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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 2: She couldn't.

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Speaker 1: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man

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Speaker 1: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.

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Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was

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Speaker 1: a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 2: I shared that shit. We're good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 3: Who single mom who said fuck the patriarchy shared all

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Speaker 3: their bad choices and.

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Speaker 2: Sound out they were so bad.

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Speaker 3: After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties.

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Speaker 2: Sit back and enjoy the ride. I can do it.

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Speaker 3: Welcome back to good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm me.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, God wrong. Welcome back to good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 3: I'm Mela and I'm Erica, and this is good mom's

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Speaker 3: bad choices.

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Speaker 2: Twenty twenty six, y'all, Hey, bitches, see it's next year.

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Speaker 2: Ho next year house the girl Mela, listen up, poor,

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Speaker 2: It's twenty twenty six, beach.

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Speaker 3: I feel like we're convincing ourselves.

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Speaker 2: I am it's a new year. Yesterday, when you said

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Speaker 2: it feels like December thirty second, I was like, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I saw mem yesterday that said I don't know how

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Speaker 3: I can go to work tomorrow. I don't even know

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Speaker 3: what I do anymore. I was like, for real, what

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Speaker 3: am I doing.

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Speaker 2: In LA.

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Speaker 3: It's been raining for like a week, which is only

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Speaker 3: happens once a year, maybe twice. So it's been feeling

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Speaker 3: very much like shut the fuck up and sit the

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Speaker 3: fuck down and do nothing. And I really appreciate that

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Speaker 3: because I want to sit the fuck down and do

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Speaker 3: nothing for a month.

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Speaker 2: I want to knock on wood.

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Speaker 3: I kind of want twenty twenty over again without the panic.

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Speaker 3: We've already said this, I know, but I do. I

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Speaker 3: want to sit the fuck down. I wanted to be

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Speaker 3: no traffic. I want to sit down. Apparently there's a

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Speaker 3: deadly virus. You know, I have been saying I don't

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Speaker 3: want it to be there.

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Speaker 2: So it was apparently at New York Airport slot yesterday

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Speaker 2: or two days ago, so it might be on the way.

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Speaker 3: You know, the world's going to shit when you're kind

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Speaker 3: kind of wishing for a deadly virus or some kind

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Speaker 2: I don't want a deadly virus because then I it

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Speaker 2: might dead me. I don't want to be dead.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember when we thought monkey pox was going

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Speaker 3: to come after COVID.

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Speaker 2: Renumber when my ex boyfriend course sort of got monkey pox. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and that's what really was the scariest part. I was like,

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Speaker 3: I had a whole theory. I was like, COVID wasn't

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Speaker 3: bad enough. They had to make something more visual because

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Speaker 3: the humans are more visual, and then they're really going

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Speaker 3: to get scared. And then he did. He didn't get it,

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Speaker 3: but he did.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. That had to be monkey That was

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Speaker 2: some mother shit. That was the That was the devil

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Speaker 2: working over time.

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Speaker 3: Can you just can you just listen to the signs

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Speaker 3: in the future, because I never heard of Nigga get

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Speaker 3: any monkey pox to not come on a trip, like

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Speaker 3: God was trying to tell you, and you're like, not listening.

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Speaker 2: I did listen two years later. Yeah, God wasn't going

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Speaker 2: to let him come to my sacred land of Costa Rica.

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Speaker 2: He's like, no, we have to be we have to

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Speaker 2: be extreme. Monkey pop have monkey pox.

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Speaker 3: But as you could tell with us wearing our shirlings

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Speaker 3: and me wearing my new wig because I didn't want

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Speaker 3: to do my hair, we're not really ready yet. I

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Speaker 3: don't know if you could tell, but I'm just gonna

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Speaker 3: say it me too.

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Speaker 2: You see to slip back. Nah, really here all the way.

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Speaker 2: So I was gonna do my hair this morning and

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, I'm not ready for that yet.

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Speaker 2: So here we are.

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Speaker 3: There's my hair, there's nothing to do. It just didn't work.

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Speaker 3: I was like, no, it's not happening. I've set my

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Speaker 3: as far as I got a double whammy. You can

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Speaker 3: call me jemmilet Jemmy Lett. There was a billboard by

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Speaker 3: my house for like a month of some Persian woman

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Speaker 3: up Gemleete because I was like, maybe our daughter's name

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Speaker 2: I was good. I was gonna say, you're giving more

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Speaker 2: like Pam Anderson, you know, MTV Awards, or maybe Jamiroquai,

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Speaker 3: Like Pam Anderson MTV Awards. I just looked up that

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Speaker 2: Were you with me? Okay? Yeah, because I liked because

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Speaker 2: she had that hat on. Yeah, and then yeah, I

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's the same era of Angeline and

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Speaker 3: Jolie and Billie, Bob Thornton. It was like a ninety

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Speaker 2: When everyone was like drinking each other's blood and like

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Speaker 2: another burst of sexual liberation that was happening around that

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Speaker 2: time in Hollywood. I would say for women, it was

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Speaker 2: like Rose McGowan was like with is Rose what you know?

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Speaker 3: Rose McGowan dropping white women names like I'm supposed to

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Speaker 3: see their picture. I don't know these bitches names. They

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Speaker 3: all kind of look alike. I've been watching so many

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Speaker 2: You ever see a jawbreaker, Yeah, okay, she's the leading jawbreaker.

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Speaker 2: She's Marylyn, She's Marylynd, she's a singer, and she was

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Speaker 2: Marilyn Monroe's wife fiance Marilyn Rosemary. I mean not Marilyn Monroe, Marylynd,

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Speaker 2: Marilyn Marilyn, Marilyn Manson. I was like, all these years,

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Speaker 2: I had no idea well you see her. You didn't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, okay, she gets younger and these photos, I'm okay, wow,

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Speaker 2: Does she knows? Look at her? Then this is who

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Speaker 2: I remember? Yeah, Rose, Well she's had some health issues. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so and she's older and she actually looks pretty good health.

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Speaker 2: But she just doesn't know. I just didn't know that

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Speaker 3: I had to scroll back to the Jawbreaker time, which

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Speaker 2: My concept of time.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was my add but it's just some

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Speaker 2: What are they who's saying like like like a thousand

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Speaker 2: years to us? Is God's like day? Like a thousand

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Speaker 2: years for humans? Is like one day for God? Who

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Speaker 2: said this? The Bible? I think it does? Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: don't think so. Did you read every single page in

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Speaker 2: the Bible to know that that's not I read a

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Speaker 2: lot of it. For all my Bible thumpers, I'm listening

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Speaker 2: right now. Did you read the Bible? You've never paid

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Speaker 2: the Bible? No, but someone biblical told me that who's

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Speaker 2: someone biblical my boyfriend. Now you're having a biblical boyfriend,

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Speaker 2: and I have a former. I have a former Jehovah's

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Speaker 3: One time I was I think we're in Thailand and

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Speaker 3: you guys are on speakerphone and he said a word,

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Speaker 3: and I was like, that is the most biblical.

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Speaker 2: Word I've ever heard a young person use. Shepherd? Oh,

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Speaker 2: like like shepherding the people. Yeah, I was like, call

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Speaker 2: me off guard. I was like, I've never used shepherd

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Speaker 2: in a sentence because you're not a biblical place, I know.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I've never heard anyone under fifties. Well

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Speaker 2: that's going to kept this four hundred and twenty two

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Speaker 2: years old. I was literally like pondering, like, shepherd is that?

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Speaker 2: My God? Not a biblical person told me. Does the

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Speaker 2: Bible say how many days is a day? For God? Okay,

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Speaker 2: well good to know anyway. That makes sense to me

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Speaker 3: I don't think God operates in time at all. I

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Speaker 3: don't think there's any translation because I don't think time

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Speaker 3: we're aging ourselves by believing it and celebrating the new

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Speaker 2: Back in the day, you're just living. I think we

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Speaker 2: I think like we started fucking up and aging when

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Speaker 2: we had access to like phones with cameras. Do you

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Speaker 2: remember when our cameras didn't have fucking when our phones

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Speaker 2: didn't have cameras. Yeah, no, Ki the Sidekick, I just

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Speaker 2: have a camera. No, because we didn't need a camera.

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Speaker 2: We just had chats.

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Speaker 3: Mirrors are kind of a new discovery, like this is

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Speaker 2: People didn't have mirror technology.

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Speaker 3: It's true, but you had to learn how to make it.

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Speaker 3: Like who fuck made a mirror? I don't know, but

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Speaker 2: Good, Hey girl, do I look okay? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Could love me and you're gonna say yeah, and that

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think if we looked at at ourselves less,

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Speaker 2: if we had less, should we do it? No mirror challenge,

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Speaker 2: No mirror Challenge, twenty four hours it's gonna be it's

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Speaker 3: There's times and I'm looking in the mirror for like

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Speaker 2: Some people have mirrors all over the fucking house.

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Speaker 1: I do.

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Speaker 2: I still do't look at it, walk right past. What

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Speaker 2: do I look like right now? I don't know. It's me.

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Speaker 3: I'm avoidant, so I can easily not look at myself

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Speaker 2: And then I finally do. I'm like, oh, I know

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Speaker 2: that happened to me this morning. I like did twenty things.

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Speaker 2: And then I finally looked at the mirror and my

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Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck?

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Speaker 3: And even smiling on people's faces, I was like, good morning, love.

