1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I heard radio podcast. Y'all, 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: I just got back from therapy fresh a me, what 3 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 1: do we want to talk about? Um? Nothing, because that's 4 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: how I feel sometimes when I leave Amy. No, it 5 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: was funny. It was like one of those were UM, 6 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: I was going from like getting ready to like audition 7 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, I cannot cry today in therapy. 8 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 1: You know I've done um but y'all, I just I 9 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: feel like I'm just just gonna touch on it and 10 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 1: then we're gonna move on from you want to detach 11 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: while you touch on it so you don't cry. No, No, 12 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: I won't cry. I've cried enough. I had a good 13 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 1: cry session therapy. UM. So I posted that photo, which 14 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 1: it was a couple of weeks ago now on October 15 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: one for Domestic Violence War in this month, which is 16 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: the month of October, and it was a Facebook memory 17 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: that came up. Oh, I did see this one and 18 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: it was like and I had like some scrapes on 19 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: my shoulder, on the top of my shoulder and like 20 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: on the bottom or whatever. And that was the like 21 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: a few weeks after the first guy tried to kill me. 22 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:17,279 Speaker 1: I've only spoken about it on Dancing with the Stars 23 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: when we went to the safe Horizon thing, and I 24 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: haven't really like I don't really touch on it, and 25 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: I I just had so much like emotion when I did, 26 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: and I don't even know like why, Like when I 27 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: saw the photo in September and I was just like 28 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: I just kind of like stared at it for like 29 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: a while. And then I remember October was, you know, 30 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 1: domestic violenceward of months. I was like, all right, I'm 31 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: gonna I think I'm gonna like just share a piece 32 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: of it and I hope that it will help someone. 33 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: But like when I pressed send, I like started like 34 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: to get really upset because I think it's like the 35 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: like the awareness like Amy calls it, like the grief 36 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: like you go through like stages of grief, and that 37 00:01:56,200 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: was like the stage of like acceptance, which is like 38 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: it makes it real, but what made it harder. And 39 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: this is what we walked through today in therapy. Okay, shoot, 40 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: I haven't seen his face and since I was like 41 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: one and they put his mug shot and like yesterday, 42 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,519 Speaker 1: like I saw it for the first time and I 43 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: was just like, I don't it just like sent like 44 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: a wave of like just chills. And then like I 45 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: got like scared, even though I know he's not here anymore, 46 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: but it was just like it was like I had 47 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: to like work through that because I'm like, well, have 48 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: I not seen his face? Like why would I? Why 49 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: would I look at photos of him? You know? And 50 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: then I started to get sad too because I'm like, 51 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: he's got he's got kids out there too, you know, 52 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: kids that never even met him, because like when I 53 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: met him, I only knew of one daughter. And then 54 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: when I did Dancing with the Stars, there's apparently like 55 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: six daughters that he had that some didn't even meet, 56 00:02:54,800 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: and he's gone, like not earth side gone. He committed suicide. Okay, Um, 57 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 1: So it was just like I don't know why I'm 58 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: bringing that up, but I guess just like to get 59 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: it air sometimes it just needs air to breathe. Yeah, 60 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: just to say it out loud. I don't know why. 61 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: I like, And then like a part of me like 62 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: and then I started going to like my purpose of 63 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: like life, and so then I started talking about that 64 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: in therapy, and I'm like, what I would love to do, 65 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 1: like if I didn't have to worry about money in 66 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: supporting my children, like I would love to open up 67 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: like a shelter and like work with kids. Like I was, 68 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,239 Speaker 1: Amy was like, there was this thirteen year old girl 69 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: in therapy today and I don't know, I just had 70 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: like a and a pull to like talk to her, 71 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: and so I sat there and talked to her for 72 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: like five minutes in there, and I was just like 73 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: I felt so good selfishly after and like that's what 74 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: I would love to help kids, open a shelter for women. 75 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: I also think there's a season for everything. I think 76 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: that we're not. It doesn't mean that that won't be 77 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: or it hasn't just because it hasn't happened. I just 78 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: think we're all in a season right now. If like 79 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: our kids are tiny, we feel like we're not in 80 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: the little little years anymore because they're like almost four 81 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: and six and a half, but they still really need 82 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: us in a in a real way. I mean they're 83 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: always going to but they're tiny. So I feel like, 84 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: just don't be hard on yourself and just keep taking 85 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: steps towards it. Well, I just feel like I'm like, 86 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: what is my purpose right Like what is like light 87 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: topics with Janna Creamer, But I don't know, like, do 88 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: you guys struggle with that, because I'm like, for me, 89 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, yes, I know. I'm never like 90 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: I'm not like the best singer in the world. I'm 91 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: not the best actress in the world. But I love 92 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: doing it and I enjoyed and it supports my family. 93 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: Do I want to be you know, did I ever 94 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: think I was going to be an influencer on Instagram? No? 95 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: But it supports my family and I so I you know, 96 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: I I promote products that I like, and again it's 97 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 1: an efforts to support my family. And but I'm like 98 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 1: when I when I peeled back the layers, I'm like, 99 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 1: I would give anything to almost get off Instagram. Oh 100 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: I feel that to my core and just like like 101 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 1: what would I like and go to shelters, open a 102 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: shelter like and and you know, be with kids every 103 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 1: day and like help help, like the fourteen fifteen year 104 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 1: old kids where I got lost, you know. And it's 105 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: but I'm like, and maybe that's down the road. But 106 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, what is my purpose? And like what 107 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:16,679 Speaker 1: am I doing? And then I'm like, well, my question 108 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 1: is what's stopping you from starting? Starting? I mean, I 109 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 1: feel like and by the way, for people that listening 110 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 1: there are in a bad situation and safe horizon, they're 111 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: an amazing shelter. So I want to promote that as well. Um, 112 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: it's it's so hard. We've talked about this before and 113 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm I want to, but I'm like, I 114 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 1: don't have the financial income to just be like here's 115 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 1: a place with fifteen beds and like, but wonder if 116 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 1: you start the networking piece for you now and like 117 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 1: just get it good understanding, Like maybe eventually the shelter 118 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 1: is the end goal for everybody listening. That's Channa blowing 119 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: her no because she wasn't going to cry when she 120 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: talked about she's all cried out. But I feel like 121 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: you can baby step now, Like maybe there's like I 122 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: have felt this in my own personal life too, Like 123 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 