1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Bec Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in roub dub dub. Tony's 3 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 2: having some technology malfunctions. I gotta get her ring lights up. 4 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I have a second one. Do you 5 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: want it today? 6 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 2: It's okay? Oh wow, it'sick Monday. 7 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 3: Do we like that light? 8 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 2: You don't have to use it? Nice? Yeah, that's me 9 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: on tongue's level today. Baby, No, that's perfect. Okay, great 10 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 2: a return from Grease Lolla palooza. It's about sums up. 11 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 2: How how I'm feeling this morning? 12 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: Same girl? Same? I think I left. I think I 13 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: left Grease full twenty four hours ago, like it. I 14 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: don't even I don't even know what. 15 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 2: Day it is. I know what day it is, Monday? Yeah, 16 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: what day? Did you get home? Saturday or Sunday? I 17 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: left Saturday, but didn't you come? Didn't you get back Saturday? 18 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: Sunday? 19 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: Interesting? Yeah, you're probably not feeling great. 20 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: No, I'm not feeling myself. 21 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:20,479 Speaker 2: But you have more energy than you do sometimes when 22 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: you don't go to Greece. 23 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's weird. I'm like so my circadian rhythm is 24 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: off circadian rhythm. 25 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 2: A circadium circadian circadian? 26 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: What is kadian? I think it might be right circadian. 27 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say something about sarcasm. 28 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 1: No, my circa circadian rhythm, circadian rhythm. My circadian rhythm 29 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: is off, but it weirdly gives you that energy, like 30 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 1: I popped up. I went to sleep last night like 31 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: seven thirty and I woke up at six and my 32 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: ar ring said, I slept almost ten hours. So oh wow. 33 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you'll probably crash at some point today, Like 34 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 2: you're in a high right, I'm not a high right right? 35 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: Coffee and she's back on coffee? Did we ever know? 36 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 2: So you're back on coffee. 37 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: I've been back on coffee for a while. 38 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: Oh okay, girl, all right, Just so in case people 39 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 2: missed out on. 40 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: That, that was the Hashimoto phase. 41 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 2: What do we call that? The fixation? 42 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: Yes, that was the fixation of sorts. 43 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 2: Wait, so you you reverse your Hashy motives and then 44 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: you're like, I'm back on I'm back on the juice. 45 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: Back on the juice. Yeah, there's only so much that 46 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: I can stay without. That was one that was very 47 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 1: hard for me in that moment. The gluten not so much. 48 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: Everything else was like not so bad, but the coffee 49 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:27,679 Speaker 1: was very hard for me. 50 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, caffeine's crazy. Yeah. 51 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 1: Oh you know what I tried in Greece? What I 52 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: tried a bottled coca cola rice? Yeah? 53 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 2: How was it delicious? 54 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: It's okay. 55 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 3: I saw your video. I have a I have a 56 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 3: thing to say. What it looked like you had one 57 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 3: of those little mini bottles. Was a full size size 58 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 3: from Mexico. 59 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 2: From grease, It wasn't a Mexican color. 60 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the Mexican coke is different because it is 61 00:02:58,639 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 3: a real sugar. 62 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: Oh what do they use in Greece. 63 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 3: I don't know, I'll look it up. It might be Yeah. 64 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 2: I was like, Europe has regulations and stuff, oh have 65 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 2: with like sodaes. 66 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 3: It's probably fine. I just I just wanted to make 67 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 3: sure you got the real lie. 68 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: I was like, I told Robby, I go, the one 69 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 1: thing I want to do on this trip is I 70 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: really want to try bottled glass bottled coca cola, because you, 71 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 1: Paulina and Raquel all love a glass bottled coca cola 72 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: over rice. So I waited to the perfect day where 73 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: I was like scorching hot. It was so hot. I 74 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: was like, I felt like I was delirious because it 75 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: was I was so hot. I was like, I'm going 76 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: to order this iced coke today. And it didn't hit 77 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: quite like I wanted it to. 78 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 2: That's interesting. Yeah, you know you can do that here 79 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 2: in the States. We have glass bottle cokes. 80 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: Maybe I'll try it here one day. 81 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 2: I would say, if you're like scorching hot and like uncomfortable, 82 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 2: I don't. 83 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: Know, you wouldn't recommend if you're. 84 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 2: Not a soda drinker. I don't know if that's when 85 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: it would hit. Yeah, we'll find the right time. Okay, Yeah, 86 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 2: we'll do it together. 87 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: Thank you. 88 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 2: I'll make you the marshmallow fluff. Have you seen those? Yeah? 89 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 2: I saw you do it. Yeah yeah yeah, yeah, we'll 90 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: try that. Okay, yeah great, that feels fun. 91 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah okay. 92 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 2: So rewind. You went to Greece last time we talked 93 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 2: to you. It was two days before three days. We 94 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 2: were undecided. Yeah, it was between Greece and Hawaii. You 95 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 2: went with Greece. 96 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: We chose Greece. 97 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 2: What was the deciding factor? 98 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:32,679 Speaker 1: Well, it's funny. So I was getting my hair done actually, 99 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: and I was with Tawny and we were like that 100 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: was so when we're deciding which place to go, and 101 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: she was like, I actually have a client that can 102 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: book you a trip so quick. This is what she 103 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 1: does for a living. So she connected me with her, 104 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 1: and she was like, I could do either, but why 105 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 1: not why not do Greece? You know what I mean, Like, 106 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: just do it, I can, we can figure it out. 107 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 1: So we just did it. Her name is Sinnem and 108 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: actually all of her employees are women, like the little 109 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: like yeah, modern woman Energy company, and so Tony connected 110 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 1: me to her that day and so that's kind of 111 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: what we were like, you know what, it's going to 112 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 1: be a wild year and let's just go ball to 113 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: the walls. 114 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: I love that. And we did, you know what, literal 115 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 2: balls to the correct of Greece. Yeah, and I'm very 116 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 2: happy that we did it. It looked from from an 117 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 2: Instagram standpoint, it looked perfect. 118 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 1: It was perfect. It was actually perfect. 119 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, did anything negative happen on this strip? Oh? 120 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: Well no, we did. There was like actually it was 121 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 1: really crazy because we had lunch reservations at this one 122 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: restaurant and they apparently had been shut down for two 123 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: days because they like didn't report money or something like 124 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:54,799 Speaker 1: that the government, and so they basically just bumped everybody 125 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: a day later for the reservations. So we showed up 126 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 1: for our reservation or whatever. It was still close and 127 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 1: they're like, oh, we'll be up in an hour. We show, 128 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 1: we go and get a drink next door, and they 129 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: still hadn't. Then we came back and it was fully packed, 130 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: like there wasn't a seat in the house. We're like, 131 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: how did this happen in forty five minutes? And the 132 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: guy was just like so not nice, like it was 133 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: like the that was the one literally the only negative thing. 134 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: But Rob and I did not even we did not 135 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 1: let it affect us. We waited for ten minutes and 136 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: we were like the vibes in here are so negative 137 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: and we were like we just don't even want to 138 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: do that. So we found a really beach club next 139 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: door and spent like the whole day there drinking, taking 140 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 1: uzo shots with like at this guy on the beach 141 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: and just had a really good time. 142 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, like you can't be waiting around for a fraudulent business. 