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Speaker 1: Hey there, folks, is there even a such thing as

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Speaker 1: a mister right? Well? Our guest in studio today says yes,

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Speaker 1: but my co host says, she's still looking for him,

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Speaker 1: and with that, welcome to this episode of Amy and TJ. Rose.

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Speaker 1: You're still looking for him?

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Speaker 2: Uh? I mean I think I'm looking right at him.

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Speaker 1: You're looking at him or looking for him?

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Speaker 2: This at him, not for him, at him? And I

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Speaker 2: was never looking for him. He just was there all along.

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Speaker 1: No one, come on now, wait, in all of your

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Speaker 1: was there site at some point in your mind? At

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Speaker 1: some point your dating life? I know you kind of

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Speaker 1: had a couple of long marriages, but did you have

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Speaker 1: a mindset growing up that there is a mister right

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Speaker 1: for you?

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Speaker 2: Oh? My god, Yes, you know how much I love

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Speaker 2: my rom coms and all of my you know, Disney

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Speaker 2: movies and Broadway musicals where in the end and Jane Austen,

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Speaker 2: where everything works out and you find your man. Yes,

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Speaker 2: of course I wanted that. Of course I thought that

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Speaker 2: was out there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now tell me what is your definition? And I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying like put me into that category, but what

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Speaker 1: generally would you think women are talking about when they

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Speaker 1: say there is a mister right or is that different

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Speaker 1: for everybody?

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Speaker 2: No? I actually don't think it is. I think I

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Speaker 2: think for women, we want somebody who supports us, somebody

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Speaker 2: who is attracted to us. We want somebody who loves

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Speaker 2: us even when we're at our worst and can like

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Speaker 2: us when we're at our best. Yeah. I think that

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Speaker 2: sums it up.

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Speaker 1: Is that everybody's missus right as well? I mean, is

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Speaker 1: that that sounds like something that's in human nature versus

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Speaker 1: this is not a mad woman thing?

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Speaker 2: Probably not? But only you could tell me that.

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Speaker 1: What did you say?

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Speaker 2: I was?

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Speaker 1: I can't even read my own handwriting? The first thing

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Speaker 1: supports us, yes, attracted to us yep, loves us at

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Speaker 1: our words, at our worst ours, and likes us at

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Speaker 1: our best, at our best. Okay, Yeah, I think everybody

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Speaker 1: is looking for that thing. Then why is it so difficult?

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Speaker 1: Is it difficult to find that person you're looking for?

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Speaker 1: Or you might get exactly what you're looking for, and

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Speaker 1: then you air in how you go about the relationship,

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Speaker 1: because getting the right person does that mean you're in

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Speaker 1: the right relationship? Getting the right person does that mean

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Speaker 1: now you're in a forever relationship?

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Speaker 2: I think if you're with the other person who's in

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Speaker 2: it and committed to going through the moments when you

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Speaker 2: don't necessarily like the person you love. That's where the

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Speaker 2: trouble ensues. When I said love us when we're at

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Speaker 2: our worst, I think that's the ding ding ding ding ding.

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Speaker 2: I think that's the tough part. I think that's when

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Speaker 2: it gets hard. I think that's when people say the

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Speaker 2: rest of it isn't good enough to support that, whatever

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Speaker 2: it is. But I think for me that is the

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Speaker 2: telltale sign.

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Speaker 1: You think I love you at your worst?

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Speaker 2: That's TBD.

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Speaker 1: So I haven't seen your worst.

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Speaker 2: No, I think you've see my worst. I'm not sure

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Speaker 2: if you love me when I'm at my worst?

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Speaker 1: You know what is Tell me what it is?

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Speaker 2: I've experienced your expression of your reaction to it.

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Speaker 1: No, No, what is you? What is it? You at

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Speaker 1: your worst? It's what I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know, Probably me saying something not so nice and

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Speaker 2: walking away. I don't That hasn't happened yet.

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Speaker 1: It happened once.

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Speaker 2: It did happen once.

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Speaker 1: It was a dramatic exit.

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Speaker 2: Happened once though, And did you still love me? No?

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Speaker 1: No, the love is never a question. The love is

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Speaker 1: never questioned, it's only about the like so all we're

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Speaker 1: talking about. I'm holding in my hand a book and

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Speaker 1: the title of that book is how to attract the

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Speaker 1: right guy, avoid situationships, step into wifey energy, and get

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Speaker 1: him to commit.

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Speaker 2: I think that's what a lot of women want.

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Speaker 1: How many years ago could you have used.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Maybe from the beginning. This started very early for me.

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Speaker 2: I was engaged at twenty one. Wow, yes, maybe I

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Speaker 2: just from twenty two, Yeah, i'd engaged, same with you.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yes, I was married by the age of twenty

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Speaker 1: three first the.

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Speaker 2: Same twenty three first marriage. Wow. Notice we both said

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Speaker 2: first marriage. So yes, I think, yes, I could have

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Speaker 2: used this book for.

