WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Hot Date Hijack

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<v Speaker 1>Second, All right, let's do a hypothetical here.

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<v Speaker 2>I always love those, And Brooke, we're gonna pretend that

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<v Speaker 2>you're single.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>She's faked up.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say for a long time you're hanging out at

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<v Speaker 1>the bar, you're the same age that you are right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say it out loud, just just

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<v Speaker 2>keep that in mind.

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<v Speaker 1>But again, you're single and you see a cute guy

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<v Speaker 1>cross the room, very attractive. Do you approach him or

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<v Speaker 1>do you try to get him to notice you so

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<v Speaker 1>that he walks over.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never had any tact, so I would definitely approach him.

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<v Speaker 2>And what do you do?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I don't know, maybe buy him a drink extra?

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<v Speaker 1>You're just like Hi, I'm brook, I think you're cute

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<v Speaker 1>and dreams you flash a bunch of money in his

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<v Speaker 1>face and try to win him over like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I've told many guys at bars when I single, you're hot.

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<v Speaker 4>We love that.

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<v Speaker 2>We would love that. Girls will finally.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell you I told you I don't have much shame

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<v Speaker 4>or anything. Well no, not really, but it works. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>telling you it works.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think you forgot I said, you're still your

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<v Speaker 1>same age, as now, but I'm gonna let you get

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<v Speaker 1>away with that one.

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<v Speaker 4>So I still say that look more desperate at my age.

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<v Speaker 1>But I bring it up because one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>says that he got approached by not just one, but

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<v Speaker 1>two different women, and he thinks he knows the secret

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<v Speaker 1>on how that happened. Okay, so let's talk to him. Tony,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Were my two twins at the bar? Is that what.

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<v Speaker 2>She means lookalikes?

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<v Speaker 3>Not the other girl?

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<v Speaker 2>Classic she's accidentally hitting.

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<v Speaker 1>I know Tony apologized for Brook, but I know you

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<v Speaker 1>went on a date recently.

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<v Speaker 2>Who was it with?

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Gemma. We actually met on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 4>Said somebody approached you at the bar. You met it

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<v Speaker 4>on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I know, sorry, that might have been a

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<v Speaker 3>little confusing. So we went to this Mexican spot and

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<v Speaker 3>they have these like giant long shared table things.

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<v Speaker 4>Like community seating.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah exactly. We're like sitting with different parties and stuff

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<v Speaker 3>like that, and it's kind of social, you know, people

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<v Speaker 3>are talking to each other and interacting. But I thought

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<v Speaker 3>that I was being pretty clear to the rest of

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<v Speaker 3>the restaurant that me and jem are are not brother

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<v Speaker 3>and sister. We were there on a date together.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you be clear about that? Like T shirts matching?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you guys look alike?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't think so. But it was more like

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<v Speaker 3>the way we got treated yet because we were I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>we were flirting, we were doing the whole date thing,

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<v Speaker 3>and these two girls were kind of across from us,

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<v Speaker 3>and like I said, it was the social thing. And

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<v Speaker 3>Jemma at one point got up and she went to

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<v Speaker 3>the bathroom, and during that time, these two girls came

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<v Speaker 3>over and sat on either side of me and just

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<v Speaker 3>kind of inserted themselves into the situation.

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<v Speaker 4>About your date. Like, you know, I could see, like

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<v Speaker 4>two girls that are out together. They're like, oh, look

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<v Speaker 4>at there on a first date. Let's go mess, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>She think's going bad. Like I don't know, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what it was. But when Jemma came back to

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<v Speaker 3>the table, she kind of sat not in the seat

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<v Speaker 3>that they were in, but a little away from me,

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<v Speaker 3>like across from me.

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<v Speaker 4>Almost The women were still there when she came back

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<v Speaker 4>from the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they stayed there and they were basically just paying

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<v Speaker 3>attention to me. They were like laughing at jokes that

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<v Speaker 3>I was trying to say and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was weird that maybe she saw that they like.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's something if they're like making it a joke,

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<v Speaker 4>right and they're including her and it feels like a

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<v Speaker 4>group thing. But this sounds like she was really left out.

