WEBVTT - The Fatherly Warning

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood. See you, Thank you for listening to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Ryanair with Ryan Seacrest, Good morning you guys. So tomorrow

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<v Speaker 1>night we're doing our pregame dinner Wino Tango and then

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<v Speaker 1>we've got Windo Tango. It's very exciting. Ready for it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna beautiful on a theme. Are doing no no themes?

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<v Speaker 1>This is when it becomes not fun. It's supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be a casual, seamless gathering of us Friday night before

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<v Speaker 1>we go tango at an early reservation. No like BoA's

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<v Speaker 1>and whatever. You know, I don't need to wear funny

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<v Speaker 1>you say, no Boa just throwing it out there, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know truly what we have here style is

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<v Speaker 1>that Harry Styles Ball, the Harry Styles boa. It's amazing

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<v Speaker 1>that if I were to see a boat five years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>I would not even connect it to Harry Stole. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I see any bowl and I connected the Harry Stole.

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<v Speaker 1>A girlfriend of mine went to Party City on album

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<v Speaker 1>release week to get some BoA's and they were totally

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<v Speaker 1>sold out and she said, Harry styles Harry Style. Well listen,

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<v Speaker 1>so just just doing a So you're in Sysney, You're

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<v Speaker 1>in Mark, are you in or where you check the schedule,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have dance class on Friday night, dance class

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<v Speaker 1>on final So my daughter is in dance class. And

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<v Speaker 1>every year they're a big presentation and there's a dad dance.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's like a dad dance. You can't miss that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>And so we have three rehearsals before the big show,

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<v Speaker 1>so we have to be there and we're not that fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so you're not missing too much. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's a better idea. Well, I mean we are, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying like that's like a real opportunity to be

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<v Speaker 1>great dad. That's great dad time. You know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that you know for sure over a work dinner, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like us to schedule this for Sunday? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>better for you? Mark? Yes, Sunday does work better. But

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<v Speaker 1>I have a play date, okay. I mean you guys

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<v Speaker 1>in your schedules, honestly, book and advance book early two

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<v Speaker 1>days out until wayno tang a mercury leaves retrograde to

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<v Speaker 1>so fine, I'll be there for the send off a

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<v Speaker 1>right one am, So really this morning or tomorrow morning

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<v Speaker 1>one am. Christina is in Ontario, Christie, Good morning, how

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? Hi? Good morning, Ryan, Good how are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>So let's go back to this conversation we have been

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<v Speaker 1>having for a couple of days here on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is about marriage and some people think that

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<v Speaker 1>they don't need it to be in love and at

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<v Speaker 1>peace and happy and committed. What happened in your situation, Well, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>my situation is a little bit more complicated. Um. So basically,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been together with my boyfriend for almost five years now,

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<v Speaker 1>and at the time when we met, we were both

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<v Speaker 1>married but separated, um a year a year and a half.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I did what I had to do to

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<v Speaker 1>finalize my divorce. Thankfully, you know, I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>get that done with no issues. Well I mean here

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<v Speaker 1>we are now, almost five years later and he has

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<v Speaker 1>still not finalized his divorce yet. Yeah. Um, in the beginning,

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<v Speaker 1>it was more like a money thing, you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they both couldn't afford it. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just going through what I had to go through,

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<v Speaker 1>so it wasn't really bugging me so much then. But

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<v Speaker 1>just recently, um, about last year, it's when it just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of dog click, you know, like, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what are we doing? You know, what are we working

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<v Speaker 1>really towards? Um, because you know, yes, I was married

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<v Speaker 1>at one point before, and I was young, So now

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<v Speaker 1>I really strongly believe, you know, like marriage is really important,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, in a relationship and just the commitment and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was just stuck, and UM, we basically I

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<v Speaker 1>let him know, you know, what is it that we're

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<v Speaker 1>working towards? Um and his mentality? Then before when we

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<v Speaker 1>first you know, met, was just I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>get married. I don't want to read Mary because of

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<v Speaker 1>everything that he's been through in his past. So now

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking this whole time now you know that's past,

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<v Speaker 1>and so what we we talked and it's just it

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<v Speaker 1>was a really really sad breakup. I guess, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just so emotional because we get along so

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<v Speaker 1>so good. I mean, it's just we have so much

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<v Speaker 1>in common, you know, That's why I'm even still here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just because we just he understands me, We motivate

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<v Speaker 1>each other. But it's just really this divorce that's really

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<v Speaker 1>holding us back from just moving forward with anything. So

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<v Speaker 1>where does this go? What? What is going to happen now?

