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Speaker 2: This is like when you got made fun of freading salad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they called me salad boy. Still hurts.

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Speaker 1: My wife, Sarah thirty six female, and I thirty five mail,

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Speaker 1: begun attending sixth grade in September, but this problem only

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Speaker 1: recently became a major issue. Sarah is Indian and makes

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Speaker 2: These kids are stupid. Indian food is the best food

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Speaker 1: Yeah ever, I mean, I love my Indian.

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Speaker 2: Indian food is my favorite food.

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Speaker 1: And I also love the fact that this comes to her.

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Speaker 1: came sobbing to her mom and I about the lunches

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Speaker 1: I remember no one used to want to trade a

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Speaker 2: I always had like purple cabbage and vegemite sandwiches. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: It also hits home with me, it hits home with

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Speaker 1: I come from a Chinese family and would always take

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Speaker 2: She's like dead, I'm gonna be tough.

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Speaker 1: When Sarah heard this, she simply contacted the principal. What happened?

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Speaker 1: Does snitches get stitches? Sarah's gonna get a little Lily

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's traumatic to have nothing to trade

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Speaker 2: You want? Are the food that pack of gushers?

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Speaker 1: I think that said I was made fun ruthlessly for

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Speaker 1: Condor says, not the A hole you don't have to

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Speaker 1: And like that's our that's our culture, our culture in

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Speaker 1: kangaroo taiale fla mignon, Oh god, delicious. But we got

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Speaker 2: I still think they should have a heritage today, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: And there's your phone also, people are asking if this

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Speaker 3: Hey, speaking of like your culture and heritage and food

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Speaker 3: You like that. That was actually a really great segue.

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Speaker 3: I don't we don't read some donos.

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Speaker 2: I don't know so, Eric, thank you for the five bucks.

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Speaker 1: Eric, thanks for the five bucks. Wait, let's see if

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Speaker 1: we read everything. I feel like we might have that

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Speaker 2: Okay? So this is from Caitlin Crosswell in Australia to

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Speaker 2: You're the only channel I'm subcribed subscribed to, and I

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Speaker 2: play your videos twenty four to seven even while i'm

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Speaker 2: sleep bag. I've only been a member for one month,

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Speaker 2: but I've almost watched every video. Keep up the amazing

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Speaker 2: work you guys do. Every video all becomes such a

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Speaker 2: big part of so many people's lives and bring joy

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Speaker 2: and entertainment to so many people, making each day better

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Speaker 2: for countless followers. These streets are just a small token

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Speaker 2: of my gratitude to thank you for everything you do

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Speaker 2: and hopefully bring some joy to your lives too. Lots

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Speaker 2: of love, Caitlyn Croswell ps your bucket hats shouldn't be

465
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Speaker 2: too much longer. Oh all right, unboxing on boxing time.

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Speaker 2: There's already something in here that I saw he.

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Speaker 1: Had, Dakota said, did someone say bucket hat?

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Speaker 2: No, they're not here yet. I okay?

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Speaker 1: Is that pizza shapes?

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Speaker 2: It's pizza. No, no, no, no, it's meat meat pie shapes.

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Speaker 2: Oh I cannot eat because they do actually have meat

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Speaker 2: in them. It says no idea how these daytes, but

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Speaker 2: they were too iconic to not.

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Speaker 2: who for this is far whoa, we've got golden gay

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Speaker 2: Time biscuits.

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Speaker 3: We got thirty more minutes.

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Speaker 2: To guys and thirty more minutes. Whoa, whoa Golden gay

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Speaker 2: Time biscuits. Biscuits my all time fave Azzie ice Block.

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately couldn't post the the frozen kind. Oh this sounds delicious.

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Speaker 2: What's in these? I've never had these before. I'm excited

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Speaker 2: to try this.

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Speaker 3: I know what this tastes like.

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Speaker 1: It's what I know what the meat pie shaped tastes like.

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Speaker 2: Oh jerky. Has anyone ever had potted meat before? This

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Speaker 2: is for you, Riley.

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Speaker 1: It's hotted meat. Oh yeah, we got a present from here.

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Speaker 2: It smells like the meat piles.

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Speaker 1: That's free.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's that's what a meat pio is. That's what

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Speaker 2: a meat pie is. Then we have beef well, not

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Speaker 2: beef jerky, but this is this is for Riley. It

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Speaker 2: I called it all. We've got emu jerkey.

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Speaker 1: I think yes, open it, open it.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to.

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Speaker 2: Unless this is just the pictures and it's not actually

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Speaker 2: em I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know it.

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Speaker 2: It might just be like the vibes on.

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Speaker 1: It also has a little Australia.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure what Open it I okay, Oh dude,

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Speaker 2: we have originals, mini chicken crimpy shapes. Let's see if

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Speaker 2: I can. I might not. Okay, I can't eat these

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Speaker 2: ones either, but there are ones in there I've already seen.

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Speaker 1: Is that crocodile?

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Speaker 2: Honey? You know biscuits because it doesn't love bluey.

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Speaker 3: Hey, we all try it. Don't eat it all? I

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Speaker 3: want to try it.

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Speaker 2: We slow down. Uh, these are little bluey biscuits. I freaking.

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Speaker 1: I'm eating the crocodile.

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Speaker 3: Don't eat have a bike, have a bike, have a bike.

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Speaker 2: Shapes. This is what I've been waiting. I will be

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Speaker 2: opening this right now. Hold on, hold on, I haven't

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Speaker 2: had pizza shapes.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, try each one. We can compare.

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Speaker 3: Croc Where's where's Riley?

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Speaker 2: You've been waiting for those m.

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Speaker 3: Hmas like a dog tree.

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Speaker 2: I was delicious.

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Speaker 3: Don't ask me why I know what a dog tree

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Speaker 3: tastes like.

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Speaker 2: Morezz shapes? These are mine?

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Speaker 3: You almost started.

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Speaker 2: These are mine. Barbecue shapes. That sounds good.

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Speaker 3: I take a barbecue shape.

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Speaker 2: Can I have a do you want? Do you want

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Speaker 2: to stead many chicken crimpy shapes?

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Speaker 1: Many chicken?

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Speaker 2: Sorry?

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Speaker 1: I love how many? This is amazing.

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Speaker 2: It keeps going. Man, we got more barbecue shapes.

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Speaker 1: If my mom was in the chat, she would be

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Speaker 1: more pizza.

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Speaker 2: All of the pizza shapes are mine. To be clear, everyone,

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Speaker 2: we have a violet crumble. It says I got so

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Speaker 2: excited when I found the most bar. Oh, it's a

539
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 2: protein bar that I temporarily forgot. Riley doesn't like chocolate.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully someone else can enjoy it. That it's a violent crumble.

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Speaker 2: Protein Bar's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Okay. I took a rude jerky and an emu jerky.

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Speaker 1: If you want is a whiff.

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Speaker 2: I'm not enjoying a little double vegemite. Yes, we have

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Speaker 2: so much vegemite now because my my nana just said

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Speaker 2: some and I had a bucket before, and so we

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Speaker 2: are rolling in vegmine.

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Speaker 1: Our parents just came away from.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we are. We are loaded on vegemite, which

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Speaker 2: is amazing.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: More Violet Crumble, passion.

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00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: Vio crumble.

