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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all's your girl? Next peak and it Sugarl

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Speaker 1: dre and the call to another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 2: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought, what's up, girl?

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Speaker 3: What's see? You?

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Speaker 1: Tell me? You the fuck tell me what you been

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Speaker 1: cutting off? What you did last night? Your voice is rathbe.

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Speaker 3: It is a little raspe.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Not for a good reason.

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Speaker 1: You was on Snapchat like a I was just lead.

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Speaker 3: I was just lead.

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Speaker 1: I feel like.

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Speaker 4: That's why most of the time my voice be sores

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Speaker 4: because I'm on scrap snapchat.

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Speaker 3: You be on Snapchat, yeah, just for the.

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Speaker 1: Filters, though then I save it and you don't.

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Speaker 3: Even post it.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: That's the crazy thing I think about me and you,

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Speaker 2: like when we go out, we'll record so much she

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Speaker 2: and none of it makes it to Instagram.

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Speaker 4: But you know what, I think a lot of times,

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Speaker 4: I'm a picture person, and I think a lot of

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Speaker 4: people don't realize that about me. A lot of times

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Speaker 4: when I'm taking pictures or I'm recording, it's for my

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Speaker 4: personal memories so you can have just so I can

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Speaker 4: for the internet and everybody like, I have.

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Speaker 1: So many videos of us, like so many, so it's.

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Speaker 4: Like when if we ever do like a documentary or something,

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Speaker 4: I got so many unseen footage.

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Speaker 3: And see to me, it's almost kind of cringey too.

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Speaker 2: Like I remember when I was younger and I used

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Speaker 2: wake up and it would be cringey looking at my

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Speaker 2: story because it would be like, I can't believe I

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Speaker 2: posted this she because.

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Speaker 1: You'd be in the background like, ah, it's out, I'm

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Speaker 2: That's like you you know when you record somebody and

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Speaker 2: you hear that in the background, y'all. It just used

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Speaker 2: to be embarrassing because it's like you be drunk, you

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Speaker 2: be lead, so you don't even be thinking about what

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Speaker 2: you're recording and what you posted, and you just posted

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Speaker 2: this shit all your story. Next morning you wake up,

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Speaker 2: you're like, bro, why not recorded? But already like seven

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Speaker 2: thousand people, It's been so many times where I'm hit you, like,

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Speaker 2: dre delete this please? Hell.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know I don't do it anymore.

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Speaker 1: You don't do it anymore. But back in the day,

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Speaker 1: you know, I used to I did.

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Speaker 3: I used to be a poster, I send everything.

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Speaker 4: I turned my head. That's when my wig was still.

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Speaker 4: I'm at the club, just partying. My wig just shifted,

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Speaker 4: and you like, gad.

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Speaker 1: Girl, you look killed best friend, best friend. I look

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Speaker 1: at it.

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Speaker 4: The next morning, I'm like, bro, why do you like

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Speaker 4: tell me my fitted was sliding back?

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, like me fucking crazy? But yeah,

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Speaker 3: I will. I would Lynn shut out to n We

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Speaker 3: love Lyn. We love Lynn. She called Lex this morning,

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Speaker 3: she said, Lecks, why do you talk to Drea.

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Speaker 4: One thing I will say is I know you may

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Speaker 4: not show up. Because usually before we record every day,

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Speaker 4: me and Dre will FaceTime the other one and we'll

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Speaker 4: literally be on the phone the whole time, and so

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Speaker 3: Just sleeping in.

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 3: Smoothie, I'm deep. I want to me some soup from you.

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Speaker 1: Had to get it together to get my life.

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Speaker 4: I know when Drea's drunk because she calls me multiple times,

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Speaker 4: like at the craziest hours, like three, four o'clock in

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Speaker 4: the morning. You called me like a few days ago.

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Speaker 4: It literally like five o'clock in the morning, and I answered,

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Speaker 3: Hello, that's my bag.

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Speaker 1: See I told you she was gonna answer the phone.

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Speaker 2: See, lex, I just wanted to show people like you

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Speaker 2: my beach and this is what it is. This ain't

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Speaker 2: call you to Maro No, y'all, because literally, that's why

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Speaker 2: LyX literally don't answer people phone calls because I swear

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Speaker 4: The only reason I didn't answer last night because I

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Speaker 4: you said you'd be doing that now sometimes, well not

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Speaker 1: So that's why I didn't hear it.

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Speaker 3: But y'all, literally, anytime I call it, she gonna answer

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Speaker 1: Gonna call right back, like right back.

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Speaker 4: Because I always feel like if you call me in

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Speaker 4: is wrong because I get PTSD so bad about me

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Speaker 4: calling yes because the one time when you call me

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Speaker 4: you had got pulled off.

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Speaker 3: That is true.

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Speaker 1: She called me. She was like hey, I said what.

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Speaker 3: Like hey, I said, d what that's what you said.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you all the story. I said what

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Speaker 1: because nobody understood you. I didn't understand you ever.

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Speaker 2: I said hello, Yeah, I said, Drea, slow down and like.

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Speaker 1: I said, Drea, I.

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Speaker 3: Cannot hacking jail.

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Speaker 1: I said, bitch, I'm on the way.

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Speaker 3: Then he was like nah. That cout was like Lex was.

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Speaker 3: Lex was like no, I'm on the way. She was like, yet,

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Speaker 3: I please get her.

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Speaker 1: I was on the phone with the officer. She was

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Speaker 2: I'm like, sir, I'm literally around the corner. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'll come get her. We can leave her car there.

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Speaker 2: I'll come get in the morning. He was like, nah,

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Speaker 2: she got to go to jail. She was trying to.

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Speaker 1: She was probably thought she was too fine to go

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Speaker 2: He wasn't gonna take her ass. That nigga did not

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Speaker 3: He did it. And on top of that, he was black.

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Speaker 3: He's a black man.

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Speaker 1: You thought you was gonna get him too much?

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Speaker 3: Su did? I thought he was gonna let my ass go.

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Speaker 1: He was like nah beat. So I feel like I

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Speaker 1: always being some sheep. So and y'all know, I be

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Speaker 1: at home, all of us two, like you do be

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Speaker 1: at home? Yeah, I be at home a lot too,

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Speaker 2: Really I said that last night when we was out,

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Speaker 2: usually with Land because yeah, she just always want to

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Speaker 2: be outside. But I be at home too, just like legs.

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Speaker 2: But essentially, ever since that situation, I don't play this shit.

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Speaker 3: That skeet. That's why I don't drive no more.

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Speaker 2: That was, you know, and then you got arrested on

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Speaker 2: like a late Saturday night. You know they don't process

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Speaker 3: Well, I think it was that. I think it was that,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I want you to get out till

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying I think it was like

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Speaker 2: a holiday weekend or some shit. That shit was just

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Speaker 2: crazy as fucking He gave me PTSD imach. That's why

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Speaker 2: I remember, I know, and at the time I had

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Speaker 2: to call yo, nigga, Oh my god, talk about that

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Speaker 4: I was so scarre We're gonna talk about that on

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Speaker 4: pay We're gonna tell the full story on Patreons.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's get into these topics today. Okay.

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Speaker 4: So I wanted to talk about this because we always

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Speaker 4: So today we're going to talk about agism. Great topic

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Speaker 4: and getting older because y'all. As y'all know, I'm thirty one,

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Speaker 4: Drea's twenty nine, she's about to turn thirty, and you know,

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Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of times people make it

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Speaker 2: Why she ain't got no kids here? Oh she's thirty.

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Speaker 2: Why isn't she in her career yet? She's starting and

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Speaker 2: she's still bartending and this and that. It's like, but

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Speaker 2: when it comes to men. It's like aniga could be

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Speaker 2: thirty then like, oh, niggas gets It's like niggas get seasoned. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they get seasoned. And if he's thirty and he's not

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Speaker 2: in his career, it's all he's still finding himself.

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Speaker 1: He's still young, he's still got timed.

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Speaker 4: But they feel like when bitches hit twenty eight twenty nine,

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Speaker 1: Like, how do you feel?

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Speaker 2: Let's talk to you about how do you feel about

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Speaker 2: turning thirty? Well, I'm actually excited about turning thirty now. Uh,

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Speaker 2: but a few years ago, I thought.

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Speaker 1: That shit was old. You thought thirty was old?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, bitch, you know that. Yes. I used to be like, oh.

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Speaker 2: Hell now I don't want to turn thirty, like I mean.

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Speaker 2: And the crazy thing is you can say that all day,

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Speaker 2: but you don't have no control over like I mean,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna get older. That's not something that you have

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Speaker 2: in hindsight, you realize like it's really more of a

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Speaker 2: blessing because it's so many people who don't even make

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Speaker 2: it's like when you eighteen and you nineteen and you

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Speaker 2: dreading turning thirty. It's like that shit a blessing because

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Speaker 2: even when I look back at being eighteen nineteen and

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Speaker 2: I was dreading getting to this age, look at how

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Speaker 2: you know, so I'm.

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Speaker 1: Safe for me. It was like turning thirty. I always

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Speaker 1: look forward to turning thirty.

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Speaker 2: Bro which is weird because you really have always because

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Speaker 2: you know what, which I always have thought was very odd.

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Speaker 3: Well, I want to fuck look forward to getting old.