143 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: No, right, and like not even nice, Like I'm like 144 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: I understand if there's like a lot of care it's 145 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: the way you handle situations, in my opinion, And he 146 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: was just so rude, Like if it were me, I 147 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 1: would be so apologetic and like look people in the eye. 148 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: And he was just like it was so crazy, he's. 149 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 2: Just not having a good day. Yeah, we won't let 150 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:56,239 Speaker 2: we won't let that define his character. But it didn't 151 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:57,359 Speaker 2: need to bring you all down. 152 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 1: No, And we didn't let it bring us down. And 153 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: we're like, vibes in here are not high because everybody 154 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: you could tell you just look around, everybody's arms across 155 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,119 Speaker 1: like angry. And I was like, this is not the vibe. 156 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 2: That is not the sunshine mine new new news. 157 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: So we picked up our little rear ends and walked 158 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: right on over next door and it was amazing. Okay, great, Yeah, 159 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: ten out of ten highly recommend We were a meekonos. 160 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: Yeah the whole time, the whole time. 161 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: And what was it? Was it crowded? Was it hot? 162 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 2: What was it? What was it? 163 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: It was hot? So hot, like it was like the 164 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: perfect weather. But it was really funny because I kept 165 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 1: seeing all these So we went out to lunch one 166 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: day and. 167 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: I spot tinks double sighting. Wow, Like, what is the 168 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 2: of all the people that are in like the social 169 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: media just in your world, right, that you were into 170 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 2: Tinks and Meekaness. 171 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: Literally so funny. It's like Clocker and I'm talking and 172 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: I was like, should I go say hi to her? 173 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: And Rob was like, yeah, of course you have to. 174 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: Was like, I don't know. This feels dicey. It really 175 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: could go either way, right, So then I texted you 176 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: and Sam and was like, is she going to come 177 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: on the podcast? I need to know if she's aware 178 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: of who I am, because I cannot handle that again. 179 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 2: Second, I do think we have a lot of people 180 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 2: who come into our podcast and have no idea who 181 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 2: we are. I know, I know. 182 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: But the fact that I've already gone up to her, 183 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean and. 184 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: Talked about that experience correct, yeah, I. 185 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: Was like I just can't do that again. And so 186 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 1: I ended up going over to her, got up the courage, 187 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: a little liquid courage, and she was like, hey, babe. 188 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,199 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is what I was hoping for, 189 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: the like BFF, the little emoji collective. Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 190 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 1: And I was like I think we're trying to get 191 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: you on the pod. She was like yeah. And then 192 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: that was a very brief interaction. She was on her 193 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: way out. Yeah yeah, yeah, great, but I left feeling rejuvenated. 194 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I just am excited we are having her on. 195 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: By the way we have I think we have a 196 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 2: date locked in. But I'm just excited to rehash these 197 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 2: interactions that you had. 198 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 3: Can't wait to get her perspective on this. 199 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 1: Me too, I know. And she was actually not drinking 200 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: that day at that place because she had been hung 201 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:18,439 Speaker 1: over from like the night before or whatever. She was 202 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 1: like sticks over and I'd probably run after her. I 203 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: was like thanks, because it was kind of like my 204 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: first official day there, right, so I was jet lagged 205 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 1: and like drunk. Yeah, yeah, all the things, all the things. 206 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 2: Did you see Alex Earl was also there? 207 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: Yes, you told me that I did try to look. 208 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,959 Speaker 1: I was aware. Yeah yeah. And then I saw Chris 209 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: and Cavalieri was there. Yeah, and I actually invited her 210 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 1: to get lunch with us. Yeah, she was going to 211 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 1: she was moving hotels that day. 212 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 2: Oh, I know she with her boyfriend, yeah, Montana boy. Yeah, 213 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: that would have been one I needed to know the 214 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 2: tea on. 215 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: I know, we did try to connect, I try we 216 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: tried to kind of connect like twice, but are just 217 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: the schedules just didn't really shifts in the night and yeah, yeah, 218 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: I know, wow. 219 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a Meccano summer. It was a party. 220 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: Saw zac Efron was there, like I don't know. Yeah, 221 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: it was weird. 222 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 2: There was something scary in the news about him, right. 223 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, he like got an accident in a pool and 224 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: Abiza Nebithatha, not Mecas no, not making us Wow. 225 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 2: Okay, so y'all how was the flight? 226 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 1: Okay, so it was a long flight. We flew from 227 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 1: LA to Atlanta, Atlanta to Athens, Athens to mikon Nos. Yeah, 228 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: she was grothy. 229 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 2: There's no direct from LA to Athens. 230 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: No, oh no, not to Athens, but there's like a 231 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: direct to pair you know, there's like direct other. 232 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 2: Places to Europe. Yeah, orect. 233 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys, I need to find 234 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 1: a Let me ask Robbie to send me a picture 235 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: of this thing. So he bought me this a long 236 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 1: time ago. So I'm the type of person where like 237 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: when you're flying on an airplane and I put the 238 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: the trade table down and I can put my hands 239 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: on it, and that's how I sleep. Wow out that 240 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: I prefer that to just like sitting back with like 241 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 1: a neck pillow. 242 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 243 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 1: So years ago, Robbie bought me this contraption on Amazon. 244 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: You blow it up in the. 245 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 2: You put your head in and. 246 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: Then you put your arms through. And he bought this 247 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: years ago, and he's like, I think you should bring 248 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:19,439 Speaker 1: it on the flight because we were going to take 249 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: like our flight from Atlanta to Athens was like nine 250 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: hours or something. He's like, we should really sleep on it. 251 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: And so I was like, okay, sure, why not, I'll 252 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: bring it. Let me tell you that thing was game changing. 253 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 2: I bet it looks so comfortable, but was it embarrassing? Up? 254 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: I made Robbie do it. I was like, I need 255 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 1: you to blow this up. And I had to like 256 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: apologize to the people around me. I was like, this looks 257 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: very big, but it's just gonna sit on my lap, 258 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: so I don't worry about me. 259 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 2: What seat were you in? I was in the middle seat. 260 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. 261 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 1: Let me tell you it was the best. I don't 262 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: know how much you paid for. I gotta I gotta 263 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: get the pictures. Send me picks of me sleeping. 264 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 2: I've seen it and I've been like I would sleep 265 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 2: so well with that because I also I can't sleep 266 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,439 Speaker 2: sitting back right, but I also get uncomfortable leaning on 267 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 2: the way on the tray tables. 268 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you wake up in your neck and your back 269 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: are like oh oh yeah. 270 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 2: And if someone puts their seat back, you're literally yeah. 271 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: So this is like you're condensed into your own little 272 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: it's just on your lap. I don't even have to 273 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: put it on the trade table. It's high, so you're 274 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: literally just like bending your head over and you put 275 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 1: your arms through it. It's like you're hugging a pillow. 276 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: It was so insanely amazing. I highly recommend. I'm gonna 277 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 1: go rate and review it on Amazon so we can 278 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: enjoy let them know. 279 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 2: So let's put pictures up and everything. 280 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 1: It was phenomenal. 281 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 2: I'm honestly influenced because I thought my only thing is 282 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,679 Speaker 2: thinking about me blowing it up and the people around me. 283 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 2: But I would definitely do like an aisle or window. 284 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 2: I don't think I could do it in the middle scene. 285 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: It was the big plane, so it was like the 286 00:12:57,600 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: four in the middle. Does that make sense? 