WEBVTT - Frequent Flyer

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing in with Bec Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in roub dub dub. Tony's

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<v Speaker 2>having some technology malfunctions. I gotta get her ring lights up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I have a second one. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>want it today?

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay? Oh wow, it'sick Monday.

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<v Speaker 3>Do we like that light?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have to use it? Nice? Yeah, that's me

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<v Speaker 2>on tongue's level today. Baby, No, that's perfect. Okay, great

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<v Speaker 2>a return from Grease Lolla palooza. It's about sums up.

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<v Speaker 2>How how I'm feeling this morning?

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<v Speaker 1>Same girl? Same? I think I left. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>left Grease full twenty four hours ago, like it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even I don't even know what.

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<v Speaker 2>Day it is. I know what day it is, Monday? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>what day? Did you get home? Saturday or Sunday? I

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<v Speaker 2>left Saturday, but didn't you come? Didn't you get back Saturday?

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<v Speaker 1>Sunday?

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting? Yeah, you're probably not feeling great.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not feeling myself.

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<v Speaker 2>But you have more energy than you do sometimes when

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<v Speaker 2>you don't go to Greece.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's weird. I'm like so my circadian rhythm is

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<v Speaker 1>off circadian rhythm.

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<v Speaker 2>A circadium circadian circadian?

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<v Speaker 1>What is kadian? I think it might be right circadian.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you were gonna say something about sarcasm.

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<v Speaker 1>No, my circa circadian rhythm, circadian rhythm. My circadian rhythm

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<v Speaker 1>is off, but it weirdly gives you that energy, like

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<v Speaker 1>I popped up. I went to sleep last night like

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<v Speaker 1>seven thirty and I woke up at six and my

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<v Speaker 1>ar ring said, I slept almost ten hours. So oh wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you'll probably crash at some point today, Like

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<v Speaker 2>you're in a high right, I'm not a high right right?

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<v Speaker 2>Coffee and she's back on coffee? Did we ever know?

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<v Speaker 2>So you're back on coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been back on coffee for a while.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, girl, all right, Just so in case people

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<v Speaker 2>missed out on.

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<v Speaker 1>That, that was the Hashimoto phase.

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<v Speaker 2>What do we call that? The fixation?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that was the fixation of sorts.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, so you you reverse your Hashy motives and then

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, I'm back on I'm back on the juice.

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<v Speaker 1>Back on the juice. Yeah, there's only so much that

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<v Speaker 1>I can stay without. That was one that was very

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<v Speaker 1>hard for me in that moment. The gluten not so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything else was like not so bad, but the coffee

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<v Speaker 1>was very hard for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, caffeine's crazy. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you know what I tried in Greece? What I

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<v Speaker 1>tried a bottled coca cola rice? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>How was it delicious?

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw your video. I have a I have a

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<v Speaker 3>thing to say. What it looked like you had one

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<v Speaker 3>of those little mini bottles. Was a full size size

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<v Speaker 3>from Mexico.

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<v Speaker 2>From grease, It wasn't a Mexican color.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's the Mexican coke is different because it is

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<v Speaker 3>a real sugar.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what do they use in Greece.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I'll look it up. It might be Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Europe has regulations and stuff, oh have

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<v Speaker 2>with like sodaes.

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<v Speaker 3>It's probably fine. I just I just wanted to make

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<v Speaker 3>sure you got the real lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I told Robby, I go, the one

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<v Speaker 1>thing I want to do on this trip is I

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<v Speaker 1>really want to try bottled glass bottled coca cola, because you,

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<v Speaker 1>Paulina and Raquel all love a glass bottled coca cola

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<v Speaker 1>over rice. So I waited to the perfect day where

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<v Speaker 1>I was like scorching hot. It was so hot. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I felt like I was delirious because it

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<v Speaker 1>was I was so hot. I was like, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to order this iced coke today. And it didn't hit

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<v Speaker 1>quite like I wanted it to.

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<v Speaker 2>That's interesting. Yeah, you know you can do that here

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<v Speaker 2>in the States. We have glass bottle cokes.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'll try it here one day.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say, if you're like scorching hot and like uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, you wouldn't recommend if you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Not a soda drinker. I don't know if that's when

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<v Speaker 2>it would hit. Yeah, we'll find the right time. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll do it together.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll make you the marshmallow fluff. Have you seen those? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I saw you do it. Yeah yeah yeah, yeah, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>try that. Okay, yeah great, that feels fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah yeah okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So rewind. You went to Greece last time we talked

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<v Speaker 2>to you. It was two days before three days. We

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<v Speaker 2>were undecided. Yeah, it was between Greece and Hawaii. You

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<v Speaker 2>went with Greece.

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<v Speaker 1>We chose Greece.

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<v Speaker 2>What was the deciding factor?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's funny. So I was getting my hair done actually,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was with Tawny and we were like that

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<v Speaker 1>was so when we're deciding which place to go, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, I actually have a client that can

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<v Speaker 1>book you a trip so quick. This is what she

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<v Speaker 1>does for a living. So she connected me with her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, I could do either, but why

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<v Speaker 1>not why not do Greece? You know what I mean, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>just do it, I can, we can figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>So we just did it. Her name is Sinnem and

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<v Speaker 1>actually all of her employees are women, like the little

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, modern woman Energy company, and so Tony connected

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<v Speaker 1>me to her that day and so that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>what we were like, you know what, it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a wild year and let's just go ball to

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<v Speaker 1>the walls.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. And we did, you know what, literal

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<v Speaker 2>balls to the correct of Greece. Yeah, and I'm very

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<v Speaker 2>happy that we did it. It looked from from an

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram standpoint, it looked perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>It was perfect. It was actually perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, did anything negative happen on this strip? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Well no, we did. There was like actually it was

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<v Speaker 1>really crazy because we had lunch reservations at this one

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant and they apparently had been shut down for two

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<v Speaker 1>days because they like didn't report money or something like

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<v Speaker 1>that the government, and so they basically just bumped everybody

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<v Speaker 1>a day later for the reservations. So we showed up

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<v Speaker 1>for our reservation or whatever. It was still close and

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, oh, we'll be up in an hour. We show,

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<v Speaker 1>we go and get a drink next door, and they

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<v Speaker 1>still hadn't. Then we came back and it was fully packed,

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<v Speaker 1>like there wasn't a seat in the house. We're like,

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<v Speaker 1>how did this happen in forty five minutes? And the

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<v Speaker 1>guy was just like so not nice, like it was

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<v Speaker 1>like the that was the one literally the only negative thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But Rob and I did not even we did not

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<v Speaker 1>let it affect us. We waited for ten minutes and

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<v Speaker 1>we were like the vibes in here are so negative

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<v Speaker 1>and we were like we just don't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. So we found a really beach club next

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<v Speaker 1>door and spent like the whole day there drinking, taking

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<v Speaker 1>uzo shots with like at this guy on the beach

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<v Speaker 1>and just had a really good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like you can't be waiting around for a fraudulent business.

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<v Speaker 1>No, right, and like not even nice, Like I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>I understand if there's like a lot of care it's

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<v Speaker 1>the way you handle situations, in my opinion, And he

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<v Speaker 1>was just so rude, Like if it were me, I

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<v Speaker 1>would be so apologetic and like look people in the eye.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was just like it was so crazy, he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Just not having a good day. Yeah, we won't let

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<v Speaker 2>we won't let that define his character. But it didn't

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<v Speaker 2>need to bring you all down.

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<v Speaker 1>No, And we didn't let it bring us down. And

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<v Speaker 1>we're like, vibes in here are not high because everybody

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<v Speaker 1>you could tell you just look around, everybody's arms across

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<v Speaker 1>like angry. And I was like, this is not the vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not the sunshine mine new new news.

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<v Speaker 1>So we picked up our little rear ends and walked

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<v Speaker 1>right on over next door and it was amazing. Okay, great, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>ten out of ten highly recommend We were a meekonos.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah the whole time, the whole time.

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<v Speaker 2>And what was it? Was it crowded? Was it hot?

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<v Speaker 2>What was it? What was it?

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<v Speaker 1>It was hot? So hot, like it was like the

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<v Speaker 1>perfect weather. But it was really funny because I kept

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<v Speaker 1>seeing all these So we went out to lunch one

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<v Speaker 1>day and.

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<v Speaker 2>I spot tinks double sighting. Wow, Like, what is the

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<v Speaker 2>of all the people that are in like the social

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<v Speaker 2>media just in your world, right, that you were into

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<v Speaker 2>Tinks and Meekaness.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally so funny. It's like Clocker and I'm talking and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, should I go say hi to her?

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<v Speaker 1>And Rob was like, yeah, of course you have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, I don't know. This feels dicey. It really

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<v Speaker 1>could go either way, right, So then I texted you

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<v Speaker 1>and Sam and was like, is she going to come

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<v Speaker 1>on the podcast? I need to know if she's aware

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<v Speaker 1>of who I am, because I cannot handle that again.

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<v Speaker 2>Second, I do think we have a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>who come into our podcast and have no idea who

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<v Speaker 2>we are. I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But the fact that I've already gone up to her,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean and.

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<v Speaker 2>Talked about that experience correct, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like I just can't do that again. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up going over to her, got up the courage,

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<v Speaker 1>a little liquid courage, and she was like, hey, babe.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, this is what I was hoping for,

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<v Speaker 1>the like BFF, the little emoji collective. Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like I think we're trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>you on the pod. She was like yeah. And then

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<v Speaker 1>that was a very brief interaction. She was on her

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<v Speaker 1>way out. Yeah yeah, yeah, great, but I left feeling rejuvenated.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, I just am excited we are having her on.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way we have I think we have a

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<v Speaker 2>date locked in. But I'm just excited to rehash these

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<v Speaker 2>interactions that you had.

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<v Speaker 3>Can't wait to get her perspective on this.

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<v Speaker 1>Me too, I know. And she was actually not drinking

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<v Speaker 1>that day at that place because she had been hung

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<v Speaker 1>over from like the night before or whatever. She was

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<v Speaker 1>like sticks over and I'd probably run after her. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like thanks, because it was kind of like my

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<v Speaker 1>first official day there, right, so I was jet lagged

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<v Speaker 1>and like drunk. Yeah, yeah, all the things, all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you see Alex Earl was also there?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you told me that I did try to look.

