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<v Speaker 1>named John on the phone for a second date update today,

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<v Speaker 1>and John's looking for answers. Oh, apparently he had a

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<v Speaker 1>big romantic evening plan for his special lady and something

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<v Speaker 1>came up, so let's talk to him about it. Jay DOGG,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Jay Dog? That's awesome? Do you mind if

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<v Speaker 1>I call you Jay Dog? No? No, that's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that makes me sound like even cooler than

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<v Speaker 1>I think I can. Hey, can I can I interject

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<v Speaker 1>and say I mind? Does anybody else we can do

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<v Speaker 1>something we can do like Jay money? All right? What

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<v Speaker 1>do your friends call you? My friends? I have one friends?

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<v Speaker 1>If he just called me John, oh yeah, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>as exciting. Yeah, well thank you John. Okay, John, So

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<v Speaker 1>who do you want to call today? Her name is Lisa.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just say something I'd like? Nervous? I get

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<v Speaker 1>a little awkward and pathethic, sort of when I when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nervous. But I don't worry about Jim. Okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to listen. I love you guys, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much. When I emailed you, I had no

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<v Speaker 1>intention that you guys are or rather I had no

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I got a little stutter, I got a

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<v Speaker 1>little like okay, so cute. We're here for you, man,

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<v Speaker 1>and listen you thank us now, and just remember that

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<v Speaker 1>because the end of this could not go the way

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<v Speaker 1>you want. Okay, Okay, well listen, I'd still thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for responding to me. Not many people do. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is if I were to say one thing. This is

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<v Speaker 1>before we get going. This is like the top five

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<v Speaker 1>highlights of my life. Okay, guys, it's pretty sad life

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<v Speaker 1>you've lived. Oh, Jeffrey, do you know what John? I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're awesome. Yeah, thank you. I love the sarcasm.

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<v Speaker 1>I I what doesn't stick to me bounces off me

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<v Speaker 1>and hits you. Yeah, glue paper wherever we're at here, rubber,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how it goes. You said her name

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<v Speaker 1>is the girl you wants to call is Lisa? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, Lee don't you tell us about her? How

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<v Speaker 1>did you meet her? Well, you know, I wasn't having

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of success dating. I think I could chalk

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<v Speaker 1>that up to my friend tells me it's probably because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not so good looking. Oh my god, John, I

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<v Speaker 1>bet you're great looking. Okay, Well, I mean that's nice

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<v Speaker 1>of you to say, but I mean I could send

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<v Speaker 1>you a photo. I mean, I don't look like those

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<v Speaker 1>stars in Hollywood or um, like any sort of like

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<v Speaker 1>athlete or something. I'm sort of pudging and none of

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<v Speaker 1>us look like that. Oh I wish you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>around in my team years. I could have used that. John,

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<v Speaker 1>you are so endearing. I will say that for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you. Tell us. How did you meet Lisa again? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I could preface this by saying that I've

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<v Speaker 1>been using dating apps, but I wasn't getting many success,

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<v Speaker 1>no responses. Um, I met her finally on Craigslist. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't require photos on Craig's list. Oh, there's like

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<v Speaker 1>a dating section you can Okay, Okay, all right, So

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't see what you looked like, so you matched

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<v Speaker 1>with her exactly. She didn't see what I look like,

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<v Speaker 1>so we matched there's a little bit more accepting. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's good. That's good. So what do you guys do

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<v Speaker 1>for your first date? Well, here's the thing. We messaged

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth. She was warm and kind soul and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you she's the kind of girl that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>would donate a kidney if I needed it. Maybe she's

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<v Speaker 1>on Craiglist. She'd steal your kid That sounds nice. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys are so funny. I don't believe I'm doing this,

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<v Speaker 1>so as you do it, Lisa. We exchanged numbers, invited

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<v Speaker 1>her to hang out at my house. I got some

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<v Speaker 1>hard ciders, I have apps, you know, like a veggie tray,

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<v Speaker 1>those little pizzas. Huh. I set out a candle or

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<v Speaker 1>two and then Connect four because that's my favorite game.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, I'm gonna tell you you guys are I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that is a first date done right?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding me? Pizza, roles, hard cider and Connect four.