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Speaker 6: I was.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't about me being old, because I just knew.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know how I was gonna get to where

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Speaker 4: gonna fucking get there. I was tired of being in

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Speaker 2: I will say this, and this is the reason why

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Speaker 2: I am happy about turning thirty. Your twenties are so

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Speaker 4: But it's I mean, I feel like we all struggle,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, late twenties is like when you graduate college, you

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Speaker 2: You're trying to figure shit out. I hate it out

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Speaker 2: And so it's just like yes, Like that's what I

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Speaker 3: Three years of my twenties kicked my ass.

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Speaker 2: Oh beat your ass, hey, lass, I was like I

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Speaker 3: Now maybe we would.

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Speaker 1: That shit almost took me out me too. I literally

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Speaker 4: I'm like, bro, you know how you you know what

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, I really like it

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Speaker 2: But I'm telling you, bro, I all the shit I

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Speaker 4: It's just like liberating. Your life changes, and that's really

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Speaker 2: It wasn't talking to Jamaica. So you're went to Jamaica

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Speaker 2: Back from that trip, the show got better, we got

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Speaker 3: I got along again. Yeah, love each other, and then

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Speaker 2: So I was like before we went, right before we

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Speaker 4: Actually, no, I didn't go back to work when we

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Speaker 1: Oh look the pussy was hot, girl. I have to

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Speaker 3: I think, all yeah, because twenty twenty, bitch, we was

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Speaker 1: Oh year, damn, pussy was good. Twenty nineteen, that's when

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but that's what I said. I just felt so.

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Speaker 3: Then three months later your ass was on lockdown and

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Speaker 4: I didn't go nowhere last year neither did I Like

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Speaker 2: So I just feel like it's bullshit when people look

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Speaker 2: It's easy to become a millionaire if your parents are

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Speaker 1: Are you dealing with a nigga that's a drug dealer

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Speaker 1: that's handing you money? Every you know this? And so

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Speaker 3: I was nineteen ten years ago.

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Speaker 2: Like social media, we oh yeah, but social media and

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Speaker 2: So a lot of the opportunities that people that age

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Speaker 2: lot of people's mindset wasn't so focused on being an entrepreneur. Yeah, everybody,

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Speaker 2: It was just like it was so it was so taboo,

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Speaker 2: bitches don't give a fuck. Bitches be popping pussy on

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Speaker 1: Nobody cared it just be popping pussy on Twitter.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, Like people don't care no more

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Speaker 4: So it's like pussy on Twitter. We'll not pop the pussy,

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Speaker 4: but I'll definitely be showing that. Gonna keep a trill. Harry,

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Speaker 4: you were showing that little monk monk the other day

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Speaker 1: Saying that I saw that.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna sell some mercher. She got the she don't care.

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Speaker 2: She's gonna set that pussy out. Yes, somebody have a

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Speaker 1: No, no they don't. Yes, they do love them.

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Speaker 2: It's more than it's more of them that love us

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Speaker 2: this is how you choose to sell merch, bitch.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And somebody said, how does it feel to be a

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Speaker 2: First of all, my daddy did who says, come down,

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Speaker 2: But and I ain't no fucking come dumstir bitch.

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Speaker 1: Only when I want to be.

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Speaker 3: I don't be letting Niggs letting me. Clearly, you don't

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Speaker 2: I will say that you're gonna sell something, but It's

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Speaker 2: like you said, everybody gotta set that puss it.

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Speaker 1: Out for a reason.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, as long.

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Speaker 2: So times, times are just different, you know what I

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Speaker 3: It's it's like that's what we're told.

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Speaker 2: Even fucking my fucking grandparents and my family members be like,

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Speaker 3: You don't want no kids.

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Speaker 1: It's like, why why are you not?

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Speaker 2: You're not seriously dating nobody in that you don't want

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Speaker 2: I'm cool with it, but if not, I'm not about

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Speaker 4: They're like, Okay, he's cool, he looks good on paper.

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Speaker 2: Then a year later, y'all hate each other and y'all

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Speaker 2: can't stand each other, and y'all in court. Can we

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 3: That's number one.

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Speaker 2: But then it's just like, what, like why do people

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Speaker 2: just like, y'all gotta stop saying that once you like,

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Speaker 2: if you don't get a nigga in your twenties, once

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Speaker 2: Because that's not true. I feel like I, first of all,

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Speaker 2: I get better with age, A fine one. I would

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Speaker 2: I agree with bottle of that paint, no grease yo, merlo. Okay,

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Speaker 2: maybe a little Kevira na stal your min and it's

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Speaker 2: barefoot over here, nigga.

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Speaker 3: Well you can't have Kevira nakes off in y'all blunk

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Speaker 3: this ken.

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Speaker 4: Anyways, Look I got the barefoot. I'm a twist top nigga.

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Speaker 4: You gonna get this ship when you want it.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it's just like that's just such a terrible

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Speaker 2: narrative to put out to young girls. That's having them

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Speaker 2: think that like if they don't settle down in their

443
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Speaker 2: early twenties or they don't have a baby, they not

444
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Speaker 2: gonna be able to do that by the time they

445
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Speaker 2: get thirty. Because that's some fucking bullshit. And like I

446
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,800
Speaker 2: said on Twitter too, half the beaches who had babies

447
00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,520
Speaker 2: in they fucking twenties, their mom doesn't even want the

448
00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:50,440
Speaker 2: babies at first, right, Also, a lot of shit was

449
00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,280
Speaker 2: an accident, so stop feeling like and that's why. Yeah,

450
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Speaker 2: they be like, oh he my blessing, he little Jade,

451
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Speaker 2: and I love you, Jaden is my heart, my.

452
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Speaker 3: Little he said bits you was definitely contemplating a boarding

453
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Speaker 3: that baby. Stop playing? Well, I to stop playing for real.

454
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Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this. We were joking earlier about there

455
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Speaker 1: not being no good men.

456
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah.

457
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Speaker 1: But I also say, what do I say this all

458
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Speaker 1: the time?

459
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Speaker 4: This is actually one of the mantras I say in

460
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Speaker 4: the morning that I meditate with what's meant for me?

461
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Speaker 1: Will not miss me?

462
00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:21,159
Speaker 2: Amen?

463
00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,800
Speaker 4: If there's a man out there for me, he's going

464
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Speaker 4: to be with me and we're going to find each other.

465
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Speaker 4: I'm not putting pressure on nothing.

466
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Speaker 3: I am good.

467
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Speaker 1: I am so honestly, this is the happiest I've been

468
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Speaker 1: in a long time.

469
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Speaker 2: I'm thirty one, i ain't got no kids, i ain't

470
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Speaker 2: got no man, and I'm good because, you know what,

471
00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:40,840
Speaker 2: I'm one hundred percent by myself.

472
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, you can't feel like I'm not complete.

473
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Speaker 1: I need a man, I need a child.

474
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Speaker 2: If you seventy percent or you feel like you're sixty percent,

475
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Speaker 2: you can't go into no relationship thinking that it's gonna

476
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Speaker 2: be great and it's gonna be worth it and it's

477
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Speaker 2: gonna be worthy. Because if you don't fulfill yourself and

478
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Speaker 2: your happiness by yourself, it's not gonna work whenever you're

479
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Speaker 2: with someone else.

480
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, you have to be whole.

481
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 3: You have to be people.

482
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Speaker 2: So many people go into a relationship, you know, think

483
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 2: wanting the person to complete them, and it's just like, no,

484
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,120
Speaker 2: you need to be complete when you get in a relationship.

485
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 2: Youople watch terrible burden to put on another person is

486
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Speaker 2: to make them.

487
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Speaker 3: Feel like they have to complete you. That's a lot of.

488
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Speaker 2: Pressure, A lot of pressure because I know me, like

489
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Speaker 2: I'll be busy, and not even that I be busy

490
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Speaker 2: all the time.

491
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Speaker 4: Sometimes I just don't want to be bothered. I like

492
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Speaker 4: to be at home watching my movies. So if you're

493
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Speaker 4: expecting me to wake up and text you sweet nothings

494
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,399
Speaker 4: and do this and do that, that's not gonna be mean.

495
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Speaker 3: It's not gonna happen.

496
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Speaker 1: But you're gonna call me, I'll be like, hey, what's up.

497
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Speaker 2: What you want?

498
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Speaker 1: You want to go have some drinks? Cool, let's go, right.

499
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Speaker 1: But it's just like I be in my own little

500
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Speaker 1: world because I'm happy by myself. Either you're gonna add

501
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,920
Speaker 1: to it, are you not? But I feel like as

502
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Speaker 1: you get older, these are the.

503
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Speaker 2: Things you understand because the things I accepted at twenty

504
00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 2: four I don't accept as a thirty one year old woman.

505
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Speaker 3: Yes, so I know that.

506
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 2: Well, whenever I have a man approached me, I'm to

507
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,120
Speaker 2: the point now, girl, I'm so good right now, y'all.

508
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 4: I actually was dating somebody, not dating. We was trying

509
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,920
Speaker 4: to get to know each other. He was spending money

510
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 4: on me, doing this, like doing everything he was supposed

511
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Speaker 4: to do financially. But it wasn't there, So I was

512
00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 4: just like, you know what, don't do this because I

513
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 4: like you as a friend, it's not there no more.

514
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Speaker 2: Even if a man is spending money on me, I'm

515
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,040
Speaker 2: not about to waste your time. But that comes with

516
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 2: age though. I just be so cool on a lot

517
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 2: of shit though. And it's like even old niggas that

518
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Speaker 2: I used to fuck with me trying to come back

519
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 2: into my life and fuck with me. And it's like,

520
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Speaker 2: I love myself so much now I would never talk

521
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 2: back to you love yourself no, But seriously, like I

522
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 2: love myself. I value myself. I know my worth more

523
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Speaker 2: than I did a few years ago. And like in

524
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Speaker 2: my early twenties.

