1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. Y'all 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: At all at all, So don't given them. 4 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 3: Back A million bus busy. 5 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 4: Yeah listening to. 6 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: I don't joy? 7 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? 8 00:00:50,560 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 5: Joy? You know you love? 9 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 6: You gotta turn. 10 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 7: I can't. 11 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: I have to turn the mouth turn. 12 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: You probably got to turn the mouth water the mony up. 13 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 6: Look, come. 14 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: Come on, you're thinking that, huh, I sure will. Good 15 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: morning everybody. You are listening to the voice. 16 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 3: Come on now, dig me one and only Steve Harvey 17 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 3: Man got a radio show. 18 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: What God doing, y'all? 19 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:14,679 Speaker 8: Huh? 20 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 1: What he doing? 21 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 3: What he doing in your life? He doing something? He moving, 22 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 3: he working. Don't lose your patience though, see I did 23 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 3: that before. Don't lose your patience. Don't get so sick 24 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 3: of waiting that you take matters into your own hands. 25 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 1: Don't do that. Boy, you're blowing it. Listen to me. 26 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,799 Speaker 3: You're listening to somebody who's done it that way. I 27 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: had a dream, I had a vision. I had some hope, 28 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 3: I had some faith, I had some aspirations. But I 29 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 3: got a little impatient waiting on it. So I tried 30 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,839 Speaker 3: a couple other things. Move it along, boy, I can't 31 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 3: tell you how I messed it up. Then I messed 32 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,639 Speaker 3: it up then, because God gave me the power of decision, 33 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 3: what I had to do was then after I took 34 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 3: matters into my own hand, messed it up. 35 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: Now I guess what. He still got something fummy. 36 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 3: But nah, I gotta fix all the mistakes now, I 37 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 3: gotta straighten them out, gotta I gotta suffer some consequences. 38 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 3: I gotta pay for my transgressions. All of that, All 39 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 3: of that, it's gotta go down. You can't do something 40 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 3: wrong and not pay for it. It's just you call it, calma, 41 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 3: call it whatever you want to call it. Every action 42 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 3: has an equal and opposite reaction every action. If it 43 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 3: just stays sunny all the time, you might think it's cool, 44 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 3: but there's gonna be a reaction to it. Ain't no dark, 45 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 3: ain't no shade, ain't no break, ain't no rain. Gonna 46 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 3: be hard if it's just sunny all the time, vice versa. 47 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 3: So you need you need the opposite. You need the 48 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 3: darkness so you can get your break from that sun. 49 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 3: You need the rain so you can nourish the roots 50 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 3: so that sun can it can soak up the sun 51 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 3: and get the benefit of the sun. If you don't 52 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 3: get the opposite, you got a problem, man. And it 53 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 3: happens throughout nature, it happens throughout your life. Don't think 54 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 3: that you can do wrong and not have to pay 55 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 3: for that. 56 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: You think this is man. 57 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 3: We think man, because we'd have made a decision that 58 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 3: we think is best for us, and no matter how 59 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 3: to affect nobody else, we got the right to make 60 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 3: that call. 61 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: No, you don't. 62 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 3: Whoever is telling you that, whoever's misguiding you into the 63 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 3: gang life, telling you, yeah, man, you need to be 64 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 3: this way to be down with us. I'll tell you what. 65 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 3: Get yourself stuck on chuck with that gang. See how 66 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 3: many them be there for you. Oh, they'll go around 67 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: the corner with you and start shooting. But okay, when 68 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 3: it's time to do some time and they can lessen 69 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 3: they sentence, you gonna get that time. They gonna point 70 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,559 Speaker 3: their finger dead at you. I watched for eight hours 71 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 3: all the time, man, I watch Lock Up Raw all 72 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 3: the time, all the time, man, all the time. Ain't 73 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 3: no real cold dudes out there, just holding to the 74 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 3: mantra and sticking to it. Even the mob turns stateside, 75 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 3: evidence go fed all that now we are now the hood. 76 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 3: We didne created this ignorant mess called no snitching. With 77 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 3: that ignorant mess, you don't even understand. No snitching was 78 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 3: created by criminals as a cold of honor. If you 79 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 3: do dirt and you get busted doing the dirt, don't 80 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 3: bring my name up if I was with you. That's 81 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 3: a cold of honor amongst the thieves. Now, so many 82 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 3: code of honor thieves that then came out of prison. 83 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 3: They ain't gotten honor. They done brought that stuff back 84 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 3: to the street. Now that's all in the neighborhood. 85 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: No snitching. 86 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 3: No snitching, You got to be crazy. That's for people 87 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 3: who disobey the law. That's who people have made a 88 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 3: cold of honor amongst themselves as thieves. Hey, man, if 89 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 3: you get busted, don't drag me down with you. Just 90 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 3: do your time. Oh man, you can't bring that stuff 91 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,239 Speaker 3: out here to me. I'm a law abiding citizen. 92 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: Dog. I'm trying to live right over here. Man. 93 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 3: I don't want no crack house up street from my 94 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 3: mama's house. I'm trying to do right out here. Man. 95 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 3: You can't do wrong and expect wrong not to come 96 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 3: to you. You got to make a decision every day 97 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 3: to do right. And God ain't got no protect you 98 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 3: on dirt. You got what you got coming. You made 99 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 3: a decision. You go down there to get some you 100 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 3: might get got See, we got to come on. I'm 101 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 3: talking to so many men out here right now. I 102 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 3: should have said that in the beginning, but a conversation 103 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 3: that kind of got away from me. I was gonna 104 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 3: talk to you about something else this morning, but it's 105 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 3: just only man. Because our communities. Man's just going to 106 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 3: the pot man because it ain't nobody can about nobody else. 107 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 3: Don't nobody care when they see that young dude over 108 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 3: there doing wrong? Look at them, foods over the man. 109 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 3: Go over there and talk to one of them. Pull 110 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:35,559 Speaker 3: them to the side. 111 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 9: Man. 112 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: You might not be able to approach the group, but 113 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: you can approach an individual. Come in, young man. Let 114 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 1: me talk to you. I saw you the other day. Man. 115 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 3: You look like you got something going on in your life. 116 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,280 Speaker 3: What's happening with you? Let me talk to you, man, 117 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 3: Let me share something I learned. I was doing what 118 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 3: you was doing. 119 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: You know. 120 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 3: It's like Tommy did a prank phone call one time 121 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 3: as a limo driver and the dude. 122 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: The prank was. 123 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 3: He called this limo company to asked this limo driver 124 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 3: to take him to this location late at night, and 125 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 3: the limo driver got a young business he going, yeah, okay, 126 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 3: I got you. I don't normally work like that. But 127 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 3: how long you need it? He said for just about 128 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 3: an hour? He said, well, I'm gonna have to charge 129 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 3: you for the full three though, because a three hour minimum. 130 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 3: Tommy told him, now, I just need it for one hours. 131 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 3: He said, okay, I'll give you a break, young man. 132 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: You're trying to do something. Where you want to go? 133 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 3: He gave an address. The man stopped writing. He said, 134 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 3: that's a bank. He said, yeah. He said, you want 135 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 3: to go to the bank at twelve thirty at night. 136 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 3: He said yeah, and I'm gonna be in for a 137 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 3: few minutes. And when I come out that bank, I 138 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 3: need for you to flow it. 139 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: That to do with the limo. He stopped writing. 140 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 3: He said, hold on, hold on, man, you want me 141 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 3: to take you to a bank twelve thirty at night. 142 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 3: You gonna be hitting there for a few minutes and 143 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 3: you gonna come out, and you want me to flow it. 144 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 3: He said, sir, I don't do stuff like that. He said, 145 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 3: you got the wrong company. He said, what made you call? 146 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 3: He said, hey, man, don't worry about that. You a 147 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 3: limo come to you. 148 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: Just drive. 149 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 3: He stopped and took the time out. He said, young man, 150 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 3: let me tell you something. He say, I've been down before, 151 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 3: I've been locked up before. It ain't pretty. He said, 152 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 3: that's what's wrong with you young people today. Instead of 153 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 3: going to get a job, trying to work your way, 154 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 3: you always looking for some fast money. He said, I'm 155 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 3: gonna tell you what I already know. Don't go down 156 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 3: there messing with them people's money like that because they 157 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 3: love that money way more than they love you, and 158 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 3: they gonna do something to you down there. 159 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: Now. You stop this foolishness. 160 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,079 Speaker 3: And I'm not caring you nowhere, but I'm gonna take 161 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 3: a little bit of time out to tell you something. 162 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 3: Don't go down here with messing with these people's money 163 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 3: because it ain't gonna go good. They gonna take care 164 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 3: of their business when they come to that money. Tommy 165 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 3: kept insisting to this man to pick him up in 166 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 3: the limbo. It was a plank phone call. But the 167 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 3: point I'm making is the man took our time. He 168 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 3: could have just hung the phone up. 169 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: But you know what he said. 170 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 3: He said, hold up, young man, let me hip you 171 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 3: to something. Because the brother had been locked up before. 172 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 3: He said, no, no, no, see, I've done that when 173 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 3: I was young. Now I'm gonna stop it. I'm gonna 174 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,839 Speaker 3: take some moment out to tell you I'm up here, 175 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 3: working man, trying to earn an honest living. I ain't 176 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 3: going back down there because I don't. They make you 177 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:09,719 Speaker 3: eat what they want you to eat. You don't want 178 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 3: the food. You got to get up when they say 179 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 3: get up. You gotta stay where they say stay, live 180 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 3: with who they say live. He said, man, you don't 181 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 3: want that, and he just tried to talk the young 182 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 3: man out of me. You can change a young man's 183 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 3: mind with a conversation. A conversation can change a young 184 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 3: man's mind. Most of these young men that are misguided 185 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 3: ain't having conversations with real men. 186 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: They're just not having them. 187 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 3: And it's up to us, who know what manhood is is, 188 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:37,599 Speaker 3: to start delivering the message the problem that we have 189 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 3: in our communities we can solve ourselves, and to escalate 190 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 3: it to a point because we who are men won't 191 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 3: stop on our corporate climb and our day to day 192 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 3: making money and trying to ball out. We won't stop 193 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 3: and grab some of these young soldiers and tell them 194 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 3: the truth about manhood. That's the real deal. Okay, sah, 195 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 3: I went there. I don't know where they came from. 196 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 197 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 2: Hello? 198 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 8: Is it me? 199 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: You're looking fault lot of richie man. 200 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,079 Speaker 3: You know what, I just wake up. I'm just so 201 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 3: grateful to wake up in the morning. I start off happy. 202 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:25,599 Speaker 3: I implement happy thoughts into my morning. Thus I have 203 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 3: happy moments after that. Please stop telling yourself you're not 204 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 3: a morning person. Seeing us how morning is the goal 205 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 3: every day. Why would you put that on yourself to 206 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:45,439 Speaker 3: claim to not be a morning person. You got to 207 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 3: show gratitude for waking up. I am a morning person, 208 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 3: I'm an afternoon person. I'm a nighttime guy. I'm all that. 209 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: I'm glad. 210 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 3: I'm here for the ride, baby, Steve Harvey Morning Show, 211 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 3: Sheldon Strawberry calling for real Mouth of the South, Junior 212 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 3: government named and the legend that is Nephew Tommy Junior. 213 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: Gotta go with from me to day. What's on your mind? 214 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 10: Man? 215 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 8: Yeah? 216 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:07,079 Speaker 4: Unc man. 217 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 11: I gotta ask you this, man, because you know you 218 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 11: you got so much wisdom. But why must people always 219 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 11: remind you of what you used to do and who 220 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 11: you used to be, but then say. 221 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: You changed and you too good now? 222 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 3: They always because they're trying to hold you to a 223 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 3: certain standard. They're trying to hold you to a certain standard. 