1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: Hi, guys, it's your friend Kate Max and welcome back 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 1: to Post run High. Today's guest has one of the 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: most remarkable reinvention stories I have ever heard. Julie Wainray 4 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: is best known as the founder and former CEO of 5 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: The Real Reel, the company that completely changed how we 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 1: think about luxury fashion and sustainability, and the company that 7 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 1: I have bought quite a good bit of items from. 8 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 1: But her story starts way before The Real Reel. In 9 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: her forties, Julie went through one of the most publicly 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: difficult professional moments imaginable with the fall of pets dot Com, 11 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: and instead of letting it define her, she used it 12 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: as fuel to rebuild her life and career from the 13 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: ground up. At fifty three, she didn't just come back, 14 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: she came back by creating a billion dollar brand that 15 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: redefined an entire industry. In our conversation, Julie opens up 16 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: about resilience, failure, intuition, and what it really takes to 17 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: start over not once, not twice, but again and again 18 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: throughout life and Guys, this whole conversation really just had 19 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 1: me thinking about life is long, and we cannot be 20 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: afraid to continuously start over and reinvent ourselves. So, whether 21 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 1: you love a good founder story, are in a chapter 22 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: of change, or just need a reminder that reinvention is 23 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: always possible, this conversation is for you. Julie Wainwright, Welcome 24 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: to Post Run High. 25 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 2: Hello O kay, and thanks for letting me bring Poppy. 26 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: Julie and Poppy welcome to Post Run Him. I'm so 27 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: excited that you and Poppy are here. How are you 28 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:39,919 Speaker 1: feeling today? 29 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: Well, I feel pretty good after that invigorating walk. That 30 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: was fun. 31 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, so Julie and I went for a quick walk 32 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: in Brooklyn before sitting down for the podcast today. Are 33 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: you a big walker? Do you like to get outside? 34 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: I love walking and hiking. It's a little hard in 35 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 2: Manhattan to hike, but I do love a good hike. 36 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: What else movement wise do you like? 37 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 2: You know, actually I like to move a lot, but 38 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 2: I would say mostly, you know, I always go to 39 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 2: I usually go to the gym. I have to get 40 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 2: a sweat up, all right, So but I'm more of 41 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 2: an inside runner walker, so the treadmill or the elliptical. 42 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: But then walking around Manhattan's fabulous. I mean, what other 43 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: city can you walk and see? So much diversity. 44 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: It's so true. It has a movement always been a 45 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: big part of your life. 46 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 2: Yes, And it was probably because my dad was, you know, 47 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 2: always wanted a jock as a kid, and then he 48 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 2: had me. Then he had and I wasn't. And my 49 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 2: sister Lisa was a great sprinter and was setting records 50 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 2: and she was really fast, and my brother was the ultimate. 51 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 2: When he got his son, he got a a guy 52 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: who loved football. But I would say our family was 53 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: more outdoors than probably suited me. I was sort of like, 54 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 2: can't I stay inside and read. They're like, nope, We're 55 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 2: going to do this'sp all going yay. 56 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. It's one of those things when you grow up 57 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 1: in an active household. I feel like movement is like 58 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: ingrained in you, whether it's you know, playing sports when 59 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: you're younger, or literally just getting outside and moving your body. 60 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: So I like knowing that. And I feel like a 61 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: big misconception sometimes with founders and people that have had 62 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: really successful careers is that they don't make time for movement. 63 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 2: And I always did right every day. In fact, that 64 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 2: was my anti anxiety drug. It still is, and I'm 65 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 2: a morning workout person. So when you get up and 66 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:27,079 Speaker 2: you're like, okay, I looked forward to it. I looked 67 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: forward to a good sweat. I mean weight I do 68 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 2: weight training too, but it really was getting my heart 69 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 2: beat up enf that I would sweat and it just 70 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 2: set the day. And if I didn't do it by 71 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 2: the end of the day, I was always grumpy and 72 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: I'm like, what is wrong, And I'm like, oh, it 73 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: didn't work out. It's just a good release, clears your head, 74 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 2: changes your energy. Yeah, I love it. 75 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: It's literally therapy. 76 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 2: It is therapy. That and walking in nature. 77 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: Yes, and walking, and I feel like that's such a 78 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: benefit of having a dog because it kind of forces 79 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: you to get outside even more. But it is so 80 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: true that living in New York were a natural walk. 81 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: We're walking everywhere. But we have to address it, Julie, 82 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: because you and I are wearing total opposite outfits right now, 83 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: and normally it's the other way around, like I'm an 84 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: active wear and somebody comes in the most glamorous outfit. 85 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: But for our listeners, Julie is currently in a very cute, 86 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: sporty chic fit leggings, long sleeve tops, sneakers, and I 87 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: am in jeans ballerina flats and a sweater, which is 88 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: very unlike me. We all know that. 89 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 2: So I thought this was the running show, you know, 90 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 2: and I thought, Okay, I know we're not going to run, 91 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 2: but I felt like I had to dress and I've 92 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 2: watched your videos and I wanted to match your style. 93 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 2: And it was sort of fun to not really worry, 94 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 2: you know, just put on stuff that I would wear 95 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 2: out for a workout. But then I get here and 96 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: you're all dressed up and you have cute earrings on, 97 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 2: you get a belt on, it's sort of yeah. It 98 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 2: was like, okay, oh, guys, and a trench coat and 99 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 2: it's a beautiful trench coat. 100 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: Thank you. You know. It's so funny because Julie's the 101 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 1: found is the founder of the Real Reel, and whenever 102 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: I've had fashion icons in here, I have gotten bullied 103 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: in the comments for not dressing appropriately. So when I 104 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: had Tim Gunn on the show, who was, you know, 105 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,799 Speaker 1: in Project Runway, obviously fashion icon of New York City. 106 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: He came in like a proper pair of trousers, beautiful 107 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: sweater loafers, and I was sitting across from him in 108 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: Adida's tracksuit, and so when I was watching some of 109 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: the interviews that you've done this past week, I was like, 110 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: Julie always shows up in the cutest outfit. I saw 111 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: you did an interview and a Diane von Furstenberg rap dress, 112 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 1: you know, pretty recently. So I said to my team, 113 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, guys, can we all make a 114 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 1: prediction that she's gonna not wear active word today because 115 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 1: if that's the case, I can't wear active wear because 116 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 1: I know how it goes down in the comments. 117 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,119 Speaker 2: There you go, all right, So we totally flipped the scrap. 118 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I appreciate you doing your research. 119 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 2: I watched your videos. I'm like, I gotta up my game, 120 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 2: you know. And then I'm like, oh, do I have 121 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 2: time to up my game anyway? So I just wore 122 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 2: my normal things that I wear. But it was so 123 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 2: funny seeing you. I'm like, oh, come on. Having said that, 124 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 2: it's very freeing to go to an interview an active wear, 125 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 2: it is, isn't it. Yes, it's pretty amazing, it is. 126 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: I Mean, I feel like, as New Yorkers, we live 127 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,039 Speaker 1: so much of our daily lives in comfortable clothes, and 128 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: then it's like, of course, sometimes at night if we're 129 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: going to an event, we're dressing up. But for the 130 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 1: most part, I like live in active wear or a 131 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: comfy pair of jeans and a T shirt. You know, so, 132 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: isn't that great? It is. 133 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: I'm sure Tim Gun wouldn't think it's great, but that's okay. 134 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: Tim definitely the house without a sudon No. 135 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: I remember him saying that, yes, and that's good. I 136 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 2: love that. I love that for him. 137 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: I do too. I do really appreciate somebody that walks 138 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: outside in a good outfit here. 139 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 2: I love it. I honestly, I think it's so much 140 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 2: fun when you actually see people really dressed. I'm going 141 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 2: to an event tonight and I'm looking forward for the 142 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 2: I mean, it's not a fashion event, but I'm always 143 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 2: cognizant of the fashion and how people dress, and it's 144 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 2: a very specific group. I'm like, oh, I wonder how 145 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 2: they're going to dress tonight. So that's what do you get? Well? 146 00:06:56,600 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 2: I bought a green velvet not too far off from 147 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 2: this color green velvet atro pants suit with just a 148 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 2: really pretty dulce top under and boblouse underneath. That's really 149 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 2: pretty because I'm not you know, it's just chic and 150 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: it will. It's sort of business attire but a little dressier. 151 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: So it's just it's just awesome. It felt. It feels 152 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 2: like coming into the holidays. It feels like fall. It's chic. 153 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 2: It'll be fine. And I'm not the star of the show. 154 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 2: So and I'm going with my friend who husband is 155 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 2: being honored and she's just like decked out, so I'm 156 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 2: just going to be there supporting her. 157 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: I love it. That's so fun. I'm obsessed with Metro 158 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: right now. 159 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 2: Well, I've I don't know if I should say, I 160 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 2: never have purchased Atro till this year, and a stylish 161 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 2: so we'll just try this suit on. I thought, really 162 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 2: it's and I thought, oh, it's fabulous. And the interior 163 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: is beautiful. It's beautiful Paisley, It's so gorgeous. 164 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 1: I've never seen Paisley done so well. I mean, I 165 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: went into the Metro store with my mom kind of 166 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: recently because I had seen some of the bags that 167 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: they recently put out with like the horse that has wings, right, 168 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: that's their logo, I guess. So I was like, Mom, 169 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: you have to come into this store like I again, 170 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: like I we talked about this a little bit on 171 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: the run. But I've never been a big fashionista. I 172 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: don't really know that much about fashion. But I feel 173 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: like as I've gotten older, and I have a lot 174 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: of friends in New York that are in the world 175 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: of fashion, whether it's they're in PR They're always going 176 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: to events and they have to look greater, like you know, influencers. 177 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: They're always dressing amazing two events. So I feel like 178 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: I'm around fashion a lot, but I don't fashion a lot. 179 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: But I don't know it that well. I mean, I've 180 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: always just been like a sporty girl that can put 181 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: on a cute outfit and look good. But it's not 182 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: you know, it's not it is my thing. I would say, 183 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: like I love it, and I love fashion design and 184 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: all of that, but knowing brands, and I didn't grow 185 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: up with a mom that was like decked out in brands. 186 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 2: You know. 187 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: My mom was always in a T shirt and a 188 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: good pair of jeans, and she always looked amazing because 189 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: she was very fit. Right Anyways, I walked into the 190 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: Metro store for the first time with my mom over 191 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: the summer, and I was just in awe. And now 192 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: whenever I see their stuff on, like Netta porte and 193 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: go through it. I mean, I just love the designs 194 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 1: and everything. 195 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 2: So normally the way I shop is sort of the 196 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 2: way the real role was constructed. I check the resell 197 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:16,319 Speaker 2: value because I do flip things fast, and I didn't 198 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 2: check the resale value. So when I'm shopping, I'm very cognizant, 199 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 2: like if I want to sell this, what the price 200 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 2: would be. And with this one, I didn't look because 201 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: I don't know where intro is. For a long time 202 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 2: it wasn't great. But sometimes it's like, doesn't matter if 203 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 2: you love it, And I would say sometimes it does, 204 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 2: because you know, people get very disappointed they spent like 205 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 2: three thousand dollars something for something the resell values two 206 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 2: hundred dollars. 207 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: But you're a smart chopper. 208 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 2: I am always cognizant of the difference between the resell 209 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 2: value and the original price, and sometimes some cases I'll 210 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 2: spend more. If you know, I'll be like, Okay, I 211 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 2: can do it, because let's say I want to resell it, 212 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 2: I'm going to get ninety percent percent of what I 213 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 2: paid for it back. 214 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: Have you always been a smart shopper or would you 215 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: say that that really came into fruition when you started 216 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: the real real. 217 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 2: It really came with real real. But I have to 218 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 2: tell you something funny, because when you look back at life, 219 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 2: you're like, oh, maybe this is also a childhood thing. 