287 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 2: Oh, so there was it was like Robbie, me, someone else, 288 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 2: someone else, Okay, yeah, yeah. 289 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: But I explained. I was like, normally I'm a try 290 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: sit on my tray table and put my head down, 291 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: but now with this, I don't have to do that 292 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 1: hurt my neck in my back, and they're like, I'm. 293 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 2: Sure you got an extra one over there. I know 294 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 2: you wish. And you said you were saying that Robbie 295 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 2: has a theory that what seat you choose on a 296 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 2: plane says a lot about the type of person you are. 297 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm curious when you get on a like 298 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: not a big plane, like a normal plane with the 299 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: with the like three and three, if you had your 300 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: choice easton which seat would you choose? 301 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 3: Window always? 302 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: Window always? Okay? I am too a window always? What 303 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: would you choose? 304 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:45,199 Speaker 2: Window always? Oh? 305 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: We're all window always? Okay, So I need to I'm 306 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: the window person. Robbie needs the aisle. And he's convinced 307 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: that window people prefer to inconvenience other people, and ile 308 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: people prefer to be inconvenienced. 309 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 2: Oh that's interesting. I just know that if I'm in 310 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 2: the window that I'm not going to inconvenience anyone. 311 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: And I'll hold you stay in there. 312 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 313 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: So that's usually my thing too, is like I'll just 314 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 1: hold it and I'll be I'll just stay in the 315 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: window because the last thing I want to do is 316 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 1: get up for somebody else. That's probably big thing. Robbie 317 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 1: loves to sit in the aisle. He's like because he 318 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 1: has to get up to pee every however many seconds. 319 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 1: So he's like, I would rather just have not have 320 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: to inconvenience anyone else to get up, and I don't 321 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 1: care getting up for anybody else. 322 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 2: I was like, I think what he needs to admit 323 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 2: is being self aware to know that he has a small, 324 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 2: small bladder and he needs to wee wee a lot. 325 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 2: And you don't think it's a theory, no, because I 326 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 2: don't want to inconvenience anybody ever, Like, that's the last 327 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 2: thing I live my life trying not to take it. 328 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: You just get a UTI bladder infection. Hold it in 329 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 1: the window. 330 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 2: And you also need to be aware that you are 331 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 2: susceptible to UTI is more than most people in the aisle. 332 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 2: You would just hold your type should definitely be in 333 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 2: the aisle. 334 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: But I can't. I can't because nothing annoys me more 335 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: than having to get up for somebody else. 336 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, so this is this is the personality 337 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 2: of it all. Your personality type is fine inconveniencing people 338 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 2: because you don't want to be inconvenience, But you also 339 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 2: have a lot of needs and sensitivity, so you know 340 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 2: that to protect yourself, you're going to have to inconvenience 341 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 2: other people. But you'd rather do that than be inconvenienced. Yeah, 342 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 2: I'm more. I'm not going to inconvenience anyone. 343 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: I will have a bladder eruption, so you just hold it. 344 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 2: But I want to be on the window. 345 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: Interesting. 346 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 2: Interesting, So I don't know if that's accurate theory. What 347 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 2: do you think. 348 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: Else you're into my theory. 349 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 3: I mean, I have a theory of my own. I 350 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 3: don't think it's about inconveniencing people or being inconvenience. 351 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 2: Is not an inconveniencer neither am I you will if 352 00:15:57,360 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 2: it's protects your head, I do. 353 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 3: I mean when I fly, I I never use the 354 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 3: bathroom on the plane. I just go in my pants. 355 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 3: Yeah time, Yeah, I just I And this is terrible, 356 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 3: but like I will try to time my hydrations. I 357 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 3: don't have to use because the idea of like squeezing 358 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 3: by people and then maybe you have to wait in 359 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 3: the line at the back. It just makes me too anxious. 360 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 3: I don't like. I just don't want to deal with it. 361 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 3: Allison is anile person because she has to use the 362 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 3: bathroom a lot. And I'm a window person because I 363 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 3: like to look out the window and I like to 364 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 3: see things. 365 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: I like to look out the window. 366 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 3: You know, you this whole little raw dog and thing 367 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 3: that's a raw dog in the flight. I raw dog 368 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 3: the window all the time. Wow, I just stare at 369 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 3: the window. I like. I fly a lot of Southwest flights. 370 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 3: We don't have a little computer on there. I like 371 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 3: to just look out the window and go, oh, I 372 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 3: bet we're over Arizona right now. 373 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 2: Wow, okay window. Yes, yes, I do like that too. 374 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 2: But here's my thing. If they put me, like, if 375 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 2: I don't choose my seat and they put me in 376 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 2: an aisle seat, I'm fine with that. Like, I'm not like, 377 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 2: but if I had my choice, I'd choose window. Haley's 378 00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 2: an aisle person because she peeys a lot. And so 379 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 2: if I normal, like, give her the aisle and I'll 380 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 2: take middle so that she can have the aisle because 381 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 2: she peas a lot. 382 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was very funny on one of our flights. 383 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:09,959 Speaker 1: This guy was in the in the window and we 384 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: were playing cards and we were in like a heavy 385 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:15,439 Speaker 1: duty round and I could feel his energy like he 386 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 1: had I need to pee energy, and he kept waiting 387 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 1: for our game to finish to like ask us. 388 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 2: It was actually really cute. 389 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: I know. 390 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 2: I would be so so nervous if someone nice to 391 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:28,719 Speaker 2: me was in an intense. 392 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: Card game and to get up right and intense, like 393 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 1: if he wins, I'm like no, Like I'm like, yeah, 394 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:35,680 Speaker 1: my hands are going up and I'm like. 395 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 2: Nor, guy, what is he? He's like an inconveniencer. 396 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 397 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:45,680 Speaker 3: I don't want to make this like two airport airplane heavy, 398 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 3: but I do like, if you're in the middle seat, 399 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:50,120 Speaker 3: what's the arm rest etiquette? 400 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 1: Like? 401 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:52,360 Speaker 3: Because I always figure if you're in the middle seat, 402 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 3: you should get both. Yes. I flew recently and I 403 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:57,959 Speaker 3: was in the middle because I was late or something, 404 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 3: and both people on either side we were using the 405 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 3: armrest and I had to sit and I'm like, I'm 406 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 3: not a really big guy, but like my arms are long. 407 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 3: I just sit like this the whole time. That is 408 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 3: so it sucks so bad, And I was like trying 409 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 3: to like make it I didn't want to ask for 410 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 3: the arm rest, but I was like, oh, that's just 411 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:15,120 Speaker 3: doing this, and they never never relinquished the arm rest. 412 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 2: They don't make it easy because if you have so 413 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 2: only if you have the window is that convenient because 414 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 2: you can lean to the side and rest like on 415 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,919 Speaker 2: that side. But if you lean out on the aisle 416 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 2: to the aisle side, you're at risk of getting hit. 417 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, smashed actually. 418 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:32,679 Speaker 2: But normally, if I'm in the middle, if Haley's with me, 419 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:34,880 Speaker 2: I just lean on her. But if I am by 420 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 2: myself in the middle and strangers, I'll just put my 421 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 2: elbows there and if it'll like nudge them and I'll 422 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 2: just be like. 423 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: I've had a nudge a few people my day. 424 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 2: It's just like, hey, I'll share it with them. 425 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 1: I'll share it with them. If you're comfortable, then I'm 426 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: fine too. 427 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 2: If you if it's weird, do arrest your corner on there. 428 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 1: I'll rest my corner. You want to go havevesis on 429 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: this thing, I'll go halvesies on this thing. 430 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:00,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, but they don't be making it cause I'll tell 431 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 2: you that much. And once someone leaves the seatback, Wait, 432 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 2: that's the last thing I'm gonna ask, are you a 433 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 2: seat recliner? 