525
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 3: So it's niggas that I.

526
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Speaker 2: Dated and shit that I put up put up with

527
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Speaker 2: that I just could not even imagine putting up with

528
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 2: that sheet now because I just loss for myself so much.

529
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 2: And then on top of that, I taught me and

530
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 2: me and Lynn was actually talking about this the other day.

531
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Speaker 3: I feel like when.

532
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Speaker 2: Women are in relationships, I mean when women date dudes

533
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Speaker 2: and stuff. Sometimes sometimes you date in a dude, yeah

534
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,880
Speaker 2: you like him and you fuck with him, but sometimes

535
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:15,640
Speaker 2: it's also because of what somebody.

536
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Speaker 3: Is doing for you.

537
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 2: But then when you get to a point to where

538
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,200
Speaker 2: you can do everything for yourself, you don't need a

539
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 2: nigga to do shit for you, then you could really

540
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 2: be like, you know what, fuck these niggas. And I

541
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 2: wake up every day now and I be like, I

542
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 2: don't want to talk to you. I don't have to

543
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:33,439
Speaker 2: talk to you because I don't need you for that thing.

544
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 2: Like every day I wake up when I know the

545
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 2: first of the month is coming around, I know I'm

546
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Speaker 2: be able to pay my bills.

547
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Speaker 1: I don't have to be like, oh, I gotta.

548
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Speaker 2: Fuck with this nigga. I talk to this nigga because

549
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 2: it's about to be the first and I don't know

550
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna do. And that's on period, and that's

551
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:46,719
Speaker 2: on period.

552
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Speaker 3: So it's just like, yeah, I don't know. I feel

553
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Speaker 3: like getting older is able less sing.

554
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 4: You know, Oh my god, you know how amazing you are?

555
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:59,399
Speaker 4: You do this every time on accident, because that's gonna

556
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Speaker 4: lead into the next topic.

557
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: Oh it is crazy, that's crazy. So now we're gonna

558
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 1: talk about you know, we wake up, it's the first.

559
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 2: And we're good, Like, you know what I'm saying, I'm good.

560
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna talk about I need done bad.

561
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 2: I think I'm actually gona get a chop cold.

562
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Speaker 4: It's the top code for me too. I think I'm

563
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 4: actually gonna get a short set really no line. So

564
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:33,479
Speaker 4: we're gonna talk about the next topic, getting mixed clips.

565
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Speaker 2: I actually to my nails aren't long enough to me,

566
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 2: which is wild because they're like.

567
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Speaker 1: I need I needed to be long.

568
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Speaker 4: I wish they were the length of my finger. I

569
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:45,920
Speaker 4: need them to be longer because I feel like you

570
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 4: don't feel me sometimes.

571
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Speaker 3: Now I do you don't feel scare the funk out

572
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 3: of me, like you don't feel me.

573
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Speaker 1: You don't feel me?

574
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 4: No, okay, So next topic now with us being you

575
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Speaker 4: know that grown I actually had a conference. I talked

576
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 4: to football Baby like you, Me and Football Baby do

577
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 4: not messed around anymore. But let me say that I

578
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 4: was talking. I mean, that's but I said this on

579
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 4: all the episodes I've ever talked about him. That is

580
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 4: my nigga for real, Like that's gonna be my friend

581
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 4: for the rest of my life.

582
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Speaker 3: I don't like him. Why because I said, and I

583
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 3: said this before on the show. I don't like him.

584
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Speaker 1: It's not weird.

585
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: I think you're thinking about Throwback Bay. Oh yeah, yeah,

586
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 2: that's what I was thinking about. You said, football Bag, Yeah,

587
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 2: football back. I was thinking about throwback Back because I'm like,

588
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,239
Speaker 2: that's why I was That's why I did that. That's

589
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 2: why I was like, you were talking to him because

590
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 2: he was subbing you.

591
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Speaker 1: I know, y'all. Throw Back Bay is in the put

592
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 1: that nigga in the dark.

593
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 3: Throw Back Bay is nuts.

594
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 1: We're smoking on that.

595
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 2: Throw Back Bay, pat period. Throwback Bay is fucking nothing. Okay, Yeah,

596
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 2: So I was talking to Football Bay. Football Bay was

597
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 2: somebody that was dealing with the long time ago. But

598
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 2: Bay holds it down like that's my nigga, that's one

599
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 2: of my close friends. Like we're platonic. Now, would I

600
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 2: suck his dick stell, Yes, but that's not where we are.

601
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,880
Speaker 1: If it's there, I mean, if it's there.

602
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 4: But we actually had a conversation and he was saying

603
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Speaker 4: like he feels like sometimes when women This goes into

604
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Speaker 4: the agism topic as well. He says, sometimes when women

605
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 4: hit that thirty that thirty year old age, and they

606
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 4: coming into they self and they're in their career and

607
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 4: they're good, sometimes women become too independent, because he was saying,

608
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,639
Speaker 4: one thing about a man is that they want to

609
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Speaker 4: be a man and they like to feel like a

610
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Speaker 4: woman depends on them for certain things.

611
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Speaker 1: Real niggas, do you know what I'm saying?

612
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 4: So the next topic is are women becoming too independent?

613
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Speaker 4: Are we doing too much shit on our own, like

614
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Speaker 4: to where we don't even need.

615
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Speaker 2: Any Because now I know women that are getting to

616
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Speaker 2: the point to where they hit their mid thirties, late thirties,

617
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 2: they're like, you know what, I'll just go get Like

618
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 2: what's the little implant thing called when you just go

619
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Speaker 2: get the sperm and you become pregnant.

620
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Speaker 3: You have a kid on your own? Is it artificial intimidation?

621
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that.

622
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Speaker 2: Girl.

623
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Speaker 3: I don't know, y'all. I mean, I don't know. I

624
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 3: don't know what it's called.

625
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, so ba is that right?

626
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 3: Ryan Insight here? Is that what it's called?

627
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't know either, but yeah, do you feel

628
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 4: like women are becoming too independent? Like when we hit

629
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 4: that thirty mark? Like, are we becoming to where we

630
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 4: just don't fuck with niggas at all?

631
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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, because I feel like, for

632
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 2: the right man, it's no such thing as being too independent,

633
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 2: Like the right man is gonna appreciate that, and he's

634
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 2: gonna love that about you, that you a hustler and

635
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 2: you would go get her, and you got your own money,

636
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 2: and you've been doing y'all. You was already doing your own,

637
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 2: your own shit and building your own empire before you

638
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 2: got with him. I feel like it's so many women

639
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,360
Speaker 2: who are too dependent on the nigga. It's crazy because

640
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 2: niggas will say that and then it's the same token

641
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,360
Speaker 2: after they've been with a bitch for five six years

642
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 2: and then she ain't doing shit and they'd be like, oh,

643
00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 2: you need to start a business.

644
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, oh you need to start a business.

645
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 3: All you need to do X, Y and Z like

646
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 3: years and you want her to get a job.

647
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,639
Speaker 2: So she been spending all your bread and niggas be

648
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,239
Speaker 2: getting tired of that ship. Sometimes they do. They be like, man,

649
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 2: fuck this ship. Don't do nothing but sit around and

650
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 2: spend all my money.

651
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,159
Speaker 3: So I don't know.

652
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 2: I feel like niggas don't know what they want, and

653
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 2: I agree with that, but I will say first things first.

654
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 2: I always tell the girls, we always supposed to have

655
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 2: a bd B in your life. Don't have somebody that

656
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 2: can't bring nothing to the table.

657
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 4: But also, don't be a bill. Do not be a

658
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 4: bill to a man, because I want a man that's

659
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 4: gonna be a bill to me. I have men that

660
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 4: were bills to me before I did. Y'all know in

661
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 4: my younger days, I was a trick We ain't gonna

662
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 4: Oh you didn't, we ain't gonna go LEXI used to

663
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 4: be tricking you.

664
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: I'm so digging. I used to love to take that.

665
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 3: That's where she got the name Big Mama.

666
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 1: Huh, you better talk. Don't talk about it.

667
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 4: But anyways, first of all, you don't want to be

668
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 4: a bill to somebody. The things that a man does

669
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 4: for you should be the things that he wants to do,

670
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 4: and it should be extra so until you fine. I

671
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 4: don't feel like women are becoming too independent because I

672
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 4: feel like I am very independent right now.

673
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 2: It's no such thing to me as being too ind

674
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 2: right well, I'll say right now, I take care of myself.

675
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 2: I don't have a nigga. I'm not talking to anybody.

676
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 2: I have nobody giving me money right now.

677
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 4: But when the right man comes into my life, he's

678
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 4: gonna know how to approach me, and he's not gonna

679
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 4: be like, oh, you do you work too much?

680
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:33,239
Speaker 1: You do too much.

681
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 2: You're gonna be like, you know what, let me take

682
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 2: care of this for you today. I don't know what

683
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 2: you got going on, but let me just take So

684
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 2: that's gonna make a woman feel like, you know what,

685
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 2: let me let my guard dawn a little bit, like,

686
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 2: you know what, let.

687
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: Me get you some shoes and this and that. I

688
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 1: know you need to go shopping. I know. I saw

689
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: you tweet that you need to go shopping and you

690
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 1: need some shit.

