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Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second date update. We've got a guy
Speaker 1: named John on the phone for a second date update today,
Speaker 1: and John's looking for answers. Oh, apparently he had a
Speaker 1: big romantic evening plan for his special lady and something
Speaker 1: came up, so let's talk to him about it. Jay DOGG,
Speaker 1: what's up? Jay Dog? That's awesome? Do you mind if
Speaker 1: I call you Jay Dog? No? No, that's really cool.
Speaker 1: I mean that makes me sound like even cooler than
Speaker 1: I think I can. Hey, can I can I interject
Speaker 1: and say I mind? Does anybody else we can do
Speaker 1: something we can do like Jay money? All right? What
Speaker 1: do your friends call you? My friends? I have one friends?
Speaker 1: If he just called me John, oh yeah, it's not
Speaker 1: as exciting. Yeah, well thank you John. Okay, John, So
Speaker 1: who do you want to call today? Her name is Lisa.
Speaker 1: Can I just say something I'd like? Nervous? I get
Speaker 1: a little awkward and pathethic, sort of when I when
Speaker 1: I'm nervous. But I don't worry about Jim. Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: I just want to listen. I love you guys, thank
Speaker 1: you so much. When I emailed you, I had no
Speaker 1: intention that you guys are or rather I had no
Speaker 1: I know, I got a little stutter, I got a
Speaker 1: little like okay, so cute. We're here for you, man,
Speaker 1: and listen you thank us now, and just remember that
Speaker 1: because the end of this could not go the way
Speaker 1: you want. Okay, Okay, well listen, I'd still thank you
Speaker 1: for responding to me. Not many people do. And this
Speaker 1: is if I were to say one thing. This is
Speaker 1: before we get going. This is like the top five
Speaker 1: highlights of my life. Okay, guys, it's pretty sad life
Speaker 1: you've lived. Oh, Jeffrey, do you know what John? I
Speaker 1: think you're awesome. Yeah, thank you. I love the sarcasm.
Speaker 1: I I what doesn't stick to me bounces off me
Speaker 1: and hits you. Yeah, glue paper wherever we're at here, rubber,
Speaker 1: I don't know how it goes. You said her name
Speaker 1: is the girl you wants to call is Lisa? Yes?
Speaker 1: Oh yes, Lee don't you tell us about her? How
Speaker 1: did you meet her? Well, you know, I wasn't having
Speaker 1: a lot of success dating. I think I could chalk
Speaker 1: that up to my friend tells me it's probably because
Speaker 1: I'm not so good looking. Oh my god, John, I
Speaker 1: bet you're great looking. Okay, Well, I mean that's nice
Speaker 1: of you to say, but I mean I could send
Speaker 1: you a photo. I mean, I don't look like those
Speaker 1: stars in Hollywood or um, like any sort of like
Speaker 1: athlete or something. I'm sort of pudging and none of
Speaker 1: us look like that. Oh I wish you guys were
Speaker 1: around in my team years. I could have used that. John,
Speaker 1: you are so endearing. I will say that for sure,
Speaker 1: So thank you. Tell us. How did you meet Lisa again? Well,
Speaker 1: I guess I could preface this by saying that I've
Speaker 1: been using dating apps, but I wasn't getting many success,
Speaker 1: no responses. Um, I met her finally on Craigslist. Okay,
Speaker 1: they don't require photos on Craig's list. Oh, there's like
Speaker 1: a dating section you can Okay, Okay, all right, So
Speaker 1: she didn't see what you looked like, so you matched
Speaker 1: with her exactly. She didn't see what I look like,
Speaker 1: so we matched there's a little bit more accepting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's good. That's good. So what do you guys do
Speaker 1: for your first date? Well, here's the thing. We messaged
Speaker 1: back and forth. She was warm and kind soul and
Speaker 1: I'm telling you she's the kind of girl that, like,
Speaker 1: would donate a kidney if I needed it. Maybe she's
Speaker 1: on Craiglist. She'd steal your kid That sounds nice. You
Speaker 1: guys are so funny. I don't believe I'm doing this,
Speaker 1: so as you do it, Lisa. We exchanged numbers, invited
Speaker 1: her to hang out at my house. I got some
Speaker 1: hard ciders, I have apps, you know, like a veggie tray,
Speaker 1: those little pizzas. Huh. I set out a candle or
Speaker 1: two and then Connect four because that's my favorite game.
Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm gonna tell you you guys are I mean?
Speaker 1: But I think that is a first date done right?
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Pizza, roles, hard cider and Connect four.
Speaker 1: That would wait over anyone. But I agree, Wow, Brooks
Speaker 1: getting steamy over here just thinking about connecting that fourth piece.
Speaker 1: I mean, don't bust out the game risk though heavy?
Speaker 1: Oh I love Risk? Yeah? So did she love it? John?
Speaker 1: Did she love it as much as I do. We'll listen. Um,
Speaker 1: she didn't show up. I texted her. I didn't hear
Speaker 1: it back from her. I started to freak out. And then, um,
Speaker 1: about an hour later, just and you know that's pretty
Speaker 1: late after you know the time set. Yeah. I texted
Speaker 1: me and she said I had a work meeting that
Speaker 1: was running late and she needs to reschedule. And so
Speaker 1: I haven't, you know, been able to really connect with
Speaker 1: her since. And she's saying that she's busy, and I
Speaker 1: think she's avoiding me. Yeah, it does suck so bad.
Speaker 1: Like I'm kind of mad at her, especially when you
Speaker 1: play in something like really big for someone, even if
Speaker 1: it's like Connect four, like you go through the effort
Speaker 1: and then they don't show up. That's just rude. Yeah,
Speaker 1: did you tell her that you had planned these things
Speaker 1: and then she didn't show up? Or was it all
Speaker 1: supposed to be a surprise. It was a surprise. I
Speaker 1: haven't told her what I planned because if it does happen,
Speaker 1: I want to do it all again. Okay, is it
Speaker 1: okay if we tell her or no? Um, if you
Speaker 1: think that's the best, then I trust you way more
Speaker 1: than I trust myself. I don't know if that's the
Speaker 1: right thing to do, but yeah, I agree. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: here we go. We're gonna play a song, we'll come
Speaker 1: back and then we'll call Lisa and try and get
Speaker 1: you a second date update. All right, Jay, Doug, awesome,
Speaker 1: thank you so much. All Right, hold on, if you're
Speaker 1: just tuning in for today's second date update, we're talking
Speaker 1: to John, or as his friend likes to call him John. Yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you for that nickname. That doesn't that
Speaker 1: was John's name, That's what he said. Anyway. John's a
Speaker 1: nice guy, says he hasn't had a lot of success
Speaker 1: in the dating department, but he finally connected with a
Speaker 1: woman he met on Craigslist named Lisa, and he had
Speaker 1: a steamy date night plan for the two of them,
Speaker 1: filled with hard cider, bagel bites, a little game to
Speaker 1: connect four dud is awesome. There's a lot of people
Speaker 1: that agree with me on that one, John, don't worry
Speaker 1: you forgot and oh yeah with that ranch dip. But
Speaker 1: she never showed up. In an hour into it, she
Speaker 1: finally texted him that she got caught up with work.
Speaker 1: So since then, seems like Lisa's been avoiding him. And now, John,
Speaker 1: I just want to be honest with you. I can't
Speaker 1: promise that we're going to get you a second date
Speaker 1: out of this, but I can promise that if we don't,
Speaker 1: I'll hook you up with Jose's sister. She's recently single.
