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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl Alex Peak and it's

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Speaker 1: girl in the building. Go ahead and in seduce yourself.

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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl Marlene? Y'all, we have a

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Speaker 1: guess on the show, y'all. Right, guess of the years.

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Speaker 1: This is my beautiful friend Marlene.

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Speaker 2: I know y'all get tired of it just being like

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Speaker 2: me and Drea. Y'all be like, y'all need to have

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Speaker 1: Both some birds. And I'm like saying about us.

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Speaker 2: You know, they like the audacity, all this entertainment that

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Speaker 1: You know it's cool. We listen to what y'all say.

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Speaker 2: Now we have a guess, and then not only do

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Speaker 2: but we gonna get over. We're gonna get all honor

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Speaker 2: rewind down Wednesday glass. So as you know, for the

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Speaker 2: past like a few months, we've been drinking wine out

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Speaker 2: of the champagne glasses because Draa breaks all the glasses

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Speaker 2: I do now. Thank God, I have such a wonderful mother.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to little Annie. She got us some wine

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Speaker 1: Names on them. So thanks Mom, shout out to you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all can see to you, Mom.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Mama Annie. So started with the new year, Like

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Speaker 2: we said, we're about to have an all new format,

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Speaker 2: about to be a whole new wine down Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: Amen. What I said, am Dances, We forgot him. So anyways,

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it because I have a lot of

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Speaker 2: Saturday and y'all know how I get down?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what girl? Because I do? Because I do know

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Speaker 2: So I saw this on Twitter. Don't be slick anyway.

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Speaker 2: I'm dating in your social status. So basically, somebody said,

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Speaker 2: know that you're not in my league. You need to

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Speaker 2: it fucked up. I can have any bitch I want.

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Speaker 2: So that's the topic at hand. Do you believe that

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Speaker 1: Enough, you can have anybody you want. Let's heart's hear

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Speaker 2: Personally, I think there is a social status, and I

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Speaker 2: I only say that because I don't know if certain

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Speaker 2: certain guys have tried to come to me, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: now you know.

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Speaker 3: I don't like.

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Speaker 1: It's definitely levels.

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Speaker 2: However, I do feel like people are capable of getting

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how you would you done? You? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know, because I feel like you could

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Speaker 2: can't get who you want. Everybody can't get everybody. I

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Speaker 1: Right, right, Okay, So here's what I have to say

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Speaker 2: I feel like, of course a woman's gonna say, oh,

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Speaker 2: But let's keep it real. If a dude would approach you,

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Speaker 1: Okay. So a dude cannot be in your social status,

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Speaker 2: He his social status may not be like, he may

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Speaker 2: And that's what it is. So I feel like, as

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Speaker 1: Nine times out of ten, you at least gona let

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Speaker 2: Right, that's not your's. Social status is one thing. Having

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Speaker 1: Right now.

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Speaker 2: I don't have my reservations right, but I'm saying off

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Speaker 2: You, he got a roleg song, he got some Balassi

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Speaker 1: Say, come on, y'all, keep it one, hont No.

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Speaker 2: I am keeping it one, honey, because I feel like

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm off because I ain't ever been there.

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Speaker 2: And you carry a nigga in a hurrari if you come, yes,

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Speaker 2: what's behind you? Waiting on his number? Big Mama?

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Speaker 1: Like, Hey, I'm just being honest, Like I'm just being honest.

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Speaker 2: I feel like social status does matter to a certain extent,

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Speaker 2: but I feel like for guys it's different. Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Not like that. But that's what we agree.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree on that, But I feel like social

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Speaker 1: It's just like now, it doesn't matter, does it matters

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Speaker 2: I want somebody with the social status and the league

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Speaker 2: So I agree with y'all the social status doesn't matter,

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Speaker 2: Really knows who he is, you still gonna at least

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Speaker 2: This is what I'm saying you you really don't know

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Speaker 1: Look like they got men.

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Speaker 2: So if a dude pull up in the Ferrari. People

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Speaker 2: like me personally, I don't. I'm gonna keep it real.

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Speaker 2: I don't date off of social status, and Drey knows

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, that is facts.

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Speaker 2: So you feel that way too, yes, Like sometimes I

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Speaker 2: Because I mean truly.

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Speaker 1: I'll not go by. I try to day outside my

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Speaker 2: Didn't for me, neither for me, but then so that's

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Speaker 2: Social studies, how y'all worry about calling people out? Do

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Speaker 2: do you feel like there's any guy out of your league,

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Speaker 1: My DMS, so it'd be crazy. So do you feel

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Speaker 2: Yeah, some dudes are out of my But I'm telling

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Speaker 2: you that's why when niggas come to us, that's under us.

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Speaker 1: They probably look like I could get any girl I want.

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Speaker 2: But I look at a dude and be like, if

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Speaker 2: I wanted him, I could get No. I agree with you,

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Speaker 2: and I mean, and now that you said that, let

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Speaker 1: The boss, because I pay my own bills and stuff

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Speaker 2: So at the end of that, right, so at the

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Speaker 2: end the day, I don't necessarily need you. But I

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Speaker 4: Do you feel okay? But let me ask you.

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Speaker 1: So let me say that.

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Speaker 1: Like men? Do they treat you better because like your lighter.

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Speaker 2: People have always thought I looked quote unquote anxiety, you

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Speaker 2: And sometimes it does make me feel like, well, maybe

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Speaker 2: Because I'm dark skin, so I'm darker than what you

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Speaker 1: I'll go ahead right now.

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Speaker 2: I will say, like, you know, darker women, they have

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Speaker 1: It's offensive. Has that happened to you before?