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Speaker 2: It's really greedy. You have a Violet Crumble protein bar

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Speaker 2: for later. We can't eat on stream.

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Speaker 1: Sam, who wide that roll? Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: And the Mila it's it's arns because I have my protein. Mind.

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Speaker 3: That's mine.

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Speaker 2: I've got my giant protein.

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00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 3: Nothing else but that is mine. You can have your mind,

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Speaker 3: little ferrel.

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Speaker 1: What do you think Dakota have more shapes.

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Speaker 2: We've got mini chicken crimpy, We've got more barbecue, and

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Speaker 2: we have more pizza shapes, which I love to see. Ah.

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Speaker 6: Yes, and these are going in the freeze.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna drink. Hey, you know, so the two Australians

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Speaker 3: here that know what we're gonna do about.

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Speaker 1: Terror and says it was Sam, it's so gross. It's

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Speaker 1: hard to eat this jerky? Is it not Dakota because

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Speaker 1: it's gross, it's nasty.

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Speaker 3: No, Dakota doesn't deserve screen time. You shouldn't even be

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Speaker 3: here right now.

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Speaker 1: Kan all right, god, yeah, my goodness, what a Morgenborg.

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Speaker 3: I just I'm doing a free sponsor.

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Speaker 1: I moved. I moved it away. I moved it away.

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Speaker 1: I'm not told hit me with that. Hit me with.

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Speaker 7: That's what you're supposed to do, is you're supposed to

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Speaker 7: like kind of bite the top and the bottom of Okay,

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Speaker 7: I was gonna say, the Australians know what we were doing,

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Speaker 7: but Dakota doesn't know it, and Chat doesn't know it.

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Speaker 3: Is you might a straw out of the tim Tams.

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Speaker 3: You bite the top and you bite the bottom, and

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Speaker 3: you put it and you suck through it through like

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Speaker 3: milk or Milo the milo here that and it's a

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Speaker 3: sugar explosion. Shout out, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Wow wow hm hm wow wow.

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Speaker 3: All right to co come over here. They want to

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Speaker 3: they want to see your face over here. Oh wow,

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Speaker 3: which one did you like? I'm gonna try to the

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Speaker 3: EMue jerk.

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Speaker 1: Ex That was amazing. And then what a perfect pairing

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Speaker 1: where we literally had a story about cultural food and

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Speaker 1: we've just got a care package of Sophia and eyes

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Speaker 1: cultural food that makes us feel at home in our motherland.

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Speaker 2: Are you showing Dakota showing me what.

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Speaker 1: What what trying?

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Speaker 3: I'm trying the rude jerky the heck is.

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Speaker 4: A chicken crimpy like, Oh, I want some chicken crimpy

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Speaker 4: drinking crimping chicken, chicken burger, chicken burger, chicken burger.

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Speaker 8: All right, we ready to h were ready to go

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Speaker 8: to the next Story'll take the whole box giving the

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Speaker 8: killing anybody.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to see you all get out.

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Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna miss them. It's gonna be sad.

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Speaker 3: I like, I like, I don't know. Do you try

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Speaker 3: all three?

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Speaker 4: Sam?

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Speaker 3: Tried all three?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, tried all three?

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Speaker 3: What it was your ranking?

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Speaker 1: Uh Kroc is at the bottom. I wasn't sure which

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Speaker 1: one was uh em and which one was Kangaroo because

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Speaker 1: I ate it at the same time. Oh, but I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure.

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Speaker 3: I demo had like a weird flavor to it. I think,

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Speaker 3: I yeah, that's what it was.

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 3: It was like a game year like, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: it was weird.

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Speaker 1: Kangaroo is pretty gamy too. Tangaroo jerks up, jerks up. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna get into this next story. Buyd

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Speaker 1: coda say by Dakota.

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Speaker 3: All Right, all right, I don't want to eat any

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Speaker 3: more of those.

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00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 2: I'm ready now. I've had my pizza shapes that I've.

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Speaker 3: Waited five years field do you guys want to read

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Speaker 3: some more donos. Yeah, before we started a lot of

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Speaker 3: dons during that time.

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Speaker 1: Says save someth for John. Thanks for the months. Yeah right,

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Speaker 1: suck it, John, lets get I miss you. He's visiting

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Speaker 1: family right now.

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Speaker 2: Ozzye girl in an art shop. Thank you for being

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Speaker 2: a member for six months. No, it's my birthday tomorrow

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Speaker 2: and I was so looking forward to watching the whole stream.

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Speaker 2: Yeah your birth stream today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well you know there is a non zero

637
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Speaker 1: chance that this stream goes into your birthday.

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Speaker 2: Why would you say that?

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Speaker 1: Hopefully not? Hopefully not out there. It's happened before, it hasn't.

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Speaker 1: It's happened to me multiple times.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't there, Mikayla.

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Speaker 1: You went to bed, We went to bed. We were there.

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Speaker 2: Mikayla Watkins, thank you for the bye Bucks. I want

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Speaker 2: to say thank you for making my day. I had

645
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Speaker 2: surgery today and the live is helping me keep my

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Speaker 2: mind off of pain. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving guys, how lovely.

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Speaker 3: Thank you a part of the chat. I hope that

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Speaker 3: your speed recovery.

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Speaker 1: Speedy recovery.

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Speaker 2: Jessica P. Thank you for the one book possibly Silverizer.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for the five gifted man worships and my wine.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for the one book as well if you

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Speaker 2: read those, we did read that one, all right, let's

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Speaker 2: freaking got more books. My son Eli wants a shout out.

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Speaker 2: We're so happy you guys love the snacks we went. Eli,

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Speaker 2: We love you and we love you. Caitlin, thank you so.

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Speaker 1: Much, amazing care pack.

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Speaker 5: Amazing and literally everything I wanted, right story paired with

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Speaker 5: the exact right story and also on the Australian Siblings stream,

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Speaker 5: So perfection is perfection.

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Speaker 1: I look forward to the streams during my busy work season.

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Speaker 1: As well, Jen Tops, and thanks for the ten bucks.

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Speaker 1: Hey gang prepping for Thanksgiving Day, so let's keep streaming.

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Speaker 2: I made some.

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Speaker 2: of it, all all.

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Speaker 3: I'll have one more and then we'll go into reading.

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Speaker 2: Devin Nelson, thank you for being a member for nine months.

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Speaker 2: Been struggling with money, but have enough to keep my

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Speaker 2: love you so much and we appreciate you so much

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Speaker 2: thanks to having watching. But let's get into this next.

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Speaker 3: Story of this one is oh oh yes, it is

693
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Speaker 3: being weird, but this one is the my aunt. Give

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Speaker 3: it two seconds into it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's wait a second to get you're good.

696
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Speaker 1: Let's do it.