220 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 2: First of all, my mother went to art school to 221 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 2: become a fashion illustrator, all right. So that's a little 222 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 2: random thought that popped in once I started the business, 223 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:27,679 Speaker 2: which I never really gave that much thought because she 224 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 2: dropped out of colleague to marry my dad. But when 225 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 2: I go back and look at her drawings, they're all 226 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 2: fashion illustrations from the fifties, which is a fun period 227 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 2: to do that. And then she did period costumes too, 228 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 2: and studied period dressing, all right. So there's that in 229 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 2: the background. But then the other thing is my mother 230 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: would go to someone's house and she'd be like, I 231 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 2: love that rug. When you get tired of it, i'll 232 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 2: buy it from you, all right. So she was always 233 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 2: like scavenging other people's homes and people are like, well, 234 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 2: it's not for sale. She goes, well, well maybe it 235 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 2: will be at some point, and I really love it, 236 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 2: so just let me know. And then my dad would 237 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 2: go to that local dump and he would come home 238 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 2: with furniture and refinish it and built like would build 239 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 2: out like he built out his own pool room and 240 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 2: bar area with refurbished furniture or so clearly that idea 241 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 2: was already in my head on some level. But I 242 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 2: had never shopped resell to the start of the Real Rail, 243 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 2: and I'll tell you why. Online it was scary because 244 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 2: things weren't authenticated, and I didn't want to Back then, 245 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 2: it was more eBay and I didn't want to go 246 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 2: back and forth with some seller about a price. When 247 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 2: you walk into the stores. This is pre the real Reil. 248 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 2: I always thought they were interesting, but they just didn't 249 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 2: feel esthetically like a place I wanted to hang out 250 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: and usually had to dig. You know, everyone loves their 251 00:11:56,320 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 2: big fines, so I would say, I know for fact, 252 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 2: I never bought any resale to the Real Rail. And 253 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 2: then once the real Reil started, because remember, as a founder, 254 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 2: you do everything, So I would be opening the boxes 255 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 2: and I'm like, these are amazing. 256 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: So you start getting ingrained in it. You become a 257 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: part of that. 258 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: And then I knew early on what consigners I could. 259 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 2: I mean, you know, because I was opening boxes, I'm like, 260 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 2: I can wear everything that person sits here. We wouldn't 261 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 2: let anyone shop the site and for the first day 262 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 2: because we wanted consumers to show. No employees could shop 263 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 2: it for the first day when we got started. But 264 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 2: I remember thinking, every time we get this box it 265 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 2: was someone in Chicago, I'm like, this person is me. 266 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 2: She's like, clearly my body type, clearly she has my 267 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 2: style and I was so excited to get and she 268 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:49,080 Speaker 2: was into more a little more brands like Marshalla at 269 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 2: the time of this was a while ago, you know, 270 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 2: which was it was sort of cutting edge but still cool. 271 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 1: How do you feel about the Is it Mason Margella 272 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:01,559 Speaker 1: that makes the she with the like cleavage? 273 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not a fan. Not a fan. I mean, 274 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 2: I mean, I know, yeah, not a fan. The fashion 275 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 2: girls are screaming, I'm not a fan, and you know 276 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 2: you don't have I mean, there's at some point it 277 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 2: becomes costume of years the right thing. 278 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:27,440 Speaker 1: Okay, So backing up before we get to the real reel, 279 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: I really want to dive into your early career and 280 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: kind of everything that led you to the real reel 281 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 1: because you started the real real, as you said on 282 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: Our Walk at fifty two years old, which is so 283 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: impressive and really just a testament. I feel like we 284 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: always see those memes online that's like so and so 285 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: started ex business at this age, right, So it's like 286 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 1: kind of this idea that it's never too late, you know. 287 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: But let's talk about everything that you did before the 288 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: real reel. So let's talk about the lead up. 289 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 2: I had a big career, so I shared my career 290 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 2: as we talked about at Clorox in brand management, moved 291 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 2: to tech, ended up being as CEO and a company 292 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 2: called Systems, which did the flying toasters and the game 293 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 2: you Don't Know Jack. But the only reason I got 294 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 2: promoted to CEO And by the way, and this time, 295 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 2: I'm in my thirties, so if you just go like 296 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 2: late thirties. But they promoted me because the company was 297 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 2: failing and I came up with a plan to turn 298 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 2: it around. And first they said, okay, you do it, 299 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 2: you're president. And then they're like, well, okay, now you 300 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 2: did that, you're now CEO. And the founder wanted to 301 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 2: take a different role, so I wasn't the founder of 302 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: the company. So then the founder did sell the company 303 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 2: over the weekend one weekend, and then I'm like, well, 304 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 2: it looks like I have to get another job, and 305 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 2: that's where I learned I should have asked for more stock. 306 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 2: By the way, until then my equity can come and go. 307 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 2: But anyway, the next job was the CEO of a 308 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 2: company called reel dot com our eel dot com. It 309 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 2: was the first site to sell movies. In that case, 310 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 2: it was another founder that sold to Hollywood Video, which 311 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 2: is something most people don't even know about. It was 312 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 2: that poor cousin to Blockbuster and right away, like for 313 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 2: one hundred million dollars. And so then I was offered 314 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: the job as CEO of pets dot com because some 315 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:18,239 Speaker 2: young guy was actually owned the URL and was fulfilling 316 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 2: pet supplies out of his second room in his apartment 317 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 2: in LA and he's like, I'm not cut out for this. 318 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 2: So it was funded, and then I raised more money 319 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 2: and I was the CEO of pets dot com. And 320 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 2: then we had the dot com bust and the pets 321 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 2: dot Com became the poster child for that. 322 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: And what was for people that don't know what was 323 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 1: the dot com bust? Because I'm not familiar. 324 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 2: With sure, I know that's a the whole generation forgot 325 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 2: about it. So think of the year two thousand, which 326 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 2: were you born. I was born in nineteen ninety seven, okay, 327 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 2: so you were three. But during that time, the Internet 328 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 2: was still really fresh, meaning people Amazon was probably I 329 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 2: think by then, probably four years old, but people were 330 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 2: just getting comfortable with shopping online. Medical information was just 331 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 2: showing up online. It was just the beginning of personal 332 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 2: use of the Internet. I think at that time there 333 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 2: was Netscape as your browser. Yahoo was hiring people to 334 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 2: hand curate things because that was the only way they 335 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 2: could do it. They would hand curate listings. It was 336 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 2: just the beginning of everything. Because Amazon shot up was 337 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: such a big success selling books at the time, and 338 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 2: then they added music next and video movies, actually selling movies, 339 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 2: but so they were slowly getting They went up to 340 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 2: like a billion dollars past they were also losing a 341 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 2: lot of money, but anyway, it was proof that consumers 342 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 2: would transact on the Internet. So it was really the 343 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 2: beginning of change of everything. And when there's that kind 344 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 2: of change, which we're in another one with AI, money 345 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:06,199 Speaker 2: flows in to create opportunities one and a lot of 346 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 2: money was flowing in from the venture capital world to 347 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 2: actually take advantage of this new platform. That needed technology 348 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 2: and needed people that knew how to work in a 349 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 2: technology environment, but also you know, face the consumer. So 350 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 2: it was a good time for people who have consumer 351 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 2: experience and technology, and I was one of them. Pets 352 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 2: dot Com was one of ready for this. I think 353 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:34,479 Speaker 2: eleven pet sites funded. This just shows you how that 354 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 2: limiting effect is sort of like, Okay, the pets category 355 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,360 Speaker 2: at that time, I think it was fifty billion dollars 356 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 2: in the US. We're all going to win in the 357 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:46,120 Speaker 2: pets category, and obviously eleven funded companies can't win. 358 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 1: It's a great url, pets dot Com. 359 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 2: It was. That's what the young the guy that started 360 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 2: its name was Greg and La. He had bought He 361 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 2: turned out to be a URL guy. He made his 362 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 2: money because he jumped on a bunch of yours. So 363 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 2: pets dot Com sold pet supplies online. I got a 364 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 2: lot of hype because we had a little puppet, says 365 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 2: pets dot Com puppet, which I had one of the 366 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:15,919 Speaker 2: original ones that was kind of adorable. We ran television 367 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 2: ads for the for the first time, and I took 368 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 2: the company public right around the time Amazon was announcing 369 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 2: their earnings and instead of killing it on the earnings. 370 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 2: They lost almost a billion dollars that year, and they 371 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 2: had a huge loss in the quarter and the money 372 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 2: started drying up. Everyone's like, well, if they can't make 373 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 2: it work at their scale, how is anyone going to 374 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:48,640 Speaker 2: make it work. It's too early, and the money dried up. 375 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 2: And so that's what There was too much money rushing 376 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 2: toward opportunities and then it all pulled out. So I 377 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 2: had to shut down pets dot Com. I didn't have to. 378 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 2: I thought I wouldn't be able to get funding, and 379 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 2: I thought it would be better to return money to 380 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 2: shareholders rather than run it to bankruptcy. I think within 381 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 2: a six month period, about eleven hundred companies went out 382 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 2: of business, including ones. Look, pets dot Com was a 383 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 2: precursor to chewy dot Com. There isn't anything chewy dot 384 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 2: com doesn't does that pets dot Com didn't do earlier, 385 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 2: but things like door dash and Instacart. There was a 386 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:28,919 Speaker 2: company called Webvan that actually burned through about a billion 387 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:32,360 Speaker 2: dollars a capital even then. Back then, but they were 388 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 2: doing grocery delivery. They were doing at home grocery delivery 389 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 2: and actually bypassing the groceries, they actually had their own 390 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 2: warehouses full of food. So if you think about what 391 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 2: and there's a lot of these stories, but those are 392 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,360 Speaker 2: the two that you know, pets and webban and come 393 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 2: to mind because we're experiencing it now. So the question 394 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 2: is were we too earlier? Was the money too timid? 395 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 2: And I would say clearly the. 396 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: Combination of books, it probably was both. Yes, it seems 397 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 1: like you know and you know, I think that's also 398 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 1: funny where it's like everybody thinks some of these ideas 399 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 1: that happened for the last like five to ten years 400 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 1: are so new, but it's so cool knowing that in 401 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: the early two thousands, you guys were thinking about all 402 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 1: these ideas at the beginning of kind of online e commerce. 403 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 1: But the infrastructure just also seems like it wasn't there. 404 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 2: Well, if you go back and I've studied this and 405 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 2: you look at like I think in two thousand and 406 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:29,360 Speaker 2: there were maybe two hundred million people online, and they 407 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 2: were cautious about actually transacting online. We had to have 408 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 2: a little symbol. A lot of people wanted to call 409 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 2: and place the order or the phone like that was 410 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 2: more safe. So people were very cautious. Now I think, 411 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 2: what there's four billion people online. So when you talk 412 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 2: the whole idea was it was a land grab back then. 413 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 2: If you get your if you're first, you're going to 414 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 2: have a really hard time being dislodged in five to 415 00:20:55,680 --> 00:21:00,240 Speaker 2: ten years. And where it worked out for who worked 416 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 2: out for was Netflix. So they were a company that 417 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 2: started and I think the late nineties, it could have 418 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 2: been ninety seven or ninety eight, and they made it 419 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 2: through the you know, the Valley of death there and 420 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 2: they were just shipping DVDs. They were you know, it 421 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 2: was a rental company and they're shipping DVDs to people's homes, 422 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:22,120 Speaker 2: and they kept saying, no, we're going to be there 423 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 2: when streaming happened. Of course, streaming didn't happen for twenty years, 424 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 2: but they were they were able to raise enough capital 425 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,160 Speaker 2: and move forward in a way that they're look, they're 426 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 2: a juggernaut. So they did start there and kept going. 427 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think there's probably a few more, but 428 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,239 Speaker 2: that one is probably one of the largest examples that 429 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,640 Speaker 2: weathered the dot com bust. 430 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 1: When you think about what happened during the dot com 431 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 1: bust and you think about now, you know, twenty five 432 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: plus years later, about what's about to happen with AI, 433 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 1: and what's currently happening with AI? What synergies are you 434 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 1: seeing and how do you think companies can set themselves 435 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 1: up for success. 436 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:02,120 Speaker 2: Well, I'm actually speaking on this Monday. So when the 437 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 2: e commerce world sort of exploded or and people were 438 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 2: leveraging the Internet for that, a lot of companies would 439 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 2: come to me and say should I get into it? 440 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,719 Speaker 2: And they were all existing businesses, and I'd say, you 441 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 2: can wait because we're working things out. And you had 442 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 2: to build all these pieces that you had to write 443 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 2: code for everything. I said, no, no, no, you can wait. 444 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 2: It's a huge investment. I would recommend you wait till 445 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:28,400 Speaker 2: the platforms get solidified because there was no platform. Then 446 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,679 Speaker 2: everything was hand rolled and it was hard and it 447 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 2: was expensive, and you had to keep servers in a 448 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 2: warehouse and they had to be climate controlled and you 449 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 2: had to keep one warm in case your server went down. 450 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 2: So it was just everything, the infrastructure. The cost of 451 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,160 Speaker 2: getting started could be two to five million dollars before 452 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 2: you open your door. So no, no wait, wait, your 453 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 2: time will come, you'll be you won't be left out 454 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 2: if you wait. That's not true with AI and let's 455 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 2: just talk about you know, the markets are crazy, valuations 456 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 2: are high, et cetera, et cetera. But AI is going 457 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 2: to pose risks, but in terms of the same kind, 458 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 2: and there will be busts. We're definitely in a boom. 459 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 2: There's going to be bust, but the majority of the 460 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:18,719 Speaker 2: money is being actually spent by large tech companies. So 461 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 2: you've got established companies which huge amounts of profit building 462 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 2: this new future. So the risk factor is the lower 463 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:32,160 Speaker 2: the but there will be it's still crazy, so there 464 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 2: will be companies that spent out and there'll be a 465 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 2: minor I would say a minor bust. What is probably 466 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 2: going to happen and happened originally when the software When 467 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 2: when the software industry picked up, is corporate started first 468 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 2: because that's where the money was, and then consumer we're 469 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,640 Speaker 2: in terms of people being able to monetize came second. 