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Speaker 2: Like I said, growing up being around like all white people,

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Speaker 2: Submerged in black culture, being like that has probably happened

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, I'm first of all, she.

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Speaker 1: Where the start skin.

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Speaker 2: That's where it starts. And everybody is brown, right, That's

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Speaker 1: She is she that we all niggas because.

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Speaker 2: To like, so we were talking about real miles, like

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Speaker 2: I'm not dark skin, like, oh, you're not even dark skinn.

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Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter because to other cultures we all some

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Speaker 1: All get us. But I will now.

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Speaker 2: Now being an adult, I will say that I don't

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Speaker 1: What are you mixed?

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Speaker 2: It's every now and then when I wear my real hair,

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Speaker 2: And I don't know if he's because.

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Speaker 2: People ask me all the time, like what's your intnicity?

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Speaker 2: Like he's like, I'm black, Niggas, I'm a negro.

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Speaker 1: Right well for me? Well for me, I'll say, like

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Speaker 1: when I have my.

438
00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:03,679
Speaker 2: Real hair, I'm proud of being black, right well for me,

439
00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,040
Speaker 2: Like I said, it's when when I have my natural

440
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,280
Speaker 2: hair in and I have like my curly hair, people

441
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,480
Speaker 2: will say something and I'm just like no, But like

442
00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,960
Speaker 2: I said, get back to the subject at hand.

443
00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,639
Speaker 1: It's offensive. It's not a compliment.

444
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:20,439
Speaker 2: I don't care if you're a black, Mexican, white, Asian, whatever.

445
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:22,960
Speaker 2: Do not go up to a black woman and say

446
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:25,479
Speaker 2: what are you mixed with? It's not my heart on

447
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 2: her beauty and leave it at that, whether she's life skinned,

448
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 2: whether she's mixed, Just say.

449
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:34,200
Speaker 1: Wow, you're beautiful, yeah, and go from there.

450
00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,119
Speaker 2: You know, maybe when you get to know her better,

451
00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 2: then you can ask her questions about her history and

452
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:42,280
Speaker 2: this and that about her Hey, yeah, stuff like that.

453
00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,159
Speaker 2: But to come out the gate. Ooh, you look like

454
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:45,760
Speaker 2: a carmel.

455
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,480
Speaker 1: We can't say, stop paring us to food.

456
00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 2: We can even do an ancestry DNA test together.

457
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 1: That's what you would like to do.

458
00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:55,119
Speaker 2: Why you know? You know, but don't ask me that

459
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 2: off the rip because yeah, like even like when I

460
00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:59,719
Speaker 2: was talking about the situation when I was in Houston

461
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 2: with the dude, like that completely turned me off. It

462
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,159
Speaker 2: made me mad and I was ready to leave. He

463
00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:07,680
Speaker 2: thought that, I guess he thought that was a compliment.

464
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:09,440
Speaker 2: But it's like, no, that's not no compliment because you

465
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,600
Speaker 2: was telling me, oh, you're so pretty for a dark

466
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:12,080
Speaker 2: skin girl.

467
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,359
Speaker 1: My nigga, you dark skin, you.

468
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:30,520
Speaker 2: Trashkin me And you right, that's what I'm saying. If

469
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,440
Speaker 2: you look at if you look at that, like, that's

470
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 2: a compliment with what do you look like? What does

471
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 2: your mother look like? Your father looked like?

472
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 1: So y'all have to think about things before y'all say them.

473
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 2: So for all the men right now, we're putting y'all

474
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 2: on games, stop saying that to women. We don't find

475
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 2: it as a compliment. I think we all agree on that. Yeah,

476
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,639
Speaker 2: asking the ethnicity questions, so ladies that are dark skinned,

477
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,199
Speaker 2: light skin, whatever color you are. Let us know how

478
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:56,639
Speaker 2: y'all feel about. Are you're pretty for a dark skinned

479
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 2: girl or you're pretty for a black girl? How does

480
00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 2: that make you feel? And feel us a minute? If

481
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,120
Speaker 2: you've done that before, let us know what's the reasoning

482
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 2: behind that or why you do that.

483
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,160
Speaker 1: Imagine somebody the song You're pretty red Asian, You're pretty,

484
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:12,159
Speaker 1: fright you? But now that you said that, I wonder

485
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 1: does that happen? I don't think.

486
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:16,919
Speaker 2: Whatever?

487
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 1: No, are you you're pretty for a white girl?

488
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 2: You don't think that they have hell No, I know

489
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: I don't think black men are age No, because I

490
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:31,959
Speaker 2: feel like technically but no, But this is what I

491
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 2: say that. You know why I say that because I'm

492
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 2: not trying to be funny, and this is maybe offenses

493
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,400
Speaker 2: of people, but people look at black women. They used

494
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 2: to look at black women like the bottom of the barrel.

495
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,880
Speaker 2: They did, honestly, But we done came up on y'all legs.

496
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 2: So that's that's it's a compliment. Come back, you know,

497
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:50,360
Speaker 2: back now?

498
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 1: The standard. No, seriously, though, everybody gonna get lip injections

499
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 1: and all that trying to look like us. You know,

500
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,160
Speaker 1: I mean don't get me wrong, we get that sheep too.

501
00:22:59,040 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 2: Now, but.

502
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,720
Speaker 1: It all came from a black woman. I mean, I

503
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 1: got restimplings. That's what I'm saying.

504
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 2: We all do that same ship now too, but I

505
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 2: feel like it all stems from Black culture, like we

506
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 2: were always the original, like with the big t ds,

507
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 2: the big booties, the big lips, all that shit, and

508
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 2: so now everybody else want to do it. And like

509
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 2: I said, we do it too now, but it's them

510
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 2: from us. It stems from us, and they not talk

511
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,360
Speaker 2: to us so bad. It's crazy, But y'all know who

512
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 2: the true queens are. Okay, so let's get into the

513
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 2: next topic. Okay, cool, I'm nervous. Okay, So it's a lot.