224 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 3: A lot of people are here to remind you of 225 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 3: what you used to be so you don't get too 226 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 3: far ahead of yourself and get further ahead of them 227 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 3: by being the new person that you've become. Example, I 228 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 3: don't know what he's sitting up here, talk about it. 229 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:45,599 Speaker 3: I remember when he was over there. Cheat okay, but 230 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 3: suppose the man don't cheat no more. Well, I don't 231 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 3: know nothing about all that. I'm just telling you what 232 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 3: I know. Well, people change, and people have the right 233 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 3: to change, and people grow, and people have the right 234 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 3: to grow. The person that's talking about you, I can 235 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 3: promise you ain't grow. It's stuck on chuck, stuck right 236 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 3: where they are, and they want everybody else to be 237 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 3: right there. See, And a lot of times you can't 238 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 3: move forward in your life without leaving certain people behind. 239 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 3: If you have a person in your life that's constantly 240 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 3: reminding you of who you are and will not accept 241 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 3: the new person that you've become. That's a clear sign 242 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,680 Speaker 3: that you need to get rid of that person right there, 243 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 3: because they're not ready for the rise anyway. 244 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: See, everybody come with you can't go with you. See. 245 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 3: So now what you've become and where you are now, 246 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 3: you don't need that type of person in your life 247 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 3: reminding you who you are. 248 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: I know people like that who do me that same way? 249 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 1: Are you a big star? Now? You missed a TV man? 250 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: I remember you in high school? I mean I do too. 251 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: We got a year book, but I ain't here no more? 252 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 8: What right? 253 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 4: Change bro? 254 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 3: Everybody change dum. People got fam people become responsible. Life 255 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 3: lauses them to become responsible. So yeah, that irresponsible stuff 256 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:09,959 Speaker 3: you saw me doing back then, I can't do that 257 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 3: no more. Life didn't happen to me, bob. But they 258 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 3: want to hold you to that. It's just like forgiveness. 259 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 3: When God forgives you, get up and move on with 260 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 3: your life, because sometimes people don't blank everybody else blank them. 261 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,439 Speaker 3: Now you won't forgiveness for God, or you want forgiveness 262 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:30,559 Speaker 3: for that person over there? 263 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: That stuff on chub in they pass. 264 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:35,719 Speaker 7: All right, we got it. 265 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 5: Thank you. 266 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 7: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 267 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 7: hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back 268 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 7: right after this. 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All right, guys, it is time to start 280 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 7: your morning off with the nephew and run back, prank back, 281 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 7: nephew what you got today. 282 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: With my stupidity and this one right here, it's just 283 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: just just you know, this one makes me proud. 284 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 9: This is right here, this title bring my breast back, 285 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 9: you understand, and bolling you out there to allow you 286 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 9: mean out there that have they have ball breast, you know, 287 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 9: and here make them you know if y'all break up. 288 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 9: You got the right to get your breath back. I'm 289 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 9: just saying you bought them, you ought to ben get 290 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 9: them bad? What's up calling you? 291 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 5: Aught? 292 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 12: What? 293 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 8: What? 294 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 7: What? 295 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 8: What? 296 00:14:57,400 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: What about the bbay? I ain't be still didn't know, 297 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: but no, no bb als here. You know what I'm saying. 298 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: Why it sounds like some rems though? 299 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 7: Why we sound Yeah, stands for big booty ladies. 300 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 6: Okay? 301 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: Is that what it is? B b als? 302 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 7: That's what it's. That's what some people think it stands for. 303 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 7: If I buy you Brazilian butt lifts, that's what it 304 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 7: stands for. 305 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 1: Now if I buy a butt too? Oh? All that 306 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 1: all that just a just a box full of stuff. 307 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: Then we go. Let's go catch up. 308 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 8: Hello, I'm trying to reach all of them. Yeah, this 309 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 8: is him. Hey, you married you? You engaged in Madison? Right? 310 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 8: Yes I am. There's a problem with it or something? 311 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 8: What's up? No? No, no, no, no, My name is Ricky. 312 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 12: Man. 313 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 8: Have you heard about the last person that she was 314 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 8: engaged too? Well, she kind of spoke briefly about you. Well, 315 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 8: you know what. Man, First of all, let me just 316 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 8: say this congratulations. Okay, let me let me be the 317 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 8: first say that. Congratulations for y'all getting in, and I 318 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 8: hope it worked with y'all. Okay, Okay, here here's why 319 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 8: I call. Uh. We got a situation at hand that 320 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 8: we kind of need to clear up between you and I. 321 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 8: So what is it? Me and you got a little 322 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 8: conversation we need to have about property? Well, were talking 323 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 8: about property? What property? The property we lived in? What 324 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 8: are you talking about? This is my property? Okay. Now 325 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 8: I'm not talking about your house or nothing like that. Oh. 326 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 8: I got some property over there that belonged to me, 327 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 8: and I'm trying to figure out how we can rectify problem. Well, 328 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 8: I'm quite sure. If it's something I can pack up whatever, 329 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 8: you can come and get it. I know, top, what 330 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 8: do you have over here in my house that's yours? Okay? 331 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 8: The actual the actual breast that she had belonged to me, 332 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 8: the breast breath. I bought her some breast implant. Man. 333 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 8: I ain't know nothing about no breast implants. Okay, you 334 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 8: might not know nothing about it, but the bottom line 335 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 8: is I spent ten thousand dollars on some breast implants 336 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 8: and I want my property back, buddy. Man, jeez, no man, 337 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 8: you're not getting back. You talking about pressing plan. I 338 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 8: ain't know nothing about that, man. Hey man, I understand 339 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 8: not knowing about it, but I'm calling you like a 340 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 8: man explaining it to you. I'm trying to let you know. 341 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:11,360 Speaker 8: You know, I bought her some breasting plans. Now that's 342 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 8: my property now, just like just like when it don't 343 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 8: work out with with uh uh an engagement don't work out? 344 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,400 Speaker 8: You want your ring back? Well, I want my breath back. 345 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 8: Oh no, man, if you had gable ring, you can 346 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 8: get that back. But it's just some man. What do 347 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 8: you I mean? Come on, man, he ain't get back. 348 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 8: Hey man, I'm getting him back. Oh I'm gonna be 349 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 8: over there every other week being happy with what I 350 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 8: am BOLVETD No, No that ain't. That ain't what's gonna happen. No, no, 351 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 8: little brother, that ain't gonna happen. Now, I don't know 352 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 8: what you're calling for about thous ten thousand dollars the 353 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,239 Speaker 8: breast and plans you ain't getting. You come over here 354 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 8: if you want to. When you with somebody, when you 355 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,239 Speaker 8: lose them, you lose everything you paid for. So if 356 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 8: you bought us and your dumb should have bought when 357 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 8: you got married. You know what I'm saying. You should 358 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 8: have waited then bumped. Tell mine, I'm gonna be over here. 359 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 8: That's what I'm gonna do with your breath and plans. 360 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,640 Speaker 8: So your money was well spent. You ain't get back. 361 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 8: Move on in your life. Hey, man, you don't tell 362 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 8: me when and when when I'm supposed to buytop, I 363 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,640 Speaker 8: buy someone I feel like it. But the bottom line 364 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 8: is the them breasts belong to me. 365 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 12: Now. 366 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:14,880 Speaker 8: No, we're gonna work. We'renna. Somebody's gonna pay me ten 367 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 8: thousand dollars one way or the up. Oh no, No, 368 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 8: you ain't getting nothing back here, man, You got to 369 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 8: move on with your life. Man, when y'alls broke up, 370 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 8: y'all wasn't together. No motive left with us. She walked 371 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:26,479 Speaker 8: away with him. 372 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 12: Man, that's it. 373 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 8: That's over. I'm something. Let me say something to you. Man, 374 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 8: I'm coming over there. I'm coming over there and have 375 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 8: a conversation with Madison about this, because that's who evidently 376 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 8: I need to talk to. No, you're not talking to 377 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 8: nobody over here. You're talking to me, like you say, Man, 378 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 8: the man, I'm letting you know. Man, you're lost. You're lost, man, 379 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 8: you don't get nothing. I ain't even getting my number. 380 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 8: You get my Let me get your number so I 381 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:50,880 Speaker 8: can call you back when she on no way home. 382 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,640 Speaker 8: My number on the break, your number on the breast, 383 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 8: ten thousand dollars, that's your number. Yeah, okay, Well I'm 384 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 8: gonna check it. I'm gonna show check it. I'm gonna 385 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 8: look at it every day because you ain't get nothing back, 386 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 8: brother than mine. You get lost. Man, it's over. Let 387 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 8: me ask you this, man, have you even bought the 388 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 8: ring for Madison yet? Yeah? About the ring. That's what 389 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 8: you do when you get engaged, that the ring is bought. Brother, 390 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:14,360 Speaker 8: Why you worn how much? Ring? Calls? About eighty nine 391 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 8: thousand dollars? That's nice ring. See the breast costs more 392 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,400 Speaker 8: than the ring. You're a cheatless man, man, Hugh Man, 393 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 8: I mean I just about the ring you talking about. Look, dude, 394 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 8: she's going then brushs ain't charge no more. Man, you 395 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 8: don't get back here. If it was a wing, a 396 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 8: pair of shoes or something, I eat that back. So 397 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 8: what now? What' not? 398 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 12: Hey man? 399 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 8: All I'm gonna say is this here. I'm finna come 400 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 8: over there and have a conversation with Madison about my breast, 401 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 8: because the breast bloss to me, you're not coming over 402 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 8: here and getting nothing. She ain't even here. But you 403 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 8: can bring your over here. You come over here with 404 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 8: your chest pushed out them and push it back in 405 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 8: for your brother. Don't I got two breaths over there? 406 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 8: You tell them it's five thousand dollars. I want both 407 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 8: of the man. Look, you ain't getting the excuse you 408 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 8: you call every ex girl friend you break up with 409 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 8: walking back. I call the ones that I'm out and 410 00:19:59,560 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 8: bought breath. 411 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:00,920 Speaker 12: Thank you. 412 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 8: That's a good wedding gift. I guess he don't. Hey, man, 413 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 8: don't let me tell you something. Don't you touch my breast? 414 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 8: Man here, Man, I don't know who they? 415 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 12: Hell? 416 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 8: Man, Hey, you can get on my line. Man, who 417 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 8: is this? I'm the person that on the breast. Do 418 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 8: you know who this is? 419 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 13: Here? 420 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 8: You don't own nothing over here. Man. You didn't take 421 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 8: the loss on there, brother, You ain't took a straight 422 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 8: loss on there. Man, you got fighting? Who is this? Man? 423 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 8: You lost your man? Call it my phone. I'm gonna 424 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 8: tell you right now who this is? Your pot? Now? 425 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 13: Yeah, I don't want who is this. 426 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 8: This is nephew Thomas Steve Harby Morning Show. Your girl 427 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 8: Madison got me the prank? Paul call you o man, boy, 428 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:45,479 Speaker 8: you ain't it's cold where you cold? Man? There somebody? 429 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 8: But damn it, that is it? They realized. 430 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 12: How of hell? 431 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 8: I know you're supposed to know what you married. 432 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 14: I don't know. 433 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 8: Why are you asking me? 434 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:55,479 Speaker 9: Jo? 435 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 8: I'm still what you tell me? What you busting? 436 00:20:58,480 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: Man? 437 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 8: You've still got messed real all fake? You sound like that? Well, 438 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 8: y'all come man, y'all, y'all need to stop that. 439 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 7: Man. 440 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 8: But I listened to you last week. You gotta laugh myself. 441 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 8: I never thought i'd get got Well, what's the baddest 442 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:21,119 Speaker 8: radio show man, Steve Harvin Money Show? That's the truth. 443 00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 8: You've got me, good man, you got me? Good man? 444 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 7: All right, thank you, Tommy. Coming up next, it is 445 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 7: asked the CLO or Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in 446 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 7: the building. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 447 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays, it's hard to find 448 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 7: the right gifts, but you know what's even harder getting 449 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:49,680 Speaker 7: the right gift. But get this, Verizon's got the perfect 450 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 7: solve for both. They have incredible gift bundles. You get 451 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 7: the latest phone with a new line on my plan 452 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 7: and a brand new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. 453 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 7: You can give a couple away and get yourself one two, 454 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,680 Speaker 7: or you could keep them all to yourself. No one 455 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 7: has to know. Stop by your local Verizon. It is 456 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,640 Speaker 7: time to ask the CLO. Our Chief Love Officer, Steve 457 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 7: Harvey is in the building Kenya and Denver Rights. I'm 458 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 7: forty eight years old and I've been married for eighteen years. 459 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 7: My husband started sleeping in his man cave because he 460 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,639 Speaker 7: had a bad back. He has a bad back and 461 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 7: our mattress is just too soft. I'm not sure how 462 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 7: a recliner is better for his back, but I don't 463 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 7: want to argue. Why else would he prefer to sleep 464 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 7: in the cold basement alone. Please help. 465 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 3: You got a bad back, he got a bad act 466 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 3: and to all you need to know is tquird to 467 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:49,640 Speaker 3: bad back happened? 