470 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 2: So right now there's huge amount of money being spent 471 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 2: at corporation. What I think is going to be good. 472 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 2: People are already taking costs out through AI and they're 473 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 2: redefined their processes. That won't reinvent their business though, and 474 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 2: it's going to be helpful. But I do think especially 475 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 2: people that run business to consumer companies need to think 476 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 2: about how AI will reinvent what the consumer sees, how 477 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 2: you interact with the consumer, not just your cost structure. 478 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 2: Because someone's going to figure it out in a competitive 479 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 2: category and they're going to win. 480 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 1: How do you foresee a company like the Real Real 481 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: integrating AI in a successful way. 482 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 2: Well, I can't speak to what they're going to do. Now, 483 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 2: I can give some advice and solicited advice, but let 484 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 2: me tell you what we did a long time ago. 485 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 2: One of the key things that was a detriment to 486 00:24:54,720 --> 00:25:00,639 Speaker 2: the business was bad consigners who gave fake goods. Now 487 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 2: the company is processing thousands of products every day, and 488 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 2: guess what. Bad consigners tend to look like each other. 489 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 2: They have the same attributes. So when things come into 490 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,439 Speaker 2: the op center, if they can be flagged as a 491 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 2: potential high risk consigner, they go through a different swim 492 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 2: lane than someone else who's been consigning regularly. That doesn't 493 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 2: mean things are authenticate, aren't authenticated, it's just one gets 494 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:33,120 Speaker 2: a lot more scrutiny. So that's number one. Number two. 495 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 2: Most of the copy now, and when I was there, 496 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 2: most of the copy is written by going photo first. 497 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:44,160 Speaker 2: Now that still requires consumer oversight. Now giving an excit, 498 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 2: I just bought a skirt on the real rail and 499 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 2: I just wanted a very specific pencil skirt and a 500 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:55,439 Speaker 2: very specific material, and I found what I wanted and 501 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 2: I found my size, but it was leather and they 502 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 2: called it wool. Those type of things still needs human oversight. 503 00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 2: There needs to be quality control, But to have a 504 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:11,160 Speaker 2: machine write all the copy off a photo is phenomenal. 505 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 2: And then the other thing we were doing is, you know, 506 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 2: think about you have a lot of authentic goods, you 507 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 2: also have fake goods and running handbags through first pass 508 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 2: with machine learning and kicking off anything that looks treacherous 509 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,399 Speaker 2: based on where counterfeiters kind of work. So it makes 510 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 2: the job, It makes everyone's job smarter and more efficient. 511 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 2: So we start doing that in twenty nineteen. Oh wow, 512 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 2: it's a long time. 513 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 1: Ago now, right, So you guys were kind of early 514 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: adopters to it, and it makes so much sense because 515 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 1: a huge part of your business is you guys are 516 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: managing a massive amount of massive inventory and you have 517 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: to go through it and make sure it's authenticated. And 518 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 1: also I love how the website will rank it good, excellent, 519 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,440 Speaker 1: whatever kind of condition. But yeah, when you think about it, 520 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 1: like it takes a while to sort through those products 521 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 1: on by hand, right, So if you can have AI 522 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 1: step in and help, and obviously there's kinks at first, 523 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 1: but if that can become really efficient, then that, oh 524 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:08,680 Speaker 1: it's really excer process. 525 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:13,640 Speaker 2: So think about a normal retailer, maybe a small let's 526 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 2: take a smaller retailer. Maybe they have twenty five thousand 527 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 2: skews in the store all year, and that's still a lot, 528 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,119 Speaker 2: a lot to manage. So medium size someone like a 529 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 2: drug store, you may have one hundred thousand SKUs, maybe 530 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 2: one hundred and ten thousand. The real real when I 531 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 2: was there was getting in over ten thousand items a day. 532 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 2: So this creates all kinds of technology challenges. So anything 533 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 2: you can do to streamline that process. Because the other 534 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:47,159 Speaker 2: thing that's really frustrating as a consigner is, Okay, I 535 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 2: sent it to you, you've told me it's arrived in 536 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 2: the warehouse. Why is it taking two weeks to get 537 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,400 Speaker 2: it on the website. Anything you can do to make 538 00:27:55,680 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 2: the consigner happier and ensure the consumer has safety and guarantees. 539 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:03,639 Speaker 2: I think those things are great. 540 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and also make sure internally your business is moving 541 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 1: as efficiently as possible, because you. 542 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 2: Know, right and economics actually work more favorably that way. 543 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 1: Absolutely, And you know, when I think about the real real, like, 544 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: there are so many things that if you're manually doing 545 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 1: everything that needs to be done for the real real 546 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,919 Speaker 1: it's like you get the product, you have to authenticate it. 547 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: That takes time. Then you have to go through take 548 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: the photos, get them up on the website. Then you're 549 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 1: tagging the product, right, you're putting the condition in, the material, the. 550 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 2: Color, the disise, all of that's in. All of that's 551 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 2: in the database. But so the copywriters would do all 552 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 2: of that. So the database was sent up there. But 553 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: at the beginning, oh, it took a long time. So 554 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 2: and then the other thing we used to do is 555 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 2: you'd have to color because we get so many products. 556 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 2: Even you know, even when you're doing five hundred million 557 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 2: a year, which was about year four for us, it's 558 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 2: still so many products coming in and they all have 559 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 2: to be light balanced. The photos because you're taking if 560 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 2: you walked into the app center, it's just row and 561 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 2: row and row of photography stations. But so you get 562 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,959 Speaker 2: white light pollution. You really can't escape it, and so 563 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 2: everything had to be light balanced, which meant we were 564 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 2: sending them off in batches to India, to the Philippines 565 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 2: to light balance them because you want you don't want 566 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 2: all that uneven look on the website, which gave Sometimes 567 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 2: their internet would go down, you know, things would happen, 568 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:32,719 Speaker 2: you know, the transmission would drop a packet and then 569 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 2: you'd have to go through. And so that's all been 570 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 2: taken care of. Now it doesn't have to be offshore. 571 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 2: And that was three days and incremental expense. It wasn't 572 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 2: a lot of money, but it was also a time lag. 573 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 2: So all of that was covered by the AI and 574 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 2: I just in the early days, so I have to 575 00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,600 Speaker 2: tell you like, is it back from Thailand. Yeah, they're like, no, 576 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 2: we have to get a new vendor there. Who was 577 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 2: that one of them had way too many holidays, I 578 00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 2: think where they were like, oh, we have to balance 579 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 2: our holidays, you know, because people would all around the 580 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 2: world take different holidays. They'd be gone for three days, 581 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:06,719 Speaker 2: so like we need our photos. 582 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,800 Speaker 1: Anytime there's more cooks in the kitchen, it's just going 583 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: to take more time. So yeah, it's kind of one 584 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 1: of those things. And it's awesome that you're able to 585 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 1: automize that. Now, you know, this kind of came up 586 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: when you were talking about your work history. You pretty 587 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 1: quickly became a CEO. 588 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 2: Well it didn't feel like it, but you know, all right, 589 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 2: So here's the funny story. I wasn't jacking for it. 590 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 2: I didn't want the company to fail. So I came 591 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,920 Speaker 2: up with a plan and they promoted me to run 592 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,479 Speaker 2: the company. It wasn't that big. It was about forty million, 593 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 2: so it wasn't that small either, but it wasn't that big. 594 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 2: And I remember the board member and when Bled called 595 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 2: me to her office and said, look, you know, we 596 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 2: the founder of Grades. We really want you to be 597 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 2: the CEO. We think you can do it. Done a 598 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 2: great job as president, and she says, I'm really excited 599 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 2: about this. I was sort of I mean, I wasn't 600 00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 2: going to say no, but I was sort of shocked. 601 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 2: I and when I was driving home, the company Berkeley Systems, 602 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:09,479 Speaker 2: no surprise, was in Berkeley. I lived in Moren County 603 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 2: across the bridge. I just I almost drove to Sacramento. 604 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 2: And this is before sell cell phone. So I'm just 605 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 2: like and I'm married, I'm not coming home, and I'm like, 606 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 2: because you know, in my head, I'm like, okay, now 607 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 2: I'm CEO. What does that mean? What am I going 608 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 2: to do? How am I going to do this? What 609 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 2: about this? What did this? And I had I was 610 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 2: playing out all the scenarios, probably working through a little 611 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 2: bit of fear and anxiety, and I just kept going up. 612 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 1: North every at home, so late right, just on a 613 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 1: long car ride collecting your thoughts. 614 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was, which is you know, it's a great 615 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 2: thing to do. 616 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 1: Some people love long car rides like that for that exactly. 617 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 2: Well, I was so in my thoughts, I missed my 618 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 2: exits and I'm like and I finally had to stop 619 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 2: and at a pay phone and come and say sorry, 620 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 2: I'm almost in Sacramento. But I got promoted. 621 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 1: Yeah that's I mean, what kind of skills did you, like, 622 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: as a young employee kind of have that you think 623 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 1: set you up for success to be considered to be 624 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 1: promoted into a position like that, because coming in for 625 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 1: a founder led business and being you know, nominated as 626 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 1: a CEO, that's a big deal and it requires a 627 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: lot of trust from that founder in you. So, like, 628 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,200 Speaker 1: what were some of the qualities you think you had. 629 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 2: So one of the beauties of going into package goods 630 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 2: marketing is you run p and ls, so you work. 631 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 2: You really have to understand the financial underpinning of the 632 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 2: brand incredibly strongly. You have to understand the positioning of 633 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,800 Speaker 2: the brand. You have to understand how to market the brand, 634 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 2: you have to understand what packaging works. It really is 635 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 2: one of the best experiences for creating an entrepreneur when 636 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 2: you're truly a brand manager, or in my case, I didn't. 637 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 2: I left before I hit brand, but I was a brand. 638 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 2: Now they bring people in as brand managers, but when 639 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 2: I started, it was assistant brand manager. When you learned 640 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 2: all about promotions and you did tons of analysis, and 641 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 2: then the assistant brand manager you learned all about advertising 642 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 2: and media and they sent you out in the field 643 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 2: to sell all right, so you. 644 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 1: Kind of understood all the piece of the pie. 645 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 2: When all the pieces the pie. So when I moved 646 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 2: into tech, I also spent a lot of time I 647 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 2: was in product management. I spent a lot of time 648 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 2: with the salesforce because I wanted to know how are 649 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 2: they And this is when you had to sell. You 650 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 2: bought software in a store. How would they position it, 651 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 2: where were they putting it, what did it look like 652 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 2: on the shelf, what were they saying to the consumers. 653 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,640 Speaker 2: Because we also had a business division, how were they 654 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 2: positioning the products? Who's making the decisions? So you didn't 655 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 2: stop at your job. You made sure that sale was 656 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 2: completed and how and really learning all the time. So 657 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 2: then when I did international for software publishing, I had 658 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 2: to run a little business. I had set up partnerships 659 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 2: and figure out what products to localize and what countries 660 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 2: to focus on. So you just keep honing your skill set. 661 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 2: But I would say understanding finance, understanding marketing, and understanding selling, 662 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 2: which is really a part of marketing in any case, 663 00:33:56,000 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 2: those three things are probably my strengths and they serve 664 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 2: you well in life. So I would say the more 665 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 2: if you get, you know, giving advice to someone starting 666 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 2: their career, learn other people's jobs, see what they do, 667 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:15,040 Speaker 2: understand because no one works in isolation. Not really. You 668 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,920 Speaker 2: may think you are, but if you want in advance, 669 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,880 Speaker 2: learn what other people do and how that impacts the 670 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 2: overall success of the company, and then and then work 671 00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 2: with them. Figure out how your job interacts with them 672 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 2: and how you can collectively make a better success with 673 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:32,320 Speaker 2: the company and yourself. 674 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,320 Speaker 1: But it is so true. You really have to holistically 675 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,840 Speaker 1: kind of understand everything in order to get to a 676 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:38,920 Speaker 1: position like a CEO. 677 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,839 Speaker 2: Oh, I think so, it's and I actually I think so. 678 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 2: My dad loved his own business, you know, he had 679 00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 2: his own art and design business. He loved what he 680 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 2: did and it was fun. And I think by just 681 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 2: having that environment in your household, whenever I did any job, 682 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, this is interesting. In college, which I 683 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 2: write about in my book, I dropped out of college 684 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 2: for a semester because I was going to get married 685 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 2: very young. I didn't, but I was going to. And 686 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 2: the man I was marrying, his father was a general 687 00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 2: manager at a delco Remi plant, which is a general 688 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 2: motors plant. I actually was a riveter on the line 689 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:24,240 Speaker 2: in in Anderson, Indiana for six months, riveting Bonnie Carlo 690 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 2: rear bumpers. 