Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya Brad and iHeartRadio
Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everyone.
Speaker 3: Oh we are scrubbing it.
Speaker 2: Gorgeous.
Speaker 4: She had to get her light set up. That's right,
Speaker 4: that brighten things up.
Speaker 3: Or what you know?
Speaker 2: I still can't figure out my lighting on this show.
Speaker 2: But maybe maybe twenty twenty six.
Speaker 3: Maybe on your twentieth year, you'll get it.
Speaker 2: Maybe in twenty twenty six, I'll figure it out. This
Speaker 2: I feel a little blown out, but without the light,
Speaker 2: I feel just I.
Speaker 4: Would maybe turn your brightness down on your phone a
Speaker 4: hair to three point three?
Speaker 2: Yeah or zero? Sure?
Speaker 3: Are you warm enough today?
Speaker 2: Or is it not cold in here?
Speaker 3: No at all?
Speaker 4: I it's mildly muggy in here. I would almost.
Speaker 1: Say current temperature in Burbank, California seventy four degrees, going
Speaker 1: to AHI have seventy nine, very cozy Jack.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I'll tell you what happened as a layer. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it has like fezer.
Speaker 4: Wow did you eat? Did you have something cold this morning?
Speaker 4: Is that what happened?
Speaker 2: My lunch was a little not warm, but shrimp. Yeah
Speaker 2: it's cold. Yeah, it's cold.
Speaker 5: You know that.
Speaker 1: Nothing beans room temperature.
Speaker 3: Brother, you know what they say?
Speaker 2: What do they say?
Speaker 3: Can't get enough of it?
Speaker 4: Nothing better for your internal temperature than some room temp shrimp.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I tell you.
Speaker 4: Haley talks about Robbie's grilled shrimp often, like it's something
Speaker 4: that comes up a lot.
Speaker 3: So I know that, I know that that's a delicacy.
Speaker 3: It's a delicacy. I haven't had it room temp next day.
Speaker 2: Oh oh, it's even better.
Speaker 3: Interesting. Yeah, I'll take your word for it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Anyways, like give to your explanation for your winter storm jacket.
Speaker 2: So it's actually kind of funny. I've been having like
Speaker 2: a fashion identity crisis lately, where like I just don't
Speaker 2: really know where I fit in, Like I just don't
Speaker 2: know my vibe because I just wear sweats all the time.
Speaker 2: And I was talking to Robbie about it over the weekend.
Speaker 2: I was like, I really want to like figure out
Speaker 2: like a new style, Like I really just want something
Speaker 2: a little bit cooler, not where I'm wearing sweats all
Speaker 2: the time. He's like, you got a babe, Like, let's
Speaker 2: like so he starts like researching cool brands and like
Speaker 2: he's like in it with me. It was actually so sweet,
Speaker 2: and he like went with me to the store to
Speaker 2: get some for our honeymoon. Like he's just like being
Speaker 2: my partner. Anyways, So I'm packing for work this morning
Speaker 2: last night, and I was like, it's the thought of
Speaker 2: putting a pair of jeans on at four fifteen in
Speaker 2: the morning.
Speaker 3: Is just criminal.
Speaker 2: It's just not something that I can put around my waistband,
Speaker 2: especially on my period. So I pull out a pair
Speaker 2: of sweats. Again, I don't really know how I got
Speaker 2: to this story, but it's a little bit chilly in
Speaker 2: the mornings when I leave, and I knew that I
Speaker 2: had a little bit of time in between the morning
Speaker 2: show and our podcast, and I knew I wanted to
Speaker 2: perhaps take a nap to day because I was tired.
Speaker 2: So this served as a blanket for my nap. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and then I woke up and here I am.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm stolen.
Speaker 1: It's got like a gortex lining.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: She bought this when she went to Vancouver and it
Speaker 4: was like freezing cold.
Speaker 2: I bought this in Vancouver just for the day because
Speaker 2: all I had was a leather jacket.
Speaker 4: No, Tania, do you thank you like it? I don't
Speaker 4: quite understand. But if I'm cold, I'm gonna wear a jacket,
Speaker 4: so I know.
Speaker 2: And it's like, you don't really have summer jackets. That's
Speaker 2: a flaw in.
Speaker 3: The market, by the way, light jackets. There's some light
Speaker 3: sweaters or jackets.
Speaker 2: Not really though.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you look hard enough.
Speaker 4: Something maybe probably can help you out if he's in
Speaker 4: with it.
Speaker 3: So what what vibe are you going for?
Speaker 4: Because I find that when you go on date nights
Speaker 4: and stuff, you always look so cute and put together.
Speaker 2: Thank you. I feel like I've nailed my like out
Speaker 2: time every day.
Speaker 4: Girl, here's the thing you are, which I guess everyone
Speaker 4: in this room also except for me, wakes up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just jeans on every day jeans on. Oh okay.
Speaker 3: But here's the thing. They're boys boys.
Speaker 4: But I wasn't gonna say that, but I was gonna
Speaker 4: say that they have jeans now that are sweatpants that
Speaker 4: look like real Like they've done a really good job
Speaker 4: at making jeans look like jeans. Sweatpant jeans look like
Speaker 4: real denim. So maybe you could invest in those and
Speaker 4: that way you feel put together but still equally as cozy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll send you some links.
Speaker 2: Thank you. Yeah, the links would be helpful.
Speaker 3: In your cute little sweater toop the other day. Looks
Speaker 3: so cute and put together.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 3: So we've got this. This will be easy.
Speaker 2: I need like street cheek Tanya to like.
Speaker 3: Maybe just leave the jacket here, I.
Speaker 2: Do I have one puff from the corner. You have
Speaker 2: to puff in the corner.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well it is yeah wow, So it's just.
Speaker 2: A best like this is this is util Maybe.
Speaker 3: Leave that one here, Yeah, cuddle up into it. What
Speaker 3: you need.
Speaker 1: And by the way, she did between from after the
Speaker 1: morning show and I think maybe she wanted to go
Speaker 1: into the back room with his couch.
Speaker 2: But yes, it's long.
Speaker 1: It was lock.
Speaker 2: We got to find a key to that room.
Speaker 1: I don't know where the key is. But so she
Speaker 1: just took some chairs and pulled them together and just
Speaker 1: kind of crashed in the corner over here where there
Speaker 1: was lots of people milling about, like she wasn't even
Speaker 1: in the private area.
Speaker 5: I did not know that was you.
Speaker 6: I walked over there and I was like, oh god,
Speaker 6: what is this person? Okay, John Fire is like it's Tanya,
Speaker 6: It's okay, thank god.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never actually done a nap in public like that.
Speaker 5: You took greatly too. You look like a pro. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I slept for about forty five minutes and so impressive.
Speaker 2: Thank you. I didn't hear any scuttling about.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm fascinated by this because Haley also as long
Speaker 4: as she can get horizontal somewhere, she can fall asleep.
Speaker 2: And that warm. I need to be warm. If I
Speaker 2: were cold, I would not have fallen asleep.
Speaker 3: Your brand is warm, Yes, warm.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I have one more question about the shrimp if you
Speaker 1: don't mind problem. Was it refrigerated when you left the
Speaker 1: house this morning?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: I did so you just let it sit? Yeah, for
Speaker 1: five six hours?