468 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 7: When? 469 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 8: Did it? 470 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 1: Had back happened three years ago? At fifteen? Yeah? Ma did? 471 00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 3: That's when the marriage started going bad at fifteen. A 472 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,640 Speaker 3: combination thing. His back really is hurt, and that's the excuse. 473 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 3: Just sleep downstairs. Something about making that bed that got 474 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 3: on his nerves. 475 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:10,200 Speaker 1: You make his back hurt. 476 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 7: And the mattress, yeah, she said, the mattress is too soft. 477 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 3: No, she that's what he told her. Could it be 478 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 3: the mattresses too tall, too soft, or she is too hard? 479 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 7: M hmm, well none of them all right. 480 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 3: Well, but that's why that's why he in the basement, 481 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 3: and that's why she'd wrote the letter because the answer 482 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 3: ain't in now. 483 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, it ain't in the mattress, it ain't in the recline. 484 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 7: So what should she do? 485 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:45,240 Speaker 3: She wants to marriage, get a match and recline and 486 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:46,919 Speaker 3: go down there and be with your hubs. 487 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 1: Okay, a mattress, recline, get a new. 488 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 7: Mattress, now, he said, a matching recliner. 489 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 3: I mean that makes sense to get a new mattress, 490 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 3: the problem solved. Yes, but you you not fit to 491 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 3: do that because you're so busy, want to know why 492 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 3: he won't get in this soft matter. But then you 493 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 3: prefer the soft mattress over your man next to you. Hello, 494 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 3: this man's discovery because this is her fall. No, it 495 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 3: ain't her fault. It's not her fault at all. But 496 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 3: she don't want to be a part of the solution. 497 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 498 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 7: So he didn't even tell her. He just started doing it. 499 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 3: He's said, because the mattress is too tall soft. She 500 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 3: never even thought to say, well, baby, let's just get 501 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 3: a different mattress. Your man husband back hurting, He got. 502 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 1: To go to work. What's af the got a bunch 503 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 1: of hard mattresses. What it's called firm? They don't care 504 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: about their marriage. 505 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 7: What they write us for, we don't care you Ricky 506 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 7: and Saginaw. 507 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 2: We're moving on. 508 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 7: Really, since my boyfriend and I are looking at houses, 509 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 7: in the house will be solely in his name. We're 510 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 7: twenty four years old and have been dating for four years. 511 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 7: I want my name on the paperwork. And he said 512 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 7: I can't be at it. I can be at it 513 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 7: if we get married. When he said if it hurt 514 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,640 Speaker 7: my feelings, does that mean marrying me is optional to him? 515 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:14,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, it is optional to him. They're doing this backwards. 516 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,160 Speaker 1: You see your name on the house, that's optional, Your man, 517 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: you is optional. This is backles. You knowing when you're 518 00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: gonna get married is optional? 519 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 12: Right? 520 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 3: You want your name on the paper on the house 521 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 3: is optional? Everything optional to him. Don't be stupid, y'all 522 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 3: don't buy the house until you get what you want. 523 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 7: When you gonna get what you want after four years. 524 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, and see everybody. Now, y'all just doing what y'all 525 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 3: want to do when you want to do it. You 526 00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,880 Speaker 3: ain't got no order and nothing, so you know, if 527 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,359 Speaker 3: you do things out of order, everything gonna appear to 528 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 3: be out of order. 529 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 1: Period. 530 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 7: Yeah all right, Brandy and Tulsa says, my mother runs 531 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 7: a daycare and I work evenings there. My best friend's 532 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 7: dad has picked up a nine month baby boy twice. 533 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 7: The baby's mother is five years older than me, and 534 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 7: my mom says, I should mind my business? Should I 535 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,480 Speaker 7: tell my friend about her dad? 536 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 3: No, you shouldn't mind your days. This ain't got nothing 537 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 3: to do with That's why y'all. Daycare ain't full. Now 538 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 3: you want to take care of baby business, You ain't 539 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 3: mean to take care of nobody else's business. Okay, what 540 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,679 Speaker 3: you're talking about, he legally he can pick the baby up. 541 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 3: That ain't your business. 542 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 7: Listen to your mom and to the colo. Brandy and Tulsa, 543 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,680 Speaker 7: you're gonna mess your money up being nosy. 544 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:52,400 Speaker 1: That ain't your business. Wow, mom's daycare? Yeah, yep, yeah, 545 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:53,400 Speaker 1: all right. 546 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 7: The baby and the payments is on time. That's your concern. 547 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 7: That's your business. Yes, that is her business, all right. 548 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 7: Moving on last one, Steve Tanina and Philly Nina says, 549 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 7: I'm a modern day cougar and my man is twenty 550 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 7: three years younger. I didn't talk to him at all 551 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 7: last weekend, and he didn't come by for dinner last Sunday. 552 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 7: He popped up on Tuesday and asked me to pay 553 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 7: his card note should I pay it or punish him 554 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 7: this month? 555 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 8: What? 556 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 1: Rue? I don't care what you do. 557 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 7: You just. 558 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 1: I don't care what you do. I don't It's crazy, 559 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 1: you stupid. He asked this question. 560 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 3: She cougar. What's the difference between the modern day cougar 561 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:38,120 Speaker 3: and the old fashion? 562 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 1: He ain't trying to tell us how old she is. 563 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, the word cougar for one thing. 564 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 1: Steve, Well he was last Sunday. Why had that question 565 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 1: not anty? 566 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 7: He just popped up. He can just put at your 567 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 7: house at any time and need call. 568 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 1: Little money and calling. 569 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:57,359 Speaker 7: Yeah, no boundaries. 570 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 4: You know who you are. 571 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, he knows what is your mama? Sugar mama. 572 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: He'll owe you nothing. He ain't finna give you none, 573 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 1: y'all ain't going nowhere. You call note and got nine 574 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:15,640 Speaker 1: little Camara got some he pay yeah, tim like two 575 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:20,639 Speaker 1: thousande No, he did good twenty sixteen, he got something, 576 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:21,640 Speaker 1: all right? 577 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 7: So should she pay it or punish him? This month? 578 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 7: I don't care this month. 579 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:28,160 Speaker 8: I don't care. 580 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 7: You don't give a dim. 581 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 1: I don't know him or her. 582 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 7: Yeah, but lady, don't pay it? Please don't pay it? 583 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 1: Well have you been paying it? Yeah? 584 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 3: Which former stupidity? Do you want to talk about it? 585 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 3: New school stupid? Old school stupid? Because that's the that's 586 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 3: coogar too. 587 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, both of them, well they didn't really think. Yeah, 588 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 7: they didn't really use that term back in the day, 589 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 7: but you know it is a modern day term. Cougar. 590 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 7: She calls herself a cougar. 591 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:09,360 Speaker 1: Okay, huh, what else y'all want to talk about? 592 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:11,240 Speaker 8: That? 593 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 4: Call up? 594 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 3: I was through with it when she first wrote in 595 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 3: as soon as she read it, Shirley, I was done. 596 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 3: It was nothing to do, I know, yeah, or pay it? 597 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? 598 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 599 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 1: So he come up shorty, you come up short? 600 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 7: She don't know what shelly, She doesn't know that she's 601 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 7: being stupid obvious. 602 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 1: She knows exactly what she is. 603 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,720 Speaker 3: She can she to call herself a modern day cougar. 604 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 3: She knows exactly what she is. Should I pay it 605 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 3: or punish him? 606 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: Either way? Which one? Which one do you benefit from? 607 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 8: All Right? 608 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 1: He just gonna go where it was last sek Shes, 609 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 1: Steve Harbin, Marty show Man, Sister Dale Abraham and Solomon 610 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 1: Dead multiple. 611 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 3: Lead the Bible out stay fact. Hey, watch yourself, you're 612 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 3: just running the bell. Don't get yourself back in there. 613 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 7: No, you did not. 614 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 3: You don't know drag mutting in the old Testama. Try 615 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 3: to use it as an example close to God. Now 616 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 3: you ought to know better. 617 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 1: Your daddy want to preach in everything you can? 618 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 4: Ring the bell ding right up to. 619 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 7: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. For those of us 620 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 7: that don't want to cook a big Thanksgiving dinner this year, 621 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:45,440 Speaker 7: there is an alternative. It's a pizza that has all 622 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 7: the trimmings. 623 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: Guys. 624 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 7: Is loaded with turkey, gravy, has some dice, sweet potatoes 625 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 7: on it, some green beans, some cranberries, crispy onions, lots 626 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 7: of mozzarella and cheddar cheese. Du Journo sells the pizza 627 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 7: and it's available in Stories Today So here's my question. 628 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 7: Would you guys try this Thanksgiving pizza with the gravy 629 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 7: and all that? 630 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 12: No? 631 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 8: Why not? 632 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 7: No? 633 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 9: I don't want all my stuff on one big old 634 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 9: piece of bread like that. 635 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 7: No, you don't like for your food touch. 636 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 1: No, And I don't go in there and get yourself 637 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 1: a slice of pizza. 638 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 7: Thanksgiving. 639 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: That's it. 640 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 7: You're not even gonna try it, Steve. 641 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: No, I don't give it. Who made it? De your No? 642 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 3: Bernardo on Rico, I don't care. I don't care it 643 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:41,959 Speaker 3: just don't. Pizza is fine the way it is. They 644 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 3: got some great pizzas out there, man, but you do 645 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 3: not have to do it as Chicago is not playing 646 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 3: with the pizza game. As a constant argument on my 647 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 3: TV show between Tanya and uh Terrell, one is from Chicago, 648 00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 3: one is from New York. And the big debate every 649 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 3: year family feud is who got the best pizza York 650 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 3: on Chicago? 651 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 7: But okay, what about this this pizza, These ingredients, the toppings, 652 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 7: I should say, bothers you? Is that the green beans? 653 00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 1: Nobody putting green grave. I don't want to gravy on 654 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:20,960 Speaker 1: my pizza. That's like beans. I want yams bread. 655 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 9: You got three different juices running. You got jams that's 656 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 9: got some juice in there, gravy, Tommy. 657 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 1: One correction, they yams, don't handle juice on them. Oh, 658 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:35,440 Speaker 1: then I don't know what kind of jams. 659 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 7: The dice all of dice. 660 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 1: They ball them, Tommy, and they cut them up in the. 661 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,880 Speaker 8: Get you well. 662 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 7: If you need help this year with roasting a turkey 663 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 7: for Thanksgiving dinner, butter Ball has a solution for you. 664 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 7: The one eight hundred Butterball Turkey Talk Line is open 665 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,600 Speaker 7: at your service with turkey experts that are ready to 666 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 7: answer any questions you might have, including how to pick 667 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 7: out a turkey to buy, how to cook it, and 668 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 7: what to do with the leftovers? What is all that 669 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 7: breathing for? 670 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 3: They will all because turkey experts on the show, Me 671 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 3: and Tommy calling that one eight hundred number four eating 672 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 3: that dry piece of meat. 673 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 7: Somebody calls in and wants to know how to make 674 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 7: their turkey not dry? 675 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,959 Speaker 3: What do you get your a butter Ball electric turkey 676 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 3: fry and stuff. All the guests work out of this mess. 677 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 3: Butterball makes them. It's four minutes per pound. Yep, you 678 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 3: cut that thing on three seventy five when the green 679 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 3: light come on. They've got a big basket that'll hold 680 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,720 Speaker 3: up to a nineteen pound turkey. You put that turkey 681 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 3: in that basket. I'll interject. I inject mine so it'll 682 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,959 Speaker 3: be extra flavorful. Drop it down in there, and close 683 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 3: the lid. I ain't just set that time. 684 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,600 Speaker 1: Huh, go ahead, I inject two days before. 685 00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 3: But that's good and marinades in that good. That's it's 686 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 3: a good idea. I told you had two turkey experts 687 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 3: on this show two days before. Do not drop your 688 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 3: turkey in that if it is frozen. Thank y'all still 689 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 3: gonna be hungry. 690 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 9: Yes, take it out in the morning and let it 691 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,359 Speaker 9: pretty much get room tempt and then drop it right 692 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 9: before dinner. 693 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 7: Right, how long does it take? You said? 694 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,479 Speaker 1: Four minutes per pound? Four minutes per pound? 695 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 7: Almost said four hours per pound. Okay, I should have That's. 696 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 3: Why eat at your house. That's a dry turkey. You 697 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 3: KNOWNE burned all the meat and flave off your turkey. 