691 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:27,399 Speaker 1: And what is riveting mean? 692 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 2: Like you were literally putting rivets in bumpers. Oh, building, 693 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 2: we were making well with a gun, okay, with a gun. 694 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:38,280 Speaker 2: So I was literally on the assembly line making car bumpers. 695 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,200 Speaker 2: But it was a new but it was a new 696 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:45,240 Speaker 2: technique it was using the first time a soft bumper arrived. 697 00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 2: They were one of the first to introduce. It was 698 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,800 Speaker 2: the first time in the painting thing it was automatic painting, 699 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,560 Speaker 2: not humans saying they're painting the bumpers. It was the 700 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 2: first time they had automated a factory, so the parts 701 00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:57,279 Speaker 2: came to you, so you weren't pushing and pulling and 702 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 2: walking all over. And since the man I was dating's 703 00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 2: father was the GM things were going wrong and so 704 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 2: I would work the line. Then we'd have discussions about 705 00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 2: what was working, what wasn't. And it was fascinating. It 706 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 2: was I know, it doesn't sound like a glamorous job, 707 00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:19,360 Speaker 2: how things worked now it was really a fascinating job 708 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:24,080 Speaker 2: and understanding how people progress, even as an employee there, 709 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 2: because you know, working the line riveting bumpers wasn't exactly 710 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:33,320 Speaker 2: enhancing your brain, but it was when you ask questions, 711 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 2: it's like, why did we do this, why did you 712 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,359 Speaker 2: switch this? Why are we having problems here? What are 713 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 2: you going to do with it? And he was just 714 00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,400 Speaker 2: so open. He was like I was getting a masterclass 715 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 2: and operations and they and every new thing they were 716 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 2: trying had never been done before, so that was also 717 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 2: exciting to see new technologies employed and see that it 718 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 2: doesn't go right. You know, it went mostly right because 719 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 2: the cars didn't have bruise at the end of the year, 720 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 2: but it took a lot of effort to get it right. 721 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, and stuff happens, and you got to be able 722 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:08,880 Speaker 1: to think on the fly and figure it out during that. 723 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:10,279 Speaker 1: We kind of talked about this on the run, but 724 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,319 Speaker 1: I really want to dig into resilience a little bit 725 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,800 Speaker 1: more before we get to starting the reeal reel, because 726 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,320 Speaker 1: after what happened with pets dot Com, I read online 727 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:18,879 Speaker 1: a little bit about it, and I heard you talk 728 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: about it in interviews, and I know you talk about 729 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,200 Speaker 1: it in your book. But that was a hard time 730 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 1: for you, right when pets dot Com failed. 731 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,400 Speaker 2: It was hard on so many levels because you know, 732 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 2: I was in my forties and early forties and forty 733 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 2: one forty two, and I got a divorce, which is 734 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 2: a hard time to get a divorce, and then as 735 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 2: a woman, you have to also figure out about kids. 736 00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,840 Speaker 2: And it felt like, oh, I missed that one and 737 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:47,560 Speaker 2: figure out did I want to be a single mom? 738 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 2: And then I don't think I put it in the book. 739 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 2: But during that time, my mother also died, which actually, 740 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 2: on mini levels was a blessing because she had multiple 741 00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:59,439 Speaker 2: sclerosis and she was not in good shape. Oddly enough, 742 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 2: even when someone's really ill, and she was mentally she 743 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,719 Speaker 2: had sort of lost her mind also, so she had 744 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 2: advanced dementia and her body was a mess. And she 745 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,760 Speaker 2: was only sixty two. She was only twenty years older 746 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,440 Speaker 2: than me. So when she died, it sort of like 747 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 2: hope died, but there was no hope, you know, But 748 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 2: it was still this I don't know her mom well, 749 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,280 Speaker 2: but I mean, she wasn't my mom. That was another 750 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 2: being there that was at one point my mom. But 751 00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 2: that happened, which also calls out how short life is 752 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 2: and how lucky you are to have your health. So 753 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 2: you know, you're like, okay. What I didn't know was 754 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,480 Speaker 2: that pets dot Com would be sitting like looming large 755 00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,360 Speaker 2: behind my back for the next X amount of years. 756 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 2: And then I explained that to us, Well, it cast 757 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 2: a big shadow because it was such a popular brand, 758 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,920 Speaker 2: and when it failed, the media was all over me. 759 00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,319 Speaker 2: And honestly, recently I was thinking, I'm so glad it 760 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,919 Speaker 2: didn't happen. Well, it might have been easier now because 761 00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 2: there's some new disaster every fifteen seconds, I think, and 762 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,240 Speaker 2: maybe it would have floated away, But then it pressed 763 00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:12,360 Speaker 2: all over the world focused on it. And it's partly 764 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:16,200 Speaker 2: because it was a new industry. So when things went well, 765 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,319 Speaker 2: they would talk about it, and then when things blew up, 766 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,200 Speaker 2: it was like, you know, it was a field day 767 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,600 Speaker 2: for them, and it was everywhere all over the world. 768 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,359 Speaker 2: So it was a huge stigma and a negative one, 769 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,880 Speaker 2: and it was negative socially, it was negative professionally, like 770 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:33,759 Speaker 2: I'd go out and I didn't want to talk about it, 771 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 2: and people would say, aren't you And then someone would 772 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 2: say something really horrific to me on a regular basis. 773 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 1: Like what's the most terrific things? 774 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,440 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this person just she said, oh, you 775 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 2: are a joke, and she just laughed in my face. 776 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:51,279 Speaker 2: I thought, yeah, this is someone who, by the way, 777 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,320 Speaker 2: never did anything and never took a risk. 778 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 1: You know what he really came to mind. It's so funny. 779 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,239 Speaker 1: I was interviewing Gabby Thomas, who's an Olympic runner gold 780 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 1: medalist right she and I interviewed her right after she 781 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,480 Speaker 1: had one gold in Paris, and she said to me 782 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 1: I'm currently in a Twitter war with someone, and it's 783 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,120 Speaker 1: with somebody kind of mocking her for X, Y and 784 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,640 Speaker 1: Z reason and I'm thinking to her and I said 785 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 1: to her, I'm like, you know, it's so crazy that somebody, 786 00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,360 Speaker 1: random person, anonymous user name on Twitter is in a 787 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 1: fight with you and you're having to defend yourself. Gabby Thomas, 788 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:24,120 Speaker 1: an Olympic gold medalist. This person's never going to achieve 789 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: anything close to what you've achieved and put your body through. 790 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:30,120 Speaker 2: And they have no idea, they have no idea. Well 791 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,520 Speaker 2: that's sort of where the random mud slinging time right now. 792 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 2: I mean I just look at it. It's like, what stop, 793 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,399 Speaker 2: And it's you know what, So where does this come from? 794 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 2: It has to come from inadequacy, and and you know, 795 00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 2: it's pretty easy to punch down, you know, if you're 796 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:50,200 Speaker 2: not feeling good about yourself, it's pretty easy to punch down. 797 00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:54,040 Speaker 2: So you know, these people, I don't know. Anyway, it 798 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 2: was bad. So that was bad. And I had to 799 00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,319 Speaker 2: get back to things that really brought me joy, which 800 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:05,640 Speaker 2: tended to be being around creative people. So that was helpful. 801 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 2: Hiking I did a lot of outdoor hiking. I did 802 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 2: take some different jobs that weren't great. In fact, they 803 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:15,520 Speaker 2: weren't great, but I had to pay the bills because 804 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,319 Speaker 2: when you're the divorce, if you have money, you get 805 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 2: usually half the money then, So that wasn't great. And 806 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 2: I had to deep really understand what I want to 807 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:26,800 Speaker 2: do with my life and if I was going to 808 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 2: drive it or if I was going to let people's 809 00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,400 Speaker 2: opinion of me drive it. And that's what switched it. 810 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,839 Speaker 2: I said in the book, I let it really bother 811 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 2: me until I didn't, And it really was. Once once 812 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,399 Speaker 2: it all came together, I'm like, I'm done with this. 813 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 2: I am not going to spend time worrying about what 814 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:46,920 Speaker 2: other people think. I'm going to I know what I'm 815 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 2: made of and I know what I can do, and 816 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 2: I'll figure it out. But it really was it was 817 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,680 Speaker 2: sort of like beat myself up. I got tired of 818 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:59,160 Speaker 2: beating myself up, to be honest, and reading negative things 819 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,719 Speaker 2: about what happened that weren't true, and not being able 820 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 2: to defend myself. I mean, even people were writing books 821 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,239 Speaker 2: about it, and I'm like, oh my god, it's not 822 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 2: even true. 823 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,839 Speaker 1: There's a lot that you can read on a line, right, 824 00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,399 Speaker 1: there's comments, there's articles, there's books, but it's a whole 825 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:23,920 Speaker 1: another level when people are coming up to you in 826 00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,279 Speaker 1: person and saying things to your face. So how did 827 00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:27,040 Speaker 1: you deal with that? 828 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:29,720 Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure I just walked away, and I wanted 829 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,239 Speaker 2: to say something, but she was a really good friend 830 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 2: of a really good friend, and what I ended up 831 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,720 Speaker 2: doing is just it was her, it was my friend's party. 832 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:42,319 Speaker 2: I just went home. I even had reporters showing up 833 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:46,239 Speaker 2: at my door, my home door, and I was divorced 834 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 2: and I still was living in the same house, so 835 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:49,840 Speaker 2: I had a male friend of my move in just 836 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 2: to answer the door, you know, because the other thing 837 00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:54,960 Speaker 2: is and I ended up changing the door. I had 838 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,120 Speaker 2: one of those stories. I had some glass panels in it, 839 00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,799 Speaker 2: so so I ended up getting the door with like 840 00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,439 Speaker 2: no windows except like a little bit at the top, 841 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 2: because I'm like, I don't need these randoms showing up 842 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 2: at my house. 843 00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,919 Speaker 1: It's scary also being alone in your house and having 844 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 1: people show up. 845 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,359 Speaker 2: I mean it is scary. I got scary, right. I 846 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:13,719 Speaker 2: don't want to go back to the book. But it 847 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,600 Speaker 2: happened with like one of the counterfeiters sent thugs to 848 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,920 Speaker 2: my door because I wouldn't return the Real Real wouldn't 849 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:23,719 Speaker 2: return the goods. He literally to deliver me a lawsuit. 850 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,960 Speaker 2: But I mean, we have lawyers for any lawsuit that 851 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 2: every single counterfeitter the Real Real dealt with had some 852 00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:37,279 Speaker 2: lawyer brother in Florida that delivered that actually would sue 853 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,960 Speaker 2: the company. And then those you know, those lawsuits di 854 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 2: centegrate because guess what their counterfeiters. 855 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 1: But okay, truly, what do you do when you have 856 00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:48,320 Speaker 1: thugs showing up to your door. 857 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:50,480 Speaker 2: I called the police. 858 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be having a panic attack. 859 00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,960 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, plus, at that time, I had three dogs. 860 00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:59,400 Speaker 2: The dogs are going nuts and they're like beating on 861 00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:01,640 Speaker 2: the door. It's like ten thirty at night. 862 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:02,600 Speaker 1: Like straight out of a movie. 863 00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:04,840 Speaker 2: It was so scary. It was scary, and that was 864 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 2: the intent, right, like to send these big guys and 865 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,360 Speaker 2: I could see them, which meant probably they could see me. 866 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,160 Speaker 1: You're like, here, I am running this multimillion dollar business. 867 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 1: It's so successful. We resell luxury goods, and I have 868 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:17,719 Speaker 1: thugs showing up at my door. 869 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,600 Speaker 2: So I called the police. By the time the police 870 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,960 Speaker 2: got there, all that was less was the lawsuit shoved 871 00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,239 Speaker 2: under my door. They go, we think they want to 872 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,399 Speaker 2: deliver this. I go, that's what my lawyers are from. 873 00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:32,880 Speaker 2: There was something else going on there, so that was unnerving. 874 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:37,920 Speaker 2: But I mean I got death threats too, so you know, 875 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:41,080 Speaker 2: it's a weird thing. But when people physically come towards you, 876 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 2: it is different, and then you have a choice. First 877 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:47,600 Speaker 2: of all, I was still beating myself up. Secondly, I 878 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 2: couldn't believe someone that who knows that we have mutual 879 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 2: friends would be that vicious. And then I was very kind. 880 00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:00,040 Speaker 2: I didn't want to upset my friend, but I I 881 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 2: do think about a year later, I said, you know, 882 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,400 Speaker 2: her name was Susie. Susie is do you know Susie? 883 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,760 Speaker 2: She goes, oh, she would never say that. I'm like, yeah, 884 00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:10,279 Speaker 2: she did. 885 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,000 Speaker 1: So you know you kind of kept it tears. 886 00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 2: I did because it just felt like, why why make 887 00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:19,880 Speaker 2: it worse? But you know, you just for me. It 888 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:21,880 Speaker 2: made me pull in more, which, to be honest, I 889 00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:23,919 Speaker 2: don't mind being an introvert, but it was a sad. 890 00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:25,840 Speaker 2: It was a sad I had to go in to 891 00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 2: come out again. 892 00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: I guess anyway, did the haters put a chip on 893 00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: your shoulder and make you want to be successful even more. 894 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:36,600 Speaker 2: No, But I well a couple of things. One is 895 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:40,040 Speaker 2: I think being a woman in tech you had to 896 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:43,480 Speaker 2: be a fighter anyway. So I remember someone say you 897 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,000 Speaker 2: have a chip on your shoulder, and I'm like, no, 898 00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 2: I'm just not going to take I'm not going to 899 00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 2: be second when I can be first. You know, I 900 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 2: just wasn't going to do it. So I had that 901 00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:54,880 Speaker 2: fight and spirit in me anyway. But I'll tell you 902 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:59,560 Speaker 2: what did, which is when I got the first year 903 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:02,000 Speaker 2: or the rare, we got it to ten million dollars 904 00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,120 Speaker 2: and I was out. Then I was out to raise 905 00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 2: venture capital and I met with a well known venture 906 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:11,040 Speaker 2: capitalist in San Francisco. I found that women understood the 907 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:17,040 Speaker 2: product men didn't female investor and she was really interested 908 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,759 Speaker 2: in the business. Asked for the financials we were, you know, 909 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 2: like I said, we had ten million in sales, went 910 00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:25,279 Speaker 2: through all the data, spent a lot of time with her, 911 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:30,600 Speaker 2: and then probably when I sent her the latest deck 912 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:34,000 Speaker 2: two days later, she announced an investment in a company 913 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:38,160 Speaker 2: called Threadflip that was pretty much doing what the real 914 00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:44,640 Speaker 2: real was doing, but not offering complete consigner support and 915 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,440 Speaker 2: would only authenticate goods upon request, so they weren't. They 916 00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:52,000 Speaker 2: were sort of a hybrid, so she really was planning. 