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Speaker 3: Okay, well, yeah, I were thinking about it.

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Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners faced a similar dilemma recently

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Speaker 1: You would think that'd be a pretty easy decision, but

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Speaker 1: a brand new closure call coming up next. Quick history

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Speaker 1: lesson this segment started when Brooke suggested we do something

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Speaker 1: called foreclosure calls.

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Speaker 5: She wanted us to call.

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Speaker 1: Low income families until they're getting evicted.

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Speaker 5: While she laughed in the backgrounds terrible.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of what we adjusted this segment to

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Speaker 1: closure calls, which is helping people.

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Speaker 5: And I know Brooke didn't like that idea as much,

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Speaker 5: but management did. So your mortgage was to deny.

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Speaker 1: I love that, but we're trying to help our listeners

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Speaker 5: Away at them for a while.

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Speaker 3: I love this segment.

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Speaker 1: And today we're talking to a guy named David who

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Speaker 1: reached out to us about his mom. Oh hopefully he's

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Speaker 1: not foreclosing on her, but David, welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 6: Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it always makes me so sad when people have

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Speaker 5: Are you assuming? Yeah, we don't even know.

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Speaker 4: Anything if he hasn't talked to her. Isn't that the

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Speaker 5: What's ask him? What's going on with your mom? David?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so I did have a falling out with my

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Speaker 3: It's in the title of the sentiments.

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Speaker 7: You know what you can say, like, I'm talking to

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Speaker 5: Why did you and your mom have a falling out?

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Speaker 6: So it's all over this inheritance from my grandpa.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, cut the mom out there.

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Speaker 6: You go, Wait, what.

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Speaker 5: Would do that? That's exactly what I would do. I

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Speaker 6: So, my grandpa lives in South America, and honestly, I've

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Speaker 3: Okay, and this is your mom's dad, right, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 6: Okay, but he really likes me. No. Actually, when I

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Speaker 4: Day.

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Speaker 7: Oh wow, day, I think I got a pizza party

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Speaker 4: I always got the amount of money, but how old

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Speaker 5: So your grandpa is pretty well all day.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he's not doing bad, or he wasn't doing bad.

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Speaker 6: There's more to the story. Okay, all right, So when

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Speaker 6: my grandpa's lawyer saying that in the will I was mentioned. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 6: So of course my first thought is like, let me

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Speaker 4: I cannot believe your grandpa left that decision to you.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's just a decision that's going to tear

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Speaker 6: So, like I just finished college. I don't have a

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Speaker 5: Didn't the five thousand dollars cover that?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Maybe in the sixties. Yeah, Okay, so I got

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Speaker 3: He just turned you into a trust fund. Kid. You

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Speaker 6: But then you know my mom, she's divorced from my

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Speaker 5: Simple, solid reason.

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Speaker 6: But you know, my mom is just one of those

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Speaker 7: You know, Yeah, I know what you mean, no matter what.

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Speaker 5: Who likes working just for work?

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Speaker 6: I decided to keep the full inheritance?

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Speaker 5: Woah, I was d D. That's kind of a rough

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Speaker 6: My mom kept asking me too, She was like, what

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Speaker 5: You know she didn't know?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I didn't tell her.

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Speaker 6: Well, like I said, I didn't tell her, but now

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Speaker 6: Of days later, I get a text from my mom saying,

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Speaker 5: Oh she kicked you out?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and you know it didn't. Honestly, it made me

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Speaker 5: Okay, so this is the falling out with your mom?

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, yeah, it's been a few months since

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Speaker 3: You know, you haven't talked to her at all.

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Speaker 6: No, not for the last few months.

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's the only reason I could think that

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Speaker 1: She would talk to you, right, And so this has

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Speaker 6: Honestly, because I've been rethinking it and I'm you know,

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Speaker 4: I just can't imagine money like this isn't worth money, right,

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Speaker 1: It depends on how much momy.

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Speaker 5: Everybody's got a price.

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Speaker 3: It could be known on a private island.

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Speaker 5: So obviously you know how this works. David.

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Speaker 5: Little bit of closure.

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Speaker 1: My god, but it's going to cost you some money.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I think legally I can.

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Speaker 1: But when we come back, we'll read what your mom

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Speaker 5: Man, this is crazy.