698 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 7: I know you said for something I couldn't remember. 699 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,720 Speaker 1: Four hours, So you thee fried your turkey for thirty 700 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:50,840 Speaker 1: nine hours. You got a jerky, you're pull your're you eating? 701 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 1: You eating jerk turkey turkey, And who was these turkey 702 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 1: professionals that are answering the phone? Who is that? Yeah? 703 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,720 Speaker 7: Well, I mean that they're from Butterball. They're from Butterball 704 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,720 Speaker 7: one eight hundred butter Well, Butterball has. 705 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:08,760 Speaker 1: The best, and fried turkey tastes way better. It tastes 706 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,359 Speaker 1: way bars. It beats the oven my fault. 707 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,840 Speaker 3: It's hard to dry that turkey out because it seals 708 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 3: it in with the crust on the chicken. It's just 709 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 3: a better way to have turkey, y'all. I'm just telling you. 710 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,040 Speaker 3: You know, we've had it, but we do both ways. 711 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 3: Every year we do fried turkey and roasted. Everybody likes 712 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,760 Speaker 3: fried turkey, yep, love wings. 713 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 11: Yeah, man, you don't. You don't want you don't want 714 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 11: nobody in my family calling that line. It's gonna be man. 715 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:38,440 Speaker 1: They they be calling in that butter Burk Butterball Turkey talk. 716 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 12: Last. 717 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:39,840 Speaker 1: Man, how do I'll turn it on? 718 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 3: Just plug it up? So click next call? All right, 719 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 3: all right, this is what we're gonna do. I'm I'm 720 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,879 Speaker 3: the I'm the receptionist at the Butterball Turkey line. Y'all 721 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:52,920 Speaker 3: call in with questions. 722 00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 9: Go ahead, go all, right, Hey, I got this fifteen 723 00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:02,440 Speaker 9: pound turkey, and now can I stuff the turkey and 724 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 9: with some dressing and then fried? 725 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:05,839 Speaker 1: Is that power? Hell? 726 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 12: No? 727 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:11,839 Speaker 1: Click? Next question listen, how you doing? 728 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,799 Speaker 11: I'm John. I was just calling to ask listen if 729 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,880 Speaker 11: you can get the turkey? Can we cut the turkey 730 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,480 Speaker 11: up and drop it in in pieces? 731 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 6: Is that what we do? 732 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:19,440 Speaker 1: Yes? 733 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 3: You could do that, but didn't we tell you to 734 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,520 Speaker 3: just drop it in that hole? Read the instructions. That's 735 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,839 Speaker 3: what the basket is for. Drop it in hole. Next 736 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 3: callar w. 737 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, mister butter ball, let me ask some They got 738 00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 9: this little red thing on the turkey that pops. I 739 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 9: guess I don't know what the little red button nell, 740 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 9: but my little girl to pull that off of there? 741 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:39,840 Speaker 1: Do I need that? 742 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 3: Well, won't be no red ball popping on your turkey 743 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 3: this year. Thank you for calling. Next caller, How do. 744 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 7: I season my turkey? What do I season it with? 745 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 3: You said right there, that's why you don't need to 746 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,960 Speaker 3: be cooking? Next collar, How long do I to frost 747 00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:59,000 Speaker 3: my turkey? 748 00:36:59,120 --> 00:36:59,440 Speaker 6: How long? 749 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 1: Excuse till as Thal. 750 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 2: Coming up coming up to toll at least? 751 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:06,800 Speaker 12: Thank you? 752 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,560 Speaker 7: Turkey talk line coming up as. 753 00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,840 Speaker 1: The question today, I got no time, no loans decorination. 754 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 1: Thank you. 755 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 7: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 756 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 7: up right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 757 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 7: Around the holidays, it's hard to find the right gifts, 758 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,160 Speaker 7: but you know, it's even harder getting the right gift. 759 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:36,280 Speaker 7: But get this, Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. 760 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,920 Speaker 7: They have incredible gift bundles. You get the latest phone 761 00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,719 Speaker 7: with a new line on my plan and a brand 762 00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 7: new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. You can 763 00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,759 Speaker 7: give a couple away and get yourself one two, or 764 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,399 Speaker 7: you could keep them all to yourself. No one has 765 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 7: to know. Stop by your local Verizon. It's time now 766 00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,160 Speaker 7: for a round of would you rather? Would you there 767 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,800 Speaker 7: work as a cashier on Black Friday, the biggest shopping 768 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 7: day of the year, or would you work rather work 769 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:09,840 Speaker 7: as Santa in the mall cashiers? 770 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 15: Why not Santa sitting on me, peeling on my leg 771 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:22,080 Speaker 15: all day? No, yeah, that'll go to jail. 772 00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,839 Speaker 3: Because I don't really like other people kids. So now 773 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:27,560 Speaker 3: I ain't gonna be good that center. Let me go 774 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 3: and be this cash realism. 775 00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:31,799 Speaker 1: I can make some money on the regist. 776 00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:38,359 Speaker 11: Make money, Yeah, Junior, No, I'm gonna be I'm gonna 777 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,879 Speaker 11: be a cashier. I'll be a cash here black, right. 778 00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:42,839 Speaker 11: I can't wait for the fights to break that I'm 779 00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 11: gone cashier. 780 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 3: Ain't know much money they're gonna lose at that store. Man, 781 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 3: he go ain't gonna get gone next? 782 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:53,920 Speaker 1: All right? 783 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 7: Would you rather sweet potatoes with marshmallows or candy yams? 784 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 1: Which one candy? 785 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:01,319 Speaker 14: Yeah? 786 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? Let me tell you so, y'all. 787 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,879 Speaker 3: And let me tell y'all, y'all sweet potato people eat marshmallows. 788 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 3: Y'all stop okay asking us food stuff. You don't get 789 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 3: to stop what. 790 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 7: I give your opinion. 791 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,000 Speaker 3: Okay, call it, that's fine, But y'all need to stop. 792 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 3: Stop mellows or nothing that ain't attracted. I get my mark. 793 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 7: Sweet potato, candy, marshmallows, all right, stop doing that. 794 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 1: Stop doing that. 795 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,120 Speaker 7: It's regular candy yam. 796 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:48,280 Speaker 1: That's white folk recipe. Stop not yeah people, sugar, cinnamon 797 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 1: and butter. 798 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 7: Don't forget then, yeah, all right? Would you rather be 799 00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,440 Speaker 7: a caddy at the Masters or water bowl boy at 800 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:01,239 Speaker 7: the super Bowl? 801 00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:06,720 Speaker 1: Not being no water boy cad caddy at the Masters? 802 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:10,520 Speaker 7: Man, Well, you're at the Super Bowl, about. 803 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 1: Water boy, something about that boy on the end of it. 804 00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:19,759 Speaker 1: Some water. I'm not doing that. 805 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:23,160 Speaker 3: I want them clubs at the Masters, Man, we got 806 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 3: somebody that's winning it too. 807 00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:29,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, with that white jump on. Oh yeah, all right. 808 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,400 Speaker 7: Would you rather take a winter road trip with no 809 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 7: heat in the car or no seat belt? 810 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 1: Ju don't gonna have to go with no seacret I 811 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:45,800 Speaker 1: have to go when there dive. He ain't got that 812 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:46,279 Speaker 1: heat on. 813 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:52,760 Speaker 7: First of all, it's winter. Let's start there. Which one, Steve? 814 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:57,919 Speaker 1: Oh no seatbelt? I ain't gonna hit nothing nowhere? You said, 815 00:40:57,960 --> 00:40:59,840 Speaker 1: no seatbelt? Yeah, no seatbelt? 816 00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:04,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, gotta have you. Yeah, all right, guys, thank you. 817 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,280 Speaker 7: That's today's roundup. Would you rather. 818 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:08,239 Speaker 2: Less up? 819 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,200 Speaker 7: It's DJ CALLI, Hey, what this your boy? 820 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 1: Chris Broth. 821 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 7: Hey, this is Keisha Cole gots people. This is Kirk Franklin. Hey, 822 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,560 Speaker 7: this is John Legend. And you're listening to the Steve 823 00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 824 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 7: it is time now to check Steve's voicemailing. If you 825 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,840 Speaker 7: would like to leave Steve a message, if you would 826 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,960 Speaker 7: call him eight seven seven twenty nine Steve is the 827 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,960 Speaker 7: number eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, we might just 828 00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,440 Speaker 7: play your message back on the air like we're gonna do. 829 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,920 Speaker 7: Rosa in Tennessee. Rosa says she does not put up 830 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:42,880 Speaker 7: with cheating Steve. 831 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 14: Hello, Steve, how are you doing in the morning? 832 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:46,399 Speaker 3: Crew? 833 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 1: Look? 834 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,719 Speaker 14: I was telling like, I'll these only be writing mean 835 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,800 Speaker 14: about they bore friend Sean's but what they expect, Like 836 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 14: I said, when I would head with had on you know, 837 00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,520 Speaker 14: dating or whatever I tell. 838 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:03,880 Speaker 7: Them up front, I said, I see, cheat your zone. 839 00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,360 Speaker 14: I ain't got on no cheating if you want to 840 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:09,319 Speaker 14: be teeing you side in the street where you can cheat, 841 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 14: because man, you gonna be dipping in them in one 842 00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:15,000 Speaker 14: place and then come lay down with me. No, but 843 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 14: I said, I live in Tennessee and my first name 844 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:19,760 Speaker 14: is Rose. 845 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,080 Speaker 3: First of all, let me say this right here. I 846 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 3: really couldn't understand what y'all gonna have to start. No, no, 847 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,239 Speaker 3: what y'all gonna have to start doing, y'all any messa, 848 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,759 Speaker 3: y'all gonna have to stop drinking and then calling this 849 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 3: machine because y'all ain't got no friends, y'all ain't got 850 00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,240 Speaker 3: nobody in your life, and you do all this drinking 851 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,759 Speaker 3: and then you I can't find nobody to talk to you. 852 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 1: I send call Steve. 853 00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 3: Well if I don't call me, if you've been drinking, 854 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 3: I had to tell you something. Don't come stay out 855 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,239 Speaker 3: in the streets, gonna come up in here and dibb 856 00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 3: it and dabbing like you. 857 00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,520 Speaker 1: Finished just being here and sleeping with me for the streets. 858 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,000 Speaker 3: Because when I'm in the bed, I want to be 859 00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 3: in the bed for myself to to be there. And 860 00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 3: then when you're coming in with it, and I'll be 861 00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:04,120 Speaker 3: sitting in the here waiting on you, and you out 862 00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,719 Speaker 3: in the street saying, come you get it. I've been 863 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,400 Speaker 3: cooking all that food and here it eating and you 864 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:10,720 Speaker 3: ain't out in the street. 865 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:18,320 Speaker 1: Stop talking closer, don't let it. You let the flies 866 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:24,399 Speaker 1: in here. And then that's what and that's all I want. 867 00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 1: My first name is Rod. That's what they told me. 868 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:30,799 Speaker 1: It was all right here, y'all. 869 00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 8: What it is. 870 00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,840 Speaker 1: Next caller is of yourself, JUNR. 871 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 7: Her name is Carla. This next caller she needs some 872 00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,239 Speaker 7: advice about her mean, mean mother. 873 00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:44,800 Speaker 10: I see it's Carla. 874 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,600 Speaker 1: My mom has a stink attitude. And she came to 875 00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:51,800 Speaker 1: my shop and embarrassed me, and I not want to 876 00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 1: have Thanksgiving. 877 00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:54,480 Speaker 7: Dinner with her at all. 878 00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,400 Speaker 13: Ever, I ne't a nice way. 879 00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 8: To tell her, No, I don't want to have Thanksgiving 880 00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:00,960 Speaker 8: dinner with you and attitude. 881 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,160 Speaker 7: Let me thanks. 882 00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,320 Speaker 3: Well, based on the way you sound, you can't cook 883 00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 3: yet yay, Yeah, you don't even know. 884 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,080 Speaker 1: You don't know how, you never roasted no turkey, You 885 00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:17,719 Speaker 1: don't know how to make no dressing. 886 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 7: How can you tell that? By the way she sat, 887 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 7: I can just tell you. 888 00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,120 Speaker 1: Know she she got a stink attitude. 889 00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,080 Speaker 3: She came to my said, I won't go to her 890 00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,759 Speaker 3: house and thank them forever, which means you've been going 891 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,799 Speaker 3: over there forever. And the reason you go over there 892 00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:34,800 Speaker 3: is because it's family and your mama can cook. You 893 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 3: can't cook. It's gonna be a hungred Thanksgiving for you. 894 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,560 Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you that right now. You don't really 895 00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 3: sound like you're a big football fan. And even if 896 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:45,719 Speaker 3: you will, and I don't know what you're gonna eat 897 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,520 Speaker 3: this thing giving. You gonna have to order pizza. 898 00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,520 Speaker 1: Girl, listen to me forgiving. 899 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,240 Speaker 3: Go in there and find out what's wrong with your mama. 900 00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 3: Your mama might be bitter. She ain't got no man. 901 00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,560 Speaker 3: Maybe you know things and gone wrong. You know, she 902 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 3: feels underappreciated that she did all this for all these kids. Now, y'all, 903 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,360 Speaker 3: don't hardly come by and see her. You don't know 904 00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,000 Speaker 3: what it is, but you have got to fix this 905 00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,479 Speaker 3: for Thanksgiving because you don't sound like you can cook 906 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:15,000 Speaker 3: at all. 907 00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:18,920 Speaker 1: I know how people can cook. Sound they wheeze when 908 00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:19,439 Speaker 1: they talk. 909 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:21,759 Speaker 3: They short of breath because they got a lot of 910 00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,239 Speaker 3: weight on them because they've been eating. And you know, 911 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,239 Speaker 3: she sound thin and everything. It's hard to find a 912 00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:31,319 Speaker 3: good skinny cool. Let's wait about one o eight? 