1 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning, 2 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's 3 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: tip is to keep yourself on track for your long 4 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: term goals by revisiting your New Year's resolutions. Lots of 5 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: people make resolutions in January. If you believe the articles, 6 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: the vast majority of people have fallen off the wagon 7 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 1: by about February third. Long term change is hard. In general, 8 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: people are better off structuring their lives to make good 9 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:40,599 Speaker 1: choices easy than they are relying on willpower. You can 10 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: hope you'll find time to walk for thirty minutes of 11 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: the day, or you could pay for a regular parking 12 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:47,959 Speaker 1: spot at a garage that's a fifteen minute walk from 13 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 1: your office. Then you'll find yourself walking thirty minutes daily, 14 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: regardless of what you do. In any case, there's nothing 15 00:00:55,880 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: magical about January to inspire change. Year suggests a fresh start, 16 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: but you can create a fresh start anytime you want. 17 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: We are now about halfway through the year. This episode 18 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: is first launching near the beginning of July, which is 19 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 1: the beginning of the third quarter of the year. If 20 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,479 Speaker 1: you made New Year's resolutions, can you remember what they were. 21 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: If so, great, If not, ask your friends and family 22 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: or hunt through old social media posts. Try to list 23 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 1: the resolution or two you felt most excited about. Now 24 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: ask yourself, is this still something i'd value for my life? 25 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: It's possible the answer is no. Maybe you wanted to 26 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: take on a big professional project and then you switched 27 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 1: to jobs. Are you're dealing with a family situation that's 28 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: going to preclude big new undertakings. Life happens. This is fine. 29 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: Our current selves don't need to carry our past selves burdens. 30 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: But maybe your resolutions are still relevant. You'd like to 31 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: give yourself a bedtime. You'd like to walk at lunch 32 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: three days a week. These ideas are as smart in 33 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: July as they are in January. If the resolution still 34 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: works for your life, then here's my challenge to you. 35 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: Put this resolution into your life this week. Don't say forever, 36 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:24,399 Speaker 1: aim for just this week. See how it goes. See 37 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 1: if it works for you. If it doesn't, ask why. 38 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: If you don't manage to walk at lunch, it's probably 39 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 1: not because you're a horrible and undisciplined person. A more 40 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: likely explanation is that your eleven AM meetings keep running 41 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: over or your colleagues ask you to grab lunch with them, 42 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: and you value building relationships. That's great. So maybe you 43 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: need to walk later in the day or before work, 44 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: or maybe you need to have a conversation with the 45 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: person who runs those eleven am meetings on setting agendas, 46 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: see what you can do, and then you can try 47 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 1: again next week. But there's no reason to wait until 48 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: January to try anything you think would improve your life. 49 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: And there are a lot of reasons not to wait. 50 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,519 Speaker 1: Here's a big one. There's still a lot of time 51 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: before January. You can do a lot of things in 52 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 1: six months. The popular couch to five k running program, 53 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: for instance, takes nine weeks. That means that if you 54 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: start now when this show first airs, you could run 55 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: a five k by mid September, And with that base, 56 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 1: I'm guessing you'd be able to run a ten k 57 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: by December. Anyone able to do that is definitely winning 58 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: in the fitness department. Likewise, if you start setting a 59 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: bedtime now, it would be a strong habit by December. 60 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: Think of all the many many mornings you'll wake up 61 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: well rested before then. Starting now is a gift to 62 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: your future self. While January would have been a great 63 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: time to start. If you didn't, that's all done. July 64 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: is a great time to start too. I love that 65 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: proverb that the best time to plan to tree was 66 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: twenty years ago. The second best time is now. And 67 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: just a note for people pondering future New Year's resolutions, 68 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: I like to take some of the pressure off January. 69 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 1: Each year I make quarterly goals rather than New Year's resolutions. 70 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 1: For each quarter, I make a goal in three categories career, relationships, self. 71 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: That way I can set intentions for the whole year, 72 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: twelve of them spread across all spheres of life. I 73 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 1: get lots of fresh starts, and even better, if I 74 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: know a goal is set for Q three, I don't 75 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: have to think about it until then. I know I'll 76 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: do it, but I can focus on other things until 77 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: we get there. So what were your resolutions last January? 78 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: Can you give yourself the fresh start of the second 79 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: half of the year. Let me know how it goes 80 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 1: at Before Breakfast podcast at iHeartMedia dot com. In the meantime, 81 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making 82 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: the most of our time. Hey everybody, I'd love to 83 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: hear from you You can send me your tips, your questions, 84 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: or anything else. Just connect with me on Twitter, Facebook 85 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: and Instagram at Before Breakfast Pod. 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