Speaker 1: I heard yeah, actually she has a kid and she's mine. Okay,
Speaker 1: she's my sister Leaver alone. Sorry, she's not mine. You're
Speaker 1: gonna have to fight Jose. J I didn't you guys
Speaker 1: were that clothes? Oh? She's fine. You're making me nervous. Oh,
Speaker 1: don't be nervous. Okay, take deep breaths and remember that
Speaker 1: no matter what happens, one person's opinion doesn't matter about
Speaker 1: who you are. Right, you love yourself, You are awesome. Okay,
Speaker 1: whatever you say. Okay, that's the spirit. All right, We're
Speaker 1: gonna dial the phone number right now and try and
Speaker 1: get your second date. Update. Okay, okay, okay, okay, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, can I talk to Lisa please? Oh?
Speaker 1: This is she? Hi Lisa, how are you? This is
Speaker 1: young Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Oh okay, okay, I'm sorry the radio What
Speaker 1: do you mean we have a show and you're on
Speaker 1: it right now. Um, why because we do something on
Speaker 1: this show called a second date update. That's where if
Speaker 1: you go out with someone and afterwards they're not calling
Speaker 1: you back, you can email us to get in touch
Speaker 1: with them and try and figure out the reason why. Uh,
Speaker 1: what do you want to say? I don't get this. Well,
Speaker 1: you don't need to say anything yet, you need to like,
Speaker 1: we're just trying to tell you what's going on. That's
Speaker 1: what the segment is. And the person that wanted us
Speaker 1: to contact you his name is John. John. Um, you
Speaker 1: actually never went out with him, you were supposed to. Um,
Speaker 1: do you know when this was supposedly? Well? In his email,
Speaker 1: he said this happened about a week ago. M Um,
Speaker 1: I give I can look in my give me one second,
Speaker 1: I'll look in my um my text. Um, he said
Speaker 1: he met you on craigslist. Uh okay, Um, yeah, I
Speaker 1: have a John here and I did reply and say
Speaker 1: that we I had appointments and clients and that we
Speaker 1: would reschedule. No, this isn't like a business thing. This
Speaker 1: is like a date. Yeah, okay, Um, John, about a
Speaker 1: week ago, right, he invited you over to his house
Speaker 1: to hang out and then you were like an hour late.
Speaker 1: You were supposed to be there and you were late. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I said that we were going to reach schedule. So
Speaker 1: I did text him, but he asked again. And you
Speaker 1: keep saying you're busy. He says, because I'm busy, and
Speaker 1: when I'm not busy, we'll get him scheduled. It sounds
Speaker 1: so so business like, informable. Yeah, totally. Did you like
Speaker 1: him at all, Lisa? I mean he said you guys
Speaker 1: texted back and forth for a while and maybe had
Speaker 1: a pretty good rapport. Well, I mean I've never really
Speaker 1: actually met him, so it's kind of hard to say
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Well, I mean, he's really wanting to
Speaker 1: get in touch with you, and he doesn't understand why
Speaker 1: he's not able to get a hold of you. This
Speaker 1: is crazy. I don't know what to say. Guys, I
Speaker 1: texted him, I said, you know, I'm busy, and then
Speaker 1: booked up and we can tell. Well. I think I
Speaker 1: think it really helped if you told him that directly
Speaker 1: in person, because he's been on the phone listening this
Speaker 1: whole time and he wants to talk to you. Okay, John,
Speaker 1: you're there, Yes, John, I'm a hi. Hi, Lisa, I'm hi, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: John listen. I just want to say that your voice
Speaker 1: is like everything that I thought it would be, like
Speaker 1: a little smoky, almost like Audrey Hepburn. And I'm like
Speaker 1: really sort of panicky right now because it's it's beautiful.