434 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:08,400 Speaker 3: I have never reclined my seat. 435 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: No, I'm not a seat reclined A controversial thing. 436 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 2: Yes, you've never reclined your seat. 437 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: Maybe if I'm like I just feeling forward, I lean 438 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 1: more so, Yeah, girl. 439 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 3: There was no one sitting behind me, and I'm like, 440 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna recline the seat, and 441 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 3: like I couldn't get it. 442 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 1: To work, and like this, I don't find the benefit 443 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: to me, it's like, doesn't recly. I mean, if I'm 444 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: gonna recline, get me gonna go all the way back? 445 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 1: Like to me, that little one inch is like. 446 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 2: So I only recline if the person in front of 447 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 2: me reclines. So I'll stay up right until the person 448 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 2: in front of me because like once that space is taken, 449 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, I. 450 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 1: Think that I have like a thing against recliners because 451 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: since I put my head on the head rest, yeah, 452 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:50,680 Speaker 1: when they recline, it squeezes my little head. 453 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 2: You know. I always have to look back and make 454 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 2: sure if it's someone like super tall or like that 455 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 2: feels like they're already like, oh, do you know what. 456 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 1: Else pisses me off. People that when they get up 457 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom and they put their hands 458 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: on your and you're. 459 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 2: Like, whoa excuse me? 460 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: Use your own your own that you can jiggle up. 461 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 1: I'm sleeping over here. 462 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 2: That is so true. People like all their way like 463 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 2: shake it, shake it. Wow. I could write a whole 464 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 2: write an essay about airport behavior. It is insane to me. 465 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 1: Honestly, same, same, same, same. I had a woman and 466 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: I don't know exactly what she was doing because she 467 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: was speaking in French, but I swear she was giving 468 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 1: a tutorial about turbulence to the woman next to her, 469 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,360 Speaker 1: like the woman behind us. She was so loud. Her 470 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 1: voice was like she was in a gym and she 471 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 1: was trying to compete against like basketball players. 472 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 2: It was so this is an interesting take from someone 473 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 2: who loves chatting on a plane. 474 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,200 Speaker 1: Shot all you want, but don't yell it like you're 475 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: talking in a gymnasium full of athletes. 476 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,919 Speaker 2: I think when you're talking on a plane, it's really loud. 477 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 2: So you don't think you're talking loud me, Well, no, no, 478 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 2: I'm saying like I think when you talk on a 479 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 2: in general, as a person, when you're talking on the 480 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 2: plane because the white noise is so loud. You think 481 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 2: that you're talking at a normal level, but you're yelling 482 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 2: to everybody else. 483 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:15,959 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it was. I was like, well, we're 484 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 1: getting a dissertation on turbulence right now. 485 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:25,199 Speaker 2: Stand. Yeah, how did your disconnecting off your phone and 486 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 2: stuff go? Uh? 487 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: I think I did it for like two days. Yeah, yeah, I. 488 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 2: Know you were silent and then all of a sudden 489 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:32,360 Speaker 2: it was just like that content. 490 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, well there was so you know, I don't go 491 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: to the bathroom off in I want to say, I 492 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 1: pooped like twice the whole trip. I know how many 493 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: days total? Seven? Wow, it's very bad. 494 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 2: Yeah that's good. 495 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 1: But I think like the traveling messes with my system, 496 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 1: and then I need time to like settle in. And 497 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 1: by the time we settled in, it was like time 498 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: to go again. But Robbie has a very natural flow, 499 00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 1: if you will. 500 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 2: He's ever messed up, No, no, never affected. 501 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: And so yeah, I had time in my eves to play, 502 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 1: to peruse my phone, so I would like upload. I 503 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 1: didn't really like I wasn't on my phone during the day, 504 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: but I would get on my phone like at night. 505 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 1: But you know. What I realized is I think because 506 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: it's not a job for me, Like social media is 507 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 1: not a job for me. It's like extracurricular activity. So 508 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 1: for me, it was fun. Like I wasn't checking my emails, 509 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 1: I was off my emails. I didn't check any of 510 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,439 Speaker 1: that stuff. I didn't respond to work stuff. I just 511 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: was like posting. 512 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what it's about. If it's fun, it doesn't 513 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 2: call stress. 514 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I had zero stress. 515 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:40,360 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, then no need to be present the content 516 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 2: right exactly, Like what do you need to listen to 517 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 2: him poop? 518 00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 1: No, no, exactly, or. 519 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 2: You could read a book, but we you know, that's 520 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 2: that's we got to make sure it's the right length. 521 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 1: I actually brought a book, and Robbie bought me a 522 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,680 Speaker 1: book before we left. He brought me this book on 523 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: like Cleopatra. 524 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 2: Cool, there's the homework, bro Yeah, Like are we writing a. 525 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:09,439 Speaker 1: Report like an inspirational like female story? 526 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 2: Oh oh I see yeah yeah yeah, but I left 527 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 2: that in the States. 528 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 4: You and you said I'm not even bringing no, I 529 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 4: forgot it, no, mother, but you're quite the Reid Smith 530 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 4: read Smith Wordsmith Smith normally how they say him. 531 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 2: But I'm not a writer, right, So I guess read 532 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 2: Smith is great. 533 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: So you're just do you take the time at night 534 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: to just read a book? 535 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:40,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, I read. I've read three books in the last 536 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 2: three weeks. I know, I bought one. I bought another 537 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 2: one for to go to Lallapalooza. But I didn't. I 538 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 2: couldn't get it. It was a different author because I've been 539 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 2: reading the same author and they're like instantly I'm into him. 540 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:56,439 Speaker 2: This one I'm not. I don't even know. I just 541 00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 2: it was on Reese's Book Club. Was rushed. I felt rushed. 542 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: You know, have you read you know how Blake Blake 543 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,919 Speaker 1: Lively has that new movie? Yeah? Did you read that? 544 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh, very another very easy read. 545 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,360 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, the story seems very good. 546 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, Allison read that this weekend. It's really read for 547 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 3: the movie. 548 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's literally I would read it again just to 549 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,879 Speaker 2: freshen up because it's such a fast read. Really, yeah, 550 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 2: just fresh, just a freshing up. And she also it's 551 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 2: the author is Colleen Hoover, and she has another one 552 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 2: called Verity. It is like such a it's like a thriller. 553 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 2: It's crazy. Another great one. 554 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 1: She was at the AMC Theater one night Blake. 555 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 2: No, yeah, Colleen, Yeah, they're doing a lot of press, 556 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:42,360 Speaker 2: I feel or they were. 557 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: She was like, at the AMC in Century City. 558 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 3: That's great AMC. 559 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 2: Yeah they're Mozzarella sticks. Oh I got hot. I gardened 560 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 2: one day and went to a daytime. 561 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,120 Speaker 1: Movie even to understand, and. 562 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 2: Got mazzarella sticks. And I was like, this is the 563 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 2: greatest thing I've ever put in my really. 564 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know I never got the Manzarelli sticks there. 565 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 2: Well, you got a garden and get the monzarella appreciated. 566 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:15,439 Speaker 2: I got Moti nut donuts. 567 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 1: Mochi nut donuts from the. 568 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 2: Mochi Nut not in the movie theater. No, it was 569 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 2: in the food court. 570 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: You know what we saw before we left for our vacation, 571 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 1: what Deadpool versus Wolverine and just crickets in here. 572 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,800 Speaker 3: I mean, I am very impressed that you when saw that, 573 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 3: especially opening weekend, it. 574 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:42,119 Speaker 2: Was so good, like great right the boys. Yeah. I 575 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 2: didn't choose. 