514
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 2: It's a lot of people that are pregnant right now.

515
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 2: It is everybody on everybody is drinking it.

516
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 1: Well, I'm drink because I'm trying to have a baby

517
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: by twenty twenty one.

518
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 2: Let me stop you right there, though, you're trying to

519
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,919
Speaker 2: have a baby by twenty twenty one. Cool, cool, Okay,

520
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:59,120
Speaker 2: so let me but let me say this now. I'm

521
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 2: not saying that there's pride and there you're better than somebody,

522
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 2: but why are there so many babies and no rings.

523
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 2: So the next topic is like marriage versus kids. Why

524
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:16,160
Speaker 2: are there so many babies being born and there's no weddings,

525
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 2: there's no rings, and I, you know, things happen. I

526
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: will say that I understand accidents like a ring don't matter.

527
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 2: I feel like it's more so the actual marriage because

528
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 2: it's a lot of people who get proposed to and

529
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 2: they never actually they get pregnant or have a baby,

530
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 2: like they don't be married.

531
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,119
Speaker 1: So I see what I'm talking about, actually being married.

532
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 2: I feel like, why is it that nobody puts pride

533
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 2: and getting married anymore?

534
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 1: Like people like a marriage is a commitment, so is

535
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 1: a baby?

536
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 2: A baby is that's a bigger, bigger commit eighteen year?

537
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: Well really your home life. People love to.

538
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 2: Say eighteen years, but I feel like, okay, even eighteen years,

539
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: your kids graduate from high school, they go to college,

540
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 2: you still have to be in contact with this person.

541
00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 1: Y'all gonna have grandchildren. Do you want kids? Yes? Do

542
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 1: you want kids? Okay?

543
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 2: So when do you want kids? Like anytime soon? You're

544
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 2: not putting a time I'm.

545
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 1: Not doing a time element on it.

546
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 2: I just I feel like when I'm ready, when I'm

547
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 2: financially ready, so you a man plays a factor in

548
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 2: the financially ready part, Like do you feel like if I'm.

549
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 1: Yeah right now that goes back labeled, then I might

550
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 1: be ready.

551
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,640
Speaker 2: Yes, that place a us track that goes way back

552
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 2: to social status, like that has a lot to do

553
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 2: with it. I do want kids just when I'm financially

554
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 2: ready as well. So do you care about the ring though? Yes,

555
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 2: I would definitely want to be married before I have kids,

556
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 2: only because I feel like if you can lay down

557
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 2: with somebody and have a kid, which is a bigger

558
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 2: commitment to me, then marriage is just as big, right,

559
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 2: Like it's just like going backwards, like if you're making

560
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 2: an even bigger. So that's why I feel like once

561
00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: men have a baby with you and you're not married,

562
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 2: it's the point in getting married and you don'e give

563
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 2: him everything here of points, that's why they don't.

564
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so you how do you feel?

565
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 2: Because you dre me and Dre go back and forth

566
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,919
Speaker 2: about this all you know, because Dre wants a baby,

567
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,199
Speaker 2: I don't. I've come to terms whether she's gonna have

568
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: a baby.

569
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 1: Do you know, I don't know? You don't I won't meet.

570
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,239
Speaker 2: I won't say this, I won't say no, but I

571
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 2: have to meet somebody super super, super amazing, and we

572
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 2: have to be married for at least two years first,

573
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 2: because I want to enjoy our marriage with just me

574
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 2: and my husband. Right So after two years and he

575
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 2: really wants kids, I'll give him a baby. But you're

576
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 2: gonna be with the baby's this year. But that's your baby,

577
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 2: you wanted it, it's yours. So how do you feel,

578
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 2: do you want? Do you care about being married first? No?

579
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: I say it all the time.

580
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 2: No, just because, Okay, for example, I grew up in

581
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 2: a two parent household. My parents were married my whole life.

582
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,399
Speaker 2: They have an amazing relationship. Right now, my dad is

583
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 2: actually really sick. He had like a few strokes and

584
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 2: in twenty seventeen, and he hasn't like bounced back from me.

585
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 2: My mom goes and sees my dad every single day.

586
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 2: Like they have an amazing marriage and relationship. And I

587
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 2: just feel like it's really hard to come by what

588
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 2: they have these days with everything that we have going on,

589
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 2: like with social media and like just even how we

590
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 2: were talking about earlier, like social status, that's something that

591
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,360
Speaker 2: we think about now that I feel like our parents

592
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 2: didn't necessarily think about it, you know what I mean.

593
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: So I just feel like times are different. So I

594
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 2: feel like it's hard to come by what my parents have.

595
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 2: But I know that I want a baby. I know

596
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 2: that I'm gonna love my baby. I know me and

597
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 2: my baby that's gonna be for life, like we gonna

598
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 2: be together for life. I'm gonna love you for life.

599
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make sure you straight for life. And if

600
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 2: me and your daddy don't work out, we can still

601
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 2: have a healthy co parenting relationship as long as we're cool.

602
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 1: So you don't feel I don't want a husband. I

603
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 1: do want to work.

604
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 2: But listen, I didn't say that I don't want to

605
00:27:59,119 --> 00:27:59,719
Speaker 2: get married.

606
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 1: I do want to get married.

607
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: However, do I feel like getting married first is a

608
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,640
Speaker 2: deal breaker from me having a baby. No, No, So

609
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 2: you don't feel like it's important because I feel like

610
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,199
Speaker 2: this is how I feel. Not to offend you, but

611
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 2: I just feel like you put so much value in

612
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 2: having and being a mother. Why can't you put that

613
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 2: much value in being a wife and having a family.

