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Speaker 1: And you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or
Speaker 1: a terrible throuffle, guess what you've got? Decisions, Hey, everybody,
Speaker 1: Welcome back for an episode of You Got Decisions. Today,
Speaker 1: I'm actually going to be discussing No Holds Barred with
Speaker 1: our co author tempest X. So this week you're gonna
Speaker 1: get me digging into all of the reasons why I
Speaker 1: wanted to write this book, some of the process, some
Speaker 1: of the little details, the juicy stuff. And next week
Speaker 1: you're gonna get to get Mandy's answers. So enjoy, Sit
Speaker 1: back and make sure you pre order this book. Mandy
Speaker 1: and I really want to become New York Times bestsellers.
Speaker 1: It's so important to us, and so we've been doing
Speaker 1: as much as we can to get you as interested
Speaker 1: in this book. And it's gonna be crazy because the
Speaker 1: second you see us on Oprah, you're gonna be like, no,
Speaker 1: I want it, no bidg get it now.
Speaker 3: Anyway, get it now, get it right now, because we
Speaker 3: want New York Times bestseller, that is it. We want it.
Speaker 1: I feel like if doctor um we're mad, if he'd
Speaker 1: be like, y'all want no white Man's list.
Speaker 3: Yes we do. We are black. We are black women
Speaker 3: who want the white man's list. Because you know why
Speaker 3: we're taking over the patriarchy is you take.
Speaker 1: You know that one book out of time.
Speaker 3: Okay, So okay, so let's start with And I don't
Speaker 3: really actually even know the answer this, why did you
Speaker 3: want to write this book? Like? What motivated you to
Speaker 3: want to write this?
Speaker 1: I only wanted to write this book at first because
Speaker 1: I thought it was going to be just sex and
Speaker 1: I thought, oh well, And I also thought that's the
Speaker 1: best way Mandy and I can share ourselves. And I
Speaker 1: was really wrong, like very I really thought that this
Speaker 1: book would just be a piece of erotica, which I
Speaker 1: still think it is in a way. I don't care
Speaker 1: what anybody says.
Speaker 3: There are parts that are very erotic.
Speaker 1: But I really was just like, yeah, that'll be great
Speaker 1: because now we can tell the long form. And I
Speaker 1: also feel like we get really mistaken a lot for
Speaker 1: just being so wild and crazy with our sex life,
Speaker 1: like there's no real choice behind it. Yes, I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: now people can dig into like how much we've learned
Speaker 1: through sex our journeys. Like I really it would just
Speaker 1: be super sex sex sex just the story.
Speaker 3: No, you guys are very intentional a lot of the
Speaker 3: time about why you choose to have sex.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I didn't think i'd be talking about my
Speaker 1: parents or not, I'd be talking about as deep and
Speaker 1: dark as stuff. So I just thought I was going
Speaker 1: to have a book that would be tangible. And now
Speaker 1: my future grandkids are not only embarrassed from the podcast
Speaker 1: of the book, and it didn't happen. So why I
Speaker 1: wanted to write a book wasn't why I'm proud of
Speaker 1: the book now. Why I want to write proud of
Speaker 1: the book now. I'm proud of the book now because
Speaker 1: I honestly did feel like it was a milestone that
Speaker 1: we were deserving of. Yes, I would have been proud
Speaker 1: of the book with just sex stories, because I'm proud
Speaker 1: of the podcast with just sex stories. I feel like
Speaker 1: they're impactful. But it made me more proud because I realized, damn,
Speaker 1: we got to get there together. I don't think Mandy
Speaker 1: and I get the chance to get that deep. And
Speaker 1: even though we didn't get deep together, like in anexperience
Speaker 1: with you right there were separate journeys. I did feel
Speaker 1: like people got to have a piece of this in
Speaker 1: a way that wouldn't existed Without the book. We would
Speaker 1: have never have told all that shit on the podcast.
Speaker 1: It's way too vulnerable, It's way it is in the
Speaker 1: privacy or your own and then sell yourself out.
Speaker 3: So what are some things in the book that surprised
Speaker 3: you that you did share.
