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Speaker 1: Time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: This is from KT in Richmond CLO. KT writes, I'm

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Speaker 2: thirty seven and I wanted to be married and have

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Speaker 2: two children by age forty. But I can't find a

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Speaker 2: woman that is willing to settle down with a regular working.

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Speaker 1: Man like me.

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Speaker 2: I work two jobs and it's a turnoff for women.

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Speaker 2: How do I find a woman to build a future with?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: No, bro? So you just something else? Going on? Something

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Speaker 3: else going on? A lot of people that signed up

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Speaker 3: for the what's his name?

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Speaker 1: His name is KT? Hey?

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Speaker 3: KT? What's really wrong?

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Speaker 1: Don't believe this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's talk.

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Speaker 4: Do you work at two jobs as a turn off

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Speaker 4: to women? I wanted to be married by such and

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Speaker 4: such have two kids by forty. I can't find a woman? Okay, dog,

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Speaker 4: question wrong? Just talk about a couple, KT, let's talk.

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Speaker 3: About let's just let's go. What is it? Steve? All

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Speaker 3: out your KT? See right there?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: How much do you wait? KT? Oh mm hmmm? And

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Speaker 3: can't we get a picture of KT?

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Speaker 1: What celebrity do you look like?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? And what celebrity do you look like?

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Speaker 1: He's look like? If he looks like interest? He shouldn't

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Speaker 1: have a problem.

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Speaker 3: He don't sure.

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Speaker 1: What celebrity.

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Speaker 3: I promise you he.

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Speaker 1: Don't what celebrity? Do you think he looks like Gary

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Speaker 1: Coleman because Gary was short.

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Speaker 3: Either him or.

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Speaker 4: Oh dude to play bookman on good Times?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Really crazy. I'm just trying to figure out how

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Speaker 3: you ain't got nobody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he works two jobs, but that's a turnoff for women.

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Speaker 4: Since no, that's what they told you. The turnoff starts

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Speaker 4: long before that.

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Speaker 1: You don't think he looks like Jalen Hurt Philadelphia?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, he approach.

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Speaker 4: Yeah no, no, no, no, that ain't where here that?

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Speaker 3: Come on? Now you why are you over there?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: I said interest early on.

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Speaker 3: Come on, now, let's get some rappers. Throw some rappers

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Speaker 3: in here.

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Speaker 4: Let's quit getting all picking all the leading me and

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Speaker 4: he more's Chestnu.

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Speaker 1: That's a good one.

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Speaker 3: Let's let's get some other names.

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Speaker 1: Okay, rappers?

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Speaker 4: Uh yeah, see here off and now yoh he over

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Speaker 4: there and now you he gonna lay some catfish out

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Speaker 4: and then.

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Speaker 2: You no, no, okay, let's move it along.

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Speaker 3: Ben.

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Speaker 4: He not gonna be Look, he got another problem. It

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Speaker 4: ain't You can't find no woman to sign up. You

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Speaker 4: can find a woman, bro. It's your presentation that's a

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Speaker 4: little bit off. How you dressing? What are you saying

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Speaker 4: to these women? How are you presenting yourself? What do

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Speaker 4: you look like? Are you in shape? Have you let

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Speaker 4: yourself go?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 4: Everybody, everybody made, everybody sign enough for that. How's your teeth?

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Speaker 4: That's I bet you, I bet you something wrong with

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Speaker 4: his teeth?

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Speaker 1: Oh god?

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Speaker 2: All right, Well he's thirty seven, so he wants to

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Speaker 2: do all this by forty, so he has time.

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Speaker 1: You gotta get your teeth together. Yeah, he has time

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Speaker 1: to take one.

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Speaker 3: Of them jobs and let one of them jobs be

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Speaker 3: dedicated to.

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Speaker 2: Your mouth, Dennis, because that's side tooth is probably missing show.