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Speaker 1: Our Gunsden studio. Now we are obviously we have some

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Speaker 1: relationship experience and a lot of people out there no

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Speaker 1: matter what, whatever relationship you're in, I think we could

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Speaker 1: all use some council. And if you're looking for relationship,

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Speaker 1: we could all use some kind of counsel in some way,

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Speaker 1: form or fashion. So it's cool to be able to

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Speaker 1: talk to someone who is now in the business of

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Speaker 1: getting people together. And Talia we Met is the name. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Talia we Met. Her last name is we Met, and

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Speaker 1: she's now a relationship.

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Speaker 2: it's so much cooler than that. It's so French. It's

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So she's a matchmaker author as well and in

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Speaker 1: the studio with us. Can can we start with that?

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Speaker 1: Is there a mister right? Should every woman that you

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Speaker 1: do coach?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: Do you tell them there is a mister right for you?

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Speaker 1: And what is that?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, there's a mister right. And every time you give

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Speaker 3: your energy to mister wrong, you're missing out on mister right.

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Speaker 3: So I think we have to get really good at

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Speaker 3: cutting these bad guys out that are breadcrumbing you so

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Speaker 3: that you can continue to attract mister right.

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Speaker 2: Correct.

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Speaker 1: Because Okay, I was gonna say, does everybody in the

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Speaker 1: room understand where that is? What is the break?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Red crumbing? Okay, so it's trending right now. Breadcrumbing

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Speaker 3: is when someone's giving you a lot of attention and

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Speaker 3: they kind of pull away because they're seeing other people.

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Speaker 3: But then they feel you pulling away, so they throw

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Speaker 3: you a little bit of attention to real you back in.

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Speaker 3: But they're still seeing so many other people, so they're

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Speaker 3: We don't like break crumbing.

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Speaker 2: But as soon as you say it, every woman who's

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Speaker 2: gone through that understands exactly what you meant. I have

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Speaker 2: a question. Is there just one mister right or could

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Speaker 2: there be a mister right now? I mean, as a matchmaker,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to.

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Speaker 1: Step out here, tell ya apparently this is not my podcast.

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Speaker 2: God geez, you are here. My T shirt that says

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 1: I can explain that story. But tellia you good with

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Speaker 3: You know, as imagine me as a dating coach, I

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Speaker 3: am all for mister right, not mister right now. I

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Speaker 3: do think that people come and come into your life

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Speaker 3: first season, you know, for a reason as well, But

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Speaker 3: overall you're looking for a mister right and you're looking

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Speaker 1: So does the problem though? I know you get people together,

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Speaker 1: but how much of the success of the relationship. I

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Speaker 1: guess a they two different things. Can you be a

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Speaker 1: good match but then end up being mates? Is that

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Speaker 1: possible that on paper and everything you look good like

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, so now those are kind of two different things.

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Speaker 3: Now I have seen two matches. We're on paper, it

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Speaker 3: looks perfect. You know, both devoted Christians, both love golden retrievers,

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Speaker 3: both blah blah blah, come from the same family type whatever.

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Speaker 3: But then energetically, I just know that their sense of

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Speaker 3: energy comes into a huge play. You know, is she

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Speaker 3: and her feminine? Is he in his masculine? Like if

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Speaker 3: there's a lot of different things. So on paper, it

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Speaker 2: Okay, you said a lot more to it. You said energy,

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Speaker 2: and this was something I was reading your book and

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Speaker 2: I was looking at your Instagram page and you talk

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Speaker 2: to women. Correct me if I'm wrong, if I say

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Speaker 2: this incorrectly, but that they should be channeling their feminine

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Speaker 2: energy versus their boss lady energy. Explain why, Oh, I.

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Speaker 3: Love that question, because every man loves a feminine woman.

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Speaker 3: The feminine The feminine woman will win every time. And

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Speaker 3: it's so easy, you know, especially being an entrepreneur. I

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Speaker 3: share my books, some personal stories, and it's so easy

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Speaker 3: to stay in your masculine because you're working hard and

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Speaker 3: you're constantly meetings and blah blah, blah. But you have

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Speaker 3: to learn how to turn it off. And I give

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Speaker 3: all my tips and tricks in the book on how

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Speaker 1: Well, you got to help me with this one here, fly,

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Speaker 1: because I assume some people might take issue with telling

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Speaker 3: Your feminine all the time. But that's hard, Like how

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Speaker 3: saying it's it's truly a balance. No, when to tap

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Speaker 1: So tell you I went to almost apologize. Well, I apologize,

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Speaker 1: but I'm saying, you're saying it from this it works.

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Speaker 2: Well, you're saying for like every.

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Speaker 3: And I empathize with her because I was her. I

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Speaker 3: my book, and I'm like, listen, if you once had it,

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Speaker 3: it can come back. You just have to be self aware.