1: you know, I'm a stay at home mom. I haven't 124 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: had a nanny, we don't have help, and I'm a 125 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: family here, but I have felt this like call to 126 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 1: help moms and so for me, like, ultimately what I 127 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: would like to do is be supportive. We have a 128 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: stillborn task force. You and I have talked about that, 129 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 1: but like that's the dream for me. Which sounds really 130 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 1: like morbid, but like to walk that sacred space with moms. 131 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: But that is a lot of time away from home, 132 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 1: and not that I I don't want to do that 133 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: just in this season. I can't do that every single day. 134 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: So I'm just doing what I can and little bite 135 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,359 Speaker 1: sized pieces to get towards that, and once in a 136 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: while I'm able to walk those spaces. But in the meantime, 137 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: there's other ways, especially with your influence, I feel like 138 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: you help so much the awareness, raising money for I mean, 139 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: there's tons of ways. I feel like you can just 140 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: start your slow chip away and framer shelter. Yeah, And 141 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: I think that if what's overwhelming to you was the 142 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:05,359 Speaker 1: financial part of it, like God will provide that, you 143 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, I don't think you should 144 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: worry about that component of it. There are a lot 145 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: of components to this, but there's probably plenty of people 146 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: out there that would want to invest help in a 147 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: situation like this, you know. So it's like, if you 148 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: start taking some steps and start having the conversation, doors 149 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: will open. I think you would be surprised. Yeah, I 150 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: guess I just didn't even know where to start. You 151 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: just did I bet Yeah, someone is going to let 152 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: you know, don't you do? Guys ever, like you know 153 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: your purpose and stuff too, like and I don't know. 154 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: I deal with this with Amy all the time. Yeah. Yeah, 155 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: it's I mean, life is short, you know it is. 156 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: It's shorter than you even know. Yeah, and it's like 157 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: what is I have no idea? Yeah, it's overwhelming, honestly, 158 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: I mean I get it at least, you know. You know, 159 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 1: I don't necessarily have like a this is what I 160 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: would want to do, you know. I mean I have 161 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: like a few things, but not like something I don't know. 162 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: I mean, for me, it's more missions and going on 163 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: more mission trips. But then of course it's always like, 164 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: well that costs this amount of money. You know. The 165 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: money is always a thing. You know, it's always about money, 166 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: saying it to myself. Do But I mean, I love 167 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: I think it's beautiful when you just like, no, like 168 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: I would love to do this, you know. I think 169 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: that's great because I kind of get lost in that, 170 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: like what would I love to do? I don't know. 171 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: I'm so busy with kids and you know whatever. But 172 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: he does I feel like God kind of like if 173 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: you look back even where we are now onto our 174 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: past lives, we see how he's implemented little pieces that 175 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: we've needed to know all along, Like you couldn't You 176 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 1: couldn't have arrived at wanting to run a children's shelter 177 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: ten years ago because you didn't have kids yet. And 178 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: so now having kids and knowing how to like mother 179 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: well and what they need and walking that daily also 180 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: gives you insight and education slices to put towards the 181 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: end goal. So he's building it all along the way. 182 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: You're getting your resume built. Sure every little thing is something. Yeah, yeah, 183 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: it's just like I'm like I have It'm like all right, 184 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,200 Speaker 1: I would love to like here's my goal, right, get 185 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 1: on a procedural where like I'm like the fifth lead 186 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: and like a doctor show. So I have my study 187 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: income to support my kids so I don't have to hustle, 188 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: you know, on with doing fifty other million different things. 189 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: So that's like that's my study income. And then I 190 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: released a song here there, we do our Wine Down tour, 191 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: we do the podcast, like that's all like the fun stuff, 192 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: like I getting united like by doing this is fun, 193 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: Like this isn't like this isn't our bread and butter. Yeah, yeah, 194 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: this is like how fun is this? Like this is 195 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: like we get to talk and talk to really cool 196 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 1: people and like have fun, laugh, cry, like do all 197 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: that and then like have the true meaning and purpose 198 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: of like helping like abused women children like like that's like, oh, 199 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 1: like what a like what a gift that would be 200 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 1: like to be able to like have because sometimes I'm 201 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: just like what am I doing? M Like, guys, I 202 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: just want to be this is the start getting your 203 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: name out m M. This is a long it feels 204 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: like a long journey. Hey, you know what I read 205 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: something their day where someone's like, oh god, this is 206 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna busher the heck out of it. Someone's gonna 207 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 1: make it up, right. He was like I got I 208 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 1: got my first house at fifty or something was like 209 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: forty then at fifty, Like he wrote a best selling 210 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: author at sixty's. So it's like, you know, sometimes like 211 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: never too late? Is it's never too late? Also, speaking 212 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: of love, I cannot say who it is. Is it 213 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: never too late? So I had a call with this 214 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: one woman. He was like, my love and I love 215 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 1: her so much and we've just kind of been on 216 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: the journey together, and she was just like, I'm never 217 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: going to find any when I'm older. She was like 218 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 1: in her fifties or whatever. And she texted me and 219 00:10:56,760 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: was like, he asked me to be my boyfriend. I 220 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: was like, I tell you tell yourself that, Cramer. Oh, 221 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 1: anything you'd like to update us on that? Now? They 222 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,719 Speaker 1: love the hints you want to say anything. Oh my god, 223 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: they figured out one girl figured out boring Jewish guy. 224 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: I didn't tell you that. It's actually funny. I need 225 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 1: to go. Can I just go on one last time 226 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 1: for saying it has nothing to do because Jewish. It 227 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: has everything to him to do with him being boring 228 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: a lot of guesses for that one. Every one was like, 229 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 1: well I'm doing I'm like, oh, oh, I love Jewish people. 230 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,719 Speaker 1: That's not that I don't like boring people Like that 231 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 1: was the point that I don't think I need him 232 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 1: to I need him to have more personality than the 233 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: bread rules that we should have just kept it boring. Um, 234 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 1: but yes, what friends got attacked for calling him boring? 