WEBVTT - EP 316: Just Be Shame-Less (Ft. King Noir) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:04.160 Guess what decision we're about to make. 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:05.760 Horrible decision. 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:13.880 We reach the Climax, y'all, announcing our Climax Tour. We 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:15.680 are going to be going all over the country and 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:19.040 Canada east coast, Midwest, west coast, South Many's going to 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:20.880 tell you all about how to secure your tickets because 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:23.279 I'm telling y'all you don't want to let this sell out. 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:24.680 Y'all heard it right. 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:30.080 We are hitting sixteen cities for the official Climax Tour, 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:33.279 brought to you by Horrible Decisions. 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:36.639 Y'all do not want to miss out. 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Like right, motherfucker's in the building. 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:12.320 Y'all, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:13.479 I'm your girl, Mandy beat. 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:17.520 Aka Peg the Stallion aka that bitch a ka where 0:01:17.600 --> 0:01:18.040 your daddy. 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:21.520 Welcome back, y'all. I'm weezy, and we have a guest 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:24.560 that is a repeat guest. We've had his wife, his friends, 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:26.200 his dick, hall of them. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:29.680 Not only that, if you were currently watching this episode 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:32.200 at work, this is the time you may want to 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:35.959 pause this episode and go and get that pantyliner, honey, 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:39.520 because the boy, the soulcteriness is about to have. 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:46.600 You more, maybe your mom plause we got king the 0:01:46.680 --> 0:01:48.160 war in the motherfucking building. 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:52.200 I'm so glad to be back. 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:52.800 You know. 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:56.920 It's like I have watched y'all just explode, you know 0:01:56.920 --> 0:01:57.440 what I'm saying. 0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:01.560 Calm down? 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:04.240 Do you know you have something you said on an 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:07.160 episode years ago that we always talk about in reference. 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:11.960 You talked about when Jazz We were like, oh, well, 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:13.360 how could you be cool with your girl going with 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:15.200 other people? That you were like, maybe she want to 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:19.400 go see B two K And you were like. 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:20.720 Maybe I don't want to go, she can go do 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:21.519 that with another lover. 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:24.840 And it was such a good example that we've used 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:26.640 it over the year so many times. 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:30.359 I've expressed that in relationships because now I'm in all 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:33.920 these poly relationships. They don't they don't subscribe, but I 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:38.200 do know that their poly partner number one, two three. 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.320 But I'm really excited to not only get into, of course, 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:43.679 that we're gonna start with some icebreakers, but I'm really 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:47.240 excited at how you're able to dissect how you show 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:50.640 up in this space, not only as a partner, a husband, 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:53.079 a father, a sex worker, an entrepreneur. 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:55.960 I want to get into all those things, but I 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:56.440 did do a lot. 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:58.480 I do want to talk about you being a daddy too. Yeah, No, 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:01.120 we gonna get well, he's a zaddy by the way, 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:04.240 I've shared on this pod and I've shared with you, 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:07.760 I've shared with Jazz in private and on this page 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:10.600 that my pussy has been getting trained by your dil 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:14.040 Do for the last two three years with my ex. 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:17.520 So it's still in my house. It gets a lot 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:18.200 of usage. 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:20.680 And if you guys do not have the King Noir 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:22.079 dildo yet, please get it. 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:22.880 I'll be honest with you. 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:27.400 I had to get rid of it. It was on 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:31.440 my mantle for necklaces. It was just too well, you 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:33.679 put necklaces on his dialdo because I couldn't put it 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:34.240 in my pussy. 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:35.160 It was just too much. 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:40.160 Quick segue speaking of big dick shit, I want to 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:44.080 tell y'alls had sex yesterday before I got to New York, 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:48.040 had sex with someone would have medium sized it. Okay, 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:52.720 I was wetter than I've been in like bro like soaking, 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:56.320 couldn't believe it, and had been sleeping with someone with 0:03:57.200 --> 0:04:00.560 not yours but a bigger day a big but not 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:03.720 as big as you. But I was like, yo, is 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:07.600 it my brain thinking I could take this dick? Because 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:09.480 when I see a big dick I want it. Is 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:11.840 it my brain telling my pussy, oh, you can handle 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:14.760 this one? Or can I actually not get that wet? 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:16.840 For big dicks? You want all big dicks. 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:18.520 There be a whole lot of different things. 