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Speaker 4: And he don't even turn that way. He don't take

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Speaker 4: pictures on that side and nothing.

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Speaker 1: So he did with the.

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Speaker 4: Girl be on that side? Why he grinned she can

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Speaker 4: look through his head.

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Speaker 1: That's a shame. So it's something he's not saying.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yes, it's a whole lot he ain't.

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Speaker 2: Yeh, because it seems like a lot of women would

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Speaker 2: sign up for this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Vita in Cincinnati, Vita says, I finally

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Speaker 2: slept with the guy I've been dating for five months. Afterwards,

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Speaker 2: he said he was calling me an uber because he

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Speaker 2: didn't feel like driving me home. I thought I was

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Speaker 2: spending the night. At the least he could have driven

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Speaker 2: me home. Is this a problem?

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Speaker 5: Yes, a problem? After five I almost got it? Get

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Speaker 5: out uber? Wow, he thought you were spending the night.

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Speaker 1: He didn't.

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Speaker 2: And why do you think that is after five month?

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Speaker 2: She waited, Well beyond the ninety days Steve that you

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Speaker 2: talked about in your book early on.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, he he he, he don't want you

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Speaker 4: to spend the night.

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Speaker 1: He called it uber.

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Speaker 3: He not driving you home. That's disrespectful, very much.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, he's going to kick her out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you got to go. I can't stay here. That's horrible.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, after five months of dating though.

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Speaker 3: That's somebody else's been to call here. You can't be

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Speaker 3: here when this phone.

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Speaker 2: But I hate that, she said, Is this a problem?

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Speaker 2: Because she should know that. Yes, it's the major problem. Right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's a problem.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you got had and then you got put out?

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Speaker 3: What what else you need to know?

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Speaker 1: The best thing she could do is what move on

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Speaker 1: from this and learn?

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Speaker 4: You know, I mean, it could be a one off

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Speaker 4: you could just say, hey, listen, this can't happen any more.

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Speaker 3: I'm not this type of person.

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Speaker 4: I thought you would treat me differently, but if that's

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Speaker 4: how you're going to treat me, that's unacceptable for me.

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Speaker 4: And so I don't intend to be put in this

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Speaker 4: position again. I like you, I enjoy you, but I

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Speaker 4: don't think you understand how to properly treat a person.

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Speaker 4: And I'm not going to accept this and just leave

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Speaker 4: it at that. You don't have to be nasty or

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Speaker 4: break up and none like they'll accuse him or nothing.

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Speaker 4: Just said I'm not going to be treated like this

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Speaker 4: and then let him figure.

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Speaker 3: It out from wind. Well about you, Uber, Well, you

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Speaker 3: know I think I ain't come over here in.

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Speaker 2: Ubern Yeah he's probably yeah, uh uh all right. Moving

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Speaker 2: on to Justin and slide Ol, Justin writes, for months,

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Speaker 2: I've been talking to a lady online, and she just

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Speaker 2: told me that she lives with a male roommate. I

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Speaker 2: was going to see her and stay at her house,

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Speaker 2: but now I'm uncomfortable with staying there. She said, it's fine.

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Speaker 2: Should I get a room instead?

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Speaker 4: Yeah dog, yeah yeah, or else you're gonna be sitting

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Speaker 4: up in there in that room, and you're not gonna

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Speaker 4: you know, you know, you're not gonna know.

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Speaker 3: What's happening at all.

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Speaker 4: M So, so.

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Speaker 1: Get a room.

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Speaker 3: Don't stay with her. H what's gonna happen if you

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Speaker 3: stay with no, it's not gonna work out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right, thank you, Celia.

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Speaker 3: You can't stay with her.

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Speaker 4: Dog welcome you got butcher n I standing over you

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Speaker 4: talking about why you're in there with my girl.

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Speaker 1: You're just roommates.

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Speaker 3: She's saying that what she said, he didn't say that.

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Speaker 2: All right, Coming up at the top of the hour,

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