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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 1: decisions decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kursing.

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Speaker 1: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, you want to say together Decisions Decisions. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: it's a girl man DV and I'm Weezy. We're the

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Speaker 1: Decisions Decisions Podcast. However, we are also the host of

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Speaker 1: the third annual Black Effect Podcast Festival, There Are Time's

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Speaker 1: a Charm That's Right, taking place April twenty six at

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Speaker 1: the Pullman Yards in Atlanta, Georgia. Mandy is so excited

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Speaker 1: to be in her hometown. Now. I'm just excited to

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Speaker 1: come back because it is my favorite festival. We're going

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Speaker 1: to be seeing Carrie Champion, Good Mom's Bad Choices, Sarah

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Speaker 1: Jakes Roberts.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna see Tank. Oh sorry, R and B Money,

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Speaker 2: but Tank and tret Nerds.

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Speaker 1: And as you know, the Black Effect Festival also has panels,

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Speaker 1: ways to network and things to learn and things to land.

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Speaker 1: Look good. They gotta look at them.

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Speaker 3: They do.

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Speaker 1: They got everything, They got everything, but they also have us.

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Speaker 1: So we'll be hosting keeping you entertained the entire time weezy.

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Speaker 1: Where can they get tickets? You can get your tickets.

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Speaker 2: At Black Effect dot com Forward Slash Podcast Festival.

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Speaker 1: That's right, we can't wait to see you there. Welcome

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Speaker 1: everybody to another episode of the Sissy Yalls decizy Yoons.

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Speaker 1: Y'all see how I did that? There we go. It's Beck,

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Speaker 1: It's Beg, it's your girl, medv Aka, I got a nigga.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm so glad to be not the

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Speaker 1: we start this week's episode, we do want to let

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Speaker 2: The pre orders are the only things that can get

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Speaker 2: us on this list. Had no idea before, and that's

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Speaker 2: why we're going to scream it to you every single week,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna be on Patreon pay and a five fifteen dollars.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, you're still open to hear beach. You're gonna be

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Speaker 1: at that motherfucker live tour with three books in your hand.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna say, bitch, and you didn't get four. Also,

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Speaker 1: if you haven't known yet, we are the host of

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Speaker 1: I think it's the third or four third, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's the third. Right, we are the host this year.

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Speaker 1: So whether you come at twelve o'clock, bitch or leave

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Speaker 1: it eight baby, we are they have the whole motherfucking time.

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Speaker 1: Were gonna have to Are we gonna do alpha changes? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I want to like how many bitch beyonces because I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna be tired. No outfit changes the whole day and.

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Speaker 2: We have let's see we can go thro run down theirs,

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Speaker 2: trap nerds, good Mom's bad.

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Speaker 1: Choices, Naked sports with is it car your carry? Harry Champion,

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Speaker 1: Harry Champion, we are r and b money with Tank

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Speaker 1: and then y'all the good It's sister, what is it

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Speaker 1: Sarah Jakes Roberts. I was about to say Lebarbiver. I

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Speaker 1: know I love Sarah Jake Roberts, but you know there's

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Speaker 1: such a great lineup. I know, Trapped for her Nerds

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Speaker 1: has never hit the stage. Good Mom's Bad Choices never

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Speaker 1: I think every single person is not pop. We just

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, Tank, you're in Atlanta. I need

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Speaker 1: Usher on that stage. Okay, I think he gives great interviews.

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Speaker 1: I am here for Usher being on more like long platform. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, there's Shawn Marion. There's like all these old No,

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Speaker 1: Shan Mayn is a light bright ass niggas Who got

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Speaker 1: dress from old school days? Wait sew a podcast? Are

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Speaker 1: I'm really lost. Yeah, you're he's old school, like old school,

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Speaker 1: Google and that shows these are his siblings. Oh. I

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Speaker 2: Tremain Marion, Shawnette and Quinetia Marion and let me tell

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Speaker 1: You don't know it when you see the motherfuckers. And

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Speaker 1: I would love to see h Quinnette, what was it, Shawnett, Quinetia.

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Speaker 1: like all the old heads. Who cares, I'm gonna get

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Speaker 1: to my boyfriend. Damn it was we got like sports, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I went to the All Star Game. Slam dunk contest

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Speaker 1: I was like, my middle school self is loving this bitch.

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Speaker 1: They look young. I almost want to quote you was

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Speaker 1: get this. We're not gonna do this. They look young.

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Speaker 1: like they look young. They look like they balls just dropped.

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Speaker 1: I don't want like someone that looks young. I don't

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Speaker 1: a little older. Speaking of young, there's an eight year

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Speaker 1: difference between me and my boyfriend. Yes, my me and

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Speaker 1: my me and my man. So I am now a

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Speaker 2: Now you gave us some good tea on Patreon sheep.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, if you guys want to hear like how

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Speaker 1: patreon dot com backslash horrible decisions. Basically, I'm gonna give

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Speaker 1: summary is, y'all know I was entertaining multiple men, because bitch,

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm so sorry, man, you want to support Palestine?

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Speaker 1: the little deal with Delta. Shout out to Delta because

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Speaker 1: One of my other niggas face signed me. He saw

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Speaker 1: gave him my answers. This whole story is elongated on

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Speaker 1: the Patreoch. Now you question for you, you had plans

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Speaker 1: Did you a say fuck you this other nigga coming through,

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Speaker 1: Oh you weren't listening on town Hall girl. So the universe,

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Speaker 1: the stars and moons put me in this relationship because

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Speaker 1: I didn't have to like there was no Chris Cross

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Speaker 1: At the very end of the call, he sends his flight.

