WEBVTT - Ep. 410: The “Fun Girl” Theory

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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<v Speaker 1>Decisions Decisions Podcast. However, we are also the host of

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<v Speaker 1>Jakes Roberts.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna see Tank. Oh sorry, R and B Money,

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, we can't wait to see you there. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>everybody to another episode of the Sissy Yalls decizy Yoons.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all see how I did that? There we go. It's Beck,

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<v Speaker 1>It's Beg, it's your girl, medv Aka, I got a nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm so glad to be not the

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<v Speaker 1>only anymore by me and my me, my men. Before

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<v Speaker 2>The pre orders are the only things that can get

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<v Speaker 2>us on this list. Had no idea before, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>why we're going to scream it to you every single week,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna be on Patreon pay and a five fifteen dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch, you're still open to hear beach. You're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>at that motherfucker live tour with three books in your hand.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna say, bitch, and you didn't get four. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>if you haven't known yet, we are the host of

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's the third or four third, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been to all lack Effect festival. I think third.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the third. Right, we are the host this year.

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<v Speaker 1>So whether you come at twelve o'clock, bitch or leave

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<v Speaker 1>it eight baby, we are they have the whole motherfucking time.

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<v Speaker 1>Were gonna have to Are we gonna do alpha changes? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to like how many bitch beyonces because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be tired. No outfit changes the whole day and.

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<v Speaker 2>We have let's see we can go thro run down theirs,

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<v Speaker 2>trap nerds, good Mom's bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Choices, Naked sports with is it car your carry? Harry Champion,

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<v Speaker 1>Harry Champion, we are r and b money with Tank

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<v Speaker 1>and then y'all the good It's sister, what is it

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah Jakes Roberts. I was about to say Lebarbiver. I

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<v Speaker 1>know I love Sarah Jake Roberts, but you know there's

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<v Speaker 1>such a great lineup. I know, Trapped for her Nerds

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<v Speaker 1>has never hit the stage. Good Mom's Bad Choices never

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<v Speaker 1>hit the stage. They're ready to see R and B Money.

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<v Speaker 1>I think every single person is not pop. We just

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<v Speaker 1>only all hold they said we love them, Let's just

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<v Speaker 1>let them. I'm really excited to see who R and

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<v Speaker 1>B Money interviews.

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<v Speaker 2>I say we do the ccoverer game for all times sake.

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<v Speaker 2>Right before Sarah Jakes comes out.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna say, Tank, you're in Atlanta. I need

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<v Speaker 1>Usher on that stage. Okay, I think he gives great interviews.

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<v Speaker 1>He just sat with the good sis Kiki Palmer, and

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<v Speaker 1>I am here for Usher being on more like long platform. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I really like to seeing that Kiki interview. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>crazy because like when I was watching that clip, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wow, that that moment, you know, the moment

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<v Speaker 1>about the kiss, his first kiss not being consus. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yo, that was such a like someone that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have social Like what's the word I'm looking for?

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<v Speaker 1>It was like awkwardness. Yeah, like to say that, like

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<v Speaker 1>what I didn't want it or whatever he said. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wow, I would have skipped around that. But

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<v Speaker 1>Usher mean Usher media trained all this, he must I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, do you think he wanted that to be?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he either really felt comfortable, he wanted people to know,

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<v Speaker 2>or just hasn't done long form with someone that he.

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<v Speaker 1>Vibes with like it's comfortable with think. I think for me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's something I'm looking forward to seeing more. And here

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<v Speaker 1>I go about to sound oh bit like my generation

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<v Speaker 1>of the artists that I grew up watching, so like

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<v Speaker 1>the jaw Rules, the Ashantis, the Ushers, Like, I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>excited to see them in long form content because when

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<v Speaker 1>we were growing up, it was like radio interviews, magazine

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<v Speaker 1>interviews and then bitch MTV cribs and him niggas was

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<v Speaker 1>just showing rooms from a rented house. Now now we know,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, I'm excited to see them like talk about

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<v Speaker 1>that shit like and I feel like, oh bitch, because

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<v Speaker 1>bitch All Star Weekend. I'm at Kenny Smith's party and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, there's Shawn Marion. There's like all these old No,

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<v Speaker 1>Shan Mayn is a light bright ass niggas Who got

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<v Speaker 1>the dress? Who got the dress? Who you talking about

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<v Speaker 1>dress from old school days? Wait sew a podcast? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about Latrelle's free Well, that's the only nigga

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<v Speaker 1>with dress that I know from my era of growing

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<v Speaker 1>up niggas they have dress like that, San Marion, Sorry, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really lost. Yeah, you're he's old school, like old school,

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<v Speaker 1>old school. Who is his sister's names? I'm just on

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<v Speaker 1>Google and that shows these are his siblings. Oh. I

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<v Speaker 1>love niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>Tremain Marion, Shawnette and Quinetia Marion and let me tell

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<v Speaker 2>you something.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know it when you see the motherfuckers. And

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to see h Quinnette, what was it, Shawnett, Quinetia.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to see all of them being like

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<v Speaker 1>court side. Yeah, I'm my brother on the seat. It's

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<v Speaker 1>crazy because also weekend was so much fun, like watching

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<v Speaker 1>like all the old heads. Who cares, I'm gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>to my boyfriend. Damn it was we got like sports, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yellow team first solving. This is why I will never

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<v Speaker 1>get Can I try to get us a price pigs

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<v Speaker 1>deal here, don't care, God, damn it, prize pigs draft kings.

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<v Speaker 1>A bitch wants some more money. So I'm gonna be like, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I went to the All Star Game. Slam dunk contest

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<v Speaker 1>was so cool. You know, it's crazy. I realized how

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<v Speaker 1>much I don't know. The first off, they all look

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<v Speaker 1>like children, and I'm like, oh my god, everyone looks

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<v Speaker 1>so fucking young, like all the I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>call them the kids on the court, but I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>these players look so fucking young. When they brought out

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<v Speaker 1>like kg A, Tracey mcgreen, oh my god, fits Carter,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, my middle school self is loving this bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>You know this, I know, but they loved all bro.

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<v Speaker 1>They look young. I almost want to quote you was

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<v Speaker 1>about the draft. Don't do this. They look young. Since

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<v Speaker 1>when did you turn into an auntie? We need to

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<v Speaker 1>get this. We're not gonna do this. They look young.

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<v Speaker 1>I want her here to get these fingerways taking you

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<v Speaker 1>up in there. You don't want a nigga to look young. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like they look young. They look like they balls just dropped.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want like someone that looks young. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>mind you being young. I just need you to look

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<v Speaker 1>a little older. Speaking of young, there's an eight year

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<v Speaker 1>difference between me and my boyfriend. Yes, my me and

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<v Speaker 1>my me and my man. So I am now a

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<v Speaker 1>taken woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you gave us some good tea on Patreon sheep.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, if you guys want to hear like how

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of came about, go to our patreon. It's

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<v Speaker 1>patreon dot com backslash horrible decisions. Basically, I'm gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>you like a quick summary on what happened. So quick

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<v Speaker 1>summary is, y'all know I was entertaining multiple men, because bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you do when you date. So it was

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<v Speaker 1>entertaining multiple men. And of course let all these niggas

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm into hating multiple men. So because duh, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm so sorry, man, you want to support Palestine?

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<v Speaker 1>They need to figure out what Starbucks had in that

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn matcha. This is terrible. That is crazy. Sorry, fuck

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<v Speaker 1>you wantant to be a Zionist, but the coffee sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>What the hell? That's what you get for going to

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<v Speaker 1>a little I don't know something? I got my got

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<v Speaker 1>my Starbucks? Oh shit, ambit. You know they they got

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<v Speaker 1>the little deal with Delta. Shout out to Delta because

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<v Speaker 1>they keep no, no, no, not only miles you ready, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things that you could get in your

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<v Speaker 1>benefits is six thousand Starbucks stars. Bitch, I won't be

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<v Speaker 1>paying for coffee for this stop. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I don't pay for it. I have stars. So

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<v Speaker 1>she goes that much. Okay, I want to know how

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<v Speaker 1>he asked you. Sorry, I'm brandy here. Okay, see what

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<v Speaker 1>we can't drink coffee on it? Novis. You don't come

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<v Speaker 1>me off because it's it was discussing. You asked me

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<v Speaker 1>what was wrong, but you shouldn't have been checking off me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mad, I won't. I won't care no more. Die

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<v Speaker 1>bit choke ho shit, yeah, keep choking any so let

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<v Speaker 1>me let me like run down the really quick like synopsis. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>he came and saw me in Vegas on our last night.

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<v Speaker 1>One of my other niggas face signed me. He saw

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<v Speaker 1>the nigga FaceTime, asked if I had talked to that nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>I said and did, and he got out his feelings

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<v Speaker 1>and I ran down like, well, you shouldn't be in

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<v Speaker 1>your feelings. Take that up with God and then pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much let him know this is what I'm doing, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said fair gave him a homework. He came to

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<v Speaker 1>me with homework. He booked his flight immediately after I

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<v Speaker 1>gave him my answers. This whole story is elongated on

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<v Speaker 1>the Patreoch. Now you question for you, you had plans

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<v Speaker 1>for that nigga at FaceTime you to come to Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you a say fuck you this other nigga coming through,

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<v Speaker 1>say be sorry I made plans or see cut him off?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you weren't listening on town Hall girl. So the universe,

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<v Speaker 1>the stars and moons put me in this relationship because

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<v Speaker 1>the nigga who was supposed to be coming to Atlanta

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<v Speaker 1>had to work so he can't do on his flight,

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<v Speaker 1>and then this nigga was coming. So it worked out perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have to like there was no Chris Cross

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<v Speaker 1>of the Niggles. Okay. So he's on the phone with me.

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<v Speaker 1>At the very end of the call, he sends his flight.

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<v Speaker 1>He's coming to spend the week of Valentine's Day with me,

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<v Speaker 1>mind you. I let him know in Vegas how I

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<v Speaker 1>how I want to be treated. I said, I like flowers.

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<v Speaker 1>I like a man who's supportive of me and my

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<v Speaker 1>career and everything I do with my entrepreneurial ventures. Because

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like that was a little lacking in my

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<v Speaker 1>last relationship. I said, I want intimacy, I want time

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<v Speaker 1>with my partner, and I need them to be intentional.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you feel as though you can't show up

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<v Speaker 1>in any of this capacity, feel free to not show

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<v Speaker 1>up at all. So he booked this fight. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>leaving from Burbank to Atlanta. We're on the phone, as

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<v Speaker 1>he said it, to the airport and he's like, have

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<v Speaker 1>you left your house today? And I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not yet, Like I'm just gonna be waiting for you today.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was like, well, you should check your door.

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<v Speaker 1>So I go to my door and he sends me

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<v Speaker 1>two dozen roses, oh waiting at my door, mind you,

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<v Speaker 1>while he's on his way there. So he scheduled it perfectly.

