WEBVTT - Episode 433: Pardi's Response (Feat. Pardison Fontaine) 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:03.680 What's it's lip service. 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:04.960 I'm Angela Ye, I'm g. G. 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:06.840 Maguire, I'm Jazzmine Brand. 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:10.840 And well, first of all, thank you for coming and 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:13.240 sitting on the actual couch because we did lip service 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:16.000 live with you in Philly, which we appreciate you for. 0:00:16.079 --> 0:00:18.239 We were just reminiscing. He learned how to use a tampon. 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:21.800 I knew how to use. It just made me demonstrate. 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:24.680 You learn how to use I don't know, like I 0:00:24.880 --> 0:00:25.439 just I don't know. 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:29.520 I just knew it's really good for stopping up blood anywhere, 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:32.080 like if you have a cut or something those Yeah, 0:00:32.960 --> 0:00:33.400 because that's a. 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:36.360 Whole I've never used it, but I just figured it out. 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:39.800 Have you ever pulled the tampon out of someone like. 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:42.760 Yeah, yeah, I know you have? 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:47.360 Random you did. 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:49.440 Yeah, okay, because you know how sometimes it be a 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:52.280 period and guys don't care. Yeah, and then they start 0:00:52.320 --> 0:00:54.120 and then that's never happening. 0:00:54.520 --> 0:00:57.880 I mean they don't care you love like now you 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:00.520 just I just knew it was like this is five 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:03.720 and a half, like stop playing. 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:05.240 Looked at me. 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:11.600 Because sometimes you'll try to do it a little bit 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:13.480 and then it feels like the tampon is going further 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:15.520 up and you're like, am I gonna lose the string? 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:17.520 Oh my god, that's terrible. You haven't lost a. 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:19.360 Stamp tampa on the side of you, So I thought 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:22.400 I did once. Okay, I was very drunk and we 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:24.560 were and I was like, I can't, I can't. And 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:26.000 the next day I was like, where's the tampa. I 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:27.880 didn't remember taking it out. I actually went to the 0:01:27.920 --> 0:01:31.000 doctor because I was concerned, and the doctor was like, 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.280 there's nothing. I must have taken it out. I forgot 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:33.840 and didn't. 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:39.959 That happened to you, Yeah, I didn't. 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.160 I was drunk in Miami and I didn't realize I 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:44.319 had a tampa, and so I put another one in right, 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:46.840 and so took that one out, and then like a 0:01:46.840 --> 0:01:48.760 few days later it was I sat down and it 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:49.920 was like something like I was like. 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:50.480 What is this? 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:53.280 You know you had a miscarriage. 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.000 I was like, what is going on? Yeah, so I 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:56.480 guess I have put an extra one up there. I 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.040 don't know, so I had. 0:01:58.480 --> 0:01:59.840 It happened to me when I was back when I 0:01:59.920 --> 0:02:02.080 was dancing, because you know, when we danced on our periods, 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:03.440 we cut the string and. 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:05.080 It was like last day and I forgot. 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:11.160 Why can't you just stick you can't stick it out? 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:11.640 Just ahead. 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:13.560 I'm sorry, let's just it's just say for the cot 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:14.840 it No, So it wasn't. It was a couple of 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:17.920 days went by like the same, and I'm like, there's 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:20.320 something happening, and then I birth the tampon. 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:22.160 You went here to this. There was a woman who 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:24.200 I'm not going to say her name, but if you 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:25.560 ever look it up, you can find it. But she 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:29.399 actually had a tampon in her from months and forgotten. 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:32.079 Her partner at the time told her that she was 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:35.080 talked about this and she was like, you need to 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:36.480 go to the doctor. And it turned out she had 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.480 left the tampon in her for like two months. 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:39.799 Oh that was. 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:41.920 One hell of a stench. That was a whole dead body. 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:44.760 Oh my god, if I listen y'all, what if my 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.239 stayed up there. I didn't know, No, you would have known. 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:47.799 Yeah. 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:49.960 Yeah, So that lady was up there. 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:53.120 Up there, that had to be up she's unfortunately like her. 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:54.840 How of the guys she was dating, she had a 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:58.200 kid with him, he was like kind enough to tell her, like. 0:02:58.200 --> 0:02:59.200 That something was stink. 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:01.400 You need to go the doctor. Something wrong, And so 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:04.320 and truthfully, like, I mean, people are talking about stuff 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:05.919 like that at the time, but if there's a stense 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:07.280 that could there's something wrong. 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:08.079 You know What's funny? 