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Speaker 1: All right, Thanksgiving? Wow did it come fast this year?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's gonna happen Thanksgiving Thursday. Trust me, it's gonna happen. Well,

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Speaker 1: A lot of people just don't bother you. Let you

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Speaker 1: Call him? Yes, we don't need your mama dressing? Whoa

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Speaker 1: my god? Oh tell me no, Mama, you know we

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Speaker 1: don't need ben. We don't need your mama starting a

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Speaker 1: all right? Come on? Hello? Hello? Who is this Miss Clinton?

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Speaker 1: Who is this this Benjy? I'm colleague? Is miss Purvis there? Um?

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Speaker 1: this this Benjy. This Mama, Mama Lord's nephew. Who is

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Speaker 1: ain't it? Ain't it correct? You? Mama Lord's and Miss Perosis? Okay,

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Speaker 1: trying to give me this pervioce. She's not there. You know,

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Speaker 1: That was not my name, Benjamin, but they called me Benji.

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Speaker 1: I'm still trying to kick out white. You're calling me

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Speaker 1: because she's been making the dressing for ten years, like

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Speaker 1: shouldn't have to make this year. Because we're driving them

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Speaker 1: Let me spot something near my mama gonna make it dressing,

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Speaker 1: you gonna kiss it, and we ain't bringing that home

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Speaker 1: making me ten years? Ain't nobody had been saying nothing

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Speaker 1: we'll see right there. Why why if people don't like

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Speaker 1: You gonna eat it, and we're gonna round behind my name, Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: there ain't nobody to try. That's why I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this here because every dealer you ain't

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Speaker 1: him Floy Blake. That's what we're doing. Please let me

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Speaker 1: She'll stupid because I don't even know she'll come. I can't.

420
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Speaker 1: They sound like you was a baby in the world.

421
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: The Benji bene my love. I don't even know your rap.

422
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: I'm telling you now that playing with you. I'm telling

423
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: you if I hurt my mama feeling it, don't be so.

424
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you all y'all gonna be y'all fell

425
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: down there. But I'm calling me, y'all out one. Let

426
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: me I say something else to you. I wish you would.

427
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what else they were saying? They

428
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: wanted me to tell you this, Glinda, this is nephew.

429
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 1: Call me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your cousin

430
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 1: Sheila got me the frank phone call. You call me, fine,

431
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: you you're about to make me? Said off what they man?

432
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: This same Kimble was say it wasn't gonna be. No,

433
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 1: he made it because I'm gonna have my brother's warmed.

434
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: Then y'all play, but call me Han't give me what

435
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 1: the canculm before I let you go? What is the

436
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 1: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.

437
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Huh yeah, man, I'll do something, Benji. Yeah,

438
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. No coming out more of the Steve

439
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey

440
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Hey, this is Janet, Happy Thanksgiving for my

441
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 1: family to yours and the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Comedy

442
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: Live Fast D Simmer the twenty eighth that's going down Chicago,

443
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: Illinois at the Win Trust Arena, Dion Cole, Sedricty Entertainer,

444
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: DL Hugly, Eddie Griffith and hosted by yours truly nephew Tommy.

445
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: You hear what I said, Win Trust Arena, Chicago, Illinois.

446
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 1: D Simmer twenty eight tickets on sale right now. All right,

447
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: it is time for Junior's truth be toned. Yeah, yeah,

448
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: all right, Sureley, thanksgivings coming up. Yeah, it's almost a

449
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 1: big thing that we have discussed all of the things

450
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: we discussed when people need to brain food. Yeah, what

451
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: time dinners start? Time again coming. We've discussed all the

452
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: one thing we have not discussed what the one thing

453
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: where your ass need to leave? Oh yeah, yeah, we

454
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: have discussed. Now people people don't know when to leave.

455
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: There's time you need to leave. There are statements that

456
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: will be made you need to adhere to and understand, like,

457
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: well that's it. See when you hear that, start getting

458
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: your keys in your hand. He hears some Jane something,

459
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: It's time to go. You can't spend all day head

460
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,239
Speaker 1: dinners start at two. Treat it like a restaurant. How

461
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: long are you staying there? You sit down to two

462
00:29:56,200 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 1: by three thirty? Same way right about. I would never

463
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: have because I would have out the game. Fuck, you

464
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: ain't come up here for the game. You came to eat.

465
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: If you full, If I see you kick off of

466
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: shoot your ass got to go. Let me catch your

467
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: shoe off. Yeah, you ain't staying here all day now.

468
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: My mama tired. She didn't cook that thing, and she

469
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 1: can feed that body. What else can we talk about?

470
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: We discussed everything. We know Walter got out of jail.

471
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: We know Hardy had a hard transplant. We know, yeah,

472
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: we know, we know Melball had another baby. We got

473
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: all this after we come May still having kids, Mail,

474
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: we still have kids? When your name May five have mate?

475
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: Come on, man, your name Meilball? You probably yeah, you

476
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: probably have no, you probably through haven't been anybody that

477
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: name Meilball. The what is the name? Happs to do

478
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 1: with the Steve got a lot to do with your age.

479
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: If your name is Agnes, you probably didn't have you

480
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: You probably got this grazy. But we have covered everything

481
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 1: we can talk about. No, we know Junior went back

482
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 1: into rehab. We got that. Everything is coming. Let's just

483
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: go ahead and go home. We just need you to

484
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: go home. She's through having its Fatrice, Beatrice, Beatrice, beat Odetta.

485
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: It's not having got out of that. I'm giving you

486
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: the names where I could assure you if this is

487
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: your name, you are at an age where you are

488
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 1: beyond child bearing years. So Journal, So Journal is through

489
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: having baby? You want another one? Go ahead? Henrietta, Henrietta.

490
00:31:53,760 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: She through having kids. Henrietta, tudes is this yeah, you know,

491
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: go ahead, Gwen through because she got a fifty two

492
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: year old names see his names. Once you have an

493
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 1: old name, you can quit having babies. If your name

494
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: is Bobara, you're probably through having kids. I'm just saying,

495
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: there ain't nobody named Bob. Weare still having kids, not

496
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 1: Bob have a kid, having a bit through having kids?

497
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: Throtty done. Gladys. Yeah, that's right up there with Agnes. Yeah,

498
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: I'll tell you who through Jackie Els, I'll tell you that.

499
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. We can't always over there. We can't hand

500
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: the more kids. All right, what's this sho with there?

501
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: Carla already said Shirley, Betty, Shirley, Mary, Marjorie all of that. Yeah, Margaret,

502
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: last night, I ain't even sleep in the bed last

503
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: Oh Esther, Steve, you forgot about Esther? Yeah, because Rose

504
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: slept with his last night. I took my shower. Man.

505
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: I was tired of him because I fell asleep in

506
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: my office. So I went up stairs. I took a shower,

507
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: came into the bedroom. Out of my bathroom, put my

508
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: light on on my little phone. Rose in the bed.

509
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: I just turned around wound. Stay. I'm not fitting to

510
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: do this. I don't have her set her damn. Heal

511
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: in my eye at Winton, Steve, when Winton was a

512
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: little many kids, man, they just they sleep bad. I

513
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: was a bad kid. Just gonna where to go. I

514
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 1: gotta go to work. You ain't here sleeping bad from

515
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: your side, right, let them back to your room out

516
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: to damn? Why are you waiting Noah in his band?

