WEBVTT - What's the deal with ASMR?

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Stuff you should Know from how Stuff Works

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<v Speaker 1>dot com. Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's Charles W Chuck Bryant. There's Jerry over there

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<v Speaker 1>eating god knows what for lunch. And this is stuff

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<v Speaker 1>you should know, the Jerry's Lunch edition about SMR. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's the addition that everyone loves the best. Yes, you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing so good, Chuck. I'm sure zero people had an

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<v Speaker 1>a s m R experience just now. Well, let's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to know. Do you know do you get

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<v Speaker 1>the tingles? No? Not either. I don't even think I

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<v Speaker 1>could put myself in that position where I'd be like, like, stop,

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<v Speaker 1>stop touching the camera that's supposed to be my face.

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<v Speaker 1>Not comfortable. I watched a bunch of these just to see.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you have to dive in head first and

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<v Speaker 1>really get a sense. And uh, I had a hard time.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting there for too long. Even I might have

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite effect. Yes, there's a very good question that

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote at the end. Why not be freaked out

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<v Speaker 1>by this? Why do the exact opposite and enter a euphoric,

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<v Speaker 1>meditative state. It's a very bizarre, really interesting thing, and

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<v Speaker 1>not bizarre in any kind of weird like, look at

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<v Speaker 1>these weirdos, I want to poke them in the in

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<v Speaker 1>the net kind of thing. It's more like it's a genuinely,

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<v Speaker 1>legitimately bizarre and if we can figure it out, it'll

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<v Speaker 1>unlock a whole other corridor to the brain that we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really know existed. Yeah, so in true stuff, you

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<v Speaker 1>should know fashion A lot of you have no idea

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<v Speaker 1>what we're talking about. UM A s MR stands for autonomous,

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<v Speaker 1>is how you say it. I went with autonomous autonomous

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, I think you're probably right, autonomous sensory

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<v Speaker 1>meridian response, which sounds very clinical. Yeah, and we'll we'll

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get to that. But I think everyone needs to

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is, uh, and what it is is

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<v Speaker 1>uh generally a video that you will watch online, although

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<v Speaker 1>it's really just sounds, but the way they present themselves

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<v Speaker 1>these days or audio clips and video clips, it's and

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just sounds, it's it's also closeness is a

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<v Speaker 1>big part of it too. Uh. Okay, but it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>a sound. It's a response to sounds that some people

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<v Speaker 1>get and some people don't. UM A tingling sensation in

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<v Speaker 1>the head moves down the neck. Uh. Some people call

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<v Speaker 1>it like a tickle. Some people call it like a

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<v Speaker 1>head orgasm or brain orgasm, a tickle in your skull. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So then that is triggered by hearing certain sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>whispering voices or seeing repetitive motions is another one too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think I get For my research, I found

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<v Speaker 1>that it was mostly sound and that the visual component

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<v Speaker 1>is just by virtue of the fact that a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these are on YouTube. Is that So I got

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<v Speaker 1>that from that too. But I also saw that in

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<v Speaker 1>one of these UM surveys that said that slow movements

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<v Speaker 1>UM accounted for triggering for of the participants. So yeah, men,

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<v Speaker 1>seems significant, But I get what you're saying, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>does seem like the sounds are far and away, like

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<v Speaker 1>the crux of the whole thing. Yeah, and they're all

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<v Speaker 1>different kinds of sounds. Like the best way to really

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to describe, is to really just go listen

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<v Speaker 1>to one real quick. UM. It always includes whispering, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's my biggest turn off. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the other sounds are fine and pleasing to me, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't give me the tingle, But they're relaxing, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like someone whispering in my ear. I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I've determined that that is basically what you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get with a SMR videos is somebody whispering in what

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<v Speaker 1>seems like your ear. Yeah, I have personal triggers for

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<v Speaker 1>that from my childhood. I think pleasant ones no unpleasant,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why i'd have an aversion to it now.

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<v Speaker 1>So I might be an parents. No, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about it, but it's uh, it's it's I

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<v Speaker 1>think I might be an l lier. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely don't get the tinkles. I don't get the

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<v Speaker 1>tinkles either, And it's not I don't want to say

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a ingreat. Well, it's not a huge aversion

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<v Speaker 1>to it, but I'm not like, I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not big into it. How about that when I

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<v Speaker 1>was watching and that lady was whispering too much, I

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<v Speaker 1>literally had to rip the earbuds out of my ears.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, that's a real aversion. But some of the sounds,

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<v Speaker 1>like the tinking of a glass or that's another one.

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<v Speaker 1>Stuff like that was okay. It's specifically the whispering that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't jibe with my ears, understood, So if you're if

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<v Speaker 1>you're still kind of sitting there going huh. Put another way,

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<v Speaker 1>some sounds and possibly some sites actually trigger a really

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<v Speaker 1>unusual sensation in people where they feel like it's one.

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<v Speaker 1>One woman described it um kind of like sparkles or

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<v Speaker 1>fireworks going off in your head on your scalp. The

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<v Speaker 1>strongest one, and this is really really significant to the

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<v Speaker 1>strongest version of an a SMR experience will leave you

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<v Speaker 1>feeling exhausted and pleasantly tired, satisfied, she said, like you're

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<v Speaker 1>just like you just had some sort of climax of sorts, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But we want to point out and we'll get into

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<v Speaker 1>it more later. This is not for the vast majority

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<v Speaker 1>of people who experience this. This is not um sexual

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<v Speaker 1>in any way. It's sensual, but it's not sexual. It's

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<v Speaker 1>something entirely different. And it's also not what's called freezon,

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<v Speaker 1>which is getting the chills when you hear like an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing piece of music or something really incredible has happened art, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that'll give you the chill bumps. So it's not that,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's not sexual. It's its own thing that we're

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<v Speaker 1>just now starting to realize is its own thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's pretty new as far as people talking about

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<v Speaker 1>it and trying to define it. Um. Obviously, if this

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<v Speaker 1>is a a real thing, that it has been around

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<v Speaker 1>forever most likely, but no one ever knew. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe someone in the seventeenth century was like whenever they

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<v Speaker 1>got whispered to, they got a head tingle. And maybe

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<v Speaker 1>back then their response might have been to turn around

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<v Speaker 1>and like bludgeon somebody with a you know, if it

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<v Speaker 1>was you, if you have a hug them, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for that. Back then they may not have wanted to relax,

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<v Speaker 1>like this is making me feel relaxed. I must kill

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<v Speaker 1>you know, stay on the edge like al Pacino and heat. Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Why um, but that that that grouping of words is

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<v Speaker 1>very recent. A woman named Jennifer Allen Um. She she

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<v Speaker 1>coined the term. She is the person that made up

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<v Speaker 1>those words. After Yeah, after about a decade of looking

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<v Speaker 1>for other people who experienced a s m R what

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<v Speaker 1>would come to be called a s m R. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we're not for the internet. People would still

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<v Speaker 1>be walking around either assuming that everybody experiences this and

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<v Speaker 1>not talking about it, or thinking that they were the

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<v Speaker 1>only one and not talking about it, And were it

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<v Speaker 1>not for Jennifer Allen, it might have we still might

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<v Speaker 1>not be talking about it. But she sought out some

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<v Speaker 1>other people who are experiencing this because she recognized it

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<v Speaker 1>as a usual and she found a thread on a

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<v Speaker 1>forum called Steady Health and there are people talking about

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<v Speaker 1>She said, hey, let's move this to Facebook. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>people do these days because that's a non judgmental place

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<v Speaker 1>where everybody can get along. So let's just create a

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook page. So she did in two and she I

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<v Speaker 1>think that year the next year came up with this

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<v Speaker 1>term autonomous sensory meridian response. Totally made up, completely made up,

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<v Speaker 1>but every scientific term is made up at one point

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<v Speaker 1>by somebody, normally by scientists. She is a cybersecurity expert, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which is fine. Like, like she did it to um

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<v Speaker 1>to basically give it credence enough so that people could

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<v Speaker 1>start talking about it without without it being like just

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<v Speaker 1>some weird, fringy things. She's trying to start a legitimate conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>so it worked like a charm. It's a good name.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's what scientists call it now, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's good enough. Yeah, Like she definitely secured her place

