:03.960 try to make as good a friends with the employees 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:05.960 of the Angels, so I'd be like, listen, I'll do 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:08.400 whatever it takes. I will, I will try as hard 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:10.000 as I possibly can. Just let me sing the national 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:13.880 anthem next time. I will take singing lessons. I don't 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:16.240 care what it takes. Let me sing the nationally And 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:18.080 they're like, we probably can't swing that, but we might 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.720 let you sing the seventh inning stretch Penis and cracker 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:24.520 Jacks probably pretty cool, Like Harry carry, I run these 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:27.880 Disneyland half marathons and part of the course takes you 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:30.120 onto the field of the Angel Stadium, and like you 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:31.560 know what go on the field. You just go like 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:33.960 in front of the like that lane right in front 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.280 of the stands, the warning track, Yeah, and like going, 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:38.320 So the stadium is empty and I'm there with like 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:41.920 ten thousand other moronic Disney people. But that felt amazing, 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:43.760 just like running through it really quickly, I'm like, oh 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:46.680 my god, like being at that perspective of the I 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:49.640 couldn't imagine being Yeah, like I could imagine being on 0:07:49.720 --> 0:07:51.480 the field in front of like with the stands full, 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:53.560 Like that's good. Oh my god. Just would you run 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:56.239 a half marathon over here? I run multiple half marathon 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:59.240 thirteen point one miles, thirteen point one miles, that's right? 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:01.560 How am I just finding this out? I could show 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:03.960 you my medals someday. Can you bring them in next week? 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:07.560 I will wear them all. That's really impressive. But half 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:09.560 marathon is no joke. I wish it had a better 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:11.720 name because like they don't give about half Nobel prizes. 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:16.280 Here's your half Academy Awards, sir. Yeah, like it called 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:18.960 it dick Hathlon or you know, like I'm tafalon. Make 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:21.280 up a name anyway. Have you ever run a full marathon? No? 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:23.600 What happens now? Why do you say it with such 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:26.680 a bigger It's because half marathon At the end of it, 0:08:26.800 --> 0:08:29.239 I'm super tired and I have to do that again. 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:31.600 Like do you walk it all? You the entire time? 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:34.320 That's really impressive, Thank you very much. Um. What's funny 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:36.400 actually on that note, is my friends just ran the 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:39.440 l A Marathon two weeks ago whatever it was, uh, 0:08:39.480 --> 0:08:41.280 and I was like really impressed by them too. I 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:42.880 was like, wow, I know you guys could do that, 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:44.719 and so I set a goal. I said both to 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:46.559 both of them. I was like, let's I'm going to 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:48.240 run the next marathon with you guys. And they're like, 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:50.120 you probably run a half marathon to like ease into it. 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:54.360 I said, no, I'm gonna run one marathon another one again. 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.079 So I'm we were gonna do the Chicago Marathon, but 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:59.760 apparently it sells out in like a day, right, and 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:02.000 so we're gonna find a marathon. I'm going to train 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:03.520 for it. I think in like six months. I should 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.800 you won't wait till next year's l A Marathon March eight. 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:09.040 I don't think I'm not patient March eight. So I 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:10.920 guess a month ago, you know, I mean the next 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:13.760 one's March. So you could l A marathon. Yeah, that'd 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:15.240 be you'd have eleven months to try. It would be 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:16.959 cool to be like Boston Marathon or Chicago Marathon and 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:19.880 New York Marathon, right, yeah, as long as like, yeah, 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:21.360 a big one. You want to run a big one now, 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:23.360 I don't know, so we'll see. But that's my goal. 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:25.280 You want to do like the Hyenaton Beach Marathon or 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:26.719 anything like that. You want to you want like some 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:29.880 you's gotta have some name name. What's what's the word 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:33.400 I'm looking for name recognition. Yeah. And that's the thing too. 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:34.880 It's like, I'm not a runner. I think I I 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:36.960 run to the gym every day, but that's like eight 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:38.560 tenths of a mile there, ey tens a mile back, 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:40.920 and I'm exhausted after it. I've never really set a 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:44.920 goal for myself that is that physically challenging. Um, because 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:46.920 it's not just running. You have to like eat well 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:48.680 and train and like all that kind of stuff. So 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:52.719 do exercise regularly? I mean, my wife's not here to 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:56.480 rebuke this, but yes I do. Yeah, no, and not 0:09:56.600 --> 0:09:58.760 like with as much regularity as I should. But like 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:01.520 I I go to the gym like at least once 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:04.640 or twice a week. I do beach by on demand 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:06.640 when I'm at home. Um, and uh, and I run. 