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<v Speaker 1>That would wait over anyone. But I agree, Wow, Brooks

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<v Speaker 1>getting steamy over here just thinking about connecting that fourth piece.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, don't bust out the game risk though heavy?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I love Risk? Yeah? So did she love it? John?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she love it as much as I do. We'll listen. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't show up. I texted her. I didn't hear

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<v Speaker 1>it back from her. I started to freak out. And then, um,

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<v Speaker 1>about an hour later, just and you know that's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>late after you know the time set. Yeah. I texted

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<v Speaker 1>me and she said I had a work meeting that

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<v Speaker 1>was running late and she needs to reschedule. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't, you know, been able to really connect with

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<v Speaker 1>her since. And she's saying that she's busy, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think she's avoiding me. Yeah, it does suck so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm kind of mad at her, especially when you

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<v Speaker 1>play in something like really big for someone, even if

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<v Speaker 1>it's like Connect four, like you go through the effort

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<v Speaker 1>and then they don't show up. That's just rude. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did you tell her that you had planned these things

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<v Speaker 1>and then she didn't show up? Or was it all

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be a surprise. It was a surprise. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't told her what I planned because if it does happen,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do it all again. Okay, is it

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<v Speaker 1>okay if we tell her or no? Um, if you

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<v Speaker 1>think that's the best, then I trust you way more

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<v Speaker 1>than I trust myself. I don't know if that's the

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<v Speaker 1>right thing to do, but yeah, I agree. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. We're gonna play a song, we'll come

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<v Speaker 1>back and then we'll call Lisa and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date update. All right, Jay, Doug, awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much. All Right, hold on, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just tuning in for today's second date update, we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>to John, or as his friend likes to call him John. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you for that nickname. That doesn't that

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<v Speaker 1>was John's name, That's what he said. Anyway. John's a

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<v Speaker 1>nice guy, says he hasn't had a lot of success

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<v Speaker 1>in the dating department, but he finally connected with a

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<v Speaker 1>woman he met on Craigslist named Lisa, and he had

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<v Speaker 1>a steamy date night plan for the two of them,

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<v Speaker 1>filled with hard cider, bagel bites, a little game to

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<v Speaker 1>connect four dud is awesome. There's a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>that agree with me on that one, John, don't worry

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<v Speaker 1>you forgot and oh yeah with that ranch dip. But

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<v Speaker 1>she never showed up. In an hour into it, she

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<v Speaker 1>finally texted him that she got caught up with work.

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<v Speaker 1>So since then, seems like Lisa's been avoiding him. And now, John,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to be honest with you. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>promise that we're going to get you a second date

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<v Speaker 1>out of this, but I can promise that if we don't,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll hook you up with Jose's sister. She's recently single.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard yeah, actually she has a kid and she's mine. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she's my sister Leaver alone. Sorry, she's not mine. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to fight Jose. J I didn't you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were that clothes? Oh? She's fine. You're making me nervous. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>don't be nervous. Okay, take deep breaths and remember that

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what happens, one person's opinion doesn't matter about

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<v Speaker 1>who you are. Right, you love yourself, You are awesome. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you say. Okay, that's the spirit. All right, We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna dial the phone number right now and try and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date. Update. Okay, okay, okay, okay, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hi, can I talk to Lisa please? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she? Hi Lisa, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>young Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Oh okay, okay, I'm sorry the radio What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean we have a show and you're on

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<v Speaker 1>it right now. Um, why because we do something on

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<v Speaker 1>this show called a second date update. That's where if

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<v Speaker 1>you go out with someone and afterwards they're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back, you can email us to get in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with them and try and figure out the reason why. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want to say? I don't get this. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't need to say anything yet, you need to like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just trying to tell you what's going on. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what the segment is. And the person that wanted us

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<v Speaker 1>to contact you his name is John. John. Um, you

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<v Speaker 1>actually never went out with him, you were supposed to. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know when this was supposedly? Well? In his email,

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<v Speaker 1>he said this happened about a week ago. M Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I give I can look in my give me one second,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll look in my um my text. Um, he said

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<v Speaker 1>he met you on craigslist. Uh okay, Um, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a John here and I did reply and say

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<v Speaker 1>that we I had appointments and clients and that we

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<v Speaker 1>would reschedule. No, this isn't like a business thing. This

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<v Speaker 1>is like a date. Yeah, okay, Um, John, about a

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<v Speaker 1>week ago, right, he invited you over to his house

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out and then you were like an hour late.

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<v Speaker 1>You were supposed to be there and you were late. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I said that we were going to reach schedule. So

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<v Speaker 1>I did text him, but he asked again. And you

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<v Speaker 1>keep saying you're busy. He says, because I'm busy, and

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm not busy, we'll get him scheduled. It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>so so business like, informable. Yeah, totally. Did you like

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<v Speaker 1>him at all, Lisa? I mean he said you guys

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<v Speaker 1>texted back and forth for a while and maybe had

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty good rapport. Well, I mean I've never really

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<v Speaker 1>actually met him, so it's kind of hard to say

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense. Well, I mean, he's really wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>get in touch with you, and he doesn't understand why

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<v Speaker 1>he's not able to get a hold of you. This

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<v Speaker 1>is crazy. I don't know what to say. Guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>texted him, I said, you know, I'm busy, and then

