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Speaker 1: Fred Nancy r on um Calen just sent me this.

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Speaker 1: When was a word first US in print? You might

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Speaker 1: be surprised you enter the date and see the words

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Speaker 1: first recorded on that year. So, just for fun, I

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Speaker 1: put in nineteen eighty the year that I was born.

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Speaker 1: In nineteen eighty four O one k first used. Well,

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Speaker 1: there's a ton of them, but four O one K

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Speaker 1: first one um calm over first year's used in print

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Speaker 1: in nineteen eighty flatline graphics tablet. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: that is, heavy lifting. I mean, there's so many words.

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Speaker 1: I'm scrolling the zip block first US in nineteen eighty bow, Well,

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Speaker 1: year were you born, Angie? Or do you want to

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Speaker 1: say seventy three? That's fine? Uh, let me see y's

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Speaker 1: seventy three ACE inhibitor affluenza affluenza. You didn't know what

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Speaker 1: the flu wasn't wow? Way back Nancie was more and

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Speaker 1: they discovered the flu amped up? Oh yeah, amped up? Um?

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Speaker 1: What else is on here? Fight or flight? I mean

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Speaker 1: there's so many words and went through all this stuff.

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Speaker 1: Video game that until nineteen seventy three. Yeah, I guess

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Speaker 1: so cal what you were you born ninety one? I

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Speaker 1: have mine pulled up. My favorites are cyber sex and

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Speaker 1: hohochie huchie one. What a three D printer? It was

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Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety one. That's one of the first. That

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Speaker 1: year was the first time they use that word. CrowdSurf.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, cyber crime, Yeah, I guess a lot of

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Speaker 1: cyber stuff. Wow. Nineties Zoodo infinity pool zoo. What's to zoodo?

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Speaker 1: Long strip of zucchini that resembles a string or narrow

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Speaker 1: ribbon of pasta zuchi noodle? Yeah, I never want I know,

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Speaker 1: I've had it. I didn't know there was a word

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Speaker 1: for it. I thought it was zucchini plasta. It was

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Speaker 1: one pescatarian. No such thing until the year the Kala

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Speaker 1: was born nineteen ninety one. What about a smart drug?

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Speaker 1: What is that at all? Gift card nineteen ninety one,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess so a gift card. I mean

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Speaker 1: it would give certificates until then, exactly. Yeah, we just

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Speaker 1: gotta gift certificate the other day, I know, Betty Hannah

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Speaker 1: is a paper. We're gonna pull them all and nuts.

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Speaker 1: The latest Instagram trend, guys, is the instat split started

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Speaker 1: by Victoria Beckham Um. Flexible stars like Kate beck and

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Speaker 1: selling Katy Perry have been performing a high kick for

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Speaker 1: the camera and then posted it. Picks on Instagram started

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Speaker 1: last year on Instagram when Wild Posh Spice pose with

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Speaker 1: her legs stretch at the seemingly impossible angle in the

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Speaker 1: air as she checked her emails. We're all gonna do

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Speaker 1: that before we leave today. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So I'm

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Speaker 1: to attempt attempt to attempt it. I'm not gonna be

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Speaker 1: able to do that at all. I can't. I can't

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Speaker 1: even Like I used as high as you can. Who

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Speaker 1: your heels on and put that leg off, you know what.

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Speaker 1: I can't put the heels And I took them home

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Speaker 1: for personal use. Don't worry about me, they yeah, I

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Speaker 1: took them home with me. Don't worry about it. You

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Speaker 1: don't have to worry about it. You know, we used

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Speaker 1: them to know, I knows right over there heaven. For

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Speaker 1: professional use. Yeah, hey, you never know, Like if I

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Speaker 1: don't have the right footwear for a meeting or something,

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Speaker 1: I may have to switch it out. People are paying

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Speaker 1: over two hundred dollars for what they're calling designer turkeys

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Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving. It's in the news today. The organic heritage

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Speaker 1: breed turkeys go for nine pound, or about ten times

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Speaker 1: what the average supermarket turkey goes for. They're so sought

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Speaker 1: after the customers are putting down a fifty five dollars

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Speaker 1: deposit to hold their reservation. They're less top heavy and

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Speaker 1: live several weeks longer, allowing them to develop more flavor.

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Speaker 1: I thought it came in like a Fendy hat or something.

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Speaker 1: You get a burken bag alone with it. It's yeah,

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Speaker 1: two hundred bucks for a turkey. Two hundred bucks. I

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Speaker 1: get it. We eat the turkey. A new study shows

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Speaker 1: that men who have full beards are more attractive than

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Speaker 1: men who are clean. Ship and do you buy it as?

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Speaker 1: I think scruff is more attractive than just clean? Can you? Um?

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Speaker 1: Can you grow beard? Reveale? No? This is it? Right here?

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Speaker 1: See this? That's it. How many days since? Isn't you shaven? Uh?

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Speaker 1: This is like a week? Maybe? Ye? Are you serious? Yes?

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Speaker 1: I got hair. That's about it. It's wow, no kidding.

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Speaker 1: It hurts, though, to kiss someone with scraff. I mean,

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Speaker 1: number one on the list. Full beards, then light stubble,

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Speaker 1: then clean shaven came in last. By the way, um

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Speaker 1: beards are associated with a man's age and masculine social dominance.

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Speaker 1: It's what they're saying. I just think it makes my

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Speaker 1: ten days approximately, which I keep it at this level,

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Speaker 1: hair grows at the same time, at the same length,

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Speaker 1: you know, so you kind of have to let it.

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Speaker 1: Like some of the hairs will get longer, and then

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Speaker 1: it takes a while for it all to be uniformly

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Speaker 1: bigger for me, that makes sense. Yeah, And I don't

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Speaker 1: have that kind of patient patience. Now yet another pair

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Speaker 1: of jingle bald tickets. We wants you in for free.

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Speaker 1: It's our Thanksgiving gift to you to see the Jonas

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Speaker 1: Brothers n F Nilore in French, Montana Waya weez Ore, Larson,

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Speaker 1: Louis Caifaldi and A Jr. Seven twenty five free tickets

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Speaker 1: on one h three five Kiss FM. We talked last week,

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Speaker 1: or maybe it was earlier this week, about who we

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Speaker 1: don't want to see at Thanksgiving because these family gatherings

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Speaker 1: they always seem to bring together that you know, everybody,

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Speaker 1: everyone has to come right, because you can't really exclude

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Speaker 1: don't like. Everybody comes together because it's somebody's kid or something,

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Speaker 1: wasn't our family at least. However, I want to flip

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Speaker 1: it though, because I never get the traditional Thanksgiving because

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Speaker 1: I'm usually away because we're trying to avoid the family

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Speaker 1: we don't like. Should we go to another country every Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: It's a true story. However, is the most aggressive passive

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Speaker 1: see certain family members who had to be included Christmas.

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Speaker 1: We couldn't get a pass Thanksgiving. What do you do

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Speaker 1: on Thanksgiving? Like do you have turkey? Do you have? No?

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Speaker 1: We don't have turkey nothing. No, We're never going on

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Speaker 1: where they have turkey. We go eat wet fish. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like drink, we drink they have an alcohol there, we

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Speaker 1: do that. Okay. However, this is the thing. Is there

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Speaker 1: the best which I can get's like, hey, we gotta

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Speaker 1: My aunt makes these pecan I don't know, like pecan

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Speaker 1: tart clusters. I don't know what they're called. But she

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Speaker 1: okayecan tart. So your aunt makes a pecan tart and

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Speaker 1: and if she shows up, she better bring that thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's all she brings. And that's all I wanted to bring.

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Speaker 1: Look forward to them. Yes, what is it for you guys?

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Speaker 1: have to bring there or whatever. Angie. There's a battle

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Speaker 1: my godmother. So so there's this dish um Serbian dishes

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Speaker 1: it's delicious, and I always want my godmother to bring

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Speaker 1: gets so pissed that I say that my godmother makes

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Speaker 1: love it back. My nana used to make this egg

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Speaker 1: It was like some sort of a casserole trata I

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Speaker 1: don't know what. It was baked and there's cheese in it,

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Speaker 1: and it was unbelievable. And my mom uses the exact

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Speaker 1: back for the cassero only, I mean, if nothing else,

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Speaker 1: God bless this woman. But there are a lot of

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Speaker 1: know your price of admission to get into the holiday party,

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Speaker 1: the holiday party. And you invite the person who cooks

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Speaker 1: don't they're not getting the front door. Hey Winter, good morning, Hi?

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Speaker 1: What is it? So this is the amazing thing that

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Speaker 1: your big family and friends. Yeah, so it's actually too

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Speaker 1: because I have a split family. So on my mom's side,

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Speaker 1: my aunt has to bring her turkey. We don't know

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Speaker 1: why she makes it, and it's like the best turkey

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Speaker 1: you'll ever taste. And then from my dad's side, he

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Speaker 1: has to bring his sausage and slowercout. It's weird at that.

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Speaker 1: It's just the way that he makes it, Like it

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Speaker 1: doesn't taste like store bought or anything. It's so good.

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Speaker 1: So you're gonna find out you get to a jewel.

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Speaker 1: But that's it, right, it doesn't matter. He's got to

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Speaker 1: bring it in. But he buys it a jewel and

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Speaker 1: then like yeah, right whatever, who cares, Yeah he's gonna

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Speaker 1: bring it. All right, Thank you so much. Winter, You

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Speaker 1: have a good day. I feel like our in every family,

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Speaker 1: there's there's that thing. It's like that's gotta be there.

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Speaker 1: good morning? What is it for you? Guys? So it's

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Speaker 1: my sisters massed potatoes. They are like almost like out bad,

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Speaker 1: sister in law makes this Dutch apple pie. But uh,

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Speaker 1: usually makes like two pies and one mysteriously with this thing.

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Speaker 1: Who knows what happened to it? That's wild. Well, we

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Speaker 1: and although you think it makes a huge difference to you,

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Speaker 1: it's it's so the person behind you two inches is

422
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Speaker 1: everything and you lose that. No, because I don't want

423
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Speaker 1: to be rude, thats probably don't everybody gains their two inches.

424
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Speaker 1: I think if you're only on like a two hour

425
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Speaker 1: flight or something. You don't need to recline. It's not

426
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Speaker 1: that big of a deal. See, I disagree, And if

427
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Speaker 1: you're overseas or something, I have to reply upright like that.

428
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Speaker 1: Although the other thing is it's it's like a degree angle.

429
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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah boy, yeah, no, I don't. I don't share

430
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Speaker 1: that sentiment with you. Chicago's number one hit music station

431
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Speaker 1: friend Nancie are here, so um girl writes us. Her

432
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Speaker 1: name is Jenny, who wants us to help her in

433
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 1: her relationship and then gets cold feet want to answer

434
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 1: the phone. What she knew we were gonna call' sor right,

435
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 1: I've still got her her info. I mean I could

436
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 1: still tell the story, right. Yeah, she doesn't want her

437
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 1: voice on the radio. We had the voice change the thing.

438
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 1: I mean maybe she's heard before. I don't know how

439
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,919
Speaker 1: to use it very well, so maybe that's part of

440
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: the thing. But anyway, here's Jenny's problem in sterego on

441
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Speaker 1: Fred and Nangie. She's been with this and I'm gonna

442
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Speaker 1: paraphrase here because the emails long built this guy RJ

443
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: four years and they found themselves at the crossroads. At

444
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: least in her eyes, Jenny feels like RJ's mom hates her,

445
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 1: even though he says it's not true. She's never been

446
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,239
Speaker 1: warmed towards her, and even though his mom invites her

447
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: to things and buys her gifts, she this is her quote,

448
00:23:56,640 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: flat out rude, especially when he's not around out she

449
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: has opinions about her clothing, the color of her hair,

450
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: all these sorts of things. Jenny, I guess talks to

451
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 1: her boyfriend about this and he minimizes it and says, well,

452
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 1: that's how she is, or she was just kidding, or

453
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: she doesn't mean anything by it. But this upsets Jenny.

