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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryanair with Ryan Seacrest, Good morning you guys. So tomorrow

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Speaker 1: night we're doing our pregame dinner Wino Tango and then

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Speaker 1: we've got Windo Tango. It's very exciting. Ready for it.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna beautiful on a theme. Are doing no no themes?

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Speaker 1: This is when it becomes not fun. It's supposed to

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Speaker 1: be a casual, seamless gathering of us Friday night before

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Speaker 1: we go tango at an early reservation. No like BoA's

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Speaker 1: and whatever. You know, I don't need to wear funny

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Speaker 1: you say, no Boa just throwing it out there, you know,

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Speaker 1: like you know truly what we have here style is

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Speaker 1: that Harry Styles Ball, the Harry Styles boa. It's amazing

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Speaker 1: that if I were to see a boat five years ago,

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Speaker 1: I would not even connect it to Harry Stole. Now

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Speaker 1: A girlfriend of mine went to Party City on album

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Speaker 1: so just just doing a So you're in Sysney, You're

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Speaker 1: in Mark, are you in or where you check the schedule,

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Speaker 1: and I have dance class on Friday night, dance class

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Speaker 1: on final So my daughter is in dance class. And

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Speaker 1: every year they're a big presentation and there's a dad dance.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's like a dad dance. You can't miss that. No,

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Speaker 1: And so we have three rehearsals before the big show,

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Speaker 1: I mean, so you're not missing too much. I think

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Speaker 1: I'm saying like that's like a real opportunity to be

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Speaker 1: great dad. That's great dad time. You know, I think

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Speaker 1: that you know for sure over a work dinner, would

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Speaker 1: better for you? Mark? Yes, Sunday does work better. But

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Speaker 1: I have a play date, okay. I mean you guys

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Speaker 1: right one am, So really this morning or tomorrow morning

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Speaker 1: So let's go back to this conversation we have been

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Speaker 1: and that is about marriage and some people think that

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Speaker 1: they don't need it to be in love and at

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Speaker 1: peace and happy and committed. What happened in your situation, Well, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: my situation is a little bit more complicated. Um. So basically,

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Speaker 1: I've been together with my boyfriend for almost five years now,

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Speaker 1: I was just going through what I had to go through,

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Speaker 1: to get Okay. Well, Cecity, do you have any guidance

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Speaker 1: multi year lingering non divorced. Well, listen, thank you for calling.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate your patients and good luck. I hope you

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Speaker 1: good day, you too, Christina, Bye bye. Do we believe?

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Speaker 1: Sounds like she believes he is going to get through

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Speaker 1: it hasn't happened by now, why let's get to your

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Speaker 1: morning hack in the positive quote of the day. So

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Speaker 1: if you're a person that makes your bed first thing

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Speaker 1: They say, don't do it, And that's good news, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: Don't do it? Why dust mites? I'm sorry the dust mite.

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Speaker 1: odors and dust might strive in that. So let it

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Speaker 1: air out before you make it. I make my bed

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Speaker 1: So you really never want to make it. You're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Here's your quote of the death. Lump isn't just a

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. Let me grab Andrew. Andrew, thank you for listening.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing this morning? Good Ryan? How are

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Speaker 1: you doing well? So you want to start a secret

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Speaker 1: That she stopped the whole everything. She didn't she didn't

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Speaker 1: I was just saying, our friend, but if you want

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Speaker 1: gotta set her up, got to send her out for success. Andrew,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Robes? Hi Rob? My name is Linda.

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Speaker 1: know afterwards, Robin, Robin, I just didn't. I gotta jump in.

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Speaker 1: I've also been blinded by love. I get it. But

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Speaker 1: every time I've dated someone that my parents didn't like

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Speaker 1: or didn't trust, they were right. I'm just saying. And

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Speaker 1: as far as Rob goes, oh oh, he's definitely cheating.

