WEBVTT - Sister from Another Season with Kristen Doute

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I suck a Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

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<v Speaker 1>and I heart radio podcast. Hey everyone, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>listening to another episode of Help I Second Dating. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually all alone in studio right now with Easton. I

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<v Speaker 1>flew in from Montreal and I made it in time

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<v Speaker 1>into the studio. Dean, you're late. Jared is not in today?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I was early, I was told. Um, so

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<v Speaker 1>I like being on time. I feel like if you're late,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a sign of disrespect. Dean, right, yes, absolutely, So

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<v Speaker 1>today we have another amazing episode. Um, we have a

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<v Speaker 1>guest in studio, Madison Houseburg. I hope I'm pronouncing her

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<v Speaker 1>name correctly. UM from the reality show C S Ticky.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is the first I've hear of it. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many reality shows now coming out. We just

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<v Speaker 1>interviewed Mark L. Wahlberg, not Mark Wahlberg. Um from Paradise Island?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that no Temptation from Temptation Island? Um? So, cis

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<v Speaker 1>ta Key is a TV show that talks about like

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<v Speaker 1>love and basically kind of like Laguna Beach or what's

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<v Speaker 1>that other TV show that's filmed out here? Um that

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<v Speaker 1>has like people from is a Laguna Beach, the hills,

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<v Speaker 1>the hill is the hill? Are the Hills and Laguna

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<v Speaker 1>Beach the same? The same people? Yeah? Okay, so to

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<v Speaker 1>move north? Right, So I feel like this is similar

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<v Speaker 1>to um what Laguna Beaches? Oh? There he is? We

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<v Speaker 1>started without Hey, yeah, we already started. I'll just like

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<v Speaker 1>introduce that Dean. I said, you know, when someone is late,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a sign of disrespect. What you're late? Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>we literally wait around half an hour before every single episodes.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go, We've got some time. Yeah, Well I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>are you kidding? I was waiting for you. Well I'm here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're you guys. Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>having me in studio today. It's an honor. It's a pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>A full house today, and I feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're you guys are not outnumbered as three to three.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm always the only woman in studio.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's right. So I brought with me, um

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<v Speaker 1>Camille past who is going to be there with us?

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<v Speaker 1>I have like I have a new girl BFF and

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<v Speaker 1>l A now pump. Oh no, I'm going back to Montreal.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't live here, but like you'll come back I'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back and we'll hang and I'll just stare at you,

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<v Speaker 1>but more importantly stare I'll have a nice candle, a

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<v Speaker 1>more importantly than Camille. As I was walking in, Madison

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<v Speaker 1>came in as well. Madison's the last name Houisburg. What's

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<v Speaker 1>your background? Is that German? Yeah, I mean from a

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<v Speaker 1>fellow German. Of course, I'm going to pronounce you last name.

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<v Speaker 1>But wouldn't it be like Ausberg or House? Right? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that not new our second season? Okay, were you in

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<v Speaker 1>season one? So you're in season one season two? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like you're recurring thing like Laguna Beach and yes, exactly, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>to compare ourselves to Laguna Beach to the Hills, although

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they're like attainable anymore. Like what do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean you're so good? Well, but he's really good

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<v Speaker 1>to You're like the two nineteen Laguna Beach. We'll give

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<v Speaker 1>you that, like that ten year challenge. Stephanie Pratt has

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast with Um Wells that's Orange Laguna Beach. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know one of the two anyway, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's still got like that beach vibe, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>in Florida. It's in Florida. Oh and if there's one

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<v Speaker 1>thing we know about, you seem so like anti Florida. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I love Florida. No, no, I thought because

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<v Speaker 1>you hear of all these reality TV shows, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, it's like in Santa Monica. It's definitely a

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<v Speaker 1>proven fact that Florida breeds the craziest because yeah, like

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<v Speaker 1>spring Break in the Keys, So what is the key

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<v Speaker 1>about them? Exactly? Do you guys living your life in

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<v Speaker 1>this key? Yeah, it's young adults just coming into our

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<v Speaker 1>our adulthood and trying to like figure it out. I

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<v Speaker 1>am twenty four, okay, so yeah, I'm still young adult

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. Yeah, I try to keep it young a doll.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm like an adult now and I should probably.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm twenty seven and I'm still clinging onto my childhood

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<v Speaker 1>as long as I possibly already one. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm twenty. I am like the queen of saying ages

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<v Speaker 1>just a number. We're all doing the same thing. Does

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<v Speaker 1>it even matter? YEA life is when I almost forgot

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<v Speaker 1>because I never talked about I just I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. Yeah, I just turned white. I turned thirty

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<v Speaker 1>one this year, and I'm like, I forgot how old

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I thought I was twenty nine for the

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<v Speaker 1>longest time, like and I'm like, oh no, I got

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<v Speaker 1>to add two years to that. I totally forgotten. What

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<v Speaker 1>It kind of reminds me of, like when people are like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I went in the store and I

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<v Speaker 1>just tried on the size six, right, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>too small and I'm usually a size four, And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>no one knows, no one cares that you will. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just having this conversation with someone. Now nowadays

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<v Speaker 1>it's all about like quantifying yourself, like how much do

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<v Speaker 1>you wait? How many Instagram followers, how many legs, how

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<v Speaker 1>many comments do you get? At the stage you need

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<v Speaker 1>to be married and have kids. And I'm like, right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I do want kids now, so can me A last

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<v Speaker 1>week on the on the podcast, we talked about Vanessa

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<v Speaker 1>potentially freezing her eggs zap zap, zap. Sure, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you guys feel about that? I want to do that

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<v Speaker 1>now right, and had expert on the podcast and they

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<v Speaker 1>said the prime time to do it is mid to

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<v Speaker 1>late twenties. Yeah, you're in your prime time, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Why well, I mean, just listen to last episode, but

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<v Speaker 1>let's get into siest you guys are. That's like one

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<v Speaker 1>of my biggest just like what if I'm in a hurdle, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like or what if I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>should think about these things now? I think I shared

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<v Speaker 1>the story on the podcast before. I had the same

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<v Speaker 1>fear when I was twenty three, moved to Los Angeles

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<v Speaker 1>and went to a fertility clinic and got my sperm

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<v Speaker 1>tested to make sure I was able to impregnant a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that. I was terrified. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm gonna Why did you have Why

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<v Speaker 1>did you feel that? I don't know. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>figured as a numbers game, like my girlfriend and I

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<v Speaker 1>were made enough mistakes at like a young age to

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<v Speaker 1>where there should have been a scared I've been there total. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>after last week's information, I mean, it's really it's a

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<v Speaker 1>miracle that babies are you're able to conceive because it

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<v Speaker 1>only one egg that's fertilt, that's mature drops, which is

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<v Speaker 1>crazy if you think about it, like it's a miracle. Anyway. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so are you so a bunch of single people or

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<v Speaker 1>you were actually in a relationship with so many Oh

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<v Speaker 1>well here says you're in a relationship with Benny and

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<v Speaker 1>it was an LDR or you were entertaining the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of a long distance Yes, so we start the season out, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we're kind of I'm kind of trying to manage that

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<v Speaker 1>we have. We haven't really like DTR determined the relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel so old now. But so it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird, like starting long distance before we had even

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<v Speaker 1>established like what we are, you know, So it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of uneasy, but you know, we worked through it and

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<v Speaker 1>so you how long was how long distance was the relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>Where did he live? He lived in Houston. Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty far. Yeah, so it's not like you can just

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<v Speaker 1>drive right. It's definitely like a flight and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>an ordeal, like we have to planet, you know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like Orleandaro Miami, which is still pretty far. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like that. Okay, yeah, that's where is the

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<v Speaker 1>SQ that's near Miami, right, Sara Soda, it's four hours north. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have to understand, I don't know what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on here. Who has been did you meet him on

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<v Speaker 1>the show your boyfriend before you went on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>People listening who don't know either, you know, you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, You're right, So back it up. Ben. Ben

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<v Speaker 1>was a friend from college. He was like a hook

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<v Speaker 1>up for five years, and so I decided I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of wanted to, you know, settle down with him or

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<v Speaker 1>like figure that out, which I don't know is always

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea, Like he's a hook up for a

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<v Speaker 1>reason and maybe not feelings are attached that we all

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<v Speaker 1>seen exact friends with benefits. Yeah, but you'll see how

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<v Speaker 1>that plays out. I mean, it might have been better

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<v Speaker 1>just leaving it. I got it. Wait, so do you

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<v Speaker 1>would bet go on skis together? Yeah? Well, I so

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<v Speaker 1>I was on it the first season. I'm more interested.

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<v Speaker 1>How does this thing come about? Who are you guys all? Friend?

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<v Speaker 1>How do they cast people? So there. I have an

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<v Speaker 1>ex boyfriend from high school named Alex, and he his

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<v Speaker 1>dad decided to start this show sis and I was

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<v Speaker 1>in college at the time, and he called me up

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, you know, we're a bunch of Alex's

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<v Speaker 1>friends and you're his ex girlfriend. Do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>be on the show? So I really didn't know I

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<v Speaker 1>was signing up for. And this is your father, or

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<v Speaker 1>this is Ben's father, this is Alex is another he's

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<v Speaker 1>like the king of all the prince. I guess Alex

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<v Speaker 1>to be the prince, and then his father would be

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<v Speaker 1>the king. Okay, And so he called you shows like

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<v Speaker 1>the ex girlfriend. It was just a bunch of people

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<v Speaker 1>who knew each other before. Yeah, it's actually like it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't cast at all by casting director. Was all just

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<v Speaker 1>Alex And so it legitimately is like Luguna beach. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>totally okay. Cool? Oh, I understand well, and then so

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<v Speaker 1>I feel so much better over here. Yeah, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have the one. Well, so then tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about Ben a little bit more, because what I'm reading

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<v Speaker 1>here it says Ben's secret, what's been secret? Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>give us some it's it's not good. Well, well he's cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>Is he cheating? No? Does you have an illegitimate child?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, it sounds like now whatever his secret is? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I think we put the worst ones out there,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say that Ben is still a good No

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<v Speaker 1>Ben um, by the way, Camel Dean is really good

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<v Speaker 1>at getting on too. I still respect then, I still

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<v Speaker 1>I think then it's a great guy. I just maybe

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<v Speaker 1>not relationship material. Okay, okay, and so and so in

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<v Speaker 1>this season of CS tke do we get to see

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<v Speaker 1>that bold? Yes? Okay? Cool? And then Alex comes into

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<v Speaker 1>the picture. No, Alex, Alex is the reason why she's

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<v Speaker 1>on the show. Alex was ex boyfriend number one and

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<v Speaker 1>then Dean Dean, whoops, well maybe he never go to

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<v Speaker 1>hear my boyfriend's that go on? Then then now her

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know if he's her boyfriend or ex boyfriends.

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<v Speaker 1>So I kind of feel like it's paradise. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever watched Bachelor in Paradise? Oh? Not that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>paradi It's not like fue Paradise like everyone is briefly yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because it says like basically every anything goes right, like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are drinking and partying, and but you're not

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<v Speaker 1>are you stuck? You know? And it's not like camera Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not all living in a house. Yeah. I'm so intrigued.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I definitely have to watch the season

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<v Speaker 1>of So I have question you do for people? January

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<v Speaker 1>twenty second? Where can we watch this January on MTV Central?

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<v Speaker 1>What is good? Old MTV Love the MTV nine. This

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<v Speaker 1>is like there's that show floora Bama shore. I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna ask if you ever do a crossover with them,

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<v Speaker 1>I will tell you it's very different than it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Just it's you know, it has that like the Hills five.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very like and shot a bunch of affluent white

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<v Speaker 1>Now my ex boyfriend Brandon another one. Oh, there's about

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<v Speaker 1>Jared yet not our Jared, of course, Jared in Mexico.

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<v Speaker 1>We ex girlfriends on the podcast. No, but my ex

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend is Brandon. He's black and he is so she's

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<v Speaker 1>so hot. But it's not all white people. Excell, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it on you with a girl on the show. On

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<v Speaker 1>the show, Like, I watched it on the show. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you know while you guys were filming? What did you

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<v Speaker 1>know while you were filming? No? See, that's that's so okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I found out like later on and then three

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<v Speaker 1>months later you got to watch it back. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I get to actually watch it on cameras. So

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<v Speaker 1>for me, for people listening, what do you Because I

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<v Speaker 1>always get people asking me like, oh, should I go

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<v Speaker 1>on The Bachelor? Or oh, you know, can I find

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<v Speaker 1>love on reality TV? What's your take on that? Curious?

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<v Speaker 1>Should people go on reality TV to find love. She's

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<v Speaker 1>season two, so obviously season one. I feel like, not

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<v Speaker 1>specifically to find I think it definitely makes it harder

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<v Speaker 1>anything like, I would not say it's like a good

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<v Speaker 1>place to find love. I don't know right now, I

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<v Speaker 1>cannot come on, cannot say I think to give a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a hint before that, no one caught on,

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<v Speaker 1>But I did you sho, Yeah, come on, Madison, give

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<v Speaker 1>us a little give us the give the guy listeners,

0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:07.240
<v Speaker 1>give the three guy listeners of this podcast. You are listening,

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<v Speaker 1>you would have yeah, Okay, well maybe I need to

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<v Speaker 1>do a better job of yes, Okay, so we need

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<v Speaker 1>to do a better job of listening. Period. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>excited for this episode. Okay, well, Madison, so it tell

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<v Speaker 1>us more about the show then you're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>in this season? Is it going to be more or

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<v Speaker 1>less dramatic than the first one? Way more more more violent,

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<v Speaker 1>not like just like the words that are like people

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<v Speaker 1>get like way more dramatically, like they forget the cameras

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<v Speaker 1>are there. Do you think people are like they've done it?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think you're friends because you've you've now been

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<v Speaker 1>friends with these people on and off camera? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that they're more dramatic on camera. They turned it

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<v Speaker 1>on for the cameras. Whatever. No, I feel like they

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<v Speaker 1>just become more of themselves, like now that it's like

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<v Speaker 1>they've gotten used to the cameras being there. They're just like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, whatever, we don't care that the cameras. And

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<v Speaker 1>plus you get some alcohol like that just alcohol the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>There's even more parties this season. So how long do

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<v Speaker 1>you film for um, a couple of months. But do

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<v Speaker 1>you have so when we filmed The Bachelor, we have

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<v Speaker 1>no cell phone, no TV. Yeah I know, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>She was, I wasn't. Dean was on Rachel but they

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<v Speaker 1>both got engaged. Oh yeah, yeah, but that would happen.

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<v Speaker 1>We broke up doing your Instagram right now, that's funny.

0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:38.600
<v Speaker 1>Won The Bachelor, Nick Vile. She was a champion. She

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<v Speaker 1>walked away with the gold medal ring or enter five

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<v Speaker 1>months until they broke up. So do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you can find love on reality TV? I think if

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<v Speaker 1>you're going in and it sounds so cliche, like with

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<v Speaker 1>the right intentions, right, you know, if you're going in

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<v Speaker 1>with like actually wanting to find a relationship and wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to find love, absolutely, like I, well, I went with

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<v Speaker 1>the intention. I had no idea what I was getting

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<v Speaker 1>myself into because I didn't watched a full season of

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<v Speaker 1>the show, so I didn't really know, and I know,

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<v Speaker 1>like what to expect um, and then I did fall

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<v Speaker 1>in love. Um. But of course there's I think the

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<v Speaker 1>idea that's attached to like getting your Instagram followers and

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<v Speaker 1>like being able to make some form of money and

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<v Speaker 1>like having like all these like cool contacts and connections,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like that's great, but that dies out, and

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<v Speaker 1>so like I think if you're going in to actually

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<v Speaker 1>find that true connection, it could It can work, and

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<v Speaker 1>it can work. It has worked for a bunch of people.