697
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 2: My aunt faked my cousin's disability so she got reported

698
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Speaker 2: to the authorities. Probably good, probably needed to be, all right,

699
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 2: I know how The title sounds. I want to start

700
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 2: off by saying that I'm new to Reddit and I've

701
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 2: ranted on here literally yesterday, but it is so nice

702
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 2: to have a place to be messy. Allowell, Yeah, is

703
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 2: that place into the situation? I seventeen female, have an

704
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Speaker 2: aunt forty eight female, and a cousin fifteen female that

705
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:52,320
Speaker 2: constantly pulls the special needs card. I know how that sounds,

706
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 2: but I'm not being able to start anything. As someone

707
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 2: with autism and ADHD, I know very well the struggles

708
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 2: and I know it's a spectrum. By the way, this

709
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 2: comes from deleted on the Okay storytime subured it. So, however,

710
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 2: I find it odd that throughout our whole lives, my

711
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 2: aunt can only ever talk about herself or what new

712
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 2: medication she got my cousin on because a sudden new

713
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 2: mental disability. She has bragging about how the government gives

714
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 2: her more than enough money to pay for it. Not

715
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 2: informing bragging as in, you guys just wish it was

716
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: that easy to get money. I could be a stay

717
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 2: at home mom. That honestly seems to me like she's

718
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 2: exploiting this poor kid, and led me to wonder if

719
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Speaker 2: my cousin was even special needs.

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Speaker 1: All is that possible?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I mean sometimes you can get depending on

722
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:44,280
Speaker 2: where they are, you can get uh money from the government.

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Speaker 1: Wow huh.

724
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Speaker 2: For a period of time, my cousin's family lived with

725
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: us because my uncle got a new job in our town.

726
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 2: Everything was fine until my cousin started hanging around my family.

727
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 2: She started running around and playing like a normal care

728
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: At first, she said things like, I can't play too much,

729
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 2: the new medicine I'm on makes me sick, or because

730
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 2: of my autism, I can't eat fruit. My family are

731
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Speaker 2: farmers and we have a big property. So when we

732
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,800
Speaker 2: tried to give my cousin an orange, she said she

733
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Speaker 2: couldn't because of her sensory issues. My mother didn't push back,

734
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Speaker 2: but asked if she had ever tried one. She said no.

735
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Speaker 2: My mother smiled and got her to try some. They

736
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Speaker 2: ate dinner with us, so we knew she wasn't allergic.

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Speaker 2: My cousin loved it. She ate the whole thing and smiled,

738
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Speaker 2: telling my mother it's like a food and drink in one.

739
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Speaker 2: The kid is fifteen and has never had fruit.

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Speaker 1: My cat's name is Karen, said malingering, not Mutchinson or Runchausen.

741
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Speaker 1: Someone else said, moum chousen. It's when you like make

742
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: someone dependent on you by thinking, yeah, yeah, create this

743
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Speaker 1: world where they have the disability and are dependent on you, when.

744
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 2: You're actively giving the medication that they don't need.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's that that feels. That feels like what's happening

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Speaker 1: in this case.

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Speaker 2: A little bit? Yeah, I mean, if she's getting medicine

748
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 2: that's making her sick.

749
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: My mother asked what she eats is a snack if

751
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Speaker 2: she doesn't eat fruit, and she said that she eats

752
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 2: tin spaghetti or packaged mac and cheese. How does this

753
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 2: kid not have like scurvy? Same for normal meals. That night,

754
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 2: my aunt yelled at my mother forgiving my cousin fruit

755
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 2: and said, and I quote, you're making her too normal.

756
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: Tin spaghetti is all she could eat. I kid do not.

757
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 2: This woman said that for real. I heard it myself.

758
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 2: Now I know for a fact that she's basically forcing

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Speaker 2: this kid into being special needs. They moved out that week.

760
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 2: Now fast forward a few weeks ago, when I graduated.

761
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Speaker 2: I was walking out and about to get my senior

762
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 2: certificate when I saw her walking out of the hall.

763
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Speaker 2: It hurt to see her leaving as I was graduating,

764
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Speaker 2: but I didn't think too much of it. At home,

765
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Speaker 2: my mother had put together a big graduation party for

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Speaker 2: me with most of my family members, and my aunt

767
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 2: and cousin KI to the party late. Again, I didn't

768
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Speaker 2: think much of it, as I was just happy that

769
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Speaker 2: I even got a party and that my family was there.

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Speaker 2: But the annoyance started when my aunt announced that she

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Speaker 2: was late because my cousin was having a panic attack.

772
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Speaker 2: Was having a panic attack because of her autism, and

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Speaker 2: the hall at the school was too loud. I thought

774
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Speaker 2: it was strange to have a three hour long pan attack,

775
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Speaker 2: but I just ignored it and did the appropriate I

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Speaker 2: hope you're okay, Would you like some snacks? My aunt

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00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,959
Speaker 2: seemed to be annoyed that no one else really said

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Speaker 2: anything about it, and kept going on about it throughout

779
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 2: the party, probably trying to gain some sympathy points. It

780
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 2: seems like she's just trying to use her kid for attention.

781
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and my fine, yeah money.

782
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Speaker 1: He's using the kid for everything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not a good time.

784
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Speaker 1: You just stop shop for all your needs.

785
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 2: It's just a kid, just a kid. What made snap, though,

786
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,359
Speaker 2: was when my brother was. When my mother brought out

787
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Speaker 2: a cake she had made for my graduation, it was

788
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Speaker 2: my favorite, a red velvet cake. She said that she

789
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 2: was so proud of the achievements I had gained throughout

790
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Speaker 2: the year, and I have to say I was too.

791
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:09,359
Speaker 2: I'd gotten two trophies and three awards, one of those

792
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 2: I had worked four years to get. Anyway, as my

793
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,120
Speaker 2: mother put the cake down, she looked at her side

794
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 2: and quickly picked it back up. She said something was

795
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 2: wrong with it, and she forgot a detail. I said,

796
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 2: I didn't mind, and then I think it's great. I

797
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 2: turned it around and there was a big chunk out

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Speaker 2: of the cake. What my aunt just giggled and with

799
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 2: no shame, so that she took a chunk out of

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Speaker 2: the cake to give to my cousin earlier because waiting

801
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 2: for the cake was triggering her autism.

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Speaker 1: What I feel, you can't just say it's triggering your

803
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,919
Speaker 1: autism and get this like get out of jail free card.

804
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 1: But it also seems like that's exactly what she's been

805
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 1: doing for the last few years and it has been working.

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00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. But also the aunt, the aunt is kind of

807
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 2: she's the she's the one who's pushing all of this.

808
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, this is ridiculous. Also, everyone in the

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00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 1: chat is saying Sophia Savia Adula says classic of unchousen

810
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Speaker 1: by proxy, which apparently is what happened to Gypsy Rose Plant.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's true. Yeah, because that's what the act

812
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 2: people are just referencing, like so no, no, no, that's

813
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 2: what the act is about. The show with what's her face?

814
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 2: That girl I can't remember her name, Joey King. It's

815
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 2: about like her mom. Basically she I think she and

816
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: her boyfriend ended up unaliving her mom because her mom

817
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,880
Speaker 2: was making her sick and like basically treating her like

818
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,720
Speaker 2: a child and keeping her she you know, kind of trapped,

819
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 2: and so they ended up unliving her, and that's why

820
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Speaker 2: she was in prison until recently.

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Speaker 1: Gypsy Rose Blanchirt she was in prison until recently.

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00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 2: Wow, that's why she's like been like super in the

823
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Speaker 2: news this year.

824
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Speaker 3: Oh she's like TikTok famous.

825
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 4: Note.

826
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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like, I know, crazy, probably in her thirties.

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Speaker 1: Dude, we should do we should do a Gypsy Rose

828
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Speaker 1: Blanter store.