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<v Speaker 1>So two dozen roses are at my door, and literally

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<v Speaker 1>on it says I can't wait to see you tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>So tho, so very intentional. And then he even signed

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<v Speaker 1>it actor Bay because he's like, I know you like

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<v Speaker 1>to post things on social media and I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to put my name so that you don't post it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I like, he said you he literally bitch in

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<v Speaker 1>is so mind you? I look at the weather. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought we were gonna end up doing the park. It's

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<v Speaker 1>fucking pouring rain. So we end up planning to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the aquarium. So he gets in that night. We

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<v Speaker 1>end up just bringing dinner. His flight was delayed four hours,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt so bad because he was in the

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<v Speaker 1>airport all day. So anyways, he gets to Atlanta, we

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<v Speaker 1>cut over, we have a great night. Next day, we

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<v Speaker 1>have plans to go to the aquarium where a doorable

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<v Speaker 1>look aquarium. When did you have sex with versus the

0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.080
<v Speaker 1>last night, bitch? Because he came in all was on

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<v Speaker 1>my period. So I already let him know that I

0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:34.920
<v Speaker 1>don't do the period at all. So I let him

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<v Speaker 1>know you're gonna have to wait till it's off. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I told him when he booked it. Hey, I literally

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<v Speaker 1>send him the flow up. I said, I will do

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<v Speaker 1>mad nasty other ship, but I do not fuck on

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<v Speaker 1>my period. Did you see his dick before you fuck? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been seen. I saw it the first week we

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<v Speaker 1>was in each other's DM Like been seen the dick, understood,

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<v Speaker 1>laid with him and so anyways, so we go to

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<v Speaker 1>the aquarium and when we come back, mind you, he

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<v Speaker 1>had already made reservations two at my favorite restaurant in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>So before he even came, he was like, what's your

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<v Speaker 1>favorite restaurant in Atlanta? He made the reservation for Valentine's

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<v Speaker 1>Day night, So, oh, you spent Valentine d Atlanta? Okay

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<v Speaker 1>for some no I love, No I did. I left.

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<v Speaker 1>I left Atlanta all Star Day. But we brought in

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<v Speaker 1>Valentine's Day together. So we go to the aquarium. We're

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<v Speaker 1>walking around or looking at the fucking fish, the whales,

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<v Speaker 1>the all the things. It's cute. Actually, this is where

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to talk about white people if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>fucking mind, because something happened where I said, don't let

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<v Speaker 1>that shit happen again. Oh, because you went to an aquarium, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck happened at this motherfucking aquarium before I

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<v Speaker 1>get back and be cute. So we had the motherfucking

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<v Speaker 1>aquarium and he already telling me to calm down with

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<v Speaker 1>my cursing because it's kids, and I'm like, bitch, I

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<v Speaker 1>have no kids. I'm a curse because I'm a curse

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<v Speaker 1>whatever y'all know how I am. I'm like okay. So anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're walking through the kroyium and there's there's the

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<v Speaker 1>part where you know the the fucking glass is over you,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's light. Bitch, you in the water. We on

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<v Speaker 1>this moving sidewalk. You ready, We're on this moving sidewalk.

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<v Speaker 1>He's behind me, arm wrapped around my waist. So cute.

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<v Speaker 1>We're getting towards the end of the sidewalk. Bitch, this

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<v Speaker 1>white woman, no lie, you ready? This my head? This

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<v Speaker 1>him behind me. She almost sideswipes the fuck out of

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<v Speaker 1>my head. It's like, can you take a picture of us? Please?

0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:45.680
<v Speaker 1>First off, who the fuck even asks niggas for pictures

0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:49.120
<v Speaker 1>from the back. Bitch went over me because he's fucking taller.

0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:53.200
<v Speaker 1>Bitch went over my head to hand her phone to him,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like, can you take a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>us please? And bitch, when I tell you, I'll look

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<v Speaker 1>like this. He took the picture and I said, at

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<v Speaker 1>that bitch even thinks she beIN Oh, bitch. I went

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<v Speaker 1>off because I said, first off, she almost took my

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucking head off. Secondly, bitches don't even ask men to

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<v Speaker 1>take pictures of them. She was trying to hit on

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<v Speaker 1>you in front of me, like I wasn't right, motherfucking there.

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<v Speaker 1>So I said, if we see her again, and she

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<v Speaker 1>even thinks she's gonna come up to you. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a motherfucking problem. And you don't know what a

0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:23.960
<v Speaker 1>Florida bitch is. But I'm gonna tell you right now

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<v Speaker 1>because bitch, this much closer, she would have hit me

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<v Speaker 1>in the motherfucking head. Quartney, let me ask you something.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do that. I was so mad. I hold on

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<v Speaker 1>because then I was like, and then you took the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>And normally I don't act like this, but I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you should have said no. Did you know that she

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<v Speaker 1>in her hand was so long? No, no, no, no, because it

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<v Speaker 1>happened so quickly. We literally he was like, did she

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<v Speaker 1>hit you? Like it was like, bro, she she went

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<v Speaker 1>above my head? What she went above my No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is as we walked away, and I looked at

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<v Speaker 1>him like, you know she did shit on purpose, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Like if we see her again, let her know you're

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<v Speaker 1>not taking no more picture you see her again, if

0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.240
<v Speaker 1>we see her again, because I'm gonna tell you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>By the time we get to the clown fish, it's

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<v Speaker 1>no bitch over there. I was so mad and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, don't let that shit happen again. He was

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<v Speaker 1>like it just hop and say fas. I still don't

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<v Speaker 1>know the fucking accent. And we talk every day. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>terrible anyways, So like what you want me to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Say no, I just want to take pictures that know.

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<v Speaker 1>The bitch played in my face like she ain't see

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<v Speaker 1>my motherfucking ass white bitch. Mind you eat the only

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<v Speaker 1>black guy too. Surprisingly, it's Atlanta. We like the only

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<v Speaker 1>black couple aquarium. I mean black people go see aquarium. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it was a Wednesday afternoon. No, no, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we like eat catfish. We don't want to go

0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:55.680
<v Speaker 1>see them niggas. You feel me, But it's cute. It's Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>I just expected more of us there, but no, and

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<v Speaker 1>his bitch had kids. Bitch, you walking around bitches, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a field trip. You got kids that you want? You

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<v Speaker 1>want to have my nigga, take a picture of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Where's the other chperone? Where's that? Well? Maybe she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to kids.

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<v Speaker 3>She should have had.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't know if it was at her kids.

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<v Speaker 1>It was too much. And if you pushed all them

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<v Speaker 1>bitches at your kouchie, you really got to get away

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<v Speaker 1>from Maybe it was a field trip because it was

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<v Speaker 1>it was in the afternoon. No, we could have been

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<v Speaker 1>a daycare field trip, which I used to be in

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<v Speaker 1>daycare trip. That's what I think of the field trip.

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<v Speaker 3>She should have had you do it because like the

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<v Speaker 3>height and the kids and you and like right, she.

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<v Speaker 1>Should have had a woman take a picture, because we

0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:32.960
<v Speaker 1>know men even know how to take pictures. Bro, you

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<v Speaker 1>mean men do not know how to say okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I know David is male I'm talking about. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a very uncomfortable moment on his island. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say certain Asians, like Chinese people, they be loud.

0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:50.080
<v Speaker 2>Here we go Southeast Asian. They there's certain Asian I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not lying Korean that I've noticed. They kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>unless you're in La maybe a little oh yeah, know,

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<v Speaker 2>they do be Like I saw Korean couple at this

0:17:56.840 --> 0:17:59.400
<v Speaker 2>resort we were ad in Thailand. The boyfriend was taking

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<v Speaker 2>a picture and they were bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So I came over. I was like, girl, let me

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<v Speaker 1>get it. She's looking at me. So I'm like, maybe

0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:08.920
<v Speaker 1>they don't speak English, but I was like whatever, So

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<v Speaker 1>I took her no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 2>Because there's a lot of Chinese tourists and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know wh where they're from, if they speak English or

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling her way, friend, give me the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I got it.

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<v Speaker 2>So they look as super scared. We're on a remote

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<v Speaker 2>island many you can only take a boat to get here.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, Hey, I'm not gonna rob you guys. Why

0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:28.719
<v Speaker 1>would you say why would you say that they were

0:18:28.720 --> 0:18:31.919
<v Speaker 1>acting scared? The fuck? Are you acting scared for a bitch? Yep, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>look at you. It's your face.

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<v Speaker 3>Look you just twisted it.

0:18:37.400 --> 0:18:40.119
<v Speaker 1>Calm down, No, but same shit happened. No, no, no,

0:18:40.200 --> 0:18:41.760
<v Speaker 1>it's different. Do you know the bitch when you felt

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<v Speaker 1>they were being racist, This bitch was trying to flirt

0:18:43.800 --> 0:18:45.520
<v Speaker 1>with my nigga in front of me. Way different?

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<v Speaker 3>Are we sure about that too? Like I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>that's I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>If you be willing to share your nigga, No you're racist,

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<v Speaker 1>is worse. I'm not sharing my nigga. What that's worse

0:18:56.480 --> 0:18:58.720
<v Speaker 1>sharing it with a white woman right after Black History

0:18:58.800 --> 0:19:00.560
<v Speaker 1>Month leading into women forgot it?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you made it loud and clear that you're

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<v Speaker 3>not gonna rob them, and then and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then what it was just like this right? She was pertending.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I'm just trying to help you because for

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<v Speaker 2>the picture. So then he said something to her. She

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<v Speaker 2>was like, okay, whatever, I take the picture. I'm like, okay, cool.

0:19:15.160 --> 0:19:18.520
<v Speaker 1>It was a language barrier, right, get to breakfast. The

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<v Speaker 1>next day, my niggas sitting there by himself, who's having

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<v Speaker 1>a full on conversation saying, yeah, we lived mid city

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<v Speaker 1>in Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, they're American, they're Korean by descent. Them bitches that

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<v Speaker 2>whole knew exactly what.

0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:36.320
<v Speaker 1>I was saying. And you wanted to be funny. And

0:19:36.400 --> 0:19:38.360
<v Speaker 1>you know why because she probably thought I was trying

0:19:38.400 --> 0:19:40.399
<v Speaker 1>to flirt with her, nigga, because I said, let me

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<v Speaker 1>get it, let me help you girl, because it's women

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<v Speaker 1>get weird. Okay, I see the tie. I see the time.

0:19:45.119 --> 0:19:46.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't get weird. I let him take the picture

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<v Speaker 1>and then cusses this.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, when you were the white woman with

0:19:48.640 --> 0:19:51.720
<v Speaker 3>the kids in this story, I was you weren't.

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<v Speaker 2>I was the fine grass woman that had her fro

0:19:53.800 --> 0:19:56.200
<v Speaker 2>out and a little bitty bikini and a little tong.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's crazy. Going ahead, going ahead, anyway, back to

0:20:05.720 --> 0:20:08.040
<v Speaker 1>the story. So to go to the quarium. It's cute.