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:08.400 I like to run outside. I run a couple of 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:10.679 times a week. I littly had no idea. Yeah, you 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:14.080 need to look at me. It's not that it's just 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:17.800 I don't know. The thing about people who run a 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:20.960 lot is they're very um. I don't like runners because 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:23.959 they're very like dramatic about it, like uh, they always 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:25.439 were like, you know, oh man, it's just me in 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:27.520 the pavement man like like that. Runners high and I 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:30.320 could go forever exactly, And I really don't buy with that, 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:33.240 so I tried to keep it a secret. Huka. It's 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:34.600 kind of like if you're vegan or something, you know, 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:36.199 you make sure everyone's vegan. If you're a runner, you 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:39.560 make sure everyone knows you're runner exactly. If you want 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:42.880 jogs sometime with me. Now, Boston marathons Monday, that's probably 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:45.600 not gonna happen. New York marathons in November. Something to 0:10:45.600 --> 0:10:48.520 think about. I wonder if maybe yeah, January, well, Disney 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:52.160 World Marathon in Orlando, Florida, a whole marathon in Orlando. Yeah, 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:55.320 in January. January's around all the parks. Can we do 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:57.480 that together? I want to do that really bad. Actually, 0:10:57.559 --> 0:10:58.920 that would be your first marathon, that would be my 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:01.560 first marathon. That's a good idea. You guys can motivate 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:07.040 each other. I'm not opposed to Easton, be fine, I'm Okaddy, 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:10.400 Well I'm gonna pencil you in January Orlando. Sign me up. 0:11:10.840 --> 0:11:14.280 We'll drive the van out there down all right before 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:16.160 shri Healy gets here, is there and we get to 0:11:16.200 --> 0:11:18.640 these Facebook questions were starting a second here, But is 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:20.080 there anything going on in your life right now that 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:23.320 we should know about? Any personal issue and it dates recently? 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:26.880 Any jobs we should know about? Have you moved? Have 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:30.680 you gotten rid of your apartment yet? Like what's going on? Well? No, 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:34.840 I mean there's nothing really to update. Uh I, I 0:11:34.920 --> 0:11:36.920 just got back from Coachella because this is very next week. 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:41.360 Oh yeah, you did Coachella first weekend. Coachella is such 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:43.480 an interesting thing. I went four years ago for the 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:45.720 first time. This is gonna be my third time, or 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:47.280 this wasn't my third time going this pet this year, 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:50.280 and the first time I went was the most fun 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:53.199 weekend of my entire life, Like probably not even close, 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:55.800 Like there's probably no close second, um because it was 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:57.880 four years ago, right and I was with like twenty 0:11:57.880 --> 0:11:59.920 five of my closest friends. We got a big air 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:02.200 be and b too stay in and it was just 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.319 like the first experience of doing something that you keep 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:07.080 hearing people talk about with your closest friends around here, 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:08.960 you know, And so there was literally nothing bad that 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:11.600 ever went wrong that weekend. And I remember driving back 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:14.440 home from Coachella Valley to Los Angeles and I was 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:15.880 like sitting in the back of the car, like almost 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:17.280 crying to myself. I was like, I'm never gonna have 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:18.920 that much fun again in my life because I kind 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:20.480 of knew it, you know, you know, like when you 0:12:20.640 --> 0:12:22.520 when you do something so amazing and so much fun, 0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:24.320 you're like, I don't think I can ever replicate that 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:28.200 feeling again. And I went last year and we talked 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:30.319 about on the podcast a little bit, but Leslie and 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:32.240 I had just broken up, like maybe a week prior, 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:34.280 and I didn't want to go. I tried to cancel. 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:36.000 I tried to like blow off all my obligations, but 0:12:36.040 --> 0:12:37.480 the brands that I was working with were like, no, you, 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:41.199 like you signed contracts, you have to come. I was like, Okay, 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:43.760 I guess I'll come. And it was just one of 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:45.000 those things where it was like, you know, my head 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:46.360 wasn't really in it. I was with a couple of 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:48.400 like couple of really good friends, like two really close friends, 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:50.760 but I was like still kind of like mourning the 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:54.760 loss of the relationship, even though you know, obviously, um, 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:56.920 in the grand scheme of things, it's good that that 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:58.800 relationship ended when it did. But it was just it 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:00.280 was I didn't have enough time to heal from it, 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:02.920 you know what I mean, And it was just I 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:05.560 was in a weird headspace. And so we'll see. I mean, 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:06.760 it's kind of hard to say I guess how it 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:08.600 was this year because I haven't been yet. But so 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:11.240 now my thoughts on Coachella are, like I have, I've 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:12.960 had one really good experience and I've had one really 0:13:12.960 --> 0:13:17.319 bad experience. So I think in that situation, it's almost 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:20.160 easy just to kind of remember the good experience, forget 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:22.120 the bad one, and then just never go again. What 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:23.640 was it about the first It was just the friends 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:26.599 that were there. Yeah, we're their drugs involved, were a 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:28.600 lot of drugs, Mark. I don't know if we should 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:30.840 air this on the pascohol This is this is what 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:34.720 I'm curious about with Coachella. Was their sex involved? No? 