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Speaker 1: First Date to follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: He is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by Dallas and he doesn't

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Speaker 2: know why. So in a little bit we're gonna call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: him and maybe get him another date. But first, Pete,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Dallas.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't want to get crazy here, but

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Speaker 3: it's been a couple of days.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So let's go back. Let's talk about the date.

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Speaker 1: How you met Dallas. Why you think she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so we met on Nintenda. She wanted to get

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Speaker 3: some pizza, so time I took her. I took to

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Speaker 3: the best spot around to get pizza. It's an ain't

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Speaker 3: two bros. But you know it's pretty good, okay.

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Speaker 4: And I felt like it went really well.

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Speaker 3: You know, she was molding up on me, you know,

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Speaker 3: I you know, I tested the waters that went so

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Speaker 3: hour next door on her side of the boot, she

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Speaker 3: was down with it.

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Speaker 5: Then at the end, this is where you know the

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Speaker 5: episode where I sort of you know, you're thinking you

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Speaker 5: know she might be history. Ye know, we had a

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Speaker 5: lot of glic and you know, sausage, sauce and peppers

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Speaker 5: on the piece. So kind of burped a little bit

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Speaker 5: when I went to kiss her.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how much I hate it.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm trying to like suck the breath in

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Speaker 3: and you know, so a lot of kiss happened.

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Speaker 4: So like you think you burped in her mouth?

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Speaker 3: I might have.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh okay, really that's all I mean, that might

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Speaker 2: be a reason to get ghosted if you burped in

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Speaker 2: her mouth.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's not ideal, but like if you really

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Speaker 1: like somebody, maybe you can see yourself past it. Maybe

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Speaker 1: she just didn't feel like it. So other than the

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Speaker 1: mouth purping, did you feel like the date was going well, I.

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Speaker 4: Think she played it off.

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Speaker 6: I mean I feel like she played it off, like

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Speaker 6: I don't know, I mean kind of will happened so fast.

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Speaker 2: I was like so focused on krying of fuck the

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Speaker 2: you know, yeah, okay, but like, uh.

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Speaker 5: My receptors were a little were a little uh a

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Speaker 5: little loft there.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, maybe you didn't suck it back in

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Speaker 2: all the way and maybe that so I we'll try

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Speaker 2: for it out that we'll play a song come Back

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Speaker 2: and then call her and see if sheall tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's a great game plan, all right.

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Speaker 2: Cool, we'll play Don't come Back, get your first Day

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Speaker 2: follow Up next if you're just joining us for today's

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Speaker 2: first Day follow up. Pete is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: he's getting ghosted by Dallas. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: him and maybe get him another date. But before we

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Speaker 2: do that, Pete, why don't you refresh everybody's memory on

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Speaker 2: your situation.

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Speaker 6: So I met this beautiful girl on Tinda, went out,

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Speaker 6: had a great time.

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Speaker 4: She may have tasted a burth.

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Speaker 3: Kiss me, and here we are because I don't want.

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Speaker 2: To ask her that Pete accidentally burped in her mouth. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and you tried to suck it back in though, right, Yeah?

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Speaker 4: So what if that is that? Pete? Are you just

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Speaker 4: gonna apologize and what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, here we go, man, you're ready to call her? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: here we go. Hello him aspeaking to Dallas.

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Speaker 4: Please, Yeah, this is Dallas.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Dallas, how are you my name is Jewbele and

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Speaker 2: a host the radio show. It's called The Jewbell Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Dallas, I'm Nina also here on the show. Hi,

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Speaker 4: I'm Victoria. How's it going?

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Speaker 7: Oh gosh?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 7: Hi everybody.

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Speaker 4: Do you ever listen to the show?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah? Oh cool? Have you heard a first date

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Speaker 4: follow up before?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Uh huh Okay, I think that's a yes. I'm saying

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Speaker 4: that is a yes.

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Speaker 7: Why what did I do?

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Speaker 4: You're ghosting somebody?

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Speaker 2: And they emailed us to get you on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them? Do you know who

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Speaker 2: would email us?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Could Pete? Yes, it is Pete. Congratulations.

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Speaker 2: We talked to Pete about your date and he wanted

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Speaker 2: us to call you and ask why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 4: You could tell us?

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Speaker 7: Uh yeah, she called you guys to ask why I'm

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Speaker 7: seeing him? He has a girlfriend?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? That was my reaction.

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Speaker 4: He thought it was because he burped in your mouth?

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Speaker 4: You hes a girl? How did you find out he

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Speaker 4: has a girlfriend?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so we had like a really great time.

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Speaker 7: I mean he's cute, he's kind of funny and you

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Speaker 7: know whatever and like okay, see buy whatever, and I

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Speaker 7: mean we had a lot of pizza, so like if

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Speaker 7: he burped in my mouth, I guess I just thought.