Speaker 1: I think the thing that surprised me the most was
Speaker 1: the Old Bay chapter. I know we talk about that
Speaker 1: when we dig into a Decisions Decisions episode, But the
Speaker 1: reason it surprised me was because I had to realize
Speaker 1: how flawed I was, Like, not just in the book.
Speaker 1: If I'm being totally honest with you, I really don't
Speaker 1: care if someone picks up this book and calls me
Speaker 1: a dumb dumb right, Like, there are so many people
Speaker 1: that I care for you No, no, no, for that moment,
Speaker 1: right at that moment. Okay, oh my god, it's here
Speaker 1: Sel stupid for staying with him. None of that made
Speaker 1: me care, right, Like, I'm not scared to reveal certainty tills.
Speaker 1: If I was, you wouldn't know my man ate my blood. Like,
Speaker 1: I really don't feel that shamed. However, the way that
Speaker 1: I see myself, I felt like I was way better
Speaker 1: than that. Yeah, So while writing it and even having
Speaker 1: a discussion with you guys on the podcast about trying
Speaker 1: to save him at the book, that I know I'm
Speaker 1: better than you are, and I was like, fuck, how
Speaker 1: could I have let that happen. There's so many moments
Speaker 1: where I don't know. I guess I believe I'm more
Speaker 1: resilient and strong, and I totally believe I could have
Speaker 1: been independent. But the comfort of just dating is very
Speaker 1: simple and easy. We seriously we see relationships or it's
Speaker 1: easier to stay than leave sometimes, and I believe I
Speaker 1: was in that scenario of I just don't feel like.
Speaker 3: That relationship was not simplistic or easy in any way.
Speaker 3: But the day to day was all right, because from
Speaker 3: the perspective of the book, I was like, run away,
Speaker 3: get out of there now.
Speaker 1: But what we're we doing every day? I'm on the beach. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm making meals, but you're watching a movie. You're all laughing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just hurting because I'm doing this torture thing of
Speaker 1: let me look through your phone, let me look through
Speaker 1: the computer. I see how bad it is, yes, But
Speaker 1: when he's in my face, I'm just like, Okay, well,
Speaker 1: it's not that bad if he doesn't know I know,
Speaker 1: or it's not that bad if it's just behind me.
Speaker 1: And it's this weird cycle of torture that I didn't
Speaker 1: know I was doing because the thing that felt the
Speaker 1: easiest was the day to day. Nothing was feeling hard
Speaker 1: about my normal seat with him, the routine. The hard
Speaker 1: shit was knowing I was in a situation with him. Man,
Speaker 1: that was pretty much Jekyll and Hide.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I got to see this person every day that I
Speaker 1: pretended in my head wasn't wanting to fuck everyone else,
Speaker 1: wasn't making plans with that, wasn't lying to me. I
Speaker 1: was like, well, right here in this moment at dinner,
Speaker 1: he's nice, and that just felt easy.
Speaker 3: But that juckle and hide sort of relationship, I feel
Speaker 3: like it is the worst kind of relationship. It is
Speaker 3: when you're just always waiting like when is he gonna
Speaker 3: flip the switch on me? Like when is it coming?
Speaker 3: Like what's coming next? And always sort of being like
Speaker 3: in that sick nervous space that can be.
Speaker 1: And the juckal and hide in this instance wasn't him
Speaker 1: being violent a yeller. He wasn't like this raid. But
Speaker 1: what was the crazy part is that that was my
Speaker 1: excuse for being acceptable, right to say, it's just cheating,
Speaker 1: it's just lying.
Speaker 3: Because you had been through something that you thought was worse.
Speaker 1: Yes, Yeah, measuring up in comparison is the thief of
Speaker 1: joy in comparison. Also, in this case, made me delusional. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well he's not hurting me physically, so the way he's
Speaker 1: hurting me emotionally isn't so bad. And you know what,
Speaker 1: I really believe there's a lot of nineteen fifties mindset
Speaker 1: of are the bills paid? Is he? I've heard doctor
Speaker 1: Oman said about there was a clip we talked about
Speaker 1: how horrible he was, like, uh, if my daughter got cheated,
Speaker 1: and I would ask, Okay, are you physically safe or
Speaker 1: emotionally are the bills paid? Other than that, is he
Speaker 1: pretty good deal? And I was like, holy shit, Like no,
Speaker 1: but that to me is why I staid, Yeah, somewhere
Speaker 1: in my brain, I've learned that.