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<v Speaker 1>So after our breakup, you know, we we talked again

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<v Speaker 1>and he really he just just made him, you know, realize,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hey, what am I doing? This is something

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I have a good person in my life

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<v Speaker 1>and I really want to be with her for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of my life. So he ended up, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>getting a lawyer. But this is where we're at now.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just waiting on this lawyer to just process everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just here being patient, you know. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>very very generous with your patience. And do you believe him,

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<v Speaker 1>like you believe that this is going to happen and

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<v Speaker 1>he's not just feeding you lines. No, I don't think so, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>just because I mean, like I said, it's a long story. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, his ex has she's nowhere near in the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>She's already moved on, has more kids, and and you

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<v Speaker 1>know she has nothing to do with it. But he,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, went ahead and got a lawyer to just

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<v Speaker 1>basically show me like, hey, I really I really want

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<v Speaker 1>to get Okay. Well, Cecity, do you have any guidance

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<v Speaker 1>for Christina? You have so much more patience than I

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<v Speaker 1>would have in a situation like this, So I do

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<v Speaker 1>give you props for that. And I think at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day, your love is going to shine through.

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<v Speaker 1>So if it works out and you know, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>you just have to be patient with this process. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little taken aback that it just wasn't done yet,

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<v Speaker 1>like it wasn't finalized, like that was yeah, and so

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<v Speaker 1>that makes me kind of be on the defense when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to my relationship with that person. Right. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you meet someone, it's hard to think about having

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<v Speaker 1>to go start over again, and you do give your

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you turn the other way. Sometimes you are patients.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you you know, you're you're doing things that you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like are tough to do, but you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be looking for someone else or out without someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, all those things maybe they're not the right things,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's the reality of it. It's hard to find

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<v Speaker 1>someone that you love that can be you know, make

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<v Speaker 1>you better and you them better, right, Christina, yea love

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<v Speaker 1>is patient is like, so it's it's the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're never going to meet somebody that's on the

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<v Speaker 1>exact same page with you, seven. I feel like that's

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of impossible. But this is this is a

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<v Speaker 1>multi year lingering non divorced. Well, listen, thank you for calling.

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<v Speaker 1>We appreciate your patients and good luck. I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>guys get to a happy place than you have a

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<v Speaker 1>good day, you too, Christina, Bye bye. Do we believe?

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like she believes he is going to get through

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<v Speaker 1>it and end it. That would be great. But if

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<v Speaker 1>it hasn't happened by now, why let's get to your

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<v Speaker 1>morning hack in the positive quote of the day. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you're a person that makes your bed first thing

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, I must submit. I don't love to. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>They say, don't do it, And that's good news, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do it? Why dust mites? I'm sorry the dust mite.

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<v Speaker 1>The average adult loses children five milli leaders of fluid

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<v Speaker 1>at night. And when you make your bed first thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you trap in those milli leaders of fluid, creating discoloration,

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<v Speaker 1>odors and dust might strive in that. So let it

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<v Speaker 1>air out before you make it. I make my bed

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<v Speaker 1>first thing in the morning, like it's not even five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes before. So keeping it unmade the bed exposes the

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<v Speaker 1>mites to light and fresh air, which helps of them.

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<v Speaker 1>So you really never want to make it. You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's your quote of the death. Lump isn't just a

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<v Speaker 1>matter of looking at someone but also of looking with

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<v Speaker 1>them facing what they face. The wee on air with

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan seagrets the headlines with sissany the Depth Heard trial

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<v Speaker 1>finally over and the verdict is in sisanym headlines. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so Johnny Depp has won his defamation case against ex

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<v Speaker 1>wife Amanda Heard. As the jury announced its verdict yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>more than three point five a million people tuned in

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<v Speaker 1>to that long crime network to watch Live Myself included,

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<v Speaker 1>and the seven member Jerry awarded a Johnny Depp ten

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars in compensatory damages and five million dollars in

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<v Speaker 1>punitive damages. The jury also did award Amanda her two

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars in compensatory damages, but no money for unitive damages.

