Speaker 1: Second, All right, let's do a hypothetical here.
Speaker 2: I always love those, And Brooke, we're gonna pretend that
Speaker 2: you're single.
Speaker 3: Okay, I know.
Speaker 2: She's faked up.
Speaker 1: Let's say for a long time you're hanging out at
Speaker 1: the bar, you're the same age that you are right now.
Speaker 2: I don't want to say it out loud, just just
Speaker 2: keep that in mind.
Speaker 1: But again, you're single and you see a cute guy
Speaker 1: cross the room, very attractive. Do you approach him or
Speaker 1: do you try to get him to notice you so
Speaker 1: that he walks over.
Speaker 4: I've never had any tact, so I would definitely approach him.
Speaker 2: And what do you do?
Speaker 3: What do you do?
Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know, maybe buy him a drink extra?
Speaker 1: You're just like Hi, I'm brook, I think you're cute
Speaker 1: and dreams you flash a bunch of money in his
Speaker 1: face and try to win him over like that.
Speaker 4: I've told many guys at bars when I single, you're hot.
Speaker 4: We love that.
Speaker 2: We would love that. Girls will finally.
Speaker 4: Tell you I told you I don't have much shame
Speaker 4: or anything. Well no, not really, but it works. I'm
Speaker 4: telling you it works.
Speaker 1: I do think you forgot I said, you're still your
Speaker 1: same age, as now, but I'm gonna let you get
Speaker 1: away with that one.
Speaker 4: So I still say that look more desperate at my age.
Speaker 1: But I bring it up because one of our listeners
Speaker 1: says that he got approached by not just one, but
Speaker 1: two different women, and he thinks he knows the secret
Speaker 1: on how that happened. Okay, so let's talk to him. Tony,
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Hi, how are you doing?
Speaker 4: Were my two twins at the bar? Is that what.
Speaker 2: She means lookalikes?
Speaker 3: Not the other girl?
Speaker 2: Classic she's accidentally hitting.
Speaker 1: I know Tony apologized for Brook, but I know you
Speaker 1: went on a date recently.
Speaker 2: Who was it with?
Speaker 3: Her name is Gemma. We actually met on a dating app.
Speaker 4: Said somebody approached you at the bar. You met it
Speaker 4: on a dating app.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I know, sorry, that might have been a
Speaker 3: little confusing. So we went to this Mexican spot and
Speaker 3: they have these like giant long shared table things.
Speaker 4: Like community seating.
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. We're like sitting with different parties and stuff
Speaker 3: like that, and it's kind of social, you know, people
Speaker 3: are talking to each other and interacting. But I thought
Speaker 3: that I was being pretty clear to the rest of
Speaker 3: the restaurant that me and jem are are not brother
Speaker 3: and sister. We were there on a date together.
Speaker 2: How do you be clear about that? Like T shirts matching?
Speaker 2: Do you guys look alike?
Speaker 3: No, I don't think so. But it was more like
Speaker 3: the way we got treated yet because we were I mean,
Speaker 3: we were flirting, we were doing the whole date thing,
Speaker 3: and these two girls were kind of across from us,
Speaker 3: and like I said, it was the social thing. And
Speaker 3: Jemma at one point got up and she went to
Speaker 3: the bathroom, and during that time, these two girls came
Speaker 3: over and sat on either side of me and just
Speaker 3: kind of inserted themselves into the situation.
Speaker 4: About your date. Like, you know, I could see, like
Speaker 4: two girls that are out together. They're like, oh, look
Speaker 4: at there on a first date. Let's go mess, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean.
Speaker 3: She think's going bad. Like I don't know, I don't
Speaker 3: know what it was. But when Jemma came back to
Speaker 3: the table, she kind of sat not in the seat
Speaker 3: that they were in, but a little away from me,
Speaker 3: like across from me.
Speaker 4: Almost The women were still there when she came back
Speaker 4: from the bathroom.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they stayed there and they were basically just paying
Speaker 3: attention to me. They were like laughing at jokes that
Speaker 3: I was trying to say and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: So it was weird that maybe she saw that they like.
Speaker 4: And it's something if they're like making it a joke,
Speaker 4: right and they're including her and it feels like a
Speaker 4: group thing. But this sounds like she was really left out.
Speaker 2: It probably hurt.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was trying to do everything I could to
Speaker 3: show her non verbally that I am not interested in them.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm trying to play foot you with her.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to engage with her and let her know, like, hey,
Speaker 3: I didn't have these girls to come over here. They
Speaker 3: just did it on their own. It's got nothing to
Speaker 3: do with me.