691
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 3: Let me take care of that.

692
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: Shop trip for you.

693
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 2: You can break those walls down of a woman that's

694
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 2: too independent very easily if you're ready to step in

695
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 2: and be that nick for her.

696
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: But until you step in.

697
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 2: And really really be a real man, I'm good, I

698
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 2: am cool by myself.

699
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: I can do bad all by myself.

700
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

701
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 2: To me, if somebody was to say that to me,

702
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 2: like if I started dating a dude and he like,

703
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 2: are you too independent?

704
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 5: To me?

705
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: That's what are you doing though?

706
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 2: But to me that's like red flag to somebody didn't

707
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 2: want to be controlling. That's because what you mean, I'm

708
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 2: too independent?

709
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: How you mad?

710
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 3: I'm not asking you for this thing.

711
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: Because you mad.

712
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 2: I don't need because I feel like a lot of

713
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 2: times these women, because I'm not gonna lie. We talk

714
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 2: about bdb's a lot. You're supposed to have a BDB. Yes,

715
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 2: but y'all gotta be careful. I always say, unless you

716
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 2: find the right BDB, which is very rare. You gotta

717
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 2: find this all them niggas, most of them, most of them.

718
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 2: You gotta find a man that's not gonna want to

719
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 2: control you with his money, that's not gonna try to

720
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 2: buy you.

721
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 4: Like the last situation I was in, the nigga was

722
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 4: trying to buy me. I didn't fuck him or nothing,

723
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 4: but he was trying to buy me, Like he can't

724
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 4: buy me stuff.

725
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: You remember the one you know?

726
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 2: You know, Oh, he was trying to buy me and

727
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 2: it's like I cannot baby, I got three dollars, but

728
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 2: I can't be balked.

729
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask Dragana for some money.

730
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 2: But you know, but you know, with him, niggas be lame.

731
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 2: No again, going back to me, just thinking everybody lame,

732
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 2: niggas be lame. He lame, So like, how else you

733
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 2: gonna get a bitch. I mean cause number one, you

734
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 2: not cute. Number two you're not interesting. You can't really

735
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 2: hold a conversation. So what you said he told you?

736
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 2: Oh my god, please no, I can't because I know

737
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 2: he gonna know who he's talking about. But oh my god,

738
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 2: that conversation alone, Like what you mean?

739
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 3: That's why we're gonna like what so anyways, like.

740
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 2: These niggas be so lame and so corny that it's

741
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 2: like all they can do is leave with their money.

742
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 2: And if you basic and you don't have nothing of

743
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 2: your own, of course you're gonna be in preis like

744
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 2: you gonna be like, oh girl, he takes hear me.

745
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 4: But guess what when you're a boss sass bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch,

746
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 4: bitch bitch.

747
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm a bossass bitch, bitch, bit bit bitch bitch bitch.

748
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 1: That's the theme song. It is that they said some

749
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: real last shit.

750
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 2: And I've noticed too, like now that I be really

751
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 2: getting it on my own and doing my own my mind,

752
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 2: I mean, my whole mindset when it comes to dating,

753
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 2: and niggas has shamed mine too.

754
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 3: I'd be because I really did.

755
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 2: Used to fuck with niggas sometimes just because like they

756
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 2: would be doing shit or it's being their money and stuff.

757
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 3: But now it's like that shit, don't that's not enough

758
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 3: that I still won't.

759
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: I still won't.

760
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 3: That's it's not the reason why I'm gonna stay with.

761
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 3: It's deal with the nigga.

762
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 4: She like, Okay, these are all the niggas with money, right,

763
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 4: seventy percent of these niggas is lame, yo. Twenty percent

764
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 4: of these niggas are taken, and ten percent of them

765
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 4: don't want to spend no money, no, no, no.

766
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 1: Five percent of them Okay, probably little more than that.

767
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 4: Nothing that's wrong with Gayler, not say nothing wrong, but

768
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 4: but I'm just saying that's what it is. Yeah, And

769
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 4: then the other five for saying don't want to spend money.

770
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 4: You gotta pick you, and you gotta be sometimes you

771
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 4: gotta just be a cold ass bitch and know how

772
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 4: to get money out of the niggas.

773
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 3: That too, but it's just don't be knowing how to

774
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 3: get money out of niggas.

775
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 2: So it's just like y'all gotta y'all gotta choose wisely

776
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 2: and y'all gotta understand the game. We'll be trying to

777
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: put you all own game. And let y'all know, we're

778
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 2: trying to put you all own game. But I'll need

779
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 2: to at because the game is to be sold and

780
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 2: not sold my og toy, who I'm not.

781
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 3: I can't. I can't tell you daddy is to be sold.

782
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: I hope it ain't that girl.

783
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 3: Oh you know that girl? No, bitch, what the fuck?

784
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 3: She's good?

785
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 2: But yes, the game is to be sold. So maybe

786
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: one day we'll write a book and still she's y'all

787
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 2: did okay, So now we're gonna get into.

788
00:33:56,240 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 3: W hey b bow bow bow bow.

789
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 1: Okay.

790
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: So we wanted to talk about this because something interesting happens.

791
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 2: And I'm trying to remember why we wanted to talk

792
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 2: about these because I'm not gonna we be coming up

793
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 2: with the topics in Evans.

794
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: Now, well, yeah, we come up.

795
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 2: But honestly, when I think about our conversations that we

796
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 2: be having sometimes we have conversations on the phone, I'm like,

797
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 2: I wish ty here was here to record.

798
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: Right, yeah, like we need a reality like that wouldn't

799
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:32,839
Speaker 1: need to come next. That's what really needs right, write

800
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 1: it down, Ryan.

801
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 4: So we wanted to talk about this because we had

802
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 4: a conversation with someone and basically, like we were talking about,

803
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 4: ain't no play with men.

804
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: We've talked about ain't no play.

805
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 2: Plenty of times. Y'all know, we don't ate ass before,

806
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 2: we don't tickle the little booty hole we like to

807
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 2: wear butt. Plus, y'all know we're not scared about booty hole. Yeah,

808
00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 2: we ain't scared the body hole, body hole. So y'all

809
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: know we're not scared at the booty hole.

810
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 3: So why lips be trembling like that?

811
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,760
Speaker 1: And that's why I had to wipe it off. Booty

812
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: at the eighty five.

813
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 2: If there's some eighty five fans in here, they're gonna

814
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 2: be so happy that we said I can post a

815
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 2: picture like, oh my god, I'm at church, thank God

816
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 2: for changing my life. They'll be like, shut that booty,

817
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 2: y'all remember when you and Callos talking about that booty hole.

818
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:25,800
Speaker 1: May he's so happy?

819
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 2: No, lie though, that song was top tiers. Let me

820
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 2: see bood oh dead booty. Yes, Okay, So anyway, it's

821
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 2: ain't no play the Gateway drug.

822
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 4: Because we were having a conversation with somebody and they

823
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 4: was just like, nah, like because if you play with

824
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 4: my booty hole. I might want something more. I might

825
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 4: want to do something more. We're not gonna say, we

826
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 4: obviously can't, but he was.

827
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: Just like, I might want more. That's like the gateway drug.

828
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 4: If you let it, if you ass and that means

829
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 4: like you might gonna do something, You're gonna want something more,

830
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 4: You gonna want something more.

831
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, first of all, look at a nigga. Asshole

832
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: is not like fucking crack. And then all of a sudden,

833
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 2: you want heroin and all this fucking ship. What the

834
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: fuck are you talking about?

835
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 3: I don't know. I think people are so weird about it,

836
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:21,800
Speaker 3: and I think bless you.

837
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 2: I think that if you're scared of it, like if you,

838
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 2: I think that if you're scared that if you let

839
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 2: somebody lick your booty or finger your booty or whatever,

840
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 2: you're gonna want something more. Nigga, you just already already

841
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 2: were already curious, You already car how you already wanted.

842
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 3: That's why you're scared.

843
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 1: Real quick, can I get a choir.

844
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 2: Ate a lot of ass in my name? I don't

845
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 2: figured a lot of booty hole. I done sniffed a

846
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 2: lot of ass. I don't play with a lot of ass,

847
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 2: and not once, not one time, was a man like

848
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 2: I want a dick in there? Now? How do you

849
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 2: jump from Thatah, that's what I'm saying.

850
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: How do you jump from that?

851
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 2: How does a girl eat your ask and you like,

852
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm ready to try a dick now?

853
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:17,959
Speaker 3: Yeah?

854
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 5: What that's not?

855
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 2: It's wild when you can say that, like, the only

856
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 2: thing that makes you. Let me tell y'all something, words

857
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 2: mean things. The only thing that can make you gay is.

858
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 3: On the shirt because you say that all the time.

859
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: Words mean things.

860
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 2: Because I'm tired of people just saying shit and then

861
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 2: being like what what? No words mean things. The only

862
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 2: thing that will make a man gay or a woman

863
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 2: that gay is if you're participating in an activity with

864
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 2: the same sex. Okay, so if I'm eating your ass,

865
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,800
Speaker 2: fingering your ass, doing anything with your ass, that's not

866
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 2: no gay shit. I'm a woman, I'm a woman, and

867
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 2: you got a whole g spot in there. It's so

868
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 2: many men that are missing out on amazing orgasms. I

869
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 2: say that all the time, but that y'all talking about that,

870
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 2: it's a gateway drug. If you think that's a gateway drug,

871
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 2: it was already on your mind so live in your truth.