517
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: Why are you got to sleep in it? Okay, well

518
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 1: sleep with you. But it hurt it though, Yeah, Papa

519
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:24,800
Speaker 1: won't yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Papa

520
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 1: want to get a little p and E in time.

521
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 1: Yeah that Papa now to you and is a little

522
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: something else to me? Steve? All right, more of this

523
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 1: crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this,

524
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, here's a question, guys.

525
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 1: We're coming up on the holidays. You know you're going

526
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: to be spending money, buying gifts things like that. So

527
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: here's a question. Do you have to discuss if you're

528
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,959
Speaker 1: in a relationship, do you have to discuss high price

529
00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: purchases with your significant other? A? Right, yes, Steve, Do

530
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,919
Speaker 1: you have to discuss purchases with Marjorie. Do you guys

531
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 1: have a budget? I mean we do, of course, you know,

532
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 1: we talk over the uh expensive items. You know, I'm

533
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:22,919
Speaker 1: buying this, and that's Marjorie. I love it. Decision made, Steve,

534
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm about this? Is that? Okay? Well, baby, I was thinking,

535
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: well I ordered it. It's not here yet, so think

536
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: about it. Give her what she wants. Steve. Next week

537
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: is him. Did you decide it's over them? Because because yeah,

538
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: because she could say, well, I could send it back,

539
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,959
Speaker 1: and you know, that's when she gets you. That's the Yeah,

540
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 1: that's when it starts. You don't really want us me

541
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: to have it? Okay, I just tell them it's okay. Yeah,

542
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: they can come on out here and pick it up. Dan,

543
00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: I guess okay, sure, you gotta discuss it. Huh No,

544
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 1: he just don't know. Yeah, that's what he found out

545
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: with Shirley weighing it. He doesn't mind, though, he really

546
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 1: doesn't mind. He doesn't care. He doesn't mind. Shirley trunk loaded,

547
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: she got under her. She took us spare time out

548
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: of her car. That's all that's a shopping being she

549
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: has a flat Oh yeah, she took all that out

550
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: the car yall that storage area. Man. At one time,

551
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: I got to the car and I'm fit to go

552
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: play golf, right, so I get my golf clubs. I

553
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: popped the trunk open to throw the golf clubs in

554
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: the trunk. It's just loaded. Herman's and Roger Vivienne just loaded.

555
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:50,399
Speaker 1: Why do we do that? Though? It is women, Carl,

556
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,479
Speaker 1: I don't know what. I haven't amount because they didn't

557
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,239
Speaker 1: ask me. But I haven't amount. I have to run

558
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: stuff by my husband. I can't just be wilding out

559
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:01,239
Speaker 1: like that. I got will ring. Have you lost your mind?

560
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 1: So the amount is a thousand dollars, I have to

561
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: get permission off from the spin. Oh if it's oh,

562
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 1: if it's a thousand dollars or over, cannot be a

563
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 1: little heard it. Let it be a thousand or one.

564
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 1: And he checks with you on the same thing for

565
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: the same thing. Uh huh, Well that's a good that's good. Yeah,

566
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: whatever works for your family. But I mean, if we

567
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: have these goals that we've said, you just can't be

568
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,320
Speaker 1: wilding all the time. So what you're saying to me

569
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: as a woman, woman to woman, Yes, you don't have

570
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: any shoes hidden in your trunk or in your closet.

571
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying to me? Your girl a llegit?

572
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: I know better. Okay, we love shoes too much in

573
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:51,800
Speaker 1: the bag that I pull this boy right and Stephen

574
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 1: Junior are not buying this at all, knowing that but

575
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars. I do have to place a phone call, Yes,

576
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 1: I do every time though every time. Yes. Now I

577
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 1: may charm him and get what I want, but I

578
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: do have to my wife and ask me about us.

579
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 1: Get your clothes, not one phone call or not now nothing.

580
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: Just all right, We'll be back with more of the

581
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:29,280
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening. All right, everybody,

582
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: the holidays ahead. You're gonna be at your friend's house.

583
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 1: You're gonna be at your parents' house. You're gonna be

584
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 1: sitting around the table and living room whatever, having conversations

585
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: with people and you yourself about stuff you know nothing

586
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:45,399
Speaker 1: about because your memory is shot. Okay, it'll sound something

587
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: like this, Well, we went over to um, let's see,

588
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: we went over to that boy's house and oh my god,

589
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: you know the one with the boy with the dog,

590
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: the dog with the dog, the dog dog. Yeah, he

591
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: got he live over there, you know where the blue church,

592
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 1: the blue church they painted blue is all blue. And yeah, yeah,

593
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: you know what I'm doing. You know what I'm gonna.

594
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: I think, I know, I think. But who were talking about?

595
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 1: Work at the hospital. She's a nurse, yes in turn

596
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: or yes because yeah, yeah, I know his mama wasn't madam.

597
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: I know that's right, that's right, my god, And that's

598
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 1: okay okay. Yeah, on the other end of um which

599
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 1: mccaull is blocked. They live on the side exactly the

600
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 1: block right when you go, you go, you go. I

601
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 1: know who you're talking about because his baby's mama used

602
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: to work with my cousin down on the other side,

603
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: you know, the other side of the bridge. Yeah, but

604
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: had that big dog. What kind of dog was that

605
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: mixed breed? It was a mixed breed though it was

606
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 1: role and something a German shepherd. His brother, His brother

607
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 1: dropped transmissions into yard you talk about, yes, yes, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.

608
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 1: She had a sister that was a prize fighter short

609
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 1: period of time. Yeah yeah. Because because the people there,

610
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: they are people. I think their people were from Alabama

611
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: or someplace Georgia down yeah, down there. Shot. It may

612
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,879
Speaker 1: have been Florida, I don't know, but someplace in the east, someplace, Yeah,

613
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: I remember that. And she did hair on the weekends.

614
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: She did hair. She did in the kitchen, in the kitchen,

615
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 1: in the kachen, and she could bring some hat good

616
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,800
Speaker 1: she I remember that, because she could braid hair and

617
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 1: make pies at the same time. I never right, And

618
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: that's why I never That's why I never bought anything

619
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: from it, because I was always scared I was gonna

620
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: have hair in my mind. She was friends with the

621
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 1: Snagertooth twins. They you know, they grown with missing they

622
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:25,799
Speaker 1: both player just because they twins. Both they both yeah,

623
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: they both at forty and I remember them well. Now

624
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: they were snaggertooth twins, but one was an albino and

625
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: one was done. They looked alike that they didn't look alike.

626
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 1: That's what everybody said, to look alike, don't look alike exactly.

627
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: Man oh man, man. Yeah. He was talking about yeah, yeah,

628
00:41:54,920 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 1: Adam and Adam and Arnold or something like some some

629
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 1: as Yeah, yeah Alexander or something like that. Oh no,

630
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 1: I'm getting mixed up. I'm getting them mixed up with

631
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 1: mister Alexander and his wife. Yes, Lord, where is he?

632
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 1: I ain't seen you remember his wife though, because you

633
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: know what I remember about them the most. They looked

634
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: just the light. They looked just the light. But they

635
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: didn't like a light though. The way you could tell

636
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: them apart was her much ash was thicker than years.

