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Speaker 2: Who should I pick?

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Speaker 1: And this is okop where we mean the craziest true

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Speaker 2: I'm John and Sam. Who should they pick? Choose the living? Ope,

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Speaker 2: choose the living? You know? Yeah yeah, if someone's alive, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: your head ax isn't going to give a shit because

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Speaker 1: Well s lifelot twist. Uh, it's the it's a funeral

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Speaker 1: with the X and not for the X. Like, what

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Speaker 1: date do you want to go on exactly? Funeral date

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Speaker 1: or a wedding date? Yeah, probably the funeral date. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's like I guess more seriously, Goth chick ooh, goth

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Speaker 1: babes love funeral dates.

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Speaker 2: So it just it just works out. It just works out.

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Speaker 2: It's with the aesthetic. Yikes. But there's only one way

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Speaker 2: to find out spill that day.

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Speaker 1: And this comes from character Jaguar thirty thirty seven. They say,

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Speaker 1: I mail twenty five, am in a relationship with my

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Speaker 1: girlfriend Amelia female twenty six for two years. She is wonderful.

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Speaker 1: We lived together and I think we are close to engagement,

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Speaker 2: How long it has it been again? Two years? Two years?

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Speaker 2: That that's about Yeah, that makes sense. I think it

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Speaker 1: In the past, I was in a relationship with my

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Speaker 1: ex Julia, twenty five female. We met in high school

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Speaker 2: I'm sure your fiance loves hearing about that. Super impassionate,

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Speaker 2: so passion. I've never felt such passion. It was so

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Speaker 1: In the end, it got quite heated between us, even

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Speaker 1: with her parents, so we blocked each other. My ex

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Speaker 1: Julia had a brother, Dan, two years younger, and he

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Speaker 1: and we always shared a special bond.

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Speaker 2: Like me.

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Speaker 1: My exes brother Dan wanted to become a doctor, and

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Speaker 2: School, like pay or with educational.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna guess educational until we have more context, I'm

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Speaker 2: That would be crazy. Also, it's kind of rough to

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Speaker 2: have your brother that be best friends with your ex

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Speaker 2: like I can't. If Sofia was best friends with my exes,

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Speaker 2: I would be sad. That is. One of my cousins

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Speaker 2: went to one of my ex's weddings and how was

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Speaker 2: it he's a fucking trader. No, that's fine, and it's

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Speaker 2: just weird. It's all good. It's even after the breakup.

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Speaker 2: We stayed close.

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Speaker 1: My ex Julia and their parents were not aware, and

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Speaker 1: he was definitely important to me, almost like my younger brother.

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Speaker 2: Oh the okay cool, So they had that kind of relationship.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, my exes brother, Dan had a car crash and

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Speaker 1: passed away just last week.

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Speaker 2: Tragic.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know until my ex Julia came to my

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Speaker 2: Wait, his ex came to announce the brother's death at

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Speaker 2: his house. I guess, so, which is that something you

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Speaker 2: you were called text?

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Speaker 2: Close enough for a house, is it? That's kind of fair?

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Speaker 1: She apologized because she wasn't aware that Dan and I

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Speaker 1: for him when he was fighting depression and that all

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Speaker 1: her family would like to see me at his funeral

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Speaker 1: next Sunday in their hometown. I mean that's pretty big,

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Speaker 1: that's big, I replied, that I wasn't sure if I

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Speaker 1: moment and my car will be at the mechanics. It's

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Speaker 1: a long time. She said that she could drive me there,

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Speaker 1: think about it. We exchanged numbers and hugged. She cried

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Speaker 2: Happy to see me again. They okay, have you ever

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Speaker 2: seen the movie Wedding Crashers? Nope, they said. The only

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Speaker 2: place easier to pick up people than a wedding is

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, wait, Sam, I am I sensing a

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Speaker 1: little tinfoil hat conspiracy.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to say it. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: feels like she's kind of leveraging the emotional ebbs and

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Speaker 2: doesn't even know, but like two days with each other exactly, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think like and maybe maybe it's totally totally fine.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's totally fine. I'm just conscious. It's a conspiracy guy,

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Speaker 2: it's a conspiracy. I'm conspirazing right now, but I feel

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Speaker 2: like funerals, very emotional time, emotions bubbling up, love, sadness,

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Speaker 1: I don't know about how about this a little less malicious.

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Speaker 1: She's just like, I need support from people who know me, period,

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Speaker 1: and they already have history, and they already have history,

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Speaker 1: though it might not be her conscious intention, I don't

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Speaker 1: think it's her conscious intention. But I'm putting icee you

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Speaker 1: in the chat. If you if you think you see

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Speaker 2: Yes, so I mean tinfoil, We're we're crazylation. We're conspiracy land,

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Speaker 2: no red flags or anything, We're just in conspiracy land. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I'm just conspirazing.

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Speaker 1: But taking off the tinfoil hot Sam, I have a

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Speaker 1: pretty wild next part for you. Right now, my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: Amelia comes home at this very moment.

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Speaker 2: Yikes, doesn't look good. That doesn't look good. I mean,

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Speaker 1: A worst time, you really can't do it and I

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Speaker 2: She already knew about Amelia already knew.

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Speaker 1: About my past relationship with Julia and my friendship with

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Speaker 1: her brother Dan. Okay, my girlfriend Amelia told me that

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to go at funeral because the

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Speaker 2: This feels like an unstoppable force next to an immovable object,

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Speaker 2: like what do you choose the same day? And it

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Speaker 2: I don't know. But what in the comments right now

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Speaker 4: The following morning, I had a very emotional phone call

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Speaker 2: Like he's chew dow. Yeah, he was chewed out, and

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Speaker 2: would always consider that, they would always consider me family

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Speaker 4: They insisted that they'd like to host me for the

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Speaker 2: And also it feels like more and more that op

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Speaker 2: It feels like it's yes, it's your your soon to

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Speaker 2: the Dan side. It's just it's so complicated, that's the exit. Also,

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Speaker 2: it's my best friend's funeral.