917 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,239 Speaker 2: She was just using my business to invest to get 918 00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 2: data for another company that she clearly was going to 919 00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 2: invest in, which isn't illegal. It's it's smarmy, it's pretty 920 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:09,239 Speaker 2: it's pretty bad behavior, but it's not illegal. So then 921 00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 2: you fast forward and I'm presenting at a fashion tech 922 00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 2: event in New York and I figured I'm going to 923 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 2: be out raising my and by the way, and I 924 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:20,920 Speaker 2: got my round, didn't close with Canaan, with with Maha 925 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 2: Ibram and Dana Settle of gray Croft, and we had 926 00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 2: one European Matias Shilling, who was great, so we got 927 00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 2: a nice round. It was great and Matia Shedding Shilling 928 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,000 Speaker 2: of headline, so all right, we got the round. But 929 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 2: I figured I'm going to I got to start promoting 930 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,160 Speaker 2: the brand. So I'm in this fashion tech event in 931 00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,880 Speaker 2: New York City and it's Arena Styuth of seating and 932 00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:47,680 Speaker 2: they have judges and god, who's the who's the damon 933 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:49,440 Speaker 2: with the earring? Is that the guy with the earring? 934 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:53,120 Speaker 2: The guy that was on Shark tann exactly? 935 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 1: Is it? 936 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 2: Anyway? So he was the EMC so had a little 937 00:47:57,280 --> 00:48:01,080 Speaker 2: razzle dazzle going. So I walk out and I haven't 938 00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,600 Speaker 2: talked to anyone in a large public arena since PETS, 939 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:08,439 Speaker 2: so I was already on. I didn't realize how much 940 00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,399 Speaker 2: PTSD I still had. My body. I was getting ready. 941 00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:13,560 Speaker 2: I was starting to have a panic attack. Actually I 942 00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:16,640 Speaker 2: stopped myself from going out because I started hyperventilating. 943 00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,080 Speaker 1: This is where we need a beta blocker, because your 944 00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:19,520 Speaker 1: body goes into fighting, fighter, fight. 945 00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:23,160 Speaker 2: But I'd never experienced that before and I didn't really 946 00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 2: know what was happening. So I sat down. I said, 947 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:27,920 Speaker 2: breathe them with that. I'm gonna faint. And then I'm like, no, 948 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 2: I got to go out there because they're like waiting 949 00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 2: for me. And I see that person who, in my opinion, 950 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,840 Speaker 2: did a slimy thing as one of the judges. I 951 00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,760 Speaker 2: didn't know who the judges were, and I was so mad. 952 00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,080 Speaker 2: It cleared my head and cleared my panic and I 953 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:50,400 Speaker 2: killed it. So that's where that whole anger really did work. 954 00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:54,759 Speaker 2: And I thought, and you know, I don't. You don't 955 00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:56,239 Speaker 2: forget people that betray you. 956 00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: Nope, you don't. And you use it as fuel, and 957 00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 1: you use it as fuel if you're a pro, you 958 00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,320 Speaker 1: can use it as right or you can let it 959 00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,480 Speaker 1: get to you and it can affect your business. 960 00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,440 Speaker 2: And I don't believe in well, I might believe in 961 00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:09,959 Speaker 2: retribution at some point, but I wouldn't for that because 962 00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,640 Speaker 2: it's not worth the energy. It's like, you know what. 963 00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,600 Speaker 2: And by the way that company shut down, I'm like, no, 964 00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,799 Speaker 2: that's the wrong model. You picked the wrong horse, and 965 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,919 Speaker 2: you'll find out. Yeah, anyway, So that's what I did. 966 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:29,520 Speaker 2: But I would say anyone who creates a business automatically 967 00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 2: has to have a little chip on their shoulder because 968 00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,960 Speaker 2: you have so many people telling you what can't be 969 00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:39,080 Speaker 2: done and everyone telling you why it won't work. As 970 00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:42,359 Speaker 2: opposed to figuring out you're figuring out how to make 971 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:45,719 Speaker 2: it work. So if you don't have that energy, you 972 00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:47,480 Speaker 2: aren't a good entrepreneur. 973 00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:49,320 Speaker 1: You know, especially as a woman. 974 00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 2: Oh it's harder as a woman because there's a couple 975 00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,279 Speaker 2: of things that people don't like. Women don't like it 976 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:58,319 Speaker 2: and men don't like it. When women get mad, they're like, 977 00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:01,960 Speaker 2: oh they're mad. It's like yeah, you know, So it's 978 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,960 Speaker 2: a weird We have a weird dynamic always and it's 979 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:07,799 Speaker 2: always it's going to be there. I mean I was 980 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:11,160 Speaker 2: hoping it would die before I died, but it won't. 981 00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:15,239 Speaker 2: It's just there. It's unfortunate, but you can't let other 982 00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:19,120 Speaker 2: people stop you and their opinions. So they may think that, 983 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,040 Speaker 2: but then what do you think of people like that? Well, 984 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 2: I think they actually aren't very evolved, So let them 985 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 2: do what they're going to do, and I'm going to 986 00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,399 Speaker 2: do what I'm going to do. But it's still hard 987 00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 2: every time, you know, especially when you think you know 988 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 2: someone and then they drop a bomb on you and 989 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:35,680 Speaker 2: you're like, oh, well, you know, sometimes you see what 990 00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:36,839 Speaker 2: you want to see. 991 00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:38,080 Speaker 1: But like, what do you think is the learning there? 992 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:39,680 Speaker 1: It's kind of like you need to have a close 993 00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:41,719 Speaker 1: inner circle, especially when you get to the point that. 994 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,640 Speaker 2: Well, you do, but then you don't want to cut 995 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:47,040 Speaker 2: yourself off. So I think the learning is you're stronger 996 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:51,000 Speaker 2: than a person's negative thoughts and feelings, and that people 997 00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:55,040 Speaker 2: reveal themselves over time. And then on the more generous 998 00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,719 Speaker 2: thing is we're all human trying to figure it out, 999 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:02,640 Speaker 2: and you know, something obviously went wrong in their childhood 1000 00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:04,439 Speaker 2: or went wrong, and they're trying to figure it out, 1001 00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:06,640 Speaker 2: and you're not in the same wavelength, and so you 1002 00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:09,960 Speaker 2: just give them compassion. So that's like once you move 1003 00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,200 Speaker 2: past the ego thing and you can move into compassion. 1004 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:17,640 Speaker 2: Because I mean, there are some pretty scary people out 1005 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,759 Speaker 2: there that have medical conditions. I think narcissm is one 1006 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:25,440 Speaker 2: of them that's really scary, But most people don't aren't narcissists, 1007 00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:28,279 Speaker 2: and most people aren't trying to hurt someone else. They're 1008 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,200 Speaker 2: just hurt and they haven't got the skills yet. 1009 00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:33,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and a lot of people are out for themselves, 1010 00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,440 Speaker 1: especially when they're young and in their career. 1011 00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:39,480 Speaker 2: And well, I understand that because, look, you have energy, 1012 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:44,560 Speaker 2: you have optimism. Hopefully you come out thinking I can 1013 00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:47,399 Speaker 2: do this or I'm going to figure it out. And 1014 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:50,120 Speaker 2: also you just have when you're young, you have like 1015 00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:54,520 Speaker 2: racing hormones too, so you've got a lot to think about. 1016 00:51:55,160 --> 00:52:01,280 Speaker 2: That's all good fuel, you know. And I think people 1017 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,719 Speaker 2: that really want to build a business and want to 1018 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 2: figure it out when they're young it's the best time. 1019 00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 2: It's also great when you're older, but it's great because 1020 00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 2: the cost. Even when I left Clorax, the guy says, 1021 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,200 Speaker 2: you'll never work with anyone as smart as you have 1022 00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:18,080 Speaker 2: the people at Clorax, which turned out not to be true, 1023 00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 2: although the people at Clarax were smart and you know, 1024 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,440 Speaker 2: you know this company may fail. It's like, and I 1025 00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:26,040 Speaker 2: said to him, I'm young, and you know, I even 1026 00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,279 Speaker 2: told him I took half my salary. And I'm like, 1027 00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:31,880 Speaker 2: I'm too young to be like worried about those things. 1028 00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:35,399 Speaker 2: And I think youth, that's the beauty of youth. You've 1029 00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:39,400 Speaker 2: got latitude and time to figure out everything. At some 1030 00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 2: point you don't, so your point, you don't. 1031 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,400 Speaker 1: But what I like, really respect about you is I 1032 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:48,000 Speaker 1: think like as people get over, they get older, right, 1033 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,319 Speaker 1: they always say like they take less risk. But you 1034 00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:53,919 Speaker 1: weren't somebody that was afraid to take risk and get scrappy, right, 1035 00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,520 Speaker 1: And at fifty two you start the. 1036 00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:59,520 Speaker 2: Real real Let's be real here. Tell me I lost 1037 00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,440 Speaker 2: half my money and my my ex husband was a 1038 00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 2: social worker, so I think it's fair to say that 1039 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,480 Speaker 2: I made the money all right, So I lost half 1040 00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:11,440 Speaker 2: the money in the divorce. I'm no one in tech 1041 00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,680 Speaker 2: likes a failure, even though they say, oh we're we're 1042 00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:17,680 Speaker 2: you know, we embrace failure. They don't embrace failure. And 1043 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 2: when being a woman is really hard in tech anyway, 1044 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:24,279 Speaker 2: And so I had to figure something out because I 1045 00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:27,520 Speaker 2: was running out of money. So yes, of course I 1046 00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,520 Speaker 2: got scrappy. What is that? What are we going to do? 1047 00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:32,040 Speaker 2: Sit there and cry for another ten years and then 1048 00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:33,480 Speaker 2: collect so so security. 1049 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:35,839 Speaker 1: I mean it to hit rock bottom and you had 1050 00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:36,839 Speaker 1: to lift yourself out of it. 1051 00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:39,800 Speaker 2: I don't know if it was it was rock bottom 1052 00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,240 Speaker 2: for me. I mean when you hear other people's stories 1053 00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 2: that they really hit rock bottom, an unimaginable rock bottom. 1054 00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,400 Speaker 2: I mean, I didn't drown myself in alcohol and drugs, 1055 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:52,520 Speaker 2: but I did drown myself in letting other people's opinion 1056 00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:57,160 Speaker 2: affect me. And I'm so glad, the real real I'm 1057 00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:59,160 Speaker 2: so thankful it worked out. I knew it was going 1058 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 2: to work out, and you had to get scrappy. No 1059 00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,359 Speaker 2: one else was going to clean the toilets, take out 1060 00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 2: the trash, you the product, negotiate with ups, you know, 1061 00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:11,799 Speaker 2: find a photographer that didn't mind stepping into a bathroom, 1062 00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:14,440 Speaker 2: you know, to take a photo. When we first got started, 1063 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:16,600 Speaker 2: though most of them didn't want to do that, by 1064 00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:18,000 Speaker 2: the way, right, that was so hard. 1065 00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:21,759 Speaker 1: And when you guys first got started, consignment wasn't as 1066 00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:23,399 Speaker 1: big of a thing, right, And then I noticed there 1067 00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,120 Speaker 1: were vintage stores on the Upper East Side that for 1068 00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:28,200 Speaker 1: years women were going to, right and they would I remember, 1069 00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:31,879 Speaker 1: like my Jeremy's mom, my, my husband's mom always talks 1070 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,920 Speaker 1: about the consignment stores that she would go into uptown 1071 00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:36,640 Speaker 1: and she'd be able to find good pieces. Right. So 1072 00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:38,600 Speaker 1: there was that element of like vintage shopping. 1073 00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:41,600 Speaker 2: But no one had brought the internet and harnessed the 1074 00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:44,160 Speaker 2: power of the internet, and no one had provided the 1075 00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,640 Speaker 2: service on a national level that we did, and no 1076 00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:48,200 Speaker 2: one had authenticated the goods. 1077 00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:50,319 Speaker 1: So when did the idea spark for you? Oh? 1078 00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:53,279 Speaker 2: When I was shopping with my girlfriend and that's where 1079 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,880 Speaker 2: she spent her money. And we used to shop together 1080 00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:59,520 Speaker 2: all the time, because you know women, we used to 1081 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:02,000 Speaker 2: buy suit all the time. You buy the they weren't 1082 00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,040 Speaker 2: sold as separates, like you'd have to buy the suit. 1083 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:06,480 Speaker 2: And I was like a four on the top and 1084 00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:08,520 Speaker 2: a two on the bottom. She was a two on 1085 00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:10,080 Speaker 2: the top and a four in the bottom. So we'd 1086 00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,640 Speaker 2: go shopping and switch outfits. We'd like, here, we're buyings. 1087 00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:16,400 Speaker 2: I love that, so you have like a complete suit 1088 00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:19,319 Speaker 2: that fit you as opposed to getting altered. But I mean, 1089 00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:22,400 Speaker 2: she's a lot of this is an so she's a 1090 00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:25,759 Speaker 2: lot of fun and we love shopping together. I had 1091 00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,200 Speaker 2: never seen her walk into a consignment store, so it 1092 00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:34,360 Speaker 2: was an apparent behavior. But I had already said moving 1093 00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:38,680 Speaker 2: into luxury is something Amazon will never do. And I 1094 00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,560 Speaker 2: knew I wasn't going to start a luxury bring but 1095 00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:44,040 Speaker 2: I had that nugget rating, you know, just resting somewhere 1096 00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:47,880 Speaker 2: in my head. And then I saw luxury opportunity in 1097 00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:50,879 Speaker 2: a place that had never been done research. I didn't 1098 00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:55,040 Speaker 2: even realize how large the luxury market was. Researched, what 1099 00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:58,879 Speaker 2: I could understand in terms of, you know how much 1100 00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:01,920 Speaker 2: builds up over time, you know how much closet, how 1101 00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:04,480 Speaker 2: much comes out. What's the average time for the product 1102 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:07,640 Speaker 2: to stay in someone's closet. How do people get through 1103 00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,400 Speaker 2: the PI bridge? Well, now I think it's about two years, 1104 00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:13,560 Speaker 2: two to three years, but people hold onto a bag 1105 00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:17,160 Speaker 2: bags a little longer, and it depends on the bags, 1106 00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:19,280 Speaker 2: but I would say two to three years. On the clothes, 1107 00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:22,719 Speaker 2: bags can be five to seven. But some people, you know, 1108 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:24,360 Speaker 2: flip fast if it's trendy. 1109 00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,000 Speaker 1: Well, there's a lot of people too that like to 1110 00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,920 Speaker 1: justify buying something new, They'll have to get they have 1111 00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:31,759 Speaker 1: like a theory, but they get rid of, you know, 1112 00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:34,000 Speaker 1: certain things, right, And I try to do that sometimes. 