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Speaker 2: You, Hey, heppen, poor men, Oh my god, your poor

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Speaker 2: good thing. Your man's biblical. He's not gonna judge now,

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Speaker 2: he's too busy shepherding the people. Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 3: I was looking at a post about that twenty That

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Speaker 3: two thousand and six was twenty years ago, and I

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Speaker 3: graduated high school in twenty twenty six. And there was

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Speaker 3: like in the video that had some things like some

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Speaker 3: high school students saying two thousand and six is the year,

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Speaker 3: and there's like I had the pink Razor. I remember

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Speaker 3: I had the pink Razor Motorola razor when I went

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Speaker 3: to college, and I thought I was a shit. I

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Speaker 3: had a sidekick, yeah, and I was like college flipping

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Speaker 3: it open.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It was like I should just do this. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 2: it was pink. I thought it was mine is gray,

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Speaker 2: Me and Jared.

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Speaker 3: Now we have twelve thousand dollars phones or were killing

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Speaker 3: Early in my twenties, I learned my lesson, like I

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Speaker 2: Speaking of that, what do you do for New Years?

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Speaker 2: I watched Dave Chappelle with you started watching that? Oh yeah, like,

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Speaker 3: I stayed home and didn't go to the play. No,

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Speaker 3: We just weren't gonna get presented, That's what I asked him.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I didn't. Fuck I did?

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Speaker 2: I was sure? Happy birthday, birthday, Aaron.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna text you later.

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Speaker 3: I went out to dinner with her on the night

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Speaker 3: So when we were in Panama together, someone told us

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Speaker 3: wanting to go for like two years. I was orgasmic

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Speaker 3: I we decorated, and then because I have a natural

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Speaker 3: I'm like there's people here, more than one. So we

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Speaker 2: We didn't do shit. That sounds great. It was kind

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Speaker 3: I kind of wanted to dance, but it wasn't such

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Speaker 2: Nice, it's fun. Yeah. I was like you said it

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Speaker 2: We are magazines. Where are they? Do they exist? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I think I said we're magazines. I was like, yes,

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Speaker 2: I've just been like I feel like moving very very

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Speaker 2: I've been making do for all the motherfucking wrench that

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Speaker 2: I pay, I will stay my ass at home.

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Speaker 3: Well that's the thing I realize. I'm like every time

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Speaker 3: So I'm just gonna sit the fuck down. I've been cooking.

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Speaker 3: We did do some like manifestations. We burnt our stuff,

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Speaker 2: I feel like when I get overwhelm, I just want

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Speaker 2: to lay back down. No, I just feel like December

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Speaker 2: been staying off of it. Oh no, what, I got

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Speaker 2: a hole in the couch. It's okay, we have a

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Speaker 3: I haven't put the new couch in here. I thought

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Speaker 2: I also feel like my New Year's was kind of

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Speaker 2: New Year's. I had people over and we had like

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Speaker 2: I could no longer play, and she Kim was looking

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Speaker 2: at me like, bitch, play a bowl and I was like,

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Speaker 2: what were you doing?

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Speaker 3: Just I got cold, so I went inside side an experience.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one of my bulls wasn't working because it was

436
00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,119
Speaker 2: like touching the yoga mat. And then I just was

437
00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,240
Speaker 2: like and he was just watching and he was like

438
00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,000
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm done, figure it out. And

439
00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:34,160
Speaker 2: then his friend came over and played for me. Oh

440
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:36,639
Speaker 2: and then I just sat there and because I was like,

441
00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,359
Speaker 2: you know, when you must first hit you, you're like

442
00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,000
Speaker 2: you need to breathe. You're like, what did I do?

443
00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:44,280
Speaker 2: Am I okay? Am I okay? Is this smart? Is

444
00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:48,360
Speaker 2: this okay? So it was great. I had a great time.

445
00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:50,879
Speaker 2: There was so much like at my only hope for

446
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:53,360
Speaker 2: that night was just like joy and laughter. And all

447
00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,720
Speaker 2: I heard from like different sectors of the house was

448
00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:58,639
Speaker 2: just like people fucking hysterically laughing in different rooms and

449
00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:01,479
Speaker 2: made me really happy. I was laughing. I really liked

450
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:05,600
Speaker 2: those lesbians. Where are they at? I think they're at

451
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,600
Speaker 2: my house right now. Where those lesbians? I like those girls.

452
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,280
Speaker 3: When they left, everybody left because I think I know everybody.

453
00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,720
Speaker 2: I was like, who brought the lesbians? That's where she

454
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:15,959
Speaker 2: comes from. I was like, I like them.

455
00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:19,520
Speaker 3: I've never seen them before. Yeah, I don't know what

456
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 3: she was telling us. And You're like, I was like,

457
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,960
Speaker 3: oh I didn't. Ashley was selling one of the lesbians.

458
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:25,200
Speaker 3: Oh you were you went viral.

459
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,120
Speaker 2: I saw you. You did something. We were like, we're

460
00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:28,320
Speaker 2: not on the Lelian algorithm.

461
00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:30,440
Speaker 3: We're not on the lesbian algorithm. And then she was

462
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,320
Speaker 3: like it was vogue. I was like, oh, it's not lesbian,

463
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:36,560
Speaker 3: it's worldwide. She was like, Jamila used to be a lesbian.

464
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,280
Speaker 3: I was like, I used to be in the lesbian

465
00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:39,400
Speaker 3: algorithm before.

466
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:42,920
Speaker 2: There's a I vouch for her. She really was a

467
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:44,600
Speaker 2: lesbian one. And they're looking at us like, what the

468
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 2: fuck are you talking about?

469
00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 3: I was a lesbian. I'm no longer though.

470
00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:54,440
Speaker 2: No, you're done. It's not really in me. No, nope, No,

471
00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:58,520
Speaker 2: you don't feel like eating any pussy six, not even

472
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:07,520
Speaker 2: a little bit. I'm digmatized. I don't I don't know. Yeah,

473
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 2: I don't know. I guess I could do it. I

474
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 2: don't know. Why do you want to eat some pussy

475
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:11,960
Speaker 2: twenty twenty six? Yeah?

476
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 3: You feeling like because you didn't eat any pussy twenty

477
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 3: twenty half.

478
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think my last eat pussy was twenty three,

479
00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 2: twenty twenty three, so yeah, it's been a while. I

480
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 2: think that I could get some pussy in my face

481
00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty six. Not a lot. Wait, it's so

482
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 2: funny today. How much is like, well, because you know,

483
00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,760
Speaker 2: I can only do like like two to three. I

484
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 2: can do like two and a half women a year,

485
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 2: but you should say. My mom called me and yesterday

486
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:38,879
Speaker 2: I saw her. She like, I'm gonna go see my friend.

487
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 2: She just had belf belf surgery. I don't know what

488
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 2: the bellaf, basically eyelid surgery, and I was like, oh wow.

489
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 2: So I called her this morning and I was like,

490
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,479
Speaker 2: how's your friend. She's like yeah, it's a bit jarring,

491
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 2: but you know, you know, she's like in like this

492
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,879
Speaker 2: new space in her life. Like she was married to

493
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 2: this guy. He was like a creep for a really

494
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,240
Speaker 2: long time, like he used to flirt with me and

495
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,919
Speaker 2: it was always so weird. And then she finally divorced

496
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 2: him last year, and then her career is taking off,

497
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,159
Speaker 2: and then she's dating this guy and she's happy. So

498
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,880
Speaker 2: I'm I go over there yesterday like waiting to hear

499
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 2: about this guy she's dating, like letting her, you know,

500
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 2: share organically, and then she tells me that she just

501
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 2: went on a date yesterday. So a I'm like, first

502
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 2: of all, you want on a date with these eyes?

503
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 2: And number two, I thought you were with a new guy.

504
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 2: And she's like, no, I'm actually on this app called

505
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 2: Field and I was like really. She's like, have you

506
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 2: heard of this app? And I was like, actually, mommy,

507
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,200
Speaker 2: I have heard of that app. And she's like it's

508
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 2: what is this app? It's like a kinky, freaky app.

509
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 2: I was like, well kind of, but like, you can

510
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 2: find love on on Field too. People find love, they

511
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 2: just care your mom and no, her friend was a

512
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 2: freak and I was like, so, she's like, yeash. She

513
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 2: was telling me that she went on a date with

514
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 2: a married man, but they're like they've been opened for

515
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 2: She's been married and open for like thirty years, and

516
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 2: it just felt like more like friendship, like they were

517
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,879
Speaker 2: just hanging out. And my mom was like, I just

518
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 2: don't get it. I didn't get it. And I was like,

519
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,159
Speaker 2: she's like I think I missed that train. I just

520
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,439
Speaker 2: don't understand Field or like except of like open.

521
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And I was like, yeah, you did miss it,

522
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 3: and I was like, you can find love on Field, yeah.

523
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 3: I mean when freaks fall in love that's what they

524
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 3: should have called it.

525
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 2: Field.

526
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 3: Miss You miss it big, You missed a big opportunity.

527
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 3: Should have been called when Freaks Fall in love dot com.

528
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,439
Speaker 3: But you know what, maybe that's my next endeavor, freaks

529
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 3: fall because Field it's good. It has so many categories

530
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 3: though I didn't even know there's this many categories for kinks.

531
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 2: Like you know, when I was on Field, which was

532
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty three, like twenty twenty to twenty twenty three,

533
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 2: on and off. When I first joined, it was whack.

534
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:47,680
Speaker 2: It was so weird. Have you looked recently and it

535
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 2: wasn't whack. I'm just saying when I first joined in

536
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 2: twenty twenty because I was on there with poetry Bay

537
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 2: to toothless scammer Bay. I was on there with him

538
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,640
Speaker 2: trying to find a third and it was really dry.