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<v Speaker 1>That case is now over. Yesterday, the City of l

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<v Speaker 1>A Council banned the sale of flavored tobacco in the city,

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<v Speaker 1>with an exception for who co lounges that meet certain

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<v Speaker 1>criterias and conditions. The ordinance will go into effect on

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<v Speaker 1>January first. Now, it does not ban the possession or

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<v Speaker 1>use of flavor tobacco for people who are over the

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<v Speaker 1>age of twenty one. And you're gonna now have to

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<v Speaker 1>ask for a straw at Starbucks. I already started noticing this.

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<v Speaker 1>Starbucks across California will not automatically give customers straws, forks,

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<v Speaker 1>or even those little splash sticks unless you ask for it,

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<v Speaker 1>according to a new announcement made by the coffee retailer

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<v Speaker 1>this week. The new rule will be in place for

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<v Speaker 1>both drive through and inside the stores, and obviously, it

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<v Speaker 1>is part of a statewide effort to reduce the amount

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<v Speaker 1>of plastic thrown away. I think that's good Air with

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest. Let me grab Andrew. Andrew, thank you for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing this morning? Good Ryan? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing well? So you want to start a secret

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<v Speaker 1>hinge account for your best friend? Well, okay, okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>so she broke up with her boyfriend bout a year ago.

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<v Speaker 1>She's been single, she needed time. Um, but but you

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<v Speaker 1>know she's ready to get out there dating. She just

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't think she has time herself, right. But she's a catch,

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<v Speaker 1>so she can date people. I just need I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>if I set it up for her, I can do

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<v Speaker 1>the dating for her and then you know, set her

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<v Speaker 1>up with people when she has time. I gotta go

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<v Speaker 1>to my hinge expert on this because she's relishing in

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<v Speaker 1>all of this conversation, you know, she this um friend

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<v Speaker 1>of ours. She met someone on a Hinge and she'd

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<v Speaker 1>been looking for a while and not a lot of success.

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<v Speaker 1>That she stopped the whole everything. She didn't she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>see people, but she basically did this. I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>did this and I love this idea, and I say,

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<v Speaker 1>g O go. I didn't identify it was you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just saying, our friend, but if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to go with Kanye did do this because we helped

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<v Speaker 1>her pick out her pick shares. We helped her with

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<v Speaker 1>the first conversations with Robbie. The first two days of

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with Robbie was Sisney and Sierra. So basically, you're

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<v Speaker 1>saying you would be you would respond to any of

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<v Speaker 1>the potential partners. Andrew, I think, yeah, you set it

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<v Speaker 1>up and then I make a day and then I

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<v Speaker 1>just sent her instead. Wow, it's like a blind day.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Do you think it will do you think

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<v Speaker 1>it will hurt the friendship at all? Um, only if

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<v Speaker 1>it's a bad day. I think you have to tell

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<v Speaker 1>her before she goes on the date. Hey, this is

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<v Speaker 1>what I did but go on the date and then

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<v Speaker 1>she has to tell her. Oh, yeah, gotta be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't. I just gotta not tell her. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta set her up, got to send her out for success. Andrew,

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<v Speaker 1>you sound like you know what you're doing. I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I would not second if you think you should go

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<v Speaker 1>for it. It can work. It happened in a way

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<v Speaker 1>for Tanya and her boyfriend Robbie for good luck. Well

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<v Speaker 1>if it works. But I know I would tell her though,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let her know. I'll let her know, all right

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<v Speaker 1>by Andrew, Yeah, you know, want to completely be blindsided

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<v Speaker 1>by that. But let him have a little Andrew sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a fun guy, like, let him get out there

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<v Speaker 1>and make the connection right all right? So, speaking of