614
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 2: I do put that much value into being a wife

615
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 2: and having a family, but I just feel like with you,

616
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 2: for example, growing up in a situation where okay, you

617
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 2: had your mom, Your mom and your dad were in

618
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,959
Speaker 2: love when they had you and your sister. They are

619
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 2: already married, your dad unfortunately passing away.

620
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 1: So I feel like, yes.

621
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 2: Your parents were in love. First, I just feel like and.

622
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: My parents were in love.

623
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 2: My parents, however, like I'm adopted, so my parents that

624
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 2: raised me, those were not my biological parents, but they

625
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: were very much in love wanting to have a baby.

626
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: So I was very much kind of planned, I guess

627
00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 2: you could say. But at the same time, I'm, like

628
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 2: I said, with urgent, like things change. No, I gan

629
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 2: on that, but it's like you don't want to at

630
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 2: least be in love. Of course, I want to be

631
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,719
Speaker 2: in love. I have, he said, I love being in

632
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 2: love with somebody that want to just get married. If

633
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 2: you're in love with somebody, you love them enough to

634
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: make a baby.

635
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: But let me.

636
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 2: Also say this, and this is probably something that's like

637
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 2: fucked up about me, But I put a time stamp

638
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 2: on when I want to have a baby.

639
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: Cool, and that's kind of fucked up.

640
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 2: But I said I wanted to have a baby before

641
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 2: I'm thirty, Okay. I'm twenty seven, so y'all, and you

642
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 2: don't put a time stamp on marriage, right okay, because

643
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm gonna get married when I

644
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 2: meet the right person. If me and a guy are

645
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 2: in love and I end up getting now, let me

646
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 2: finish youry I end up getting if I end up

647
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 2: meeting a guy, we're in love and I.

648
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: End up getting pregnant.

649
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 2: I'm at an age right now where I feel like, Okay,

650
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 2: if I get pregnant, I'm definitely not.

651
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: Gonna have an abortion.

652
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 2: Yea.

653
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: If I'm in love with you.

654
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 2: But just because we're not married, I'm not gonna not

655
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 2: have my baby. And just because we have a baby,

656
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna put pressure on you to marry me

657
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 2: right now.

658
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: I agree with that. I can't say that, but I'm

659
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: just saying, like, but I do want to get married.

660
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 2: But I wanted to be in a situation like my parents,

661
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 2: because I really I'm not gonna lie. I look up

662
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 2: to my mom's in my my mom and my dad's

663
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 2: situation because my mom has held my dad.

664
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 1: Now I'm through everything like that. Like you, Like I.

665
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 2: Said, you feel like, oh, the time limits run out

666
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 2: for you to have a baby and this and that.

667
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 2: So it's like I feel like, so you feel like

668
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 2: you can find the right person to pro create and

669
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 2: make a human life with, but you feel.

670
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 1: Like, oh, but this person is a marriage material Because.

671
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 2: I'm being honest, how can you say somebody is good

672
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 2: enough to have a baby with but not good enough

673
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,959
Speaker 2: to walk down the hour with. I'm not saying that.

674
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 2: Bad at the end of the day, you can't make

675
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 2: no nigga marry you. I'm not saying that, but I

676
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 2: feel like if you ain't keep y'all, I won't and.

677
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: I would love I want you to marry me, like no,

678
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: be ready for day.

679
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 2: But I feel like if a nigga my babby, that

680
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 2: doesn't mean you ain't understand, but as like, like I

681
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 2: know you, and like you say, you have a lot of.

682
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: Pride in your personality just as much as your look.

683
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 2: So you don't feel like if a nigga wants to

684
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 2: lay down with you and shoot the.

685
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: Club up and get you pregnant, he can.

686
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 2: He can make you his baby mama, but he can't

687
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 2: make you his wife. Seriously, Like that's how I look

688
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 2: at it. So you want to ever and and I'm

689
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 2: not just talking about just talking about everybody in general, y'all.

690
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 2: Let these men get away with murder. Oh yeah, she

691
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 2: can have my baby. Ian walking down the aisle with

692
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 2: that hole. That's how I look at it. That's how

693
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 2: I look at it. Yeah, that I don't look at y'all. Baby,

694
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: I feel like, but you might have been like, not

695
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 2: trying to be funny, but sometimes pregnancy's happen on accident,

696
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 2: like believe it or at a point at this I

697
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 2: was born on accident, right, But at this point in

698
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 2: your life, any if you get pregnant right now, it's

699
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 2: not a fucking accident. Were grown as hell right at

700
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 2: this point in my life. If you get pregnant right now,

701
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 2: if I'm I'm not impregnated, that's not an accident. If

702
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 2: you're having if I had a baby, if you're having

703
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 2: sex and you're not using protection, you're you're gonna get pregnant.

704
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: So if you get pregnant right now, it's not an accident.

705
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 2: You know that. If I lay down with somebody and

706
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 2: we're not using a condom, you know most you have

707
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 2: a chance of getting pregnant.

708
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying.

709
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 2: You feel like it's okay, to lay down with somebody,

710
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 2: you trust them enough not to use a condom, so

711
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 2: you can't put enough trusting them that like, this is

712
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: the person I can spend the rest of my life.

713
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 2: I have put that trusting in. But like I said,

714
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 2: you cannot force no niggas to get like that's strong.

715
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 2: I'm ready to carry.

716
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: You and you get a baby.

717
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: If you get pregnant and he doesn't want it, you

718
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 2: kind of what if he don't want the baby because

719
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 2: you just said, oh, I'm at this point, you're not

720
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 2: gonna have an abortion, But what if he doesn't want

721
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 2: the baby.