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Speaker 1: We've been talking about it off the air, about what

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Speaker 3: Joke that your grandpa left you with.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I bet he's laughing from a bu.

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Speaker 1: It's a big moral dilemma though, and David chose not

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Speaker 7: And that's what I agree with. No matter what you choose,

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Speaker 5: Whatever, but at least tell everybody as.

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Speaker 1: A family brook telling your family that you're holding onto

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Speaker 1: the whole whole inheritance.

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Speaker 3: I know I have inherited in my family.

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Speaker 4: To be honest with you, I'm just having a really

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Speaker 4: are the choices you made, not only did you cut

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Speaker 3: Tell them and then you get kicked out of your

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Speaker 1: You can call her a name, David, that's okay. And

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Speaker 1: she's just jealous of you that you know you're richer

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Speaker 5: Okay, I am.

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Speaker 1: I'm curious before we get to the answers, have you

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Speaker 6: Just for fun, No, none of the money has come

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Speaker 6: through you. I don't know if it's tied up in

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Speaker 7: But he was South America, so maybe it's harder to transfer.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it doesn't come through a money order.

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Speaker 1: So we're going to read your mom's answers here. How

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Speaker 6: I'm probably a little anxious, you know. Like I said,

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Speaker 6: I'm I don't want it to be mad at me,

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Speaker 6: so I'm trying to figure this out. So I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We've already sent these four questions to your mom. You

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Speaker 1: worked with our producer on him. The first question that

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Speaker 1: we sent her was, Mom, why are you so mad

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Speaker 5: Okay, because we don't know.

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Speaker 1: We don't know if she knew about his decision with

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Speaker 1: the inheritance. We just assumed that, And that's what you

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Speaker 1: wanted to ask, right David.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's number one why I need to know why

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Speaker 5: Okay, yes, true.

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Speaker 3: Because if she doesn't know about it yet, then did

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Speaker 3: she explain?

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Speaker 1: She said, because David, you were given a big decision

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Speaker 1: to be selfish or consider anybody other than yourself, and

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Speaker 1: you chose yourself.

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Speaker 5: I thought I raised you better. How does that feel, David?

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't feel like I need to

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Speaker 6: give her any of the money if she's coming at

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Speaker 3: Oh, did you not hear what she said? You're talking

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Speaker 4: She's talking about your you being selfish only thinking of yourself. No.

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Speaker 6: I feel like if that was the case, that's a

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Speaker 6: have told me, hey, you maybe you're being selfish, but nah,

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Speaker 6: right now I'm here and she's jealously.

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Speaker 5: Oh man, it was kind of a rude answer back

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Speaker 7: So with you look Brooke did mention earlier she is

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Speaker 7: being very passive aggressive by not saying anything and just

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Speaker 7: kicking you out.

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Speaker 5: I know, I think you're.

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Speaker 7: Both a little bit could be handling it in different ways.

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Speaker 1: But that is why we do these calls. I try

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Speaker 1: and help get some answers and hopefully get closure. Let's

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Speaker 1: go to the second question, which was, I'm assuming you

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Speaker 1: know about my decision with Grandpa's inheritance.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we already got that answer.

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Speaker 1: What would you have done in my shoes? I guarantee

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't have split the money evenly.

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, that's coming in hot.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean now that's almost sounding like an accusation.

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Speaker 4: Is that how you meant it?

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Speaker 3: David?

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Speaker 6: You know it feels fine? After that first answer, she

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Speaker 6: got up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well she did answer that, and she wrote a

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Speaker 1: quote like send a quotation and it says, greed is

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Speaker 1: a fat demon with a small mouth, and whatever you

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Speaker 4: Is that a comment?

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Speaker 6: Does she call me? Does she just call me fat?

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Speaker 6: I don't even know I've been greed.

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Speaker 5: Greed is the fat demon, not you.

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Speaker 7: I feel like we're getting answers here, but we're not

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Speaker 7: making progress, like on either side.

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Speaker 5: He still seems like.

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Speaker 3: I think the mom is just disappointed.

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Speaker 6: What what's she disappointed about? I mean she has a

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Speaker 6: lot more money than I do.

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Speaker 4: I mean, your whole life so provided for. You.

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Speaker 5: Still a little tense. Maybe things will get better.