235 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: Friends got tacked wear we're the friends. Oh yeah, we 236 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: got I don't read anything because not everybody I have. 237 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: I have completely deleted and blocked myself from ever going 238 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:07,079 Speaker 1: to the credit pages. It's just like you can't um 239 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: and there's something to say. Well, and here's the end 240 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: of the day. I'm like, you don't actually know, Like 241 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 1: someone like said something and I was like, that is 242 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 1: actually not the truth? Whatsoev? And I'm like, why am 243 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: I even like? Like I was like, I was like, 244 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 1: I'm blocking myself from this. So I literally blocked myself 245 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: from it. Send it to my accountability person. I said, 246 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 1: you know, get a password whatever, put it in here, 247 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: and then blocked me from this page. And so now 248 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 1: I can't even go look at it. One girl did 249 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: right to me, and she was like, I'm peeing my pants. 250 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: Are born Jewish guy? She was like, I'm Jewish and 251 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 1: I did a lot of born Jewish guys and I 252 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:37,679 Speaker 1: just wanted to know there's really funny one. Well, this 253 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 1: one girl goes, I have a good guess, and I 254 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: go go for it, and she said the name she 255 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: was if I'm right, I'll even take a swing at 256 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: the queendom nickname. Um. But I go, I go, oh 257 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: my god, how did I go? I cannot confirm nor 258 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 1: denyed curious why you think that person she was just 259 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: several little hints. I actually also matched with him on Riyah. 260 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 1: He said he was in the and so she was 261 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: just like, these were nicknames for him, which I can't say. 262 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 1: I can't say anything, and I can't say my nickname 263 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: for him because it gives it away. Um. But it 264 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: was just I was literally dying, like so crazy. But 265 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: she asked me, so, we have a really amazing guest 266 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: on UM today that I'm excited to talk to her about, UM, 267 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: Teresa from the Real Housewives of New Jersey. And she 268 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: said something she goes, UM, if she's willing to go there, 269 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:27,320 Speaker 1: I think you should ask her if she knows. She 270 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: now knows what red flag she ignored with her first marriage, 271 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: because it was only when he went away to prison 272 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 1: that she finally admitted he had probably cheated on her, 273 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 1: even though everyone had been trying to tell her that 274 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 1: all along and she was refusing to admit believe it. Um, 275 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 1: She's like, I'm a shameless Brava Hall like, and I 276 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 1: I don't I don't watch the show. I mean I 277 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:45,959 Speaker 1: I've seen the episode of her flipping the table and 278 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 1: all that. I watched her on Dancing with Her with 279 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: the Stars Um, but I mean, I didn't know that. Like, 280 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: all I know is like they went to jail. How 281 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:59,319 Speaker 1: long did she actually wasn't she was one of them? 282 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 1: Was three years? You're a die hard, right, Yeah, But 283 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: now I can't remember how long he went first, and 284 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: I want to say it was like, no, she went 285 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 1: first and then he went I can't remember it was 286 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: a year or three years, which is a very different story. 287 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: But you know what's interesting about that question, though, is 288 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: it's hard to really tell when you're watching the show 289 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: if she really knew or didn't. Now, apparently she was 290 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: in for a year and a half, year and a 291 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: half and he was three years. If she knew that 292 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: he was cheating, or about the prisons because during the 293 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 1: show they're still married, you know what I mean. So 294 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:32,359 Speaker 1: it's like, I don't know that she would have admitted 295 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: at the time, Um, you know that she knew or 296 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: thought he was having an affair, but then he goes 297 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: to prison and it's like all this, so then she 298 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: admits it. So I don't know, Like I don't know 299 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: if she knew or had a nice um, maybe she 300 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 1: was trying to protect him or you're I mean, and 301 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 1: there were some there were some episodes where it's like 302 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 1: it's like pretty much right in front of you, but 303 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: well she's in the waiting room along with Melissa Feaster. 304 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 1: They've they're starting a podcast, UM, so we're going to 305 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 1: talk all things Bravo in her new podcast coming up 306 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 1: after this break. Hello, Hi, hi guy, Hi ladies. What's happening? 307 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: How are you good? How are you doing? You know 308 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: what I was jobs telling Teresa, I'm like, you know 309 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: what you know? I was telling her that you were 310 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: on Dancy When the Stars too. I was, UM, I 311 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 1: was on God, how many seasons ago was that? My 312 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: daughter was four months old she's now six, so I'm 313 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 1: bad at math. About six years ago. It was a 314 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: while ago. Yeah, I was about six years ago. Was 315 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: um Gleb's first season UM in the in the United States, 316 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: and that was it was It was a fun It 317 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 1: was it was fun, but it was definitely it's hard. 318 00:15:55,760 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: Did you enjoy your experience or yes? I did? Yeah, 319 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 1: you know, I had no dancing? How many How long 320 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: were you on for? Well? I made it to the semifinals. 321 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 1: But let me just I'll say this, though there was 322 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 1: on your season, there are Because Jesse Decker is a 323 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: friend of of ours, and I called her, like, girl, 324 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: there's like professional dancers in the CELEBT group, and that's tough. 325 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: You know. I'm like, it's it's almost like you're like, 326 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: you know, dancing with the celebrities, uh, you know, dancers, 327 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: because it's like they're all amazing. So it's like that's 328 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 1: that's a that's a hard cast to like compete with stars. Yeah, yeah, 329 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, it was a great experience. You know. 330 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 1: It was something that I've always wanted to do, So 331 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm glad I get to do it for sure. That's 332 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: at it. You know. It's a good point because I 333 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: was saying the same thing at Teresa, and I was like, 334 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: that's like you going and playing against Lebron and kind 335 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 1: of played basketball before, Like how is that fair? You're 336 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: probably not gonna win. You could be in the competition, 337 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 1: but it's just like, how are you gonna win against 338 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: a trained and then you also have twenty one year 339 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 1: olds against seven. You know, It's just you're a really 340 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 1: good friend though, because you didn't say she wasn't gonna 341 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 1: win against Lebron. You said she probably wouldn't friendship right there. Listen, today, 342 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 1: I really thought I was gonna make it to the 343 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 1: semi father, Like I knew it wasn't gonna win. At 344 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:29,199 Speaker 1: one point, I was like, my partner was Pasha and 345 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:31,879 Speaker 1: his wife one last season, So I was like, you 346 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 1: know what, you can't leave her Mary Ball on the 347 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: you know, on the mantel by itself. You need to 348 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: you know, you need to have one right next to her. 349 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 1: You guys are married. So here I'm thinking, like, you know, listen, 350 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: my hopes were high. I'm like, I could probably win 351 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: this because like I was putting, I was putting my 352 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 1: all into it, and I really you know, like the 353 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: first dance, I felt really confident, so like you know, Janet, 354 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: like there's so many movement parts your head, your foot, 355 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: you point your foot, your hands, your neck, like the 356 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: way you look like, there's so many movement parts. Like 357 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 1: so it's like I was just, you know, like I 358 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 1: was getting adjusted to that because if they were telling me, 359 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,160 Speaker 1: I looked up at the first the first my first dance, 360 