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Speaker 1: He's coming to spend the week of Valentine's Day with me,

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Speaker 1: how I want to be treated. I said, I like flowers.

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Speaker 1: And if you feel as though you can't show up

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know if it was at her kids.

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Speaker 2: I would say certain Asians, like Chinese people, they be loud.

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Speaker 1: I said, Hey, I'm not gonna rob you guys. Why

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Speaker 3: Look you just twisted it.

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Speaker 1: Calm down, No, but same shit happened. No, no, no,

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you made it loud and clear that you're

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Speaker 1: Then what it was just like this right? She was pertending.

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Speaker 2: Yes, they're American, they're Korean by descent. Them bitches that

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Speaker 1: I didn't get weird. I let him take the picture

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Speaker 3: And you know, when you were the white woman with

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Speaker 2: I was the fine grass woman that had her fro

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's crazy. Going ahead, going ahead, anyway, back to

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Speaker 1: So he dresses very simple. He dresses like an La

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Speaker 1: West Coast nigga Dickies pay essentials, but essentials, but not

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Speaker 3: Was on the shoes, but.

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Speaker 1: to know about certain topics or things. He said, quote

424
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Speaker 1: Mandy is using her selective ignorance to justify why she

425
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Speaker 1: can't name five Meek records because that came out. That

426
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 1: came out the week that we kind of started talking.

427
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:50,400
Speaker 1: So he said, it's release day. It makes me smile

428
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Speaker 1: that I've been in your life long enough to see

429
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Speaker 1: this idea go from inception to execution. I'm happy because

430
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Speaker 1: this will let people see you the you. I know,

431
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Speaker 1: the you that keeps me on the phone for five

432
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 1: the you that makes me giddy enough to laugh and

433
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,639
Speaker 1: safe enough to cry. The you that took me, that

434
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,679
Speaker 1: took the two minutes I gave you and somehow managed

435
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 1: to captivate me enough to spin me into a whole

436
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 1: ass relationship. It's the starring vehicle you deserve. Good morning,

437
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you. Call me after your appointment.

438
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 1: Oh what else? And I'm like, oh my god, oh

439
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 1: I just melt. So anyways, he gives me those shoes.

440
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:27,159
Speaker 1: We decide because I'm like, fuck, plus he's still kind

441
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 1: of bleed, and I was like, let's shower tonight. So

442
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 1: we get in the shower that night, and I'm so

443
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: excited because I was like, ooh, my shower. This is

444
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,439
Speaker 1: nice at fuck. So I'm like, ooh, we about the shower,

445
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,439
Speaker 1: wipe each other down. This is gonna be so sexy.

446
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,199
Speaker 1: So I go to hand him my Men's body wash

447
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 1: that's in my shower because I like oods, I like

448
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 1: musky scents, I like menshit. And I hand him it

449
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, here you go, mind you this much left.

450
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 1: But I'm like, here you go. This is the men's

451
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Speaker 1: body wash. I'll use the since we're both in here.

452
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 1: And he looks at me and he's like okay. So

453
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Speaker 1: we get out the shower. We get out the shower,

454
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,920
Speaker 1: and I realize he's acting weird, and I'm like, you

455
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 1: know what, just come here. I bring him to the

456
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 1: laundry room and I show him that I have six

457
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: bottles of this man wash and he's like, oh, you

458
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 1: picked up on that, didn't you. I he was like

459
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:28,439
Speaker 1: in my head, he was like I done flew all

460
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 1: the way to fucking Atlanta to be with this bitch,

461
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 1: and she handed me another nigga body wash. That's what

462
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 1: I would have thought. And I'm like, you would have

463
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:35,879
Speaker 1: thought that too.

464
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 3: Yes, if this is like I mean, this is our

465
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 3: first time showering together, and we showered.

466
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 1: We showered around each other.

467
00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 3: In Vegas establishment.

468
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: So he comes and and he's like, this, lowdown, dirty bitch.

469
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 1: Mind you. This was the second thing that happened because

470
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,640
Speaker 1: before he traveled, I'm showing him me reorganizing my closet.

471
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 1: Guess what's in the frame? Condoms? Okay, So he was like,

472
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 1: are those condoms just on your dresser in your closet?

473
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, I'm my cleaner, like must

474
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 1: So he just this nigga must have came here thinking

475
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: I had a nigga fucking me, a nigga taking a

476
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Speaker 1: motherfucking shower, And I'm like, so we had to talk

477
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Speaker 1: to this. So then he comes and I was like, no, let.

478
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Speaker 4: Me show you.

479
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 1: There's condoms in my kitchen. There's condoms in all of

480
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 1: my luggage, said I, oh, I stay with condoms everywhere.

481
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 1: Your kitchen there were my kitchen, your what if I'm

482
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Speaker 1: on the couch by what the knives you just moved

483
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:37,119
Speaker 1: in there. I don't give a fuck. Condoms will be everywhere. Listen,

484
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: stay ready, so you ain't gotta get ready. So it

485
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 1: was a part of me setting up my house. Condoms here,

486
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 1: condoms there, condoms everywhere. No, don't do that, don't do that.

487
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 1: I like, oh, I have condoms about the bar. So

488
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:54,360
Speaker 1: I had to show him.