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<v Speaker 1>your boyfriend, am I going to be with your boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>of R night? Yeah? Tanya just told us in the

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<v Speaker 1>Trending Report she's doing something in her own relationship that

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<v Speaker 1>she's never done. Thanks to Asap Rocky and Rihanna. Go ahead. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that we can all agree that Rihanna's

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<v Speaker 1>pregnancy she had the best fashion. It was unparalleled. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>every single dinner event, strolled down the street, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a runway fashion show for her. She just looked amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I read this quote from Asap Rocky, and it

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<v Speaker 1>made me want to do it in my relationship. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes we match to a t or we just wear

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<v Speaker 1>the same clothes. If I buy a shirt that she likes,

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<v Speaker 1>I expect to get it stolen, but then I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>steal it right back. And it got me thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>wearing your significant others clothes and how cool that is.

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<v Speaker 1>So I grabbed this T shirt out of my boyfriend's

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<v Speaker 1>closet and I wore it because I want to start

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<v Speaker 1>like wearing his clothes. I think it's cute because I

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<v Speaker 1>think Courtney Kardashian Travis kind of do this too. They

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<v Speaker 1>started kind of having this matching aesthetic, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney got a lot of heat for it because everybody

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<v Speaker 1>was saying she's just being a chameleon to like Travis

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<v Speaker 1>Barker's Travis wear her clothes too. I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 1>seems like the fit goes usually, not that it's easy

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<v Speaker 1>to do that one. Yeah, not going to put on

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<v Speaker 1>a nude dress, right, but I'm gonna have some T

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<v Speaker 1>shirts he could like rock right If it fits then

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<v Speaker 1>it's cool. Yeah, and I think it's like so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I've picked up the wrong jeans in the closet before,

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<v Speaker 1>thinking white tea jeans is another level. Yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>intentionally do it. I wasn't trying to wear white jeans.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought they were my white bite you. They didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hit me, but they were the same stretch. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is these are strangely related jeans. The fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you got him on enough to know I didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>them on. I got them up over like my first time,

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<v Speaker 1>Like these are not something's weird about this, But wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you like that to see, like your significant other, like

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<v Speaker 1>come home from work and like your T shirt. You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's cute. I think it's totally cute. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think baggy clothes are cute. Baggy sweats, baggy hoodies,

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<v Speaker 1>baggy teas are camped. Why don't two point seven kiss

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<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles? It's time for Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan and Sisty.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad called me and said he wanted me to

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<v Speaker 1>be aware of my surroundings. The phrase that he used

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<v Speaker 1>with me ever since I was little, when he thought

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't seeing things that were happening in front of me,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's get her on here, Jessica, thanks for coming on.

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<v Speaker 1>Jessica writing in, you say you think your dad is

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<v Speaker 1>trying to tell you something about your husband. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>what you think? Yeah, yeah, he's he's one for for

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<v Speaker 1>hinting and not interviewing, So you think he's saying, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>something's going on with your husband. Beware look around, look carefully. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean not in a code I guess way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like basically my entire life. That's always like, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>he said, like whenever things were going in my way

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<v Speaker 1>in high school or whatever. He me smounting. And I

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<v Speaker 1>used to be able to talk to my mom about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but unfortunately she's no longer with us, so I can't

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her about it. And I'm just I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>not really sure, Like I my dad just like told

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<v Speaker 1>me recently to be aware of my surroundings, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just a little freaked out. Okay, what are we gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do here, Sisty, Well, we can yeah, normal Roses. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean my husband has been completely checked out, even secretive,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, yeah, secretive. He just really he's checked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Then your dad says this, and signs are pointing to

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<v Speaker 1>something's up, right, yeah, yeah, And and my dad like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just really hope he's wrong, but he gets and

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like a kid and I just can't aggre this. Alright,

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<v Speaker 1>We're about to make the call to Jessica's husband. Her

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<v Speaker 1>dad said, hey, look around you, something might be up,

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<v Speaker 1>and she thinks that's a hint a signal that something's

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<v Speaker 1>going on with her husband. And Jessica also thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>her husband has been disconnected recently anyway, So those two

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<v Speaker 1>things combined are making or think something's going on. He

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<v Speaker 1>may be cheating. Jessica, before we make this call, do

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<v Speaker 1>you not want to go back to your dad and say,

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<v Speaker 1>can you be a little bit more specific? Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know that he would. He doesn't like to interview.