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<v Speaker 1>And there are zero divorce rates. The divorce rates in

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<v Speaker 1>the Batchel world is zero. Have a kid? And doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>one of the Kardashians have a kid? Rob has a

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<v Speaker 1>kid or something. I'm just saying, these things can bread

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<v Speaker 1>children in a positive way. Why Rob Kardashian, Because because

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<v Speaker 1>all you're talking about, like show the Kardashians, like the Pratts,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't spend Yeah yeah, is that the big drama in

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<v Speaker 1>this season? The cs t keys some as a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I wish I tried to pitch. That's like

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<v Speaker 1>someone get pregnant. Okay, I'm gonna watch regardless of whether

0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:14.040
<v Speaker 1>there's a pregnancy or not. I'm still gonna be watching

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<v Speaker 1>ses SO on MTV Tuesdays at nine eight Central. We

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<v Speaker 1>got C. S. T Key. It premiered on January twenty two,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're already couple episodes in and I'm I'm hooked.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm definitely gonna finish out every single episode. And you're

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite character quote unquote, I wouldn't call our character

0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:37.240
<v Speaker 1>person thank you personality on the season. I hate something

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<v Speaker 1>Ben so much. He's absolutely the worst. He's absolutely the

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<v Speaker 1>word together something well, I think I think they might.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know. You could do better,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's as much Alright, Yeah, I'm jealous. Even studio

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<v Speaker 1>with the three most beautiful women in the world and

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<v Speaker 1>they're all in a relationship. Go back in time and

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<v Speaker 1>how many times you said that when the women come

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<v Speaker 1>in here? But right now, Madison, thank you so much

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<v Speaker 1>for coming in, Thank you, thank you. Watching C. S

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<v Speaker 1>Key on MTV one more time at nine Central. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>and where can people find you on Instagram? At Madison

0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:16.800
<v Speaker 1>House Madison House. H A U S. Yes, oh h

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<v Speaker 1>a U s s Madison with to us is okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because I should be looking. I had nothing to eat today. Anyways, Madison,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for coming in. I will go watch your season.

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<v Speaker 1>That actually, well that was Madison Housberg Dean You're on

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor. Um, yeah, I guess so that's pretty funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I respect that a lot, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>sous she just thought you guys were a professional podcast host.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, I mean I wonder if she would have

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<v Speaker 1>we should have played along with with lack of information.

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<v Speaker 1>I could see why she would think that we're professional

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<v Speaker 1>podcast though. It's because we're pretty damn good. I got

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<v Speaker 1>this if I mean, if I say so myself, you

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<v Speaker 1>messed up like all of her boyfriends. I like, are

0:18:05.520 --> 0:18:10.400
<v Speaker 1>you kidding? You have one job, your professional podcast. You're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to know your talent a professional liar? Okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>what about what did I miss? What was the physical?

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<v Speaker 1>KO didn't pick up on? She said she's a present tense.

0:18:22.400 --> 0:18:24.160
<v Speaker 1>She's this is what she said. She said, I'll leave

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<v Speaker 1>you with this. He I still respect him like I

0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:29.960
<v Speaker 1>wish him. Well, that is your way of saying like

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<v Speaker 1>we're no longer together. Have a nice life. Sure, that's

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<v Speaker 1>like what one of my ex girlfriends would say about

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<v Speaker 1>me if they were if we were still on the

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<v Speaker 1>show and it was airing and they were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>so if I'm if I'm a critic on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like from I've never watched this before, or

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<v Speaker 1>I have an idea, but it sounds like they were

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<v Speaker 1>together on the show. They left, and now people are

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<v Speaker 1>wondering if they're still together right right? And what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of got the answer? I'm gonna say that they're together.

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<v Speaker 1>Pump true story? How long? So Vanderpump is like one

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<v Speaker 1>of those crazy shows that just like this season, like,

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<v Speaker 1>right now, okay, And usually the people from season one

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<v Speaker 1>are now on seasons you've been on from for since

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<v Speaker 1>watched Vanderpump. I've watched a few episodes here and there

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<v Speaker 1>because I know Jack's you do. Yeah, so we have

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<v Speaker 1>the same publicist. Oh no what Yeah? Okay, actually I

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<v Speaker 1>think I didn't know that she posts photos of you. Yeah, yes, yeah, Jackson,

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<v Speaker 1>Brittany and then so like I know little bit because

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<v Speaker 1>on in their life and catch up? Yeah, there's so

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<v Speaker 1>much going on, and there's like, so can you just

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<v Speaker 1>give us like a background for people don't watch Vander Pomp. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So season one started because of Lisa Vanner Pump. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>she's the housewife Beverly Hills Um. She owns multiple restaurants

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<v Speaker 1>in l a and serving the most salacious of said restaurants.

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<v Speaker 1>At the time of season one, it was Katie my

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<v Speaker 1>best friend's Katie. Stacey and I were dating three guys

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<v Speaker 1>another Tom. That's Tom Schwartz is married to Katie. Yeah,

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0:24:55.240 --> 0:24:57.400
<v Speaker 1>been dating three years and now they're engaged. They're getting

0:24:57.440 --> 0:25:01.600
<v Speaker 1>married this summer. So you can't find love on TVs? Yeah?

0:25:01.920 --> 0:25:05.639
<v Speaker 1>Have you found love? Um? Not on that show? I have.

0:25:05.960 --> 0:25:08.800
<v Speaker 1>I have ex boyfriends on set show, but I know

0:25:08.880 --> 0:25:10.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. How awkward is that to be on a

0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:13.240
<v Speaker 1>TV show with your ex boyfriends? Season season so many,

0:25:13.440 --> 0:25:15.520
<v Speaker 1>For many seasons, it was like the worst thing ever,

0:25:15.960 --> 0:25:19.520
<v Speaker 1>especially when my now ex boyfriend, like we dated almost

0:25:19.520 --> 0:25:21.520
<v Speaker 1>six years and then we broke up and he started

0:25:21.600 --> 0:25:23.640
<v Speaker 1>dating another girl who's on the show. But now they've

0:25:23.640 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 1>been together five years. Well it's kind of like now

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:30.320
<v Speaker 1>we're friends, which is you could yeah, five years they've

0:25:30.320 --> 0:25:33.480
<v Speaker 1>been together, but with it now because now they're my friends.

0:25:34.600 --> 0:25:36.840
<v Speaker 1>It's weird about vander Pump because everyone is like you

0:25:36.920 --> 0:25:39.240
<v Speaker 1>see pictures of like even when you guys aren't filming.

0:25:39.280 --> 0:25:41.399
<v Speaker 1>I went to sir one night and you guys weren't filming.

0:25:42.080 --> 0:25:44.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh were you there that night? Everyone was there. It

0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:47.640
<v Speaker 1>might have been. Yeah, there was like an entire table

0:25:47.680 --> 0:25:49.240
<v Speaker 1>of you guys just like hanging out, and I'm like, wow,

0:25:49.280 --> 0:25:51.520
<v Speaker 1>you guys are friends outside of the show. Yeah, that's

0:25:51.560 --> 0:25:53.720
<v Speaker 1>why we had a show though, because it was we've

0:25:53.760 --> 0:25:56.360
<v Speaker 1>known each other for so many years before the show

0:25:56.480 --> 0:25:58.879
<v Speaker 1>ever started. You know. I feel like it's one of

0:25:58.920 --> 0:26:01.119
<v Speaker 1>those things when I've done it so many times my

0:26:01.200 --> 0:26:02.919
<v Speaker 1>own girlfriends are in the workplace, I'm like, we need

0:26:02.960 --> 0:26:04.840
<v Speaker 1>a show, but that's how it starts because it's he's

0:26:04.880 --> 0:26:09.440
<v Speaker 1>so entertaining it. Yeah. Yeah, let me tell you. I've

0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:11.040
<v Speaker 1>been offered to do a couple of shows and I'm

0:26:11.080 --> 0:26:14.160
<v Speaker 1>always like, they always want to make someone be a hero.

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 1>So I've learned that from I just like to watch

0:26:16.680 --> 0:26:20.480
<v Speaker 1>on the outside. Keep my personal life personal. Yeah, not

0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:22.640
<v Speaker 1>a bad idea. So tell us more about vander Pump

0:26:22.720 --> 0:26:25.800
<v Speaker 1>Season seven. What is it airing right now? It is? Okay,

0:26:27.040 --> 0:26:29.320
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I don't even know, like I because

0:26:29.680 --> 0:26:33.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, I see the episodes have to yea, we

0:26:33.320 --> 0:26:36.119
<v Speaker 1>have I mean we can just drink from the bottle,

0:26:36.160 --> 0:26:38.320
<v Speaker 1>but Dean has that Dean has that rush and I'm like,

0:26:38.400 --> 0:26:43.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, and you guys are the second because

0:26:43.640 --> 0:26:45.520
<v Speaker 1>it's not even out yet, I'm just gonna start pulling

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 1>from the bottle. Okay, sorry, okay, it's exclusive to right now.

0:26:48.920 --> 0:26:52.160
<v Speaker 1>Do you understand this? Dean basic which you know, Grigio

0:26:52.600 --> 0:26:56.959
<v Speaker 1>I love. Yeah, you're literally like the second people other

0:26:57.040 --> 0:26:59.640
<v Speaker 1>than Katie Stacey Night. Oh it's delicious. I'm not even

0:26:59.640 --> 0:27:02.959
<v Speaker 1>a why guy. And it's which is of? So it's

0:27:03.000 --> 0:27:05.760
<v Speaker 1>called Witches of we Hoo potion? Yeah, which is which

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:09.280
<v Speaker 1>is a weho? And well knocking point wine one. This

0:27:09.440 --> 0:27:11.000
<v Speaker 1>is potion number one. How have you been dealing with

0:27:11.040 --> 0:27:14.200
<v Speaker 1>a love that? We're ambitious for Potion number two three

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:18.600
<v Speaker 1>for one million? So is this your brand? Myself and

0:27:18.680 --> 0:27:20.960
<v Speaker 1>Katie and Saucy on the show. So the three women

0:27:21.000 --> 0:27:23.359
<v Speaker 1>that you're called, I'm sure it's Katie's husband calls us

0:27:23.400 --> 0:27:25.480
<v Speaker 1>the witches of weh, so you're not really which so

0:27:25.560 --> 0:27:30.560
<v Speaker 1>we're like, let's brand this. I mean, how have you

0:27:30.560 --> 0:27:33.479
<v Speaker 1>guys been doing all this rain? Thank you? Oh it sucks. Well,

0:27:33.520 --> 0:27:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, as a witch, it must be even more. Okay,

0:27:38.440 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 1>let me take it. Okay, tells more about please. Yeah.

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:49.600
<v Speaker 1>So season seven, um, Jackson, Brittany got hold on. I

0:27:49.720 --> 0:27:54.680
<v Speaker 1>taste them? Can we do the taste test? Dry? Some acidity? No,

0:27:54.880 --> 0:27:57.800
<v Speaker 1>like goes down very nice? Okay, yeah, I know there's

0:27:57.840 --> 0:28:00.920
<v Speaker 1>like what does that at all? There's impruit, there's like

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:08.359
<v Speaker 1>barrels peach, peach. I know, my one, you taste that peach?

0:28:08.480 --> 0:28:12.600
<v Speaker 1>It's great? Yeah, because ever drink ever so me having

0:28:12.840 --> 0:28:19.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I'm already drunk. To let's calm down everyone.

0:28:21.920 --> 0:28:25.160
<v Speaker 1>So season seven started off with a bang. Jackson Burney

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>got engaged, which I thought was really fun because typically

0:28:28.359 --> 0:28:31.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like all the big moments happened like midway

0:28:31.320 --> 0:28:33.440
<v Speaker 1>through the summer on the show. So it was really

0:28:33.520 --> 0:28:36.399
<v Speaker 1>cool that it happened sort of right off the bat um,

0:28:36.720 --> 0:28:38.800
<v Speaker 1>like at the beginning of the season. Yeah, so that

0:28:38.920 --> 0:28:41.080
<v Speaker 1>was really cool. So we basically will spend like the

0:28:41.120 --> 0:28:43.640
<v Speaker 1>whole season kind of preparing for their wedding that will

0:28:43.680 --> 0:28:48.480
<v Speaker 1>happen fingers crossed next season. But next year next I mean, sorry,

0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:50.560
<v Speaker 1>this summer is when they're getting get married. Because we

0:28:50.600 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>film over the summers, they air in the following winter,

0:28:53.280 --> 0:28:55.040
<v Speaker 1>so you just film in the summer. So I thought

0:28:55.080 --> 0:28:56.920
<v Speaker 1>it was like, oh year, like, you guys don't get

0:28:56.960 --> 0:29:00.760
<v Speaker 1>a break if I guess I couldn't here because it's

0:29:00.960 --> 0:29:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think that they should because they miss

0:29:03.080 --> 0:29:06.480
<v Speaker 1>a whole lot. When we wrap, it never ever stops. Yeah,

0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:09.840
<v Speaker 1>so that's really exciting. Um La La who's also on

0:29:09.880 --> 0:29:12.160
<v Speaker 1>the show. She and her fiance now Randall, get engaged

0:29:12.160 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the season, but everyone already knows

0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:16.960
<v Speaker 1>because they are engaged. So that's awesome and it's just

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 1>going to be a giant show Roller Coast. How is

0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:22.040
<v Speaker 1>it for you personally? How does it compare to the

0:29:22.120 --> 0:29:25.560
<v Speaker 1>other seasons? It is. It is nice to not have

0:29:25.680 --> 0:29:28.720
<v Speaker 1>to work at sir and still be part of with

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:30.640
<v Speaker 1>my songer. So that's what the show is. It follows

0:29:30.720 --> 0:29:34.880
<v Speaker 1>the employees. That's how it started. Yeah, but not all

0:29:34.920 --> 0:29:36.880
<v Speaker 1>of us work there now and now it follows your

0:29:36.920 --> 0:29:40.360
<v Speaker 1>life outside of that because and then Tom and Tom,

0:29:40.400 --> 0:29:43.240
<v Speaker 1>who was talking about earlier, they just opened another restaurant

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:45.600
<v Speaker 1>with Lisa, So now it's a fourth restaurant called Tom Tom.

0:29:46.240 --> 0:29:49.080
<v Speaker 1>So basically, Lisa vander Pump just owns like Robertson Row

0:29:49.200 --> 0:29:53.600
<v Speaker 1>Like Robertson, She's just like slowly just taking every space

0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:55.240
<v Speaker 1>that she can have. And none of you work there.

0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:57.520
<v Speaker 1>You're just part of the reality TV show At Tom

0:29:57.640 --> 0:30:01.200
<v Speaker 1>Tom or any of any of some of the girls,

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:03.200
<v Speaker 1>the girls, some of the girls and guys work at sir.

0:30:03.320 --> 0:30:06.440
<v Speaker 1>Still really just not not Sassy and I. And now

0:30:06.520 --> 0:30:09.200
<v Speaker 1>that Tom and Tom are Lisa's business partners, luckily Santa

0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:11.840
<v Speaker 1>Bal doesn't have to keep slinging drinks behind the bar, sir.

0:30:12.000 --> 0:30:14.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, that's so interesting. Business partners with the wine.

0:30:14.880 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 1>What else you have going on? Tom and Tom are

0:30:17.200 --> 0:30:21.760
<v Speaker 1>business partners with Lisa, the restaurant owners creator creator at.

0:30:21.800 --> 0:30:24.160
<v Speaker 1>Lisa Vanderpump is the creator of the show. Okay, that

0:30:24.240 --> 0:30:26.560
<v Speaker 1>makes sense. Yeah, she's a housewife of Beverly. I worked

0:30:26.560 --> 0:30:29.440
<v Speaker 1>with the dogs a little bit, tiny bit. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:30:30.080 --> 0:30:33.800
<v Speaker 1>that's on third R. Yeah. Okay, Well so now I'm

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:37.480
<v Speaker 1>processing the sense that doesn't make sense, but I'm slowly

0:30:38.520 --> 0:30:41.440
<v Speaker 1>digesting everything. So, so you were saying, not everyone that

0:30:41.600 --> 0:30:44.480
<v Speaker 1>was working at Sir or any of the vander Pump

0:30:44.600 --> 0:30:48.600
<v Speaker 1>restaurants is like everyone that started there, right, But I mean,

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:51.680
<v Speaker 1>like Brittany wasn't right, didn't you Guys? Like meet Brittany

0:30:51.760 --> 0:30:54.640
<v Speaker 1>on Jack's won Over the in Vegas. She's from Kentucky. Yeah,

0:30:55.000 --> 0:30:56.920
<v Speaker 1>she moved to l A to be with him, and

0:30:57.240 --> 0:31:00.280
<v Speaker 1>Jack's got her job at SIR, so she still waitresses it, sir. Okay,

0:31:00.320 --> 0:31:01.520
<v Speaker 1>if I got a job at STIR, would I be

0:31:01.600 --> 0:31:05.240
<v Speaker 1>on vander Pumph My god you would? Yeah, oh my god,

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:11.360
<v Speaker 1>you would. I cannot even imagine like you would. Just

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:15.640
<v Speaker 1>I would pray for you in my application tonight. Girls

0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:19.040
<v Speaker 1>would just come a flocking. Sure, but I would be

0:31:19.320 --> 0:31:21.480
<v Speaker 1>a primary by your second season. I don't know what

0:31:21.560 --> 0:31:24.120
<v Speaker 1>that means, like you'd be a lead. Like I haven't

0:31:24.160 --> 0:31:25.680
<v Speaker 1>had a job for like two years, so it's been

0:31:25.720 --> 0:31:31.520
<v Speaker 1>nice to have like some structure and some Actually it's

0:31:31.560 --> 0:31:33.440
<v Speaker 1>crazy and I don't know if it was the seasons

0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:36.400
<v Speaker 1>you guys were on. But we have producers that have

0:31:36.520 --> 0:31:39.600
<v Speaker 1>worked on your show. So if you just we know

0:31:39.800 --> 0:31:43.160
<v Speaker 1>each other's worlds. When I because I'm very good friends

0:31:43.160 --> 0:31:46.400
<v Speaker 1>with Jade, Oh Jade and dinner. Yeah, Like I've known

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:48.880
<v Speaker 1>Jade since I remember when she first was getting ready

0:31:48.920 --> 0:31:51.920
<v Speaker 1>to go on The Bachelor, super crazy. Yeah, so but

0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:54.800
<v Speaker 1>I know some Bachelor people and it's it's always nice

0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:58.280
<v Speaker 1>to be friendly with friends with people that understand the

0:31:58.360 --> 0:32:00.160
<v Speaker 1>world that we literally, Yeah, so i'd be he was.