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Speaker 1: A lot of women get that. So I'm sitting from

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Speaker 1: a different position to where I again, I can only

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Speaker 1: compare it to an African American who knows how to

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Speaker 1: almost code switch is what we call it. You behave

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Speaker 1: this way in front of this audience in the boardroom,

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Speaker 1: and then you go back to being yourself. You're speaking

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Speaker 1: from it to where it might to some on the

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Speaker 1: outside even or might to say it out loud, seems

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Speaker 1: like offensive. But this is what you all deal with

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Speaker 3: And look, I've done both, so I can speak to

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Speaker 3: I wasn't thriving. I'm talking about when I was single

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Speaker 2: Okay, So how does the process work? They come to

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Speaker 3: I just have a huge network, so I have a

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Speaker 3: Yes, success rate. Yes, I do not take clients. I

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Speaker 3: No, I don't not at all, because the book is

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Speaker 3: The g is what the G E s the grin.

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Speaker 1: Grin Okay, so the grin, it's just a matter of

440
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Speaker 1: a little smile. You just make eye contacting you grin now.

441
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Speaker 3: Overly aggress of a grin.

442
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Speaker 1: You know, just a little grin. All right? Then how

443
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Speaker 1: long is the eye contact on that on you feel.

444
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Speaker 3: It, you feel if you'll feel it. Could be three seconds,

445
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Speaker 3: could be five. And then the E so grin eyes.

446
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Speaker 1: The eyes are there?

447
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Speaker 3: Okay, so the s seductive?

448
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Speaker 1: Okay, now my needs to help all this one. She

449
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Speaker 1: immediately started laughing. She was doing well with the eye contacts.

450
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Speaker 1: And then we go into goofy town. Oh I can't

451
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Speaker 1: do Okay, what's the seductive?

452
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Speaker 3: Seductive?

453
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Speaker 2: You know?

454
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Speaker 3: You just energy transfers, right, you can tell when someone's

455
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Speaker 3: warm or when like seductive energy. It's magnetic and you

456
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Speaker 3: just send that like three air energy over there and

457
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Speaker 3: then get it. Men get it every time.

458
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Speaker 1: And the the last E was what so grin.

459
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Speaker 3: Eyes seductive energy?

460
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Speaker 1: Energy?

461
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so can you could you read my energy?

462
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Speaker 3: Oh wait, and here's the best part. What there's a

463
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Speaker 3: study that says men take up to five times to

464
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Speaker 3: realize that it was for them.

465
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Speaker 2: So he's the guy behind him.

466
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Speaker 3: Yes, they'll think it's the guy behind them. And I

467
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Speaker 3: share one of the stories in the book about how

468
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Speaker 3: the guy was giving it to you, Like the gees

469
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Speaker 3: literally pointed to guy and I was like him and

470
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Speaker 3: I was like, no you and he was like oh

471
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Speaker 3: and then he like walked over to me. He was like, hi, am,

472
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Speaker 3: I introduced himself. So it takes me up to five times. So, ladies,

473
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Speaker 3: if you didn't catch it the first g s, do

474
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Speaker 3: it four more times.

475
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Speaker 2: Wow?

476
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Speaker 1: Wow, that's not you. Are we just talking about this?

477
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Speaker 1: That is not going to be you tell me there are?

478
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Speaker 1: There are? You have ten commandments? Do the Ten Commandments

479
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Speaker 1: of Dating?

480
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Speaker 2: How?

481
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Speaker 1: I don't know if we can go through all ten?

482
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Speaker 1: But can you give give me a couple of keys

483
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Speaker 1: in there? The ten Commandments of dating? And for anyone

484
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Speaker 1: single looking today who's on apps and all that? Right now,

485
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Speaker 1: what do you think a couple of the key ones

486
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Speaker 1: you would want everybody to have?

487
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Speaker 3: I think the biggest one, the two biggest one that

488
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Speaker 3: come to mind is over sharing and over drinking.

489
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Speaker 1: Over sharing and over drinking.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and I'll tell you why. So in New York,

491
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Speaker 3: as we all know as New Yorkers, the drinking culture

492
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Speaker 3: is huge here. The problem with that is there's a

493
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Speaker 3: such thing as drunk chemistry versus real chemistry. So if

494
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Speaker 3: you want to really figure out on a first date,

495
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Speaker 3: is it the alcohol speaking or do we actually have

496
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Speaker 3: really good chemistry? I say keep it to one drink

497
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Speaker 3: max two maybe forgut, like I don't know, two if

498
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Speaker 3: you really just can hold your liquor. But I say, like,

499
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Speaker 3: really figure out. Do you guys get along? You know?

500
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Speaker 3: And also, no one likes a drunk date.

501
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Speaker 2: Yeah. I was always told they're a ten at two

502
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Speaker 2: and a two at ten. That's a problem. Or you know,

503
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Speaker 2: bear goggles. We've all heard those curls. Yeah, beer goggles. Whatever?

504
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Speaker 1: Did I mention how much I love her?

505
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Speaker 2: In college I learned like, don't worry, you gotta watch out.

506
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Speaker 2: They're a ten at two and a two to ten.

507
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, is that wrong?