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Speaker 2: I mean yeah, everyone is pretty aware of it.

830
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Speaker 1: I'm not a I have no idea about this everyone,

831
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 1: I have no okay anyway going back here? That's crazy,

832
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: I know.

833
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 2: My mother looked like she was about to cry and

834
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 2: gave me a hug and said she was sorry because

835
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 2: she wanted my graduation to be perfect and said she

836
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: could fix it. I said it was okay, and I

837
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,800
Speaker 2: appreciated that the party was even happening. I turned to

838
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 2: my aunt and asked her to leave, since she had

839
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 2: already had some cake, or at least my cousin at

840
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 2: She got angry and said I need to be more

841
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,840
Speaker 2: accommodating for my cousin and that this isn't all about me,

842
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 2: it's literally a party about her, then continued to downplay

843
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 2: my achievements. This finally broke me, and I yelled at her,

844
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 2: telling her that everyone knows that my cousin is completely

845
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,799
Speaker 2: fine and that she's a crazy bee who's just an

846
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 2: attention or. I told her that my cousin isn't some

847
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 2: moneymaker or a doll she can manipulate to get what

848
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,479
Speaker 2: she wants. I even told her that when my cousin

849
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 2: grows up more, she'll figure out how much. She'll figure

850
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 2: out how much of a stupid, narcissistic snake my aunt

851
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 2: is and get as far away from her as possible.

852
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,879
Speaker 2: Ohp he is letting it all out. She's like, I'm

853
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: not gonna let that cake slide. I told her that

854
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 2: I hope my cousin cuts her off in the future

855
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 2: and she's left with no one. Now. I know that

856
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 2: reaction was extreme, but this is year's worth of biting.

857
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 1: Which also it's extreme what this mother has been doing

858
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 1: to her child.

859
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 2: Yes, and also she attacked you at your graduation, which

860
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 2: is not cool. So I think I I think it's

861
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 2: a little fair.

862
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 1: But I mean, you forgot the case of like she

863
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 1: needed to attack because of her child's autism.

864
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't. Yeah, it was she was accommodating.

865
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're not violence to stay calm. Yeah.

866
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 2: My mother tried to stop me for the rant, but

867
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 2: I was a bit into it tbh. I was just

868
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 2: so sick of my aunt being an attention seeker. Pretty

869
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:50,800
Speaker 2: much everyone is siding with me, which honestly proves that

870
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,240
Speaker 2: this aunt sucks. If everyone's on your side. After an outburst,

871
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:58,800
Speaker 2: even my uncles aunt's husband. But my one of my

872
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 2: aunt said, I went to and I should learn to

873
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 2: control my anger because it's damaging for my cousin's mental health.

874
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 2: Is this like a thing that you've done before, Because

875
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 2: if this is the first time you've ever done that,

876
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 2: and she's like, you need to learn how to control

877
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 2: your anger, shut up? So am I the au PS.

878
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 2: I am aware that there could be some serious abuse happening.

879
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 2: Please note that the medication she's on actually doesn't get consumed.

880
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 2: That's weird.

881
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: Wait what like orally? What like?

882
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 4: Like?

883
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: It doesn't get consumed orally?

884
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 2: No, it just doesn't get taken, just taken.

885
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 1: In general, the medication she's on doesn't get taken. Yeah,

886
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 1: which how does that make sense?

887
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. I found this out from my mother,

888
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 2: who threatened to call the cops about my aunt making

889
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 2: my cousin sick. My aunt confessed that she doesn't actually

890
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 2: get the meds. So basically, and there is an update,

891
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 2: but it seems like the aunt is getting money from

892
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 2: the government for these meds, or at least for taking

893
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,399
Speaker 2: care of her daughter, to get these meds that she's

894
00:45:58,440 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 2: not even taking.

895
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: Oh, and that's why they have so much money left

896
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 1: over and can basically work from home because this money

897
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 1: that should be spent on meds which probably are a

898
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 1: little bit expensive, doesn't need to be spent.

899
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 2: I wonder, well, I wonder if she's getting the meds

900
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 2: and just not taking them, or if not buying them.

901
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: Or whether she's selling them on the black market. Who's

902
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: to say, I mean, if you're getting some like Addy

903
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: and selling it on the black market.

904
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 2: But yeah, huh, you wouldn't get that for AUTO.

905
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 1: Or you could, you would get it for ADHD.

906
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 2: That's true. If she's yeah, what medication is she on?

907
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: I don't but she's not she's not taking it.

908
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 2: And also, well, what what I mean, what is she

909
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:43,919
Speaker 2: not on? I guess Okay, but there is an update? Yeah,

910
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,320
Speaker 2: Jink says that's kind of weird because they actually have

911
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 2: to check in order to see if they have the

912
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 2: correct dosages for the patient or it can cause other issues. Yeah,

913
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 2: it's just weird that there's not any follow up going

914
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 2: on here.

915
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: I mean, but don't you self report like you could,

916
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: because what you could be is like, let's say you're

917
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: getting Addie and you're selling it, so you're getting a

918
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: bunch of like prescription stuff, and usually what it's like

919
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: probably like fifteen to twenty five dollars per pill. You

920
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: could sell all of that online and have like a

921
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 1: couple hundred dollars. Uh, do you know what?

922
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 4: You know?

923
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 1: What market market price? Ratty is kean.

924
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know.

925
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:21,800
Speaker 1: You seem like you would know.

926
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 3: I've known take that, I know, but you seem like

927
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 3: so many Why are you implying, Samuel, I'm a silly

928
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 3: goose I University. I don't know what you mean, but

929
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 3: I know that we have an update, sam What are

930
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 3: you applying? I mean like, we've all you literally just

931
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 3: went never.

932
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: Mind, we've all we've all been there.

933
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 2: I've never been there. No, but I have been to

934
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 2: this update. I don't know how to update properly, so

935
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 2: I'm at it here.

936
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:54,800
Speaker 1: My aunt got reported nice finally.

937
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:58,240
Speaker 2: Finally is what op says. My mother called the police

938
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 2: and she was investigated. It was confirmed that she wasn't

939
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 2: actually getting the medication she said she was. It was

940
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 2: literally all attention seeking and for money. My cousin is

941
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 2: physically fine, but she's staying with my grandparents at the moment,

942
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 2: as is her sister. My uncle is in distress because

943
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 2: of everything that is happening and is staying at her

944
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 2: house for now. Yeah, what was the uncle doing to

945
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 2: stop this? Because he was.

946
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 1: There allegedly, by the way, allegedly for everything I just said.

947
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 2: But you know what's not alleged the fact that we

948
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 2: are live every weekday on YouTube, Facebook and TikTok. Just

949
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 2: top her profile at three pm do it. But there

950
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:38,839
Speaker 2: is a little bit left. But what are your final

951
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 2: thoughts here?

952
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: My final thoughts are, I'm so glad this person got caught. Yeah,

953
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 1: but what happens to the kid that I know? I mean,

954
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: like her dad still I remember with the grandparents right now? Yeah,

955
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 1: I guess the grandparents could be good.

956
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:57,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh it is. It is interesting because it doesn't

957
00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 2: seem like she was It was exactly the same case

958
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 2: of you know, but it was like she wasn't getting met,

959
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 2: she wasn't being given medication that would have had a

960
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 2: negative impact, but she was being fed these lies. Like

961
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:10,439
Speaker 2: the child is being fed these.

