1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: All right, here's a question from Randy on Steve Harvey FM. 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: Randy said, I don't know what's up with my girlfriend, 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: but she's now apparently using props to trap me into 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: admitting to cheating on her. We've had a long distance 5 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: relationship for over a year, and during her most recent visit, 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 1: she came from the bedroom livid after finding earrings in 7 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 1: my bed sheets. No one has been in my bed 8 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: other than me and her. She also found lipstick in 9 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 1: my medicine cabinet and the founders in quotation sure okay, 10 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: uh huh, and she found some body wash soap that 11 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: she said she doesn't use. So what's really going on here? 12 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 2: Randy wants to know. 13 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: Randy says, I think she's the one cheating or she 14 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 1: wants out, so she's creating these issues so she can 15 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 1: get whatever justification she feels she needs to leave me. 16 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: I'm confused. I thought we were happy and I was 17 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: even thinking of moving closer to her once my lease 18 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: is up in a month. So here's the question, guys, 19 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: why do sheeters blame their partners? 20 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: Tommy, I mean, let's go back, let's go back to 21 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 2: the story. First. 22 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 3: Personally, I believe she's just trying to see if he 23 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 3: has anything going on. I think she's just a paranoid girlfriend, 24 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 3: that's what I think. You just want to create these 25 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 3: scenarios in the act and see if he's gonna break in. 26 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 2: I don't know who's that either, I don't know. Ain't 27 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: nobody been over here. 28 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 3: You want to catch him in this nervous look. You 29 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 3: want to make see if he's gonna have any kind 30 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 3: of reaction that's gonna make you think that there's something 31 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 3: going on. And the man already know ain't nothing going on. 32 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 3: But that's why he know. Your ass is planting all 33 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 3: this stuff. This is this is, this is all on her, brother. 34 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: You need to leave her. Man. If you got a 35 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 2: woman that paranoid, y'all need to be with her at all. 36 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 4: Out of that lipstick and ear rings and all that. 37 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 4: In the minute, you'd be like, whose parents are days? 38 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: Randy? 39 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: Is this? 40 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: I don't know? The people? Them strangers okay? 41 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 4: Checking, okay, Yeah, shifting the blame. 42 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's trying that's what Randy thing. 43 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, that she wants to get it off on her 44 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 4: and so she's throwing it on him, and that's what 45 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 4: offense defense type. 46 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a little nutty though she's at. 47 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 2: All of that. Yeah, yeah, this is if. 48 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: You want to break up, just break up. Okay, are 49 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: you doing all this stuff? 50 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 2: She doesn't want to look like the bag. Yeah, she 51 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 2: just want to look like y'all think she cheating. That's 52 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 2: what y'all think. Well, that's what Randy think. 53 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 3: Randy need to go to her house since they live 54 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 3: alone distance, and go over there and. 55 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 2: Start pulling, draws out? Who draws a d Who's who? 56 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 2: Timber Land boots things right here? Who's that? Right? Who 57 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 2: is this? Just for me? And I know this ain't yourge? 58 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 3: Who just for me? 59 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 2: And Beard dies this? Who is this? 60 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 61 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: He probably should go because she sounds like she's always 62 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: coming to his house. 63 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 2: He should go and see what she's got going on. 64 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: You got well, uh, because she's got something going on. Huh. 65 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,679 Speaker 4: So here's a question then, So have you guys ever 66 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 4: been in that situation where you cheat, break up, you 67 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 4: want to break up, but you shift the blame on 68 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 4: the other person in the relationship. 69 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 3: You have done everything that is, we've done it all? 70 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 2: Yes, of course I have. 71 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 3: Because here, Carl, I know how to start an argument. 72 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 3: At six fifty nine, because I want to do something 73 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 3: at seven thirty, I know exactly how to do it. 74 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: Okay, opening line, opening line, opening line, let's go opening line. 75 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 3: Action. 76 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? Why is the water rosen in 77 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 2: the freeze? I'm just gonna ask you one time why 78 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: it's called ice? 79 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 3: No, no, no, Jack, That's what I'm talking about. Why 80 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 3: the water frozen in the freeze. See, this is why, 81 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 3: this is why I can't be in. 82 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 2: Here this long. That's why. 83 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 3: That's exactly why it's right here. I'm gonna get my 84 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 3: I'm finna get my keys. 85 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: See why. 86 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 3: Let me know when you when you want to explain 87 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 3: to me why the water frozen in the freeze, I'll 88 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 3: be back. 89 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 2: But it's it end. I'm out. 90 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not Finnah City and do this with you. 91 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 2: So you put all this salt in the soft shaking. 92 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: That's what you did. That's what you do. 93 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 1: It doesn't just it's not just at work, Okay, got 94 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: it coming up next? It is a nephew, and the 95 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 1: stupidity continues. You know it does bring phone call right 96 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Morning show