0:20:08.480 --> 0:20:11.399
<v Speaker 1>He brings me a gift to Atlanta, and I'm like,

0:20:11.680 --> 0:20:14.160
<v Speaker 1>just wait till our Valentine's dy dinner for the gifts

0:20:14.280 --> 0:20:16.760
<v Speaker 1>d D. He's like, no, I really want to give

0:20:16.800 --> 0:20:19.000
<v Speaker 1>it to you. Now. I was like, okay, I'll take

0:20:19.040 --> 0:20:21.399
<v Speaker 1>the gift, but I really wanted it for Valentine's But

0:20:21.520 --> 0:20:22.920
<v Speaker 1>it makes sense why you wanted to give it to me.

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<v Speaker 1>So he dresses very simple. He dresses like an La

0:20:27.720 --> 0:20:32.480
<v Speaker 1>West Coast nigga Dickies pay essentials, but essentials, but not

0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:35.520
<v Speaker 1>the like fear of God or whatever it is. Essentials.

0:20:35.720 --> 0:20:39.920
<v Speaker 1>That's what he wears, like unique love essentials, basics, no logos,

0:20:40.359 --> 0:20:45.000
<v Speaker 1>all like solids and Chucks. So he pulls out a box.

0:20:45.840 --> 0:20:48.920
<v Speaker 1>He's like, because you don't have a pair, so that

0:20:49.080 --> 0:20:52.240
<v Speaker 1>when we go out we can look cute together. I

0:20:52.359 --> 0:20:54.520
<v Speaker 1>got you these pairs. He bought me a pair of

0:20:54.600 --> 0:20:56.960
<v Speaker 1>check Tailor. Not only did he give me a pair

0:20:56.960 --> 0:21:00.760
<v Speaker 1>of check Tailors. So I opened the box. He embroidered

0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:04.720
<v Speaker 1>selective ignorance on them in his handwriting and then did

0:21:04.800 --> 0:21:08.120
<v Speaker 1>like a little scribble and was like, and I want

0:21:08.160 --> 0:21:12.879
<v Speaker 1>to read all the message. This message came so it

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<v Speaker 1>was no nigga, just selective ignorance.

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<v Speaker 3>Was on the shoes, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. So it was like the week that I

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<v Speaker 1>dropped my trailer. So before he had even come, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>selective ignorance dictionary phrase the practice of intentionally choosing not

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<v Speaker 1>to know about certain topics or things. He said, quote

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<v Speaker 1>Mandy is using her selective ignorance to justify why she

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<v Speaker 1>can't name five Meek records because that came out. That

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<v Speaker 1>came out the week that we kind of started talking.

0:21:48.240 --> 0:21:50.400
<v Speaker 1>So he said, it's release day. It makes me smile

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<v Speaker 1>that I've been in your life long enough to see

0:21:52.480 --> 0:21:55.720
<v Speaker 1>this idea go from inception to execution. I'm happy because

0:21:55.720 --> 0:21:57.879
<v Speaker 1>this will let people see you the you. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>the you that keeps me on the phone for five

0:22:00.680 --> 0:22:02.520
<v Speaker 1>the you that makes me giddy enough to laugh and

0:22:02.600 --> 0:22:05.639
<v Speaker 1>safe enough to cry. The you that took me, that

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<v Speaker 1>took the two minutes I gave you and somehow managed

0:22:08.720 --> 0:22:10.960
<v Speaker 1>to captivate me enough to spin me into a whole

0:22:11.040 --> 0:22:14.840
<v Speaker 1>ass relationship. It's the starring vehicle you deserve. Good morning,

0:22:14.880 --> 0:22:16.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm so proud of you. Call me after your appointment.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what else? And I'm like, oh my god, oh

0:22:20.640 --> 0:22:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I just melt. So anyways, he gives me those shoes.

0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:27.159
<v Speaker 1>We decide because I'm like, fuck, plus he's still kind

0:22:27.200 --> 0:22:32.200
<v Speaker 1>of bleed, and I was like, let's shower tonight. So

0:22:32.320 --> 0:22:34.720
<v Speaker 1>we get in the shower that night, and I'm so

0:22:34.880 --> 0:22:37.080
<v Speaker 1>excited because I was like, ooh, my shower. This is

0:22:37.200 --> 0:22:39.439
<v Speaker 1>nice at fuck. So I'm like, ooh, we about the shower,

0:22:39.960 --> 0:22:42.439
<v Speaker 1>wipe each other down. This is gonna be so sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>So I go to hand him my Men's body wash

0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:49.480
<v Speaker 1>that's in my shower because I like oods, I like

0:22:49.760 --> 0:22:54.359
<v Speaker 1>musky scents, I like menshit. And I hand him it

0:22:54.480 --> 0:22:56.880
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, here you go, mind you this much left.

0:22:56.880 --> 0:22:58.800
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, here you go. This is the men's

0:22:58.840 --> 0:23:01.199
<v Speaker 1>body wash. I'll use the since we're both in here.

0:23:02.000 --> 0:23:06.119
<v Speaker 1>And he looks at me and he's like okay. So

0:23:06.280 --> 0:23:09.119
<v Speaker 1>we get out the shower. We get out the shower,

0:23:10.760 --> 0:23:13.920
<v Speaker 1>and I realize he's acting weird, and I'm like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, just come here. I bring him to the

0:23:16.840 --> 0:23:18.600
<v Speaker 1>laundry room and I show him that I have six

0:23:18.680 --> 0:23:21.840
<v Speaker 1>bottles of this man wash and he's like, oh, you

0:23:21.960 --> 0:23:24.760
<v Speaker 1>picked up on that, didn't you. I he was like

0:23:25.000 --> 0:23:28.439
<v Speaker 1>in my head, he was like I done flew all

0:23:28.480 --> 0:23:30.160
<v Speaker 1>the way to fucking Atlanta to be with this bitch,

0:23:30.280 --> 0:23:32.879
<v Speaker 1>and she handed me another nigga body wash. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I would have thought. And I'm like, you would have

0:23:35.160 --> 0:23:35.879
<v Speaker 1>thought that too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, if this is like I mean, this is our

0:23:38.359 --> 0:23:40.520
<v Speaker 3>first time showering together, and we showered.

0:23:41.280 --> 0:23:42.800
<v Speaker 1>We showered around each other.

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<v Speaker 3>In Vegas establishment.

0:23:45.600 --> 0:23:50.520
<v Speaker 1>So he comes and and he's like, this, lowdown, dirty bitch.

0:23:50.880 --> 0:23:53.560
<v Speaker 1>Mind you. This was the second thing that happened because

0:23:53.600 --> 0:23:57.640
<v Speaker 1>before he traveled, I'm showing him me reorganizing my closet.

0:23:58.280 --> 0:24:02.359
<v Speaker 1>Guess what's in the frame? Condoms? Okay, So he was like,

0:24:02.640 --> 0:24:06.440
<v Speaker 1>are those condoms just on your dresser in your closet?

0:24:06.480 --> 0:24:08.760
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, yeah, I'm my cleaner, like must

0:24:09.280 --> 0:24:12.920
<v Speaker 1>So he just this nigga must have came here thinking

0:24:13.000 --> 0:24:16.119
<v Speaker 1>I had a nigga fucking me, a nigga taking a

0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:19.320
<v Speaker 1>motherfucking shower, And I'm like, so we had to talk

0:24:19.400 --> 0:24:21.240
<v Speaker 1>to this. So then he comes and I was like, no, let.

0:24:21.160 --> 0:24:21.480
<v Speaker 4>Me show you.

0:24:21.880 --> 0:24:24.440
<v Speaker 1>There's condoms in my kitchen. There's condoms in all of

0:24:24.480 --> 0:24:27.880
<v Speaker 1>my luggage, said I, oh, I stay with condoms everywhere.

0:24:28.040 --> 0:24:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Your kitchen there were my kitchen, your what if I'm

0:24:30.880 --> 0:24:33.200
<v Speaker 1>on the couch by what the knives you just moved

0:24:33.240 --> 0:24:37.119
<v Speaker 1>in there. I don't give a fuck. Condoms will be everywhere. Listen,

0:24:37.800 --> 0:24:40.560
<v Speaker 1>stay ready, so you ain't gotta get ready. So it

0:24:40.680 --> 0:24:42.879
<v Speaker 1>was a part of me setting up my house. Condoms here,

0:24:43.000 --> 0:24:48.399
<v Speaker 1>condoms there, condoms everywhere. No, don't do that, don't do that.

0:24:51.320 --> 0:24:53.080
<v Speaker 1>I like, oh, I have condoms about the bar. So

0:24:53.560 --> 0:24:54.360
<v Speaker 1>I had to show him.

0:24:55.440 --> 0:24:56.159
<v Speaker 3>That makes more sense to.

0:24:56.160 --> 0:24:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Me, because what if we drinking at the dining room

0:24:58.440 --> 0:25:01.840
<v Speaker 1>table or eating eggs? Ask you a question, what in

0:25:02.080 --> 0:25:05.840
<v Speaker 1>all of my fucking which I would say the last

0:25:05.920 --> 0:25:09.679
<v Speaker 1>sixteen years of fucking shit, maybe eighteen?

0:25:10.600 --> 0:25:13.840
<v Speaker 2>I just never never was it too far of a

0:25:13.920 --> 0:25:16.440
<v Speaker 2>stretch to get up and grab it from a drawer?

0:25:16.640 --> 0:25:20.680
<v Speaker 2>You ready, never have two stories now, curl, I'm about.

0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:23.200
<v Speaker 1>To get a refrigerator. Listen, I'm about to get a refrigerator.

0:25:23.240 --> 0:25:26.320
<v Speaker 1>It's a point because I'll be thirsty at night. But

0:25:26.440 --> 0:25:28.160
<v Speaker 1>a b shul be lazy and don't want to go downstairs.

0:25:28.320 --> 0:25:31.199
<v Speaker 1>To be honest with you, I feel that, bro, bro.

0:25:31.480 --> 0:25:34.600
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, I'm gonna make sure the whole part

0:25:34.680 --> 0:25:36.960
<v Speaker 1>of my house is comfortable for me to do what

0:25:37.040 --> 0:25:37.720
<v Speaker 1>the fuck I want to do.

0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:40.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to do you if it's not just water,

0:25:40.160 --> 0:25:41.719
<v Speaker 2>that's a fat bit shit, mait you beare to get

0:25:41.720 --> 0:25:42.960
<v Speaker 2>your airs downstairs, get their food.

0:25:43.000 --> 0:25:45.440
<v Speaker 1>It's just water. It's just I'm not bringing food upstairs.

0:25:45.560 --> 0:25:48.720
<v Speaker 1>Like nah, So okay, how did he get to the Anyways,

0:25:48.760 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 1>we go to dinner, We have sex. It's great, y'all.