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:37.560 Not for me, really done that whole weekend. I mean, 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:38.920 I was dating my girlfriend at the time, but you 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:41.400 had a girlfriend with you there? No, she wasn't she 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:43.520 she was like twenty really good friends, but she did 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:46.240 not come for some reason why um, And it was 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:47.319 just I don't know. I was like you know when 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:48.840 you when you hang out like your ten best friends 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:51.400 and it's just like you're laughing and you're you're getting 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:53.400 on each other the whole time. Um, and there's like 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:55.800 really nothing that can go wrong. Uh. Yeah, it was 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:59.560 a blast. And then the following and then the next Coachella, 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:02.000 I was on the Bachelor at and I remember actually 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:07.000 we were in Norway, um around April when Coachella Weekend 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:09.480 one was happening, and I hadn't talked to anyone where 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.360 like a month and a half maybe seven weeks in, 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:15.160 and I like, I got pretty drunk one night, and 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:17.800 I liked, I was like on my hands and knees, 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:20.440 like bawling my eyes out. To one of the producers, 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:23.440 I was like, please just let me call my friends. 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:25.480 I haven't talked to my friends in seven weeks. I 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:27.520 just need to hear their voices. And one of the 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:29.960 one of the producers was like, finally, like okay, like 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:31.760 figure out their phone numbers and we'll call him. Because 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:34.320 obviously I don't memorize my friends phone and we face 0:14:34.360 --> 0:14:36.720 times my best friend, and he just so happened to 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:39.080 be in a car with like six of my other 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:41.720 really good friends driving out to Coachella, and I like, 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:43.360 it just made me cry even more. I was like, 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:45.640 I can't believe I'm missing this with you guys right now, 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.640 Like I I wish I was there. Um, And I 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:50.840 was obviously super emotional because you know, you're you're in 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:53.440 the Bachelor for seven weeks. So um, that was the 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:55.080 last year that all of my friends went as a 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:59.520 big group. This year, it's like six or seven of us. Um, 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:01.640 so we'll see how that one goes and just just 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.560 friends of yours and a good group, no Bachelor people. 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:08.040 I've I've come to find out that I have more 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:11.120 fun in those situations when I'm just with like my 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:13.040 friends from before the show, like any of the ones 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:17.200 from four years ago when it was so magical. Um. No, 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:21.280 that's a good good point. No. No, but hey, well 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:23.520 I hope it's great. Yep. And you're not going back 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:26.200 next weekend. Nope, I'm not going back next weekend. And 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:28.480 then I'm going on a I won't be here next 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:30.760 week for the podcast. I'm going on a rock climbing 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:34.000 trip to New Mexico with my brother for a week. Well, 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:36.680 hopefully Gerard or Vanessa will be back. Otherwise it'll just 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:43.200 be the market niche and that hope being married. There's 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:48.160 some white pictures that need to be installed. Honestly, I 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:51.760 think that would be a pretty good Before we get 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:54.400 to Shari, Hey, heally, who's coming in here? Let's get 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:56.000 some of these Facebook questions out of the way. She 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:57.800 here yet? East And if you are you getting updates? 0:15:57.880 --> 0:16:01.320 I I waiting updates. I have not in any mine. 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:04.000 An episode of Just the Boys, you know, sre ends 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:06.640 up bailing. Hey, so be it fine with me. Mickey 0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:10.360 ferguson what is Dean's dream job? My guess is it 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:13.760 would be travel blogger? Well what it wars? You guys 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:15.400 his dream job as children, right, because it never really 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:18.160 pans out as we expected to. That's the truth. And 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:20.000 I had a bunch, but a big one for me, 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:23.640 and I just mentioned this on the Seacrest Post show 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:28.160 podcast was baseball radio announcer. That's my dream job. You 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:30.480 can say baseball first pitch though, yeah, yeah, And I know, 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:32.040 I know I could never be a baseball player, but 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:34.240 I would love to be a play by play announcer. 0:16:34.400 --> 0:16:37.400 How I feel like that's within the realnd of possibility 0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:39.040 it would have been I think if I'd have pursued 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:42.160 that younger and I did when I was tree. I 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:44.040 went to Amarillo, Texas, try to get a job, because 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:45.440 you really got to climb in the ranks at the 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:47.520