962
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 1: Lives, which is you know, that's pretty bad. That's terrible. Yeah,

963
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:15,720
Speaker 1: that's terrible to be fed.

964
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 2: Like you can't have an orange because of your your autism.

965
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, or like someone like start just feeding you random

966
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 1: facts and then just says like I've been feeding you

967
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: facts for multiple years, so you question your reality.

968
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 5: That's not true.

969
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:30,840
Speaker 1: That's not true.

970
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 2: Whoever says that it was just that's a lie. But

971
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 2: there is a little bit more to the story. I'm

972
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 2: still mad at my aunt, even though I know my

973
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:42,720
Speaker 2: cousin is fine. A few more family members are currently

974
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 2: giving more information to the police about my aunt's behavior.

975
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 2: What so much drama. I feel like this is the

976
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 2: better outcome At the moment, I do wish this never

977
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 2: happened at all, but I talked with my cousin and

978
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 2: she seems okay. She told me that she knew what

979
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 2: my aunt was doing was wrong, but it got her

980
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 2: out of school and eventual she didn't want to go

981
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 2: to so she.

982
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: Went along with them. Yeah, she's like, I don't know,

983
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: and she's making a living, you know, she's getting money

984
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 1: that allows them to live, so that's that's a win.

985
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:10,879
Speaker 2: I know a lot of people thought it was much

986
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 2: I was in by proxy, but it wasn't, although I

987
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 2: definitely thought it was to begin with, as well, Wait,

988
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 2: why why.

989
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:19,479
Speaker 1: Why wasn't it Well, maybe it's because the cousin didn't

990
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:20,720
Speaker 1: quite believe.

991
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 2: Or maybe like because she wasn't being given the medication.

992
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,240
Speaker 2: I don't know. Thank you for all of the support.

993
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 2: Things turned out a bit better and that is the

994
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 2: end of that story. So at least they like caught

995
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,320
Speaker 2: it and put a stop to it before it got worse.

996
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 1: That that that is that is the silver lining, yere

997
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 1: but uh it Yeah. Also I'm curious what these government

998
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 1: programs are.

999
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 2: Well, it seems like they're not in America. So because

1000
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 2: they said mumm.

1001
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:55,919
Speaker 1: So like probably Australia slash the UK UK, which makes

1002
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: so much more sense because they're like, you could actually

1003
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: live a full life off of government programs in the US,

1004
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 1: Like it is very very hard.

1005
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1006
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: Also, you know what I learned, this is probably very obvious.

1007
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 1: You know what I learned yesterday. You cannot like if

1008
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:19,720
Speaker 1: you're from the Philippines or like like most South American countries,

1009
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: you can't just travel to the US. Like you can't

1010
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 1: get like like you can't even get a tourist visa.

1011
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 2: What's the how do you do it?

1012
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:32,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't. You just can't.

1013
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 3: You gotta you gotta get approval in the approval process.

1014
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 3: Is it could take it, Yes, it could take it

1015
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 3: could just to travel.

1016
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 1: Is that not? Because I was I was we were

1017
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 1: going to some of our our team is like across uh,

1018
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: like across the countries or across different countries, and so

1019
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: we were trying to to have everyone come out here

1020
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 1: for a little little, uh little get together. Yeah, and

1021
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, yeah, we can't. We can't get to

1022
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 1: we can't come to a marieram Like, oh, like maybe

1023
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: it's like the visa applications a couple of months. No,

1024
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 1: it can take a full year and then you might

1025
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,760
Speaker 1: be denied. Is that that's crazy?

1026
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 4: No?

1027
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have family members who tried to come to

1028
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 3: America and it's taken them, some of them like three

1029
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:14,280
Speaker 3: to five.

1030
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: Years from from the Philippines. Wow.

1031
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 3: It's just the approval process is stupid and it takes

1032
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 3: so much time. And if you get denied, guess what

1033
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 3: you got to do it all over again. And it's

1034
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:25,720
Speaker 3: just a headache.

1035
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: I hate that, I know. So now we have to

1036
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: figure out another place that we're going to meet them

1037
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 1: up at. Oh, we'll probably still do Columbia.

1038
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 2: That's sad.

1039
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:36,359
Speaker 1: But the Philippines, the Philippines.

1040
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, but here's the next story. Are there any donuts?

1041
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: Another story coming up? But yeah, Malice six eight fifteen

1042
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 1: says my visa took around a year. Wingle said they

1043
00:52:54,840 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 1: can it's just that backlog crap. Lucida eight says, you

1044
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: can kind of live off government funds here. Yeah, some

1045
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:11,919
Speaker 1: countries you can, but not a lot. Joe's Fima. Dola

1046
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: Burquiz says, as an autistic person, what the f Thanks

1047
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: to the twenty seven Swedish Crowner Meg Carter Welcome to

1048
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 1: the Nights, Welcome, Welcome Stars, fall Up member for four months.

1049
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: Kid must be exhausted all the time. Yeah, being used

1050
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 1: as a as a human money bag. Storm Kitten thirteen,

1051
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for the four months. Never been invested in a

1052
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,800
Speaker 1: channel this long before, but at this point even my

1053
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 1: husband thinks it's weird if he doesn't hear y'all at

1054
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 1: least once a day. Let's go. Devin Nelson member for

1055
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: nine months. Been struggling with money, but have enough to

1056
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: keep the membership going. Yeah, but you know what, no

1057
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 1: reason we can't read it twice lindsay, thanks for the

1058
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 1: two New Zealand dollars. Exit the chat and like the

1059
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: stream for the wheelspin darn too, Glad putin and then

1060
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:08,320
Speaker 1: we got anything on that one. Angel Lebado says, it

1061
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 1: depends on the country and a lessa Monday. Thanks to

1062
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 1: the ten bucks. Sophia, you look amazing today.

1063
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 2: Thank you. That was so sweet.

1064
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 1: I'd be like I was, like, she's caught in the act.

1065
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 1: Got the act of eating my shapes don't all over

1066
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: the place? Thanks for the five bucks. I wanted to

1067
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: share my good news. I'm going on my first date

1068
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:36,319
Speaker 1: in over ten years. I'll tell you, but I'll tell

1069
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 1: him about you. Guys, wish me luck all over the place.

1070
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: You got this good luck on your date. You're gonna

1071
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 1: crush a freaking crush. Tell us what you're doing, Yeah,

1072
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: I tell us what you're doing?

1073
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 2: Are you going?

1074
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:46,919
Speaker 1: Put in the chat?

1075
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:48,919
Speaker 3: What's he doing? What's yeah?

1076
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 2: Is treating you?

1077
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1078
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: And heart's in the chat for all over the Place's

1079
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 1: heart on our date and Mount Abs girl, Thanks to

1080
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 1: the of my bucks. Hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving weekend.

1081
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 1: Me too, Jessica, thanks for the fifteen bucks. I've been

1082
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 1: watching and supporting since the days of the Beach interviews. Wow,

1083
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: that's a while ago. I mean yeah, is that like

1084
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 1: because we did beach interviews a couple of times? Do

1085
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: you mean pool boys back back in the day.

1086
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 2: That's what I remember you telling me about that.

