1 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: This is Frosted Tips with Lance Bats and iHeartRadio podcast 2 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: What's going on Everybody? I'mrew Liche, a member of ninety 3 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: eight degrees, the Season two Dancing with the Stars Champion. 4 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: It was only eighteen years ago, and I've done a 5 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 1: couple of Broadway shows. I have, you know, kind of 6 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: been on reality TV a little bit. And today I'm 7 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: hosting Frosted Tips, and I thought it would be only 8 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: appropriate if I interviewed the person who, back in nineteen 9 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: ninety six was responsible for giving me my first Frosted Tips. Yeah. 10 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: She This is my beautiful wife, Leah Lasha. 11 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: Thank you, Jill, thank you so much. Thank you. So. 12 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: How you doing today? 13 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: I'm great. 14 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,279 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm doing great. I'm great. So I'm 15 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: going to ask you a couple of questions. 16 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: I'm slightly terrified. 17 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 1: Well, the reason I wanted to interview you today is 18 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 1: because there are certain times as married couples where you, 19 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: I'll say we, but married couples in general might not 20 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: necessarily be as open and honest with each other as 21 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 1: they possibly could be, and not necessarily in a negative way, 22 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 1: just more of a you know, maybe not give compliments 23 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: when compliments might be deserved or might not be like, oh, 24 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: you know, that really does get on my nerves, you know, 25 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: you know those kind of things. So I thought I 26 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: might be able to take this opportunity to get you 27 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 1: on the record talking about how awesome I am. 28 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 2: So this is why I'm here. 29 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: That is the only reason is to feed my ego 30 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: and make me feel great about myself. 31 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 2: You're not friend, I will be completely honest. 32 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure you will be. So let's just not daily diet. 33 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: Let's just jump jump right into it. So what is 34 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: it that you remember about our meeting? How do you 35 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: how do you remember our meeting? 36 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 2: Like us? Yes? Like who else? 37 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:15,359 Speaker 1: What do you remember about me and Lance's meeting? You 38 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: weren't there? 39 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 2: What? 40 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: No? 41 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 2: Me? Okay, well we were we were really young. I 42 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 2: mean so the first time I met you, I was 43 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 2: I was ten. We were ten? Yeah? 44 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: What grade? 45 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 2: Fifth grade? 46 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: Fifth grade? 47 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 48 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: Fifth grade? 49 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 2: Where I mean the the biggest visual that I have 50 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 2: is English class or that might have been seventh grade. 51 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 2: I can't I don't remember. I do know that what 52 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: Drew may want some people to know he was a 53 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 2: new Kids on the Black fan and would which I 54 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 2: was to listen? That was my first concert. But he 55 00:02:56,800 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 2: was a skateboarder, and he would skate in his driveway 56 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: listening hang in talk. 57 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 1: No, you weren't even that barely. You are telling a 58 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: story that Nick told me. 59 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 2: Well, I mean I remember, I remember you skateboarding. I 60 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 2: remember you like running down the hallway with like, you know, 61 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 2: your backpack on one. 62 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: Shoulder, very dashingly handsome. 63 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 2: Dashingly handsome. I mean like I have like bits and 64 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 2: pieces like memories from you know, ten eleven, twelve. But 65 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 2: then I think, I mean, I remember when we first 66 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: started dating, which was we were juniors in high school. 67 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: Okay, so I'll lead you a little bit. 68 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: Oh please lead me. 69 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: I'll try and do it subtly. 70 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 2: Okay. 71 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: When when was the first time that we went out? 72 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: So terrified? But do you not remember? 73 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 2: I mean, that's what I'm saying, is like junior in 74 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: high school. 75 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: No, the first time we went out. 76 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: Oh, oh, are you're talking about when I dumped you? 77 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: No, that was time we went out. The first time 78 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: we went out. I was in the sixth grade. Okay, jeez, 79 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 1: clearly not enough. So we were in the sixth grade, 80 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 1: and we were we were both part of the Cincinnai 81 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: Ballet Nutcracker, right. 82 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 2: And then I and then I broke up with you. 83 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was more like so she was going 84 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: out on the road to be a part of a 85 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: touring production of a theater show, and she left town 86 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: in the sixth grade, and so it was it was 87 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 1: more like, you know what, I can't do a long 88 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: distance relationship. You know, I think it is his best 89 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: if we take a break. That that wasn't really like 90 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: a dump. That was really like a breakup. That was 91 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: more just like, you know, I'm gonna be gone for Yeah, 92 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: you spread your wings, all spread mine and we'll see. 93 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: You know, if you love something, let it go and 94 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 1: if it returns to you. It was meant to be 95 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: kind of thing. So then that was the sixth grade. 96 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: Seventh grade, I banged up my knee and I was 97 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 1: on I was on crutches, and we had an in 98 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: school performance at the symphony. Like we were going to 99 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: go see the symphony, and I mean, you remember every 100 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: detail I do. And we were going to the symphony. 101 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: And before we went to the symphony, I said, hey, Leah, 102 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: you want to go out with me? She said, sure, 103 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 1: left you that'd be great. You're dationally handsome. Why wouldn't 104 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: I want to go out to you? Yes, And then 105 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: when we came back from the symphony back to school 106 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 1: two hours later, she told me that she didn't want 107 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 1: to go out with me anymore. And she just told me. So, 108 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: do you remember that? Yes, So that was where the 109 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 1: first two times we went out. Then the third time 110 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 1: we went out after you know, like. 111 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 2: I don't remember the third die. 112 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: The third time we went out was wed juniors. Oh okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, 113 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,039 Speaker 1: I do remember that. Yeah, so if she remembers that one, 114 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: that's well, because that we were together. 115 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, as the story goes. 116 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:06,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, So you know, then from junior year on, we've 117 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: been on many many journeys together and you know, seeing 118 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 1: the world, and I had two beautiful children, and you know, 119 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 1: now they're grown up and you're just gonna be stuck 120 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: with me all over. 121 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 2: I like being stuck with the act, just the two 122 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 2: of us. 123 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: All right. So so we started dating as juniors in 124 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 1: high school. You started, you know, you went to college. 125 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: You quit college because you got hired, yes, as a 126 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:40,919 Speaker 1: dancer by the Radio City Rockets. 127 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 2: Yes. 128 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 1: At that point, do you remember what I was doing? 129 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you were working on an ambulance in New York 130 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 2: gold Stars. 