539
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 2: It was like very white, very weird white.

540
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: No.

541
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 2: But then like in twenty twenty three, when I rejoined

542
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: with I don't know what to call him, the other Bay,

543
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 2: the Rat City, Bay City Rat, it was better. There

544
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 2: were more black people on there. Were you there in

545
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 2: New York? Or are you doing it here? I had it,

546
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 2: I would change it New York. I feel like it

547
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,120
Speaker 2: was better, but there were more there were more attractive

548
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 2: black people on there.

549
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 3: Should I try to be like read, you don't want

550
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 3: to should I renew my list.

551
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 2: I want to do that and maybe you can find

552
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 2: another male. You know what it is. It's like, I'm

553
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 2: I did that just to see what Orlando's face was

554
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 2: gonna look like Jamaican. He looks like he's smelling something

555
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 2: bad Jamaican face. Maybe I'll get back on field just

556
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 2: to play the field. And my mom was like, is

557
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:52,400
Speaker 2: that why it's called field because you're playing the field.

558
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 2: You're just out here in the field. And I was like,

559
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 2: I don't know. I guess, so, Mom, Yeah that makes sense.

560
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm two in my head, Like I'm

561
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 3: a threesome you you know, corn Queen. I could three

562
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,199
Speaker 3: someome any by of their crew. I could be your

563
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 3: three some in a couple. But like in my own relationship,

564
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 3: my head hurts, it's too much. It's too much thinking

565
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 3: I can't. I don't know, like I didn't miss that

566
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 3: train like your mom, But I think I was, So

567
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 3: I guess. I guess we're I think our generation is

568
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,880
Speaker 3: right on the borderline, like we could go either way.

569
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 3: We could go open and polly like the kids, or

570
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 3: we could go monogamous like we've known and move we've

571
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 3: learned because it's like what we've inherited. And I think

572
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 3: because there was so much like accusations of cheating and

573
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 3: infidelity in my house and my mom is so psycho

574
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:40,959
Speaker 3: about it that like I can't conceptualized. I can't conceptualize

575
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 3: like really sharing in my mind, Like my mind starts

576
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 3: to like go nuts. So I'm like, in order to

577
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 3: like just reduce my psychonis, I'm gonna save everybody and

578
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 3: just not do it unless it's like a strip, like

579
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 3: not a stripper, but like a random bitch that that

580
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,160
Speaker 3: is your sole duty.

581
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 2: We have a horr that isn't aligned with this that

582
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 2: I want to share. But before I share this horri,

583
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 2: I want to check in with you actually, because this

584
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 2: weekend is your bachelorette party slash bachelor party, and I'm

585
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 2: just curious, like, what are the vibes? Are we not?

586
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: Are you I know where Lando's gonna be there in

587
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 2: front of me? Are you all gonna do a little

588
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 2: switch trade off of it's the bachelorettes the last time

589
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,200
Speaker 2: the last time? What are you asking me? Keep you

590
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 2: more clear? Are you hoeing on your bachelorette? Are you

591
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 2: guys hoeing on bachelor? On your bachelor bachelorette to be discussed.

592
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 3: This to be completely transparent. Hoeing in Vegas doesn't seem

593
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 3: like like a highlight for me. I don't feel like

594
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 3: there's like hoes in Vegas for me, like men, because

595
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 3: I like Dick a lot. I feel like, if we're

596
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 3: gonna do like an if we're gonna have a discussion

597
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 3: about having a hall pass, I think it would probably

598
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 3: need to be like out of the country, like Jamaica,

599
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 3: or like, I don't know, you're gonna go to his

600
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 3: native country.

601
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: I know, I know the material I feel like the

602
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 2: makers out of the off limits. I feel like you

603
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 2: gotta go to another Caribbean, I know the materials, say

604
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 2: kits or something.

605
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 3: About About a year or two ago, me and Orlando

606
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 3: had a conversation. I was like around, I don't know

607
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 3: if you were there, And I was like, people usually

608
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 3: like fuck on their bachelorette right, like that's what you do.

609
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 3: And he was like no, and I was like, so

610
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 3: you're not going to fuck on your bachelor party. He's like,

611
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 3: that's not standard. I was like, I thought it was standard.

612
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:33,679
Speaker 3: I thought it was standard.

613
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 2: I feel like we did have this conversation because I'm

614
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,360
Speaker 2: pretty sure I thought, I think we got a standard.

615
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 2: So I mean it's not standard. It's just on the table,

616
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 2: like not everybody might take the op might take it.

617
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like seventy percent of people

618
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 2: don't do it, but that it's it's it's on the table.

619
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 3: This is another issue I take with this whole concept

620
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 3: of bachelor and bachelorrette parties.

621
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 2: This it's designed for men women.

622
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 3: It's gonna be extremely hard for me to go anywhere

623
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 3: in forty eight hours to seventy two hours and like

624
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 3: someone enough to want to sit on their face and

625
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 3: on their dick and be fine with it.

626
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 2: I have been at drugs. That's all I have to say.

627
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 2: Let me sit down drugs and alcohol, drugs twenty four hours,

628
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 2: trust me. Yeah. Well I don't know, Orlando. So is

629
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 2: that on the table?

630
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 3: Like it doesn't have to be this weekend, but if

631
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 3: we have like another bachelor bachelor or this weekend, how.

632
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 2: Many bachelor bachelors party even I have? Bitch, is it

633
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 2: on the table for me or for you? I can't.

634
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,959
Speaker 2: I can't take what's on the table. She can't get

635
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 2: finger banged in seventh grade.

636
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 3: Last time I said that, someone got really mad. Last

637
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 3: time when we said his finger bank, I said, what

638
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 3: are we in seventh grade? Someone got I saw one

639
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 3: in the comments was like, why the fuck would you

640
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 3: say that? I was like, because that's what I was

641
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 3: doing seventh grade.

642
00:28:55,640 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sounds like a no. I would rather I

643
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: would what about essential massage? What about like what if

644
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 2: you both got happy? Like a like a sensual massage

645
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 2: by like a like what's that guy's name? What the

646
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 2: fuck is I under? On Instagram? There's so manyhad I

647
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: know there's one specific and he's he's kind of cute

648
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 2: duffy hands by duffy duffy hands.

649
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 3: Uh, that's something I don't remember. He looks like they're

650
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 3: never cute though he's cute, but he might be gay.

651
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 3: I don't know if I don't care about that. You

652
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 3: know how I feel about gay porn. Okay, I don't

653
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 3: want a essential massage unless you're making me come. I

654
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 3: realized that someone gave me a massage. It was very

655
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 3: sensual and there was no com and I was so annoyed.

656
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 3: I felt like I got less massage. I got negative massages.

657
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,959
Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't think that there's like a lot

658
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 3: of opportunities.

659
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 2: To gate down and dirty in Vegas.

660
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 3: I'm actually looking at a black magic mic show for us,

661
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 3: and even at my picky ass is looking at some

662
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 3: of the men and I'm like, he's cute.

663
00:29:58,480 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: He needs to go to the dentist.

664
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 3: So I think women are just too picky for this concept,

665
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 3: and men can stick their dicks in any warm up hole,

666
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 3: and so it's just kind of not fair because I

667
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 3: need like three I need to know you're smart.

668
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 2: I want you to make me laugh.

669
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 3: I kind of want to flirt a little bit, and

670
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 3: then maybe I'll get drunk and do drugs enough to

671
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 3: say okay, But like, other than that, it's gonna be

672
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 3: like familiar. I was just like, I aimlessly hode so

673
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 3: deep in my twenties.

674
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: I might have caused trauma to myself, but I'm just not.

675
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 2: You're too healed now.

676
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 3: I'm too healed.

677
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 2: You're too healed. I'm too heeled to hoe, I'm too

678
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 2: heeled to home. It's very annoying, but I'm you healed first.

679
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 2: Now you can't even hoe anymore, you can't even hoe later. Now,

680
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 2: can't even wear that shirt anymore. I can't wear my shirt.

681
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 2: God damn it.

682
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 3: But yeah, you know, even with our friends who are

683
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 3: in there like firm a host season. I'm kind of like,

684
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 3: keep going because you only got about twenty minutes, so

685
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 3: this like twenty minutes left, and I just I don't,

686
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 3: I don't know, I just don't have it in me anymore.

687
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 3: I feel like, do you feel like you can still

688
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 3: do some helling, like if you're really like hypothetically, if

689
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 3: you weren't in a relationship, and like, I mean, I'm

690
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 3: sure we'd still be doing it, but like if we

691
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 3: were single.

692
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 2: We'd be hoeing. What do you mean w'd be I

693
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 2: mean we were we would be intentionally hoeing, but we'd

694
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 2: be dating and having some not maybe not casual sex

695
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 2: because I don't. I think even before this relationship, and

696
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 2: even before the relationship that I was in, before, I

697
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 2: was already being more intentional about my partners and what

698
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 2: I was doing. So it's a different type of hoeing.

699
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: It's a more responsible, grown up hoeing. But I would

700
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 2: revert to like a who that? But I think that

701
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,239
Speaker 2: I would if would I have a drunken night one

702
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 2: today and you know, like maybe wake up next to

703
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 2: someone I don't that isn't gonna be my forever. Maybe

704
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna take that off the table,

705
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 2: But am I gonna go to Vegas and like fuck

706
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 2: a stripper by accident? Probably not? Oh my god, speaking

707
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 2: of strippers and fucking by accident.