872
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 3: Boo. Yeah, I think that that's some bullshit.

873
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 6: That is.

874
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: Let me say something.

875
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,839
Speaker 2: As many times as I don't smoke crack, I ain't

876
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 2: never been like I'm ready to shoot up some heroin.

877
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: I just want my crack, bro, I just want my crack.

878
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 3: Well, I can't relate because I've never smoked crack.

879
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying, but I do feel like, yes, Like,

880
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 2: to me, that shit is like mad weird. Yes, because

881
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:31,360
Speaker 2: I was talking to somebody and they said it this

882
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 2: shep and it was just like, nigga, what what.

883
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 3: Are you talking about? Nigga?

884
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 1: Like what the fuck are you talking about? Like, but

885
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: he was just so offended.

886
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 2: And the crazy thing is he was very offended and

887
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 2: I did not but I didn't even try him.

888
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 3: That's what made it even more weird. It's like we

889
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 3: just having a conversation, bro, Like I.

890
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 2: Ain't trying to put my singer on your booty. I

891
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 2: ain't trying to lick your booty.

892
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,720
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy?

893
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 3: Ain't talking the main guys to.

894
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: Be against, to be the main ones that's lifting their

895
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: legs up.

896
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 3: I told you at that time, Remember that time, I

897
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 3: was looking at nigga. He lifted his legs up. It

898
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 3: was holding his ankle.

899
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 1: He was like he was running up. Fuck, he was

900
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: holding his ankles, y'all.

901
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 3: What the fuck?

902
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 1: I was like, you know how strippers do it.

903
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: I was literally like I know.

904
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 3: I was like, it ain't a big black nigga like

905
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 3: he was.

906
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 2: He was.

907
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: He was big and black. He was, and he fine,

908
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 1: it's fun.

909
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 2: But I'm talking about like a nigga that's like six

910
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:48,240
Speaker 2: six gotta be like six five up, big as.

911
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,840
Speaker 3: Fuck, like swallo ass nigga and a chocolate.

912
00:39:53,680 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 2: Grabbing his ankle. But I was making it vibrate, Mabry.

913
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: Like the way your ass b barbary.

914
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 3: We need to break that song down one week.

915
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 5: What I.

916
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 4: Like that ship though, because that's the man that's confident,

917
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 4: like he don't want no dick, He don't want no nigga.

918
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 2: He wanted jewel, kept wanted me to blow on his nipples.

919
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 2: I would have gone, not lick them, y'all, but like literally, like,

920
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 2: I know.

921
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 1: That's right lips.

922
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 3: You think I ain't do that? Ship, I was like,

923
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 3: call me the nipple whisper.

924
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 4: So yes, I will say, ain't no play between a

925
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 4: woman and a man. When you're the woman is doing

926
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 4: it on a man is not a gateway drug.

927
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree. I mean people are just so weird,

928
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 3: like very people need to stop saying ship like that.

929
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 2: Like I said, like, well, like we both said, if

930
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 2: you're afraid that that's gonna lead to some other ship

931
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 2: you want to happen.

932
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 4: Now you're in denial. I mean, I'll say this. I'll

933
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 4: say this about even about myself. I'll use myself as

934
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 4: an excuse. I like lesbian porn. I always said that.

935
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 2: So for a long time, Like when I was younger

936
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 2: and I started getting into watching lesbian porn, I.

937
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: Was like, damn, do I like kochie? Am I love that?

938
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 2: Then?

939
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 1: Am I little bisexual?

940
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 2: So how did you come to how did you come

941
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 2: to the you know, idea that you're night? I was like, dude,

942
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 2: but we gonna again, we ain't gonna even go there.

943
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 2: But I also think it was a type of couchie

944
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 2: you ate. Well, not only that, all couchie is not created.

945
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 4: I'll say this, it's not that it tasted bad. I

946
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 4: just didn't fucking like it. I just didn't like it.

947
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 4: There's nothing about I don't want no fucking KOUCHI bro

948
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 4: for the long time.

949
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 1: After I ate her coochie, I didnt even want to

950
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: touch my own couchie. Garfield was like, what's up, bro?

951
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:50,800
Speaker 1: You forgot about me? Nigga?

952
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:51,879
Speaker 3: It was that bad.

953
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: I just didn't like it.

954
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 2: It wasn't bad about it, like it was just like

955
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:58,280
Speaker 2: I just didn't like it. You don't like the texture,

956
00:41:58,640 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 2: It was just.

957
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 1: It was it was like a little too soft. The

958
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: lips were a little stretchy. I felt like I put

959
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 1: the motherfuckers up on the wall. She had some loose

960
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: lips were like flappy. I just didn't like it. But

961
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 1: like I said, sometimes you have to try things out

962
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 1: to know you don't like it. You know what I'm saying.

963
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: How the fuck you know you don't like corn dogs

964
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: unless you had a corn dog before? You know what

965
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

966
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,800
Speaker 3: And I don't like corn dogs. That's a very weird food.

967
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

968
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 2: I don't like weenies, though I don't like wieners either.

969
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,839
Speaker 2: I hate weenies, but that's another topic.

970
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 3: If y'all would, y'all need to watch the documentary on

971
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 3: how they're created.

972
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 1: I've seen.

973
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 3: How we were talking about.

974
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 2: No, but for real, I was on Instagram the other

975
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 2: day and I seen a video these men was making

976
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 2: meat candy. What what?

977
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 1: What the fuck is me can?

978
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 2: So he was he got some wieners and he chopped

979
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 2: them up like little beanies and weenies, like little you know.

980
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 3: Like little bite sized pieces.

981
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 2: He chopped the wieners up and then he made like

982
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,959
Speaker 2: this concoction of like brown sugar and some other shep

983
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 2: and he basically candied the wieners. I don't like he

984
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 2: called it meat candy. I mean, and technically it is.

985
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: That's disgusting.

986
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 3: I don't And he was like, yeah, nothing better than

987
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 3: some meat candy.

988
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:25,799
Speaker 1: Duh.

989
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 3: Who the fuck else would make this shit? Yeah, nothing

990
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 3: better than some meat candy. Like what the fuck?

991
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: And I said, but why did you keep? I bet

992
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: you kept watching it?

993
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 2: It was intriguing, It was it was very It was

994
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 2: I just sometimes I can't believe it's people in the

995
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,959
Speaker 2: world that be doing certain sheep like I didn't.

996
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 3: I can't believe that, Like I never even knew that

997
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 3: was a thing, meat candy candy. It was just crazy.

998
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: So y'all did he watching it?

999
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like weeni's and ship like that. But anyways,

1000
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 2: ain't No, it's not the gateway drug blah blah blah.

1001
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna yeat into the bop.

1002
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 1: Ooh, lock it up.

1003
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 3: You lock it up myself.

1004
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: So let me say this.

1005
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 4: Y'all know we just dropped the episodes when we drop on,

1006
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 4: but the playlist is live. Y'all have been loving girl.

1007
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 4: I've been hit me up about that playlist. They love

1008
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 4: the playlist.

1009
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 2: I didn't want to make the playlist too long, and

1010
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 2: I put a lot of songs on there that I

1011
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 2: haven't made, the bop of the Week and things like that.

1012
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,280
Speaker 4: But yeah, I'm glad y'all are enjoying it. I'm gonna

1013
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 4: start I'm not gonna say every month, but I.

1014
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 2: Am gonna do a playlist like I'm gonna update it again,

1015
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

1016
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 3: So, and I'm gonna come out with one soon.

1017
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:49,959
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1018
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 2: So y'all he's gonna be for the trap. Yeah, like man,

1019
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 2: gonna be for the trap is like me, you got

1020
00:44:58,320 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 2: something to say?

1021
00:44:58,960 --> 00:44:59,760
Speaker 3: Nope, okay.

1022
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: So my bop other week is alex Eisley.

1023
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 4: I've talked about her before in the past episode R

1024
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 4: and B singers Super Good, super Fire.

1025
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:11,799
Speaker 1: So she has a song Good and.

1026
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 4: Plenty remix with Masago and Lucky Day. Y'all know how

1027
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 4: I feel about Lucky Day already.

1028
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 1: Lucky Day is an amazing artist. He's super slept on.

1029
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 4: But I feel like, like I said, if you think

1030
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:26,840
Speaker 4: R and B is dead, you're just a lazy music listener.

1031
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 4: So Good and Plenty was a song that came out

1032
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 4: probably about a year ago, but she remixed it with

1033
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 4: Mistago and Lucky Day, and I love Massago.

1034
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 2: He's like he is one of them R and B singers.

1035
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 2: That's like, it's kind of a little it's a little

1036
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 2: trap music, but it's R and B.

1037
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. He's one of them singers

1038
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 4: that does that. So yeah, that's my bop of the week.

1039
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 4: Alex Eisley, She's super fire. She's actually related to the

1040
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 4: Isley's and I can't remember how I figured that out

1041
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 4: the other day, y'all know, if I like real, yes,

1042
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 4: if I like somebody, I google them and I know

1043
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 4: their whole history. I mean, but that's I'm surprising because

1044
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 4: who you ever that met with the last name Isley?

1045
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 2: Right, But I will say, like sometimes when people like

1046
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 2: say things to me that are like listeners of the show,

1047
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 2: and I'd be like, how the fuck did you know that?