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like with seafood, that's not a great idea.
Speaker 2: I have a little ice pack in my bag.
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is temperature that's the issue.
Speaker 2: Correct.
Speaker 1: So it didn't work very well.
Speaker 2: It was on the bottom. They were chilly on the bottom,
Speaker 2: the two on the bottom.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well let's see how that digests.
Speaker 4: Yeah about the what are the fields in the or
Speaker 4: ring that you don't like? The magnetic fields?
Speaker 3: What is it called? Worried about those? But no salmon, salmonella,
Speaker 3: no fear of that.
Speaker 2: I've just done this many times before, so I know
Speaker 2: I've done it before. No, that's okay, Semaca Steel.
Speaker 3: You dom what'd you do? What'd you do? Last week?
Speaker 2: I just have to point out that you are so
Speaker 2: gen Z right now with your pimple patch.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the pimple patch on. Well, because I have a pimple.
Speaker 4: Well here's the thing. I can't tell if it's a
Speaker 4: pimple because it it won't go. It's just this red
Speaker 4: bump but like nothing's going on with it just hurts.
Speaker 2: Have you tried to pop it?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: And I put a pimple patch on less not I
Speaker 4: did one of my like really good masks that normally
Speaker 4: clears everything up, so I don't know if it's a
Speaker 4: bite or something.
Speaker 3: So anyways, I.
Speaker 4: Kept trying to cover it up and it want to
Speaker 4: cover up, and I was like, I'm just putting a
Speaker 4: patch on it.
Speaker 2: I respect gen Z so much because like dar and
Speaker 2: are on their face and I'm like, yeah, and it's
Speaker 2: probably so much better than what I do, which is
Speaker 2: like squeez squeeze, squeeze until it's like a scab and
Speaker 2: then I tear it off.
Speaker 4: That.
Speaker 1: In addition to watching Love Island, she also does the
Speaker 1: fancy pimple patches.
Speaker 4: Yeah, speaking of I have gotten. I just I was like,
Speaker 4: let's turn it on to watch and Haley. It was
Speaker 4: over the weekend, so Haley was with me and she
Speaker 4: was like, oh, yeah, I'm down to see you, like
Speaker 4: watch an episode.
Speaker 2: She loves it, My girl, Hailey loves Love isolan.
Speaker 4: Like it's so far out of her element in terms
Speaker 4: of how hetero it is that she's like, this is outrageous,
Speaker 4: but she was.
Speaker 3: I think her quote was like, this is a fun show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like it's like licking a lollipop, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like you don't need it, but
Speaker 2: like it's delicious.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I do feel like there's been more like jaw dropping
Speaker 4: moments earlier on this season than last season.
Speaker 3: You'll think, so just more like, oh yeah, so what
Speaker 3: do you think of bell Dasha.
Speaker 2: Bell Dasha is my favorite interesting Yeah spoiler alert, she
Speaker 2: is no longer on the island.
Speaker 3: That is a spoiler.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she is. She was my favorite.
Speaker 4: I saw someone say I have this is the first
Speaker 4: time I have felt the disconnect with gen z Is
Speaker 4: watching bell Dache talk.
Speaker 3: Because they're like, she speaks in TikTok.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she doesn't make any sense. Like I don't understand her,
Speaker 2: but I find it so amusing and like I'm really
Speaker 2: living for all the tiktoks that are making fun of
Speaker 2: the season.
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, It's just it all.
Speaker 2: It really is the gift that keeps on giving. But
Speaker 2: I would like you to know that I have this group,
Speaker 2: this this Love Island group chat, that I'm able to
Speaker 2: get all my like stuff out in.
Speaker 3: Good but I'm watching it so you can.
Speaker 4: I'm down to like chit chat with you about it
Speaker 4: chat you're in there. I thought Bella was like, honestly
Speaker 4: one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen, Like
Speaker 4: she is so stunning, and I found it very interesting
Speaker 4: because obviously when I went on The Bachelor, I was
Speaker 4: a virgin, and I was like, even though I wasn't
Speaker 4: intending for that to be my storyline, that was my storyline.
Speaker 4: But I feel like the Bachelor's a little they try
Speaker 4: to be a little more traditional and you know, the
Speaker 4: dating twenty five women and I'm just kidding, but like
Speaker 4: they try to make the dating of it more like
Speaker 4: traditional and like they're being rewarded even though it's so twisted.
Speaker 4: But Love Island is so raunchy, like it's may it's
Speaker 4: like supposed to be raunchy, and there's so much making
Speaker 4: out and just groping, and so I found it so
Speaker 4: interesting that she came on being like, I'm not like,
Speaker 4: didn't kiss anyone at first?
Speaker 2: Me too, Yeah, but I was like this and she
Speaker 2: went down down. It didn't last long, it did not,
Speaker 2: but I appreciated. I appreciated it for a while it
Speaker 2: lost it. There's this woman on the show who has
Speaker 2: a kid, yes and Yes, And I was watching the
Speaker 2: episode where she told the guy that she was dating
Speaker 2: that she was a mom, and I was watching it.
Speaker 2: Robbie and I were watching it together, and we were
Speaker 2: like cringing because the way she was saying it was
Speaker 2: like she was telling him she had some sort of disease. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Like she was like making it this huge thing and
Speaker 2: then like kept asking him how is he feeling? And
Speaker 2: I felt so bad for her because I'm like, you're
Speaker 2: making this seem like like this is.
Speaker 5: She should be proud she has a child.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she is, obviously she's so proud, but I
Speaker 2: feel like the way she delivered it was like this.
Speaker 3: Like she was like she was insecure about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it made me sad for her.
Speaker 4: I think it's just the circumstance. I mean, they're in
Speaker 4: a they're in this weird world and they're locked in there.
Speaker 4: And then there was these guys who I don't know
Speaker 4: how seriously serious they are about finding true love right right, right,
Speaker 4: right right.
Speaker 3: She immediately clicks.
Speaker 4: With someone, and then it kind of what they're like
Speaker 4: three days in when she told him four or five Okay,
Speaker 4: four or five.
Speaker 2: Days in the villa is like a month in real life.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, sure, and so I agree, But I also
Speaker 4: I feel for her because I felt like her insecurity
Speaker 4: about it made him feel off.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the whole exchange.
Speaker 4: And I was thinking if she was just like, hey,
Speaker 4: I just wanted to let you know one of the
Speaker 4: most important parts of my life. I'm a mom, and
Speaker 4: she's five years old whatever, and you know, I understand
Speaker 4: if that's a lot of information you need to process.
Speaker 4: But she came across so because she I think she's
Speaker 4: so scared of losing him. You can even tell with
Speaker 4: how she acts with the other women wanting his attention.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel nervous for her. I feel nervous for
Speaker 2: her as well.
Speaker 4: And I also feel that if someone else comes in
Speaker 4: that even catches his eye remotely.
Speaker 2: But I have there's all this subtle online that Jeremiah
Speaker 2: is just like in it for the fame. Who is
Speaker 2: on that show, all the rest of them? Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: And I have to be honest Nick. At first, I
Speaker 4: was like, he is so cute. But the more he's
Speaker 4: he was toying with the girls, I was he got
Speaker 4: like less cute to me.