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<v Speaker 1>He's always just told me to take control of that,

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<v Speaker 1>but he always just kind of like, lets me know

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<v Speaker 1>when I should. Okay, So I need you to say,

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<v Speaker 1>ran you my permission to call, and then your husband's

0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:19.399
<v Speaker 1>name on kiss FM. Go ahead, brand you have my

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<v Speaker 1>permission to call. We're going to call him. Now. Be

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<v Speaker 1>very quiet until we can find out who he sends

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<v Speaker 1>these roses too, and what he writes on the card.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, okay, thank you, good luck. Here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Robes? Hi Rob? My name is Linda.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling from the enchant at Floris and Pomona. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing this morning? Good? I'm good. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for asking. So we're offering local residents a promotion today.

0:17:58.119 --> 0:17:59.880
<v Speaker 1>It's a free dozen red roses that you can send

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<v Speaker 1>to anybody that you'd like. They are free, and we

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<v Speaker 1>just need the name of the person that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to send them to in a note. Oh, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>flowers are nice? Who doesn't like getting flowers? And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that they're free? But could I just go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and pay for them? Oh? Are you sure? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean there, We don't need any We don't need you

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<v Speaker 1>to pay for them. We just hope that you like

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<v Speaker 1>our arrangements and then come back as a pain because

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<v Speaker 1>it's a promotion that we do like once a month, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and I appreciate that, But I'd rather just go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and and pay for them, if that's possible. Can we

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<v Speaker 1>do that? I mean sure, if you want to, Why

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<v Speaker 1>don't we start with the name of the person you

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<v Speaker 1>want to send them to. Well, I just let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and do the payment first and make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that that I can go ahead and and pay for them. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we can. We can do that at the end because

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<v Speaker 1>the way my systems set up, it's like already have

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<v Speaker 1>the note. No, I just want to I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that I'm going to be paying for

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<v Speaker 1>these and they're not part of a free promotion. That's

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<v Speaker 1>that's that, and we can do that. But yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem there. So who would you like to say him?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, let's let's just go ahead and get my

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<v Speaker 1>information first, and go ahead and get my card paid for,

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<v Speaker 1>and then then we can take care of that, you

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<v Speaker 1>know afterwards, Robin, Robin, I just didn't. I gotta jump in.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Ryan Seacrest, your voice being broadcast on the radio,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're going in circles here, so just bear with us. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>We have your wife on the line, Jessica, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>asked us to call you because she's concerned that you

0:19:30.000 --> 0:19:33.240
<v Speaker 1>might be cheating on her. Now, you're very concerned about

0:19:33.280 --> 0:19:37.680
<v Speaker 1>whatever Sissony or the flower shop is offering you, so

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she's here. Is something going on? Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you disconnected? What's going on? Rob? No, I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to. I just know if it's a free promotion,

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<v Speaker 1>then it won't be a private And get about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Who are you? From the flowers to honey? Who I want?

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<v Speaker 1>This is exactly what I was talking about. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna send the flowers to anybody. I knew this. No

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<v Speaker 1>one's giving away free flowers. Nothing free in this world.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew about flower guys. Rob, Are you cheating on

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<v Speaker 1>your wife? Jessica? She has reason to believe you are.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you? That's that's ridiculous. That is ridiculous. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what makes you think I'm cheating. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who told you I was cheating, but I'm not. Whoever

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<v Speaker 1>it is is lying ridiculous that that you would get

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<v Speaker 1>or that I would ask. I don't really even more,

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<v Speaker 1>this is once again, this is see I knew this

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<v Speaker 1>was some sort of This wasn't real. I knew this. No,

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<v Speaker 1>So Jessica's father indicated to her that something might be

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<v Speaker 1>going on around her. She thinks that he's talking about you. Rob.