489
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Speaker 3: That makes more sense to.

490
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Speaker 1: Me, because what if we drinking at the dining room

491
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 1: table or eating eggs? Ask you a question, what in

492
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 1: all of my fucking which I would say the last

493
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 1: sixteen years of fucking shit, maybe eighteen?

494
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 2: I just never never was it too far of a

495
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 2: stretch to get up and grab it from a drawer?

496
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:20,680
Speaker 2: You ready, never have two stories now, curl, I'm about.

497
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 1: To get a refrigerator. Listen, I'm about to get a refrigerator.

498
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 1: It's a point because I'll be thirsty at night. But

499
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,160
Speaker 1: a b shul be lazy and don't want to go downstairs.

500
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,199
Speaker 1: To be honest with you, I feel that, bro, bro.

501
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'm gonna make sure the whole part

502
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 1: of my house is comfortable for me to do what

503
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: the fuck I want to do.

504
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 2: I'm not going to do you if it's not just water,

505
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:41,719
Speaker 2: that's a fat bit shit, mait you beare to get

506
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 2: your airs downstairs, get their food.

507
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 1: It's just water. It's just I'm not bringing food upstairs.

508
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: Like nah, So okay, how did he get to the Anyways,

509
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: we go to dinner, We have sex. It's great, y'all.

510
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: Aren't gonna get many details of that, I'll tell you

511
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 1: now because he's a public person, so I'm just gonna

512
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 1: be minimal here. But he adores me. I cooked for

513
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 1: him breakfast and it just felt good. I was like,

514
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: this is our second time spending like three days around

515
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: each other where we didn't annoy each other, Like we

516
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 1: like couldn't keep each other off of each other. So

517
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 1: after we got done fucking, I go to the bathroom.

518
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: He comes out and meets me in the hallway and

519
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: we pretty much are just like this makes sense and

520
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: it doesn't make sense not too so here we are

521
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 1: we're in a relationship just to get like this literally

522
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 1: and we do this fault. He's like hugging me in

523
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: the hallway or kissing. He gives me another forehead kissed bitches,

524
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: and we just looked up and it literally goes to

525
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: where it's like, yeah, so I think this like solidifies

526
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 1: that we're in a relationship, right, I was like, well, yeah,

527
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: because it doesn't make sense not to me. And then

528
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 1: here we are so over the next like I mean,

529
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: now we're just working on our boundaries, seeing each other,

530
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: being intentional of making time for each other. So like

531
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: he's gonna be be in Denver. Nice. So he's meeting

532
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: me Denver Sunday, and then as of right now the

533
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: end of the month, I'm supposed to be joining him

534
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: in San Diego. So have you been I've never been

535
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: a Sandy. I just went for my first time for

536
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 1: that wedding. After we shot Won't We All Together? Yes, yes,

537
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: we were shooting the promo reel for Decision Decisions. Yes.

538
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: I was in shock. Nigga, that shit is not fire.

539
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 1: It's just like it's not La, but it's just as

540
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 1: beautiful as La, but more chill. You know what, I

541
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: just realized, San Francisco, shout out to everyone that listens

542
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: to us in the Bay is now my favorite fucking

543
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: city in America. I just went for All Star weekend.

544
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: It is New York. I didn't even know that it

545
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: would make me feel so it's New York, it's Malibu,

546
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: it's la and then it looks like parts of Europe,

547
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo. We went to some pier

548
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,439
Speaker 1: across the Golden Gate Bridge and I was like, yo,

549
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: I fucking love it here. Mind you didn't even get

550
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: to go to oak k didn't get to go to Sonoma,

551
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: didn't get to go to now And I'm like, I'm

552
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: going back. So literally, there's a part where they don't

553
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 1: even call it downtown. You're in this area, mind you.

554
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: They have Japantown, Chinatown, all this stuff. The building the

555
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 1: buildings are high, the streets are narrow. You feel like

556
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: you're in fucking New York. And Wolf is like shaking

557
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 1: his head. I said, I had no idea that there

558
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 1: was a part of San Francisco that made me feel

559
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: like New York. Mind you. I'm gonna be honest with you.

560
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:25,919
Speaker 2: I was born in New York. My mom lived there

561
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 2: fifteen years. I never heard her say that. I've never

562
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 2: heard anybody in my life say San Francisco.

563
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: I was there with my friend Keith. We went and

564
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: we were like, Yo, this feels like New York. All

565
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: the parties that we were going to, like the hotels. Yeah,

566
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: but you're talking about a city during All Star. No, no, no,

567
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the buildings and how all the parties

568
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: I met. No, I'm not talking about the parties at all.

569
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: I'm talking about where we were, Like where we were driving,

570
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: and Wolf is at least shaking his head, and the

571
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: five people that I was with agreed, had no clue

572
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: that it would remind me of New York City, And

573
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, I fucking love it. Here was

574
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: just as expensive. I said, who, yeah, mind you mind?

575
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: You did my white people ship and got into one

576
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 1: of them cars with no driver?

577
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:07,479
Speaker 4: Right?

578
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 1: Do you know what's crazy?

579
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 2: The other day, literally, I was saying what happened to Jaguars?

580
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 2: And I realized they're way more way Mom, it was crazy.

581
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't like it. Oh, I'm not gonna lie.

582
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: I'm so shocked that they have it in Atlanta, I said,

583
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:22,959
Speaker 1: they do. All they do is still cars out here.