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like, why I was looking up Because it's 361 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:20,600 Speaker 1: the tango. I'm also looking for Jesus because I need 362 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 1: all the help I can get. I mean, we're all 363 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 1: looking up. Yeah, You're like dear Lord, please get me 364 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,239 Speaker 1: through this. So you guys have a new podcast, it's 365 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:28,919 Speaker 1: out right now. And are you guys, like, are you 366 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 1: podcasting together or is it like this where it's like 367 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 1: literally you know. Okay. Wait questions. She's in l A 368 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 1: and I'm in New Jersey. Okay, Okay, I couldn't tell 369 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 1: you're from New Jersey at all, Teresa. It's like New 370 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 1: Jersey is my freaking favorite. But why do you say 371 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 1: that straight shooters from New Jersey? That accent is everything 372 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: to me? My accent? Okay, yeah, yeah, you know, it's 373 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 1: not like I can tell from the your background. Okay. 374 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: Two questions. A, I want to know what's the name 375 00:18:58,119 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: of the podcast? No mistake, bitches? Okay, I want to 376 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: sit on your laps. And then to you, how do 377 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 1: you all know each other? Okay? So I actually I 378 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 1: started a podcast side piece and I was interviewing, well, 379 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 1: I actually had Teresa's attorney on side piece, and then 380 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 1: he's so awesome and we, you know, became friends and 381 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 1: started a relationship. And then I met Teresa I think 382 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 1: the first time at Ultimate Girls Trip premiere. I became 383 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 1: friends with Cynthia Bailey, also from the Housewives and she 384 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:38,479 Speaker 1: invited me as her date to the Ultimate Girls Trip premiere. 385 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 1: Teresa was flying in to l A for it, and 386 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: I met Teresa and we just had great talk and 387 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: conversation and we just started talking and we hit it off. 388 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 1: And UM, I then went back to our attorney and 389 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: I said, you know what, I think there's something here. 390 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: I've been podcasting. I want to do more than just 391 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 1: me running my mouth. We have great conversations. I think 392 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 1: there's a lot more to Theresa than people see watching 393 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 1: you know, real Housewives in New Jersey. Um, they don't 394 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,120 Speaker 1: know about me. I think this could be a great 395 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: way to kind of open it up so people really 396 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,959 Speaker 1: get an inside look. Listen, just like you guys do, right, 397 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: It's not everything that you see in the headlines or 398 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: this or that. And I think there's just a lot 399 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 1: more to to what to who we are than what 400 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: you see. Yeah, I mean I definitely can you know. 401 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:32,479 Speaker 1: I think we can all relate to that. And it's like, uh, 402 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 1: you know, for you like Theresa, like, do you feel 403 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 1: like you have to constantly be like I'm not the 404 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 1: girl that flips the table, I'm not this, I'm not 405 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 1: that like and and then what what part of you 406 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,119 Speaker 1: has been like you know what, I'm done because I 407 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:44,960 Speaker 1: know I've struggled with it and be like I'm done 408 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 1: trying to like proved to you that I'm this way 409 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: or for you to like me like I just am 410 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: m and that's that's taken. I mean, it still takes 411 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 1: effort in a daily remembrance to be like, Okay, I 412 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,199 Speaker 1: don't need to I don't need a dent approval, right, 413 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 1: I don't need this us in too, like like me 414 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: or whatever, Like how do you how do you deal 415 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 1: with that? And and what are you doing to not 416 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 1: have to take those steps? Yeah? I mean, and it's 417 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 1: sad because I feel like that I've um, I feel 418 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 1: like that I've been trying to defend myself. Yeah. Like 419 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 1: like your finger, Oh sorry sorry, I can't get enough 420 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 1: of both of your finger. This ship all day long, 421 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,920 Speaker 1: you guys, this is not like because we're just talking 422 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 1: to the feeling. We're talking with ourselves. Magical moments for me. Um. Yeah, no, listen, 423 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 1: I had a great chemistry from the first day we met. 424 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: And it was so crazy because I was going to 425 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: do another podcast with these other two women and my 426 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 1: attorney was like no, and he kept pushing me off, 427 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: and I was like, why aren't you getting this done? 428 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, Adam, And then I guess because 429 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 1: you know, he knows me so well, and I guess 430 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 1: he knew like I would be a better fit with Melissa. 431 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: So it's a crazy because that other podcast. I was 432 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 1: working on it for like over a year trying to 433 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 1: get the contract done. And then so like I'm glad, see, 434 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: like everything's always meant to base, So I'm glad that Melissa. 435 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 1: I'm glad I married you instead. You know, they were 436 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: going crazy. She just the East Coast staying care of 437 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: and I have the West Coast staying care of. So 438 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 1: I was excited to do Dancing with the Stars because 439 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, maybe everyone don't get 440 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: to see a different side of me, because you know, 441 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 1: fans come up to me and like they're like or 442 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 1: they ask other people she really mean like that the 443 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 1: way she is on the show, and I'm like, oh 444 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 1: my god, like that's so far from who I am. 445 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 1: Like I'm like, I'm so easy going, I'm like easy 446 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 1: to talk to. I just go with the flow, and 447 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: you know, and that's who I really want people to see, 448 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: Like and to get to know like the real theories 449 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 1: of you guys, not not the like person that's always 450 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 1: defending herself housebands in New Jersey because you know, everyone's 451 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 1: always coming for me because I'm the o G. And 452 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,160 Speaker 1: of course if you come for Teresa, you get a platform. 453 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:07,119 Speaker 1: So it's like that's when And unfortunately, like I you know, 454 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,640 Speaker 1: like that's you know, I finally got that. But I mean, 455 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:14,360 Speaker 1: I wish the rest of America would see what's really happening, 456 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 1: because that's what happens, you know, Like they want to 457 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 1: come for me because then it gets them, you know, 458 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: then it gets them, you know, other people to talk 459 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: about them. So yeah, I mean, but tell you I'm tired. 460 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,959 Speaker 1: That's why I was excited about doing Dancing with the Stars. 461 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:33,880 Speaker 1: But hopefully this season, on season thirteen, maybe people will 462 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 1: get to see a different side of me. So has 463 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 1: that been hard then for you and Louis since he's 464 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 1: come into the mix later? For you and you dealing 465 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,120 Speaker 1: with a lot of backlash and then now a lot 466 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 1: he gets a lot of backlash, Like, how has that 467 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 1: been for y'all? Has that been a hard dynamic? Well? Yeah, 468 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 1: I mean you guys saw like yeah, when he came 469 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 1: on and then it's like, you know, then I had 470 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,679 Speaker 1: one of my cast members trying to hurt him. I 471 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 1: had I had to said her straight. In Nashville, you 472 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 1: guys saw that, right, Yes, you know the whole table 473 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 1: ended up on run. You know, but you guys will 474 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 1: see season thirteen how that plays out, how that you 475 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 1: know ends up and um, but listen, we're very strong, 476 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: the two of us, and none of that heard us, 477 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: like Louie and I and I mean, I think season 478 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 1: thirteen is definitely going to be an eye opener for everyone. Good. 479 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:38,919 Speaker 1: I want to talk about the podcast, but I just 480 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 1: want to ask one relationship question, if it's okay around 481 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 1: how you were able to open your heart back up 482 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: again after everything that you went through with you know, 483 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:53,239 Speaker 1: your first husband. Um. Well yeah, when he left, um, um, 484 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I'm gonna work on myself. 