0:25:53.280 --> 0:25:55.040
<v Speaker 1>Aren't gonna get many details of that, I'll tell you

0:25:55.160 --> 0:25:58.440
<v Speaker 1>now because he's a public person, so I'm just gonna

0:25:58.440 --> 0:26:02.159
<v Speaker 1>be minimal here. But he adores me. I cooked for

0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:04.920
<v Speaker 1>him breakfast and it just felt good. I was like,

0:26:05.040 --> 0:26:07.960
<v Speaker 1>this is our second time spending like three days around

0:26:08.000 --> 0:26:11.840
<v Speaker 1>each other where we didn't annoy each other, Like we

0:26:12.040 --> 0:26:13.879
<v Speaker 1>like couldn't keep each other off of each other. So

0:26:14.320 --> 0:26:16.240
<v Speaker 1>after we got done fucking, I go to the bathroom.

0:26:16.280 --> 0:26:19.080
<v Speaker 1>He comes out and meets me in the hallway and

0:26:19.200 --> 0:26:21.600
<v Speaker 1>we pretty much are just like this makes sense and

0:26:21.680 --> 0:26:24.000
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't make sense not too so here we are

0:26:24.040 --> 0:26:26.119
<v Speaker 1>we're in a relationship just to get like this literally

0:26:26.280 --> 0:26:28.399
<v Speaker 1>and we do this fault. He's like hugging me in

0:26:28.440 --> 0:26:32.040
<v Speaker 1>the hallway or kissing. He gives me another forehead kissed bitches,

0:26:32.480 --> 0:26:34.960
<v Speaker 1>and we just looked up and it literally goes to

0:26:35.040 --> 0:26:39.920
<v Speaker 1>where it's like, yeah, so I think this like solidifies

0:26:39.960 --> 0:26:43.120
<v Speaker 1>that we're in a relationship, right, I was like, well, yeah,

0:26:43.200 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 1>because it doesn't make sense not to me. And then

0:26:46.359 --> 0:26:49.320
<v Speaker 1>here we are so over the next like I mean,

0:26:49.440 --> 0:26:52.560
<v Speaker 1>now we're just working on our boundaries, seeing each other,

0:26:53.720 --> 0:26:57.440
<v Speaker 1>being intentional of making time for each other. So like

0:26:57.720 --> 0:26:59.800
<v Speaker 1>he's gonna be be in Denver. Nice. So he's meeting

0:26:59.840 --> 0:27:03.760
<v Speaker 1>me Denver Sunday, and then as of right now the

0:27:03.960 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 1>end of the month, I'm supposed to be joining him

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 1>in San Diego. So have you been I've never been

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 1>a Sandy. I just went for my first time for

0:27:09.920 --> 0:27:13.880
<v Speaker 1>that wedding. After we shot Won't We All Together? Yes, yes,

0:27:14.400 --> 0:27:17.520
<v Speaker 1>we were shooting the promo reel for Decision Decisions. Yes.

0:27:18.080 --> 0:27:21.440
<v Speaker 1>I was in shock. Nigga, that shit is not fire.

0:27:21.800 --> 0:27:25.360
<v Speaker 1>It's just like it's not La, but it's just as

0:27:25.400 --> 0:27:28.920
<v Speaker 1>beautiful as La, but more chill. You know what, I

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 1>just realized, San Francisco, shout out to everyone that listens

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:35.520
<v Speaker 1>to us in the Bay is now my favorite fucking

0:27:35.600 --> 0:27:37.840
<v Speaker 1>city in America. I just went for All Star weekend.

0:27:38.560 --> 0:27:41.320
<v Speaker 1>It is New York. I didn't even know that it

0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:44.840
<v Speaker 1>would make me feel so it's New York, it's Malibu,

0:27:45.160 --> 0:27:48.320
<v Speaker 1>it's la and then it looks like parts of Europe,

0:27:48.760 --> 0:27:51.480
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, yo. We went to some pier

0:27:51.600 --> 0:27:54.439
<v Speaker 1>across the Golden Gate Bridge and I was like, yo,

0:27:54.520 --> 0:27:56.560
<v Speaker 1>I fucking love it here. Mind you didn't even get

0:27:56.600 --> 0:27:58.840
<v Speaker 1>to go to oak k didn't get to go to Sonoma,

0:27:59.080 --> 0:28:00.920
<v Speaker 1>didn't get to go to now And I'm like, I'm

0:28:00.960 --> 0:28:03.800
<v Speaker 1>going back. So literally, there's a part where they don't

0:28:03.800 --> 0:28:06.800
<v Speaker 1>even call it downtown. You're in this area, mind you.

0:28:06.880 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 1>They have Japantown, Chinatown, all this stuff. The building the

0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:15.119
<v Speaker 1>buildings are high, the streets are narrow. You feel like

0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:17.600
<v Speaker 1>you're in fucking New York. And Wolf is like shaking

0:28:17.680 --> 0:28:19.879
<v Speaker 1>his head. I said, I had no idea that there

0:28:19.920 --> 0:28:22.200
<v Speaker 1>was a part of San Francisco that made me feel

0:28:22.240 --> 0:28:24.320
<v Speaker 1>like New York. Mind you. I'm gonna be honest with you.

0:28:24.480 --> 0:28:25.919
<v Speaker 2>I was born in New York. My mom lived there

0:28:26.000 --> 0:28:27.960
<v Speaker 2>fifteen years. I never heard her say that. I've never

0:28:28.000 --> 0:28:30.160
<v Speaker 2>heard anybody in my life say San Francisco.

0:28:30.840 --> 0:28:32.760
<v Speaker 1>I was there with my friend Keith. We went and

0:28:32.840 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 1>we were like, Yo, this feels like New York. All

0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:37.200
<v Speaker 1>the parties that we were going to, like the hotels. Yeah,

0:28:37.200 --> 0:28:40.320
<v Speaker 1>but you're talking about a city during All Star. No, no, no,

0:28:40.440 --> 0:28:42.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about the buildings and how all the parties

0:28:42.440 --> 0:28:44.320
<v Speaker 1>I met. No, I'm not talking about the parties at all.

0:28:44.600 --> 0:28:48.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about where we were, Like where we were driving,

0:28:48.480 --> 0:28:50.560
<v Speaker 1>and Wolf is at least shaking his head, and the

0:28:50.640 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>five people that I was with agreed, had no clue

0:28:53.280 --> 0:28:55.320
<v Speaker 1>that it would remind me of New York City, And

0:28:55.360 --> 0:28:57.440
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yo, I fucking love it. Here was

0:28:57.760 --> 0:29:01.200
<v Speaker 1>just as expensive. I said, who, yeah, mind you mind?

0:29:01.240 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 1>You did my white people ship and got into one

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:04.960
<v Speaker 1>of them cars with no driver?

0:29:07.360 --> 0:29:07.479
<v Speaker 4>Right?

0:29:07.480 --> 0:29:08.200
<v Speaker 1>Do you know what's crazy?

0:29:08.360 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 2>The other day, literally, I was saying what happened to Jaguars?

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:15.760
<v Speaker 2>And I realized they're way more way Mom, it was crazy.

0:29:15.840 --> 0:29:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I didn't I didn't like it. Oh, I'm not gonna lie.

0:29:18.720 --> 0:29:21.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm so shocked that they have it in Atlanta, I said,

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:22.959
<v Speaker 1>they do. All they do is still cars out here.

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, the way Mo's about to be getting robbed

0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:28.440
<v Speaker 1>or something. They about to take the goddamn satellite ships

0:29:28.440 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 1>off and take them jags.

0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:33.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm so shocked that they How did you feel when Okay,

0:29:33.480 --> 0:29:35.920
<v Speaker 2>when I got in and it made a turn and

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:38.040
<v Speaker 2>then even when like someone else crossed over, I was like.

0:29:38.120 --> 0:29:40.400
<v Speaker 1>What the I didn't I didn't like it. I ain't

0:29:40.400 --> 0:29:43.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna hold you. That thing drove better. There's some humans

0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:48.080
<v Speaker 1>it I scared. I was like scared, but also like

0:29:48.680 --> 0:29:50.800
<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't even move until all of us put our

0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:53.160
<v Speaker 1>seat belts on, and if you take your seatbelt off,

0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:57.400
<v Speaker 1>your account will be gone. So wow, yeah, you're very

0:29:57.520 --> 0:30:03.320
<v Speaker 1>serious with buckling up. But I was like, Okay, this

0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:07.200
<v Speaker 1>is kind of cool. Shout out to my friend Keith.

0:30:07.320 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 1>He booked it. He said, you gotta try this before.

0:30:09.640 --> 0:30:11.920
<v Speaker 1>I think it's around an uber costs.

0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:14.600
<v Speaker 3>Okay with the driver.

0:30:17.520 --> 0:30:18.760
<v Speaker 1>Was about to say we did take it when we

0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:22.600
<v Speaker 1>were only eight minutes. We went from Japantown, UH to Chinatown.

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:24.120
<v Speaker 1>So I didn't want to take it for a long drive.

0:30:24.280 --> 0:30:26.760
<v Speaker 1>Like for some reason, I was like, yeah, I'm good

0:30:26.760 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 1>on the air.

0:30:27.440 --> 0:30:28.320
<v Speaker 3>It didn't go on the highway.

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:30.800
<v Speaker 1>We didn't get on the highway. And it will take

0:30:30.800 --> 0:30:34.080
<v Speaker 1>you to airports maybe because that is so much that

0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:37.280
<v Speaker 1>may have you know, but they won't take you to airports.

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 1>But they're inner city so they're in La San Francisco, Atlanta,

0:30:42.720 --> 0:30:44.800
<v Speaker 1>and I think they're introducing it to I think Arizona

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:48.000
<v Speaker 1>this year or something, and they'll be rolling it out

0:30:48.000 --> 0:30:51.240
<v Speaker 1>in Atlanta more in June. And I was like, they'd

0:30:51.280 --> 0:30:53.040
<v Speaker 1>already don't know how to drive in Atlanta. It's so

0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:56.480
<v Speaker 1>crazy that people like you think Uber is a commodity

0:30:56.560 --> 0:31:00.640
<v Speaker 1>that gave people jobs. Fucked, no, bro, Like these fucking

0:31:00.680 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 1>corporations don't give off no that about you. They don't

0:31:03.360 --> 0:31:06.520
<v Speaker 1>give a fuck about how the economy. Corporate greed is insane.

0:31:07.040 --> 0:31:10.880
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<v Speaker 2>Where to Get It. So I was gonna say the

0:32:03.760 --> 0:32:06.360
<v Speaker 2>main thing that I could think about that happened during

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:08.880
<v Speaker 2>this trip, I'm gonna do an episode about the history

0:32:08.880 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 2>of brothels because I really want to talk about prostitution

0:32:11.760 --> 0:32:15.040
<v Speaker 2>in Thailand and cost and how it went and how

0:32:15.080 --> 0:32:17.480
<v Speaker 2>we went to the spot and got to see them

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:18.520
<v Speaker 2>literally on a rotator.