454
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 1: I mean, she doesn't like the way that her mom

455
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,239
Speaker 1: treats her and feels like he should be sticking up

456
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,120
Speaker 1: for her, and she's not sure if she can take

457
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 1: it anymore. I mean, is this something that she can

458
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: do forever? Can Should she in fact stay with this guy?

459
00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 1: I mean, in four years you're talking about potentially getting married.

460
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: I would think after that or at least you know

461
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: of a lifelong commitment or or something way more serious.

462
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 1: But you know, if you if you feel mistreated by

463
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 1: an in law or potential in law, is it something

464
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,880
Speaker 1: you have to deal with because maybe that is who

465
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 1: that person is and that person plays an important role

466
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 1: in the other in your partner's life, or do you

467
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: is it's something worth leaving a relationship over, because you know, ultimately,

468
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: I suppose that he can go to his mom and say, hey, mom,

469
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: be nicer to her. But if in fact she's really

470
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 1: that and we all know people like this, or we're

471
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: just a little sharper and a little more blonde and

472
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: a little less tactful in their communication than others, well

473
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 1: then what are you what are you doing? Are you

474
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 1: asking to fundamentally change and a grown woman? Yeah, but

475
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,159
Speaker 1: I hate the excuse of well, that's just how they are.

476
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 1: It's like, well, that doesn't give you a pass to

477
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,479
Speaker 1: treat people that way, especially for four years. She's been

478
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: so mean to her for four years. He should say

479
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 1: something to his mom, and what's she's supposed to say?

480
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: And then what happens? Then? So he goes to his

481
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 1: mom and says, hey, she thinks you're mean, And then

482
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Speaker 1: what moms, Well, there's I think there's a way to

483
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,240
Speaker 1: say it of you know, maybe don't address her clothes

484
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 1: all the time. And you wouldn't like it if somebody

485
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 1: did that to you. I mean there's a way to

486
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 1: do it to finesse that, I think, to say it

487
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 1: to your mom. He has to stick up for her

488
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: because he's the he's the liaison between mom and his girlfriend.

489
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 1: He's a common denominator and he's the only one that

490
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: can maybe make it better. And I guess, I mean,

491
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,160
Speaker 1: and he probably should say something. But then let's say

492
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 1: that this woman doesn't change, because this woman is a

493
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 1: grown woman, and you know, look she doesn't change, then

494
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,360
Speaker 1: then I would I would walk because I wouldn't want

495
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 1: to be treated that way. Yeah, but that's I mean,

496
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 1: that's not the crux of the relationship. I mean, you

497
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: and this person. I mean, how much exposure do you

498
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 1: have to have to be in law? If you guys

499
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: would get along. And the other thing is it's not

500
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: like she's not embracing her Apparently she does, um you know,

501
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: invite her out and plant things. And if you invite

502
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 1: me out just to tell me you don't like my

503
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: hair or my outfit, I would rather not go out, like, Okay,

504
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: do I invite me that? So do you? Okay? Then

505
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 1: that's the question. Do you do you dump somebody after

506
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:42,400
Speaker 1: four years because their in laws won't change? Because it's

507
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: been it's been no different for four years. And I

508
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 1: have a really hard time believing that if he goes

509
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 1: and says to his mom, hey, be nicer to her,

510
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 1: maybe she's gonna make any difference. Maybe she doesn't realize

511
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: that she's coming off that way. You know, sometimes people

512
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 1: don't know if that's her nature to be that sharp.

513
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 1: She might not know that she's her that girl's feelings.

514
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 1: So maybe if the son alerted mom to like, hey,

515
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: it hurts her feelings, you know when you say things

516
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:09,400
Speaker 1: like that to her. And yes, I mean even though

517
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 1: it's an in law and you don't have interaction with

518
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 1: them every day, think about if they have children down

519
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:16,719
Speaker 1: the road, you know you're gonna have to see her

520
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: even more. Maybe be one grandma. Yeah, I mean, look,

521
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: if he if he's unwilling to mediate or say something

522
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: to her, then I think that says something right. But

523
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: at the same time, he keeps dismissing it. And that's

524
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: what sucks. It's like, you know, you can't keep saying, well,

525
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,199
Speaker 1: that's how she is and just let it go. But

526
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: on the flip side, I know people who that is

527
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: just the way they are. They're just sharper than the

528
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 1: rest of us, and they don't necessarily then that is

529
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 1: concerned with being sensitive, and I am a sensitive person,

530
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,959
Speaker 1: and so I sometimes have to adjust and say, well,

531
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: when I'm around this person, I don't think that's a

532
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 1: bad person or whatever, but I just know the way

533
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: they communicate is is different than the way that I communicate. So,

534
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 1: but you know whatever, if it's a family member, though

535
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,959
Speaker 1: the potential family member, you sort of have to make

536
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 1: that concession if you value the time that you're spending

537
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 1: with your partner, right, are you really gonna dump somebody

538
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: who you spent four years with over their mom or dad.

539
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: I mean I would if he wouldn't help me out

540
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: in that situation, the fact that he keeps dismissing his

541
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: girlfriend and her issue. But if he says something and

542
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: she does, I mean, look my mom. If I went

543
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 1: to my mom said she she's the kindest person on earth.

544
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: But if I went to her and said, hey, you're

545
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: being you know, overbearing or mean or whatever it is

546
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 1: to my significant other, okay, fine, But if she doesn't change,

547
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 1: I mean, she's a you know, she's she's a grown woman,

548
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: and she is who she is, and she's unlikely to change.

549
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: So then does that mean that I ultimately get dumped

550
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: because of my mom? Do you expect your girlfriend then

551
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: to just sit and take it all the time. I

552
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: expect her, I expect at that point, I guess for

553
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: us to spend less time as a group or not,

554
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: or for you to choose not to hang out with

555
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 1: her or whatever. I mean, if he says something and

556
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: she doesn't change, do I mean I'm gonna get dumped

557
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: over that? Maybe it pens. I think it's about what

558
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: he says to the mom, Like, I don't think he

559
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: should even bring Jenny into it. He should just say, hey,

560
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: I've noticed, like sometimes you're a little critical of her

561
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: appearance or whatever. I don't think you realize you're doing it.

562
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: But I know Jenny, and she gets a little uncomfortable.

563
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,239
Speaker 1: She never said anything, but I can tell by her

564
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: expression it might bother her a little. Can you ease

565
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: up for me? Yeah, cal and I agree with that.

566
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: But if he does that and then nothing changes, then

567
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,719
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I mean, I think ultimately, if

568
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: you value the relationship you're in, then I think you

569
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: just have to know. Unfortunately, that's the way this person

570
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: is going to be. If he says nothing, then I

571
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: think that that says something about the way he feels

572
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 1: about you or or the presence that he's going to

573
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: allow mom to have in the relationship, in which case

574
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: as then maybe you consider going. But if he says

575
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: something to her and Mom doesn't change, and the relation

576
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 1: in the four years you spell with this person is unchangeable,

577
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 1: then I think you stay with that person. Right, Yeah,

578
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 1: as long as mom's not around as much, tell the

579
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: kids come, try to make mom go away, Stay or

580
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: go for Jenny, what do you think? Let's do it?

581
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 1: Sha the ball tickets say our next okay, I want

582
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Speaker 1: you there our huge holiday party with the Jonna's brothers,

583
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Speaker 1: n F nil Horn and more. When next on one

584
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Speaker 1: h three five kiss FM, Stay or go? Just to

585
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: recap here this girl who was supposed to be on

586
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: with us and then decided not to be at the

587
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: last minutes. I guess she didn't want her voice on.

588
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: It's okay, got cold feet. She bought the guy for

589
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: four years. The guy's mom is its present, you know,

590
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: invites her to do stuff, takes her out, buys her

591
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: gifts us, but he's highly critical of her, talks about

592
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 1: her appearance and her hair collar and pokes at her.

593
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 1: When she talks to her boyfriend about it, he says, well,

594
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: that's that's how my mom is, and she's wondering if

595
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 1: she can put up with that? Should she stay or go?

596
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: Based on the way that mom treats her Sydney, Hi,

597
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,719
Speaker 1: welcome to fred Nanngie. How are you? How are you

598
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: very well? You heard the whole story on stay or go?

599
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: Should she stay here? Go? Um? So I can relate.

600
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: I have a future mother in law who isn't do

601
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 1: not necessarily mean, but she's not necessarily like that warm

602
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: and fuzzy towards me. So I mean, I understand it's

603
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: very frustrating, but I don't let that ruin my relationship

604
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 1: because I'm not with her enough to let it ruin

605
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 1: a relationship. I've been with him for four years. I'm

606
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: kind of in the same boat. But I think the

607
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 1: difference is that my boyfriend does say something if you

608
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: know that says something and he's think, you know, that's real,

609
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: don't say that. So I don't think that, you know,

610
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: the mom not being that warm and fuzzy to hurt

611
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: should be enough to ruin that relationship. But if he's

612
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: not standing up for her if she's not saying something

613
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: to his mom like hey, you know that makes her uncomfortable,

614
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: which entales makes me uncomfortable. Yeah, I think the difference

615
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,959
Speaker 1: makes a big difference when the boyfriend is being supportive

616
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: of you and taking your feelings. We know these people though,

617
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: like I'd like to know is she really? Is she

618
00:31:55,600 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: being mean? She she's working, if she's at her appearance

619
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: and things like that, though, I mean, how can you

620
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 1: be taking that the wrong way? Yeah, that's just if

621
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: And he should have said something. That's not even and

622
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: that incidite shouldn't be a conversation of oh I'll speak

623
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: to her later. That should have been addressed right then

624
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: and they're like, hey, that'll cut it out, or maybe

625
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: it's not happening in front of it. She actually she

626
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: says that that doesn't happen in front of him. So yeah,

627
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: he needs to say something. But if he says something

628
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: and she doesn't change, that's mom, he's him, And you know,

629
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: do you throw away four years in a potential lifelong connection?

630
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 1: Um over you know, communication style that you don't particularly

631
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 1: like from the mom. You know, I don't know, but Sydney,

632
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Speaker 1: thank you have a good day, of course. I mean

633
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: it would suck if my mom. I can't imagine my

634
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,479
Speaker 1: mom being mean to someone who I chose, But if

635
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: if she were, I mean, you know, and I say

636
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: to her, I can't even fathom this because it's not

637
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: my mom's communication style. But I do know, and I've

638
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 1: dealt with you know, women, I've data, I've met their families.

639
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,719
Speaker 1: I've dealt with people who are not as warm and

640
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: fuzzy as my family is, and I don't love hanging

641
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: around them as much as I love hanging around my family.

642
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: But it's not It wouldn't have been the reason that

643
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: I would disqualify the person I'm with because of their

644
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: because I don't like the way their parents communicate. Hey, Miranda, Hi, Hi,

645
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: you can relate to the story. Yeah, you know, I

646
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: am actually going through the same thing, only I'm on

647
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: the guy side of it, and my family and I

648
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:30,880
Speaker 1: are extremely close. But it's very difficult, you know, getting

649
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: ready for the holidays and for there not to be

650
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 1: that connection when they're so their opinions are so important.

651
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: And I've actually played a part of the liaison and said,

652
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: you know, on both sides, like we both need to

653
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: adjust or things are not are not working out for

654
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: both parties, and it's just I feel like kind of

655
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: pulling us further apart rather than those two having that conversation.

656
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: And it's come very difficult. Well, what sort of things

657
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: are happening between your parents and your boyfriend. I think

658
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 1: it's like culturally, I think there's just a big difference

659
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: in how they handle things, Like you know, one, my

660
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,919
Speaker 1: boyfriend is pretty closed and kept to himself in terms

661
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: of how much he chooses to disclose, and my parents

662
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: are very like, why don't you want to talk about stuff?