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:10.440 Me and Angela, you and I had a conversation. I 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:12.400 was like, Yo, if I ever smell friend, you gotta 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:16.400 tell me. Yeah, don't let me walk around crazy. And somebody, 0:03:16.440 --> 0:03:18.720 probably Glad her Man did, But you know you you 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:19.800 want to tell your friend. 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.200 If you you know, have you ever to say that 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:23.840 to somebody like you got a little. 0:03:25.680 --> 0:03:27.400 Would you? But would you? 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:31.040 That's a tough con It depends on who it is. 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.160 You know, you never call me. 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:35.040 You know what I'm saying. That happened before more of that, 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:38.520 Like it wasn't all the way right there last time. 0:03:39.600 --> 0:03:41.920 You know what I'm saying, You give him one more 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:43.040 chance after that book? 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:43.360 You know. 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:44.080 Wow. 0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:45.960 Now I love the fact that he came in here 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:47.560 and the first thing party said to us was we 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:49.520 were talking about it, but you know what we're talking 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:50.920 you know. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:51.880 Who we're here? 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:54.600 He said, all right, So let's get into a whole 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:59.200 lot of things. First of all, so the EP project, 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:00.120 what do you call it? 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:02.880 Yeah, it was sex tape. You know what I'm saying 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:04.760 that was the name of the project. But you know, 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:06.840 when you're trying to promote stuff on Instagram, when you 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:08.000 use certain words. 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:09.240 They kind of like too many. 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:11.720 They try to like shadow band, you know what I'm saying, 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:14.520 Promoting sex tape might not go over well. So we 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:15.360 kind of went we're. 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.760 Just X tape because we were trying to figure that out, 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:20.120 because I said as X tape because we got a 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:22.679 little preview. Yeah, and then you have wrote sex tape 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:24.960 on social media sex. 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:26.719 Tape originally sex tape. 0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:30.720 So if you you see X tape is because it's abbreviated, right, 0:04:31.040 --> 0:04:31.400 got it? 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:33.680 Because I was thinking about it the first like a 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:36.680 few songs feel like about an X, but then later 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:40.000 on not as much. You know what I'm saying. I 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:42.440 didn't know if it was a progression of like just 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:45.320 breaking up with somebody, transition of even one. 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:47.680 I can see, I can see how one. 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:49.560 I think that, you know what I'm saying, I can see. 0:04:52.560 --> 0:04:53.080 The whole thing. 0:04:56.279 --> 0:05:02.360 That drink. We're going to talk about it. Yeah, let's start, 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:06.640 but show me love. I love the honesty. Where now 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:11.039 in this song, he says it even if his album Cardboard, 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:12.039 he still got good and. 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:16.160 Good and my heart is pure. 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:17.560 Don't get the heart cardboard. 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:19.280 If you go cardboard. I don't care. 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:21.920 I know I know who I am, and she shouldn't 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:26.160 care either. I mean, whoever you know, can we say, like, 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:29.240 you know your girl is here to the kingdom? Is 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:32.320 that like official official? Like that is my lady my 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:33.920 significant other? 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:36.920 Tell him real bad? 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:41.400 Did he like did you ask her like, listen, are 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:42.120 you my girl? 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:43.400 Is it? 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:47.480 Was it just like like this, you go hmm, you 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:49.960 look over one day you'll be like you better not 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:50.960 being nobody else? 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:59.960 And she says, all right, well let me let's say 0:05:59.960 --> 0:06:01.720 you not now that you say, I feel. 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:04.680 Like it has the hat you with it. Don't be 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:05.560 out here embarrassing me. 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:06.520 Yeah. 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:08.400 Yeah, And then she got to look at you and say, 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:11.600 better not be fucking nobody else, period, right, look at 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:15.720 her face over there, she said that too. Did you 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:18.400 say that back, like you better not be fucking nobody else? No, 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:19.520 you don't care. 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:23.719 Unless we're doing it together. That the set up. Have 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:24.960 you in here is the setup. 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:25.719 It's a great setting. 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:28.480 They're gonna keep doing it. 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:30.080 You got her in the middle of some ship though, 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:33.480 to be clearly well, not on purpose, but you had 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:36.400 some ship happening that was very public, and then it 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:39.240 ends up like trickling down, and then it turns into 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:40.800 a whole speculation. 