485 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,919 Speaker 1: And I've always wanted to do a bikini fitness competition 486 00:24:59,800 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 1: and and and I did it. I was like, oh 487 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,479 Speaker 1: my god. You know. Oh, well, first of all, when 488 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 1: I when when I was in like in camp, in camp, 489 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 1: you know, when I was in camp, Um, I did yoga, 490 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 1: I exercised so much so when I came out, I 491 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 1: got certified in yoga, and then I came home. Joe 492 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:22,120 Speaker 1: left three months later, and then when he left, Um, 493 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 1: that's what I did. I got certified in yoga. I mean, unfortunately, 494 00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,439 Speaker 1: I lost my mom eight months later, so I went 495 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 1: through a hard time. Then my dad moved in with me. 496 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,840 Speaker 1: And then after that, after I got fried in yoga, 497 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,679 Speaker 1: that's when I did the bikini Fitness competition. I was 498 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 1: just like working on myself and then when I was 499 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:44,640 Speaker 1: ready for love, Um, it just came, it really did. 500 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 1: I mean I was going out, you know, I was 501 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 1: meeting I mean, that's the thing. I'm so happy I didn't, 502 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:51,639 Speaker 1: like I didn't have to date like a million guys. 503 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,399 Speaker 1: So that's really not my thing. I'm kind of you know, 504 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 1: like think I'm like grateful to God and grateful to 505 00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 1: my parents because you know how I met Louis. I'll 506 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:01,200 Speaker 1: tell you guys, and then I put the story out 507 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 1: on the Housewives. I really, Um, I lost both my parents. 508 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,120 Speaker 1: Then my dad lives with me three years after my 509 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: mom passed, you know, after my mom passed, and then 510 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 1: I never knew like if you really want something, um, 511 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:18,679 Speaker 1: you asked somebody that was close to that passed away. 512 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: So I looked up in the sky and I swear 513 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 1: I started pouring my guts out to my parents on 514 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,880 Speaker 1: Bay Boulevard at the Jersey Shore and guys. A few 515 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 1: weeks after that, I met Louis on Baby Boulevard on 516 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:37,199 Speaker 1: the stage. I swear to God, I swear to you 517 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,159 Speaker 1: on my four like that really happened. I really, I 518 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,119 Speaker 1: just poured my my mom blah blah. I called my 519 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,360 Speaker 1: father Blabama Italian, my please send me a guy that's 520 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,679 Speaker 1: everything you've ever wanted for me and more, someone to 521 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 1: treat me like a princess that talks to me so sweet, 522 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 1: because my parents didn't like Joe's vocabulary and how he spoke. 523 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 1: Like so I actually, really, like you know, poured my 524 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,439 Speaker 1: guts out to my parents and told him everything that 525 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 1: I was looking for. And a few weeks later, Wila, 526 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 1: I like, as I'm walking, that's how I meet LOI wow, Okay, 527 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: So how can I ask this or is this? Are 528 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,479 Speaker 1: we saving some of this? I need to know, like 529 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 1: how did the first meet meet happen? Our first date? 530 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 1: Like how did you when you meet him on Babe Bolivard? 531 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 1: How do you meet him? And is it bay or 532 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: b a e bay? Okay, I have no problems on 533 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,199 Speaker 1: you guys. Storry Okay. So I'm I'm walking with my 534 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,400 Speaker 1: two girlfriends. Like one of them is married, the other 535 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: one single. We had we went out the night before. 536 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 1: I was hungover and then you know, we drove you know, 537 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 1: we had a birthday party and like up north, so 538 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:50,199 Speaker 1: then we drove back down the shore and so it 539 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,959 Speaker 1: was it was a crappy day. I was a cloudy. 540 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: So my girlfriend and we would walk every single morning 541 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: because it was during COVID. I mean I think it was. Yeah, 542 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 1: it was kind of COVID but keeping distant, you know, 543 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 1: because it was like two So my girlfriend caused me 544 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 1: in the morning, She's like, we just got down the shore. 545 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 1: And then she's like, she gives me a call. She 546 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,400 Speaker 1: dropped me off in my shorehouse. She was at her shorehouse. 547 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 1: She's like, oh, I'm gonna pick you up, and it's like, 548 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 1: let's go walking. I'm like, are you crazy. It's eleven 549 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,719 Speaker 1: thirty twelve o'clock. I'm like, it's like so hot now. 550 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: Because we would walk first thing in the morning to 551 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,679 Speaker 1: get it out of the way, and I'm like, you're crazy. 552 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 1: Now I don't even I'm like, I'm not gonna walking 553 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 1: right now. So late, like it's so hot out, I'm 554 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: like I'm not doing it. She's like, get your ass going, 555 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: let's go. I'm like all right. So she like, you 556 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 1: know twists, you know, like I like a girlfriend that 557 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 1: like pushes you. You know, I don't know anything about 558 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 1: that either. Yeah, so I'm like all right. So we 559 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 1: went and then like me and my two other girls, 560 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 1: it was Rosanna and Dana. We went walking and as 561 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 1: we're walking by, I'm pointing at the um Louis and 562 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 1: like he was, I was putting out this white range 563 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: Rover with black rims, and I'm like, oh my god, 564 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 1: look that guy has my card that I that I 565 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 1: got rid of lash because I got a new Range Rover. 566 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, that guy has my car that 567 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 1: I got rid of. I was just pointing and saying 568 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 1: because we had the same car. And and then he waves, 569 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 1: so he waves, and then um Dana is like my girlfriend, 570 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 1: the married girlfriend now, so you know, she goes She's like, 571 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm gonna go talk to him, like 572 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: what are you doing? So she goes across like you 573 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 1: know that I don't know if you guys know, the 574 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 1: right in the middle there's grass, so she starts walking 575 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 1: towards him. So they both meet in the middle where 576 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 1: the grass part is, you know. So then me and 577 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 1: Rosanna on the other side. So the two of them 578 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 1: were talking and then I feel bad. I'm like, oh, 579 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, ro let's go by her. I feel bad. 580 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: She's just we just left her by herself. So then 581 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 1: we go by her. And then oh, I went by him, 582 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: and then um and then oh yeah, Rosanna came with 583 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 1: me too, and then I introduced myself on the caim Tresa, 584 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 1: everybody introduced themselves, and then that was that. They were 585 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 1: kind of done talk. And he had two business cards 586 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: on him and he goes this, well, you know, my 587 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 1: name's Louie. And then he was his son. He was 588 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 1: so cused with the sun there and then um, he 589 00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 1: gave me a business card and he gave Dana business 590 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 1: card and that was it, and then we keep walking 591 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:13,200 Speaker 1: and then um um we keep walking and then he 592 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: comes pulling up with his car with his son and 593 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 1: his girlfriend in the backseat, and he goes like this, 594 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 1: He goes, my son wanted to know why I didn't 595 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: asked for your number, Teresa, and that's how I like, yeah, yeah, 596 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: And then I was embarrassed to give my number in 597 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,479 Speaker 1: front of his son and son's girlfriend. So I said, well, 598 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 1: I have your business card, I'll text you. And then 599 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 1: my girlfriend Dana said give me your friend. Then after 600 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 1: we laughed. After he laughed, right, my girlfriend Dana took 601 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: my phone said give me your phone, and she texted 602 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,800 Speaker 1: him from my phone and said and gave my number, 603 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 1: and that was in. It was history ever since that night, 604 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 1: we talked on the phone for hours, like and every 605 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 1: each night. That's how I was bay On Babil. I 606 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 1: love that Melissa had and our first sorry, and our 607 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,560 Speaker 1: first two walks were I mean, our first two days 608 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: were walks. Yeah, he came to I met him on 609 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: a Friday morning. He came down the shore that Monday morning. 