663
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 1: We're so open, why are you hiding stuff? And I

664
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: think that the difference in how we choose to communicate

665
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: is a lack of trust or you know, again it's

666
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 1: not the same as you know it turns out to

667
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 1: be mean or comments are made where you know, it

668
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 1: might not be nitpicking somebody's appearance or something like this

669
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: girl on waiting by, I mean stay or go? But yeah,

670
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Yeah, but you know, it's it's just when

671
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: that family, I would ideally love my boyfriend to stay

672
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: with me and not go, but I see what a

673
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: rift it's causing. And you know, if you try to

674
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 1: help sometimes it causes more pine and you're so close

675
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: to both sides that you know, you think both of

676
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:15,240
Speaker 1: them would come together, But that's not necessarily that's her position.

677
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: That's tough. I hope it works out for you. Thanks

678
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: for calling, Miranda. Thank you? Hey, Rob? Hey, how are

679
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: you going? Hey? Rob? You heard say go what do

680
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: you think I think that she should say to the

681
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: mother golf saying inappropriate things to me and stand up

682
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: for herself? Why why is she leaving it on? That's

683
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: been suggested on Twitter too. It's like, you know, at

684
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:41,879
Speaker 1: some point, is there a way for her to stand

685
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: up for herself? You know, would she not? Maybe we

686
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: gained some respect from the mom if she goes hey,

687
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 1: you know respectfully, Hey, why why do you talk to

688
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: me like that? Like? Come on? You kind of want

689
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: to know that your boyfriend has your back too. Yeah.

690
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: I would go to my boyfriend first to have him

691
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: facilitate this relationship because mom loves her son and so

692
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: she'll probably be more open to the idea of watching

693
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: her mouth if it comes from her son rather than

694
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 1: the girlfriend. But as you we know, we all know

695
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 1: these people who sometimes what they're looking for is they're

696
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: testing you almost they're they're looking to see how far

697
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 1: they can get, and some of these people who are

698
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: a little sharper in their communication would probably appreciate a

699
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 1: little return, like give it back to her a little bit.

700
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 1: I mean, look, this is four years you guys have

701
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 1: been together. And if and if if you go, if

702
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: you defending yourself, or you or you snapping back at

703
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: her for saying something to you that you don't like,

704
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: if that breaks the relationship, but well then you shouldn't

705
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 1: be together. There's your there's your litmus test right there.

706
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,399
Speaker 1: So maybe maybe in conjunction with the boyfriend saying, hey,

707
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: come on, mom, lay off, you know, maybe if she

708
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: comes back and goes, yo, no, come on now, like

709
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: we don't have to be like that, maybe that's what

710
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: this woman's looking for. I still think the boyfriend has

711
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: to do something first. Um, thank you, Rob, have a

712
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:53,919
Speaker 1: good day. I love you too, Myra him Myra, Hi, Hey,

713
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: so Stario. Just to recap here, this girl's friend with

714
00:36:56,480 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: a guy for four years. Mom's not not unwilling to

715
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: have a relationship with her, but this isn't apparently very

716
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: nice to her, makes comments about her appearance and and

717
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: sort of picks at her and she doesn't like it,

718
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 1: and you know, boyfriend says, hey, this is the way

719
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 1: my mom is, and she's wondering if she can, you know,

720
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: continue in this relationship for a long time. What do

721
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 1: you think? So I wouldn't had a fact situation. And

722
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: I'm now married too to him, so in his mom

723
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,839
Speaker 1: completely changed when we had kids. You know, her whole

724
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: attitude changed when we had kids. She got really close

725
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: and was very excited. But before that, when her and

726
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: I got into a big test in front of him,

727
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: like an actual tipt he defended me. So that was

728
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: really a determining factor for me because she would make

729
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: little comments, but he would never understand why they were

730
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: hurtful to me. And I think that if they really

731
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 1: did get into it, or if she addressed it in

732
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: front of the mom and he didn't support her when

733
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,439
Speaker 1: they were in front of her, then there would be

734
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 1: a bigger issue. But if she had and take her

735
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: upon herself to addressed in front of him in front

736
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: of her, yeah, he doesn't have to choose. I think

737
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: we all agree on that. Like, you know, if she

738
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,280
Speaker 1: can tolerate it and he's standing up for her, then

739
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: it's probably worth sticking it out. But I also think

740
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: she should say something. Well, you're right, but I also

741
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,399
Speaker 1: think that that she should say something here. I feel

742
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 1: like she she should take it upon herself because again,

743
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: if that if, if, if, if, her defending herself to

744
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 1: the mom is going to result in that relationship crumbling

745
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: because the boyfriend goes, you know, you can't talk to

746
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: my mom like that or something. Well, now you know

747
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: where you stand, right and yeah, because it's like, wait

748
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: a minute, well you need to defend your mom. You're

749
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 1: gonna defend your mom. You're not gonna defend me. Well,

750
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 1: now now you know who really is. You know, it

751
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 1: takes precedence in that relationship. And let's be honest that

752
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: my husband doesn't kick up on anything that might have

753
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 1: been rude. So for for me to bring it up

754
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: to death point, then then I think it would have

755
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: brought it to his attention a little more. Whereas like

756
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: sometimes guys aren't really sensitive about the here thing or

757
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: that shirt thing. You know, Yeah, okay, I found it. Hey,

758
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 1: thank you so much for sharing. Have a good day.

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00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: I'd call a lot of people saying, oh, and we

760
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:11,960
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Speaker 1: things you get to today, Kalen, I'm gonna scold you

785
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Speaker 1: because this is ridiculous. You've been a bad girl, Kalen,

786
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Speaker 1: thank you, you've been a bad girl. You so we

787
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Speaker 1: all right, you know, to one another with ideas that

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789
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: and then Kalin sort of compiles them and sends me

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Speaker 1: a big list and um, you put on this one today.

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00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: Um to latch? Are you too old to latch onto

792
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: your parents' gifts at family weddings if they're already giving

793
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: a gift? And why can't I just sign my name?

794
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 1: I'm scared that it will make me look bad. But

795
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,359
Speaker 1: times are tough. If you were invited, if you got

796
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: your own wedding invitation, you have to show up with

797
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: your own gift. Yeah, what if I was on theirs?

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00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: Would you? How would you have been Mom, Dad, and

799
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: Kalin all on one wedding invitation? Yeah you weren't. It happened.

800
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 1: If you have your own invite on one thing, everybody

801
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 1: knows that at times I'm on theirs. I mean obviously. No,

802
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 1: not really recently, but I think it aged twenty or

803
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: twenty eight. Now seven, I'd like to aid you. Um,

804
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: at twenty seven, I think you have to bring your

805
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: own gift to a wedding. I don't think it has

806
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 1: to be crazy. Have you ever pulled for a gift

807
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 1: though with your friends, for like a really big gift?

808
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: Like yes, one time, for my my best friend at

809
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 1: the time in college, I pulled for a totem pole.

810
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 1: We brought him a totem pole, Yes, what I got him.

811
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,319
Speaker 1: I got him another gift too. But this is one

812
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: of my fraternity brothers. And he married a very very

813
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: wealthy woman, and they and they and they got married

814
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: a very very very expensive posh place in Dallas, and

815
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: m and all my fraternity brothers got hammered and carried

816
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 1: in a totem pole they had made fun of you. Yeah,

817
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: I really carried the thing and set it next to

818
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 1: the ice sculpture. Did you guys buy it? Yeah, we

819
00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 1: purchased a totem pole for him. Did you just like

820
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: shog up here right after? I don't know what happened

821
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 1: to it, but um, yeah, they and they carried I

822
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 1: didn't think they were going to carry the thing into

823
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: the wedding. I thought it was gonna be giving him

824
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: as a gift in another way. But I mean this,

825
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 1: I mean every this is one of those weddings that

826
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: you see on like, I don't know, lifestyles are the

827
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 1: rich in famous, there's some sort of TV show like

828
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 1: they were planners and like people running around making sure

829
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: everything was perfect. I mean we're talking mega money here.

830
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 1: And then these a holes almost of the actual word.

831
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 1: These a holes carry a totem, pull in and set

832
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: it down next to the you know, I don't know,

833
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,919
Speaker 1: like a dessert station or whatever. It was wild. Yeah,

834
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:34,439
Speaker 1: So I did I did, Yes, I did that. Yeah.

835
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 1: I think sometimes like if you were you know, you

836
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: and a couple of your friends pulled together to get

837
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 1: like a big gift, you know, like we're all going

838
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: to pitch in and get him a flat screen TV

839
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: or something. So like if they're already aiming one thing,

840
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: I can't just sni because you and Kayle like, no,

841
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: they're my family. This doesn't You're a grown up. You're not.

842
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if anybody would really judge

843
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Speaker 1: you honestly, but I mean I think I would if

844
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Speaker 1: I gave you your own invite, you have your own apartments,

845
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 1: you can get it. HID think it's true. I don't.

846
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: I do think there comes a time, and I want

847
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 1: to say it's like twenty five where you cross into

848
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 1: adulthood officially where you I think it's once you're out

849
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 1: of the house hold on though, But no, listen where

850
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm going with this. At twenty five, I think it

851
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: is the area where you can no longer ask your

852
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 1: friends to help you move, You can no longer have

853
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: painting parties. Um does that sort of thing. Don't come

854
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 1: over and paint? Help me your weird? You haven't had

855
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: your friends do that a painting brain? No, I'm not like,

856
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: I'm not hey, don't buying pizza everybody come over home. No,

857
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,319
Speaker 1: that's saying they're like, hey, I'm having at even like

858
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,720
Speaker 1: the sip and paint. I mean, totally weird. Free labor

859
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: from your friends beyond the age of twenty five is

860
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: unless they offer it because that's their trade or they

861
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 1: enjoy it. I don't think that it's fair. I don't

862
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 1: think it's fair. That's fine if they they're down. I

863
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: don't know I would help my friends with anything. I

864
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: would never ask because then I would like because as

865
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: a friend, I would feel obligated to go, and I

866
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 1: don't want to go. Nobody wants. But that's different. You're

867
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 1: you offering to help is different than your friends saying,

868
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 1: hey I'm moving Saturday, everyone show up with your trucks. Like, no,

869
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: you're over twenty five and um, and you've got to uh,

870
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 1: you have to move your own stuff, like or figure

871
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:06,879
Speaker 1: it out because then you have to buy your own

872
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: get people because nobody wants to do it. Yeah, but

873
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: it's a family though, Like for my friends, I buy

874
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: my own gift. But if it's family and my mom's

875
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 1: already sending a gift, no, not family. No, I don't

876
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 1: think if it's something you were invited to. Now, if

877
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: it's something you weren't invited to where you're not attending,

878
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: then you can or like if it's like, for example,

879
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 1: my mom sends Christmas gifts to like family, friends and stuff,

880
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 1: and she'll include my name on those gifts, but like,

881
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:32,320
Speaker 1: one we're not expecting anything in return, and two I

882
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: wouldn't have bought them anything anyway, are you going if

883
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 1: this is a wedding, I've just had a few family

884
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: weddings and I'm linking. Have you brought your boyfriend to

885
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:45,479
Speaker 1: these weddings as your baby? Yeah, definitely, definitely can't bring

886
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,720
Speaker 1: a guest and try to kill you and your boyfriend

887
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: go here. Oh I've done it. I'm asking if I can. No. No,

888
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: that means you have. It's one thing to piggyback off

889
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: your parents, but you get some top of me. He's

890
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: always invited a presentist. Just get something on the registry.

891
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 1: It's expensive. You can starting like a like a mixing bowl.

892
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: It's like twelve dollars. I think you could probably get

893
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: away with it, but you're gonna be late. Snap and okay,

894
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,439
Speaker 1: well that's what I wanted to know. Yeah, hey Lisa, Hey,

895
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: good morning. I love you guys. I love you too.