722
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: So they'll let you know.

723
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 2: Society holds marriage to a higher standard than somebody being

724
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 2: the mother of their child, right but that but no,

725
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 2: do you feel that way everything I mean saying, I

726
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 2: don't feel like people hold marriage to a higher statements

727
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 2: then they hold pregnancy because everybody's pregnant, so that yeah, yeah,

728
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 2: because everybody's pregnant, that nobody's married, right, so marriage would

729
00:32:58,320 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 2: be a higher say.

730
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, the man just a hire to look you drunk.

731
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: So I like this.

732
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 2: I feel like at the end of the day, if

733
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 2: you can lay it out with the man and he

734
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 2: can put his little rob thinking you that's probably been

735
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: here and there and there, because all.

736
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 1: Little pussy's been here and there and there. So if

737
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: y'all wanna lay down together and do that, why what's

738
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 1: the what if we can make a.

739
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: Life, a human being, a person? This is a life, Okay,

740
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 2: life is serious. Yeah, so you can sit there and

741
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 2: make up. I feel like people look at pregnancy and

742
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 2: having babies like.

743
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 1: Oh, it's just my baby, mama, no right, and this

744
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 1: pregnancy is you right?

745
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 2: And I feel like this is why people are so

746
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 2: fucked up these days. It's because these people. Y'all know,

747
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: I'm all about aura and energy and vibes and creation.

748
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: Me too.

749
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 2: I'm okay, I believe we belitten and I know you

750
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 2: want to make something. You You will have a baby

751
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 2: with a man that you love. You won't necessarily be married.

752
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: But but this is not about you.

753
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 2: But this is about all these people, all these men

754
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 2: and women y'all are having babies for a check, just

755
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 2: because she got good hair, because she's mixed to ryan

756
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 2: life skin.

757
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: Stop it. We need to bady.

758
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 2: We need to go back to making these children out

759
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 2: of love. Why the hell do y'all think this world

760
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 2: is so fucked up? Because y'all keep having these babies

761
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 2: for reasons out that aren't have.

762
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: Nothing to do with love.

763
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 2: I'm having a baby by somebody that I won't want

764
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 2: my baby to grow up and be like that's and.

765
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go.

766
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 2: This.

767
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:37,879
Speaker 1: Okay, we before, but let me just.

768
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 2: Say this, and I'm not pinpointing to anybody, but like

769
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 2: I said, there's people that Dreda has dealt with that

770
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 2: I have dealt with, and that I see that women

771
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 2: getting pregnant for them, and it's definitely not because you

772
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 2: want your baby to be like who they.

773
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 1: Are, right, And I'll leave it.

774
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 2: So we're a little tissy now, Y'all'm y'all right, But

775
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: I also feel like that's why in prior relations, in

776
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 2: situations that I've been in, I'm happy that I did

777
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 2: not have a baby, because I would want my baby

778
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 2: to be I would want my son to be nothing

779
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 2: like some of these niggas that I right, You know

780
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 2: what I mean?

781
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:12,839
Speaker 1: So let us know what y'all think.

782
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 2: Do y'all feel like marriage is important or you don't care?

783
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 2: You kind of you you want to have a baby,

784
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 2: You're ready and you're gonna love your baby regardless.

785
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you gonna love your money regardless. I mean,

786
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 1: I'm necessarily all people.

787
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 2: Well not all people, but me personally. I have a child.

788
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter who I have my child for. My

789
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 2: baby should okay, But what I'm saying, I'm not saying

790
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 2: that it doesn't matter. But what I'm saying is if

791
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 2: I'm in love with this person, then later down the

792
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 2: line they end up being a different type of way.

793
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 1: I'm still going to love my child no matter what.

794
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: I'm still wanting. And that's you. That's you, because that's

795
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 1: you as a person.

796
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 2: But you have women out there that will have a

797
00:35:56,280 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 2: baby and then totally neglect the baby because as her

798
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 2: and the child's father didn't work you. Right, So if

799
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 2: you're having your baby, you definitely need to have your

800
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 2: baby out of love.

801
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 1: That's why it's so important baby with.

802
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 2: Right, because that's why we got so many people walking

803
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 2: around and were talking about aura and energy. That energy

804
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 2: is gonna rub off on your baby and the whole

805
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 2: vibe this. I mean, I'm not trying to be funny,

806
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 2: but all the fucked up people I know when you

807
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 2: when I got to know them and I realized what

808
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 2: they came from, it was a fucked up situation like me.

809
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 1: No, I mean, but yeah, no, no, no, say this, but.

810
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 2: It's different because you were raised by two people who

811
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 2: wanted a child.

812
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: I raised by two people who loved each other. But

813
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 1: once it's facial. But I'm not gonna lie.

814
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: Once I got older, though, that's what really shaped my mentality,

815
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 2: if you really want to be yeah, like, yeah, I

816
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 2: was raised by two parents who loved each other and

817
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:57,399
Speaker 2: you're to have a baby. Yeah, I know, But that's

818
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 2: because once I became of age and the real situation

819
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 2: and I found out like, well wait, first of all,

820
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 2: y'all not my real parents.

821
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: Who are my real parents?

822
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 2: And I found out the situation I really came from,

823
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 2: and it was just kind of like, okay, so.

824
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 1: Let us know what y'all think.

825
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 2: Like I said, sorry, y'all, we're getting a rambling, but

826
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 2: let me know how y'all think. Do y'all feel like

827
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: marriage is important or you just feel like, okay, let

828
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 2: me have a.

829
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:20,439
Speaker 1: Kid so loved.

