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Speaker 1: Talk better than these are the radio blogs on the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. All right, It's like we're writing in our diaries,

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Speaker 1: except we say them aloud. We call them blogs. Kalin,

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Speaker 1: you got one? Yes, okay, go?

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Speaker 2: Thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: So you've heard of getting invited somewhere via text message?

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Speaker 2: But have you heard I'm familiar. I'm familiar with you.

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Speaker 1: I've heard.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, have you ever you know what that is?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I get invited to stuff?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: Cool?

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Speaker 2: Via text?

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Speaker 1: Occasionally it happens that way.

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Speaker 3: But have you heard of a text to let you

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Speaker 3: know that something's happening but you are not invited.

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Speaker 2: Have you heard of that?

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Speaker 3: Because I found out what that was on Friday.

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Speaker 1: Anyone ever told me, Hey.

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Speaker 3: This is happening, but just to let you know, like

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Speaker 3: why you are not included.

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Speaker 2: I got to hear this though. I got to hear

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Speaker 2: both sides, the Lords of Caleb. If you do.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think about if anyone's ever been like, hey,

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Speaker 1: this is happening, but you're not going not in text?

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Speaker 2: Probably just did it to our face the other day.

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Speaker 2: It's such a nice way. It was so nice. I did.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 4: I'm having a party for my daughter who's turning two,

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Speaker 4: and we rented out a play place where it's for

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Speaker 4: literally five and under.

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Speaker 2: For kids five and under, I like to play.

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Speaker 4: I know you guys like to play it, but I'm like, physically,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if I invite more people, if we

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Speaker 4: will physically fit. Oh no, like, like it's literally the

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Speaker 4: size of like the closet, Like it's a very small

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Speaker 4: play place.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, all right, if you guys want to come,

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Speaker 2: you know, but like I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: That's yeah, that's okay. If you were like, hey, I

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Speaker 1: got to you know that Bunny called and and a

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Speaker 1: lot of people are going to Casito with me, but

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Speaker 1: not you guys, Like I would be upset about that.

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Speaker 1: I would be like, I'm missing out, but but this

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Speaker 1: opportunity here to hang out with a bunch of two

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Speaker 1: year olds in a play place. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for thinking of me. And I'm sorry it won't be

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Speaker 1: enough room, but I'm not I guess I won't go

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Speaker 1: this time.

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Speaker 2: I thought you would enjoy my uninvited.

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Speaker 1: So what were you not invited to? That is happening

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Speaker 1: that other people are invited to.

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Speaker 2: So there is a sort of gathering.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to be delicate with how I describe it,

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Speaker 3: and I want to be clear that the two friends

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Speaker 3: who message me to let me know I was not invited,

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Speaker 3: it is not their fault that I'm not invited, and

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Speaker 3: they were they had good intentions, like hey, you're going

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Speaker 3: to see this and I would rather you know now,

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Speaker 3: it's probably gonna sting. But it was just like it

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Speaker 3: was Friday, I was getting out of here. I was like,

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Speaker 3: the world is my oyster, all the things I could

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Speaker 3: get up to this weekend, And then I got that text,

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Speaker 3: and like, while I understand why they did it, and

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Speaker 3: while they had the best intentions and I know they love.

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Speaker 2: Me, it was just like, oh okay, that that one

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Speaker 2: hurt a little bit.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, all right, hell yeah, And they

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Speaker 3: made it seem like I was the only.

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Speaker 2: One really yeah yeah right, Like what was the.

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Speaker 3: The person who is organizing it doesn't want me to

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Speaker 3: go and I didn't know we had issues or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Apparently we do.

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Speaker 1: Whoa yeah wow.

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Speaker 3: So I mean I don't know the right way to

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Speaker 3: handle it. I mean I probably would want to do

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Speaker 3: the same thing, like for warn, maybe I would have

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Speaker 3: called the person and not done like a group text

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Speaker 3: between like two to one person. But it is not

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Speaker 3: their fault. However, that one that's a tough one, That

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Speaker 3: one's true me for that was a little tear or

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Speaker 3: two left my eye because I was like, oh, oh, that.