131 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: She remembers that she doesn't remember us going out, but 132 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: she remembers she remembers my job. All right, So when 133 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: once you started working for Radio City, and then I 134 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: started with driving the ambulance and I got the beep 135 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: on my beeper from Nick. He was in LA. I 136 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: was driving ambulance to New York. He beat me, and 137 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: I pulled the ambulance over. I went to a payper 138 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: and called him back and he said, hey, we're starting 139 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: this group. I want to join, And I said yes, 140 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: and I left New York where you were as well. 141 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: What what was that thought process like for you? 142 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 2: Like, I mean I think I've always been a big dreamer, 143 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 2: you know that. So for me at that age nineteen 144 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 2: twenty twenty one, I mean, the world is at your fingertips, 145 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 2: So what an amazing opportunity. I mean I don't even 146 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 2: I don't even think the thought and it shouldn't really 147 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 2: when you're young, like that like cross your mind of 148 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 2: like oh man, this is a big jump, Like what 149 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 2: if it doesn't work, I say, go all in. So 150 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 2: I was thrilled. I was excited for you. I mean 151 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 2: I was I was clearly sad that we weren't going 152 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 2: to be this is what he wants. I was trying 153 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 2: every night. No, I was. Of course I was sad, 154 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 2: and we were long distance for years. 155 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 1: But how sad? 156 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 2: So sad? Just one so so so so so. 157 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: Sad, so sad. 158 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 2: No, of course it's hard. And then we kind of 159 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 2: bounced from like coast to coast and I'd be working 160 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 2: in LA and you were in New York, and then 161 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 2: vice versa, and then you guys, we were in Asia all 162 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: the time. I feel like, so that was you know, 163 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 2: that was a little crazy. But then we got married 164 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 2: really young, like now I will get that, and I'm like, 165 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 2: I can't believe we I mean we were twenty four. 166 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but yes, we were twenty four, but we had 167 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: already been together for eight years absolutely, so yeah, all right. 168 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 1: So when I moved out to LA and I started, 169 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: you know, singing before we even got signed, did you 170 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: have any idea of kind of what you were like 171 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: signing up for? Like now, no, I does anybody? No, 172 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 1: I mean I had no idea what I was signing 173 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: up for. 174 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 2: So no, and I and I say this all the time, 175 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 2: like the world was the pop world. You know, boy 176 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 2: band and pop groups and all of that. I mean 177 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 2: it was. It was a wildly fun time and crazy. 178 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 2: But I can't imagine, like I always think, like we 179 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 2: didn't have social media, we didn't have that added stress. 180 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 2: So I just remember the time being fun. But you know, 181 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 2: did I like being on our honeymoon remember that? 182 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:35,199 Speaker 1: Yeah? 183 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 2: And we had to come back like what like two 184 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 2: days early from our honeymoon. Yeah, because the guys had 185 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 2: a video that they needed to shoot. So I think 186 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 2: that it's, you know, it's a little give and take 187 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 2: when you're in the business. I mean, I think once 188 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 2: you get older, you can kind of, you know, be like, hey, 189 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 2: I'm gonna set some boundaries. Now. Obviously when we started 190 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 2: having kids, there were a lot more boundaries that we set. 191 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 2: But when you're young, you're kind of like you're jumping 192 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 2: at any opportunity, you know. 193 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. So once once things started happening, like once we 194 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: got signed, once single started coming out, once you know, 195 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 1: people started adoring you. Adoring might be an understatement loving. 196 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 2: I mean with the fact tat with the one year out, 197 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 2: remember that. 198 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:30,959 Speaker 1: It's so cute, that's how it works. Still got it, folks. No, 199 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: I mean like once once things start blowing up for us, 200 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 1: and and how did how did that affect. 201 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 2: I mean, to be honest, as a as a young girl, 202 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 2: it was hard. I mean it was hard. I'd be 203 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 2: lying if I said it wasn't hard. I mean, I 204 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 2: even though I mean it's crazy to see that. Like, 205 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 2: I think we had a really good relationship, like in 206 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 2: those early stages, which I think again about all of 207 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 2: the things that were added onto our plate where the 208 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 2: relationship could have just crumbled right the long distance, the 209 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 2: the fans, the girls, all of that. But I mean 210 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 2: I had some nasty things said to me, and I 211 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 2: think sometimes, you know, in those early stages, I apologize 212 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 2: for those things. I'm just kidding, no, But I mean 213 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 2: I also think, like me, No, I think that the 214 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 2: guys I mean ninety eight obviously is family, and so 215 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, I always felt safe in 216 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 2: that bubble. But yeah, you have to you have to 217 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 2: have thick skin. I hate that term, but you do. 218 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: I mean you do. 219 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 2: You have to be able to kind of, you know, 220 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 2: brush stuff off. 221 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: But you have great skin. 222 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: Thank you. 223 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: You were dancing, you were performing, you were living your dream, 224 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: and you were dancing for music videos and rockets and 225 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 1: radio sitting and all that stuff, and I was doing 226 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: my my very you know, sophisticated boy band dancing. 227 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 2: It's sophisticated because I choreographed it. 228 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: So yes, yes, So if you could put if you 229 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 1: could put your one of your other dance numbers from 230 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: your career on me and set it and set it 231 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: on me? Who are you laughing? Which one? Would it be? 232 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 2: Like? Anything? 233 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: Yes? 234 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:26,680 Speaker 2: Okay, so definitely I would put you in a pair 235 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:31,959 Speaker 2: of Laduca heels three inch I can do, and I 236 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 2: would have you do. I mean, name a combo that 237 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 2: that we do here at the studio. I would have 238 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:37,439 Speaker 2: you do that. 239 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 1: But oh, you have me to do one of these, 240 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 1: not even like back like I thought you were going 241 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: to throw it like. 242 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 2: Oh no, I would have to do something now like 243 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 2: really current, throw yourself around on the floor, roll around, 244 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,559 Speaker 2: kick your legs all that, because that would be we 245 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: should do that anyway, because that would be good. I 246 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 2: just want to see what it looks like. But I 247 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 2: also think if you're if you're talking back in the day, 248 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 2: I would put you one hundred percent in a Rockuet 249 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 2: kick line all right. 250 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: For the record, my leg would not go very high 251 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 1: you would you would be on the end. I fully, 252 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:14,199 Speaker 1: fully yes, because the short so it's especially the same 253 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: because I'm short, i'd. 254 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:15,400 Speaker 2: Be on the end. 255 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: I mean i'm too, but I will say that because 256 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:23,680 Speaker 1: of my army experience, I can hold I can hold 257 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: a formation. I can I can if I can do 258 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: it in combat boots, I can do it in eels. 259 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 2: Come on, I feel like we're going to need to 260 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 2: try this, Okay, Okay, Well, that would be the challenge 261 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 2: I would have, because I think a lot of people 262 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 2: don't understand how incredibly difficult it is to work in 263 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 2: that line like that. 264 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: It's hard on shoulder to shoulder. I got this, gotta 265 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 1: use your peripher roll legs ninety oh, then higher, and 266 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:58,679 Speaker 1: I know what that foot would look like. It would 267 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:03,239 Speaker 1: probably be sickle turn it. It's okay, it would work out. Okay. 268 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: Now there's some people that will kind of say, all right, 269 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: you guys have had kind of like this this storybook, 270 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 1: you know, romance, and my response that would be like, yeah, 271 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: she's married to me. Of course it's been fantastic for her. 272 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: I mean people might even say it's like a movie, 273 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: like made for like movies, you know, the high school 274 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 1: sweetheart stuff, the boy that did good. 275 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 2: The boy that. 276 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. All right, So if they 277 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: made a movie about us, who do you think would 278 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 1: play you? And in return? And in return, but even 279 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: more importantly, which dashing leading man would play me? 280 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 2: And it's like our life story. 