Speaker 2: I did not like him from the beginning.
Speaker 3: I don't think he's cute.
Speaker 2: I would have picked the British guy.
Speaker 3: You would pick the British guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we.
Speaker 3: Always do that game, who would you choose? He's like, well, no,
Speaker 3: one's really my type.
Speaker 2: I was like Bella, Yeah, God does everyone's type.
Speaker 4: I don't know that I would connect with her on
Speaker 4: a personal level, but just like initial attraction Bella and
Speaker 4: then also the guys.
Speaker 3: I said, I had to go for nixt You said Ace.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I like Ace too. I hope
Speaker 2: he wins.
Speaker 3: Wow, you don't even have a person yet. Whatever.
Speaker 2: I hope he gets with Shelley, and I hope they win.
Speaker 2: That's my prediction.
Speaker 3: There was some feedback about my gas tank.
Speaker 1: O lots issues, lots of it.
Speaker 3: Let's get into it.
Speaker 1: Let's do that. So the deal is you are someone
Speaker 1: who likes to push your luck with your gas tank
Speaker 1: everything you Yeah, saving that's true. So you let it
Speaker 1: go to ee. You let it go to zero and
Speaker 1: just see how far you can get. When he gets
Speaker 1: to zero, that's when you start looking.
Speaker 4: For I would say not all the time, Like normally
Speaker 4: this the first beep where it's like your warning before
Speaker 4: it gets what with.
Speaker 1: The light coming on? Does that alert you.
Speaker 3: Give when the light comes on?
Speaker 1: That's it.
Speaker 3: That's normally when I go, hey, you gotta get gas, girl.
Speaker 4: But then if I'm going somewhere, I'm like, well, we're
Speaker 4: gonna make it to there and then we'll get gas.
Speaker 3: It's like zero.
Speaker 4: That was crazy when we went to Malivu though, because
Speaker 4: that is a long drive. Yeah, and I went to
Speaker 4: Beverly Hills and then to malvou on empty.
Speaker 2: And then to a restaurant.
Speaker 3: Okay, it was two blocks, but you're still it takes.
Speaker 2: A lot of enter. It takes a lot of gas
Speaker 2: to turn on your car.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1: I think that's true. I've heard that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: There's like not use the air the AC had it blasted.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you, Tanya, you said you'd like to
Speaker 1: get gas.
Speaker 2: Pretty much about fifty miles.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I said double digits. When I get to
Speaker 1: double digits, it's definitely on my mind.
Speaker 2: Nineties, crazy nineties.
Speaker 1: Time to gas.
Speaker 2: Almost one hundred miles you have, Yeah, but also.
Speaker 1: When you look at the dial next to it, you
Speaker 1: got like a quarter left. When you get to ninety,
Speaker 1: I'm on the you're on the left segment in my car.
Speaker 3: Anyway, ninety is essentially full. No, yeah, that's it, like
Speaker 3: that's a week's worth.
Speaker 1: I have a pres and it goes to about five
Speaker 1: hundred forty when it's fine.
Speaker 3: That's right.
Speaker 1: This show by the New Prius, so at ninety it's
Speaker 1: almost in the in the red. Anyway, Here's what people said.
Speaker 1: I like to live on the wiles. I like Becca.
Speaker 1: I've never run on a gas, but I've rolled in
Speaker 1: on fumes a few times. I'm definitely a Becca. I
Speaker 1: don't know why I am this way, but I am.
Speaker 1: I've driven twenty miles after hitting zero, living on the edge.
Speaker 1: I wait, I sit at work knowing my tank has
Speaker 1: been that zero since last night. Should have gotten gas
Speaker 1: before work this morning, maybe, but I didn't. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm Becca. Let me tell you can go quite away
Speaker 1: as on e almost twenty five miles Team Becca. After
Speaker 1: the light goes on, I wait till my car stopped,
Speaker 1: telling me how more miles so empty and it just
Speaker 1: shows a little dash marks.
Speaker 5: Wow thing, Oh I got into the negative zone.
Speaker 1: I hit sub ten every other month. I even hit
Speaker 1: the dashes sometimes. I ran out once as a sixteen
Speaker 1: year old and the Bill's character, I'm a Becca. However,
Speaker 1: if I'm driving someone else, I'll get a little gashy
Speaker 1: gas in the tank of tank. First, my grandma told
Speaker 1: me there's an emergency, the last thing you want to
Speaker 1: worry about it getting gas, So I live by that.
Speaker 1: I am team Tanya on this one. Here come the
Speaker 1: team Tanya's Team Tanya. I can't do that to myself.
Speaker 1: I'm a planner. Normally I'm with Becca, but I'm with
Speaker 1: Tanya and Mark on this one. If you need to
Speaker 1: leave your house in an emergency, you don't want to
Speaker 1: stress about gas running out Team Tanya. My ideal situation
Speaker 1: is my car's above half at all times, not saying
Speaker 1: it always is, but I try so she'll she'll fill
Speaker 1: up at half.
Speaker 2: I actually like that.
Speaker 1: I do too. I can barely hand the stress of
Speaker 1: this story, even let alone if it has actually happened to me.
Speaker 1: Tanya one, Tanya on that one. I'm with Mark. I
Speaker 1: am Mark Marcus me. So it's fairly evenly split.
Speaker 5: But I don't like this about myself. But I'm I'm
Speaker 5: team Becca.
Speaker 1: Really.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I I mean, I don't.
Speaker 6: I don't like knowing that that I let it run down.
Speaker 6: I don't let it get down to zero. I have
Speaker 6: done that a number of times, but I get it
Speaker 6: down to like single digits before I go to the
Speaker 6: gas station.
Speaker 1: Have you ever run out of gas?
Speaker 5: One time?
Speaker 1: Aha? One time? And Becca? How many times?
Speaker 3: You name it? Number between one? Probably three. I'm trying
Speaker 3: to think one, two, three.
Speaker 5: There's definitely five Texas right yeah.
Speaker 3: In the middle of Yeah, that was crazy.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I did it once and then last year I went,
Speaker 6: I picked up my we were in Coast savesa Alison
Speaker 6: and I picked up a buddy, and I was like,
Speaker 6: I'm down to like thirty miles.
Speaker 5: I'll get it on the we'll go to lunch.
Speaker 6: I'll get gas on the way home, you know, before
Speaker 6: we get on the freeway and then we go.
Speaker 5: The restaurant was much further than I thought.
Speaker 6: And then we're driving back to his house and I
Speaker 6: just see it get down to like five four and
Speaker 6: then it got to two, and I'm like, I don't
Speaker 6: want to freak everybody out, but is there a gas
Speaker 6: station nearby? And my buddy's like, no, there's not. You
Speaker 6: better just hope we can rid those hills. Baby, pop
Speaker 6: it in neutral, and I coasted into the gas station.
Speaker 6: I was fine, but I didn't like how that felt.
Speaker 6: Oh I continued to act that way.
Speaker 3: I got a weird high from the coasting in on themes.
Speaker 5: It's not good for your car either. It's really.
Speaker 3: Don't listen, don't do this.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying my personal choices aren't always the best
Speaker 4: for the car.