610 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 1: We took a walk. Then he sent me flowers to 611 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: my short house and then my kids are like, who's that? 612 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 1: You know those? Because the flowers are so beautiful. And 613 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 1: then our second day we went walking. I took him 614 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 1: on a seven mile walk. Wait, and he pulled his 615 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: so ad, he's so ad, and he said he couldn't 616 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 1: he's like so I was like because he running that 617 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 1: morning and he's like he hold is so ad. So 618 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,640 Speaker 1: he was like at a commission for like three days 619 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 1: from now, Like it it took a few months, it 620 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,800 Speaker 1: really did, Like I think three months Yeah, before that happened. 621 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah was it? Like I mean I just think that's 622 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 1: beautiful because I mean I know from the show, Um, 623 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 1: you know people were saying that your first X was 624 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: cheating on you, and um so my my my ex 625 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: husband had a couple of affairs, and um, I think 626 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 1: like finding the next love is always kind of like 627 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 1: hard because you're so cautious at least I am, like, 628 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 1: I'm so like scared to be like this is that 629 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,040 Speaker 1: going to happen again? Am I gonna get fooled? Is 630 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: like the you know. And it's also always love hearing 631 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 1: stories where it's like you just you gave your heart 632 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 1: and he's a good guy. And I think that's a beautiful, 633 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: beautiful story. Thank you. Um Can I just add like 634 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 1: did you catch him cheating? Yeah? Yes, I mean it was. 635 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: I would love to know. I would love to because 636 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: like I just want to clear something up with about 637 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:52,440 Speaker 1: my ex. Sure, I never I never caught him cheating 638 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 1: and trust me, girls, I'm the type that if I 639 00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: call him cheating, I would be done. Like I'm not 640 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: giving you a second chance. I don't care if we 641 00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,960 Speaker 1: have four kids. I'm not that tight. That's just me, 642 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: you know, to each his own. You know, listen, if 643 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,920 Speaker 1: somebody forgives, God bless them, if they can move on 644 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: by that, God bless them. I was never I'm not 645 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 1: that tight. Once you stick your peeping and somewhere, can 646 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: I say that, you can say penis, Yeah, yeah, I 647 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 1: just want to take it. I want to have a 648 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 1: very note that I want to. You can say your 649 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 1: dirty to just use Can I use peep? I'm like, 650 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 1: yeah they do. I'm like burning all the time. She's 651 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,880 Speaker 1: like it's okay. I'm like I have a three year old. 652 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,480 Speaker 1: Like we talked about peeps. Yeah, I don't know a 653 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 1: real good So if you if he stuck his peep 654 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:48,320 Speaker 1: and someone else, you're done. But like I'm having a 655 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: good Yes, I'm done. Like there was no second chances. No, No, 656 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 1: that's just me. You know, listen, I know there's women 657 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 1: that you forgive and God bless them. If they can 658 00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 1: move on, that's good. You know, coud us to them. 659 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 1: I just can never do that. So I just want 660 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:04,800 Speaker 1: every like because I want to put it out there 661 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,240 Speaker 1: that I never call my ex cheating. There was two 662 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:13,799 Speaker 1: women that um I had I thought something, but um 663 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:17,759 Speaker 1: I confronted them and you know, they both said no. 664 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 1: The one started crying hysterical. She's like, how could you 665 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 1: say that? And I was like, well, listen, you know, 666 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 1: because you guys speak a lot, like I just want 667 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 1: to know. And the tabloids did take their picture. They 668 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 1: were they were in this place in the city, and 669 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,879 Speaker 1: Joe didn't even tell me about it. But then, this 670 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 1: is why I believe Joe, because he was in his 671 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 1: work close and he's and we were gonna that's when 672 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,719 Speaker 1: we were going through all legal troubles and he had 673 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 1: met with her because he wanted her to testify in court. 674 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 1: So I believed him, so I did, you know, I 675 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 1: did believe him, and and um so he's like, that's 676 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 1: why I met with her. But I'm like, you should 677 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,240 Speaker 1: have told me. And then, like, you see how people 678 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,960 Speaker 1: take pictures. So it's like, even if you wanted to 679 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:00,719 Speaker 1: get away with it, it's was kind of hard for 680 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 1: him because we were in the public. Guy, but you know, 681 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: what if he did do something with these two women, 682 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:08,839 Speaker 1: like they both denied it to me, Like if I 683 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,839 Speaker 1: was doing something with another guy, I would be like, yes, 684 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 1: I am him, you know, I would say the truth. 685 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: We really escilated quickly from Pep. I mean, we have 686 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:25,800 Speaker 1: just moved, We've got some listen to this whole podcast 687 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 1: world is new for me, but I like love it 688 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 1: and I can't wait. So so in your gut, like 689 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,440 Speaker 1: you don't think that he didn't then cheated in my 690 00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,400 Speaker 1: gut listen, because I think a woman's gut is like 691 00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 1: the most is the strongest superpower we have, and I 692 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 1: think so, I'm not so sure that those women know 693 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,879 Speaker 1: what You're right, but this was my thing. I did 694 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,400 Speaker 1: have four kids at the time, and I was like, 695 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,840 Speaker 1: I can't just go by my gut like I needed 696 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 1: like how do you tell your kids, like um oh, 697 00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: I thought daddy was cheating, but like I didn't. I 698 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,920 Speaker 1: wanted proofs, like I wanted them to say yes I 699 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: am or yes, like I have pictures. Because my ex 700 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,399 Speaker 1: boyfriend that I dated, like before Joe, I dated him 701 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,360 Speaker 1: for six years and I called him like I actually 702 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,400 Speaker 1: call him. I spoke to the other girls. They showed 703 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,280 Speaker 1: me pictures like he was calling me, crying me, crying 704 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,800 Speaker 1: to me and saying, I missed you. I'm home Louis 705 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:24,799 Speaker 1: thanksgiving me while he's another girl in the Bahamas and 706 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 1: the girls when your kids. Yeah, well anyway, and that 707 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: girl showed me pictures of them being the Bahamas. Do 708 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 1: you see what I mean? So it's like with this