508
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Speaker 3: No, it's just it proves the point though. You don't

509
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Speaker 3: want to over consume on a d.

510
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Speaker 2: No, absolutely not. No, I totally hear you. Any other

511
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Speaker 2: ten commandments?

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Speaker 3: The other one was the overshare over share. I gues, yes,

513
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 3: men and women do this. They get when the nerves

514
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 3: kick in. Sometimes you get word vomit and you just overshare. Overshare,

515
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Speaker 3: just sharing too much sensitive information with a stranger that

516
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Speaker 3: you know, maybe you met him on hinge, maybe you

517
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 3: met him through a friend. It's so important to just

518
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Speaker 3: reel it in. Remember high level first dates. It's like

519
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 3: high level just see if there's banters, see if you

520
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Speaker 3: guys connect on a couple of things, but not oversharing

521
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Speaker 3: about your you know, your last divorce, oversharing about how

522
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Speaker 3: you need about us, yes, or about oversharing about you

523
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Speaker 3: know what your mom did to you last Sunday. Like

524
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Speaker 3: we this person is brand new. We just have to

525
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Speaker 3: remember that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's definitely good advice for women. I understand. I

527
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Speaker 2: am a I am a chronic oversharer, so I will

528
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Speaker 2: fully cop to that.

529
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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I would almost break up with you just so

530
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Speaker 1: I could see your next first date with Oh my god,

531
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Speaker 1: that is how much you share. It would be a

532
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Speaker 1: great social experiment.

533
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Speaker 2: And then he said, no, all right, I loved you

534
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 2: have a visceral reaction to love languages because people put

535
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Speaker 2: so much stock, play so much stock in love languages.

536
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Speaker 2: You have strong feelings about this.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So here's the funny thing. According to studies, you're

538
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Speaker 3: most likely not going to end up with someone who

539
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Speaker 3: has the exact same love love language as you. However,

540
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Speaker 3: it doesn't mean that you can't learn them and then

541
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Speaker 3: shift where you put your energy. So, for example, if

542
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Speaker 3: your husband is words of affirmation and for you it's

543
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Speaker 3: access service. As long as you guys have communicated like hey,

544
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Speaker 3: every time you do this and this, it doesn't mean

545
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Speaker 3: that much to me because that's not how I receive love.

546
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Speaker 3: I need to hear it from you first, or I

547
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Speaker 3: need you know, access service. That's how I receive love.

548
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Speaker 3: And by the way, fun fact, it's all childhood. However,

549
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Speaker 3: your parents showed an expressed love is how you interpret

550
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Speaker 3: love with your part So if you had a parent

551
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Speaker 3: that never said I love you, but they bought you

552
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Speaker 3: gifts all the time, that's all you know to receive love.

553
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Speaker 1: So it's just.

554
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Speaker 3: Something to have a conversation with your partner so that

555
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Speaker 3: you're not constantly trying to do all these things. And

556
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Speaker 3: it's not even taking into account.

557
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Speaker 1: You know, you mentioned earlier what men want. They want

558
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Speaker 1: feminine energy, but in the clients you've dealt with, it

559
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Speaker 1: was again you're starting to say female clients now, but

560
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Speaker 1: your initial matchmaking was all men. So in what you've

561
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Speaker 1: learned from men about what men want from women, and

562
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Speaker 1: in a mate. You said feminine energy, But what are

563
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Speaker 1: those things?

564
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Speaker 2: You know?

565
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Speaker 3: That's too hard to speak too because every guy is

566
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Speaker 3: so different and everyone is so complex, everyone's preferences are different,

567
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Speaker 3: So it's it just depends on the person. I've never

568
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Speaker 3: had the same type of type. I've actually never had

569
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Speaker 3: the same type of client twice.

570
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Speaker 2: Wow.

571
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Speaker 1: Is that you wouldn't say there are any things universally

572
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Speaker 1: that men want in this Universally?

573
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Speaker 3: I would say being in your feminine when you're at home.

574
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 3: Sure that could be universal.

575
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Speaker 2: Okay, wow, And I don't think a lot of women

576
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Speaker 2: think of that, all right. They're trying to be all

577
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 2: kinds of things. Yeah, to so many people. So it's interesting.

578
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 2: And it's not about being something you're not right, it's

579
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Speaker 2: about tapping into a part of you that's truly there.

580
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 2: And I think that's the distinguishment between like pretending or

581
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Speaker 2: posturing or manipulating, but you're actually being honest and authentic

582
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 2: with the side of yourself that maybe you've been afraid

583
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Speaker 2: to express or told it would be weak to express.

584
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Speaker 2: I mean, I think women are dealing with a lot

585
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Speaker 2: of different narratives and operatives about what they should be

586
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 2: or how they can be the best version of themselves.

587
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 2: And it's confusing, especially when we think that maybe going

588
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Speaker 2: back to gender norms or stereotypical norms is something to

589
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Speaker 2: be frowned upon. And I do think that that is

590
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Speaker 2: part of where we are today in society.

