WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Long Distance Love

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<v Speaker 1>Second, what do you match with someone online and it's

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<v Speaker 1>going really well? You feel like, you know, it's clicking.

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<v Speaker 1>There's chemistry here. Maybe you start talking on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with them, Maybe you learn each other's birthdays, your safe words,

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<v Speaker 1>your previous felonies, okay, yeah, personal. You start to have

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<v Speaker 1>all these expectations building up, and you wonder, could this

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<v Speaker 1>be the one? I'll tell you this. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about the story here, but I do know Robert,

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<v Speaker 1>our caller, was feeling that and it may have caused

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<v Speaker 1>him to say something that he now regrets. It banana?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what they chose? Is it that what he said?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's find Robert. What was your safe word? Is it? Umi? Answer? Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>if this gets too weird, we'll SHOTMI. But welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show man. Thanks. Sounds like you're catching feelings pretty

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<v Speaker 1>hard for this girl that you met. What's her name? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>her name is Grace. Grace. Okay, okay, tell us about Grace.

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<v Speaker 1>So we met online? Um so, like, what's an online

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<v Speaker 1>dating stuccion? I was recently single. I've been single like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a year. Okay, so I got back out there,

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<v Speaker 1>but on I guess the real dating site, like not

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<v Speaker 1>the little little ones like what does that mean? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like the actual website, not the application. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not I don't even know you go on websites. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're like dot com match dot com right right,

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<v Speaker 1>right right, and you can get like ultraspecific about the

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<v Speaker 1>things that you like, just like et cetera. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>you can set your distance parameters to close by, or

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<v Speaker 1>you can. Grace got us through all the different settings

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<v Speaker 1>that are available on this dating at is really blown away.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I really wanted I really wanted someone that had convertible. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a funny guy too. I guess what you're saying

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<v Speaker 1>is Grace checked all your boxes right, exactly. Nice. So

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<v Speaker 1>we met and she lets across the country, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we started. Oh man, that's not a box. You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>put distance as a box there. I'm a romantic and

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<v Speaker 1>I love sleepless in Seattle. Okay, I forget, honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>forget the premise of that. Hence the radio show call. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you ran out of options locally and had to expand

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<v Speaker 1>your net broader. I guess yeah. Yeah, So we met

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<v Speaker 1>and we started talking, you know, on the app, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we exchanged phone numbers and all right, this all

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<v Speaker 1>sounds really really nice. Well let's fast forward to like,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys ever actually meet up and go on

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<v Speaker 1>a date? Yeah? Okay, wait in person? In person? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, they're across country day dang? Did you who flu? Where?

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<v Speaker 1>She flew with me? And it was great, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>had flowers for me at the airport. Believe it or not,

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<v Speaker 1>she brought flowers. Wow? Yeah? Were you so nervous because

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<v Speaker 1>this is a whole weekend you're going to spend, I

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<v Speaker 1>assume with this person? Of course? I mean I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>done anything like this in a very I've never done

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<v Speaker 1>anything like this. Okay, wow, how did that go? Was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it? Oh? Yeah, it was great. It was awesome

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<v Speaker 1>and we got some awesome meals. We walked a lot, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>and we learned about each other's families, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was extremely romantic. Oh my god, I'm happy for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys share a bedroom a weekend? Or answer?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to answer. Of course we did. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean so she felt comfortable enough with that, right exactly? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, gosh, that is like whirlwind romance type

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<v Speaker 1>of situation. What was it? Like like the last day.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, to be honest with you, it ended on

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<v Speaker 1>like a pretty perfect note, like we said goodbye the airport.

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<v Speaker 1>We believe it or not exchanged. I love yous? What okay, Jumanji,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling Jumanji. It's way too early. Walk us through

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<v Speaker 1>that moment. I mean, at least both of you said it, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we've she said it back to me. I mean like

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was involuntary. Okay, so you said it first.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like yeah, it was like I did not

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<v Speaker 1>have control, okay, and now and so then she flew

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<v Speaker 1>back to her hometown on her plane. How long has

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<v Speaker 1>it been since that happened? Um? It has been about

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<v Speaker 1>a week? Okay, okay a week? And wait and like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on in your relationship? Are you still talking?