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<v Speaker 2>It probably hurt.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was trying to do everything I could to

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<v Speaker 3>show her non verbally that I am not interested in them.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm trying to play foot you with her.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to engage with her and let her know, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't have these girls to come over here. They

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<v Speaker 3>just did it on their own. It's got nothing to

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<v Speaker 3>do with me.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't everything you didn't move, don't move.

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<v Speaker 1>And one time I pretended to fall asleep during a

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<v Speaker 1>day to get the message across that I wasn't interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I kissed one of them. But what do you think,

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<v Speaker 2>like in your mind, what do you think was happening there?

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of and I told her this too. I

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<v Speaker 3>think the only reason that they were even interested in

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<v Speaker 3>me to begin with was because I was out with

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<v Speaker 3>a really attractive girl. And that's the only time that

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<v Speaker 3>that ever happens to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Did Emma, like that reason, not at all? Were you

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<v Speaker 4>able to salvage the date at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 4>And how long were they there?

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<v Speaker 3>They were there for the rest of the date, but

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<v Speaker 3>we didn't stay much longer. We uh awkwardly left and

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<v Speaker 3>she wasn't really talking to me at the end, and uh,

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<v Speaker 3>no kiss or anything like that, was just kind of

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<v Speaker 3>hugged and uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did you bring it up with Jemma though about like,

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<v Speaker 1>sorry about those two girls, Like I wasn't interested.

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<v Speaker 4>He told her The whole reason he thought they were

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<v Speaker 4>doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>After the date are during Yeah, well, the girls were

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<v Speaker 3>right there, so it was hard for me to address

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<v Speaker 3>it at the table. I just waited till we were

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<v Speaker 3>in the car, and I apologized for their behavior and said, look,

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<v Speaker 3>I had nothing to do with me. I'm sorry. It

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<v Speaker 3>was weird.

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<v Speaker 4>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 3>She said she understood, but there wasn't much after that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, yeah, dangd what do you wish you would

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<v Speaker 4>have done differently?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh? It was a weird social situation, So, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I should have asked for a private table,

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<v Speaker 3>but that was kind of the whole experience of the

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<v Speaker 3>spot was to do that with other people.

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<v Speaker 5>Weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder, I wonder where.

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<v Speaker 1>Her side is. Yeah, well we'll get that from her

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<v Speaker 1>when we reach out to her. But at least next time,

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<v Speaker 1>probably need to avoid the shared long tables.

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<v Speaker 4>You're just accepting attention from other women. Women is probably

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<v Speaker 4>what you need to avoid when you're with a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Kerr Brother Chicks and hopefully we'll get some answers when

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<v Speaker 1>we reach out to Gemma for you and come back.

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<v Speaker 2>Try to get your second date update. Right after this date,

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<v Speaker 2>one of our listeners, Tony, went out on a one

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<v Speaker 2>on one date.

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<v Speaker 1>That suddenly turned into a three on one date. Boy,

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<v Speaker 1>and the person who got excluded was Gemma, the woman

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<v Speaker 1>that he actually came to the restaurant with, because two

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<v Speaker 1>random girls got up and sat down right next to

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<v Speaker 1>Tony as soon as Gemma went off to the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>so when she came back to the table, she was

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<v Speaker 1>forced to sit across from everybody else and the whole

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<v Speaker 1>rest of the night was kind of awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>From there, he tried.

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<v Speaker 4>To play foot sees.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't just show Jemma that I'm actually interested in you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really care about these two new girls.

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<v Speaker 2>But she was gone out of reach.

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<v Speaker 5>I think.

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<v Speaker 4>It's probably just a table leg under.

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<v Speaker 1>Tony's thoughts on why this happened was actually pretty flattering

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<v Speaker 1>towards Gemma, saying that she was so attractive that these

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<v Speaker 1>other ladies must have been paying him attention, thinking, oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this guy's with this gorgeous woman. He must have something

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<v Speaker 1>pretty special, either downstairs or upstairs, who knows. At least

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<v Speaker 1>that's Tony's thoughts on the situation. We need to get

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<v Speaker 1>Jemma's thoughts and see if we can recover.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, how are you feeling, Tony?

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<v Speaker 3>A little nervous, but I get I kind of am

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<v Speaker 3>knowing what to expect.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, Okay, that's how you're feeling upstairs. How you're

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<v Speaker 2>feeling downstairs? Okay? I nerves going everywhere.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you talked to her at all since the date?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I haven't gotten a response back from her.