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<v Speaker 1>I was aware. Yeah yeah. And then I saw Chris

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<v Speaker 1>and Cavalieri was there. Yeah, and I actually invited her

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<v Speaker 1>to get lunch with us. Yeah, she was going to

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<v Speaker 1>she was moving hotels that day.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I know she with her boyfriend, yeah, Montana boy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that would have been one I needed to know the

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<v Speaker 2>tea on.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, we did try to connect, I try we

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<v Speaker 1>tried to kind of connect like twice, but are just

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<v Speaker 1>the schedules just didn't really shifts in the night and yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was a Meccano summer. It was a party.

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<v Speaker 1>Saw zac Efron was there, like I don't know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was weird.

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<v Speaker 2>There was something scary in the news about him, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he like got an accident in a pool and

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<v Speaker 1>Abiza Nebithatha, not Mecas no, not making us Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so y'all how was the flight?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so it was a long flight. We flew from

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<v Speaker 1>LA to Atlanta, Atlanta to Athens, Athens to mikon Nos. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she was grothy.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no direct from LA to Athens.

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<v Speaker 1>No, oh no, not to Athens, but there's like a

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<v Speaker 1>direct to pair you know, there's like direct other.

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<v Speaker 2>Places to Europe. Yeah, orect.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you guys, I need to find

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<v Speaker 1>a Let me ask Robbie to send me a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of this thing. So he bought me this a long

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<v Speaker 1>time ago. So I'm the type of person where like

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<v Speaker 1>when you're flying on an airplane and I put the

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<v Speaker 1>the trade table down and I can put my hands

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<v Speaker 1>on it, and that's how I sleep. Wow out that

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<v Speaker 1>I prefer that to just like sitting back with like

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<v Speaker 1>a neck pillow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So years ago, Robbie bought me this contraption on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 1>You blow it up in the.

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<v Speaker 2>You put your head in and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you put your arms through. And he bought this

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, and he's like, I think you should bring

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<v Speaker 1>it on the flight because we were going to take

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<v Speaker 1>like our flight from Atlanta to Athens was like nine

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<v Speaker 1>hours or something. He's like, we should really sleep on it.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I was like, okay, sure, why not, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>bring it. Let me tell you that thing was game changing.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet it looks so comfortable, but was it embarrassing? Up?

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<v Speaker 1>I made Robbie do it. I was like, I need

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<v Speaker 1>you to blow this up. And I had to like

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<v Speaker 1>apologize to the people around me. I was like, this looks

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<v Speaker 1>very big, but it's just gonna sit on my lap,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't worry about me.

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<v Speaker 2>What seat were you in? I was in the middle seat.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you it was the best. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how much you paid for. I gotta I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>get the pictures. Send me picks of me sleeping.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen it and I've been like I would sleep

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<v Speaker 2>so well with that because I also I can't sleep

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<v Speaker 2>sitting back right, but I also get uncomfortable leaning on

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<v Speaker 2>the way on the tray tables.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you wake up in your neck and your back

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<v Speaker 1>are like oh oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And if someone puts their seat back, you're literally yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is like you're condensed into your own little

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<v Speaker 1>it's just on your lap. I don't even have to

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<v Speaker 1>put it on the trade table. It's high, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>literally just like bending your head over and you put

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<v Speaker 1>your arms through it. It's like you're hugging a pillow.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so insanely amazing. I highly recommend. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go rate and review it on Amazon so we can

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy let them know.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's put pictures up and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>It was phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm honestly influenced because I thought my only thing is

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about me blowing it up and the people around me.

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<v Speaker 2>But I would definitely do like an aisle or window.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I could do it in the middle scene.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the big plane, so it was like the

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<v Speaker 1>four in the middle. Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, so there was it was like Robbie, me, someone else,

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<v Speaker 2>someone else, Okay, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But I explained. I was like, normally I'm a try

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<v Speaker 1>sit on my tray table and put my head down,

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<v Speaker 1>but now with this, I don't have to do that

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<v Speaker 1>hurt my neck in my back, and they're like, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure you got an extra one over there. I know

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<v Speaker 2>you wish. And you said you were saying that Robbie

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<v Speaker 2>has a theory that what seat you choose on a

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<v Speaker 2>plane says a lot about the type of person you are.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I'm curious when you get on a like

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<v Speaker 1>not a big plane, like a normal plane with the

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<v Speaker 1>with the like three and three, if you had your

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<v Speaker 1>choice easton which seat would you choose?

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<v Speaker 3>Window always?

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<v Speaker 1>Window always? Okay? I am too a window always? What

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<v Speaker 1>would you choose?

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<v Speaker 2>Window always? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>We're all window always? Okay, So I need to I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the window person. Robbie needs the aisle. And he's convinced

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<v Speaker 1>that window people prefer to inconvenience other people, and ile

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<v Speaker 1>people prefer to be inconvenienced.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's interesting. I just know that if I'm in

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<v Speaker 2>the window that I'm not going to inconvenience anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll hold you stay in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's usually my thing too, is like I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>hold it and I'll be I'll just stay in the

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<v Speaker 1>window because the last thing I want to do is

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<v Speaker 1>get up for somebody else. That's probably big thing. Robbie

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<v Speaker 1>loves to sit in the aisle. He's like because he

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<v Speaker 1>has to get up to pee every however many seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's like, I would rather just have not have

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<v Speaker 1>to inconvenience anyone else to get up, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care getting up for anybody else.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I think what he needs to admit

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<v Speaker 2>is being self aware to know that he has a small,

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<v Speaker 2>small bladder and he needs to wee wee a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>And you don't think it's a theory, no, because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to inconvenience anybody ever, Like, that's the last

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<v Speaker 2>thing I live my life trying not to take it.

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<v Speaker 1>You just get a UTI bladder infection. Hold it in

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<v Speaker 1>the window.

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<v Speaker 2>And you also need to be aware that you are

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<v Speaker 2>susceptible to UTI is more than most people in the aisle.

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<v Speaker 2>You would just hold your type should definitely be in

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<v Speaker 2>the aisle.

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<v Speaker 1>But I can't. I can't because nothing annoys me more

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<v Speaker 1>than having to get up for somebody else.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, okay, so this is this is the personality

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<v Speaker 2>of it all. Your personality type is fine inconveniencing people

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<v Speaker 2>because you don't want to be inconvenience, But you also

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<v Speaker 2>have a lot of needs and sensitivity, so you know

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<v Speaker 2>that to protect yourself, you're going to have to inconvenience

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<v Speaker 2>other people. But you'd rather do that than be inconvenienced. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm more. I'm not going to inconvenience anyone.

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<v Speaker 1>I will have a bladder eruption, so you just hold it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I want to be on the window.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, So I don't know if that's accurate theory. What

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<v Speaker 2>do you think.

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<v Speaker 1>Else you're into my theory.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I have a theory of my own. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think it's about inconveniencing people or being inconvenience.

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<v Speaker 2>Is not an inconveniencer neither am I you will if

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<v Speaker 2>it's protects your head, I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean when I fly, I I never use the

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<v Speaker 3>bathroom on the plane. I just go in my pants.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah time, Yeah, I just I And this is terrible,

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<v Speaker 3>but like I will try to time my hydrations. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have to use because the idea of like squeezing

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<v Speaker 3>by people and then maybe you have to wait in

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<v Speaker 3>the line at the back. It just makes me too anxious.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like. I just don't want to deal with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Allison is anile person because she has to use the

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<v Speaker 3>bathroom a lot. And I'm a window person because I

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<v Speaker 3>like to look out the window and I like to

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<v Speaker 3>see things.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to look out the window.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you this whole little raw dog and thing

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<v Speaker 3>that's a raw dog in the flight. I raw dog

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<v Speaker 3>the window all the time. Wow, I just stare at

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<v Speaker 3>the window. I like. I fly a lot of Southwest flights.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't have a little computer on there. I like

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<v Speaker 3>to just look out the window and go, oh, I

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<v Speaker 3>bet we're over Arizona right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, okay window. Yes, yes, I do like that too.

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<v Speaker 2>But here's my thing. If they put me, like, if

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<v Speaker 2>I don't choose my seat and they put me in

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<v Speaker 2>an aisle seat, I'm fine with that. Like, I'm not like,

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<v Speaker 2>but if I had my choice, I'd choose window. Haley's

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<v Speaker 2>an aisle person because she peeys a lot. And so

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<v Speaker 2>if I normal, like, give her the aisle and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>take middle so that she can have the aisle because

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<v Speaker 2>she peas a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was very funny on one of our flights.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy was in the in the window and we

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<v Speaker 1>were playing cards and we were in like a heavy

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<v Speaker 1>duty round and I could feel his energy like he

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<v Speaker 1>had I need to pee energy, and he kept waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for our game to finish to like ask us.

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<v Speaker 2>It was actually really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I would be so so nervous if someone nice to

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<v Speaker 2>me was in an intense.

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<v Speaker 1>Card game and to get up right and intense, like

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<v Speaker 1>if he wins, I'm like no, Like I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my hands are going up and I'm like.

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<v Speaker 2>Nor, guy, what is he? He's like an inconveniencer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to make this like two airport airplane heavy,

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<v Speaker 3>but I do like, if you're in the middle seat,

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<v Speaker 3>what's the arm rest etiquette?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I always figure if you're in the middle seat,

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<v Speaker 3>you should get both. Yes. I flew recently and I

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<v Speaker 3>was in the middle because I was late or something,

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<v Speaker 3>and both people on either side we were using the

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<v Speaker 3>armrest and I had to sit and I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not a really big guy, but like my arms are long.

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<v Speaker 3>I just sit like this the whole time. That is

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<v Speaker 3>so it sucks so bad, And I was like trying

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<v Speaker 3>to like make it I didn't want to ask for

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<v Speaker 3>the arm rest, but I was like, oh, that's just

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<v Speaker 3>doing this, and they never never relinquished the arm rest.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't make it easy because if you have so

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<v Speaker 2>only if you have the window is that convenient because

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<v Speaker 2>you can lean to the side and rest like on

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<v Speaker 2>that side. But if you lean out on the aisle

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<v Speaker 2>to the aisle side, you're at risk of getting hit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, smashed actually.