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<v Speaker 1>in history is the the person who coined the term

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<v Speaker 1>autonomous sensory meridium response. So, uh, all right, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about it. It's it's a very personal experience

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<v Speaker 1>for people. Um, No one, no two people will experience

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<v Speaker 1>the same feeling or from the same triggers. I love

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<v Speaker 1>this one guy, Um from the BBC. They were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how like, why is it? Why are we hearing

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<v Speaker 1>about this now? And you're exactly right, it's because of

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet. Even a very small um percentage of the

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<v Speaker 1>population that experience something like this collected on a Facebook

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<v Speaker 1>site or on YouTube seems all of a sudden, like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of folks, And it is a lot of folks, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but not compared to the population at large, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>proportionately speaking, this seems to be it seems to be

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<v Speaker 1>just a very small proportion of of people in general

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<v Speaker 1>who experienced a s MR. Like I don't you experienced

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<v Speaker 1>anti a s MR. Apparently, Jerry, you Jerry a SMR. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she did the head cut off thing too. But there

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<v Speaker 1>are people, I guarantee there are people out there listening

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<v Speaker 1>right now who are like, oh, I've heard of this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've never tried it, who will go try it

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<v Speaker 1>and find out that they actually do experience as mr

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<v Speaker 1>and will probably email us and be like, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for introducing me to that. Jerry's reaction, though,

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<v Speaker 1>does it seem more like, Uh, don't bother me with

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<v Speaker 1>this right now, unless like, no, I have tried it

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<v Speaker 1>and not experienced it. Yes, it was a please just

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<v Speaker 1>keep podcasting guys. It was I meaning God knows what

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<v Speaker 1>sign continue. Um. So the uh, the writer of this article,

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<v Speaker 1>um got it a little bit wrong here, uh, And

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<v Speaker 1>that they said it's not something that just randomly randomly

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<v Speaker 1>happens in your daily life. These sounds that is not

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<v Speaker 1>true at all. They absolutely happen in everyday life. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's how people know that. They get this response. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the A S. M Artists, the people on YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>that actually perform, is that what you would say? They

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<v Speaker 1>they replicate these sounds that you do here in everyday

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<v Speaker 1>life that give you these triggers. So you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to go to the barber and get a scalp massage

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<v Speaker 1>every day. You can just go on to YouTube and

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<v Speaker 1>get the same effect. Yeah, like you may have just

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<v Speaker 1>you may be in your break room and you hear

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<v Speaker 1>someone tapping on a glass bottle, and all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>you're sculpted. Tingles goes down your neck, into your shoulders,

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<v Speaker 1>down your spine, and you are met with a feeling

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<v Speaker 1>of euphoric meditation in relief. And then everyone in the

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<v Speaker 1>break room is like, geez, Gary, where did you go? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>And then Gary can go home and just watch videos

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<v Speaker 1>of Zoe Kravitz doing it in the Super Bowl commercial.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's let's take a break and then we'll come

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<v Speaker 1>back and talk about YouTube and how it's completely opened

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<v Speaker 1>up the a s m R community. Okay, let's do

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<v Speaker 1>it alright, Chuck um. So, like we said, without the Internet,

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<v Speaker 1>we might not have a name for this, we might

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<v Speaker 1>not be talking about it right now, and definitely well

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<v Speaker 1>we wouldn't even have a podcast, so sure that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>We'd be out on the street court and being like

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<v Speaker 1>here read this, um. The Without YouTube though, a SMR

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<v Speaker 1>would would not be anywhere like where it is right now,

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<v Speaker 1>because it allows anybody to to make an a s

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<v Speaker 1>m R video, And honestly, anybody with a decent type

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<v Speaker 1>mix and a mind to do it can make a

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<v Speaker 1>SMR videos and they have I saw somewhere that there's

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<v Speaker 1>something like seventeen million a s MR videos on YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Yeah, but I mean I would disagree though,

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<v Speaker 1>you you there is some skill involved, right, Like if

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<v Speaker 1>I went to go make one, it would be terrible

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<v Speaker 1>and not elicit any tingles. I didn't mean to diminish

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<v Speaker 1>the skill involved. I meant to say, like, because YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>democratizing uh entry to like performances to people you've never

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<v Speaker 1>even met, that's that's opened the door for a s MR.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyone with a skill for doing so can yeah, or

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<v Speaker 1>a desire to. Yeah, yeah, but it does take skill,

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<v Speaker 1>I think. So. Yeah, you can't just be like you

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<v Speaker 1>can't just shout all of a sudden or like lunge

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<v Speaker 1>of people at the camera. What are you wearing? You're

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<v Speaker 1>like no, like maybe like sharpening a knife on a

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<v Speaker 1>stone while you're staring into the camera. That probably not help. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a different YouTube channel, right it is, But I'll

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<v Speaker 1>bet it's out there, um, and there is. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>just YouTube obviously. If you go to any of the audio, um,

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<v Speaker 1>they're probably a SMR podcasts. I'm sure there's a ton

0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:25.599
<v Speaker 1>of them. But SoundCloud in all these other places to

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<v Speaker 1>aggregate sound files. There are tens of thousands of them, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, they are extraordinarily varied and what what they are,

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<v Speaker 1>what you're going to see, what you're going to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw one that was pretty great. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>woman eating taco bell. No talking, just strictly eating taco bell.

0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:52.000
<v Speaker 1>But it was cute, like she comes along and she's

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<v Speaker 1>like and like makes this face like oh, a table

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<v Speaker 1>full of taco bell and just starts proceeding to like

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<v Speaker 1>unwrap it and eat it. And then the real kid

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<v Speaker 1>girl And this is what made a s MRI as heck.

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<v Speaker 1>Um there the her throat was miked, so not only

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<v Speaker 1>did you hear the crunch of the taco, you heard

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<v Speaker 1>the chewing like there was a mic in her mouth,

0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:16.320
<v Speaker 1>and then you heard the gulping from the swallow every bite.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a weird a SMR video though usually they're not

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<v Speaker 1>like that. This was a s m R because that's

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<v Speaker 1>a I mean, there's another what's the disorder, not disorder,

0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:31.320
<v Speaker 1>but what's the condition people? Yeah, like that's a nightmare

0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:35.480
<v Speaker 1>off a mesa phoniac. Yeah, this is straight for them

0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:38.000
<v Speaker 1>because usually it's some sort of a soothing sound, not

0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:42.400
<v Speaker 1>the gullet washing down cheap beef. But no, I've seen

0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:46.960
<v Speaker 1>rainforest fed bee. Um. I've seen other ones where it's

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<v Speaker 1>like it was a girl drinking like from a half

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<v Speaker 1>gallon bottle of water with a law of mike up

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<v Speaker 1>against her throat and it was just gold. Gold Like

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<v Speaker 1>that is a thing on a s MAR. No, But

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<v Speaker 1>on YouTube, does that mean like would the real a

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<v Speaker 1>s MR, Like I guess you could call them experts,

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<v Speaker 1>would they say, yeah, that's a s MR. Or would

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<v Speaker 1>they say, no, that's someone that just threw that tag

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<v Speaker 1>up there that has nothing to do with a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think what they would say is from what we

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<v Speaker 1>understand about a s MR. Now who knows that is

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<v Speaker 1>probably something that could trigger an a s m R

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<v Speaker 1>experience and somebody ergo, it's a s m R. It's

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<v Speaker 1>that wide and varied, which we'll get to an explanation

0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:36.760
<v Speaker 1>for that at the big reveal. Okay, but if you

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<v Speaker 1>go on to YouTube, there's a bunch of um different

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<v Speaker 1>variety to it. There's also some through lines that you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to see or here in just about any a

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<v Speaker 1>s MR video though, Yeah, whispers like we've talked about

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<v Speaker 1>uh binaural recording, which is that's the one part of

0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:57.360
<v Speaker 1>it I do like I enjoy binaural recordings and being

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<v Speaker 1>able to hear, you know, And they always recommend head

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<v Speaker 1>phones better, the best headphones you can afford. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>to hear, uh, I mean that's why I love the

0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:07.840
<v Speaker 1>Beatles so much. Like to hear sound going from left

0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:11.720
<v Speaker 1>to right is pleasing to me. Hearing a good slide