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<v Speaker 1>You seem disconnected to your wife from what she's told you.

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening? Why? Nothing? Nothing is happening. I love her father,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's clearly telling her bad information. I'm not doing

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<v Speaker 1>anything wrong. I'm not falling for any free flowers, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not cheating on my wife. This is ridiculous. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you believe your husband? My father was giving me poor

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<v Speaker 1>relations He just told me to be a really surrounding

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<v Speaker 1>and you just can affirm something that I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>really don't like the way I feel about this. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't know where this is coming from.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know where you're getting all of this, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know this is I knew this was what it was,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm glad I didn't fall for this. So this

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<v Speaker 1>is ridiculous. All right, Well, look, Rob, we are gonna

0:21:30.119 --> 0:21:32.560
<v Speaker 1>let you go. You did not fall for anything, but

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<v Speaker 1>Jessica is concerned that something is going on interrupting your

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<v Speaker 1>connection with her in your marriage. So you guys, take

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<v Speaker 1>it from your Jessica. Thank you for reaching out, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be going. I'll be going before you get home.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I get what. What in the hell

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<v Speaker 1>just happened here? She just hung up, She just hung

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<v Speaker 1>up on us. Okay, Well, I'm i this is once again,

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<v Speaker 1>this is ridiculous. You know, I mean there's a reason

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<v Speaker 1>that we're here, so you need to figure out what

0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:07.479
<v Speaker 1>that reason is. Rob good luck. Well, well it's not okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? And now shouldn't she just go ask her

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<v Speaker 1>dad what he's talking about? Right? I mean, just that's

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<v Speaker 1>the next move. Jessica reached out because her father said

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<v Speaker 1>be aware of your surroundings, and he used to say

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<v Speaker 1>that to her when she was a child, but now

0:22:24.720 --> 0:22:29.359
<v Speaker 1>she thinks he's saying it because he knows or thinks

0:22:29.440 --> 0:22:32.440
<v Speaker 1>her husband might be cheating. But if your dad in

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<v Speaker 1>that situation, would you just say it? I would be like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? Tell me? Why? Rights? Why leave

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<v Speaker 1>it as a riddle or as a code like hold on?

0:22:43.760 --> 0:22:46.680
<v Speaker 1>That's cryptic? What do you mean by that? She didn't

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<v Speaker 1>ask him that she thinks she knows that he's being

0:22:50.359 --> 0:22:55.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, he's not present as well. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>if any of our parents said that something like that,

0:22:58.280 --> 0:23:02.920
<v Speaker 1>we pressed them on it for sure. Then she said

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<v Speaker 1>he denied, denied, denied. Then she said, well, I'm going

0:23:06.200 --> 0:23:08.200
<v Speaker 1>to be gone by the time you get back, so

0:23:09.040 --> 0:23:12.920
<v Speaker 1>what's going on there? What did you guys here? That

0:23:13.119 --> 0:23:15.320
<v Speaker 1>was interesting because I felt like it went zero to

0:23:15.400 --> 0:23:18.640
<v Speaker 1>sixty really quick. With a comment like that, which makes

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<v Speaker 1>me think that she's she might be trying to almost

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<v Speaker 1>make this be reality, even if he's not cheating. I

0:23:26.000 --> 0:23:28.320
<v Speaker 1>think she knows it's a reality, and she was using

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<v Speaker 1>us to try and hump but it didn't work out.

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<v Speaker 1>In her mind, it confirmed Stacy's on the line with

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<v Speaker 1>us now, Stacy, good morning. So what's your point about parents?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for calling? Yeah, of course. Yeah. Well I've

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<v Speaker 1>I've always believed that your parents always know and that

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<v Speaker 1>you should listen to them, and you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've also been blinded by love. I get it. But

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<v Speaker 1>every time I've dated someone that my parents didn't like

0:23:53.480 --> 0:23:56.920
<v Speaker 1>or didn't trust, they were right. I'm just saying. And

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<v Speaker 1>as far as Rob goes, oh oh, he's definitely cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was acting all a weird and nervous

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<v Speaker 1>and he was stuttering a lot. Yeah all right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you Stacy for corner. It's a good point your parents, sissy,