576 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 1: I just have to confirm I didn't choose to go 577 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 1: see this movie. We went for the kids. But I 578 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: that's why I get so surprised and I like love 579 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 1: it because I would never go see it if it 580 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: wasn't for them, but I loved it. Like I was laughing, 581 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 1: I was singing, I was cheering. 582 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 3: That makes me so happy. It's so good. 583 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: It's so good. I've never seen superhero movie. Is that funny? 584 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 3: No, the Deadpool ones are always very funny, and like, 585 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 3: you know, that's his whole thing, is that he like 586 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 3: breaks the fourth wall. And the other two Deadpool movies, 587 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 3: I think you'd like. 588 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 1: I watched the first one, yeah, yeah, which I also enjoyed. 589 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 3: Well, I'm so glad you loved Deadpool and Woiverine. It's 590 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 3: so fine. 591 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 1: I might be like a Deadpool head. Is that what 592 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 1: his fans are called? 593 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we can call them that. 594 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, deadpool head. I don't know what they're called. 595 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,640 Speaker 2: This is a fan Deadpool fan and Pool fan. 596 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,399 Speaker 3: Uh, Tanya called me or I was at the County 597 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,879 Speaker 3: the OC fair and Tanya called me. It was like 598 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,199 Speaker 3: Robbie has some questions about Deadpool and Wolverine, and I 599 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,199 Speaker 3: was like in aloud. I was on a ride and 600 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 3: then I was eating fried oreos and I couldn't talk 601 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 3: on the phone and I was like call me, now, 602 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 3: call me, And then then he didn't call me. Yeah, 603 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 3: so I still don't know what his questions were. 604 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what they were either, but he had 605 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 1: all these questions and I go, do you know who 606 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,719 Speaker 1: would have the answers? And he goes, there's nothing more. 607 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 3: I love to get those kind of questions. Honestly, there's 608 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,400 Speaker 3: a lot of deep lore in that. 609 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 2: Movie because you're that was like rock and a hard place. 610 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 2: You're at the OC Fair, like Choice with the Orange something. Yeah, 611 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 2: Deadpool questions. 612 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 3: I mean truly the greatest moment though, to be at 613 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 3: the OC Fair and then have somebody like I need 614 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,360 Speaker 3: to talk to about Marvel. I was like, oh, man, 615 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:22,200 Speaker 3: have I died? 616 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 2: Is this heaven? 617 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 1: I feel like you had quite the busy uh, quite 618 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 1: the busy week as well. 619 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 2: I did. 620 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 1: You were in Canada, Chicago? I was, I was alway 621 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: trains and automobiles. 622 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 2: No trains, yeah, planes and automobiles. Yeah, but let's take 623 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 2: a break and come back. Yeah, we'll talk about it then. 624 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 2: Oh well, we're just just. 625 00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: Making sure you saw that. 626 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:16,160 Speaker 2: Yeah that was what We're back all right. So yeah, 627 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:21,159 Speaker 2: I went to Canada to see Haley and we That 628 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 2: was a three week, long time stint. I was so 629 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:31,880 Speaker 2: excited to get there to see her, and I went 630 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 2: down to Newport to drop Phoebe off with my sister, 631 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,400 Speaker 2: and so I stayed the night with them, and then 632 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 2: I got up the next day and I was like, 633 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 2: I had a great morning. So I was like, you 634 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 2: know how this might be totally unrelatable, but in my mind, 635 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 2: I feel like some people will relate to this. You know, 636 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 2: when you wake up and like time wise, you're right 637 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 2: on time, and your hair looks good, and like your 638 00:28:56,080 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 2: makeup is like it's like perfect, like you're like it 639 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 2: did what it needed to do. Both of my eyebrows 640 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,720 Speaker 2: were even. I was just like, Wow, this is gonna 641 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 2: be a great travel day. Yeah, never had that interesting, Okay, 642 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 2: well maybe other people have. And so I get to 643 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 2: the airport and I was flying Air Canada. And so 644 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 2: I go up to the Air Canada check in and 645 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,960 Speaker 2: she's like, oh, you're actually with United. It's like a 646 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 2: you know when one airline they are merged. 647 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 1: Your biggest fere, my biggest fear. 648 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 2: So she goes, I can check you in for your 649 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 2: connecting flight once you get to Canada, but then but 650 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 2: you have to go to United to check in. So 651 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 2: I'm kind of like at this point, like I got 652 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 2: to hustle a little bit because where the heck is United, 653 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 2: Like I don't When I get to the airport, there's 654 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 2: no route the way I do the airport, which is 655 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 2: very stressful but also gives me the adrenaline rush that 656 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 2: I love is that there's no room for air Why 657 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 2: do you like that? It's something sick. I don't know. 658 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 2: I don't know why I like it, but I just 659 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 2: like that I can get there and get everything just 660 00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 2: done at the time that it cakes. So I go 661 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh no, this is an error. So 662 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 2: I've gotta like rush because this could be crucial. I 663 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 2: get to the United desk and the lady that's helping. 664 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 2: I'm watching all the people helping to see like who's demeanor. 665 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 2: I needed, you know, I needed good vibes, and this 666 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 2: woman is being so nice to these people. So I'm like, 667 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 2: this is my girl. She's gonna get me on the plane, 668 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 2: which at this point I'm I'm like, I have a minute, basically, 669 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 2: so I go to check it. She goes, you need 670 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 2: to They go, you need to check it on the screen. 671 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 2: So I check it on the screen and it goes. 672 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:39,600 Speaker 2: You're late, like see an attendant or whatever. And I'm like, 673 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 2: oh no, but it's a minute. 674 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 1: You like that feeling? 675 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 2: No, I don't. I don't like this feeling. 676 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm like. 677 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 2: This is not good. So I'm like this girl, she's 678 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 2: having a great day though it's one literally one minute. 679 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 2: But because it was a computer, it like you know, 680 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,960 Speaker 2: it just has an automatic time off. So I get 681 00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 2: up there after they leave, she's like, have a great fight. 682 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 2: I got there. Her whole demeanor shift. She's like, no, 683 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 2: are you late? And I was like she no, because 684 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 2: I showed her the little yeah she's a podcast whatever. 685 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 2: So I show her, like the ticket the machine gave 686 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: me and she was like are you late? And she 687 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 2: like looks and she's like you're a minute late. They 688 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 2: locked it and I was like, I'm so sorry. 689 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 1: I was like I went to the wrong thing. Yeah, 690 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: I said, I went to Air. 691 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 2: I booked it with Air Canada and then I came 692 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,239 Speaker 2: down here and she's like, well they're shut. And I 693 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 2: was like I was like can you And she was 694 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 2: like are you flying business? And I was like yeah, 695 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 2: And so she was like, let me call and see, 696 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 2: and so she calls and she like yeah, okay, yeah, 697 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 2: I thought so yeah, the gates shut, and I'm like okay, shoot. 698 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 2: So she's immediately just like, let me try to rebook you. 699 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 2: So she's like it's over at this point, and I'm like, okay, 700 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 2: dang it, it was my fault whatever. 701 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 1: But you don't even say, like I haven't seen my 702 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 1: girlfriend in three weeks. 703 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 2: No she didn't. You know, when you get the feeling 704 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 2: no one who. 705 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 1: Cares at least you try do, you don't just let 706 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 1: somebody know. 707 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 2: I was like, is there anything? Is there a later flight? 708 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 2: Like can I get on anything else that will get 709 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 2: just get me to Vancouver and then I can get 710 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 2: on my connecting flight because I already have the ticket 711 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 2: for that, And she was just like no. She was like, 712 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 2: the only thing I see like would get you there tomorrow. 