0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:15.680
<v Speaker 1>whistle go all the way through your skull, fingers, tapping

0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:20.720
<v Speaker 1>crisp sounds, that's a big one. Yeah, like scissors. Yeah,

0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:24.040
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of barbershop stuff. This one lady I

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<v Speaker 1>watched was doing this uh thing right and she would

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<v Speaker 1>do it in the left and then the right, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to throw my computer out the window. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's another thing too, Like very frequently it's just

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<v Speaker 1>a person, typically a woman, also typically wearing like a

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<v Speaker 1>low cut shirt. Yeah. We'll get into that too, okay. Um,

0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:48.560
<v Speaker 1>and the and the mics, and they're not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>hide that. She like she's playing with the mic, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like tapping it or doing what you were just

0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:57.800
<v Speaker 1>doing into it, or rubbing it or something like that,

0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:02.520
<v Speaker 1>creating sounds or talk king into it. Soothing, whispering words

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<v Speaker 1>of affirmation, calming words. That part makes a little more

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<v Speaker 1>sense to me. Um. But the point is is that

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<v Speaker 1>it's binural binural recording, so it's like three D stereo,

0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:18.040
<v Speaker 1>so it sounds like you're right there, like it's being

0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:22.040
<v Speaker 1>spoken right into your ear. And they'll some very frequently

0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:25.479
<v Speaker 1>be a mike for each ear and she will go

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<v Speaker 1>or he There are some guy A S m R

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<v Speaker 1>channels go from mike to mike and ear to ear.

0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:35.600
<v Speaker 1>So it's pretty interesting to watch because it's like you

0:17:35.600 --> 0:17:38.480
<v Speaker 1>you get to see how the sausage is made, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>which is unusual. You'd think it would just be just podcasting,

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<v Speaker 1>like but I think from from what I understand, that's

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<v Speaker 1>part of it. Seeing like the fingers like move like that, um,

0:17:51.119 --> 0:17:53.520
<v Speaker 1>like just kind of tapping in a certain way as

0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:57.440
<v Speaker 1>kind of meditative and relaxing. Well, the like I mentioned before,

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<v Speaker 1>the brake Zoe Kravitz, Um, it was very big deal

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<v Speaker 1>with super Bowl commercial, put it on the map more

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<v Speaker 1>than ever before because all of a sudden, you know, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know however, many hundred or million people watch

0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:13.320
<v Speaker 1>the super Bowl, but a lot of people that have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea what this is. We're exposed to it for

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<v Speaker 1>the first time with Zoe Kravitz on a at a

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<v Speaker 1>desk on a mountaintop, tapping on a beer bottle and

0:18:21.560 --> 0:18:24.480
<v Speaker 1>pouring a beer and speaking into the left and right mix.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think the reaction by a lot of folks

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<v Speaker 1>that know what the deal is is like, oh interesting.

0:18:30.880 --> 0:18:33.199
<v Speaker 1>They put a SMR on the Super Bowl or the

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<v Speaker 1>Big Game, and then people were like, what in the

0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:39.919
<v Speaker 1>heck is that girl doing? I wonder if anyone was

0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:45.040
<v Speaker 1>well assume, so there were probably a lot of dudes

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<v Speaker 1>and their recliners that were liking, I don't know what's happening.

0:18:48.080 --> 0:18:50.240
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like finding out you get seesuars by

0:18:50.240 --> 0:18:53.520
<v Speaker 1>watching that one episode of Pokemon, right, you know, it's

0:18:53.560 --> 0:18:57.879
<v Speaker 1>good time to realize that there's a couple other um

0:18:58.040 --> 0:19:02.240
<v Speaker 1>things you'll find too. It's apecially like um role playing.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll see role playing a lot in these videos. Yeah. Well,

0:19:05.800 --> 0:19:09.440
<v Speaker 1>the one lady I saw look like she was sort

0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:12.520
<v Speaker 1>of performing as a nurse might m hm, So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if that counts as role playing. Was that

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<v Speaker 1>um Maria from gent Whisper Gentle Whispering. Maybe they kind

0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:25.000
<v Speaker 1>of all ran together for me. So she is the

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<v Speaker 1>like the the most popular a s MR artist or

0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:32.800
<v Speaker 1>a SM artist around. I think she has like one,

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<v Speaker 1>like one point six million subscribers. And she does a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of role playing where she will pretend and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not just her, there's others that do this too. But

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<v Speaker 1>rather than just sitting there messing with a mic or something,

0:19:46.280 --> 0:19:49.000
<v Speaker 1>she's got like a whole little set where it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like you are getting an eye exam in an optometrists office,

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<v Speaker 1>and but the optometrist is whispering to you the whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's telling you how great you're doing at this

0:19:59.480 --> 0:20:02.120
<v Speaker 1>I X and you're doing so good it's so strange

0:20:02.160 --> 0:20:05.160
<v Speaker 1>to me. Let's see how these fit. And here's another

0:20:05.200 --> 0:20:08.399
<v Speaker 1>thing about role playing too, is it's meant to be

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<v Speaker 1>p o V. So the camera is your eyes. So

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<v Speaker 1>the the A s M artist will be messing like

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<v Speaker 1>around the camera, like putting the glasses like they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>putting them on you. So they're whispering and they're touching

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<v Speaker 1>you lightly, and they're they're speaking words of like encouragement

0:20:26.880 --> 0:20:30.159
<v Speaker 1>and affirmation to you. And this supposedly is like the

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<v Speaker 1>big one. This is the ones that like that that

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<v Speaker 1>make it feel like it's fireworks and make people feel

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<v Speaker 1>like satisfied afterwards, like from this, what wave of you four?

0:20:40.400 --> 0:20:43.800
<v Speaker 1>Your wash over them? See I see that and listen

0:20:43.840 --> 0:20:47.840
<v Speaker 1>to it, and I think I'm running out of that

0:20:47.880 --> 0:20:50.640
<v Speaker 1>Optometros office as fast as my little legs can care.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's that's the hilarious thing. Like if you step

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<v Speaker 1>back and imagine, like an actual real world experience like

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<v Speaker 1>this should be like is there something wrong with you?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like why are you whispering? Dude? But that's yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently if you experience a SMR, that would be

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<v Speaker 1>your dream, like, oh my god, a real and tell

0:21:08.000 --> 0:21:10.600
<v Speaker 1>me how good these glasses look on me? Well, they're

0:21:10.640 --> 0:21:12.920
<v Speaker 1>just kind of messing with my side burns a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so interesting, It is very interesting. It is all

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<v Speaker 1>generally intended to relax someone, uh and introduce what's known

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<v Speaker 1>as a state of flow, which is you know you've

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<v Speaker 1>heard about artists and musicians and created Yeah, sure, athletes

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<v Speaker 1>getting in that state of flow. It's almost like, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really just lebron kind of kind of like a

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<v Speaker 1>runner's high maybe where uh or if you're creative, things

0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:44.520
<v Speaker 1>are just you've opened yourself up and you're channeling creative

0:21:44.600 --> 0:21:47.640
<v Speaker 1>energy to cross hatchings is coming right out of your pencil.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just and I'm not making fun of that. I've

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<v Speaker 1>I've gotten into states of flow for surely. Gosh, it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be so neat to be able to just trigger that

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<v Speaker 1>or bring it on likely without thinking. Well, I think

0:21:58.920 --> 0:22:01.960
<v Speaker 1>that's why a lot of artists like they try to

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<v Speaker 1>get that through drugs and alcohol. Yeah, but that's a

0:22:05.359 --> 0:22:09.000
<v Speaker 1>that's a blind alley friend. Yeah, it is so um,

0:22:09.040 --> 0:22:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I get you through for a little while, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>dead in street and really it's not gonna it's not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna bring on the flow. It's gonna it's gonna mislead

0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:20.639
<v Speaker 1>you because you'll think you're in the zone, playing amazingly,

0:22:20.720 --> 0:22:24.600
<v Speaker 1>and all anybody's here is like, and you're not supposed

0:22:24.600 --> 0:22:26.840
<v Speaker 1>to be playing like that, So stay off the drugs.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we should talk a little bit more about

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<v Speaker 1>the you know, when you said they might be wearing

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<v Speaker 1>low cut shirts and the whole sex thing, Well, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people see that then see the whispering and

0:22:38.600 --> 0:22:40.720
<v Speaker 1>the touching, and they're like, oh, well this is porn

0:22:40.800 --> 0:22:44.800
<v Speaker 1>of some sort obviously. Yeah, Like it's I've I watched

0:22:44.840 --> 0:22:47.119
<v Speaker 1>a few of the videos, and again, it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>like anyone, like you said, anyone can put something up there.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm sure there are some a s M artists

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe to get more views, might try and be

0:22:56.400 --> 0:23:01.200
<v Speaker 1>more sexually tantalizing. But like there are all kinds of

0:23:01.280 --> 0:23:03.200
<v Speaker 1>videos out there and all kinds of people watching them.