0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:02.160
<v Speaker 1>It's a weird world. I became really good friends with

0:32:02.400 --> 0:32:05.360
<v Speaker 1>um Justin Cody off of Big Brother, like really good

0:32:05.400 --> 0:32:07.440
<v Speaker 1>friends with them, and people are like, well, how like

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:09.120
<v Speaker 1>how did you guys? Like you guys weren't on the

0:32:09.200 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 1>same show, but we understand what we went through season

0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:15.760
<v Speaker 1>and like what happens on Instagram and what happens like

0:32:16.240 --> 0:32:19.280
<v Speaker 1>mentally in our head and like when you're filming and

0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:23.560
<v Speaker 1>staring and then everyone has opinions, there's the trolls and yeah,

0:32:25.360 --> 0:32:34.080
<v Speaker 1>I have no friends, so I don't know. So if

0:32:34.160 --> 0:32:36.080
<v Speaker 1>this is the seventh season a new film every summer,

0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:38.560
<v Speaker 1>is this the seventh year that you've been doing this?

0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:43.520
<v Speaker 1>Our pilot we shot in two thousand eleven. Oh, my god,

0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:47.640
<v Speaker 1>that's like, you know, one of those shows like Seventh

0:32:47.680 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 1>Heaven and all that, you like. I was trying to

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:53.120
<v Speaker 1>think it was something where you like, there's in my twenties,

0:32:53.280 --> 0:32:55.560
<v Speaker 1>like we're just worse. It's crazy if I mean, I

0:32:55.720 --> 0:32:57.640
<v Speaker 1>try not to go back and watch like season one,

0:32:57.880 --> 0:32:59.240
<v Speaker 1>but it is kind of funny. I'm like, God, we

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:02.000
<v Speaker 1>were so skin Stacy was like twenty two years old,

0:33:02.120 --> 0:33:04.480
<v Speaker 1>Like this is crazy. Yeah, So how many the Kardashians are?

0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 1>How many years they've been going, like a little over ten?

0:33:06.880 --> 0:33:09.400
<v Speaker 1>I think yeah, and there they shoot. I know that

0:33:09.480 --> 0:33:12.640
<v Speaker 1>they shoot more than one season a year. I think

0:33:12.680 --> 0:33:17.600
<v Speaker 1>they're like this season. But either way you want you

0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:23.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know people on season right, so weird and

0:33:23.200 --> 0:33:24.560
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you knew them all the way. Like

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:26.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you get it all the time, like people

0:33:26.600 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 1>coming up to and feeling like they already know you

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:30.720
<v Speaker 1>and they've been through your life and your relationships and

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:34.040
<v Speaker 1>you're like you have to remember you just see what

0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 1>you see TV. Yeah, I have a question aout season

0:33:37.040 --> 0:33:42.479
<v Speaker 1>seven Eastern do you watch up? Oh he's right now?

0:33:43.120 --> 0:33:47.440
<v Speaker 1>Is la N's brother joining the cast? Because her brother's

0:33:47.520 --> 0:33:50.480
<v Speaker 1>name is Eastern? Yeah, And that's my name. I keep

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:55.360
<v Speaker 1>I love if he would. He doesn't live in California.

0:33:55.920 --> 0:33:57.520
<v Speaker 1>I heard a rumor that he was gonna be on it,

0:33:57.560 --> 0:33:59.680
<v Speaker 1>and because Kim Kardashian keeps teasing she's going to name

0:33:59.680 --> 0:34:02.400
<v Speaker 1>her child at Easton and it never happened. I'm like,

0:34:02.400 --> 0:34:04.440
<v Speaker 1>if we can get on Vanderpunt baby, it's oh my god.

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:07.560
<v Speaker 1>I would love if Easton were to be on the show.

0:34:07.720 --> 0:34:18.359
<v Speaker 1>He's so cool, is the best? So what's in store

0:34:18.400 --> 0:34:20.520
<v Speaker 1>for you? Then? For season seven? Are you going to

0:34:21.400 --> 0:34:24.640
<v Speaker 1>outdating anyone? I have a boyfriend I've been with and

0:34:25.920 --> 0:34:30.560
<v Speaker 1>he is on the show a bit because yeah, because

0:34:30.600 --> 0:34:34.600
<v Speaker 1>it's really like my journey that they follow. And you know,

0:34:34.719 --> 0:34:36.719
<v Speaker 1>he never worked at Sir, he didn't work at any

0:34:36.719 --> 0:34:41.440
<v Speaker 1>of Lisa's restaurants. I met him on Bumble Nice was

0:34:41.480 --> 0:34:45.799
<v Speaker 1>like a like first thing whenever when I was single. Um, so, yeah,

0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:47.880
<v Speaker 1>he's on the show a bit. We definitely have like

0:34:48.000 --> 0:34:51.279
<v Speaker 1>a bumpy road at the end of the summer, which

0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:53.600
<v Speaker 1>is a little odd for him. I think it's really

0:34:53.640 --> 0:34:55.320
<v Speaker 1>it's going to I think be hard for him. For me,

0:34:55.440 --> 0:34:58.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I've been through it all. I'm an open book.

0:34:58.239 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Like there's nothing that I hired or and try to.

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:02.759
<v Speaker 1>So it's a little bit weird dating stuff because my

0:35:02.840 --> 0:35:05.279
<v Speaker 1>ex boyfriends on the show have all been part of it,

0:35:05.800 --> 0:35:08.160
<v Speaker 1>so it was like here we are. So that can

0:35:08.239 --> 0:35:10.320
<v Speaker 1>be a little bit tricky. So it's a transition for

0:35:10.400 --> 0:35:13.239
<v Speaker 1>him hard to understand. Well, he's friends with all of

0:35:13.480 --> 0:35:16.440
<v Speaker 1>my friends anyway, even before I knew him, he knew them,

0:35:16.560 --> 0:35:18.759
<v Speaker 1>but once you're part of it is different too, you know.

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:21.000
<v Speaker 1>And he's not like it's not that he's like camera shy.

0:35:21.160 --> 0:35:24.520
<v Speaker 1>He understands the whole production value and like how that works,

0:35:24.640 --> 0:35:27.719
<v Speaker 1>but it's not his job, you know what I mean,

0:35:27.880 --> 0:35:31.560
<v Speaker 1>Like like on vander Pump there's there's always someone confronting

0:35:31.640 --> 0:35:34.040
<v Speaker 1>someone else, and I'm like, i'd be so timid and

0:35:34.239 --> 0:35:38.760
<v Speaker 1>be like, no, we're all good piece love everybody. That's boring,

0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean because our friends like we you know, like

0:35:41.800 --> 0:35:44.080
<v Speaker 1>Kayden Saucy, they're my sisters. They're not my business partners,

0:35:44.160 --> 0:35:47.279
<v Speaker 1>but like sisters, we fight and we take things out

0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:50.120
<v Speaker 1>on each other that it's not necessarily any of our faults.

0:35:50.200 --> 0:35:51.759
<v Speaker 1>But that's what you do with the people you love

0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:54.840
<v Speaker 1>the most, like your significant other, your best friend, your family.

0:35:55.239 --> 0:35:57.239
<v Speaker 1>You take it out on each other and so that's

0:35:57.400 --> 0:35:59.799
<v Speaker 1>we're just one giant family. Do you ever watch back

0:35:59.840 --> 0:36:02.920
<v Speaker 1>and think, like, wow, that conversation was taken out of context?

0:36:03.120 --> 0:36:07.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Yes, okay all the time. Absolutely. And

0:36:07.200 --> 0:36:10.840
<v Speaker 1>do you feel like you have to defend yourself umd

0:36:11.000 --> 0:36:13.960
<v Speaker 1>out or sometimes I do. I try not to fall

0:36:14.040 --> 0:36:18.880
<v Speaker 1>into those cracks because once I started it too, Like

0:36:18.920 --> 0:36:20.799
<v Speaker 1>maybe at the beginning, you're like, Okay, I'm gonna respond

0:36:20.800 --> 0:36:23.480
<v Speaker 1>to every single person, and I like and it's like, okay,

0:36:24.360 --> 0:36:27.440
<v Speaker 1>pull your back home in Arkansas, like hiding behind your

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:30.520
<v Speaker 1>computer with like your egg as your photo and you're

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:33.839
<v Speaker 1>telling me you know that I'm ugly and or or something.

0:36:35.120 --> 0:36:38.839
<v Speaker 1>And then they're like profile says like live left love God,

0:36:41.080 --> 0:36:47.880
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm like you just called. I'm like, what the hell? Yeah, Okay.

0:36:48.000 --> 0:36:50.400
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know this season. I had a lot

0:36:50.480 --> 0:36:52.680
<v Speaker 1>of fun at the end. I'm a little nervous about

0:36:52.800 --> 0:36:54.319
<v Speaker 1>kind I haven't seen it. So when does it air?

0:36:54.840 --> 0:36:57.200
<v Speaker 1>It's it's already air, it's airing now. Yeah. We just

0:36:57.360 --> 0:36:59.680
<v Speaker 1>I think episode five just aired and it was my

0:37:00.360 --> 0:37:02.440
<v Speaker 1>I have no idea. I don't even know. Really. Last

0:37:02.520 --> 0:37:07.319
<v Speaker 1>year we had like what yeah, wow, there's a lot

0:37:07.440 --> 0:37:10.080
<v Speaker 1>that goes on in four months of filming. But this

0:37:10.200 --> 0:37:12.960
<v Speaker 1>past episode that just aired was my favorite because it

0:37:13.000 --> 0:37:15.279
<v Speaker 1>was my re launch party of my clothing line. Oh

0:37:15.320 --> 0:37:18.120
<v Speaker 1>what's that? So hold on, tell us a little bit

0:37:18.120 --> 0:37:19.480
<v Speaker 1>more about the clothing line, and I want to know

0:37:19.680 --> 0:37:22.200
<v Speaker 1>more about the wine too, thanks, guys. Um. I have

0:37:22.320 --> 0:37:25.240
<v Speaker 1>a T shirt line called James May. Oh yeah, okay,

0:37:25.280 --> 0:37:28.480
<v Speaker 1>and that's your named after my niece, and I love that.

0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:30.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm obsessed with my nephew. Look, I have a necklace

0:37:30.920 --> 0:37:33.120
<v Speaker 1>with my nephew's name on it, Like, I can't wait

0:37:33.160 --> 0:37:38.359
<v Speaker 1>to have one of my own. Okay, Yeah, So it's

0:37:38.480 --> 0:37:41.440
<v Speaker 1>it's men and women graphic T shirt line. It's we

0:37:41.560 --> 0:37:43.960
<v Speaker 1>have three collections. There's the James May Collection, which is

0:37:44.080 --> 0:37:47.759
<v Speaker 1>like classic rock like seventies inspired like banties. And then

0:37:47.840 --> 0:37:49.880
<v Speaker 1>we have a Reality Bites collection, which is kind of

0:37:50.520 --> 0:37:53.040
<v Speaker 1>uses like some of our sayings and taglines and things

0:37:53.080 --> 0:37:56.160
<v Speaker 1>like it's like a famous one which is a weiho okay,

0:37:56.800 --> 0:38:00.480
<v Speaker 1>and now the one and then where you drink it.

0:38:01.560 --> 0:38:03.600
<v Speaker 1>You guys will appreciate. Hey, can I talk to you

0:38:03.680 --> 0:38:09.799
<v Speaker 1>for a sec? Hey? Can I talk to you? Yeah?

0:38:10.160 --> 0:38:11.520
<v Speaker 1>Can I sell you for a second to talk to

0:38:11.560 --> 0:38:13.880
<v Speaker 1>you for a sec um, and then there's a vegetolic

0:38:13.960 --> 0:38:17.640
<v Speaker 1>collection for based off my food blog. Are you vegetarian? Yes,

0:38:17.960 --> 0:38:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm I mean what did I have yet? I'm a

0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:25.920
<v Speaker 1>selective vegetarian. No, I don't eat fish. Um, I like

0:38:26.080 --> 0:38:30.040
<v Speaker 1>harbor the same. Really, Yes, I'm a vegetarian until like

0:38:30.400 --> 0:38:33.000
<v Speaker 1>the chicken dish looks good. Girls at the wedding same,

0:38:33.239 --> 0:38:36.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like if it's breaded dull, it's like deep fried dull.

0:38:36.880 --> 0:38:40.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm having that. Um, but so can you give us

0:38:40.239 --> 0:38:43.080
<v Speaker 1>like what's I feel like I've been either like losing

0:38:43.120 --> 0:38:45.360
<v Speaker 1>weight because I haven't been eating a lot of like protein.

0:38:45.960 --> 0:38:48.239
<v Speaker 1>What's like the highest This is like random question, but

0:38:48.320 --> 0:38:50.200
<v Speaker 1>what's like the highest vegetable that has like the most

0:38:50.200 --> 0:38:53.600
<v Speaker 1>amount of highest form of proach exact? Yeah, you want

0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:55.719
<v Speaker 1>to go to all your dark greens and then like

0:38:55.840 --> 0:39:01.319
<v Speaker 1>beans and lagoons and things like that, lentils, Oh my gosh,

0:39:01.400 --> 0:39:07.879
<v Speaker 1>love chicken for breakfast, lunch and dinner breakfasts. Yeah, which

0:39:07.920 --> 0:39:11.799
<v Speaker 1>is basically just yeah smashed up. Okay exactly. Um, can

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:13.959
<v Speaker 1>you do us a favor? Yeah, you have a shirt

0:39:14.040 --> 0:39:17.040
<v Speaker 1>that says relationships are hard? Can we take that shirt

0:39:17.160 --> 0:39:19.040
<v Speaker 1>and have it be the sponsor of this podcast and

0:39:19.200 --> 0:39:22.600
<v Speaker 1>just just coat cross pawl and ate somewhere. That'd be amazing.

0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:25.640
<v Speaker 1>That's one of that. That's actually one of our producers.

0:39:25.760 --> 0:39:27.480
<v Speaker 1>That's what it was like. She came up with that

0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:30.040
<v Speaker 1>because she would always say whenever we're filming, she's doesn't

0:39:30.280 --> 0:39:31.360
<v Speaker 1>it on the showing or where She was like one

0:39:31.400 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 1>of our best producers, and she would always just be like,

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:35.960
<v Speaker 1>you guys. It took like we're having a hard day.

0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:38.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm crying about my boyfriend. She's like, relationships are hard.

0:39:39.480 --> 0:39:43.120
<v Speaker 1>I was like, thanks, son, and you're right. And then

0:39:43.200 --> 0:39:45.960
<v Speaker 1>on the front of it, it's like over the that's

0:39:46.000 --> 0:39:50.040
<v Speaker 1>actually it looks super cozy. So we just took my tattoo,

0:39:50.080 --> 0:39:52.920
<v Speaker 1>which is hate my best friend Katie's handwriting. We were

0:39:53.000 --> 0:39:55.160
<v Speaker 1>drunk in San Francisco and I was like brand me

0:39:56.040 --> 0:39:59.239
<v Speaker 1>was that, I'm going to have a shirt now. There's

0:39:59.239 --> 0:40:02.680
<v Speaker 1>so much called on post filming. It on a shirt

0:40:02.719 --> 0:40:06.239
<v Speaker 1>now exactly, So where can we find your wine? Um?