281 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: I mean, you can pick an era, you know. 282 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 2: The Okay, Well, I mean I don't know. I honestly 283 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 2: never really thought thought about this, but I'm I'm kind 284 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 2: of I'm I'm obsessed with Pink, you know that, So 285 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 2: I can only hope that I'm as much of a 286 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 2: badass as she is. I also love Lady Gaga, so 287 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 2: that would be like right in there. So Pink, Lady Gaga, 288 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 2: if you want to play me, that'd be fantastic. You. 289 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 2: I don't. 290 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 1: Who would you have play you? 291 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 2: I want to hear, actually kind of want to hear 292 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 2: what you think? 293 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: He'll be good? 294 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 2: All right? 295 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 1: So if mm hmm for somebody to play you, I 296 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: would say, like, like like a Rachel mcaddam's kind of 297 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: but like I think that's like, okay, I think that 298 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 1: would be a good fit. So after we were married 299 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 1: for a while and we were living in La We 300 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: lived in La for how long we started having a 301 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: family and you know, Dance with the Stars. It happened, 302 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: and you know, I had already done Brent, and we 303 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 1: were like, all right, where's our where where's our life? Like, 304 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 1: what's our life? And we decided we were going to 305 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: move back here to Cincinnati, big back home. What do 306 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: you think was the main reason for you. 307 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 2: To makeamily being part of a community, like I love 308 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 2: our I love our community here, And I think that 309 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 2: that was probably not that we didn't like have our 310 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 2: tribe of people from the industry that that we adore 311 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 2: and still miss, you know, not living close to But 312 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 2: I think I was pregnant with Hudson and Izzy was 313 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 2: three and a half and so so and who is 314 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 2: Izzy our oldest daughter who is now yeah, in in college. 315 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 2: And then wis Hudson our son, our beloved son, who 316 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 2: was fourteen, our freshman in high school, freshman in high 317 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 2: school soccer and lacrosse player, which is crazy, No, I 318 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 2: think I think for me, we always said we were 319 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 2: super close to our grandparents, and it was weird to 320 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:20,239 Speaker 2: even think about that we were going to be so 321 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 2: far and removed from them, and it was just going 322 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 2: to be kind of like oh here, you know, Grandma, 323 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: Grandpa visiting. You know, if we're lucky five times a year, 324 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 2: you know, I mean, whatever it is holiday wise. So yeah, 325 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 2: and I'm still like, I'm very very happy that we 326 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 2: made that decision. 327 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 1: And once we moved back to Cincinnati, you know things 328 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 1: I'm not going to say, it was like, oh. 329 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:50,919 Speaker 2: No, it's a big, big decision, lots of adjustment. 330 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we took our time, we talked to people, 331 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: we tried to figure it out loud. I you know, 332 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,160 Speaker 1: every time I talked to Tumbrs around still, I'm like, hey, 333 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 1: you're the reason I felt good moving back home, because 334 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 1: he was basically like, you can work from anywhere, you know, 335 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 1: you got to take care of your family and make 336 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: sure that your your family is the priority. So thanks Tom. 337 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 1: And then on top of that, once we came back, 338 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 1: we were always trying to like, all right, how do 339 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 1: we how do we make a difference in Cincinnati? How 340 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 1: do we make a change. How do we find out 341 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:28,360 Speaker 1: who we are in this in this community? Because LA 342 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 1: and Cincinnati they might sound like they're very very similar, 343 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: you know, but there there there are some differences. Feel 344 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: other than Cincinnati losing to LA in the Super Bowl, 345 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: which I'm still we can't talk about. I'm still bitter 346 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: about I can't talk about that. Yeah, So you know, 347 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 1: we moved back, we started Lache Arts, which is our 348 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 1: nonprofit which has been going for twelve plus years. Now, 349 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: what type of change and difference do you feel like 350 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 1: that has made in our lives? 351 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 2: Well, I think that I think the biggest change like 352 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 2: when you start out to do something like that and 353 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 2: just what you said like a like a give back mentality, 354 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 2: and it was more of like us getting involved with 355 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:16,120 Speaker 2: the performing arts high school that you know, we graduated 356 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 2: from Nick and Justin graduated from and you know, it 357 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 2: starts like that and then all of a sudden you 358 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 2: realize that you're getting more than you could have ever 359 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 2: imagined out of something like this. And so I think 360 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 2: for us we kind of just not kind of we 361 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 2: still to this day pour our hearts and souls into 362 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:40,119 Speaker 2: the share arts because we do we believe in this 363 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 2: next generation of artists. And so you know, when I 364 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:46,439 Speaker 2: look back, I don't think that that's ultimately like I 365 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 2: didn't know at that time that that's what we would 366 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 2: be doing. So and then it's turned into our musical reveless. 367 00:19:56,119 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. So in twenty eighteen, as part of a Lache 368 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: Art's theater class, you know, we wrote we had our 369 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 1: students right down on pieces of paper ways that they 370 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 1: felt like they weren't being seen, or they weren't valued, 371 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 1: or they were discriminating against and we were just going 372 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 1: to drop them on the hat and shake them up 373 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 1: and honymously and have people pull them out and then 374 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: they were going to have to put themselves in someone 375 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 1: else's shoes. 376 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, was empathy exercise. 377 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:27,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, so from there, how did labels come out of 378 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 1: that exercise? 379 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:32,639 Speaker 2: Well, again, it was one of those things where we 380 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 2: had no idea what would come of it. And then 381 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 2: as we were reading those pieces of paper and crying 382 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 2: and for like, for me personally, I can one percent 383 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 2: say that the one that I read about my uncle 384 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:51,120 Speaker 2: says that I belong in the kitchen and that's where 385 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:54,919 Speaker 2: women belong. Is where I said, I'm sorry, like this 386 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 2: is actually this is actually happening. So I felt like 387 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 2: I was maybe a little out of touch with what 388 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 2: was going on. And so I don't know, I well, 389 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 2: you know how I think I think art moves people. 390 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 2: I think we can you know, learn from it. And 391 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 2: grow from it. And I think from that, with the 392 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 2: permission of that first class, which was the first cast 393 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 2: of label lists in twenty eighteen, we started to create 394 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 2: a show. And even then it wasn't like we didn't 395 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,160 Speaker 2: set out to be like, oh, we're going to we're 396 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 2: gonna build a musical right and then it and I 397 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,479 Speaker 2: say this all the time too, like the best stuff 398 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 2: happens organically and naturally and it just it just happened 399 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 2: and it makes sense. 