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Speaker 2: Grayson is on the phone today for a first a

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named

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Speaker 2: annabel So in a few minutes we'll call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and

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Speaker 2: maybe get him another date. But first, Grayson, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Annabelle.

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Speaker 3: It's been it's been It's less than a week, but

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Speaker 3: it's been a few days.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, but long enough for you to feel worried.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess it was like it was last weekend.

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Speaker 3: So it's been yeah, three four days, And yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: starting to feel confused because we had pretty confident. We

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Speaker 3: had an awesome time. So I don't understand where the

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Speaker 3: disconnect is maybe coming in here.

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Speaker 1: So why don't you tell us about the date? Then

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Speaker 1: let's see if you can figure it out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm not you know, I'm not the

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Speaker 3: most handsome guy in the world, but I'm decent looking.

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Speaker 3: And annabel came over and we had I mean, I

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Speaker 3: thought we had a spark. We were like, we were smiling,

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Speaker 3: we were laughing immediately. I mean, she's got these really

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Speaker 3: great comeback and she's got this really kind of charming

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Speaker 3: just kill her smile. You know, she kind of like

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Speaker 3: looks up at you and side smiles and it just

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Speaker 3: kind of makes you feel something cool. And I don't know,

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Speaker 3: we played board games. She was crushing me on trivial Pursuit.

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Speaker 3: I mean, she's got she you know, there's there you go,

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Speaker 3: this is a.

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Speaker 1: Triple the way. So she came to your to your place.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we just had like a cozy, you know, quiet

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Speaker 3: night at my place, which was great. I like to cook,

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Speaker 3: so we made some like homemade pizza, you know, something

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Speaker 3: It was a good time. And uh, like I said,

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Speaker 3: we played like a marathon of board games, which is

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Speaker 3: I love doing that. I always did that grown up.

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Speaker 3: And you know, we got nineties playlists. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: mean it was just like it was this amazing fun night.

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Speaker 1: Well what do you think could have gone wrong?

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Speaker 3: You know, we were a little you know, there's you

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Speaker 3: know the night, we got a little flirty. You know,

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Speaker 3: we did some wine. We're kind of cleaning up and

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Speaker 3: finally found ourselves kind of next to each other, had

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Speaker 3: And while I was cleaning and this short this is like, honestly,

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Speaker 3: the only thing I can think of is that while

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Speaker 3: pizza sauce under under her like Swede sneakers, they're pretty nice,

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Speaker 3: they're like white sneakers. And she kind of freaked out

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Speaker 3: me a little bit, and she said it was late

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Speaker 3: quick exit. I guess it was. It was a fun

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Speaker 3: It was just like a super fun style date with

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Speaker 3: pizza kiss. Chemistry was really strong. And then yeah, she

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Speaker 3: actually her the next day. You know, I was like

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Speaker 3: not I mean, she doesn't have any read receipts, but

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she's like a little sauce.

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Speaker 3: I mean, if that's if that's the reason.

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Speaker 4: It's like, come on, maybe she really loves her shoes

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Speaker 4: and if they're swayed, that's not always the easiest to clean. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's really expensive. And she's waiting for you to be like, hey,

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Speaker 4: I'll buy you a new pair of shoes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe that's what she wants, you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: All right, well we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll sell us why she's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you a second date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, sounds good.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll get your first day follow up next.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Grayson is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Annabelle.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: a second date. But before we do that, Grayson, why

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Speaker 2: don't you break down your date again for us real quick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: We had a great night. She came over, We watched

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Speaker 3: Netflix play four games, homemade pizzas just like the coach

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Speaker 3: e night at home. We had lots of chemistry. We

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Speaker 1: All right, well, I feel like she's waiting for you

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Speaker 1: to offer to buy anyone. Let's see if the pizza

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Speaker 1: sauce on the shoe did it? Are you ready for

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Speaker 1: us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Here we go, Hi, mespeak to Annabel please she Hey Annabel,

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Speaker 2: how are you?

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Speaker 1: This is a radio show. It's called the Jubile Show. Hey, Annabel,

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Speaker 1: I'm Nina Hima for it. Y. My name is Jebel. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I guess you know the show? What's up? Well?

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Speaker 2: Then heard a first date follow up before I have awesome?

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Speaker 1: Well, guess what, Annabel? Somebody email us about you?