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<v Speaker 2>But normally, if I'm in the middle, if Haley's with me,

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<v Speaker 2>I just lean on her. But if I am by

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<v Speaker 2>myself in the middle and strangers, I'll just put my

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<v Speaker 2>elbows there and if it'll like nudge them and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>just be like.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had a nudge a few people my day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just like, hey, I'll share it with them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll share it with them. If you're comfortable, then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>fine too.

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<v Speaker 2>If you if it's weird, do arrest your corner on there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll rest my corner. You want to go havevesis on

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<v Speaker 1>this thing, I'll go halvesies on this thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but they don't be making it cause I'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>you that much. And once someone leaves the seatback, Wait,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the last thing I'm gonna ask, are you a

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<v Speaker 2>seat recliner?

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<v Speaker 3>I have never reclined my seat.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not a seat reclined A controversial thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you've never reclined your seat.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe if I'm like I just feeling forward, I lean

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<v Speaker 1>more so, Yeah, girl.

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<v Speaker 3>There was no one sitting behind me, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna recline the seat, and

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<v Speaker 3>like I couldn't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>To work, and like this, I don't find the benefit

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<v Speaker 1>to me, it's like, doesn't recly. I mean, if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna recline, get me gonna go all the way back?

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<v Speaker 1>Like to me, that little one inch is like.

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<v Speaker 2>So I only recline if the person in front of

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<v Speaker 2>me reclines. So I'll stay up right until the person

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<v Speaker 2>in front of me because like once that space is taken,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, all right, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think that I have like a thing against recliners because

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<v Speaker 1>since I put my head on the head rest, yeah,

0:19:48.560 --> 0:19:50.680
<v Speaker 1>when they recline, it squeezes my little head.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. I always have to look back and make

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<v Speaker 2>sure if it's someone like super tall or like that

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<v Speaker 2>feels like they're already like, oh, do you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Else pisses me off. People that when they get up

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<v Speaker 1>to go to the bathroom and they put their hands

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<v Speaker 1>on your and you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, whoa excuse me?

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<v Speaker 1>Use your own your own that you can jiggle up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sleeping over here.

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<v Speaker 2>That is so true. People like all their way like

0:20:15.680 --> 0:20:20.440
<v Speaker 2>shake it, shake it. Wow. I could write a whole

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<v Speaker 2>write an essay about airport behavior. It is insane to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, same, same, same, same. I had a woman and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know exactly what she was doing because she

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<v Speaker 1>was speaking in French, but I swear she was giving

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<v Speaker 1>a tutorial about turbulence to the woman next to her,

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<v Speaker 1>like the woman behind us. She was so loud. Her

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<v Speaker 1>voice was like she was in a gym and she

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to compete against like basketball players.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so this is an interesting take from someone

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<v Speaker 2>who loves chatting on a plane.

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<v Speaker 1>Shot all you want, but don't yell it like you're

0:20:51.359 --> 0:20:54.080
<v Speaker 1>talking in a gymnasium full of athletes.

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<v Speaker 2>I think when you're talking on a plane, it's really loud.

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<v Speaker 2>So you don't think you're talking loud me, Well, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying like I think when you talk on a

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<v Speaker 2>in general, as a person, when you're talking on the

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<v Speaker 2>plane because the white noise is so loud. You think

0:21:10.000 --> 0:21:13.040
<v Speaker 2>that you're talking at a normal level, but you're yelling

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<v Speaker 2>to everybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, it was. I was like, well, we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting a dissertation on turbulence right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Stand. Yeah, how did your disconnecting off your phone and

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<v Speaker 2>stuff go? Uh?

0:21:27.040 --> 0:21:29.600
<v Speaker 1>I think I did it for like two days. Yeah, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Know you were silent and then all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 2>it was just like that content.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well there was so you know, I don't go

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom off in I want to say, I

0:21:37.840 --> 0:21:40.920
<v Speaker 1>pooped like twice the whole trip. I know how many

0:21:40.960 --> 0:21:44.560
<v Speaker 1>days total? Seven? Wow, it's very bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think like the traveling messes with my system,

0:21:48.800 --> 0:21:50.879
<v Speaker 1>and then I need time to like settle in. And

0:21:50.920 --> 0:21:52.640
<v Speaker 1>by the time we settled in, it was like time

0:21:52.680 --> 0:21:58.320
<v Speaker 1>to go again. But Robbie has a very natural flow,

0:21:58.920 --> 0:21:59.440
<v Speaker 1>if you will.

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<v Speaker 2>He's ever messed up, No, no, never affected.

0:22:03.560 --> 0:22:07.520
<v Speaker 1>And so yeah, I had time in my eves to play,

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<v Speaker 1>to peruse my phone, so I would like upload. I

0:22:10.600 --> 0:22:12.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't really like I wasn't on my phone during the day,

0:22:12.680 --> 0:22:14.520
<v Speaker 1>but I would get on my phone like at night.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know. What I realized is I think because

0:22:17.080 --> 0:22:19.280
<v Speaker 1>it's not a job for me, Like social media is

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<v Speaker 1>not a job for me. It's like extracurricular activity. So

0:22:22.160 --> 0:22:25.080
<v Speaker 1>for me, it was fun. Like I wasn't checking my emails,

0:22:25.119 --> 0:22:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I was off my emails. I didn't check any of

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff. I didn't respond to work stuff. I just

0:22:29.560 --> 0:22:30.520
<v Speaker 1>was like posting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what it's about. If it's fun, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>call stress.

0:22:34.800 --> 0:22:36.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, I had zero stress.

0:22:36.720 --> 0:22:40.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, then no need to be present the content

0:22:40.840 --> 0:22:43.359
<v Speaker 2>right exactly, Like what do you need to listen to

0:22:43.440 --> 0:22:43.920
<v Speaker 2>him poop?

0:22:44.080 --> 0:22:46.760
<v Speaker 1>No, no, exactly, or.

0:22:46.760 --> 0:22:48.600
<v Speaker 2>You could read a book, but we you know, that's

0:22:48.800 --> 0:22:50.720
<v Speaker 2>that's we got to make sure it's the right length.

0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:54.760
<v Speaker 1>I actually brought a book, and Robbie bought me a

0:22:54.760 --> 0:22:56.680
<v Speaker 1>book before we left. He brought me this book on

0:22:56.760 --> 0:22:57.600
<v Speaker 1>like Cleopatra.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool, there's the homework, bro Yeah, Like are we writing a.

0:23:06.000 --> 0:23:09.439
<v Speaker 1>Report like an inspirational like female story?

0:23:09.600 --> 0:23:11.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh oh I see yeah yeah yeah, but I left

0:23:11.560 --> 0:23:12.240
<v Speaker 2>that in the States.

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<v Speaker 4>You and you said I'm not even bringing no, I

0:23:17.280 --> 0:23:25.359
<v Speaker 4>forgot it, no, mother, but you're quite the Reid Smith

0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:29.399
<v Speaker 4>read Smith Wordsmith Smith normally how they say him.

0:23:29.440 --> 0:23:32.320
<v Speaker 2>But I'm not a writer, right, So I guess read

0:23:32.359 --> 0:23:33.320
<v Speaker 2>Smith is great.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're just do you take the time at night

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<v Speaker 1>to just read a book?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I read. I've read three books in the last

0:23:40.680 --> 0:23:44.280
<v Speaker 2>three weeks. I know, I bought one. I bought another

0:23:44.280 --> 0:23:47.359
<v Speaker 2>one for to go to Lallapalooza. But I didn't. I

0:23:47.400 --> 0:23:49.399
<v Speaker 2>couldn't get it. It was a different author because I've been

0:23:49.400 --> 0:23:52.040
<v Speaker 2>reading the same author and they're like instantly I'm into him.

0:23:52.440 --> 0:23:56.439
<v Speaker 2>This one I'm not. I don't even know. I just

0:23:56.520 --> 0:24:01.240
<v Speaker 2>it was on Reese's Book Club. Was rushed. I felt rushed.

0:24:01.560 --> 0:24:03.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, have you read you know how Blake Blake

0:24:04.000 --> 0:24:06.919
<v Speaker 1>Lively has that new movie? Yeah? Did you read that?

0:24:07.080 --> 0:24:11.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Oh, very another very easy read.

0:24:11.640 --> 0:24:14.360
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, the story seems very good.

0:24:14.720 --> 0:24:17.639
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Allison read that this weekend. It's really read for

0:24:17.640 --> 0:24:17.960
<v Speaker 3>the movie.

0:24:18.080 --> 0:24:20.639
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's literally I would read it again just to

0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:23.879
<v Speaker 2>freshen up because it's such a fast read. Really, yeah,

0:24:23.960 --> 0:24:26.400
<v Speaker 2>just fresh, just a freshing up. And she also it's

0:24:26.480 --> 0:24:28.600
<v Speaker 2>the author is Colleen Hoover, and she has another one

0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:31.320
<v Speaker 2>called Verity. It is like such a it's like a thriller.

0:24:31.880 --> 0:24:33.960
<v Speaker 2>It's crazy. Another great one.

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<v Speaker 1>She was at the AMC Theater one night Blake.

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<v Speaker 2>No, yeah, Colleen, Yeah, they're doing a lot of press,

0:24:41.440 --> 0:24:42.360
<v Speaker 2>I feel or they were.

0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:44.520
<v Speaker 1>She was like, at the AMC in Century City.

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<v Speaker 3>That's great AMC.

0:24:46.200 --> 0:24:51.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah they're Mozzarella sticks. Oh I got hot. I gardened

0:24:51.960 --> 0:24:54.480
<v Speaker 2>one day and went to a daytime.

0:24:54.080 --> 0:24:56.120
<v Speaker 1>Movie even to understand, and.

0:24:56.200 --> 0:24:59.359
<v Speaker 2>Got mazzarella sticks. And I was like, this is the

0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:03.600
<v Speaker 2>greatest thing I've ever put in my really.

0:25:04.359 --> 0:25:06.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know I never got the Manzarelli sticks there.

0:25:06.720 --> 0:25:10.000
<v Speaker 2>Well, you got a garden and get the monzarella appreciated.

0:25:10.080 --> 0:25:15.439
<v Speaker 2>I got Moti nut donuts.