1087
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:29,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah's job yeah. I remember there was a time

1088
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 1: before Sophia was fully integrated where her like friends would

1089
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 1: ask like what I did? Yeah, I was like, I

1090
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:41,840
Speaker 1: don't know, I have no idea. She still says that

1091
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:43,879
Speaker 1: her friends asked to this day.

1092
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know when people are like, what do

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Speaker 2: you do? And I'm like, like, I'm on a YouTube channel,

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Speaker 2: h live stream. I don't know.

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00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: But I've moved from South Africa to England and you

1096
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 1: guys have been an amazing constant to keep me going.

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00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 1: Love you guys, and thank you will. Thank you for

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00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: supporting us for all these times, very exciting and certified.

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Speaker 1: The gen thanks for the five bucks. I'm waiting for

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Speaker 1: my son to get out of surgery. Thanks for distracting

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Speaker 1: me while I wait.

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00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 2: Love y'all, and I hope that you're some surgery as well.

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00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 3: Speedy surgery, speedy recovery.

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Speaker 2: The hearts for hearts for stifly gen as well. There

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00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:18,839
Speaker 2: was one and the other.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna reprecious one just in case, just in

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00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 3: case you guys like to go crazy.

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00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 1: Erica Bayler says, Sam is a professional tea spiller. What

1109
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 1: I usually say when people ask me is I say

1110
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 1: I give relationship advice online.

1111
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 2: But then people are like, what does that mean? And

1112
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:36,800
Speaker 2: then I'm like, I'm a I'm on a YouTube channel.

1113
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 1: No, but then well, you're not just on a YouTube channel.

1114
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 2: I know, but they understand that better.

1115
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 3: Say you're an influencer.

1116
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 2: No, but we're not influencers.

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00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 1: What do you mean? We influence people every day with

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00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:51,399
Speaker 1: influenc No. I actually don't like the term influence. I say,

1119
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 1: I say, uh a relationship You just say I host

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Speaker 1: a relationship advice show on YouTube Facebook, TikTok.

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00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 2: I just say I have a YouTube channel where I

1122
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:05,439
Speaker 2: read read a story.

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00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 1: That's not what you do. We need to be a line.

1124
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: We give relationship advice online, we have a relationship.

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00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 2: One time I did that and then this guy tried

1126
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 2: to flirt with me and he was like, oh, so, like,

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00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 2: what what advice would you give to a guy who's

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Speaker 2: like doesn't want to use hinge and like would love

1129
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,439
Speaker 2: to take a girl on a date. And I was like, well,

1130
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 2: you probably start somewhere else.

1131
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 1: Sorry, I don't give that advice. Yeah you can, you

1132
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 1: can submit a story o er.

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00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 2: I think I did give him advice, but I was like,

1134
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 2: you probably.

1135
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,479
Speaker 1: Give good advice. Elaine the main Pain says, I usually

1136
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 1: just say you're content creators. That works too, But yeah,

1137
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 1: you have a literature show.

1138
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:49,080
Speaker 2: I read.

1139
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 1: Harriet Spaghetti says unqualified relationship advice. I mean that's very true,

1140
00:57:56,280 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: that's very true. Yeah, we have fun with our online friends.

1141
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 2: I hang out with my brothers.

1142
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and we talked to chat. I go, I go.

1143
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:07,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I live with my brother and I work with

1144
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 2: my brother.

1145
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 4: I go.

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00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 3: That sounds really bad.

1147
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: I live and work with my brother. Do we got

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00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 1: any other? Oh? Lucy fod ninety one, thanks for being

1149
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:22,480
Speaker 1: a member for five months. My six year old daughter

1150
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: is often watching with me. She can't understand she speaks French,

1151
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: but she always tells me how pretty Sophia is.

1152
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 2: You guys are so nice.

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00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love your daughter. It's awesome. Thanks for

1154
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 1: coming to the night. Oh. Danielle Johnson says, we are

1155
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:43,440
Speaker 1: your practice family. Honeybee says professional idiot.

1156
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 4: Thank you.

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00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 1: I feel like that's targeted at me because no one

1158
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 1: would ever say that to Sofia. All right, shall we

1159
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:55,479
Speaker 1: get back into it? Yes, you got my father, yep.

1160
00:58:56,520 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 1: So I cannot forgive my father even after his passing.

1161
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 1: His ghost is gonna hont forever now. Hello everyone. I'm

1162
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 1: not sure how I can properly explain this or write

1163
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:09,919
Speaker 1: this up, but I will do my best. I haven't

1164
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 1: seen my father in years since he got locked UPOOO.

1165
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 1: My good streak of over twenty five plus or so

1166
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 1: years of not seeing him ended not that long ago

1167
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 1: when my family showed up at my front door and

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00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 1: my mother was locked arms with him to sum that

1169
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Speaker 1: whole thing up. My mother wanted us to forgive our

1170
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: father for everything he has done for us and to

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00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:35,040
Speaker 1: be one big, happy family again. By the way, this

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00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 1: comes from Humble Cookies years or nine in the r

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Speaker 1: slash Okay storytime subburned and so my father tried to

1174
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: emotionally gaslight me and paints me as the bad guy

1175
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 1: for refusing to acknowledge any chance of retribution between us.

1176
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 1: I went off on both of my mother and father

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00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 1: for the arrogance. I just lost a son due to

1178
00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: his poor decision making skills? What and in return, my

1179
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 1: mother seems to want to bring someone in his place.

1180
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 2: I don't know what that means. You lost a son

1181
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 2: due to your father's poor decision making skills.

1182
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 1: And he just got out of prison. There's a lot

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01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:15,200
Speaker 1: of context that I feel like I need here. That's

1184
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 1: what I think she's trying to do. I'm I'm aware

1185
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: of how emotionally incompetent my mother is, so I might

1186
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 1: be wrong. It might be that my mother is old

1187
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:27,040
Speaker 1: and it's just looking for love or companionship, which is fine.

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01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: But to bring the animal of a father back dot

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01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 1: dot dot just can't.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like we are. We don't have a

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01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 2: lot of the background context of what's why it doesn't

1193
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 2: sound good. It sounds like you have a really bad

1194
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 2: relationship with your father and your mom's just kind of

1195
01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 2: trying to like push him on. You, like push this

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Speaker 2: relationship on.

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01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: You need context on that now. Yeah, it's so.

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Speaker 2: Unfair to, like, regardless of what the context is, for

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Speaker 2: her to out of the blue after years of not

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01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 2: like twenty.

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01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 1: Five yees, especially if like the father maybe potentially went

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Speaker 1: to prison for the death of Opie's son. It seems

1203
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's related, but it.

1204
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 2: Seems slightly unrelated in the way that it's worded, because

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01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 2: it sounds like she just lost the son and he's

1206
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 2: been in prison for like twenty five years.

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01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 1: Well, but he says. He says, I just lost a

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01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: son due to his poor decision making skills, So I

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01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 1: don't know. Ever, since the altercation, I need context. The

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01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: family has been divided. At first, my siblings were one

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Speaker 1: hundred percent with my fu speech, but as time went on,

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01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 1: the opinion started to change. My sisters have have been

1213
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 1: with my mother more and more, and with my father

1214
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 1: being there, I guess he has gotten under their skin.