708
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 3: Oh what I thought Rico wasn't going to be available,

709
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 3: But he's available me.

710
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, not oh no, oh no?

711
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 4: But oh my god, put the hat on.

712
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 2: Hurry. Orlando edited this out. Not no, you better else

713
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 2: you're fired. It was like that Girl show. Why did

714
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 2: it slide off like that? This hair's wised you, guys.

715
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 2: Mila has I'm at the studio this morning, and she

716
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 2: told me she's gonna be like, yeah, yeah, I'd be

717
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 2: there around ten fifteen. It's like eleven. I'm like, where

718
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 2: are you. I'm here. She's like, I'm having a bad

719
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 2: hair day. I just put a wig and a hat on.

720
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 2: And then she came in and then she took this

721
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 2: wig off. You don't have to do that to yourself.

722
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm not. I was like, oh, I grew

723
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 2: up my hair. The way you keep combing this wig

724
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 2: as if it's yours.

725
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 3: I think I'm going to move into my wig era.

726
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 3: I'm having a good time. I'm gonna name all of them.

727
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 3: This is my favorite wig from ten years ago.

728
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 2: But I just want you to know one side is

729
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 2: very long because you keep combing back. Okay, you keep

730
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 2: combing one side, bitch. I told you it was December

731
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 2: thirty second.

732
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 3: Okay, December thirty second is as good as I can do.

733
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 2: Okay, can you comb the other side out? More things?

734
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 3: You're ruining my chances of having a bachelorette honus. Okay,

735
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 3: but you know what, I do have a question for

736
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 3: the listeners or for the bachelorette hose whatever. Where is

737
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 3: a good destination for women to get dick?

738
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 2: Dominican Republic, Puerto Rico, the Jamaica. The yard men are

739
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 2: kind of there's not all of them are like that.

740
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 2: I think it's not every single one waxes their eyebrows.

741
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 2: There's some like rough poppies out there too, Okay, but

742
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 2: I think the rough popus. They're also getting other Caribbean

743
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: islands besides Jamaica.

744
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 3: When I went to Turks, I didn't see that many

745
00:33:58,680 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 3: fine men.

746
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no, which one you're not?

747
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 2: Which ones? When I went to say with the kids,

748
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 2: please send Aguilla, Anguila has fine man. That's awesome there.

749
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 3: I've always wanted to go to Anguila. I ever sent

750
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 3: to Janet said, you know, you decided to have your

751
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 3: Bachelor red in Vegas, so I'm having to God, this

752
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 3: is getting expensive.

753
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:24,760
Speaker 2: Don't worry. It's not gonna be for eight to ten months.

754
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,919
Speaker 2: You're having Okay, got it? But maybe not because I can't.

755
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 3: I don't even have I don't have anything on the table.

756
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,280
Speaker 3: I mean, Orlando, better not cheat on me in Vegas

757
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 3: while I'm we're sharing a room.

758
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 2: That well, what are you cheating if you guys were

759
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 2: agreeing to it. I don't come lay with me after

760
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,800
Speaker 2: you lay with the whore. Okay. Anyway, we go to

761
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 2: Bunny Rich speaking of horror stories, okay, whores, we have

762
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 2: a horror story. And speaking of which, guys, is twenty

763
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 2: twenty six. I really need you to step up your

764
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 2: whole games or just recall your former whole life and

765
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 2: write in about it. It doesn't have to be you.

766
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 3: Notice that the healing it really makes you cloud your hoading.

767
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 2: Everyone here that's been here for so long is healed

768
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 2: so much. I need you to go back, not go

769
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 2: back like actually, but like go back in your memory

770
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 2: and recount those days when you were still outside and

771
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 2: send them in because people they're still newer people here

772
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 2: that are on the beginning of their healing journey, and

773
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 2: they need the horror stories. Okay, and so do I.

774
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 2: So here's a horror story. My boyfriend and I had

775
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:32,800
Speaker 2: a threesome with a girl we met off Tinder. Me too, Actually, no,

776
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: I was the girlfriend. Actually I was the unicortn never mind. Okay,

777
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 2: my boyfriend and I had a threesome with a girl

778
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 2: we met off Tender. Now, it took a while, took

779
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,360
Speaker 2: a while of convincing and trust building for me to

780
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 2: agree and become okay with the idea of a threesome.

781
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 2: I admit that I haven't had the best self esteem

782
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 2: and I get jealous pretty easily. So it was a

783
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 2: lot of self reflection, self love, and trust in our

784
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 2: relationship and trust in him for me to proceed with

785
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 2: searching for a third Surprisingly, I got pretty into it

786
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 2: once we started getting matches. I was flattered. So many

787
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 2: beautiful women thought I was attractive. More and more I

788
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 2: got the idea, got into the idea and even thought

789
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:08,839
Speaker 2: it was hot. But in the back of my mind,

790
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 2: I was always nervous of seeing the moment he penetrates

791
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,839
Speaker 2: someone else, would I flip out, get extremely jealous cry.

792
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 2: I didn't know, but the idea of it bothered me

793
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 2: less and less and even turned me on sometimes. And

794
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 2: he loved that I was getting into it, saying that

795
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,800
Speaker 2: it made me even more attractive to him. Anyway, I

796
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 2: managed to set up a date with this girl. She

797
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 2: and I had mashed on Tinder.

798
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:32,399
Speaker 3: And fla by the way, what oh, you liking girls

799
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 3: is really making me more attracted to you.

800
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,360
Speaker 2: I mean, you're more attractive now that. Maybe it's just

801
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 2: like the trust Maybe he feels more trustworthy. I mean,

802
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 2: I see, I see where that. I see why you

803
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 2: could see that. So she and I matched. She and

804
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,800
Speaker 2: I mashed on Tinder and had been chatting already, and

805
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 2: so I already knew some things about her that he didn't.

806
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,359
Speaker 2: I let them get acquainted and I thought we were

807
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 2: having a great time. It ends up with her back

808
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 2: at my place and we're having the threesome. I got

809
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 2: super into it, as it was my first time with

810
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 2: the girl. After the act, he got moody left the

811
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 2: room and so I followed him. He had said I

812
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 2: tried to get her to like me more by joking

813
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 2: at his expense and throwing him under the bus. She

814
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 2: had been teasing him all night, asking me why I

815
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 2: was with him, etc. And I was just laughing it

816
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 2: off because I thought we were just having a goofy

817
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 2: and good time. He said I didn't stand up for

818
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 2: him once. Then when we were having sex, I paid

819
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 2: ninety percent of my attention on her, and he felt

820
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 2: like he was the third partner. The overall experience for

821
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: him has been ruined, As he said, he felt like

822
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 2: a third wheel and a boy toy. I don't know

823
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 2: what to do. He thinks my actions have been highly

824
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:46,240
Speaker 2: inconsiderate to him and are more mortally mortally insulting, like deathly.

825
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 2: I keep apologizing because I think I should have stood

826
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 2: up for him or asked her to tone down the jokes.

827
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,280
Speaker 2: But I genuinely don't know what I did wrong. During sex,

828
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,439
Speaker 2: I thought we wanted to focus on her so she'd

829
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 2: have a good time and want to see us again.

830
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,320
Speaker 2: I'm so lost, so confused, and so heartbroken that he

831
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 2: thinks I would do this to him on purpose. What

832
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: should I do? What should she do? Should I agon

833
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 2: with a new nigga or with him? I mean it

834
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 2: was a new bitch. He obviously wanted it, and you

835
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 2: want it and now take it. Do you think he's wrong?

836
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:15,840
Speaker 4: You know what?

837
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 3: I think it's an interesting topic because I actually asked

838
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 3: Orlanda recently like, oh if I if I had sex

839
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 3: with one of my friends without you, would you be bothered?

840
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 2: And he was like would you?

841
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:29,800
Speaker 3: He basically said, if I had sex with one of

842
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 3: your friends, would you be bothered? I was like, not

843
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 3: the same thing, And I thought, I thought that for men,

844
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,759
Speaker 3: like women having sex is like oh yeah, hat just

845
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 3: send me a picture, but don't.

846
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 2: I don't didn't, I don't guess, guess not. That's what

847
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 2: I thought too, I was. I actually came the same thing.

848
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 2: I said, So if I had sex with a girl

849
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 2: and I told you about it later or like I've

850
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 2: had to be like whoa, like, would you be mad?

851
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 2: And he was like you cheated on me? And I

852
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 2: was like, really that's a nice say. I was like, really,

853
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:00,399
Speaker 2: this is a fantasy even And then I I'd made

854
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:01,799
Speaker 2: out with one of our friends and.

855
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 3: BALI and I told him and he didn't really say anything,

856
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 3: but I was like, so were you mad about Like

857
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 3: He's like, like you did?

858
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 2: And I was like, really, so you cared about that.

859
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 3: I just I don't know that that what didn't equate

860
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 3: the same because like, because you're not you don't actually

861
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 3: care about being with a woman, So it's not like

862
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 3: there's a likelihood of you leaving him for a woman.

863
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,800
Speaker 3: Yeah and yeah, and I think there's like a culture

864
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 3: of women where you're like, ah, I'm drunk, okay, bye,

865
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 3: you know it's like a handshake. But yeah, I also

866
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 3: think I don't know's that's a difficult thing. I feel

867
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 3: like it's like for me, maybe like having sex with

868
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 3: the woman like solo would like solidify something more for

869
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 3: me where I'm like okay when we like brought in

870
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 3: the guy wouldn't be so.

871
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 2: Confusing. I don't know.