Speaker 1: Oh cute. Uh. I know you're really busy and everything,
Speaker 1: and I'm completely you know, I'm always free because I
Speaker 1: don't really have much going on, but I think that,
Speaker 1: like I'm excited, I have connects flour and candles and Okay, John, relax, relax,
Speaker 1: let her respond to you. Oh. Um, hey, John, I think, Um,
Speaker 1: I think I need to clarify something with you. And
Speaker 1: so here's the thing. Um, I've got hard sliders too,
Speaker 1: if you like hard cliders. He has a really cute
Speaker 1: date night plan for you, Lisa. He's obviously very excited
Speaker 1: about this and that's really nice. But I do need
Speaker 1: to talk to John about this. I need to clarify something. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: So John listen, Um, so we met on Craigslist. Um,
Speaker 1: and this wasn't like a date scenario. You actually clicked
Speaker 1: on my link. I'm actually an escort and that was
Speaker 1: an ad that you clicked on. What Oh yeah, right,
Speaker 1: you're a Craigslist escort. Yes, so this wasn't like seeking
Speaker 1: love or relationships. I mean my ad it was pretty obvious,
Speaker 1: like dressed a certain way on a bed and it
Speaker 1: was spelled out for you. So I so, I'm really
Speaker 1: sorry because that sounds very wet of you. But can
Speaker 1: I can I just jump in for a second. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is, John, for real? Okay,
Speaker 1: So John, here's the thing. Yeah, Um, I have a business. Okay,
Speaker 1: where um instead of instead instead of you know, I
Speaker 1: sell my time to entertain men as opposed to as
Speaker 1: opposed to seeking a romantic relationship. This is more intimately. Wow. Wow, wow, wow,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, are clicking in his head right now?
Speaker 1: Are those bad? Wows? Wow? Don't be embarrassed, John, I'm
Speaker 1: sure this has happened to other people, right Lisa, first time,
Speaker 1: not gonna lie I did. John is one of a kind, though,
Speaker 1: So John, I can see why that would happen. Well,
Speaker 1: I think that you mixed sort of send mixed messages
Speaker 1: and I don't want to get combat of here, but okay,
Speaker 1: you did send the mixed messages putting yourself on the
Speaker 1: dating section of Craiglist. Okay, so okay, John, it is
Speaker 1: in that section in the dating area, but it is
Speaker 1: still separate. It's pretty clearly defined as yeah. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's even talks about call for rates. So I don't know, John,
Speaker 1: did she have it for any money or anything? When
Speaker 1: you emailed each other there was a dollar sign at
Speaker 1: the bottom, but I thought that was just a type
Speaker 1: of Okay. I don't think this is at all Lisa's
Speaker 1: fault on this one. We can't put blame on her here.
Speaker 1: Sweet John, you're I didn't know men like you still
Speaker 1: existed in the world. And there's some hope I guess
Speaker 1: in that, But there you go. I'm just going over
Speaker 1: it in my head right now, the stuff that's on
Speaker 1: your Craigslist posts. And you said that you love giving
Speaker 1: men company, and I mean I love companies a connection.
Speaker 1: Most men love company, John, but not in the same way. Well, John,
Speaker 1: the good news is that you pay for it, and
Speaker 1: I guess we are offering to pay for you to
Speaker 1: see each other one more time. I mean, I'm not
Speaker 1: paying for services, no, but paying for dinner for you
Speaker 1: guys to hang out, and that would count as her
Speaker 1: time spent. Do you know what's gonna happen. He's gonna
Speaker 1: have to pay a little extra, but we do. We've
Speaker 1: got the food cover. Yeah. Okay, Well, if you're putting
Speaker 1: money into this and you're paying cash, like, if there's
Speaker 1: cash available, I'm definitely available then. So I don't know
Speaker 1: about cash. But we do have gift cards. So do
Speaker 1: you accept gift cards? Lisa? It only gets you so
Speaker 1: far the gift cards. Okay, that's something though, John, So John,
Speaker 1: what do you say? Look, I just love company and
Speaker 1: I already have the hard cider. I haven't even touched it,
Speaker 1: and i'd have to get a new veggie tray. Would
Speaker 1: you be able to reimburse me for that? Yes? We will,
Speaker 1: all right, John, Listen if I if we do this,
Speaker 1: this would be hanging out and we can have fun,
Speaker 1: but there will be a transaction. There will be cash
Speaker 1: at the end of this experience. So just know that
Speaker 1: if you want to proceed, that's great with me and
Speaker 1: play Connect for one and watch Shark. That's right. Connect
Speaker 1: four bedroom addition