400 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. So in twenty eighteen, we had all covers. You know, 401 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: we had literally every every every song, every subject that 402 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,880 Speaker 1: we were trying to tackle, we used a cover song 403 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: to try and highlight it. You know, we used like 404 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:55,919 Speaker 1: a Rachel plattin fight song is like the closer, We 405 00:21:56,080 --> 00:22:00,920 Speaker 1: used who Said by Selena go Man he was Beautiful 406 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 1: by Christina Aguilera, And you know, there's just a variety 407 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 1: of different of different songs since then, you know, we 408 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 1: went from you know, fourteen sixteen covers to seventeen songs, 409 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 1: but over sixty percent of them now our originals, so and. 410 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:26,640 Speaker 2: Written by our friends that are songwriters in the industry. 411 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 2: So it's actually also really cool because we get to 412 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:29,719 Speaker 2: work with our friends. 413 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, So Jamie Jones from Off for One wrote a song. 414 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 1: Paul Duncan, who is a very good friend of ours, 415 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 1: very successful songwriter, written for Yeah. He wrote I don't 416 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 1: even know what the count is now or co wrote 417 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 1: with me many songs. Aaron Space, who is another friend 418 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: of ours, wrote a song, and we still have a 419 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 1: couple of covers in there. But how do you feel 420 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 1: like putting the original music into the show has has 421 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: changed the trajectory of it. 422 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 2: Oh, I mean the show, and the show has grown 423 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 2: immensely from that. So I feel like because when you 424 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 2: start to write your own material, then you're actually really 425 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 2: locking into that story you're telling. So it's so great 426 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 2: right to match it up with covers, and that's exciting 427 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,199 Speaker 2: because people know the songs, and like you said, we 428 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 2: still have some covers in there. But I think when 429 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:28,400 Speaker 2: you start writing those original pieces, you're really tapping into 430 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 2: those stories. So each cast member has a story in 431 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 2: the show, and it's a wide variety of everything from classism, bullying, racism, homophobia, 432 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 2: the list goes on mental health. And so I think 433 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 2: that when you're really truly listening to that person's story 434 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 2: or monologue, if you want to say in the show 435 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 2: and then it goes into that original song. There's nothing 436 00:23:53,760 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 2: like it. 437 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 1: So as we go through all these different stories of 438 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 1: the cast, is there I mean, I know I have 439 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 1: ones that have that have hit me very, very hard. 440 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 1: Is there one one story that kind of stands out 441 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: to you as either like very moving or opened your eyes, 442 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: brought you something. 443 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 2: I think that they I mean, I have to say this, 444 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 2: that they've They've all taught me lessons in different ways. 445 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 2: And each new cast member that comes in and you know, 446 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,479 Speaker 2: tells their story and the show, you know, you you 447 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 2: start to look at the world differently, and that's the 448 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,120 Speaker 2: whole point of the show, right is to put yourself 449 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 2: in their position and walk in their shoes. So obviously, 450 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 2: I I mean sexism self worth is huge for me 451 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 2: mental health. But I I think learning so much over 452 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 2: the years would be Alyssa's story. And Alyssa is in 453 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 2: a wheelchair and just really I think dives in to 454 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:18,880 Speaker 2: her story of you know, see me for who I am. 455 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 2: I'm I'm I'm a person. But then the well I 456 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 2: adore her, but the day to day learning from her 457 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 2: in the rehearsal process of I mean, I was guilty 458 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 2: at the very beginning. And I will say, and this 459 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 2: is how you learn and grow of you know, people 460 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 2: are moving set pieces around and Alyssa said, what about me? 461 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 2: I can do that, and so it just kind of 462 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,479 Speaker 2: it changes your mindset and it changes the way you know, 463 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 2: you view things. So I would say, I would say 464 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 2: Lissa's story, Yeah, yeah, I would agree she's a badast. 465 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean I think there's like I catch myself 466 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 1: still like there's certain things that I think as society 467 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 1: we're all kind of still learning and you know, adjusting 468 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: to and you know, saying all right, male cast members 469 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 1: or female cast members, and you know, so just being like, oh, 470 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 1: you know, making it more inclusive to you know, a 471 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:21,360 Speaker 1: non binary or people that might not identify with one 472 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 1: or the other, or just male presenting female presenting pronouns, 473 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,480 Speaker 1: being more aware of that, and. 474 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 2: Also just asking a question. I feel like I've learned 475 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 2: so much from the cast and this you know generation 476 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 2: of artists where they're just like, if you have a 477 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 2: question and you don't know how to address something, or 478 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 2: you don't know how to ask it, just calmly, just 479 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,439 Speaker 2: just ask how how would you how would you like 480 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,439 Speaker 2: me to address you. It's that simple. And I think 481 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 2: I think people when they start being fearful of things, right, 482 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,919 Speaker 2: they shut down. And well, that's why I love the 483 00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 2: show is I feel like it brings topics to light 484 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 2: in a very creative way and you leave the theater 485 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 2: going I can do that. I can, I can have 486 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,159 Speaker 2: more empathy and it can be a better person. 487 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean I think, yeah, there's definitely stories 488 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 1: that have hit me, you know, harder than others, but 489 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,359 Speaker 1: like just musically, like coming from like a song, a 490 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 1: song point of view, Clearly, the finale together is better. 491 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,440 Speaker 1: I mean every time I he cries every time I do. 492 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,880 Speaker 1: There's something about that song and when the cast comes 493 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 1: together and they sing it, there is such a sense 494 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 1: of community and love that it. Yeah, it makes me 495 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 1: cry every time. And I've seen the show hundreds and 496 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 1: I could, I could, I think about it hundreds and 497 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,160 Speaker 1: hundreds of times. But then if I look at at 498 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 1: the you know, the show as a whole. I mean 499 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,120 Speaker 1: you Are Seen, which is a song that kind of 500 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,439 Speaker 1: that kind of goes with with a list of story. 501 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,679 Speaker 1: I'm really proud of that one. I love the message 502 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 1: of that one. But there's the song Hands, which talks 503 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: about how you know, we're all making it's in our hands. 