584
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, the way Mo's about to be getting robbed

585
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: or something. They about to take the goddamn satellite ships

586
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: off and take them jags.

587
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 2: I'm so shocked that they How did you feel when Okay,

588
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 2: when I got in and it made a turn and

589
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 2: then even when like someone else crossed over, I was like.

590
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 1: What the I didn't I didn't like it. I ain't

591
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. That thing drove better. There's some humans

592
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 1: it I scared. I was like scared, but also like

593
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: it wouldn't even move until all of us put our

594
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: seat belts on, and if you take your seatbelt off,

595
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 1: your account will be gone. So wow, yeah, you're very

596
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: serious with buckling up. But I was like, Okay, this

597
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: is kind of cool. Shout out to my friend Keith.

598
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: He booked it. He said, you gotta try this before.

599
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: I think it's around an uber costs.

600
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 3: Okay with the driver.

601
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 1: Was about to say we did take it when we

602
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: were only eight minutes. We went from Japantown, UH to Chinatown.

603
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: So I didn't want to take it for a long drive.

604
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: Like for some reason, I was like, yeah, I'm good

605
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: on the air.

606
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 3: It didn't go on the highway.

607
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 1: We didn't get on the highway. And it will take

608
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: you to airports maybe because that is so much that

609
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: may have you know, but they won't take you to airports.

610
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: But they're inner city so they're in La San Francisco, Atlanta,

611
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: and I think they're introducing it to I think Arizona

612
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: this year or something, and they'll be rolling it out

613
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 1: in Atlanta more in June. And I was like, they'd

614
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: already don't know how to drive in Atlanta. It's so

615
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 1: crazy that people like you think Uber is a commodity

616
00:30:56,560 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: that gave people jobs. Fucked, no, bro, Like these fucking

617
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: corporations don't give off no that about you. They don't

618
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,520
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Speaker 2: Where to Get It. So I was gonna say the

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Speaker 2: main thing that I could think about that happened during

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Speaker 2: this trip, I'm gonna do an episode about the history

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Speaker 2: of brothels because I really want to talk about prostitution

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Speaker 2: in Thailand and cost and how it went and how

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Speaker 2: we went to the spot and got to see them

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Speaker 2: literally on a rotator.

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Speaker 1: It was crazy. But my nigga said to me one

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Speaker 1: night actually it was now Times day. He's like, I know,

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Speaker 1: we like it just didn't vibe because he'd be like,

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Speaker 1: I kind of just do miss just organic three. So

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Speaker 1: I was like, We've got a fuck a tourist, bitch.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I was thinking about it too, and he

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Speaker 2: was like, yeah, let's let's just have fun tonight, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, let's get fucked up. We're in the

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Speaker 2: Peep Islands, which is so fucking romantic for around time

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Speaker 2: day but at nighttime it's wild and it's a full

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Speaker 2: moon party, which is every month obviously, but it's a

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Speaker 2: big deal for Bali, Thailand, whatever.

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Speaker 1: We're off the island. We're in like the little parties, nigga.

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Speaker 2: He's going underneath a fucking fire limbo thing like blade,

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Speaker 2: I'm on a fucking bull ride.

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Speaker 1: Bruh. We're wilding out. And finally this girl comes up.

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Speaker 2: Well a lot of people were staring at him becausere

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Speaker 2: weren't a lot of black people there, and this girl

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Speaker 2: is just like, he's barely got his shirt on.

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Speaker 1: Fult niggle, and she was like, can I take a

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Speaker 1: picture with him?

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, sure, I have a video of her,

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Speaker 2: I think, because I just thought it was so funny

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Speaker 2: that she's just like, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: She had like a Mediterranean look. Oh this was her way. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is her. So she's just like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I want to take a picture please. But she was cute,

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Speaker 1: kuchi out and everything, little tiny bro. I'm like, great, well,

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Speaker 1: fuck this bitch. Oh so on the back of my

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Speaker 1: arm I have black in Hebrew because my father's from Israel.

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Speaker 1: My mom is why she sees it and starts talking

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Speaker 1: to me in Hebrew. This is about after twenty minutes

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Speaker 1: of flirting us talking about oh my god, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to kiss you first, and nasty shit getting drink

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Speaker 1: shot and I was like, oh no, He's like, what's wrong.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yo, I really thought I wasn't eat this

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Speaker 2: girl pussy tonight. I ain't gonna eat this fucking it's

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Speaker 2: on Palestine, pussy.

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Speaker 1: I can't do it. You telling me? The girl notices

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Speaker 1: I'm Israeli. Now she thinks we're on the same team.

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Speaker 2: Did she start speaking Hebrew to all other friend now?

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Speaker 2: Getting real excited, I'm like, oh no, bitch, wait did

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Speaker 2: you ask her?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: So he goes, baby, it's fucking four o'clock in the morning, like,

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Speaker 1: why are you thinking about that right now? I'm like

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Speaker 1: He's like, don't you can worry about it. I'm all right,

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Speaker 1: all right, are you? But also you're Israeli in free Palestine?

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Speaker 1: So maybe she was did you ask her? Well, I'm brown.

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Speaker 2: From my experience, most Israeli's, especially the ones living there

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Speaker 2: and the ones that I'm just being honest, it is

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Speaker 2: a small amount of people that live in Israel that

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Speaker 2: are pro Palestine.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just like, fuck fuck. So we have for fun,

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Speaker 1: were dancing on each other, and shit, she wandered on me,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh God, this girls like the enemy.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, let me just s and he looking

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Speaker 1: at me like, yo, just chill because beyond the fucking.