830
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, let's move on to the next topic because

831
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 2: I'm a little tipsy at a little tipsy little So

832
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 2: this is what I want to talk about, y'all. This

833
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 2: is this is terrorizing so we're gonna get into the

834
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 2: b the b.

835
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 1: It.

836
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 2: So I want to talk about the delay, the traumatizing

837
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 2: any deep y'all. When I tell y'all, honey, dick is

838
00:37:54,920 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 2: a real thing. It's is it traumatized, it's traumatizing. It's

839
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 2: a it's a disease. Hendy Dick is a disease. It's

840
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 2: and I hope you niggas get cured.

841
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,880
Speaker 1: Because but I am. But we having a heney pussy, No,

842
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 1: he's pussy. Always don't come. I don't know about always.

843
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 2: Lying.

844
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 1: Now I'm drunk, when I'm drunk.

845
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 2: When I'm drunk, I'm gonna always be good. You you

846
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 2: come whenever you drunk. When I'm drunk, it can be

847
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 2: like a flag on top of me paying me that

848
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,880
Speaker 2: one hundred thousand dollars that he paid me to get. Okay,

849
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:35,240
Speaker 2: So how you feel mark drunk sex, doing hand stuff drunk?

850
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 2: I don't probably come faster off for drunk sex than regular. No, fat,

851
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 2: I will come every time if drunk sext.

852
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 1: You ever had drunk sex, drunk sex and didn't go

853
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: cricket cricket, cricket. No, this is a time at hand,

854
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 1: Hendy Dick. So let's talk about Heney Dick.

855
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 2: If y'all don't know what Heney Dick is, Heney Dick

856
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,919
Speaker 2: is basically when a dude gets real road drunk yet

857
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 2: that brown that yigga is yet and he cannot get

858
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 2: it yet he cannot nut. So so one thing, first

859
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 2: things first, when the nigga's giving you a Henny Dick,

860
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 2: most likely you're drunk as well.

861
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 1: Right, so you readily just get your nut and go.

862
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 2: And then you know, when you're drunk, you're a little

863
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 2: more sensitive if you're in your feelings. So also when

864
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 2: you're getting Henny Dick and he don't come, that makes

865
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 2: you feel like you're broken?

866
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:27,439
Speaker 1: Is it not good?

867
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 2: But somewhere I've seen women be like, oh, if a

868
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 2: nigga don't fuck me for two and a half hours,

869
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 2: and that is a nigga fuck me. If a nigga

870
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 2: fucking you for two and a half hours, my PC

871
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 2: ain't easy.

872
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: Okay, y'all like ye ain't y'all like Kenny Dick. I

873
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: love Henny Dick? What yes? Hell no?

874
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 2: Now if I'm if I'm drunk, not necessarily but okay,

875
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,359
Speaker 2: you saying if he got hit, if he's drunk, then

876
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,760
Speaker 2: nine times out of ten you drunk, No, I would

877
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 2: like Henny Dick if I'm sober, really, because if I'm sober,

878
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 2: I'm probably not I'm gonna come past.

879
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 1: Okay, So how long is your regular sex?

880
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

881
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 1: Like what's your what's your frame?

882
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 2: What's like a good sex session to you? Like I

883
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 2: would say, like twenty minutes up in there, twenty.

884
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: Hendy Dick, ain't no twenty minute, but that's all I'm

885
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 1: gonna say. Twenty minutes is cool. That's like, that's enough.

886
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: That's enough, Dick, be like forty minutes.

887
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 2: No, Handy Dick doesn't come. Fuck what you talk about,

888
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: Hendy Dick is it comes and then goes back like

889
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 2: they're like become like the he dig So I feel like,

890
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,760
Speaker 2: but I think it's something like science. Is it something

891
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 2: with science? Like why are men why don't they come

892
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 2: when there's their stemina is just longer?

893
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 3: Right?

894
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: Do you think that's what it is? That's what it is.

895
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,319
Speaker 1: So it's in the mind. Have you had a bad

896
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: experience with Henny Dick.

897
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:58,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest, I'm trying to relate, but I've

898
00:40:58,320 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 2: never had.

899
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: I've never had and know they let me say.

900
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 2: Everything story this actually goes in of correspondence with my story.

901
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: Y'all.

902
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 2: Remember a few weeks ago I told a story about

903
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:12,839
Speaker 2: a man that I was intimate with that.

904
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 1: I really liked that asked me to fart in his mouth.

905
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: Is WHOA right? I wish you was here, but it

906
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: was so I'm not going to get into the details

907
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: of that story the time. The actually happened the same

908
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: night me and mind you, y'all, I cooled for this dude,

909
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: are you freaking did you yes? Did you yes? So

910
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 1: that far in the mouth turned.

911
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 2: And then.

912
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: We had just a samon and some coffish and too fay.

913
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 1: I was definitely wasn't fart in his face.

914
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 2: I would have. I would have, I said, god face,

915
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 2: I would have been doing twenty or thirty five for missed.

916
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 2: If I'm a fart in that man's face, I would

917
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 2: be in jail for manslaughter right now. So anyways, that

918
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 2: same night, but we were both drunk, drunk, drunk, drunk, drunk,

919
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 2: and he was just fucking me and fucking me. That's

920
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 2: fucking me and fucking me and fucking me and fucking me.

921
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 2: Let me take out how I ended. Oh wait, I

922
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,839
Speaker 2: can't because I passed out. I passed out.

923
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 1: You passed I passed out mid sex. I did, and

924
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 1: I woke up.

925
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,359
Speaker 2: I was like, man, be he femish. That's probably why

926
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 2: we fell off. I'm thinking I cut him off. He

927
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:31,280
Speaker 2: probably could.

928
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 1: Tell off me.