504 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,199 Speaker 1: We have we have a choice, like we can, you know, 505 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: we have two options. And so that song to me always, 506 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 1: you know, makes me makes me think and feel because musically, 507 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 1: I feel like the arrangement is very beautiful and that 508 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,159 Speaker 1: the lyrics are great, but I feel like just the 509 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 1: way the cast comes together and sings it together, that 510 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 1: one always always gets me emotional too. 511 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,679 Speaker 2: I love hearing that you get emotional too from it, 512 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 2: because there's nothing better than, you know, working and giving 513 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 2: your heart and soul again to the writing and the 514 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 2: music and the choreography and then feeling super proud of it. 515 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 1: And when we were talking about songwriters, there's we love 516 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 1: you know one out and that's Yeah, a former student 517 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: of ours at Lache Arts who is an aspiring songwriter 518 00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: kind of a prodigy. We we were looking for a 519 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 1: song to replace Beautiful by Christian Aguilera in the show, 520 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 1: and we went to her and she was eighteen at 521 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: the time, senior in high school. And the whole tead, Yeah, 522 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: the whole song is about you know, self worth and 523 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 1: when you look in the mirror, what do you see? 524 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,239 Speaker 1: How do you feel? How do you feel about like 525 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 1: the pressures of you know, society and having to do 526 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: with beauty and what is what is the right size? 527 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 1: What is the right number? What is you know? All 528 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 1: that stuff? And she wrote a song that is so 529 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 1: moving and inspirational. Yeah, well, well, well beyond her years, 530 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: that song is so Yeah, so I hope she's as 531 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 1: proud of that song as she should be. All Right, 532 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 1: So we've been working on labels for over six years now. 533 00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 1: Is there one moment that stands out to you as 534 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: like that is that is that moment of pride, that 535 00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 1: is where yeah, something something happened where you just one 536 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, what what is? What is that that 537 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: biggest moment? 538 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 2: I mean it's so hard to answer because again when 539 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 2: we started, never knew how much work. I mean, I 540 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 2: knew it would be hard, don't get me wrong, but 541 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 2: just all the ins and outs of like producing and 542 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 2: directing and choreographing and songs come in and out and 543 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 2: what works and what doesn't, and proud moments each each phase. 544 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 2: I'm proud because you know, catapultsy to the next level. 545 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 2: I think performing the show in New York and an 546 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 2: off Roaway theater in November was one of those moments 547 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 2: where deep down while I was crying and like hugging 548 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,200 Speaker 2: our team, and you know, the audience just kind of 549 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 2: like leapt to their feet and there's nothing better than that, 550 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 2: and the energy in that room was incredible. But to 551 00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 2: have just that little tiny dream, little tiny tiny dream, 552 00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,719 Speaker 2: and then to push push, push, push, and then to 553 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 2: get it to that that point is I will remember 554 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 2: that moment for the rest of my life. 555 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 1: For me, there's you know, it was one moment during 556 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 1: one performance, and it was during the finale of this 557 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 1: last run Sinanta Plaus in the park and the finale 558 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: was going on, and it was getting like we were into 559 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 1: the It was in the bridge and then it was 560 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 1: building out of the bridge and and the whole cast 561 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:37,240 Speaker 1: was coming forward, and this one lady that was kind 562 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: of sitting like a little bit house left and I 563 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 1: was at the sound booth and and Leah was Leah 564 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 1: was right there too. This one lady literally just jumped 565 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 1: out of her seats mid song, like the song was 566 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 1: still going on, and she literally just stood up and 567 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: put her hands towards towards the cast, like giving all 568 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 1: her love and energy back towards them. And then one 569 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 1: by one, the entire audience started popping up and literally 570 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 1: it was a standing ovation before the song song was 571 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 1: even over. Yeah, people were up out of their out 572 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 1: of their seats, like literally just giving so much love 573 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:20,720 Speaker 1: and energy to the cast where it made me like like, 574 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 1: you're like, holy shit, and. 575 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 2: Then we I have to say this to you and 576 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,000 Speaker 2: I have to interject that, like the cast is so 577 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 2: brave and courageous and so to see to see their 578 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 2: reaction when something like that happens too. I mean we've 579 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 2: both been on stage as well, and so I can't 580 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:46,239 Speaker 2: imagine what that is like to receive that. And then 581 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 2: I don't know if you remember that the one woman 582 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 2: jumped up and grabbed in a in a you know, 583 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,400 Speaker 2: polite way. I was like, do we need security, but 584 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 2: just was so moved needed to hug one of the 585 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 2: cast members, I mean stage like so yeah during the show. 586 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, we might need to bring 587 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 2: in security out, but that or yeah, it's it's yeah, 588 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 2: like we said, so proud, it's amazing, all right. 589 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: So we just finished up a run at the playoffs 590 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: in the Park. We just did a showcase in New 591 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 1: York City at Chelsea Table on stage Yeah, we have 592 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,200 Speaker 1: a couple of things this fall. We're starting to book 593 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 1: out dates for a spring of twenty twenty five. If 594 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: there is one thing I love this question. There's one 595 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 1: thing that you want LABELSS to do, to accomplish, to 596 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: to be a place that you wanted to be performed, Oh, 597 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 1: be performed, be performed? Yes, Like where where is that dream? 598 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 1: What is that dream scenario? 599 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:51,480 Speaker 2: World domination? 600 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, doctor Evil. 601 00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,840 Speaker 2: I just believe in the message so much so I'm torn, 602 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 2: And I know you're going to say one place. I 603 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,720 Speaker 2: can't pick one place because the you know, Big Dream 604 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 2: obviously is Broadway. Why why wouldn't it be that would 605 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 2: be incredible to just have the show sit down in York. 606 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:18,600 Speaker 2: There's just that's just pure magic. But I also think 607 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 2: touring it is so important because the whole point of 608 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 2: the show is to get people to think outside of 609 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 2: the box. So I think the best way to do 610 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 2: that is touring it all of the country, all over 611 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 2: the world, right, and then I and then third the 612 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 2: West End London. I would love that. I would love 613 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:44,280 Speaker 2: love that so so so basically the answers everywhere. 614 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 1: So this is this is I think everybody's kind of 615 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 1: getting a glimpse into what I deal with on a 616 00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:52,040 Speaker 1: daily basis. So I ask a fairly simple question like 617 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 1: where would you where do you see the show going? 618 00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 2: That's not a simple question. 619 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 1: That's simple. 620 00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:01,600 Speaker 2: No, it's not because if I answer just one place, like, 621 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:02,879 Speaker 2: that's not what I want. 622 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,879 Speaker 1: But it basically becomes oh, we're just going to take 623 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,840 Speaker 1: over the world. That that is what? That is? 624 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 2: What? 625 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 1: Why not? I get? Yeah, So it's not just there's 626 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 1: never just a simple answer. And you know, people are 627 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 1: always asking, you know what what how do you guys 628 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:22,279 Speaker 1: work together? So how do you how do you how 629 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 1: do you view our our our working relationship? 630 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 2: Okay, so I do think that we I think we 631 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 2: work well together. 632 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 1: Do you well, yes, no, I absolutely do. I think. 633 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:38,520 Speaker 2: But you're like, how do how. 634 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:39,000 Speaker 1: Do I view it? 635 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,279 Speaker 2: Like in in the process, in the room and the Yeah. 636 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:48,279 Speaker 1: Just so so everybody understands, we produce label less, we 637 00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:51,840 Speaker 1: direct label less. We produce it together. We directed together. 638 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: I write most of the the monologues. We have a 639 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 1: couple other writers on it, but mostly me. You do 640 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 1: all the choreography except for the racism section, which which 641 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:12,400 Speaker 1: is my best friend. Yeah, we have multiple songwriters meeting 642 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 1: one of them. Then we also are the fundraisers, we 643 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 1: are the tech crew, We are whatever whatever has to 644 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 1: be done for the show. 645 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 2: Now that's the story. 