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:44.120 I don't think that's the sequence of events. I don't 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:44.920 think that's all happened. 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:45.720 I can break it down. 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:49.760 I think everybody was going on with their lives peacefully, 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.320 you know what I'm saying. And there was no questions 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:55.200 about anything. I think we was just living all life, right. 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:58.160 We just went out and everything was great. 0:06:58.400 --> 0:07:02.760 Well, you hesitant to be like Instagram we outside, because 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:05.400 sometimes that's a hard step to take because you know 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:08.760 everybody's about to be like, what's going on happening? 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:11.400 Yeah, I mean it just was. I don't know. 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:14.200 It's not something I really thought about. We just living life, 0:07:14.200 --> 0:07:16.520 you know what I'm saying. So fashion just kind of happened, 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:19.120 like oh ship, I forgot you can't just go out 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:23.920 to pop out. I forgot about that. But just yeah, 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:24.840 just living life. 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:26.680 How did you guys need it? 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:28.960 I not this ain't on the questionnaire. I know this 0:07:29.000 --> 0:07:29.480 is not on it. 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:31.600 To write it down, I can ask you, this is 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:33.120 a regular conversation question. 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:37.640 Question the question there. 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:39.480 I know that's not on there. 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:41.080 That's neat. 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:45.840 I have been hitting about some some music actually, you 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:47.280 know what I'm saying. And then she got to like 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:49.600 just dubbed it, you know what I'm saying for a minute, 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:52.480 just this song like this. So I'm like, all right, 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:55.040 but we're gonna figure out what song this is to 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:56.760 get on, you know what I'm saying. So I'm like, 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:59.040 I'm being Miami soon whatever, you know what I mean, 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:02.400 It's just make something. Hell no, she definitely wasn't hearing 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:02.760 that ship. 0:08:02.880 --> 0:08:03.720 Okay, that's good. 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:05.920 So I don't know, just. 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:10.560 Through just constant efforts of trying to establish some type 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:12.760 of work relationship, was that. 0:08:12.760 --> 0:08:13.880 Really all that was on your mind? 0:08:13.920 --> 0:08:19.680 Took And if I'm honest, though, if I'm honest, the 0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:21.480 more and more I was hitting her just on music, 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:23.680 like she only had like four or five pictures up, 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:27.880 you know what I'm saying, the more she started posting like. 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:30.760 Wait a minute, now what you you about like to 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:33.679 her about her music. Initially, the tone she. 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:35.240 Had a crazy tone, you know what I'm saying. She 0:08:35.240 --> 0:08:35.920 had dropped the record. 0:08:36.000 --> 0:08:38.480 I'm like, and I had I had two records in 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:42.280 mind already, like Run Run, and then I had another 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:45.000 record that I was working on and I'm like, you 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:46.920 would be dope to have somebody that's you know what 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:49.920 I'm saying from this genre of music beyond her. So 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:51.720 she was the first one that came to mind, and 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:53.680 I would respect the craft. 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:55.040 So it worked out. 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:56.520 She's not. 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:01.880 She declined it too, but you know what. 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:10.160 Oh, top crowd, well at LISTA Dick is good. She's like, yeah, 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:12.880 but okay, there some type of collab that ended up 0:09:12.880 --> 0:09:16.679 having him. And even though she won't get on the mic, 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.959 I just got to ask you this, were you hesitant 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:22.199 knowing that, like all of the very public the breakup 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:24.480 that he was going through, did you hesitate as far 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:27.720 as like wanting to even post anything, just knowing that 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:32.880 it's going to be like ship got ship to do 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:33.280 with her? 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:34.040 Okay? 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:36.720 And sometimes it's annoying when you know, even though it 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:38.320 ain't got nothing to do with you, you like people 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:39.040 are gonna. 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:44.920 All right. 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:47.880 In case y'all couldn't hear what she said, She's just saying, 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:49.400 at the end of the day, she's in the spotlight. 0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:51.040 This is what comes with it, and so you know 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:53.960 what it is. Now, let's get to you partisan because 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:56.959 you haven't really spoken about this breakup other than in 0:09:57.000 --> 0:09:58.880 the song that you put out, which is not on 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.880 the album. But by the way, m hm, so you 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:03.680 put that out just as a stand alone. Was that 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:05.960 initially supposed to be on the project? 