929
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 2: Cut me. She got she ain't. I'm about out. I'm

930
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 2: am now. I'm not gonna lie to y'all. Okay, this

931
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 2: is still the sex topic, So let's talk about drunk sex.

932
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 2: I do like drunk set, but I'm not gonna lie.

933
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 2: If the drunk sex goes past ten fifteen minutes and

934
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: I'm lit, I'm passing the fuck out, alright, you. I

935
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 2: passed out plenty of times during sex. I passed out

936
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 2: sucking a little dick before I'm gonna pass.

937
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: Off you just I'll be I'll be drunk, I'll be drunk.

938
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,359
Speaker 1: I'll be drunk, y'all. I'm did, y'all.

939
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 2: I ain't never passed.

940
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:25,400
Speaker 3: Out during si, like ever during sex like I have,

941
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 3: like during maybe right after, like after he nuddied and

942
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, this ship, oh good, this ship.

943
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: Albody got enough.

944
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 2: If you were if you are me, somebody got another,

945
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 2: then I don't pass out. But I ain't never just

946
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 2: passed out me six. Okay, So do y'all like drunk

947
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: sex though I do?

948
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 1: I like, okay, but.

949
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 2: This is the thing that I like drunk sex because

950
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm already a freaky person. Me too,

951
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 2: but I like to take it there. So I feel

952
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 2: like whenever I get drunk, I would do things that

953
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do.

954
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 1: When I'm sober. Right, I thought that's all of us.

955
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I just feel like passing out during sex,

956
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 2: I'll definitely And this is why to get it's kind

957
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 2: of weird, serious topic and I hate to do this,

958
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,240
Speaker 2: but that's why I feel like when people be like, oh,

959
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 2: somebody did this to me while I was drunk, I'll

960
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 2: be like that shit real cause I know I p I.

961
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 1: Pass out, I black out. So I've ever passed. I

962
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: black out and I just so let let us know

963
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 1: how y'all feeling.

964
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 2: Not during But it's definitely been times that it was

965
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 2: like after the fact and then I woke up the

966
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 2: next morning, I was like, wow, what No, I mean

967
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,800
Speaker 2: after I know and I'm drunk, I could pass out

968
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 2: like five minutes after that.

969
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you like completely no, I don't be aware.

970
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 1: I'll be passing out balls in my mouth dead, So

971
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: you've drunk. I ain't gonna pass out with the balls

972
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 1: in my moth. I got a job to do and

973
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: he's gonna get done. That's right. She said she didn't

974
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 1: like a nine to five.

975
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 4: So let's know how y'all feels out drunk sex and

976
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 4: Heinie Dick.

977
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 2: And all that this stuff. Because I like it, but

978
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,360
Speaker 2: I like drunk sex. But Heini Dick, I'm gonna have

979
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 2: to give it a zero zero out of ten. Do

980
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 2: not gonna give it, Marlene, Henny Dick. Yeah, I don't

981
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 2: give Hanny Dick like an A or a nine. Oh

982
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 2: hell no, I'll give Hanny Dick a five?

983
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: Five? Yeah? Why because I agree? Because I agree with

984
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: both of y'all.

985
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 2: I agree with you on the aspect that, like, you know,

986
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 2: when drunk sex is crazy, it'd be like better than

987
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 2: normal six for sure. But then also sometimes niggas be

988
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 2: wilding when they be on the Hennie.

989
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,240
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so I'm gonna give you five. It's in between.

990
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,760
Speaker 2: It's in between because I feel like sometimes when niggas

991
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 2: be on a Henny, they just be worried about themselves.

992
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 1: Now, I don't be trying to eat, like when a

993
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,399
Speaker 1: nigga sober, he gonna eat your fy to you come

994
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: have y'all ever had honey Dick and it turned you off?

995
00:45:45,440 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 2: Yes, that's why I'm passing off. Do y'all like Henny?

996
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:01,319
Speaker 2: Do you like Joe six?

997
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 1: And let us know y'all's experiences? Honestly? So this okay?

998
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: So wait, we're not done. We still got the bop

999
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: of the week, the.

1000
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 2: Bop a bye bye.

1001
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 1: You, I got my bob? Do you have a bob? Or?

1002
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: Is this gonna be me this week? Are you gonna

1003
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:22,959
Speaker 1: let me? Okay? I'm ready.

1004
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 2: So y'all know I like to shake ass. I like

1005
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:29,760
Speaker 2: to work. I used to work in the strip club

1006
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 2: for a very long time. So I know it's a

1007
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 2: little running joke that I don't know how to dance,

1008
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 2: but I know how to shake this ass. And our

1009
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 2: and our good friend wallet dropped the song. Is that

1010
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 2: our green yep and with our goods, with our good

1011
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 2: cess made the challiant And it's called pole Dancer.

1012
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna lie to y'all. It is a

1013
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 1: motherfucking bottom. I really have that one.

1014
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 2: Look.

1015
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: She used to be my favorite chill.

1016
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm mad I that it's a bob like. It's

1017
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 2: the kind of song like if you walk in the

1018
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:07,439
Speaker 2: club and I can see my face, it's a bob

1019
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 2: like this made this here? Here is this it's her

1020
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:12,840
Speaker 2: kit of the week.

1021
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: Bob for the week. It's a bard because let me

1022
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: take out some word. If y'all don't know who Meg

1023
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,400
Speaker 1: the Stallion is, y'all sleep because Meg went super hard

1024
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 1: and she you listen to make the Stallion no.

1025
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 2: Val you don't see they're playing Paulds in the Houston

1026
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 2: just because of Meg the Stallue. But it's an actual bob, y'all,

1027
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 2: don't sleep because while they used to make those little

1028
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 2: shaken ass you know what I'm saying, little shake he had.