0:24:12.359 --> 0:24:14.359
<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna have intuition on these things. When she

0:24:14.440 --> 0:24:17.240
<v Speaker 1>said that, I was thinking that I'm gonna connected on

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<v Speaker 1>another level, right, I mean, you will continue to be

0:24:20.000 --> 0:24:22.200
<v Speaker 1>like that too, and you have twins would be more powerful. Oh,

0:24:22.280 --> 0:24:25.680
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, I can't wait more powerful you're excited. I

0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:27.399
<v Speaker 1>am excited for them to grow up and see what

0:24:27.480 --> 0:24:30.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of a human adult people they'd be going. You're

0:24:30.080 --> 0:24:32.840
<v Speaker 1>not gonna you're gonna like their same nificking others. But

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<v Speaker 1>if I don't, I'll let them know. I think that's

0:24:35.400 --> 0:24:37.920
<v Speaker 1>the point. Would you let us know first? Then we

0:24:38.000 --> 0:24:40.440
<v Speaker 1>can talk about it the next day and we'll tease

0:24:40.480 --> 0:24:46.960
<v Speaker 1>it on air with Ryan Seacrest. So you've heard of

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<v Speaker 1>cat fishing, what's kitten fishing? Kitten fishing is like the

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<v Speaker 1>sister of catfishing. So like, no, not necessarily, it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of more like tomato tomorrow. It involves little white lies,

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily like a whole, full blown I'm a completely

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<v Speaker 1>different person type of line that like when you're on

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<v Speaker 1>social or dating app, dating apps specifically dating apps and

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, And it can be little things like

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<v Speaker 1>adjusting your height, you know, saying you're five ten when

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<v Speaker 1>in reality you're probably five eight and a half. And

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<v Speaker 1>then they meet in a day and like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're all the pictures that you have all you're like

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<v Speaker 1>you're sitting down, so you can't really tell how tall

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<v Speaker 1>they are. First of all, No, I'm not. She's just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>if you happen to, perhaps maybe somebody listening might do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to call anybody out that works with us,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like someone that works with us experience

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<v Speaker 1>something similar in a dating app. Not you, Ryan, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>perhaps someone just behind me and the back. He is

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<v Speaker 1>kitten fishing a terrible thing. I don't. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's terrible. But this is why I think it's a thing,

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<v Speaker 1>because people don't realize they actually are doing it some

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<v Speaker 1>And and this is where I feel like we all

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<v Speaker 1>kind of do it. You post pictures that hide certain

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<v Speaker 1>features that you're insecure about. Um, you know, like with Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>we post our highlight reels of our lives. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>the real us. So that's where I think someone somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>said we need a term for this, because it's actually

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<v Speaker 1>a term, like everybody does it. Before all of this,

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<v Speaker 1>people said how are you doing? And you say I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing fine, I'm doing doing great, But you weren't. Then

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<v Speaker 1>your kitten fishing again, I think so too. Yeah, It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>so what do you have to be completely honest the

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<v Speaker 1>time always? I mean, I guess we would say yes,

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<v Speaker 1>on paper. But you kind of want to sell your

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<v Speaker 1>best self at first, don't you. Yeah, you definitely do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just say't be aware of about it if

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<v Speaker 1>you're on dating apps, because it's a thing I would

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<v Speaker 1>run into trouble maybe if we met on a dating

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<v Speaker 1>app and it got into a sports conversation, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think I would pretend to know about other sports than

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<v Speaker 1>what I really know. And I always get my heart

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<v Speaker 1>always begins to pound a little bit when some up hockey, basketball, hockey, football,

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<v Speaker 1>I can talk about. That's with you on football. That's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much the extent of me too. Or they say

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<v Speaker 1>that like like long walks on the beach, Like who

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<v Speaker 1>really likes long walks on the beach and sunsets? I

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<v Speaker 1>did on a vacation. How long really? I mean just sand.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mind sand. I don't mind sand, But a

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<v Speaker 1>long walk that means you have to go back. So

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<v Speaker 1>I always calculate half and half right, so it's like

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<v Speaker 1>four minutes this way and four back at eight minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a long walk. You're such a planner. I would

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<v Speaker 1>never think of the walk back. Oh but they see

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<v Speaker 1>I also like if I take a run tony on

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<v Speaker 1>the beach right and I go, I feel great. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>forget you got to turn around and run back into

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<v Speaker 1>the wind. Oh. I would never think about the wind either.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta have you ever biked a minute and beach

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<v Speaker 1>from the marina. I haven't. It's on my to do.