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Speaker 1: Very reason is the reason why, or that very thing

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Speaker 1: is the reason why. I think if I ever did

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Speaker 1: get married at this point in my life, I would

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Speaker 1: probably have to elope because there is just no way.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'm not saying I have that

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Speaker 1: many friends, but I think at this point in my

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Speaker 1: life I haven't. There are enough people that think that

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Speaker 1: that that in their minds believe they should be it's

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Speaker 1: an event like that. Yeah, I'm not saying I'm that important,

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Speaker 1: but like you know, you live forty years and then

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Speaker 1: you just you a mass and you move around a

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Speaker 1: lot like I have and whatever. I have a lot

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Speaker 1: of different friend groups, and I'm sure that if there

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Speaker 1: were a wedding and they were photos of in the

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Speaker 1: whole thing, there would be a lot of people if

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Speaker 1: they weren't there, that would think I should have been there.

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Speaker 1: I was left out? Now does that matter? No, I

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Speaker 1: mean that's not my.

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Speaker 2: Problem that I would understand.

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Speaker 3: This is a really small gathering and it's like sort

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Speaker 3: of like a group of us, and I would be

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Speaker 3: the only one left out of this situation. So I

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Speaker 3: mean a wedding. I always understand. I think it's it's

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Speaker 3: your day. However you want to celebrate at that's cool.

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Speaker 1: But you know what I mean. If I got married,

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Speaker 1: you guys would all be there.

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Speaker 3: But then even if you didn't invite us, like I

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Speaker 3: would get it, that's your day.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that would fly around here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would feel a way. She would. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: I Jason and I would. Yeah, I talk behind you back,

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Speaker 2: I give you a gift and then say home. Same

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Speaker 2: I would.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't be the least bit upset if I got

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Speaker 1: married didn't invite you.

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Speaker 2: It was everyone, but that you're saying something, Yes, you're saying,

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Speaker 2: I'd be good. Yeah, if you if you.

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Speaker 4: Find that's it, which isn't the truth, Okay, Yeah, it's

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Speaker 4: good to know.

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Speaker 2: It's great.

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Speaker 1: I have your reasons and that a few spots.

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Speaker 2: That would hurt your feelings a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I thought if one of you guys got married and

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Speaker 1: I saw pictures of it, which I'm thinking is what's

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Speaker 1: gonna happen with Kiki? Because I always found out after.

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Speaker 1: I always foind that after everybody else big news in

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Speaker 1: Kiki's life, I get to read it with the listeners.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: People text me and go, what's going on with this?

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Speaker 1: I go, I don't know, and they go, what do

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Speaker 1: you mean you don't know? She sits two feet away

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Speaker 1: from you five days week. I said, that's a very

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Speaker 1: good point. You have to wait, what's this is real?

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Speaker 1: Like everybody else, I don't know, But I don't feel

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Speaker 1: a certain kind of way. This isn't real. We're not

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Speaker 1: really fighting. I would feel a certain kind of way

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Speaker 1: if one of you guys got married and I and

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Speaker 1: I was not given the opportunity to go.

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Speaker 2: I would even if it was just like like five people.

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Speaker 1: No, maybe not.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, that's what we're saying.

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Speaker 3: We obviously if everyone is invited, we definitely want to go.

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Speaker 1: Kiki, You'll be there, I know. So everybody else is

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Speaker 1: sending a gift. I guess that's that's which is generous,

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Speaker 1: supposed to.

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Speaker 2: Be invited everywhere, and you know I have that issue.

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Speaker 2: But oh yeah, sos Fried, but he doesn't want to go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I don't want to go.

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Speaker 2: Be good, Okay, I don't.

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Speaker 1: A lot of sense. Definitely want to be I think

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Speaker 1: it makes perfect sense. I want to be included. I

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Speaker 1: want to know people care about me, but I don't

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Speaker 1: necessarily want to have to be obligated to go.

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Speaker 2: You want for you to come.

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Speaker 1: I think I think it makes perfect sense. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to be excluded because then it's like people don't

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Speaker 1: like me or don't care. But I also I also

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Speaker 1: don't want the obbligation of having to attend.

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Speaker 2: You want your cake and you want to eat it.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I want validation that I'm not a piece of crap.

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Speaker 1: But I also I also don't necessarily want to have

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Speaker 1: to talk to people you know and strangers.

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty eighth, i have a two year old birthday party.

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Speaker 1: I'm busy, Thank you, thank you, I'm busy. Stare Goo

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Speaker 1: is next,