713 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 2: She's like, there's one that goes to Denver first, Like 714 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 2: she she didn't. She was just she was like, you know, 715 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 2: some people I've gotten too places late, and they're like, 716 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 2: especially if it's a guy, like I'm not this is 717 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,360 Speaker 2: just a privilege. But like if I go up to 718 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 2: a man and I'm like, oh, I'm like late and 719 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 2: there sometimes they just want to be the hero. 720 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, there are some people that have those you want 721 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 1: to be the Shiro. 722 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 2: And she didn't want to be the Shiro, which was fine. 723 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 2: It was it was not her fault, it was my fault. 724 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:43,760 Speaker 2: So she goes go back down to Air Canada and 725 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 2: see if they haven't, cause you're gonna have to rebook 726 00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 2: it with them. So I go down to Air Canada. 727 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,000 Speaker 2: I wait in line, and she goes, sorry, you're gonna 728 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 2: have to because your furt you booked with them and 729 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 2: it was under them. You have to go back and 730 00:32:56,160 --> 00:33:00,719 Speaker 2: book with them. So I walk back. I find another 731 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 2: girl to help me, because I was like, this lady 732 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 2: is we're over each other. And she helped me book 733 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 2: it and she's like, but you have to go back 734 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 2: to Air Canada to get to print out your ticket. 735 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 2: So I went back and forth like five times. 736 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 1: I was like, are these terminals? 737 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,200 Speaker 2: They were like a terminal part okay, so not such 738 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 2: a bad walk, A lengthy walk back and forth that 739 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 2: many times I'm calling Haley like I'm so sorry, I'm 740 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 2: so mad at myself, and she's upset. She's like, what 741 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 2: can I do to help you? Because even I was like, 742 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 2: if I can fit everything into a carry on, can 743 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 2: I still get on and She's like, well, what are 744 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 2: you gonna do with your big bag? And I'm like, 745 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 2: I valeid my car here. I parked here, so I 746 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 2: can just go throw it in the car if I 747 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 2: can make it. She's like no, so she just yeah. 748 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 2: It was not good. So anyways, got on a much 749 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 2: later flight, which is fine because Haley was working super 750 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 2: late the whole time. Anyway, but I finally got up there, 751 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 2: got to see her. She was working until Like anyway, 752 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 2: before you get to that part, Okay, did that whole 753 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 2: experience make you change your mind on your airport etiquette etiquette? Well? Yeah, 754 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 2: I mean all my flights for Lallapalooza were you early. 755 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:15,439 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say early, but I wasn't like I wasn't 756 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,480 Speaker 2: a minute to spare. 757 00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 1: So you didn't really learn a lesson. 758 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 2: I learned a lesson that I should be better about 759 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 2: being on time. 760 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 1: Okay. 761 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 3: Something I really like about this is that you acknowledge, 762 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 3: like I like the feeling of getting there with no 763 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 3: time to spare, because there's a lot of people that 764 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 3: are like, well, no, there's traffic and I woke up. 765 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 3: You know, there's all people that like say, it's like, 766 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:39,759 Speaker 3: oh no, I try to get there early, but all 767 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,240 Speaker 3: these external forces stop me from doing it, and you're 768 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 3: very self effacing, like, no, I do this on intentionally, right, 769 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 3: because I like the feeling and that would be so 770 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:49,919 Speaker 3: satisfying to be like I have no time to spare 771 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 3: and I still made it on the floor. 772 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 2: Right. It's like there's like an arrogance or something. I 773 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,920 Speaker 2: don't know, Like it makes me feel like i've it 774 00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:59,520 Speaker 2: makes me feel like I'm in like a race, and 775 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 2: I did everything that I needed to do to like 776 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:06,839 Speaker 2: get there without wasting any time. Anyways. It was great though, 777 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 2: because I had all this work stuff I needed to 778 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 2: film and shoot, and I was like I'm gonna have 779 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,000 Speaker 2: to do in Canada while I'm with Haley, Like I'm 780 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 2: gonna have to figure out when I'm going to do this. 781 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,880 Speaker 2: So I was able to go home, shoot all my stuff, 782 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,439 Speaker 2: get all my work done, and then I went back 783 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,839 Speaker 2: to the airport and got on my fight. So it 784 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 2: all worked out. Anyways. It was so it was such 785 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 2: a fun weekend together, like I was, so we were 786 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 2: both just so happy to be together and we had 787 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 2: such a great time. Like it's such a beautiful a BC, Canada. Yeah, 788 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:46,279 Speaker 2: is that what you would put Columbia in Canada. Yeah, 789 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 2: it's so beautiful. Like we went on a boat ride 790 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 2: and it was like just jumping in the water and 791 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:56,359 Speaker 2: being on the boat. It was so freaking fun. We 792 00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 2: had the best time. And then she gets tomorrow. Wow, 793 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 2: we made it so it was really fun and it 794 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:14,480 Speaker 2: was just like, I'm so proud of us with how 795 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 2: this time a part has gone because last year was 796 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 2: not the same. I'm proud of you too. No, why 797 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,359 Speaker 2: do you every time I talked about Haley, you think 798 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:27,880 Speaker 2: I'm crying? 799 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:29,720 Speaker 1: Did she not look like she was getting emotional? 800 00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 2: I literally no, I'm not emotional at all. Zero of emotion, 801 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,320 Speaker 2: no feeling of I'm about to cry. 802 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 1: So when she comes home, are you gonna like put 803 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,799 Speaker 1: a little sign up, get some flowers or. 804 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 2: Just like yeah, but that's a surprise. So she if 805 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 2: she listened, she didn't listen. 806 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:55,120 Speaker 1: To the pod the spoiler alert, Robbie's been listening a 807 00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:59,120 Speaker 1: lot more lately, and I'm like, we made a rule, sir. 808 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:04,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think the and you get engaged. You it's like, yeah, 809 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 2: he used to be a part. 810 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 1: Yikes. I felt the same way though about our time together, 811 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 1: because I felt like we had just been. It's so 812 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 1: weird because I've never lived with somebody before, like I live. 813 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: We lived together, so it's like we're we spent every 814 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,880 Speaker 1: night together, but because like one of the kids was sick, 815 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,280 Speaker 1: then Robbie got sick, then I got sick. I feel 816 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 1: like the whole month of July we were very like distant, 817 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And so the trip was 818 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 1: just like really really nice because we were just like 819 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 1: together twenty. 820 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:39,520 Speaker 2: Like like yeah, uninterrupted, uninterrupted, very present, intentional, living life 821 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 2: like to the fullest together. 822 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:41,919 Speaker 1: It was really really nice. 823 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,600 Speaker 2: I know That's how I felt too, And I feel 824 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:49,040 Speaker 2: like it's also it's like knowing we only had basically 825 00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 2: two and a half days. 826 00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:51,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's like just. 827 00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 2: Like enjoy every moment that we have just being together, 828 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:57,919 Speaker 2: and it's fun getting to be with all the people 829 00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 2: that she's like working with, and yeah, you know, it 830 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,720 Speaker 2: was fun to It's just it was it was just fun. 831 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:03,040 Speaker 4: You know. 832 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 2: I left being like wow, that was such a fulfilling time. 833 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,719 Speaker 2: Whereas sometimes when we go without seeing each other and 834 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 2: then we see each other, there's this like pressure to 835 00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:13,399 Speaker 2: make it like the best time ever, to make sure 836 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:16,200 Speaker 2: that like every moment is perfect, and yeah, I think 837 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,799 Speaker 2: we both were just I think she's so tired and 838 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,279 Speaker 2: I was just excited to be with her that I 839 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,440 Speaker 2: was like, I don't really care, literally don't care what 840 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 2: we do as long as we're getting to be with 841 00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:26,240 Speaker 2: each other. Yeah. 842 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,359 Speaker 1: We had like we had all these maybe like three 843 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: reservations at places that were like the places that you 844 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,560 Speaker 1: need to go when you're in Mikanos and then the 845 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 1: rest of the time, like robb and I just kind 846 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 1: of like talked to like locals and figured out the 847 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 1: spots and would like go into town and just kind 848 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 1: of like whichever restaurant was like calling us. And some 849 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 1: of those were just like the most special, most fun. 850 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 1: Like we went up to this pasta place and the 851 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,880 Speaker 1: hostess was like, oh, you guys, are you know, do 852 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: you want a romantic And we were like yeah, and 853 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 1: she put us up on this balcony. It was a 854 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,319 Speaker 1: just fits a table for two. Yeah, and it was 855 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,400 Speaker 1: just so freaking cute, you Like, it was just and 856 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,840 Speaker 1: the food was amazing, and like, I don't know, I 857 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:05,920 Speaker 1: just felt like everything was pushing us to the like 858 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 1: just good vibes. 