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<v Speaker 1>booked up and we can tell. Well. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>think it really helped if you told him that directly

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<v Speaker 1>in person, because he's been on the phone listening this

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<v Speaker 1>whole time and he wants to talk to you. Okay, John,

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<v Speaker 1>you're there, Yes, John, I'm a hi. Hi, Lisa, I'm hi, Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>John listen. I just want to say that your voice

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<v Speaker 1>is like everything that I thought it would be, like

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<v Speaker 1>a little smoky, almost like Audrey Hepburn. And I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>really sort of panicky right now because it's it's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh cute. Uh. I know you're really busy and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm completely you know, I'm always free because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really have much going on, but I think that,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm excited, I have connects flour and candles and Okay, John, relax, relax,

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<v Speaker 1>let her respond to you. Oh. Um, hey, John, I think, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I need to clarify something with you. And

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<v Speaker 1>so here's the thing. Um, I've got hard sliders too,

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<v Speaker 1>if you like hard cliders. He has a really cute

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<v Speaker 1>date night plan for you, Lisa. He's obviously very excited

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<v Speaker 1>about this and that's really nice. But I do need

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to John about this. I need to clarify something. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So John listen, Um, so we met on Craigslist. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and this wasn't like a date scenario. You actually clicked

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<v Speaker 1>on my link. I'm actually an escort and that was

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<v Speaker 1>an ad that you clicked on. What Oh yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a Craigslist escort. Yes, so this wasn't like seeking

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<v Speaker 1>love or relationships. I mean my ad it was pretty obvious,

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<v Speaker 1>like dressed a certain way on a bed and it

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<v Speaker 1>was spelled out for you. So I so, I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>sorry because that sounds very wet of you. But can

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<v Speaker 1>I can I just jump in for a second. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that is, John, for real? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So John, here's the thing. Yeah, Um, I have a business. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>where um instead of instead instead of you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>sell my time to entertain men as opposed to as

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<v Speaker 1>opposed to seeking a romantic relationship. This is more intimately. Wow. Wow, wow, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, are clicking in his head right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Are those bad? Wows? Wow? Don't be embarrassed, John, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure this has happened to other people, right Lisa, first time,

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna lie I did. John is one of a kind, though,

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<v Speaker 1>So John, I can see why that would happen. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you mixed sort of send mixed messages

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to get combat of here, but okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you did send the mixed messages putting yourself on the

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<v Speaker 1>dating section of Craiglist. Okay, so okay, John, it is

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<v Speaker 1>in that section in the dating area, but it is

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<v Speaker 1>still separate. It's pretty clearly defined as yeah. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's even talks about call for rates. So I don't know, John,

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<v Speaker 1>did she have it for any money or anything? When

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<v Speaker 1>you emailed each other there was a dollar sign at

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom, but I thought that was just a type

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<v Speaker 1>of Okay. I don't think this is at all Lisa's

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<v Speaker 1>fault on this one. We can't put blame on her here.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet John, you're I didn't know men like you still

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<v Speaker 1>existed in the world. And there's some hope I guess

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<v Speaker 1>in that, But there you go. I'm just going over

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<v Speaker 1>it in my head right now, the stuff that's on

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<v Speaker 1>your Craigslist posts. And you said that you love giving

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<v Speaker 1>men company, and I mean I love companies a connection.

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<v Speaker 1>Most men love company, John, but not in the same way. Well, John,

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<v Speaker 1>the good news is that you pay for it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we are offering to pay for you to

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<v Speaker 1>see each other one more time. I mean, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>paying for services, no, but paying for dinner for you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to hang out, and that would count as her

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<v Speaker 1>time spent. Do you know what's gonna happen. He's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to pay a little extra, but we do. We've

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<v Speaker 1>got the food cover. Yeah. Okay, Well, if you're putting

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<v Speaker 1>money into this and you're paying cash, like, if there's

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<v Speaker 1>cash available, I'm definitely available then. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about cash. But we do have gift cards. So do

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<v Speaker 1>you accept gift cards? Lisa? It only gets you so

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<v Speaker 1>far the gift cards. Okay, that's something though, John, So John,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you say? Look, I just love company and

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<v Speaker 1>I already have the hard cider. I haven't even touched it,

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<v Speaker 1>and i'd have to get a new veggie tray. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you be able to reimburse me for that? Yes? We will,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, John, Listen if I if we do this,

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<v Speaker 1>this would be hanging out and we can have fun,

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<v Speaker 1>but there will be a transaction. There will be cash

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of this experience. So just know that

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to proceed, that's great with me and

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<v Speaker 1>play Connect for one and watch Shark. That's right. Connect

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<v Speaker 1>four bedroom addition