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:22.440 Though it could be the man attached to it. 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:20.760 I don't. 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:25.240 I would have said that, but I wanted to ask you. 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:28.200 Do you find that it takes a lot of time 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:30.520 going into one either get wet for you or too. 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:33.400 Are they so nervous to take it that they can't 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:34.560 get wet? 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:38.240 It could be both or also I think with me 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:41.039 though I like four play so a lot of times 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:44.600 I'm even pussy until they like, let's get it, or 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.400 like I know it ain'tal two. It's very much like 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.240 I can't believe you I can take your time and 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:54.120 loube and all that other stuff. So sometimes it could 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:56.120 be was there more for play involved or. 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:59.000 I mean, I think the issue is that it would 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:00.800 take me a second round to be able to take 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:04.000 a big dick, like I needed my pussy to get engorged. 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.800 Lene of the Plug said something about when she made 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:09.480 her sex toy. She said that they made her masturbate 0:05:10.160 --> 0:05:14.160 so that her pussy was like engorged, and then they 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:16.520 put it inside her to make a replica of it 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:18.520 because they wanted it to be like it's most ripe, 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:20.960 so to speak. So I think that's what happens to 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:23.480 me with big dicks, which is terrible because does. 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:25.080 That mean my husband's will have to be a medium dick? 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:27.640 Nigga and I get used to it. You can have 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:30.359 an open relationship. I think it works for you girls. 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:31.599 Hold you. 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:36.240 I just got that from Ghana, and I realized as 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:39.680 much as I like a partner, I realized I think 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:42.160 I want many scattered across the world. 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:47.480 You said what I said, you want your boshit too now. 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:50.400 Yeah, So I'm just like I would love to like know, 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:52.200 when I go to Ghana, I got me a little 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:55.719 man or prince or whatever was over there. I got mine. 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:57.440 In New York, when I go to Atlanta, I got 0:05:57.480 --> 0:06:00.440 my little friends. I realized, I just want people that 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:03.000 I really enjoy from a distance, and then I can 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:06.280 really enjoy them when I'm with them because of how 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:09.760 much I travel. You know, I may have saw someone 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:12.400 that was cute or whatever, and we may have exchanged numbers, 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:18.400 but that we here for kinga wal icebreaker because these 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:21.680 questions are a little bit more advanced because you were advanced. 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:24.719 So let's get into the icebreaker. And I would like 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:27.480 to know why you choose the answer you choose. Okay, 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:31.119 so this is going to be this or that. Would 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:34.520 you prefer a threesome or an orgy? An orgy of 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.560 course being above four people. 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:43.719 For consistency definitely are okay. Every now and again, an 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:46.160 orgy is nice to sprinkle in there, though what about. 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:48.400 The orgy is makes it nice to sprinkle it up 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:49.680 with what. 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:50.600 The orgy is? Light? 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.640 You could fall back and watch, you could be watched. 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:58.800 You can engage in a lot of different ways with 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:00.680 a lot of different people. When every body bring their 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:03.160 own energy and talents to the space. You know what 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.480 I'm saying, But like with a threesome, you have your focus. 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:09.880 What makes a good orgy partner as another man in 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.040 the room, because you know women, I feel like kind 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:14.680 of know their rolling threesomes and orgies. But for another 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:16.040 dude to be in the room with you, what would 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.200 make a good partner like the tag team with Like, 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:19.520 what kind of qualities would you. 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:21.400 Have to have if we if we already had a 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:24.520 conversation ahead of time, just to just to know each 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:27.960 other's boundaries and respect each other's boundaries, we already. 0:07:27.680 --> 0:07:30.280 Going You know what's crazy about you saying that it's 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:33.080 something that I've been wanting to experience, and I'm not 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:36.120 gonna lie. In my mind, the best way for it 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:38.680 to go is that you just pull up to the bar, 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:40.520 or you pull up and we at. 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:42.200 The house and now you're joining in drinks and it 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:42.880 just happens. 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:47.360 I never actually thought of setting up a threesome or 0:07:47.480 --> 0:07:50.239 orgy with multiple men or with more than one man 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:54.600 where I thought to even have them be able to 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:56.560 have a conversation beforehand, So. 