859 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you just you just gotta let sometimes you just 860 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:12,920 Speaker 2: gotta let go. 861 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 1: Let go, and let God guide you to where you 862 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 1: need to go. 863 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, guided us, right, So yeah, I came back on Monday, 864 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 2: and then I had work stuff that I had to do, 865 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:30,520 Speaker 2: and then I left Thursday for Lollapalooza, which was so 866 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:35,600 Speaker 2: much fun. But my god, the walking that a festival entails. 867 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:37,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not for the faint of heart. 868 00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:39,920 Speaker 2: But Chicago was so fun. 869 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 1: Yeah. 870 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,279 Speaker 2: But it was so funny because because we did the festival, 871 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,960 Speaker 2: we would be so tired at night because the whole time, 872 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:50,280 Speaker 2: Alley's like I can't wait, Like I love the city life, 873 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,040 Speaker 2: Like I got all these recommendations for restaurants, and then 874 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:56,279 Speaker 2: like after the festival would be like we just get 875 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,960 Speaker 2: room service, tired, our feet hurt. Yeah, and you're not 876 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 2: like an outfit that you want to go like party 877 00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 2: in a well definitely not party, but even just like 878 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 2: go to like a nice dinner. You know, you're kind 879 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:11,719 Speaker 2: of like gross. It was so hot and muggy. So 880 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,479 Speaker 2: but I will say, and this is not an ad, 881 00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:18,680 Speaker 2: but I went with Chase Bank and it was I 882 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 2: had no idea that like, Okay, this makes me feel dumb, 883 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,120 Speaker 2: but I never knew, you know, when people talked about 884 00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,959 Speaker 2: perks of like credit cards and stuff. Yeah, I never 885 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:33,280 Speaker 2: I felt so ignorant seeing what all the the perks 886 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,360 Speaker 2: of having specific credit cards can get you. Like the 887 00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 2: lounge that we were in, which obviously I was working 888 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,440 Speaker 2: with him, but I also have the card, and I 889 00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,280 Speaker 2: was like, what the heck. It was an elevated lounge, 890 00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 2: so you had a view to the main stage and 891 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,319 Speaker 2: one of the side stages, and had like fans. It 892 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:51,920 Speaker 2: had a bar they were passing out like Chicago pizza. 893 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:53,960 Speaker 1: I feel Can I tell you that I feel the 894 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,960 Speaker 1: same way about these credit cards. And like with the 895 00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:00,160 Speaker 1: airlines too, I'm like, we always are flying and I 896 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:03,719 Speaker 1: don't have miles that I've never used at Delta like 897 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 1: I did, They. 898 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 2: Just stack up. 899 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 1: I don't know how to use them. 900 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 2: You should do that, you may know, get someone on 901 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:11,360 Speaker 2: the phone, because that will really benefit. 902 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. I Like I literally looked at Rob 903 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 1: and I was like, for our honeymoon, we're doing it 904 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,000 Speaker 1: all on points. Yeah, all over these points that I've 905 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 1: collected throughout my years of living. They're going to good use. 906 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. So, like one of the things that we did 907 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:27,320 Speaker 2: while we were there, we had like a private DJ 908 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 2: session was z and he's like twenty people and the 909 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:33,400 Speaker 2: only way you could do it is if you have 910 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,120 Speaker 2: Chaste card. The Sapphire the one that was there for 911 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:37,760 Speaker 2: is like Sapphire Reserve or something. 912 00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 913 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,279 Speaker 2: But I'm like, how cool that, Like that's a perk 914 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,360 Speaker 2: that you can get. I just had no idea. I'm like, 915 00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:45,200 Speaker 2: how many things have I missed out? 916 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,440 Speaker 1: I know these lounges at the airports are like, yeah, 917 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:50,319 Speaker 1: you guys know about these lounges. 918 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 2: At the airports. Yeah? Yeah, I never am there with 919 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,360 Speaker 2: enough time to spare to use. 920 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,560 Speaker 1: It, so much time to spare. I'm like, I we 921 00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:00,960 Speaker 1: went to one. Robbie's card got us into one. I 922 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,319 Speaker 1: can't remember what airline it was, but I'm like, I'm 923 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,439 Speaker 1: going to get a Delta card. Like I'm literally getting 924 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:06,919 Speaker 1: a Delta credit card. 925 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:10,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm telling you. It was I was like, wow, 926 00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 2: this is this was eye opening, but it was so fun. 927 00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:14,160 Speaker 2: It was weird. 928 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,200 Speaker 1: I said that because I've been in that same headspace. 929 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, there's so much out there to like capitalize 930 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 1: take advantage of, and I don't take advantage of any 931 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:21,680 Speaker 1: of it. 932 00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 2: No, And if you go look at yeah, it's a lot. 933 00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,439 Speaker 2: It's a lot, but like, once you take the time 934 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,760 Speaker 2: to do it, it's so easy if you have a card. 935 00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,239 Speaker 2: So anyways, getting a credit card that has perks on it, 936 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,799 Speaker 2: because yeah, really they really do be getting me the perks. 937 00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,680 Speaker 2: We went, we saw Tate McCrae. We walked over and 938 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,959 Speaker 2: saw her. She is so good. She is so good 939 00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:45,319 Speaker 2: and like the way she can dance. When I watch 940 00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,479 Speaker 2: people who can dance perform, I'm always just like, why 941 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,960 Speaker 2: can't I do that? I know, but I can't. 942 00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 1: It's okay. We all have our strengths in our own weaknesses. 943 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, I uh oh, what was I going to tell you? 944 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 2: Was it when Ali sat on the same out of 945 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:01,080 Speaker 2: the booth? Is me? Oh? 946 00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: Yes, yes. 947 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:08,759 Speaker 2: So we were starving and we go and sit and 948 00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:12,040 Speaker 2: this was so we did the z DJ thing and 949 00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 2: then we had time before we were going to the 950 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,480 Speaker 2: festival and she was like, I'm starving, let's just go 951 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:20,520 Speaker 2: get true food. So we go and I had this. 952 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,520 Speaker 2: We both had these like backless top song because we 953 00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:27,120 Speaker 2: both had like bandanas tied as the top. And so 954 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:28,959 Speaker 2: she goes, do you want the booth or the chair? 955 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:32,040 Speaker 2: Because normally I always give up the booth because I'm like, 956 00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,320 Speaker 2: I know everyone prefers the booth and I'm a people pleaser, 957 00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,520 Speaker 2: but the chair looked really cold on my back, so 958 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,399 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna take booth. She asked, booth 959 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,799 Speaker 2: or chair? Said booth, and she goes, oh, yeah, that 960 00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 2: looks more comfortable. I'm gonna sit over there. And I 961 00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:51,319 Speaker 2: was like what. I was like, are you serious? You're 962 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 2: going to sit on the same side, And you're like, yeah, 963 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,480 Speaker 2: it's more comfortable. Don't worry. I don't want to sit 964 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 2: next to you because I want to sit next to you. 965 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,719 Speaker 2: Con She was like, it's just more comfortable. And I 966 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:04,440 Speaker 2: was like, do you know how invasive this is to me? 967 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:06,919 Speaker 1: And yet you stayed there? 968 00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:09,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, because my back was cold. 969 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 1: So I just have to bully you into sitting on 970 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:15,560 Speaker 1: the same side. 971 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:19,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, but everyone's like, I cannot wait to hear Tanya's reaction. 972 00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,879 Speaker 2: I'm like, I literally made it clear in the text 973 00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 2: that I did not want this. 974 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,400 Speaker 1: Let me tell you, it was not clear. It was 975 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:27,480 Speaker 1: not clear in the text. 976 00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 2: It was like I was like, Ali, please come sit 977 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,759 Speaker 2: on the same side with me. I love sitting on 978 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 2: the same side of the table. 