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01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: I do not know of the exact details, but we

1216
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 1: have been at odds, with lots of back and forth

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01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 1: and lots of minor arguments. My brother has also come

1218
01:01:57,600 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 1: by and have tried to talk to me about it.

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01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 1: I do not ignore them, even if I disagree and

1220
01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: I'm disgusted with what they tell me. They say, maybe

1221
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: it's time to move on, give yourself peace. Mom is

1222
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 1: happy he tried to be a better person. Why can't

1223
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 1: you your being stubborn.

1224
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 2: That's so frustrating to like have all of your feelings

1225
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 2: just kind of and validated.

1226
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like that at all. I do my

1227
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 1: best to listen to them, to consider them see their poyov,

1228
01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:30,400
Speaker 1: But the thing is I don't I have just stood

1229
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 1: up and walked away a few times like a child.

1230
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 1: I've become distant with my daughters. I'm just emotionally drained well.

1231
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: Four days ago, I received a call from my mother

1232
01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 1: while I was at work. My father had a heart

1233
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 1: attack and was in the hospital. I showed up and

1234
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:50,160
Speaker 1: everyone was there. My sister's holding his hand and telling

1235
01:02:50,240 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 1: him that he is going to be okay, my mother crying,

1236
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 1: my brother looking at me to see what was next.

1237
01:02:57,080 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 1: He looked like a dying piece of crap. I did

1238
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: not know how to feel. I would like to paint

1239
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 1: myself as indifferent to the situation, but I could not.

1240
01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: I was feeling something, but I do not know what.

1241
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 1: I spoke to the nurse and she told me that

1242
01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 1: the heart attack nearly unlived him due to his age

1243
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 1: and whatnot. The short version was that the next one

1244
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 1: might put him under and he will have to stay.

1245
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:23,880
Speaker 1: A few hours went by and my father spoke to

1246
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 1: us some old crap, this last time, a same old crap,

1247
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 1: this last time. He asked for forgiveness. He actually spoke

1248
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 1: the words I'm sorry. He brought up everything that he

1249
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: did and asked each of one and asked each one

1250
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:42,760
Speaker 1: of us for forgiveness that he doesn't want to drift

1251
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 1: off knowing his family hates him. I don't know why,

1252
01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 1: but I was crying despite not trying or not wanting to.

1253
01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 1: I mean, it's say, a very emotional time.

1254
01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 2: Regardless of how you you know, whether or not you

1255
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:59,640
Speaker 2: wanted a relationship with him, it's still going to affect

1256
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:02,560
Speaker 2: you because because you have this very complicated relationship.

1257
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: I feel like, without full context, I don't know whether

1258
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 1: Op is the A.

1259
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 2: I don't think Op is the ale at all.

1260
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't, like, we don't what if it

1261
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: was like he he ate my peanut butter jelly sandwich

1262
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 1: and I'll never forgive him like that. But I mean,

1263
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 1: but it seems pretty serious. Yeah, if he led to

1264
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:21,080
Speaker 1: the death of your child.

1265
01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:23,520
Speaker 2: Someone said in the chat that it might it could

1266
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 2: have been read as my, like, the son made poor

1267
01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:29,400
Speaker 2: decisions that led to you know, like maybe like got

1268
01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 2: into an accident. Oh like op Op's son led to

1269
01:04:33,640 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 2: like made poor decisions.

1270
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 1: Okay, that was another reading of it, Yeah.

1271
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 2: Which kind of makes a little bit more sense the

1272
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 2: way that it was written. But regardless of that, I

1273
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 2: think that Opes not does not owe her father forgiveness.

1274
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:51,040
Speaker 2: And I also the line about him saying, Oh, I

1275
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:53,440
Speaker 2: want everyone to come around at my deathbed and forgive me.

1276
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:56,400
Speaker 2: I can't. I can't you know, pass away knowing that

1277
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 2: people hate me.

1278
01:04:57,520 --> 01:05:00,200
Speaker 1: Maybe so selfish, Maybe you should be some and that

1279
01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 1: everyone hated.

1280
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 4: No.

1281
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:05,959
Speaker 2: I think that is a very selfish way to like apologize.

1282
01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:10,919
Speaker 2: I think that apologies should be given without needing, without

1283
01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:15,000
Speaker 2: expectation of forgiveness, because otherwise it's for you, not for

1284
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 2: the person that you're trying to apologize to.

1285
01:05:18,040 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 1: Agreed, Agreed, But we got more, hopefully context coming soon.

1286
01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: So I was just I was crying despite not trying

1287
01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 1: or wanting to. I think at the moment the child

1288
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:30,920
Speaker 1: and me finally left my body. At least that's what

1289
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 1: I think. My whole family told him that they forgave

1290
01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: him for everything and that they loved him. I was

1291
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 1: the last one he asked forgiveness to. It was like

1292
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 1: a coming of age kind of thing, everyone looking at

1293
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 1: me tearfully, waiting for the happy endings. All these years

1294
01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 1: he kept looking at my father and I couldn't say it,

1295
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: describe it best. I went mute in my head. I

1296
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: wanted to conform and just say I did, just to

1297
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 1: get over with it. But no, I told him that

1298
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 1: I would not simply forget and forgive him. I've lost

1299
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:09,320
Speaker 1: so much because of him. I lost my childhood and

1300
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:15,960
Speaker 1: my pets. Oh, I need contact, my innocence, my emotional

1301
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 1: and mental well being. He was never a father to us,

1302
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 1: and he will drift off with at least one of

1303
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,720
Speaker 1: his kids hating him. I have never felt more hurt

1304
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 1: in my life than at this very moment. The room

1305
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: went silent, and I just walked out of the room.

1306
01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 1: I do not know what else to say here. I

1307
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:37,280
Speaker 1: walked out of the room being the only one to

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Speaker 1: not forgive him. Question here, Yes, opda hole for walking

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Speaker 1: out his dying dad.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I don't think you ever again. I don't

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Speaker 2: think you ever owe someone accepting their apology. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: I think op he's been through a lot, it seems

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Speaker 2: m and I think that they shouldn't be forced to

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Speaker 2: have a relationship with their I.

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Speaker 1: Don't think you should be forced to have a relationship

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Speaker 1: with whoever, with with like whatever person. I don't think

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Speaker 1: you should be forced to have a relationship with anybody. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Angelabato says forgiveness is overrated. I think I could be

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Speaker 1: completely wrong here, but I think they have done a

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Speaker 1: study about just like grudges in general, specifically like familial

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01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 1: grudge grudges and although you might not want to have

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Speaker 1: a relationship with that person, generally, like not forgiving the

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01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:33,480
Speaker 1: person actually hurts you more. But I think, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: don't necessarily have to do it now, but I think it's.

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Speaker 2: A process of forgiveness that can come later where you're like,

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Speaker 2: you know what, I'm just not even gonna let you

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Speaker 2: have control over my life anymore. Yeah, but I don't

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Speaker 2: think that needs.