872
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 3: I can only focus on one person at a time.

873
00:39:58,160 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 3: My mind is not set up that way.

874
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 2: I think think this was a good learning lesson for that.

875
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 3: I think the Dirty the Dating app is a good option.

876
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 3: I don't think like doing it with somebody that you had,

877
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 3: like your your friend is like, is is sustainable? Mm hmm,

878
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 3: because then like I have to see you that I'm

879
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 3: thinking about it, and then you're gonna think it's expected,

880
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 3: and then I'm just like and.

881
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 2: Then yeah, then we can't hang out casually. Yeah, like

882
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 2: I gave you a drink and now you think it's popping.

883
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 2: Now we're popping and I just really wanted to have

884
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 2: a glass of wine. Bitch, sits fucked down.

885
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 3: And the same with the nigga, Like you sit the

886
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 3: fuck down. You said, everybody said the fuck down. So

887
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 3: in order if everybody shit the fuck down without any

888
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 3: having any expectations, call a bitch from tender or maybe

889
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 3: you need to have like a like a code word

890
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 3: for every like that it's tonight's the night, then everybody's waiting.

891
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 2: What if you say the code robot mistake? The code

892
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 2: word has to be something so outlandish, full a bit random. Yeah, yeah,

893
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 2: what do you think? Do you think that? I think

894
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 2: they just didn't have their rules and regulations ironed out,

895
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 2: or maybe he just wasn't really ready. He thought he

896
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 2: was and he wasn't. I don't think she really did

897
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 2: anything wrong. I can understand, like she probably doesn't know

898
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 2: how to deal with a woman in that way, and

899
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 2: so the girl probably was was maybe making jokes and

900
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 2: it made him feel weird. And they're supposed to be

901
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 2: like a pack together, like they're in this together, and

902
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 2: so therefore he probably wanted to feel like they're moving together,

903
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 2: and it felt like they were like having their little

904
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 2: girl time and he was left out. But I think

905
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 2: if you're a man in an uneven like dynamic like that,

906
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,360
Speaker 2: you have to be prepared for that to happen. Like

907
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,880
Speaker 2: it's already imbalanced. It's three and there's two women and

908
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 2: one guy. That's what I will say. I don't think

909
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,280
Speaker 2: three is a good number.

910
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 3: I don't know how three sumes got popular, but I

911
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 3: don't think it's sustainable.

912
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 2: Because four is like, that's a lot of work. You

913
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 2: gotta find that other person.

914
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 3: It's even you can just swap and he swap hit

915
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:56,799
Speaker 3: it boobe. It's so like four is way more sustainable

916
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 3: because you're not you don't have time to think so much.

917
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 3: I put one dick in one pussy at the time,

918
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 3: so some pussies are going to be empty. It's just

919
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:09,320
Speaker 3: it's it's very I think four. That's why I get swingers.

920
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 3: I'm not a swinger, but I get them because it

921
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 3: makes more sense.

922
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 2: Just swappy, swap.

923
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 3: Nobody has time to act crazy because you've got a

924
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 3: dick in your mouth. Yeah, you know, have you ever

925
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 3: done four No, No, I haven't. But you're like, you're

926
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 3: only like you're jealous sometimes.

927
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: You had threesomes. I've never been jealous in a threesome dynamic.

928
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 2: Have you ever had a three? Little voyeur? So I

929
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 2: really enjoy watching you only had you.

930
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 3: Only had a three some in the relationship with the

931
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: last guy. Yeah, well we've definitely had our share of experiences. Yeah,

932
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 3: and maybe he should changes. Maybe next week I'll be

933
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 3: threesome queen.

934
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,800
Speaker 2: But no, if you've been kind of in this space

935
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 2: for a while now, you've been a retired lesbian publicly

936
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:57,280
Speaker 2: for a minute.

937
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,839
Speaker 3: But I went to Atlanta like not that, like after

938
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 3: i'd retired, and like saw an ex girlfriend and we

939
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 3: had sex and it was great and she still got

940
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 3: on my nerves. I like, I'm not lesbian, but that

941
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 3: was fun.

942
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 2: But you know, the other day, like Marie and not

943
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 2: the other day, like maybe two or three weeks ago,

944
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 2: I went to lunch with this girl from the internet

945
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 2: that I got lunch with the same attractive Yeah, she's

946
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 2: like a designer and we've chatted here and there, and

947
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 2: I was like, let's get lunch. And I was telling

948
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 2: you she can I was like, I have a crush

949
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 2: on the squad. I think she's really cute. I'm gonna

950
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,320
Speaker 2: go have lunch with her and see what who she is.

951
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 2: And I was like and he was like okay, and

952
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:36,439
Speaker 2: he showed her. Do you think she's cute and he's like, yeah,

953
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 2: she's cool.

954
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 3: Like all right, so not see your religious man participating

955
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 3: in That's why he's not a religious man.

956
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:47,399
Speaker 2: He's a spiritual man. You said that saying what I said,

957
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: religious person person? Okay, Sorry, I was kidding. Uh he wait.

958
00:43:56,320 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 2: So we went to lunch and we were talking and

959
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I was there not to

960
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 2: like be a creep. I wanted I genuinely wanted to

961
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 2: get to know her because she's really talented.

962
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 4: Does a creep?

963
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:12,240
Speaker 2: And then she fucking ruined it. Why we were just talking,

964
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 2: We're having a great time, and then out of nowhere,

965
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 2: she's like, yeah, so tell me about beauty blender and

966
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 2: I was like, what about it? And she's like, I

967
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 2: really think that we should partner. I really think that

968
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 2: we could collaborate. Can I send you a deck? I

969
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 2: would I would love to talk about sponsorship. And then

970
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 2: I was like, bitch, are you fucking serious? Right now,

971
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to fuck you. What the fuck are you

972
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 2: talking about?

973
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 4: So you guys bitch now. I was like okay, and

974
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 4: then she's then whatever, Like I.

975
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 3: Did not really talk to raft. I mean, I said, hey,

976
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 3: thanks for lunch. Is that's the one I text you?

977
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 3: And you're I kept saying who are you with? And

978
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 3: you kept saying here, And I was like, who the

979
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 3: fuck is this person?

980
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. Anyway, she sent me the deck like

981
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 2: a week two weeks ago, and it was like first

982
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 2: package five thousand, second package twenty thousand, third fifty thousand.

983
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 2: I'm like, bitch, what the fuck fifty? First of all,

984
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 2: kind of influencer. I'm like, first of all, no, she whatever,

985
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 2: it's not even her, it's like whatever. I was just like,

986
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 2: first of all, this is not how you do business.

987
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 2: You like, at least pretend you want to be my friend,

988
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 2: Like at least we let's go to lunch three times.

989
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 2: Pretend time. I forget so that you got to pretend

990
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 2: hard you like, be my friend three times before you

991
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 2: start asking me for shit, bitch, Like I was gonna

992
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 2: pretend to be your friends before I started wanting to

993
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 2: eat your pussy. Duh. Hello God, ha ha.

994
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 3: So yeah, so she's not a prospect anymore because she

995
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 3: tried to say no.

996
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 2: She runed it for me.

997
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 3: She was a user, and you are observer of beauty,

998
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:56,399
Speaker 3: not an observer of beauty. Yeah, gosh, maybe an orgy,

999
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 3: Yeah that.

1000
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,040
Speaker 2: Seems I mean I could see why an urged orgy

1001
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 2: could be like low steaks, just everybody fuck it, go crazy.

1002
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 2: I don't want everybody like I'm not now, it has

1003
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 2: to be vetting. There'd be some vetting. Let me see,

1004
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 2: let me see your eyes, let me see your dick,

1005
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 2: let me see what's going turn around. My ideal orgy

1006
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 2: would be like maybe ten people.

1007
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 3: They would have to be like dinner, let's have dinner,

1008
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 3: let's like chat, let's like have dinner, and then like

1009
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 3: do a chair swop, so everybody has to sit next

1010
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 3: to each other differently, like maybe feed each other and

1011
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 3: then be like smoke weeds that we're laughing, and then

1012
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 3: like it has to be sexy like a lot of.

1013
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 2: These maybe orders. I don't want a full meal, like

1014
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 2: a maybe a steak in my stomach, and then we're

1015
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 2: gonna have an orgy, like I'm gonna go to sleep

1016
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 2: if we're gonna get tired that sex party we had.

1017
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 2: That's true, you're old. Can we just have snacks and

1018
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 2: molly water? Like, I don't know about full dinners. All

1019
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 2: water would be good. Actually, champagne maybe right? I want

1020
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,919
Speaker 2: I want to eat a full meal. Oh she's gonna

1021
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 2: be ready and activated after eating a cow half a cow,

1022
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: and I would be tired. But I just want time.

1023
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 2: I want time to like flirt.

1024
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 3: I want time to like get to know you think

1025
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 3: you're attractive, Like I need to know you're not dumb.

1026
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 3: But then also after one hour of conversation, most people

1027
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 3: are kind of dumb, which is problematic too.

1028
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, there's no way you're gonna know for sure

1029
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:26,279
Speaker 2: they're not dumb.

1030
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 3: I miss say biosexual, they don't fucking oh boy, I do,

1031
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 3: like I want to know that you're smart and you

1032
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 3: don't say anything's fucking stupid. Some maytimes I've found someone

1033
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 3: super attractive and then they say something fucking stupid and

1034
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 3: I was like, oh that's over.

1035
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 2: You're dumb. You can't put it.

1036
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 3: Let a dumb dick go, and you're smart. Pussy to

1037
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 3: bring down your pussy cue, but.