Speaker 4: Didn't everything you didn't move, don't move.
Speaker 1: And one time I pretended to fall asleep during a
Speaker 1: day to get the message across that I wasn't interesting.
Speaker 2: I kissed one of them. But what do you think,
Speaker 2: like in your mind, what do you think was happening there?
Speaker 3: I kind of and I told her this too. I
Speaker 3: think the only reason that they were even interested in
Speaker 3: me to begin with was because I was out with
Speaker 3: a really attractive girl. And that's the only time that
Speaker 3: that ever happens to me.
Speaker 4: Did Emma, like that reason, not at all? Were you
Speaker 4: able to salvage the date at all?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 4: And how long were they there?
Speaker 3: They were there for the rest of the date, but
Speaker 3: we didn't stay much longer. We uh awkwardly left and
Speaker 3: she wasn't really talking to me at the end, and uh,
Speaker 3: no kiss or anything like that, was just kind of
Speaker 3: hugged and uh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you bring it up with Jemma though about like,
Speaker 1: sorry about those two girls, Like I wasn't interested.
Speaker 4: He told her The whole reason he thought they were
Speaker 4: doing that.
Speaker 3: After the date are during Yeah, well, the girls were
Speaker 3: right there, so it was hard for me to address
Speaker 3: it at the table. I just waited till we were
Speaker 3: in the car, and I apologized for their behavior and said, look,
Speaker 3: I had nothing to do with me. I'm sorry. It
Speaker 3: was weird.
Speaker 4: What did she say?
Speaker 3: She said she understood, but there wasn't much after that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, yeah, dangd what do you wish you would
Speaker 4: have done differently?
Speaker 3: Uh? It was a weird social situation, So, I mean,
Speaker 3: I guess I should have asked for a private table,
Speaker 3: but that was kind of the whole experience of the
Speaker 3: spot was to do that with other people.
Speaker 5: Weird.
Speaker 2: I wonder, I wonder where.
Speaker 1: Her side is. Yeah, well we'll get that from her
Speaker 1: when we reach out to her. But at least next time,
Speaker 1: probably need to avoid the shared long tables.
Speaker 4: You're just accepting attention from other women. Women is probably
Speaker 4: what you need to avoid when you're with a girl.
Speaker 1: Kerr Brother Chicks and hopefully we'll get some answers when
Speaker 1: we reach out to Gemma for you and come back.
Speaker 2: Try to get your second date update. Right after this date,
Speaker 2: one of our listeners, Tony, went out on a one
Speaker 2: on one date.
Speaker 1: That suddenly turned into a three on one date. Boy,
Speaker 1: and the person who got excluded was Gemma, the woman
Speaker 1: that he actually came to the restaurant with, because two
Speaker 1: random girls got up and sat down right next to
Speaker 1: Tony as soon as Gemma went off to the bathroom,
Speaker 1: so when she came back to the table, she was
Speaker 1: forced to sit across from everybody else and the whole
Speaker 1: rest of the night was kind of awkward.
Speaker 2: From there, he tried.
Speaker 4: To play foot sees.
Speaker 1: Doesn't just show Jemma that I'm actually interested in you.
Speaker 1: I don't really care about these two new girls.
Speaker 2: But she was gone out of reach.
Speaker 5: I think.
Speaker 4: It's probably just a table leg under.
Speaker 1: Tony's thoughts on why this happened was actually pretty flattering
Speaker 1: towards Gemma, saying that she was so attractive that these
Speaker 1: other ladies must have been paying him attention, thinking, oh wow,
Speaker 1: this guy's with this gorgeous woman. He must have something
Speaker 1: pretty special, either downstairs or upstairs, who knows. At least
Speaker 1: that's Tony's thoughts on the situation. We need to get
Speaker 1: Jemma's thoughts and see if we can recover.
Speaker 4: Yeah, how are you feeling, Tony?
Speaker 3: A little nervous, but I get I kind of am
Speaker 3: knowing what to expect.
Speaker 2: I think, Okay, that's how you're feeling upstairs. How you're
Speaker 2: feeling downstairs? Okay? I nerves going everywhere.
Speaker 4: Have you talked to her at all since the date?
Speaker 3: No, I haven't gotten a response back from her.
Speaker 2: From three women to zero now giving Tony attention. So
Speaker 2: hopefully you didn't get their numbers? Well, yeah, I did you.