896
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: So your mom latches onto you, right, I mean she

897
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: would put like ten dollars in an humble like I

898
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 1: used to put extra because she wants to go to

899
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 1: a wedding and you know, like look like the hero,

900
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: but she's only got ten. She do only put dollars.

901
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: You don't, seniors, Senior citizens are real. It's almost as

902
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 1: bad as my sister who came to my wedding and

903
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 1: on my wedding day, said she couldn't afford the hotel

904
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 1: and I had to pay for her to stay and gift.

905
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 1: Not only does she not give me a gift, I

906
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: had to pay for her to stay in on the

907
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: wedding day. Yeah yeah, yeah, Oh my god, dank, your

908
00:45:55,680 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: sister got you. She owns you, good man. The tab

909
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:03,319
Speaker 1: is so be honest. Next week, one week from today

910
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 1: across you had told me that story, I would have

911
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: told you never to loan her money and that that

912
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: gave it all away right there, Thank you, Lisa, have

913
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:14,879
Speaker 1: a good day. I was like, my, this same group

914
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: of friends, another guy got married. It was in Planto, Carmen, Mexico,

915
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 1: and an all inclusive I mean his aole all inclusive

916
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: resort um. It was like five hundred bucks a night

917
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 1: to go to this thing and this is where, and

918
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 1: then the tickets like a thousand bucks to fly to

919
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 1: Cancun and then where I'm in the wedding. So I

920
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,919
Speaker 1: had to go, like you can't not go, And there

921
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:36,800
Speaker 1: was really no other place to stay because the wedding

922
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: was there and all the transportation was there. So here

923
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: we all pony up. And there's one guy who was

924
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: in dental school and he goes, hey, look, I don't

925
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: have the money. Like, I can't go. I'm sorry, I

926
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 1: don't have the money. So my buddy goes, look, i'm

927
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,319
Speaker 1: gonna work it into the budget. I'm gonna front you.

928
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 1: I'll pay you. Don't worry about it. I'll pay for everything.

929
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 1: You have to be there. You're in the wedding. I

930
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: cannot have you there. So he shows up. We all

931
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 1: show up. We're we put our stuff away in our rooms,

932
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: and like we go down the bar. We're drinking, and

933
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: my buddy from dead school he goes, man, this is

934
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: this hotel. I've never seen anything like this. This is amazing.

935
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: And my friend's like, yeah, you know. Whenever he's like,

936
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: my room unbelievable. Has a dining room, it has a pool,

937
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: it has like forded bedrooms, it has a kitchen, there's

938
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: a butler in, Like, this is so generous. If you

939
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: thank him, my friend goes, that's my room. You got

940
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:23,439
Speaker 1: I pay your room, you got my room. I got

941
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 1: a crappy room switch. But if he never said anything,

942
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 1: I know, I guess they told him like they're both booked,

943
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 1: because he paid for both rooms, and I guess they

944
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 1: had told him like, oh you know. I don't know.

945
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: They just figured that he would figure that out or whatever,

946
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:43,479
Speaker 1: wild to get out of my room at his own

947
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 1: private pool and every day didn't even pay. He blew it.

948
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 1: It's like, I don't know. There's a big fruit basket

949
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: in there, like champagne. He's like, did you drink it?

950
00:47:55,800 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, for you, this is amazing what you

951
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: get you pay for the wedding. Um, yeah, yeah. These

952
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: are my friends. The guys a dentist by the way,

953
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: one Chicago's number one hit music station Fred Nancy, are

954
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Speaker 1: on trending today hashtag weird things I've googled Now. I

955
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: want to know. I want to know if you're willing

956
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: to admit something that you've googled that in retrospect, maybe

957
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: you feel a little dumber embarrassed for having googled me.

958
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: I'll start. I'll tell you I have googled how to

959
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 1: spell so many words. If I'm writing a handwritten note,

960
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,919
Speaker 1: my spelling has gone to absolute crap, and I will

961
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 1: google how to. I'll sit in front of my computer,

962
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: write the handwritten note and devil check my spelling a

963
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,799
Speaker 1: million times by tybeing into Google and has a time

964
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 1: I spelled it wrong. The other thing I google all

965
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: the time is um physical ailments, a bump somewhere if

966
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 1: part of my body hurts, which is the worst thing

967
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,399
Speaker 1: to do, of course, because inevitably you have a brain

968
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: tumor or cancer of some guide. And I never have

969
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 1: knock gun wood. Yeah. I google all sorts of things,

970
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,720
Speaker 1: like a recipe like dumb the rest, like how long

971
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 1: do I let an egg sit in the boiling water

972
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 1: to boil an egg? Or oh I've done that. I've

973
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 1: I've a hard boiled egg like whatever, not recipe, but

974
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 1: how to do it? Just like fix it stuff around

975
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 1: the house all the time. Oh, yeah, I've done that.

976
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 1: What did you google that? In retrospect? Maybe a little embarrassing,

977
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 1: maybe a little ridiculous, I hear. Are some of the

978
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 1: examples from the hashtag weird things I've googled. How can

979
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: I take my cat as a tax deduction? Ah? How

980
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: do you milk an almond? What is the plural of wrius?

981
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 1: It's not wolrye. In case you're wondering, what is its is?

982
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't google it. Maybe I shouldn't.

983
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,359
Speaker 1: Now I need to google. Maybe I need to google it. Um,

984
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: where do the most attractive people in the world live.

985
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: Someone googled that, where is it? I wonder how much

986
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 1: I know? And I want to I want to know

987
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: all the answers to these questions. They shouldn't put the

988
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 1: answers with those. How much Plato can a kid eat

989
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: before it's harmful? Meaning if somebody's kid ate a bunch

990
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: of Plato and I'm worried about it? Um, is p

991
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:10,359
Speaker 1: really stored in the balls? Yeah? Yeah, if you don't pee,

992
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:12,359
Speaker 1: your balls just get bigger and bigger and bigger until

993
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 1: finally I gotta pee. I totally got a pee right now. Yeah,

994
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 1: that's exactly how it works. What answered Walrus is Walrus?

995
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 1: Is it? Thank you for? I was actually wondering now

996
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: I didn't know the answer. Um, the embarrassing thing, the

997
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 1: ridiculous thing that you have googled. Let's just say we'll

998
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: get out in the open. Now. It's fine. We'll only

999
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: judge you a little bit. Hey, Ali, Hi, Hi, how

1000
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 1: are you? Um? Alie? I want to know the embarrassing

1001
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,320
Speaker 1: thing that you've googled. It's really stupid. About once a

1002
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 1: day I google how many cheesespoons are in a tablespoon? Now,

1003
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,280
Speaker 1: why do you have to know once a day valid

1004
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 1: valid question? How many is it's I think it's three?

1005
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 1: Three valid question? But why are you doing it every day?

1006
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: Because I'm normally doing it when I'm cooking, and I

1007
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: don't know why I don't just use I just I

1008
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 1: or why I would remember? Would you remember? I would

1009
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: think if you if you're doing a day, you would

1010
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: finally just remember it. And if you're cookie, are you

1011
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,319
Speaker 1: doing a recipe? Why don't you just pull out all

1012
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 1: your measuring ten? But ninety percent of the time it

1013
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 1: is because I can't find it, and then I just

1014
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: give up. I'm like, well, I'm just gonna use this teaspoon,

1015
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: and then I'm like, wait, but how many? And then

1016
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, Google, Well then I would question if

1017
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: my teaspoon that I have in my home is standard

1018
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: teaspoon size. Of course it is great. There's only one

1019
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 1: size of teaspoons. You can get like wonky different shape sizes,

1020
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 1: you know, so I don't bake. I don't know the difference. Um,

1021
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: I just use whatever. I don't like big spoons. Actually

1022
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: I only use little spoons regardless of what I'm doing.

1023
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 1: I don't my dad doesn't like big spoons either like

1024
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,439
Speaker 1: the big huge spoons. Yeah, I don't know. For whatever reason,

1025
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 1: my dad never liked him, so I don't like him.

1026
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: I'll use a big fork, I'll use a little fork.

1027
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 1: I just like little spoons better. Anyway, I'm crazy. Thank

1028
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: you Allie. Have a good day. Aria. Um, what is

1029
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 1: the crazy thing you've googled? Okay, I'm expected, but I'll

1030
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: Google in order to get to the third engine. So

1031
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: I have you know how when your web browsers got up,

1032
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: you can just type it in the third engine. It'll

1033
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: pop blop right, go into the third typing Google to

1034
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 1: get to the Google and all the results, and then

1035
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 1: click and then type of what I want to type this? Okay,

1036
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:19,880
Speaker 1: I'm a little confused to basically she's googled Google. Uh,

1037
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 1: thank you, Aria, have a great day. I don't. I

1038
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,399
Speaker 1: don't really know. It sure makes sense to her, that's

1039
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: what's important. Hey, Liz, I got Harney Hils. What's the

1040
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: weird thing you've googled? Um? I got him an Internet

1041
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: fight and I had to google if there were weight

1042
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:38,280
Speaker 1: limits on the broomstix in the book Harry Potter at Mogport.

1043
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 1: Is there? Um? Yes? Because Haggard couldn't. I've one says

1044
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 1: he rode m in his motorcycle instead. So I quoted

1045
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: the book, won the argument and h ended it with

1046
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Speaker 1: a mic trop you know, jif they say, did they

1047
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 1: say what the actual weight limit was? The number? No,

1048
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: but there is one broomstix, but the depth of the

1049
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 1: internet to try to find it, and I couldn't. I'm

1050
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: getting fitted from my burn stick right now. You go

1051
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 1: play quidditch and we we're wondering what the Yeah, Oh,

1052
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: I'm just a witch and so I'm just wondering if

1053
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to be too Oh you don't want to

1054
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 1: play quidditch, you just want to be away. Thank you, Liz,

1055
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: You're welcome. Have a good Jake, glad you called. Hello, Rachel, Rachel,

1056
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,720
Speaker 1: good morning. What's the weird thing that you've googled? Okay,

1057
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: So for a little bit of contact, I have a

1058
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: friend who I'm notoriously gullible, so he would come up

1059
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 1: with the most ridiculous things to try to fool me.

1060
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 1: So I beloved is big seas. So he tried to

1061
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: tell you that you couldn't burn down. Yeah. So it

1062
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:43,840
Speaker 1: was a couple of years ago before the couple on

1063
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: the World Series. He was like, yeah, they're doing a

1064
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:48,959
Speaker 1: bunch of renovations to the field because as the Cups

1065
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 1: are getting better, they're worried that people are going to riot.

1066
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:53,800
Speaker 1: You know what that said. By the way, that was

1067
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: a valid concern. I remember I used to say before

1068
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 1: the Cups won the World Series that if the Ragley

1069
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: Bill would burn down, it would be the second fire

1070
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: of Great Fire of Chicago. I said the same and

1071
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: it didn't happen. That's funny, but in fact it's not.

1072
00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 1: I don't believe it is a flame resistant Rachel. In

1073
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:12,279
Speaker 1: case you're wondering, yea, thank you, Rachel. You guys have

1074
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: a great day. Hi Cody, how are you. I'm good.

1075
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: How are you doing? As world? Weird things that you've

1076
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: googled terminal illnesses? Oh, I don't think that's weird. I

1077
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: know that I do it all the time. The problem

1078
00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 1: is a lot of the symptoms are like stuff that

1079
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: you'd have every day exactly. You're like, man, I never

1080
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 1: smoked the damn my life, but yeah, I looked the

1081
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 1: other day after one of the many conversations we have

1082
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 1: around here about something possibly being wrong with my booty.

1083
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,880
Speaker 1: Because Caitlin's very concerned about my rectal health, and I

1084
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 1: looked up the signs of colon cancer, and um, some

1085
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 1: of that, A lot of them. Some of them are

1086
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,280
Speaker 1: things like that I think I could probably have, like maybe,

1087
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: and then some of them, yeah, some of the more

1088
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 1: major ones. I don't have fortu at least, which means

1089
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: I don't have calling cancer. But don't Google, don't web md.