646 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 1: We we do it. So it's not just like, oh, 647 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 1: we go to the office together and you. 648 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 2: Know, it gets it gets stressful. 649 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 1: Is that you're saying, Yes, I'm just trying to let 650 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,359 Speaker 1: everybody know that it's not just like this, oh one 651 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,200 Speaker 1: of us is in sales and the other one's distribution. No, 652 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: it is like and it's also the time. 653 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:48,360 Speaker 3: We would be lying if we said that the time 654 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 3: we would be lying if we didn't say that. There 655 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 3: were times that we were. 656 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 2: Like like, right now. 657 00:36:56,600 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 3: Well I can sell when you're mad, and Mike, one 658 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 3: of our cast members, says, it actually does a really 659 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 3: great Yeah, we'll have. 660 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 1: To do it for you. 661 00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 2: But like when Drew gets mad when we were on 662 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,120 Speaker 2: tour in the fall, and there were there were sometimes 663 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 2: that were very stressful getting the set up, you know, 664 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:21,319 Speaker 2: in time and all that fun stuff, and you would 665 00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 2: put your hands on your waist and just do the 666 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:27,440 Speaker 2: pacing during sound check and then the and then like 667 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 2: walk up stage and then do the I was like, 668 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 2: it's pissed, he's pissed, and so you have to, you know, 669 00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 2: keep it calm, keep it gone. And then I got 670 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,520 Speaker 2: him a snack. It didn't help. 671 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:52,480 Speaker 1: How simple minded am I? It's like it's like like 672 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:56,320 Speaker 1: Mango from Blazing Saddles, Mango bad unless you give like Mongo. 673 00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 2: Like well, diet cokes sometimes help. 674 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, some times, but not always. 675 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 2: Pissed and rightfully, so you were pissed. 676 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,040 Speaker 1: We don't even need to go into all that things 677 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:10,279 Speaker 1: were happening. Yeah, yeah, But honestly, I feel like we 678 00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:15,480 Speaker 1: work well together because we there's a mutual respect for 679 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,319 Speaker 1: each other's contributions and skill set and what we bring 680 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:23,160 Speaker 1: to the table. But I think also we are complimentary 681 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 1: to each other in the way that we approach situations. 682 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:32,399 Speaker 1: Like you are very much a big idea person. That's 683 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,839 Speaker 1: why you were like, oh, what how do you want 684 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,480 Speaker 1: the show World Domination, Broadway, West End Boom. You know, 685 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:43,440 Speaker 1: I am much more of a You're more macro in 686 00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:47,799 Speaker 1: your thinking like big, and I'm more micro, like, all right, 687 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,319 Speaker 1: what are the fifteen steps that have to happen to 688 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 1: get to you know this first this first goal? And 689 00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,960 Speaker 1: I feel like because we were not both just dreaming big, 690 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,480 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, we are, but we're able to compliment 691 00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:04,319 Speaker 1: each other because if I was, if it was just 692 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,880 Speaker 1: on me, I would just literally be so caught up 693 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,920 Speaker 1: in all the little details just to get to the 694 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 1: next show that I couldn't be focusing on what the 695 00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:16,359 Speaker 1: long term goal is. And you we are more long 696 00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 1: term goal and you know, so you know, some of 697 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 1: the details might not be quite as important, you know. 698 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 1: So I feel like because we're kind of ying and yang, 699 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 1: it works. So a lot of our cast members in 700 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 1: labels started off in the Lache Arts program, so we've 701 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 1: been working with them and training them. Clearly, now the 702 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,680 Speaker 1: cast has expanded. We got people from literally all over 703 00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 1: the globe at this point. But if you had to 704 00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 1: give those young performers, those young cast members one bit 705 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 1: of advice for you know, kind of taking on this 706 00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:14,120 Speaker 1: industry and their life in this industry, what would be. 707 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,759 Speaker 2: Again, I don't have just one answer, So I'll go 708 00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 2: listen more. I mean, I think that's that's advice for 709 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 2: myself too. I think when you when you listen, you 710 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:30,400 Speaker 2: you learn so much. But also to take every opportunity 711 00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 2: you know and put your best foot forward so you know, 712 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:38,920 Speaker 2: you never know how you leave one job, how it's 713 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:43,320 Speaker 2: going to affect that next job because this industry is 714 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 2: so very small and we all know each other pretty much, 715 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 2: I mean, just right, I mean I think and then 716 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 2: and the third thing is, and I didn't do this 717 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,200 Speaker 2: at nineteen or twenty because you know, it was probably 718 00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:05,239 Speaker 2: too nervous or scared or whatever. But that networking matters, right, Yeah, 719 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 2: I think. 720 00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 1: As long as you don't do it in a douchey way. 721 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:09,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, not in it, not not in that. 722 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 1: God. 723 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,280 Speaker 2: No, I just think that, like, you know, if you're 724 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,080 Speaker 2: if you're in that work environment, you're doing not only 725 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,759 Speaker 2: good work, but and you also treat people the way 726 00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:21,160 Speaker 2: you want to be treated, you know. I think I 727 00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,040 Speaker 2: think we've been lucky in that for the most part. 728 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 2: That you know, we have for the most part cast 729 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:31,080 Speaker 2: members that want to be in the room and want 730 00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 2: to be a part of something that is, you know, 731 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:34,839 Speaker 2: an original musical. Yeah. 732 00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,760 Speaker 1: I think for me it would be you know, don't 733 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:43,800 Speaker 1: don't tie your own self worth two? Which what job? 734 00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,040 Speaker 1: Oh god, you're working, you know, I mean I think 735 00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:47,480 Speaker 1: that's like. 736 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:49,960 Speaker 2: That's what you do, that is what you do in 737 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 2: your twenties. 738 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,000 Speaker 1: So let's be real, honestly, yeah. I mean I think 739 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:54,279 Speaker 1: back in all the time, I was like, all right, 740 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,080 Speaker 1: so you know it is you know Bastery and Sync 741 00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 1: in US and you know, oh, they sold this many. 742 00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:02,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh man, we gotta we got to sell 743 00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:04,160 Speaker 1: that many now. And then it's like all right, there's 744 00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:05,879 Speaker 1: there was that. And then if you didn't get there, 745 00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:08,440 Speaker 1: you're like, oh man, or if your song didn't go 746 00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 1: number one, your song went you know, broke top ten, 747 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,640 Speaker 1: but you know somebody else it didn't. It didn't achieve 748 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 1: what you would initially hope to would achieve, you know, 749 00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:21,680 Speaker 1: not carrying that that weight of like yeah, it just 750 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:23,960 Speaker 1: wasn't good enough, I'm not good enough, or you know, 751 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: take it one step further, like auditioning. You know, it's 752 00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 1: there's so many different reasons why things can work or 753 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,160 Speaker 1: not work. And so if you just train and you 754 00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:38,359 Speaker 1: work hard and you you do your best you can 755 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:42,640 Speaker 1: in that room or whatever job, whatever job, interview, you know, 756 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 1: if you don't get it, you you have to be 757 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:49,799 Speaker 1: okay with all right, I did everything I could. It 758 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,520 Speaker 1: just didn't work out this time. As opposed to carrying that. 759 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 2: Yes, that weight, I just think in your twenties, it's 760 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:57,879 Speaker 2: so hard to hear that. 761 00:42:58,239 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 1: Well, I'm staying I'm still in my twenties. 