1113 00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,560 Speaker 2: Well that's what's the real real enable right now. I 1114 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 2: do that all the time. I'm like, okay, I'm going 1115 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,520 Speaker 2: to sell this and then I'm going to buy. 1116 00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,480 Speaker 1: This, right, especially in New York when we have limited clausets, right, 1117 00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:45,840 Speaker 1: like we have to be sappy with our clothes and 1118 00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:49,520 Speaker 1: how we keep ourselves organized and almost slightly minimalized, but 1119 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:50,719 Speaker 1: not really right right now. 1120 00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,759 Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, I'm always rotating things, and the real 1121 00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:56,239 Speaker 2: world allows me to do it. But half, I would say, 1122 00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,640 Speaker 2: I just had to pick up this week, and half 1123 00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:02,400 Speaker 2: of it was things I can signed, which is also 1124 00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:03,680 Speaker 2: an amazing value. 1125 00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,520 Speaker 1: Then, okay, so I want to ask you about the 1126 00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,920 Speaker 1: fact because you came from the tech world, right right, 1127 00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,000 Speaker 1: But were you always fashionable? 1128 00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:13,240 Speaker 2: Sadly? Yes, I always like fashion? 1129 00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,240 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so you always liked brands? 1130 00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:19,040 Speaker 2: I did, And I've always spent two much twenty in clothes, 1131 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:23,280 Speaker 2: which doesn't mean I understand merchandising, and it certainly meant 1132 00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,960 Speaker 2: I mean I certainly wasn't cool, so it wasn't cool, 1133 00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 2: but I understood. I mean look I loved Look, this 1134 00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,440 Speaker 2: comes back, I'm sure for my mother being wanting to 1135 00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:36,560 Speaker 2: be a fashion illustrator, and she loved good designed. She 1136 00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:39,040 Speaker 2: loved good fabrics. Like I said, if she saw something 1137 00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,280 Speaker 2: in somebody's house like the rug, she would say, when 1138 00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:43,080 Speaker 2: you're ready to sell it? Because she thought it was 1139 00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:47,240 Speaker 2: beautiful and beautifully made. So I think all of those 1140 00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:52,000 Speaker 2: things built into it. My mother was pretty fashionable in 1141 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,760 Speaker 2: the sixties. I mean, she had the whole thing going. 1142 00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:59,280 Speaker 2: So I do love it. I've always loved it. I've 1143 00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:03,960 Speaker 2: always honored I always thought they were artists, and I 1144 00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:06,760 Speaker 2: always spent way too much money on clothes, so this 1145 00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:10,800 Speaker 2: helped to offset my need. But that wasn't that. It 1146 00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,000 Speaker 2: was also a good business. I wouldn't have done it 1147 00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:15,560 Speaker 2: just done that. Like I said, I never bought resale 1148 00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,600 Speaker 2: till I started the real rail and now I shop 1149 00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:18,560 Speaker 2: reseale regularly. 1150 00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,120 Speaker 1: And it took time, I'm sure to get people, the 1151 00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:25,960 Speaker 1: consumer to adapt to consignment and trust it. Right. 1152 00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:28,160 Speaker 2: I just think we did such a good job. I 1153 00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:30,480 Speaker 2: mean there were always some there's always people that are 1154 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:33,480 Speaker 2: like you know that didn't trust us, or it was 1155 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:38,280 Speaker 2: weirded out by it or something. But we made such 1156 00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:41,440 Speaker 2: an effort to make it look hip and modern. Our 1157 00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 2: challenge in the company's challenge is still probably this was 1158 00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:51,080 Speaker 2: getting product in, not selling it. And most people were 1159 00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:55,720 Speaker 2: so comfortable with giving us letting us try using the 1160 00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:58,120 Speaker 2: internet to help sell their goods because it was just 1161 00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:00,560 Speaker 2: sitting there. And then once people got there for check, 1162 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:03,520 Speaker 2: they're like, oh, I'm going to do this again. So 1163 00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:08,439 Speaker 2: the repeat rate from the very beginning was very, very high, 1164 00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:12,680 Speaker 2: and any issues, I mean, let's just put it this way, 1165 00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:14,360 Speaker 2: and this is sort of the way the world works. 1166 00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:17,440 Speaker 2: When things happen that are new, the coast tend to 1167 00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:22,080 Speaker 2: adopt faster, and specifically New York is a fast adopter, 1168 00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:27,800 Speaker 2: fast trier. San Francisco fits technology. Obviously, is LA a 1169 00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:30,760 Speaker 2: little later but not much later, but anyone up and 1170 00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:35,440 Speaker 2: down the coast, Florida medium, but New York, LA, San 1171 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:39,200 Speaker 2: Francisco early adopters. Well, just with those cities alone, you've 1172 00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:41,840 Speaker 2: got almost twenty million people. Not quite, but if you 1173 00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:44,400 Speaker 2: do the broader Bay area, you've got twenty million people 1174 00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,800 Speaker 2: to run some good tests on and then when you 1175 00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:51,800 Speaker 2: start moving in it was a key city plan. Chicago's 1176 00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 2: a little later, but not much later. Like two years later, 1177 00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:58,320 Speaker 2: and Texas was like, for you, we had someone in 1178 00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:01,720 Speaker 2: Texas right away, but it was so slow. So Texas, Texas. 1179 01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:04,120 Speaker 2: People like what they like and you have to convince 1180 01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:06,760 Speaker 2: them to move off what they like, and it takes. 1181 01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,280 Speaker 2: It's hard, it's hard to do it. It's worth it, 1182 01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:12,000 Speaker 2: but it's hard to do it. So I would say 1183 01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:16,040 Speaker 2: that we won in the Bay Area and New York 1184 01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:20,920 Speaker 2: faster than I thought, and the other markets came as 1185 01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:24,280 Speaker 2: they came. But if we didn't win in New York 1186 01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:26,720 Speaker 2: and we didn't win in the Bay Area, it wouldn't 1187 01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:27,120 Speaker 2: have worked. 1188 01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:28,800 Speaker 1: It definitely makes sense. Also, New York is like the 1189 01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:31,640 Speaker 1: mecca of like fashion is I mean, the people here, 1190 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 1: it's it's crazy. Like I was rewatching Sex in the 1191 01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:35,160 Speaker 1: city this year. 1192 01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:38,320 Speaker 2: It's so good for the original right Regal alone, Oh my. 1193 01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:40,280 Speaker 1: Gosh, and just to see the bags and everything that 1194 01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:43,280 Speaker 1: they were wearing. It's just it's really cool. How did 1195 01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:45,680 Speaker 1: you get people to adapt? Like when you guys did 1196 01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,480 Speaker 1: your first couple of drops, right, like, who were you 1197 01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:49,400 Speaker 1: sourcing from? 1198 01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:51,920 Speaker 2: Who was Oh, you know what we did and from 1199 01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:53,520 Speaker 2: the beginning we said we're going to come pick it 1200 01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:56,680 Speaker 2: up and we were giving people seventy percent off, so 1201 01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:58,520 Speaker 2: if they dropped off from a brick and mortar store, 1202 01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:01,800 Speaker 2: they'd get fifty five maybe percent. Had no visibility in 1203 01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,680 Speaker 2: the sales. It's like, now we'll give you. At the beginning, 1204 01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:08,680 Speaker 2: everything was seventy percent to the consigner because we had 1205 01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:10,840 Speaker 2: to have a way in. And then over time we 1206 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:13,320 Speaker 2: changed that and did it. You know, some products you 1207 01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:16,560 Speaker 2: can still get eighty five points on, but we had 1208 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:21,080 Speaker 2: to change it based on the product and sell ability 1209 01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:24,760 Speaker 2: of the product. The other thing was we always had 1210 01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:27,680 Speaker 2: to price it to move, so we weren't looking for 1211 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:33,280 Speaker 2: the best price. My fear was I'd be warehousing product 1212 01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:35,240 Speaker 2: and nothing would sell. So what I was looking for 1213 01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:38,959 Speaker 2: was the optimal price within a ninety day window, which 1214 01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:42,120 Speaker 2: meant that this was all made up, But it was 1215 01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:45,840 Speaker 2: based on good knowledge of just mechanics of not wanting 1216 01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,800 Speaker 2: to get a bigger warehouse and understanding how people think. 1217 01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,120 Speaker 2: I want a ninety percent of all product to sell 1218 01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:54,280 Speaker 2: in ninety days, which meant that if it didn't sell 1219 01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:56,920 Speaker 2: in the first couple weeks, that the price had to 1220 01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,080 Speaker 2: come down. We were wrong in the price. Now quite 1221 01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:02,520 Speaker 2: a bit of that spent automated to some degree, but 1222 01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,160 Speaker 2: it really is finding that sweet spot and price point 1223 01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:07,320 Speaker 2: because if you're if you give us your goods and 1224 01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:09,680 Speaker 2: you don't know where they are, you don't see them anymore, 1225 01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:13,240 Speaker 2: which did freak out some early consigners. They're just disappeared 1226 01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,640 Speaker 2: and then you see it on the website but they're 1227 01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:19,840 Speaker 2: not selling. Then you're like, okay, well what am I do? 1228 01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,840 Speaker 2: I want my goods back? You know what's happening. They're 1229 01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 2: not selling, so you needed to hit the right price 1230 01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:28,120 Speaker 2: that made the consumer happy. But at the end of 1231 01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:32,000 Speaker 2: the day, it's a marketplace, so if people weren't biting 1232 01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:35,360 Speaker 2: at that price point, then your price was too high. 1233 01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,120 Speaker 2: It had to come down, and then you try to 1234 01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:39,880 Speaker 2: go five percent ten percent down. And the thing is, 1235 01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:42,400 Speaker 2: the Real Rold never made a flat fee, so they 1236 01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:45,240 Speaker 2: owe it. We made more money if the consigner made money, 1237 01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:47,640 Speaker 2: so it always made sense because we took a percent 1238 01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:51,040 Speaker 2: of the sale to get the highest price, but not 1239 01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:53,560 Speaker 2: have product building up in the warehouse that wasn't going 1240 01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:57,280 Speaker 2: to sell. Hence focusing on only key products. The Real 1241 01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:01,440 Speaker 2: Rold didn't never took all products, select group of products 1242 01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:06,560 Speaker 2: that we knew had high consumer traction and sell throughability. 1243 01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:08,600 Speaker 1: Right, Like, what were the brands that you guys prioritized 1244 01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:09,240 Speaker 1: in the early. 1245 01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:12,680 Speaker 2: Days of the top ones which are still there like Chanel, 1246 01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:21,280 Speaker 2: Louis Vuitton, Prada, Gucci, Armez Rolex. Those are really a 1247 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:25,000 Speaker 2: cartier all right, some of the best brands, and then 1248 01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:26,960 Speaker 2: ones that we didn't believe it or not. We did 1249 01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:31,200 Speaker 2: not take in Diando on Furstenberg dress that's at the 1250 01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:33,440 Speaker 2: beginning because we said it's not luxury. We added them 1251 01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:36,640 Speaker 2: later and they sell so fast they do so we 1252 01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:40,439 Speaker 2: as we built the brand, we started expanding into mid 1253 01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:41,480 Speaker 2: tier luxury. 1254 01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:44,400 Speaker 1: Iro Yes, and Iro is one of the first jackets 1255 01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:45,680 Speaker 1: I bought for myself on the reil. 1256 01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,720 Speaker 2: Which was probably great because we got some amazing their 1257 01:03:48,840 --> 01:03:50,920 Speaker 2: leather jackets. Did you buy a leather I. 1258 01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,760 Speaker 1: Bought a Oh gosh, what are they called. It's not leather, 1259 01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:57,680 Speaker 1: it's cheerlying. Oh, that's fabulous, And it was like I remember, 1260 01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,560 Speaker 1: I bought and it was like the most expensive jacket 1261 01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:03,040 Speaker 1: I'd ever for myself, and I just loved it. And 1262 01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:06,320 Speaker 1: then my mom left it in one of our closets 1263 01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 1: that had too much light in the summer. I got 1264 01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:13,520 Speaker 1: the house and it just got I don't like sunburnt. Honestly, 1265 01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,000 Speaker 1: I don't even know how to explain it, but you know, 1266 01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:19,000 Speaker 1: when you it literally bleached it. But I got so 1267 01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:20,400 Speaker 1: much good wear out of that jacket. 1268 01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:23,160 Speaker 2: Now I love that. Yeah. So we did expand brands, 1269 01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:27,920 Speaker 2: expanded categories, and I then went down to mid tier luxury, 1270 01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:30,120 Speaker 2: which I think is where the innovation is. It's so 1271 01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:33,200 Speaker 2: much fun mid tier, especially now, I think it's fun. 1272 01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:44,200 Speaker 1: When you first started out. Obviously, it's like you kind 1273 01:04:44,240 --> 01:04:47,480 Speaker 1: of know the mainstream brands, right the Gucci, theremaz the 1274 01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:49,720 Speaker 1: brands that you just listed, But there still is like 1275 01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:51,960 Speaker 1: a lot to learn about that luxury category. So, like, 1276 01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:53,560 Speaker 1: what were some of the things that you even though 1277 01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:55,840 Speaker 1: you were somebody that loved brands and loved fashion and 1278 01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:57,840 Speaker 1: grew up around it with a mom that loved it, Like, 1279 01:04:58,320 --> 01:04:59,600 Speaker 1: what were some of the things that you had to 1280 01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:02,240 Speaker 1: learn quickly that you maybe didn't know going into the 1281 01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:03,000 Speaker 1: fashion space. 1282 01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:05,800 Speaker 2: Well, let me tell you what our process was. Because 1283 01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:08,600 Speaker 2: every problem has a solution, So I don't think we 1284 01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:10,880 Speaker 2: didn't know it, It's just we had to figure out things. 1285 01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:14,880 Speaker 2: So here's what we did. We copied, We crawled all 1286 01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:18,200 Speaker 2: of Nieman Marcus's sacks. At that time, there was a 1287 01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:22,560 Speaker 2: Barney's Norse from site filtered it for the highest priced items, 1288 01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:26,240 Speaker 2: all right, So we knew exactly what their boys were, 1289 01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:29,880 Speaker 2: all right, and we would watch and watch the prices 1290 01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:35,959 Speaker 2: over time. So our first pickup was a super set 1291 01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:39,320 Speaker 2: of all the brands combined that those stores carried, all right. 1292 01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:43,160 Speaker 2: So that's number one number. So that was important because 1293 01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:45,240 Speaker 2: we knew because I always say, they know where the 1294 01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:47,440 Speaker 2: bodies are they buried, you know, they know where the 1295 01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:50,479 Speaker 2: goods are because they were the prime sellers at the time. 1296 01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:53,080 Speaker 2: The boutiques weren't as successful as they are now and 1297 01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:56,959 Speaker 2: weren't as widespread, so they know where the bodies are. 1298 01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,840 Speaker 2: So that was really important to understand that we wanted 1299 01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:02,880 Speaker 2: to covered the brands that they cover because they also 1300 01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:07,600 Speaker 2: have the highest value in the highest credibility. And then 1301 01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:09,320 Speaker 2: we had to figure out where we're going to put people. 1302 01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:14,440 Speaker 2: And again we didn't just look at population size. We 1303 01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 2: also looked at where do these retailers have a bigger 1304 01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:20,800 Speaker 2: store and what was their square because they're not going 1305 01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:23,840 Speaker 2: to put a bigger store in a low value area. 1306 01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:26,720 Speaker 2: So we sort of mapped our plan and where we're 1307 01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,200 Speaker 2: going to put people outside of New York based on 1308 01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:31,600 Speaker 2: the square footage of where they So all you did 1309 01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,800 Speaker 2: we look for precedents that showed us that we're strategic 1310 01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:39,120 Speaker 2: precedents because the data wasn't available. And then after that 1311 01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:43,960 Speaker 2: everything we did around I would say we've always been 1312 01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:48,880 Speaker 2: data driven, but by year five we had phenomenal tools 1313 01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,200 Speaker 2: on our own business and it just kept getting better. 