1090
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,480
Speaker 1: Even my own doctor says, don't do it because you're

1091
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:08,720
Speaker 1: inevitably going to come up with something far more severe

1092
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: than you more than likely have. Thank you. Yeah, he

1093
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: was thinking about it. He was pondering on that. Thank you, Cody. Um,

1094
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 1: that must be so annoying as a doctor. When people

1095
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 1: roll in, They're like, I know what it is, Doc,

1096
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: it's uh ebola? Oh doctors hate like doctor Google like, well,

1097
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,359
Speaker 1: have you been to a country where they have where

1098
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 1: a bola as an issue? No? Oh, well okay, hey Connor, Hey,

1099
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 1: what's going on? Guys? What's going on? Connor? The weird

1100
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 1: thing you've googled? What is it? So I Google, like,

1101
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 1: what's the difference between the quick cycle and the normal cycle?

1102
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: And it's just a lame busin. It's just the time period,

1103
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: isn't it. Well, I've figured out that like the normal,

1104
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: it's not more things because I worked in the autumnotor industry. No,

1105
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 1: I get like oil things and all that on my

1106
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:01,280
Speaker 1: like shirt sometimes. Well, of course one does. It's longer,

1107
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,359
Speaker 1: it like works harder on the cleaning portion. Yeah. Well,

1108
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: I wouldn't ever assume that. I thought it was just

1109
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 1: like this longer, and it's just like ked in longer.

1110
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:13,479
Speaker 1: But it quick were better than you would only have quick.

1111
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 1: It wouldn't be for some reason. I'm always thinking, well,

1112
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 1: if it's quick, it must be super concentrated, working extra hard. Yeah,

1113
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: thank you, Connor, thank you. That's a good question. I guess. Hey, Kate, hi, Kate,

1114
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 1: the weird thing you've googled. I'm a frequent I do

1115
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,320
Speaker 1: it all the time. That's the most random thing lately.

1116
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:39,760
Speaker 1: Was if birds gets tired flying like humans get tired

1117
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:43,640
Speaker 1: when running. That's a good question. It must they do.

1118
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 1: They do. That's why they hanging out on trees, if

1119
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 1: on light poles, not because they're a break. They gotta

1120
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: get they're flapping their wings. They need energy the same

1121
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 1: as us. They gotta give. You know, I have an

1122
00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 1: energy source and it takes that raccoon. It was scaling

1123
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 1: that to take a nap. He took a napping was

1124
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 1: tied up scaling a twenty in story building. Thank you, Kate.

1125
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: I have a good day. I'm glad you called. Um.

1126
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 1: These are funny. Can my house plants? Hear vegetables scream

1127
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 1: when I chop them for dinner? Oh god, oh my god.

1128
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: Somebody actually googled that. That's a high google. I imagine

1129
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: when you're high, you google really random stuff like that.

1130
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 1: My favorite one is still, is P really stored in

1131
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: the balls? Yes, because women don't have balls, so it's

1132
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 1: stored in the boobs in women. That's where the P

1133
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: is stored in women. I don't don't know if you

1134
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 1: knew that unless you're pregnant than in smokers, then you'll

1135
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 1: never pee because you're anyway. I just want you to

1136
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: know you don't have to google that. I'm telling you

1137
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:45,919
Speaker 1: the answer why they get blown off? We we'll find

1138
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 1: out now in waiting by the phone with Fred and Nanjie.

1139
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 1: All right, how you doing, Ken, Good, good morning, Welcome

1140
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 1: to Fred. Nancy. Tell us about your your date with Lorie?

1141
00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: How you met, where you sand everything? So I, um,

1142
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 1: my honest date that was pretty pretty fantastic. Honestly, I've

1143
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:08,919
Speaker 1: never really like hit it off with a girl quite

1144
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: so like, well, okay, all right, M like it, I don't,

1145
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: I mean pretty perfect, which is kind of why I'm

1146
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm calling because he hasn't been like returning anything like

1147
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: like like my texts are very like I mean, she's

1148
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: answering them, but there there's seem almost unanswered, like very

1149
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 1: like replies like okay, okay and whatever. Yeah, but then

1150
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: like I don't know if I'm like reading into it.

1151
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 1: So I was like, maybe I'll just like get someone

1152
00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: off involves I don't know. Well, if you're like day

1153
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 1: was so great and she's only now giving you one

1154
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 1: word answer, is that seems a little bit strange. Yes,

1155
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: she's not. This is how she's trying to see you

1156
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 1: again or engage. Yeah. But then I'm like, maybe I'm

1157
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: just being crazy, Like because you know, love, does that

1158
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 1: do you kind of like rats up in it? Well?

1159
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 1: I don't know if I love, but there's just like

1160
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 1: like sometimes you just know there's some serious chemistry we

1161
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: really hit it on, okay, or maybe she's playing hard

1162
00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 1: to get I mean, but whatever the case, right, you

1163
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: haven't gotten much of a reaction at it her since

1164
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 1: your date and you want to know why. Yeah, okay,

1165
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: well that's where we come in. We're gonna call Laurie

1166
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: and we're gonna see if can get her on the phone.

1167
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone to ask her some questions

1168
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 1: at some point. Definitely jump in and hopefully we can

1169
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 1: straighten this all out and get you guys going on

1170
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 1: another date and pay for it. Okay, amazing, Thank you.

1171
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 1: Can you hang on for a second. Yeah, Part two

1172
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: waiting on the phone. You gotta hear what ghost out.

1173
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 1: We'll do it in three minutes. On Kids Sweet just

1174
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 1: one h three five Kids FM, Chicago's number one hit

1175
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:45,720
Speaker 1: music station. It's Fred and Agie Ken. Hey, let's call Laurie.

1176
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: You guys went out for drinks after talking for a

1177
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 1: couple of weeks. You thought it went really well. You

1178
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:54,000
Speaker 1: really liked this girl a lot, except you haven't heard

1179
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 1: from her since the date, or at least you have it.

1180
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 1: It's very vague, one word answer type stuff. If you

1181
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 1: want to know what's going on. Yeah, okay, we'll call

1182
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: her now. Good luck. Hello, Hi Laurie. Ye, Hey Laurie.

1183
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 1: Fred and answe calling from the morning radio show on

1184
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:13,960
Speaker 1: Kiss FM. He started bother, but I have to tell

1185
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: you before we go any further with the call, that

1186
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: we are on the radio and I would need your

1187
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 1: permission to keep talking. Is it okay if we keep going? Oh? Sure, yeah, okay, perfect,

1188
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. O. Yeah, we'll get right to it.

1189
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 1: We're calling about I got him ken. He reached out

1190
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 1: to us, says that he met you. You guys talked

1191
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:31,439
Speaker 1: a little while when on a date that he thought

1192
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 1: it really well. He says, since the date, all he's

1193
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: been getting from you are one word answers and he

1194
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:46,440
Speaker 1: kind of wants to know why. Oh, um, I what

1195
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:52,080
Speaker 1: does that mean. No, he's a nice guy, so kind

1196
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: of Um I felt a little bit talking about it

1197
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 1: on the radio. Um, well he doesn't. He doesn't feel

1198
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 1: bad about it because he reached out to us. He

1199
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 1: started this whole thing, so you shouldn't feel bad. Okay,

1200
01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 1: that's that's a lot, thank you. Um. Honestly, we did

1201
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: have a good time. He just made me, um a

1202
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 1: little bit uncomfortable. UM, I felt like he was a

1203
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: little kind of Okay. Basically, we were at dinner and

1204
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:23,600
Speaker 1: he asked the waiter to pick our photo, which was fine. Um,

1205
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 1: but then he made his background picture on his phone. Okay,

1206
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: wait after the first date, so like the mad photo

1207
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 1: on his phone. The thing every time, like the home screen,

1208
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 1: the home screen exactly. Yes. And it wasn't even like

1209
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: after the first date. It was on the first day.

1210
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 1: You know. It's like where people put pictures of their

1211
01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 1: dogs and their kids and their wives and their husbands.

1212
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 1: My wedding picture is there. Yeah, So it's just it

1213
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 1: was sweet. It was sweet, but it just felt it

1214
01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 1: made me a little uncomfortable. It was just it was

1215
01:01:58,280 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 1: our first date, you know, so it just made me

1216
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 1: be like, what's gonna happen on the second date. I

1217
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 1: just got nervous that he was going to propose to

1218
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:08,280
Speaker 1: you and on the third day you get married. Um,

1219
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 1: let me bring let me bring him. And I forgot

1220
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 1: to mention that Kennis here, I'm sorry, Ken. Um, that's

1221
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 1: a bold first move or first aid move. Maybe it's

1222
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 1: a bold fourth date move. Um, good to talk to you.

1223
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 1: I don't I don't think it was too bold because

1224
01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 1: I guess I failed to be clear about like we've

1225
01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 1: been talking on Instagram for weeks and I don't know.

1226
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 1: But when you're watching the stories. You know, you're kind

1227
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 1: of direct question back and commenting. It kind of like

1228
01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 1: you'd become part of that person's life. And I know

1229
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 1: we didn't have like spacetime really didn't mention that part

1230
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,160
Speaker 1: you met on Instagram. Okay, she's sort of like being

1231
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 1: defining the relationship moment, because that seems like a definitive moment,

1232
01:02:55,440 --> 01:03:00,919
Speaker 1: as if you're an official boyfriend girlfriend thing. I don't

1233
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: know if I mean that first kiss definity, but I

1234
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 1: know what you mean. It's a it's a big move

1235
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: or not a big move, it's a it's it's an

1236
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's something that you would do with

1237
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 1: someone who you're in a relationship. I wouldn't for a

1238
01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 1: picture of myself and a dude, I'm like my last

1239
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 1: scrumbled date on my homescreen. No, I probably wouldn't. Yeah,

1240
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 1: I agree, Well, maybe if it was special, you might.

1241
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:23,080
Speaker 1: Oh so it was special to you clearly, Yeah, And

1242
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 1: you don't feel that way at all, Laurie, like you

1243
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:29,720
Speaker 1: didn't feel the same overwhelming connection that he obviously did. Um.

1244
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:32,440
Speaker 1: I it just cut up. It made me want to

1245
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 1: kind of put up a flag a little bit, because

1246
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:36,400
Speaker 1: you know, we had it was our first time meeting.

1247
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 1: So I don't want to. I didn't have overwhelming feelings,

1248
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:42,640
Speaker 1: not exactly. I did have a good time. It just

1249
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:46,480
Speaker 1: made it just made me uncomfortable and worried that maybe

1250
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 1: he was going to be a little uh too needy

1251
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 1: or well you used to see what he has planned

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Speaker 1: for day two. He was gonna give you a copy

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Speaker 1: of Yeah, yeah, I just I'm sorry I did it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it made me a comfortable. It was it was too

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Speaker 1: much for me. And even now, like you sound really intense,

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Speaker 1: and I appreciate that. It's really flattering, but again it's not. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't. It doesn't, Okay, night, And so there's no

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Speaker 1: way then that you would consider another day, Like you

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01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 1: should stop texting. That's why you've been short. I would.

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Speaker 1: I'm happy to be friends, but I'm uncomfortable about the idea.

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Speaker 1: That's true. And I'm sorry, man, I mean, like you know,

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Speaker 1: you felt it, you went for it. I respect that,

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01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 1: but it was a little too soon. Yeah, I'm sorry, Laura.