637
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:38,240
Speaker 1: And that's how you could tell him any given Sunday,

638
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 1: on any given Sunday. Yes, oh my god, I know.

639
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: And and there you have it, ladies and gentlemen's conversations

640
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:55,320
Speaker 1: around that makes no damn we never found out. But

641
00:42:55,920 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 1: what it goes on for hours? Yeah? Thanks Giving everybody,

642
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: Every Thanksgiving? We love you. You're listening right now. It's

643
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: time for you, mister Hollywood, to run that prank back

644
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: what you got now. Well, since we was talking about

645
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving earlier, this is a great run back. Catering mistake,

646
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: catering mistake. Let's run. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach Tammy. Please.

647
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: This is hey Tammy. This is uh Dexter over here, catering.

648
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: We catered your your aunt Bridges. Yeah, that's right, that's right,

649
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 1: that's right. How you doing, Dexter is good to hear

650
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: from you. Okay, good good. I'm going through the paperwork

651
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,359
Speaker 1: here and I know we have an invoice for you all.

652
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out to you. This is not

653
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,360
Speaker 1: a bad time, is it. No, this is a good time. Okay.

654
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: So first of all, did everybody enjoy everything that we

655
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 1: put out for you guys? Yeah, we had a good

656
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 1: old time. My auntie Bridget she was so happy. There

657
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,880
Speaker 1: was no better way to bring in her sixtieth birthday party.

658
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 1: We had a great time. The food was delicious. We

659
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 1: are so grateful, So thank you so much. You and

660
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 1: your team did the bomb jib Okay, good deal, good deal.

661
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 1: I was here when they loaded up the van and everything,

662
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: and I wanted to make sure. I wanted to follow

663
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: back up. But listen, I'm looking at the paperwork and

664
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: we had a little mishap, and I wanted to let

665
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,880
Speaker 1: you know that we're not going to um, We're not

666
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 1: gonna charge you guys for the chicken because they made

667
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 1: a mistake and they put the wrong pan on the

668
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: van and they I noticed that the chicken was actually

669
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,839
Speaker 1: still here. So we want to take off take that off,

670
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 1: and I won't. That won't be on the on the envoys.

671
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: So I'm taking all the entire cross. The chicken will

672
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 1: be completely taken out. Okay, real quick, let's back up

673
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 1: a bit, because we had a lot of people at

674
00:44:56,160 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 1: the party. We definitely had chicken walking. Yeah, I know

675
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: you had you order some moother chicken. But like I said,

676
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 1: the guy put the wrong pan on the on the van,

677
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 1: you know, and actually this mother chicken was actually still here,

678
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 1: uh you know, here here the at the shop. So

679
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 1: you know, like I said, we made a mistake. I'm

680
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: gonna take it off and that's probably not your like

681
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,360
Speaker 1: a couple hundred dollars off off of you as price. Like,

682
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: So so what are you saying? So what were we

683
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 1: eating if it wasn't this mother chicken? What was it? Uh? Well,

684
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 1: miss Tammy, like I said, you know, I got on

685
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: this kid for making this mistake. You know, I got

686
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:36,839
Speaker 1: on it real bad about it. But you know, putting

687
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: the wrong pan on there. But like I said, this

688
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 1: what you guys had was it? That was a chicken?

689
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: What was it? Though? That's why I'm asking you what

690
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: was it? Actually what he put on there by mistake?

691
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 1: Miss tam Me, that was that was rabbid? What you

692
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: can't be serious right now? Are you out of your

693
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: rabbit mine? Are you serious? You tell me, did your

694
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 1: team put the wrong tray on the trucks and then

695
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 1: served it to my family? And you're trying to call

696
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: me about two hundred dollars? Are just serious? Who does

697
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 1: more than that? You owe me more than that? You

698
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: don't know who the because allergic today? And you're calling

699
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: me about two hundred dollars? Are you out of your fine? Well?

700
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: I wanted to credit you all that, you know what

701
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying. No, And and there's gonna be no credit.

702
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 1: There ain't gonna be no credit. It ain't no credit.

703
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 1: Do you mean credit? Where you could have died? Monty

704
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: could have died, Lucie. Uh, we got kids in there.

705
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 1: You don't know our dietary needs? Are you crazy? Well?

706
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: I mean it don't matter if I liked it, I

707
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:43,800
Speaker 1: can fall out the night. Stupid. Oh, I'm getting the attorney.

708
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 1: I'm done with this. This is stupid. And who want

709
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: to eat bugs? Bunny? Does that right to you? H?

710
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: Are you stupid? I'm so annoyed right now? Seriously, le know,

711
00:46:55,800 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: woods people, we no country people with you? Okay? What

712
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,479
Speaker 1: what y'all liked it? Though? Right? No? But you're gonna

713
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: like my foot up y'all so that's what you're gonna like.

714
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be there later because y'all the stupid ya,

715
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: the stupid my foot gonna be up, y'r and y'all,

716
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: it's gonna be hopping around like a rabbit, the rabbit

717
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: that you served me. Okay, okay, let me ask you

718
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 1: this here. No Avia, miss Avery, is your mama right?

719
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 1: What my mama got to do with this rabbit? What's

720
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: she gotta do with this? Okay? See, your mama got

721
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 1: me to call you. This is nephew. Comments from the

722
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 1: Steve Harbin Morton Show. Damn me, your mama to break you.

723
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. Oh my god, this is crazy. Oh

724
00:47:52,120 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: my god, looking in good morning. This is crazy. Crazy.

725
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 1: Y'all are gonna get it? This is crazy? Ohoa man?

726
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 1: All right, Sam, but tell me this baby. What is

727
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in

728
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: the late Steve har you are right, Yes, I'm just

729
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 1: so glad I didn't have rabbit. I'm so glad you

730
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 1: want a little rabbit. Y'all can tell a little rabbit,

731
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 1: little rabbit ain't gonna do you. I'm serious, I can't.

732
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: Just a knowledge that it's a rabbit. I can't eat it.

733
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 1: What's the difference you gonna rabbit in a chick? It's

734
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:42,839
Speaker 1: a rabbit. The difference between a rabbit and you mean

735
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: it both animals? Yes, what's the different Try trying to

736
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: say she eat meat, you eat meat anyway? Right? Yeah,

737
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: one of them is poetry, the other one is meat.

738
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: One of them got fum legs, one of them got

739
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: two legs and two wings. A lot of differences. You

740
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: ain't gonna get no getting nowaif off a weapon. Now

741
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 1: we knew about the didn't know about these rs. Now,

742
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 1: what is it all right? Coming up next to the

743
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter? This crazy show right here. Lord, you're listening

744
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: to Steve Morning Show, and it's time, guys for today's

745
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting,

746
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

747
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 1: f M and click submit Strawberry Letter. Tell him Steve Harvey,

748
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,280
Speaker 1: same thing she just said, and we could be reading

749
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,479
Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna

750
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: read this one. And boy, this is something else right here.

751
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 1: Let me tell you buggle up, hold on tight. We

752
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,760
Speaker 1: got it for you here. It is this strawberry. Thank you, nephew. Subject.