one, 709 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:36,880 Speaker 1: like they both denied it. So it's like, what do 710 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:40,280 Speaker 1: I do? So I believe Joe I did. I believed 711 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 1: him and co parenting. How is that? Has that been? Okay? 712 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 1: It's great. Yeah, he's yeah, like you know, and my 713 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,640 Speaker 1: kids are really happy and I he you know, he's 714 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 1: met Louie. Louise has been amazed, like Louis reached out 715 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 1: to him. We went to the Bahamas with him. Yeah, 716 00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:01,879 Speaker 1: I mean Louise Louie is like I mean, like when 717 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,360 Speaker 1: he set it up the dinner with my ex because 718 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 1: he deemed him and I didn't even know about it 719 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:07,680 Speaker 1: because we were going to Bahamas to pick up my 720 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 1: youngest one because she had to go come home to 721 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 1: go back to dance for competition, and he deemed him. 722 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, what what did you do? Like I'm freaking 723 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 1: out like you am my ex for what. He's like, 724 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna have dinner with him? I'm like yeah, He's 725 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,799 Speaker 1: like he's like, don't you understand, Like if we're I 726 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,000 Speaker 1: want to be good with Joe because it'll make the 727 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,920 Speaker 1: girls feel comfortable. Like I'm just saying, he's just like 728 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 1: a He's a gem. He Melissa, have you did you 729 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:39,000 Speaker 1: watch the show before you and Teresa started working together? Yeah, 730 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: I've seen. I mean I'm like a Bravo door. So 731 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 1: you were like, just so, what do you so now 732 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 1: like working you know, doing this podcast together. What is 733 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:55,000 Speaker 1: something that you've noticed that like people don't see about Teresa. 734 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 1: I think it's just all of them in general, I 735 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 1: mean whomever it is, like an athlete or you know, 736 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 1: off the court or someone like you know, Teresa. I 737 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,719 Speaker 1: think there's just more to you know, who they are, 738 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 1: and you know, they're also putting in not typical situations, 739 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 1: right like you're all crazy bitches together, you're drinking, you're drunk, 740 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 1: you're you know, emotions are running high. It's not a 741 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 1: typical situation. And you know, we see a lot of 742 00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 1: fighting across the board from anyone if anyone obviously watches Housewives. 743 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 1: It's not just Teresa, It's like across the board. So 744 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:38,400 Speaker 1: I get that. Um, you know, my husband works in entertainment. 745 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,640 Speaker 1: I've seen the behind the scenes with his clients and 746 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,920 Speaker 1: people that he has. So I'm always not one to 747 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,800 Speaker 1: judge a book. I have been judged a lot based 748 00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:52,319 Speaker 1: on my appearance or whatever. What are people? What are 749 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 1: people judging? What do they say about me? I'm so 750 00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm a I'm also a Stanford met sort of fighting autritionist. 751 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 1: I've worked out my whole life. I've played sports my 752 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:07,480 Speaker 1: whole life. Um, you know, if you're if you're too heavy, 753 00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 1: then you're shamed. Right. If you're fit or thin, then 754 00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,600 Speaker 1: you have an eating disorder and eat a burger or 755 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 1: the blonde from l A. I'm not from l A 756 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 1: like I am a nutritionist. I just like to work 757 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,759 Speaker 1: out and stay healthy. So I mean people, I have 758 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,920 Speaker 1: two kids that are under five, so you know, the 759 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 1: judgments are always there. I'm the last one to do that. 760 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 1: I want to take the person for how they are 761 00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:36,120 Speaker 1: and make my own assessments. And Teresa other people have 762 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 1: not been cool with to me. I can tell you 763 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,480 Speaker 1: that from the Housewives, they're just in general Teresa from 764 00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:48,759 Speaker 1: the get go was nothing but sweet, open, kind like genuine, 765 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:50,840 Speaker 1: so right off the bat, then I'm like, Okay, this 766 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,279 Speaker 1: is someone not gonna be cool with. She's not fake, 767 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:56,400 Speaker 1: bit Like I can't handle that. Um and she was 768 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,840 Speaker 1: just always amazing right off the bat. And there's a 769 00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 1: lot more than everyone sees and hears. I love that. 770 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 1: And and and then on Amastate Bitches, what are you guys 771 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:07,839 Speaker 1: wanting with that podcast? Like who are you bringing on? 772 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,920 Speaker 1: What are you guys talking about? And then why should 773 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 1: wind down? Listen to namast Bitches? Right after this? I 774 00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:17,840 Speaker 1: mean true, let me and then you go true. I 775 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,880 Speaker 1: mean I think we listen because this is exactly it, right, Like, 776 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,320 Speaker 1: you don't hear these stories. You don't know these stories, 777 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 1: you don't you don't see a lot of the Teresa 778 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:29,600 Speaker 1: behind the drawing up during on someone's face, or flipping 779 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 1: a table right or fighting with a freaking sister or brother, Like, 780 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,080 Speaker 1: there's so much more to it. There's so much more. 781 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 1: Do you know things about me personal life? Maybe what 782 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,800 Speaker 1: we've been through, what you've been through your hard times, 783 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,719 Speaker 1: maybe I've been through it, And so there's a lot 784 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:45,920 Speaker 1: of that out there that I think that we need 785 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 1: to tell people and talk about that can help other 786 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,399 Speaker 1: people do. I mean, that's why are you on your 787 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:55,680 Speaker 1: platform right to talk about very serious personal things that 788 00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 1: have happened, the great things that have happened, being a mom, 789 00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 1: being on TV, you know, doing things, physical abuse, you know, 790 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 1: all those things. So I think there's a lot more 791 00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 1: to both of us and people could ever imagine, and 792 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:10,920 Speaker 1: it's good for us to get it out there. It's 793 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,319 Speaker 1: good to help people to do it. Uh. And it's 794 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,239 Speaker 1: real and it's raw and it's not bullshit, and it's 795 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,600 Speaker 1: not safe, and it's not scripted and not saying Housewives 796 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,439 Speaker 1: is scripted, but I'm just saying it's just real, raw 797 00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: who I am and who theresas that you would never 798 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 1: see by watching a show or reading some freaking tabloid. Yeah. Yeah, 799 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,839 Speaker 1: I mean, I'll just a that's something real quick. I mean, 800 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,480 Speaker 1: I feel like I was given this platform for a reason. UM. 801 00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: So many people come up to me and tell me, UM, 802 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:44,120 Speaker 1: like you're so inspiring that you know, um that if 803 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:47,480 Speaker 1: it was you know that everything I've been through there, 804 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:50,880 Speaker 1: like you've gotten me so much that they had cancer 805 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:55,520 Speaker 1: I helped them get through with UM, Like so many things, surgeries, 806 00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:57,640 Speaker 1: so many things. So it's like I'm like, okay, I 807 00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,480 Speaker 1: get it. Maybe you know this is why I was 808 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,839 Speaker 1: given this platform because you know I have been through 809 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 1: so you know, like hard times and you know we 810 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 1: all have. So if if I could help you know 811 00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 1: a few people out there, I would love to do that, 812 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 1: like or encourage them to be strong and to keep 813 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,439 Speaker 1: it going and to not give up. Um, I want 814 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:22,280 Speaker 1: to do that. And there's so many doesn't everybody listening. 