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:10.520 No, I had I had no intention on addressing you know. 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:13.000 Yeah, And that's what it feels like. 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:13.920 I know, you know what I'm saying. 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:16.120 It was very spontaneous. 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:17.280 Moving, you know what I'm saying. That was like I 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:19.880 felt like I just had to clear my name, like 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:20.400 you know what I'm saying. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:22.520 I didn't like what was did. 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:23.199 It so eloquently. 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.960 Thank you. That's not everybody's take, but. 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.720 Definitely everybody's appreciate that. 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:30.160 Anybody has listened to it. 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:33.080 I think that's like to take away from anybody who 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:35.079 really sat and listen to where I was trying to 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:37.400 go with it and coming from. But yeah, it was. 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:39.360 It was definitely not my intention. It was just something 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:41.960 I felt like I had to do. Like I didn't 0:10:41.960 --> 0:10:43.360 even put it on the tape because I didn't want 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:45.680 Oh you know what I'm saying. And now let me 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:47.959 get back to me where I was, where. 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:49.520 I was going back to regular schedule. 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:53.040 You had it all about did you have any second 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:54.320 thoughts about putting it out, like. 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:56.200 How long did you record it before you actually was 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.280 like I'm gonna let this fly because it felt to 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:00.800 me in my head when I heard I thought maybe 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:03.040 it was something you wrote to vent and maybe never 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:05.200 thought you might put out and then it could change 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:05.600 your mind. 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:06.040 I don't know. 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:08.520 I had several thoughts about, like, yo, just you know 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:11.080 what I'm saying. But the more and more it sat 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:13.680 with me, like I'm like, yo, I don't like this. 0:11:13.760 --> 0:11:15.160 I don't like the way, you know what I'm saying, 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:17.520 I'm being portrayed. I don't like people not knowing you 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:19.640 know what I'm saying the whole story, especially something I 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:21.400 had that was fun, you know what I'm saying. It 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:23.760 was left alone, everything was cool, but I felt like 0:11:23.760 --> 0:11:26.520 I just had to especially like the way that it 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:30.120 involved my my you know, current situation. It was like 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:32.400 people attacking her, you know what I mean. I'm like, 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:33.520 this has to be cleared up. 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.520 You know, sometimes we don't like when people could talk 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:38.880 about you, but when you talk about somebody I care about, 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:41.280 or make some that is kind of when people get 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:42.920 very like in protective mode. 0:11:43.040 --> 0:11:43.559 Yeah. 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:46.200 So okay, So that's addressed everything because on the Cobra 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:49.960 song she talked about you, you know, in the same 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:52.960 bed that she sleeps in. Right, so you said it 0:11:53.000 --> 0:11:54.600 wasn't there, So what did happen? 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:00.480 That's not what happened like that, that's not happen at all. 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:01.520 What's chat? 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:03.400 No? 0:12:03.120 --> 0:12:06.440 No, no, no, please please please because I really need 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:07.560 to go there, really really do. 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:11.880 Did she catch you getting your Absolutely okay? 0:12:12.040 --> 0:12:12.520 Absolutely? 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:14.559 Where did you have sex or or you intimate with 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:16.480 somebody else for your relationship? 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:17.079 Absolutely not. 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:17.560 Okay. 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:20.160 So what you're saying, you didn't cheat, But this is 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:22.240 my thing, right, is hiding text message? 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:24.360 Is cheering from your partner? Is cheating? Well? 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:25.520 What are these text messages? 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:26.559 Well, I feel it's. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:27.920 Something that you got to have from your partners that 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:28.240 she is. 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:29.640 And that's what I was going to say. I feel 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:31.719 like anything, and I've answered this plenty of times, I 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:33.959 feel like anything that you are doing that you would 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:36.360 not do in front of your significant other, I feel 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:38.280 like that's a form of cheating or anything you don't 0:12:38.280 --> 0:12:43.640 want her doing right, rather emotionally, physically, intellectually. If it's 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:45.640 something that you're not going to do right in front 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:48.000 of your partner, or something that you wouldn't accept your 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:50.040 partner or from you, then yes, that's cheating. 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:51.520 That's just my thought. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.480 So did you cheat in that regard? I say, so, 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:55.280 you know what I mean? 