753
00:49:55,920 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: My husband is now my kid's uncle. Dy yeah, yeah,

754
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:04,280
Speaker 1: one more time. My husband is now my kid's uncle.

755
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 1: All right, Dear Stephen Shirley. I have a problem, and

756
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 1: I've been praying over it for years, but I can't

757
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,279
Speaker 1: seem to get over it. I married a man when

758
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 1: I was twenty six years old and he was forty

759
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: one years old. We had a great married life, a nice,

760
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:21,959
Speaker 1: big home, and three lovely children. I thought our fairy

761
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 1: tale would never end, but it did. We were married

762
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 1: for eight years, and on his birthday, he asked me

763
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 1: for a divorce and served me papers. I was shocked

764
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 1: that he already had the papers drawn up. Six months

765
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 1: after our divorce was final, my sister gave birth to

766
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 1: a healthy, beautiful baby girl. When I saw the baby,

767
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 1: I noticed that the baby had the same birthmark on

768
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: her foot that all three of my children do. Two

769
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:56,760
Speaker 1: months later, my sister married my ex husband. At the wedding,

770
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 1: only two of our family members attended. My mother didn't

771
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:06,479
Speaker 1: even go wait, wait, what okay? At the what okay?

772
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:11,800
Speaker 1: Where do you want me to start? Two months This

773
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 1: is crazy, Steve, This is so crazy. All right, I'll

774
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 1: start here. We were married, they had a We were

775
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: married for eight years, and on his birthday he asked

776
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 1: me for a divorce and served me papers. I was

777
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 1: shocked that he already had the papers drawn up. Six

778
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:31,879
Speaker 1: months after our divorce was final, my sister gave birth

779
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: to a beautiful baby girl. When I saw the baby,

780
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:38,360
Speaker 1: I noticed that the baby had the same birthmark on

781
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 1: her foot that all three of my children do. Two

782
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: months later, my sister married my ex husband cocked. At

783
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: the wedding, only two of our family members attended. My

784
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 1: mother didn't even go. It has now been five years,

785
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: and I've heard my sister has three has had three

786
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: more kids. I haven't seen my ex husband or my

787
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 1: sister in many years, but my children have. Oh and yes,

788
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 1: I have driven by her house several times, only to

789
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: see that my ex husband has built her a huge

790
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,359
Speaker 1: new house. I guess she's happy now that she has

791
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: everything I had. Why can't I get over this? Why

792
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 1: do I feel like a minute I see my sister,

793
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to punch her in her face. Why am

794
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 1: I so hurt that my children's father is also my

795
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: children's uncle. I just don't know how to get past this.

796
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 1: Please help me. Yeah, this right here, this right here

797
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 1: is a hot stinking mess. Okay, I just have to

798
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: tell you you're not wrong, and how you feel you're

799
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 1: not wrong at all. Anyone who has gone through what

800
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 1: you've gone through would feel the exact same way in

801
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,759
Speaker 1: your position. Your emotions are real, they are valid. Your

802
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: ex husband is vile and so is your sister. Imagine

803
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: being married to someone for eight years only to get

804
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 1: a divorced uh paper at his birthday, at his on

805
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:06,720
Speaker 1: his birthday, at his birthday party. Of course you're shocked.

806
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: Of course you know they've been doing this behind your

807
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:12,760
Speaker 1: back all this time. Six months after your divorce is final,

808
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 1: then your sister gives birth to a beautiful baby girl.

809
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 1: Who does this to their sister their own blood? She

810
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: I mean, stole your husband. Your husband's sleeping with her

811
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 1: behind your bag. This is awful. At the wedding, I

812
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 1: understand if only two of your family members attended. Um.

813
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: Your mother didn't even go. UM, so your kids. Let's

814
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 1: get this straight. Your kids are their cousins, their aunt's

815
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: uncles and aunts. What what is this is crazy? Yeah,

816
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 1: this is not a good family reunion at all. Uh yeah,

817
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: I probably would have driven by her house several times

818
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 1: too to you know. Yeah, it's hard to get over

819
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: something like this. I mean, I you know, I'm surprised

820
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:00,439
Speaker 1: that you even had the strength to write the letter,

821
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 1: and it's a great letter. I'm sorry you had to

822
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 1: go through this. This is this is awful. Who does

823
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: this to their sister, to their wife? This is craziness.

824
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:12,800
Speaker 1: You're hurt because they hurt you, and you're hurt because

825
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 1: of that they hurt you. This is terrible. You don't

826
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:17,399
Speaker 1: know how to get past it. I don't know how either.

827
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how it would. And you know, I'm

828
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,320
Speaker 1: all about love and forgiveness and all of this, but

829
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:23,279
Speaker 1: this right here would be a real hard one to

830
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: forgive to get past. Un Yeah what yeah, yeah, I

831
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 1: mean you know this, this is really this is just

832
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 1: vile and crazy and ugly. Steve, I'm gonna just start

833
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 1: with the end of the letter. I don't know how

834
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: to get past this. Please help me. Somebody need to

835
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: get to ask for hey man, that really I don't

836
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 1: even know how to. That's the only way I could

837
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:53,800
Speaker 1: see me coming through this. This is this really the

838
00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: only way I see me coming coming through this at all.

839
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: I mean for me to even begin the healing process,

840
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to make several attempts to get at

841
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: both y'all, the sister and the ex. You know he

842
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: got all his house building money where he can build

843
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: everybody big housing. I would have been shut that down.

844
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: What would you have done, Steve? I would have destroyed

845
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 1: him on social media. Lady, you was married to this

846
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 1: man when he was twenty six, he was forty one.

847
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,760
Speaker 1: He had a great married life, big house, three kids,

848
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:32,320
Speaker 1: doctor fairytale. When they married eight years on his birthday,

849
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 1: he asked you for a divorce sale papers. He already

850
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,760
Speaker 1: had the papers drawn up. Six months after divorce was final.

851
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,800
Speaker 1: Your sister gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. You

852
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,839
Speaker 1: saw the baby. The baby got the same damn birth

853
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:47,879
Speaker 1: mark on her foot that all three of your kids had.

854
00:55:48,160 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 1: I'd have started with the baby baby get their foote Okay,

855
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: I don't know how. I'm telling you somebody I gotta

856
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 1: start paying. I deal with the rest of them when

857
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:09,319
Speaker 1: I come back. I don't know how, all right, Steve, Well, okay,

858
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 1: we're gonna give you a moment to calm down. Okay,

859
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 1: we'll have Part two of your response coming up at

860
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. You're listening. All right, Steve,

861
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 1: let's recap today. I ain't nothing. I'm just going into

862
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: this twenty six years old married man. He forty one,

863
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,760
Speaker 1: had a great married life, big house, three beautiful kids.

864
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: Thought the fairytale would never end, but he did. Married

865
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:41,840
Speaker 1: for eight years. On his birthday, he asked me for

866
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 1: a divorce and serve me papers. You know why he

867
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: did it on the birthday because he's spending the birthday

868
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:50,960
Speaker 1: with your sister. Now, I can't be over here and

869
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 1: there at the same time. How can I not be

870
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: over here? I got it drafty damned divorce papers that

871
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: stop all the party atmosphere over here on go over

872
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,960
Speaker 1: head and had his birthday with your sister. I was shocked.