Speaker 3: They're good for me, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So there, you've done it five times and there will
Speaker 1: be a sixth. There will be a six We are
Speaker 1: confident of this if.
Speaker 3: Things can go on the way they're going for six Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know how my car got hit by that
Speaker 2: driver and they hit my driver's side blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: So for like two weeks I've been driving my car,
Speaker 2: like sliding into the front seat because I can't open
Speaker 2: the door fully. Yeah, I got a rental card so
Speaker 2: that they could like fix my car. You don't even
Speaker 2: realize how good you have it, that your door can
Speaker 2: just swing open until you don't have it for two weeks.
Speaker 2: Like I am just like living my life, like opening
Speaker 2: the door wide open, taking my bag through, getting sunny
Speaker 2: in and out the driver's side, Like I am just
Speaker 2: appreciating the little things in life, and sometimes things in
Speaker 2: life bring that upon me, and so I just wanted
Speaker 2: to share that maybe if you're not getting gas, just
Speaker 2: appreciate that, like your door swings wide open, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 4: I found myself and I don't know why, but my
Speaker 4: brain like totally I was looking at you.
Speaker 2: But I just zoned down on that conversation.
Speaker 7: I don't even know what you said, something about sliding
Speaker 7: in and out of the door and appreciating.
Speaker 3: I don't know what I was locked in. I was
Speaker 3: making eye contact with you, and then I know, I
Speaker 3: don't think so.
Speaker 1: I enjoyed and it's not even the first time I
Speaker 1: ever heard it, and I enjoyed it.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 4: No, I'm like I'm concerned a little bit why I
Speaker 4: was staring at you, but like just.
Speaker 2: Went like silent having that too. Actually the other day,
Speaker 2: well but not not like that, like not during the podcast,
Speaker 2: but Robbie was telling me his coffee order and he
Speaker 2: literally said almond milk. And I turned to the guy
Speaker 2: and I said oat milk. Even though I knew exactly
Speaker 2: what he said, another word came out of my mouth,
Speaker 2: and so I was like, I'm concerned about that, yeah,
Speaker 2: because I literally heard you correctly and I said the
Speaker 2: exact opposite thing. But this is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry, I don't know. I just was being
Speaker 3: real and honest.
Speaker 1: Let's not tell her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not gonna tell you now, you don't get
Speaker 2: to know.
Speaker 1: Hey, one more listen for us, Yeah, we need a baby.
Speaker 2: One more download?
Speaker 3: Do we really?
Speaker 6: No good? We have too many downloads, too many everybody
Speaker 6: out there stopped downloading so much. We can't take it.
Speaker 2: There are numbers slipping.
Speaker 5: Our numbers are so good, they're overloading.
Speaker 3: No one.
Speaker 2: I don't want the the I don't want the lies.
Speaker 5: I mean, if I'm being honest, they're they're the same,
Speaker 5: They've always Okay, that's I like, we would just like
Speaker 5: another you know, couple dozen.
Speaker 2: Okay, I like consistency.
Speaker 5: Yeah, me too.
Speaker 4: Okay, we Haley and I have this conversation about if
Speaker 4: we check the weather.
Speaker 3: Did we already talk about that on the pod?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 1: But that's a good conversation.
Speaker 3: Wanted to talk about it.
Speaker 5: Talking about the weather.
Speaker 1: The time. It's a similar conversation to the last one
Speaker 1: about gas.
Speaker 2: But no, when you start talking about the weather, that
Speaker 2: is literally like key.
Speaker 3: We talked about this.
Speaker 4: I know we did because we talked about how Tanya
Speaker 4: didn't check the weather and she went to New York
Speaker 4: and it was like, totally true.
Speaker 1: We can't be doing being a planner and being spontaneous.
Speaker 1: Some people are planners, They check the weather, they dress accordingly.
Speaker 1: Some people they just go outside and feel, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna wear it. I'm gonna wear I.
Speaker 3: Am the planner. I checked the weather. Haley goes out and.
Speaker 1: Feels interesting because that seems like the opposite of you.
Speaker 3: But do you know what it is.
Speaker 4: I grew up in Louisiana, unpredictable weather. She grew up
Speaker 4: in California, pretty consistent.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's a little bit about that.
Speaker 2: I feel like they tell you in dating one O
Speaker 2: one when you start talking about the weather, like get out.
Speaker 3: It's got a bad rap.
Speaker 4: But I got so many responses from it that I
Speaker 4: felt like something worth bringing up because I got like
Speaker 4: thousands of replies for that.
Speaker 3: See dating.
Speaker 1: And you remember what Rick D's used to say when
Speaker 1: I worked for Rick D's. No, they never tune out
Speaker 1: of the weather. Talk about the weather. They'll never tune out.
Speaker 1: That's true.
Speaker 2: You told me that because it's thirty seconds, you can't
Speaker 2: possibly hit the well.
Speaker 1: Perhaps, but also people are interested in weather. That's why
Speaker 1: it is a common topic of conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, iikes, I guess we'll talk about the weather when
Speaker 2: we come back.
Speaker 3: We talk about they were done. Oh, we're done, We're done.
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, I heard every word. Unfortunately, I
Speaker 2: look here in present. I already got my nap in,
Speaker 2: so I'm locked in.
Speaker 4: Okay, great. I do want to talk about about you
Speaker 4: moving your polaroid with Joe Jonas around in different spaces,
Speaker 4: So we're gonna talk about that when we come back.
Speaker 3: Okay, we are back.
Speaker 4: So Tanya did a like a little funny video of
Speaker 4: putting her polaroid photo with Joe Jonas in her vehicle
Speaker 4: on the console.
Speaker 2: What do you do with a polaroid. Nowadays, I realize,
Speaker 2: like I don't have like, you know, those little boards
Speaker 2: that I used to pin stuff on. What are those
Speaker 2: called bullet Yes, thank you, I don't have those anymore around.
Speaker 2: So where does one put the polaroid with Joe Jonas?
Speaker 2: I didn't know, so I thought it'd be cute like
Speaker 2: in my car.
Speaker 3: No, you didn't. You were trying to get a reaction.
Speaker 2: Kind of did but then like over important information, yes,
Speaker 2: on my yeah, like on the screen, on the screen.
Speaker 3: But what did he do?
Speaker 2: He was like, I saw this when I was moving
Speaker 2: your car the other day, so here or he had
Speaker 2: already seen it. So I did get his true like
Speaker 2: first reaction. So I had to take everything out of
Speaker 2: my car because I have a rental now. I had
Speaker 2: my Jojonas polaroid and I put it like up in
Speaker 2: our living room like by a painting Probabie comes home
Speaker 2: and he's just like how like he's like literally, it's
Speaker 2: like I love Lucy because I come home and there's
Speaker 2: like something wacky. Every single day, yesterday or whatever day
Speaker 2: it was, was the Joe Jonas polaroid. Over the weekend,
Speaker 2: I ordered a trampoline because I want to start bouncing every.
Speaker 3: Day, like and just like a personal ones, not like.
Speaker 2: A kid's tramp. Yeah, like a personal one. I think
Speaker 2: it's probably like it's seventy inches.
Speaker 1: Like this, Well, seventy inches would be what almost six feet?
Speaker 2: Oh that's huge. Then it's not seventy Then it's like
Speaker 2: forty something. Okay, that feels smaller. It's like personal. It's
Speaker 2: just be like giving.