0:25:13.480 --> 0:25:15.160
<v Speaker 1>Mochi nut donuts from the.

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<v Speaker 2>Mochi Nut not in the movie theater. No, it was

0:25:18.680 --> 0:25:20.600
<v Speaker 2>in the food court.

0:25:21.920 --> 0:25:25.720
<v Speaker 1>You know what we saw before we left for our vacation,

0:25:26.560 --> 0:25:33.399
<v Speaker 1>what Deadpool versus Wolverine and just crickets in here.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I am very impressed that you when saw that,

0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:37.600
<v Speaker 3>especially opening weekend, it.

0:25:37.600 --> 0:25:42.119
<v Speaker 2>Was so good, like great right the boys. Yeah. I

0:25:42.160 --> 0:25:42.760
<v Speaker 2>didn't choose.

0:25:43.040 --> 0:25:45.399
<v Speaker 1>I just have to confirm I didn't choose to go

0:25:45.440 --> 0:25:47.960
<v Speaker 1>see this movie. We went for the kids. But I

0:25:48.080 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 1>that's why I get so surprised and I like love

0:25:50.160 --> 0:25:52.240
<v Speaker 1>it because I would never go see it if it

0:25:52.280 --> 0:25:56.320
<v Speaker 1>wasn't for them, but I loved it. Like I was laughing,

0:25:56.640 --> 0:25:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I was singing, I was cheering.

0:26:00.320 --> 0:26:02.080
<v Speaker 3>That makes me so happy. It's so good.

0:26:02.160 --> 0:26:07.240
<v Speaker 1>It's so good. I've never seen superhero movie. Is that funny?

0:26:07.880 --> 0:26:11.520
<v Speaker 3>No, the Deadpool ones are always very funny, and like,

0:26:12.280 --> 0:26:13.960
<v Speaker 3>you know, that's his whole thing, is that he like

0:26:14.000 --> 0:26:16.680
<v Speaker 3>breaks the fourth wall. And the other two Deadpool movies,

0:26:16.720 --> 0:26:17.240
<v Speaker 3>I think you'd like.

0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:20.520
<v Speaker 1>I watched the first one, yeah, yeah, which I also enjoyed.

0:26:21.160 --> 0:26:23.240
<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm so glad you loved Deadpool and Woiverine. It's

0:26:23.280 --> 0:26:23.680
<v Speaker 3>so fine.

0:26:23.760 --> 0:26:25.840
<v Speaker 1>I might be like a Deadpool head. Is that what

0:26:25.840 --> 0:26:26.560
<v Speaker 1>his fans are called?

0:26:26.920 --> 0:26:27.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, we can call them that.

0:26:28.280 --> 0:26:30.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, deadpool head. I don't know what they're called.

0:26:31.480 --> 0:26:33.640
<v Speaker 2>This is a fan Deadpool fan and Pool fan.

0:26:34.640 --> 0:26:37.399
<v Speaker 3>Uh, Tanya called me or I was at the County

0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:39.879
<v Speaker 3>the OC fair and Tanya called me. It was like

0:26:40.080 --> 0:26:43.199
<v Speaker 3>Robbie has some questions about Deadpool and Wolverine, and I

0:26:43.280 --> 0:26:46.199
<v Speaker 3>was like in aloud. I was on a ride and

0:26:46.200 --> 0:26:48.240
<v Speaker 3>then I was eating fried oreos and I couldn't talk

0:26:48.280 --> 0:26:50.240
<v Speaker 3>on the phone and I was like call me, now,

0:26:50.359 --> 0:26:52.800
<v Speaker 3>call me, And then then he didn't call me. Yeah,

0:26:52.840 --> 0:26:54.280
<v Speaker 3>so I still don't know what his questions were.

0:26:54.440 --> 0:26:56.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what they were either, but he had

0:26:56.119 --> 0:26:57.440
<v Speaker 1>all these questions and I go, do you know who

0:26:57.440 --> 0:27:00.719
<v Speaker 1>would have the answers? And he goes, there's nothing more.

0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:04.200
<v Speaker 3>I love to get those kind of questions. Honestly, there's

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:05.400
<v Speaker 3>a lot of deep lore in that.

0:27:05.320 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 2>Movie because you're that was like rock and a hard place.

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:14.000
<v Speaker 2>You're at the OC Fair, like Choice with the Orange something. Yeah,

0:27:14.560 --> 0:27:15.600
<v Speaker 2>Deadpool questions.

0:27:16.080 --> 0:27:18.080
<v Speaker 3>I mean truly the greatest moment though, to be at

0:27:18.080 --> 0:27:19.600
<v Speaker 3>the OC Fair and then have somebody like I need

0:27:19.640 --> 0:27:21.360
<v Speaker 3>to talk to about Marvel. I was like, oh, man,

0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:22.200
<v Speaker 3>have I died?

0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:23.280
<v Speaker 2>Is this heaven?

0:27:25.359 --> 0:27:28.240
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you had quite the busy uh, quite

0:27:28.240 --> 0:27:30.160
<v Speaker 1>the busy week as well.

0:27:30.320 --> 0:27:30.680
<v Speaker 2>I did.

0:27:30.760 --> 0:27:34.320
<v Speaker 1>You were in Canada, Chicago? I was, I was alway

0:27:34.640 --> 0:27:35.800
<v Speaker 1>trains and automobiles.

0:27:36.160 --> 0:27:41.840
<v Speaker 2>No trains, yeah, planes and automobiles. Yeah, but let's take

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 2>a break and come back. Yeah, we'll talk about it then.

0:28:03.880 --> 0:28:10.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh well, we're just just.

0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Making sure you saw that.

0:28:11.480 --> 0:28:16.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah that was what We're back all right. So yeah,

0:28:16.200 --> 0:28:21.159
<v Speaker 2>I went to Canada to see Haley and we That

0:28:21.320 --> 0:28:26.320
<v Speaker 2>was a three week, long time stint. I was so

0:28:26.680 --> 0:28:31.880
<v Speaker 2>excited to get there to see her, and I went

0:28:31.880 --> 0:28:34.919
<v Speaker 2>down to Newport to drop Phoebe off with my sister,

0:28:35.119 --> 0:28:37.400
<v Speaker 2>and so I stayed the night with them, and then

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:39.200
<v Speaker 2>I got up the next day and I was like,

0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:42.240
<v Speaker 2>I had a great morning. So I was like, you

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:46.960
<v Speaker 2>know how this might be totally unrelatable, but in my mind,

0:28:47.000 --> 0:28:49.880
<v Speaker 2>I feel like some people will relate to this. You know,

0:28:49.880 --> 0:28:53.240
<v Speaker 2>when you wake up and like time wise, you're right

0:28:53.320 --> 0:28:56.000
<v Speaker 2>on time, and your hair looks good, and like your

0:28:56.080 --> 0:29:00.320
<v Speaker 2>makeup is like it's like perfect, like you're like it

0:29:00.320 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 2>did what it needed to do. Both of my eyebrows

0:29:02.800 --> 0:29:05.720
<v Speaker 2>were even. I was just like, Wow, this is gonna

0:29:05.760 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 2>be a great travel day. Yeah, never had that interesting, Okay,

0:29:09.560 --> 0:29:13.080
<v Speaker 2>well maybe other people have. And so I get to

0:29:13.120 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 2>the airport and I was flying Air Canada. And so

0:29:16.800 --> 0:29:19.280
<v Speaker 2>I go up to the Air Canada check in and

0:29:19.320 --> 0:29:22.960
<v Speaker 2>she's like, oh, you're actually with United. It's like a

0:29:23.280 --> 0:29:25.760
<v Speaker 2>you know when one airline they are merged.

0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Your biggest fere, my biggest fear.

0:29:27.600 --> 0:29:29.440
<v Speaker 2>So she goes, I can check you in for your

0:29:29.640 --> 0:29:32.360
<v Speaker 2>connecting flight once you get to Canada, but then but

0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 2>you have to go to United to check in. So

0:29:34.160 --> 0:29:36.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of like at this point, like I got

0:29:36.000 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 2>to hustle a little bit because where the heck is United,

0:29:39.080 --> 0:29:42.160
<v Speaker 2>Like I don't When I get to the airport, there's

0:29:42.200 --> 0:29:44.120
<v Speaker 2>no route the way I do the airport, which is

0:29:44.200 --> 0:29:46.960
<v Speaker 2>very stressful but also gives me the adrenaline rush that

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:50.400
<v Speaker 2>I love is that there's no room for air Why

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:53.400
<v Speaker 2>do you like that? It's something sick. I don't know.

0:29:53.480 --> 0:29:55.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't know why I like it, but I just

0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 2>like that I can get there and get everything just

0:29:57.960 --> 0:30:02.720
<v Speaker 2>done at the time that it cakes. So I go

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:06.480
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, oh no, this is an error. So

0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:10.040
<v Speaker 2>I've gotta like rush because this could be crucial. I

0:30:10.120 --> 0:30:13.320
<v Speaker 2>get to the United desk and the lady that's helping.

0:30:13.840 --> 0:30:17.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm watching all the people helping to see like who's demeanor.

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:21.960
<v Speaker 2>I needed, you know, I needed good vibes, and this

0:30:22.000 --> 0:30:24.960
<v Speaker 2>woman is being so nice to these people. So I'm like,

0:30:25.040 --> 0:30:27.160
<v Speaker 2>this is my girl. She's gonna get me on the plane,

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:30.760
<v Speaker 2>which at this point I'm I'm like, I have a minute, basically,

0:30:31.200 --> 0:30:32.600
<v Speaker 2>so I go to check it. She goes, you need

0:30:32.600 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 2>to They go, you need to check it on the screen.

0:30:34.240 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 2>So I check it on the screen and it goes.

0:30:36.160 --> 0:30:39.600
<v Speaker 2>You're late, like see an attendant or whatever. And I'm like,

0:30:39.800 --> 0:30:41.240
<v Speaker 2>oh no, but it's a minute.

0:30:41.280 --> 0:30:42.160
<v Speaker 1>You like that feeling?

0:30:42.240 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't. I don't like this feeling.

0:30:43.600 --> 0:30:45.280
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I'm like.

0:30:45.440 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 2>This is not good. So I'm like this girl, she's

0:30:48.240 --> 0:30:51.360
<v Speaker 2>having a great day though it's one literally one minute.