1314 01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:55,080 Speaker 2: We had a phenomenal dashboard every group did to understand 1315 01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:57,280 Speaker 2: where the business was at all times, and it's gotten 1316 01:06:57,320 --> 01:06:59,880 Speaker 2: better since I've left. They can now tell you what 1317 01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:03,440 Speaker 2: the value that's come into the warehouse when it ships, 1318 01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:05,600 Speaker 2: which is not something that you could do before. 1319 01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:07,680 Speaker 1: I know that you read about this in your book 1320 01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:09,360 Speaker 1: because on our walk you kind of referenced some of 1321 01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:11,280 Speaker 1: the mistakes that you guys made along the way during 1322 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:13,360 Speaker 1: the business in some of the hiccups. What were some 1323 01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:16,520 Speaker 1: of those big hiccups that became like pivotal turning points 1324 01:07:16,520 --> 01:07:17,400 Speaker 1: for the real Really. 1325 01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:18,920 Speaker 2: We didn't have turning points, but I'll tell you what 1326 01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,080 Speaker 2: we learned a lot. So the first time we the 1327 01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:24,480 Speaker 2: very first sale, we had cart hoarders and we're like, 1328 01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:28,720 Speaker 2: no one's buying everything. People just like one person put everything, 1329 01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:31,680 Speaker 2: everything in their cart and then we're like, we need 1330 01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:34,840 Speaker 2: a cart timer. Yeah, otherwise this business is going to die. 1331 01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:38,200 Speaker 2: So that hence the cart timer. When we opened our 1332 01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:41,520 Speaker 2: first pop up, well, first store was a pop up 1333 01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:44,000 Speaker 2: in Soho. When I say this, you're going to be like, 1334 01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:46,120 Speaker 2: you didn't think of this, So it's so obvious, but 1335 01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:49,160 Speaker 2: we didn't think of it. We had no idea people 1336 01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:51,600 Speaker 2: were going to come in with consignment and want to 1337 01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:56,480 Speaker 2: consign the spot. We're like, oh, I guess yeah, we're 1338 01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:59,600 Speaker 2: a consignment store. That's what people do in a consignment store. 1339 01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:03,160 Speaker 2: We had no idea. We had no space for them 1340 01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:05,520 Speaker 2: to work. We had in our little pop up eight 1341 01:08:05,560 --> 01:08:09,280 Speaker 2: weeks we generated so much consignment. 1342 01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:10,880 Speaker 1: Like they would come and bring them bring their things. 1343 01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:13,520 Speaker 2: But that's what people do right before the real rail 1344 01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:16,439 Speaker 2: right never occurred to us because we weren't brick and 1345 01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:18,720 Speaker 2: mortar people that that's what people would do. 1346 01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:20,720 Speaker 1: So how did you adopt quickly to that? 1347 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:24,560 Speaker 2: When we launched the store, we made consignment offices and 1348 01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,920 Speaker 2: made that whole area downstairs and we're like, well, we 1349 01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:29,639 Speaker 2: got to We've got to make we had this has 1350 01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:31,400 Speaker 2: to be comfortable. You can't just do it on the 1351 01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:34,360 Speaker 2: floor and go through things. So we had to switch 1352 01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:38,000 Speaker 2: our thinking. Just to give you an idea, that Soho store, 1353 01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:41,519 Speaker 2: which is still there on Wooster, was our first store 1354 01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:45,439 Speaker 2: ever in the US, and all the learning from the 1355 01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:49,960 Speaker 2: pop up we applied. But when this is before COVID hit, 1356 01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:54,479 Speaker 2: that store was doing eighty million dollars a year, of 1357 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:58,160 Speaker 2: which half of it was consignment coming in. So we 1358 01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:01,080 Speaker 2: looked at total GMV value you of that store, so 1359 01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:06,640 Speaker 2: forty million in sales and forty million of incremental consignment 1360 01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:08,519 Speaker 2: coming in. I mean, it was always so hard to 1361 01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:13,080 Speaker 2: prove incremental versus pickup, but some of it was clearly incremental. 1362 01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:15,040 Speaker 2: But that's one of those things like when you sit 1363 01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:17,760 Speaker 2: back and you're like, of course people wanted to do that. 1364 01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:23,200 Speaker 2: So it's things I would say, it's more about taking 1365 01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:25,960 Speaker 2: a trial and thinking, oh, we were really smart, and 1366 01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:27,719 Speaker 2: then you feel like you're not that smart. You missed 1367 01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:29,720 Speaker 2: the basic thing to do. 1368 01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:31,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're just learning things along the way. And I 1369 01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:35,000 Speaker 1: think something about like dropping off consignment at a consignment store, Like, 1370 01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:37,599 Speaker 1: you're right, that is a thing that at thrift stores, 1371 01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:39,960 Speaker 1: even in New York invinted shops, like in any city. 1372 01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:41,559 Speaker 1: That's the big thing is you go and you drop 1373 01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:43,280 Speaker 1: off your bags of clothes and they take it and 1374 01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:45,080 Speaker 1: they give you a you know, a price for it whatever. 1375 01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:48,040 Speaker 1: So it's kind of fun that it turned into that 1376 01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:49,120 Speaker 1: being a part of your business. 1377 01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:50,120 Speaker 2: Well it had to be. 1378 01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:50,479 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1379 01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:53,559 Speaker 2: So the other thing, which I thought was really funny, 1380 01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:56,400 Speaker 2: we weren't prepared in the pop up to take cash. 1381 01:09:56,920 --> 01:10:02,240 Speaker 2: I'm like cash, because you're a online business, like people 1382 01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:04,120 Speaker 2: buy things on cash. 1383 01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:06,439 Speaker 1: I know that sounds funny, not even then, like you 1384 01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:07,479 Speaker 1: guys didn't think about. 1385 01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:09,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, we didn't think about cash. Then all of 1386 01:10:09,200 --> 01:10:11,120 Speaker 2: a sudden we had to like get a secure cash 1387 01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:14,280 Speaker 2: register bring cash in, Like and of course we're going 1388 01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:17,320 Speaker 2: to say yes. But I remember taking this person one 1389 01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:19,599 Speaker 2: to pay cash for an expensive handbag and I needed 1390 01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:23,400 Speaker 2: like one hundred dollars back or something. And I remember 1391 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:25,880 Speaker 2: going and asking employees, like, do you have any money 1392 01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:27,760 Speaker 2: so we can give this? Because we weren't set up 1393 01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:30,360 Speaker 2: for that. We weren't going to miss the sale, so 1394 01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:32,599 Speaker 2: we yeah, we just like cleaned out our own wallets 1395 01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:35,160 Speaker 2: to make sure this guy got his return on his Like, 1396 01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:40,400 Speaker 2: isn't that funny? It's so stupid. It's like we weren't retailers. 1397 01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:44,559 Speaker 2: We were online retailers, but we weren't brick and mortar 1398 01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:49,080 Speaker 2: retailers at that time. And those two things I'll never forget. 1399 01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:51,639 Speaker 2: Because the cash thing, it's like, of course people paying cash. 1400 01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:54,240 Speaker 2: I pay in cash, right, not so much anymore, but 1401 01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:54,639 Speaker 2: I did. 1402 01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:56,640 Speaker 1: Then. What was the first product that you bought from 1403 01:10:56,640 --> 01:10:57,080 Speaker 1: the real reall? 1404 01:10:57,280 --> 01:11:01,559 Speaker 2: Remember, yes I do. I even know the consigner's name. 1405 01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:05,200 Speaker 2: It was a Marshalli sweater and it was so cool 1406 01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:09,240 Speaker 2: and it had like this cute it really was, no, 1407 01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:13,559 Speaker 2: this is crazy. It was a gray cashmere sweater and 1408 01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:16,759 Speaker 2: it had arms, no sweater, but it also had arms 1409 01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:19,800 Speaker 2: that came around like you've tied another sweater around it 1410 01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:21,920 Speaker 2: and you just tie it around. And it was just 1411 01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:25,200 Speaker 2: so chic and so, you know, silly on some level, 1412 01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:29,240 Speaker 2: so playful that and I loved it. So that was first. 1413 01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:32,760 Speaker 2: My favorite things have always been the jewelry. The fine 1414 01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:35,639 Speaker 2: jewelry is really nice. I don't have any on today 1415 01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:39,599 Speaker 2: because I thought we were doing a workout, but you know, 1416 01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:43,559 Speaker 2: Cartier is really fabulous. I've bought different watches and sold 1417 01:11:43,560 --> 01:11:47,639 Speaker 2: different watches there. Rolex is still one of my favorite 1418 01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:52,880 Speaker 2: watch brands because the introductory price points high, but it's 1419 01:11:53,120 --> 01:11:54,920 Speaker 2: still you can get one for like five K, and 1420 01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:57,840 Speaker 2: the resell values always strong with the brand because they're 1421 01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:02,280 Speaker 2: so well made. So I would say the jewelry something 1422 01:12:02,320 --> 01:12:05,519 Speaker 2: I've kept. But I do remember the first purchase, and 1423 01:12:05,560 --> 01:12:08,400 Speaker 2: that was that consigner that I said when I opened 1424 01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:11,120 Speaker 2: a box the for you do everything and I'm like, 1425 01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:13,479 Speaker 2: this person is my style, and then you're like, oh, 1426 01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:17,040 Speaker 2: this person's my size. Right. She was remarkable. And then 1427 01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:18,880 Speaker 2: one of us lost their gain weight. I don't know, 1428 01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:22,800 Speaker 2: we fell out of rhythm, but but then I was like, oh, 1429 01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:28,120 Speaker 2: I can't wear things anymore. So that was disappointing, but 1430 01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:30,320 Speaker 2: we had a good run together. She didn't even know. 1431 01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:32,559 Speaker 2: I was like, because like I said, we had a 1432 01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:36,080 Speaker 2: delay before week, employees could shop at the site and 1433 01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:38,320 Speaker 2: every time I'm like, I'm going to get that right. 1434 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:38,960 Speaker 2: It would fit. 1435 01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:40,760 Speaker 1: There was a funny story that you told on a 1436 01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,800 Speaker 1: recent interview, and I'm curious if it's in the book 1437 01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:45,360 Speaker 1: to the story, but the woman was it in with 1438 01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:47,679 Speaker 1: the woman in California that was having her. 1439 01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:52,080 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh channel. Yes, So she had a seamstress 1440 01:12:52,120 --> 01:12:55,080 Speaker 2: and she was making fake chanel outfits and she was 1441 01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:59,000 Speaker 2: she's quite she was quite the socialite, and she was 1442 01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:04,280 Speaker 2: always photographed in these products and they were good replicas. 1443 01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:07,599 Speaker 2: But they were replicas. The resell value would have been 1444 01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:11,040 Speaker 2: way over one hundred thousand dollars. She wasn't doing handbags, 1445 01:13:11,080 --> 01:13:15,800 Speaker 2: just clothing and right off the runway clothing. And we 1446 01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:18,880 Speaker 2: we did not put her in jail, which we should have, 1447 01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:21,720 Speaker 2: but we did blacklister and keep the items and said 1448 01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:26,200 Speaker 2: we know these are fakes, but we said, if you 1449 01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:30,400 Speaker 2: do this again, we will actually take legal action against you. 1450 01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:33,760 Speaker 2: And sure enough she came back with you know, her 1451 01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:36,439 Speaker 2: husband's like, oh, she doesn't do that anymore, Like, no, 1452 01:13:36,520 --> 01:13:39,599 Speaker 2: we're done with you. I'm sorry. But in most cases 1453 01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:42,880 Speaker 2: we would, especially with companies that made up well, she 1454 01:13:42,960 --> 01:13:45,080 Speaker 2: was trying to make a business out of it, but 1455 01:13:45,160 --> 01:13:48,599 Speaker 2: there are low level counterfeitters everywhere in the US. 1456 01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:50,920 Speaker 1: And isn't that crazy somebody that's like a socialite that 1457 01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:53,360 Speaker 1: has money. That's the funniest part about it. 1458 01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:55,840 Speaker 2: The whole thing, the luxury. And then they were going 1459 01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:57,760 Speaker 2: to fool us, and they're going to fool us. That 1460 01:13:57,840 --> 01:13:59,320 Speaker 2: was the other thing. They're like, oh, they don't know 1461 01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:01,560 Speaker 2: what they're doing, Like these aren't real. 1462 01:14:01,560 --> 01:14:04,320 Speaker 1: So for context this this woman had a seamstress that 1463 01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:07,000 Speaker 1: was really good at making Chanell counterfeit products, and she 1464 01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:11,040 Speaker 1: would buy the Chanel, bring it to her and return 1465 01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:14,280 Speaker 1: it right. Her Chanelle sales rep was probably like, what 1466 01:14:14,400 --> 01:14:14,920 Speaker 1: is going on? 1467 01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:17,840 Speaker 2: Well, at some point, I'm sure they're cut it off, right. Yeah, 1468 01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:21,640 Speaker 2: So it was Yeah, people are wild. I mean that 1469 01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:23,639 Speaker 2: we had people are wild. 1470 01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:24,759 Speaker 1: It's a crazy industry. 1471 01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:29,880 Speaker 2: Well, resale is because yes, there's always something, there's always 1472 01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:32,760 Speaker 2: some drama around it. So can I tell one more story? 1473 01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:34,840 Speaker 2: I know we've talked a long time, but you know, 1474 01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:37,439 Speaker 2: you hire people and they have skill sets and then 1475 01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:40,479 Speaker 2: there's some skill sets that don't map to someone being 1476 01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:42,880 Speaker 2: that when you're in a startup, you're a generalist, so 1477 01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:44,040 Speaker 2: you have to do a little bit of this. You 1478 01:14:44,080 --> 01:14:47,200 Speaker 2: have to do everything otherwise you can't make the company work. 1479 01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:50,439 Speaker 2: And we hired a banker I'm not going to give 1480 01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:55,320 Speaker 2: your name, and she was doing strategic partnerships looking out 1481 01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:58,599 Speaker 2: because like I said before, we always needed you always 1482 01:14:58,640 --> 01:15:01,639 Speaker 2: needed more watches, like were there partners? Are there any 1483 01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:04,240 Speaker 2: partners we can work with? So she was always on 1484 01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:08,320 Speaker 2: the lookout for that. One day she answered the customer 1485 01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:11,720 Speaker 2: service line, and this person and our employee I'm just 1486 01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,760 Speaker 2: going to call her Samantha, but that wasn't her name. 1487 01:15:14,840 --> 01:15:18,559 Speaker 2: Samantha was very logical, right, and she was all about 1488 01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:22,200 Speaker 2: doing deals. She answers the customer service line, and the 1489 01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:25,720 Speaker 2: person is really upset that her shoes sold at a 1490 01:15:25,760 --> 01:15:29,200 Speaker 2: certain price that she had paid I don't know, probably 1491 01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:32,599 Speaker 2: twelve hundred dollars for a pair of shoes and we 1492 01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:35,320 Speaker 2: had sold them for four hundred. She was and then 1493 01:15:35,400 --> 01:15:37,640 Speaker 2: she got seventy percent of that. So she was I 1494 01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:40,160 Speaker 2: couldn't believe it that that was all she got for 1495 01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:45,600 Speaker 2: the shoes, and was like almost hysterical, and Samantha is 1496 01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:49,960 Speaker 2: like saying, you do know you're talking about you shoes right, 1497 01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:54,040 Speaker 2: that you're all this and I'm like, oh no, I 1498 01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:56,680 Speaker 2: mean she was trying to logic her out of it, 1499 01:15:56,800 --> 01:16:00,240 Speaker 2: and she had this woman had an emotional response. And 1500 01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:03,320 Speaker 2: so I ended up taking a piece of white paper 1501 01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:08,000 Speaker 2: with marker and wrote queue cards, no, apologize now and 1502 01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:10,920 Speaker 2: say I'm really sorry, and then I'd write I understand, 1503 01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:13,439 Speaker 2: And so she ended up I was like writing real 1504 01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:17,120 Speaker 2: time cue cards for her to get this walk this 1505 01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:18,640 Speaker 2: person off the cliff. 1506 01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:20,120 Speaker 1: And how do you walk somebody off the cliff in 1507 01:16:20,120 --> 01:16:22,760 Speaker 1: that situation, because I would respond like Samantha, and I 1508 01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:24,760 Speaker 1: would be logical because you would think that's the thing 1509 01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:26,720 Speaker 1: to do, right, But I understand that that was one 1510 01:16:26,760 --> 01:16:28,439 Speaker 1: of the big things that you guys had to deal without. 1511 01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:32,040 Speaker 2: The real rule all the time, constant, constant, And also, yes, 1512 01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:35,800 Speaker 2: I think you're empathetic. You try to do something, you 1513 01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:39,000 Speaker 2: try to explain, you try to make your policies really transparent, 1514 01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:41,719 Speaker 2: so you know, but people are busy, so they miss things. 1515 01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:43,880 Speaker 2: To give them the benefit of doubt, you may take 1516 01:16:43,920 --> 01:16:47,479 Speaker 2: care of them once, but then if they do it again, 1517 01:16:48,280 --> 01:16:51,519 Speaker 2: then you get a problem, and then you have a problem. 