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Speaker 1: He's like, that's gonna get you upset, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So I'm just like, after fucking, I smell like tequila's

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Speaker 2: dripping on my tits. I'm glowing the dark thing over

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Speaker 2: my titties that says I love you.

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Speaker 1: We were wild.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, so, what do you think about what's going on?

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Speaker 2: And hears her say to her friend and then I

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Speaker 2: knew it. I said, ah, we gotta go.

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Speaker 1: He looking at me like, yo, what did she say?

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Speaker 2: She just started talking to her friend once I said that,

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Speaker 2: and they kind of gave me a side look, and

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Speaker 2: I knew then that bitch was like what that ho?

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Speaker 1: And let me tell you something. The entire trip, Mandy,

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Speaker 1: I haven't really had my clothes off in a minute.

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Speaker 1: There are a lot of Israeli tourists in Thailand. My

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Speaker 1: dad told me this too. I did not know that. Bro.

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Speaker 1: Almost every other day somebody was like trying to talk

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Speaker 1: to me, and I was like, yo, I thought I

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Speaker 1: left this Social Justice warriorshit in America. Bitch, the only

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Speaker 1: threeesme we almost had well a girl. Then I couldn't

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Speaker 1: fuck rightfully, so I can't get this bitch.

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Speaker 2: My nigga got good ass thing. I'm gonna give you

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Speaker 2: that and echo pussy. Meanwhile, you're online talking about Hamas

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Speaker 2: did this. Now I was fucked up all night.

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Speaker 1: It really almost ruined my night.

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Speaker 2: And I swear to god, it took me back to

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Speaker 2: when I was first dating and Trump was getting elected

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Speaker 2: and I was on the apps and I felt like

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Speaker 2: everything was an interview. And I remember when I was

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Speaker 2: listening to Jesus and Marriw back in the day Bo

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Speaker 2: Daca Boys around that time when they were on and

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Speaker 2: Jesus was like, Nigga, I don't give a fuck about

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Speaker 2: not asking, but who the fuck did you vote for?

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Speaker 2: And like, it really put me in this place of like,

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Speaker 2: have I spent enough time actually putting into motion the

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Speaker 2: way I feel like this stopped me from fucking a bitch?

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Speaker 2: But am I taking the steps every day? Because it

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Speaker 2: didn't really stop me from getting match lemonade Starbucks? Like

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Speaker 2: how much of my life is.

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Speaker 1: Hypocritical so to speak? And yeah, it fucked me up, bro,

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Speaker 1: like a lot. We're all hypocrites It really ruined my

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Speaker 1: night because we was really that close. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: think you would drive yourself crazy though figuring out how

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Speaker 1: you're a hypocrite like me and Antonet just had this

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Speaker 1: conversation on my other potter. It's just like, bro, you

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Speaker 1: will drive yourself crazy trying to move in the most moral,

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Speaker 1: best way possible. Like I think even like with all

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Speaker 1: the DEI things and the boycotting of stuff like if

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Speaker 1: you if you choose not to eat like what it's

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Speaker 1: Goya Starbucks, like all the things that you know, not

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Speaker 1: shop a way for it, not shop at H and M,

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Speaker 1: not do this, not do that. You drive yourself fucking crazy.

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Speaker 2: But then at the same time, don't we need to

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Speaker 2: stand for something like how can I fucking watch the

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Speaker 2: H and M shit and walk in the door and

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Speaker 2: then at the same time be someone that's like I

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Speaker 2: don't know, I just I really don't think you can

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Speaker 2: do both. So like I actually like after that moment,

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Speaker 2: and it's crazy because it's literally about having a threesome,

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Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, no, I'm actually gonna really try

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Speaker 2: to make an effort, like I really want to, and

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Speaker 2: mind you, kalistarn is not a life.

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Speaker 1: I'm living every day. I live black shit every.

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Speaker 2: Day, woman shit every day, gay shit every day, like

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Speaker 2: the queerness, the anti LGBTQ, I need to stop Chick

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Speaker 2: fil A like that should be number one, the anti

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Speaker 2: revisionist camps. Like there's a lot of shit in my

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Speaker 2: life that I've just kind of been like whatever to

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Speaker 2: And that really kind of showed me like, yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm really not about it. I know we're taking a

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Speaker 2: long time and Mandy has a boyfriend. That's the episode.

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Speaker 1: Well I talk about fucking pussy. Okay, so clearly this

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Speaker 1: episode sorry, I'm drinking. Sorry after you just went on

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Speaker 1: the goddamn rant on that sport of you, I don't

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Speaker 1: think you're gonna stop. I'm not. I'm a hypocrite. I

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Speaker 1: stand for a lot of things, and I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: stress myself about the things I can purchase and buying,

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Speaker 1: where I can go, and how I can live my

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Speaker 1: fucking life in the world that I think is actually

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Speaker 1: ran by the government on some bullshit, like I think

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Speaker 1: the aliens are up in the clouds are in the

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Speaker 1: ocean laughing at us. Anyways, and we're currently on an

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Speaker 1: episode where eggs are very expensive and all the planes

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Speaker 1: are falling out of the sky. So this is like

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Speaker 1: a new season that just started, and it's about eggs

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Speaker 1: and planes. So wherever we're at in life, it's fucking

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Speaker 1: laughable to me, and I just want to be peaceful.