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:59.080 Nobody was inappropriate stuff, but inappropriate. 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:01.839 Correct, right, really correct, But the way that was painted 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:04.040 that would have me so mad. I'm like, this is 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:06.600 the part of the relationship after everything that took place, 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:09.960 everything that was like kind of forgiving everything that we've 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:12.559 washed away, especially when nobody asked her this, this is 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:13.360 what you want to go with. 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:14.920 But she also didn't say your name. 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:18.040 So why do people say that? I mean, why do 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:18.640 people say that? 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:21.280 Because that could be something from like that has nothing. 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.319 Sometimes you know, it's music, so you could be writing 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:27.160 about something and people think it's about them. And granted, 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:29.280 putting that in this sound, she knows that people are 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:31.600 going to think it's about you. So I get it. 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:33.520 But you're saying that never happened. 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:36.200 I'm saying it didn't transpirt like you know, you pulled 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:41.240 up in such and such. Something transpired absolutely, And after 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:43.600 I thought, this is this is a done deal. We're 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:47.000 not together. You are doing you know, your thing clearly, 0:13:47.200 --> 0:13:48.080 and that's what we're doing. 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:51.760 You know, so okay, and this is somebody that you 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:55.120 said even that you thought about, like Mary, were you 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:58.720 guys ever engaged? No, No, but you had considered it, 0:13:58.800 --> 0:13:59.880 you bought it, ring and everything. 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:08.640 It was selected Greg, Greg shout out, Greg Man, Greg, 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:09.560 that's my dog. 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:12.000 You know what I'm saying, And listen to be clear, like, 0:14:12.320 --> 0:14:15.480 because I know that's somebody that you did clearly love, 0:14:15.760 --> 0:14:18.000 and so we have empathy for that situation because she's 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:21.240 been through a lot, you know, and her family, you know, 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:25.520 having traumatic things happened to her right very publicly, and 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.680 people attacking her and things like that. So what led 0:14:28.720 --> 0:14:30.800 to you guys breaking up? Because even listening to the 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:33.800 music like show Me Love and complaining and all of that, 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:36.640 it feels like, you know, it's a rocky relationship because 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:38.040 she did have a lot of walls up. 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:39.880 Yeah, I mean I feel like I just felt like 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:41.440 that was all relationships. You know what I'm saying. 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:43.920 We all got things to get through, and we all 0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:46.800 just chose to go through those things together, you know 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:48.840 what I'm saying. Like we were in this, you know 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:51.720 what I'm saying along all, like I understand the person 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:54.120 that I love is going to disappoint me. You know 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:55.640 what I'm saying, the person that I love is going 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:57.960 to hurt me. It's just because we're that close. It 0:14:58.040 --> 0:15:00.000 just happens that way, you know what I'm saying. Not intentionally, 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:02.640 but it just happens. And you know, those are things 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:05.480 you endure for people you love and relationships that you 0:15:05.760 --> 0:15:08.200 want to be in. But I don't know, it was 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:09.680 several things. It was several things. 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:11.360 But you know, even in. 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:15.520 The person you talk about her like lying about sleeping 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:17.920 with somebody that she was working with at the time, 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:20.680 and everybody was speculating, you know, on that as well. 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:24.160 So that really happened, that you shook hands with somebody 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:26.280 and yeah, I don't. 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:29.720 I don't know, I don't. I'm not a liar. Yeah, absolutely, See. 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:31.920 Now I want to ask you all about that while 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:33.400 he's smiling like that, because I'm waiting to see what 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:35.280 you're about to say. Yeah, you know you're coming with it, 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:38.440 all right. So let's just say you're dating somebody and 0:15:39.000 --> 0:15:41.240 in the past you slept, you know, with somebody else, 0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:42.960 and he asked you, have you ever lied and been 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:46.280 like no, yeah, never, Yeah, Now why. 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.440 Just the same phase, like I don't want no trouble, 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:57.320 so let me just like, omit, but I'm gonna tell 0:15:57.320 --> 0:15:59.400 you on the flip side of that coin, I've been 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:03.120 with someone one who was cheating on me and had 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:05.560 me befriend this person that they were cheating on me with. 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:08.600 And then when the ship hit the fan, I felt 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:10.640 like a dumb ass because you got me trying to 0:16:10.680 --> 0:16:13.160 be friends with this girl knowing and not only you know, 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:15.160 but everybody around us knowing that you fucking this girl 0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:15.760 behind my back. 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:19.400