Speaker 3: That's very small. But I go what you're saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so it's supposed to be like really good
Speaker 2: for your olympathic system.
Speaker 3: They also have.
Speaker 4: Those things that you it's a vibrating machine you just
Speaker 4: stand on it. That's supposed to be really good for
Speaker 4: your lymphatic system.
Speaker 2: Yes, but the trampoline also is cardio as well, so
Speaker 2: it's like a dual.
Speaker 3: So what are you gonna do on there?
Speaker 2: A trampoline class that I'm going to host myself for myself.
Speaker 3: So you're just making up your own routine.
Speaker 2: I used to take a trampoline class when I lived
Speaker 2: in Long Beach, and so I'm just gonna go off
Speaker 2: of the stuff that, like he used to teach me
Speaker 2: in that class.
Speaker 3: How long ago was that?
Speaker 2: Ten years ago? Yeah? But I remember it's very I mean,
Speaker 2: you don't remember, you can't forget who suggested this idea. Well,
Speaker 2: my facialist Candice does it every morning for twenty minutes.
Speaker 2: She said, it's like amazing.
Speaker 3: It sounds fun.
Speaker 2: So that's all you need to do to like persuade
Speaker 2: me to my new pursuit is just like tell me
Speaker 2: you do it and it's amazing, And then I order
Speaker 2: it on Amazon the next day.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was, it's so interesting because with Amazon now,
Speaker 4: or even just the access we have to everything.
Speaker 3: I was, I think I've talked about this more.
Speaker 4: But I was watching a friend's episode and she talks
Speaker 4: about like needing a replacement for something in her house
Speaker 4: and she and she needs Chandler to replace it because
Speaker 4: he broke it. And she's like, catalog blank blank page, whatever, Wow,
Speaker 4: it'll get here in like six weeks or something crazy.
Speaker 4: And I was thinking, man, we're so impatient now if
Speaker 4: we had to wait like that, it's so true, but
Speaker 4: I'm kind.
Speaker 3: Of miss I remember going through the Victoria's Secret.
Speaker 2: Catalog and being like, I want this nighty.
Speaker 3: I could get not a nightie, but like sure or
Speaker 3: something for Victoria's Secret.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like when they'd have their clothes and the they
Speaker 4: had their clothes in the catalogs.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so there was something nice about that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, you can't. It's like toothpaste. You can't
Speaker 2: go back, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Uhuh right, it's out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody who was When I was a kid, it
Speaker 1: was a Seriers catalog. The Sears catalog would come around
Speaker 1: Christmas time and you would go through the toy section.
Speaker 1: I would circle everything on want and get everything I want.
Speaker 1: But that helped me. You know, Pair's model lift that
Speaker 1: I'd go through there and it was very exciting. But
Speaker 1: I so somebody temple this recently. The reason Sears isn't
Speaker 1: around anymore is because when everybody else went to the Internet,
Speaker 1: they said, nope, We've got the serious catalog. And that's
Speaker 1: how it's always been, and that's how we're gonna keep
Speaker 1: doing it. And now there's no more serious because they
Speaker 1: refused to go to evolved with the times.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't. You can't resist the forward motion. You can't.
Speaker 4: I mean you can move to like you can move
Speaker 4: your kids and go live on a farm somewhere and
Speaker 4: not give them access to the Internet.
Speaker 3: But at some point they're going to be exposed to it.
Speaker 2: You know, there was something I was trying to do
Speaker 2: on the internet and it's escaping me now. And it
Speaker 2: was it was hard but like simple at the same time.
Speaker 2: And Robbie was like, Babe, you've got to like keep
Speaker 2: up with this, like you're not our parents' age, Like
Speaker 2: we gotta keep moving, we gotta stay Yeah, and that
Speaker 2: really put into perspective. I was like, he's right, Like,
Speaker 2: I can't be like that person. That's like I can't
Speaker 2: figure out forgetting what.
Speaker 4: It was trying to use your miles for flights, because.
Speaker 2: Well that I now know because Becka taught me.
Speaker 4: Tanya goes, oh, I think I have a lot of points,
Speaker 4: but I don't know how to use that.
Speaker 2: I know, I didn't say I think. I said I
Speaker 2: know a lot of points because.
Speaker 4: We put a lot of our wedding stuff on this
Speaker 4: credit card. I go, oh my god, I bet you
Speaker 4: have so many points. I go, it's so easy. I'm
Speaker 4: driving on the PCH. I go open your app, go
Speaker 4: to membership.
Speaker 3: Travel. She goes Robbie and I can't figure it out.
Speaker 3: You're very intelligent people. What's happening?
Speaker 1: It easy to remember what you were trying to do.
Speaker 2: I can ask him. I can ask him, but I
Speaker 2: cannot remember what it was.
Speaker 1: But he's right. That's really like my dad is eighty
Speaker 1: almost eighty one, and he's kept up really well with him.
Speaker 1: He knows how to venmo, he knows how to do stuff.
Speaker 1: He goes on chat GPT like he's very up with mom.
Speaker 1: No clue and my wife's parents, Oh my gosh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like they have a DVR still, but that's almost like
Speaker 1: a new thing for them. Like they were on VCRs
Speaker 1: until about five years ago. Then they finally got a DVR.
Speaker 1: Then that one away, but they're still stuck on that DVR.
Speaker 1: They're not going to on demand streaming, none of that's happening. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they had a rotary phone well into our relationship. Like
Speaker 1: they really struggled with each new generation.
Speaker 3: That's tough.
Speaker 4: But you know, I was thinking the other day, it's
Speaker 4: really hard because even my mom will need help with
Speaker 4: something and my instinct is like, I'll just do it
Speaker 4: for you instead, And I'm like, it's a disservice to her,
Speaker 4: even though it's easier for everything.
Speaker 1: Does she want to learn because a lot of them
Speaker 1: don't want to learn.
Speaker 4: That she would want to learn if I had the
Speaker 4: patience because I'm not with her. I think if I
Speaker 4: was with her and I was like showing her, but
Speaker 4: it's hard to do over FaceTime or you know, so
Speaker 4: I think she'd be willing to learn. But sometimes I'm like,
Speaker 4: I'm just I'll do it.
Speaker 2: I know, we got to stay up, We got to
Speaker 2: stay up with the times.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I think Robbie keeps you, keeps you young.
Speaker 9: Yeah, on the trends and just everything really, so you're
Speaker 9: not wrong. I know, like Robbie, Robbie I feel like
Speaker 9: has like revamped his style. It's like very like cool
Speaker 9: and yeah he's like, yeah, I'll help you babe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I.
Speaker 4: Did he like have Does he have his style that
Speaker 4: he likes that he's like, oh, I like when you
Speaker 4: wear that or that kind of style? Me?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think he likes everything that I wear.
Speaker 2: He's never I don't know, I wouldn't say that there's
Speaker 2: like something he likes more than the other. Yeah, but
Speaker 2: he definitely has like his own style. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know.
Speaker 4: Haley Haley always compliments me, even today with this pimple
Speaker 4: that last night I was like, oh, this thing is.
Speaker 3: So red and She's like, I think it looks so
Speaker 3: cute on you.