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Speaker 1: Atlanta has allowed me to slow down. Atlanta has allowed

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Speaker 1: me to just who like I realized, like New York

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Speaker 1: is such a busy fast I always gotta be. I

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Speaker 1: always gotta do stub City. Like yesterday I met Eden.

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Speaker 1: What time I met you? At like ten am? I

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Speaker 1: got back home at one. I was lucky. I had

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Speaker 1: we recorded, I had a lunch, I met my friend,

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Speaker 1: got drunk with her and her husband.

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Speaker 3: By away.

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Speaker 1: I told him I was gonna do this shout out

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Speaker 1: to you, Rob. I go to see my friend Britt.

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Speaker 1: I'm t T Mandy, and they were so happy to

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Speaker 1: see me. I'm one of the aunties that as soon

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Speaker 1: as I go, I'm gonna bring you candy. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: bring you ice cream. I'm gonna be the best friend

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Speaker 1: so that you could go watch your cartoons when me

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Speaker 1: and your parents are talking. So I go over there

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Speaker 1: and I said, Rob, first off, twins we have the

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Speaker 1: same hair. Because he's blinding short I say, Rob, I

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Speaker 1: never ask you for anything, and I need a huge favor.

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Speaker 1: Mind you. Britt is sitting on the couch like, now, bitch,

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Speaker 1: what you need for my husband? I said, I would

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Speaker 1: never ask you any other time for this, but I

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Speaker 1: really need your help. He looks at me. He said,

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Speaker 1: you need a do rag, don't you That's cute? I said,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, how did you know? Bitch? My homegirl

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Speaker 1: fell to the floor and was like, not my nigga,

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Speaker 1: know you about to ask for a do rag. I said, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I gotta make this shit last the ways I can't

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Speaker 1: do it, And I said, I slept like this all night.

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Speaker 1: I was sleeping on my motherfucking hand, cheek the hand.

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Speaker 1: I said, I can't mess this up. So I just said, well,

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Speaker 1: I go into the studio. I'm gonna shout you out.

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Speaker 1: So shout out to Rob for giving me a do rag.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna judge you at the fact that.

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Speaker 3: It was.

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Speaker 1: Give us this reactionary bitch where we're reacting to. So

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Speaker 1: this is clearly a fucking catch up episode Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 1: We went completely off outline, but I do still have

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Speaker 1: this and I wanted to play it because in the

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Speaker 1: realm that we both have boyfriends. I thought that this

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Speaker 1: was an interesting conversation. So Beyonce is not jay Z's

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Speaker 1: dream girl, but Beyonce fits the image of.

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Speaker 4: Who She goes on to say that she does not

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Speaker 4: think Beyonce is jay Z's dream girl, but instead he

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Speaker 4: recognizes that she is a dream girl for the majority

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Speaker 4: of the population, and because of that, she has a

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Speaker 4: suitable partner to have for someone of his level of

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Speaker 4: stature in the music industry. Okay, we're not gonna talk

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Speaker 4: about Beyonce and jay Z. This is a Beyonce standpage,

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Speaker 4: but we can learn a lot from the message in

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Speaker 4: this video. If you are a woman who is beautiful, smart,

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Speaker 4: well put together, charismatic, no how to carry herself, can

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Speaker 4: navigate any room full of people. Okay, dating is going

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Speaker 4: to be very very hard for you, not because you're

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Speaker 4: gonna have a shortage of that obviously, it's going to

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Speaker 4: be a plethora of men that want to date you,

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Speaker 4: but because you're gonna have to do an extra level

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Speaker 4: of evaluation to make sure that these men actually like you.

848
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Speaker 4: None recognize women who other men like.

849
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,399
Speaker 2: So I don't used the R word in a long time,

850
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,919
Speaker 2: but to imply that Beyonce is not jay Z's type

851
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 2: from a Oh, I really don't want to say this.

852
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 1: That white bitch was not in shape. They're saying that shit,

853
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: and you talking about Beyonce. Beyonce, bitch, you look like

854
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: Luther Vandross. That's what I was thinking of.

855
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 2: You really had the audacity to get on the internet

856
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 2: and say one of the most beautiful women in the world.

857
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 2: And mind you, if you google the most beautifulmen in

858
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 2: the world, I think Jennifer Aniston pops up, which is

859
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 2: a gag. Bitch Beyonce isn't jay Z's type because she's

860
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 2: that big.

861
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: This is what she represents.

862
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 2: I could understand that if Beyonce had no looks, nobody,

863
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 2: nothing else, what, no talent, that bitch is godly.

864
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: I want to ask you about what we said in

865
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 1: the video, though not Beyonce, because she literally said that's all.

866
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna make this about Beyonce. I want to

867
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: know your thoughts on men picking women based on how

868
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 1: society viewed women do it too, No, I know, so

869
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: I wanted to know your thoughts on that because I

870
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 1: do actually think that this is why and this is

871
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: gonna be a hot take. I believe this is why

872
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 1: a lot of married men cheat on their wives. I

873
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: think that they get with women, especially rich, successful, powerful men.

874
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: I do feel like those men get with women who

875
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 1: tick off the boxes, but not who make them happy.