1038
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 2: Just do it every day. It's not the pussy cue.

1039
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 3: Is your pussy c low?

1040
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 2: It's your pussy cue go lo Are you letting dumb

1041
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 2: niggas put their come in you? Their low IQ penis

1042
00:47:58,560 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 2: inside of.

1043
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 3: Your called mela, I can bring your pissy que up.

1044
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 2: Maybe look at your roster.

1045
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 3: Ask them these five questions before proceeding instead the survey.

1046
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 3: So basically, our lesbian action in twenty twenty six may

1047
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 3: be low unless there's mully water and ten to five

1048
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 3: tell you know.

1049
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 2: How it's going. Maybe I'll join Field this week and

1050
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 2: see what's going on over there, Just see what's happening.

1051
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 2: I am dying if they've updated their their platform capabilities,

1052
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 2: because like the last time I was on there, you

1053
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 2: could like make a profile with your partner or no,

1054
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: you could make a profile and then link your partners together.

1055
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 2: However you weren't. You wouldn't get messages together, so your

1056
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 2: partner could still be fucking being a dog and having

1057
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 2: separate messages. Like the whole point was like we're doing

1058
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 2: this together. And then once so that when that happened

1059
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 2: and I was with him, I was like, I don't

1060
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,479
Speaker 2: this is not good. This you're cheating on me on Field.

1061
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:54,720
Speaker 2: I told Orlando.

1062
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 3: I was like I I've been like spiraling a little

1063
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 3: bit because I think this full movie was in cancer.

1064
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 3: I'm a cancer, a lot of water, I'm going to

1065
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 3: Vegas on Saturday. It's like shit's getting real. And I

1066
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 3: was like, I just want you to know I'm not

1067
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 3: in the lifestyle. I'm not lifestyle ad Jason. I'm maybe

1068
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 3: dieing lifestyle. I don't I need you to know this

1069
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 3: is not.

1070
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 2: It won't work for me. He's like, I know what

1071
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 2: won't work for you.

1072
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 3: I was not, like, I don't want him to have

1073
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 3: the expectation that like, in the future, I'm gonna evolve

1074
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 3: and like be a threesome queen and I'm gonna be

1075
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 3: totally open and like down with the ships.

1076
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 2: Like I don't want that to be.

1077
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 3: I want to be like, oh, she's she's chirpping now,

1078
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 3: but like in one to three years, we're gonna get

1079
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 3: there and I'm gonna have she'd bring in all the

1080
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 3: pussy for me. We're gonna have all three somes. I

1081
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 3: didn't want him to ever have the expectation because I

1082
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 3: know that I was a previous lesbian and so there's

1083
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 3: probably hope, but there's not, And so I just want

1084
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 3: him to like be very clear that if that's not

1085
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 3: the lifestyle that you choose, you.

1086
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 2: Try to back out of your marriage. I just want

1087
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 2: to be clear, Orlando, before we before you marry me,

1088
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 2: this is one thing that you must know. I am

1089
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,400
Speaker 2: not lifestyle of jacent. I know that I made it

1090
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:06,919
Speaker 2: on Amazon, LGBTQ plus highly rated books with good mom's.

1091
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 2: Good mom's got to make you bad choices. However, I

1092
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 2: know that we were in the Rolling Stone article and

1093
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 2: they called us lifestyle adjacent. They called us, I don't know, freaks.

1094
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,799
Speaker 2: They call us freak. Oh my god, forever and ever

1095
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 2: in Rolling Stone magazine, We're gonna be God. We did

1096
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 2: a print and frame it. Actually, but do you still

1097
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 2: love me and you don't want to marry me?

1098
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 3: A part of me is kind of like testy that way.

1099
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:36,839
Speaker 3: I kind of want to sow everything in the fire.

1100
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 3: And you say, okay, never mind. I'm like, okay, I

1101
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 3: knew you're gonna say that. Never mind.

1102
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:42,800
Speaker 2: You want to get married because I'm not going to

1103
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 2: have a threesome in two years. Okay. Imagine imagine if

1104
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 2: he's like, Okay, yeah, I can't do this. I don't know.

1105
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,880
Speaker 2: Everybody's laughing. I don't know it's so funny because it's

1106
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 2: fucking ridiculous. He's obsessed with you.

1107
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 3: I found my man if I'm in sex party, like

1108
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 3: I found him in sex. I found him at a

1109
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 3: sex podcast. I saw him at a sex party. I

1110
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 3: told you after that one sex party. I was like, yeah,

1111
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 3: we're just friends. It's not gonna work. He's a little

1112
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 3: bit and he's a lot of attention. He's doing too much.

1113
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 2: I don't like it. It's not my life.

1114
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 3: And then he weaseled his way in and so I

1115
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 3: had to be clear. I know, I know, I know

1116
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 3: you saw me in the podcast and I looked really

1117
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 3: free and open, but I was like, I want to

1118
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 3: be open, but I'm not. I was like, I know

1119
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 3: you think I'm really cool and open, but i'm not.

1120
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,359
Speaker 2: And then he laughed, just like he's laughing right now.

1121
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 2: It's okay. I was like, I'm cool, but I'm just

1122
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 2: not that cool. If anything is gonna be the opposite,

1123
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 2: it's like leers down the line. You're gonna be like

1124
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 2: I'm ready, babe, and he's gonna be like no, and

1125
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 2: then you're gonna be like, so you don't love me.

1126
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 2: I told him, you want a divorce.

1127
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 3: I told him in the beginning before when we were

1128
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 3: open and long distance and I was tolerating it because

1129
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 3: it was long distance and it was easier. I told him,

1130
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 3: if you want to go monoga now, don't ever ask

1131
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 3: me to go open again, because I'm probably not gonna

1132
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 3: be able to revert if either stay like this and

1133
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 3: I can get my get my shit up, or when

1134
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 3: we go monogamous, I'm gonna just not gonna work. I'm

1135
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 3: just gonna tell you right now, I'm jealousy. And he

1136
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 3: said he might be monogamous.

1137
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 2: So here we are.

1138
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 3: So you have about five more days to figure it

1139
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 3: out to give me your final answer on Friday.

1140
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 2: You sidn't you sidn't think about it at work? Yeah,

1141
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 2: you sit with that decision, Orlando, you just sit there

1142
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 2: and really think about it. You heard me, Don't you

1143
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 2: fuck with my friend because she's not gonna be your

1144
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 2: threesome queen. Okay, not a threesome queen. She is an

1145
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:43,399
Speaker 2: monogamous whore.

1146
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,800
Speaker 3: And that's another thing. We have so much dirty, nasty, filthy,

1147
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:53,560
Speaker 3: freaky sex. Sometimes the thought of having like another person there,

1148
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 3: even when we have it's like wrap this up, let's

1149
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 3: get freaky. We can't be freaky in front of them.

1150
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 2: We don't know that them out. Hey, it's three o'clock.

1151
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 3: This has been fun, but we got to go on

1152
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 3: to level ten. We're approaching level ten hours and we

1153
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 3: don't know you like that, so you gotta go. So

1154
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:12,319
Speaker 3: I'm just like, you freaked me out too much.

1155
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 2: You went too far. Now we can't even invite the

1156
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 2: GA general public in. Okay, then you can be the

1157
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 2: activators igniters, and then they get out.

1158
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 3: I'm not good at getting people out. I'm like, oh,

1159
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 3: you feel sad? Do you want to stay here? Come here,

1160
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 3: lay on my bosom.

1161
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 2: You're okay? And then it's like, you don't even want this,

1162
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 2: Why are you doing this? Tell them to get out?

1163
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I just hate this, big fuck you. Yeah,

1164
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 2: you could say say sleep here, s loop in the middle,

1165
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,359
Speaker 2: it's fine. Oh my god.

1166
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 3: I'm working on saying what I mean and meaning what

1167
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 3: I say, so it's not people pleasing. What if Shirkemp

1168
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 3: says he's never going to have any threesomes? Are you

1169
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 3: gonna sell marry marry him? Are you the Orlando in

1170
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:57,439
Speaker 3: your relationship?

1171
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,239
Speaker 2: Well no, that's not the case. But if he did

1172
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 2: say that we couldn't have any threesomes. That would be

1173
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 2: a problem for me really yeah, not because I'm like

1174
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 2: a threesome queen, but like I need I need the

1175
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 2: option of exploration for sure. And I like women not

1176
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 2: all the time. Obviously I can go years without them,

1177
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,760
Speaker 2: but I don't want to like feel like I'm cheating

1178
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 2: on you if I see a woman out and I

1179
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 2: want to sleep with her and you can be there.

1180
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:29,760
Speaker 2: So no, that's not he said. I'm not a threesome

1181
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 2: king and he must be a he could be a

1182
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 2: threesome apprentice. I'm not an apprenticeship. He could be yeah,

1183
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 2: a prince or what's the apprentice.

1184
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:45,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1185
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 2: No, I definitely need sexual exploration, like I can't just no, no,

1186
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 2: So twenty twenty six could be the year that we

1187
00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:57,800
Speaker 2: have her threesome.

1188
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:01,160
Speaker 3: Well, go after this, goam Field, hey Field, because we're

1189
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 3: coming back. Yeah, it's not a requirement, but I'm open

1190
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,240
Speaker 3: to it. Maybe I'll go and Field and I'll pretend

1191
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 3: to be open and try.

1192
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 2: Don't do that. I told myself.