591
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Speaker 3: But I also think, like coming back to who you are,

592
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Speaker 3: like before you got that big, you know, c sweet

593
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Speaker 3: executive job. How about coming back to that person you

594
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 3: were before you became a founder of a company? Like

595
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Speaker 3: who was that in her child? Was she a feminine woman?

596
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Speaker 3: Well she deserves to be that today and in the relationship.

597
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Speaker 1: Well that is no. I love it because so many

598
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Speaker 1: of the conversations we have it because I was about

599
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Speaker 1: to ask you that the idea that tapping in you

600
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Speaker 1: said feminine, and it always in some way gets translated

601
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Speaker 1: into weaker, and it shouldn't be. There's it's okay for

602
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 1: there to be a masculine and a feminine. Would you say,

603
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Speaker 1: without one being stronger or weaker?

604
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 3: That's right. Actually, all the power is in the feminine energy.

605
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 3: It's so magnetic. When a woman is truly in your

606
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 3: feminine energy, it is magnetic, and so many things will

607
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 3: happen for you because you're you're in that like abundance receiving.

608
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 3: You're just in that receiving mode of like letting it

609
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Speaker 3: happen instead of forcing everything and doing doing doing.

610
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Speaker 2: That's and I'm laughing because I'm hearing you and I'm

611
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 2: understanding that a little bit more now than I ever

612
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 2: have before in my life. But I was always on

613
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Speaker 2: the other side of things always.

614
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Speaker 3: Just so you know, I'm right there with you.

615
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 2: So I'm listening to it. I'm like laughing because for

616
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Speaker 2: the first time, I'm open to that part of me

617
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Speaker 2: that I haven't been before, like I've always been like, No,

618
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Speaker 2: I'm the doer, I'm the getter, I'm the maker, I'm

619
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Speaker 2: the creator, I'm the breadwinner, I'm the and so it's

620
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Speaker 2: interesting about accepting and not just accepting, but embracing the

621
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Speaker 2: other side of yourself in the right relationship, in the

622
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Speaker 2: right relationship of you.

623
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Speaker 1: Yes, a part of the title of your book is

624
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Speaker 1: avoid situationships, step into wifey energy and get him to commit.

625
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Speaker 3: Wait, can we talk about avoiding situationships?

626
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Speaker 2: Yes?

627
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 3: If I hear that word one more time on my

628
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Speaker 3: coaching clients, because remember, I have a coaching business, but

629
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Speaker 3: I also have a matchmaking business. And my coaching clients,

630
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 3: they date all on their own. But I keep hearing

631
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Speaker 3: that word to find it, I'm like, hold on here.

632
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 3: Why situationship is when one of the two people as

633
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 3: are dating one persons ready to commit and the other

634
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,959
Speaker 3: one's not, and it just gets dragged out and it

635
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 3: never turns into something that is a situationship. And I

636
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 3: am here to say, and you'll read in the book,

637
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Speaker 3: do not do wifey duties or girlfriend duties if you

638
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 3: do not have the title. For all the women out

639
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 3: there listening to this podcast, if you are cooking for

640
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 3: this man, or you're taking out his dog, or you're

641
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 3: doing his laundry and you do not have the girlfriend title,

642
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 3: you are doing yourself a disservice.

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Speaker 2: Yep, why are you laughing?

644
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Speaker 1: Charge? Because I take care of your dog, I.

645
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Speaker 2: Do your laundry now, and I cook for you, not

646
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Speaker 2: take care of my dog. The other two maybe fine,

647
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 2: the laundry and the cooking, yes, but you do not

648
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Speaker 2: take care of my dog.

649
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Speaker 1: If I walk in the house right now, who's the

650
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Speaker 1: dog going to come through?

651
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Speaker 2: He loves you because you feed him food off the

652
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Speaker 2: side and anyway, that's why.

653
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Speaker 1: But a situationship, how you avoided by what.

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Speaker 3: By the way, though, that's when, like, the situationship is

655
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Speaker 3: when the people one of the two people is seeing

656
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 3: other people like there's not a commitment. That's what I'm saying.

657
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Speaker 3: It's a situationship, not a relationship because there's no commitment.

658
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 2: It's called We used to call it, like, you know,

659
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 2: booty calls. Yes, that's basically what it is.

660
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 3: It's basically booty calls.

661
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: Why do we get away from that language?

662
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 2: It was working just fine and it was what it is. Okay,

663
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 2: that's it tries to somehow elevate a booty call.

664
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, I was more sophisticated way to say booty call.

665
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 3: What happened to booty call?

666
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what it is. Wait, wait, we've got we've

667
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 2: got here.

668
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: Who had know more than what's a sneaky link?

669
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 2: Moder sneaky link? That's one step below a situationship. I

670
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 2: guess I don't know in the hierarchy of I don't

671
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 2: know ships.

672
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: I thought we were talking about your dating and one

673
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: wants to getting you've get married and doesn't. No, no,

674
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: it's not even that okay.