913 00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:34,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, one, So that's it. 914 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:37,480 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I don't I don't. 915 00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:40,320 Speaker 3: I don't like people falling out with their parents. Do 916 00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:43,400 Speaker 3: you know how your mama is? You already know that 917 00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:46,279 Speaker 3: it's going over there and fix it. Yo, This ain't 918 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:47,600 Speaker 3: the first time she a trip. 919 00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,839 Speaker 7: She came to her job, has a sank attitude. 920 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:54,799 Speaker 1: She came to the shot her job. 921 00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:58,719 Speaker 3: You know, look, look, your mama can have you know 922 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,000 Speaker 3: something really you know condition or something you know? 923 00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:03,040 Speaker 8: Yo? 924 00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 7: All right, listen, coming up next it is the nephew 925 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 7: and today's prank phone call right after this. 926 00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,440 Speaker 1: Don't do that, just stop doing her hair? 927 00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:23,279 Speaker 7: Don't You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 928 00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:25,600 Speaker 7: up at about four minutes after the hour. It's my 929 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:29,360 Speaker 7: strawberry letter for today right now though it is the nephew. 930 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,040 Speaker 7: He is here with today's prank phone call. 931 00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:33,360 Speaker 4: What you got nest? 932 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:39,960 Speaker 9: Surely giving yea with cousin Benji giving with cousin ben. 933 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:43,839 Speaker 1: Y'all ready for this headiot? Listen to it? Oh my god? 934 00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,840 Speaker 12: Hello, Hello? Who is this this? Glenda? Who is this this? 935 00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:54,520 Speaker 12: I'm college is miss Premise though you know she's. 936 00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,120 Speaker 10: Doing here right now with this daughter? 937 00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:57,720 Speaker 8: Is there a problem? 938 00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 12: Oh? No, this is this Mama Mama Lord's nephew. Who 939 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:03,720 Speaker 12: is again? 940 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:05,719 Speaker 8: That's the Blandath. 941 00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,080 Speaker 12: Mama Lloyd is Mama Lord? Jo I ain't it. 942 00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,640 Speaker 10: Ain't correct Mama Lord's and its purpose? 943 00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:15,279 Speaker 12: Sisters, Okay, I'm being I'm I'm I'm her nephew from 944 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:17,160 Speaker 12: the other side of the family. You say your name 945 00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 12: was not Blendath. Okay, what time y'all supposed to get in? 946 00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:22,160 Speaker 13: We sused to be there by the afternoon? 947 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:26,319 Speaker 12: Okay? Uh is missus Purvis? Is she is your mama 948 00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:27,800 Speaker 12: making the dressing? 949 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:28,359 Speaker 9: Yeah? 950 00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:32,080 Speaker 10: She's making enough for about forty five people. Actually, this 951 00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:33,680 Speaker 10: was discussed about a month ago. 952 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:37,480 Speaker 12: Right y'all on the y'all they had the conference call, 953 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:41,760 Speaker 12: the conference the family had the conference call, right, yes, sir? Okay, 954 00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,560 Speaker 12: now listen, what the reason why they got me to call? 955 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:47,560 Speaker 12: They wanted me to go in and call, and and 956 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 12: I was trying to get miss Purvis. She's not there. 957 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,680 Speaker 8: No, she's not here. What's wrong? Oh? 958 00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,719 Speaker 12: Okay, they're not gonna They're not gonna need her to 959 00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 12: do the to do the dressing. 960 00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 10: And why wouldn't they need her to do this? She 961 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,279 Speaker 10: would make it ten years we did. 962 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 12: We just discussed it. So what do you mean they 963 00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,200 Speaker 12: say that they got somebody down here that's gonna do 964 00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:08,560 Speaker 12: the dressing. Let it says, y'all traveling y'all ain't got 965 00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,800 Speaker 12: to bring it, you know, and be traveling with it. 966 00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:12,520 Speaker 12: But they got somebody gonna do the dressing. 967 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,080 Speaker 10: Okay, Well, first of all, hold, are you your your beingie? 968 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 13: What is your name? 969 00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:17,360 Speaker 8: That? 970 00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:17,560 Speaker 10: Well? 971 00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:20,040 Speaker 12: No, my name Benjamin, but they called me Benjie. But 972 00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:23,879 Speaker 12: but but like I say, I'm on the other side 973 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:25,359 Speaker 12: of the fat. I ain't on y'all side. 974 00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:25,799 Speaker 1: Okay. 975 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,560 Speaker 13: Well, I'm still trying to figure out why you calling me? 976 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,400 Speaker 10: Because she's been making the dressing for ten years, like 977 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 10: I said, and I mean it's been discussed. 978 00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:35,759 Speaker 13: So I don't even know why why you're calling me. 979 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:36,800 Speaker 13: I don't even know you. 980 00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 12: Okay, Well, what I'm trying to explain to you just 981 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,040 Speaker 12: right here is dad, they got so y'all ain't got 982 00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:45,319 Speaker 12: to worry with bringing the dressing. They got somebody gonna bring. 983 00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,640 Speaker 12: They got somebody down here that's gonna cook it. So 984 00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,880 Speaker 12: in other word, you know, if you can tell Miss Prayers, 985 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:52,640 Speaker 12: she ain't got to worry about the dressing this year. 986 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 10: So you want me to tell my mama after she's 987 00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,600 Speaker 10: been making dressing for ten years that y'all say, y'all 988 00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,160 Speaker 10: ain't worried about it. She shouldn't have to make this 989 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,960 Speaker 10: year because we're driving now. We drive every year, so 990 00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:04,680 Speaker 10: I'm not gonna do that to her. 991 00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,000 Speaker 13: So, I mean, I don't I don't even know who 992 00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:08,720 Speaker 13: you are to be calling me anyway? 993 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:10,200 Speaker 10: Why getting somebody calling me. 994 00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 13: That I know regarding this? 995 00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 12: Okay, okay, you gunner right, I am blunder, all right, listen, 996 00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,200 Speaker 12: let me say this because I don't mind saying what 997 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,439 Speaker 12: what everybody thinking? What most people don't want to say. 998 00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,040 Speaker 12: Let me just say this right here. Really, what's going 999 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,480 Speaker 12: on is just right here. A lot of people in 1000 00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 12: the family, you know, don't really don't don't really like 1001 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:33,320 Speaker 12: Miss Purrs dressing. 1002 00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,960 Speaker 10: Benjamin, who else are you supposed to be? Let me 1003 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,640 Speaker 10: friend something there, Ma, Mama gonna make your dressing. You 1004 00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 10: gonna keep that, and we ain't bringing that on with us. 1005 00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,600 Speaker 10: So you can tell your family that I said that 1006 00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:50,640 Speaker 10: because you understand me. 1007 00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:54,040 Speaker 12: I mean, first of all, you got to understand that 1008 00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:57,000 Speaker 12: I'm bringing news that that people don't them voted on 1009 00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,280 Speaker 12: and it's what everybody want to do. Don't nobody? 1010 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:01,400 Speaker 13: Why didn't we had a meeting. 1011 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,520 Speaker 10: I'm gonna make dressing. She's been making it ten years. 1012 00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:07,080 Speaker 13: Ain't nobody been saying nothing? And guess what one of 1013 00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,640 Speaker 13: them up in the house. Nobody better not be walking 1014 00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,200 Speaker 13: up and through that talking about my mama. Either ain't 1015 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:13,000 Speaker 13: gonna go eat it? 1016 00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 12: Okay, we see right there? Why why if people don't 1017 00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,040 Speaker 12: like the dressing, Glinda, why you want to make submit 1018 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:21,480 Speaker 12: everybody to have it to eat it? If they don't like. 1019 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,520 Speaker 13: It, you don't eat That's how I know I don't 1020 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:27,839 Speaker 13: know you well, I don't know no Benjamin Benjie, who 1021 00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:28,840 Speaker 13: would you. 1022 00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,440 Speaker 12: I'm mama Lord's nephew from the other side of the 1023 00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,560 Speaker 12: family exactly. And I don't know you, okay, And it 1024 00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,239 Speaker 12: really really to the bad all that I don't really 1025 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,839 Speaker 12: know you. But I'm but I'm but I'm man enough. 1026 00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,000 Speaker 12: I'm mad up the car you and tell you what 1027 00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:43,840 Speaker 12: we're gonna do it what we ain't gonna do. 1028 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:46,800 Speaker 10: Well, I know what I ain't I said. It wasn't, 1029 00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,719 Speaker 10: I repeated again. She's gonna be saying dress, SI, you 1030 00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,440 Speaker 10: gonna eat it, and we're gonna go all day. 1031 00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:56,399 Speaker 12: Okay, okay, right there, listen, And I know this might 1032 00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:59,000 Speaker 12: be hard for you to understand what you grew up 1033 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 12: with liking everybody else. 1034 00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:03,440 Speaker 10: Might not like people say what you want to. I 1035 00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:07,120 Speaker 10: ain't gonna even remember you be wait, so you ain't 1036 00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:08,960 Speaker 10: not like it cause you ain't done around. But she 1037 00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:10,520 Speaker 10: making dressing now. 1038 00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,080 Speaker 12: First of all, when y'all get down here, it's gonna 1039 00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:16,640 Speaker 12: already be something more dressing here, okay, okay, And she gonna. 1040 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,840 Speaker 13: Make cut her and said, and we gonna see down You. 1041 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:23,560 Speaker 10: Know, it's not even discussing my friend in that I said, 1042 00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,560 Speaker 10: I got to say, because you're not gonna hurt my 1043 00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:26,240 Speaker 10: mama feeling. 1044 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:28,480 Speaker 12: Okay, there ain't nobody to try. That's why I'm trying 1045 00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,480 Speaker 12: to tell you to tell her don't make it now, 1046 00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 12: so she don't even bring it down. 1047 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:34,920 Speaker 10: We aren't going to get there anyway. 1048 00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:37,680 Speaker 12: Hey, look, I'm finna say this here because every dealer 1049 00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:39,759 Speaker 12: you ain't really understanding what I'm saying to you. I'm 1050 00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:42,000 Speaker 12: gonna say it's clear as I can say. If y'all 1051 00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:45,040 Speaker 12: come down here with that dress, I promise you we 1052 00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 12: already got dressing made. We throwing that dressing in the 1053 00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:51,480 Speaker 12: trash so everybody can get the dressing that we made 1054 00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:54,000 Speaker 12: for him. Point blank, that's what we're doing. 1055 00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:56,120 Speaker 13: Please let me find something into you. 1056 00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,080 Speaker 10: I'm gonna be on dressing the trope, and if I 1057 00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,440 Speaker 10: find out you they put my mama dressing in the 1058 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,399 Speaker 10: trainsh it's gonna be some and we're gonna set that house. 1059 00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:07,480 Speaker 10: I'm not playing with you. This what's so funny to me? 1060 00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:11,640 Speaker 10: I'm gonna call ain't killing were on this comas condon, 1061 00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 10: Ain't none of them following up? The towerless are telling 1062 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:17,120 Speaker 10: us to buy. But now they're gonna set you'll stop up. 1063 00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:20,839 Speaker 10: I don't even know your count I guess they sound 1064 00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,120 Speaker 10: like he was kind of like you the bandes in 1065 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:26,080 Speaker 10: the world. But Ben, benjam My, I don't even know 1066 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,040 Speaker 10: your rest I'm telling you now, I'm not playing with you. 1067 00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,640 Speaker 13: I'm telling you. Anybody heard my mama feeling it gonna 1068 00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,520 Speaker 13: be something in this and I'm telling you a y'all 1069 00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 13: gonna be y'all coming down now. But I'm funding y'all 1070 00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:40,600 Speaker 13: out one. 1071 00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:42,840 Speaker 12: I say something else to you. 1072 00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:44,439 Speaker 13: I wish you would. 1073 00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:47,880 Speaker 12: Did I tell you what else? They were saying? They 1074 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,280 Speaker 12: wanted me to tell you this, Glinda, this is nephew. 1075 00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:55,480 Speaker 12: Tell me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your cousin 1076 00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:58,840 Speaker 12: Sheila got me the prank phone call. 1077 00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 13: You come. 1078 00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:08,560 Speaker 12: You're about to make? 1079 00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:14,960 Speaker 13: You said, oh, give it wasn't going to be. 1080 00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:18,640 Speaker 10: Because I was gonna have my brother's work. 1081 00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:21,880 Speaker 8: Y'all play. 1082 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 13: Was gonna be cancel. 1083 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:28,320 Speaker 12: Man. Got one last question before I let you go. 1084 00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:33,080 Speaker 12: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 1085 00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,479 Speaker 12: show in the land Morning show? 1086 00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,440 Speaker 1: Come on, get the Baby King? 1087 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,240 Speaker 12: You played yeah. 1088 00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:52,279 Speaker 1: Right there right there acting you say something halfway funny, 1089 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:58,719 Speaker 1: y'all live all da. That's all right? Hey, baby, until 1090 00:53:58,800 --> 00:53:59,839 Speaker 1: I saw I signing them. 1091 00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:01,520 Speaker 7: Then you wait too. 1092 00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you just ask for this every day, Tommy, 1093 00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,160 Speaker 1: you want to do it every day? It's oh yeah, 1094 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:07,400 Speaker 1: it's gonna be in the contract. 1095 00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 8: Yeah. 1096 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,040 Speaker 7: It makes you sound like that movie you start in Insecure, 1097 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:17,520 Speaker 7: Remember that? Hey, Hey, hey, hey, pranks all right? Coming 1098 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:21,040 Speaker 7: up next, it's my Strawberry letter. Christmas is a time 1099 00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,560 Speaker 7: for joy, and joy is most powerful when it's shared. 1100 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:26,120 Speaker 1: At the Salvation Army. 1101 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:30,080 Speaker 7: Your twenty five dollars monthly gift helps provide warm meals, 1102 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,560 Speaker 7: safe shelter, and Christmas hope for families right in your 1103 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:37,600 Speaker 7: neighborhood this season. Lift spirits, including your own. 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Everybody else you know you're in 1110 00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:04,480 Speaker 3: denial about it. 1111 00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:05,520 Speaker 7: To admit it. 1112 00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:07,919 Speaker 1: I mean, we got it on the show. 1113 00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:11,120 Speaker 9: We'll say this right here before we even I go, 1114 00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,480 Speaker 9: I go down the line, and nobody saying nothing. 1115 00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:15,720 Speaker 1: To y'all this morning, and I'm not for it this morning. 1116 00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:17,040 Speaker 1: I said, I said like. 1117 00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:21,359 Speaker 3: That, okay, and I can't okay, yeah, and I can 1118 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:26,280 Speaker 3: am okay, go ahead. Sure has never thought of herself 1119 00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:28,920 Speaker 3: as bullishie and I. 1120 00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:32,920 Speaker 1: Still we all have that's okay. 1121 00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:36,799 Speaker 7: So she's saying she's in denial about her book. 1122 00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:42,120 Speaker 1: I'm just mean, see my family say that, A family 1123 00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:42,520 Speaker 1: say that? 1124 00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:44,640 Speaker 2: That's anyway. 