0:40:06.360 --> 0:40:10.520
<v Speaker 1>So the wine is available? Everybody really finished mine? Okay,

0:40:11.200 --> 0:40:14.840
<v Speaker 1>well let's not wasted over remember. So it literally is

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<v Speaker 1>very first at knocking point dot com and O C

0:40:18.760 --> 0:40:22.279
<v Speaker 1>K I N g p O I knock Point. That's

0:40:22.320 --> 0:40:26.920
<v Speaker 1>the winery that we're working with Washington, so they're producing

0:40:26.960 --> 0:40:28.480
<v Speaker 1>all of our bottles. So you just go there. We're

0:40:28.520 --> 0:40:30.640
<v Speaker 1>on the home page. I love what it says in

0:40:30.680 --> 0:40:32.360
<v Speaker 1>the back. I'm not really sure what I've done to you,

0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:34.880
<v Speaker 1>but I'll take a peanut grigo. So pinot grigio is

0:40:35.160 --> 0:40:39.640
<v Speaker 1>east feel like that. I love that it's it's a

0:40:39.719 --> 0:40:42.560
<v Speaker 1>line from season two. Oh, I love that. It's so

0:40:42.680 --> 0:40:45.120
<v Speaker 1>basically I'm sure you have like a massive fan base.

0:40:45.239 --> 0:40:48.080
<v Speaker 1>So if you guys want to go and buy which

0:40:48.200 --> 0:40:50.560
<v Speaker 1>is of we ho potion number one and that's like

0:40:51.040 --> 0:40:52.839
<v Speaker 1>not that you can you can have like potion two

0:40:53.560 --> 0:40:55.799
<v Speaker 1>like one. That's yeah, we're ambitious that that we will

0:40:55.880 --> 0:40:58.040
<v Speaker 1>come out with more as time passes. But yeah, you

0:40:58.080 --> 0:41:00.520
<v Speaker 1>just go to knocking Point dot com and you sign

0:41:00.640 --> 0:41:03.839
<v Speaker 1>up and you get the wine and that's what's up

0:41:04.160 --> 0:41:06.359
<v Speaker 1>perfect And you can check out the Veggie Hollick blog,

0:41:07.000 --> 0:41:10.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes blog, and then also my t shirt line is

0:41:10.560 --> 0:41:13.880
<v Speaker 1>James may m a e dot CEO. And be on

0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:18.560
<v Speaker 1>the lookout for co sponsors of help Are Hard and

0:41:18.640 --> 0:41:21.280
<v Speaker 1>where can we find you on Instagram at Kristin Doughty

0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:25.879
<v Speaker 1>do ut and if you have anyone from Banderpump Rules

0:41:26.000 --> 0:41:28.160
<v Speaker 1>that might think they might be a good fit for me.

0:41:28.360 --> 0:41:32.000
<v Speaker 1>By all means, I'm single and available. Are you ready?

0:41:32.520 --> 0:41:34.480
<v Speaker 1>Are you ready today? Are you ready to day? I'm

0:41:34.480 --> 0:41:36.120
<v Speaker 1>just kidding. I'm just trying to play Devil's advocate over

0:41:36.160 --> 0:41:40.400
<v Speaker 1>here to your single Are you single? No? Good for you?

0:41:41.440 --> 0:41:45.799
<v Speaker 1>Good for you? Good for you? You got your like, Yeah,

0:41:45.840 --> 0:41:49.759
<v Speaker 1>i know I'm dating someone. Kristin, Thank you so much

0:41:49.760 --> 0:41:53.759
<v Speaker 1>for coming in. We're excited for all of the stuff

0:41:53.760 --> 0:41:55.200
<v Speaker 1>that you're working on too, and we'll hope to talk

0:41:55.200 --> 0:41:58.800
<v Speaker 1>to you soon on what do you think? What do

0:41:58.840 --> 0:42:02.000
<v Speaker 1>you think of Kristin? She was awesome. I don't I'm

0:42:02.000 --> 0:42:03.719
<v Speaker 1>another one who doesn't watch vander pump rolls. But I

0:42:03.760 --> 0:42:05.360
<v Speaker 1>know I have so many friends who are going to

0:42:05.440 --> 0:42:07.640
<v Speaker 1>freak out and fan girl, and they're actually going to

0:42:07.840 --> 0:42:09.359
<v Speaker 1>yell at me for not taking a picture with her.

0:42:09.400 --> 0:42:12.279
<v Speaker 1>So I just messed up. I'm really bad at doing that.

0:42:12.360 --> 0:42:14.640
<v Speaker 1>I get. I gave her pictures, yeah, because I don't know,

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:16.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, there's just a time and a place, and

0:42:16.800 --> 0:42:18.400
<v Speaker 1>this would have been the time and place, but she

0:42:18.520 --> 0:42:20.160
<v Speaker 1>seemed like she had to run, so yeah, and I

0:42:20.200 --> 0:42:24.040
<v Speaker 1>couldn't get her last year to talk to you, like,

0:42:24.239 --> 0:42:26.759
<v Speaker 1>to be here to speak to us now was a

0:42:26.840 --> 0:42:30.480
<v Speaker 1>better time than anything back. But no, listen, I'm a

0:42:30.560 --> 0:42:32.600
<v Speaker 1>fan girl of you. I'm a than girl of you.

0:42:32.760 --> 0:42:34.759
<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to get my picture. I love um.

0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:37.239
<v Speaker 1>So for people who don't know, because I don't think

0:42:37.239 --> 0:42:39.319
<v Speaker 1>we gave you like a formal introduction, well, I mean

0:42:39.440 --> 0:42:42.000
<v Speaker 1>I literally I like walked in and I was like,

0:42:42.120 --> 0:42:45.000
<v Speaker 1>this was so last minute to be like the central

0:42:45.440 --> 0:42:49.920
<v Speaker 1>focus of an entire episode because I feel and I

0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:51.840
<v Speaker 1>feel like people are super interested in that. But it

0:42:51.880 --> 0:42:54.200
<v Speaker 1>was very last minute. Camille, we texted last night and

0:42:54.280 --> 0:42:56.440
<v Speaker 1>she was like, oh, I had to shoot cancel today. Yeah,

0:42:56.480 --> 0:42:57.920
<v Speaker 1>and I had the morning open and I was like,

0:42:58.000 --> 0:43:01.520
<v Speaker 1>let's do something I love. Yeah. I love being a

0:43:01.560 --> 0:43:03.840
<v Speaker 1>convenience and not a priority. It really makes me feel special.

0:43:03.880 --> 0:43:05.360
<v Speaker 1>In no, I made you a priority. I could have

0:43:05.440 --> 0:43:07.440
<v Speaker 1>been a lot of other I'm just kidding. Obviously, I'm

0:43:07.480 --> 0:43:10.360
<v Speaker 1>superful that you're here. But how did you, guys become friends?

0:43:11.320 --> 0:43:14.400
<v Speaker 1>Did you like see her on the front cover of Sports?

0:43:14.440 --> 0:43:18.080
<v Speaker 1>Illustiated that for a second because I'm not on the cover,

0:43:18.239 --> 0:43:20.239
<v Speaker 1>but oh wait, I thought you were on the cover. No,

0:43:20.440 --> 0:43:22.759
<v Speaker 1>but I hope. So this year I thought you were

0:43:22.760 --> 0:43:25.480
<v Speaker 1>on the cover, but you did win something on Sports Illustrate.

0:43:25.840 --> 0:43:27.640
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm pretty good. Well you should be on

0:43:27.680 --> 0:43:30.600
<v Speaker 1>the cup. Oh my gosh, sorry, I just keep it,

0:43:30.680 --> 0:43:36.000
<v Speaker 1>keep it, keep it cover. Honestly, you use it in

0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:37.719
<v Speaker 1>a good way. You're very passionate about it, and so

0:43:37.800 --> 0:43:39.640
<v Speaker 1>I love it. Wasn't it wasn't a bad way of

0:43:39.680 --> 0:43:41.600
<v Speaker 1>saying that you're very similar. It' funny whenmil and I

0:43:41.680 --> 0:43:46.160
<v Speaker 1>were coming say that again. You guys are very say that.

0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:49.040
<v Speaker 1>I can see it for sure. Wait, when's your birthday?

0:43:49.120 --> 0:43:53.320
<v Speaker 1>Se'm a Libra. I always think that like everyone that

0:43:53.440 --> 0:43:55.080
<v Speaker 1>I get along with right away, and it has like

0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:57.120
<v Speaker 1>a very bubbly personality as a Pisces or like a

0:43:57.200 --> 0:44:01.080
<v Speaker 1>cup or your cusp. Yes, no, I am, but my

0:44:01.200 --> 0:44:04.719
<v Speaker 1>best friends Pisces are you? Are you hold on? Pisces?

0:44:04.880 --> 0:44:08.359
<v Speaker 1>Is March? Are you in Marchebuary? Okay, in the February. Yes,

0:44:08.440 --> 0:44:11.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm a Pisces, a queers okay, Cusp Okay, but I

0:44:11.640 --> 0:44:16.160
<v Speaker 1>am like super super connected with all people were on

0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:23.719
<v Speaker 1>the Oh my god, I'm not lying. I've known you

0:44:23.840 --> 0:44:26.239
<v Speaker 1>are I've heard about you, I've met Nick before whatever else.

0:44:26.360 --> 0:44:28.000
<v Speaker 1>No one's ever had a bad thing to say about you,

0:44:28.080 --> 0:44:32.200
<v Speaker 1>but I like, legit, like love you. So when you

0:44:32.280 --> 0:44:33.759
<v Speaker 1>were supposed to come in, like when we was, she

0:44:33.800 --> 0:44:36.640
<v Speaker 1>supposed to come in last week or in October, sometime

0:44:36.680 --> 0:44:41.279
<v Speaker 1>in December, and I was so sad, like yeah, because

0:44:41.280 --> 0:44:42.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm not going to slide into her d

0:44:42.920 --> 0:44:45.439
<v Speaker 1>MS now because that's just weird. So now I'm happy

0:44:45.480 --> 0:44:47.880
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0:44:47.920 --> 0:44:50.439
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0:44:50.480 --> 0:44:54.120
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0:44:54.200 --> 0:44:56.880
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0:44:57.040 --> 0:44:59.719
<v Speaker 1>travel with it um wherever I go. And I've been

0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:02.400
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0:45:02.719 --> 0:45:05.880
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0:45:06.080 --> 0:45:10.080
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0:45:10.280 --> 0:45:14.080
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0:45:14.120 --> 0:45:16.920
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0:45:16.960 --> 0:45:19.839
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0:45:19.880 --> 0:45:24.759
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0:45:24.920 --> 0:45:28.200
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0:45:28.239 --> 0:45:31.239
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0:45:31.280 --> 0:45:34.239
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0:45:44.680 --> 0:45:47.759
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0:45:47.800 --> 0:45:49.920
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0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:52.120
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0:46:33.400 --> 0:46:35.480
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0:46:41.440 --> 0:46:45.080
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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, good, I'm Vanessa, I'm Kelsey, I'm Zach Kelsey

0:50:21.360 --> 0:50:23.480
<v Speaker 1>and Zach and Zach. So you guys are here to

0:50:23.480 --> 0:50:28.480
<v Speaker 1>help us dissect some texts? Right? Oh? Sure, I'm here

0:50:28.560 --> 0:50:33.560
<v Speaker 1>for whatever you need. We'll do whatever. We have some wine.

0:50:33.600 --> 0:50:36.560
<v Speaker 1>Have some wine. It's really good at the breakfast one.

0:50:36.880 --> 0:50:46.560
<v Speaker 1>It's everything. One depends on what exactly. No, yeah, you guys,

0:50:46.640 --> 0:50:50.879
<v Speaker 1>why peanut? No, we're alcoholic. What does what peenot mean?

0:50:50.960 --> 0:50:53.839
<v Speaker 1>Then peanut means tasty? Oh my god, you could say

0:50:53.920 --> 0:50:56.160
<v Speaker 1>hold on? So can you just give us give me

0:50:56.239 --> 0:51:00.319
<v Speaker 1>your names again? Kelsey and Kelsey, Yeah, yeah enough, I'm

0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:06.919
<v Speaker 1>pronounced spelling it right? Whatever? Zachy h like you know what? Yeah?

0:51:07.080 --> 0:51:09.800
<v Speaker 1>Like Zachary Hanson from the Hanson Brothers, who I'm obsessed with.

0:51:10.560 --> 0:51:13.640
<v Speaker 1>First that name in a long time. And so you

0:51:13.920 --> 0:51:19.080
<v Speaker 1>are on a new unscripted comedy series on is that right, filter? Pashhag,

0:51:19.120 --> 0:51:24.600
<v Speaker 1>no filter. I know that it's on Monday at ten thirty.

0:51:25.120 --> 0:51:28.439
<v Speaker 1>You know about it because dating show where we set

0:51:28.480 --> 0:51:31.040
<v Speaker 1>people up on first dates and then we are comedians

0:51:31.120 --> 0:51:33.400
<v Speaker 1>on the show watching the dates like we're watching like

0:51:33.800 --> 0:51:37.239
<v Speaker 1>a comedians. Yeah technically, yeah, tell me whatever you want

0:51:38.640 --> 0:51:41.480
<v Speaker 1>you guys already we watched the show along with the

0:51:41.520 --> 0:51:44.520
<v Speaker 1>audience and we're kind of that no filter perspective watching

0:51:44.600 --> 0:51:47.480
<v Speaker 1>the dates. Oh god, I want to watch The Bachelor

0:51:47.560 --> 0:51:50.719
<v Speaker 1>with you guys. Oh it would be it's I feel

0:51:50.760 --> 0:51:53.320
<v Speaker 1>like that's comedian my dream, so that you can like

0:51:53.440 --> 0:51:57.239
<v Speaker 1>get some form of material for your stand up dumb

0:51:57.280 --> 0:52:01.239
<v Speaker 1>opinion and getting paid for it. Yeah, so you don't

0:52:01.239 --> 0:52:03.040
<v Speaker 1>set any you do you set people up on a

0:52:03.120 --> 0:52:06.040
<v Speaker 1>date or you just want no we watched the finished product.

0:52:06.120 --> 0:52:09.239
<v Speaker 1>We watch like the first dates as they're like happening, okay,

0:52:09.480 --> 0:52:12.920
<v Speaker 1>live live and commenting, predicting, and these people know, like

0:52:13.040 --> 0:52:15.200
<v Speaker 1>the people going on a date and know that you're

0:52:15.280 --> 0:52:17.759
<v Speaker 1>watching or that they're being watched. They're being filmed. Yeah,

0:52:17.840 --> 0:52:20.799
<v Speaker 1>I mean I know they're being reviewed in some form. Yeah, yeah,

0:52:21.000 --> 0:52:25.920
<v Speaker 1>little did they know it was by two queers with

0:52:26.520 --> 0:52:35.960
<v Speaker 1>angry lookout on dating single You're always I love that,

0:52:36.239 --> 0:52:40.799
<v Speaker 1>Zack and I gonna get along. So wait, so are

0:52:40.960 --> 0:52:43.799
<v Speaker 1>these dates that you guys are critiquing quote unquote? Are

0:52:43.880 --> 0:52:48.359
<v Speaker 1>they same sex? Are they everything? Everything? It's very twenty

0:52:48.480 --> 0:52:50.880
<v Speaker 1>nineteen of them. It's actually I think like their first

0:52:51.280 --> 0:52:55.040
<v Speaker 1>right first dating show first like lgbt Q, I A,

0:52:55.960 --> 0:53:00.680
<v Speaker 1>let's say it is, don't google that you heard it

0:53:00.760 --> 0:53:04.480
<v Speaker 1>here first? The very first same sex. Well, it's just

0:53:04.600 --> 0:53:08.040
<v Speaker 1>very it's all inclusive, very it was very fun for

0:53:08.120 --> 0:53:10.799
<v Speaker 1>us to try and judge people on their sexuality. Yeah,

0:53:11.080 --> 0:53:15.360
<v Speaker 1>seconds into the date, like they say something and we're like, gayly,

0:53:15.800 --> 0:53:17.960
<v Speaker 1>we know, do you think that there's do you think

0:53:18.000 --> 0:53:20.560
<v Speaker 1>that gay people have more of a gayor than a

0:53:20.600 --> 0:53:27.200
<v Speaker 1>straight person would? Definitely? Why because I agree with that.

0:53:27.440 --> 0:53:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I think I think it's almost definite, Like you can

0:53:29.680 --> 0:53:32.240
<v Speaker 1>you know it if you know? Too many straight women

0:53:32.360 --> 0:53:35.640
<v Speaker 1>have tried to marry gay met For us to think

0:53:35.719 --> 0:53:39.080
<v Speaker 1>that you have any sort of gayar fair, that's not

0:53:39.360 --> 0:53:41.920
<v Speaker 1>not a bad point. How many straight men have tried

0:53:41.960 --> 0:53:50.320
<v Speaker 1>to marry gay women? Very up private and streatement. Also

0:53:50.400 --> 0:53:52.759
<v Speaker 1>know when they're being hit on then by a guy.