0:32:18.560 --> 0:32:22.479
<v Speaker 1>It was crazy. But my nigga said to me one

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:25.920
<v Speaker 1>night actually it was now Times day. He's like, I know,

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 1>we like it just didn't vibe because he'd be like,

0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:30.200
<v Speaker 1>I kind of just do miss just organic three. So

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:32.440
<v Speaker 1>I was like, We've got a fuck a tourist, bitch.

0:32:32.480 --> 0:32:34.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I was thinking about it too, and he

0:32:34.720 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 2>was like, yeah, let's let's just have fun tonight, and

0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:38.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, let's get fucked up. We're in the

0:32:38.640 --> 0:32:41.120
<v Speaker 2>Peep Islands, which is so fucking romantic for around time

0:32:41.240 --> 0:32:43.600
<v Speaker 2>day but at nighttime it's wild and it's a full

0:32:43.680 --> 0:32:47.920
<v Speaker 2>moon party, which is every month obviously, but it's a

0:32:47.960 --> 0:32:50.840
<v Speaker 2>big deal for Bali, Thailand, whatever.

0:32:52.120 --> 0:32:55.960
<v Speaker 1>We're off the island. We're in like the little parties, nigga.

0:32:56.120 --> 0:32:59.560
<v Speaker 2>He's going underneath a fucking fire limbo thing like blade,

0:33:00.080 --> 0:33:01.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm on a fucking bull ride.

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:06.600
<v Speaker 1>Bruh. We're wilding out. And finally this girl comes up.

0:33:07.520 --> 0:33:09.120
<v Speaker 2>Well a lot of people were staring at him becausere

0:33:09.120 --> 0:33:12.320
<v Speaker 2>weren't a lot of black people there, and this girl

0:33:12.560 --> 0:33:14.440
<v Speaker 2>is just like, he's barely got his shirt on.

0:33:14.600 --> 0:33:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Fult niggle, and she was like, can I take a

0:33:17.760 --> 0:33:18.480
<v Speaker 1>picture with him?

0:33:18.760 --> 0:33:21.400
<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, sure, I have a video of her,

0:33:21.440 --> 0:33:22.840
<v Speaker 2>I think, because I just thought it was so funny

0:33:22.880 --> 0:33:24.680
<v Speaker 2>that she's just like, oh my god.

0:33:25.280 --> 0:33:29.200
<v Speaker 1>She had like a Mediterranean look. Oh this was her way. Yeah,

0:33:29.280 --> 0:33:32.640
<v Speaker 1>this is her. So she's just like, oh my god,

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:35.360
<v Speaker 1>I want to take a picture please. But she was cute,

0:33:35.920 --> 0:33:38.840
<v Speaker 1>kuchi out and everything, little tiny bro. I'm like, great, well,

0:33:38.880 --> 0:33:41.960
<v Speaker 1>fuck this bitch. Oh so on the back of my

0:33:42.200 --> 0:33:45.680
<v Speaker 1>arm I have black in Hebrew because my father's from Israel.

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:49.720
<v Speaker 1>My mom is why she sees it and starts talking

0:33:49.760 --> 0:33:52.360
<v Speaker 1>to me in Hebrew. This is about after twenty minutes

0:33:52.400 --> 0:33:55.080
<v Speaker 1>of flirting us talking about oh my god, I don't

0:33:55.080 --> 0:33:57.560
<v Speaker 1>want to kiss you first, and nasty shit getting drink

0:33:57.600 --> 0:34:01.080
<v Speaker 1>shot and I was like, oh no, He's like, what's wrong.

0:34:01.760 --> 0:34:04.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yo, I really thought I wasn't eat this

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:07.600
<v Speaker 2>girl pussy tonight. I ain't gonna eat this fucking it's

0:34:07.640 --> 0:34:08.600
<v Speaker 2>on Palestine, pussy.

0:34:09.200 --> 0:34:12.720
<v Speaker 1>I can't do it. You telling me? The girl notices

0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:15.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm Israeli. Now she thinks we're on the same team.

0:34:15.640 --> 0:34:17.960
<v Speaker 2>Did she start speaking Hebrew to all other friend now?

0:34:18.160 --> 0:34:20.440
<v Speaker 2>Getting real excited, I'm like, oh no, bitch, wait did

0:34:20.480 --> 0:34:20.920
<v Speaker 2>you ask her?

0:34:21.760 --> 0:34:21.800
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:34:22.200 --> 0:34:25.759
<v Speaker 1>So he goes, baby, it's fucking four o'clock in the morning, like,

0:34:26.239 --> 0:34:27.719
<v Speaker 1>why are you thinking about that right now? I'm like

0:34:27.719 --> 0:34:29.080
<v Speaker 1>He's like, don't you can worry about it. I'm all right,

0:34:29.120 --> 0:34:31.520
<v Speaker 1>all right, are you? But also you're Israeli in free Palestine?

0:34:31.600 --> 0:34:35.400
<v Speaker 1>So maybe she was did you ask her? Well, I'm brown.

0:34:36.960 --> 0:34:40.480
<v Speaker 2>From my experience, most Israeli's, especially the ones living there

0:34:40.560 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 2>and the ones that I'm just being honest, it is

0:34:44.160 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 2>a small amount of people that live in Israel that

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:47.400
<v Speaker 2>are pro Palestine.

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:52.319
<v Speaker 1>So I'm just like, fuck fuck. So we have for fun,

0:34:52.440 --> 0:34:54.640
<v Speaker 1>were dancing on each other, and shit, she wandered on me,

0:34:54.680 --> 0:34:57.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, oh God, this girls like the enemy.

0:34:57.760 --> 0:35:01.479
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, let me just s and he looking

0:35:01.480 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 1>at me like, yo, just chill because beyond the fucking.

0:35:04.040 --> 0:35:06.120
<v Speaker 1>He's like, that's gonna get you upset, you know what

0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying.

0:35:08.160 --> 0:35:13.040
<v Speaker 2>So I'm just like, after fucking, I smell like tequila's

0:35:13.120 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 2>dripping on my tits. I'm glowing the dark thing over

0:35:15.800 --> 0:35:17.200
<v Speaker 2>my titties that says I love you.

0:35:17.280 --> 0:35:17.840
<v Speaker 1>We were wild.

0:35:17.960 --> 0:35:20.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, so, what do you think about what's going on?

0:35:21.480 --> 0:35:25.120
<v Speaker 2>And hears her say to her friend and then I

0:35:25.320 --> 0:35:28.320
<v Speaker 2>knew it. I said, ah, we gotta go.

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:31.399
<v Speaker 1>He looking at me like, yo, what did she say?

0:35:31.719 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 2>She just started talking to her friend once I said that,

0:35:33.680 --> 0:35:35.400
<v Speaker 2>and they kind of gave me a side look, and

0:35:35.560 --> 0:35:38.239
<v Speaker 2>I knew then that bitch was like what that ho?

0:35:38.640 --> 0:35:41.320
<v Speaker 1>And let me tell you something. The entire trip, Mandy,

0:35:41.719 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 1>I haven't really had my clothes off in a minute.

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:45.920
<v Speaker 1>There are a lot of Israeli tourists in Thailand. My

0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:48.719
<v Speaker 1>dad told me this too. I did not know that. Bro.

0:35:49.000 --> 0:35:51.719
<v Speaker 1>Almost every other day somebody was like trying to talk

0:35:51.760 --> 0:35:53.840
<v Speaker 1>to me, and I was like, yo, I thought I

0:35:53.960 --> 0:35:58.120
<v Speaker 1>left this Social Justice warriorshit in America. Bitch, the only

0:35:58.200 --> 0:36:02.040
<v Speaker 1>threeesme we almost had well a girl. Then I couldn't

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:04.359
<v Speaker 1>fuck rightfully, so I can't get this bitch.

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 2>My nigga got good ass thing. I'm gonna give you

0:36:06.680 --> 0:36:09.920
<v Speaker 2>that and echo pussy. Meanwhile, you're online talking about Hamas

0:36:09.960 --> 0:36:13.319
<v Speaker 2>did this. Now I was fucked up all night.

0:36:13.400 --> 0:36:14.640
<v Speaker 1>It really almost ruined my night.

0:36:14.880 --> 0:36:17.320
<v Speaker 2>And I swear to god, it took me back to

0:36:17.400 --> 0:36:21.040
<v Speaker 2>when I was first dating and Trump was getting elected

0:36:21.120 --> 0:36:22.960
<v Speaker 2>and I was on the apps and I felt like

0:36:23.239 --> 0:36:25.480
<v Speaker 2>everything was an interview. And I remember when I was

0:36:25.520 --> 0:36:27.759
<v Speaker 2>listening to Jesus and Marriw back in the day Bo

0:36:27.840 --> 0:36:30.160
<v Speaker 2>Daca Boys around that time when they were on and

0:36:30.440 --> 0:36:32.439
<v Speaker 2>Jesus was like, Nigga, I don't give a fuck about

0:36:32.480 --> 0:36:34.200
<v Speaker 2>not asking, but who the fuck did you vote for?

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:37.800
<v Speaker 2>And like, it really put me in this place of like,

0:36:39.280 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 2>have I spent enough time actually putting into motion the

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:49.160
<v Speaker 2>way I feel like this stopped me from fucking a bitch?

0:36:49.880 --> 0:36:51.640
<v Speaker 2>But am I taking the steps every day? Because it

0:36:51.680 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 2>didn't really stop me from getting match lemonade Starbucks? Like

0:36:54.320 --> 0:36:55.279
<v Speaker 2>how much of my life is.

0:36:55.320 --> 0:36:59.400
<v Speaker 1>Hypocritical so to speak? And yeah, it fucked me up, bro,

0:36:59.760 --> 0:37:02.719
<v Speaker 1>like a lot. We're all hypocrites It really ruined my

0:37:02.840 --> 0:37:05.120
<v Speaker 1>night because we was really that close. I mean, I

0:37:05.160 --> 0:37:07.839
<v Speaker 1>think you would drive yourself crazy though figuring out how

0:37:07.880 --> 0:37:10.360
<v Speaker 1>you're a hypocrite like me and Antonet just had this

0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>conversation on my other potter. It's just like, bro, you

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 1>will drive yourself crazy trying to move in the most moral,

0:37:19.600 --> 0:37:22.799
<v Speaker 1>best way possible. Like I think even like with all

0:37:22.840 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 1>the DEI things and the boycotting of stuff like if

0:37:26.239 --> 0:37:30.600
<v Speaker 1>you if you choose not to eat like what it's

0:37:30.680 --> 0:37:33.840
<v Speaker 1>Goya Starbucks, like all the things that you know, not

0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:35.640
<v Speaker 1>shop a way for it, not shop at H and M,

0:37:35.760 --> 0:37:38.080
<v Speaker 1>not do this, not do that. You drive yourself fucking crazy.