979 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 1: It was not clear in the text. 980 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,200 Speaker 2: It was because I was like, if you know, you 981 00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:40,080 Speaker 2: know how stressful this is for me. 982 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,120 Speaker 1: I saw it and I was like, Wow, she's just 983 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,880 Speaker 1: rubbing it in my face and she's sitting on the 984 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,200 Speaker 1: same side with her best friend Ali. 985 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, Tanya talks her stress. They induced stress in me 986 00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,239 Speaker 2: like they make if I had an or ring or 987 00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,760 Speaker 2: like an Apple watch, it would say like my blood pressure, 988 00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:00,640 Speaker 2: they'd see it rising when I post with other people. 989 00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:01,759 Speaker 1: Anya, Tat's all. 990 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,080 Speaker 2: Right, we are going to take a break and then 991 00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:27,520 Speaker 2: we will be back with a dear Bonya email. All right, 992 00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 2: we are back, and we have a dear Bonya email 993 00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:37,440 Speaker 2: from anonymous Easton. 994 00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:39,920 Speaker 3: All right, this one's from anonymous. Mark is not here. 995 00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,800 Speaker 3: I'm taking his job. He is not getting it back. Sorry, buddy. 996 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,359 Speaker 3: I am an og scrubber and I appreciate all four 997 00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 3: of you bringing light to my weekdays. I'm going to 998 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,320 Speaker 3: change that, all three of you bringing light to my weekdays. 999 00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:51,399 Speaker 3: My husband and I moved into our home a little 1000 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,279 Speaker 3: over six months ago, but we're having an issue with 1001 00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,680 Speaker 3: our neighbor across the street from us. She's a seventy 1002 00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 3: year old woman that lives alone, has no family. We 1003 00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,279 Speaker 3: recently got a dog, so now we're out walking, we 1004 00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,719 Speaker 3: run into our neighbor all the time. Every time we 1005 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,719 Speaker 3: see her, she ends up telling us crazy stories that 1006 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:07,120 Speaker 3: are not true. One story she told us was that 1007 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 3: her power went out and the home warranty guy came 1008 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,000 Speaker 3: over and drugged her and forced her to go to 1009 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,200 Speaker 3: the bank with him and give him ten thousand dollars, 1010 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 3: but she didn't report it to the police. My question 1011 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,440 Speaker 3: for y'all is this last week she invited me over 1012 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,000 Speaker 3: for lunch with our new puppy. I don't feel comfortable 1013 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,920 Speaker 3: going into her house and I would love to avoided 1014 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 3: at all costs, But now she sees us walking our 1015 00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:26,759 Speaker 3: dog and knows every time I walk outside, she comes 1016 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:28,960 Speaker 3: out to say, Hi. How do I balance between being 1017 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,280 Speaker 3: friendly and neighborly and setting a clear boundary? 1018 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,720 Speaker 1: Yeahkes is, Yeah, this is tough. 1019 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 2: I would have a really this would literally stress me 1020 00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:40,280 Speaker 2: out so much. 1021 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:44,439 Speaker 1: I would just invite it over to your house, oh 1022 00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:48,560 Speaker 1: home field advantage, Yeah yeah, and just be like, my 1023 00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,640 Speaker 1: dog isn't plotty trained and I don't really want to 1024 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:52,600 Speaker 1: bring her into your house to peel over your stuff, 1025 00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 1: So why don't we just have lunch at my house. 1026 00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:56,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good sauce. 1027 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:58,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that's a good idea. And then you 1028 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 3: can see how she is during this, much like if 1029 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:03,440 Speaker 3: she gives you more crazy stuff, yeah, then you can 1030 00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:04,920 Speaker 3: you know, you don't have this doesn't have to be 1031 00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:06,160 Speaker 3: a repeat. 1032 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:12,080 Speaker 2: Thing, right, And maybe is there another direction you can 1033 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:13,440 Speaker 2: go on your walk. 1034 00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:15,600 Speaker 1: That lives across the street. 1035 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 2: Me feels bad because it's like she's probably just lonely 1036 00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:20,840 Speaker 2: and want someone to talk to. But I think that 1037 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,200 Speaker 2: if you invite her over to your place and you 1038 00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,560 Speaker 2: get a feel for her personality inside your home, then 1039 00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:28,840 Speaker 2: it might make you feel more comfortable and feel like 1040 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,480 Speaker 2: she's just innocent and like as bored and lonely and 1041 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 2: wants to talk and have like something interesting to have 1042 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 2: a conversation about, because she probably doesn't have that. And yeah, 1043 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 2: I would just you know, I think there and maybe 1044 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:49,400 Speaker 2: if it gets a point where you feel, I don't know, 1045 00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:54,440 Speaker 2: like you're like you're trapped. Have your husband's such a boundary? 1046 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1047 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:57,920 Speaker 1: I think your biggest fear is just being stuck in 1048 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: someone someone else's home, right. 1049 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, so she doesn't feel comfortable going into her house? 1050 00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,920 Speaker 1: Yes, so I would just say, my dog isn't so 1051 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,520 Speaker 1: trained and let's just do it at my foot. 1052 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,520 Speaker 2: But if she was like, just come and don't bring 1053 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 2: the dog. 1054 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,799 Speaker 1: No, I think she said she invited her and the dog. 1055 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,080 Speaker 2: I know, but I'm saying, what if she was like, oh, 1056 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 2: that's fine, don't bring the dog. 1057 00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:22,719 Speaker 1: Well, she's not so trained, so I don't want to 1058 00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:27,560 Speaker 1: leave her in my home unattended, I would. 1059 00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,799 Speaker 3: Feel like, hey, I don't want to get drugged by 1060 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 3: the home warnty guy either. Yeah, we haven't had such 1061 00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:36,080 Speaker 3: a case at my house, so why don't you come 1062 00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:36,480 Speaker 3: over here. 1063 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:38,840 Speaker 1: I think she probably is just lonely and just wants 1064 00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:40,320 Speaker 1: to have you over. So I think if you suggest 1065 00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:42,320 Speaker 1: doing at your house, she's gonna be just fine. 1066 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,759 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think she'll be excited with that option. And 1067 00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:48,759 Speaker 2: I also think, like it really I speak from someone 1068 00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,280 Speaker 2: who could never do this, but it's unfortunate that you can't, 1069 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:52,839 Speaker 2: that we can't just be like, oh, I don't really 1070 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,920 Speaker 2: feel comfortable with that, but thank you, yeah, instead of 1071 00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 2: just like having to email like a random podcast. So 1072 00:48:58,760 --> 00:48:59,880 Speaker 2: I get you know what I'm saying. 1073 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 1: I wish because she has like seventy and she lives 1074 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 1: alone and like it's it's like kind of sad. 1075 00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:08,279 Speaker 2: I know, Anonymous. I feel like I feel for Anonymous 1076 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,560 Speaker 2: because I feel like she's like it's the struggle of 1077 00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:15,000 Speaker 2: wanting to be kind and gentle and also set a 1078 00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 2: boundary for you. 1079 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:17,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really tough because like, yeah, you want to 1080 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:19,920 Speaker 3: be kind, especially to your neighbors, your community, you want 1081 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,440 Speaker 3: to feel connected. Then also, it's not your responsibility to 1082 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,360 Speaker 3: make this other person right feel comfortable and happy. 1083 00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:25,680 Speaker 1: You know. 1084 00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,880 Speaker 3: That's so I get it's very tough, but I mean 1085 00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,799 Speaker 3: it seems like an honest is open to having a 1086 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 3: relationship with this person, like a friendship. 1087 00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:34,400 Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, like that's your neighbor. 1088 00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:37,040 Speaker 1: These are people that are like watching over your home 1089 00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:38,439 Speaker 1: and like you know what I mean, Like, I think 1090 00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:42,279 Speaker 1: it's like nice to have a nice somewhat friendly you know, 1091 00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:44,120 Speaker 1: you don't have to have invite her over every week 1092 00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,040 Speaker 1: for lunch or dinner. 1093 00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:49,040 Speaker 2: Also the idea of like inviting her to go on 1094 00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,319 Speaker 2: a walk with you around the block, because that way 1095 00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,960 Speaker 2: she's getting exercise, she's getting to talk and like be 1096 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,240 Speaker 2: with the puppy, and maybe that would make her feel 1097 00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:59,360 Speaker 2: like included without you feeling like you have to go 1098 00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,799 Speaker 2: into her home or have her into your home. 1099 00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that. 1100 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:08,319 Speaker 2: If all the worst comes to worst, just go in 1101 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,360 Speaker 2: there and have a phone recording at all times. 1102 00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,839 Speaker 3: Share your location, share your location, or. 1103 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 2: Make sure your husband's love you. But good luck. That's tough. 1104 00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:24,480 Speaker 2: But congrats on your new puppy. All right, that is all. 1105 00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:28,160 Speaker 2: We will be back next Monday and we hope you 1106 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:31,920 Speaker 2: have a great week. I love you, love so much.