0:30:51.480 --> 0:30:53.760
<v Speaker 2>But because it was a computer, it like you know,

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:56.960
<v Speaker 2>it just has an automatic time off. So I get

0:30:57.040 --> 0:30:59.320
<v Speaker 2>up there after they leave, she's like, have a great fight.

0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:03.040
<v Speaker 2>I got there. Her whole demeanor shift. She's like, no,

0:31:04.120 --> 0:31:07.000
<v Speaker 2>are you late? And I was like she no, because

0:31:07.040 --> 0:31:13.440
<v Speaker 2>I showed her the little yeah she's a podcast whatever.

0:31:14.400 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 2>So I show her, like the ticket the machine gave

0:31:16.200 --> 0:31:18.040
<v Speaker 2>me and she was like are you late? And she

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:19.760
<v Speaker 2>like looks and she's like you're a minute late. They

0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:22.080
<v Speaker 2>locked it and I was like, I'm so sorry.

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I was like I went to the wrong thing. Yeah,

0:31:23.600 --> 0:31:24.280
<v Speaker 1>I said, I went to Air.

0:31:24.480 --> 0:31:26.400
<v Speaker 2>I booked it with Air Canada and then I came

0:31:26.440 --> 0:31:29.239
<v Speaker 2>down here and she's like, well they're shut. And I

0:31:29.280 --> 0:31:30.680
<v Speaker 2>was like I was like can you And she was

0:31:30.720 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 2>like are you flying business? And I was like yeah,

0:31:32.400 --> 0:31:33.840
<v Speaker 2>And so she was like, let me call and see,

0:31:33.840 --> 0:31:36.480
<v Speaker 2>and so she calls and she like yeah, okay, yeah,

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:40.680
<v Speaker 2>I thought so yeah, the gates shut, and I'm like okay, shoot.

0:31:40.720 --> 0:31:43.440
<v Speaker 2>So she's immediately just like, let me try to rebook you.

0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:47.600
<v Speaker 2>So she's like it's over at this point, and I'm like, okay,

0:31:47.680 --> 0:31:49.080
<v Speaker 2>dang it, it was my fault whatever.

0:31:49.120 --> 0:31:50.480
<v Speaker 1>But you don't even say, like I haven't seen my

0:31:50.480 --> 0:31:51.720
<v Speaker 1>girlfriend in three weeks.

0:31:51.920 --> 0:31:54.000
<v Speaker 2>No she didn't. You know, when you get the feeling

0:31:54.080 --> 0:31:55.120
<v Speaker 2>no one who.

0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:57.720
<v Speaker 1>Cares at least you try do, you don't just let

0:31:57.760 --> 0:31:58.440
<v Speaker 1>somebody know.

0:31:58.520 --> 0:32:01.240
<v Speaker 2>I was like, is there anything? Is there a later flight?

0:32:01.320 --> 0:32:03.240
<v Speaker 2>Like can I get on anything else that will get

0:32:03.280 --> 0:32:04.880
<v Speaker 2>just get me to Vancouver and then I can get

0:32:04.880 --> 0:32:06.640
<v Speaker 2>on my connecting flight because I already have the ticket

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:09.080
<v Speaker 2>for that, And she was just like no. She was like,

0:32:09.080 --> 0:32:11.400
<v Speaker 2>the only thing I see like would get you there tomorrow.

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:14.320
<v Speaker 2>She's like, there's one that goes to Denver first, Like

0:32:14.360 --> 0:32:17.960
<v Speaker 2>she she didn't. She was just she was like, you know,

0:32:18.080 --> 0:32:21.160
<v Speaker 2>some people I've gotten too places late, and they're like,

0:32:21.880 --> 0:32:24.440
<v Speaker 2>especially if it's a guy, like I'm not this is

0:32:24.520 --> 0:32:26.360
<v Speaker 2>just a privilege. But like if I go up to

0:32:26.400 --> 0:32:28.760
<v Speaker 2>a man and I'm like, oh, I'm like late and

0:32:28.800 --> 0:32:30.520
<v Speaker 2>there sometimes they just want to be the hero.

0:32:30.720 --> 0:32:33.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there are some people that have those you want

0:32:33.960 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 1>to be the Shiro.

0:32:34.880 --> 0:32:36.880
<v Speaker 2>And she didn't want to be the Shiro, which was fine.

0:32:36.920 --> 0:32:39.200
<v Speaker 2>It was it was not her fault, it was my fault.

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:43.760
<v Speaker 2>So she goes go back down to Air Canada and

0:32:43.840 --> 0:32:46.040
<v Speaker 2>see if they haven't, cause you're gonna have to rebook

0:32:46.080 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 2>it with them. So I go down to Air Canada.

0:32:49.000 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 2>I wait in line, and she goes, sorry, you're gonna

0:32:52.040 --> 0:32:54.360
<v Speaker 2>have to because your furt you booked with them and

0:32:54.400 --> 0:32:56.160
<v Speaker 2>it was under them. You have to go back and

0:32:56.160 --> 0:33:00.719
<v Speaker 2>book with them. So I walk back. I find another

0:33:00.800 --> 0:33:02.840
<v Speaker 2>girl to help me, because I was like, this lady

0:33:02.960 --> 0:33:06.160
<v Speaker 2>is we're over each other. And she helped me book

0:33:06.200 --> 0:33:07.680
<v Speaker 2>it and she's like, but you have to go back

0:33:07.720 --> 0:33:11.640
<v Speaker 2>to Air Canada to get to print out your ticket.

0:33:11.960 --> 0:33:13.760
<v Speaker 2>So I went back and forth like five times.

0:33:13.760 --> 0:33:15.440
<v Speaker 1>I was like, are these terminals?

0:33:15.800 --> 0:33:18.200
<v Speaker 2>They were like a terminal part okay, so not such

0:33:18.200 --> 0:33:21.080
<v Speaker 2>a bad walk, A lengthy walk back and forth that

0:33:21.160 --> 0:33:26.240
<v Speaker 2>many times I'm calling Haley like I'm so sorry, I'm

0:33:26.400 --> 0:33:29.200
<v Speaker 2>so mad at myself, and she's upset. She's like, what

0:33:29.280 --> 0:33:31.680
<v Speaker 2>can I do to help you? Because even I was like,

0:33:31.880 --> 0:33:34.080
<v Speaker 2>if I can fit everything into a carry on, can

0:33:34.120 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 2>I still get on and She's like, well, what are

0:33:36.560 --> 0:33:37.960
<v Speaker 2>you gonna do with your big bag? And I'm like,

0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 2>I valeid my car here. I parked here, so I

0:33:40.480 --> 0:33:41.840
<v Speaker 2>can just go throw it in the car if I

0:33:41.840 --> 0:33:44.480
<v Speaker 2>can make it. She's like no, so she just yeah.

0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:47.960
<v Speaker 2>It was not good. So anyways, got on a much

0:33:48.040 --> 0:33:50.880
<v Speaker 2>later flight, which is fine because Haley was working super

0:33:50.960 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 2>late the whole time. Anyway, but I finally got up there,

0:33:55.360 --> 0:33:58.560
<v Speaker 2>got to see her. She was working until Like anyway,

0:33:58.600 --> 0:34:01.520
<v Speaker 2>before you get to that part, Okay, did that whole

0:34:01.600 --> 0:34:07.160
<v Speaker 2>experience make you change your mind on your airport etiquette etiquette? Well? Yeah,

0:34:07.200 --> 0:34:11.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean all my flights for Lallapalooza were you early.

0:34:11.560 --> 0:34:15.439
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't say early, but I wasn't like I wasn't

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:17.480
<v Speaker 2>a minute to spare.

0:34:17.600 --> 0:34:19.000
<v Speaker 1>So you didn't really learn a lesson.

0:34:19.400 --> 0:34:24.560
<v Speaker 2>I learned a lesson that I should be better about

0:34:24.600 --> 0:34:25.160
<v Speaker 2>being on time.

0:34:25.800 --> 0:34:26.120
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:34:26.840 --> 0:34:30.040
<v Speaker 3>Something I really like about this is that you acknowledge,

0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:32.239
<v Speaker 3>like I like the feeling of getting there with no

0:34:32.280 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 3>time to spare, because there's a lot of people that

0:34:34.040 --> 0:34:36.600
<v Speaker 3>are like, well, no, there's traffic and I woke up.

0:34:36.840 --> 0:34:38.400
<v Speaker 3>You know, there's all people that like say, it's like,

0:34:38.400 --> 0:34:39.759
<v Speaker 3>oh no, I try to get there early, but all

0:34:39.760 --> 0:34:42.240
<v Speaker 3>these external forces stop me from doing it, and you're

0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:45.600
<v Speaker 3>very self effacing, like, no, I do this on intentionally, right,

0:34:45.640 --> 0:34:47.880
<v Speaker 3>because I like the feeling and that would be so

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:49.919
<v Speaker 3>satisfying to be like I have no time to spare

0:34:49.960 --> 0:34:51.000
<v Speaker 3>and I still made it on the floor.

0:34:51.080 --> 0:34:55.239
<v Speaker 2>Right. It's like there's like an arrogance or something. I

0:34:55.280 --> 0:34:57.920
<v Speaker 2>don't know, Like it makes me feel like i've it

0:34:57.920 --> 0:34:59.520
<v Speaker 2>makes me feel like I'm in like a race, and

0:34:59.560 --> 0:35:01.400
<v Speaker 2>I did everything that I needed to do to like

0:35:01.800 --> 0:35:06.839
<v Speaker 2>get there without wasting any time. Anyways. It was great though,

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:08.880
<v Speaker 2>because I had all this work stuff I needed to

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:11.040
<v Speaker 2>film and shoot, and I was like I'm gonna have

0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:13.000
<v Speaker 2>to do in Canada while I'm with Haley, Like I'm

0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:14.480
<v Speaker 2>gonna have to figure out when I'm going to do this.