1048
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:12,839
Speaker 2: I can't get mad because I'm the same way. Yeah,

1049
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 2: Because like when I like somebody, I want to know,

1050
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 2: like how did you get to this point in life?

1051
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,320
Speaker 2: Like how are you so amazing with your words and

1052
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 2: how you express yourself? So I googled her and I

1053
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 2: found out somehow she's related to the Isley ship.

1054
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 3: We go.

1055
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 1: Father you wow, wow, wow wow.

1056
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 2: I tried, y'all true story. That's like literally one of

1057
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 2: my favorite old schools.

1058
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 1: Did you get wrong? Oz?

1059
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 3: And buzz.

1060
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: Era can tage.

1061
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 3: I think it would be a hard pass really in

1062
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,960
Speaker 3: his prime maybe his prime, but I.

1063
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 1: Wouldn't alive And we're not talking about that.

1064
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 2: We are, though, because if you, if you want to

1065
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,240
Speaker 2: be hypothetical, would you give Ronald.

1066
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: If I was alive in his prime? Oh yeah, if

1067
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 1: I was alive then but I was not all right,

1068
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: But you would have gave him.

1069
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 2: So I don't know, though, because I think that he'd

1070
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 2: be wearing that uh spray and he said.

1071
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 6: What.

1072
00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:32,840
Speaker 1: Nothing got to be? Ros got to be I'm not

1073
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 1: a part of this.

1074
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,479
Speaker 3: I think I didn't say that. No, I'm talking about

1075
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 3: the Beijing not it shil be too shiny bro.

1076
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: You are not respect king.

1077
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to disrespect him, but you asked me

1078
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 2: a question, and I'm telling you why. I think it

1079
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 2: would be a no for me, honestly, because I think

1080
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 2: when he get up it would be a black spot

1081
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 2: on my pillow walking.

1082
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: I just imagine him doing his back. Probably could a

1083
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 1: little calm in me. Now see how you messed up

1084
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 1: my jo? Sorry cause you're taking ship too far.

1085
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 4: I just imagined him in the bathroom doing his hair,

1086
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 4: and you walk in like busted. It's two of them

1087
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 4: clock in the morning where you've been, and he like

1088
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 4: fixing his little Beijing.

1089
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 1: With the little calm.

1090
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 2: That's what I said, and not he not that he

1091
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 2: got a purse, but I feel like he probably have

1092
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: a little calm he keeping his pocket.

1093
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 4: Anyways, Move on to Yo bob, bitch, Move on to

1094
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 4: yo bob, because you're not about to do this.

1095
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:30,320
Speaker 1: In mind to my uncle.

1096
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:40,359
Speaker 2: My box this week is addicted by Georgia Smith. I'm

1097
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 2: surprised that you like her why I don't know. First

1098
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 2: of all, have you forgotten who she does songs with?

1099
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 3: Cut it off?

1100
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 4: It's so creative how you managed to talk about this

1101
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 4: man no matter what Anyways, I'm not saying I don't buy.

1102
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 3: Not even that it's creative though, but on some real ship,

1103
00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:59,799
Speaker 3: that's really how like you were.

1104
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 4: I think that's how everybody was introduced her. I just

1105
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 4: haven't been able to really get into her music. I'm

1106
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 4: gonna give it another try because I haven't heard this song.

1107
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: I like this song.

1108
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 3: It's about.

1109
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 4: It's called Addicted by Georgia Smith. Okay, what do you

1110
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 4: have to say about it?

1111
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

1112
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 3: What do I have to say?

1113
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 1: It's okay, y'all bad?

1114
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 3: When do I ever go? This is the difference between

1115
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:20,359
Speaker 3: me and Lex I'm gonna tell.

1116
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: Y'all about it, difference between you.

1117
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna I don't know. Damn Doom Doom.

1118
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: Doom, Doom, Doom, Doom doom doom.

1119
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 2: Walk in now, Okay, rich on me really, bro he

1120
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: had nothing like he really had a nice little ruin

1121
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 2: he did.

1122
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, we love damn man goddamn.

1123
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 2: But anyways, yeah, y'all know, I don't be going go

1124
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 2: listen to the song. Okay, give y'all a whole synopsis.

1125
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,280
Speaker 3: I ain't listen to the song.

1126
00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:57,919
Speaker 1: You are song.

1127
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 4: That's crazy because you are really intelligent. The only time

1128
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 4: I said, no, I'm not being funny. Let me tell

1129
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 4: us something. The only time I see the word synopsis

1130
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 4: is when I go on I M B D and

1131
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 4: I'm looking up a movie and like the things that

1132
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 4: it means, and it says synopsis spoilers next, So like,

1133
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 4: that's the only time I've never used that word in

1134
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 4: the sentence. Wow, the vocabulary is broad, its range is extensive,

1135
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 4: it has ranged.

1136
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 2: Okay, so now we're gonna get it to pour your

1137
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 2: heart out. This is your favorites. I love this segment,

1138
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 2: this segment.

1139
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: It's so it's so interesting, so good. So this segment

1140
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 1: is y'all right us questions and we answer them.

1141
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 4: So if you want your question answered on the show,

1142
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 4: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at

1143
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 4: gmail dot com.

1144
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:50,000
Speaker 1: That is a s k P. Oh you are am

1145
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 1: I N D S at gmail dot com. Okay, so

1146
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: go ahead with the first one D period.

1147
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 3: Okay.

1148
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 2: I want to start my own podcast on and my

1149
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 2: cousins and friends are in encouraging me to do it.

1150
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 2: They always say that I need to write a book

1151
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 2: because I do be having crazy shit happening to me,

1152
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 2: and I'm funny as hell and know how to converse, Well,

1153
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,360
Speaker 2: what is some advice you guys can give me, and

1154
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 2: what is some and what is some that you wish

1155
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,440
Speaker 2: you could have gotten before y'all started poor minds? You

1156
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 2: want me to go first, I would say the importance

1157
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 2: of actually producing and the importance of consistency so when

1158
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 2: I stay producing.

1159
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,760
Speaker 1: I mean honestly, we didn't really.

1160
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,880
Speaker 4: Start looking at ourselves like producers until we really signed

1161
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,800
Speaker 4: with eighty five, and like Ryan and Chad came in

1162
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 4: and they were like, okay, y'all need to We used

1163
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 4: to literally show up to the show and like pick

1164
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 4: our topics before we recorded.

1165
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 2: And y'all probably would never know, but ya literally for

1166
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 2: the longest, like probably not until we started getting this background,

1167
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 2: this backdrop or whatever, we started, Like yeah, we used

1168
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 2: to literally decide the day that we got here. So

1169
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 2: I think the first thing, if you're trying to start

1170
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 2: like a podcast, you need to really look at it

1171
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:00,840
Speaker 2: like a business.

1172
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 1: Because I feel like we looked at it like a business.

1173
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: But once we like.

1174
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:07,319
Speaker 4: Started really talking to like like Chad and Ryan, i'd

1175
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 4: were real business people, we was like, okay.

1176
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:12,320
Speaker 2: Bitch, like this is serious, like so take yourself seriously.

1177
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 2: Even as goofy and as funny as you are, take

1178
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 2: yourself seriously. Consistency.

1179
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something pretty much, that's one thing

1180
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 1: we don't play about poor minds. I don't give a fuck.

1181
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 2: If if here not here, if Ryan not here, if

1182
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 2: nobody here, bitch, we gonna set up that I phone.

1183
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 1: We gonna put out a fucking episode of poor.

1184
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,320
Speaker 3: Minds because I appently doesn't have to do that.

1185
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, we don't care if it's just me.

1186
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 2: I had to do an episode with just me before

1187
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 2: we had an episode where I had to go somewhere.

1188
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 2: I wasn't back in time, and Joria had to just

1189
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 2: pull up and find somebody to I did the episode

1190
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:48,280
Speaker 2: with Kode, did an episode with Kodad like we gonna

1191
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 2: make shit work before Mind's gonna come out. It's gonna

1192
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 2: come out period.

1193
00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: Y'all heard she's.

1194
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 3: Talking about how I was drunk last night. But y'all

1195
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 3: see I'm here.

1196
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 2: That's what one thing I know I don't give We

1197
00:52:57,680 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck. We definitely take our job very seriously.

1198
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 2: Come on, you got a job, bitch, Yeah, it's my job. So,

1199
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,439
Speaker 2: I mean the most, the most important thing about doing

1200
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,719
Speaker 2: anything that you want to do is being consistent. I

1201
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 2: feel like a lot of people they feel like you

1202
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:13,240
Speaker 2: can't go into this being like I want to make money.

1203
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 2: This has to be your passion. Like I said, me

1204
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 2: and Drea both have a degree in mass communications, both

1205
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 2: graduated from college, so we knew we wanted to do

1206
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 2: something with media. So if this is really your passion

1207
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 2: and you want to really do this, it's going to

1208
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 2: be easy for you. It was easy for us to

1209
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 2: release an episode every week because this is what we

1210
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 2: really love to do.

1211
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, and we always say that, you know what

1212
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 3: I mean.

1213
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 2: I think sometimes people just be wanting to do sit

1214
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 2: because they be seeing that it's like trendy right now,

1215
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 2: because I think being a podcast there is trendy right now.