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<v Speaker 1>The wind is brutal coming believe, doesn't matter the time

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<v Speaker 1>of the day. It's got a shift. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what time shift. Now they're going down. I'm feeling good

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<v Speaker 1>coming back. I'm Huffing's all right, it's Troy on the Troy.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing? It's m what's up Troy? Hey, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was talking to my coworker about an engagement

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<v Speaker 1>party I have this weekend, and it turns out that

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<v Speaker 1>my coworker knows my friend that's getting married, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>because they actually hooked up years ago when they randomly

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<v Speaker 1>met on vacation when we were in college. And at

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<v Speaker 1>first I was like, this is a pretty small world,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I was like I almost reached out to

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<v Speaker 1>my friend to teach them about it. But then I

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<v Speaker 1>realized that my friend was with his current fiance at

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<v Speaker 1>the time when he hooked up with my coworker, So

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<v Speaker 1>like I said this was years ago, But now I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>am I the only one who knows this information? Because

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<v Speaker 1>this feels pretty major um And I obviously don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to meddle in anyone else's relationship, But I feel bad

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<v Speaker 1>keeping this to myself since they're getting married, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's important to note that I'm closure with my

0:29:11.160 --> 0:29:14.600
<v Speaker 1>guy friends then with his fiancee. But should I keep

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<v Speaker 1>this to myself? Should I confront him? What do you?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think? This is like the age old

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<v Speaker 1>question when you have this kind of information? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to ruin their relationship? No, you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to ruin it. You will ruin their relationship. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>again I give advice that might not be what I

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<v Speaker 1>do or that's good, but my advice on this one

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<v Speaker 1>is shut it. But he knows he cheated? Who cares?

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<v Speaker 1>That's the friend like it's on the other But they

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<v Speaker 1>were engaged, weren't these that they were? They are now engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>But he cheated on her whatever how many years ago

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<v Speaker 1>on them? Kind of is on them that we don't

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<v Speaker 1>and try like were you there? Like what I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really happen. It's a good question because that's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>people love to make up a good story and then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, you're carrying that story, but you

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 1>weren't actually going to see it. He doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>carry it. He should tell the person who told him

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<v Speaker 1>the story to tell her. Oh my gosh. But then

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<v Speaker 1>you're ruining. Yeah, you're gonna ruin the relationship. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably gonna get ruined in a couple of years. Going

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<v Speaker 1>to save them the divorce money and the tassel. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, cheating is what? But this but this is

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. It wasn't Troy. Wasn't there. It was with Troy,

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<v Speaker 1>And so now they're about to get married and you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna on Hearsaye reveal this. If anything, Troy, if you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to meddle, which you are meddling. If you do this,

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<v Speaker 1>you talk to the guy, you talk to your friend.

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<v Speaker 1>But and then he has the choice to tell his fiance.

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't need to go and tell the fiance.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just go to the wedding and enjoy yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a long cream, have something spicy. It's not selfish

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<v Speaker 1>time yet think you stay out of it. And so

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<v Speaker 1>what if it's selfish? Okay, yeah, you're finding you're selfish,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're staying out of ruining the Imagine if you

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<v Speaker 1>ruined the relationship and it wasn't true, what's that then

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<v Speaker 1>that's selfish? Is Troy even still on the phone? He

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<v Speaker 1>actually a guys, the wedding has happened. Uh on air

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<v Speaker 1>with Ryan's Secrets. My guys, it's kiss gonna wrap for us.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna bounce out. The morning hack coming up tomorrow

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<v Speaker 1>is a viral TikTok video promising a super effective knap back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>about that to long till then eleven o'clock. I have

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