Speaker 2: I feel like you could have made it into a
Speaker 2: freckle and then dumb freckle.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's way too big to be a freckle.
Speaker 4: But I was like, you know, it's so nice to
Speaker 4: have someone love you just the way things are, just
Speaker 4: compliment you all the time.
Speaker 3: It's really lovely.
Speaker 2: It is really lovely.
Speaker 4: Billie Eilish has a new boyfriend, which was not on
Speaker 4: my bingo card for the summer of twenty twenty.
Speaker 1: Was it.
Speaker 3: No, who is this guy?
Speaker 4: Okay, his name is not Wolf? And I feel like you,
Speaker 4: I don't know if you were with us. But one
Speaker 4: time at iHeart Festival, we all went back to Amy's
Speaker 4: room and she had sugarmne yeah, and she had this
Speaker 4: huge like jacuzzie almost like a hot tub in her room.
Speaker 3: It was like a sweet or something, and all of
Speaker 3: us were dying because our fee put our feet. Why
Speaker 3: I think I think it was him. I need to confirm.
Speaker 4: I think Brittany or Hillary was his handler, and so
Speaker 4: he like came up and he.
Speaker 3: Was so nice.
Speaker 2: If it's the right guy, it would not be If
Speaker 2: it's not, then wait, do you remember the year.
Speaker 4: Well, it was probably the last two thousand and seventeen, probably,
Speaker 4: He texts Amy, I'm texting Britt, Text Britt. Yeah, But anyways,
Speaker 4: I guess they've been. He's been really good friends with
Speaker 4: Phineas for a long time, so they were like friends
Speaker 4: to lovers, which I think is so cute, so cute,
Speaker 4: and people who were like rooting for her to be,
Speaker 4: you know, with a woman because she had the song
Speaker 4: Charlie XCX. I think even people are excited for her
Speaker 4: because everyone loves not Wolf.
Speaker 3: So it's good news, good news all around. Let me ask.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna laugh if it's like, but do you remember?
Speaker 2: I totally remember? But I I yes, I totally remember.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna text Britt and ask if Not Wolf was
Speaker 4: with us poking our feet after the festival, and then
Speaker 4: we'll be back if I get a confirmation, BRB.
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Speaker 8: If you're old enough to remember Summer Loven, you're old
Speaker 8: enough to find an I do Part two. Listen each
Speaker 8: week as our hosts make it their goal to find
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Speaker 3: Breaking news, breaking news.
Speaker 4: We have a text from Britt confirming that she confirmed
Speaker 4: with a text she sent to someone else that said,
Speaker 4: remember our bathtub foot soaked in Vegas.
Speaker 3: With not Wolf? Yeah, she said I didn't put my
Speaker 3: feet in obviously because she was like a bath thing.
Speaker 4: We actually, when I think about it, I'm kind of like,
Speaker 4: that's pretty gross that we did that.
Speaker 1: But is that her thing that there's just bacteria in baths?
Speaker 3: She don't like bath Yeah?
Speaker 2: But yeah, so we remember.
Speaker 1: What a life you lead, Tanya that you don't even
Speaker 1: remember that For some people that would be like a
Speaker 1: highlight of their lives to soak their feet with net Wolf.
Speaker 1: I think I was.
Speaker 2: Very drunk, definitely drunk.
Speaker 1: You want to text and confirm that too. Let me
Speaker 1: see was Tanya super hammered that night?
Speaker 2: What year was this? Twenty seventeen? I think so yeah,
Speaker 2: oh my god. Peak, Peak was that after you know
Speaker 2: who Dean the Dean song could have been, that was
Speaker 2: a Dark Night, could have been Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, we've all grown so much.
Speaker 2: You know, I feel like, you know, it's like cats,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 4: It's like you know not Wolf went from soaking his
Speaker 4: feet in a hot tub in Vegas with with us
Speaker 4: to romancing Billie Eilish in Italy.
Speaker 2: The biggest pop stars in the world.
Speaker 3: Good for him.
Speaker 2: It could happen to anybody. That's the bottom.
Speaker 4: I doesn't think you were there, so part of that.
Speaker 4: I actually was gonna say that, but I didn't want
Speaker 4: to hurt your feelings. But she said, I don't have
Speaker 4: a memory of you being there.
Speaker 2: I was definitely soaking my feet in a tub.
Speaker 3: But was it that dub.
Speaker 2: It feels like a weird coincident.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but normally you would go do your own thing after,
Speaker 4: Like I normally didn't see you it after things, you
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I definitely remember soaking my feet with people.
Speaker 3: It's not crystal clear for me, except for the gnat
Speaker 3: wolf of it.
Speaker 2: All, because I really did escape me.
Speaker 4: He was there with his friend and I remember being like,
Speaker 4: this is so funny that this guy came up to
Speaker 4: the room and is just hanging out with the girls recapping.
Speaker 2: I have offended that you didn't think I was there.
Speaker 3: Not in a negative way. I hope that you were there,
Speaker 3: but neither of us have the memory of Okay, I will,
Speaker 3: don't yell at me. Dang, we have a we have
Speaker 3: some wouldie rathers just one?
Speaker 1: Actually?
Speaker 3: Oh, we just have one. That's podcast.
Speaker 1: I think it's an interesting question. Would you rather spend
Speaker 1: an hour in a room with every single person you've
Speaker 1: ever kissed? Or spend an hour in a room with
Speaker 1: every single person your partner has kissed everyone I've kissed?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Same, that's like so easy.
Speaker 4: I am not sitting in a room looking at all.
Speaker 3: The people in the eye who touched her lips with theirs.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would not like that.
Speaker 1: But would you be worried about being with your exes?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: People you wouldn't want to see again, People would make
Speaker 1: you uncomfortable?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah I would just be like, hell.
Speaker 1: Yeah, good to see Ben.
Speaker 3: Isn't this crazy that your old guys and I'm a girl?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd actually have a lot to talk about with this.
Speaker 3: Here's where you went wrong.
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding.
Speaker 3: What about y'all?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, it'd be good to see everybody again.
Speaker 6: Have you been see I would do the partner, oh,
Speaker 6: because it would be fun to be like, oh my god,
Speaker 6: fifty cents in here, Like if there's someone I didn't
Speaker 6: know about, Like, well, there's like a celebrity that she's
Speaker 6: like kept in his secret.
Speaker 5: That wolf, Yeah, I mean that wolf is in that room.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe she was in the hot tub with her.
Speaker 2: Maybe she was, As I remember said, you.
Speaker 4: Fact, you don't think she'd tell you about fifty You
Speaker 4: haven't asked about who she's kissed? No, oh yeah, I've
Speaker 4: never asked about past things.
Speaker 3: Pretty chill like that. Never asked, never questioned anything she
Speaker 3: did before me.
Speaker 2: Never no, no, no, no, no, no, no no no, we don't
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Like you don't even know if probably slept with anyone
Speaker 3: from version.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't, actually do you know what's so funny?
Speaker 2: I met his I don't if it was first kiss.
Speaker 2: Maybe it was his first or second. Anyway, she's married
Speaker 2: to a woman. And I still was like, she's really pretty.
Speaker 3: Like there's nothing safer than that.