0:37:38.120 --> 0:37:41.320
<v Speaker 2>But then at the same time, don't we need to

0:37:41.440 --> 0:37:46.000
<v Speaker 2>stand for something like how can I fucking watch the

0:37:46.280 --> 0:37:49.480
<v Speaker 2>H and M shit and walk in the door and

0:37:49.600 --> 0:37:52.880
<v Speaker 2>then at the same time be someone that's like I

0:37:52.960 --> 0:37:54.719
<v Speaker 2>don't know, I just I really don't think you can

0:37:54.800 --> 0:37:58.320
<v Speaker 2>do both. So like I actually like after that moment,

0:37:58.360 --> 0:38:00.680
<v Speaker 2>and it's crazy because it's literally about having a threesome,

0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:03.279
<v Speaker 2>I was like, yeah, no, I'm actually gonna really try

0:38:03.320 --> 0:38:06.279
<v Speaker 2>to make an effort, like I really want to, and

0:38:06.400 --> 0:38:09.839
<v Speaker 2>mind you, kalistarn is not a life.

0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:11.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm living every day. I live black shit every.

0:38:11.520 --> 0:38:13.759
<v Speaker 2>Day, woman shit every day, gay shit every day, like

0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:16.799
<v Speaker 2>the queerness, the anti LGBTQ, I need to stop Chick

0:38:16.880 --> 0:38:19.480
<v Speaker 2>fil A like that should be number one, the anti

0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:21.920
<v Speaker 2>revisionist camps. Like there's a lot of shit in my

0:38:22.040 --> 0:38:23.840
<v Speaker 2>life that I've just kind of been like whatever to

0:38:24.560 --> 0:38:26.600
<v Speaker 2>And that really kind of showed me like, yeah, no,

0:38:26.840 --> 0:38:30.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm really not about it. I know we're taking a

0:38:30.040 --> 0:38:32.000
<v Speaker 2>long time and Mandy has a boyfriend. That's the episode.

0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:37.840
<v Speaker 1>Well I talk about fucking pussy. Okay, so clearly this

0:38:38.120 --> 0:38:42.600
<v Speaker 1>episode sorry, I'm drinking. Sorry after you just went on

0:38:42.680 --> 0:38:45.160
<v Speaker 1>the goddamn rant on that sport of you, I don't

0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:48.480
<v Speaker 1>think you're gonna stop. I'm not. I'm a hypocrite. I

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:51.680
<v Speaker 1>stand for a lot of things, and I'm not gonna

0:38:51.680 --> 0:38:53.560
<v Speaker 1>stress myself about the things I can purchase and buying,

0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:54.960
<v Speaker 1>where I can go, and how I can live my

0:38:55.040 --> 0:38:57.920
<v Speaker 1>fucking life in the world that I think is actually

0:38:59.080 --> 0:39:01.040
<v Speaker 1>ran by the government on some bullshit, like I think

0:39:01.080 --> 0:39:03.400
<v Speaker 1>the aliens are up in the clouds are in the

0:39:03.480 --> 0:39:06.440
<v Speaker 1>ocean laughing at us. Anyways, and we're currently on an

0:39:06.480 --> 0:39:10.480
<v Speaker 1>episode where eggs are very expensive and all the planes

0:39:10.480 --> 0:39:12.200
<v Speaker 1>are falling out of the sky. So this is like

0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:14.560
<v Speaker 1>a new season that just started, and it's about eggs

0:39:14.600 --> 0:39:18.520
<v Speaker 1>and planes. So wherever we're at in life, it's fucking

0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:21.760
<v Speaker 1>laughable to me, and I just want to be peaceful.

0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:25.800
<v Speaker 1>Atlanta has allowed me to slow down. Atlanta has allowed

0:39:25.840 --> 0:39:29.239
<v Speaker 1>me to just who like I realized, like New York

0:39:29.360 --> 0:39:32.920
<v Speaker 1>is such a busy fast I always gotta be. I

0:39:33.000 --> 0:39:35.839
<v Speaker 1>always gotta do stub City. Like yesterday I met Eden.

0:39:35.880 --> 0:39:37.880
<v Speaker 1>What time I met you? At like ten am? I

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:40.680
<v Speaker 1>got back home at one. I was lucky. I had

0:39:40.840 --> 0:39:44.160
<v Speaker 1>we recorded, I had a lunch, I met my friend,

0:39:44.239 --> 0:39:45.560
<v Speaker 1>got drunk with her and her husband.

0:39:45.760 --> 0:39:46.239
<v Speaker 3>By away.

0:39:46.640 --> 0:39:48.480
<v Speaker 1>I told him I was gonna do this shout out

0:39:48.520 --> 0:39:51.279
<v Speaker 1>to you, Rob. I go to see my friend Britt.

0:39:52.360 --> 0:39:54.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm t T Mandy, and they were so happy to

0:39:54.680 --> 0:39:56.560
<v Speaker 1>see me. I'm one of the aunties that as soon

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:58.839
<v Speaker 1>as I go, I'm gonna bring you candy. I'm gonna

0:39:58.840 --> 0:40:01.080
<v Speaker 1>bring you ice cream. I'm gonna be the best friend

0:40:01.160 --> 0:40:03.480
<v Speaker 1>so that you could go watch your cartoons when me

0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:06.120
<v Speaker 1>and your parents are talking. So I go over there

0:40:06.200 --> 0:40:10.000
<v Speaker 1>and I said, Rob, first off, twins we have the

0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:12.759
<v Speaker 1>same hair. Because he's blinding short I say, Rob, I

0:40:13.000 --> 0:40:16.200
<v Speaker 1>never ask you for anything, and I need a huge favor.

0:40:17.280 --> 0:40:20.160
<v Speaker 1>Mind you. Britt is sitting on the couch like, now, bitch,

0:40:20.200 --> 0:40:23.200
<v Speaker 1>what you need for my husband? I said, I would

0:40:23.440 --> 0:40:26.000
<v Speaker 1>never ask you any other time for this, but I

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:27.919
<v Speaker 1>really need your help. He looks at me. He said,

0:40:29.040 --> 0:40:33.160
<v Speaker 1>you need a do rag, don't you That's cute? I said,

0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:36.240
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, how did you know? Bitch? My homegirl

0:40:36.400 --> 0:40:39.520
<v Speaker 1>fell to the floor and was like, not my nigga,

0:40:39.600 --> 0:40:42.000
<v Speaker 1>know you about to ask for a do rag. I said, bitch,

0:40:42.560 --> 0:40:44.719
<v Speaker 1>I gotta make this shit last the ways I can't

0:40:44.800 --> 0:40:48.000
<v Speaker 1>do it, And I said, I slept like this all night.

0:40:48.640 --> 0:40:51.120
<v Speaker 1>I was sleeping on my motherfucking hand, cheek the hand.

0:40:51.239 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I said, I can't mess this up. So I just said, well,

0:40:54.239 --> 0:40:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I go into the studio. I'm gonna shout you out.

0:40:55.680 --> 0:40:58.160
<v Speaker 1>So shout out to Rob for giving me a do rag.

0:40:58.440 --> 0:40:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna judge you at the fact that.

0:40:59.640 --> 0:40:59.840
<v Speaker 3>It was.

0:41:06.360 --> 0:41:08.560
<v Speaker 1>Give us this reactionary bitch where we're reacting to. So

0:41:08.800 --> 0:41:12.440
<v Speaker 1>this is clearly a fucking catch up episode Decisions Decisions.

0:41:12.800 --> 0:41:15.440
<v Speaker 1>We went completely off outline, but I do still have

0:41:15.640 --> 0:41:18.759
<v Speaker 1>this and I wanted to play it because in the

0:41:18.840 --> 0:41:22.960
<v Speaker 1>realm that we both have boyfriends. I thought that this

0:41:23.360 --> 0:41:27.120
<v Speaker 1>was an interesting conversation. So Beyonce is not jay Z's

0:41:27.160 --> 0:41:30.480
<v Speaker 1>dream girl, but Beyonce fits the image of.

0:41:30.600 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 4>Who She goes on to say that she does not

0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:35.759
<v Speaker 4>think Beyonce is jay Z's dream girl, but instead he

0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:38.840
<v Speaker 4>recognizes that she is a dream girl for the majority

0:41:38.920 --> 0:41:42.040
<v Speaker 4>of the population, and because of that, she has a

0:41:42.120 --> 0:41:45.080
<v Speaker 4>suitable partner to have for someone of his level of

0:41:45.200 --> 0:41:48.160
<v Speaker 4>stature in the music industry. Okay, we're not gonna talk

0:41:48.160 --> 0:41:51.160
<v Speaker 4>about Beyonce and jay Z. This is a Beyonce standpage,

0:41:51.239 --> 0:41:53.520
<v Speaker 4>but we can learn a lot from the message in

0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:58.160
<v Speaker 4>this video. If you are a woman who is beautiful, smart,

0:41:58.440 --> 0:42:01.440
<v Speaker 4>well put together, charismatic, no how to carry herself, can

0:42:02.120 --> 0:42:04.440
<v Speaker 4>navigate any room full of people. Okay, dating is going

0:42:04.520 --> 0:42:07.560
<v Speaker 4>to be very very hard for you, not because you're

0:42:07.560 --> 0:42:09.360
<v Speaker 4>gonna have a shortage of that obviously, it's going to

0:42:09.400 --> 0:42:11.120
<v Speaker 4>be a plethora of men that want to date you,

0:42:11.440 --> 0:42:13.239
<v Speaker 4>but because you're gonna have to do an extra level

0:42:13.280 --> 0:42:16.560
<v Speaker 4>of evaluation to make sure that these men actually like you.

0:42:17.640 --> 0:42:22.040
<v Speaker 4>None recognize women who other men like.

0:42:23.320 --> 0:42:25.399
<v Speaker 2>So I don't used the R word in a long time,

0:42:25.960 --> 0:42:29.919
<v Speaker 2>but to imply that Beyonce is not jay Z's type

0:42:30.719 --> 0:42:33.440
<v Speaker 2>from a Oh, I really don't want to say this.

0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:39.919
<v Speaker 1>That white bitch was not in shape. They're saying that shit,

0:42:40.440 --> 0:42:45.440
<v Speaker 1>and you talking about Beyonce. Beyonce, bitch, you look like

0:42:45.600 --> 0:42:47.920
<v Speaker 1>Luther Vandross. That's what I was thinking of.

0:42:48.320 --> 0:42:51.680
<v Speaker 2>You really had the audacity to get on the internet

0:42:51.760 --> 0:42:54.640
<v Speaker 2>and say one of the most beautiful women in the world.

0:42:55.120 --> 0:42:56.759
<v Speaker 2>And mind you, if you google the most beautifulmen in

0:42:56.760 --> 0:42:58.680
<v Speaker 2>the world, I think Jennifer Aniston pops up, which is

0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:03.520
<v Speaker 2>a gag. Bitch Beyonce isn't jay Z's type because she's

0:43:03.640 --> 0:43:04.040
<v Speaker 2>that big.

