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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocuslaw dot com. Natasha is on the phone

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Speaker 1: today for our first Date follow up and she's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted by a guy named Mason who she really likes.

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Speaker 1: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him see

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Speaker 1: if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe

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Speaker 1: get her another date. But first, Natasha, how long has

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Speaker 1: it been since you heard from Mason?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Man, it's been it's been like a couple of days. Like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Well, he he won't hang out with

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Speaker 3: me again. I don't know. He just says he's busy.

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Speaker 3: It's the word fairly obligation.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but could not be legit if it's been a

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Speaker 4: couple days or the couple days is silence.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like we work in the same building. I

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Speaker 3: just don't get it, Like it's not it's just a

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Speaker 3: bunch of it'so much to bes because he could just

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Speaker 3: be busy or I don't know, I feel like something

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Speaker 3: else is going on, Like we had such a great date.

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Speaker 3: We had like fire, it was amazing. So the fact

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Speaker 3: that he won't like meet up for another happy hour

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Speaker 3: right across the street from our office. Is just doesn't

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Speaker 3: make sense.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's talk about the date. What part let's hear

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Speaker 1: about the fire.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, like, I don't know, we had a

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Speaker 3: really good time, Like our date was like amazing, but

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Speaker 3: like we were like touching and kissing, like we shared

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Speaker 3: appetizers and like, I don't know. Then we went back

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Speaker 3: to his house and we hooked up. I had to go,

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Speaker 3: like I had to sneak out in the middle of

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Speaker 3: the night because I had a early work day the

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Speaker 3: next day. But I don't know, I just thought that

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Speaker 3: since it was so hot, and really I didn't see

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Speaker 3: anything that went wrong. I just don't understand, like why

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Speaker 3: he can't even like I mean a car coffee in

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Speaker 3: the lobby, Like what in the.

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Speaker 1: Heck right now? It feels like you're a little eager.

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Speaker 4: Have you expressed that eagerness at any point after so

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Speaker 4: you guys hooked up?

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, yeah, but like okay, so I might have

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Speaker 3: like hipped something when I left his house that may

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Speaker 3: have upset him.

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Speaker 1: Like I took something and.

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Speaker 3: When I was leaving, Yeah, I might have kicked something.

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Speaker 1: Like my shoe.

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Speaker 3: Well there was like kitty letter on my shoe and

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Speaker 3: I was leaving his house, so I was like, oh, no,

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Speaker 3: maybe I kicked over his cat's litter box, and maybe

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Speaker 3: that is that why he's not talking to me. I

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Speaker 3: mean I might be So did you.

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Speaker 1: Leave a mess behind you? Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 3: It was dark, it was early, I didn't see it.

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Speaker 3: I might have met I don't even know if a

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Speaker 3: cat was in there.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, it's not funny.

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Speaker 4: Did you address the potential mess that you left? Did

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Speaker 4: you say sorry, I think I kicked something on my

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Speaker 4: way out or anything like that.

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Speaker 3: I want to explain myself, but like, I'm just not.

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Speaker 3: He won't meet up with me. So he's just being

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Speaker 3: cold and I after hooking up and after the way

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Speaker 3: everything went, and then if I made a mess of apartment,

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Speaker 3: and if that's why he doesn't want to see me again,

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Speaker 3: just tell me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah that doesn't feel good, right, Yeah, especially after hooking

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Speaker 4: up with somebody, they do owe you a little something

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Speaker 4: that doesn't feel good.

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Speaker 3: You have any family obligations too, I didn't even understand

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Speaker 3: how many could be possible.

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Speaker 1: It'll be oh, okay, well we'll play a song, come

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Speaker 1: back and then call him and see if you tell

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Speaker 1: us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another

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Speaker 1: date if you still want one.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you, all right.

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Speaker 1: We'll play a song, come back and get your first

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Speaker 1: day follow up.

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Speaker 3: Next.

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Speaker 1: Natasha is on the phone today for our first date

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Speaker 1: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Mason.

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Speaker 1: So in a second, we're gonna call him see if

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Speaker 1: you tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get

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Speaker 1: her another date. But real quick, Natasha, why don't you

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Speaker 1: catch everybody up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Basically, we work in the team building. We didn't realize

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Speaker 3: we had worked together for so long and then that

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Speaker 3: and we had she hung out and we hooked up.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I maybe kicked over his catbox and

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Speaker 3: now he will hang out with me and he's all right.

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Speaker 1: Do you think it might be because he kicked over

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Speaker 1: the litter box on accident? All right, well, we'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can figure it out. Here we go. Are

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Speaker 1: you ready?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Hello, Hi, I'm asking to Mason. Please, Mason, how

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Speaker 1: are you good?

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Speaker 3: What's up? Who's Oh?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for asking Mason. My name is Jubel and

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Speaker 1: I host a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 1: Him Mason the whole shows here. I'm Nina, Hi, and

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Speaker 1: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, I've heard you guys.

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Speaker 2: I heard you guys later, I heard you guys earlier.

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Speaker 1: Oh sweet, Oh thank you. That's cool. We're just calling

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Speaker 1: to say thank you. We were watching you. Listen. We're

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Speaker 1: actually calling you because we got an email about you, Mason, okay,

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Speaker 1: from somebody who you went on a date with, but

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Speaker 1: now you're ghosting. This is a first date follow up.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, all right, so what the what are the accusations?