1518 01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,880 Speaker 2: All right, But I think the key is more transparency 1519 01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:58,240 Speaker 2: with the consumer the consigner before they consigned, so they 1520 01:16:58,280 --> 01:17:01,080 Speaker 2: know what they're doing, they know the percent, so there 1521 01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:05,000 Speaker 2: shouldn't be any surprises. But then we're assuming they read 1522 01:17:05,040 --> 01:17:08,000 Speaker 2: what we give them, or we're assuming that the luxury 1523 01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:10,160 Speaker 2: manager that comes to your house tells them what we 1524 01:17:10,280 --> 01:17:13,479 Speaker 2: expect them to tell them. So then you put surveys 1525 01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:15,920 Speaker 2: in place and monitor and iterates, especially when you get 1526 01:17:15,960 --> 01:17:19,560 Speaker 2: to big scale, it has to be information and monitoring 1527 01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:24,080 Speaker 2: through surveys, and then also checking customer service stats and 1528 01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:26,640 Speaker 2: what's going on their c STAT. So there's lots of 1529 01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:28,920 Speaker 2: tools to know on a macro level, but when you 1530 01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:32,000 Speaker 2: have a really upset customer on the phone, you don't 1531 01:17:32,040 --> 01:17:35,040 Speaker 2: logic with them. I mean because they're upset and maybe 1532 01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:38,880 Speaker 2: something terrible happened in their house, maybe that you don't 1533 01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,559 Speaker 2: even know about. You know, they could be like the 1534 01:17:41,600 --> 01:17:44,960 Speaker 2: shoes are a metaphor for something. Yeah, so true, and 1535 01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:47,599 Speaker 2: so there's some drama going on there. Maybe they really 1536 01:17:47,600 --> 01:17:50,040 Speaker 2: need them, I mean really needed the money. So you 1537 01:17:50,160 --> 01:17:51,920 Speaker 2: just have to like give them the benefit of the 1538 01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:55,960 Speaker 2: doubt and then look for repeat offenders, which is what 1539 01:17:56,000 --> 01:17:58,680 Speaker 2: the algorithm can do, right, Yeah, and you can find them. 1540 01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:03,559 Speaker 1: Yeah. When The Real Real iPod in twenty nineteen, right, Yes, 1541 01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:05,600 Speaker 1: what was that feeling like for you? 1542 01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:10,280 Speaker 2: It was exhilarating. So I was only the twenty third 1543 01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:13,160 Speaker 2: woman to take a company public, which is shocking because 1544 01:18:13,160 --> 01:18:16,479 Speaker 2: I think over nine thousand companies have gone public. So 1545 01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:21,320 Speaker 2: that was a milestone. Was a sad one. But when 1546 01:18:21,400 --> 01:18:22,920 Speaker 2: you take money and you have to figure out a 1547 01:18:22,920 --> 01:18:25,400 Speaker 2: way to get money out. I knew The Real was 1548 01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:27,680 Speaker 2: a public company. It wasn't going to be sold it's 1549 01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:30,880 Speaker 2: too weird of a company to be sold, and at 1550 01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:34,160 Speaker 2: least at the time it was, and to know that 1551 01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:38,760 Speaker 2: any employee and their family that had been there five 1552 01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:42,280 Speaker 2: years or more was invited put up in a hotel room, 1553 01:18:42,800 --> 01:18:45,960 Speaker 2: invited to the party, invited to the event, and you 1554 01:18:46,040 --> 01:18:48,240 Speaker 2: look around the room and you're like, there are multiple 1555 01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:51,960 Speaker 2: millionaires in this room at today's stock price. Now that changed, 1556 01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:55,600 Speaker 2: and most of them were women, by the way, not 1557 01:18:55,760 --> 01:18:59,800 Speaker 2: that that's important, but it sort of is important. And 1558 01:19:00,960 --> 01:19:05,040 Speaker 2: it felt great. It was really a high. It was wonderful, 1559 01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:12,040 Speaker 2: and then all kinds of craziness erupted. So after that, 1560 01:19:12,120 --> 01:19:17,400 Speaker 2: before first quarterly meeting, quarterly results were reported, but that 1561 01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:20,880 Speaker 2: one day, at that moment, people were saying, this is 1562 01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:23,479 Speaker 2: the best day of my life besides having kids. And 1563 01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:25,400 Speaker 2: I'm like, what about when you got married. They're like, 1564 01:19:26,040 --> 01:19:28,840 Speaker 2: it's tired maybe, you know, so, I mean, people were 1565 01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:34,840 Speaker 2: coming up just exhilarating. It was a great party. It 1566 01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:38,719 Speaker 2: was Gay Pride week, so we had the village people 1567 01:19:38,880 --> 01:19:41,000 Speaker 2: who didn't do a great job, to be honest, they 1568 01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:43,799 Speaker 2: sort of dialed it in. But we did have Sister 1569 01:19:43,920 --> 01:19:49,160 Speaker 2: Sledge who really brought it and so we had thrown. 1570 01:19:49,200 --> 01:19:52,559 Speaker 2: It was sort of a throatback because I'm old. But 1571 01:19:52,680 --> 01:19:54,920 Speaker 2: it was fun. It was fun, it was camp, the 1572 01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:57,599 Speaker 2: party was great. The stock shop way up. At one 1573 01:19:57,640 --> 01:20:01,760 Speaker 2: time the market cap was over two billion, and I'm like, yeah, 1574 01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:03,200 Speaker 2: this is what we worked hard for. 1575 01:20:03,320 --> 01:20:05,479 Speaker 1: It's just like, after all that work and kind of 1576 01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:07,960 Speaker 1: the redemption arc, it's just to have that moment. It's 1577 01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:10,280 Speaker 1: just surreal. What has it been like? When did you 1578 01:20:10,320 --> 01:20:11,439 Speaker 1: step away from the company? 1579 01:20:11,600 --> 01:20:12,799 Speaker 2: Oh? I didn't step away? 1580 01:20:12,720 --> 01:20:13,040 Speaker 1: He did that? 1581 01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:13,559 Speaker 2: Fired? 1582 01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:14,200 Speaker 1: You did? 1583 01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:16,360 Speaker 2: Yes? No, this is why I want you to read 1584 01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:17,720 Speaker 2: the book. You have to read the book. I don't 1585 01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:19,680 Speaker 2: want to hold on about it. No, I had a 1586 01:20:19,760 --> 01:20:22,040 Speaker 2: major following. All right, So let me give you the 1587 01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:26,240 Speaker 2: premise because I don't really know what happened, But here's 1588 01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:29,639 Speaker 2: what I think happened. I'm pretty sure there was one 1589 01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:32,960 Speaker 2: guy the last money and a pe guy who wasn't 1590 01:20:33,320 --> 01:20:39,440 Speaker 2: really anyway. When the stock really fell during COVID, he lost. 1591 01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:42,879 Speaker 2: He never sold. Every other board member that the original 1592 01:20:42,880 --> 01:20:46,120 Speaker 2: investors tend to be board members, and they got off 1593 01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:48,559 Speaker 2: the board to sell stock. That so you weren't restricted 1594 01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:53,280 Speaker 2: by SEC rules because they're smart. This guy never sold 1595 01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:58,000 Speaker 2: a stock. He probably had tremendous pressure. I had new 1596 01:20:58,040 --> 01:21:01,840 Speaker 2: board members who I would question a lot of things 1597 01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:05,479 Speaker 2: about them in retrospect, Like I said, values and integrity matter, 1598 01:21:05,600 --> 01:21:09,120 Speaker 2: and honesty matters. And he was working against me while 1599 01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:10,960 Speaker 2: I was trying to pull the company out of COVID, 1600 01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:16,160 Speaker 2: and I don't I mean they basically he was who 1601 01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:18,559 Speaker 2: knows what stories he told him. But then I didn't 1602 01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:20,240 Speaker 2: help myself. I told him to fuck off in a 1603 01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:24,559 Speaker 2: board meeting, and then the women jumped down my throat. 1604 01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:26,720 Speaker 2: You can't talk to a man like that, And I mean, 1605 01:21:26,720 --> 01:21:28,679 Speaker 2: you can't talk to a board member. I'm like, he's lying, 1606 01:21:29,680 --> 01:21:31,840 Speaker 2: you know. So he was out to get me. Didn't 1607 01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:37,360 Speaker 2: help myself. It got worse after that. And yeah, and 1608 01:21:37,400 --> 01:21:40,240 Speaker 2: then they brought in a man to replace me who 1609 01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:43,040 Speaker 2: had was unemployed at the time, had never been a 1610 01:21:43,160 --> 01:21:46,320 Speaker 2: CEO before, had never obviously run a public company as 1611 01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:48,680 Speaker 2: a CEO because he hadn't been one knew one of 1612 01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:53,599 Speaker 2: the board members. And he was fired about fifteen months later. 1613 01:21:54,120 --> 01:22:02,280 Speaker 2: And then for interesting reasons. And then Rotti Levec, who's 1614 01:22:02,320 --> 01:22:05,400 Speaker 2: runding the company now, was the first employee and she 1615 01:22:05,479 --> 01:22:08,920 Speaker 2: got promoted to CEO. But the board's still the same 1616 01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:10,960 Speaker 2: I think there's one new board member, so she still 1617 01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:15,320 Speaker 2: has the same challenges I have. The difference is I'm 1618 01:22:15,360 --> 01:22:17,680 Speaker 2: not good around people lying in my face, and I'm 1619 01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:20,040 Speaker 2: not good when people go behind my back, and there's 1620 01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:22,719 Speaker 2: very few things that make me And I'm really mad 1621 01:22:22,760 --> 01:22:26,640 Speaker 2: that I gave away my power to that person. I 1622 01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:30,360 Speaker 2: was also really tired after COVID and everything we went through. 1623 01:22:30,960 --> 01:22:35,519 Speaker 2: But like I said, somebody put it. Somebody was out 1624 01:22:35,560 --> 01:22:38,479 Speaker 2: to get me, and I walked and I gave them 1625 01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:40,400 Speaker 2: reason and walked into the trap. 1626 01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:42,559 Speaker 1: What was it like leaving your path? 1627 01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:45,000 Speaker 2: It was horrible. So we don't want to end on this, 1628 01:22:45,120 --> 01:22:47,960 Speaker 2: but it was horrible. It was really horrible. But let's 1629 01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:48,639 Speaker 2: just say. 1630 01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:51,200 Speaker 1: I'm happy that that chapter is kind of closing. 1631 01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:53,400 Speaker 2: I don't know, it's such a good chapter. I mean, 1632 01:22:53,439 --> 01:22:55,920 Speaker 2: I've got other things I'm doing now. It's true, way 1633 01:22:55,960 --> 01:22:59,400 Speaker 2: back when the tabloids used to have pictures when I 1634 01:22:59,479 --> 01:23:03,640 Speaker 2: was a kid, people that spontaneously combusted. They were just 1635 01:23:03,680 --> 01:23:05,519 Speaker 2: walking and then they just blew up and all you 1636 01:23:05,600 --> 01:23:09,920 Speaker 2: saw were they're smoldering shoes and their ankles that were charred, 1637 01:23:09,960 --> 01:23:12,320 Speaker 2: but they were gone. So I used to think of 1638 01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:15,840 Speaker 2: all the board members just spontaneously combusting, and it gave 1639 01:23:15,880 --> 01:23:19,840 Speaker 2: me great joy. I would be like, there they are, 1640 01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:23,240 Speaker 2: their little chart feed or are still there, but nothing 1641 01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:24,280 Speaker 2: else is left to them. 1642 01:23:25,000 --> 01:23:27,479 Speaker 1: Well, you know, at Glass half fle it's amazing to build. 1643 01:23:27,560 --> 01:23:31,519 Speaker 1: To have built something with your idea that became bigger 1644 01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:32,200 Speaker 1: than yourself. 1645 01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:35,240 Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's great. I mean honestly, it's great 1646 01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:37,760 Speaker 2: and a changed fashion and it got We didn't even 1647 01:23:38,000 --> 01:23:42,120 Speaker 2: talk about the importance of recirculating goods and how it 1648 01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:44,559 Speaker 2: actually was the first The Real World was the first 1649 01:23:44,560 --> 01:23:48,720 Speaker 2: company to talk about sustainability and the importance of recirculating 1650 01:23:48,720 --> 01:23:52,120 Speaker 2: goods versus buying new. All of these things are fabulous. 1651 01:23:53,360 --> 01:23:56,839 Speaker 2: People are greedy, people lie when it comes to money. 1652 01:23:57,040 --> 01:24:00,960 Speaker 2: People will do whatever. And I'm not one to play politics, 1653 01:24:00,960 --> 01:24:05,120 Speaker 2: so let's just say it happened. I wish it didn't happen. 1654 01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:08,719 Speaker 2: I consult with a lot of entrepreneurs now I'm speaking. 1655 01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:13,479 Speaker 2: I started a nutrition company called Ohira, which is either 1656 01:24:13,479 --> 01:24:15,840 Speaker 2: going to be shut down or sold this month. So 1657 01:24:16,800 --> 01:24:18,120 Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel good. 1658 01:24:18,840 --> 01:24:21,599 Speaker 1: I feel good the entrepreneur you lives on it does. 1659 01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:24,240 Speaker 2: But I have to tell you this is so when 1660 01:24:24,280 --> 01:24:29,000 Speaker 2: I look at my mother's life and by the time 1661 01:24:29,120 --> 01:24:31,080 Speaker 2: she was when she was twenty eight, she had her 1662 01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:34,680 Speaker 2: first episode of multiple scrosis. She had four kids by 1663 01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:38,360 Speaker 2: she had She had MS when but it was misdiagnosed. 1664 01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:41,799 Speaker 2: By the time she was thirty six, it was properly 1665 01:24:41,920 --> 01:24:44,600 Speaker 2: diagnosed and her whole and she went on started on 1666 01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:48,120 Speaker 2: a rapid decline and by the time she and then 1667 01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:51,559 Speaker 2: she sort of knew her life was over. Drugs are different. 1668 01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:53,839 Speaker 2: This is a long time only friend that has it. Yeah, 1669 01:24:53,880 --> 01:24:56,559 Speaker 2: it's still a hard disease, but the drugs are better now. 1670 01:24:56,560 --> 01:25:00,240 Speaker 2: But there were no drugs then. There were experiments. It's 1671 01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:04,479 Speaker 2: like being an oxygen container, you know, have your feeling 1672 01:25:04,560 --> 01:25:07,519 Speaker 2: to remove because mercury's poisoning your anyway, a lot of 1673 01:25:07,640 --> 01:25:11,240 Speaker 2: crazy stuff was tried, but she knew her life was 1674 01:25:11,280 --> 01:25:14,799 Speaker 2: sort of over. And by her forties she was mentally 1675 01:25:15,400 --> 01:25:20,040 Speaker 2: incapacitated and couldn't feed her so, you know, in a wheelchair. 1676 01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:23,160 Speaker 2: So and then I look at my life and I'm like, 1677 01:25:23,360 --> 01:25:26,720 Speaker 2: come on, you know, it's not what I thought it 1678 01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:30,519 Speaker 2: would be. In many ways, it's better and it's had 1679 01:25:30,560 --> 01:25:32,080 Speaker 2: some interesting turns. 1680 01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:33,559 Speaker 1: Life is a roller coaster. 1681 01:25:33,800 --> 01:25:37,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're just riding those highs and lows and it's 1682 01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:40,520 Speaker 2: always interesting, you know, it's always interesting. 1683 01:25:40,760 --> 01:25:42,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, Julie. That's the thing that I really 1684 01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:44,760 Speaker 1: appreciate you after getting to know you today, is you 1685 01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:48,880 Speaker 1: have lived such an interesting life. Like seriously, you're curious, 1686 01:25:49,000 --> 01:25:52,439 Speaker 1: you're smart, you're so creative, you're so capable. It's just 1687 01:25:52,479 --> 01:25:55,240 Speaker 1: so like inspiring to sit across from a woman like you. 1688 01:25:55,400 --> 01:25:58,240 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you. Yeah, And you know what, it's been hard, 1689 01:25:58,240 --> 01:26:00,200 Speaker 2: but it's been worth it. I mean it's and I 1690 01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:02,479 Speaker 2: look at it, it's like, it is hard. It's hard 1691 01:26:02,479 --> 01:26:05,519 Speaker 2: when you're not following a norm, but then what else 1692 01:26:05,560 --> 01:26:07,240 Speaker 2: are you going to do if you can't? 1693 01:26:08,200 --> 01:26:10,559 Speaker 1: You know? It's Yeah. I saw this quote the other 1694 01:26:10,640 --> 01:26:13,320 Speaker 1: day that somebody said, and it's that the universe favors 1695 01:26:13,320 --> 01:26:13,759 Speaker 1: the bold. 1696 01:26:14,280 --> 01:26:15,320 Speaker 2: Oh don't you love that? 1697 01:26:15,520 --> 01:26:15,680 Speaker 1: I do? 1698 01:26:15,880 --> 01:26:18,439 Speaker 2: Don't you wish it were always true? I don't think 1699 01:26:18,479 --> 01:26:20,800 Speaker 2: it's so it's true. I always love those axioms. And 1700 01:26:20,840 --> 01:26:23,160 Speaker 2: you're like, just like someone's like, you know, karma, it's 1701 01:26:23,160 --> 01:26:25,280 Speaker 2: how karma? I'm like, really is it? Because in my 1702 01:26:25,320 --> 01:26:29,280 Speaker 2: lifetime sometimes it seems like karmen. Sometimes it seems like 1703 01:26:29,360 --> 01:26:31,880 Speaker 2: karma doesn't exist. But I don't think it hurts to 1704 01:26:31,920 --> 01:26:34,200 Speaker 2: think it exists. And I don't hurt. I don't think 1705 01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:37,200 Speaker 2: it's hard to think that that's true, but I do. 1706 01:26:37,280 --> 01:26:40,080 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what I do know. If you don't 1707 01:26:40,120 --> 01:26:42,679 Speaker 2: take a risk, you're never going to know anything about 1708 01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:46,800 Speaker 2: yourself or about life. And every single day is whether 1709 01:26:46,840 --> 01:26:49,559 Speaker 2: you're in a relationship that's a risk, whether you take 1710 01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:52,320 Speaker 2: a job that's a risk. Every you know, when you 1711 01:26:52,360 --> 01:26:54,840 Speaker 2: step out of your comfort zone is where you grow. 1712 01:26:55,400 --> 01:26:57,360 Speaker 2: And to me, that's what life's all about, and it 1713 01:26:57,400 --> 01:26:59,320 Speaker 2: makes it really challenging and fun. 1714 01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:02,120 Speaker 1: All right, Well, your new book, Time to Get Real 1715 01:27:02,280 --> 01:27:05,559 Speaker 1: is currently sitting behind me, guys, So if you loved 1716 01:27:05,640 --> 01:27:08,400 Speaker 1: Julie's story today, you can read all about it in 1717 01:27:08,439 --> 01:27:10,160 Speaker 1: her new book. And I'm just so happy again I've 1718 01:27:10,160 --> 01:27:11,760 Speaker 1: said this a couple times, but I'm so happy that 1719 01:27:11,800 --> 01:27:13,559 Speaker 1: you put your story down on paper. You know, it's 1720 01:27:13,560 --> 01:27:14,840 Speaker 1: a hard thing to do. I know it took you 1721 01:27:14,880 --> 01:27:17,719 Speaker 1: a lot of time to do it, but it's nice 1722 01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:20,600 Speaker 1: to know that it's finally all in there. You know, 1723 01:27:20,720 --> 01:27:21,960 Speaker 1: a lot of it is, at least a. 1724 01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:23,360 Speaker 2: Lot of it. There's some good stories. 1725 01:27:23,439 --> 01:27:25,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're in a new chapter now, but maybe I'll 1726 01:27:25,560 --> 01:27:26,880 Speaker 1: read another book about it. Some day. 1727 01:27:27,200 --> 01:27:29,240 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know what I'm going to do, 1728 01:27:29,360 --> 01:27:30,960 Speaker 2: but that's fun. This is the first time in my 1729 01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:33,040 Speaker 2: life I don't know what I'm going to do, but 1730 01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:34,639 Speaker 2: whatever it is, it's going to be fun. 1731 01:27:34,960 --> 01:27:37,040 Speaker 1: If you could go back and give your younger self 1732 01:27:37,080 --> 01:27:38,760 Speaker 1: one piece of advice, what would it be? 1733 01:27:39,000 --> 01:27:41,040 Speaker 2: Do you know? I think you just need to learn 1734 01:27:41,080 --> 01:27:45,160 Speaker 2: to love yourself more fast sooner. That's where it all. 1735 01:27:45,360 --> 01:27:48,559 Speaker 2: That's where everything starts. And once you master that, everything 1736 01:27:48,560 --> 01:27:51,200 Speaker 2: else gets easier because then you're more accepting of other 1737 01:27:51,200 --> 01:27:55,719 Speaker 2: people's issues. But if you don't love yourself, everything falls apart. 1738 01:27:56,040 --> 01:27:58,160 Speaker 2: And that means accepting when you're good and bad and 1739 01:27:58,240 --> 01:28:00,360 Speaker 2: fail and succeeds it. 1740 01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:02,679 Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much. Jolie. 1741 01:28:02,880 --> 01:28:05,280 Speaker 2: Wait wait what as a woman, if you're pretty and 1742 01:28:05,320 --> 01:28:08,200 Speaker 2: I just love yourself, that's it. That's all you got, babe, 1743 01:28:08,320 --> 01:28:11,520 Speaker 2: Like you know, no matter how you look, what you do, 1744 01:28:11,560 --> 01:28:14,320 Speaker 2: just you have to accept yourself. 1745 01:28:14,439 --> 01:28:17,960 Speaker 1: It's so true, literally, and you have to accept yourself 1746 01:28:18,080 --> 01:28:22,000 Speaker 1: through the darkest of moments and just everything in between. 1747 01:28:22,240 --> 01:28:25,120 Speaker 1: It's just it's so true. Well, this has been so fun. 1748 01:28:25,280 --> 01:28:27,559 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Thank you guys so much for 1749 01:28:27,640 --> 01:28:31,040 Speaker 1: listening to today's episode. If you enjoyed this conversation with Julie, 1750 01:28:31,240 --> 01:28:35,120 Speaker 1: please be sure to follow our show. Your support helps 1751 01:28:35,240 --> 01:28:39,280 Speaker 1: us continue bringing you inspiring conversations. And if you enjoyed 1752 01:28:39,280 --> 01:28:42,280 Speaker 1: our conversation, do not be shy share the episode with 1753 01:28:42,320 --> 01:28:45,439 Speaker 1: a friend that you also think can gain something from it. 1754 01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:47,800 Speaker 1: I will see you guys next week on post run 1755 01:28:47,880 --> 01:28:54,760 Speaker 1: High