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her when she got home. She got home safe? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said in her response, I'm reading it against

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<v Speaker 1>you right now, homesafe dot dot dot not in interested anymore?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, in like a couple hours time, you went

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<v Speaker 1>from I love you kissing to not interested? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, what are you're joking? And then literally no response.

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<v Speaker 1>This is okay, this is your problem. You should not

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<v Speaker 1>let her get on the plane. Every movie will tell you, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you live here now, Yeah, why don't you run out

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<v Speaker 1>on the tarmac? Oh that is that is heartbreaking? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Oh God, is there anything that you think

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<v Speaker 1>you might have done wrong? I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>claim to be a perfect human. Yeah. Like I I

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<v Speaker 1>was just going with my gut and so that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I did. And if I had done something, I would

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<v Speaker 1>I would expect you to be honest with me about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean it might not even be something

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<v Speaker 1>that you did. It might be on her. Maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>has another guy in her hometown. I think maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>met a guy on the plane. Or I love you now, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, whoever, I see what we do when I

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<v Speaker 1>talk to all my friends and they're like, maybe this

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<v Speaker 1>is just a blessing. Dude, you dodged a bullet. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she's not that you loved her and now you like

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like I said, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>single for a year. I've been like doing the work

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<v Speaker 1>on myself. Like oh that's set. But here's a thing,

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<v Speaker 1>like you take risks and you never know what's gonna happen,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, all do you know what we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>to pay off right now. We're gonna take a risk

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<v Speaker 1>and call her on the phone in a few minutes here,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll see if she answers and hopefully get some

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<v Speaker 1>answers out of her when we do your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Next second, let's do a quick recap on one of

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<v Speaker 1>the more romantic stories that we've actually had on our

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<v Speaker 1>show in a while. I am so excited for this

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<v Speaker 1>because Robert met a woman named Grace long distance over

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<v Speaker 1>a website. They connected, had chemistry, and the other weekend

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<v Speaker 1>she flew out to come meet him. I R L Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And normally when these things happen, you think the meetup

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't possibly match the idea in your mind about how

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna go, right, Robert said, it absolutely did, and more. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it surpassed the build up, which is crazy. He even

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<v Speaker 1>said I love you when he dropped Grace off at

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<v Speaker 1>the airport, and she said it back to him, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which is very important to the story. But it got

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<v Speaker 1>weird from there because since then he's only gotten one

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<v Speaker 1>text from her saying home safe, not interested anymore. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had bad flights before, but that must have been

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<v Speaker 1>a really terrible, terrible flight, like well, like the turbulence

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<v Speaker 1>in between us. It could be it could be that

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<v Speaker 1>she just got scared, Robert. I mean like, you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>in this love and then you fly all the way

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<v Speaker 1>home and you're like, what am I doing? This is

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<v Speaker 1>going to see them again? Yeah, exactly. All I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to end up doing is breaking my own heart. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't do it, you know, Like, do you think that

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<v Speaker 1>could be? It? My mind right right now? I have

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<v Speaker 1>literally no idea. Okay, Well, hopefully we can give you

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of peace of mind. I'm just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>praying more than any call that we've ever done before,

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<v Speaker 1>that she actually picks up and tells us some things,

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<v Speaker 1>because well, we can call back if she doesn't move,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm setting a one call limit to this. If she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't answer, I'm giving up forever. That's how love works.