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Speaker 1: To be said to and yeah, and OPI has the

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Speaker 1: most context on this, so you know, yeah, probably knows

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Speaker 1: what is best. And I would be curious for uh,

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Speaker 1: for people, especially in the chat, if you've had a

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Speaker 1: family member pass away that did something terrible to you

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Speaker 1: or bad to you, and you kept that grudge and like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, didn't reconciliate before they passed away, Like

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Speaker 1: how do you feel now? Because my general thought is

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Speaker 1: like never never, like my general like, and I you know,

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Speaker 1: obviously I haven't I haven't had that kind of like

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Speaker 1: massive trauma, but like, I try to forgive everyone, and

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Speaker 1: I think generally it can make you happier. But I'm

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Speaker 1: curious for uh, for for some of the people that

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Speaker 1: have actually gone through it, like what you think. Slid

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Speaker 1: Too says you don't need to forgive to move on.

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Speaker 1: Ammia Flora says, forgive for yourself, not for them. Agree.

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Speaker 2: That's where I'm at. I think it's it doesn't have

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Speaker 2: to be something that you tell them. I think that's

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Speaker 2: I think it's a going to therapy and it's you know,

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01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 2: thinking about the situation by yourself and reflecting on it

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01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:55,840
Speaker 2: and allowing yourself to move on from that so that

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Speaker 2: they don't have control in your life.

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, allowing yourself to move on. Sandra Kelso

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01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:03,240
Speaker 1: says forgiveness is more about yourself than the person you're forgiving. Also,

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01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:06,680
Speaker 1: keep in mind you can forgive yet not forget and

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01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:09,080
Speaker 1: not set your self up for the same hurt. I

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Speaker 1: really like that comment, and I would love to know

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Speaker 1: if anyone disagrees. But I feel like that's kind of

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01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 1: where I come from it as is you can. I

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Speaker 1: feel like forgiveness is important for yourself to be happy,

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Speaker 1: but you don't have to forget, Yeah, and you don't

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Speaker 1: have to have a relationship with that person.

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Speaker 2: I think that the hard thing about this situation is

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Speaker 2: that it's kind of been flung upon. Op.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like OP, just have to forgive. Does not

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Speaker 1: that the father does not deserve forgiveness in that moment,

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01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 1: for sure? Yeah for sure. But yeah, this is this

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01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 1: is more tossing out to you guys. I would love

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01:09:42,200 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 1: to know you things. But my family has been texting

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01:09:46,479 --> 01:09:49,759
Speaker 1: me and calling me, not to berate me or anything,

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01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 1: but to ask how I was and whatnot. My mother

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01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:55,920
Speaker 1: was the only one who was calling me, crying and

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01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 1: begging me to come be a family again before it

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01:09:59,520 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: was too.

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Speaker 2: But it's like that doesn't erase all of the years.

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01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 2: You know, one day of being a family is not

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01:10:06,840 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 2: It's not gonna make the memories.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah. By the way, if you want to

1377
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Speaker 1: make memories with us, you could join us live every

1378
01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:23,799
Speaker 1: weekday at There's more this story.

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Speaker 3: What a segue.

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Speaker 1: But uh, Mary Wilson says, yeah, forgiveness is for yourself,

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01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:33,240
Speaker 1: not the other person. In forgiveness is a choice, not

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01:10:33,360 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 1: an emotion or a feeling. This is a you can't

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01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:36,799
Speaker 1: demand forgiveness.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say forgiveness is earned.

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01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and well I think forgiveness is earned for yourself.

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01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:43,120
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to like.

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Speaker 3: In general, like sometimes it could be for yourself, it

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01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:48,560
Speaker 3: could be for the person. But the dad did not

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01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:52,160
Speaker 3: work on anything, yea. And to make to like patch

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01:10:52,280 --> 01:10:56,639
Speaker 3: up this situation with op. It was just like, hey,

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna make it.

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01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:01,639
Speaker 2: He was like, I'm I'm so I hate that you're

1393
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:02,000
Speaker 2: using that.

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01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 3: I hate that you're using your death as an.

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01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:06,759
Speaker 2: Excuse to get out of years of trauma.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, well I want to be forgiven. Like I'm sorry,

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01:11:10,840 --> 01:11:13,400
Speaker 3: I hope you all can you forgive me. I'm gonna

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01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 3: not make.

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Speaker 2: It because he's afraid. He's afraid that he's going to

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Speaker 2: pass away. And you know, whatever he believes in terms

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01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 2: of afterlife, he knows that he's going to go into

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01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:23,759
Speaker 2: it and be judged.

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01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:26,040
Speaker 3: That's the thing. You know what you did was wrong,

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01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 3: and you're doing it on this this timeframe that like

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01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:31,800
Speaker 3: there's a clock ticking down now that you're like, now

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01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:34,760
Speaker 3: I have to do this. You've known about it since

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01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:37,080
Speaker 3: I don't know how long you've known about it for

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01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:39,639
Speaker 3: the father, but you've known about it. You're at least

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01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 3: cognizant that you did some bad stuff and you're asking

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01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 3: for forgiveness. Now that's that's a lame excuse.

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Speaker 1: We got a little bit more to this story. I'll

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01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 1: read one more comment about this. But Baby Girl twenty

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01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:54,760
Speaker 1: four says, I've forgiven my dad, but it was my

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01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:57,800
Speaker 1: choice alone. However, I never had a relationship after, and

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01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:01,280
Speaker 1: I feel indifferent instead of hate or love. Yeah, which

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01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:03,640
Speaker 1: I think the symptoms anna that Laria says forgiveness for

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01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 1: me is it happened. I'm sad I can't have you

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01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:09,280
Speaker 1: in my life, but maybe later but maybe not. We

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01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 1: shall see. So it's like like I forgive you, but

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01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:14,920
Speaker 1: maybe or not. Like it's a question whether I'm going

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01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:16,160
Speaker 1: to have you in my life or not, which I

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01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 1: think is totally fair.

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Speaker 2: I also think sometimes forgiveness can just be again, we've

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01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:22,200
Speaker 2: talked about an internal thing that's like I'm never going

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01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:24,680
Speaker 2: to see you again, but you're also not like going

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01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:26,599
Speaker 2: to occupy a space in my brain anymore.

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01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:31,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but uh, I'll never forgive you if you

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01:12:31,200 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 1: don't join us live every weekday at three pm PST

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01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:38,599
Speaker 1: on Facebook and youtubefile anyway, just her profile. So two

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Speaker 1: days later, my father passed away at the same hospital

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01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,880
Speaker 1: bed where I last saw him. I do not know

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01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:49,519
Speaker 1: how to explain my feelings or thoughts about anything. I'm

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01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:51,560
Speaker 1: writing this as a form of therapy. I guess a

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01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:54,639
Speaker 1: chance to explain and ask. My mother came by yesterday.

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01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:57,519
Speaker 1: We talked, but she was a lot more calm and

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01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:00,280
Speaker 1: unemotional than usual. She asked me if I was happy

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01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 1: and if everything was how I wanted to be. She

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01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 1: told me that I could have just forgiven him and

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01:13:06,680 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 1: everything would have been better. But you can't just curate

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01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:10,040
Speaker 1: this emotion.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, of nowhere to do that.

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01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 1: I could have been happier if I just let it go.

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01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:17,839
Speaker 1: I'm not upset at my mother. I may not understand,

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01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:19,640
Speaker 1: but I'm not. I just hugged her. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: And I think we will kind of talked about this

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Speaker 1: before chat agrees. I don't think OHP is the a

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Speaker 1: hole at all?

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Speaker 1: we're going to be doing is we're going to maybe

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Speaker 1: someone drop the link and chat? By the way, clips,

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