Speaker 3: Great, but not anymore.
Speaker 1: Oh they couldn't you have not even clothes, not even close.
Speaker 1: Actually something that I don't know if it's slightly toxic,
Speaker 1: but something my partner and I said in the first
Speaker 1: year of us dating a lot with a lot of
Speaker 1: reaffirming each other, like listen, if I don't like this,
Speaker 1: we wouldn't be dating. I'm not going to be somewhere
Speaker 1: awhere I'm unhappy, like let's talk about this. This is
Speaker 1: stuff that's unacceptable. I don't know if I ever did
Speaker 1: that in that last relationship.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay. I also want to ask you, why do
Speaker 3: you think I have a million ideas, but why do
Speaker 3: you think this book is relevant right now?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 3: Why should people buy this book immediately? What are they
Speaker 3: going to get out of it? And why is it
Speaker 3: relevant not only to you and your stories, but to
Speaker 3: a wider perspective With everything that's happening right now.
Speaker 1: I think we are an overload of BDSM talk and
Speaker 1: of non monogamy talk, and of pre cheat talk. However,
Speaker 1: I think reading these real stories, with real road maps
Speaker 1: of how I got here, what was good about it,
Speaker 1: where you should go next, is why it's relevant. A
Speaker 1: lot of times we're taking in all these clips on
Speaker 1: the internet or all this info, and it kind of
Speaker 1: just feels like, yeah, even when Mandy and I were
Speaker 1: on a call last night with the producer that was saying,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, well, I just talked to someone on hinge
Speaker 1: that facetimeing and told me he was in an ethically
Speaker 1: normal long of this relationship, And it's like, is this
Speaker 1: just sexy buzzwords? You pick up this book and you
Speaker 1: realize this shit started for us a decade ago. This
Speaker 1: is my real life.
Speaker 3: I think you guys are the reason that these buzzwords exist.
Speaker 3: I think I said to one of you, like when
Speaker 3: I when I heard them talking about ethical non monogamy
Speaker 3: on Harlem on the series, the television series, I was like, Oh,
Speaker 3: now it's totally mainstream.
Speaker 1: Is this that recent season?
Speaker 3: Yes, it's the last season, the last season they finally
Speaker 3: got into it almost.
Speaker 1: I haven't watched it, but there was a lot of
Speaker 1: reference into my current relationship from some people writing me,
Speaker 1: and I was like, they must talk about.
Speaker 3: Ethically nonlogama shit.
Speaker 1: They do, Yeah, is it in a healthy way?
Speaker 3: It isn't a healthy way, and it isn't a constructive way.
Speaker 3: But I don't think that people realize that without you
Speaker 3: guys doing this and opening up these conversations, it wouldn't
Speaker 3: be getting out there to the masses finally in a
Speaker 3: healthy way.
Speaker 1: Knowing that that chapter happened ethically non monogamous relationship with him,
Speaker 1: ethically non monogamous relationship with scissors. After reading some of
Speaker 1: that pain in Our Pain section yep, to my current partner,
Speaker 1: he was almost like, I can't even believe you can
Speaker 1: do this again. I'm like, yo, this is my life. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this isn't me on TikTok being like this could work.
Speaker 3: This is a buzzword, yes right.
Speaker 1: No, this is my own pop right now. Yeah, to
Speaker 1: the point where sometimes I feel like the internet is
Speaker 1: ready to jump down your throat or hate you going
Speaker 1: on to breakfast club. Even a few years ago when
Speaker 1: we did not just now, people are like, you're lost,
Speaker 1: you don't get it, you don't know what this means.
Speaker 1: I haven't listened or compared those interviews, but I'm pretty
Speaker 1: sure they're probably the same. Indian are smarter, But that
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that we just lost this itch for wanting
Speaker 1: to live this type of lifestyle. So yeah, this book
Speaker 1: is really people that live it, didn't just learn it.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, these are true stories, real stories. It's not just
Speaker 3: a bunch of like pop culture. Yes, yeah, mess Okay,
Speaker 3: So my next question for you, what was the most
Speaker 3: unexpected part of writing this book for you?