0:35:14.760 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 2>So I was able to go home, shoot all my stuff,

0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:20.439
<v Speaker 2>get all my work done, and then I went back

0:35:20.440 --> 0:35:22.839
<v Speaker 2>to the airport and got on my fight. So it

0:35:22.840 --> 0:35:28.000
<v Speaker 2>all worked out. Anyways. It was so it was such

0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 2>a fun weekend together, like I was, so we were

0:35:33.320 --> 0:35:35.560
<v Speaker 2>both just so happy to be together and we had

0:35:35.600 --> 0:35:41.040
<v Speaker 2>such a great time. Like it's such a beautiful a BC, Canada. Yeah,

0:35:41.440 --> 0:35:46.279
<v Speaker 2>is that what you would put Columbia in Canada. Yeah,

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:49.960
<v Speaker 2>it's so beautiful. Like we went on a boat ride

0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:52.719
<v Speaker 2>and it was like just jumping in the water and

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:56.359
<v Speaker 2>being on the boat. It was so freaking fun. We

0:35:56.400 --> 0:36:01.480
<v Speaker 2>had the best time. And then she gets tomorrow. Wow,

0:36:02.600 --> 0:36:10.200
<v Speaker 2>we made it so it was really fun and it

0:36:10.360 --> 0:36:14.480
<v Speaker 2>was just like, I'm so proud of us with how

0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:19.920
<v Speaker 2>this time a part has gone because last year was

0:36:19.960 --> 0:36:25.560
<v Speaker 2>not the same. I'm proud of you too. No, why

0:36:25.560 --> 0:36:27.359
<v Speaker 2>do you every time I talked about Haley, you think

0:36:27.360 --> 0:36:27.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm crying?

0:36:28.160 --> 0:36:29.720
<v Speaker 1>Did she not look like she was getting emotional?

0:36:29.920 --> 0:36:36.160
<v Speaker 2>I literally no, I'm not emotional at all. Zero of emotion,

0:36:36.600 --> 0:36:38.320
<v Speaker 2>no feeling of I'm about to cry.

0:36:38.760 --> 0:36:40.480
<v Speaker 1>So when she comes home, are you gonna like put

0:36:40.440 --> 0:36:42.799
<v Speaker 1>a little sign up, get some flowers or.

0:36:42.800 --> 0:36:47.160
<v Speaker 2>Just like yeah, but that's a surprise. So she if

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 2>she listened, she didn't listen.

0:36:48.360 --> 0:36:55.120
<v Speaker 1>To the pod the spoiler alert, Robbie's been listening a

0:36:55.160 --> 0:36:59.120
<v Speaker 1>lot more lately, and I'm like, we made a rule, sir.

0:36:59.239 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think the and you get engaged. You it's like, yeah,

0:37:04.040 --> 0:37:05.080
<v Speaker 2>he used to be a part.

0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Yikes. I felt the same way though about our time together,

0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:12.239
<v Speaker 1>because I felt like we had just been. It's so

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:15.520
<v Speaker 1>weird because I've never lived with somebody before, like I live.

0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:17.600
<v Speaker 1>We lived together, so it's like we're we spent every

0:37:17.680 --> 0:37:21.880
<v Speaker 1>night together, but because like one of the kids was sick,

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:24.280
<v Speaker 1>then Robbie got sick, then I got sick. I feel

0:37:24.320 --> 0:37:27.640
<v Speaker 1>like the whole month of July we were very like distant,

0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:30.279
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, And so the trip was

0:37:30.360 --> 0:37:32.480
<v Speaker 1>just like really really nice because we were just like

0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:34.160
<v Speaker 1>together twenty.

0:37:34.080 --> 0:37:39.520
<v Speaker 2>Like like yeah, uninterrupted, uninterrupted, very present, intentional, living life

0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:40.960
<v Speaker 2>like to the fullest together.

0:37:41.000 --> 0:37:41.919
<v Speaker 1>It was really really nice.

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:43.600
<v Speaker 2>I know That's how I felt too, And I feel

0:37:43.680 --> 0:37:49.040
<v Speaker 2>like it's also it's like knowing we only had basically

0:37:49.080 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 2>two and a half days.

0:37:50.400 --> 0:37:51.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it's like just.

0:37:53.320 --> 0:37:55.840
<v Speaker 2>Like enjoy every moment that we have just being together,

0:37:56.360 --> 0:37:57.919
<v Speaker 2>and it's fun getting to be with all the people

0:37:57.960 --> 0:37:59.920
<v Speaker 2>that she's like working with, and yeah, you know, it

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:02.720
<v Speaker 2>was fun to It's just it was it was just fun.

0:38:02.880 --> 0:38:03.040
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:38:03.120 --> 0:38:06.319
<v Speaker 2>I left being like wow, that was such a fulfilling time.

0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:08.719
<v Speaker 2>Whereas sometimes when we go without seeing each other and

0:38:08.719 --> 0:38:10.680
<v Speaker 2>then we see each other, there's this like pressure to

0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:13.399
<v Speaker 2>make it like the best time ever, to make sure

0:38:13.440 --> 0:38:16.200
<v Speaker 2>that like every moment is perfect, and yeah, I think

0:38:16.239 --> 0:38:18.799
<v Speaker 2>we both were just I think she's so tired and

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:20.279
<v Speaker 2>I was just excited to be with her that I

0:38:20.320 --> 0:38:22.440
<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't really care, literally don't care what

0:38:22.440 --> 0:38:25.160
<v Speaker 2>we do as long as we're getting to be with

0:38:25.239 --> 0:38:26.240
<v Speaker 2>each other. Yeah.

0:38:26.280 --> 0:38:29.359
<v Speaker 1>We had like we had all these maybe like three

0:38:29.400 --> 0:38:32.160
<v Speaker 1>reservations at places that were like the places that you

0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:34.560
<v Speaker 1>need to go when you're in Mikanos and then the

0:38:34.600 --> 0:38:36.279
<v Speaker 1>rest of the time, like robb and I just kind

0:38:36.280 --> 0:38:38.160
<v Speaker 1>of like talked to like locals and figured out the

0:38:38.200 --> 0:38:40.440
<v Speaker 1>spots and would like go into town and just kind

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:43.239
<v Speaker 1>of like whichever restaurant was like calling us. And some

0:38:43.280 --> 0:38:45.200
<v Speaker 1>of those were just like the most special, most fun.

0:38:45.239 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 1>Like we went up to this pasta place and the

0:38:48.280 --> 0:38:50.880
<v Speaker 1>hostess was like, oh, you guys, are you know, do

0:38:50.880 --> 0:38:52.600
<v Speaker 1>you want a romantic And we were like yeah, and

0:38:52.640 --> 0:38:55.520
<v Speaker 1>she put us up on this balcony. It was a

0:38:56.000 --> 0:38:58.319
<v Speaker 1>just fits a table for two. Yeah, and it was

0:38:58.400 --> 0:39:01.400
<v Speaker 1>just so freaking cute, you Like, it was just and

0:39:01.440 --> 0:39:03.840
<v Speaker 1>the food was amazing, and like, I don't know, I

0:39:03.880 --> 0:39:05.920
<v Speaker 1>just felt like everything was pushing us to the like

0:39:06.719 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 1>just good vibes.

0:39:07.640 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you just you just gotta let sometimes you just

0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:12.920
<v Speaker 2>gotta let go.

0:39:13.400 --> 0:39:16.120
<v Speaker 1>Let go, and let God guide you to where you

0:39:16.200 --> 0:39:16.680
<v Speaker 1>need to go.

0:39:16.840 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, guided us, right, So yeah, I came back on Monday,

0:39:22.040 --> 0:39:25.200
<v Speaker 2>and then I had work stuff that I had to do,

0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:30.520
<v Speaker 2>and then I left Thursday for Lollapalooza, which was so

0:39:30.640 --> 0:39:35.600
<v Speaker 2>much fun. But my god, the walking that a festival entails.

0:39:36.040 --> 0:39:37.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not for the faint of heart.

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:39.920
<v Speaker 2>But Chicago was so fun.

0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:40.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:39:40.800 --> 0:39:44.279
<v Speaker 2>But it was so funny because because we did the festival,

0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:46.960
<v Speaker 2>we would be so tired at night because the whole time,

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:50.280
<v Speaker 2>Alley's like I can't wait, Like I love the city life,

0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:53.040
<v Speaker 2>Like I got all these recommendations for restaurants, and then

0:39:53.080 --> 0:39:56.279
<v Speaker 2>like after the festival would be like we just get

0:39:56.360 --> 0:39:59.960
<v Speaker 2>room service, tired, our feet hurt. Yeah, and you're not

0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:03.200
<v Speaker 2>like an outfit that you want to go like party

0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:06.120
<v Speaker 2>in a well definitely not party, but even just like

0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:08.080
<v Speaker 2>go to like a nice dinner. You know, you're kind

0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:11.719
<v Speaker 2>of like gross. It was so hot and muggy. So

0:40:12.400 --> 0:40:14.479
<v Speaker 2>but I will say, and this is not an ad,

0:40:14.520 --> 0:40:18.680
<v Speaker 2>but I went with Chase Bank and it was I

0:40:18.719 --> 0:40:22.040
<v Speaker 2>had no idea that like, Okay, this makes me feel dumb,

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:24.120
<v Speaker 2>but I never knew, you know, when people talked about

0:40:24.120 --> 0:40:27.959
<v Speaker 2>perks of like credit cards and stuff. Yeah, I never

0:40:28.200 --> 0:40:33.280
<v Speaker 2>I felt so ignorant seeing what all the the perks

0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:36.360
<v Speaker 2>of having specific credit cards can get you. Like the

0:40:36.520 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 2>lounge that we were in, which obviously I was working

0:40:39.080 --> 0:40:41.440
<v Speaker 2>with him, but I also have the card, and I

0:40:41.480 --> 0:40:44.280
<v Speaker 2>was like, what the heck. It was an elevated lounge,

0:40:44.280 --> 0:40:46.120
<v Speaker 2>so you had a view to the main stage and

0:40:46.200 --> 0:40:49.319
<v Speaker 2>one of the side stages, and had like fans. It

0:40:49.360 --> 0:40:51.920
<v Speaker 2>had a bar they were passing out like Chicago pizza.

0:40:52.239 --> 0:40:53.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel Can I tell you that I feel the

0:40:54.000 --> 0:40:56.960
<v Speaker 1>same way about these credit cards. And like with the

0:40:57.000 --> 0:41:00.160
<v Speaker 1>airlines too, I'm like, we always are flying and I

0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:03.719
<v Speaker 1>don't have miles that I've never used at Delta like

0:41:03.760 --> 0:41:04.200
<v Speaker 1>I did, They.