1125 00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:46,600 Speaker 4: Else? 1126 00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:51,319 Speaker 7: Come on, well color, yes, wretched hood. 1127 00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:57,760 Speaker 1: Not any of those things, not just tie cutting, busting windshields. 1128 00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:04,400 Speaker 1: Guides it under the word a legit. Yes, yes, you 1129 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:08,919 Speaker 1: have no. We all see Steve Harby Morris Show coming 1130 00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 1: up right after that. 1131 00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:19,000 Speaker 7: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for the 1132 00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:24,120 Speaker 7: Strawberry Letter for today. If you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 1133 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,680 Speaker 7: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 1134 00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:31,000 Speaker 7: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 1135 00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:31,840 Speaker 1: We could be. 1136 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,560 Speaker 7: Reading your letter alive on the air, just like we're 1137 00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:36,800 Speaker 7: gonna read this one right here, right now. 1138 00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:39,040 Speaker 1: Bugler, hold on tight. We got it for you here. 1139 00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:40,799 Speaker 1: It is Awberry Letter. 1140 00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:42,560 Speaker 7: Did you hear me talk? 1141 00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,400 Speaker 1: Oh? I heard the fact that I get to do 1142 00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:47,000 Speaker 1: my intro. 1143 00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:48,120 Speaker 4: Is you here? 1144 00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,840 Speaker 1: Because when he not you, I mean, when you not you, 1145 00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:53,680 Speaker 1: you don't want me saying nothing. 1146 00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:55,600 Speaker 7: You don't like me? 1147 00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:58,440 Speaker 3: Certainly you mean you mean, you mean don't want you 1148 00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:02,000 Speaker 3: saying nothing like now when she's to be reading the letter, you. 1149 00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:02,920 Speaker 1: Don't like me? 1150 00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:09,759 Speaker 7: Listen all right, subject, we have a big problem sys. 1151 00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:13,360 Speaker 7: Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been divorced for four years and 1152 00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:15,440 Speaker 7: my seven year old child is caught up in a 1153 00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:20,280 Speaker 7: dysfunctional mess with me and my ex husband. After my divorce, 1154 00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,280 Speaker 7: I found out that my older sister was having an 1155 00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:27,440 Speaker 7: affair with my husband. Throughout the divorce. She was my 1156 00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:31,000 Speaker 7: rock and I turned to her for advice. Since she's 1157 00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:34,439 Speaker 7: been divorced three times, all of the signs were there 1158 00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:37,400 Speaker 7: that they could have been messing around, but I was 1159 00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:40,800 Speaker 7: going through hell, so I didn't notice. My sister had 1160 00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:43,280 Speaker 7: started calling me at work a lot, and I thought 1161 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:45,480 Speaker 7: it was to check on me, but I found out 1162 00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:48,080 Speaker 7: later that she was making sure I was at work 1163 00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:52,240 Speaker 7: so she could be alone with my husband in our bed. 1164 00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:56,640 Speaker 7: When it all came out, I felt so stupid. It 1165 00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:59,520 Speaker 7: seemed as if my husband was relieved to give me 1166 00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:04,000 Speaker 7: the detail. Well, fast forward to present day, my sister 1167 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,840 Speaker 7: lives with my ex husband and they are planning to 1168 00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:11,120 Speaker 7: get married. This has torn up my entire family. My 1169 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:14,520 Speaker 7: son knows that his mommy and his auntie don't get along, 1170 00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:18,120 Speaker 7: but he does not know why. He constantly asks me 1171 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,920 Speaker 7: why his auntie lives with his daddy instead of me 1172 00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:25,320 Speaker 7: and him living with his daddy. All I told him 1173 00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:29,240 Speaker 7: is that his auntie hurt his mommy really bad. I 1174 00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:32,880 Speaker 7: have never said anything negative about his daddy to him. 1175 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,320 Speaker 7: He's too young to understand. I have told my ex 1176 00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,360 Speaker 7: that our son does not need to stay with him 1177 00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:42,200 Speaker 7: right now because it's confusing to him. My ex is 1178 00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:46,080 Speaker 7: so very nasty towards me and still has no remorse 1179 00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:48,880 Speaker 7: for what he's done, so he insists that he gets 1180 00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:52,920 Speaker 7: weekend visits visitations. For four years, I've been bitter and 1181 00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:56,560 Speaker 7: angry and want to hurt both of them. Someone mentioned 1182 00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:58,840 Speaker 7: counseling to me, but I need a little more than that. 1183 00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:02,840 Speaker 7: I need my life and in my son's life. How 1184 00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:06,400 Speaker 7: can we move on from this and be happy? Wow, 1185 00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,360 Speaker 7: you're a really good person to not have, you know, 1186 00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:14,400 Speaker 7: done something physical and violent to both of them. I 1187 00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:17,560 Speaker 7: must tell you some sort you know even if it's 1188 00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:20,600 Speaker 7: at a low level, some sort. I mean, I really 1189 00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:23,080 Speaker 7: have to commend you for that. I'm a person, I'm 1190 00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:26,720 Speaker 7: a woman that has two brothers. I always wanted sisters 1191 00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:30,000 Speaker 7: because I always, you know, just wanted that closeness. She 1192 00:59:30,080 --> 00:59:32,960 Speaker 7: could be my bff, we could bond all of that. 1193 00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:37,240 Speaker 7: But clearly this is not the case in your situation 1194 00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:40,680 Speaker 7: with you and your sister. I mean, she's ratchet and trifling, 1195 00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,720 Speaker 7: she really is. I mean, calling your job to see 1196 00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:45,200 Speaker 7: if you were at work so she could be with 1197 00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:48,480 Speaker 7: your husband and your bed. Now she's living with him. 1198 00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:51,680 Speaker 7: You divorced because he was chead. This is just awful. 1199 00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,479 Speaker 7: I mean, and I can imagine how this has torn 1200 00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:57,680 Speaker 7: your family apart, and he doesn't seem to care your 1201 00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:01,440 Speaker 7: ex husband. What affect the has on your seven year 1202 01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:04,880 Speaker 7: old son. That's really where your focus should be. How 1203 01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,080 Speaker 7: is he going to come out of all of this? 1204 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:09,280 Speaker 7: So to you, I got to tell you you got 1205 01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:11,320 Speaker 7: to be strong right now for the both of you, 1206 01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:16,720 Speaker 7: because this kid is confused. Okay, so Daddy's not living 1207 01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,880 Speaker 7: with us, Mommy, but he is still in the family 1208 01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:24,640 Speaker 7: because he's living with Auntie. Now, can you imagine how 1209 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:25,720 Speaker 7: confusing that is? 1210 01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:26,960 Speaker 6: For a child. 1211 01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:29,920 Speaker 7: And then your ex husband wants visitation on the weekend, 1212 01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:31,920 Speaker 7: so he's going to be over there still with his daddy, 1213 01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:36,320 Speaker 7: your sister who now might be his stepmom slash auntie. 1214 01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:43,160 Speaker 7: I mean, the confusion and craziness of it, of all 1215 01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:45,880 Speaker 7: of this. But you know, he's going to find out 1216 01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:48,600 Speaker 7: she's been divorced three times. He's going to find out 1217 01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:52,200 Speaker 7: why in just a few short minutes he will be 1218 01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:56,280 Speaker 7: I'm sure ex husband number four when this is all 1219 01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,880 Speaker 7: over with, because she is trifling, she is ratchet, you're old, 1220 01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,560 Speaker 7: their sister. I mean, of all the men in the world, 1221 01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:06,280 Speaker 7: she goes after your your man, your husband, I mean, 1222 01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:07,320 Speaker 7: and right in your face. 1223 01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, but how do you get through it? This is 1224 01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:13,480 Speaker 1: a tough one right here. 1225 01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:16,480 Speaker 7: I'm gonna have to tell you if you can, yes, 1226 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:19,200 Speaker 7: I want you to go to some counseling for sure, 1227 01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:24,000 Speaker 7: for sure for you and your son. And this is hard. 1228 01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,960 Speaker 7: You're gonna have to try to find it in your 1229 01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:30,680 Speaker 7: heart to forgive them in this situation, because that's one 1230 01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:34,840 Speaker 7: of the cleanest ways you can move on with your life. 1231 01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:38,880 Speaker 7: I mean, that's hard. If you can. You know, I 1232 01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:41,440 Speaker 7: didn't say forget, but you're gonna have to try and 1233 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:45,000 Speaker 7: forgive them if you can. That's what I have for you, Steve. 1234 01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 3: All Right, before I read through this letter, I want 1235 01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 3: to make this statement right here that nothing I'm about 1236 01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:54,600 Speaker 3: to say is what I really want to say. 1237 01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,160 Speaker 1: Nothing. Nothing. 1238 01:01:58,560 --> 01:01:59,640 Speaker 7: You want to cuss, don't you. 1239 01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:03,320 Speaker 1: It's not so much to cuss, but you do. 1240 01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:03,600 Speaker 8: Though. 1241 01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,560 Speaker 3: What I want to do to the both of them, 1242 01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:11,880 Speaker 3: I can't say on the radio or recommend. So let 1243 01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:15,040 Speaker 3: me take this approach to this. This woman's been divorced 1244 01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:16,920 Speaker 3: and she's got a seven year old that caught up 1245 01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:18,960 Speaker 3: in this dysfunctional mess her ex. 1246 01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:21,520 Speaker 1: Husband after your divorce. 1247 01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:25,800 Speaker 3: After the divorce, Now this is after divorce, you find 1248 01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:28,760 Speaker 3: out that my oldest sister was having an affair with 1249 01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:32,760 Speaker 3: my husband. Okay, so now you found this out after divorce. 1250 01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:38,240 Speaker 3: This is your saving grace in this whole thing that 1251 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:45,520 Speaker 3: you found out after you got the divorce. God spared 1252 01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:51,240 Speaker 3: you knowing this during for a particular reason. And you 1253 01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:53,840 Speaker 3: turn to her for advice because she been divorced three 1254 01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,600 Speaker 3: times and she did something to make you think she 1255 01:02:56,800 --> 01:02:59,120 Speaker 3: was Okay. When I come back, I'm gonna tell you 1256 01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:01,720 Speaker 3: the grace and all of this that you have there 1257 01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:02,560 Speaker 3: is an upside. 1258 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:05,360 Speaker 7: Okay, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two of your 1259 01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:08,120 Speaker 7: response coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour. 1260 01:03:08,480 --> 01:03:17,920 Speaker 7: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Around 1261 01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:20,720 Speaker 7: the holidays. It's hard to find the right gifts, but 1262 01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:24,000 Speaker 7: you know, it's even harder getting the right gift. But 1263 01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:28,360 Speaker 7: get this, Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. They 1264 01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:32,720 Speaker 7: have incredible gift bundles. You get the latest phone with 1265 01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:35,440 Speaker 7: a new line on my plan and a brand new 1266 01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:39,480 Speaker 7: smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. You can give 1267 01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,520 Speaker 7: a couple away and get yourself one two, or you 1268 01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:45,280 Speaker 7: can keep them all to yourself. No one has to know. 1269 01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:49,160 Speaker 7: Stop by your local Verizon. All right, Steve, come on, 1270 01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:53,200 Speaker 7: let's recap today's strawberry letter. We have a problem sis. 1271 01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:56,400 Speaker 3: This woman been divorced four years, got to seven year 1272 01:03:56,400 --> 01:04:01,680 Speaker 3: old child who's in this dysfunctional mess husband. She found 1273 01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 3: out after the divorce, that found out that her oldest 1274 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:08,760 Speaker 3: sister was having an affair with the husband that you 1275 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:12,480 Speaker 3: got the divorce from. Now, there's a reason why you 1276 01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:16,680 Speaker 3: didn't know this during because that would have been gut wrenching. 1277 01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:19,880 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it is now, But at least you 1278 01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:20,960 Speaker 1: got the divorce. 1279 01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:26,160 Speaker 3: Now, during the divorce, she was your rock and you 1280 01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:29,240 Speaker 3: turned to her for advice, you know, because she been 1281 01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:32,880 Speaker 3: divorced three times. I don't know what advice you get 1282 01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:38,360 Speaker 3: from somebody that's been divorced three times, except especially when 1283 01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:40,240 Speaker 3: you're going through a divorce, except. 1284 01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:42,320 Speaker 1: Just how to get through divorcing. 1285 01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:46,000 Speaker 3: That's the best advice, Especially when you find out that 1286 01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:49,400 Speaker 3: all the signs that were there that they had been 1287 01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:51,720 Speaker 3: messing around, but you didn't notice. 1288 01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:53,640 Speaker 1: Your sister was calling you at work. 1289 01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:55,320 Speaker 3: You thought it was a check on you, but you 1290 01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:57,200 Speaker 3: found out she was making sure you was at work 1291 01:04:57,400 --> 01:04:59,400 Speaker 3: so she could be along with my husband. 1292 01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:03,160 Speaker 1: In our bed. Okay, now that's trifling. Let me tell 1293 01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:03,960 Speaker 1: you what's wrong here. 1294 01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:10,920 Speaker 3: You have discovered after the marriage that two of the 1295 01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:15,200 Speaker 3: most despicable, trifling people were. 1296 01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:15,960 Speaker 1: In your life. 1297 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:20,000 Speaker 3: You had a bad husband, you got a bad sister, 1298 01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:24,439 Speaker 3: and it's led to a bad situation. These two people 1299 01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:28,320 Speaker 3: right here are the worst of the worst. The blessing 1300 01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:32,760 Speaker 3: is you got a chance to get away from one 1301 01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:36,120 Speaker 3: of them. Now, the problem with siblings is you don't 1302 01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:39,400 Speaker 3: get to pick them. You're born with them. Because your 1303 01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:43,400 Speaker 3: sisters don't mean you have to be friends. You and 1304 01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:47,920 Speaker 3: your sister are not friends. Now, Shirley said, a good thing. 1305 01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:50,560 Speaker 3: Shirley said, you have to forgive. I don't know how 1306 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,480 Speaker 3: you forgive this right here, but you do have to 1307 01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:57,440 Speaker 3: move on from it now. When it all came out, 1308 01:05:57,520 --> 01:06:01,560 Speaker 3: you say you felt stupid, and then it seemed as 1309 01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:05,200 Speaker 3: if my husband was relieved to give you the details. 1310 01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:07,720 Speaker 1: Well, number one, he had been living a lie. 1311 01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:12,520 Speaker 3: So giving you the details also was to make you 1312 01:06:12,800 --> 01:06:17,080 Speaker 3: feel a couple of things. Number one like something was 1313 01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:20,880 Speaker 3: your fault, and number two, it was your sister's fault. 1314 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:25,040 Speaker 3: See dudes that open up about stuff like this, it's 1315 01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:28,120 Speaker 3: to say to him, some of this, if I hadn't 1316 01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:30,400 Speaker 3: been around in this situation with you and your family, 1317 01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:32,400 Speaker 3: it were half of it is your fault and the 1318 01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,120 Speaker 3: rest of it is your sister's fault. Now fast forward 1319 01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:37,960 Speaker 3: to present day. Your sister lived with your ex husband 1320 01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:41,320 Speaker 3: and they planning on getting married. How you think that's 1321 01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:44,080 Speaker 3: gonna work? As surely pointed out, she'd been divorced three 1322 01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:48,360 Speaker 3: times and she then slept with her sister's husband. 