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<v Speaker 2>From three women to zero now giving Tony attention. So

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully you didn't get their numbers? Well, yeah, I did you.

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<v Speaker 4>We didn't ask.

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<v Speaker 3>No, absolutely make this call.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because that's pretty clear asking for their numbers in

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<v Speaker 1>front of her.

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<v Speaker 2>But okay, well, good luck out there. Yeah, let's call Gemma.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see if she picks up and hopefully we'll figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what's going on. Okay, all right, cool, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, we're looking to talk to Gemma.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Gemma.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, thanks for picking up. Gemma. We're a radio show.

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<v Speaker 2>We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, weird? Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing a segment called a second Date update. Not

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<v Speaker 1>sure if you're familiar with that, but we're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help out one of our listeners get a hold of

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<v Speaker 1>you after you went out on a date with him recently,

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Tony.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, did you just yet?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that what I heard?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, like a COPT listen, I don't know what this

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<v Speaker 5>guy told you, but it was a very, very awkward

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<v Speaker 5>and incredibly weird.

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<v Speaker 4>He actually told us something similar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we we did hear about some of the events

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<v Speaker 1>that occurred at the Mexican Place with the two girls

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<v Speaker 1>coming sit right next to Tony at the communal table

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<v Speaker 1>while you went off to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 4>Serious, Okay, I honestly that that's kind of a good sign, Jemma,

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<v Speaker 4>because that means that you were disappointed, you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I mean? Well, I mean, I'm just saying like you

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<v Speaker 4>liked him, because if you didn't like them, you might

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<v Speaker 4>come back like they got.

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<v Speaker 5>That's putting a really nice spin on it.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, well Tony says that he felt really bad

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<v Speaker 1>about how it all went down.

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<v Speaker 2>We're curious how you felt about the situation.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I'm sure he did, honestly, Like at first

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<v Speaker 5>when I came back and I was like what, And

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<v Speaker 5>then I saw how Tony was like clearly a little uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 5>So I was kind of I was kind of laughing,

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<v Speaker 5>like inside, Okay, that's such a relief.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think their intentions were? Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>I know what their intentions were.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty I'm pretty sure. Tony, by the way, is

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<v Speaker 3>a really.

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<v Speaker 5>Good looking guy. Oh and they like they swarmed in

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<v Speaker 5>like locusts or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, okay lately, Yeah, but you said that

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't blame.

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<v Speaker 2>That on him.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think he invited just necessarily. But I started

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<v Speaker 5>to get kind of irritated with these girls, these two girls.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, get the hint, ladies, Yeah, he's with me.

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<v Speaker 5>So Tony was so like plumboxed or whatever that he

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<v Speaker 5>didn't even notice. But I called the waiter over and

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, try it. Attempted to bribe the waiter.

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<v Speaker 5>What's still falsa on these girls?

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<v Speaker 4>Did he do it? Did the waiter do it? How

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<v Speaker 4>much money does something like that cost?

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<v Speaker 5>That's hysterio.

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<v Speaker 4>The waiters probably annoyed at them too, if they're this

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<v Speaker 4>type of person.

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<v Speaker 2>To salsa is like six dollars plus tips nine bucks.

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<v Speaker 5>I waved a twenty at him, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry, I can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I hope you gave that restaurant a bad review.

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<v Speaker 4>I still understand that you're not blaming Tony, So why

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<v Speaker 4>are you mad at him? Why did you go?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't blame Tony in the beginning for not doing anything,

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<v Speaker 5>but by the end this went on for so long

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<v Speaker 5>he should have done more. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think he feels that way too.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the deal. You actually sound pretty understanding about the

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<v Speaker 1>whole situation. You're giving Tony a little bit of leeway

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<v Speaker 1>on it. But we can maybe fix this. Because I

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<v Speaker 1>do have to let you know, Tony is currently listening

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<v Speaker 1>to this conversation on the other line, waiting to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>Jo?

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<v Speaker 4>That's the only woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I am here that's it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's very horrible, Tony.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe you should say something to her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, first off, I just want to apologize for

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<v Speaker 3>what happened. I had nothing to do with them coming over.