0:53:53.000 --> 0:53:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you know what I mean? Straight? I love to

0:53:55.000 --> 0:53:57.600
<v Speaker 1>be hit on by game. I want to be I

0:53:57.680 --> 0:53:59.480
<v Speaker 1>want to be hit on by a female. I do

0:53:59.760 --> 0:54:02.000
<v Speaker 1>have everybody. Yeah, I got hit on once. I was

0:54:02.000 --> 0:54:04.080
<v Speaker 1>walking down the street and our girls like, damn nice booty,

0:54:04.120 --> 0:54:08.160
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I felt like complimenting another woman.

0:54:08.840 --> 0:54:10.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, I feel good about myself today. So

0:54:10.960 --> 0:54:12.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, not a cat call. It's just like, yeah,

0:54:13.080 --> 0:54:16.120
<v Speaker 1>it's just like each other out exactly. Okay, So what

0:54:16.239 --> 0:54:17.799
<v Speaker 1>it's not a cat call when it's a girl calling

0:54:17.800 --> 0:54:24.000
<v Speaker 1>another girl thing, but a guy called. Okay, So I

0:54:24.040 --> 0:54:25.400
<v Speaker 1>want to get into one of these texts then that

0:54:25.480 --> 0:54:28.239
<v Speaker 1>we have. So this is from Chloe. We're just gonna

0:54:28.280 --> 0:54:30.640
<v Speaker 1>have in text Yeah, okay. So from Chloe, she says,

0:54:30.680 --> 0:54:32.920
<v Speaker 1>we're both junior in college. We're both juniors in college.

0:54:32.920 --> 0:54:35.120
<v Speaker 1>And after sorry, I've had some wine. We're both juniors

0:54:35.160 --> 0:54:37.560
<v Speaker 1>in college. And after sending this, he said he still

0:54:37.560 --> 0:54:38.920
<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk. But I haven't heard from him. And

0:54:38.960 --> 0:54:40.839
<v Speaker 1>this is a text, um, and I wish we could.

0:54:40.920 --> 0:54:42.920
<v Speaker 1>Can we pass them out to them? Yeah, because I

0:54:43.000 --> 0:54:44.719
<v Speaker 1>want I think being able to see it is a

0:54:44.800 --> 0:54:49.960
<v Speaker 1>big importance you want to is the training ground? So nothing,

0:54:50.239 --> 0:54:52.520
<v Speaker 1>nothing severe. Did you guys go to college? I dropped

0:54:52.560 --> 0:54:58.040
<v Speaker 1>out of three three colleges, completed one. Great, Okay, okay,

0:54:58.080 --> 0:55:03.239
<v Speaker 1>so we have still here. You know you were fine? Okay.

0:55:03.320 --> 0:55:05.520
<v Speaker 1>So this is the text. Chloe says. I'm sorry. I'm

0:55:05.520 --> 0:55:07.320
<v Speaker 1>just at an insane at an insane point in my

0:55:07.440 --> 0:55:09.359
<v Speaker 1>life right now. I just started working, I found out

0:55:09.360 --> 0:55:11.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to England for an internship. Plus I'm trying

0:55:11.760 --> 0:55:13.640
<v Speaker 1>to finish school with a three point On top of that,

0:55:13.719 --> 0:55:15.759
<v Speaker 1>I just joined a fraternity, so I'm busy with that.

0:55:15.880 --> 0:55:17.680
<v Speaker 1>I like you, but it wouldn't be fair to anyone

0:55:17.760 --> 0:55:20.520
<v Speaker 1>to go any further because someone will just end up her.

0:55:20.600 --> 0:55:22.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry if you wanted something more, I'm just at

0:55:22.880 --> 0:55:25.080
<v Speaker 1>an important junction in my life and it wouldn't be

0:55:25.160 --> 0:55:28.120
<v Speaker 1>fair to anyone. Excuses, That's what I say. But even

0:55:28.160 --> 0:55:31.560
<v Speaker 1>if this is all BS, it's more than most people

0:55:31.600 --> 0:55:33.840
<v Speaker 1>are getting these days, and I commend him for that.

0:55:34.000 --> 0:55:36.200
<v Speaker 1>I think he's bragging a little bit. I got a

0:55:36.200 --> 0:55:40.719
<v Speaker 1>three point g p A. I'm voting, Yeah, what's hey?

0:55:40.719 --> 0:55:42.480
<v Speaker 1>I think it's out of three point eight. Does he

0:55:42.560 --> 0:55:46.480
<v Speaker 1>know he can get a four point out that had

0:55:46.520 --> 0:55:52.000
<v Speaker 1>that opportunity for the perfect score. He just joined a

0:55:52.040 --> 0:55:54.440
<v Speaker 1>fraternity like that would turn me off no thing. But

0:55:54.760 --> 0:55:57.960
<v Speaker 1>so here's the Chloe said. In addition to him sending

0:55:58.040 --> 0:56:00.200
<v Speaker 1>her this, he also said he still wanted to hot,

0:56:00.280 --> 0:56:02.759
<v Speaker 1>so he just wants to bang. Yeah, he wants the

0:56:02.800 --> 0:56:07.080
<v Speaker 1>non commitment. This is smart though, He's if she gets

0:56:07.080 --> 0:56:09.439
<v Speaker 1>attached after they bone from here or now he goes Listen,

0:56:10.800 --> 0:56:16.440
<v Speaker 1>I told you point that priority, it goes priority, it

0:56:16.520 --> 0:56:22.279
<v Speaker 1>goes to England, those Point fraternity and then you So

0:56:22.600 --> 0:56:23.839
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, what we just don't

0:56:23.840 --> 0:56:25.520
<v Speaker 1>like this guy or is he being I think if

0:56:25.600 --> 0:56:28.360
<v Speaker 1>she can handle it, if she can like her and

0:56:28.440 --> 0:56:30.680
<v Speaker 1>take the emotion out, cut that emotional tie, she can

0:56:30.719 --> 0:56:33.600
<v Speaker 1>do what girls do that? Straight girls can they do that?

0:56:33.640 --> 0:56:38.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, It's like their specialty's when they go

0:56:39.800 --> 0:56:42.799
<v Speaker 1>right right I like bit yeah, yeah, bitch, they can.

0:56:42.840 --> 0:56:46.000
<v Speaker 1>They cannot even felie like that. They can hate a

0:56:46.120 --> 0:56:49.200
<v Speaker 1>lot of people say whatever you want, I'm filtered here,

0:56:49.320 --> 0:56:57.160
<v Speaker 1>especially like that interrace. Okay is going to read this one? Okay,

0:56:57.200 --> 0:57:02.840
<v Speaker 1>Well should I just chill that? Okay? From Rachel? How

0:57:02.880 --> 0:57:05.080
<v Speaker 1>should I respond to this? We've been texting for months

0:57:05.680 --> 0:57:09.640
<v Speaker 1>and have never met in person like that, Like really,

0:57:09.719 --> 0:57:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, so what if it's long distance? Hold on?

0:57:16.480 --> 0:57:19.440
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm judging on the grammar. So I'm like, so, hey, Comma,

0:57:19.520 --> 0:57:21.720
<v Speaker 1>I like that I asked about a date that I

0:57:21.800 --> 0:57:23.800
<v Speaker 1>asked about a date this summer once you got back,

0:57:23.880 --> 0:57:25.760
<v Speaker 1>and I kind of just left it at that, And

0:57:25.840 --> 0:57:27.840
<v Speaker 1>that doesn't seem quite fair to you, especially if you

0:57:27.880 --> 0:57:30.080
<v Speaker 1>were interested. So I want to let you know what's

0:57:30.120 --> 0:57:32.520
<v Speaker 1>been going on with me. Basically, I've had feelings for

0:57:32.600 --> 0:57:34.800
<v Speaker 1>this girl for a long time, for a long while

0:57:35.280 --> 0:57:37.320
<v Speaker 1>and fell for her, but this summer she just started

0:57:37.360 --> 0:57:39.800
<v Speaker 1>ignoring me, and I don't know what was going on

0:57:39.960 --> 0:57:41.880
<v Speaker 1>until I finally got to talk to her last week

0:57:42.120 --> 0:57:44.240
<v Speaker 1>and she basically just led me on. And I guess

0:57:44.600 --> 0:57:46.840
<v Speaker 1>I knew this was going to happen, but she cleared up.

0:57:47.440 --> 0:57:49.960
<v Speaker 1>But she cleared up. She doesn't feel anything for me,

0:57:50.120 --> 0:57:52.640
<v Speaker 1>et cetera. So I've been dealing with that, but now

0:57:52.960 --> 0:57:56.000
<v Speaker 1>I at least finally know. It's a long story to

0:57:56.120 --> 0:58:02.280
<v Speaker 1>explain over texts and this in the great the greatest summary. Um,

0:58:02.400 --> 0:58:05.200
<v Speaker 1>this is sad is he talking to I'm so confused

0:58:05.280 --> 0:58:07.240
<v Speaker 1>right now. Also, I never want to hear about the

0:58:07.400 --> 0:58:10.160
<v Speaker 1>other person you're going like. He said, this is what

0:58:10.240 --> 0:58:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I would you listen to this, Rachel like? And she

0:58:14.440 --> 0:58:19.120
<v Speaker 1>just ate traper Rachel. She called you, sir, whoever you

0:58:19.160 --> 0:58:21.919
<v Speaker 1>want chewing it up right now. She's giving the finger

0:58:22.000 --> 0:58:24.320
<v Speaker 1>to the sky when it's too First of all, if

0:58:24.360 --> 0:58:26.760
<v Speaker 1>it's too lengthy of a text message, dude, call me.

0:58:27.040 --> 0:58:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'll take a text over calling to think. Yeah,

0:58:33.240 --> 0:58:34.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I call this too much pressure and

0:58:34.640 --> 0:58:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not good at improv so I feel like I

0:58:36.160 --> 0:58:43.400
<v Speaker 1>need to in order send me to my friends. Second,

0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:46.560
<v Speaker 1>this was just like word vomit whoever this person? This

0:58:46.760 --> 0:58:50.240
<v Speaker 1>is like him saying like you are my second place trophy.

0:58:50.400 --> 0:58:53.440
<v Speaker 1>Do you accept you know, yeah, except well we've seen

0:58:53.480 --> 0:59:00.240
<v Speaker 1>that on Bachelor a few times. Not you, that's second

0:59:00.280 --> 0:59:03.080
<v Speaker 1>place at all. No, I'm just sucking more recently, oh

0:59:03.560 --> 0:59:05.400
<v Speaker 1>with like, okay, we're not gonna get into pacifics and

0:59:05.480 --> 0:59:10.240
<v Speaker 1>don't just don't respond. Months and then this, Yeah, I

0:59:10.280 --> 0:59:12.520
<v Speaker 1>would leave him on red and I feel like that's

0:59:12.560 --> 0:59:14.880
<v Speaker 1>the big Do you guys sometimes turn on your is

0:59:14.920 --> 0:59:18.360
<v Speaker 1>it rep receipts or red receipt? Do you turn them on?

0:59:18.560 --> 0:59:21.000
<v Speaker 1>So that way people can read them out oh my god,

0:59:21.080 --> 0:59:28.800
<v Speaker 1>it's aggressives pro and lave them off, read receipts off. Know.

0:59:28.920 --> 0:59:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I turned them on for specific people, like yeah, bitch,

0:59:31.080 --> 0:59:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I saw I'm choosing to are You's a god. I

0:59:35.800 --> 0:59:37.480
<v Speaker 1>go through like weird patterns of life where like six

0:59:37.520 --> 0:59:38.800
<v Speaker 1>months out of the year I'll have them on and

0:59:38.840 --> 0:59:40.680
<v Speaker 1>the other six months I've them off. Because you want

0:59:40.720 --> 0:59:42.960
<v Speaker 1>people to know you on your toes or is it

0:59:43.040 --> 0:59:45.000
<v Speaker 1>truly to hurt their feelings? I think when things are

0:59:45.040 --> 0:59:46.920
<v Speaker 1>going well for me, when things are going really well

0:59:46.960 --> 0:59:48.240
<v Speaker 1>for me, I turned them on so that way people

0:59:48.320 --> 0:59:57.800
<v Speaker 1>know like, okay, boy. But here's the thing. Instagram did

0:59:57.840 --> 0:59:59.800
<v Speaker 1>it right. Instagram did it so now you can un

1:00:00.040 --> 1:00:04.840
<v Speaker 1>read or a message. Yes I know that I'm not

1:00:04.920 --> 1:00:07.560
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram. You can un send a message. You could

1:00:07.640 --> 1:00:13.640
<v Speaker 1>unsend this recently, here's one from Zuri, right, that's my

1:00:13.720 --> 1:00:16.680
<v Speaker 1>friend Zuri. No, I went this is Instagram unread No

1:00:17.080 --> 1:00:19.400
<v Speaker 1>no no, no, no, no no no. I'm telling you

1:00:19.520 --> 1:00:22.720
<v Speaker 1>right now, I love Zuri. Can I message her? I'm

1:00:22.720 --> 1:00:25.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna dy still has the scene at the bottom of it.

1:00:25.520 --> 1:00:26.800
<v Speaker 1>And you want to how I know this is because

1:00:26.840 --> 1:00:34.360
<v Speaker 1>I have three separate Instagram accounts. Okay, myself a d

1:00:34.560 --> 1:00:36.600
<v Speaker 1>M from one of them, and I did. I read it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I read it and I went back to

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<v Speaker 1>the other one and I went back and I still

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<v Speaker 1>said scene at the bottom, because I had to know

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<v Speaker 1>whether that was true or not. Also, I have my

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<v Speaker 1>public because I have this podcast account help I second dating.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I have my private Instagram that's just like

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<v Speaker 1>solely just friends life. Do you have me on that? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no his friends. It's a friend for his pride. No

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<v Speaker 1>one that I met is on that Instagram. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>not not anything with you. The timing restriction. I'm definitely

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<v Speaker 1>putting my red messages whenever Dean messages me. Now, yeah, half,

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<v Speaker 1>you have another text that I want to get to.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of long, though, Okay, I'm coming next to you.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, So we're gonna do it in two parts. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love for you guys to do in two parts.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have in front of you? Ye want me?

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<v Speaker 1>So tells me if you want to be gray, and

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<v Speaker 1>then Zack if you want to be blue. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do the So this is from Adria. Adria says

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<v Speaker 1>literally talks to this guy for about a month hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>met him yet. He seemed normal, but would sometimes say

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<v Speaker 1>inappropriate random things out of the blue, which I so.

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<v Speaker 1>I told him I wasn't interested in just hooking up,

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<v Speaker 1>and he kept trying to reassure me that they wanted more,

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<v Speaker 1>that he wanted more. Yes, still kept saying really inappropriate things.

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<v Speaker 1>Finally I told him it wouldn't work, and this was

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<v Speaker 1>his response, I'll be the guy. You're great. Who's Adria?

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<v Speaker 1>Does that matter? So Kelsey's great and you're Adria exactly Adria. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I hate small talk. I literally was just keeping in

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<v Speaker 1>contact act. I know you're busy and might have sipped

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<v Speaker 1>your mind that I want to hang with you dot

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<v Speaker 1>dot dot. It's super whacked me that you won't hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with me, Like, what the give it a shot?

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<v Speaker 1>I get that, but I'm just not interested anymore. Thanks one,

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for once again we see my time and energy,

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<v Speaker 1>and just for leading me on. Hope you got what

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted out of that, and you missed out a

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<v Speaker 1>great sex and a bless hold on and even give up. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like seriously, let me kiss on you and make you

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<v Speaker 1>squirm Adria. That's okay, But thanks I'm just Bible somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>asked the Old Testament and actually you got that out

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<v Speaker 1>a world. This is weird. This is one of those

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<v Speaker 1>shock jocks who kind of gets off on insulting women.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's a lot to pick apart with that grammar.

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<v Speaker 1>Natzie over here, Jos without a t I sipped your mind?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that slipped? Yea? I will say Adria was a

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<v Speaker 1>stand up champion in this case. Okay, okay, yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>or okay with the dot like okay, yeah, she finishes

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<v Speaker 1>it with that's okay, but thanks still kind. Yeah, by that,

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<v Speaker 1>he says, let me make you squirm, Like, come on,

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying, he's coming at it. It's crazy. I want.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing about the situation that we've seen to see

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<v Speaker 1>on this podcast too, is that this has to have

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<v Speaker 1>worked for this guy in the past, and that's why

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<v Speaker 1>he's doing it now to a weaker woman. Or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it hasn't worked. She's not. She's just giving him what

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<v Speaker 1>he wants, which makes him want to do it more.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if she would react to be like up, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, you're so gross, you'd be like this isn't

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<v Speaker 1>fun anymore. But because she's cool, together. Yeah, men want

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<v Speaker 1>the chase something. Yeah, yeah, nothing, I'm like squirming now,

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, I got like a sworming swirming. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>how would you guys approach a situation? Then there's a

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<v Speaker 1>person you want to hook up with. Either be in relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess first and foremlas. I am in one that

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<v Speaker 1>is an open relationship, love that it's wonderful, okay, fantastic, zactly,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm still perpetuation single. Okay. So say someone that

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<v Speaker 1>you were interested in we're saying these things to you.