1323 01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,160 Speaker 1: What type of blessing you think fit to be on 1324 01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,440 Speaker 1: this mess? Right here? Thank God you out of it. 1325 01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:59,160 Speaker 3: See, oftentimes when God pulls us through stuff, we mess 1326 01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:03,640 Speaker 3: up by that back in the stuff. Well, now your 1327 01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:06,400 Speaker 3: son is another problem. He knows that his mommy and 1328 01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:09,640 Speaker 3: his auntie don't get along. Well, that's cool, you can 1329 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:13,080 Speaker 3: explain that. Quit taking him over there. He constantly asked 1330 01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:15,840 Speaker 3: me why has auntie lived with his daddy? Though that's 1331 01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:18,360 Speaker 3: a little bit of trouble. And if he's seven, he 1332 01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:21,480 Speaker 3: going to school, somebody else gonna ask to instead of 1333 01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:23,440 Speaker 3: you wants to know instead of why you and him 1334 01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:26,080 Speaker 3: don't live with your daddy. I told him that his 1335 01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:29,160 Speaker 3: auntie hurt his mommy really bad. I've never said anything 1336 01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:32,320 Speaker 3: negative about his daddy to him. He's too young to understand. 1337 01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:34,280 Speaker 3: I've told my ex that our son does not need 1338 01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:37,640 Speaker 3: to stay with him right now because it's confusing to him, 1339 01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:42,000 Speaker 3: which is a true statement. But now he has no 1340 01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:46,680 Speaker 3: relationship with his father, which is probably worse. 1341 01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:48,640 Speaker 1: So I don't know that. 1342 01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:51,520 Speaker 3: Since this has caused some confusion in him as to 1343 01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:54,560 Speaker 3: why his daddy is staying with his auntie and not 1344 01:07:54,680 --> 01:07:58,800 Speaker 3: staying with him and his mama, that confusion is going 1345 01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 3: to exist whether he's his dad or not. But him 1346 01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:06,600 Speaker 3: not seeing his father he needs that. He may not 1347 01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:10,360 Speaker 3: be a good husband, he could be a good father. 1348 01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:13,960 Speaker 3: Though my ex is so very nasty towards me and 1349 01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:16,800 Speaker 3: still has no remorse for what he's done. Well, he's 1350 01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:20,400 Speaker 3: nasty towards you because that's a defense mechanism. He got 1351 01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:23,960 Speaker 3: to be nasty towards you because you have every right 1352 01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:28,479 Speaker 3: to be nasty towards him. But kindness kills babies. Or 1353 01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:30,640 Speaker 3: if you were to just be kind to him and 1354 01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:34,200 Speaker 3: his ex wife, him and your sister, it would kill him. Now, 1355 01:08:34,280 --> 01:08:36,040 Speaker 3: it's gonna take a lot for you, and I'm not 1356 01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:38,840 Speaker 3: sure you the person that has that, because for years 1357 01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:40,599 Speaker 3: I've been bitter and angry and I want to hurt 1358 01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:43,160 Speaker 3: both of them. See, somebody told you that you should 1359 01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:46,040 Speaker 3: go to counseling, and you really should, because you need 1360 01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:48,879 Speaker 3: to talk over this with somebody to discuss your feelings. 1361 01:08:49,360 --> 01:08:51,760 Speaker 1: But I need a little more than that. Well, the 1362 01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:53,599 Speaker 1: only thing more than that is God. 1363 01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:56,720 Speaker 3: See, And the one thing I'm gonna tell you, some 1364 01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,479 Speaker 3: old people say sometimes you got to let go and 1365 01:08:59,600 --> 01:08:59,960 Speaker 3: let God. 1366 01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:00,200 Speaker 1: God. 1367 01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:03,679 Speaker 3: You gotta take this situation that you're going through that's 1368 01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:06,479 Speaker 3: bigger than anything any of us have for you, and 1369 01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:09,479 Speaker 3: you got to turn it over to God. I ain't joking, man, 1370 01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:12,240 Speaker 3: You really got to turn this one over to God 1371 01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:15,000 Speaker 3: because you need peace in your life. And I know 1372 01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:17,840 Speaker 3: no better way to get peace in your life through 1373 01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:19,120 Speaker 3: a relationship with God. 1374 01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:21,120 Speaker 1: I don't know a better way. 1375 01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:25,120 Speaker 3: It's my peace in my life and in your son's life. 1376 01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:27,759 Speaker 3: How can we move on from this and be happy? 1377 01:09:28,120 --> 01:09:30,320 Speaker 3: You move on to it because He got you out 1378 01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:34,000 Speaker 3: of it. Stop dabbling in it. You got to play 1379 01:09:34,080 --> 01:09:37,439 Speaker 3: the game now, Okay, this is your daddy boom and 1380 01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:39,960 Speaker 3: separate yourself. You gotta get to that point that you're 1381 01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:42,920 Speaker 3: gonna lose your mind. You need counseling and you need prayer. 1382 01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:47,679 Speaker 7: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 1383 01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:50,320 Speaker 7: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry 1384 01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:54,240 Speaker 7: Letter podcast on demand. Hey this is John Legend. Hi, 1385 01:09:54,560 --> 01:09:55,760 Speaker 7: this is Felicious Sean. 1386 01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:57,719 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Motown recording artist Kim. 1387 01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:00,639 Speaker 7: Hey you aw up, I'm here. This is t Ris Rock. Hey, 1388 01:10:00,680 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 7: guys myself, good morning. This is Tony Braxton. You are 1389 01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:05,360 Speaker 7: a know what timing boy, DC Young Flag. You listening 1390 01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:08,160 Speaker 7: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the 1391 01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:15,360 Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays, it's hard to 1392 01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:18,000 Speaker 7: find the right gifts, but you know it's even harder 1393 01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:22,040 Speaker 7: getting the right gift. But get this, Verizon's got the 1394 01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:27,160 Speaker 7: perfect solve for both. They have incredible gift bundles. You 1395 01:10:27,360 --> 01:10:30,360 Speaker 7: get the latest phone with a new line on my plan, 1396 01:10:30,640 --> 01:10:34,400 Speaker 7: and a brand new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. 1397 01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:37,680 Speaker 7: You can give a couple away and get yourself one too, 1398 01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:40,640 Speaker 7: or you could keep them all to yourself. No one 1399 01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:43,240 Speaker 7: has to know. Stop by your local Verizon. 1400 01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:44,559 Speaker 1: All right. 1401 01:10:44,640 --> 01:10:47,640 Speaker 7: So Thanksgiving hosting mistakes you don't want to make now. 1402 01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:50,720 Speaker 7: Check these out. Whether it's your first time hosting Thanksgiving 1403 01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,840 Speaker 7: or you've been doing it for years, you can learn 1404 01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:59,200 Speaker 7: from the mistakes of Thanksgiving paths. Number one topping the list. 1405 01:10:59,320 --> 01:11:02,720 Speaker 7: If it ain't, don't fix it. This means don't use 1406 01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:07,400 Speaker 7: Thanksgiving to test out new recipes. Just stick to what 1407 01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:10,360 Speaker 7: you know. Just stick to what you know work, all right, 1408 01:11:10,840 --> 01:11:13,200 Speaker 7: Basic dressing, the mac and cheese, all of it. 1409 01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:15,320 Speaker 1: To do list so we can get to the real 1410 01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:15,760 Speaker 1: this year. 1411 01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:20,320 Speaker 7: Okay. Number two, Tell guests what to bring, and be 1412 01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:22,520 Speaker 7: very specific. 1413 01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:22,800 Speaker 1: All right. 1414 01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:26,120 Speaker 7: If you tell them to bring whatever they like, you 1415 01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:28,439 Speaker 7: could end up with twenty five bottles of wine, a 1416 01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:33,080 Speaker 7: gas station package of cheese and crackers. You know you 1417 01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:35,240 Speaker 7: never know what you're gonna get. You just never know, 1418 01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:38,840 Speaker 7: So be specific when you tell guests that keep the 1419 01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:43,640 Speaker 7: kids entertained and mess free, all right, make sure of that. 1420 01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:48,240 Speaker 7: No slime, no legos, people walking stepping on you know, 1421 01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:49,240 Speaker 7: hurting themselves. 1422 01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:51,320 Speaker 1: You know those will end up everywhere. 1423 01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:55,120 Speaker 7: And the last one. Only allow people who can really 1424 01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:56,799 Speaker 7: cook in the kitchen. 1425 01:11:57,200 --> 01:11:59,559 Speaker 1: First of all, don't bring a thing we don't need. 1426 01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:01,920 Speaker 1: You don't need, We got all it. 1427 01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:06,360 Speaker 9: Second of all, don't bring no containers, empty containers for 1428 01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:07,479 Speaker 9: you to take something back. 1429 01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:10,240 Speaker 1: You ain't taking nothing back because you ain't bring nothing. 1430 01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:12,080 Speaker 4: But to bring nothing. 1431 01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:14,879 Speaker 7: For thirty third, you're leftover. 1432 01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:15,559 Speaker 12: Uh huh. 1433 01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:21,280 Speaker 3: You are only allowed one to go plate. And when 1434 01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:24,200 Speaker 3: you put the fall on top of it, it must 1435 01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:30,599 Speaker 3: be level, no valleys, can't be no mountain and then 1436 01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:31,800 Speaker 3: wrapped up. 1437 01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:35,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, here go another rule. 1438 01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:39,599 Speaker 11: You can't get a second plate to everybody eight see 1439 01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:43,160 Speaker 11: you back in their folk call the Jordan ain't got 1440 01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:43,559 Speaker 11: here yet. 1441 01:12:44,040 --> 01:12:46,920 Speaker 9: Okay, okay, okay, here there. This is how you know 1442 01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:52,840 Speaker 9: when the first football game is over. Your time here 1443 01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:53,519 Speaker 9: is over? 1444 01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:56,559 Speaker 1: What you're putting them out. Yeah, that's it. One game 1445 01:12:56,760 --> 01:12:59,920 Speaker 1: you one game that it's two games on Thanksgiving. I 1446 01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:02,840 Speaker 1: think it's three. You go nothing. 1447 01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:06,120 Speaker 3: Be in here cutting on this sweet potato pie to 1448 01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:11,160 Speaker 3: big Mama, say so, yeah, just be in here cutting 1449 01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:15,559 Speaker 3: no pie. Big Mama ain't told nobody to cut the pie. 1450 01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:20,559 Speaker 3: Cutting the pie for here, the pie cutting tie. 1451 01:13:23,240 --> 01:13:24,000 Speaker 7: Angry things? 1452 01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:26,800 Speaker 1: Give me true you want for the kids? 1453 01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:27,679 Speaker 2: Kids is easy? 1454 01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:31,519 Speaker 1: Six y'all behind down, that's it. Get up, just get up. 1455 01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:33,240 Speaker 1: We're fixing the kids plate. 1456 01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:35,479 Speaker 9: They don't fix their own plate, and they're gonna eat 1457 01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:37,000 Speaker 9: all of it or we're gonna whoop you go. 1458 01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:41,720 Speaker 1: Instance, We're gonna stop making that ragged yello mole. Don't 1459 01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:48,880 Speaker 1: Nobody won't it, Yeah, yello mo with the milk in it, 1460 01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:52,360 Speaker 1: don't Nobody won't shut over the. 1461 01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:58,960 Speaker 7: Thanks guys, angry Thanksgiving. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 1462 01:13:59,040 --> 01:14:06,360 Speaker 7: Morning Show. Millions of Americans will be traveling by air 1463 01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:10,080 Speaker 7: for Thanksgiving this year, and the TSA expects to be 1464 01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:14,360 Speaker 7: X raying a lot of bags containing turkeys, side dishes, 1465 01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:18,519 Speaker 7: and desserts. Okay, but while Unester may be allowed to 1466 01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:21,640 Speaker 7: carry her famous sweet potato pie on the plane. There 1467 01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:23,800 Speaker 7: are some food items that need to be checked with 1468 01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,320 Speaker 7: the rest of the luggage. Okay, So here's a list 1469 01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:29,799 Speaker 7: of Thanksgiving dinner items. Okay, cannot be one. 1470 01:14:29,720 --> 01:14:31,960 Speaker 1: Person to be listening to this in particular. 1471 01:14:32,439 --> 01:14:36,120 Speaker 3: I don't know what you say, but if for Sean McDonald, 1472 01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:39,519 Speaker 3: this listener, I want you to pay attention to this list, 1473 01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:40,320 Speaker 3: go ahead, shirl. 1474 01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:41,120 Speaker 1: Okay. 1475 01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:44,680 Speaker 7: Anyway, this is a list that you can carry on. 1476 01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:48,160 Speaker 7: You can carry on baked goods like dressing. It has 1477 01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:51,120 Speaker 7: to be cooked, of course, baked mac and cheese. Any 1478 01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:54,600 Speaker 7: kind of meat can be frozen, uncooked, cooked, and seasoning. 1479 01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:59,280 Speaker 7: These are all solid foods, no liquids or jels. Now 1480 01:14:59,320 --> 01:15:01,760 Speaker 7: here's the list the items that you must check in 1481 01:15:02,120 --> 01:15:03,400 Speaker 7: your checked baggage. 1482 01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:03,759 Speaker 1: Okay. 1483 01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:11,960 Speaker 7: Gravy grave that, yeah, got to have it, go back, 1484 01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:23,080 Speaker 7: it'll need to please. Cranberry sauce, cranberry got. 1485 01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:26,519 Speaker 1: To have God, hell, but I need whole berries. Though 1486 01:15:27,760 --> 01:15:30,240 Speaker 1: you don't like it, now, cranberry, I like that? 1487 01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:32,560 Speaker 3: Can I like that ocean spray? Can you don't like 1488 01:15:33,400 --> 01:15:38,200 Speaker 3: I like that ocean spring? The whole berries eat the 1489 01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:41,240 Speaker 3: other if it ain't nothing left, but I would prefer 1490 01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:41,960 Speaker 3: the berries. 1491 01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:47,120 Speaker 7: Okay, All right, liquor, liquor, gotta put that in your bag, 1492 01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:51,280 Speaker 7: Gotta check check that anything else you guys can think 1493 01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:52,720 Speaker 7: of that you can't care looking on. 1494 01:15:52,800 --> 01:15:54,560 Speaker 9: Me to be close to that ghibli grave and that 1495 01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:57,400 Speaker 9: bottle break and mess up and we cannot mess up 1496 01:15:57,439 --> 01:15:58,360 Speaker 9: that ghiblit grat. 1497 01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:06,000 Speaker 1: One of your baked goods is listen to me carefully. 1498 01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:09,000 Speaker 3: If one of your baked goods and sweet potato and 1499 01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:13,920 Speaker 3: punkin pie comebine, don't even pack it. I'm just telling you, 1500 01:16:14,120 --> 01:16:20,080 Speaker 3: don't even This is personal advice for people I know. 1501 01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:24,960 Speaker 3: Oh okay, don't nobody like that combination. It was a 1502 01:16:25,120 --> 01:16:25,920 Speaker 3: bad idea. 1503 01:16:26,360 --> 01:16:29,479 Speaker 1: It was a bad idea. If you the person that 1504 01:16:29,880 --> 01:16:32,520 Speaker 1: make the yams and you're putting. 1505 01:16:32,360 --> 01:16:36,280 Speaker 3: Marsh roast marshmallows on top of it, keep yours at 1506 01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:39,360 Speaker 3: the house too, Yes, calin. 1507 01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:41,759 Speaker 7: What about the greens? 1508 01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:44,759 Speaker 1: Do I pack the greens or bring them all the plane? 1509 01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:47,519 Speaker 1: Because you know greens on the flight they got to 1510 01:16:47,600 --> 01:16:54,280 Speaker 1: go under. You have to freeze that too. Got yeah, 1511 01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:57,240 Speaker 1: but greens thought out, ain't they good? What about the 1512 01:16:57,280 --> 01:16:58,000 Speaker 1: potato setting? 1513 01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:02,880 Speaker 9: Oh, put that in your backpack. That's got to be 1514 01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:04,519 Speaker 9: in my backpack. I'm not letting that out of my. 1515 01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:07,439 Speaker 7: To the house. 1516 01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:10,160 Speaker 1: That's a solid, but you're gonna have to be careful. 