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Speaker 1: That was pizza.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not that judgement.

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Speaker 7: Okay, but after we kissed, this is literally what he said.

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Speaker 7: He said, Oh, my girlfriend never kissed me like that.

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Speaker 7: He literally told me my girlfriend never kisses me like that.

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Speaker 4: Whoa. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 7: I was like, hell no, I'm not going to be

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Speaker 7: your side, like, so, yeah, that's why I'm ghosting him.

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Speaker 4: Did you ask him about it or like, how did

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Speaker 4: you leave it?

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Speaker 7: I was just like in total shock, Like honestly, I'm

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Speaker 7: not in the moment, like I'm not super comfortable like

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Speaker 7: with confrontation. So I just like, he kissed me, he

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Speaker 7: said that, and then I was I just like left.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I guess I can understand why you ghost him. Then, yeah,

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Speaker 4: thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't tell us anything about having a girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: and Dallas, I don't know if you forgot or not,

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Speaker 2: but he is on the line listening and wants to

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Speaker 2: talk to you.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, I did not know about that mouth.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Pete, I so the girlfriend. It was a joke.

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Speaker 4: I got the unicorn thing on my profile, Like you

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Speaker 4: didn't know I had a girlfriend. Wait, what what?

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Speaker 6: I got the uniquorant thing on my on my page?

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Speaker 6: Like you know you, my girl wanted to bring another

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Speaker 6: girl into the relationship with me. I'm not gonna say.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I thought you too.

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Speaker 1: Pete has a unicorn on his profile, has a girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: and we're all supposed to know that because you had

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Speaker 1: a unicorn on your profile.

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Speaker 3: That's what she told me.

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Speaker 1: Who told you, my girl? So your girlfriend told you

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Speaker 1: to put a unicorn on your thing and then go

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Speaker 1: find another girl.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she said, put the unicorn thing on.

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Speaker 5: Everybody will know.

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Speaker 4: So the secret code?

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, And I'm guessing Dallas, you didn't know that

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Speaker 2: that was a secret code for you joining Pete and

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Speaker 7: I mean, is that like com and Knowlton and literally

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Speaker 7: never heard of I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna google it.

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Speaker 2: I've heard of it before, being used for like swingers

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Speaker 2: I just I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: It's a slang term for a person who dates and

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Speaker 1: is romantically involved with a man and a woman in

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Speaker 1: a couple.

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Speaker 4: WHOA what? Okay? I know that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, now that you know that, Dallas, would you like

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Speaker 2: to go on another date with Pete? We'll pay for it?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 7: All right, Pete, I'm like really sorry. I just I

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Speaker 7: didn't know that's what I was getting into. I'm not

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Speaker 7: really interested in like that kind of thing, not really

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Speaker 7: like my vibe. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: You know you want to go along?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: I feel like there's something special you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean you're you're cute in your meat, But

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Speaker 7: I just I don't I don't really want to be

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Speaker 7: a part of But what like a threat? There's something? Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I don't want to do this.

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Speaker 4: What do you want to do?

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Speaker 2: Then?

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Speaker 4: So what if I what if I leave with for you?

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Speaker 4: I'll do it in a second. Wait, leave your girlfriend

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Speaker 4: for Dallas?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: She wants somebody else in the relationship. Clearly I'm not

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Speaker 6: doing it anymore. And I really vibe with Dallas. If

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Speaker 6: that's the only thing in between. R and I seen

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Speaker 6: each other again checking it out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Dallas, would you like to go on another day

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Speaker 2: with Pete? If he dumps his girlfriend?

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Speaker 7: It's like a lot of pressure theory on the radio, Pete,

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Speaker 7: if you actually dump her, the radio station pays for it.

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Speaker 4: I'll do it that tip too, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's do you'll actually go out with him again, Dallas,

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Speaker 2: only if.

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Speaker 7: He is actually single and you have to prove it

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Speaker 7: to me. Pete, Like, I don't want to get played?

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Speaker 4: What do you Okay?

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Speaker 5: How do I move it?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: That's like a change the relationship status, Pete.

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Speaker 1: Put it all over social media and single, get rid

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Speaker 1: of the unicorns, take off this of your tender profiles.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know. There's lots of things.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, you know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna

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Speaker 6: do the the Instagram live man Instagram live.

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Speaker 4: When you dump your girlfriend, I don't think that's a

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Speaker 4: good idea.

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Speaker 7: Be I mean, I can't see why. I'm right, Like,

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Speaker 7: he's really funny.

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Speaker 5: Let's not send you the screenshots, Swell.

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Speaker 4: Dump your girlfriend over a text message.

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Speaker 6: That's how I would want it be.

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Speaker 4: Not Juble's first day follow up