Speaker 4: We didn't ask.
Speaker 3: No, absolutely make this call.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's pretty clear asking for their numbers in
Speaker 1: front of her.
Speaker 2: But okay, well, good luck out there. Yeah, let's call Gemma.
Speaker 1: We'll see if she picks up and hopefully we'll figure
Speaker 1: out what's going on. Okay, all right, cool, let's do it.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hi, we're looking to talk to Gemma.
Speaker 5: This is Gemma.
Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for picking up. Gemma. We're a radio show.
Speaker 2: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, weird? Why are you calling me?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 1: We're doing a segment called a second Date update. Not
Speaker 1: sure if you're familiar with that, but we're trying to
Speaker 1: help out one of our listeners get a hold of
Speaker 1: you after you went out on a date with him recently,
Speaker 1: guy named Tony.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, did you just yet?
Speaker 4: Is that what I heard?
Speaker 5: Okay, like a COPT listen, I don't know what this
Speaker 5: guy told you, but it was a very, very awkward
Speaker 5: and incredibly weird.
Speaker 4: He actually told us something similar.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we we did hear about some of the events
Speaker 1: that occurred at the Mexican Place with the two girls
Speaker 1: coming sit right next to Tony at the communal table
Speaker 1: while you went off to the bathroom.
Speaker 4: Serious, Okay, I honestly that that's kind of a good sign, Jemma,
Speaker 4: because that means that you were disappointed, you know what
Speaker 4: I mean? Well, I mean, I'm just saying like you
Speaker 4: liked him, because if you didn't like them, you might
Speaker 4: come back like they got.
Speaker 5: That's putting a really nice spin on it.
Speaker 1: But yeah, well Tony says that he felt really bad
Speaker 1: about how it all went down.
Speaker 2: We're curious how you felt about the situation.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm sure he did, honestly, Like at first
Speaker 5: when I came back and I was like what, And
Speaker 5: then I saw how Tony was like clearly a little uncomfortable,
Speaker 5: So I was kind of I was kind of laughing,
Speaker 5: like inside, Okay, that's such a relief.
Speaker 4: What do you think their intentions were? Oh?
Speaker 5: I know what their intentions were.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty I'm pretty sure. Tony, by the way, is
Speaker 3: a really.
Speaker 5: Good looking guy. Oh and they like they swarmed in
Speaker 5: like locusts or whatever.
Speaker 1: I don't know, okay lately, Yeah, but you said that
Speaker 1: you didn't blame.
Speaker 2: That on him.
Speaker 5: I don't think he invited just necessarily. But I started
Speaker 5: to get kind of irritated with these girls, these two girls.
Speaker 5: I was like, get the hint, ladies, Yeah, he's with me.
Speaker 5: So Tony was so like plumboxed or whatever that he
Speaker 5: didn't even notice. But I called the waiter over and
Speaker 5: I was like, try it. Attempted to bribe the waiter.
Speaker 5: What's still falsa on these girls?
Speaker 4: Did he do it? Did the waiter do it? How
Speaker 4: much money does something like that cost?
Speaker 5: That's hysterio.
Speaker 4: The waiters probably annoyed at them too, if they're this
Speaker 4: type of person.
Speaker 2: To salsa is like six dollars plus tips nine bucks.
Speaker 5: I waved a twenty at him, and he was like,
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I can't do that.
Speaker 1: Oh, I hope you gave that restaurant a bad review.
Speaker 4: I still understand that you're not blaming Tony, So why
Speaker 4: are you mad at him? Why did you go?
Speaker 5: I don't blame Tony in the beginning for not doing anything,
Speaker 5: but by the end this went on for so long
Speaker 5: he should have done more. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think he feels that way too.
Speaker 1: Here's the deal. You actually sound pretty understanding about the
Speaker 1: whole situation. You're giving Tony a little bit of leeway
Speaker 1: on it. But we can maybe fix this. Because I
Speaker 1: do have to let you know, Tony is currently listening
Speaker 1: to this conversation on the other line, waiting to talk
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: Jo?
Speaker 4: That's the only woman.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I am here that's it.
Speaker 4: That's very horrible, Tony.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you should say something to her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, first off, I just want to apologize for
Speaker 3: what happened. I had nothing to do with them coming over.
Speaker 3: Obviously I didn't ask them, but I I didn't know
Speaker 3: what to do. To be honest with you, was a weird,
Speaker 3: awkward like just it was our first date. I don't
Speaker 3: know these people.
