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Speaker 1: Okayop, my boyfriend secretly got tested after a bachelor party

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Speaker 1: in Mexico.

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Speaker 2: What, bro, someone's cheating.

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Speaker 1: Not a good look. I'm just feeling defeated after just

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Speaker 1: discovering that my boyfriend of four years secretly got tested

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Speaker 1: just a week after returning home from a bachelor party

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Speaker 1: in Mexico with his guy friends.

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Speaker 2: She's the boys went wild.

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Speaker 1: I oh, it's not good. And also she adds that

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Speaker 1: I've never actually met them except for one guy that

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Speaker 1: I know just not well.

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Speaker 2: See, that's actually even more sketchy because you don't know

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Speaker 2: how like fed up these guys are exactly like it

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Speaker 2: could be a bunch of frat dudes.

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Speaker 1: Just for some relationship context. Our relationship has zero cheating

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Speaker 1: scandals and has been really good thus.

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Speaker 2: Far, zero cheating scandals that you know of that you know.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, and we were even recently talking about taking the

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Speaker 1: next steps towards marriage. So well, obviously it's a bachelor party. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so it's like, dude, this is.

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Speaker 2: I think it was someone else's bad party.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you're probably right, man, that's a misleading title that

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Speaker 1: should be clarified. Additional relationship con come on. Anyways, my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend and I just checked the mail together and there

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Speaker 1: was a bill under his name from a doctor's office.

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Speaker 1: I asked him if he had been to the doctor's

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Speaker 1: office recently, to which he replied, no. It seems fishy, suspicious,

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Speaker 1: and it details a full panel test for down there

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Speaker 1: that he was charged for. Immediate red flags are going

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Speaker 1: up in my head and he keeps denying ever even

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Speaker 1: having done one. So he won't even admit to it.

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Speaker 2: Even though you won't admit to this, bro, Like, come on,

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Speaker 2: it got the paperwork, don't leave up. If you're gonna

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Speaker 2: get tested, don't leave a paper trail.

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Speaker 1: But then how are they gonna How are they gonna online?

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Speaker 2: Send it to your email? Bro? I guess, so I

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Speaker 2: get him paper copies? What is this the early two thousands?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this matrix playing in Seinfeld. I then asked him

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Speaker 1: to call the number on the bill if he suspected

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Speaker 1: it was fraudulent. No good idea from OPI calling him out. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He finally comes clean after denying it at least five times,

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Speaker 1: and tells me he got tested and didn't want to

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Speaker 1: tell me because he thought I get too upset. He

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Speaker 1: continues to say that he suspected me of cheating, so

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Speaker 1: he got tested.

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Speaker 2: That's such bullshit, right, that is so much, so whacked.

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Speaker 2: And it's like because he denied it so many times beforehand,

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Speaker 2: that's what's the real.

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Speaker 1: Like at the beginning, well, honestly, I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: tell you, but like, at least you know that that

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Speaker 1: was him denying. It was buying time to.

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Speaker 2: Come up, and a very poor excuse at that.

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Speaker 1: Actually, I mean, it would have been good if it

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Speaker 1: was at the beginning, but yeah, it's still terrible because

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Speaker 1: it also like, not only are you doing this terrible lie,

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Speaker 1: but you're making her feel bad. This just screamed byes

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Speaker 1: to me, because not once has he ever expressed any

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Speaker 1: suspicion towards me. And then I told him, if this

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Speaker 1: was true, he could have told me and I'd have

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Speaker 1: no issue. I'd even go with him to get tested myself.

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Speaker 1: I go on to further look into this test that

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Speaker 1: he received. He booked the appointment right after he came

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Speaker 1: home from his bachelor party trip.

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Speaker 2: Bruh, he is bone and hookers.

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Speaker 1: And then I thought you were saying, like hook line

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Speaker 1: and sinker.

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Speaker 2: You know, he's hooking up with hookers.

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Speaker 1: He's doing some kind of he's hooking the hooker, and

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Speaker 1: he deletes all evidence that he booked the appointment or

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Speaker 1: received results at all.

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Speaker 2: Bro, Yeah, you didn't get the complete trail. But also,

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Speaker 2: why are they freaking sending it to your house?

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Speaker 1: That is a good question. Like a call and like

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Speaker 1: an email is enough. Oh. He goes on to say

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Speaker 1: he denied getting tested even when I had the evidence

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Speaker 1: right in front of me. I mean, thankfully the test

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Speaker 1: came out all negative.

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Speaker 2: That's good, thank you.

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Speaker 1: But still I have an awful gut feeling that he cheated.

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Speaker 1: This cannot be coincidental. I'm trying to be rational, but

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Speaker 1: this screams infidelity to me. Despite his denial, anybody out

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Speaker 1: there that can reason this and any other way than

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Speaker 1: him cheating? Nah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, he cheated.

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Speaker 1: I got nothing, dude.

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Speaker 2: That is damning. Coming back from a bachelor party and

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Speaker 2: getting tested like some frisky business happened wherever he was.

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Speaker 1: And his reaction, Yeah, reaction just tells it.

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Speaker 2: All. Everything points to break up with this thirty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's got four years, man.

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Speaker 2: Four years, four long years.

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Speaker 1: Well sorry, you know, Op, while we can't help this situation,

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Speaker 1: there is one thing that everyone could do.

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Speaker 2: Yes, there is one thing, and that is to subscribe.

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Speaker 1: You've made it this far. You've made it this far,

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Speaker 1: the whole thing. We love you, and you should join

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Speaker 1: the subscribe. And with that I think we bid you

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Speaker 1: a do.

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Speaker 2: We bid you a do.

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Speaker 1: See you next time.