675
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, we're not even there.

676
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 2: It's not that deep. You said it perfectly. That's exactly

677
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: what my twenty one year old would say. It's not

678
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: that deep, mom, that's not that deep.

679
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: Tell you, how do you get the other part of

680
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: the title, get him to commit? That's heavy? How do

681
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 1: you do this?

682
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 3: That is it's a lot. It's not just one thing.

683
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 3: You kind of have to read the book.

684
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: Okay, that's okay, but give us some give us some

685
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: cliff notes here. How do you get him to commit?

686
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: Is that even possible?

687
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 3: Of course if by getting him to commitment, first off,

688
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 3: you're showing up in your wife the energy. That's the

689
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 3: first thing. Showing up in wifey energy. That's how I

690
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:41,479
Speaker 3: have seen guys who I never thought would commit, but

691
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 3: they met the right girl at the right time, and

692
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 3: she was in her wifey era.

693
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 2: What's wifey energy? Can you tell me what that is?

694
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 3: You have to read the book. I mean wifey energy.

695
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 3: It's so many different things. It's it's a lot. It's

696
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 3: like you really have your you have your life together.

697
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 3: You're showing up in you know, you're dressing differently. You know,

698
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:03,959
Speaker 3: like there are times when you're going out with your

699
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 3: girlfriends and you look like a ho chi mama and

700
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 3: I'm like, you're not in your white fie air right now,

701
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,479
Speaker 3: like you're just going on having fun and you're not

702
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 3: you know, he he's meeting you, and he's not thinking, Oh,

703
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 3: this is the girl I'm going to take home with

704
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 3: my parents.

705
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 2: So it's almost like you're you know, you've got a

706
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: job interview. You know you want that job, and you're

707
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 2: dressed the part, and you present yourself in the best

708
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 2: way possible, but you definitely don't want to, like I

709
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,959
Speaker 2: worry about what happens when he sees it all, you know,

710
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 2: like to hide you're crazy, or to hide some of

711
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 2: the other parts of you that aren't as attractive or

712
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 2: wifey or however you want to call it feminine. At

713
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 2: what point is it okay to show those things, because

714
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 2: eventually they're going to come out right you want them

715
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 2: to know. I would think at some point earlier rather

716
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 2: than later, perhaps that all of this is you, not

717
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 2: just the best version of you.

718
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 3: Well, let me ask you this, for whoever you were

719
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 3: speaking about, is that person working on their shadow side,

720
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 3: because that's that's another part of it where it's like,

721
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 3: if you're not working on that crazy side of you,

722
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 3: like if you're not doing the therapy, the shadow work,

723
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 3: you're not healing those parts of you. Because anytime someone

724
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 3: gets really triggered and annoyed and they get they start

725
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,319
Speaker 3: yelling all these things, all the not so good parts

726
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 3: are called the shadow side. And I think that it's

727
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 3: really important to definitely share that with that person because

728
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 3: because that it's just way too much work to always

729
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 3: be on your A game and.

730
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 2: Like it's impossible.

731
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, someone, of course you show them that side. But

732
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 3: I wouldn't do that on a first.

733
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: Date, you know. And by the way, also if you

734
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 2: say this, forget it. No, I get that. I don't

735
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: get it, Like, you know, don't tell me to calm down.

736
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 2: Triggered shadows.

737
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: Ye, but you were going you had a story about it.

738
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,720
Speaker 1: You said there was somebody you saw wasn't going to commit,

739
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 1: but you were back to how to get a guy

740
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: to commit.

741
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 3: Oh, and I was just saying that, you know, eligible, bachelor,

742
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 3: super good looking, successful, all the things. I never thought

743
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 3: he'd settle down. And he met that right girl and

744
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 3: it was just the right time, the right energy, and

745
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 3: she had done she healed herself and she was like

746
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 3: in that feminine era and they just ended up together

747
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,839
Speaker 3: and so I do think that plays into it too.

748
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 3: So you, yeah, you can get meant to commit.

749
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 1: Right, No, the right woman, it's always I'm always struggling

750
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: with that, the right woman, the right man, and then

751
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: there's the right time, and so how does one know?

752
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: And a lot of your vice is obviously for people

753
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 1: who are single, but for people who are out there

754
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 1: who are married or in relationships right now, what is

755
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: in the book that could help them maybe evaluate or

756
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: reevaluate or you're making a face like it's not for them,

757
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:45,879
Speaker 1: We're not going down the road. That's fine, I'll come out.

758
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 3: So I'm writing five books. The fifth one will be

759
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 3: for the married couples, but we're not there yet.

760
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 2: This is book number one, and Tell You is really

761
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 2: for those.

762
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 3: Singles who are struggling, because loneliness is a huge problem

763
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 3: right now. People have never been more lonely. People have

764
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 3: given up on dating at Fatigue is real. And so

765
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 3: this book is something that I was so excited to

766
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 3: share with the world. And it's digestible, it's sure. It's

767
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 3: a thirty minute read and each chapter has an exercise,

768
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 3: so you digest it and then there's a little exercise

769
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 3: and you get to journal in the book, and I

770
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 3: think it's a gift of the world to help the

771
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 3: singles out there right now.