Speaker 2: Situation, literally nothing, And I was like, dang, she's really pretty.
Speaker 3: You should be like, wow, he has good taste even
Speaker 3: at a young age.
Speaker 2: Ripe and young.
Speaker 3: That's opposite, honestly, yeah, kind of creepy. Do we want
Speaker 3: to end with a little advice column?
Speaker 2: Do youar?
Speaker 5: Becca?
Speaker 1: Tanya Market Eastern a scrubber here with eerily similar stories
Speaker 1: to Becca's and Tanya's question for Becca, can you share
Speaker 1: a bit how you have overcome periods of coldness in
Speaker 1: your relationship with Haley, like when you were acting distant
Speaker 1: towards each other. We're trying to navigate a difficult period
Speaker 1: of uncertainty, not necessarily about the relationship itself, but it's
Speaker 1: showing in our day to day dynamic patiently waiting for
Speaker 1: every podcast each week. You guys have best friends to
Speaker 1: many of us here in Macedonia. Wow, a small country
Speaker 1: in eastern Europe.
Speaker 3: Wow, that's so cool.
Speaker 4: Look speaking of before I answer, I was at an
Speaker 4: Angel City game. Oh yeah, and I met so many
Speaker 4: scrubbers came up and said hi. And it's so cool because,
Speaker 4: like you know, for a long time it was The Bachelor,
Speaker 4: and people still reference The Bachelor, but it's so cool
Speaker 4: that it's associated with the podcast now when people come
Speaker 4: up and they're like.
Speaker 3: I love the podcast a lot of time.
Speaker 2: I love you also kind of like they are when
Speaker 2: you meet these scrubbers. I'd pick up right up next time.
Speaker 2: Doesn't sound like I'm trying to find Macedonia. I'm having
Speaker 2: a hard time.
Speaker 3: While you're looking for that, I'll answer.
Speaker 4: I don't know that Haley and I have had a
Speaker 4: lot of cold Like we really and I don't mean
Speaker 4: to sound like unrealistic and a dating world, but like
Speaker 4: we haven't had a lot of coldness, and if we have,
Speaker 4: we've gone to couples therapy to navigate any things that
Speaker 4: are like off or keep putting any distance between us.
Speaker 4: I think the hardest times where we've had to navigate
Speaker 4: things have come when she been gone on tour or
Speaker 4: like working far away for long periods of time. Just
Speaker 4: because I tend to being with me being the one
Speaker 4: that's home by myself and she's busy working and doing stuff.
Speaker 4: I think that I tend to pick fights if it's
Speaker 4: gone on for a little bit, so that would be
Speaker 4: the only time. But I don't know that we've ever
Speaker 4: experienced like coldness where we're like emotionally distant. Yeah, it's
Speaker 4: more so like we're just not we're kind of missing
Speaker 4: each other in communication or making each other feel seene
Speaker 4: or heard, I guess.
Speaker 3: But that's when couple therapy is really I've.
Speaker 2: Heard coldness can happen when you have a baby.
Speaker 3: I've heard that too.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it makes sense though, Like there's your tie, right,
Speaker 4: you have this new focus that all your attention's going to.
Speaker 3: I imagine Mark.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I do. I always say that we
Speaker 1: never fought until we had kids. That's when that's when
Speaker 1: the fighting began. But next month it's twenty three years.
Speaker 1: So I'm sure there have been periods of coldness in there.
Speaker 1: But when you're together in that long period of time,
Speaker 1: you just kind of weather the storm and then get
Speaker 1: through it. There's just bits of times that are busy
Speaker 1: and I'm busy and she's busy, and what a little
Speaker 1: bit of ship's passing in the night. I don't like
Speaker 1: those times, but I also know that there's always something
Speaker 1: on the horizon. Yeah, from going away together, there's a trip,
Speaker 1: there's something happening soon that's going to kind of bring
Speaker 1: us back together again.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say, even Haley, sometimes if there's a disconnector
Speaker 4: or we have times where we're busy and there's a
Speaker 4: lot going on, Like we really make sure at night
Speaker 4: to She'll go, what was something I did this week
Speaker 4: that made you feel loved? And then we go back
Speaker 4: and forth and do all those things that we've learned
Speaker 4: in couple therapy, but just with each other, just to
Speaker 4: like come back and reconnect with each other. Because I
Speaker 4: think it's easy to get distant and then if you
Speaker 4: don't find a way to connect that it just gets
Speaker 4: colder and colder and more distant.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's got to be one person to really
Speaker 2: reel it in.
Speaker 4: Someone's got to bring it back. So I encourage you
Speaker 4: to maybe even look up that they have so many
Speaker 4: things where you can find questions to ask your partner
Speaker 4: to like just kind of bring you back to each
Speaker 4: other and connect, because I think that's what happens is
Speaker 4: you just kind of get.
Speaker 2: Does something becoming ships the night is like very common.
Speaker 2: I think it happens to everybody and every couple. Like
Speaker 2: life just gets busy, schedules change, and like it's easy
Speaker 2: because you're sleeping next to somebody every night that you're like,
Speaker 2: but how do we how are we feeling distant when
Speaker 2: we're like sleeping in bed together every night, but it's
Speaker 2: just like so easy because you're not really like living
Speaker 2: life together, you're living life alongside each other.
Speaker 4: And maybe instead, if like your habit is to watch
Speaker 4: TV at night together, maybe if you're feeling distant, maybe
Speaker 4: play a game or do something where you're a little
Speaker 4: more conversational and not just because sometimes Haley will be
Speaker 4: watching the show, I'll be scrolling my phone and it's
Speaker 4: not really a connected time even though we're enjoying it.
Speaker 4: And so then you know, the next night, so can
Speaker 4: we play game or scrabble or something.
Speaker 2: And so every night I'll ask where I'll be like,
Speaker 2: how is your day And I'll be like, no good,
Speaker 2: He'll ask me, and I'll be like, great, I had
Speaker 2: brought my shrip for lunch. I like the podcast. We
Speaker 2: talked about this, this, this, and this. Then I like drove,
Speaker 2: stopped in, I got gased, I took Sonny for a walk.
Speaker 2: Like I will tell him every single detail, and he's like,
Speaker 2: my life, like my job isn't as exciting as yours.
Speaker 2: I'm like, but you still live your life, like you're
Speaker 2: still eating things. I want to know what you drank,
Speaker 2: Like did you have another coffee? Did you have a
Speaker 2: macha like? Tell her your day? So the other day,
Speaker 2: the on air account posted a picture of like me
Speaker 2: with Mariah Carey and he sent it to me and
Speaker 2: he was like, you didn't tell me, Uh, you didn't
Speaker 2: tell me about this. I was like, hurts, doesn't it?
Speaker 3: I'm sorry?
Speaker 4: Oh I had a machra versus a coffee or hey,
Speaker 4: I met Mariah Carey is a little bit different.
Speaker 2: What did you say part of the day. It's just
Speaker 2: part of the day, you know what I mean? Like
Speaker 2: it's part of the day. But sometimes I feel like
Speaker 2: you have to really if you have somebody like like
Speaker 2: that as a partner, you really have to ask a
Speaker 2: million questions. And then I finally get what I needed,
Speaker 2: which is what he drank? How many times he went
Speaker 2: to the bathroom?