1216
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 2: But you have to be passionate about things in order

1217
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 2: for it to work. I've tried so many things in

1218
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 2: my life that it was kind of stuff that I

1219
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 2: was interested in. Yeah, but then I also was just

1220
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 2: doing it because I was like, oh, he's gonna I

1221
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 2: want to make money, right, So if you're doing stuff

1222
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 2: to make money to make money, you not in the

1223
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 2: right And I mean that's I'm saying that's for anything

1224
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 2: in life. If you're doing anything just to make money

1225
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 2: and you're not doing it because you're passionate about it,

1226
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 2: it probably won't end up being super successful. Like we

1227
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,799
Speaker 2: actually love doing it. So that's I agree with ITX

1228
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 2: Like consistency. That's really the only advice that I have. Hey, y'all,

1229
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 2: I'm twenty three from Fort Worth and I've been with

1230
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 2: my boyfriend for five years. Before this relationship, I was

1231
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 2: in a bull shit ass relationship with this girl, so

1232
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 2: she knows. So he knows that I like women. I'm

1233
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 2: gonna just get straight to it. I still have a

1234
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 2: little lesbian desire. How do I tell him I want

1235
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 2: to have a threesome. I don't think he's gonna it's.

1236
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 1: Gonna be like, oh, I want to bring this girl

1237
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 1: in the bathroom.

1238
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 3: No, but you know what, I don't want no, But

1239
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 3: you know what, I have heard like some stories that

1240
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 3: some guys don't be.

1241
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, he made but I feel like it's okay.

1242
00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 3: Oh he didn't.

1243
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 1: He didn't want to see you eat that coody cat.

1244
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 2: I brought it up to before too, but he was

1245
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:03,960
Speaker 2: like no. But I feel like that's because he knew

1246
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 2: he ain't have enough dick for two beaches. I mean,

1247
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 2: sometimes niggas don't have enough dick for two bitches because they.

1248
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: Barely have enough dick for me.

1249
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 3: Right, That's what I'm saying.

1250
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 2: So I would say, just be open with him. You've

1251
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 2: been with him for five years, girl. If you can't

1252
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 2: talk to him about something simple like that, man, that's long.

1253
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 1: And then you're only twenty three.

1254
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 3: Girl, you're supposed to have fun.

1255
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: Girl, Go eat yo couchie, go eat yo kuchie.

1256
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 3: Damn. I can't imagine being twenty three and being with

1257
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 3: somebody for five years.

1258
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: That's a long time.

1259
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 3: That's a long time, all right.

1260
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,799
Speaker 2: I'm getting married soon and I'm worried about our honeymoon congratulation.

1261
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 2: I don't want to go into the bedroom with the

1262
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 2: same old pussing boots.

1263
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:42,280
Speaker 1: Not pussing boots.

1264
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 3: I at least want to be a puss in stilettos, Alright.

1265
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 3: That mean, I don't know. I'm a bigger girl and

1266
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 3: he's an average sized dude.

1267
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 2: I know he loves him to me, but even after

1268
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:57,919
Speaker 2: six years, I still have insecurities due to my weight.

1269
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 2: Sometimes I think if I let go and just try

1270
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:04,319
Speaker 2: to ride, just try to enjoy the ride. I'm gonna

1271
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 2: christ him.

1272
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 1: Bro so one mouth shut club and you think I'm

1273
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 1: a pall. That's what I followed.

1274
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:20,400
Speaker 3: For real, bone Christians, I ain't scared.

1275
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: What are some tricks I can do in the bedroom?

1276
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 5: Oh?

1277
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 1: Sorry, go ahead, and that's all you can.

1278
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 3: Finish it you want to.

1279
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:26,879
Speaker 4: I was just like, come on, get to the question,

1280
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 4: what are some tricks I can do in the bedroom

1281
00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 4: on our wedding night that will knock his socks off?

1282
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 2: Well, first of all, don't be insecure about your weight.

1283
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 2: Obviously he's marrying you. Sorry, he loves you the way

1284
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 2: you are and you're beautiful, so don't let that get

1285
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 2: in the way of anything.

1286
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 1: What are some tricks you can do in the bedroom?

1287
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 2: Like, you know, we always say this, I feel like

1288
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 2: a lot of girls don't try the butt plug.

1289
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:52,400
Speaker 1: When you bend over and spread them cheeks and he

1290
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 1: sees that butt plug, you're gonna.

1291
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 3: Be like, I definitely think try the butt plug.

1292
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:03,319
Speaker 1: Bring some toys and if you never bring some toys.

1293
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:07,320
Speaker 3: In, yeah, bring some toys. You know my favs, the

1294
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 3: date night toy.

1295
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and try some different positions that y'all never tried.

1296
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:15,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, and just be good at giving head.

1297
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 2: I think I think that's very simple. I think that's

1298
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 2: a very that's some very simple advice. However, mostly well,

1299
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 2: she's been sucking his dick for six years.

1300
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 3: Obviously she's not bad at it. That doesn't mean she's

1301
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 3: not bad at it.

1302
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 1: I mean, if he married a nigga, is not about

1303
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:33,440
Speaker 1: to marry no bitch that suck, no bad.

1304
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 3: That's first of all, that's a fucking lie. That's a lie.

1305
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:39,439
Speaker 3: Niggas marry and bitches that don't even suck.

1306
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 1: That's why they be changed.

1307
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 3: You've seen two can play that game.

1308
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: Get off not to not Bill Bellamy? No, what was

1309
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 1: it that movie?

1310
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 6: What?

1311
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 3: What movie was it where dal Hughley was married.

1312
00:57:55,800 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: To in all the movies?

1313
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 2: I can't remember her name, she didn't suck. Niggas be

1314
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 2: marrying bitches that don't suck, dig bro, they do.

1315
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 4: Let's hope that's not based off a true story, because

1316
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 4: if you ever marry a bitch that don't suck dig

1317
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 4: you deserve everything you do.

1318
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, Oh, it's believe it or not. It's

1319
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 2: some crazy scenarios. The we'll say the truck. So I

1320
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 2: think that sucking dick is very important and you need

1321
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 2: to be good at it. I feel like, well as

1322
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 2: that sounds.

1323
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:25,920
Speaker 4: But I feel like also like watch some porn and

1324
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 4: do something. Like I said, try some positions you have

1325
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 4: never tried.

1326
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 1: You can look up porn with like bigger women and

1327
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 1: see what positions that they do.

1328
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 2: You know, try some different things, you know a BBW Yeah, yeah,

1329
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 2: it's it's just some BBW porn stars out there that

1330
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 2: don't know what they doing. Y'all. I'm always shocked on

1331
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 2: legs say stuff because I feel like for her to

1332
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 2: know these things, it means she searched it before, because

1333
00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 2: I just would never even think of that.

1334
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 1: Look. I told you, I like to research. It's okay anyway.

1335
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 1: Question for only parent threatening to discis oh drug?

1336
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 3: I am.

1337
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 4: I live for your podcast. It brings me through some

1338
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 4: dark shit for real. I'm twenty one years old at

1339
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 4: a nursing student in Canada. I live with my very

1340
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 4: strict religious parents.

1341
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 2: You put parents in quotation marks who are very attached

1342
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 2: to us kind of psychotic, sadly, but I love them

1343
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 2: hiding their gender because people know I listen to y'all.

1344
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:34,520
Speaker 2: They're way too strict and I can't even go out much.

1345
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 2: They get most, if not all, of my paycheck though

1346
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 2: Mammy and YO Daddy, so I can't say, and I

1347
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 2: can't have any sort of freedom.

1348
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 4: I live in blank and rent is so cheap here.

1349
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 4: I could get my own place and work and still

1350
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 4: go to school easily. The control is too much for me,

1351
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 4: and they don't care for my mental health, even with

1352
00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 4: me having depression. They've said it multiple times, threatened this

1353
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 4: person with me moving out, and they said, though this

1354
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:05,440
Speaker 4: own me, do I take the risk because I'm at

1355
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 4: WIT's end and I can't take it anymore.

1356
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 1: Mmm, that's sad. I'll say this.

1357
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 3: I know I'm really over here, like, oh my god,

1358
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 3: that's very sad.

1359
01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 4: I've never had a situation. Obviously, me and my mom

1360
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 4: are very close. But I will say my mom didn't

1361
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 4: necessarily want me to get a communications degree, and she

1362
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 4: didn't want me to have a podcast, like she wanted

1363
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 4: me to go to medical school, and she wanted.

1364
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 3: Me to do this and do that.

1365
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 1: So with that being said, sometimes you do have to.

1366
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 3: Break those It was not about to be my doctor.

1367
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: I was gonna be a dentist. You was not about

1368
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 1: to be I'm gonna clean some teeth, bitch your cities.

1369
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:47,439
Speaker 4: They nice exactly. Anyways, though, tell you something, doctor Lynx.

1370
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 4: You know they used to call me doctor lex P

1371
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 4: back in the day be houses period. So I'll say this,

1372
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 4: sometimes you do have to take a risk and break

1373
01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 4: those times. Even when I moved to an Atlanta, my

1374
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 4: mom was straight up like, if you moved to Atlanta,

1375
01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 4: I'm not helping you because my mom used to help

1376
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 4: me a lot.

1377
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 2: When I was in Houston. Like, my mom used to

1378
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 2: do everything for me. I'm not gonna lie I was spoiled.

1379
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 2: I had a lot of money growing up, never struggled

1380
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 2: for anything.

1381
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 3: I grew up with.

1382
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 1: Like you know, I was new new bitch. I had

1383
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: to pool in my backyard.

1384
01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 3: First of all, you was not no new because you

1385
01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:22,640
Speaker 3: was not hanging with black people I had.