1193
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm gonna try harder, I'm gonna dig

1194
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 3: into this insecurity. And then I had to come to

1195
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 3: the point like it's really not about insecurity. It's literally

1196
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:18,360
Speaker 3: about it's like I know how my brain works, and

1197
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 3: I know how it like spirals, and I'm like in

1198
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:25,280
Speaker 3: order to save everyone for me, and like my my body,

1199
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:29,879
Speaker 3: like my nervous system immediately goes into like, well.

1200
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 2: Then don't do that to yourself. I know I can't

1201
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 2: handle it. You don't need to do that. No, don't,

1202
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 2: please don't join field. You can just look on mine. Fine, anyway,

1203
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 2: did you make any bad choices this week? Bad mom?

1204
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 2: Not a bad mom, but a bad mom. I'm so good.

1205
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 3: This January thinking that I can be a threesome queen

1206
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 3: and I'm not.

1207
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 2: I tried to be a three some queen. This I'm

1208
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:08,879
Speaker 2: just not. I just I just my head doesn't work

1209
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 2: that way. But I can't do it. That's your bad choice,

1210
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 2: going against myself. But I know it's not in me.

1211
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 2: I know it's not. I just have to accept it.

1212
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 2: Even if I want to be cool and open and that. Yeah,

1213
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 2: I feel that.

1214
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 3: I'm a solo, cool and open person, not in a relationship.

1215
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:29,760
Speaker 3: And then I'm about to like about to get married,

1216
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:32,879
Speaker 3: and it's like it's just my mind doesn't.

1217
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 2: Work that way. Yeah, I mean I think you're a

1218
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 2: probably you're in a season of like create, like consecrating

1219
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 2: your relationship. It doesn't feel probably like a third is

1220
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 2: part of the consecration.

1221
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 3: It's just not in alignment. And again, I don't want

1222
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 3: to think that I'm gonna be down that's gonna be

1223
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 3: the that's gonna be the intro to our relationship, because

1224
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 3: it's not.

1225
00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 2: You're gonna be mad? Has he shown you this? And

1226
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 2: that's why I mean, I know.

1227
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 3: Him another guy. He would be down. If I was down,

1228
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 3: he'd be down. And well he's a man exactly. And

1229
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:09,239
Speaker 3: that's the thing is like, that's and I maybe you

1230
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:12,799
Speaker 3: can relate to this. I always feel like men are

1231
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 3: gonna lie a little bit. You're gonna always tell you

1232
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 3: what you want to hear. So I'm always like looking

1233
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 3: at their eyes, like even if he says no, I

1234
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 3: don't want that, I'm like, you're why he would if

1235
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 3: I said it? If I lied right now, if I

1236
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 3: did an acting gig and I was like not an

1237
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 3: acting gig, if I was like I'm done and I

1238
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 3: want to do this, he'd be like, okay, game. And

1239
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 3: that's why I just I want to know the truth.

1240
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 3: Do you do this like test, yeah, this is a

1241
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 3: woman thing. Because I test, I mean, I guess, oh,

1242
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 3: yeah you want to do it, And he'd be like, yeah,

1243
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:41,400
Speaker 3: I'm down.

1244
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 2: I'd be like, fuck you, I knew it. You're a

1245
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 2: war I guess sometimes I've I've tested. I don't know

1246
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 2: if I've done a lot of testing, which you came.

1247
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 2: Because I think that he's just honest and he's like

1248
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 2: and he is like obviously a man, but you know

1249
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 2: he's he he's also like he's definitely he's not a cow.

1250
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 2: He's never had a one night stand, Like he's not

1251
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 2: like a casual fucker like that. Like he's a sapio sexual,

1252
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 2: like more than actual, more than I am. You know,

1253
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 2: like the threesome that we have is probably gonna take

1254
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 2: some massaging, Like he's gonna have to really know the

1255
00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 2: bitch really well. I'm gonna be the one that's like,

1256
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 2: she's fine, it's good enough, come on. So you know,

1257
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 2: I don't think it's it's mostly me, but he's he

1258
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 2: should be testing me, not the other way around.

1259
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 3: I think that men are afraid of women because we

1260
00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 3: have such range of our like feelings and how heavier

1261
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 3: feelings can be so they're like kind of like pre

1262
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 3: prepped to be like, no.

1263
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 2: No, I would do that. Are you okay? No, I wouldn't.

1264
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 2: I didn't say. That's not what I meant. No, no, no, no,

1265
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 2: I don't. She's ugly.

1266
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:58,400
Speaker 3: I don't want Bussie, just yours is the most beautiful because, like, validly,

1267
00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 3: they probably see it a lot women crash out. So

1268
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 3: I'm always a little bit like, yeah, oh yeah, you

1269
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 3: want to do that.

1270
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.

1271
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 3: December thirty second. Fuck, I'm working on it, guys, I'm

1272
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 3: working on it.

1273
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god. We had someone write in a Bad

1274
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 2: Choice of the Week. They said that they invited their

1275
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 2: crush to a group outing with their wife to practice

1276
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 2: their poly boundaries. Did the wife know? I asked to

1277
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 2: inquire because it's like, is that why it's bad choice?

1278
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:32,920
Speaker 2: Because you're a liared You're fucking being fucking sneaky.

1279
00:59:33,560 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I just want you to know if

1280
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 3: you invite your crush out with me, I'll slap the

1281
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 3: shit out of you.

1282
00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 2: I'm not crazy. I've done weird stuff like that before.

1283
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 2: I've done weird stuff like that before. I think I do.

1284
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 2: I think I've done that a lot. Actually, like be

1285
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Speaker 2: bringing like my niggas around, like one specific nigga in

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Speaker 2: particular that I know loves me, and but also he

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01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,520
Speaker 2: provides a good environment and fun time. So I just

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Speaker 2: kind of like let it happen because it's just not

1289
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 2: it's just not we're not there anymore like that. But

1290
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 2: I do know that if perhaps I was single, we

1291
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 2: might fuck around and find out. But I've really, I've

1292
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 2: been a lot more intentional in this relationship not to

1293
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 2: do that, because I definitely made my ex like shake

1294
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Speaker 2: his hand. He got us into like a festival one

1295
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 2: time and he was DJing and by in New York

1296
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 2: Bay City rat as you like to call him, like

1297
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Speaker 2: shook his hand and I was like, and him in

1298
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 2: particular because he was so fucking jealous, man can was like.

1299
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Speaker 2: And then also he through my birthday party let me

1300
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 2: or let me have a party. That's because he was cheating.

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01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why niggas are like, don't let me like

1302
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 3: what is his name, Cam Newton, don't let me be

1303
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 3: somewhere and you hay say to somebody in the building

1304
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 3: and I don't know about it, Like nigga, I said

1305
01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 3: to ten of these niggas in this building, there's a

1306
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 3: hundred niggas in here also.

1307
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 2: I mean, i'd like to.

1308
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 3: I'll tell people, but it's just not always realistic. Inviting

1309
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 3: someone is something different, but like someone just being there

1310
01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:08,560
Speaker 3: and it's out of your control.

1311
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:11,480
Speaker 2: Like I'm a grown ass woman. I've fucked and like

1312
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 2: not a whole lot of people in.

1313
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 3: The city, but niggas who fucked me are gonna say

1314
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 3: hi because we don't have any beef because we just fucked.

1315
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 2: I think I've just let like my desire to want

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01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:27,440
Speaker 2: to have a good time supersede respect, Like but I

1317
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 2: wanted to go to the party, but I wanted to

1318
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 2: go to the festival. I mean, but I wanted a

1319
01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 2: table for my birthday.

1320
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Speaker 3: But if you hadn't, or if you had been in

1321
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 3: a relationship where you could have expressed that, like the

1322
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 3: things that I get us in, there's nothing there like it,

1323
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 3: it would have not been a big deal. But because

1324
01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 3: that nigga was overly anxious about it, because he was

1325
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 3: doing funck shit. Because I other tell Orlando, like I've

1326
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 3: been bound with places and I'm like, oh, by the way,

1327
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 3: that guy who just said hydas I hide sex with

1328
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 3: them one time, Like oh okay, yeah, okay, it's random,

1329
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 3: it was five years ago, whatever, you know what I mean.

1330
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 2: It's not that. But does that because he wants to

1331
01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 2: know that because she Keem doesn't want me to he said,

1332
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:02,439
Speaker 2: he doesn't need to know. Like every time we see

1333
01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 2: someone that I've had sex with, he did. It's not

1334
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:06,240
Speaker 2: a requirement that i'd be like, oh, by the way

1335
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 2: I slept with that.

1336
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 3: Most men feel that way, and I sometimes when we're

1337
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 3: an interaction, I feel I don't know, I've just been

1338
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 3: I've been programmed to say something.

1339
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:19,160
Speaker 2: You programmed yourself. And also he's like my friend.

1340
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 3: So I'm not really it's not like I'm warning you

1341
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:23,240
Speaker 3: so you can know. It's that, but also like, oh, yeah,

1342
01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 3: I fucked them. I just remembered, oh my god, flash back.

1343
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 2: You know.

1344
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 3: It's more like I'm just saying it. It's not And

1345
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:34,400
Speaker 3: I don't think that I think that he would want

1346
01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 3: to know. But I don't think if I didn't say

1347
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:36,439
Speaker 3: anything he'd be bothered either.

1348
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 2: I think that sometimes women we overshare because we're scared

1349
01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 2: to get found out, and then we overshare and then

1350
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 2: we regret it or we overshare and that our partners

1351
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 2: are like, well, I really didn't need to fucking know that.