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Speaker 4: That's something we can't forget because a best friend who

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Speaker 2: Brother's funeral is But are they are? Are they not?

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Speaker 2: They're not best friends? I think he I think he's

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Speaker 2: choosing the funeral, and I think his current fiance is

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Speaker 4: After reflection, even if it sucks for my current girlfriend

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Speaker 4: Amelia and the wedding, not imagine missing Dan's funeral.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, right, decision, right, decision makes sense.

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Speaker 1: I talked with my co residents head of the unit,

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Speaker 2: When I told my decision to my girl Alia yesterday,

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Speaker 4: She blew up and said that I am a huge

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Speaker 2: Of my ex. She said that I committed to the wedding, which.

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Speaker 1: Remember he had already said then you would go there

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Speaker 1: We have a juicy update coming up, but everyone watching

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Speaker 2: No, no, but it's given an impossible voice. This is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you can't say it's so bad because you

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Speaker 2: And I'm square unless my ex dies and it's playing

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Speaker 1: It's kind of imagine, I mean, with this, with Opie's

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Speaker 2: But it seems like it could be relationship ending. Here's

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Speaker 2: a question, what is Amelia the a hole for kind

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I could understand it's merely a sister's wedding, right,

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Speaker 1: I can understand the sister and other people not understanding.

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Speaker 1: But you're your own partner, the person that's supposed to

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Speaker 2: I could I could totally see your setting boundaries. Yes,

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Speaker 2: let's take out the fact that it was his ex's brother.

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Speaker 2: If it was like if it was a best friend

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Speaker 2: we gotta go back, We gotta go back. They broke up.

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Speaker 1: Let's see, after intense reflection, I decided to stick with

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Speaker 2: I did not see that coming. He switched it up.

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Speaker 2: My girlfriend Julia was still mad at me, though, why

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Speaker 1: She blamed me for being tempted by Julia and her

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Speaker 2: Why are you thinking about proposing to this dumb ass? Hardly? Fitch?

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Speaker 2: That's what it seems like. Sucks to find out this

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Speaker 2: If you see what's coming, cenop coming.

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Speaker 1: It just happened naturally, even after several years. I have

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Speaker 2: Have to imagine that things are going to be kindl

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Speaker 1: We both agreed that rushing into a relationship would be

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Speaker 1: there's interest. Currently we are joining spending time as friends.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's make sure where he pushed the brakes. Yeah yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Had almost no contact with Amelia since the breakup, probably

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Speaker 2: But with time I got closure.

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Speaker 1: The past is the past, and now I look to

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Speaker 2: That is the end of our first story, I mean,

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Speaker 1: Yeah again again like the whole like the funeral it

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I think there's a big question

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Speaker 2: Should he do it? I mean, it feels like they

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Speaker 2: But you know what I am mad about? What the

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Speaker 2: fact that this is story number five of our craziest

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Speaker 2: up by eating popcorn before my first day? Kernels and

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Speaker 2: the Chief, Yeah, I could, like, maybe not the best move.

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Speaker 2: I want to see how it leads to tragedy and

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Speaker 2: stories on planet Earth. I'm Sam and John. Would you

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Speaker 1: You know I've eaten popcorn on a first day, so yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: So let's see if you've made a grave error. There's

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Speaker 2: only one way to find out. Spill that day. Carrie

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Speaker 2: Windspace says, the popcorn I eat it like daily, sometimes

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Speaker 2: but you could tell she was kind of energetic, a

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Speaker 2: The account of that, I made our first date have

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Speaker 2: So after a little while, I spruced myself up a

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Speaker 2: you already went on a date, Anxiety says plainly more

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Speaker 2: I can tell. She says, what the hell are you

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm done. She groaned, turned around, got

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Speaker 2: as I tried to process what just happened. And there's

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Speaker 1: I think that the you know would be date is like,

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Speaker 1: you already got popcorn, and you clearly just had a

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Speaker 2: It back for round two.

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Speaker 1: And he's like, Babe, terribly stupid excuse.

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Speaker 2: I've never heard someone's morning routine starting at five pm

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Speaker 2: then I get this, guess what, I know? You think

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Speaker 2: the popcorn. I don't know what kind of idiot you

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Speaker 2: Suddenly an oh shit moment on my side. I tried

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Speaker 2: of freshly made stove pop popcorn with extra butter. Oh pee,

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Speaker 2: I think you might have a popcorn problem. Yeah too addicted? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And but popcorn with butter it's a little it's a

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Speaker 1: Really, I thought popcorn with butter, it's the butter. I

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Speaker 1: Sophia brought home a bag of popcorn and it was delicious.

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Speaker 1: Was she was she addicted to popcorn? I don't know,

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Speaker 2: You already went on. Oh my god, Wow, do you

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think Opie should stop eating the popcorn,

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Speaker 2: Morning routina of popcorn is really weird. But now I

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Speaker 2: know that if I want to avoid a breakup, don't

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Speaker 2: eat popcorn. Honestly eat popcorn.

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Speaker 1: Excommunicate popcorn from your diet, just to be safe, just

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Speaker 1: to be sad.

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Speaker 2: If you're trying to if you're trying to get into

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Speaker 2: a relationship, Yes, exactly. But John, that's only number four

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Speaker 2: in our journey to find the worst breakups ever? Can

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Speaker 2: you hit me with number three? I can