0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:06.399
<v Speaker 1>Some people may not feel anything sexual at all, and

0:23:06.440 --> 0:23:09.680
<v Speaker 1>it's only central most people. Most people. Some people may

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<v Speaker 1>masturbate to an a s M R video. Apparently five

0:23:13.200 --> 0:23:16.880
<v Speaker 1>percent of them do. Uh well, I guess so. But

0:23:16.960 --> 0:23:20.840
<v Speaker 1>for the vast majority of them, the vast majority of

0:23:20.880 --> 0:23:23.240
<v Speaker 1>people who experience a s M are they say, no,

0:23:23.800 --> 0:23:27.359
<v Speaker 1>it's not for sex, it's this has nothing to do

0:23:27.400 --> 0:23:31.080
<v Speaker 1>with sex. It's something totally different, and um, it's just

0:23:31.160 --> 0:23:36.760
<v Speaker 1>not sexual. So it's intimate, there's no getting around that. Yeah,

0:23:36.880 --> 0:23:39.600
<v Speaker 1>And then it's a huge part of the whole experience

0:23:39.640 --> 0:23:42.800
<v Speaker 1>is that it's super intimate, and that maybe what triggers

0:23:42.800 --> 0:23:46.280
<v Speaker 1>the whole thing, is that that a threshold of of

0:23:46.359 --> 0:23:50.400
<v Speaker 1>intimacy is met and then crossed and then there goes

0:23:50.440 --> 0:23:53.560
<v Speaker 1>your fireworks in your skull. Right, Um, I wonder how

0:23:53.560 --> 0:23:56.600
<v Speaker 1>this fix a relationship though, Like, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>someone came home and their husband had a an on

0:24:00.000 --> 0:24:04.239
<v Speaker 1>owing everyday thing with this woman on YouTube where she

0:24:04.320 --> 0:24:06.680
<v Speaker 1>was stroking the camera lens and whispering in his ear,

0:24:07.520 --> 0:24:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I could see people. I could see

0:24:09.520 --> 0:24:12.520
<v Speaker 1>someone turning to their their spouse or loved one and

0:24:12.560 --> 0:24:16.560
<v Speaker 1>be like, Hey, that's not too cool. Yeah, you want

0:24:16.640 --> 0:24:18.840
<v Speaker 1>someone to whisper, and you're I'll do it. I'm supposed

0:24:18.880 --> 0:24:20.520
<v Speaker 1>to do the whispering or maybe I mean, I could

0:24:20.520 --> 0:24:22.359
<v Speaker 1>see it causing problems. I would guess they would have

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<v Speaker 1>this follow along the same lines of like whatever problems

0:24:26.560 --> 0:24:29.639
<v Speaker 1>pornography would cause, you know, I mean maybe even not

0:24:29.680 --> 0:24:32.439
<v Speaker 1>because it is intimate. I could see somebody being like,

0:24:32.680 --> 0:24:34.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm okay with the porn, but not the p O

0:24:34.920 --> 0:24:37.400
<v Speaker 1>V intimacy of the A S M R. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what kind of things that would. I could see

0:24:39.560 --> 0:24:42.280
<v Speaker 1>it causing problems here there. I mean, I didn't even

0:24:42.320 --> 0:24:43.960
<v Speaker 1>see that raised in any article I read. I was

0:24:44.000 --> 0:24:46.840
<v Speaker 1>just kinda curious he just raised it. Yeah, But for

0:24:46.880 --> 0:24:48.720
<v Speaker 1>the most part, I guess what we're trying to say

0:24:48.760 --> 0:24:51.320
<v Speaker 1>is if you're an outsider looking in and you think

0:24:51.359 --> 0:24:54.320
<v Speaker 1>this is just porn or some sort of weird sexual

0:24:54.400 --> 0:24:57.359
<v Speaker 1>fetish thing. That's not the case for almost all people

0:24:57.400 --> 0:24:59.800
<v Speaker 1>who are watching these videos. It's not what it is. Yeah,

0:24:59.800 --> 0:25:02.159
<v Speaker 1>those of the same people who think, like, you know,

0:25:02.440 --> 0:25:06.600
<v Speaker 1>every massage is that kind of massage, Like, well, no massage,

0:25:06.600 --> 0:25:08.920
<v Speaker 1>just to relax your body, to heal your body. I think.

0:25:08.960 --> 0:25:13.639
<v Speaker 1>Also one of the reasons why there is great misunderstanding

0:25:13.720 --> 0:25:16.400
<v Speaker 1>is because of the use of terms like brain orgasm

0:25:16.480 --> 0:25:19.160
<v Speaker 1>or some people call it whisper porn, and so people

0:25:19.200 --> 0:25:22.240
<v Speaker 1>are just kind of they're kind of misunderstanding the lingo

0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:26.680
<v Speaker 1>a little bit. That doesn't automatically mean sex. It's internet lingo.

0:25:26.960 --> 0:25:29.159
<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, and they're all kinds of either articles or

0:25:29.240 --> 0:25:32.119
<v Speaker 1>YouTube collections where it's like top five hottest a s

0:25:32.200 --> 0:25:35.440
<v Speaker 1>m R chicks, right, That certainly doesn't help their case. Also,

0:25:35.480 --> 0:25:39.880
<v Speaker 1>the other thing is a lot of comments will be like, oh, yeah,

0:25:39.880 --> 0:25:44.720
<v Speaker 1>it's YouTube super yeah exactly, but um, it's it's possible

0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:47.560
<v Speaker 1>and even likely that these aren't actually people experiencing a

0:25:47.680 --> 0:25:51.760
<v Speaker 1>s MR. They're just going through YouTube looking for videos

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:54.560
<v Speaker 1>of women with low cut shirts looking into the camera. Yeah,

0:25:54.600 --> 0:25:56.960
<v Speaker 1>and its YouTube, and they objectify women in every way

0:25:57.000 --> 0:26:00.080
<v Speaker 1>possible because you can post a video of a a

0:26:00.119 --> 0:26:03.639
<v Speaker 1>talented um young woman playing the violin and half the

0:26:03.680 --> 0:26:07.000
<v Speaker 1>comments will be about her appearance. YouTube does have a

0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:10.520
<v Speaker 1>reputation for that, and rightly earned. Should we take another break?

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:36.359
<v Speaker 1>Let's take another break? Man? All right, Chuck? So we

0:26:36.400 --> 0:26:38.640
<v Speaker 1>talk about science. Yeah, let's do a little science talk.

0:26:38.960 --> 0:26:42.480
<v Speaker 1>There's not much on it. No, the first actual peer

0:26:42.520 --> 0:26:46.560
<v Speaker 1>reviewed study of a s MR UM. It was published

0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:50.760
<v Speaker 1>as recently as two thousand fifteen from Swansea University or Swansea?

0:26:51.080 --> 0:26:53.000
<v Speaker 1>Do you know how to say that? I don't know.

0:26:53.520 --> 0:26:56.760
<v Speaker 1>I've always said Swansea, but I just realized I could

0:26:56.760 --> 0:27:00.240
<v Speaker 1>be wrong. So let's say that I believe if it's

0:27:00.240 --> 0:27:05.800
<v Speaker 1>in the UK. UM, So let's just say Dorchestershire. UM.