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<v Speaker 1>One chance. Okay, here we go for some people. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope she answers. Let's call Grace. Hello. Hi is this Grace? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Grace. Um, my name is Jeff from

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. You're on a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show right now and we're really excited to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Wait, what's going on, Grace? Today is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a day that you will remember for the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of your life, and the question is is it going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a happy memory or a sad memory? That

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<v Speaker 1>really depends on what you say next year, because no

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<v Speaker 1>pressure or anything. Sorry about him, Okay, it's sorry. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just it's just a regular day in your normal life.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you calling me? I don't I don't guess.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing a segment called a Second Date Update, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're trying to help one of our listeners get back

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with you after you met up with him

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<v Speaker 1>the other weekend. Are you who are you talking about? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you're just about to say it. I'll spell

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<v Speaker 1>it out for you. Are Yeah, Oh okay, trying to

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<v Speaker 1>keep going. Yeah, that's okay. I've already contact with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in contact with him. So this is what

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<v Speaker 1>do you all mean with Robert? Yeah, I texted him

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<v Speaker 1>and told him I'm not interested anymore. So yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he got that text. We heard about that, but he's

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit infused about why he felt like that

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<v Speaker 1>came out of the blue. I mean it literally happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you texted that hours after you had just

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<v Speaker 1>said I love you. Uh huh, you could understand why

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<v Speaker 1>he would be a little confused. Okay, let me say this,

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<v Speaker 1>since you seem to know the whole story. When he

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<v Speaker 1>dropped me off of the airport, it was completely in

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<v Speaker 1>my consciousness that we were probably going to have a

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<v Speaker 1>long term relationship, like possibly leading to marriage. Like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, oh my god. So you were feeling the

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<v Speaker 1>exact same way he was at the airport exists? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I was so wait, what what changed between

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<v Speaker 1>saying goodbye to him at the airport and you sending

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<v Speaker 1>him the text saying you're not interested? Well, I'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what change. So my flight ended up getting delayed,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm in the sport for a couple hours waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for us to board. He was so frustrated. Then I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting a phone call and it's him. It's Robert calling me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm thinking, well, why is he calling me, because

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<v Speaker 1>as far as he knows, I'm in the air right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he didn't say that he called you. He

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<v Speaker 1>just said that he got that text message from you

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<v Speaker 1>where he texted you. So I pick it up and

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<v Speaker 1>it was obviously a buck dial. Oh Okay, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>just like driving home from the airporter that happens. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you hear it? I heard him talking to

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<v Speaker 1>a woman that obviously was not his mom, not his sister,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that he knows, maybe in a romantic way. Why,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's how I could tell that, that's how he

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<v Speaker 1>was talking to her, and it was very upsetting to

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<v Speaker 1>me because I love you. There has to be an

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<v Speaker 1>explanation for this. Maybe he was watching a romantic comedy

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what you heard in the background. You there

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<v Speaker 1>has to be something else going on here. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>just oh my god, we're getting a butt dial to

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<v Speaker 1>the radio station right now. Oh my god, it's Robert

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<v Speaker 1>Robberty Grace. Hello, I'm here. Oh I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need this. Sorry, I'm sorry, Sorry, I'm sorry. Sorry, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I know this is really uncomfortable, but we need to

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<v Speaker 1>get some answers here, just so that everybody gets a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of peace of mind. Robert, do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on with the butt dial? Yes? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're cheating. That was what was going on. What was happening.

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<v Speaker 1>I was ending things with a previous situation. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>good thing. He was ending it. He was cheating. You're cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not yes. If if you have a woman fly

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<v Speaker 1>from across the country while you're still in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody else and haven't ended it, that is cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it wasn't a relationship, It was a situation ship.

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<v Speaker 1>You had overlap between your husband when you met him

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<v Speaker 1>in the previous relationship that you were in. I never

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<v Speaker 1>overlapped the relationships Jeffrey. Never. I met him while I

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<v Speaker 1>was still seeing someone else. But then I broke up

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<v Speaker 1>with that person and then breaking it up, broke it

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<v Speaker 1>up after the weekend. You should have broke it up before, Grace. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this is your chance to talk to Robert

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<v Speaker 1>and set things straight once and for all. We can

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<v Speaker 1>get some answers, hopefully what other answers did, Grace me.

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<v Speaker 1>Just calm down, Brook, This isn't your relationship. Were Robert

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<v Speaker 1>yet mad? That makes me mad? Robbie, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really upset about this, and knowing that there was somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else you're involved, It doesn't help. It doesn't help, But

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<v Speaker 1>it's over and I'm here for you. Why did you wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you wait? Robbie? You broke up with her no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll text her right now. What what a cheating? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god? Yuh was you breaking up? Well? That was me?