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Speaker 1: I mean he was acting all a weird and nervous

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Speaker 1: and he was stuttering a lot. Yeah all right, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you Stacy for corner. It's a good point your parents, sissy,

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Speaker 1: and you're gonna have intuition on these things. When she

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Speaker 1: said that, I was thinking that I'm gonna connected on

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Speaker 1: another level, right, I mean, you will continue to be

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Speaker 1: like that too, and you have twins would be more powerful. Oh,

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Speaker 1: my gosh, I can't wait more powerful you're excited. I

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Speaker 1: am excited for them to grow up and see what

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Speaker 1: kind of a human adult people they'd be going. You're

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Speaker 1: not gonna you're gonna like their same nificking others. But

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Speaker 1: if I don't, I'll let them know. I think that's

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Speaker 1: the point. Would you let us know first? Then we

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Speaker 1: can talk about it the next day and we'll tease

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Speaker 1: it on air with Ryan Seacrest. So you've heard of

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Speaker 1: cat fishing, what's kitten fishing? Kitten fishing is like the

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Speaker 1: sister of catfishing. So like, no, not necessarily, it's kind

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Speaker 1: of more like tomato tomorrow. It involves little white lies,

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Speaker 1: not necessarily like a whole, full blown I'm a completely

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Speaker 1: different person type of line that like when you're on

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Speaker 1: social or dating app, dating apps specifically dating apps and

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Speaker 1: things like that, And it can be little things like

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Speaker 1: adjusting your height, you know, saying you're five ten when

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Speaker 1: in reality you're probably five eight and a half. And

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Speaker 1: then they meet in a day and like, you know,

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Speaker 1: we're all the pictures that you have all you're like

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Speaker 1: you're sitting down, so you can't really tell how tall

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Speaker 1: they are. First of all, No, I'm not. She's just saying,

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Speaker 1: if you happen to, perhaps maybe somebody listening might do that.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to call anybody out that works with us,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like someone that works with us experience

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Speaker 1: something similar in a dating app. Not you, Ryan, maybe

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Speaker 1: perhaps someone just behind me and the back. He is

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Speaker 1: kitten fishing a terrible thing. I don't. I don't think

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Speaker 1: it's terrible. But this is why I think it's a thing,

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Speaker 1: because people don't realize they actually are doing it some

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Speaker 1: And and this is where I feel like we all

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Speaker 1: kind of do it. You post pictures that hide certain

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Speaker 1: features that you're insecure about. Um, you know, like with Instagram,

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Speaker 1: we post our highlight reels of our lives. It's not

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Speaker 1: the real us. So that's where I think someone somewhere

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Speaker 1: said we need a term for this, because it's actually

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Speaker 1: a term, like everybody does it. Before all of this,

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Speaker 1: people said how are you doing? And you say I'm

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Speaker 1: doing fine, I'm doing doing great, But you weren't. Then

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Speaker 1: your kitten fishing again, I think so too. Yeah, It's like,

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Speaker 1: so what do you have to be completely honest the

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Speaker 1: time always? I mean, I guess we would say yes,

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Speaker 1: on paper. But you kind of want to sell your

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Speaker 1: best self at first, don't you. Yeah, you definitely do.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just say't be aware of about it if

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Speaker 1: you're on dating apps, because it's a thing I would

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Speaker 1: run into trouble maybe if we met on a dating

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Speaker 1: app and it got into a sports conversation, because I

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Speaker 1: think I would pretend to know about other sports than

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Speaker 1: what I really know. And I always get my heart

482
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Speaker 1: always begins to pound a little bit when some up hockey, basketball, hockey, football,

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Speaker 1: I can talk about. That's with you on football. That's

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Speaker 1: pretty much the extent of me too. Or they say

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Speaker 1: that like like long walks on the beach, Like who

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Speaker 1: really likes long walks on the beach and sunsets? I

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Speaker 1: did on a vacation. How long really? I mean just sand.

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Speaker 1: I don't mind sand. I don't mind sand, But a

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Speaker 1: long walk that means you have to go back. So

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Speaker 1: I always calculate half and half right, so it's like

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Speaker 1: four minutes this way and four back at eight minutes.

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Speaker 1: It's a long walk. You're such a planner. I would

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Speaker 1: never think of the walk back. Oh but they see

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Speaker 1: I also like if I take a run tony on

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Speaker 1: the beach right and I go, I feel great. Don't

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Speaker 1: forget you got to turn around and run back into

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Speaker 1: the wind. Oh. I would never think about the wind either.

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Speaker 1: You gotta have you ever biked a minute and beach

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Speaker 1: from the marina. I haven't. It's on my to do.