0:27:05.960 --> 0:27:08.920
<v Speaker 1>They did a puero. Well, a couple of researchers brought

0:27:08.960 --> 0:27:12.639
<v Speaker 1>in Davis did a survey of a s MR experiencers,

0:27:12.640 --> 0:27:17.320
<v Speaker 1>experiencers and UM just tried to at least do the

0:27:17.359 --> 0:27:22.480
<v Speaker 1>most basic foundational groundwork of describing whether UM. And they

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:24.960
<v Speaker 1>did a pretty good job too. You see, this referenced

0:27:24.960 --> 0:27:27.040
<v Speaker 1>a lot, not a lot of criticisms of it, but

0:27:27.160 --> 0:27:32.560
<v Speaker 1>they found I think like a few hundred. I can't

0:27:32.680 --> 0:27:34.919
<v Speaker 1>find the number right now, but they there it was

0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:39.760
<v Speaker 1>a decent population size of people who experience a SMR,

0:27:39.960 --> 0:27:42.560
<v Speaker 1>and they said, well, why do you do this? Like,

0:27:42.600 --> 0:27:44.399
<v Speaker 1>what do you get out of this? Is I probably

0:27:44.440 --> 0:27:48.640
<v Speaker 1>the question they asked first, and then problem, what triggers this? Right?

0:27:49.560 --> 0:27:52.639
<v Speaker 1>And um, they found that ninety eight percent of people

0:27:52.680 --> 0:27:56.920
<v Speaker 1>who watch a s MR videos seek out these experiences

0:27:57.000 --> 0:28:01.720
<v Speaker 1>on YouTube do it for relaxation. Almost everybody, Yeah, which

0:28:01.720 --> 0:28:04.120
<v Speaker 1>says a lot because again, when you think of this,

0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:07.200
<v Speaker 1>um from an outsider's view, you're like, oh, it's arousing,

0:28:07.240 --> 0:28:10.240
<v Speaker 1>it's it's titillating. It puts you on edge, like you

0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:13.360
<v Speaker 1>know when you hear a music crescendo or something like that.

0:28:13.440 --> 0:28:16.359
<v Speaker 1>Apparently it doesn't do that. It gives you tingles. But

0:28:16.480 --> 0:28:19.919
<v Speaker 1>it also is meditative and relaxing, which is I've never

0:28:19.960 --> 0:28:23.359
<v Speaker 1>experienced anything like that, you know what I mean. So

0:28:23.440 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 1>it's really its own thing. So it's very relaxing. Afterwards,

0:28:27.760 --> 0:28:31.280
<v Speaker 1>during massage, do you relax. I don't get massages at all.

0:28:31.400 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm too high strung for that. Okay, I don't get

0:28:33.840 --> 0:28:37.840
<v Speaker 1>them much at all either. Uh, And I find that

0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:39.520
<v Speaker 1>I can I can generally kind of go there and

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:43.160
<v Speaker 1>just like super relax but there's always a bit of

0:28:43.240 --> 0:28:46.440
<v Speaker 1>shame and embarrassment for me, which is just dumb. Yeah,

0:28:46.600 --> 0:28:50.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, there's no hold over stuff from my

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:54.440
<v Speaker 1>churchy upbringing, you know. But you can't even go there.

0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:59.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't even open that door, like sir of the

0:28:59.760 --> 0:29:02.240
<v Speaker 1>the have a wire cable running down your spine is

0:29:02.440 --> 0:29:06.120
<v Speaker 1>pretty much I can't seem to to tweak it. Yeah,

0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:08.680
<v Speaker 1>but what was the point of the question. Well, I

0:29:08.720 --> 0:29:11.080
<v Speaker 1>was just kind of curious because hearing how you were

0:29:11.160 --> 0:29:14.040
<v Speaker 1>about feel about a SMR, I was like, just wondering

0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:17.920
<v Speaker 1>if you have trouble with any kind of relaxing experience.

0:29:18.360 --> 0:29:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I have trouble with all of the relaxing experiences. Okay, yeah,

0:29:22.560 --> 0:29:25.840
<v Speaker 1>all right, um, yeah, I'm a little high strung. You know. Well, no,

0:29:25.960 --> 0:29:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I know that, I was just I just wanted me

0:29:27.600 --> 0:29:29.440
<v Speaker 1>to admit it on Mike. No. I wondered if there

0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:31.320
<v Speaker 1>was anything if you were like, yeah, but I do

0:29:31.440 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 1>like a good foot massage. Those are nice, like teet Okay,

0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:37.480
<v Speaker 1>there you go, I am. I am for those, but

0:29:37.720 --> 0:29:39.240
<v Speaker 1>every once in a while you'll get one in that

0:29:39.440 --> 0:29:43.000
<v Speaker 1>like it's the real deal where they dig in to

0:29:43.240 --> 0:29:45.960
<v Speaker 1>the arch of your foot. And their thumb basically goes

0:29:46.000 --> 0:29:50.080
<v Speaker 1>up to your knee. It was like it hurts, and

0:29:50.120 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>it's like a suffering kind of hurt, like like your

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:56.080
<v Speaker 1>fingernail being bent back, like bad hurt. And so I

0:29:56.120 --> 0:29:59.040
<v Speaker 1>haven't been back since. Okay, So yeah, no, I don't relax,

0:29:59.360 --> 0:30:03.280
<v Speaker 1>I guess, is what I'm trying to say. They're they're

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:07.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of jeremy really, So no, what about just floating

0:30:07.160 --> 0:30:10.040
<v Speaker 1>in a pool. Have you ever been in a relaxation tank? No,

0:30:10.160 --> 0:30:12.080
<v Speaker 1>that I was wondering that. I've done that a couple

0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:15.280
<v Speaker 1>of times. Really neat because it's dark and it's private.

0:30:15.520 --> 0:30:18.320
<v Speaker 1>There was one experience, I guess I've done it twice.

0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:22.480
<v Speaker 1>Both times you just completely lose track of time to

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 1>do this. It's really neat, chuck um. And the first

0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:33.680
<v Speaker 1>time I got I lost sensation in my body down

0:30:33.800 --> 0:30:37.680
<v Speaker 1>to my central nervous system. So in the water, all

0:30:37.720 --> 0:30:41.280
<v Speaker 1>I could feel floating was my brain, my spinal cord,

0:30:41.720 --> 0:30:44.320
<v Speaker 1>and some of the major peripheral nerves coming off of

0:30:44.360 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 1>my spinal cord. That was all of my body that

0:30:46.800 --> 0:30:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I could feel at that point. Everything else that just

0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:51.680
<v Speaker 1>melted into the water and into the darkness because it

0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:55.160
<v Speaker 1>is the darkness is complete. There's no light, not even

0:30:55.200 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 1>a chance for light to come in. It just doesn't

0:30:57.360 --> 0:31:01.040
<v Speaker 1>exist there. Um, and the ownes are just you're just

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:04.760
<v Speaker 1>in your own world. It's amazing. Yeah see there. Yeah,

0:31:04.960 --> 0:31:06.840
<v Speaker 1>all right, I guess I need to get one of

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:11.800
<v Speaker 1>those that buy one just take out a helock and

0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:15.160
<v Speaker 1>uh and throw down some money. How much are those?

0:31:15.160 --> 0:31:20.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you know? Probably I was thinking over ten million

0:31:20.120 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>dollars it might as well be. Uh. So let's get

0:31:23.680 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 1>back to the study that's alongside track, So ninety percent

0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:31.960
<v Speaker 1>for relaxation to help them sleep, seventy to deal with stress.

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:35.520
<v Speaker 1>So you see a through line here. Um. And then

0:31:35.560 --> 0:31:39.680
<v Speaker 1>they looked at the most common triggers analysis of responses

0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:45.000
<v Speaker 1>found four prominent categories experience, each one by over fifty.

0:31:46.200 --> 0:31:50.640
<v Speaker 1>So whispering at personal attention at sixty nine. That's a

0:31:50.640 --> 0:31:52.840
<v Speaker 1>big deal, it seems like. And what we'll get to

0:31:52.840 --> 0:31:54.280
<v Speaker 1>that in a second, because there are a lot of

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:56.160
<v Speaker 1>people that think that has a lot to do with this,

0:31:56.840 --> 0:31:59.400
<v Speaker 1>Those people that may not get the kind of intimacy

0:31:59.440 --> 0:32:03.600
<v Speaker 1>and attention they neat like there's a separate track of people. Yeah, uh,

0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:06.560
<v Speaker 1>what else crisp sounds? Have you ever had a coffee

0:32:06.600 --> 0:32:10.920
<v Speaker 1>crisp candy bar. Mm I don't think so. Man good. Yeah,

0:32:11.000 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 1>they have them in Canada. I think you can get

0:32:12.600 --> 0:32:17.040
<v Speaker 1>them at like a like a world market. Get one.