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Speaker 6: I hope she puts that quote on her wall.

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Speaker 5: Okay, next to love Fan.

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Speaker 1: Let's hopefully make the mood a little better with question three.

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Speaker 1: It says, it's been three months and I haven't seen

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Speaker 1: any money from the inheritance. Are you you blocking my inheritance?

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Speaker 1: Or do you know what's going on with it? So

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Speaker 1: you you suspect your mom is the one that's blocking you.

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Speaker 6: I mean she has blocked me out of the house.

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Speaker 4: I thought we were doing this trying to repair your

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Speaker 4: relationship with your mother, David, not to attack her.

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Speaker 3: Find out where your money is.

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Speaker 6: And her I'm asking, does she know anything about it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's quoting Rihanna, you better have my money.

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Speaker 3: What did she say?

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Speaker 1: You asked if she's blocking the inheritance, and she wrote

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Speaker 1: back the same quote as before, this time in all caps.

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Speaker 1: Greed is a fat demon with a small mouth, and

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Speaker 1: whatever you feed it, it's never enough.

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Speaker 5: Wow, she's doubling down.

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Speaker 6: I turned to you guys for the help. Man, all

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Speaker 6: I'm getting is bathroom quotes are Oh I think I

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Speaker 6: should charge her for my school loans after this.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's a battle smooth things over house.

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Speaker 3: She's responsible for that, you know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, we can't control how It sounds like you're

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Speaker 4: turning into the little fat demon who's never never full.

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Speaker 6: David answers question for with that quote. I don't know

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Speaker 6: what the hell.

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Speaker 5: We We made zero progress.

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Speaker 1: We only have one question less but keeps getting worse.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we should just get through it question four. Know

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Speaker 1: we wrote. I know you're not talking to me right now,

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Speaker 1: but I do regret how things went down.

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Speaker 3: Mom, Okay a little remorse.

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Speaker 5: Can I please call you so we can talk this

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Speaker 5: thing out. Yes, that's great. That's a good olive branch.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm the only good person between us.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I would I would have recommended leading with that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll tell you, David, she didn't write back with

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Speaker 1: the same quote.

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Speaker 5: That's the good news.

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Speaker 1: Yes, here's what she said, and I'll warn you it's

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Speaker 1: a little bit shocking.

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Speaker 5: David. Are you ready for this?

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Speaker 6: Let's go?

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Speaker 1: She says, maybe you should call your grandpa instead.

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Speaker 3: I thought he died.

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Speaker 1: She says, he didn't really die, but he did want

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Speaker 1: to test you to see if you'd make the right

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Speaker 1: choice and put your family first.

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Speaker 6: Got to be a joke.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm serious, man, She says, you didn't, and now

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Speaker 1: we all know the answer. So you've been effectively removed

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Speaker 1: from Grandpa's will going forward.

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Speaker 5: I don't believe that.

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Speaker 6: I think she lost her mind.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I'm reading her answers right here. She says,

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Speaker 1: there's no money coming to you. If you're wondering, you

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Speaker 1: reap what you sew.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: We might have to throw her in a facility. I

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Speaker 6: don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think you're hearing her. You don't have money to

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Speaker 6: Well, what's that called when the police just give her? Then,

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Speaker 6: because we have to follow one.

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Speaker 7: Really take your advice and call your grandpa, and once

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Speaker 7: he answers your timore.

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Speaker 4: I was like, why would a grandpa put that in

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Speaker 4: a in a will?

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Speaker 3: That's crazy, pretty it makes sense.

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Speaker 6: I don't believe her, and I honestly, I don't think

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Speaker 6: you guys should believe her. I think she died and

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Speaker 6: she's just like holding on to my check at the house.

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Speaker 4: Oh make awkward Tuesday phone calls to South America.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I want to call it Grandpa.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get any deeper involved into this

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Speaker 5: It was messy, this was amazing.

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Speaker 1: I hope it got you a little bit of closure there, David,

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Speaker 1: don't I don't know if.

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Speaker 6: It's I don't know, like I don't believe it.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you keep in touch with us and let

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Speaker 1: us know what happens with the Yeah, I guess say

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Speaker 1: to your grandpa for us.

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Speaker 3: Why apologies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's your closure calls.

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Speaker 5: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Brook and jeff Free in the Morning.