873
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 1: He already had the papers drawn up. Six months later,

874
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 1: after our divorce was final, my sister gave birth to

875
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:14,399
Speaker 1: a beautiful baby girl. When I saw the baby girl,

876
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: the baby had the same birthmark on her foot that

877
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 1: all three of my children do. Now, see right here,

878
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 1: I starts hurting people right there, right there, right here. Now,

879
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 1: let's just say this. Right here, When I look down

880
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:36,520
Speaker 1: and I see the same birthmark on this beautiful baby girl.

881
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: That so all of your children, somebody got to pay

882
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: with a foot. Okay, now can't be the baby. So

883
00:57:48,040 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 1: that right here, I'm gonna start with. I need a

884
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: foot from somebody, either my sister or my damn husband,

885
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 1: but somebody fit to give up a foot because I

886
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: got to start hurting people immediately. I noticed. Two months

887
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 1: later my sister married my ex husband two months after

888
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: the baby was born. At the wedding, two of our

889
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: family members attended would have been at three. I had

890
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: to go because I got to start hurting some At

891
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: the wedding, I'm gonna be in the balcony somewhere with

892
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:40,440
Speaker 1: something that shoots. Might not be a gun, but it's

893
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: gonna be like a sling shot of pellet, right for something.

894
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: At the wedding, only two of my family members attended.

895
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 1: Okay which two was them? Because I asked, ain't speaking?

896
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,040
Speaker 1: I need the name or the two people that took

897
00:58:56,120 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: they brought to this wedding called me and you it's through. Yeah.

898
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 1: My mother didn't even go cause she knew go down

899
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: there if you want to, Mama. It's now been five

900
00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: years and I heard my sister has had three more kids.

901
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what they've been. I had that on

902
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: their feet. I know that, I know, I know, I know,

903
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 1: I know. It better not be three more people with

904
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:30,479
Speaker 1: some birthmark, because now it's gonna be three more people

905
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: some problem. Everybody with birthmark on the foot, I takes

906
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 1: another foot. So that folk, that folk kids, right, three

907
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 1: more and folks. So now my sister and my ex

908
00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:50,919
Speaker 1: husband ain't neither one of them got no more feet. Man, man,

909
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 1: I haven't seen my ex husband or my sister in

910
00:59:56,360 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: many years. That's impossible. What do you mean? But we

911
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 1: ain't seen each other? You know what many attempts I

912
01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 1: would have made on that? Ye? Yes, how the hell

913
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:09,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to kill you and I ain't seen it.

914
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 1: You can't get a shot off, you ain't seening. So

915
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 1: right there, I haven't seen my ex but my children.

916
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 1: So the children been going over that visited, uh huh,

917
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: because that's their daddy, Steve, that's their daddy. Huh. So

918
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 1: they've been over that visiting their daddy. Uncle. Yeah, who's

919
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 1: married to your aunt? Right? Who really is your uncle? Right?

920
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 1: And your daddy and your daddy right? So what uncle, daddy,

921
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 1: daddy uncle, uncle, daddy, daddy. Oh, yes, I've driven by

922
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 1: her house several times. Drive back, Nah, were talking, I've

923
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 1: driven by. You ain't had nothing hanging out to wonder.

924
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 1: Let's do it. You ain't had nothing. You had grenade,

925
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 1: and you ain't dade that assault rifle. You know. Hell,

926
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 1: they keep talking about the Second Amendment. You're right, you

927
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 1: ain't have assault rifle. Yeah, the cocktail with your lighted

928
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 1: like the bottling through only to see that my ex

929
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 1: husband has built her a huge new house with what

930
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 1: Now I got all that, I got all that money,

931
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 1: I'm child support, alimony. Yeah, I guess she's happy now

932
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 1: that she has everything I had. How you ain't got

933
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 1: it no more? How you how he leaves you with

934
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 1: the baby. You ain't got no house, no money, no

935
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 1: child support, no alimony. If you have told this story

936
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 1: in any court of law, he is still be paying you. Yeah.

937
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 1: Why can't I get over this? Because you ain't hurt nobody,

938
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 1: that's the problem. Oh oh damn. Why do I feel

939
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 1: like the moment I see my sister, I'm gonna punch

940
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 1: in her face because that's what you're gonna do. And

941
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: how do you punch down face? You can start healing again,

942
01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:20,439
Speaker 1: because look, then you can you have you can ask

943
01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 1: the Lord to forgive you. Yeah, so you can start.

944
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 1: I just don't know how to get past this. I'm

945
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: so hurt that my children's father's also my children's uncle.

946
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 1: I just don't know. You got pray about this for real, lady, seriously,

947
01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: and do not hurt nobody because it ain't worth it.

948
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:43,200
Speaker 1: You're right, Steve, that is true. You're right court taking

949
01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: the court suing for everything he got. You should have

950
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: a big house. He gonna come. Who you're a boss,

951
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 1: sister though this is your sister, s yes, really is

952
01:02:57,520 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: all right? We gotta go a stank? Is this letter is?

953
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 1: We gotta get out of it? Email us or instagram

954
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 1: Usure thoughts on today's strawberry letter at Steve Harvey, f M.

955
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:13,000
Speaker 1: You're listening show time for something funny? Junior? You're ready? Yeah,

956
01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm ready. Holidays is coming. It is coming, and so

957
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 1: you got people that's coming with somebody you've never met

958
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: but you've heard about. Now. I got a cousin, got

959
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 1: this girl who's giving him all these problems, and I

960
01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 1: just thought about it. She'll be told. The crazy they are.

961
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: The more ways you try to defend them to your family.

962
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 1: I ain't never met the girl with about to meet

963
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 1: the old Thanksgiving like stuff like this, Like, okay, I

964
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 1: heard all you that she tried to smother you with

965
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 1: the pillar. Yeah don't. We started off playing and forever.

966
01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: Then it got serious. But then you ain't ever been

967
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 1: you ain't never been smothered before. You ain't never been

968
01:03:53,480 --> 01:04:00,280
Speaker 1: smothered before, play with and trying to smother you? Yea

969
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: or this one or this one? Dog dog? I heard

970
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 1: she raised about the back seat of your car you

971
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 1: try to leave. Yeah, she raised about the back seat.

972
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: She was concerned by where I was going. That I

973
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 1: never had nobody that was concerned by where you be.

974
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 1: I mean, dog love, let her love me. The crazier

975
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 1: they are, the more they try to defend them to us,

976
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: I can't to meet the girl like like, darn, that

977
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: wasn't about you. She shot at you, Yeah, she shot it.

978
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 1: She shot at me because she was concerned I was

979
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 1: messing up. I heard that good shot I got right

980
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:42,360
Speaker 1: back in lane. I mean, ain't nobody else shot at

981
01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 1: you before? No, darning, ain't nobody else shot it up? Okay,

982
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 1: gets about to shoot you for you speak on this subject.

983
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:56,400
Speaker 1: I ain't speak let you've been shot at. I'm just

984
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: I can't wait to meet her. Just the crazier they are,

985
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 1: are they gonna defend them to the I can't wait

986
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: to see this girl. All we gonna have some fun

987
01:05:04,920 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 1: this thing. And that's true being told. I'm just telling.