772
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 2: And tell you tell me a economics major so irrelevant? Yeah, no,

773
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,280
Speaker 2: I'm no, And I'm so, how did you get into

774
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 2: this business?

775
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I was matchmaking everyone in high school, college,

776
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 3: you know, post college, and then I just you know,

777
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 3: I got into finance and whatever, and I was like,

778
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 3: this isn't my calling. And my last name is we Met.

779
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 3: I was like, I meant to be a matchmaker we Met,

780
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 3: So yeah, So I ended up I worked for the

781
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 3: largest matchmaking agency in Atlanta and loved it. And then

782
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 3: that's when I said to myself, hold on, I could

783
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 3: do this at a different level, and I could do

784
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 3: it better. I'm gonna own that. So I'm moved to

785
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 3: New York. I booked a one way ticket, was like

786
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 3: couch serving on my best friend's couch for a couple

787
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 3: of weeks building this company. And I said, okay, we're

788
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 3: going to launch on Valentine's Day, and sure enough, it

789
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 3: went viral and everyone's like, oh my god, you know,

790
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 3: Talia wee Met's got our own company now, and like

791
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 3: it took off and I've had it now for half

792
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 3: a decade.

793
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 2: Oh that's incredible. And do you have your forever person?

794
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 3: I have someone in my life. Yes, is he my

795
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:26,879
Speaker 3: forever TVD Oh my.

796
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 1: Goodness, Grace, we'll see. We don't know if he's mister Wright.

797
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 3: We're so new, We're so new. Okay, I'm following my

798
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 3: own rules. You know, you really have to make sure

799
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,439
Speaker 3: and take your time. How new we're like a month deep?

800
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 2: Oh wow? And how does he feel about dating someone

801
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 2: who is maybe analyzing him all the time.

802
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 3: Oh no, that's the best part of him. He is

803
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 3: so confident, he is so in his masculine that he

804
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 3: allows me to be in my feminine. Wow, I don't

805
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 3: talk about work stuff. I get to finally be fully

806
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 3: in my feminine. And actually, I think this relationship happened

807
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,240
Speaker 3: for a reason. It's going to be in my next book.

808
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 2: I love it.

809
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:08,240
Speaker 1: At the next book because we're now we are looking

810
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:14,760
Speaker 1: for another relationship to publicly scrutinize. So so everybody followed

811
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:19,839
Speaker 1: Talia and her one month and guy, can I ask,

812
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: there's so much.

813
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 3: Relationship for two years?

814
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's cool, that's right. Cool. We like that.

815
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: And I don't want to point to anyone in particular,

816
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: can you And I don't run the room, but in

817
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 1: news lately, do you ever look at celebrity couples or

818
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 1: things that are being followed in the media and you

819
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: have a sense of they are they are a good

820
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 1: match or not a good match? These are people you

821
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: do not know. But is there any feeling or guide

822
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:51,720
Speaker 1: in what you're able to see from a distance about couple? Really?

823
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 3: I mean, I just got down with Access Hollywood. We

824
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 3: were talking about matches celebrity couples, and I'll tell you

825
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 3: there's a couple of celebrity couples that I just love

826
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 3: an adore. I don't personally know them. I might be

827
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 3: one degree separation from them, but I know in my

828
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 3: heart they're a good fit for each other. And they

829
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 3: just have so much value alignment. Their foundation is so

830
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 3: solid because they see the world the same way, they

831
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,959
Speaker 3: were raised a very similar light, and I think they'll

832
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 3: make it. And there's some couples where I'm like, oof,

833
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 3: god bless you know they'll figure it out eventually, But

834
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 3: it's not.

835
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 2: You're talking about. But I could.

836
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 3: I could absolutely, It's a hunch. It's like an intuitive knowing.

837
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I only have one last question, and this was

838
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: for every I'm asking on behalf of women is there?

839
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,760
Speaker 1: How do they know he's mister wrong?

840
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 3: Ooh, I love this question. Okay, how do you know

841
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 3: if it's mister wrong? Your entire and you know what

842
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 3: this is for men and women, this is both. This

843
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 3: is for anyone who's listening, who's single. You will know

844
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 3: because your nervous system, your gut feeling will tell you,

845
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 3: like your anxiety will start to get cranked up. You'll

846
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 3: start to feel stressed around that person. When when you

847
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,800
Speaker 3: are with the right person, it will feel like home.

848
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 3: You will feel peace, you will feel serenity, and when

849
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 3: you're with the wrong person, you will have just this

850
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,879
Speaker 3: like your I call it the nervous system test. Your

851
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 3: nervous system will just be off. And so it's about

852
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 3: being very self aware because your body will always tell

853
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 3: you if.

854
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 2: It's mister right, and apparently if it's mister wrong. And apparently.

855
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 1: Your experience what.