876
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: I think this is why they cheat with the funhoores,

877
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 1: the fun girls, the bitches that maybe people deem are

878
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: not wifey material, because those are actually the women they

879
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 1: would like to see themselves with. However, because they're so

880
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: pressed on how society views them and how they view

881
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 1: whoever's standing next to them, they go for the safe woman.

882
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 1: They go for the woman that inevitably they end up

883
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 1: maybe resenting a bit, and it leads them to step out.

884
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: So I do feel like this is true. I feel

885
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 1: like this is the reason why. Here's my take on that.

886
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 2: I think that the fun girl theory goes two ways.

887
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 2: Issue with fun girl have a lot of hot homegirls,

888
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 2: a lot of ig batty, which is a lot of

889
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,240
Speaker 2: them lack a lot of depth that is required beyond

890
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 2: the night when you're just sitting at home alone. A

891
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 2: lot of my friends that haven't really had quote unquote

892
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 2: real jobs or a certain educational background don't really have

893
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 2: a lot more to offer and have had issues with

894
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: men in relationships because they feel that energy too. Niggas

895
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 2: don't want to fucking turn up and smoke Google all

896
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 2: the time. So what happens when all of that's gone?

897
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 2: What happens when the vacation life stops? Much like a

898
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 2: long distance relationship, spending time at home just like you

899
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 2: and your boyfriend did is really important. Not always going

900
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 2: on vacation, but being in each other's home shit like that.

901
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 2: That's something that people always recommend. I really do think

902
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:19,879
Speaker 2: when you just have the fun girl and you're always out,

903
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:21,879
Speaker 2: you really don't know what that day to day life

904
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 2: is like. How do these women motivate you? Are they

905
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 2: even motivating themselves?

906
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,720
Speaker 1: So I don't think it's that men are choosing partners

907
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,399
Speaker 1: that society thinks is better.

908
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 2: I think they're just not choosing well rounded women. We

909
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 2: can't sit here and think one's boring and the other

910
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 2: one's fun. I know a baby, it's just fun and

911
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 2: can turn up that works at the fucking desk. They listening,

912
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 2: But it's not always looking like that. So I think

913
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 2: people women too, choose people that are good on paper.

914
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:53,320
Speaker 2: But I think to say that men aren't choosing the

915
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: fun Girl actually is wrong. I think nowadays beauty is

916
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 2: more what we're seeing online. Like you never really hear

917
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 2: men gassing about how their girl does X y Z

918
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 2: or how they're proud of them online. You just see

919
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 2: the photos of them. Like when we see rich and

920
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 2: wealthy men, they're just with beautiful women. That's why Beyonce

921
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 2: is such an anomally in.

922
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: The NFL players mid whites do they They don't be

923
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 1: with no let bitches because Jalen Hurts. Look no, I'm

924
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: talking about the majority of NFL players. We talked about

925
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: this on Patreon. Ain't talking about Jayleen Hurts. He's an

926
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: anomaly and that's why everybody wanted the Eagles to win

927
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: because he's actually a black quarterback with a black woman.

928
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: So love that friend, Chicken Fried state the majority. That

929
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 1: was a great clip And just don't know. I do

930
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 1: think that the woman that society sees though for me,

931
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: society doesn't have a good perception of the fun girl.

932
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,240
Speaker 1: Doesn't have a good perception of a woman who enjoys

933
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 1: a good night out, doesn't have a good perception of

934
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: a woman who wants to stand on like you know

935
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 1: what that girl is, It's a bitch that go on

936
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:01,320
Speaker 1: solo vacations and trips were you could want to stand

937
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 1: on couches and then go home and read a book.

938
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: There's duality there. I really do think though, that girl today,

939
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five, in the last five years, even

940
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:12,959
Speaker 1: since COVID, I see a lot of girls moving around

941
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:16,879
Speaker 1: that is that corporate girly or maybe small business independent girly.

942
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: That is our her friends turning a fuck up on

943
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,320
Speaker 1: vacation and come home and get into business. That is

944
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: what a fun girl is to me today. I believe

945
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: I'm that girl, which I got shit to do.

946
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 2: But if I'm on my Instagram story, I'm not the

947
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 2: fucking vlogger who's showing you about all the contracts I

948
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 2: gotta do.

949
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna probably show you the club.

950
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 2: So I think sometimes from what I feel like I'm seeing,

951
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,399
Speaker 2: I am seeing men with more of the fun girl

952
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 2: or beautiful girl that doesn't have much else.

953
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 1: You know, I just watched Just Right on the plane.

954
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: Do you remember that movie with Queen Latifah and Coming

955
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 1: Right and Paula Patten and so her friend or her

956
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: godsister in the movie didn't do anything, but she was

957
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: gorgeous and Queen Latifah worked in medical and it's like,

958
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 1: I feel like that's the shit we see.

959
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 2: We see women get looked over that have great jobs

960
00:47:57,800 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 2: or that quote unquote normal girls for the fun girl.

961
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: I feel the opposite of what that girl says. Interesting,

962
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: I really do, Okay, I just seldom and meeting the

963
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 1: jay Z's of the world, and no one, no, I'm

964
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: not talking about a jay Z but rich men, famous

965
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: men that are with dope women that got their own

966
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 1: shit going. I really feel like they could just be

967
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 1: bad and boring, not even bad in bujie because I

968
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: know boogie bitch like a viral shit. That's why I think, yeah, maybe,

969
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:26,240
Speaker 1: I mean we're we definitely run in different worlds, different circles,

970
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,799
Speaker 1: A lot of them. We run in the same circles too.