762 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 2: M M. Yeah, yeah, you just reminded me of and 763 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,480 Speaker 2: he I don't even know if he remembers saying this 764 00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,279 Speaker 2: to us because it was years ago, but I say 765 00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:12,879 Speaker 2: it all the time Donald Baison when he said stay 766 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,719 Speaker 2: in your lane, and at the time, I don't even 767 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 2: nobody was referencing, but I say it all the time. 768 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, just stay in your line, just stay in 769 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,920 Speaker 2: your line. Do you work on you right? 770 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I agree. 771 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,839 Speaker 2: Mind your business. Now. 772 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,680 Speaker 1: When we when we started this interview, I said, one 773 00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,640 Speaker 1: of the reasons why I wanted to interview you was 774 00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:41,440 Speaker 1: because there might be some some opportunity to get straight 775 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,920 Speaker 1: no bs answers to to some things. 776 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 2: No, did I succeed? 777 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 1: No, not really. You kind of danced around a couple 778 00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:57,400 Speaker 1: of things. But there is there's one question that I'm 779 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 1: kind of curious because we've been together for geez, how 780 00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:05,120 Speaker 1: long we've been married for twenty four years? Been together 781 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:09,839 Speaker 1: for well, it'll be twenty four it'll be twenty four years. Yeah, 782 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:11,959 Speaker 1: we've been so that means we've been together for thirty 783 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,879 Speaker 1: two years. 784 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:18,480 Speaker 2: Good Lord, all mine together for seventy five years. 785 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 1: All right, now in those thirty two years, you know 786 00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,880 Speaker 1: me fairly well. Is there is there anything? And I 787 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,960 Speaker 1: know probably not, but is there anything I do that 788 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,120 Speaker 1: just really annoys you? 789 00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 3: Like? 790 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,279 Speaker 1: Is there is there one? Is there one thing? 791 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,200 Speaker 2: That? There are two things that's like and you're not 792 00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:40,959 Speaker 2: going to say what? No, I get the two things 793 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:45,680 Speaker 2: right now. The you know this, and so do all 794 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 2: the guys. Drew whistles and it is like I want 795 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 2: to claw his face off. 796 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm a really good whistler. I'm just I'm just saying no. 797 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:01,560 Speaker 2: See it actually makes me. I get so annoyed because 798 00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:05,759 Speaker 2: it's like a yodel whistle no like no, it's bad. 799 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,920 Speaker 1: As Billy Joe. Billy Joe's got a whole intro. You know, 800 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 1: it's all whistling, but it's. 801 00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,399 Speaker 2: Always in the car. He's also started to add this 802 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,040 Speaker 2: weird like foot tap with the yodel. 803 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:18,760 Speaker 1: You don't even know you do that with the yodel. 804 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:23,680 Speaker 2: Yoda whistle whistle, yoda, a yoda whistle with a foot 805 00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 2: a strong foot tap while we're driving. I literally I 806 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 2: want to I see red. So that's the first thing. 807 00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:31,880 Speaker 2: The other thing, and I bet you there are other 808 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,680 Speaker 2: people out there that are in relationships with people and 809 00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:39,879 Speaker 2: they do this Drew somehow. It's always at night, will 810 00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:45,759 Speaker 2: take like his socks off and leave them right by 811 00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 2: the door of the bedroom. That is odd to me. 812 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:54,359 Speaker 2: I'm like, can't you take those socks and put them 813 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,640 Speaker 2: in the hamper? But I mean, I get on our 814 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:58,960 Speaker 2: son about that song. I don't put it in the hamper. 815 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 2: I don't understand. It's like and so in the morning, 816 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:04,719 Speaker 2: I'm like, what are the socks for? Are they no? 817 00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:04,919 Speaker 1: No? 818 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:06,680 Speaker 2: Are the sock are you can put them on again? 819 00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 1: Like? 820 00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:08,879 Speaker 2: Are they're dirty? Or you can put them on again? 821 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:10,040 Speaker 2: Are you saving them? No? 822 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,719 Speaker 1: I probably wore the socks into the bedroom and as 823 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 1: opposed to walking like down back down to the hamper, 824 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,520 Speaker 1: I just took them off there. Okay, So and in 825 00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 1: the morning you walk past them and leave them. Well, 826 00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,560 Speaker 1: I was planning on coming back and getting them. I'm 827 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: sure just my eyes. It was dark in the room. 828 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 1: I didn't see them. 829 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,600 Speaker 2: This is not a one time occurrence. I'm this is 830 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:36,480 Speaker 2: this is easily three or four times a week, easily, 831 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 2: And so I'm like, I just want to know. 832 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 1: I don't know if I changed my socks three or 833 00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:40,520 Speaker 1: four times a week. 834 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:44,640 Speaker 2: So you take them off, you put them right there 835 00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,880 Speaker 2: by the door, you get in bed, you wake up 836 00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 2: in the morning, you walk past them. So then when 837 00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 2: I go back in the morning, because I always make 838 00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 2: the bed every morning, I'm like, what do I do 839 00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,640 Speaker 2: with these? What I do with these socks? 840 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:57,920 Speaker 1: And what do you do with them? 841 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 2: Put him in the hamper? But why there it is? 842 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:03,960 Speaker 1: You know what to do with it. I don't know. 843 00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:04,879 Speaker 2: There it is. 844 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,799 Speaker 1: They don't bother me, sitting right there bother me. I 845 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,279 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what to tell you. I 846 00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:15,080 Speaker 1: don't know. And there there is one conversation that we've. 847 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:18,640 Speaker 2: Try and get the industry under the with the socks. 848 00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:24,920 Speaker 1: Damn you, Drew, you can't put your socks in the hamper. 849 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:30,000 Speaker 1: Curse you to hell. No, We've had this conversation for 850 00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:36,280 Speaker 1: a long long time, and it's it's a common conversation 851 00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:38,880 Speaker 1: that a lot of married couples have. And you know, 852 00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:42,920 Speaker 1: it's the whole toilet seed thing. And so my I 853 00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,120 Speaker 1: get it. Why can't you put the toilet seat down? 854 00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:48,240 Speaker 1: I get it. You don't feel like that's because because 855 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: the toilet seats always down. So my question is, if 856 00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:58,400 Speaker 1: it is up to me to always put the toilet 857 00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 1: seat down when you're done, why can't you put it up? 858 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:04,399 Speaker 2: I'm not doing that? 859 00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:05,560 Speaker 1: Why not? 860 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,239 Speaker 2: It's just it feels wrong. 861 00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:12,800 Speaker 1: So if I'm saving saving you from from either having 862 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 1: to touch the toilet sea or not looking and falling 863 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:17,560 Speaker 1: into the. 864 00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:19,759 Speaker 2: Toilet, but who's to say that if I do that 865 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:21,560 Speaker 2: and I put it up and get it ready for you, 866 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:22,879 Speaker 2: how do I know that you're in the next one? 867 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:23,520 Speaker 2: But what if it's not me? 868 00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:25,160 Speaker 1: How do I know you're going to be the next one? 869 00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:26,640 Speaker 1: But yet I still have to put the thing down. 870 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:28,520 Speaker 2: You're ridiculous. 871 00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:32,040 Speaker 1: I'm just saying it. If it's a partnership, if it's 872 00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,200 Speaker 1: fifty to fifty, if I got to put it down, 873 00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:35,359 Speaker 1: why can't you put it up? 874 00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 2: I can get down with other things. But that to 875 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:42,120 Speaker 2: me just sounds I mean, I get what you're saying, 876 00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:43,640 Speaker 2: but it's not it's just not gonna happen. 877 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:48,560 Speaker 1: See, it's not fair. This is this is not this 878 00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:51,520 Speaker 1: is not right. But you love me, I do. I'd 879 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:53,719 Speaker 1: love you more if you put the toilet set up, 880 00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,279 Speaker 1: all right. So, a lot of a lot of our 881 00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:05,800 Speaker 1: experiences in the industry have have kind of been around 882 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:11,479 Speaker 1: different reality shows, you know. So there was there was one. 883 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:15,719 Speaker 1: There was one reality show that we were on, were on. 884 00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:19,960 Speaker 1: There was one that I was on dancing, you know. 885 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:23,640 Speaker 1: There were been other ones that we participated in. Our 886 00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:27,920 Speaker 1: families done a ton of them, you know. There was 887 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,319 Speaker 1: Nick and I did one about, you know, building a barn. Right, 888 00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:37,040 Speaker 1: So if you and I as a as a married couple, 889 00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:44,960 Speaker 1: we're competing on a reality show, which one do you 890 00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:45,520 Speaker 1: think it would be? 891 00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:50,080 Speaker 2: Can you do? Can you do the one you've done before? 