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:58.440 That eliminates so much. 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:01.680 What you gotta say, Like, what should just be. 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:04.720 Like, because somebody might some people might be like, yo, 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:07.600 don't even brush up against me, so there's no DP 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:11.000 or no DP or like don't look me in the eye. 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:12.440 You know what I'm saying, Like some people might have 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:15.920 something serious. I mean, I'm on porn sets, so people 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:17.680 ain't really saying that. But I mean like when I 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:20.200 talk to when I talk to people, like when we 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:24.000 work with couples and millions, helping, yeah, with the civilian folk, 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:27.240 like helping them put together their fantasies, I'm like, well, 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:29.680 what are your what are your criteria? 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:31.840 What are you comfortable with? What are you not comfortable with? 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:34.440 So a lot of times I'll hear people say like 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:36.960 I don't know if I could even feel right in 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:40.200 the room with another guy in this manner. So it's like, okay, 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:42.720 well then you gotta take baby steps first, you know. 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:45.280 Well, it's so interesting that you say that too, because 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:48.000 and maybe well, you know, we can dive into this. 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:52.280 There's been a desire or a conversation. My ex is 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:54.440 still around. Okay, God damn it, I'm sick of just 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:57.200 referring to his ex, but he's still around. But there's 0:08:57.240 --> 0:09:00.600 been conversations about bringing other men into the room, and 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:03.880 but when we've gone to the sex club, his dick 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:07.760 goes completely flaccid. So verbally he's telling me, no, I 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:09.800 want you to experience what I know you want. But 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:12.040 I'm like, but yo, dick is telling me that you 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:14.680 really don't want that to happen. So a part of 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:16.640 me is like, stop telling me what you want to 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:19.320 allow me when I visibly see that your body. 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:21.240 Is not ready to be the environment, you know what 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:24.400 I'm saying, Like, that's a good one. Sex clubs have 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:26.880 a lot going on, and if it's your first time 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:29.760 at that sex club, you might you know, they might 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:32.360 be looking at I mean it's one spot that you'll 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:32.920 go to a lot. 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:37.559 They have a plaque. 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.040 I got the m v P over there. 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:40.920 I am like Inkedin. 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:44.080 It could be the environment in the sense of how 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:45.920 do you feel about sex clubs? 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:48.079 I used to be a sex club have I used 0:09:48.120 --> 0:09:50.280 to love sex clubs. There used to be a couple 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:51.920 here in New York I used to frequent. 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:53.880 What made you like or what's changed? 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:55.679 Is it because maybe people know you or do you 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:57.840 feel like a lot of this might feel like almost 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:01.640 like work mixing. When I say work, I mean mixing 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:06.640 with people you know, for people that know you, I think, well, 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:08.679 obviously now for me it was like kind of like 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:10.800 you know, COVID and shit, So I just fell back 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:11.360 on all of that. 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:15.120 But I think when I was sorry, it's like that 0:10:15.200 --> 0:10:15.880 was time to go. 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:22.120 And it was a sixteen person max for a long time, 0:10:22.160 --> 0:10:24.040 and I was like it was it allowed you to 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:24.880 get myself in. 0:10:24.920 --> 0:10:27.160 It was way more interest and I really liked it 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:27.480 that way. 0:10:27.480 --> 0:10:29.880 Now it would be sixty's too many. 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:31.080 I enjoyed COVID. 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:31.680 I think. 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:36.120 I think for me sex clubs it's like if it's 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:39.400 the right vibe. But I think for a while I 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:40.800 was going to a bunch of them where I was 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:43.120 just like this ship is whack, Like I wouldn't even 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:47.160 want to be here for for any reason, let alone. 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:48.360 To like get lukes and have a good time. 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:55.320 The people, the people, what kind of music they play. 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:58.440 No, I mean not even just on looks, just how 0:10:58.440 --> 0:10:59.240 people interact. 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:02.840 Because for me, when I'm when I'm not working, like 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:06.040 I definitely like to talk to somebody, see where they at. 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:07.760 You know what I'm saying, I'm not just gonna jump 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:10.320 into any any and everything. You know what I'm saying, 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:14.560 So it's like if they're too pushy or they're not 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:17.160 into what we're into, stuff like that, you know what 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.560 I'm saying. And also for me, it used to be 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:20.959 worked back in the day because I used to have 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:22.800 a lot of clients that took me to sex clubs. 