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<v Speaker 1>That was me and this eating. So why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>initiate the breakup before you got on the dating website

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<v Speaker 1>where you met Grace? Because we never officially said that

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<v Speaker 1>we were each other's boyfriend and girlfriend. It just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of was like a thing. So if it was just

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<v Speaker 1>a thing, then you don't need to even have a

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<v Speaker 1>breakup relationship talk like right, you just ghost them. You

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<v Speaker 1>just ghostem out of respect for the other ladies feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted a clean break, Okay, I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing clean about this. This is so messy. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just get it messy and I'm willing to dive into

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<v Speaker 1>this next thing with a full, honest heart. That's good now,

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<v Speaker 1>now you got an honest heart. See, let's just get

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<v Speaker 1>it out in the open. How many people do you

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<v Speaker 1>currently love? Robert? Actually, in all seriousness, I meant everything

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<v Speaker 1>that I said. I apologize for what you heard, and

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<v Speaker 1>I if I can do anything to help us out,

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<v Speaker 1>you let me know. I'll fly there, I'll fly you

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<v Speaker 1>here and we can work it out. And if we can't,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand where you're coming from. I'm not a bad guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just had like I had been single for a year.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I'm doing, but I do know

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<v Speaker 1>that I do know how I feel. I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>sounds pretty sincere to me. And look, sometimes they don't

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<v Speaker 1>turn off books, microphone, off microphone. We're done with this, Okay, Look, Grace,

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<v Speaker 1>he sounds sincere, even if he was in the relationship

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<v Speaker 1>at the time when he met you. Sometimes you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who you really love until you meet like that.

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<v Speaker 1>One situation ship different, yes, exactly according to him, enormous

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<v Speaker 1>enormous lengths to reach you and tell you that he

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<v Speaker 1>really wants to see you again, and if you're willing

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<v Speaker 1>to give him another shot, we'll pay for that date.

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<v Speaker 1>If anything. Get in a room with him so he

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<v Speaker 1>can bug his phone. You realize we live across the

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<v Speaker 1>country from each other. I know. That's why we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>pay for the cheapest airline available. Yeah, yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>you know, honestly, I would just rather cut my losses.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go, Grace, set some value so hard to

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<v Speaker 1>find people out there. You might regret this said he

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<v Speaker 1>loved you that Yeah, at the same time he was

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<v Speaker 1>telling another woman the same thing, Jeffrey, he was telling

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<v Speaker 1>the other one, I don't love you. No, he was different.

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<v Speaker 1>He hasn't even fully broken up with that woman yet.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well I just did it over text. It's done. Okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that he's officially broken up, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on another date with him? No? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Text her back and say back on again, Robert,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're dumb broken Jeffrey in the morning. Well, the

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<v Speaker 1>text board at seventy five nine two is pretty split

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<v Speaker 1>on what he did was considered cheating. Seventy l seventy

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<v Speaker 1>eight percent said they think it is. Twenty two percent

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<v Speaker 1>said maybe I don't yeh Is that how it works

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<v Speaker 1>for you? I feel yeah, I'm gonna give him the

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<v Speaker 1>benefit of the doubt and say he wasn't. Those other

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<v Speaker 1>twenty two percent are also in a relationship while simultaneously

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<v Speaker 1>on a dating website. I mean, come on, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, he needed to be honest from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>If he was like talking, oh god, all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>If he was honest from the beginning, he never would

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<v Speaker 1>have had her come out. It never would have happened

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<v Speaker 1>because it's a problem. See. Yes, you know what the

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<v Speaker 1>good thing that came out of that was is that

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<v Speaker 1>we've never ever before had anybody break up with the

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<v Speaker 1>other person that they were seeing via text mid phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you believe that that text message went out? That's cute, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way he really texts. Yeah. I'm still gonna

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<v Speaker 1>believe that true love is possible. And if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to believe in true love then you can always find

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