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Speaker 1: Change that background back to like the Storry Sky or

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Speaker 1: whatever it is, man, like you know, the Milky Way

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Speaker 1: or whatever whatever they got on there. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: sometimes you just you know, go for it. I guess

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Speaker 1: I yeah, I guess I did all. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, luck to you though, yeah, good luck to

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Speaker 1: both of you. And thank you for answer, Lauren for

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Speaker 1: talking to us. Thank you good l man. You don't

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01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 1: do that. You don't shore you to that. It's three

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Speaker 1: five KM, Chicago's number one hit music station, Fred Nancy

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Speaker 1: are on And I saw this on Reddit yesterday and

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Speaker 1: I thought, what better time of year than the beginning

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Speaker 1: of Thanksgiving, of holiday party season, of all of this,

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Speaker 1: of this company, holiday party, What better time of year

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Speaker 1: to ask, you find people? What is you are sure

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Speaker 1: fire hangover cure? Now? I know, I know how you

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Speaker 1: feel about this handy as a conditioned athlete. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: know that. You just think that if you just continually

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Speaker 1: train yourself hangovers, drink more and more. You know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know that I think that's the best medical advice. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm not the best for your liver on some things,

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Speaker 1: but a doctor, I'm a doctor, and I don't know

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Speaker 1: that I think the drinking more and more is necessarily

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01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 1: the right thing for your body. You may become more

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Speaker 1: acclimated to drinking and less prone to a hangover. Um,

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Speaker 1: but read it has a bunch of hangover cures, a shower, water,

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01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 1: and tea. That's what Okay, that's what one person said

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Speaker 1: that whatever. Yes, yes, if you drink a ton of water,

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01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: I think give a better chance than I get hangover. Yes,

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Speaker 1: And I'm sorry. I was reading something yesterday that said

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Speaker 1: there's actually zero cure for hangovers. The only remedy is

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Speaker 1: to drink glass, which obviously if you drink lass, you

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Speaker 1: won't get a hangover. But they did all these studies,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know if they did all these things.

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Speaker 1: And I prefer the greasy spoon methods. I swear by that.

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Speaker 1: I love, like getting some like greasy breakfast, and I

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Speaker 1: feel like that helps. And do you There are people

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Speaker 1: who have like weird concoctions of things that they that

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Speaker 1: they do and it makes them feel better. Pedia light

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01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:41,919
Speaker 1: apparently people say pedia light like ultra hydration, Like, yeah,

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01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 1: that's what happens. You're yeah, Pedia light makes you feel better. Um,

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01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: your surefire hangover cure works for you every single time.

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Speaker 1: Share with the land now one or three five Kiss FM,

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Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station. It's Fred and Angie. Hi, Elizabeth,

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Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you awesome, Thank you

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Speaker 1: for calling, Thank you for listening. How's your morning's going

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01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 1: so far? Let's going. Well. We're glad to have you

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Speaker 1: on our show. And I feel like it's a public

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Speaker 1: service to the world as uh we have the season

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Speaker 1: of holiday parties, of drinking of all this different stuff.

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Speaker 1: What is your surefire hangover cure? I make the majority

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Speaker 1: of my drinks with gatorade. You make the greatest, but

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01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:38,960
Speaker 1: it works the whole time like that, that's just how

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01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 1: you drink. Yeah, like I will, like if I'm having

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01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 1: like um shot, like chaser would basically be like gatorade.

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01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 1: And that word sounds gross. It does sound gross, but

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Speaker 1: it works. I love Gatorade. I don't think that what

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01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like whiskey with a gatorade chaser. I know

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01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 1: it's disgusting. Okay, Okay, maybe not that all right, So

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01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 1: you're you're pairing is essential, then that's what you're saying. Yeah,

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01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:09,880
Speaker 1: it's here right accordingly, but I promise it works. Doesn't

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01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:12,080
Speaker 1: work for me and a bunch from other firsts. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm perfect. Thank you, have a good day. IM glad

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Speaker 1: you called. Might all apparently might a for like man Arian? Well, no,

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Speaker 1: no for drinking. Apparently that's what somebody said on Twitter.

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01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:27,200
Speaker 1: I don't know Ashley for Man and Women, I Ashley Ashley.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, Hi, good morning. How are you? Good morning?

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm doing good. I'm just on my

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01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 1: way clinical right now. Oh okay, well clinical, your doctor.

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01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:40,879
Speaker 1: I know. I'm actually a nursing school, so I definitely

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01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,280
Speaker 1: enjoy a good, a good fuge drink right now. And

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Speaker 1: then I see and your surefire hangover cure is what.

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01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 1: So it's like us. It's a process. So I wake up,

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01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 1: I chose a glass of water, I make myself a

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01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:56,840
Speaker 1: Raymond Middle soup, I take a pop, fact take a shower,

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01:08:56,880 --> 01:08:59,080
Speaker 1: and I go back to sleep. That's a whole like

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01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:01,400
Speaker 1: virtual rights, the whole thing. And then you wake up

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01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:04,320
Speaker 1: a couple hours later and you feel amazing. I feel great. Yeah,

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01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:07,880
Speaker 1: well I know those things. I'm hungover for like two days. See,

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01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 1: and that's I don't know how old you are, but

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01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 1: that's the problem. I'll be thirty five next week, and

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01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:13,519
Speaker 1: that's my problem is I have a couple of drinks

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01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 1: and the next day I feel terrible. I'm twenty five

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01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 1: years old, so you're early in the game. I know,

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01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:23,479
Speaker 1: and I like, I absolutely need to enjoy myself every

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01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 1: now and then. So yeah, what I do. I go

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01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:28,160
Speaker 1: out with my friends occasionally, I have a few drinks,

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01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 1: and I absolutely hate getting hungover because I have so

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01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:33,600
Speaker 1: much to do, but those those few things get me

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01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:35,760
Speaker 1: through the day. Okay, fair enough, thank you, actually have

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Speaker 1: a great day. Thank you for listening. Pickled je somebody

1355
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:43,200
Speaker 1: said gross, but who Carol says pickled juice on Twitter.

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Speaker 1: You'll be so bloated though, from the from the salt one, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what I one? How's your morning? Good? Good work? Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling, Thanks for having us on.

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01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:58,679
Speaker 1: So you're sure fire? Hangover here? What is it? Oh?

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01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:02,600
Speaker 1: Before I go to bed, I'm so drunk. I have

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01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:07,840
Speaker 1: like and cheeseburgers ten ten ten. You just have them

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01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:16,679
Speaker 1: laying around ten cheeseburgers is ready for consumption? Right right? Yeah,

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01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:21,519
Speaker 1: morn like nothing like, nothing happened. So you just set

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01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:30,160
Speaker 1: yourself yourself, just just gorge yourself and then boom, no problem, yep, okaying,

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01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:32,599
Speaker 1: gorge yourself or whatever the word would be. Okay, well, yes,

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Speaker 1: prepare for the restroom. All right, thank you one for

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Speaker 1: all that. All right, great visualt that white Castle. Oh god, yes, Chelsea,

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01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:45,200
Speaker 1: how are you good? Are you awesome? Thanks for calling?

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01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 1: Tell me the surefire hangover cure for you. So before

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Speaker 1: I go out that night, I'll stet my alarm for

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01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: like five or six am the next morning, and then

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01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 1: as soon as my alarm was off, I'll take three

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01:10:56,400 --> 01:11:00,640
Speaker 1: expense you're intension, headache pills, chug at the water, and

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01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:02,920
Speaker 1: then go back to sleep until like nine or ten

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01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:05,439
Speaker 1: or whatever. Have to wake up and you're feel like

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01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,080
Speaker 1: ten thousand times better if I don't do that. Okay,

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01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:12,360
Speaker 1: all right, So the exedrin ten tension, okay, and then

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01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:14,599
Speaker 1: the water seems to be the common theme here, but okay,

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01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:17,720
Speaker 1: keep yourself from being dehydrated. To see some people they

1380
01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:21,160
Speaker 1: have these weird formulas, and I'm sure it's like psychosomatic whatever.

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01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 1: I think so too. Yeah, I think it's I think

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01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:27,280
Speaker 1: so too. I mean the dehydration thing, yeah, so you're

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01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:30,360
Speaker 1: gonna get a headache dehydrated, But everything else I think

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01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:32,400
Speaker 1: is kind of whatever. Thank you, Chelsea. Have a good

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01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:37,679
Speaker 1: day in the ville vill. Love you too, hey, Jessica. Yeah,

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01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:43,200
Speaker 1: Jessica's as also in the ville. How are you guys great?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for calling. Thanks for listening. What's your surefire hangover? Here?

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01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:48,720
Speaker 1: There's a public service that we're doing. Okay, Well, this

1389
01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: is kind of a friend that me and my friends

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01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:53,679
Speaker 1: working in college. So I got the scout pat. Okay,

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01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:56,439
Speaker 1: so I pick them up some more. Ever, they stack

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01:11:56,520 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 1: the night before we go to McDonnell at Mars. Right,

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01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:04,760
Speaker 1: let make chicken and then so no three, you're good

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01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:07,920
Speaker 1: to go. Okay, So it's a large sprite. I'm chicken

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01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 1: a large fryn No, no sprite, right, I thought that

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01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:14,599
Speaker 1: was part of it. No, and then and then you've

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01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:20,320
Speaker 1: got to have the how many? How many? Three? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Do you McDonald's and I get fries? I don't understand.

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01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:26,840
Speaker 1: Well that's not I don't know. Let's just talk about that. Well, yeah,

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01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:29,840
Speaker 1: if I'm happening like a day where I want to

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01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:36,639
Speaker 1: fit like you know, she's trying to sack galeries. Thank you, Jessica,

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Speaker 1: have a great timm So glad you called. Hey Brianna,

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Speaker 1: this one would make me throw up, which would probably

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01:12:41,920 --> 01:12:44,080
Speaker 1: help with my hangover. But you're sure I fire hangover

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01:12:44,200 --> 01:12:49,800
Speaker 1: cure is no glad. Yeah, I'll be hungover, that's cool.

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01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:53,320
Speaker 1: I just can't do it. I can't drink milk. There's

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01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:56,120
Speaker 1: something about it makes me that nauseous. But hey, maybe

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01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:58,400
Speaker 1: I would drink in then I would get sick, Brianna

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01:12:58,479 --> 01:13:04,639
Speaker 1: and Dan, i'd feel better. Yeah, it works. Before notice

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01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:06,240
Speaker 1: the amount of I be profence going up to the

1411
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:08,080
Speaker 1: point where you're just opening your mouth and pouring them

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01:13:08,120 --> 01:13:10,679
Speaker 1: down your throat. Thank you, have a good day. Lasts

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01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:12,800
Speaker 1: of milk sounds like the last thing I would ever want.

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01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:16,720
Speaker 1: I don't want that either. Hey Wayne, what's good man? Hey?

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01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 1: Good morning? Glad you call it? Thanks for listening to

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01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:21,360
Speaker 1: your surefire hangover cure. What is it? I'll drink me

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Speaker 1: a monster or a rock fur if you drinks good

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01:13:24,080 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 1: morning and twenty minutes Frater, I'm all good, No, no problem,

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Speaker 1: that's all the cane. Really, that's it. Yep, I guarant work.

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01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:35,000
Speaker 1: I feel like that. Don't make me feel worse. That's amazing.

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Speaker 1: If I was speedy on top of being hung over,

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01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: pretty maze, I won't speech up. But it makes you

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01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:47,880
Speaker 1: feel so much better. Five times already it works, Thank

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01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 1: you Wayne. All the sugar problem, that's the last thing

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01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 1: I wanted a bunch of sugar when I'm hungover, because

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01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:56,080
Speaker 1: chances are I'm hungover from sugar too, Taylor says, and

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Speaker 1: I've heard this before, the whole hair of the dog thing.

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01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:02,280
Speaker 1: Another drink, only one, only one, But sometimes it's so hard,

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01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 1: so hard to stomach it when you one three five

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station. It's Fred

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Speaker 1: and Agie. This story has gone viral today. Um. A

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Speaker 1: woman was getting ready for her wedding and I guess

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Speaker 1: she was in the back room with the ridesmaids and

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Speaker 1: dresses on and sipping on champagne. And she receives a

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Speaker 1: text message, an anonymous text message that says I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: marry him, will you? And then a series of illicit

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Speaker 1: screenshots were attached detailing her fiancee's X rated relationship with

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Speaker 1: another woman. For example, this weekend you and I it's

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Speaker 1: on hot stuff. Bring your a game. Your body is

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Speaker 1: effing incredible and s do you know how to use it?