856
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 2: I mean, it depends on the day. Sometimes how's your

857
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 2: good today feelings on a minute, I mean, and like

858
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 2: to that point though it changes, I mean, you can

859
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 2: still be in a loving relationship and have moments of

860
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 2: oh my god, what have I done. I mean that's

861
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 2: the part of any relationship.

862
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:54,360
Speaker 3: Of course, you have your highs and your lows, and

863
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 3: every marriage nothing's perfect. But I'm saying, especially in those

864
00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 3: early phases, when something feels off, listen to that.

865
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 2: In the early phases, yes, because later on, there's always

866
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 2: going to be something that's off in any given day

867
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 2: because we've we've been through the trenches. But I get

868
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 2: it now. In the beginning, it should be butterflies and

869
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: unicorns and rainbows, like there's enough that's gonna come later.

870
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:21,280
Speaker 3: It should just feel warm and safe. It shouldn't feel

871
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 3: like that firecracker love. No, those burned fast Yes, you

872
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 3: want the like at home fireplace feeling.

873
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Speaker 2: Like who do you want a Netflix and chill with?

874
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

875
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 3: I wouldn't go that far, but I would say, like

876
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 3: like Iday, just wow, I shouldn't chill Like okay, you

877
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 3: can Neflix and chill with someone who still have that

878
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 3: firecracker energy with It's just like a gut feeling. It's

879
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 3: annoying where you just feel so safe with that person.

880
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, safety you.

881
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: Really need, like not relationship advice, but like dating advice.

882
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 1: You're asking No, you're looking.

883
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 2: For someone, No, I'm thinking about all the friends in

884
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 2: my life too. All right, tell you we met. Thank

885
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: you so much for being with us. This has been

886
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,919
Speaker 2: super fun. Congratulations on the book and the second book,

887
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 2: and the third book, and four and the one.

888
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: Right, what's the schedule in all the books? How soon

889
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 1: you can we expect them?

890
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:12,800
Speaker 3: Probably went a year the year.

891
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: I'll be dang, well, CONGRATU. Really this is cool to

892
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: be and this is fun stuff for us. But there's

893
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 1: we hope everybody can take a nugget or two out

894
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: of it, no matter what. But the book is on

895
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 1: sale everywhere Amazon. You can find it there. Again, it's

896
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: how to attract the right guy. Tell you we met.

897
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,799
Speaker 1: It's a fantastic thing, it really is. Do you want

898
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 1: me to tell you about the shirt?

899
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 2: Because you oh, yes, you know what. That's a good

900
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 2: way to end it. Mister right now. You haven't worn

901
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 2: it again?

902
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: Wow, everybody's perks.

903
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 2: I mean, you know you used to come into the

904
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 2: studio with it.

905
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: I was like, well, hello, well it's okay. I do

906
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: own a T shirt that says mister right now on it.

907
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: Let me explain. I went out to LA and the

908
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:58,439
Speaker 1: hell with it now. I interviewed at entertainment tonight right

909
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: I went out there and I was just supposed to

910
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: go interview and then fly right back. The same day,

911
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: I went out in my suit and interviewed and did

912
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 1: an on camera test and then went back to the airport.

913
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 1: They called me as I'm bored. The flight is boarding,

914
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 1: and they called and say TJ. It went so, well,

915
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 1: can you come back and we want you to record

916
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: for a show that's actually going to air tomorrow. But

917
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: I wasn't prepared. I didn't have clothes supposed to be

918
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,760
Speaker 1: in and out, so they send me to a hotel.

919
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: I don't get there until ten to eleven at night.

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00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: The only store opened. I don't have clothes. The only

921
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: store open at that time was Hustler. So I go

922
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: in the Hustler at about midnight. I have never heard

923
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 1: this story before.

924
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 2: I was with EPIC.

925
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if I was with CNN at the time.

926
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 1: Who was I with it that, I don't know, maybe

927
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 1: even ABC, I don't know. But I go and I

928
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 1: go into the store and I promise you the kindest

929
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 1: T shirt in there was the one that said mister

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Speaker 1: right now. So I had to buy that shirt. And

931
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Speaker 1: the next day I went into the Entertainment Tonight offices

932
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: in the morning meeting with the shirt on that said,

933
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 1: mister right now, and I just haven't been able to

934
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,399
Speaker 1: throw the shirt away. But but we're photographed by Papa

935
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: Rozzi too much. I cannot wear it.

936
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Speaker 2: I'm never so it's funny, I said, you come into

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00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 2: the studio with it. But ever since we've been together,

938
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Speaker 2: thank god, you've never worn it. A smart man, smart.

939
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:35,240
Speaker 1: Man, tell you should I toss that shirt?

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00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:36,720
Speaker 3: Absolutely?

941
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? He should. He should never wear that ever again.

942
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Speaker 2: Thank you, Tellia, thank you much.

943
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Speaker 1: You know where to find us. We're on Instagram, Amy

944
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Speaker 1: and DJ podcast. We'll see it.