988
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 1: That was good. That was true, Junior. Everybody got on

989
01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: you ain't. I mean, I was taking the bath in

990
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: the tub. Then she came in and pushed my head

991
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 1: under water. But but she left me under a little

992
01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 1: too low. I choked a little bit. But you ain't

993
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 1: never been held under water under your No, everybody did that.

994
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 1: We don't speak on that. Tell you walk in my shoes.

995
01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 1: There was just a cut, stabbed, I really stabbed the night,

996
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: all the way in, all the way in. It's just

997
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 1: a cut. We're just just a surface. One thirty two stitches.

998
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 1: That's it. Oh yeah, okay, just drown me a little bit.

999
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 1: That's a little bit. I'm good. They never been drowned before.

1000
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 1: That's what I don't like. You can't speak old all right,

1001
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 1: coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right

1002
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steven Show. Going home

1003
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 1: for the holidays can be a nightmare for some people

1004
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 1: who dealing with bickering family can ruin anyone's holiday, But

1005
01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:41,560
Speaker 1: the real horror comes when it's time to go to sleep.

1006
01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 1: Being forced to crash in either your childhood home or

1007
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:51,280
Speaker 1: a relative place over Thanksgiving or Christmas, why are they staying?

1008
01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 1: It can definitely get awkward, which is why it shouldn't

1009
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 1: surprise us that a new survey finds that fifty two

1010
01:06:57,560 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 1: percent of adults say they they've made up some sort

1011
01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 1: of excuse specifically to avoid uncomfortable sleeping arrangements over the holidays.

1012
01:07:06,400 --> 01:07:10,240
Speaker 1: That's over half, so and you should. Yeah, if I

1013
01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 1: can't walk to my kitchen Friday, I have to thank

1014
01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: you in my drag. There's a problem. Hey, listen to me.

1015
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 1: Why does holidays have to be for all family? What

1016
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:25,959
Speaker 1: do you what do you mean? Yeah, you know, ain't

1017
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 1: on law say all family got to come over. All

1018
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 1: family got to be together. Most of these people in

1019
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:37,080
Speaker 1: your family that you don't like anymore, I'm married and

1020
01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 1: have their own family. But don't you invite together? The

1021
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 1: family is coming together? Don't you invite who you want

1022
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 1: to invite over your house but you don't like them?

1023
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 1: And you're gonna have them over, yeah, where you're trying

1024
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 1: to tolerate them. But that's the problem for the occasion

1025
01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 1: for the holiday. Yeah, I don't. I don't do that,

1026
01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:57,520
Speaker 1: and my wife honors that request to me, don't have

1027
01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:00,360
Speaker 1: nobody in my house on my limited time. I'm off

1028
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:03,440
Speaker 1: that I don't like. Just do that for me? Is

1029
01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 1: that a lot? What about people that go over their

1030
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 1: mom's house, right, or they go over their parents' house

1031
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,720
Speaker 1: and they gotta stay and put up with people that

1032
01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:13,360
Speaker 1: they don't like for the sake of their parents. You

1033
01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. That's on. I don't go no

1034
01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:18,120
Speaker 1: where I ain't like. I think here's the biggest problem,

1035
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:20,640
Speaker 1: not you, but you may not like who's coming, but

1036
01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 1: you dealing well when they get down, I'm gone, Yeah,

1037
01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:29,679
Speaker 1: like I'm cool with the family. It's who the family

1038
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:33,880
Speaker 1: brain with them. Once again, my wife got a cousin

1039
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 1: always gonna bring somebody we don't know who the hell

1040
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 1: he is, and you got you you can't relax. I

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01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:42,720
Speaker 1: don't need I need to get him to have two

1042
01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:44,680
Speaker 1: spoons and keep clicking them to gel so I know

1043
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 1: where you're at. Well, when you invite them, do you

1044
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 1: say plus one, or you just invite them and they

1045
01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:52,120
Speaker 1: bring someone. They don't let you know. She just come

1046
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 1: over with somebody new every yeah, or they already en route.

1047
01:08:56,960 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 1: It's kind of I bring such a suf. Huh my aunt,

1048
01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 1: my grandmother sister. When she come over, I leave because

1049
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:06,719
Speaker 1: ain't nobody telling me about her condition? Needs on? Antybody

1050
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:11,560
Speaker 1: told me? She hu her memory going yeah, see, I

1051
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:14,200
Speaker 1: don't like see, I don't like that because she's surprised

1052
01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:18,760
Speaker 1: about everything. She don't remember nobody enough and time spent

1053
01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 1: her hey and and she said, who who is that?

1054
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:25,880
Speaker 1: Who is that? Who is that? Right? Yeah, you don't

1055
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:30,240
Speaker 1: want to do that? Five hours of that? Here your plate?

1056
01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:33,280
Speaker 1: What's this on this plate? What is that? That's turkey?

1057
01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:36,000
Speaker 1: And dressed that you don't know? This is the reason

1058
01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:39,880
Speaker 1: we're here today. You don't know that? Then you go

1059
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:43,320
Speaker 1: up you know what I'm saying, Like she go to

1060
01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 1: the restroom, didn't come back, say hi, I get to

1061
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 1: the bathroom. You just left out of there. No, I'm

1062
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:52,680
Speaker 1: not gonna do it for five hours. I'm sorry, I'm

1063
01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 1: not doing that. I leave. You ain't got to come over.

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01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:58,760
Speaker 1: That's the reason. Where that is turkey? How you don't

1065
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:05,040
Speaker 1: know turkey and dressing when you see it? Man? You

1066
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 1: know who else I don't like. I don't like them

1067
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 1: people that come over to the house what and take

1068
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 1: more food with them than they come on? You're saying, yes, yes,

1069
01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, like are you for real? Man? Yeah,

1070
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:23,920
Speaker 1: you're just gonna cut out half a pan of dressing?

1071
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:27,479
Speaker 1: You got a spatchlor you take it so much dressing

1072
01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 1: out you're using you're using a spatching the dog. But

1073
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:33,439
Speaker 1: you in that three foul time? But do they bring

1074
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:36,519
Speaker 1: their own aluminum foil in their bags? Stuff being in

1075
01:10:36,600 --> 01:10:39,920
Speaker 1: the car? Yeah? I have to go kid. You know what?

1076
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 1: They got these new ziplock bangs just bigger than a

1077
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: gallon the big more of the show right after these

1078
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:52,720
Speaker 1: jams you're listening to show. So what are some of

1079
01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:55,760
Speaker 1: the strange things? You're strange habits and Thanksgiving? I have

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01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 1: a relative that's what's supposedly? Um is it? Which one

1081
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 1: is it? Jehoa witness or seven dead minutes? You know

1082
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:04,680
Speaker 1: they don't eat meat, but this particularly is that there

1083
01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: was meat in the greens. And she she had already

1084
01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:11,600
Speaker 1: been like half played in you know, yes, yes, And

1085
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:15,120
Speaker 1: my mom said, and you know this meeting in greens.

1086
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 1: She went, huh and kavy eating lives, all lives because

1087
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 1: the greens were good. Right, so good. Let me tell

1088
01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:31,679
Speaker 1: y'all something. I got a relative. I got a cousin

1089
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 1: that would eat everything in one bowl. But but ja

1090
01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 1: jay the twist to it all. He may have a dressing,

1091
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: a cranbar sauce, got some turkey laid across it. Everybody

1092
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 1: understand that that makes sense, right yeah? Right next to

1093
01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 1: it is a scoop of vanilla ice cream, right yeah.