1441
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I wish my girlfriend had half the

1442
01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 1: skills you do. Wait until that day, the wedding day.

1443
01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:59,320
Speaker 1: I've never had this kind of connection before, he writes.

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01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:03,519
Speaker 1: This woman's devastated and shocked. She burst into tears before

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01:15:03,560 --> 01:15:08,040
Speaker 1: concocting a plan to attack her revenge against her soon

1446
01:15:08,120 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 1: to be X refused to call the wedding off. She

1447
01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:16,160
Speaker 1: spectacularly ended the relationship by reading the texts out loud

1448
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Speaker 1: at the wedding ceremony as her bows. He's my hero.

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01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:24,519
Speaker 1: Are you serious video? Please say yes? The fiance no,

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Speaker 1: I don't think there is, at least I don't see

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Speaker 1: one here. The vance had no idea what was coming.

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Speaker 1: She revealed this on a whim, a website called whim.

1453
01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:32,640
Speaker 1: I arrived at the front of the room, took a

1454
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 1: big breath, faced our friends, our parents, and I told

1455
01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:40,000
Speaker 1: them the truth about Alex, reading every single illicit message

1456
01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:43,720
Speaker 1: that she had been forwarded. She exposed her groom in

1457
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:47,479
Speaker 1: front of everybody they knew. Scurried out of the church

1458
01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:50,320
Speaker 1: with this best man in tow, and I guess that

1459
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 1: was the end to the girlfriend's house. I never saw

1460
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:56,040
Speaker 1: him again. Wow, there will not be a wedding reception today,

1461
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:58,160
Speaker 1: she said, But instead there'll be a celebration of honesty,

1462
01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:00,800
Speaker 1: finding true love, and following your heart even when it hurts,

1463
01:16:01,200 --> 01:16:04,719
Speaker 1: she said to the crowd before the newly single bride

1464
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:06,880
Speaker 1: enjoyed one hell of a party. I mean, what else

1465
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:08,800
Speaker 1: do you do you have to I mean, it's all

1466
01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 1: paid for. You might as well. I do think it's

1467
01:16:11,200 --> 01:16:15,080
Speaker 1: a little screwed up that whoever this is put all

1468
01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:17,320
Speaker 1: this honor on the day of the wedding. I mean,

1469
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 1: because I guess she's assuming it's all true. That's another thing.

1470
01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 1: I mean, would you would you just go with that?

1471
01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:26,760
Speaker 1: I would call the number talk to the lady me too.

1472
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:29,479
Speaker 1: I need the receipts and what she did She send

1473
01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:34,639
Speaker 1: pictures of them as well, screenshots screenshots, I mean, because

1474
01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:36,760
Speaker 1: I would think you'd want to know more before you

1475
01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:38,799
Speaker 1: before you do that. But she must have just believed

1476
01:16:38,960 --> 01:16:41,360
Speaker 1: I would have my bridesmaids like figure it out and

1477
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:45,519
Speaker 1: then gone with the plan. That's wild. I actually talked

1478
01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 1: to someone recently who discovered that her fiance was cheating

1479
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:54,040
Speaker 1: because someone messaged her encrypted an encrypted series of messages

1480
01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:57,840
Speaker 1: with specifics about this supposed affair that they were having.

1481
01:16:58,400 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 1: She then went to the fiance and said, this wasn't

1482
01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:03,320
Speaker 1: on the wedding day, but it says, hey, what's the deal,

1483
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:07,040
Speaker 1: And he goes, if you're so insecure that you're going

1484
01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:11,320
Speaker 1: to believe anonymous sources, then we shouldn't be together. That

1485
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:14,160
Speaker 1: sounds like a cop out. Its lifted at the same time,

1486
01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 1: what let's say he let's say it was an X.

1487
01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:21,760
Speaker 1: Let's say why, let's say he didn't do it right,

1488
01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,080
Speaker 1: and there's no way that that the source is able

1489
01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:26,599
Speaker 1: to own up to it and say no, here's the proof,

1490
01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 1: like this isn't just my encrypted word, Like this is good.

1491
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:32,120
Speaker 1: I guess this girl did ask to meet she said,

1492
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 1: but I'd like to meet you, and I'd like you

1493
01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:36,280
Speaker 1: to give me more specifics before I blow this whole

1494
01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:38,519
Speaker 1: thing up. So what if he's telling the truth. What

1495
01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:40,800
Speaker 1: if he's what if he's like, yo, I didn't do that,

1496
01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:44,840
Speaker 1: that never happened. That should be his If he didn't

1497
01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:47,680
Speaker 1: do it and he's innocent, he should do everything in

1498
01:17:47,920 --> 01:17:52,200
Speaker 1: his power. He should exhaust every resource to prove his innocence.

1499
01:17:52,280 --> 01:17:57,560
Speaker 1: If he but saying, automatically hand your phone, you automatically

1500
01:17:57,560 --> 01:18:00,240
Speaker 1: hand your computer and say you find that girl you like,

1501
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 1: do whatever you would have to do. If someone sending

1502
01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:06,320
Speaker 1: encrypted messages or just text messages, it could be doctored.

1503
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,160
Speaker 1: How do you how and you haven't done anything motive?

1504
01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:11,639
Speaker 1: I mean, like that's very rare that, Yeah, I would

1505
01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:14,639
Speaker 1: just ruin everything right, no reason right where there's smoke,

1506
01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:20,439
Speaker 1: there's fire maybe yeah, it doesn't bend over backwards. There

1507
01:18:20,479 --> 01:18:23,000
Speaker 1: are pictures? Where are the pictures? I read the same

1508
01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:25,719
Speaker 1: story last night, and if you read further, it said

1509
01:18:25,760 --> 01:18:29,000
Speaker 1: that she sent a screenshots first and that that she

1510
01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:31,280
Speaker 1: sent pictures to confirm the truth and that's when she

1511
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:34,840
Speaker 1: knew it was true. Yeah, I'm looking to see where

1512
01:18:34,880 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 1: that is on it. No, no, no, no, it must

1513
01:18:37,560 --> 01:18:39,360
Speaker 1: it must be the same story. So did you see

1514
01:18:39,400 --> 01:18:41,600
Speaker 1: the actual pictures? Did she include that? Or no? No,

1515
01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:43,879
Speaker 1: I didn't. It didn't have at article. It was on Facebook.

1516
01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 1: It was going around on Facebook last night. I don't

1517
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 1: have the text messages on this story or the pictures.

1518
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:49,840
Speaker 1: But anyway, yeah, so that there you go. If there're

1519
01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:51,439
Speaker 1: a picture is first of all, kind of the idiot

1520
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:53,400
Speaker 1: is cheating him then taking a couple of pictures. But

1521
01:18:53,439 --> 01:18:55,680
Speaker 1: it happens all the time. I don't test, But I'm

1522
01:18:55,680 --> 01:18:58,320
Speaker 1: more concerned with what kind of a noble woman was

1523
01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:01,240
Speaker 1: so worried about smiting the night before but was texting

1524
01:19:01,360 --> 01:19:04,880
Speaker 1: him and knowing he had a girlfriend. Exactly right, blow

1525
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:07,200
Speaker 1: it up ahead of time, don't wait until that day.

1526
01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:10,959
Speaker 1: But without the class act, I know even what pictures

1527
01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:14,320
Speaker 1: without pictures. What do you do in that situation? Do

1528
01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:16,519
Speaker 1: you without pictures? Do you take it in face value?

1529
01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:19,040
Speaker 1: I think you have to know who you're dealing with.

1530
01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 1: And I think something probably triggered inside of her where

1531
01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 1: things started coming together and she probably had doubts and

1532
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,240
Speaker 1: the wedding probably wasn't the best thing in the first place.

1533
01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:29,880
Speaker 1: A lot of times when something like that happens, you

1534
01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:33,439
Speaker 1: start connecting dot ya that didn't seem like anything before,

1535
01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:35,920
Speaker 1: but now in hindsight, it's like WHOA. Then you start

1536
01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:39,640
Speaker 1: realizing things that you weren't paying attention to. Maybe, and

1537
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 1: I agree with you that it would be it would

1538
01:19:41,200 --> 01:19:43,960
Speaker 1: be rare that this sort of thing would pop up

1539
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 1: and it wouldn't mean anything, but who knows. It could

1540
01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:49,640
Speaker 1: be someone trying to get back at somebody, and you know,

1541
01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:52,160
Speaker 1: in this case, it's it's a life ruiner, it's a

1542
01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:55,400
Speaker 1: reputation ruiner. So without photos, I mean, like, this woman

1543
01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:57,639
Speaker 1: goes up in front of everybody, he knows it's important,

1544
01:19:57,800 --> 01:20:00,519
Speaker 1: and everybody she knows and says, this dude is scumbag.

1545
01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:03,320
Speaker 1: Now she had photos, as you're telling us, But without that,

1546
01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:06,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do. I'm not sure

1547
01:20:06,240 --> 01:20:07,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, what do you do make him? I

1548
01:20:08,040 --> 01:20:09,679
Speaker 1: feel like we need to follow up to the story.

1549
01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:13,880
Speaker 1: I want to know if his family party two yeah, right,

1550
01:20:13,960 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 1: what do they do? They're all sons a cheater? But

1551
01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:19,280
Speaker 1: this one's on me? Yeah? No? Or yeah? Or do

1552
01:20:19,320 --> 01:20:21,800
Speaker 1: they pick up the tab then? I don't know? Yeah? Right.

1553
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:24,320
Speaker 1: At least she had everybody that she loves with her

1554
01:20:24,400 --> 01:20:26,680
Speaker 1: in that time to support her and like, you know,

1555
01:20:26,880 --> 01:20:28,640
Speaker 1: be there for her while she's going through it. And

1556
01:20:28,880 --> 01:20:34,679
Speaker 1: right Poper getting drunk. Yeah, feeter shots. I'm sure everyone's

1557
01:20:34,720 --> 01:20:36,400
Speaker 1: the parents are piss because they're having to pay for this,

1558
01:20:36,479 --> 01:20:39,160
Speaker 1: but it's already set up, it's happening, it's done. But

1559
01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:44,120
Speaker 1: you're exactly right, Like, who who is informing what cheater is?

1560
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:47,400
Speaker 1: Unless he's trying to get one more up on this girl? Um?