0:32:17.200 --> 0:32:20.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get you one. You're gonna love it. Like

0:32:20.520 --> 0:32:23.880
<v Speaker 1>coffee stuff, You're gonna love it. And then slow movements,

0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:27.760
<v Speaker 1>so that would be a visual queue like folding towels,

0:32:27.800 --> 0:32:30.360
<v Speaker 1>repetitive stuff. That's so funny to me. Yeah, I like

0:32:30.400 --> 0:32:33.360
<v Speaker 1>repetitive things because I love those. Uh. I've talked a

0:32:33.360 --> 0:32:36.479
<v Speaker 1>lot about the like how it's made shows and shows

0:32:36.560 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 1>like the repetitive industrial processes. I think that's like a

0:32:40.440 --> 0:32:42.920
<v Speaker 1>SMR show. All right, maybe, but I don't get the tingle.

0:32:43.000 --> 0:32:45.600
<v Speaker 1>It just relaxes me, right, and some people do. There's

0:32:45.600 --> 0:32:48.720
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people who report feeling relaxed from a

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:51.760
<v Speaker 1>SMR videos, even though they don't have the full experience

0:32:51.760 --> 0:32:54.200
<v Speaker 1>where they get like the brain orgasm or anything like that.

0:32:54.720 --> 0:32:57.959
<v Speaker 1>But it's still is potentially relaxing. And part of it

0:32:58.120 --> 0:33:02.000
<v Speaker 1>is because they're designed to be relaxing. The whispering, the

0:33:02.720 --> 0:33:06.240
<v Speaker 1>gentle movements, the like, like all of that stuff. It's

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:10.080
<v Speaker 1>it's designed to relax you. Yeah. I found another study

0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:15.600
<v Speaker 1>from the University of Sheffield that, um, that's a Worcester. Yeah.

0:33:15.600 --> 0:33:19.120
<v Speaker 1>They they got people that were verified a s MR

0:33:19.400 --> 0:33:23.200
<v Speaker 1>experiencers and then people that were not. Um, they did

0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:26.240
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of studies, mainly about their heart rate, and

0:33:26.240 --> 0:33:30.720
<v Speaker 1>they found that people who did experience a SMR UM

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:33.360
<v Speaker 1>they did have a reduced heartbeat by about three point

0:33:33.520 --> 0:33:37.160
<v Speaker 1>two beats per minute. But then they said it was

0:33:37.200 --> 0:33:42.200
<v Speaker 1>no more than other stress reduction techniques like mindfulness or music.

0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:45.520
<v Speaker 1>I could see that, yeah, yeah, I mean they're still

0:33:45.520 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 1>getting the experience of being relaxed out of it, Yeah,

0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:51.440
<v Speaker 1>without listening to my music or being mindful or anything

0:33:51.480 --> 0:33:56.080
<v Speaker 1>like that. Right, so great, but it still doesn't explain

0:33:56.480 --> 0:34:00.880
<v Speaker 1>the brain orgasm, right, which, if that's not cool to

0:34:01.000 --> 0:34:04.560
<v Speaker 1>call it that anymore, I apologize everybody. Um. They some

0:34:04.600 --> 0:34:07.000
<v Speaker 1>people might have thought early on that it might be

0:34:08.080 --> 0:34:11.440
<v Speaker 1>uh co morbid, I guess with synesthesia, which we've talked about,

0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:13.800
<v Speaker 1>but then they found that that's probably not the case.

0:34:13.960 --> 0:34:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Well I saw that. They think it's because people who

0:34:18.080 --> 0:34:22.520
<v Speaker 1>in this in these surveys um don't report synesthesia anywhere

0:34:22.560 --> 0:34:25.000
<v Speaker 1>beyond the normal amount that you'd expect to find in

0:34:25.000 --> 0:34:28.680
<v Speaker 1>a population that saw But they think it's it's still

0:34:28.760 --> 0:34:31.920
<v Speaker 1>possible it's a different type of synesthesia rather than the

0:34:32.000 --> 0:34:36.960
<v Speaker 1>kind where you taste colors or here numbers. They think

0:34:37.040 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 1>this is sound emotion synesthesia, possibly so a sound makes

0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:44.719
<v Speaker 1>you feel an emotion. In this case, it's still a

0:34:44.760 --> 0:34:48.600
<v Speaker 1>little weak. One guy named um Uh, he's a neurologist

0:34:48.640 --> 0:34:51.400
<v Speaker 1>at Yale, Stephen Novella. Back in two thousand and twelve,

0:34:51.440 --> 0:34:55.080
<v Speaker 1>he suggested that maybe it was little seizures or not

0:34:55.200 --> 0:34:59.440
<v Speaker 1>little Caesar's which by the way, they're pretzel crust pieces.

0:34:59.440 --> 0:35:03.520
<v Speaker 1>Back every buddy, um or it's just quote just a

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:06.399
<v Speaker 1>way of activating the pleasure response. Seems to be more

0:35:06.440 --> 0:35:09.640
<v Speaker 1>than that. And also the fact that it only works

0:35:09.640 --> 0:35:13.520
<v Speaker 1>with some people also makes the whole thing pretty remarkable too. So,

0:35:13.600 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 1>of course, because this is clearly happening in the brain,

0:35:15.960 --> 0:35:19.399
<v Speaker 1>they stuck people in the wonder machine, pressed start and

0:35:19.600 --> 0:35:21.880
<v Speaker 1>look to see what happened. Yeah, and this one was

0:35:21.960 --> 0:35:26.160
<v Speaker 1>interesting because one of the big fine things you know,

0:35:26.239 --> 0:35:29.760
<v Speaker 1>you're starting off with a new sort of scientific study

0:35:30.160 --> 0:35:34.880
<v Speaker 1>when you're big first finding from an fMRI machine is well,

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:39.480
<v Speaker 1>um people can experience it while in this machine, right, Like,

0:35:39.560 --> 0:35:43.200
<v Speaker 1>it's not so distracting this machine isn't so distracting that

0:35:43.239 --> 0:35:46.240
<v Speaker 1>they that messes up their experience entirely. Well, what's funny,

0:35:46.280 --> 0:35:48.719
<v Speaker 1>that's the second one. The first study they didn't even try.

0:35:48.840 --> 0:35:50.919
<v Speaker 1>They're like, well, you can experience as m R. Let's

0:35:50.960 --> 0:35:53.279
<v Speaker 1>just have a look at your brain without even yeah,

0:35:53.560 --> 0:35:55.400
<v Speaker 1>because they're like, this will be too distracting. So that

0:35:55.440 --> 0:35:58.759
<v Speaker 1>second study was kind of in a way there. That's

0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:01.160
<v Speaker 1>the level that they're at now is there, Like just

0:36:02.000 --> 0:36:05.960
<v Speaker 1>here's this finding, Like you can find almost literally anything

0:36:06.000 --> 0:36:08.719
<v Speaker 1>new and it's a contribution to the field. At this point,

0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:13.040
<v Speaker 1>the science on it is so incomplete now. Yeah. The

0:36:13.080 --> 0:36:16.520
<v Speaker 1>other finding they found was that the brain regions similar

0:36:16.560 --> 0:36:18.480
<v Speaker 1>to those you know, we talked about what is it

0:36:18.560 --> 0:36:24.400
<v Speaker 1>freesng Yeah, is it French? I don't know. It doesn't

0:36:24.400 --> 0:36:26.520
<v Speaker 1>look French. It looks made up French. I know. I

0:36:26.560 --> 0:36:30.080
<v Speaker 1>wanted to say Frisian. I'm a dummy. No, I did too,

0:36:30.160 --> 0:36:32.239
<v Speaker 1>and I but I went, I did, I went an

0:36:32.280 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 1>extra mile, pressed the little microphone speaker thing on and

0:36:36.600 --> 0:36:40.719
<v Speaker 1>it went frees on. So the brain regions similar to

0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:45.320
<v Speaker 1>those activated during freesan, we're also activated with a SMR,

0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:50.000
<v Speaker 1>but a SMR triggered activity in the prefrontal cortex that

0:36:50.520 --> 0:36:53.760
<v Speaker 1>during freesan is suppressed. I didn't see that was suppressed

0:36:53.760 --> 0:36:56.840
<v Speaker 1>in frees on. Really yeah, so is this bogus? I

0:36:56.880 --> 0:37:00.840
<v Speaker 1>think the prefrontal cortex thing being suppressed as boga. But

0:37:00.920 --> 0:37:02.880
<v Speaker 1>they're not the same thing. I think that was the

0:37:02.880 --> 0:37:04.759
<v Speaker 1>point of that study is they're like, this isn't the

0:37:04.800 --> 0:37:07.520
<v Speaker 1>same thing. It's similar, but it's not the same thing.

