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Speaker 2: Joseph is on the phone today for our first Day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Mia. So we're

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Speaker 2: going to see if we can find out why he's

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted and maybe get him another date if he

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Speaker 2: still wants one. But first, Joseph Hollings, have been since

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Speaker 2: you heard from Mia?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's been a couple of weeks now,

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Speaker 3: and I'm getting kind of worried.

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Speaker 4: Getting worried. Is there a reason why you feel worried?

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Speaker 4: Like about her? About her how she's ghosting you.

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Speaker 3: Most is about like how she's ghosting me. It's it's

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Speaker 3: been a little while. And it went so well. This

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Speaker 3: was one of the best days I've ever had. It

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Speaker 3: seems so promising.

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Speaker 5: We actually we had we were styled.

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Speaker 3: Uh, we were set up for dinner in a movie

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Speaker 3: and we were talking for so long at dinner that

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Speaker 3: we ended up missing the movie. Like that was great,

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Speaker 3: you know, yeah.

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Speaker 4: You missed the whole movie.

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Speaker 3: Well no, I mean we were able to get it,

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Speaker 3: and it's just it's been it. We ended up missing

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Speaker 3: the opening. Those just felt really good. You know, talking

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Speaker 4: Tell us more about it. What did you guys talk about? Why?

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Speaker 4: You know, do you feel like it was so great?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean we went to a pizza place because,

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Speaker 3: as she had said in a previous conversation how much

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Speaker 3: she loved pizza. And I was like, oh great, this

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Speaker 3: is kind of casual but also kind of like, you know,

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Speaker 3: sort of a dinner, so a little more than just

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Speaker 3: like coffee. Was great. We ended to talk about our careers,

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Speaker 3: you know, our families. We seem to be on the

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Speaker 3: same wavelength. You know. Actually we both mentioned that we

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Speaker 3: wanted to check out a museum that we had been

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Speaker 3: looking at and maybe we could do that sometime. And

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh good, okay, so like second date

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Speaker 3: right there, it's kind of built into it, and I

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Speaker 4: Did anything happen on the date? We're kind of an

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Speaker 4: obvious sign and why she's not.

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Speaker 3: On you back, I've got I'm not gonna lie. I've

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Speaker 3: got an idea of what might have happened. See will

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Speaker 3: we were Uh, while we were out, I saw my

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Speaker 3: sister and you know, my my my sister is married,

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Speaker 3: and I go over to dinner with her and her

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Speaker 3: family every once in a while so I can see

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Speaker 3: my nieces and nephews. And we've recently talked about how

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Speaker 3: I probably shouldn't talk about my love life, uh, you

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Speaker 3: know around like the kids right now, you know, just

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Speaker 3: until things get kind of settled, because that way, you know,

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Speaker 3: it'd be kind of awkward for them. And when you know,

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Speaker 3: I saw it out, I was like, oh no, this

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Speaker 3: is kind of awkward, this is kind of weird. How

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Speaker 3: do I act in this situation? I wouldn't be surprised

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Speaker 3: if that was a little confusing.

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Speaker 4: Wait, so you didn't you didn't talk to your sister?

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Speaker 3: No? No, I just was like, oh god, what do

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Speaker 3: I What do I do here? And I probably it

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Speaker 3: probably kind of upset how I I spoke to to

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Speaker 4: Did you tell me that it was your sister who

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Speaker 3: No, well, I was afraid it was going to make

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Speaker 3: if I just kind of play this off, let's not

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Speaker 3: even like make a thing out of it. It's one

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Speaker 3: of those the bigger the thing that's the more weird

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Speaker 3: it gets. I'm not gonna Lie, I'm not sure I

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Speaker 3: did a great job at that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it sounds like it was kind of weird. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it sounds awkward.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song and then come back and call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, all right,

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Speaker 2: we'll play song, come back, Get your first Day follow up,

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the first Date follow Up

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Speaker 2: and if you're just joining us, Joseph is on the phone.

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Speaker 2: He's been getting ghosted for like two weeks now and

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Speaker 2: doesn't know why. So we're about to call the girl

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Speaker 2: that he went out with. Her name is Mia and

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Speaker 2: see if we can figure out why he's getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Joseph,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Mia.

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Speaker 3: Sure, me and I had a time. We went to

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Speaker 3: a pizza place. We talked about setting up a second

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Speaker 3: day at a museum. We actually were talking for so

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Speaker 3: long we almost missed the movie I'm not sure why

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Speaker 3: she hasn't gotten back to me after like a couple

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, we'll give her a call right now, ask

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Speaker 2: her if she'll ask her why she goes to you,

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us and then maybe get

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Speaker 2: you another day.