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: If you were saying we talked about this on the
Speaker 4: podcast about today's podcast, what would you tell him?
Speaker 2: I'm like today was a really rough podcast. Becca got
Speaker 2: really bored when I was telling a story that she
Speaker 2: blacked out. I try to remember what I said. I
Speaker 2: also figured out where Macedonia is.
Speaker 4: It was also you were talking about opening a car door,
Speaker 4: like it's not like miss.
Speaker 2: It was appreciating the little things in life that we
Speaker 2: take for granted.
Speaker 4: No, but you had already told me that outside of
Speaker 4: the podcast. So I had heard the appreciation of being
Speaker 4: opened able to open.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I just remembered something I had an
Speaker 2: amazing story from the weekend.
Speaker 3: Oh, well, keep going, We're up into the podcast.
Speaker 10: Is that.
Speaker 3: There's no break?
Speaker 2: That's who I ran into?
Speaker 3: Oh no, is this a celebrity.
Speaker 1: Yes, Mariah Carey, No.
Speaker 2: House is big.
Speaker 3: Ran into like you talked to them?
Speaker 2: Yes, they know them.
Speaker 3: Oh. Is it a man or woman?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 10: Or no?
Speaker 2: Questions?
Speaker 1: It a here we Go?
Speaker 3: It's a man?
Speaker 1: Is it an actor?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 3: Is it a singer? Yes?
Speaker 1: Is it Ed Sheeran No? Is it a singer that
Speaker 1: has a current hit song on Kiss FM?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 5: Is it Chris Martin?
Speaker 3: No? Is it Nick Jonas? No? Is it Joe Jonas?
Speaker 2: No, Kevin Jonas.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: It seems like Becky's getting warmer though, based on the
Speaker 1: size of your eyes. Yes, yeah, so was he in
Speaker 1: a boy band? Was he ever in a boy band?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 5: Is he a solo singer?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Benson Boone No.
Speaker 6: Charlie Pooth does not have a hit on Kiss FM currently,
Speaker 6: but he has had them before.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, big time.
Speaker 5: Is it justin Bieber?
Speaker 3: Is it Harry Style?
Speaker 2: No? No, but getting warmer.
Speaker 1: But you know this person? Yes? Is this person's phone
Speaker 1: number in your phone?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Okay, so not that like I think Poots numbers in
Speaker 1: her phone. Yeah. So you've interviewed this person multiple times?
Speaker 2: Probably, Yeah, he's been around.
Speaker 1: Was he ever in a band?
Speaker 2: Never?
Speaker 1: Always solo?
Speaker 2: Always solo?
Speaker 3: Is he a rapper?
Speaker 2: No? Is this getting boring?
Speaker 3: I mean, what the you should just name this podcast boring.
Speaker 1: That's the title for this.
Speaker 2: Do you want another hint?
Speaker 3: Is he a pop music Yes?
Speaker 2: He has opened for Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 2: He dated another very famous pop star back in the day, The.
Speaker 1: Weekend Sean Mandez.
Speaker 2: Yes, why gas literally no, we're just try hearing Robbie
Speaker 2: I and bless Robbie's heart. He knows nothing about.
Speaker 5: Like I mean, work you in.
Speaker 3: When you see he looks like a Greek god. He
Speaker 3: is so striking.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so robb is like he looked like he like
Speaker 2: he was like somebody somebody, but he didn't know what.
Speaker 2: So I hug him like, oh my gosh, I haven't
Speaker 2: seen him since before the pandemic how are you doing it?
Speaker 1: And what kind of a place where you at?
Speaker 2: I don't want to like, yeah, sure, it's like a
Speaker 2: specific place. I don't want to buy people.
Speaker 1: Goes there, but it's a place where you might buy food. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Sure, And so I hugg give him a hug, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, uh, how are you? How's it going?
Speaker 1: He recognized you a fan?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it took. I think he was like
Speaker 2: oh and then like oh. And I was like, He's like,
Speaker 2: what's new with you? And I was like, I got married.
Speaker 2: This is my husband, Robbie, this is our dog, Sonny.
Speaker 2: He's like, oh my gosh, congratulations, and couldn't have been cuter.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: We we get in the elevator to leave because.
Speaker 1: We were leaving fancy grocery store and.
Speaker 2: He he goes, I go, oh my gosh, I can't
Speaker 2: believe you're playing the Bowl. That's so exciting, La la.
Speaker 2: And Robbie's like, oh, I feel like I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 2: totally telling a story wrong. But basically, Robby's like what
Speaker 2: do you do? And he's like, I'm a singer songwriter
Speaker 2: And I was like, and Robbie goes, what's your name?
Speaker 3: And he goes Sean.
Speaker 10: I was like, Sean.
Speaker 1: Talking about I've been showing that refreshing though.
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm sorry, he doesn't really know much
Speaker 2: about like anything.
Speaker 4: He's not you know, he knows about the trends on TikTok,
Speaker 4: but he don't know Sean.
Speaker 2: He knows Sean Mendes. He doesn't know what he looks like.
Speaker 2: Necessarily crazy. I know it was actually pretty crazy. I
Speaker 2: was like a baby good one rush up on some
Speaker 2: pop culture the nicest, the nicest, like I forgot, how
Speaker 2: sweet and just like lovely of a human being.
Speaker 4: He is ready for his comeback, for just to see
Speaker 4: him like on stage. I feel like the same, He's
Speaker 4: still relevant as ever.
Speaker 10: Same.
Speaker 4: Oh, before we go, how would you feel if Bobby
Speaker 4: had a polaroid of a very attractive celebrity woman floating
Speaker 4: around the house and car.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't like it.
Speaker 1: Let's say he for some reason had a legal meeting
Speaker 1: of some sort with Salamahayak.
Speaker 3: No, let's say Margot Robbie.
Speaker 1: Okay, with Margaret Robbie, and they got a polaroid together
Speaker 1: and he puts it around the house.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't like it.
Speaker 1: It's a very good point.
Speaker 3: Becca Robbie's a Robbie is a good sport.
Speaker 2: He is a great sport. He really is a great sport.
Speaker 2: I'm everying home pillows of Harry Styles face. Yeah, he
Speaker 2: just he just goes with it.
Speaker 4: Hey, if Haley brought home a pillow of another girl's
Speaker 4: face and have knife marks be knifed, the fuzz.
Speaker 3: Would be removed. All right. Well, on that note, this
Speaker 3: was such a great podcast. Thanks for listening.
Speaker 2: I enjoyed my Shawn Menda story.
Speaker 3: That was good.
Speaker 1: It was good. I'm guessing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 1: We have Caamilla Luddington billow if you want to try it,
Speaker 1: just bring that home. And Haley really acts don't care.
Speaker 2: Oh she wouldn't.
Speaker 3: I don't think so.
Speaker 2: So she's like Robbie, Yeah, like she would just be
Speaker 2: like strong, yeah, nice.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think Tamilla Luddington would stir.
Speaker 2: The pillows are so scary like eggs.
Speaker 3: Yeah. All right, we love you so much. We will
Speaker 3: not be back. Tanya is out of here.
Speaker 2: We we we we we.
Speaker 6: Prayer.
Speaker 2: I love you so much. Love you by