1029
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: Like you know she said, look, no hand, she said shaking.

1030
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: That was that his song? I think that he got

1031
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 1: he had a feature.

1032
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 2: He had a feature on there, right, Yeah, he had

1033
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 2: a feature on there. So Walein knows what to do

1034
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 2: with the twark song. So it's a good twark you know.

1035
00:47:55,719 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 1: So like I said, shout do y'allap of the week bitches,

1036
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: Oh my Bapa the week is? She say, oh you

1037
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: Richmond wishless? Okay, let me say this, no album man,

1038
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: we talked about this before. The album is Fight, But

1039
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: let me say this. I was so stuck on Splash Warning.

1040
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 2: I kept rewinding Splash Warning, so I didn't quite I

1041
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 2: was making it to the Drake track, but I kept

1042
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 2: skipping over because I was going back to Splash Warning.

1043
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:38,360
Speaker 1: But now, my bad legal. As long as you that

1044
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 1: she drive, bro, I am I gonna have to agree up, Marlene.

1045
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 2: I have listened to that song for at least four

1046
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,799
Speaker 2: weeks now, but it's still in my bond because I'm

1047
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 2: playing it the other day.

1048
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 1: Remember, yes, I will remember that. So we're gonna all

1049
00:48:56,440 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 1: agree that me and Drake is the BAPA week I personally.

1050
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 2: Because you know, I fuck with upcoming artists, So make

1051
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 2: the Vallion and I thing, and it's a big deal

1052
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 2: for somebody like make the Stallion to do a song

1053
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 2: with such a major.

1054
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 1: So Paul answer too, So we're gonna say Pole answer

1055
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: and meet Drake.

1056
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 2: All fucking bobs. All you can shake your ass to

1057
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 2: is twenty nineteen. We all need to learn how to

1058
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 2: work and shake our motherfucking ad. But I'm not gonna lie.

1059
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 2: I am anticipating in twenty nineteen a EP from Meek

1060
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 2: and Drake okay together, so we'll.

1061
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: Speak that existence, okay.

1062
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 2: So, of course, the item of the week is always

1063
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 2: European Wax Center. If you're in the Atlanta area, make

1064
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,840
Speaker 2: sure you go to the Howell Mill location on that

1065
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 2: Edgewood location and mentioned Drea Nicole or lexp or wine

1066
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 2: down Wednesday and you'll get a discount on your waxes.

1067
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: Get down Wavering you're.

1068
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 2: You're axing an Edgewood or Howld Mill and you'll get

1069
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 2: a discount.

1070
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 1: You'll get a discount if you mention your name. Oh

1071
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: I want to go in there. But also this is

1072
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 1: another thing I want to mention. It's a new year.

1073
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 2: It's time for us to get our finances in order.

1074
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 2: It's the time we get our credit and order and everything.

1075
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 2: So I downloaded a new app. It's called Mint. Well

1076
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 2: it's not a new app. I feel like everybody kind

1077
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 2: of knows about this, but I feel like this is

1078
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 2: the start of the year. It's time to get on

1079
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 2: top of that. We're getting older. If you're not getting older,

1080
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:17,320
Speaker 2: it's just time to get on top of it. So

1081
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:21,280
Speaker 2: this keeps track of your spending, of your income, of everything.

1082
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:24,839
Speaker 2: So download the Mint app. It actually works really good.

1083
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 2: I've been using it for the past month and it

1084
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 2: really helped me. So the mint app that's we have

1085
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 2: put ourselves on a budget actually like beginning the top

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Speaker 2: of this year.

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Speaker 1: I mean, well it's only the third a second, it's

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Speaker 1: a second.

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Speaker 2: So you know, Lex told me she was gonna do

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Speaker 2: like a two hundred dollars budget every month for like

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Speaker 2: recreational spending.

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Speaker 1: So I told her I would do it with her.

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Speaker 2: So you know, this year, two hundred dollars a month,

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be my recreational money. After that, everything is

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Speaker 2: just saying in my savings or my chickens and our business.

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Speaker 1: We got some more business. We don't have meals Friday,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna keep it on.

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Speaker 2: Du you know what I'm saying. When we got shop

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Speaker 2: come for y'all, And let me just say a big

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Speaker 2: shout out to Marlee for coming on here and Marlin.

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Speaker 2: We yeah, you know what I'm saying, And y'all next

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Speaker 2: week is gonna be a really really good episode because

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00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 2: we have a whole nother ooh, y'all gonna love it,

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Speaker 2: so thank you once again, Marlene.

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Speaker 1: Let her say her any way before.

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Speaker 2: We head our Yes girl, all right, y'all know Super

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Speaker 2: Bowls coming up. So if you need a venue or anything,

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Speaker 2: you need a rendom venue out for super Bowl, Atlanta Breakfast.

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Speaker 1: Club, we're open.

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Speaker 2: You can follow it at Atlanta Underscore Atlanta Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: If you need a renom venue out for super Bowl,

1112
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Speaker 2: let me.

1113
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Speaker 1: Know, we're open.

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Speaker 2: Oway may give us your Instagram so we can follow you.

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Speaker 2: My Instagram is Magonda m A G A N d

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Speaker 2: A Underscore, Leen L E N E.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a Twitter? It's all the same.

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Speaker 2: All my social media handles are I'm like this, peasant

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Speaker 2: On and Modonda, Underscore, Lean Yes Soot.

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Speaker 1: And it's your girl lex Peak and it's your girls

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Speaker 1: Draining the Call and you listen to another episode Ran

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Speaker 1: the Call, the Wine get into me. We'll see y'all

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Speaker 1: next week. Martin Oh bye by