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Speaker 1: The wind is brutal coming believe, doesn't matter the time

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Speaker 1: of the day. It's got a shift. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what time shift. Now they're going down. I'm feeling good

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Speaker 1: coming back. I'm Huffing's all right, it's Troy on the Troy.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing? It's m what's up Troy? Hey, guys.

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Speaker 1: So I was talking to my coworker about an engagement

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Speaker 1: party I have this weekend, and it turns out that

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Speaker 1: my coworker knows my friend that's getting married, and that's

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Speaker 1: because they actually hooked up years ago when they randomly

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Speaker 1: met on vacation when we were in college. And at

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Speaker 1: first I was like, this is a pretty small world,

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Speaker 1: and then I was like I almost reached out to

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Speaker 1: my friend to teach them about it. But then I

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Speaker 1: realized that my friend was with his current fiance at

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Speaker 1: the time when he hooked up with my coworker, So

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Speaker 1: like I said this was years ago, But now I'm like,

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Speaker 1: am I the only one who knows this information? Because

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Speaker 1: this feels pretty major um And I obviously don't want

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Speaker 1: to meddle in anyone else's relationship, But I feel bad

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Speaker 1: keeping this to myself since they're getting married, and I

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Speaker 1: think it's important to note that I'm closure with my

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Speaker 1: guy friends then with his fiancee. But should I keep

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Speaker 1: this to myself? Should I confront him? What do you?

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Speaker 1: What do you think? This is like the age old

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Speaker 1: question when you have this kind of information? Are you

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Speaker 1: do you want to ruin their relationship? No, you're going

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Speaker 1: to ruin it. You will ruin their relationship. And you know,

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Speaker 1: again I give advice that might not be what I

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Speaker 1: do or that's good, but my advice on this one

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Speaker 1: is shut it. But he knows he cheated? Who cares?

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Speaker 1: That's the friend like it's on the other But they

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Speaker 1: were engaged, weren't these that they were? They are now engaged.

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Speaker 1: But he cheated on her whatever how many years ago

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Speaker 1: on them? Kind of is on them that we don't

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Speaker 1: and try like were you there? Like what I didn't

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Speaker 1: really happen. It's a good question because that's the thing

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Speaker 1: people love to make up a good story and then

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you're carrying that story, but you

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Speaker 1: weren't actually going to see it. He doesn't have to

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Speaker 1: carry it. He should tell the person who told him

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Speaker 1: the story to tell her. Oh my gosh. But then

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Speaker 1: you're ruining. Yeah, you're gonna ruin the relationship. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: probably gonna get ruined in a couple of years. Going

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Speaker 1: to save them the divorce money and the tassel. No,

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Speaker 1: you know, cheating is what? But this but this is

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Speaker 1: years ago. It wasn't Troy. Wasn't there. It was with Troy,

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Speaker 1: And so now they're about to get married and you're

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Speaker 1: gonna on Hearsaye reveal this. If anything, Troy, if you

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Speaker 1: wanted to meddle, which you are meddling. If you do this,

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00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: you talk to the guy, you talk to your friend.

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Speaker 1: But and then he has the choice to tell his fiance.

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Speaker 1: But you don't need to go and tell the fiance.

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Speaker 1: I would just go to the wedding and enjoy yourself.

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Speaker 1: That's a long cream, have something spicy. It's not selfish

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00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: time yet think you stay out of it. And so

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00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: what if it's selfish? Okay, yeah, you're finding you're selfish,

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Speaker 1: but you're staying out of ruining the Imagine if you

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00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: ruined the relationship and it wasn't true, what's that then

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Speaker 1: that's selfish? Is Troy even still on the phone? He

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Speaker 1: actually a guys, the wedding has happened. Uh on air

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Speaker 1: with Ryan's Secrets. My guys, it's kiss gonna wrap for us.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna bounce out. The morning hack coming up tomorrow

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Speaker 1: is a viral TikTok video promising a super effective knap back. Okay,

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Speaker 1: about that to long till then eleven o'clock. I have

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Speaker 1: a great day, ticket care. Thanks for listening to On

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Speaker 1: Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe it and

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Speaker 1: we'll talk to you again tomorrow