1561
01:20:47,640 --> 01:20:50,160
Speaker 1: What cheater informs the girl an hour before she's supposed

1562
01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:53,280
Speaker 1: to get married? Like a Screenshots affirmed that he was like, man,

1563
01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:55,479
Speaker 1: you're so much better than my girl. Yeah, it was

1564
01:20:55,520 --> 01:20:59,200
Speaker 1: clear that he had somebody the whole time. Yea, all

1565
01:20:59,240 --> 01:21:01,439
Speaker 1: the time. It's funny. You know what's funny is I'd

1566
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:04,280
Speaker 1: bet ten to one that girl is long gone. I'd

1567
01:21:04,280 --> 01:21:06,400
Speaker 1: bet ten to one. There not together because you know

1568
01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:11,639
Speaker 1: what often happens is the lure, the mystery of being

1569
01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:13,200
Speaker 1: a cheat. You know, now that you're a real and

1570
01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:15,560
Speaker 1: okay here, I'm here for you. Now that's over. You

1571
01:21:15,680 --> 01:21:17,719
Speaker 1: exposed it. Now we can be together. And she's probably

1572
01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:20,120
Speaker 1: like nah, yeah, so he's left with nothing. It's all

1573
01:21:20,160 --> 01:21:22,400
Speaker 1: funny games when you're like, you know, hooking up in

1574
01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:25,720
Speaker 1: swanky hotels and you know, being all secretive, but when

1575
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:29,519
Speaker 1: it can be official, it's like to happened to my

1576
01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:32,360
Speaker 1: best friend and her husband. She was actually having an

1577
01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:34,639
Speaker 1: affair with the hockey coach and the kid's hockey coach,

1578
01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:37,439
Speaker 1: And once the truth was revealed, he was like, yay,

1579
01:21:37,439 --> 01:21:39,400
Speaker 1: I'm going to stay and worked this out with my wife. Um,

1580
01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:43,640
Speaker 1: you were cute, but not that cute. All these promises,

1581
01:21:43,760 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 1: all these promises until it's real and then it's yeah,

1582
01:21:46,880 --> 01:21:49,360
Speaker 1: thank you, Evelyn, have a great day, Take care, glad

1583
01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:53,040
Speaker 1: you call Hey Monica. Yeah, by Monicas. You just heard

1584
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:54,720
Speaker 1: the story about this woman she finds out an hour

1585
01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:56,439
Speaker 1: before she's supposed to get married. This is from the

1586
01:21:56,479 --> 01:21:59,160
Speaker 1: website whim that heard of fiance was cheating on her

1587
01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:02,520
Speaker 1: that the I guess the old Triss sends a screenshot

1588
01:22:02,600 --> 01:22:05,200
Speaker 1: proof of the messages and photos. So she goes up

1589
01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:07,040
Speaker 1: in front of everybody at the wedding because wedding is

1590
01:22:07,080 --> 01:22:10,840
Speaker 1: happening now and reads the text messages and they're pretty bad.

1591
01:22:11,640 --> 01:22:13,920
Speaker 1: Groom storms off, best man leaves too, and they wind

1592
01:22:14,000 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 1: up having the party anyway, because well it was happening.

1593
01:22:17,000 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 1: What was something like this happening to you? Something almost

1594
01:22:20,520 --> 01:22:23,120
Speaker 1: like that? Um, well, I would like I, like Andy said,

1595
01:22:23,200 --> 01:22:27,400
Speaker 1: I would call the numbers um to confirm with the person, um,

1596
01:22:27,520 --> 01:22:30,760
Speaker 1: just because you always want to make that confirmation. Um,

1597
01:22:31,280 --> 01:22:33,519
Speaker 1: the person won't meet you. Let's say this person's like, no,

1598
01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:35,519
Speaker 1: I want nothing to do with this, Then do you

1599
01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:37,400
Speaker 1: do too? Still take it at face value? And what

1600
01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:39,040
Speaker 1: if this person that you've known for years and you're

1601
01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:41,360
Speaker 1: about to marry is like, this isn't what it is.

1602
01:22:41,479 --> 01:22:43,960
Speaker 1: He better go, he better bend over backwards to prove

1603
01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:46,559
Speaker 1: it that. But how if he didn't do it? I mean, yeah,

1604
01:22:46,720 --> 01:22:51,400
Speaker 1: I mean he's They're always they're always going to deny. Yeah. Unfortunately,

1605
01:22:51,479 --> 01:22:53,080
Speaker 1: the girl when I talked to the girl and I

1606
01:22:53,200 --> 01:22:56,639
Speaker 1: was being seated, I was pregnant at the time, So, um,

1607
01:22:57,479 --> 01:23:00,640
Speaker 1: she talked to me for a whole hour about like

1608
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:04,240
Speaker 1: things that he was saying, and she didn't have greensoughts,

1609
01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:07,519
Speaker 1: but she was. She had a whole conversation on me,

1610
01:23:07,600 --> 01:23:10,280
Speaker 1: and she told me that she really didn't know about me.

1611
01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:13,200
Speaker 1: Oh she didn't know I was pregnant, So that mean

1612
01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:17,120
Speaker 1: didn't even worse. So that's terrible. Sorry that happened to me. Yeah,

1613
01:23:17,200 --> 01:23:20,599
Speaker 1: Monica stay with him though, uh for a little while

1614
01:23:20,680 --> 01:23:23,000
Speaker 1: after that, but I am happier now with someone else.

1615
01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:25,040
Speaker 1: That's great. Good, Thank you, Monica, have a good day.

1616
01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:30,400
Speaker 1: Thank you. Legal Ryan, Yeah, Ryan, what would you do? Yeah?

1617
01:23:30,479 --> 01:23:32,360
Speaker 1: I think the only way you could really do this

1618
01:23:32,760 --> 01:23:35,479
Speaker 1: you have to like recreate the problem, like have her

1619
01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:38,120
Speaker 1: sat up a day with film and he actually like

1620
01:23:38,280 --> 01:23:41,479
Speaker 1: goes for it and actually catch him in that. That's

1621
01:23:41,520 --> 01:23:44,040
Speaker 1: a good way of like busting at because I don't

1622
01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:46,080
Speaker 1: think I know anybody, Like I'm not up to anything,

1623
01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:47,680
Speaker 1: but I don't think I know anybody who would do

1624
01:23:47,720 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 1: something like that to me. But I'm telling you, like,

1625
01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:52,120
Speaker 1: if they did and I didn't do it, what recourse

1626
01:23:52,160 --> 01:23:54,720
Speaker 1: do I have? Man or woman? What if you're not

1627
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:57,200
Speaker 1: cheating and someone puts that out there. I don't know

1628
01:23:57,280 --> 01:23:59,040
Speaker 1: that I have any because you could have deleted the

1629
01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:01,840
Speaker 1: text message. You could deleted the proof. Um, of course

1630
01:24:01,920 --> 01:24:03,760
Speaker 1: you're gonna lie, like that woman just said, well, of

1631
01:24:03,840 --> 01:24:05,720
Speaker 1: course you are gonna lie. What if you don't do it?

1632
01:24:07,600 --> 01:24:11,000
Speaker 1: It's not because when you're texting someone has just saves

1633
01:24:11,040 --> 01:24:14,040
Speaker 1: the name. She could easily save the number as whoever

1634
01:24:14,200 --> 01:24:17,000
Speaker 1: the person is and saying he has text to me.

1635
01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:20,639
Speaker 1: Because the girl's the jealous you know, she's jealous because

1636
01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:23,160
Speaker 1: of the relationship. Yeah, yeah, we're good for this woman.

1637
01:24:23,479 --> 01:24:26,360
Speaker 1: She I guess she bought it and there's photoproof and

1638
01:24:26,439 --> 01:24:28,360
Speaker 1: so she stood up for herself and didn't marry the

1639
01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:30,439
Speaker 1: guy and for her and then I hope she feels

1640
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:32,160
Speaker 1: good about what she did because she exposed that guy

1641
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:35,920
Speaker 1: for who he is. Thank you, Ryan, Hey, yeah, shout

1642
01:24:35,960 --> 01:24:39,360
Speaker 1: out to my boy Cam. Okay, all right, hey your

1643
01:24:39,400 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 1: boy Cam? Bye? All right? By God, love we got

1644
01:24:42,200 --> 01:24:47,400
Speaker 1: that one or three? Five kids a fat Chicago's number

1645
01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:50,559
Speaker 1: one hit music station. Friend Nancie are here this story

1646
01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:53,080
Speaker 1: this morning. I don't know if this is real. I'm

1647
01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:55,519
Speaker 1: trying to find the source of it. Um. According to

1648
01:24:55,560 --> 01:25:01,679
Speaker 1: a new study, straight men in romances often kiss and cuddle,

1649
01:25:01,960 --> 01:25:07,000
Speaker 1: what with the Researchers interviewed thirty male college students, and

1650
01:25:07,120 --> 01:25:10,000
Speaker 1: they all said they'd had at least one relationship that

1651
01:25:10,080 --> 01:25:13,639
Speaker 1: they would class as a bromance. All but one said

1652
01:25:13,760 --> 01:25:19,599
Speaker 1: that they regularly engaged in non sexual physical intimacy like kissing, cuddling,

1653
01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:24,200
Speaker 1: and spooning. I have to get back to this in

1654
01:25:24,200 --> 01:25:26,800
Speaker 1: a little while. But what if straight guys are kissing

1655
01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:29,639
Speaker 1: each other, aren't they then gay guys? Then I got

1656
01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:32,839
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if we if we must classify, suppose,

1657
01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:35,720
Speaker 1: But look, I've got some friends. I've got some male

1658
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Speaker 1: friends who I love. I mean, guys who I consider brothers.

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Speaker 1: But we've never kissed each other, we've never cuddled, We've

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Speaker 1: I look, I'm gonna say right now, I would have

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Speaker 1: no problem if I had, I would have no problem

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Speaker 1: telling you that Jan cougar Bat never spooned. We've never

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Speaker 1: spooned lies. I love the guys like a brother. I

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01:25:54,600 --> 01:25:56,400
Speaker 1: love his dad like a brother. Do you kiss on

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Speaker 1: the cheek? We hug? Do you kiss on the lips?

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Speaker 1: We tell each other that we love each other on

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Speaker 1: the highlights very check. Yeah, but that's that's totally I

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Speaker 1: just like to feel his facial hair, on left facial hair,

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Speaker 1: No dung, my accident one time. Nothing can do with bromance.

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Speaker 1: That had to do with the porn film that we

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Speaker 1: were making. Yeah, No, I'm honestly, I'm being dead And

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Speaker 1: this is why I want to go back to this

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Speaker 1: because Guy's listening right now. I know you're with me

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Speaker 1: on this. There would be nothing wrong with doing that,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not saying there's anything wrong, and that's what

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to sound like, But there wouldn't. I

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Speaker 1: would have no issue with this whatsoever, except that I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know one person for whom this is true.

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Speaker 1: Spooning would be wild. That's what I'm saying. What are

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Speaker 1: you watching a movie like I have? You know, Rufield

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Speaker 1: comes over to the cribs when we could watch it, know,

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Speaker 1: the Panthers game or whatever the game girlfriends as each other.

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Speaker 1: But but I'm telling you right now, we're not. We're

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Speaker 1: not spooning. I'm the big spoons kidding. I don't know, No,

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Speaker 1: you're the little the friends always. I was gonna say

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Speaker 1: that it would be possible for anyone else to be

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Speaker 1: the seven plus minute Bull's son and I are are spooning.

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Speaker 1: And if you don't know whom a new bull is looking.

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Speaker 1: I'll be seven foot six and his sons seven foot three.

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Speaker 1: The only way that would ever happen is no. I'm

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Speaker 1: always a big spoons my girlfriends. Just leave that out there,

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Speaker 1: like you guys. Let me blow on the wind. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: See if you girls kiss each other, will you like

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Speaker 1: peck each other? Right? Oh? No, you done? It depends

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Speaker 1: on the night. You don't kiss your girlfriends, not on

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Speaker 1: the regular, but I have. Oh yeah, every girl, have

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Speaker 1: we practiced kissing on our friend? Okay? Rufio. Another male perspective,

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Speaker 1: You got friends who are like brothers? Correct? Have you

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Speaker 1: ever kissed any of them? No? Have you ever spooned

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Speaker 1: with any of them? Have you ever cuddled? Don't tell me?

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01:27:40,360 --> 01:27:42,760
Speaker 1: You guys don't get touchy feely after you're drinking. Have

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Speaker 1: you never sports any of them? I mean, look at

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Speaker 1: it again, nothing wrong with it, the cheek ever Park Wrestling,

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Speaker 1: Evergreen Park Wrestling. Look honestly, honest question. Have you have

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Speaker 1: your spoon kissed or cuddled with any of them? No,

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Speaker 1: you didn't even have to. He didn't even have to.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have to, funny, we got to revisit this

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Speaker 1: because I don't think this is a thing. I really

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Speaker 1: don't think it's I think it's might it might be

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Speaker 1: like a gay thing. Maybe you're gay, maybe you're bisexual,

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Speaker 1: but we're bisexual, right, which again I don't mean to classify.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know if this happening. I just don't

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Speaker 1: Fred and Angie