1094
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:55,680
Speaker 1: But I'm looking at him like, you please tell me

1095
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:57,880
Speaker 1: you're not gonna use my bathroom while you here? Please?

1096
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:02,160
Speaker 1: Then you got that relative time and that you know

1097
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:05,320
Speaker 1: they're complaining because my food is touching I don't want

1098
01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:07,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I know some people like that. Yeah,

1099
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:09,800
Speaker 1: people like that. And you know what to j A

1100
01:12:09,880 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 1: lot of kids when you're making air plates, they don't

1101
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:15,080
Speaker 1: want them touch. Well, that's that's why you gotta have

1102
01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:17,040
Speaker 1: them paper plates called with them. Divide is in it

1103
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:24,000
Speaker 1: for they? Yes, keep that gi mess over there. You're

1104
01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 1: talking big money paper places. I'm not place they gotta

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01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:32,640
Speaker 1: wait with wimen on it. Coming up. More of the

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01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning show. Right after this, you're listening to

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01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:39,840
Speaker 1: the Steve Morning Show. All right, here's a question. Guys,

1108
01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:41,920
Speaker 1: we're coming up on the holidays. You know you're going

1109
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 1: to be spending money, buying gifts, things like that. So

1110
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:47,360
Speaker 1: here's a question. Do you have to discuss if you're

1111
01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 1: in a relationship, do you have to discuss high price

1112
01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 1: purchases with your significant other? All right, Steve, do you

1113
01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:57,439
Speaker 1: have to discuss purchases with Marjorie? Do you guys have

1114
01:12:57,520 --> 01:13:00,240
Speaker 1: a budget? I mean we do, of course, you know

1115
01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 1: we talk over uh expensive items. You know that conversation

1116
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 1: was very short. I'm buying this and that's Marjorie. I

1117
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:17,679
Speaker 1: love it, Steve, I'm about this. Is that okay? Well baby,

1118
01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 1: I was thinking, well I ordered it, it's not here yet,

1119
01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:27,599
Speaker 1: so think about it. Give her what she wants. Steve

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01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 1: is him. Did you decide it's over though? Because because yeah,

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01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:36,960
Speaker 1: because she could say, well I could send it back,

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01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:40,320
Speaker 1: and you know that's when she gets you. That's the Yeah,

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01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:43,240
Speaker 1: that's when the like, you don't really want us me

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01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 1: to have it? Okay, I just tell them it's okay, Yeah,

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01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:48,400
Speaker 1: they can come on out here and pick it up.

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01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:55,000
Speaker 1: Then I guess okay, sure you got discuss it. Huh No,

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01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:59,200
Speaker 1: he just don't know. Yeah, that's what he found out

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01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:03,040
Speaker 1: with Shirley Wayne it. He doesn't mind, though, he really

1129
01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:08,200
Speaker 1: doesn't mind. He doesn't care, he doesn't mind. Shirley trunk loaded.

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01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 1: She got she took us spare time out of her car.

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01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:17,200
Speaker 1: That's all that's a shopping being. She has a flat

1132
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:21,040
Speaker 1: and oh yeah, she took all that out there come

1133
01:14:21,760 --> 01:14:26,200
Speaker 1: all that storage area. Those in the shares. Man at

1134
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 1: one time. I got to the car and I'm fit

1135
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 1: to go play golf, right, so I get my golf clubs.

1136
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:34,280
Speaker 1: I popped the trunk open to throw the golf clubs

1137
01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:38,719
Speaker 1: in the trunk. It's just loaded. Her Man's and Roger

1138
01:14:38,840 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 1: Vivienne just loaded. Why do we do that though? Is women? Carla,

1139
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what. I haven't amount because they didn't

1140
01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:47,599
Speaker 1: ask me. But I haven't amount. I have to run

1141
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 1: stuff by my husband. I can't just be wilding out

1142
01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 1: like that. I got ring. How much have you lost

1143
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:56,439
Speaker 1: your mind? So the amount is a thousand dollars, I

1144
01:14:56,560 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 1: have to get permission on if it's Oh, if it's

1145
01:14:59,240 --> 01:15:03,680
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars, are over. Cannot be a little hutter it.

1146
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 1: Let it be a thousand oh one and he checks

1147
01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 1: with you on the same thing for the same thing.

1148
01:15:09,320 --> 01:15:12,120
Speaker 1: Uh huh, Well that's a good that's good. Yeah, whatever

1149
01:15:12,200 --> 01:15:14,000
Speaker 1: works for your family. But I mean, if we have

1150
01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 1: these goals that we've said, you just can't be wilding

1151
01:15:16,360 --> 01:15:19,000
Speaker 1: all the time. So what you're saying to me as

1152
01:15:19,040 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 1: a woman, woman to woman, Yes, you don't have any

1153
01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:26,640
Speaker 1: shoes hidden in your trunk or in your closet. Is

1154
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 1: that what you're saying to me? Your girl a llegen? Yes,

1155
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:39,680
Speaker 1: I know better. Okay, we love shoes too much in

1156
01:15:39,800 --> 01:15:43,479
Speaker 1: the bag that I pull off this boy right and

1157
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 1: Stephen Junior are not buying this at all, knowing that,

1158
01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:49,960
Speaker 1: but a thousand dollars, I do have to place the

1159
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:54,280
Speaker 1: phone call, Yes I do every time though every time. Yes,

1160
01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:56,800
Speaker 1: Now I may charm him and get what I want,

1161
01:15:57,400 --> 01:16:01,120
Speaker 1: but I do have to my wife stitch your clothes.

1162
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:12,160
Speaker 1: Got one phone call, but not now nothing? All right,

1163
01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 1: coming up next to our last break of the day,

1164
01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:18,000
Speaker 1: and Steve will have some closing remarks. All that's coming

1165
01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:20,360
Speaker 1: up at forty nine after the hour. Right after this,

1166
01:16:20,960 --> 01:16:26,040
Speaker 1: you're listening to last break of the day. We've had

1167
01:16:26,040 --> 01:16:29,080
Speaker 1: a great morning today. Yes, yes, we did. We have

1168
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:32,080
Speaker 1: fun today. Steve. It's time for you now to take

1169
01:16:32,200 --> 01:16:34,560
Speaker 1: us home with your closing remarks. What you got for

1170
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:38,639
Speaker 1: us today, Steve? Today, Um, I was thinking of something

1171
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:43,360
Speaker 1: that's another jewel that has really helped me in my

1172
01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 1: quest and it's about my dreams and my goals, and

1173
01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:54,920
Speaker 1: I was wanted to share this with you today. One

1174
01:16:55,000 --> 01:17:01,600
Speaker 1: of the greatest dangers, uh, for more of us is

1175
01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 1: not that our aim is too high and we miss it,

1176
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:14,240
Speaker 1: but that is too low and we reach it. Can

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01:17:14,320 --> 01:17:16,760
Speaker 1: I say that to you again? This is actually a

1178
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:21,960
Speaker 1: quote from Michael Angelo. He said, the greatest danger for

1179
01:17:22,200 --> 01:17:25,240
Speaker 1: most of us is not that our aim is too

1180
01:17:25,360 --> 01:17:28,800
Speaker 1: high and we miss it, but that is too low

1181
01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:35,080
Speaker 1: and we reach it. That's crazy, man. My father used

1182
01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:37,960
Speaker 1: to say something to me all the time, very similar.