Speaker 2: At Okay, that was that was good, Tony. You can
Speaker 2: let her respond to that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I ken't. And I appreciate the apology, Tony,
Speaker 5: but you already apologize. You told me that on the card.
Speaker 5: I'm not hearing anything new.
Speaker 2: Okay, come up with a better apology, Tony, go ahead.
Speaker 4: It does kind of sound like he's still blaming the women,
Speaker 4: Like he's not. Like you need to own up to
Speaker 4: like your own non action a little bit more.
Speaker 2: Are you just like a very non confrontational person, brother?
Speaker 3: Like No, I would consider myself a non confrontational person.
Speaker 3: That's why it was a tough position too.
Speaker 4: Is that hot for you, Jemma?
Speaker 5: Now? I mean I don't want to guys like punching
Speaker 5: people in the face, but like you, guys be a
Speaker 5: little more forceful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Yeah, I think he was just trying to
Speaker 1: be as respectful as he could.
Speaker 4: And yeah, you're not a confrontational guy either, Like you
Speaker 4: get where he's coming from.
Speaker 2: What are you saying, Brooke, I'm trying to put me
Speaker 2: in a corner right now?
Speaker 4: Did I just break Jeff.
Speaker 1: Let's not turn this into a situation with us, Jemma.
Speaker 1: Clearly Tony is remorseful about what happened and how he behaved.
Speaker 1: I'm sure he's He's even told us next time he
Speaker 1: doesn't want to do communal tables.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's like, I will reserve a table for two.
Speaker 1: So we'd like to help facilitate that second date and
Speaker 1: even pay for it if you're willing to give him
Speaker 1: another shot.
Speaker 2: What do you think, Jenna?
Speaker 5: I appreciate that offer, but I have just made a
Speaker 5: decision since this incident that I just I don't want
Speaker 5: this to be my life going forward. I don't want
Speaker 5: to be going out and fighting off le raping themselves
Speaker 5: all over my date. So I've made a couple of adjustments.
Speaker 5: Does that mean it, well, I'm going to date down what.
Speaker 4: You're just going to date the guys that you find
Speaker 4: less attractive? What does that mean competition.
Speaker 5: I'm not going to go after music, the hottest guy,
Speaker 5: you know, the hottest guy, and the dating profile because
Speaker 5: I still need this kind of headache. I mean, I
Speaker 5: like you, Tony, but you're just too attractive for what
Speaker 5: I'm looking for right now.
Speaker 3: The competition.
Speaker 1: I don't know if we've heard that one on the
Speaker 1: second date update before day.
Speaker 2: Think it's so backward.
Speaker 3: This is the most ridiculous response. I was not expecting
Speaker 3: that at all.
Speaker 1: Why convince her that you're not as attractive as she
Speaker 1: thinks you are.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have no idea, Gemma. By the way, this
Speaker 3: never happens to me, Like if I'm out with my friends,
Speaker 3: no girls are approaching me.
Speaker 2: I'm usually a repulse women.
Speaker 4: Like me brushing my teeth and washing my face.
Speaker 5: But again, the girl magnet and your friends just repelled them.
Speaker 1: Okay, great, So he hasn't convinced that he's ugly enough.
Speaker 5: I've been with him in person. He's cute, he knows
Speaker 5: he's cute, and he's not going to get any less cute.
Speaker 1: Well, Tony, you started with one woman on a date,
Speaker 1: landed two more, and now you've ended up with.
Speaker 2: Zero because you're too attractive.
Speaker 1: Now that's boy mat ridiculous Jeffrey in the Morning. Well,
Speaker 1: it's like they always say, hot guys finished last.
Speaker 4: Oh, we always feel so bad for you hot guys
Speaker 4: just can't.
Speaker 1: I feel like I need to stand up for my
Speaker 1: fellow nines and tens out there.
Speaker 4: You're gonna put yourself in there, and I need to.
Speaker 2: Say stop the handsome hate.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's use that hashtag and start a movement.
Speaker 4: That you think that's why we get any complaint for
Speaker 4: the radio station. It's just you're too good.
Speaker 2: Looking all the time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure that's why you're in radio.
Speaker 2: I'm so happy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so sorry that it didn't work out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I really am.
Speaker 4: I think that guy is so regretting him not getting
Speaker 4: the number for the two other women. Yeah you know
Speaker 4: what I mean, Like he had a chance, his one
Speaker 4: shot and he blew it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: you come on to this show. Email us. We'll call
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