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Speaker 3: They did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 2: It's the segment where if you go out on a

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Speaker 2: date with somebody and they end up ghosting you, they

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Speaker 2: ask why any idea who would email us?

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Speaker 5: Yep, I know I know exactly who it is, and

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Speaker 5: I'm sure he's on the.

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Speaker 1: Phone right, Yes he is.

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Speaker 2: Grayson told us about your date and said he really

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Speaker 2: liked you, but can't figure out why you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to tell him?

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Speaker 5: And I great, I'm just wondering, what do you think

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Speaker 5: that I'm ghosting you for? Like, what is your concern?

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Speaker 5: Why do you think I am?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know. We have an amazing night and

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Speaker 3: obviously have no problem answering the phone numbers that you

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Speaker 3: My guest is maybe because I splashed pizza sauce on

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Speaker 3: So that's the only knock on the entire night that

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Speaker 5: Grayton, You're so funny. It wasn't the sauce. Thank you

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Speaker 5: for caring about my safety about answers numbers that I

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Speaker 5: call and accept. That's really kind of you. But Bracon, Honey,

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Speaker 5: it was not a sauce. I looked down to look

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Speaker 5: where the sauce was slunk, and there was a giant

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Speaker 1: Like his apartment floor.

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Speaker 5: Like like, I looked where the sauce was slung because

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Speaker 5: I was like, oh, you know, like he was true.

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Speaker 5: We had a great time, And and I looked down

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Speaker 5: Was a literally like a DNA pile of nails.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, really over nail clippings is why you will We

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Speaker 3: had an amazing night and you saw some nail clippings

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Speaker 3: on my floor and you're not You're just gonna.

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Speaker 1: Grayson, you know, that's gross.

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Speaker 3: Like I don't know, it was a small, you know,

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Speaker 3: maybe small hamster sized pile.

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Speaker 1: It was I'm sized pile of nail clippings. That's a

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Speaker 4: I think if I were talking about a pile of

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Speaker 3: But I mean, come on, though, first of all, nail

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Speaker 3: what about what about our kiss at the end of

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Speaker 3: the night. I mean, come on, that was amazing.

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Speaker 5: Well that kiss was amazing. But now I'm sort of like, hmm,

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Speaker 5: you're welcome, So I mean, bring it on to tech

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Speaker 5: of pautical what's what going on? What are the nail clippings?

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Speaker 3: We all have little gross corners in our apartments or

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Speaker 1: You you know you, so you know you have the

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Speaker 3: Yes, I am aware that she found my nail clipping corner.

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Speaker 1: Your nail clipping corner.

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Speaker 5: Which is describing, Oh my gosh, it's just like he

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, so found my nail clipping corner. But why

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Speaker 3: wouldn't you just say something? Why don't you just say

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Speaker 5: Why would I say something about it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what's the deal? You don't have your nailipping corner

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Speaker 5: I don't. I'm confused. I'll say you the way, get

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Speaker 3: Can I explain a little bit around this slason what

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Speaker 5: Of course, of course for it.

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Speaker 3: So, I actually have a small phobia around mail clippings.

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Speaker 3: I think they're disgusting. I don't like seeing them. I

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Speaker 3: This whole thing seems pretty silly. I'm pretty sure everybody

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's a deal breaker for me.

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Speaker 1: Are you serious?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, Annabel, is this is the

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Speaker 3: maybe it is for me.

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Speaker 5: Listen, dude, you do your thing. If I if the

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Speaker 5: lack of my having a dedicated nail clipping corner is

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Speaker 5: just crushing your ego, I'll let.

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Speaker 3: It go like it's cool.

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Speaker 5: I get it, I get it. Not everyone has a

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Speaker 5: place to do that. But I'll think about it. But

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Speaker 5: I really appreciate, you know, I appreciate all the time

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Speaker 3: Thank you. Well, how about this. I don't want this

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Speaker 3: nail clipping thing to destroy what I thought was an

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Speaker 3: amazing time. If you maybe want to be over for

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Speaker 3: a second date, I'm happy to help you find the

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Speaker 2: Well, Annabel, would you like to run another day with Grayson?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: No, I don't want you to help me with that.

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Speaker 5: I don't need any help with that. Thank you. No, no, no,

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Speaker 5: thank you. I don't need a nail clipping corner.

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Speaker 1: I don't think anybody does.

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Speaker 5: No, go ahead, Grayson, you do you. I'm going to

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