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<v Speaker 1>How would you react? I mean, I don't want to, Adria,

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<v Speaker 1>how sorry, sorry, I don't want to. But what if

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<v Speaker 1>what if a guy you're talking to you said, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to make you squirm or take this blessed? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, no, there's no nothing. If it's feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we need t shirts say that. Yeah, I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's the right you can say anything. Nothing's inappropriate if

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<v Speaker 1>it's from the right person. You know, I wouldn't engage

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<v Speaker 1>with this person because you don't know how they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to take it, and any ounce of attention is going

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<v Speaker 1>to like it's just going to be an ongoing text.

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<v Speaker 1>Ward's like no, yeah, it's just make putting myself in

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<v Speaker 1>a situation where I would ever say blessed to someone.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to do. It's going to be in a

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<v Speaker 1>group to my seven best friends and talking. That is

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<v Speaker 1>your Instagram account, your friends blessed. Yeah, there's a World

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<v Speaker 1>Games record setting egg. That was me, Kelse. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think now? Yeah, this guy's trash and two isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that like New York? Of course it is New York.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know. We plenty unread eye messages. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's sped her off without him. Okay, well I think

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<v Speaker 1>that we can all agree. Okay, so guys, tell us

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<v Speaker 1>more about your show on ethen We had fun. Yeah, people,

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<v Speaker 1>it's for everyone. It's a really great group of comedians

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<v Speaker 1>with really funny perspectives on dating. And yeah, it's it's last,

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<v Speaker 1>very modern, very it's just fun. It's like you're fun, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>put it on while you're hanging out with your friends,

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<v Speaker 1>put it on while you're like getting ready to go out,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like I'll asleep to it. What's the

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<v Speaker 1>TV show watching me? I will say I appreciate the

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<v Speaker 1>thirty minute TV show? Yes, right, those are rare. If

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<v Speaker 1>you get like an hour long. It's like that's a commitment.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm already commitment phobic. So it's like it's it's too

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<v Speaker 1>much from no. I mean it is like there's it's

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<v Speaker 1>a riot the whole way through, from the moment you

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<v Speaker 1>meet them. You never know what putting these two people

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<v Speaker 1>together is going to be like. And there has been

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<v Speaker 1>some outrageous things happened. I can't wait to watch. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is on Monday's Monday, Thursday PM. That's fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for five weeks and it's called dating hashtag no Filter

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<v Speaker 1>Dating No Filter d n F as we like to

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<v Speaker 1>call our be in the group chat. Now, come on

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<v Speaker 1>only if you bring strategy. Okay, So a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>questions for you guys before we let you go. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think dating is like nowadays? Especially for for

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<v Speaker 1>you guys right, Like, it's it's all been a big

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<v Speaker 1>progression in l A. It's the hardest into it. Like honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>when I go on a date and I leave that date,

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<v Speaker 1>I assume that person has died and just lucky from

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<v Speaker 1>them again, awesome, you know? Is that is that you

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<v Speaker 1>setting the bar low? And yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I managed to low standard. So you're always surprising yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. We have a whole list of words that

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<v Speaker 1>I want you guys to help us define. I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>all about this. This is a whole another sign you

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<v Speaker 1>were trying to get us off. They were trying to.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like, well, I know, I ye, Eaton's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of work to do on this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you feel about dating apps? Okay, so love,

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<v Speaker 1>are you on any dating apps now? Lsey? So for Kelsey,

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<v Speaker 1>who's in a relationship and open relationship, you're on app? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And it says that on my do you guys have

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of photos and you do share an account? Now,

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<v Speaker 1>someone do his thing and I do mine and if

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<v Speaker 1>it meets up in the middle, great, So when you're

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<v Speaker 1>in an open relationship, are you openly telling each other

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<v Speaker 1>when you're going on another date? Like what only works

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<v Speaker 1>if you are transplaining about we already know we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be together forever and ever. So we're like why

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<v Speaker 1>not why? I'm also bisexual, So I'm like why if

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<v Speaker 1>he likes women and I like women, why wouldn't this work?

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<v Speaker 1>So the honestly, because people have relationship, Yes, they asked

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<v Speaker 1>me all the time, even like, how do I do

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<v Speaker 1>this with my boyfriend? And I'm like, if you're doing

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<v Speaker 1>it because you're trying to spice up the relationship, or

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing it because only one person wants to not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to want it both of you. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>been with another guy? Yeah, so I could see as

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<v Speaker 1>a guy being in an open relationship. Why are you laughing?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't understand the question. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you bear with another guy? Personally? As a guy. If

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<v Speaker 1>I was dating someone and they're like, hey, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to date other girls, I'd be like, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>be fine, but if you want to be the other

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<v Speaker 1>guys be much more hesitanting. Here's no, here's no worries

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<v Speaker 1>about it. He's fine, he pulls on his outside interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta be, you gotta be. Girls are just got

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<v Speaker 1>You're just girls for him. He's only attracted to women,

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<v Speaker 1>just women. I guess the fool your eyes are like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand the words coming out of your mouth

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't want to like be no, because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to give like no. I mean, listen, I've

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had a threesome. Um, of course I'm attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to women. Just like just like, and I've never experienced

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<v Speaker 1>with women before. I'm not against it. I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just afraid to like invite another person into the bedroom

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<v Speaker 1>with my significant other. Would I be open to it? Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>in my like fantasy. Yeah, that's a good point. What

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<v Speaker 1>advice would you have for Vanessa? Mean, set boundaries, what

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<v Speaker 1>you're comfortable with. You have to be honest about, Like

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<v Speaker 1>if you prefer things to happen or not happen, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to be able to know what your limit boundaries

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<v Speaker 1>are made to be crossed. Sure, it's like part of

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<v Speaker 1>the fun is when it's a bit like that is

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, You're right, Like it is a little scandalous,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's the same way as like if you can

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<v Speaker 1>have beer before your twenty one, it's not that enjoyable.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's one of those things where like if you

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<v Speaker 1>know you can write date other people, it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>as secretive and sexy and right, I think I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>much in my head, I'm an overthinker, so be like,

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<v Speaker 1>but why did you do that? And like, like why

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<v Speaker 1>I would advise, in my professional bisexual opinion to not

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<v Speaker 1>have I have in my dreams though, and let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you should like you should make out with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl on a dance floor. I'm out with Winch. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like turf, like say the same. This is super interesting

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<v Speaker 1>for me because I have I have yes, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>that every monogamous relationship I've been in, and so I've

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<v Speaker 1>been open to the idea of considering an open relationship, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it's surprised, like I never in a million

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<v Speaker 1>trillion years thought I would find someone that would be

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<v Speaker 1>into the same weird like lifestyle. You know, I still

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<v Speaker 1>think it's weird. It's not a normal thing, but it's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's weird because we think that being in just a

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<v Speaker 1>monogamous relationship begins to see how many straight tiles are like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interested, tell me more. Yeah, I'd be curious about him.

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<v Speaker 1>Not against it. Let's straight guys, but more straight girls.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a funny, weird dynamic. But it's like it's not

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<v Speaker 1>very equal. Well, let's just toxic blah blah blah. But

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<v Speaker 1>that about the podcast, right, that's gonna be next week's

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<v Speaker 1>when we get when we bring in Okay, so challenge

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys in one word, some updating culture nowadays

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<v Speaker 1>one word, Yet I know it's hard for both of

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<v Speaker 1>you because you like to talk about a lot. But

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<v Speaker 1>and he means I enough, egg eggs, eggs, saying no, um,

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<v Speaker 1>unpredictable trash. Nowadays, I think they're both. That's both kind

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<v Speaker 1>of him. Yeah, that's actually addictable me. Well, right now,

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<v Speaker 1>actually i'm dating someone. I'm happily, happily in a relationship. Um, sorry, Kamale,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm so curious around I would say dating right now? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say it's it's unpredictable. That's what I'm like leading, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>unpredictable and trashy and just um, I guess how can

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<v Speaker 1>I like? Kind of one word is hard? Yeah, like

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<v Speaker 1>people aren't as honest, so yeah, deceiving, Yeah, deceiving. We're

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<v Speaker 1>going to play a game. But what's your word? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was planning on actually skipping that part of you

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<v Speaker 1>don't get okay. One word to define dating nowadays, I

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<v Speaker 1>would say tiresome. That's good, we're exhausting. One of those

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<v Speaker 1>words real costeck or define dating? More word um, challenging. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>one's like no, one's like every single people in here

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<v Speaker 1>right now. So when everyone thinks of trash, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean like I'm I'm talking about like when I was

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<v Speaker 1>single and like now that I'm happily dating someone, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, um, it's uh fresh, It's it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>I've never experienced like this, this type of like dating before.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's like a refreshel type of like I

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<v Speaker 1>feel light good. Okay, So here's here's the thing. We've

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<v Speaker 1>defined these words on this podcast before, but we're not funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys obviously are, So take your pressure. Lots

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<v Speaker 1>of pressure here. No no, no, Jean, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>says lots of press here, be fabulous, fabulous help us

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<v Speaker 1>defining these dating terms. So first's ghosting. Well, we've talked

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<v Speaker 1>about this before. I think ghosting is like gets a

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<v Speaker 1>bad rap that it's so negative, But I think it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I think in the day and age we live in

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<v Speaker 1>with social media and like no one has any time

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not interested in someone just I don't care.

1:14:22.920 --> 1:14:25.479
<v Speaker 1>I guess it's like an indication, an indicator of like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I don't like you, not into you? Who cares? Yeah,

1:14:28.280 --> 1:14:30.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's disappearing without a trace. There's no really

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<v Speaker 1>funny way to put it. I mean, it's what I

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<v Speaker 1>assume guys are going to do I'm gonna okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna paint the picture for you guys out of

1:14:38.000 --> 1:14:40.800
<v Speaker 1>my personal experience, recent ex personal experience. I was talking

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<v Speaker 1>to this girl for a while. We went on one day,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like a month or two ago, went fantastic. Holidays happen.

1:14:46.240 --> 1:14:48.120
<v Speaker 1>Obviously when holidays come, like you go your separate ways

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<v Speaker 1>whatever wherever you go. We kept in touch during those holidays, Christmas,

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<v Speaker 1>and not only that, but she also would check in

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<v Speaker 1>with me and was like, hey, how was your years?

1:14:57.280 --> 1:14:59.840
<v Speaker 1>How is like this is something more? And it was

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<v Speaker 1>really well, and she was like, I can't not can't

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<v Speaker 1>wait till you get back to Los Angeles we can

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<v Speaker 1>hang out. But it was like very much along the

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<v Speaker 1>lines of interested in seeing you again. And so now

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<v Speaker 1>if I go back to my text messages, which I

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<v Speaker 1>will not pull up, but there's a lot of blue

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<v Speaker 1>and there's not a lot of gray, and especially most recently,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, oh my gosh, yeah, I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out again. And like we didn't like obviously

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<v Speaker 1>the first date went well, we didn't hook up or

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that. Um, but there's now I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being ghosted, well, have you asked her back out? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I can't wait to plan our second days?

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<v Speaker 1>Not ask does she listen to this podcast? She actually,

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<v Speaker 1>funny enough, said she listened to one of the most

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<v Speaker 1>recent episodes. I always the girl, which is why I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being very ambiguous with you have to make a concrete plant,

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<v Speaker 1>say drink seven pm tomorrow night texting her. Now, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you the very last message that I sent her.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, hey, we still need to plan our second date?

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<v Speaker 1>How is that not? And she didn't respond, no response,

1:15:54.920 --> 1:15:56.840
<v Speaker 1>and that was that's a bad that's a bad sign.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a bad time. I mean, I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>also kind of ambiguous, like you didn't actually plan something.

1:16:01.439 --> 1:16:04.599
<v Speaker 1>I feel I think that's enough to any message her

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<v Speaker 1>like three times before to what for us? I'm sorry, no,

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<v Speaker 1>And this is the thing, like you Walker, that's how

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<v Speaker 1>I Instagram. That's actually gonna you know how many women

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<v Speaker 1>want to date you, Dean, and you're like chasing a

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<v Speaker 1>girl who's not messling back. She's mysterious thing to do.

1:16:29.720 --> 1:16:31.880
<v Speaker 1>But that's so frustrating. She still follows me on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>so there's there's still so but I think you got

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<v Speaker 1>end not up and ask her out of like a

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<v Speaker 1>comcrete plant. How I wait, I texted her yesterday, so

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours ago, so things, No, don't message her again,

1:16:45.040 --> 1:16:49.960
<v Speaker 1>don't I'm not going to text her in her right

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<v Speaker 1>now on air. Don't you want to go like I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be able to sleep now I would just want

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<v Speaker 1>to Yeah, okay, define this term thing. Oh that's where

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<v Speaker 1>like someone agrees back up, Yeah, visits you, watches your

1:17:04.479 --> 1:17:10.400
<v Speaker 1>Instagram story like the phone but ghosted you. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you ghost me, I think leave, Yeah, exactly, by leave,

1:17:15.640 --> 1:17:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I go to heaven. I want it started to you

1:17:19.000 --> 1:17:21.599
<v Speaker 1>when like we're popping up on social media, these dudes

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<v Speaker 1>are coming out of the woodwork, I'm like, oh there

1:17:25.720 --> 1:17:33.240
<v Speaker 1>you now you're seeing right nice. Yeah, that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>Patar does that was actually changed by your handle to

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<v Speaker 1>whodini instead of being baby all funds on being but

1:17:42.520 --> 1:17:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, no, you're a Danie baby. Anyways, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys now now we leave? Ye Now it's dating no filter? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>dating no filter Onthday, every game Monday, Tuesday. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know that four a week episode is in the first

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<v Speaker 1>Amazing You guys at thirty minutes long, that's yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are television stars. Oh my god, we know. That's

1:18:07.240 --> 1:18:09.880
<v Speaker 1>pretty amazing. How often it was a bachelor on once

1:18:09.920 --> 1:18:13.439
<v Speaker 1>week for like an hour or two. Yeah, but they

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<v Speaker 1>wanted more, you guys kept it was only one went

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<v Speaker 1>out on two extra seasons with the Bachelor's too. I

1:18:20.520 --> 1:18:22.679
<v Speaker 1>was gonna get enough. So I envy your guys ability

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<v Speaker 1>to stay on TV more than one the end of

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<v Speaker 1>a week. Thank you so much. Dating hashtag no filter

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<v Speaker 1>at thirty pm Monday Thursday, whether on the East Coast

1:18:31.920 --> 1:18:33.880
<v Speaker 1>or the West Coast, Zac and Kelsey, you both are

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<v Speaker 1>hilarious coming Oh we get a plus out. That's not

1:18:41.200 --> 1:18:50.880
<v Speaker 1>even everyone was listening. Okay, so that was the two

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<v Speaker 1>of the most hilarious community. That was so much fun.

1:18:53.600 --> 1:18:57.400
<v Speaker 1>Dating hashtag unfiltered. Um, as we mentioned a million times,

1:18:57.439 --> 1:19:01.120
<v Speaker 1>checked them out on e Monday night at ten thirty Monday, Tuesday,

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<v Speaker 1>Wednesday and Thursday Thursday. Yeah, they were hilarious. That was

1:19:07.000 --> 1:19:09.479
<v Speaker 1>a lot of fun. Um. Anyways, we want to talk

1:19:09.479 --> 1:19:10.960
<v Speaker 1>to Camille now because we haven't really talked to her

1:19:11.080 --> 1:19:15.080
<v Speaker 1>much and crush on her. I have a crush on her.

1:19:16.040 --> 1:19:22.120
<v Speaker 1>So it's just like, yeah, has a crush on your boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes he does, so we I just found out that

1:19:25.000 --> 1:19:27.559
<v Speaker 1>she's dating Well I knew you were dating a football player. Um,

1:19:28.120 --> 1:19:30.519
<v Speaker 1>but I just I'm like a fan of you because

1:19:30.560 --> 1:19:32.479
<v Speaker 1>I feel I love that's a big deal. Not the

1:19:32.520 --> 1:19:34.599
<v Speaker 1>fact that you're dating a football player. Well, I love

1:19:34.680 --> 1:19:37.120
<v Speaker 1>that so much. Honestly. Some of my favorite dm s

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<v Speaker 1>to ever read are like the girls who are just

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<v Speaker 1>so excited about me and my life and like or

1:19:43.320 --> 1:19:45.120
<v Speaker 1>they'll be like, oh my god, Rob's so lucky to

1:19:45.160 --> 1:19:47.240
<v Speaker 1>have you, because I get it. So many people are like,

1:19:47.360 --> 1:19:49.720
<v Speaker 1>do you know how lucky you are? And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>why does it have to be one more the other?