0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:04.839
<v Speaker 2>Just stack up.

0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:05.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to use them.

0:41:06.200 --> 0:41:08.520
<v Speaker 2>You should do that, you may know, get someone on

0:41:08.560 --> 0:41:11.360
<v Speaker 2>the phone, because that will really benefit.

0:41:11.200 --> 0:41:13.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know. I Like I literally looked at Rob

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:14.640
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, for our honeymoon, we're doing it

0:41:14.680 --> 0:41:17.000
<v Speaker 1>all on points. Yeah, all over these points that I've

0:41:17.000 --> 0:41:21.040
<v Speaker 1>collected throughout my years of living. They're going to good use.

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:24.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So, like one of the things that we did

0:41:24.000 --> 0:41:27.320
<v Speaker 2>while we were there, we had like a private DJ

0:41:27.520 --> 0:41:32.080
<v Speaker 2>session was z and he's like twenty people and the

0:41:32.120 --> 0:41:33.400
<v Speaker 2>only way you could do it is if you have

0:41:33.560 --> 0:41:36.120
<v Speaker 2>Chaste card. The Sapphire the one that was there for

0:41:36.280 --> 0:41:37.760
<v Speaker 2>is like Sapphire Reserve or something.

0:41:37.880 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

0:41:38.760 --> 0:41:41.279
<v Speaker 2>But I'm like, how cool that, Like that's a perk

0:41:41.360 --> 0:41:43.360
<v Speaker 2>that you can get. I just had no idea. I'm like,

0:41:43.640 --> 0:41:45.200
<v Speaker 2>how many things have I missed out?

0:41:45.360 --> 0:41:48.440
<v Speaker 1>I know these lounges at the airports are like, yeah,

0:41:48.760 --> 0:41:50.319
<v Speaker 1>you guys know about these lounges.

0:41:50.000 --> 0:41:53.560
<v Speaker 2>At the airports. Yeah? Yeah, I never am there with

0:41:53.760 --> 0:41:55.360
<v Speaker 2>enough time to spare to use.

0:41:55.239 --> 0:41:58.560
<v Speaker 1>It, so much time to spare. I'm like, I we

0:41:58.600 --> 0:42:00.960
<v Speaker 1>went to one. Robbie's card got us into one. I

0:42:01.000 --> 0:42:03.319
<v Speaker 1>can't remember what airline it was, but I'm like, I'm

0:42:03.320 --> 0:42:05.439
<v Speaker 1>going to get a Delta card. Like I'm literally getting

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<v Speaker 1>a Delta credit card.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm telling you. It was I was like, wow,

0:42:10.520 --> 0:42:13.560
<v Speaker 2>this is this was eye opening, but it was so fun.

0:42:13.600 --> 0:42:14.160
<v Speaker 2>It was weird.

0:42:14.160 --> 0:42:16.200
<v Speaker 1>I said that because I've been in that same headspace.

0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:19.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, there's so much out there to like capitalize

0:42:19.440 --> 0:42:21.440
<v Speaker 1>take advantage of, and I don't take advantage of any

0:42:21.480 --> 0:42:21.680
<v Speaker 1>of it.

0:42:22.120 --> 0:42:24.480
<v Speaker 2>No, And if you go look at yeah, it's a lot.

0:42:24.520 --> 0:42:26.439
<v Speaker 2>It's a lot, but like, once you take the time

0:42:26.480 --> 0:42:28.760
<v Speaker 2>to do it, it's so easy if you have a card.

0:42:28.960 --> 0:42:32.239
<v Speaker 2>So anyways, getting a credit card that has perks on it,

0:42:32.280 --> 0:42:35.799
<v Speaker 2>because yeah, really they really do be getting me the perks.

0:42:36.320 --> 0:42:38.680
<v Speaker 2>We went, we saw Tate McCrae. We walked over and

0:42:38.680 --> 0:42:41.959
<v Speaker 2>saw her. She is so good. She is so good

0:42:42.600 --> 0:42:45.319
<v Speaker 2>and like the way she can dance. When I watch

0:42:45.320 --> 0:42:48.479
<v Speaker 2>people who can dance perform, I'm always just like, why

0:42:48.520 --> 0:42:50.960
<v Speaker 2>can't I do that? I know, but I can't.

0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:53.600
<v Speaker 1>It's okay. We all have our strengths in our own weaknesses.

0:42:54.080 --> 0:42:57.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I uh oh, what was I going to tell you?

0:42:58.480 --> 0:43:00.239
<v Speaker 2>Was it when Ali sat on the same out of

0:43:00.239 --> 0:43:01.080
<v Speaker 2>the booth? Is me? Oh?

0:43:01.160 --> 0:43:03.160
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes.

0:43:04.560 --> 0:43:08.759
<v Speaker 2>So we were starving and we go and sit and

0:43:08.800 --> 0:43:12.040
<v Speaker 2>this was so we did the z DJ thing and

0:43:12.080 --> 0:43:14.279
<v Speaker 2>then we had time before we were going to the

0:43:14.280 --> 0:43:16.480
<v Speaker 2>festival and she was like, I'm starving, let's just go

0:43:16.520 --> 0:43:20.520
<v Speaker 2>get true food. So we go and I had this.

0:43:20.800 --> 0:43:23.520
<v Speaker 2>We both had these like backless top song because we

0:43:23.560 --> 0:43:27.120
<v Speaker 2>both had like bandanas tied as the top. And so

0:43:27.160 --> 0:43:28.959
<v Speaker 2>she goes, do you want the booth or the chair?

0:43:29.080 --> 0:43:32.040
<v Speaker 2>Because normally I always give up the booth because I'm like,

0:43:32.160 --> 0:43:35.320
<v Speaker 2>I know everyone prefers the booth and I'm a people pleaser,

0:43:36.520 --> 0:43:39.520
<v Speaker 2>but the chair looked really cold on my back, so

0:43:39.600 --> 0:43:42.399
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm gonna take booth. She asked, booth

0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:44.799
<v Speaker 2>or chair? Said booth, and she goes, oh, yeah, that

0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:46.680
<v Speaker 2>looks more comfortable. I'm gonna sit over there. And I

0:43:46.719 --> 0:43:51.319
<v Speaker 2>was like what. I was like, are you serious? You're

0:43:51.320 --> 0:43:53.200
<v Speaker 2>going to sit on the same side, And you're like, yeah,

0:43:53.280 --> 0:43:55.480
<v Speaker 2>it's more comfortable. Don't worry. I don't want to sit

0:43:55.520 --> 0:43:57.480
<v Speaker 2>next to you because I want to sit next to you.

0:43:57.840 --> 0:44:00.719
<v Speaker 2>Con She was like, it's just more comfortable. And I

0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:04.440
<v Speaker 2>was like, do you know how invasive this is to me?

0:44:05.600 --> 0:44:06.919
<v Speaker 1>And yet you stayed there?

0:44:07.640 --> 0:44:09.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because my back was cold.

0:44:10.680 --> 0:44:15.040
<v Speaker 1>So I just have to bully you into sitting on

0:44:15.080 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 1>the same side.

0:44:15.800 --> 0:44:19.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but everyone's like, I cannot wait to hear Tanya's reaction.

0:44:19.600 --> 0:44:22.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I literally made it clear in the text

0:44:22.960 --> 0:44:24.000
<v Speaker 2>that I did not want this.

0:44:24.320 --> 0:44:26.400
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you, it was not clear. It was

0:44:26.440 --> 0:44:27.480
<v Speaker 1>not clear in the text.

0:44:27.480 --> 0:44:29.480
<v Speaker 2>It was like I was like, Ali, please come sit

0:44:29.520 --> 0:44:31.759
<v Speaker 2>on the same side with me. I love sitting on

0:44:31.800 --> 0:44:32.920
<v Speaker 2>the same side of the table.

0:44:33.000 --> 0:44:34.680
<v Speaker 1>It was not clear in the text.

0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:37.200
<v Speaker 2>It was because I was like, if you know, you

0:44:37.320 --> 0:44:40.080
<v Speaker 2>know how stressful this is for me.

0:44:40.280 --> 0:44:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I saw it and I was like, Wow, she's just

0:44:42.520 --> 0:44:45.880
<v Speaker 1>rubbing it in my face and she's sitting on the

0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:48.200
<v Speaker 1>same side with her best friend Ali.

0:44:48.520 --> 0:44:52.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Tanya talks her stress. They induced stress in me

0:44:53.040 --> 0:44:55.239
<v Speaker 2>like they make if I had an or ring or

0:44:55.239 --> 0:44:57.760
<v Speaker 2>like an Apple watch, it would say like my blood pressure,

0:44:57.840 --> 0:45:00.640
<v Speaker 2>they'd see it rising when I post with other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Anya, Tat's all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, we are going to take a break and then

0:45:04.160 --> 0:45:27.520
<v Speaker 2>we will be back with a dear Bonya email. All right,

0:45:27.719 --> 0:45:33.600
<v Speaker 2>we are back, and we have a dear Bonya email

0:45:33.960 --> 0:45:37.440
<v Speaker 2>from anonymous Easton.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, this one's from anonymous. Mark is not here.

0:45:39.960 --> 0:45:42.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm taking his job. He is not getting it back. Sorry, buddy.

0:45:43.480 --> 0:45:45.359
<v Speaker 3>I am an og scrubber and I appreciate all four

0:45:45.400 --> 0:45:47.160
<v Speaker 3>of you bringing light to my weekdays. I'm going to

0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:49.320
<v Speaker 3>change that, all three of you bringing light to my weekdays.