Speaker 1: Mmm?
Speaker 3: Part of the process, I guess. Let's talk about the process. Writers.
Speaker 3: We like to talk about getting words on.
Speaker 1: The page, you know, the story. We talk about the
Speaker 1: our chapter. I started this chapter by saying, oh, I
Speaker 1: make everything funny. I'm gonna figure out to make this
Speaker 1: rape shit. I'm mean, I can't believe I wrote that,
Speaker 1: but yes, to me, I wanted to try to make
Speaker 1: it funny because I wanted to try to draw it
Speaker 1: together with how I like non consensual consensual sex. Right,
Speaker 1: every woman wants to be tied down and taken advantage
Speaker 1: of until it happens. Like I thought I was gonna
Speaker 1: get a laugh out of that shit with myself, and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh you can't.
Speaker 3: Yes. The first time that you handed that chapter in me,
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, no, this is not this is
Speaker 3: not it. The interesting thing is there are moments and
Speaker 3: recollections that you have that are funny within the chapter,
Speaker 3: which is incredible. Well, yes, like when he fell the
Speaker 3: song that's playing, like yeah, the weird little memories that
Speaker 3: you have that are like that really ground it and
Speaker 3: make it real. But there's nothing funny about it. And
Speaker 3: I think us really pulling back and me being like, no,
Speaker 3: do you.
Speaker 1: Know what that chapter? Oh, this was the unexpected. I
Speaker 1: had this conversation with Charlemagne that story is about a
Speaker 1: famous person, yes, And I asked him like, do you
Speaker 1: think if I give this one detail about the city
Speaker 1: he's from or whatever, people will know. And if I
Speaker 1: do it, am I gonna face this thing of like, oh,
Speaker 1: she wants this book to be famous. Oh, she's telling
Speaker 1: this story because she wants it to be popularized. He's
Speaker 1: so easy. That's every girl that tells the sexual story. Yes,
Speaker 1: every girl in the world that tells her story. They
Speaker 1: don't say that too, So either do it or don't.
Speaker 1: But you know that's coming either way.
Speaker 3: But then he also say to you, why do you
Speaker 3: care what he thinks? Yes, why do you care? As
Speaker 3: a woman the person who assaulted you, Who cares if
Speaker 3: he's there or not. It's actually not about him.
Speaker 1: Oh, because I mentioned I don't want him to think
Speaker 1: I'm trying to sue him or some shit now because
Speaker 1: I really don't care. It was weird, But oh the
Speaker 1: thing I was gonna say to you when we were
Speaker 1: writing it, you were like, but didn't this happen? I
Speaker 1: thought you told me this from when we recorded it. Yes,
Speaker 1: something It made me realize. You know how they say
Speaker 1: assault victims can't can't recall memories right.
Speaker 3: Block things out.
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't even remember what I said to you
Speaker 1: in the recording. And I realized some details come back,
Speaker 1: some don't. Timpists had to correct me on something. I'm like, actually, no,
Speaker 1: maybe I said it, but maybe that wasn't it.
Speaker 3: Yes.
Speaker 1: What's scary about that is I'm not lying about the story. No,
Speaker 1: you're not, but pieces aren't coming together for me. Imagine
Speaker 1: somebody that's trying to fight for their life in court, Well,
Speaker 1: they can't fucking get this story straight.
Speaker 3: They can't remember everything. I mean, it's very natural for
Speaker 3: you to associate if you're going through something like that.
Speaker 1: There was another up memory. It came to me after
Speaker 1: we were writing it. There was Domino's pizza that was
Speaker 1: open on the edge of like the dresser and I
Speaker 1: remember when I was like when he left or whatever, like,
Speaker 1: and I was in the room because I think I
Speaker 1: just fell asleep. I remember calling my friend that was
Speaker 1: downstairs and there to eat it with me, and I
Speaker 1: didn't tell her phone, like any what it was. So
Speaker 1: it's just all this shit.
Speaker 3: I didn't can I tell everyone? But now that we're
Speaker 3: doing these interviews, there are so many things that I
Speaker 3: wish we had put in this book.