1:19:51.120 --> 1:19:54.160
<v Speaker 1>Why can't relationship because that's what it is. How did

1:19:56.120 --> 1:19:59.519
<v Speaker 1>I hate this question? Can you ask me like a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of from now? No, Dean, We I mean I

1:20:06.200 --> 1:20:09.680
<v Speaker 1>always I always knew who Rob was. Um. I think

1:20:09.760 --> 1:20:10.960
<v Speaker 1>it was one of those things like when the roster

1:20:11.080 --> 1:20:12.800
<v Speaker 1>came out for who the rookies were in two thousand

1:20:12.800 --> 1:20:15.920
<v Speaker 1>and thirteen, you know the guys. See I think Rob

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<v Speaker 1>had his eye. Mean well I know that because he

1:20:17.520 --> 1:20:19.880
<v Speaker 1>told me. But um, my first time that I really

1:20:19.920 --> 1:20:22.519
<v Speaker 1>took a second look at him was, um, I did

1:20:22.560 --> 1:20:25.440
<v Speaker 1>that We did this good will event um November two thirteen,

1:20:25.680 --> 1:20:28.840
<v Speaker 1>right before Thanksgiving, and it was one of those things

1:20:28.840 --> 1:20:30.680
<v Speaker 1>where you know, there's so many preconceived ideas of who

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<v Speaker 1>somebody is, and you know, it was like, Rob is

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<v Speaker 1>this party boy who's always like probably has a girl

1:20:37.640 --> 1:20:39.680
<v Speaker 1>on his arm, and and it was he was never

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<v Speaker 1>of interest of me. I thought he was cute, didn't

1:20:41.960 --> 1:20:44.680
<v Speaker 1>think he was a hunk um, And I just got

1:20:44.800 --> 1:20:46.960
<v Speaker 1>stopped before I went into the changing room to get

1:20:46.960 --> 1:20:49.720
<v Speaker 1>into my uniform, and I got to listen. I was

1:20:49.800 --> 1:20:51.320
<v Speaker 1>kind of forced to listen to him to this interview

1:20:51.360 --> 1:20:53.240
<v Speaker 1>about this charity event, and it was like the side

1:20:53.240 --> 1:20:54.560
<v Speaker 1>of him I had never seen, and I was like,

1:20:54.680 --> 1:20:57.000
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I kind of like feel some type

1:20:57.000 --> 1:20:59.360
<v Speaker 1>of way, this guy seems really sweet and this this

1:21:00.120 --> 1:21:01.479
<v Speaker 1>to him that I don't think a lot of people see,

1:21:01.560 --> 1:21:04.240
<v Speaker 1>and I was just really attracted to it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like I would fancy a date with him.

1:21:07.080 --> 1:21:08.479
<v Speaker 1>But it was just a thought in my mind, you know.

1:21:08.560 --> 1:21:11.640
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't like, yes, I wasn't like this is my

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<v Speaker 1>next boyfriend. It was just like the first time that

1:21:13.320 --> 1:21:18.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Wow, yeah, it's really cute. And then

1:21:18.080 --> 1:21:20.519
<v Speaker 1>we dated after I resigned two years later from the

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<v Speaker 1>Chilaney team. Perfect yeah, um yeah, I guess, but now

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing a lot of big things too. Obviously your

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<v Speaker 1>your SI maxim. Um well, I'm not a maxim model,

1:21:32.400 --> 1:21:35.599
<v Speaker 1>but I do a lot of corresponding format. Yes, yes, um,

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<v Speaker 1>but um yea sports illustrated has been a dream job

1:21:38.280 --> 1:21:39.720
<v Speaker 1>of mine. It was kind of it was the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you could probably attest to this, like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you look like a supermodel, Vanessa, so maybe you don't.

1:21:46.080 --> 1:21:50.880
<v Speaker 1>But I didn't. Like, no, I it was really hard

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<v Speaker 1>for me to see women's bodies advertised in on TV

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<v Speaker 1>or in billboards and magazines and be like, oh, she

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<v Speaker 1>has freckled, she has hips, she has thighed, she has

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but that's what I love about you. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like when I look at women, like you're my

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<v Speaker 1>ideal body type, like women with curves and like who

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<v Speaker 1>are just authentically like these wasn't always the cool. It's

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<v Speaker 1>starting to become correct for me. It always was, though

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<v Speaker 1>I guess like it might because of like my cultural background,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm like ten pounds lighter than what I should

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<v Speaker 1>be in my you know, like so interesting if you're

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<v Speaker 1>not eating I'm like I am, I'm just dressed out,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm losing weight. And I think when people tell me, like, oh,

1:22:24.760 --> 1:22:26.840
<v Speaker 1>you're skinny, like yeah, that might be a good thing

1:22:26.920 --> 1:22:28.680
<v Speaker 1>for some other women, but for me, it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>my biggest insecurities. And I don't talk about it a

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<v Speaker 1>lot um. I do love how one of the things

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<v Speaker 1>you can consistently say is I'm trying to gain more weight,

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<v Speaker 1>and I right, but I am trying. And like my

1:22:39.800 --> 1:22:41.600
<v Speaker 1>people might be like, oh, like, we don't want to

1:22:41.680 --> 1:22:44.960
<v Speaker 1>hear that, you know, but like that's my body type.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just like I look at you and you're

1:22:46.439 --> 1:22:50.040
<v Speaker 1>just like you just radiate sunshine because you're just you're

1:22:50.120 --> 1:22:53.240
<v Speaker 1>just so like proud to like be you. And I

1:22:53.400 --> 1:22:54.880
<v Speaker 1>love that and I love that about it. And it

1:22:54.960 --> 1:22:57.960
<v Speaker 1>took me. It took me a long time to get there.

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<v Speaker 1>But and I'm not even just saying this, the best

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<v Speaker 1>part about being a part of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit is

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<v Speaker 1>I was hoping that this day would come to that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I could come and sit on there and

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<v Speaker 1>kind of talk about my journey, my story because it

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<v Speaker 1>was something that I knew I always wanted to be

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<v Speaker 1>a part of simply because it made me except who

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<v Speaker 1>I was and without even being in the issue, simply

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<v Speaker 1>looking at it and at such a young age. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was just something I would always talk about. People

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<v Speaker 1>be like, what do you want to do when you

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<v Speaker 1>grow up? And that was that was always one of them.

1:23:23.680 --> 1:23:24.880
<v Speaker 1>And they would be like okay, but like what else?

1:23:24.880 --> 1:23:26.760
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, no, I'll let you know after that,

1:23:26.800 --> 1:23:28.840
<v Speaker 1>because I want, I really want to be a swimsy model,

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<v Speaker 1>not to be another face in the magazine, but because

1:23:30.920 --> 1:23:33.160
<v Speaker 1>these women take these platforms and they get to capitalize it.

1:23:33.160 --> 1:23:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Look at Ashley Graham, look at you. You have to

1:23:34.880 --> 1:23:36.479
<v Speaker 1>look at Christy Teak, and these women are more than

1:23:36.600 --> 1:23:41.360
<v Speaker 1>just these supermodels that there's a person exactly and you

1:23:41.400 --> 1:23:43.519
<v Speaker 1>don't you really see that with with models. A lot

1:23:43.560 --> 1:23:45.600
<v Speaker 1>of time I go into castings and I won't just

1:23:45.680 --> 1:23:47.559
<v Speaker 1>do you know my front side back, do a little

1:23:47.600 --> 1:23:50.360
<v Speaker 1>slate like I'm talking, how are you? What are you doing?

1:23:50.479 --> 1:23:52.320
<v Speaker 1>I would love to represent your brands, you know, I'm

1:23:52.320 --> 1:23:55.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm all about that's what models are. So I like

1:23:56.040 --> 1:23:58.720
<v Speaker 1>to like dive deep into it and really find the

1:23:58.840 --> 1:24:00.680
<v Speaker 1>essence of what's behind the brand and presented. And that's

1:24:00.680 --> 1:24:02.679
<v Speaker 1>exactly why I wanted to be a part of Sports Illustrated,

1:24:02.920 --> 1:24:08.360
<v Speaker 1>but long story short, agencies weren't signing me. And you

1:24:08.439 --> 1:24:10.519
<v Speaker 1>can't go knocking on the headquarters and say Hi, can

1:24:10.600 --> 1:24:12.040
<v Speaker 1>you sit down with me to interview me. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a Sports Illustrated sim suit models. So theyre

1:24:15.320 --> 1:24:17.320
<v Speaker 1>the first ever Hope and Call. I moved out to

1:24:17.400 --> 1:24:21.760
<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles in February. I wasn't getting signed. Needed to

1:24:21.840 --> 1:24:25.000
<v Speaker 1>drop weight, um, needed to change things about my body.

1:24:25.040 --> 1:24:27.280
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, this is contradicting because I want

1:24:27.320 --> 1:24:28.600
<v Speaker 1>to be in a side because I know I can

1:24:28.640 --> 1:24:30.720
<v Speaker 1>be accepted in the skin that I'm in, And so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, why would I lose weight to go

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<v Speaker 1>and be something like that didn't make sense to me.

1:24:35.560 --> 1:24:39.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean, everything happens for a reason, um, And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so happy that I got it at twenty five years old,

1:24:41.840 --> 1:24:44.599
<v Speaker 1>that I first got into modeling at this stage, which

1:24:44.880 --> 1:24:50.519
<v Speaker 1>was also another contradicting but that gives women who are

1:24:50.640 --> 1:24:54.840
<v Speaker 1>battling with their internal insecurities of either their body weight

1:24:55.400 --> 1:24:58.400
<v Speaker 1>or whatever it may be, gives them the courage and like,

1:24:59.040 --> 1:25:01.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, the hope be like yeah, well, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to be accepted for like having my curves or not,

1:25:03.600 --> 1:25:06.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, like sometimes like I dated this one. I

1:25:06.439 --> 1:25:08.120
<v Speaker 1>don't even want to talk about it. But anyway, so

1:25:08.400 --> 1:25:10.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean like I was body shamed at one point

1:25:10.280 --> 1:25:14.799
<v Speaker 1>and like and it really like affected my self esteem.

1:25:15.200 --> 1:25:18.519
<v Speaker 1>Um and and I think it's it's so important to

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<v Speaker 1>have people like you out there and like you're saying,

1:25:20.680 --> 1:25:25.760
<v Speaker 1>Christy Tiguan and um actually Graham and just so like

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<v Speaker 1>be you. There's nothing more beautiful and more authentic than

1:25:30.280 --> 1:25:33.240
<v Speaker 1>like having someone that's just loving who they are as

1:25:33.240 --> 1:25:36.439
<v Speaker 1>a person. Like it's so much easier said, like you know,

1:25:36.560 --> 1:25:39.280
<v Speaker 1>it's whenever I go and I do these talks and

1:25:39.320 --> 1:25:42.720
<v Speaker 1>I do panels and stuff, like it's every time I

1:25:42.760 --> 1:25:44.280
<v Speaker 1>say it, I mean it. But it took me a

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<v Speaker 1>while to really understand it. So now when I talk

1:25:46.160 --> 1:25:47.719
<v Speaker 1>about it, I'm so passionate about it. And some people

1:25:47.720 --> 1:25:49.240
<v Speaker 1>will look at me like you're crazy, But for those

1:25:49.280 --> 1:25:51.040
<v Speaker 1>people that it resonates with them, Like this is why

1:25:51.080 --> 1:25:53.559
<v Speaker 1>I do because once you feel that you fork feeling

1:25:53.600 --> 1:25:57.760
<v Speaker 1>of being truly truly comfortable in your body, it's insane,

1:25:58.080 --> 1:26:00.160
<v Speaker 1>it's right. And people listening might be like, oh, has

1:26:00.200 --> 1:26:03.040
<v Speaker 1>to shut up, like you have nothing about I do

1:26:03.479 --> 1:26:05.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I wear a padded bra and I

1:26:05.360 --> 1:26:07.519
<v Speaker 1>call it my bulletproof vest because I want bigger boobs.

1:26:07.520 --> 1:26:09.960
<v Speaker 1>But I'm not gonna get like implants, not against it,

1:26:10.120 --> 1:26:12.880
<v Speaker 1>but I'm like, I have small boobs. There's so many

1:26:12.960 --> 1:26:14.840
<v Speaker 1>things people battle with, even if it's like so small

1:26:14.960 --> 1:26:18.760
<v Speaker 1>or so sillier, you know, it's yeah, I love I

1:26:18.840 --> 1:26:20.639
<v Speaker 1>love you. So anyway, I had to get into Sports

1:26:20.640 --> 1:26:23.400
<v Speaker 1>Illustrated without an agent and it was done, so now

1:26:23.560 --> 1:26:27.479
<v Speaker 1>now I'm signed. It's so interesting. Um, you know, Lady

1:26:27.520 --> 1:26:28.920
<v Speaker 1>Gaga says it all the time. You can walk into

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<v Speaker 1>a room with a hundred people, you know, ninety and

1:26:30.360 --> 1:26:33.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe anyone does. It's so freaking true. Yeah,

1:26:33.400 --> 1:26:35.639
<v Speaker 1>it's so true. So it was actually one of her lyrics.

1:26:35.680 --> 1:26:37.920
<v Speaker 1>I went into an audition once for to host a

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<v Speaker 1>TV show in Montreal, and it was what I forgot

1:26:40.600 --> 1:26:44.800
<v Speaker 1>what lyric it was, I should be well anyways, it

1:26:44.880 --> 1:26:46.680
<v Speaker 1>was one like basically like being you, you know what

1:26:46.680 --> 1:26:48.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like there's no other version of you, and

1:26:48.320 --> 1:26:50.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm like yeah, And I walked into that audition and

1:26:50.439 --> 1:26:51.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like this is me. And I ended up

1:26:52.000 --> 1:26:54.280
<v Speaker 1>booking it because I was like, I'm just gonna be me.

1:26:54.360 --> 1:26:56.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna pretend to be anyone else. Yes. Um,

1:26:56.720 --> 1:27:00.360
<v Speaker 1>But on that note, I'm going to give you another hug. Goodbyefully,

1:27:00.400 --> 1:27:01.560
<v Speaker 1>we got a good picture and there I feel like

1:27:01.560 --> 1:27:06.040
<v Speaker 1>we took fifty pictures, but there's like you are both

1:27:06.080 --> 1:27:09.519
<v Speaker 1>too beautiful to take any bad pictures. Um, I love

1:27:09.560 --> 1:27:12.000
<v Speaker 1>you so much. Love you. Keep doing what you're doing.

1:27:12.200 --> 1:27:15.759
<v Speaker 1>Keep doing what you're doing, giving like women, all women

1:27:16.040 --> 1:27:18.920
<v Speaker 1>a platform to like have the power to just express

1:27:18.960 --> 1:27:21.160
<v Speaker 1>themselves and like be who they are and like appreciate

1:27:21.200 --> 1:27:23.200
<v Speaker 1>their bodies. You're you guys are both really good at

1:27:23.240 --> 1:27:25.400
<v Speaker 1>doing this. I've had the honor of kind of sitting

1:27:25.439 --> 1:27:26.960
<v Speaker 1>and watching. I felt like I was like your manager,

1:27:27.000 --> 1:27:30.000
<v Speaker 1>like another good one, I have a great one. Guy's congrats.

1:27:30.360 --> 1:27:32.320
<v Speaker 1>It was really cool because I'm usually one like up

1:27:32.439 --> 1:27:33.680
<v Speaker 1>on the mic, and I was just sitting over there

1:27:33.720 --> 1:27:36.519
<v Speaker 1>doing emails and listening, like my people are doing great,

1:27:37.200 --> 1:27:41.120
<v Speaker 1>great job. You guys are really really good at there. Um, Camille,

1:27:41.120 --> 1:27:44.040
<v Speaker 1>I would love to answer. She's so sweet. Yeah, she's lovely.

1:27:44.080 --> 1:27:45.720
<v Speaker 1>I would love to answer an email with you. So

1:27:45.880 --> 1:27:49.280
<v Speaker 1>people email you and Vanessa and Jared yes, and then

1:27:49.560 --> 1:27:52.760
<v Speaker 1>you answer on the air. Yes, okay, because obviously there's

1:27:52.800 --> 1:27:54.760
<v Speaker 1>no one more better students to give advice than me.

1:27:54.880 --> 1:27:59.920
<v Speaker 1>Vanessa and Jared got it because you're all married and happy. Yeah,

1:28:00.080 --> 1:28:04.519
<v Speaker 1>in your relationships, I'm happier. Are you being sarcastic or serious? Well,

1:28:04.560 --> 1:28:06.519
<v Speaker 1>I'm actually I'm happy I've ever been in my entire life.