1386
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 1: First of all, don't I did I shout her out?

1387
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 1: Jin Jin was black. I had a black friend. Don't

1388
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 1: do me like that.

1389
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:30,600
Speaker 3: Ooh one.

1390
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:35,440
Speaker 2: Anyways, one person anyways, But like I said, sometimes you

1391
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 2: do have to break those ties and trust in your

1392
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,240
Speaker 2: gut and your instinct and do your own thing. Because

1393
01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 2: a lot of times parents look at their they try

1394
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 2: to live through their children, and they try to push

1395
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 2: with the things that they didn't reach on their children.

1396
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 2: So you gotta do your own thing and show them

1397
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 2: that this is the road I want to take. And

1398
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:55,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be fine. I'm gonna do it.

1399
01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be fine.

1400
01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:00,479
Speaker 4: Cause I feel like a lot of times chill feel

1401
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 4: like they have to please their parents and they have

1402
01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 4: to do what their parents want to do.

1403
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 1: You're twenty one years old. You know how to make decisions.

1404
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: For the most part.

1405
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 4: You're gonna make mistakes, You're gonna fall, You're gonna, you know,

1406
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 4: come on some hard times. But I feel like, if

1407
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 4: this is something that you really want to do, you

1408
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:18,640
Speaker 4: need to leave the nest. I left the nest, and

1409
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 4: it was very hard for me because I was like,

1410
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 4: let me tell y'all something.

1411
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 2: The first time I paid my own rent one hundred

1412
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 2: percent by myself was when I moved to Atlanta. I

1413
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 2: before that, I had never paid my own rent by myself.

1414
01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 2: So sometimes you just gotta leave the nest.

1415
01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 4: I feel like, take a chance, Yeah you do. God

1416
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 4: ain't ever gonna put you through nothing that you can't handle.

1417
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:41,479
Speaker 3: Ban I mean, yeah, that's true.

1418
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 2: I mean I say this all the time, and I

1419
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 2: don't never be wanting to be insensitive or like sound

1420
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 2: like I'm being disrespectful or saying you should disrespect your parents,

1421
01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 2: because I don't. I do think you should always respect

1422
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 2: your parents. But at the end of the day, you know,

1423
01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 2: your life is your life. You can't live your life

1424
01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 2: for how other people want you to live it, mean

1425
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 2: your mommy and your daddy. Like if it's some shit

1426
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 2: that you don't want to do or you want to

1427
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 2: do certain things and they're not supportive of that. You

1428
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 2: have to live your life for you because you don't

1429
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 2: want to end up being seventy years old and you

1430
01:03:12,280 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 2: look back. What bro I say this all the time

1431
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:19,920
Speaker 2: because I have met so many like old people who

1432
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,280
Speaker 2: be like, oh I wish I would.

1433
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:22,959
Speaker 1: Have did old people.

1434
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:26,080
Speaker 3: Bitch, I've met a lot of old people.

1435
01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 2: You know, old people. You don't meet an old person,

1436
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 2: yes you do. Why do you not meet old people?

1437
01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 1: You know, old people. I ain't never just like been

1438
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: at sivas and the old lady like, what's up, girl,

1439
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:41,560
Speaker 1: because bitch, a old lady not gonna be at Siva.

1440
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:44,840
Speaker 4: You don't meet old people, you know all you do

1441
01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 4: meet old people. What was the last time you met

1442
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 4: an old person?

1443
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 2: When my dad was saying at the facility he was

1444
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 2: staying at, it was hill of old people there.

1445
01:03:53,520 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 1: He was not talking to them.

1446
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 3: Bro, Yes I was.

1447
01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 1: You don't meet old people, you know, Loto.

1448
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 3: I did have a conversation with a few of them

1449
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 3: because they would.

1450
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:11,400
Speaker 1: Be like, hey, hey baby, you got a fat ass.

1451
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 6: You know what.

1452
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

1453
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 3: I haven't anyway.

1454
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 2: Back to what the fuck I was, cause you get

1455
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 2: interrupted me going back to what I was saying. Yes,

1456
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:28,440
Speaker 2: you meet older people and they'll be like, oh, I

1457
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 2: wish I would have did these.

1458
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 3: I wish I would have did that.

1459
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 2: And then you get old and you have not lived

1460
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:33,919
Speaker 2: your life how you really wanted to live it because

1461
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:36,360
Speaker 2: you cared so much what other people thought. And the

1462
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:39,600
Speaker 2: true reality is most people really don't give a FuG Now,

1463
01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 2: your parents do give a FuG before how they feel sometimes,

1464
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 2: but sometimes you have to.

1465
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 1: Prove them wrong. I feel like I'm at the point

1466
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:48,120
Speaker 1: where my life my mom both proved our parents wrong.

1467
01:04:48,280 --> 01:04:48,840
Speaker 3: My mom wrong.

1468
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 1: She was like, I proved a lot of people wrong because.

1469
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:53,920
Speaker 3: My mom now she'd be in all the coming tongs

1470
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 3: now she do.

1471
01:04:57,600 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 2: And same thing with my mama. My mama used to

1472
01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 2: feel the same by me. Oh, you out a degree,

1473
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 2: Why don't you just get a job. Why don't you

1474
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 2: just get something with benefits in a four oh one

1475
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 2: k so you can retire in forty years and do whatever.

1476
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 3: And I was like, no, beachday, what I want to do.

1477
01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 1: Don't call, don't don't say that. You ain't say no, beat.

1478
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:17,480
Speaker 2: I didn't exactly, but that's what I thought. But no, Yeah,

1479
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 2: it's like, no, I don't want to do that. I

1480
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 2: want to do what I want to do.

1481
01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 3: And now, my mama, I.

1482
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: Know you can't be what I want to be.

1483
01:05:26,240 --> 01:05:29,160
Speaker 3: Shout out to nas, shout out to our mama.

1484
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 1: So have to our moms.

1485
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 2: Okay, so if you want your question answered on the show,

1486
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 2: make sure you email us at ask Poormans at gmail

1487
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 2: dot com.

1488
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 1: I got a surprise for you.

1489
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 3: I'm singing, I.

1490
01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:45,960
Speaker 1: Gotta I gotta get in character. Oh hell now, so

1491
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 1: I gotta get in character?

1492
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 3: Oh fuck no, no, okay, I didn't.

1493
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 1: Have a scarf, so I had to bring my.

1494
01:05:55,360 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 2: Brad bro about to close this bitch out. You ready, Leggy,

1495
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 2: what is no problem? And I know what you about

1496
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 2: the thing through I already you ready?

1497
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 1: M hmmm, why hard time?

1498
01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:18,800
Speaker 6: Man?

1499
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 1: I was love you if you are me and he laughing.

1500
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 7: In your sair off, I would stop bringing in if

1501
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:31,960
Speaker 7: you t me too now Alma in love and some

1502
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 7: on em, he laugh. One years out of my life

1503
01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 7: besides the kids, I have nothing to show wasted my years.

1504
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 2: Oh fool love, Why I should have left your ass

1505
01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 2: long number?

1506
01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not saying well, I'm not gonna cry out.

1507
01:06:56,960 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 1: I can't do am not no series.

1508
01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 3: No, I'm not gonna risde. It's not the top because

1509
01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 3: you're now worth my siest.

1510
01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:18,440
Speaker 6: Okay, somehows in unfed me, no love, you sick your

1511
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 6: chance hell, but somehow it seeson.

1512
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 3: Fed of me.

1513
01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 5: Look at the circumstances through sickness and help to death,

1514
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 5: to worst pawn lo the words that you said from

1515
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 5: my house.

1516
01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:43,760
Speaker 1: So now and you say that you're leaving me, I don't.

1517
01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:52,160
Speaker 3: Get that, paw Damn that shit hit deep. You're over

1518
01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 3: there looking like racheurls.

1519
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 1: Remember the video.

1520
01:07:58,480 --> 01:08:05,040
Speaker 3: I was your lover, sir, y'all please like dream up.

1521
01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 6: Y'all.

1522
01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 3: Don't think it'd be Alex bring anything.

1523
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:16,719
Speaker 1: Nice, normal else helping you get on your freed.

1524
01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:21,160
Speaker 3: And it's nice because she literally calculated this. She brought

1525
01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 3: this brow.

1526
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:26,679
Speaker 1: She probably tried this ship on the house to see

1527
01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 1: if it was gonna look. Help here, you get all

1528
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:30,759
Speaker 1: your feet.

1529
01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:34,120
Speaker 3: I should have brought you to channel the double CC,

1530
01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:36,760
Speaker 3: so you really could have been here.

1531
01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 1: But I was watching Soper last night. I said, oh, well,

1532
01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna cry.

1533
01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 3: Oh you know, you know my voice a little.

1534
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 2: Shout out to Mary Jay, we love you here because

1535
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna cry. Now, I'm not gonna crying hour

1536
01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 2: the time.

1537
01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: Oh can we please think?

1538
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:04,280
Speaker 3: Let's get it.

1539
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 1: Thank y'all so much. We'll see y'all.

1540
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 3: Y'all hoping now your float it by y'all. So you

1541
01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 3: a godfood ace for me.

1542
01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:18,639
Speaker 1: Okay, that's enough. Don't need no hate of ration.

1543
01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:25,720
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hello, Let's get it percolating, get it get up,

1544
01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:27,040
Speaker 2: Let's get it percolating.

1545
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:30,400
Speaker 1: Now, why you waiting there? The cameras