971
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: A lot of the married men I know different experience.

972
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of the married men that

973
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 1: I know that I'm friends with, their wives are safe.

974
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: They're at home with the kids, and when they're outside,

975
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 1: they're with the fun girls. I ever, considering that I've

976
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:46,240
Speaker 1: seen being at home with their wives no matter what circle.

977
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 1: The ones that we know men and are not those

978
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: wives have probably been in longer term relationships, or maybe

979
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:55,320
Speaker 1: they have older kids. My younger friends that are married,

980
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 1: and by younger, I mean under forty, I've seen them

981
00:48:58,320 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 1: with these types of girls or in relationships.

982
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 2: My friends that kind of have wives at home have

983
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 2: older kids. Maybe their wives ain't trying to be out

984
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 2: with them at every event, like, which is understandable, cause like, yeah,

985
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 2: sure it's fun the first few years, but we gotta

986
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 2: all be honest with ourselves. Like if you have to

987
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 2: keep up with your man that needs to keep up

988
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 2: with appearances, like that's not sustainable either. Okay, if you

989
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 2: are let's just say illegal, your man is in the

990
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 2: sports or industry and always gotta be out, You're not

991
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 2: about to chase behind this nigga every fucking event.

992
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: You got your own shit going, Like, I'm not running

993
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: behind a nigga. I got too much to do.

994
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 2: So if my man is at every conference and networking

995
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 2: and doing shit, is gonna make it look like, you know,

996
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 2: like I'm not doing enough, or I'm not fun or

997
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,279
Speaker 2: I'm not out there. Like I think just having women

998
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 2: around in the club really doesn't mean anything. I think

999
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 2: women flock to money and status, and I don't think

1000
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 2: a girl being next to you around really shows any value.

1001
00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 1: I would love to note from our monogamous list nurse

1002
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: if their man goes on work trips, if they're fine

1003
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 1: and comfortable with their man being out with friends and

1004
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 1: bitches being around, being at the table, because think about

1005
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: it from the table back to no, no, no, but

1006
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, No, that's where you see it.

1007
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: I want to know for our monogamous listeners what they

1008
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: like if they're fine with their man just hanging out

1009
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: with the fun girls just hanging out. You're talking about monogamous.

1010
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 1: I don't know their man fun rich, but that's when

1011
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 1: they famous and rich men. No, I'm talking that they

1012
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: don't have to be famous or rich. I'm talking about

1013
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: women who, like you just said, the lawyer dating the

1014
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 1: sports agent. These are corporate people who have to travel

1015
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 1: for work. When you're not around, Are you fine with

1016
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:45,320
Speaker 1: your man being outside with the fun girls that you

1017
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 1: know probably want to have some fun. And when I

1018
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 1: say fun, we've been there. We've been those girls that

1019
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 1: go from drinking at the fucking table to go into

1020
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: the after party, to go into the hotel room. Like

1021
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 1: fun girls like to have fun. They down with the

1022
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 1: casual sex. We were the fun girls. We've been those

1023
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 1: girls twenty six to thirty two, whatever the case. We

1024
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:10,320
Speaker 1: weren't just always hanging out with guys. If your guys attractive,

1025
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: your guy got money, ain't hanging with the fun girls.

1026
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 1: Chances are, But.

1027
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 2: The initial thing was do men really want to be

1028
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 2: with the women they're choosing or would they rather be

1029
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 2: with the fun girl?

1030
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: No? And my thing is they like the fun girl

1031
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 1: and would probably be with them if they weren't so

1032
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:30,799
Speaker 1: hell bent on how society views them and the woman

1033
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 1: next to them. And so I believed it, which is

1034
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: why there's one of the guys like we talked like

1035
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: even me and activeate, it's like, okay, does what I

1036
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: do in a career aligned with your image? There's been

1037
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,800
Speaker 1: men I talked about I have a little government nigga

1038
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 1: who said he had his PR team looked me up

1039
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: cause I was like, oh my god, like, are you

1040
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: even allowed to be around me? Because you know, like

1041
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:54,720
Speaker 1: you do a lot of things high up in government.

1042
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:56,399
Speaker 1: And he was like, oh, I have my PR team,

1043
00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 1: look you up. And you know periods this women empowerment

1044
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: for women's rights, abortion rights. He was like, so you

1045
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 1: aligned it's cool, like because of your messaging, But I

1046
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 1: got athletes who are very hell bent on their brand image.

1047
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: We're just friends and we don't let it be known

1048
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:13,240
Speaker 1: that it's anything more, because you know, it's.

1049
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 2: So crazy to me because it's like they could Dateavich

1050
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:19,720
Speaker 2: that got three rapper baby daddies, that fucking got someone

1051
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 2: that exposed them.

1052
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 1: When I'm talking about the men who care about their

1053
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: brand image, I'm.

1054
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,800
Speaker 2: Saying, you're talking about those men maybe the same that

1055
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 2: would date that girl that's been passed around because she

1056
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 2: just has pictures up and isn't talking on her platform

1057
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 2: right Like, it's kind of crazy because the picking and

1058
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 2: choosing of who you're gonna be with.

1059
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 1: I think niggas really be acting like we know, there's

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Speaker 1: wifing you. Men are always gonna fuck those women, but

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Speaker 3: All right, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Take aver. Anyways, this has been another episode of Decisions Decisions.

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