1352
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 3: I overshared in my past. I wouldn't say shit because

1353
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 3: I know you can't handle it. I'm I usually I

1354
01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 3: usually make the decision if you can handle it or not,

1355
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 3: if I see your true colors, because I've been beat

1356
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,760
Speaker 3: and I'm not even harassed and terrorized and by jealous niggas,

1357
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 3: and actually, for the most part, I kind of shut

1358
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:06,840
Speaker 3: the fuck up just because I'm used to being in

1359
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 3: those relationships. I'm like, oh, fuck, I'm not going home.

1360
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 3: I'm making a stop. Like should I call and say

1361
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:13,520
Speaker 3: something like no, just hope he doesn't see my location.

1362
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 3: And it's like, bitch, just say what you're doing because

1363
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 3: you're not in that relationship anymore where you're gonna be

1364
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 3: chastised or accused. So like, I think I have to

1365
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:23,120
Speaker 3: come out of that. But I mean, I understand both ways.

1366
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:26,800
Speaker 3: I want to know, but also Orlando is such a whore.

1367
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 3: It's like that's probably everybody.

1368
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:34,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to know too, but I could understand

1369
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 2: why a man doesn't want to know. I feel like

1370
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 2: a man's reaction or like what he harbors after that

1371
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 2: is different than what a woman harbors. It's not like

1372
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 2: a woman is gonna like analyze the girl, Wonder how

1373
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 2: he fucked her, Wonder what all these different things in comparison,

1374
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 2: where a nigga is not really doing comparing he's like

1375
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna kill him, or like I don't know, there's

1376
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 2: like a different like thing, there's a different psychological response.

1377
01:03:56,960 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 2: I feel like that women have versus what men have

1378
01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:05,600
Speaker 2: when they're given that type of information, And so I

1379
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 2: think that's why a lot of men don't care not

1380
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 2: to know, because it's going to take them out of themselves.

1381
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 3: I'm just going to examine the way you interact with

1382
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:15,680
Speaker 3: that person the whole time, and how she interacts with me,

1383
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 3: and if it's on some fake shit, I'm going to.

1384
01:04:20,200 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 2: Blow up everything. Well on that note, is it, Taro tyme? Yeah?

1385
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 2: Ten of Cups? I like Ten of Cups looks beautiful,

1386
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 2: they look joyous, there's happy children.

1387
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 3: It's about divine love, blissful relationships, harmony alignment. As I

1388
01:04:54,760 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 3: talk about my psychoonists, the ten of Cups embodies happiness,

1389
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 3: joy and emotional contentment, particularly in your relationships and family.

1390
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:06,440
Speaker 3: You have created an abundance of love and happiness in

1391
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:08,440
Speaker 3: your life, and you now share this love with others

1392
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:11,840
Speaker 3: expanding your heart even more. This card often appears when

1393
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 3: you are surrounded by loved ones with whom you share

1394
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 3: powerful and deep connection. You appreciate and support one another,

1395
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 3: and together you help each other reach your highest potential.

1396
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:22,680
Speaker 3: It brings you so much joy to see your loved

1397
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 3: ones succeed and live happily, happy lives.

1398
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:26,920
Speaker 2: The ton of Cups is the.

1399
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 3: Happy family card, suggesting that your family relationships are harmonious

1400
01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 3: and loving. Right now, no one is fighting your cause

1401
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 3: and any tension. All family members are getting along with

1402
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 3: each other and sharing in the love and happiness that

1403
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 3: surrounds you. This card may appear in a reading when

1404
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 3: you're spending more time with family, perhaps on a holiday,

1405
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 3: reunion or event where you can rest and relax together,

1406
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 3: creating fun and happy family memories and strong bonds. It's

1407
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:53,959
Speaker 3: a positive card for romantic relationships and may indicate either

1408
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 3: a new and blissled relationship or long term commitment such

1409
01:05:56,800 --> 01:06:00,640
Speaker 3: as an engagement, marriage, or starting a family together. You

1410
01:06:00,720 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 3: share an everlasting love and may believe that your soulmate's

1411
01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 3: destined to be with one another.

1412
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 2: Oh beautiful, very nice. Yeah, I resonate with that. I've

1413
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 2: been spending a lot of time with family and it

1414
01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 2: feels good. Yeah.

1415
01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 3: The holidays are for home and family. I feel that way.

1416
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 3: Do you have an affirmation for us today?

1417
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 2: Today's affirmation is there's no time. Don't take it up

1418
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:50,520
Speaker 2: a notch in January, bitch, relax. Take that. Don't take

1419
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 2: it up a notch. Relax. Relax. Still, don't take it

1420
01:06:56,840 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 2: up a notch in January, bitch, relax. Be honest with yourself.

1421
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 2: You're not ready. It's okay. I know that you guys

1422
01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 2: have all been seeing. It's the year of the horse

1423
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 2: doesn't actually start till February, so you have some time

1424
01:07:10,600 --> 01:07:12,920
Speaker 2: you're still shedding. It's still the year of the snake

1425
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 2: according to Chinese astrology.

1426
01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 3: Oh really m hm oh I think I did see that.

1427
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 3: February like seventeenth.

1428
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah, so we have till February seventeenth to

1429
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 2: rev up our horse power. O good. Until then, shed

1430
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 2: it all, bitch, I'm going to need about six more

1431
01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:34,520
Speaker 2: weeks and read that. Yeah, I'm I resonate with that.

1432
01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 2: Have a seat, bitch, have a seat. So if you're

1433
01:07:39,520 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 2: listening to this, just relax. Take a few deep breaths today.

1434
01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 2: If you're at work, if you're at home, if you're

1435
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 2: in the bed, whatever you're doing, just chill out. It's okay.

1436
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 2: I know it's the beginning of the year. Maybe take

1437
01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:55,240
Speaker 2: a little Instagram detox if you haven't already. And there's

1438
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:57,200
Speaker 2: a lot of things going on. I'm going to, but

1439
01:07:57,280 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 2: there's always a lot of things going on, and so

1440
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:02,720
Speaker 2: oh you have to protect your peace. You should get

1441
01:08:02,720 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 2: this app I have. It's been really helpful. It's called

1442
01:08:05,560 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 2: be present and just take it slow, but implement something

1443
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:15,840
Speaker 2: in your life that feels good, Like whether that is

1444
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 2: five minutes in the morning before you wake your kids,

1445
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:23,439
Speaker 2: wake up for yourself, Like, just do something to get

1446
01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:28,080
Speaker 2: you ready for February seventeenth, because that bitch is gonna

1447
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:30,240
Speaker 2: pop up out of nowhere. And then you be like, oh,

1448
01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:32,479
Speaker 2: you're still resting, and then you're gonna feel frazzled and

1449
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 2: suddenly it's marching. You still don't have shit done, and

1450
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:36,559
Speaker 2: you're overwhelmed, and you're back on the internet and you're

1451
01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 2: not doing enough and you're not making enough money and

1452
01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:41,519
Speaker 2: fuck fuck fuck. So just you know, slowly, start to

1453
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:44,519
Speaker 2: implement the things in your life that are going to

1454
01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:46,640
Speaker 2: get you to where you want to be. By the

1455
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 2: end of the year, but slowly.

1456
01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:55,840
Speaker 3: Slow rituals, small alters alter your life slightly each day.

1457
01:08:56,560 --> 01:09:04,599
Speaker 2: Gently. Yeah, and if you are looking for a place

1458
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:08,200
Speaker 2: to implement these things, check out the Goodbye Retreat. We

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Speaker 2: have retreat offerings for you in twenty twenty six. Our

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01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 2: to new as you lose. But we do have two

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Speaker 2: other retreats in Costa Rica, our favorite place on the

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01:09:22,200 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 2: whole motherfucking planet. We have our first Mommy and Me

1464
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Speaker 2: Retreat happening in July, and then we have, of course,

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01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 2: are All Women's Retreat, also happening in July, both in

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Speaker 2: Costa Rica, both amazing, both relaxing, both healing, and just

1467
01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 2: You're gonna come meet your tribe, You're gonna meet your sister,

1468
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 2: You're gonna hang out with us and regulate your nervous system,

1469
01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 2: get served, and not have to worry about a motherfucking thing. Amen.

1470
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:56,680
Speaker 2: So anyway, happy New Year, rate and review this episode.

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Speaker 2: We love you and bye bye jes Yeah, I'm living

1472
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:05,559
Speaker 2: so good. Can't you tell? I went through a drought.

1473
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:07,599
Speaker 2: That's until I found out well may might have been

1474
01:10:07,680 --> 01:10:09,160
Speaker 2: known Earth. I used to be broken.

1475
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:10,640
Speaker 1: Hell Now I got the blues in.

1476
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 2: To like Beyonce Jasell throat shot or pop in his car.

1477
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:16,320
Speaker 3: We're in her voices patriarch and kept it in the

1478
01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 3: box to it's fotis.

1479
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 2: Women put the pee and powers, so it's pointless. They

1480
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,719
Speaker 2: want me to be good, so I make bad choices.

1481
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:25,400
Speaker 2: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

1482
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 2: It he's in on the cannabis in their bathbon walked

1483
01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 2: in Bosts Capp and I blew his cat boss hot dog.

1484
01:10:31,439 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 2: Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie and no

1485
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 2: waisted straight to it like a dollar sign. Mother, rent

1486
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 2: the lover when to it is like a water someone

1487
01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:41,320
Speaker 2: where you're renting winter essential will when the summertime. I

1488
01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 2: do what doll ain't know when that needs a running

1489
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:43,599
Speaker 2: by