0:43:04.120 --> 0:43:05.040
<v Speaker 1>This is what she represents.

0:43:05.600 --> 0:43:09.200
<v Speaker 2>I could understand that if Beyonce had no looks, nobody,

0:43:09.760 --> 0:43:14.200
<v Speaker 2>nothing else, what, no talent, that bitch is godly.

0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:16.279
<v Speaker 1>I want to ask you about what we said in

0:43:16.320 --> 0:43:18.920
<v Speaker 1>the video, though not Beyonce, because she literally said that's all.

0:43:18.960 --> 0:43:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna make this about Beyonce. I want to

0:43:21.520 --> 0:43:27.120
<v Speaker 1>know your thoughts on men picking women based on how

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:30.279
<v Speaker 1>society viewed women do it too, No, I know, so

0:43:30.360 --> 0:43:32.000
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to know your thoughts on that because I

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:34.960
<v Speaker 1>do actually think that this is why and this is

0:43:35.000 --> 0:43:37.640
<v Speaker 1>gonna be a hot take. I believe this is why

0:43:37.760 --> 0:43:40.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot of married men cheat on their wives. I

0:43:41.080 --> 0:43:45.719
<v Speaker 1>think that they get with women, especially rich, successful, powerful men.

0:43:46.440 --> 0:43:49.719
<v Speaker 1>I do feel like those men get with women who

0:43:49.800 --> 0:43:51.920
<v Speaker 1>tick off the boxes, but not who make them happy.

0:43:52.440 --> 0:43:55.160
<v Speaker 1>I think this is why they cheat with the funhoores,

0:43:55.560 --> 0:43:59.000
<v Speaker 1>the fun girls, the bitches that maybe people deem are

0:43:59.080 --> 0:44:02.239
<v Speaker 1>not wifey material, because those are actually the women they

0:44:02.239 --> 0:44:05.800
<v Speaker 1>would like to see themselves with. However, because they're so

0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:10.279
<v Speaker 1>pressed on how society views them and how they view

0:44:10.360 --> 0:44:13.839
<v Speaker 1>whoever's standing next to them, they go for the safe woman.

0:44:14.280 --> 0:44:19.279
<v Speaker 1>They go for the woman that inevitably they end up

0:44:20.000 --> 0:44:23.440
<v Speaker 1>maybe resenting a bit, and it leads them to step out.

0:44:24.040 --> 0:44:27.520
<v Speaker 1>So I do feel like this is true. I feel

0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:30.600
<v Speaker 1>like this is the reason why. Here's my take on that.

0:44:31.560 --> 0:44:35.400
<v Speaker 2>I think that the fun girl theory goes two ways.

0:44:35.960 --> 0:44:38.200
<v Speaker 2>Issue with fun girl have a lot of hot homegirls,

0:44:38.239 --> 0:44:41.080
<v Speaker 2>a lot of ig batty, which is a lot of

0:44:41.160 --> 0:44:44.240
<v Speaker 2>them lack a lot of depth that is required beyond

0:44:44.880 --> 0:44:47.680
<v Speaker 2>the night when you're just sitting at home alone. A

0:44:47.800 --> 0:44:50.840
<v Speaker 2>lot of my friends that haven't really had quote unquote

0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:53.960
<v Speaker 2>real jobs or a certain educational background don't really have

0:44:54.239 --> 0:44:56.560
<v Speaker 2>a lot more to offer and have had issues with

0:44:56.680 --> 0:45:00.600
<v Speaker 2>men in relationships because they feel that energy too. Niggas

0:45:00.600 --> 0:45:02.239
<v Speaker 2>don't want to fucking turn up and smoke Google all

0:45:02.239 --> 0:45:04.359
<v Speaker 2>the time. So what happens when all of that's gone?

0:45:04.600 --> 0:45:07.040
<v Speaker 2>What happens when the vacation life stops? Much like a

0:45:07.080 --> 0:45:09.520
<v Speaker 2>long distance relationship, spending time at home just like you

0:45:09.600 --> 0:45:12.080
<v Speaker 2>and your boyfriend did is really important. Not always going

0:45:12.080 --> 0:45:14.040
<v Speaker 2>on vacation, but being in each other's home shit like that.

0:45:14.440 --> 0:45:17.759
<v Speaker 2>That's something that people always recommend. I really do think

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:19.879
<v Speaker 2>when you just have the fun girl and you're always out,

0:45:20.200 --> 0:45:21.879
<v Speaker 2>you really don't know what that day to day life

0:45:22.000 --> 0:45:24.839
<v Speaker 2>is like. How do these women motivate you? Are they

0:45:24.840 --> 0:45:25.960
<v Speaker 2>even motivating themselves?

0:45:26.000 --> 0:45:28.720
<v Speaker 1>So I don't think it's that men are choosing partners

0:45:28.760 --> 0:45:30.399
<v Speaker 1>that society thinks is better.

0:45:30.880 --> 0:45:33.239
<v Speaker 2>I think they're just not choosing well rounded women. We

0:45:33.320 --> 0:45:35.239
<v Speaker 2>can't sit here and think one's boring and the other

0:45:35.280 --> 0:45:37.520
<v Speaker 2>one's fun. I know a baby, it's just fun and

0:45:37.719 --> 0:45:40.360
<v Speaker 2>can turn up that works at the fucking desk. They listening,

0:45:40.719 --> 0:45:44.120
<v Speaker 2>But it's not always looking like that. So I think

0:45:44.960 --> 0:45:48.040
<v Speaker 2>people women too, choose people that are good on paper.

0:45:48.960 --> 0:45:53.320
<v Speaker 2>But I think to say that men aren't choosing the

0:45:53.440 --> 0:45:58.080
<v Speaker 2>fun Girl actually is wrong. I think nowadays beauty is

0:45:58.200 --> 0:46:01.160
<v Speaker 2>more what we're seeing online. Like you never really hear

0:46:01.320 --> 0:46:03.840
<v Speaker 2>men gassing about how their girl does X y Z

0:46:03.960 --> 0:46:05.680
<v Speaker 2>or how they're proud of them online. You just see

0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 2>the photos of them. Like when we see rich and

0:46:08.120 --> 0:46:10.880
<v Speaker 2>wealthy men, they're just with beautiful women. That's why Beyonce

0:46:11.000 --> 0:46:11.799
<v Speaker 2>is such an anomally in.

0:46:11.760 --> 0:46:16.160
<v Speaker 1>The NFL players mid whites do they They don't be

0:46:16.280 --> 0:46:20.319
<v Speaker 1>with no let bitches because Jalen Hurts. Look no, I'm

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:23.120
<v Speaker 1>talking about the majority of NFL players. We talked about

0:46:23.160 --> 0:46:25.680
<v Speaker 1>this on Patreon. Ain't talking about Jayleen Hurts. He's an

0:46:25.719 --> 0:46:28.239
<v Speaker 1>anomaly and that's why everybody wanted the Eagles to win

0:46:28.440 --> 0:46:30.680
<v Speaker 1>because he's actually a black quarterback with a black woman.

0:46:31.000 --> 0:46:34.200
<v Speaker 1>So love that friend, Chicken Fried state the majority. That

0:46:34.400 --> 0:46:38.719
<v Speaker 1>was a great clip And just don't know. I do

0:46:38.920 --> 0:46:43.600
<v Speaker 1>think that the woman that society sees though for me,

0:46:43.840 --> 0:46:48.080
<v Speaker 1>society doesn't have a good perception of the fun girl.

0:46:48.800 --> 0:46:51.240
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't have a good perception of a woman who enjoys

0:46:51.360 --> 0:46:53.880
<v Speaker 1>a good night out, doesn't have a good perception of

0:46:53.920 --> 0:46:56.480
<v Speaker 1>a woman who wants to stand on like you know

0:46:56.520 --> 0:46:58.600
<v Speaker 1>what that girl is, It's a bitch that go on

0:46:58.680 --> 0:47:01.320
<v Speaker 1>solo vacations and trips were you could want to stand

0:47:01.360 --> 0:47:04.239
<v Speaker 1>on couches and then go home and read a book.

0:47:04.680 --> 0:47:08.120
<v Speaker 1>There's duality there. I really do think though, that girl today,

0:47:08.600 --> 0:47:11.239
<v Speaker 1>in twenty twenty five, in the last five years, even

0:47:11.239 --> 0:47:12.959
<v Speaker 1>since COVID, I see a lot of girls moving around

0:47:13.200 --> 0:47:16.879
<v Speaker 1>that is that corporate girly or maybe small business independent girly.

0:47:16.960 --> 0:47:19.080
<v Speaker 1>That is our her friends turning a fuck up on

0:47:19.200 --> 0:47:21.320
<v Speaker 1>vacation and come home and get into business. That is

0:47:21.400 --> 0:47:23.160
<v Speaker 1>what a fun girl is to me today. I believe

0:47:23.200 --> 0:47:25.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm that girl, which I got shit to do.

0:47:25.880 --> 0:47:28.000
<v Speaker 2>But if I'm on my Instagram story, I'm not the

0:47:28.080 --> 0:47:30.360
<v Speaker 2>fucking vlogger who's showing you about all the contracts I

0:47:30.400 --> 0:47:30.759
<v Speaker 2>gotta do.

0:47:31.080 --> 0:47:32.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna probably show you the club.

0:47:32.840 --> 0:47:36.040
<v Speaker 2>So I think sometimes from what I feel like I'm seeing,

0:47:36.200 --> 0:47:38.399
<v Speaker 2>I am seeing men with more of the fun girl

0:47:38.480 --> 0:47:40.080
<v Speaker 2>or beautiful girl that doesn't have much else.

0:47:40.200 --> 0:47:42.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, I just watched Just Right on the plane.

0:47:42.400 --> 0:47:44.680
<v Speaker 1>Do you remember that movie with Queen Latifah and Coming

0:47:44.760 --> 0:47:47.759
<v Speaker 1>Right and Paula Patten and so her friend or her

0:47:47.800 --> 0:47:50.640
<v Speaker 1>godsister in the movie didn't do anything, but she was

0:47:50.680 --> 0:47:53.000
<v Speaker 1>gorgeous and Queen Latifah worked in medical and it's like,

0:47:53.440 --> 0:47:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's the shit we see.

0:47:55.040 --> 0:47:57.719
<v Speaker 2>We see women get looked over that have great jobs

0:47:57.800 --> 0:47:59.960
<v Speaker 2>or that quote unquote normal girls for the fun girl.