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:25.079 And then I also used to have a partner and 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.959 we used to go to clubs and get picked up 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:30.160 for like live shows and shit like that. And I 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:33.280 used to do live shows at sex clubs. So going 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:34.920 to one, like, if I'm going to one now, I 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:35.480 want that ship. 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:36.000 Are you here? 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:37.560 I want to see it in person? 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:41.160 No, okay, sorry, you know you're supposed to be on set, 0:11:41.200 --> 0:11:43.559 but we'll. 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:44.559 Talk about that because I'm trying to be on set, sir, 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:49.000 as the oiler, as the camera persons, oiler. 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:50.760 As the oiler water board. 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:51.959 I didn't want to ask. 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:53.679 You to these two things. 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:56.280 You talked about watching and being watched, of course, but 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:58.880 you're able to give a clear distinction, and I think 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:01.400 some people do not. So I want to know would 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:04.640 you rather be or which one you prefer? Polly or 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:09.160 open Polly, and can you just can you explain what 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:11.080 you know the difference to be between being Polly and 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:11.640 being open. 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:16.680 Sure, polyamorous is the root word is a morg, which 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:23.559 is love, so it's multiple loves on Italy. And open 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:26.160 is just kind of like, you know, our relationship is open, 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:28.720 we might sleep with other people. I mean open means 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:30.400 a lot of different things to a lot of different people. 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:33.320 Some people have open polyamorous relationships. Some people are just 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:36.200 like they're open their swingers. Some people just open a date, 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:39.480 it all, it's all on levels. But to me, polyamory 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:42.480 just really is like rooted and trying to find other 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:45.160 other lovers, whether you're fucking them or not. 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:49.600 Whether you're fucking them or not, whether you're well, I 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:51.800 told you my friends are my poly partners. 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:54.959 And what lovers? You said lovers? So you have women 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:57.600 in your life that you love, you just kiss and stop. 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:00.800 They don't even get kissed if they're if they're a 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:03.120 sub kid, if they're a sub, they might not. 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:06.000 Even have gotten to that point which I met you 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:14.079 with your subs and they're like sub subby sub like no, 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:19.199 they'll literally but they're more like servants subs like they 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:21.599 I don't know. 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:28.840 I prefer I prefer service service service subs. 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.600 Subserve, you said service, I was about to say service body, 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:33.800 but like I prefer both of. 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:37.800 Those and service ones do everything but sex. 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:40.480 It's more like they know they for me. Some of 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:42.360 them have to work their way up to that. It 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:44.880 all depends. It all depends what you mean. 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:46.640 They got work they way to sit like bitch, have 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:49.760 you seen me work day way to sex? 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:52.480 I wish the nigga would all right last one, but 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:54.760 I would like feeling like I had to. I've had 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:55.360 that before. 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:58.080 That was the guy that blindfolded me and told me 0:13:58.120 --> 0:13:59.880 I couldn't take it off until his dick was in me. 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:01.320 He made me work up to. 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:01.880 Get like that. 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:05.160 But see also it's not I have to earn their submission, 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:06.720 so they should have to earn my dominance. 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:09.800 Oh talk yo, shit, don't be looking at me in 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:10.079 my eyes. 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:13.920 In the last one before we get start, vanilla ship 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:19.000 kink or fetish, mister royal fetish films fetishes all day 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:21.560 and can you explain the difference, because I think a 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:25.400 lot of people also can't distinguish between the two as well. 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:27.320 What is the difference between a fetish. Let's try to 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:29.000 guess and then you tell us it. We're right, Okay, 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:33.360 you go first, because That's why I asked him, Okay, 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:34.760 I'm not gonna lie. I think we confuse it all 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:35.120 the time. 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:39.360 I kind of thought a fetish was more extreme than 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:45.000 a kink. I always thought maybe like kinky referred to 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:47.760 like damn. Now I'm getting lost because when someone has 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:50.120 a fetish, I think a ship like balloons and ship. 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:53.640 You know what I'm saying that balloon yo. 0:14:53.840 --> 0:15:01.080 One time when I never knew that lunars existed. 