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Speaker 1: Any idea, any idea of who would email us? Natasha?

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you're correct, Mason. Is Natasha?

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Speaker 3: What happens?

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Speaker 1: She wants to know why you're ghostinger. She says she

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Speaker 1: really liked you, but now you.

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Speaker 2: Are okay, So all right, well this is.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 5: She wants to hear it on the radio. So we obviously,

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Speaker 5: like she told you, guys, kind of the basic what happened.

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Speaker 5: We met and we went off for drinks, and then

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Speaker 5: she might well.

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Speaker 2: She might have spent the night saying.

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Speaker 5: Okay, cool and then so thanks for drinking, and I'm

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Speaker 5: a light sleeper. She spent the night and I kept

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Speaker 5: on waking up because she kept on farting, and and

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Speaker 5: it's fine, there's nothing wrong with farts.

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Speaker 6: But it's just a little bit it like maybe I

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Speaker 6: guess too soon for fart, if that makes sense, Like

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Speaker 6: I just you know, I just kind of met her

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Speaker 6: and I'm already hearing her fart exactly.

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Speaker 1: You can't really control your body too soon.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So, which is fine because I'm sure, like you

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Speaker 5: know who doesn't fart.

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Speaker 3: So but I was just a little bit much for me.

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Speaker 3: It kind of gave me to eck. But there's nothing,

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Speaker 3: there's no bad thing. I should just honestly, I should

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Speaker 3: have just got back here.

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Speaker 1: It was why you guys were like, stuff, is it?

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Speaker 3: No? I mean I was, I was sleeping.

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Speaker 5: Who knows what she was, but I remember being it

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Speaker 5: was just it was.

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Speaker 1: Just sleep okay, Like I could.

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Speaker 4: I could, I could see like if she was doing

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Speaker 4: it on purpose or like blatantly in front of you

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Speaker 4: in the middle of conversation. But like if you're sleeping,

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Speaker 4: you can't really control what's happening, right.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 5: That's why it's an embarrassing I I guess. I mean,

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Speaker 5: I just again, like it's maybe if I just knew

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Speaker 5: her longer for it like a dating because you know

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Speaker 5: something wrong with that when you're dating someone.

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Speaker 1: But I always get nervous about that, falling asleep next

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Speaker 1: to someone for the first time, if I'm going to

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Speaker 1: fart or not, that's how you get nervous.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, what if you were in his position? I'm

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Speaker 4: just curious, like how other people would.

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Speaker 1: Handle that, Like if you were she was sleep farting,

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Speaker 1: I think that's that'd be cute unless they were like

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Speaker 1: real bad ones. But that's cute. She doesn't even know

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Speaker 1: she's farting. She's embarrassed right now? Are you crying right now?

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Speaker 1: I'm just laughing. Oh, I'm sorry. Well, thank you for

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Speaker 1: telling us the truth. Mason.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel about I'm a light sleeper.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 1: Sure, Mason, I don't know if you remember or not.

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Speaker 1: But when we do the first date follow ups, the

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Speaker 1: other person is on the phone. So Natasha's on the

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Speaker 1: phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: All right, you heard all that? Hey?

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Speaker 5: Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, it's cool. Maybe you know you were

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Speaker 2: definitely farting. Also that for dinner.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we okay, okay, talking a lot, so I probably

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Speaker 3: want to air my stomach.

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Speaker 5: Maybe I didn't. I don't know if I remember. I

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Speaker 5: don't know who was farting, but there was farting, dude, so.

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Speaker 3: Something when when I too, it's cute and you it

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Speaker 3: just seems uncomfortable around you, so you know, sorry, but

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Speaker 3: I don't know. You were totally farting more than I was.

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Speaker 3: And I feel so much better now.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I'm glad we're on the same page, part

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Speaker 5: page or something. I'm glad we have the same Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I'm glad I heard you got to hear me fart

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Speaker 5: because I felt them fair.

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Speaker 3: I thought I thought you didn't want to talk to

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Speaker 3: me anymore because I kicked over your cat pots.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that was totally No, that happens all the time.

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Speaker 3: That's that's fine.

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Speaker 1: That would have been fun. Well, now that you have

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Speaker 1: both known each other's fart sound like, I mean, yeah, Mason,

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Speaker 1: would you like to go on another date with Natasha?

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Speaker 1: Will pay for it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: So, I guess now that we both realize that we're

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Speaker 5: both nighttime.

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Speaker 3: Tutors night I mean, I'm not I'm.

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Speaker 5: Not opposed to it, and I definitely feel bad about

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Speaker 5: ghosting and I shouldn't have done that. And now that

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Speaker 5: now it's just now that this whole thing is, it's

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Speaker 5: really funny.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, Natasha, congratulations, got another day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you guys. That's awesome and speaks for apologizing.

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Speaker 3: I hated that feeling.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so definitely, yeah, definitely and just please yeah, let's

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Speaker 5: go on the second date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's and now it doesn't matter if you guys fart, no, no,

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Speaker 1: maybe do things and turn each other on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, rural reset, I like that hard part reset.

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Speaker 1: Juble's first date follow up