0:48:00.120 --> 0:48:02.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel the opposite of what that girl says. Interesting,

0:48:02.880 --> 0:48:07.279
<v Speaker 1>I really do, Okay, I just seldom and meeting the

0:48:07.400 --> 0:48:09.160
<v Speaker 1>jay Z's of the world, and no one, no, I'm

0:48:09.160 --> 0:48:11.640
<v Speaker 1>not talking about a jay Z but rich men, famous

0:48:11.719 --> 0:48:15.000
<v Speaker 1>men that are with dope women that got their own

0:48:15.000 --> 0:48:16.719
<v Speaker 1>shit going. I really feel like they could just be

0:48:16.800 --> 0:48:19.880
<v Speaker 1>bad and boring, not even bad in bujie because I

0:48:19.960 --> 0:48:22.920
<v Speaker 1>know boogie bitch like a viral shit. That's why I think, yeah, maybe,

0:48:23.080 --> 0:48:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean we're we definitely run in different worlds, different circles,

0:48:26.920 --> 0:48:28.799
<v Speaker 1>A lot of them. We run in the same circles too.

0:48:28.880 --> 0:48:31.160
<v Speaker 1>A lot of the married men I know different experience.

0:48:31.600 --> 0:48:33.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of the married men that

0:48:33.280 --> 0:48:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I know that I'm friends with, their wives are safe.

0:48:36.200 --> 0:48:39.040
<v Speaker 1>They're at home with the kids, and when they're outside,

0:48:39.320 --> 0:48:43.680
<v Speaker 1>they're with the fun girls. I ever, considering that I've

0:48:43.719 --> 0:48:46.240
<v Speaker 1>seen being at home with their wives no matter what circle.

0:48:46.360 --> 0:48:48.640
<v Speaker 1>The ones that we know men and are not those

0:48:48.719 --> 0:48:52.080
<v Speaker 1>wives have probably been in longer term relationships, or maybe

0:48:52.120 --> 0:48:55.320
<v Speaker 1>they have older kids. My younger friends that are married,

0:48:55.360 --> 0:48:58.279
<v Speaker 1>and by younger, I mean under forty, I've seen them

0:48:58.320 --> 0:48:59.960
<v Speaker 1>with these types of girls or in relationships.

0:49:00.080 --> 0:49:02.320
<v Speaker 2>My friends that kind of have wives at home have

0:49:02.480 --> 0:49:05.560
<v Speaker 2>older kids. Maybe their wives ain't trying to be out

0:49:05.560 --> 0:49:09.120
<v Speaker 2>with them at every event, like, which is understandable, cause like, yeah,

0:49:09.200 --> 0:49:11.080
<v Speaker 2>sure it's fun the first few years, but we gotta

0:49:11.120 --> 0:49:13.920
<v Speaker 2>all be honest with ourselves. Like if you have to

0:49:14.000 --> 0:49:15.600
<v Speaker 2>keep up with your man that needs to keep up

0:49:15.600 --> 0:49:20.440
<v Speaker 2>with appearances, like that's not sustainable either. Okay, if you

0:49:20.960 --> 0:49:25.480
<v Speaker 2>are let's just say illegal, your man is in the

0:49:25.520 --> 0:49:28.440
<v Speaker 2>sports or industry and always gotta be out, You're not

0:49:28.480 --> 0:49:30.400
<v Speaker 2>about to chase behind this nigga every fucking event.

0:49:30.680 --> 0:49:34.480
<v Speaker 1>You got your own shit going, Like, I'm not running

0:49:34.480 --> 0:49:37.040
<v Speaker 1>behind a nigga. I got too much to do.

0:49:37.560 --> 0:49:40.360
<v Speaker 2>So if my man is at every conference and networking

0:49:40.400 --> 0:49:43.080
<v Speaker 2>and doing shit, is gonna make it look like, you know,

0:49:43.600 --> 0:49:45.600
<v Speaker 2>like I'm not doing enough, or I'm not fun or

0:49:45.640 --> 0:49:48.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm not out there. Like I think just having women

0:49:48.360 --> 0:49:50.799
<v Speaker 2>around in the club really doesn't mean anything. I think

0:49:50.840 --> 0:49:53.480
<v Speaker 2>women flock to money and status, and I don't think

0:49:53.520 --> 0:49:56.840
<v Speaker 2>a girl being next to you around really shows any value.

0:49:56.880 --> 0:50:00.319
<v Speaker 1>I would love to note from our monogamous list nurse

0:50:01.239 --> 0:50:04.719
<v Speaker 1>if their man goes on work trips, if they're fine

0:50:04.760 --> 0:50:08.360
<v Speaker 1>and comfortable with their man being out with friends and

0:50:08.640 --> 0:50:11.879
<v Speaker 1>bitches being around, being at the table, because think about

0:50:11.880 --> 0:50:13.400
<v Speaker 1>it from the table back to no, no, no, but

0:50:13.440 --> 0:50:15.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, No, that's where you see it.

0:50:15.680 --> 0:50:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I want to know for our monogamous listeners what they

0:50:20.960 --> 0:50:23.520
<v Speaker 1>like if they're fine with their man just hanging out

0:50:23.560 --> 0:50:26.000
<v Speaker 1>with the fun girls just hanging out. You're talking about monogamous.

0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:28.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't know their man fun rich, but that's when

0:50:28.280 --> 0:50:31.680
<v Speaker 1>they famous and rich men. No, I'm talking that they

0:50:31.680 --> 0:50:33.560
<v Speaker 1>don't have to be famous or rich. I'm talking about

0:50:33.800 --> 0:50:35.920
<v Speaker 1>women who, like you just said, the lawyer dating the

0:50:35.960 --> 0:50:38.560
<v Speaker 1>sports agent. These are corporate people who have to travel

0:50:38.600 --> 0:50:41.759
<v Speaker 1>for work. When you're not around, Are you fine with

0:50:41.880 --> 0:50:45.320
<v Speaker 1>your man being outside with the fun girls that you

0:50:45.520 --> 0:50:48.960
<v Speaker 1>know probably want to have some fun. And when I

0:50:49.040 --> 0:50:52.000
<v Speaker 1>say fun, we've been there. We've been those girls that

0:50:52.120 --> 0:50:54.839
<v Speaker 1>go from drinking at the fucking table to go into

0:50:54.920 --> 0:50:58.000
<v Speaker 1>the after party, to go into the hotel room. Like

0:50:58.400 --> 0:51:00.640
<v Speaker 1>fun girls like to have fun. They down with the

0:51:00.719 --> 0:51:03.040
<v Speaker 1>casual sex. We were the fun girls. We've been those

0:51:03.080 --> 0:51:06.759
<v Speaker 1>girls twenty six to thirty two, whatever the case. We

0:51:06.880 --> 0:51:10.320
<v Speaker 1>weren't just always hanging out with guys. If your guys attractive,

0:51:10.640 --> 0:51:13.040
<v Speaker 1>your guy got money, ain't hanging with the fun girls.

0:51:14.080 --> 0:51:14.840
<v Speaker 1>Chances are, But.

0:51:14.880 --> 0:51:17.800
<v Speaker 2>The initial thing was do men really want to be

0:51:17.920 --> 0:51:19.719
<v Speaker 2>with the women they're choosing or would they rather be

0:51:19.840 --> 0:51:20.560
<v Speaker 2>with the fun girl?

0:51:20.760 --> 0:51:24.160
<v Speaker 1>No? And my thing is they like the fun girl

0:51:24.560 --> 0:51:27.239
<v Speaker 1>and would probably be with them if they weren't so

0:51:27.520 --> 0:51:30.799
<v Speaker 1>hell bent on how society views them and the woman

0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:34.080
<v Speaker 1>next to them. And so I believed it, which is

0:51:34.120 --> 0:51:36.680
<v Speaker 1>why there's one of the guys like we talked like

0:51:36.880 --> 0:51:41.080
<v Speaker 1>even me and activeate, it's like, okay, does what I

0:51:41.239 --> 0:51:44.160
<v Speaker 1>do in a career aligned with your image? There's been

0:51:44.280 --> 0:51:46.800
<v Speaker 1>men I talked about I have a little government nigga

0:51:47.040 --> 0:51:49.120
<v Speaker 1>who said he had his PR team looked me up

0:51:49.360 --> 0:51:51.080
<v Speaker 1>cause I was like, oh my god, like, are you

0:51:51.160 --> 0:51:52.680
<v Speaker 1>even allowed to be around me? Because you know, like

0:51:52.760 --> 0:51:54.720
<v Speaker 1>you do a lot of things high up in government.

0:51:55.080 --> 0:51:56.399
<v Speaker 1>And he was like, oh, I have my PR team,

0:51:56.480 --> 0:51:59.320
<v Speaker 1>look you up. And you know periods this women empowerment

0:51:59.800 --> 0:52:02.520
<v Speaker 1>for women's rights, abortion rights. He was like, so you

0:52:02.640 --> 0:52:05.840
<v Speaker 1>aligned it's cool, like because of your messaging, But I

0:52:05.960 --> 0:52:08.840
<v Speaker 1>got athletes who are very hell bent on their brand image.

0:52:09.920 --> 0:52:11.600
<v Speaker 1>We're just friends and we don't let it be known

0:52:11.640 --> 0:52:13.240
<v Speaker 1>that it's anything more, because you know, it's.

0:52:13.080 --> 0:52:15.400
<v Speaker 2>So crazy to me because it's like they could Dateavich

0:52:15.520 --> 0:52:19.720
<v Speaker 2>that got three rapper baby daddies, that fucking got someone

0:52:19.800 --> 0:52:20.440
<v Speaker 2>that exposed them.

0:52:20.440 --> 0:52:22.680
<v Speaker 1>When I'm talking about the men who care about their

0:52:22.719 --> 0:52:26.520
<v Speaker 1>brand image, I'm.

0:52:25.680 --> 0:52:28.800
<v Speaker 2>Saying, you're talking about those men maybe the same that

0:52:28.840 --> 0:52:32.279
<v Speaker 2>would date that girl that's been passed around because she

0:52:32.600 --> 0:52:35.320
<v Speaker 2>just has pictures up and isn't talking on her platform

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:38.040
<v Speaker 2>right Like, it's kind of crazy because the picking and

0:52:38.160 --> 0:52:40.600
<v Speaker 2>choosing of who you're gonna be with.

0:52:40.760 --> 0:52:43.040
<v Speaker 1>I think niggas really be acting like we know, there's

0:52:43.080 --> 0:52:45.960
<v Speaker 1>a difference between a man fucking you and a man

0:52:46.040 --> 0:52:49.160
<v Speaker 1>wifing you. Men are always gonna fuck those women, but

0:52:49.880 --> 0:52:53.560
<v Speaker 1>being publicly claimed by them, being brought around the family,

0:52:54.080 --> 0:52:56.840
<v Speaker 1>being an item to the public, bringing you to my

0:52:57.000 --> 0:53:00.200
<v Speaker 1>work events, that is different. And I think that men

0:53:00.280 --> 0:53:04.400
<v Speaker 1>who actually care about how they look to society, to

0:53:04.520 --> 0:53:08.279
<v Speaker 1>their jobs in their careers, they want a clean, safe

0:53:08.360 --> 0:53:10.920
<v Speaker 1>woman next to them, and it kind of, you know,

0:53:12.160 --> 0:53:16.480
<v Speaker 1>sucks for the women that are still hairs and tattoos

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