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:02.000 And somebody, somebody requested a video. 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:04.320 This is like when we first started with RFF and 0:15:04.360 --> 0:15:06.560 they requested a video from Jazmine. And she has fans 0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:09.280 that send her like giant balloons that you got to 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:11.440 blow up with a pump and ship and all kinds 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:13.640 of crazy shit. So like we had all these like 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:16.240 red and black balloons, regular balloons, and she's like doing 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:19.880 and she's like doing all this sexy stuff with it, 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:23.120 and I'm recording, I'm like I'm getting hard watching her play. 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:23.960 With balloons and ship. 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:29.000 Like she's like she was like licking them and like 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:31.520 rubbing them all over her body, and it was I 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:33.160 was just like, yeah, I didn't even think to even 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:36.240 do that ship with a balloon. I hate oh and 0:15:36.320 --> 0:15:37.920 some like for some of them, they like to get 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:39.960 them popped. Other people don't like to get them popped. 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:42.080 So this is what like when I think about the 0:15:42.120 --> 0:15:45.040 difference between fetishes and kinks, right, I don't. I don't 0:15:45.040 --> 0:15:47.200 look at them as like they're not opposites in any 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.640 kind of way. I think of it as fetish is 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:52.560 something you have and you can bet kinky, like you 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:54.280 can do all types of kinky shit. You know what 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:57.480 I'm saying, Like you are kinky is like the acting. 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:02.160 But like a fetish, a fetish doesn't have to be extreme. 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:02.400 Though. 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:04.640 A fetish could be like I like feet, feet, I 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:07.840 like shoes. That's not a fetish though, No, we know 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.280 white girls have it, yeah, and they just they just 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:12.080 racist a human being. 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:14.240 I don't think black men could be a fetish, but 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:15.640 I think that people say that. 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:17.160 Oh no, they definitely say that. 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:18.960 But that's just like you know what I'm saying, Like 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:20.880 you said, it ain't a fetish, it's racism. 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:21.800 It's racism. 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:24.160 You said, a white woman a black guy, ain't. 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:26.200 I didn't say a white woman liking a black guy. 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:28.240 A white woman having a fetish for black men is 0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:29.120 definitely because. 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:31.280 Think about when we say it when people say Asian fetish. 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:33.800 For some reason, we kind of place it somewhere else, 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:35.960 but we get more offended when it's black men. But 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:37.960 I think it's because they feel like there ares so 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:40.640 that I understand. But I recently got checked about it 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:44.280 because a friend of mine and I were out and 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:46.040 someone said, oh, yeah, he is an Asian fetish and 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:48.040 she was like, so he just got a fetish for me, 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:51.040 just me as a person. And when she said it, 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:53.200 I was like, damn, Like, we got to be careful 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:54.440 with the language we use because. 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:57.200 Obviously there's a lot of the body parts. 0:16:57.400 --> 0:16:59.160 Yeah, but your body parts. 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:01.840 But not every black dude got a huge day, right, 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:07.280 because baby, this is something not out here hanging like 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:08.080 y'all think you. 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:10.359 Believe that when people have a fetish like that is 0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:13.840 the skin tone like black, like white girls want darkness. 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:17.600 The thing is with especially in America, point blank, this 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:20.080 is something that we have been working on and things 0:17:20.119 --> 0:17:22.960 that we've been building on is the decolonization of sex. 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:29.120 So in America, one of the largest not cotton, not sugar, 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:33.679 not anything else, was us. You know, Virginia was based 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:38.320 their their whole slave plantations were based around slave breeding, 0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:41.600 you know what I'm saying. So the fetishes that white 0:17:41.600 --> 0:17:44.439 women have for black men comes from a place of 0:17:44.480 --> 0:17:47.159 being the mistress of the house, having a place of power, 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:50.360 and looking at us as nothing but something for them 0:17:50.400 --> 0:17:52.280 to have sex with. So that's where you have like 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:55.320 that Queen of Spades type shit where they're talking about 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:57.840 like it's the fucking most racist shit, you know what 0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:01.440 I'm saying, And and all these quote unquote fetishes that 0:18:01.480 --> 0:18:03.480 they have, if you look back, it's the same way 0:18:03.520 --> 0:18:04.320 they sold us. 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:07.640 Can I ask you with with you having this history, 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:10.160 we have sat on this pod and there have been 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:13.439 black sex workers that said that they would partake in 0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:16.840 race play for whatever reason, as a form of operations 0:18:17.359 --> 0:18:20.520 or because maybe they weren't that deep rooted. Is there 0:18:20.560 --> 0:18:23.880