0:45:49.600 --> 0:45:51.399
<v Speaker 3>My husband and I moved into our home a little

0:45:51.400 --> 0:45:53.279
<v Speaker 3>over six months ago, but we're having an issue with

0:45:53.360 --> 0:45:55.680
<v Speaker 3>our neighbor across the street from us. She's a seventy

0:45:55.760 --> 0:45:58.040
<v Speaker 3>year old woman that lives alone, has no family. We

0:45:58.120 --> 0:46:00.279
<v Speaker 3>recently got a dog, so now we're out walking, we

0:46:00.360 --> 0:46:02.719
<v Speaker 3>run into our neighbor all the time. Every time we

0:46:02.760 --> 0:46:04.719
<v Speaker 3>see her, she ends up telling us crazy stories that

0:46:04.760 --> 0:46:07.120
<v Speaker 3>are not true. One story she told us was that

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<v Speaker 3>her power went out and the home warranty guy came

0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:11.000
<v Speaker 3>over and drugged her and forced her to go to

0:46:11.040 --> 0:46:13.200
<v Speaker 3>the bank with him and give him ten thousand dollars,

0:46:13.400 --> 0:46:16.000
<v Speaker 3>but she didn't report it to the police. My question

0:46:16.040 --> 0:46:18.440
<v Speaker 3>for y'all is this last week she invited me over

0:46:18.480 --> 0:46:21.000
<v Speaker 3>for lunch with our new puppy. I don't feel comfortable

0:46:21.000 --> 0:46:22.920
<v Speaker 3>going into her house and I would love to avoided

0:46:22.960 --> 0:46:24.960
<v Speaker 3>at all costs, But now she sees us walking our

0:46:25.000 --> 0:46:26.759
<v Speaker 3>dog and knows every time I walk outside, she comes

0:46:26.760 --> 0:46:28.960
<v Speaker 3>out to say, Hi. How do I balance between being

0:46:29.000 --> 0:46:31.280
<v Speaker 3>friendly and neighborly and setting a clear boundary?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeahkes is, Yeah, this is tough.

0:46:36.680 --> 0:46:39.520
<v Speaker 2>I would have a really this would literally stress me

0:46:39.560 --> 0:46:40.280
<v Speaker 2>out so much.

0:46:41.120 --> 0:46:44.439
<v Speaker 1>I would just invite it over to your house, oh

0:46:44.520 --> 0:46:48.560
<v Speaker 1>home field advantage, Yeah yeah, and just be like, my

0:46:48.640 --> 0:46:50.640
<v Speaker 1>dog isn't plotty trained and I don't really want to

0:46:50.680 --> 0:46:52.600
<v Speaker 1>bring her into your house to peel over your stuff,

0:46:52.600 --> 0:46:54.120
<v Speaker 1>So why don't we just have lunch at my house.

0:46:55.880 --> 0:46:56.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good sauce.

0:46:57.080 --> 0:46:58.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think that's a good idea. And then you

0:46:58.600 --> 0:47:00.719
<v Speaker 3>can see how she is during this, much like if

0:47:00.719 --> 0:47:03.440
<v Speaker 3>she gives you more crazy stuff, yeah, then you can

0:47:03.560 --> 0:47:04.920
<v Speaker 3>you know, you don't have this doesn't have to be

0:47:05.160 --> 0:47:06.160
<v Speaker 3>a repeat.

0:47:05.719 --> 0:47:12.080
<v Speaker 2>Thing, right, And maybe is there another direction you can

0:47:12.120 --> 0:47:13.440
<v Speaker 2>go on your walk.

0:47:14.440 --> 0:47:15.600
<v Speaker 1>That lives across the street.

0:47:16.000 --> 0:47:19.080
<v Speaker 2>Me feels bad because it's like she's probably just lonely

0:47:19.120 --> 0:47:20.840
<v Speaker 2>and want someone to talk to. But I think that

0:47:20.920 --> 0:47:23.200
<v Speaker 2>if you invite her over to your place and you

0:47:23.280 --> 0:47:26.560
<v Speaker 2>get a feel for her personality inside your home, then

0:47:26.800 --> 0:47:28.840
<v Speaker 2>it might make you feel more comfortable and feel like

0:47:28.880 --> 0:47:31.480
<v Speaker 2>she's just innocent and like as bored and lonely and

0:47:31.520 --> 0:47:35.960
<v Speaker 2>wants to talk and have like something interesting to have

0:47:36.000 --> 0:47:42.200
<v Speaker 2>a conversation about, because she probably doesn't have that. And yeah,

0:47:42.600 --> 0:47:45.000
<v Speaker 2>I would just you know, I think there and maybe

0:47:45.040 --> 0:47:49.400
<v Speaker 2>if it gets a point where you feel, I don't know,

0:47:49.920 --> 0:47:54.440
<v Speaker 2>like you're like you're trapped. Have your husband's such a boundary?

0:47:54.480 --> 0:47:54.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:47:56.040 --> 0:47:57.920
<v Speaker 1>I think your biggest fear is just being stuck in

0:47:58.000 --> 0:48:01.640
<v Speaker 1>someone someone else's home, right.

0:48:02.600 --> 0:48:05.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so she doesn't feel comfortable going into her house?

0:48:05.200 --> 0:48:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so I would just say, my dog isn't so

0:48:08.080 --> 0:48:10.520
<v Speaker 1>trained and let's just do it at my foot.

0:48:10.600 --> 0:48:13.520
<v Speaker 2>But if she was like, just come and don't bring

0:48:13.520 --> 0:48:13.920
<v Speaker 2>the dog.

0:48:14.440 --> 0:48:16.799
<v Speaker 1>No, I think she said she invited her and the dog.

0:48:16.800 --> 0:48:19.080
<v Speaker 2>I know, but I'm saying, what if she was like, oh,

0:48:19.160 --> 0:48:20.400
<v Speaker 2>that's fine, don't bring the dog.

0:48:21.200 --> 0:48:22.719
<v Speaker 1>Well, she's not so trained, so I don't want to

0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:27.560
<v Speaker 1>leave her in my home unattended, I would.

0:48:27.320 --> 0:48:29.799
<v Speaker 3>Feel like, hey, I don't want to get drugged by

0:48:29.840 --> 0:48:34.640
<v Speaker 3>the home warnty guy either. Yeah, we haven't had such

0:48:34.680 --> 0:48:36.080
<v Speaker 3>a case at my house, so why don't you come

0:48:36.120 --> 0:48:36.480
<v Speaker 3>over here.

0:48:36.760 --> 0:48:38.840
<v Speaker 1>I think she probably is just lonely and just wants

0:48:38.840 --> 0:48:40.320
<v Speaker 1>to have you over. So I think if you suggest

0:48:40.400 --> 0:48:42.320
<v Speaker 1>doing at your house, she's gonna be just fine.

0:48:42.600 --> 0:48:44.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I think she'll be excited with that option. And

0:48:44.880 --> 0:48:48.759
<v Speaker 2>I also think, like it really I speak from someone

0:48:48.760 --> 0:48:51.280
<v Speaker 2>who could never do this, but it's unfortunate that you can't,

0:48:51.360 --> 0:48:52.839
<v Speaker 2>that we can't just be like, oh, I don't really

0:48:52.920 --> 0:48:55.920
<v Speaker 2>feel comfortable with that, but thank you, yeah, instead of

0:48:56.000 --> 0:48:58.640
<v Speaker 2>just like having to email like a random podcast. So

0:48:58.760 --> 0:48:59.880
<v Speaker 2>I get you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish because she has like seventy and she lives

0:49:02.760 --> 0:49:05.480
<v Speaker 1>alone and like it's it's like kind of sad.

0:49:05.560 --> 0:49:08.279
<v Speaker 2>I know, Anonymous. I feel like I feel for Anonymous

0:49:08.280 --> 0:49:11.560
<v Speaker 2>because I feel like she's like it's the struggle of

0:49:11.719 --> 0:49:15.000
<v Speaker 2>wanting to be kind and gentle and also set a

0:49:15.040 --> 0:49:15.640
<v Speaker 2>boundary for you.

0:49:15.680 --> 0:49:17.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's really tough because like, yeah, you want to

0:49:17.760 --> 0:49:19.920
<v Speaker 3>be kind, especially to your neighbors, your community, you want

0:49:19.920 --> 0:49:22.440
<v Speaker 3>to feel connected. Then also, it's not your responsibility to

0:49:22.440 --> 0:49:25.360
<v Speaker 3>make this other person right feel comfortable and happy.

0:49:25.480 --> 0:49:25.680
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:49:25.800 --> 0:49:28.880
<v Speaker 3>That's so I get it's very tough, but I mean

0:49:28.920 --> 0:49:30.799
<v Speaker 3>it seems like an honest is open to having a

0:49:30.880 --> 0:49:32.719
<v Speaker 3>relationship with this person, like a friendship.

0:49:32.680 --> 0:49:34.400
<v Speaker 1>And at the end of the day, like that's your neighbor.

0:49:34.440 --> 0:49:37.040
<v Speaker 1>These are people that are like watching over your home

0:49:37.200 --> 0:49:38.439
<v Speaker 1>and like you know what I mean, Like, I think

0:49:38.440 --> 0:49:42.279
<v Speaker 1>it's like nice to have a nice somewhat friendly you know,

0:49:42.280 --> 0:49:44.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to have invite her over every week

0:49:44.160 --> 0:49:45.040
<v Speaker 1>for lunch or dinner.

0:49:45.719 --> 0:49:49.040
<v Speaker 2>Also the idea of like inviting her to go on

0:49:49.080 --> 0:49:51.319
<v Speaker 2>a walk with you around the block, because that way

0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:54.960
<v Speaker 2>she's getting exercise, she's getting to talk and like be

0:49:55.040 --> 0:49:57.240
<v Speaker 2>with the puppy, and maybe that would make her feel

0:49:57.280 --> 0:49:59.360
<v Speaker 2>like included without you feeling like you have to go

0:49:59.440 --> 0:50:01.799
<v Speaker 2>into her home or have her into your home.

0:50:02.080 --> 0:50:03.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I like that.

0:50:05.680 --> 0:50:08.319
<v Speaker 2>If all the worst comes to worst, just go in

0:50:08.400 --> 0:50:11.360
<v Speaker 2>there and have a phone recording at all times.

0:50:13.160 --> 0:50:15.839
<v Speaker 3>Share your location, share your location, or.

0:50:15.880 --> 0:50:19.719
<v Speaker 2>Make sure your husband's love you. But good luck. That's tough.

0:50:19.719 --> 0:50:24.480
<v Speaker 2>But congrats on your new puppy. All right, that is all.

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<v Speaker 2>We will be back next Monday and we hope you

0:50:28.200 --> 0:50:31.920
<v Speaker 2>have a great week. I love you, love so much.