0:37:08.400 --> 0:37:11.920
<v Speaker 1>And the freeson um explanation I saw. We know a

0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:14.480
<v Speaker 1>lot more about frees on because we've known about it longer,

0:37:15.040 --> 0:37:18.799
<v Speaker 1>but it's activates a bunch of different parts of your

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:23.719
<v Speaker 1>reward pathways that are involved in like assessing the rewards

0:37:23.719 --> 0:37:27.680
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that, and releasing dopamine right um. It

0:37:27.760 --> 0:37:31.120
<v Speaker 1>also like activates the electoral conductivity and your skin, which

0:37:31.160 --> 0:37:34.400
<v Speaker 1>accounts for the chills. But the explanation for frees on

0:37:34.520 --> 0:37:41.279
<v Speaker 1>that I saw is that your brains pattern recognition is interrupted,

0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 1>like it's predicting what's coming next, and then all of

0:37:44.520 --> 0:37:48.480
<v Speaker 1>a sudden, the music crescendos or it changes tempo, or

0:37:48.560 --> 0:37:52.520
<v Speaker 1>some big emotion happens and your brain wasn't expecting it.

0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:56.839
<v Speaker 1>So opposite of SMR almost pretty much. And then the

0:37:56.880 --> 0:38:01.600
<v Speaker 1>other part of it is that you are empathetically connecting

0:38:01.680 --> 0:38:05.640
<v Speaker 1>with the musician or the filmmaker whoever, who encapsulated the

0:38:05.640 --> 0:38:08.759
<v Speaker 1>emotion that you're interacting with through the movie or the

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:11.560
<v Speaker 1>music or whatever. Yeah, this seems really different because this

0:38:11.560 --> 0:38:14.680
<v Speaker 1>seems to be almost unemotional in a lot of ways

0:38:14.719 --> 0:38:18.239
<v Speaker 1>and super repetitive, not like there is no criscindo. I

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:21.200
<v Speaker 1>think the whole point is that sort of low droney

0:38:21.280 --> 0:38:26.320
<v Speaker 1>repetitive thing, right, Like like with freees On, It's like, um,

0:38:26.320 --> 0:38:30.600
<v Speaker 1>it's like Jennifer Gray running up and being picked up

0:38:30.600 --> 0:38:33.760
<v Speaker 1>by Patrick Swayzy in that part in in Dirty Dancing,

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 1>That's yeah, whereas a s MR is just being knocked

0:38:38.120 --> 0:38:41.520
<v Speaker 1>over with a feather. I think that's the difference. One

0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:43.400
<v Speaker 1>of the a s M artists was her name was

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Heather Feather. Oh that's a great name. Yeah, I don't

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:49.520
<v Speaker 1>think it's her given name. That would be a good

0:38:49.960 --> 0:38:52.359
<v Speaker 1>maybe maybe so she was born to do it, Maybe

0:38:52.360 --> 0:38:54.440
<v Speaker 1>her parents couldn't have cared less how she was going

0:38:54.480 --> 0:38:56.960
<v Speaker 1>to turn out. So the final thing they did find

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:58.719
<v Speaker 1>out from the F M R I studio that was

0:38:58.960 --> 0:39:02.040
<v Speaker 1>pretty interesting. I don't want to make it seem like

0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:04.160
<v Speaker 1>I was making fun of it, but they did find

0:39:04.160 --> 0:39:08.560
<v Speaker 1>a strong connection there uh from the study similar brain

0:39:08.600 --> 0:39:13.560
<v Speaker 1>regions being activated as during close personal bonding experiences with

0:39:13.680 --> 0:39:17.439
<v Speaker 1>mammalian grooming behavior. This to me is the explanation. Yeah,

0:39:17.440 --> 0:39:22.759
<v Speaker 1>it all goes back to that childhood Uh, soothing like

0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:26.400
<v Speaker 1>soothing the baby. Right. That's that seems to be the

0:39:26.440 --> 0:39:30.680
<v Speaker 1>explanation for it. That people are um have figured out

0:39:30.719 --> 0:39:35.080
<v Speaker 1>a way to mimic affiliative behaviors that we are innately

0:39:35.200 --> 0:39:38.640
<v Speaker 1>wired to respond to. And that and some people it

0:39:38.680 --> 0:39:43.280
<v Speaker 1>can be triggered just by video and sound. Yeah, I mean, uh,

0:39:43.560 --> 0:39:46.640
<v Speaker 1>we have played brown noise in my daughter's room since

0:39:46.640 --> 0:39:49.560
<v Speaker 1>she was born. And they say that because you know,

0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:52.279
<v Speaker 1>noises like that make them feel like they're in the

0:39:52.320 --> 0:39:55.400
<v Speaker 1>womb still and it can be comforting and relaxing. And

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:57.640
<v Speaker 1>we've always done it. We use the sound machine in

0:39:57.680 --> 0:40:01.000
<v Speaker 1>our room. It's usually waves or brown noise like one

0:40:01.040 --> 0:40:04.200
<v Speaker 1>of those two things like a nice creek every now

0:40:04.239 --> 0:40:10.279
<v Speaker 1>and then or rainstorm like three. But they're these are

0:40:10.280 --> 0:40:15.279
<v Speaker 1>called affiliative behaviors. Uh, and that is very important when

0:40:15.800 --> 0:40:19.640
<v Speaker 1>an infancy and young adulthood or any point. Well, yeah,

0:40:19.680 --> 0:40:22.760
<v Speaker 1>but help that helps you form those bonds which obviously

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:25.319
<v Speaker 1>when your baby are going to be happening all over

0:40:25.360 --> 0:40:29.480
<v Speaker 1>the place. Yeah, so they think that that somehow these videos,

0:40:29.520 --> 0:40:33.160
<v Speaker 1>through the the calmness, the whispering nous, but also the

0:40:33.200 --> 0:40:37.120
<v Speaker 1>intimacy of it and the the appearance that you're being

0:40:37.160 --> 0:40:40.520
<v Speaker 1>touched lightly and you're being kind of cooed at and

0:40:41.000 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 1>um um in affirmative words and encouragement and all that stuff,

0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:51.959
<v Speaker 1>that it's triggering that reaction right in the brain. And

0:40:52.040 --> 0:40:54.879
<v Speaker 1>that is what a SMR is. That it's a it's

0:40:54.920 --> 0:41:00.839
<v Speaker 1>an extreme reaction to a mimicked affiliative behavior. Yeah, and

0:41:00.960 --> 0:41:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I when I read that, it's sort of clicked. And

0:41:03.200 --> 0:41:07.560
<v Speaker 1>then I wanted to see more studies on like um

0:41:07.600 --> 0:41:10.680
<v Speaker 1>different from a more very types of people that are

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:14.000
<v Speaker 1>like categorized, Like I would like to see people take

0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:18.080
<v Speaker 1>these tests that we're not nurtured as children maybe and

0:41:18.160 --> 0:41:21.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe that means they would have a really strong response

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:24.200
<v Speaker 1>to a SMR or maybe not at all. Right, that's

0:41:24.280 --> 0:41:26.720
<v Speaker 1>the thing. It's like, so why why just a segment

0:41:26.840 --> 0:41:31.080
<v Speaker 1>of the population does this work in? Right, that's a

0:41:31.120 --> 0:41:34.200
<v Speaker 1>big arrow pointing at We need further research here, Like

0:41:34.320 --> 0:41:37.680
<v Speaker 1>it does exist, We've established that, but why wouldn't it