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously I didn't ask them, but I I didn't know

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<v Speaker 3>what to do. To be honest with you, was a weird,

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<v Speaker 3>awkward like just it was our first date. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know these people.

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<v Speaker 2>At Okay, that was that was good, Tony. You can

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<v Speaker 2>let her respond to that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I ken't. And I appreciate the apology, Tony,

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<v Speaker 5>but you already apologize. You told me that on the card.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not hearing anything new.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, come up with a better apology, Tony, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 4>It does kind of sound like he's still blaming the women,

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<v Speaker 4>Like he's not. Like you need to own up to

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<v Speaker 4>like your own non action a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you just like a very non confrontational person, brother?

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<v Speaker 3>Like No, I would consider myself a non confrontational person.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why it was a tough position too.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that hot for you, Jemma?

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<v Speaker 5>Now? I mean I don't want to guys like punching

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<v Speaker 5>people in the face, but like you, guys be a

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<v Speaker 5>little more forceful.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, Yeah, I think he was just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be as respectful as he could.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, you're not a confrontational guy either, Like you

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<v Speaker 4>get where he's coming from.

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<v Speaker 2>What are you saying, Brooke, I'm trying to put me

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<v Speaker 2>in a corner right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Did I just break Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not turn this into a situation with us, Jemma.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly Tony is remorseful about what happened and how he behaved.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he's He's even told us next time he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to do communal tables.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and he's like, I will reserve a table for two.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'd like to help facilitate that second date and

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<v Speaker 1>even pay for it if you're willing to give him

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<v Speaker 1>another shot.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think, Jenna?

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<v Speaker 5>I appreciate that offer, but I have just made a

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<v Speaker 5>decision since this incident that I just I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>this to be my life going forward. I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to be going out and fighting off le raping themselves

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<v Speaker 5>all over my date. So I've made a couple of adjustments.

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<v Speaker 5>Does that mean it, well, I'm going to date down what.

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<v Speaker 4>You're just going to date the guys that you find

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<v Speaker 4>less attractive? What does that mean competition.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not going to go after music, the hottest guy,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, the hottest guy, and the dating profile because

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<v Speaker 5>I still need this kind of headache. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 5>like you, Tony, but you're just too attractive for what

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<v Speaker 5>I'm looking for right now.

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<v Speaker 3>The competition.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we've heard that one on the

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<v Speaker 1>second date update before day.

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<v Speaker 2>Think it's so backward.

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<v Speaker 3>This is the most ridiculous response. I was not expecting

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<v Speaker 3>that at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Why convince her that you're not as attractive as she

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<v Speaker 1>thinks you are.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you have no idea, Gemma. By the way, this

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<v Speaker 3>never happens to me, Like if I'm out with my friends,

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<v Speaker 3>no girls are approaching me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm usually a repulse women.

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<v Speaker 4>Like me brushing my teeth and washing my face.

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<v Speaker 5>But again, the girl magnet and your friends just repelled them.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, great, So he hasn't convinced that he's ugly enough.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been with him in person. He's cute, he knows

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<v Speaker 5>he's cute, and he's not going to get any less cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Tony, you started with one woman on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>landed two more, and now you've ended up with.

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<v Speaker 2>Zero because you're too attractive.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that's boy mat ridiculous Jeffrey in the Morning. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like they always say, hot guys finished last.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, we always feel so bad for you hot guys

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<v Speaker 4>just can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I need to stand up for my

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<v Speaker 1>fellow nines and tens out there.

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<v Speaker 4>You're gonna put yourself in there, and I need to.

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<v Speaker 2>Say stop the handsome hate.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's use that hashtag and start a movement.

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<v Speaker 4>That you think that's why we get any complaint for

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<v Speaker 4>the radio station. It's just you're too good.

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<v Speaker 2>Looking all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm sure that's why you're in radio.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm so sorry that it didn't work out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I really am.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that guy is so regretting him not getting

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<v Speaker 4>the number for the two other women. Yeah you know

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<v Speaker 4>what I mean, Like he had a chance, his one

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<v Speaker 4>shot and he blew it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's always opportunities for you to meet people. When

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<v Speaker 1>you come on to this show. Email us. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>that person who's not calling you back and go check

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<v Speaker 1>out all of our secondary podcast wherever you get yours

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<v Speaker 1>A broken Jeffrey