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Speaker 3: You're ready, All right, let's go. All right, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, man, I speak to mea please? This Hey Mia,

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Speaker 2: how are you? My name is Juwbell. I host a

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Speaker 2: radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hima, the show's here too. I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: Oh, how are you doing today?

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Speaker 5: Good? Okay, So what's the show.

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Speaker 2: It's a radio show. It's called The Jewel Show. We

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Speaker 2: do a segment on our show called the First Day Followup.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: somebody and then end up ghosting them, they can get

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Speaker 2: they can email us to get you on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an

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Speaker 2: email about you from Joseph.

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Speaker 5: Oh oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I definitely went

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Speaker 5: out with a guy named Joseph.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, Joseph said, you've been ghosting him for like

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Speaker 2: two weeks now, and he wants to know why.

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Speaker 4: He thought things went really well.

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Speaker 3: And he liked you a lot.

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Speaker 5: Well, it actually did spurn off really well. We went

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Speaker 5: and had pizza, and we had a lot of things coming.

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Speaker 5: We were lappy. We were even planning or going to

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Speaker 5: muse him for the next date. But then we met

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Speaker 5: the movies. He is clearly not over his ex because

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Speaker 5: he saw his ex there and he was acting really weird.

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Speaker 5: He showed no affection to me. It was very awkward.

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Speaker 5: And then after the movies we rushed out of there.

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Speaker 5: And so that is why, because he's not over his ex.

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Speaker 4: How do you know that was his X? Did he

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Speaker 5: He didn't say that, but it was like he looked

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Speaker 5: it felt like it was his X. I mean, you

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Speaker 5: kind of just know that's his ex. You know. It

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Speaker 5: was awkward because he like stopped touching me. He stopped,

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Speaker 5: I mean he lost would it.

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Speaker 4: Be you know, could it be like his sister or something?

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Speaker 5: Well, why would his sister care if he was touching me.

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Speaker 4: That is a very fair point. But sometimes what we

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Speaker 5: Possibly, I mean, what was not his sister?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, let's ask him. Joseph is actually on

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Speaker 2: the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, Hi. Yeah, you were actually really weird with

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Speaker 5: that girl. It definitely felt like that was your ax.

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Speaker 5: You had your hand on my lap and then when

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Speaker 3: It was very awkward.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, believe it or not.

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Speaker 3: That actually is my sister. Yes, I was.

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Speaker 6: We we have an agreement that I don't like that

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Speaker 3: For a little while here. Definitely not you know, around

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Speaker 3: are like, oh god, it's like not time. I don't

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that was Why did you just say something or

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Speaker 4: What we just dressed.

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Speaker 5: It out and then like it just felt very awkward.

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Speaker 5: I mean if you kind of explain, which is kind

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Speaker 5: of weird that you don't want to talk about your relationship,

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Speaker 5: but I guess sometimes you don't. I mean, it was

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Speaker 5: I guess I got that, like you don't want to,

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Speaker 5: you know, introduce to the family. But that was really weird.

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Speaker 5: He couldn't say hid to her or or even say

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Speaker 6: Right, yeah, no, I just kind of wanted to leave

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Speaker 6: the situation. I was really thinking. I was like, oh good,

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Speaker 6: it off cool. I very clearly did a terrible.

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Speaker 3: Job of that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah you did. I mean, yeah, it was very comfortable,

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Speaker 5: and then all of a sudden you saw her and

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Speaker 5: like this night and day you were affectionate, and then nothing.

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Speaker 4: Joseph, you kind of turned into a red flag. I'm

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Speaker 4: really sorry. You're so sweet, and I really wanted this

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Speaker 4: away from a situation. That's I'm humpable. Every time something's

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Speaker 5: Can't just go oh god, that's funny.

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Speaker 4: That was for sure, I know somehow. I mean, on

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Speaker 4: a first day meeting family, you just say it's your friend,

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Speaker 4: but yeah, your sister's obviously not going to be But listen,

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Speaker 4: if you're doing it in front of kids, you're just like, hey,

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Speaker 4: this is my friend, Bob. You know, well for me,

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Speaker 4: you could have done that next time. The next time,

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Speaker 2: Well, how would you like to have another awkward situation

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Speaker 2: happened with Joseph? Because I think there might be many

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Speaker 2: things I can like, Yeah, would you like to go

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Speaker 2: on another date with Joseph?

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Speaker 4: Will pay for it?

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Speaker 5: How many siblings? How many times?

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Speaker 3: For this?

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Speaker 5: Uh, it's knowing that it's his sister, I actually feel

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Speaker 5: a lot better. It was a little weird. Just tell

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Speaker 5: me next time. But yeah, I actually had a really

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Speaker 5: good time at the pizza place, and I would like

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Speaker 5: to see that zoom still So I totally want to

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Speaker 5: go out with your.

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Speaker 4: Into his girlfriend at the music Sorry, just kidding. The Best.

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