0:41:37.719 --> 0:41:41.640
<v Speaker 1>exist for everybody, and then why does it exist in

0:41:41.680 --> 0:41:44.000
<v Speaker 1>the people who it does exist in? And then also

0:41:44.120 --> 0:41:46.520
<v Speaker 1>why are some people just completely turned off by it

0:41:46.560 --> 0:41:48.680
<v Speaker 1>to the point where like you just want to pull

0:41:48.680 --> 0:41:51.239
<v Speaker 1>your earbuds out, you know, and maybe also pull off

0:41:51.239 --> 0:41:55.400
<v Speaker 1>your ears for good measure. And then why some people

0:41:55.480 --> 0:41:58.000
<v Speaker 1>might be thinking why even put a lot of work

0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:01.000
<v Speaker 1>into studying this, It's because it could be like a

0:42:01.000 --> 0:42:04.719
<v Speaker 1>good therapy for some people, could be therapy for anxiety, PTSD,

0:42:05.480 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 1>anxiety depression. Well that's the thing. A lot of people

0:42:08.200 --> 0:42:14.880
<v Speaker 1>self report overcoming insomnia, chronic pain, depression, anxiety. Like you said,

0:42:15.080 --> 0:42:19.759
<v Speaker 1>like it literally alters their mood, not like oh that

0:42:19.880 --> 0:42:22.680
<v Speaker 1>was kind of neat, Like oh, I don't feel anywhere

0:42:22.680 --> 0:42:26.080
<v Speaker 1>nearest depressed any longer, or I'm not anxious anymore. And

0:42:26.160 --> 0:42:28.600
<v Speaker 1>so say what you will about it. If it's doing

0:42:28.680 --> 0:42:31.400
<v Speaker 1>that for even one person, to keep it up, you know,

0:42:31.719 --> 0:42:34.200
<v Speaker 1>But if it's doing that for a whole segment of people,

0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:37.600
<v Speaker 1>well that's great. I mean, well let's figure that out

0:42:37.600 --> 0:42:39.200
<v Speaker 1>and then we can figure out a way to hijack

0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:42.360
<v Speaker 1>it and use it to treat other people. Yeah, I

0:42:42.400 --> 0:42:45.239
<v Speaker 1>think part of my aversion too, besides the whispering. Was

0:42:45.920 --> 0:42:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I felt kind of silly sitting in the office. Well, yeah,

0:42:49.200 --> 0:42:52.480
<v Speaker 1>hearing this, Yeah, I think you're supposed to It's supposed

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:54.319
<v Speaker 1>to be more private than that, probably, so maybe I'll

0:42:54.440 --> 0:42:58.800
<v Speaker 1>give it a shot later in the in a dark room. Yeah. Uh.

0:42:58.840 --> 0:43:01.839
<v Speaker 1>If you want to know more about SMR friends, go

0:43:01.920 --> 0:43:04.640
<v Speaker 1>out on the internet right in a s MR to

0:43:05.160 --> 0:43:07.480
<v Speaker 1>the search bar of your favorite search engine, and it

0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:10.479
<v Speaker 1>will introduce you to a brand new world. And since

0:43:10.480 --> 0:43:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I said that it's time for this your mail all right,

0:43:14.680 --> 0:43:18.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call this uh Tahoe Tessei. Oh yeah, hey, guys,

0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:21.160
<v Speaker 1>I was listening to Lockness Monster episode and was reminded

0:43:21.200 --> 0:43:24.720
<v Speaker 1>a lot of Lake Tahoe. I thought you'd be interested

0:43:24.800 --> 0:43:26.560
<v Speaker 1>in some of the similarities. I grew up in the

0:43:26.600 --> 0:43:31.400
<v Speaker 1>Carson Valley area in Nevada, right next to Tahoe. Tahoe

0:43:31.440 --> 0:43:35.240
<v Speaker 1>actually has its own legend, Tahoe Tessy. Really original, guys.

0:43:35.640 --> 0:43:37.560
<v Speaker 1>There used to be a museum but at close now

0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:41.960
<v Speaker 1>and TESTI isn't much more than a silly little local legend. Surprise, surprise,

0:43:42.280 --> 0:43:45.120
<v Speaker 1>it brought in thirteen dollars and touristing come last year.

0:43:45.400 --> 0:43:47.840
<v Speaker 1>I think that lake itself is more interesting, though, Chuck

0:43:48.000 --> 0:43:50.879
<v Speaker 1>shuttered at the thought of a nine foot deep lake.

0:43:51.320 --> 0:43:54.880
<v Speaker 1>The deepest parts of Tahoe, though, are over sixteen hundred

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:57.919
<v Speaker 1>feet deep. I've heard about this crazy. I can't wait

0:43:57.960 --> 0:44:01.400
<v Speaker 1>to fill in the blanks that this guy leaves. The

0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:05.239
<v Speaker 1>lake in the Sierra Nevada sits at twenty five feet

0:44:05.360 --> 0:44:10.799
<v Speaker 1>in elevation, while the elevation of my hometown is. That

0:44:10.840 --> 0:44:12.680
<v Speaker 1>means that the lake has spots that are a hundred

0:44:13.040 --> 0:44:16.000
<v Speaker 1>ft deeper than the valley next to it. Thanks for

0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:18.200
<v Speaker 1>all you guys, do I've seen you the past three

0:44:18.280 --> 0:44:20.320
<v Speaker 1>years in a row in Seattle. I always have a

0:44:20.360 --> 0:44:23.640
<v Speaker 1>great time. Yeah that is from Evan Hughes. Thanks Evan

0:44:23.719 --> 0:44:26.239
<v Speaker 1>for making that trip, my friend. Yeah, we'll see you

0:44:26.280 --> 0:44:29.040
<v Speaker 1>next year. We love going to Seattle every January. There.

0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:31.799
<v Speaker 1>Keep it up right. So if this is the same

0:44:31.960 --> 0:44:33.799
<v Speaker 1>lake that I'm thinking of, and I believe it is,

0:44:34.680 --> 0:44:37.719
<v Speaker 1>it is also very very cold, so if you die

0:44:37.800 --> 0:44:40.440
<v Speaker 1>in this lake, it can preserve you for a long time.

0:44:41.080 --> 0:44:44.040
<v Speaker 1>That's so much so that they found a diver who

0:44:44.040 --> 0:44:48.080
<v Speaker 1>had been missing for twelve years who drowned in that lake.

0:44:48.680 --> 0:44:51.520
<v Speaker 1>Twelve years later, they were still able to give him

0:44:51.520 --> 0:44:54.360
<v Speaker 1>an autopsy and determine his cause of death because the

0:44:54.440 --> 0:44:56.759
<v Speaker 1>lake had preserved him that much. And there's or said,

0:44:56.800 --> 0:44:59.239
<v Speaker 1>there's like old gangsters from the thirties who are still

0:44:59.280 --> 0:45:02.960
<v Speaker 1>like whearing their clothes and like cement shoes at the

0:45:02.960 --> 0:45:06.840
<v Speaker 1>Balm Lake. Railroad workers from China who had died in

0:45:06.880 --> 0:45:09.360
<v Speaker 1>the lake are still preserved in there. This is the

0:45:09.440 --> 0:45:13.000
<v Speaker 1>local legend. But that divers documented they definitely were able

0:45:13.040 --> 0:45:16.719
<v Speaker 1>to give him an autopsy after twelve years underwater. That's

0:45:16.719 --> 0:45:20.840
<v Speaker 1>how cold and oxygen oxygen um depleted. It is because

0:45:20.880 --> 0:45:25.360
<v Speaker 1>of the debts, they said, it turns out he drowned, right, Yeah,

0:45:26.320 --> 0:45:28.279
<v Speaker 1>that's it. Awesome Taho. We should do a show and

0:45:29.000 --> 0:45:33.120
<v Speaker 1>like Tahoe, let's do it at Lake Tahoe. Okay, in

0:45:33.280 --> 0:45:35.800
<v Speaker 1>Lake Tahoe. I don't know. I thought about doing random

0:45:35.840 --> 0:45:41.000
<v Speaker 1>shows at like weird places. Okay, that'd be fun. Thanks

0:45:41.000 --> 0:45:42.640
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