Speaker 1: You know what made it hard to not put in
Speaker 1: this book? What part of the writing process was structure.
Speaker 3: That's true.
Speaker 1: But you know me, I'll the Dominot shit, I do,
Speaker 1: I know, especially with the way that it starts with
Speaker 1: you eating the pizza before you even go.
Speaker 3: Yes, it would have worked perfectly.
Speaker 1: You ordered it again, I ordered it with him, That's
Speaker 1: why I was there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So just saying like I would have fit it in.
Speaker 3: But but good to know, good to know, book, next book.
Speaker 1: But a lot of I say all this to say
Speaker 1: there is a real thing of blacking out trauma, being
Speaker 1: difficult to remember pieces coming together. Yes, and since we
Speaker 1: wrote that chapter, I'm actually going to try doing hypnosis
Speaker 1: this summer.
Speaker 3: Oh you are, That's going to be really you know what.
Speaker 1: I want to remember what what the women look like
Speaker 1: at the front desk, you know, I would like to
Speaker 1: find her. I want to remember the date, and I
Speaker 1: want to remember some of that, but I can't. I
Speaker 1: cannot place it at all. Yeah, but apparently I started
Speaker 1: looking it up, just the blackout shit, because it really
Speaker 1: started to make me embarrassed because I'm like, holy shit, right,
Speaker 1: I'm like, well maybe I was. This is even more sad.
Speaker 1: Was I too drunk and the sex was consensual?
Speaker 3: At for?
Speaker 1: No? No, that's what you start thinking, right, No, so
Speaker 1: I think a lot of women have gone through this,
Speaker 1: and so the hypnosis. Yeah, I really want to try it.
Speaker 1: I want to see what else uncovered. But I know
Speaker 1: this story is real because the next day when I
Speaker 1: told the people that I told his bandmates, Yes that
Speaker 1: I told Yeah, it was a tough that was tough.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that was that was tough even to work
Speaker 3: well ended good Jesus, Yeah you did. Yeah. All right,
Speaker 3: let's let's bring some levity. So let's talk about a
Speaker 3: chapter that you like that was uplifting and fun to write. Like,
Speaker 3: let's talk about something that was super fun for you
Speaker 3: to be besides, I would say the love chapter, the
Speaker 3: coucie eating. Of course.
Speaker 1: There was too much. I just remember thinking. You said
Speaker 1: to me one day, I'm like, I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: getting stuck, and I'm telling him the same. You said
Speaker 1: something along the lines of like, try to describe the set,
Speaker 1: how things look, how you felt.
Speaker 3: I was like, how did she taste?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 3: What about that?
Speaker 1: Was so crazy when you said that? Why? Because I
Speaker 1: just be thinking about your husband and your dogs in
Speaker 1: the background, being like, what is she on a work zonone?
Speaker 3: You know, I had you before I had a husband,
Speaker 3: I had a lot of things happening, so he's not confused.
Speaker 3: It just still he knows all the things his wife
Speaker 3: has done.
Speaker 1: But when you said the taste, I was like, all right,
Speaker 1: dun't r. Yeah, but I did. Yeah, and yeah there
Speaker 1: was a chapter. Well I ended up masturbating halfway.
Speaker 3: Yes, you stopped that you masturbated, and we actually put
Speaker 3: a little call out to how exciting.
Speaker 1: Yes, you guys won't know what chapter that is, because
Speaker 1: I'd tell you. But uh, my favorite chapter to write
Speaker 1: was the love chapter because it was an unexpected chapter
Speaker 1: and it was so my brain of jumping around. Yeah,
Speaker 1: telling that story. I really like abstract writing. One of
Speaker 1: my favorite books ever is Widow Bosciocht. Oh and she
Speaker 1: jumps around.
Speaker 3: I love those kinds of books too.