892 00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,400 Speaker 2: Because I feel like we'd crushed Dancing with the Stars? 893 00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:54,279 Speaker 1: Okay? 894 00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:55,600 Speaker 2: Is that? Yeah? 895 00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:59,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, we we we would except for neither of 896 00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:01,440 Speaker 1: us a ballroom dan, So we would just be like 897 00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,239 Speaker 1: doing us but we wouldn't be like, oh and doing 898 00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 1: the chowhaw, you know. It would be like, yeah, we 899 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,239 Speaker 1: would just be out there, you know, kicking ass and 900 00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,440 Speaker 1: taking names. Okay, but so a different way. Let's take 901 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,960 Speaker 1: that one off the table. What is there another one? 902 00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:21,040 Speaker 2: I feel Okay, I love the like amazing race stuff, 903 00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:23,759 Speaker 2: but I know that I would be. 904 00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:25,960 Speaker 1: So stressed out. Yeah I don't really. I do necessarily 905 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:31,680 Speaker 1: think like you're great at many things, almost everything. 906 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,640 Speaker 2: That would be good at that. I feel like I would. 907 00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 1: I would be dirty. I would playing in the mud 908 00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:39,239 Speaker 1: and doing all that. 909 00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 2: That kind of episode where they're walking through Madrid, like 910 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,839 Speaker 2: looking for a certain statue. Yeah, that's what I want 911 00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 2: to do. 912 00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:50,839 Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know. 913 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:53,040 Speaker 2: I like the traveling aspects and trying to figure out 914 00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:55,520 Speaker 2: like what plane, what train, what right? Like that I 915 00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:56,600 Speaker 2: think we would be good at. 916 00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:01,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. So no, I don't want to no naked and afraid. 917 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:10,400 Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, please know that would no alone, No, 918 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 2: that would be horrible. 919 00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:15,400 Speaker 1: Homestead Rescue we could do. 920 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:17,280 Speaker 2: Oh we do like Homestead Rescue. 921 00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 1: I'd have to grow my mustache out more, you would, 922 00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:20,360 Speaker 1: I do? 923 00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,200 Speaker 2: You think that show's fascinating? But I don't know. That's 924 00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:24,480 Speaker 2: not like a it's not like competition. No, it's like 925 00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,520 Speaker 2: just like helping build, which I think is pretty cool. Yeah. 926 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:33,120 Speaker 1: So this year we are celebrating twenty four years of marriage, 927 00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:39,280 Speaker 1: which means next year is twenty five. Now we're already 928 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,400 Speaker 1: you know, talking about, Okay, what are we gonna do 929 00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:44,520 Speaker 1: for our twenty fifth anniversary? It's a big one. But 930 00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 1: if we look back in the past, is there one 931 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:51,800 Speaker 1: Is there one date. 932 00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 2: You're gonna say one again. I hate doing just. 933 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:59,960 Speaker 1: One trip or moment that you know, one one room, 934 00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,880 Speaker 1: antic moment that you can like, We've. 935 00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:04,600 Speaker 2: Had so many amazing trips. I don't know how to pick. 936 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 1: What is there one that is like your favorite, like 937 00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:11,360 Speaker 1: one scenario when setting one spot that you're. 938 00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:13,719 Speaker 2: Likerew, life is about me. 939 00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 1: That is why. 940 00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:20,040 Speaker 2: That's why I married him. Okay, so we are going 941 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,120 Speaker 2: to do something big twenty five. We will. We just 942 00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:23,799 Speaker 2: have to plan that. 943 00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:24,479 Speaker 1: We have to plan. 944 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:28,880 Speaker 2: But I like when stuff is like loosely you know 945 00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,440 Speaker 2: what I mean, like a loose plan, like loosely scripted, 946 00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:35,960 Speaker 2: loosely scripted. And then I mean because I think because 947 00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 2: we're always so busy and everything is so scheduled all 948 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 2: the time that when something is just like hey, we 949 00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 2: got the whole day, like when we were in Dublin 950 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:48,360 Speaker 2: comes to mind, like when it's like we only have 951 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:50,759 Speaker 2: nowhere to be, we have no schedule to keep and 952 00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:53,680 Speaker 2: what are we in Dubling for? Okay, we were there 953 00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:56,240 Speaker 2: because he was working, but we were working. 954 00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,000 Speaker 1: I was doing name that too, Yeah, and I competed 955 00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:05,200 Speaker 1: against how from from Backstreet and I won. All right, 956 00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 1: I'll continue with your. 957 00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:08,480 Speaker 2: Story, Okay, so. 958 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:10,480 Speaker 1: No. 959 00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I just I like days where it's kind 960 00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,600 Speaker 2: of like it just just kind of flows right. Like 961 00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:17,680 Speaker 2: one of our favorite dates, and I know it's not 962 00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,520 Speaker 2: like this big, like you know, grandiose thing or travel thing, 963 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,239 Speaker 2: because I don't think it needs to be is we 964 00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:29,200 Speaker 2: were downtown Cincinnati and it was snowing and it wasn't 965 00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:33,080 Speaker 2: planned and we had we had like a staycation kind 966 00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:34,600 Speaker 2: of thing planned downtown. 967 00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 1: And it was Valentine's Day, I remember. 968 00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:40,160 Speaker 2: And one of our favorite restaurants here in Cincinnati Soto. 969 00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,479 Speaker 2: You know, every nobody could get to the restaurant because 970 00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 2: it was like blizzard conditions, and so we were there 971 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:47,720 Speaker 2: and we just kind of like walked past the street 972 00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:49,640 Speaker 2: and we had the whole place to ourselfs and we 973 00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,439 Speaker 2: just it's the it's the best restaurant. And we sat 974 00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:54,560 Speaker 2: there and just had a nice bottle of wine and 975 00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:57,839 Speaker 2: good food and just like nowhere to be And I think, 976 00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,840 Speaker 2: I don't know, connection like that is awesome. 977 00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:04,120 Speaker 1: That was actually my favorite date that I was going 978 00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,640 Speaker 1: to say that you didn't know that I did, But 979 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:09,160 Speaker 1: it was just like that, like it was so romantic, 980 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,160 Speaker 1: Like the city was so quiet, because anytime you're in 981 00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:14,400 Speaker 1: an urban area and it's snowing. It's just quiet. It's 982 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:16,000 Speaker 1: you know, you look up at the street lights you 983 00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:18,680 Speaker 1: see like the snow falling. And then it was literally 984 00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,120 Speaker 1: right across the street from like the hotel where we 985 00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,120 Speaker 1: were staying for our staycation, and we literally walked in 986 00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:27,520 Speaker 1: and this place is impossible to get into. It's always crowded, 987 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,799 Speaker 1: it's always packed. And we literally walked in there and 988 00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:32,279 Speaker 1: there was like nobody in there and we just sat down. 989 00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:34,560 Speaker 1: We sat at the bar and yeah, it was awesome. 990 00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:37,000 Speaker 1: We sat at the corner of the bar, so it 991 00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,319 Speaker 1: was like we were just sitting like this the whole time, 992 00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,960 Speaker 1: just like eating and drinking and just relaxing and just 993 00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:45,000 Speaker 1: and nowhere to be and know where to be. Yeah, 994 00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 1: it's the best. I think that, I think that would be. 995 00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,440 Speaker 2: So what we're I think what we're getting to summing 996 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,080 Speaker 2: it all up is the fact that we need to 997 00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:52,879 Speaker 2: do more of that. 998 00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:54,879 Speaker 1: But that's laughing, more vacation. 999 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:58,480 Speaker 2: Because everything is so planned, not gonna happen for a second. 1000 00:54:58,600 --> 00:54:59,440 Speaker 2: But maybe we need. 1001 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 1: To make it and we'll make it a priority. I'll 1002 00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 1: make it a party. All right. 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