1517 01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:18,479 Speaker 1: Everybody can't make Yeah, it's Steve Robin Martin show man. 1518 01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:22,880 Speaker 11: Listen man, ask you this. It's why you say God 1519 01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:25,080 Speaker 11: did it again? You keep saying it every day. You 1520 01:17:25,200 --> 01:17:26,680 Speaker 11: keep saying that over and over he did. 1521 01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:27,320 Speaker 1: He woke me up. 1522 01:17:27,400 --> 01:17:30,360 Speaker 11: Got another opportunity. Well, how do you handle somebody's about saying, 1523 01:17:30,400 --> 01:17:31,200 Speaker 11: how do you know it's God? 1524 01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:32,320 Speaker 7: It could be me doing this? 1525 01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:36,479 Speaker 3: Okay, keep on thinking that. You know, I'm not really 1526 01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:39,920 Speaker 3: good at the witnessing part. Yeah, I'm more of a 1527 01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:42,880 Speaker 3: witness through example and a witness through you know, you 1528 01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:45,720 Speaker 3: look at me and see how good God is being. 1529 01:17:46,200 --> 01:17:49,880 Speaker 3: But if you're defiant to that, I'm not really the 1530 01:17:50,000 --> 01:17:53,920 Speaker 3: best Christian for that because I don't have time. I 1531 01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:56,920 Speaker 3: just really don't have time to address a person that 1532 01:17:57,040 --> 01:17:58,519 Speaker 3: thinks it's them and not God. 1533 01:17:59,000 --> 01:17:59,680 Speaker 1: I really don't know. 1534 01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:02,760 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna get into a debate with you about it, 1535 01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:06,240 Speaker 3: as I oftentimes see people do. That's just not my 1536 01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:10,040 Speaker 3: strong suit because me personally, if you don't believe in God, 1537 01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:11,280 Speaker 3: I think you a fool. 1538 01:18:12,000 --> 01:18:15,880 Speaker 1: I think you're a complete idiotic fool. 1539 01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:19,559 Speaker 3: I think you're an imbelcome but then I'm pretty sure 1540 01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:22,720 Speaker 3: if you're an atheist, you must feel the same way 1541 01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:24,759 Speaker 3: about me and other people. 1542 01:18:24,560 --> 01:18:26,600 Speaker 1: Who believe in God. How can you believe in this 1543 01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,920 Speaker 1: unseen power? How can you believe in this? I got 1544 01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:30,759 Speaker 1: a lot of proof. 1545 01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:34,000 Speaker 3: But if you think I'm a fool and I think 1546 01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:37,040 Speaker 3: you a fool, like I said on Piers Morgan that time, 1547 01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:40,200 Speaker 3: I just don't think two fools ought to be standing 1548 01:18:40,240 --> 01:18:41,280 Speaker 3: around talking. 1549 01:18:43,680 --> 01:18:48,320 Speaker 1: After you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1550 01:18:52,240 --> 01:18:55,680 Speaker 7: All right, So a woman with a handyman husband has 1551 01:18:55,760 --> 01:18:58,040 Speaker 7: come up with a very clever way to earn some 1552 01:18:58,240 --> 01:19:02,960 Speaker 7: extra money. She rents her husband out to other women. 1553 01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:06,320 Speaker 7: Her husband is excellent handyman skills, and she knows a 1554 01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:08,759 Speaker 7: lot of women who don't have someone as handy around 1555 01:19:09,160 --> 01:19:12,559 Speaker 7: to fix things in their homes. So she created get 1556 01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:16,639 Speaker 7: this rent my handy husband. She did this for about 1557 01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:18,320 Speaker 7: forty four dollars an hour. 1558 01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:19,600 Speaker 1: Okay, this is what you can do. 1559 01:19:19,960 --> 01:19:23,080 Speaker 7: Her husband can come over and take care of any 1560 01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:27,479 Speaker 7: household projects that need to get done. What kinds of 1561 01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:30,559 Speaker 7: jobs do you think this man is doing? And these 1562 01:19:30,640 --> 01:19:36,760 Speaker 7: other women's houses for forty four dollars an hour anything else, 1563 01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:37,439 Speaker 7: I'm just you know. 1564 01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:40,560 Speaker 1: What, I'm just going out right. There's a lot of 1565 01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:44,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, a lot of women that are gonna 1566 01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:45,920 Speaker 1: send their husband over know. 1567 01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:49,400 Speaker 7: The woman out just don't know at all. 1568 01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:52,439 Speaker 1: I'd like to see the guy though, you see. 1569 01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:56,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, look like I'd like to see the 1570 01:19:56,760 --> 01:19:59,599 Speaker 3: guy and me and the women that you know who 1571 01:19:59,840 --> 01:20:02,439 Speaker 3: just be a handyman service though it could very well 1572 01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:02,920 Speaker 3: be there. 1573 01:20:03,040 --> 01:20:05,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, and how did they go off for forty four 1574 01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:05,760 Speaker 7: an hour? 1575 01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:06,160 Speaker 8: Yeah? 1576 01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:09,960 Speaker 7: Come over and take care of any household projects that 1577 01:20:10,160 --> 01:20:11,200 Speaker 7: need to get done. 1578 01:20:11,800 --> 01:20:15,000 Speaker 1: I got my own handy man. I got one myself. Okay, 1579 01:20:15,120 --> 01:20:17,439 Speaker 1: changing lights built if you know how them lights deals 1580 01:20:17,520 --> 01:20:17,720 Speaker 1: up there? 1581 01:20:17,880 --> 01:20:22,000 Speaker 3: Hey, I'm not hold hold hold on, rich boy, Rich boy, 1582 01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:25,080 Speaker 3: y'all missed that. So you got a handy man live 1583 01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:26,880 Speaker 3: at your house to come and fix all. 1584 01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:29,360 Speaker 7: You We gotta go. We'll have more of the Steve 1585 01:20:29,439 --> 01:20:32,040 Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after 1586 01:20:32,120 --> 01:20:34,680 Speaker 7: we'll play around it. 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Get Miko Mini Plus today at Costco and 1597 01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:11,040 Speaker 7: for older kids see Miko three on Miko dot, a 1598 01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:15,160 Speaker 7: I and Amazon. It's time now for a rounded. Would 1599 01:21:15,240 --> 01:21:18,200 Speaker 7: you rather Would you rather work as a cashier on 1600 01:21:18,360 --> 01:21:21,320 Speaker 7: Black Friday, the biggest shopping day of the year, or 1601 01:21:21,320 --> 01:21:23,920 Speaker 7: would you work rather work as Santa in the mall? 1602 01:21:24,439 --> 01:21:29,920 Speaker 1: Oh cashier? Cash Why not Santa sitting on me, peeing 1603 01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:31,559 Speaker 1: on my leg all day? 1604 01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:31,760 Speaker 7: No? 1605 01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:41,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, kids, I don't really like other people. 1606 01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:41,920 Speaker 8: Kids. 1607 01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:43,880 Speaker 3: So now I ain't gonna be good at center. Let 1608 01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:45,320 Speaker 3: me go and be this cash register. 1609 01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:50,040 Speaker 1: I'm I can make some money on the registery. 1610 01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:50,839 Speaker 4: Make money at Santa? 1611 01:21:51,240 --> 01:21:55,439 Speaker 11: Yeah, Junior, No, I'm gonna I'm gonna be a cashier. 1612 01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:58,280 Speaker 11: I'll be a cash here, Okay. I can't wait for 1613 01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:00,840 Speaker 11: the fights to break katt and I'm gonna get there. 1614 01:22:00,840 --> 01:22:03,040 Speaker 3: Ain't no much money they're gonna lose at that stuff, man, 1615 01:22:03,080 --> 01:22:04,639 Speaker 3: he goes, ain't gonna non. 1616 01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:10,400 Speaker 1: Next, all right? 1617 01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:15,519 Speaker 7: Would you rather sweet potatoes with marshmallows or candy yams? 1618 01:22:15,680 --> 01:22:17,479 Speaker 1: Which one candy candy? 1619 01:22:17,600 --> 01:22:17,760 Speaker 12: Yeah? 1620 01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:21,760 Speaker 3: Alright, let me tell you so, y'all, And let me 1621 01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:25,000 Speaker 3: tell y'all, y'all sweet potato people, marshmallow y'all stop. 1622 01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:31,720 Speaker 1: Okay, who're asking us food stuff? You don't get to y'all. 1623 01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:32,760 Speaker 1: Stop what. 1624 01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:36,080 Speaker 7: I give your opinion. 1625 01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:39,439 Speaker 3: Okay, call it, that's fine, but y'all need to stop 1626 01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:44,080 Speaker 3: stop mellows on that. That ain't attracted my give my 1627 01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:51,720 Speaker 3: little marsh sweet tato, candy marshmallows, all right, stop doing that. 1628 01:22:52,720 --> 01:22:53,080 Speaker 3: Doing that. 1629 01:22:53,240 --> 01:22:54,599 Speaker 7: It's regular candy jam. 1630 01:22:55,240 --> 01:23:03,759 Speaker 1: That's white folk recipe. Stop is not wed Yeah people, sugar, 1631 01:23:04,280 --> 01:23:05,599 Speaker 1: cinnamon and butter. 1632 01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:14,000 Speaker 7: I don't forget the yeah, all right. Would you rather 1633 01:23:14,080 --> 01:23:16,880 Speaker 7: be a caddy at the Masters or water boy at 1634 01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:17,719 Speaker 7: the super Bowl? 1635 01:23:18,160 --> 01:23:23,200 Speaker 1: It's not being no water boy cad caddy at the Masters? 1636 01:23:23,280 --> 01:23:25,879 Speaker 7: Man, Well, you're at the super Bowl. 1637 01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:30,880 Speaker 1: About water boy? Some about that boy on the end 1638 01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:35,559 Speaker 1: of it. A whole lot of people some water. 1639 01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:37,960 Speaker 3: I'm not doing that. I want them clubs at the Masters. 1640 01:23:38,040 --> 01:23:41,440 Speaker 3: Man got somebody that's winning it too? 1641 01:23:41,920 --> 01:23:43,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, with that white jump on. 1642 01:23:44,280 --> 01:23:47,800 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, all right, would you rather take a winter 1643 01:23:48,040 --> 01:23:50,760 Speaker 7: road trip with no heat in the car or no 1644 01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:51,479 Speaker 7: seat belt? 1645 01:23:51,840 --> 01:23:53,719 Speaker 1: J I'm gonna have to go with no seat. 1646 01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:56,519 Speaker 8: I have to go with. 1647 01:24:00,040 --> 01:24:02,639 Speaker 1: A win and they'd dive he ain't got that heat 1648 01:24:02,680 --> 01:24:02,880 Speaker 1: on it? 1649 01:24:03,200 --> 01:24:09,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, first of all, it's winter. Let's start there. Which one, Steve? 1650 01:24:09,960 --> 01:24:13,760 Speaker 1: Oh, no seat belt? I ain't gonna hit nothing no more? 1651 01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:16,320 Speaker 1: You said no seatbelt? Yeah, no seat belt? 1652 01:24:18,000 --> 01:24:21,080 Speaker 7: Yeah gotta have Yeah? All right, guys, thank you. That's 1653 01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:24,880 Speaker 7: today's round of would you rather? Coming up next? It 1654 01:24:25,040 --> 01:24:26,800 Speaker 7: is our last break of the day, and we'll close 1655 01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:28,960 Speaker 7: out the show with the one and only Steve Harvey 1656 01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:29,880 Speaker 7: right after this. 1657 01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:32,120 Speaker 1: We grew up with no seat belt on call? 1658 01:24:32,840 --> 01:24:36,240 Speaker 7: Hell yeah, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1659 01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:41,559 Speaker 7: Around the holidays, it's hard to find the right gifts, 1660 01:24:41,800 --> 01:24:44,800 Speaker 7: but you know, it's even harder getting the right gift. 1661 01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:48,920 Speaker 7: But get this. Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. 1662 01:24:49,280 --> 01:24:53,559 Speaker 7: They have incredible gift bundles. You get the latest phone 1663 01:24:53,760 --> 01:24:56,320 Speaker 7: with a new line on my plan and a brand 1664 01:24:56,360 --> 01:24:59,439 Speaker 7: new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. 1665 01:24:59,760 --> 01:24:59,800 Speaker 8: You. 1666 01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:02,720 Speaker 7: You can give a couple away and get yourself one too, 1667 01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:05,680 Speaker 7: or you can keep them all to yourself. No one 1668 01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:09,560 Speaker 7: has to know. Stop by your local verizons. It is 1669 01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:12,559 Speaker 7: our last break of the day. It's been a good day, 1670 01:25:13,000 --> 01:25:13,519 Speaker 7: fun day. 1671 01:25:17,080 --> 01:25:18,680 Speaker 3: So I just want to share something with you for 1672 01:25:18,800 --> 01:25:21,439 Speaker 3: my closing remarks, because I want to talk to people 1673 01:25:21,520 --> 01:25:25,360 Speaker 3: who are not finding joy and waking up in the morning. 1674 01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:29,080 Speaker 3: I want to talk to people who are not living 1675 01:25:29,280 --> 01:25:32,200 Speaker 3: the life of excitement that they like to live. I'm 1676 01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:35,200 Speaker 3: talking to that person, and it's a lot of them. 1677 01:25:37,160 --> 01:25:40,120 Speaker 3: If you've lost your enthusiasm for life, if you're not 1678 01:25:40,280 --> 01:25:43,680 Speaker 3: waking up excited to wake up, if you just you're 1679 01:25:43,760 --> 01:25:46,040 Speaker 3: just intodulgums, you find yourself in the rut. 1680 01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:48,479 Speaker 1: I have some advice for you. Have some good news. 1681 01:25:50,160 --> 01:25:55,200 Speaker 3: You can stop feeling dulgums the life like your life 1682 01:25:55,280 --> 01:25:57,680 Speaker 3: is indulgence. You can stop feeling like your life is 1683 01:25:57,760 --> 01:26:00,519 Speaker 3: in a rut. You can stop waking up on the 1684 01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:04,960 Speaker 3: wrong side of the bed. You can stop waking up 1685 01:26:05,080 --> 01:26:09,920 Speaker 3: and not being excited about waking up. Because I want 1686 01:26:09,960 --> 01:26:12,000 Speaker 3: to share something to remember when you were a kid 1687 01:26:13,960 --> 01:26:18,720 Speaker 3: and Christmas Eve came, you could not sleep man in 1688 01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:23,479 Speaker 3: anticipation of what you might get under that tree. I 1689 01:26:23,680 --> 01:26:25,960 Speaker 3: remember when it was time to take a field trip 1690 01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:30,759 Speaker 3: in school the night before, Man, you could not wait 1691 01:26:31,840 --> 01:26:33,960 Speaker 3: to wake up and get down there because you was 1692 01:26:34,160 --> 01:26:35,519 Speaker 3: going on the field trip. 1693 01:26:37,479 --> 01:26:39,200 Speaker 1: I remember, Man, when they. 1694 01:26:39,320 --> 01:26:42,560 Speaker 3: Moved gym to first class, I couldn't wait to go 1695 01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:44,800 Speaker 3: to school so I could go to gym. It was 1696 01:26:44,880 --> 01:26:48,920 Speaker 3: the one one class I was guaranteed I was gonna 1697 01:26:48,920 --> 01:26:52,879 Speaker 3: get an A in because I just gym physical education. 1698 01:26:53,720 --> 01:26:57,160 Speaker 3: So that's because I woke up with the expectations. All 1699 01:26:57,200 --> 01:27:00,320 Speaker 3: of people have lost that as they've gotten older. Wake 1700 01:27:00,400 --> 01:27:03,680 Speaker 3: up unenthusiastic about waking up. People wake up in the dulgeums. 1701 01:27:03,720 --> 01:27:05,439 Speaker 3: People wake up on the wrong side of the bed. 1702 01:27:05,840 --> 01:27:09,479 Speaker 3: People wake up man, just like they. Life is in 1703 01:27:09,560 --> 01:27:12,920 Speaker 3: a rut. I have a solution for you. If you've 1704 01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:18,439 Speaker 3: lost your enthusiasm and you don't look or expect anything, 1705 01:27:19,920 --> 01:27:21,120 Speaker 3: that's the problem. 1706 01:27:22,160 --> 01:27:24,000 Speaker 1: It's just like when you were a kid. 1707 01:27:24,680 --> 01:27:27,400 Speaker 3: So if you've lost your enthusiasm for waking up, it's 1708 01:27:27,520 --> 01:27:30,799 Speaker 3: because when you're waking up, you're not looking for anything. 1709 01:27:30,920 --> 01:27:34,400 Speaker 3: You don't have anything that you're expecting. You think there's 1710 01:27:34,640 --> 01:27:39,639 Speaker 3: nothing on the other side of this daylight called morning. Well, 1711 01:27:40,120 --> 01:27:44,360 Speaker 3: I have a solution for that. Since you used to 1712 01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:47,200 Speaker 3: be so excited at Christmas. Used to be so excited 1713 01:27:47,280 --> 01:27:50,439 Speaker 3: on the field trip. Used to be so excited to 1714 01:27:50,600 --> 01:27:53,880 Speaker 3: go on a date. Used to be so excited man, 1715 01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:56,479 Speaker 3: to go to this class and had this little girl 1716 01:27:56,600 --> 01:27:59,600 Speaker 3: or this little boy in it. So excited when you 1717 01:27:59,640 --> 01:28:02,960 Speaker 3: were by to buy your car, so excited when you 1718 01:28:03,120 --> 01:28:07,599 Speaker 3: was These are things, man, your first game, your first 1719 01:28:07,680 --> 01:28:10,400 Speaker 3: sporting event, you played in, the first time, you cheered, 1720 01:28:10,720 --> 01:28:11,719 Speaker 3: you so excited. 1721 01:28:12,200 --> 01:28:12,880 Speaker 1: Here's what you do. 1722 01:28:13,760 --> 01:28:19,200 Speaker 3: You should wake up in the morning to see what 1723 01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:23,200 Speaker 3: God has for you. Are you listening to me? You 1724 01:28:23,320 --> 01:28:27,000 Speaker 3: should wake up in the morning to see what God 1725 01:28:27,160 --> 01:28:30,679 Speaker 3: has for you. See, she used to be enthusiastic because 1726 01:28:30,720 --> 01:28:34,560 Speaker 3: you knew what was gonna happen. You thought about what 1727 01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:37,200 Speaker 3: you get for Christmas. You thought about the field trip, 1728 01:28:37,280 --> 01:28:40,080 Speaker 3: You thought about that new bike, you thought about buying 1729 01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:44,479 Speaker 3: a car, you thought about the date. Well, God gives 1730 01:28:44,520 --> 01:28:48,120 Speaker 3: you this gift every day he wakes you up. He 1731 01:28:48,200 --> 01:28:51,520 Speaker 3: gives you a brand new twenty four. That's an incredible 1732 01:28:52,000 --> 01:28:54,200 Speaker 3: gift to get every day, y'all. And the reason he 1733 01:28:54,280 --> 01:28:56,880 Speaker 3: gives you that gift when he wakes you up is 1734 01:28:56,960 --> 01:28:59,439 Speaker 3: because He's not through with you yet. I've said this 1735 01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:02,720 Speaker 3: a thousand and times, so if now, if you can 1736 01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:06,000 Speaker 3: understand this, start looking at it this way, that God 1737 01:29:06,120 --> 01:29:09,439 Speaker 3: is not through with you yet. How about this, how 1738 01:29:09,520 --> 01:29:13,040 Speaker 3: about when you wake up, you wake up to see 1739 01:29:13,400 --> 01:29:17,080 Speaker 3: what God has for you. I promise you, if you 1740 01:29:17,240 --> 01:29:22,400 Speaker 3: start waking up with the expectation, the enthusiasm to see what. 1741 01:29:22,640 --> 01:29:25,519 Speaker 1: God has for you, it'll change the way you wake up. 1742 01:29:26,520 --> 01:29:29,560 Speaker 3: I do it all the time. I wake up to 1743 01:29:29,880 --> 01:29:33,960 Speaker 3: see what God has for me. I wake up to 1744 01:29:34,240 --> 01:29:36,800 Speaker 3: see what God gonna do for me. And this is 1745 01:29:36,920 --> 01:29:41,640 Speaker 3: for everybody. This ain't for the well off. Are the 1746 01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:46,080 Speaker 3: people who are overly blessed. All of you are blessed 1747 01:29:46,760 --> 01:29:49,920 Speaker 3: if you still here. But you got to change the 1748 01:29:49,960 --> 01:29:52,880 Speaker 3: way you look at this gift call tomorrow, this gift 1749 01:29:52,960 --> 01:29:55,240 Speaker 3: call this morning. Man, you have to wake up to 1750 01:29:55,280 --> 01:29:57,760 Speaker 3: see what God has for you. If you start waking 1751 01:29:57,840 --> 01:29:59,920 Speaker 3: up to see what God has for you, guess what's 1752 01:30:00,040 --> 01:30:03,920 Speaker 3: gonna happen. He gonna show you, He gonna give it 1753 01:30:04,040 --> 01:30:06,840 Speaker 3: to you. But if you don't live your life in 1754 01:30:07,040 --> 01:30:12,240 Speaker 3: expectation that there is nothing to expect. All you got 1755 01:30:12,320 --> 01:30:14,720 Speaker 3: to do is change that. Man, wake up to see 1756 01:30:14,760 --> 01:30:17,759 Speaker 3: what God has for you. That a change your position 1757 01:30:17,880 --> 01:30:20,000 Speaker 3: in life. Those are my perfect Mark, I hope you 1758 01:30:20,080 --> 01:30:22,439 Speaker 3: got something from you. If you did, we'll do another 1759 01:30:23,160 --> 01:30:27,160 Speaker 3: next tru. Okay, okay, talk to God everybody he'd loved to. 1760 01:30:27,160 --> 01:30:27,640 Speaker 1: Hear from you. 1761 01:30:28,040 --> 01:30:31,480 Speaker 7: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void we're prohibited. 1762 01:30:31,520 --> 01:30:35,000 Speaker 7: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1763 01:30:35,160 --> 01:30:38,880 Speaker 7: unless otherwise stated. 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