Speaker 1: Fuck that was good. And also it's so not what
Speaker 1: love looks like in a fairy tale sense, but I
Speaker 1: really feel like I have a fairy tale love. I
Speaker 1: also feel like celebrating that love on the podcast is
Speaker 1: something that's difficult to do because, boy one, you don't
Speaker 1: want to necessarily share so much happiness with an audience
Speaker 1: that may be like you felt like this before, you know. Oh,
Speaker 1: but I'm in a new phase in my life, a
Speaker 1: new phase with my family, dynamics, my age. I actually
Speaker 1: had a freak out moment on my tailand trip because
Speaker 1: he turned to me and said, yeah, I think I'm
Speaker 1: ready in two or three years, and I'm like for
Speaker 1: what who? He's like the baby. I started crying and
Speaker 1: he was like, why are you crying? I was like,
Speaker 1: because this is a real, real yap. Yes, we just
Speaker 1: did money last night. I was really like, you can
Speaker 1: have all of the things. And I never really had
Speaker 1: an intentional person. I don't know if it's because I
Speaker 1: can't pick them, but the only other person that really
Speaker 1: wanted family planning with me was the scissors. So it
Speaker 1: was nice to be at this age where I'm writing
Speaker 1: this book last year all about how I fucked this up?
Speaker 1: But did I fuck it up? But it's like, no,
Speaker 1: I just wasn't ready then at that age you weren't,
Speaker 1: and so now I'm hearing it at thirty four years old, like, Okay.
Speaker 3: You're ready. That's really beautiful. Oh girl, Okay, so.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine yes, tell me too, yes, but not
Speaker 1: that party.
Speaker 3: Okay. So what do you think readers will be surprised
Speaker 3: by and then let's wrap it up with that question.
Speaker 1: I think readers will be surprised at many and I depth, yes.
Speaker 1: I don't even want to speak for myself here because
Speaker 1: I don't think anything is so surprising about one thing
Speaker 1: about me one thing about her. I think collectively, when
Speaker 1: you read these chapters, you're like, damn, I also feel
Speaker 1: like you gave two podcasters a book. Whatever. I think
Speaker 1: you'll be surprised and how much of a book it is,
Speaker 1: didn't evendn't realize it really until reading off the sections
Speaker 1: for progression. Mandy and I both tell a story about
Speaker 1: sugaring money, having sex, money, boom boom together, Like things
Speaker 1: flow so beautifully to be written by two different people,
Speaker 1: and it feels so easy to get through, Like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it is an easy book to read.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not in a way of it's like written elementary.
Speaker 3: No no, not right, No, it's not. No, it's not
Speaker 3: an elementary kind of way. But it's like it takes
Speaker 3: you on so many different journeys that that's why I
Speaker 3: think it's so interesting me too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Literally, every time I send someone a chapter, I
Speaker 1: sent stuff to Brook Devard's Goldwyn just other women. You
Speaker 1: guys may know that I've been on the show where
Speaker 1: we've worked with or something and they've all been like, damn,
Speaker 1: that took me on a ride. Yes, And I love
Speaker 1: hearing that.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's what good writing does.
Speaker 1: And thank you so much for even just being on
Speaker 1: the ride, because I know I don't believe I think
Speaker 1: separately we may be great to work with, but as
Speaker 1: a duo sometimes it's so much to hear at once,
Speaker 1: so many different opinions, a lot of energy, and I'm
Speaker 1: really grateful that like you were able to give your
Speaker 1: best version to us every single time.
Speaker 3: I love working with you both, and I like if
Speaker 3: I don't get to work with different kinds of people
Speaker 3: on board, so it's lovely to work with different.
Speaker 1: What the fuck did that mean? I got the crazy
Speaker 1: so I had fun?
Speaker 3: Yeah, basically I used to be a hip hop manager,
Speaker 3: so you know you guys easy easy breezy.
Speaker 1: Really yes, thank you, So buy volume one now. We
Speaker 1: got so many volumes pre ordered, no holds bart. It's
Speaker 1: really important to us to get pre orders in so
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Speaker 1: Tempest said in our episode, keep the receipts because they
Speaker 1: me we got some shit coming up.
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Speaker 1: And one person that pre order is gonna have sex
Speaker 1: with me. I'm just kidding. Wait what, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I might throw it in there, might for fun. I
Speaker 1: know fans have fucked me. That's part of the stories.
Speaker 1: Let's see what happens to keep your recite bye. What
Speaker 1: we gotta get the wars that's depend
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