1:28:06.560 --> 1:28:08.840
<v Speaker 1>But I'm justice. I found so much happiness when I

1:28:08.920 --> 1:28:12.080
<v Speaker 1>was alone, honestly, and then once that happens, my career,

1:28:12.240 --> 1:28:15.479
<v Speaker 1>my love life everything changed, right, which is great, right,

1:28:15.600 --> 1:28:17.880
<v Speaker 1>So it's it's fantastic because I'm I've never been happier,

1:28:17.920 --> 1:28:19.680
<v Speaker 1>but I'm also never been more single, so it's just

1:28:19.720 --> 1:28:22.080
<v Speaker 1>like one of those things, you know. Anyways, this email

1:28:22.160 --> 1:28:24.559
<v Speaker 1>is from anonymous, which I always find is the most juicy.

1:28:24.640 --> 1:28:27.680
<v Speaker 1>So uh, It's titled dating a non Texter. They say,

1:28:27.760 --> 1:28:29.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm twenty four years old and just started dating this guy.

1:28:30.320 --> 1:28:32.200
<v Speaker 1>He isn't my type on paper, doesn't have a degree,

1:28:32.240 --> 1:28:34.400
<v Speaker 1>he's younger, but I'm totally smitten. We've been on a

1:28:34.439 --> 1:28:36.080
<v Speaker 1>few dates so far, and although there's a lot of

1:28:36.120 --> 1:28:38.599
<v Speaker 1>great stuff, I'm worried about one thing. He doesn't text.

1:28:39.040 --> 1:28:40.599
<v Speaker 1>We have a mutual friend and she says that it's

1:28:40.640 --> 1:28:42.680
<v Speaker 1>typical of him. I believe him when he says he

1:28:42.800 --> 1:28:44.680
<v Speaker 1>likes me, and he's been very honest about how he's

1:28:44.720 --> 1:28:46.760
<v Speaker 1>not ready for a relationship right now. This is fine

1:28:46.800 --> 1:28:48.960
<v Speaker 1>with me as the only we only just started dating

1:28:48.960 --> 1:28:51.040
<v Speaker 1>around the holidays. I don't know what to do. Would

1:28:51.080 --> 1:28:52.800
<v Speaker 1>he be texting me more if he actually liked me?

1:28:52.800 --> 1:28:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Should I give it time or should I bring it up?

1:28:54.760 --> 1:28:57.479
<v Speaker 1>And if so? How? Oh? I already have the best

1:28:57.520 --> 1:29:00.880
<v Speaker 1>answer ever? Perfect? That is my type of guy. I

1:29:01.000 --> 1:29:03.040
<v Speaker 1>hate texting him so bad at texting face time and

1:29:03.120 --> 1:29:06.559
<v Speaker 1>call me when you can. I literally with my boyfriend,

1:29:07.160 --> 1:29:08.920
<v Speaker 1>he's busy all day when he's out in the field

1:29:08.960 --> 1:29:10.760
<v Speaker 1>and meetings or whatever, or even if he's not in

1:29:10.840 --> 1:29:12.360
<v Speaker 1>his day off. We don't like to have our faces

1:29:12.400 --> 1:29:15.839
<v Speaker 1>in the phone, and I look forward to that FaceTime

1:29:15.880 --> 1:29:18.240
<v Speaker 1>tostic a night, every night, every night. So this girl

1:29:18.240 --> 1:29:20.559
<v Speaker 1>doesn't specify whether or not she's receiving face times from

1:29:20.640 --> 1:29:22.840
<v Speaker 1>him or not, though, But maybe it just sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't like to text. But here's the thing. There's

1:29:24.600 --> 1:29:28.280
<v Speaker 1>so many people that you know they feel like until

1:29:28.360 --> 1:29:31.560
<v Speaker 1>you're in a I don't know, truly serious relationship, like

1:29:31.600 --> 1:29:34.320
<v Speaker 1>you don't make phone calls like communication is key. Pick

1:29:34.400 --> 1:29:35.760
<v Speaker 1>up the phone. If you want to go on a date,

1:29:35.880 --> 1:29:37.120
<v Speaker 1>I'll pick you up at seven. You have not you

1:29:37.160 --> 1:29:39.360
<v Speaker 1>don't really need anything to talk about. So you're saying

1:29:40.080 --> 1:29:41.960
<v Speaker 1>up until or you're saying it doesn't matter how far

1:29:42.000 --> 1:29:44.000
<v Speaker 1>into a realiship you are. You should always be calling

1:29:44.080 --> 1:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>text I'm sorry always calling all the time, but like

1:29:48.880 --> 1:29:52.000
<v Speaker 1>if yeah, I think that should start to be the chain,

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<v Speaker 1>like the shift. I feel like there's so many like

1:29:53.960 --> 1:29:57.000
<v Speaker 1>that left on red or Um. He took two hours

1:29:57.040 --> 1:29:58.920
<v Speaker 1>of texting back. Just call somebody. You know what's gonna

1:29:58.920 --> 1:30:00.400
<v Speaker 1>go on, you know when you're gonna see chu her again?

1:30:00.840 --> 1:30:02.760
<v Speaker 1>And texting between if you want to say, like can

1:30:02.800 --> 1:30:05.479
<v Speaker 1>I miss you? Or something there is On Becca Antonia's podcast,

1:30:05.520 --> 1:30:07.320
<v Speaker 1>I remember Tanya said something about how she met a

1:30:07.360 --> 1:30:10.240
<v Speaker 1>guy who decided to say on their first day, he's like,

1:30:10.280 --> 1:30:11.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna text you anymore. If we're gonna talk,

1:30:11.840 --> 1:30:13.000
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be on the phone or it's gonna be

1:30:14.240 --> 1:30:18.000
<v Speaker 1>really I love that. I hate it, Like like Rob

1:30:18.080 --> 1:30:20.160
<v Speaker 1>just texted me during this and it's like hi baby

1:30:20.320 --> 1:30:22.800
<v Speaker 1>on break for thirty minutes and I literally wrote back, high,

1:30:23.800 --> 1:30:25.120
<v Speaker 1>what are we going to talk? I said, I'm on

1:30:25.200 --> 1:30:28.120
<v Speaker 1>the air right now, I'll talk to you tonight. Well,

1:30:28.720 --> 1:30:30.439
<v Speaker 1>what if you just hate phone calls? Like even my

1:30:30.479 --> 1:30:32.000
<v Speaker 1>best friends will call me and I'll just screen their

1:30:32.000 --> 1:30:33.920
<v Speaker 1>phone calls and text and be like, what's up. I

1:30:34.000 --> 1:30:36.439
<v Speaker 1>just don't like I don't like phone calls. That's it's

1:30:37.520 --> 1:30:41.760
<v Speaker 1>and it's just like it's just you don't need to

1:30:41.800 --> 1:30:43.760
<v Speaker 1>stay on the phone for two hours like high school days.

1:30:44.120 --> 1:30:45.679
<v Speaker 1>That's the thing too. Every time I get a phone

1:30:45.720 --> 1:30:47.720
<v Speaker 1>call with someone, I have the impression that it's gonna

1:30:47.800 --> 1:30:50.439
<v Speaker 1>last for two hours every single time. Oh well, that's

1:30:50.439 --> 1:30:52.799
<v Speaker 1>a problem. It's just I think it's my charisma carries

1:30:52.800 --> 1:30:54.640
<v Speaker 1>a conversation. I'm gonna call you tom I'm gonna call

1:30:54.640 --> 1:30:56.200
<v Speaker 1>you tomorrow, and it's gonna be for one minute, and

1:30:56.240 --> 1:30:57.960
<v Speaker 1>it's literally gonna be like, Yo, I really like this podcast.

1:30:58.000 --> 1:30:59.479
<v Speaker 1>Are you hungry? Do you want to get food? Yesterday?

1:30:59.479 --> 1:31:01.200
<v Speaker 1>We're talking aboon a few times. Every time we talk,

1:31:01.200 --> 1:31:03.040
<v Speaker 1>it's a minute or less, and I appreciate that. So

1:31:03.200 --> 1:31:04.680
<v Speaker 1>there you go. That's why I don't screen too your

1:31:04.720 --> 1:31:06.360
<v Speaker 1>phone calls because I know it's not going to be

1:31:06.600 --> 1:31:08.840
<v Speaker 1>for two hours at a time. You know, it's a

1:31:08.920 --> 1:31:12.120
<v Speaker 1>it's a very real when when he came to pick

1:31:12.160 --> 1:31:13.560
<v Speaker 1>me before this, he faced time me and I was

1:31:13.600 --> 1:31:15.479
<v Speaker 1>so confused with like what's going on? And then I answered,

1:31:15.520 --> 1:31:17.360
<v Speaker 1>and You're like, I'm outside. I was like perfect, coming out,

1:31:17.600 --> 1:31:20.479
<v Speaker 1>so much better than texting. What if my my ring

1:31:20.720 --> 1:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>sound isn't hon or something? Wait, that's literally me. I'm somebody. Well,

1:31:23.720 --> 1:31:26.280
<v Speaker 1>I face time all the time, all the time, all

1:31:26.320 --> 1:31:28.559
<v Speaker 1>the time. I don't care if I'm at my worst whatever,

1:31:28.880 --> 1:31:31.360
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like I'll be picking somebody up and I'll

1:31:31.360 --> 1:31:33.360
<v Speaker 1>face time like, hey, I'm outside. Yeah, yeah, Like why

1:31:33.439 --> 1:31:35.680
<v Speaker 1>is just text maracy me? But it just means more.

1:31:35.720 --> 1:31:37.760
<v Speaker 1>It's like, hey, I took time to like see your

1:31:37.800 --> 1:31:40.920
<v Speaker 1>face a little interaction. I'm here. You don't want it

1:31:41.000 --> 1:31:42.920
<v Speaker 1>to mean anything. What if it's like you're it's just

1:31:43.000 --> 1:31:45.120
<v Speaker 1>like here. It's called being like a good person, like

1:31:45.160 --> 1:31:48.120
<v Speaker 1>a good human. It's like face to face interaction. Like,

1:31:48.280 --> 1:31:51.120
<v Speaker 1>face to face interaction is so crucial. Absolutely. I can't

1:31:51.120 --> 1:31:54.599
<v Speaker 1>even tell you how many times I've heard people say, come,

1:31:55.120 --> 1:31:57.479
<v Speaker 1>this is my first face time ever, And I like,

1:31:58.280 --> 1:32:01.200
<v Speaker 1>is it the weirdest feeling when face I'm happen. It's

1:32:01.240 --> 1:32:04.800
<v Speaker 1>got a long time years ago. Yeah, because we also

1:32:04.880 --> 1:32:07.559
<v Speaker 1>still had shoot, what was the other one? It wasn't

1:32:07.600 --> 1:32:10.240
<v Speaker 1>face It's like skype Skype. Yeah, I was a skyper

1:32:10.280 --> 1:32:12.240
<v Speaker 1>in high school. Like I was like in my dad's office.

1:32:12.360 --> 1:32:15.439
<v Speaker 1>Like and then when you got the Mac, you're like,

1:32:15.479 --> 1:32:17.280
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, it's built in you like set up

1:32:17.320 --> 1:32:19.360
<v Speaker 1>your little clamp on the top back in the old

1:32:19.400 --> 1:32:24.320
<v Speaker 1>few days. Oh my gosh. The record. I don't know

1:32:24.320 --> 1:32:25.880
<v Speaker 1>where I got before. I was thinking of like an

1:32:25.920 --> 1:32:27.720
<v Speaker 1>old rap song and I just remember like, oh four,

1:32:27.880 --> 1:32:30.920
<v Speaker 1>Like for some reason I thought it was can I

1:32:31.000 --> 1:32:32.760
<v Speaker 1>say one thing that I would beg to differ with

1:32:32.840 --> 1:32:38.439
<v Speaker 1>the face playing Devil's Advocate? Yeah? Sorry, Hi Tori. So

1:32:38.800 --> 1:32:41.679
<v Speaker 1>I met a guy in New York and like he's awesome,

1:32:41.920 --> 1:32:43.680
<v Speaker 1>he's pre med. So you're like, I get it. You

1:32:43.680 --> 1:32:45.080
<v Speaker 1>don't have a life. I barely have a life over

1:32:45.160 --> 1:32:46.840
<v Speaker 1>here too, especially having a l A. You're in traffic

1:32:47.760 --> 1:32:51.040
<v Speaker 1>time and the other half you're doing work. Um but

1:32:52.080 --> 1:32:55.040
<v Speaker 1>um he doesn't text, And it's like it's fine, But

1:32:55.080 --> 1:32:56.720
<v Speaker 1>then it's like if you're not a texter and then

1:32:56.760 --> 1:32:58.880
<v Speaker 1>you're not a face timer and you're not a caller,

1:33:00.479 --> 1:33:04.960
<v Speaker 1>that's just like people people, well, and like I actually

1:33:05.000 --> 1:33:06.800
<v Speaker 1>don't know if he does that because he's so like

1:33:07.040 --> 1:33:08.800
<v Speaker 1>he's at Columbia, Like I get it, like you know,

1:33:08.960 --> 1:33:11.960
<v Speaker 1>like there is no other world really for you, and

1:33:12.080 --> 1:33:14.720
<v Speaker 1>I know that like he really like is in it.

1:33:14.960 --> 1:33:16.880
<v Speaker 1>But for me, I'm like, if you're not gonna if

1:33:16.880 --> 1:33:18.759
<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna have any interaction, like I would settle

1:33:18.800 --> 1:33:20.320
<v Speaker 1>for texting. So I kind of feel like for her,

1:33:20.840 --> 1:33:23.920
<v Speaker 1>if he's not covering the basis on any level, then

1:33:24.000 --> 1:33:26.160
<v Speaker 1>it just doesn't seem like it's just not practical. It

1:33:26.280 --> 1:33:27.679
<v Speaker 1>just does it sound like she didn't cover the base

1:33:27.720 --> 1:33:29.080
<v Speaker 1>of like making phone calls. But a lot of people

1:33:29.120 --> 1:33:31.519
<v Speaker 1>just resort to texting because they're like scared of like, oh,

1:33:31.520 --> 1:33:32.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't want them to think this is so that

1:33:33.320 --> 1:33:36.040
<v Speaker 1>I think that texting could lead to looking more clean

1:33:36.120 --> 1:33:38.120
<v Speaker 1>than a phone call a day. Also, if texting is

1:33:38.200 --> 1:33:41.240
<v Speaker 1>so confusing, I'm so sick of like interpreting something, so

1:33:41.360 --> 1:33:43.920
<v Speaker 1>like let's just keep it clear and here it voice

1:33:43.960 --> 1:33:46.160
<v Speaker 1>her dialogue, here a little up and down town. I

1:33:46.240 --> 1:33:47.960
<v Speaker 1>do voice notes on my phone too. I feel like

1:33:48.080 --> 1:33:50.439
<v Speaker 1>that's what it does. So yeah, I don't do very

1:33:50.600 --> 1:33:52.640
<v Speaker 1>Vanessa does that not often, but I do them like

1:33:52.680 --> 1:33:54.200
<v Speaker 1>when I don't want to explain. Like a lot of

1:33:54.240 --> 1:33:55.519
<v Speaker 1>times I'll call my agent. I'll be like, can you

1:33:55.560 --> 1:33:57.160
<v Speaker 1>please answer, Like I don't feel like typing email, I

1:33:57.200 --> 1:33:58.880
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like typing a text, and they'll be like,

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<v Speaker 1>travel so much. Imagine if you had a good girl

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<v Speaker 1>and she was just like, hey, Deane, I'm going to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, on the other side of the country. You

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<v Speaker 1>would listen to the first five seconds of it and

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<v Speaker 1>then just close. Then I've never that way about exactly

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<v Speaker 1>you the help I suck at dating. Anyways, that this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a lot of guests. It kind of was

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<v Speaker 1>a long one. We've had a couple of long ones

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<v Speaker 1>in a row. Now I'm sorry for well, actually no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sorry. You know what. You're welcome for giving

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<v Speaker 1>you this much of time. Sorry, sorry, not sorry. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>big thank you to all of our guests this week.

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<v Speaker 1>We had Madison, who was fantastic be sure to watch

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<v Speaker 1>thank you to all of our sponsors of course, and Camille,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for coming in. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>having me. This was a long time in the making.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad we're finally able to figure it out. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little upset because I didn't get to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you as much as I wanted to save that for

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<v Speaker 1>later on. That's absolutely fine. UM, big thank you of

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<v Speaker 1>course to Vanessa, Jared what Jared was in Mexico and

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<v Speaker 1>we recorded this. Big thank you to Tor and Easton.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. Um. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>that'll do it for this week's episode of Help I

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<v Speaker 1>Suck At Dating. Next week is the Super Bowl. UM,

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