1183
01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:43,599
Speaker 1: He says, son, aim for the moon, because if you miss,

1184
01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:49,000
Speaker 1: you'll still be amongst the stars. And that's pretty much

1185
01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:52,719
Speaker 1: the same thing that he's saying. That the greatest danger

1186
01:17:52,800 --> 01:17:55,680
Speaker 1: for most of us, it's not that our aim is

1187
01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 1: too high and we miss it, but that is too

1188
01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:02,680
Speaker 1: low and we reach it. Let me explain something to

1189
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:07,320
Speaker 1: you about low aspirations. And low goals. When you reach

1190
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:10,800
Speaker 1: a low aspiration and a low goal and there's nothing

1191
01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 1: after that, you think you've arrived, you think you that

1192
01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:21,200
Speaker 1: you actually get comfortable. Man, I made it, when in essence,

1193
01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:24,960
Speaker 1: there's so much more to life to live, so much

1194
01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:27,799
Speaker 1: more that you could accomplish if you would just reset

1195
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:31,639
Speaker 1: your goals in aspiration. I remember, man, a long time ago,

1196
01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:34,920
Speaker 1: this dude in my high school. He said, Man, all,

1197
01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:37,679
Speaker 1: I want I know two dudes like this about a car.

1198
01:18:38,320 --> 01:18:42,320
Speaker 1: He said, Man, all, I won't. Man, it's this Grand Torino. Man.

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01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:45,040
Speaker 1: If I had a Grand Torino, Man, I wouldn't want

1200
01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:50,920
Speaker 1: nothing else for his senior graduation. This dude's father gave

1201
01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:57,080
Speaker 1: him a Grand Torino. It's like unbelievable. In high school, Man,

1202
01:18:57,800 --> 01:19:00,600
Speaker 1: nineteen seventy four Grand Torino with the two windows in

1203
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:03,200
Speaker 1: the slits in the back. I was looking at this

1204
01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:06,840
Speaker 1: like wow. Man, he drove it to the prom just

1205
01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:09,720
Speaker 1: still had a brand new cars father bought it. I

1206
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:14,040
Speaker 1: saw him like twenty years later. You know he had

1207
01:19:14,120 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: the same car. He had the same car. It happened

1208
01:19:18,880 --> 01:19:21,559
Speaker 1: to another dude. I knew, Man that wanted this Cadillac. Man,

1209
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:24,679
Speaker 1: if I ever get to this Cadillac man, this white Cadillac,

1210
01:19:24,800 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 1: the red seats man. He got it. I saw him

1211
01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:34,000
Speaker 1: years later, years later, I don't really remember how many,

1212
01:19:34,200 --> 01:19:37,320
Speaker 1: but he still had the same car. Always beat to hell,

1213
01:19:37,920 --> 01:19:41,040
Speaker 1: but he had the same car because that was his

1214
01:19:41,160 --> 01:19:44,680
Speaker 1: aspiration and he reached it. But when he reached it,

1215
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:49,479
Speaker 1: he got comfortable. I got it, and he quit wanting more,

1216
01:19:49,560 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 1: he quit reaching for higher things. You have to reassess

1217
01:19:54,080 --> 01:19:56,960
Speaker 1: your life constantly, man, because you are going to continue

1218
01:19:57,040 --> 01:20:02,080
Speaker 1: to live. You have to aspire to something that requires

1219
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:06,800
Speaker 1: God's help. Quit wanting and reaching for stuff that you

1220
01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:10,280
Speaker 1: can do. Why would you say to yourself, man, if

1221
01:20:10,320 --> 01:20:12,800
Speaker 1: I could just get me a used car, if I

1222
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:18,840
Speaker 1: could give me a nineteen eighty five maximum, really really

1223
01:20:19,840 --> 01:20:22,960
Speaker 1: get your money, save your money and go on and

1224
01:20:23,080 --> 01:20:26,000
Speaker 1: get it. But if that's your only goal and you

1225
01:20:26,080 --> 01:20:29,760
Speaker 1: get it, where you go from now? You are never

1226
01:20:30,040 --> 01:20:34,920
Speaker 1: too old to keep reaching your goal one more time.

1227
01:20:35,160 --> 01:20:37,880
Speaker 1: You are never too old to keep reaching your goal.

1228
01:20:38,720 --> 01:20:41,599
Speaker 1: It's goals out there, it's things that you can achieve.

1229
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:45,639
Speaker 1: Get out of your comfort zone. Man, If you try

1230
01:20:45,680 --> 01:20:48,760
Speaker 1: to survive in your comfort zone, your comfort zone, you

1231
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 1: will fail in it. Everybody fails in the comfort zone.

1232
01:20:54,400 --> 01:20:57,920
Speaker 1: Because in order to be successful, you got to get uncomfortable,

1233
01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 1: You got to get you got something. You got to

1234
01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:02,720
Speaker 1: go when you don't want to go. You gotta do

1235
01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:05,840
Speaker 1: when you don't want to do. That's what discipline is.

1236
01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 1: It requires discipline to achieve great things. It requires discipline

1237
01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:15,080
Speaker 1: to reach your goals. Because discipline is simply doing everything

1238
01:21:15,400 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 1: you have to do and need to do, even if

1239
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:22,679
Speaker 1: you don't want to. That's what discipline is. It's doing

1240
01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:25,040
Speaker 1: the things that you have to do and need to do,

1241
01:21:25,640 --> 01:21:28,919
Speaker 1: even when you don't want to. You go do it anyway.

1242
01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:33,760
Speaker 1: That's what discipline is. That's how you achieve goals. That's

1243
01:21:33,800 --> 01:21:37,599
Speaker 1: how you reach higher heights. Aim for the moon because

1244
01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:40,920
Speaker 1: if you miss, you'll still be amongst the stars. But

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Speaker 1: it's real simple man. It's just like Michelangelo said, the

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Speaker 1: greatest danger for most of us is not that our

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Speaker 1: aim is too high and we miss it, but that

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Speaker 1: is too low and we reach it. Because it's danger, man,

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Speaker 1: when you ain't got nothing after that, because you get

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Speaker 1: to settling and you get to thinking you there, when

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Speaker 1: you ain't there, you got so much more life to live.

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Speaker 1: God has so much more for you. God comes to

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Speaker 1: give you life and give you life more abundantly. God

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Speaker 1: ain't no mediocre God. God don't do mediocre things. God

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Speaker 1: do great things. God performs miracles. God makes dreams come true.

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Speaker 1: God is in the blessing business, the healing business, the

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Speaker 1: saving business, the recovery business, to get your life together business.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you let him do that for you? Aim high?

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Speaker 1: God may take you some places you've never been. Those

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Speaker 1: are my closing remarks. Y'all have a great weekend. All

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Speaker 1: right now, BT expressed. Do it, Do it until you're satisfied.

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Speaker 1: Come on and do it good for all. Steve Every

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