815 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,600 Speaker 1: When you hear me yelling at Theresa which she's covering 816 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:30,120 Speaker 1: the camera, I personally can't dogs to start barking in 817 00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:33,480 Speaker 1: the background and have her young girl help her with 818 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 1: how do we just got her face or got her 819 00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 1: finger back on? O'm sorry sack. Every day, well you 820 00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 1: know today is um young ppor so my children at 821 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,160 Speaker 1: home so it's a little crazy, but you know I'm 822 00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,959 Speaker 1: a real mom, so and they have like they're all home, 823 00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,880 Speaker 1: drive me here, drive me there. I'm like, you know, 824 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 1: I'm still I'm an uber driver. That's my second job, 825 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,560 Speaker 1: a reality I think it's important to say though too, 826 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,960 Speaker 1: because we started the show about like you know, I 827 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,000 Speaker 1: was kind of struggling like with purpose and then like 828 00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:11,839 Speaker 1: you know, just um the platform, like why certain things 829 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,080 Speaker 1: happen to certain people. And I think you know with 830 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,279 Speaker 1: everything you've gone through, everything that you guys have both 831 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 1: gone through. I mean now it's like now you have 832 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 1: the platform, You're on the show, you're talking about how 833 00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 1: to you know, have a redemption story with a marriage 834 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,960 Speaker 1: and like Kristen, like with your miscarriages and you know, 835 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,279 Speaker 1: and everything else that you go through. Like you're like, 836 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 1: we all have gone through things to be able to 837 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:34,520 Speaker 1: help that one person. So it's like, yeah, there's for 838 00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,320 Speaker 1: the for the you know, a couple of thousand people 839 00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:41,040 Speaker 1: bad mouthing us on a on a forum, it's like 840 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,840 Speaker 1: it's the and I'm like, I'm done with this. I'm 841 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 1: not I don't want to do this anymore. I want 842 00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:46,960 Speaker 1: to get on Instagram. It's the one person that comes 843 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,000 Speaker 1: up to us and says, hey, you're sharing your abuse story, 844 00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,359 Speaker 1: saved my life or X Y and Z, And it's 845 00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 1: like that's where I'm like, Okay, there is a reason why. 846 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,560 Speaker 1: And it's like, yes, people are going to pick apart 847 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,560 Speaker 1: every word we say, every word you say, but it's 848 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,040 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, there will be someone 849 00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:05,080 Speaker 1: that actually knows your heart, here's your heart, and it helps. 850 00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,200 Speaker 1: So we have a say in our house, truth over volume. 851 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,840 Speaker 1: So that's just where I keep my heart, Truth over volume. 852 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:18,719 Speaker 1: You know what. One, I'm sorry about your miscarriages, but 853 00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,759 Speaker 1: it's again more things. Maybe you don't know that we've 854 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,240 Speaker 1: been throwing, but let's say you've been through that awesome. 855 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, the odds are one of more 856 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:30,919 Speaker 1: than just me has right right one. And and it's 857 00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:34,239 Speaker 1: just you know, for Teresa, as much as you might hear, 858 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,560 Speaker 1: it's sometimes I'm like, do like what even shocks you? 859 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,480 Speaker 1: Like what gets to you? Because I mean like you 860 00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,920 Speaker 1: were just saying, like I'm done with this, the comments, 861 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:46,719 Speaker 1: the trolls, just the nastiness, Like that's not our jam 862 00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:48,719 Speaker 1: at all. I mean, I can't even tell you how 863 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:51,040 Speaker 1: many conversations we've had about this podcast and how do 864 00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:52,759 Speaker 1: we do it? What do we do when we make 865 00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,200 Speaker 1: it about and everything that comes out in math is 866 00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,320 Speaker 1: like I wanted to be positive. I wanted to be 867 00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,799 Speaker 1: like just like uplifting in this and that. And for 868 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,799 Speaker 1: as much as you think she gets, I just I'm like, 869 00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 1: doesn't that get to you? And she's like not, I 870 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:10,600 Speaker 1: mean nothing gets to this woman where I would probably 871 00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 1: I mean now anymore, I wouldn't, but it's it's it's 872 00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 1: quite amazing that like nothing really gets to her. I mean, 873 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:23,360 Speaker 1: trust me, bigs do get to me. That's why Margaret 874 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,839 Speaker 1: was wearing everything on the table like that. You know. 875 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:31,080 Speaker 1: But I you know, I have been working on myself, 876 00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:34,479 Speaker 1: like I never believed in a therapist. And you'll see 877 00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 1: season three that, um, you know I do because you 878 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,440 Speaker 1: know what, a lot of people were triggering me. You know, 879 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,440 Speaker 1: we're trying to come after me, of course because I'm 880 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 1: the o G and it gives him a platform. And 881 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 1: I was just like I need to, like I don't 882 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 1: want to get triggered anymore. Mean, but I don't pay 883 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:56,080 Speaker 1: attention to people on the Instagram, like the comments on yeah, 884 00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:59,200 Speaker 1: any of that, I just ignore. I'm you know, I'm 885 00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,279 Speaker 1: not on it that watch. Um whatever I see, either 886 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 1: I blocked the person, I delete it, or I just ignore. 887 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,239 Speaker 1: Those are the three things I do. But like, I 888 00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,440 Speaker 1: have been working on myself to like, you know, to 889 00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 1: not try to feed into the negativity and to just 890 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,759 Speaker 1: you know, like in real life, like try to ignore 891 00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:23,520 Speaker 1: all that nonsense. So I love it. Well, ladies, You're amazing. 892 00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,359 Speaker 1: I'm excited to listen to No Misty Bitches because it's 893 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:30,239 Speaker 1: just a place uplifting. I know it's going to be fun. Yeah, 894 00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,320 Speaker 1: we could both, you know, I would love to both 895 00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,560 Speaker 1: learn from each other, like you know, and like I 896 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,319 Speaker 1: love that, you know, like and I want to hear 897 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:41,919 Speaker 1: your podcast. My Inner Table Flipper honors your Inner Table Flipper. Yeah, 898 00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:49,360 Speaker 1: I mean, you know what the rest or the Pope. No, 899 00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,400 Speaker 1: but my thing is everyone has it in them, like absolutely, 900 00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,799 Speaker 1: if it needs something a lot to someone and you're 901 00:46:55,800 --> 00:47:01,000 Speaker 1: trying to hurt that person, it's just you know about everybody, 902 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,759 Speaker 1: everybody's different like with that. This is my this is 903 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 1: like at it was my love. Like I met Louis, 904 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,920 Speaker 1: I fell in love with him, like I adored him, 905 00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,239 Speaker 1: and I cure, someone's trying to hurt someone that I 906 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 1: loved and it you know, and it bothered me. So 907 00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,040 Speaker 1: I mean, and then the last time was one of 908 00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,760 Speaker 1: my dear friends when I when I did the table flip, 909 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:25,080 Speaker 1: it was Dina and she was you know, like I 910 00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:28,319 Speaker 1: knew she she wasn't a fighter, and and I was there, 911 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,319 Speaker 1: you know, Danielle was going after Dina. And then that's 912 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,040 Speaker 1: when I went, like, I was like, stop this, and 913 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,120 Speaker 1: I just like, I don't know, like I remembered like 914 00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,800 Speaker 1: that whole table fi thing happened like when I was younger, 915 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,279 Speaker 1: and like my dad would get our attention that way. 916 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,520 Speaker 1: So I was like, I need to get this bitch 917 00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,560 Speaker 1: like quiet down, you know. And that was it. And 918 00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:48,279 Speaker 1: I figured that, you know, I say, you know, I 919 00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:50,239 Speaker 1: don't know, it was just it happened. I wasn't even 920 00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,840 Speaker 1: thinking about it, wasn't you know, premeditating it. And that 921 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 1: was it and I got her attention. Well good for you, 922 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,160 Speaker 1: all right later as well, if you're ever in Nashville, 923 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:07,040 Speaker 1: hit us up and we can wind out literally all right. 924 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:12,759 Speaker 1: Thank you, ladies, appreciate you, thank you, thank you so 925 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 1: much