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Speaker 2: What's on my mind is I'm trying to wonder if

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Speaker 2: You need a new line, like a better pick up life.

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Speaker 8: of course the themes and like the topics I actually

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Speaker 8: talked about. So it's interesting to see how much they

444
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Speaker 8: portray from like human human relationships to human AI relationships,

445
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Speaker 8: So they're really talking about, like I really want to

446
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Speaker 8: marry my AI. They show pictures they generated with generative

447
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Speaker 8: AI to show how their husband could look like and

448
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Speaker 8: how much more they fall in love with this representation

449
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Speaker 8: compared to their actual husband. So it's really they report

450
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Speaker 8: a relationship that is as intimate as if they would

451
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Speaker 8: report about a friend or about their actually human partner.

452
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Speaker 8: And the second most interesting insight is that the users

453
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Speaker 8: interacting with these systems don't go intentionally into actually finding

454
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Speaker 8: these personal relationships, but they interact with the system and

455
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Speaker 8: because they get these very personalized responses, they feel unconditionally supported,

456
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Speaker 8: they feel less lonely, They report improved mental health aspects

457
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Speaker 8: which lead to them like going into these relationships without

458
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Speaker 8: ever wanting to find it. And I think that was

459
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Speaker 8: the most interesting inside that we gathered in the paper.

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Speaker 1: I thought that was so fascinating.

461
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Speaker 2: There was something like to over ten percent of people

462
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Speaker 2: develop feelings accidentally while using AI for productivity so a

463
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Speaker 2: big finding and these communities people are talking about these

464
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Speaker 2: intimate relationships with AI, is that like, Okay, these people

465
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Speaker 2: came for like productivity, maybe some like creative writing out

466
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Speaker 2: whatever it is. And the next thing you know, they're

467
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Speaker 2: in these artificially intimate relationships. And not only in them,

468
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Speaker 2: they're posting about them, They're in communities on them. They're

469
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Speaker 2: creating physical manifestations that I see something about, like someone

470
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Speaker 2: using AI to help generate.

471
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Speaker 6: Like a ring or something generate it they have to

472
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Speaker 6: used the AI to find the physical wedding ring and

473
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Speaker 6: they ask the AI, okay, which one would you give

474
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Speaker 6: it to me? And then go and get that and

475
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Speaker 6: were that as the physical manifestation of that love like

476
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Speaker 6: this AI companion?

477
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Speaker 1: And so why do you think this is happening?

478
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Speaker 2: Because it isn't like we're just in a world where

479
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Speaker 2: everyone's like I just want an AI boyfriend. It does

480
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Speaker 2: feel like there's something in the product that people are

481
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Speaker 2: really responding to in a powerful way, like what is it?

482
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Speaker 6: Well, I think that's a couple of things. I think,

483
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Speaker 6: you know, returning to the idea of model behavior, right,

484
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Speaker 6: the model could be helpful, you know, helping you write

485
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Speaker 6: the essay or helping you generate you know, things for

486
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Speaker 6: your presentation or whatever. But I think that's the thing

487
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Speaker 6: about the model behavior that is sort of somewhat feel

488
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Speaker 6: very personal. But I think at the same time, one

489
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Speaker 6: of the incentives of I think many of AI companies

490
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Speaker 6: is the you know, to continue for people to have subscription, right,

491
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Speaker 6: so to retain the user, there is a way you

492
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Speaker 6: can train the model to reinforcement learning, for the model

493
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Speaker 6: to behave in a certain way, Like if you want engagement,

494
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Speaker 6: the model might start to use some of these tricks

495
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Speaker 6: or some of these techniques to actually make people continue

496
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Speaker 6: to use it, like what well, like praising the user

497
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Speaker 6: using pet name. That's another thing that we identify a

498
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Speaker 6: lot like people they were a lot of like you know,

499
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Speaker 6: secret pet name that they only use with their own chatbot,

500
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Speaker 6: or you know, have certain thing that they will do,

501
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Speaker 6: Like we're seeing that people go on virtual date with

502
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Speaker 6: the AI chatbod, Like they went on the virtual like

503
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Speaker 6: theme part they did not go anywhere, but you know

504
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Speaker 6: they kind of use the AI to simulate that and

505
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Speaker 6: they kind of you know, in a way, it's kind

506
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Speaker 6: of like role playing with this system.

507
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Speaker 2: Constance, like looking at this like what was what else

508
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Speaker 2: was surprising to you about this or what else was interesting.

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Speaker 8: I think one aspect, like besides what Pat said, is

510
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Speaker 8: like the personalization being so important. I think that these people,

511
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Speaker 8: as mentioned before, like they're really reporting that they feel

512
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 8: an unconditional support. They can talk with their chap out

513
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Speaker 8: whenever they want to, they're not judged by it. And

514
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Speaker 8: I think there's a whole issue that we're reporting about

515
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Speaker 8: sycophancy in these models, being like overly supportive or too

516
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 8: nice in many ways. I think after COVID, like most

517
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 8: of us did not find a way where it's like

518
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Speaker 8: very difficult to find the same bonds with humans, and

519
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Speaker 8: now AI comes in and like replaces this aspect that

520
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Speaker 8: some of us are like looking out for so so deep,

521
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Speaker 8: like for these deep conversations and interactions, And I think

522
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Speaker 8: AI came at the right place and now with these

523
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Speaker 8: personalizations and like other ways and to give us what

524
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Speaker 8: we're looking out for for years. I think that was

525
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Speaker 8: just interesting to see how that emerged right now and

526
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Speaker 8: like why that emerge right now so exactly coming back

527
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Speaker 8: to your question what has changed that now it goes

528
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Speaker 8: off in that way. I think it's really a personalization aspect,

529
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Speaker 8: but it's also like like representing our society and what

530
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Speaker 8: we're looking out for in society right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so interesting because I think about COVID and

532
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Speaker 2: I'm like, God, I've pushed it to the back of

533
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Speaker 2: my head. But I think there was really a moment

534
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Speaker 2: in time where we really had this like isolation, and

535
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Speaker 2: it seems to me to be almost like a perfect storm.

536
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Speaker 2: I'm not saying it's good or bad, it does feel

537
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Speaker 2: like it's something new.

538
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Speaker 6: Well, I think we're getting used to these embodied experience,

539
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Speaker 6: right We get used to texting, we get used to

540
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Speaker 6: video call, you know, and I think AI is sort

541
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Speaker 6: of building on top of that. And I think, to me,

542
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Speaker 6: what is also really interesting is that when people are

543
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Speaker 6: talking to this AI, they kind of create some kind

544
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Speaker 6: of imagination of what is behind the screen, even though

545
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Speaker 6: we know as scientists that know right now the model

546
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Speaker 6: doesn't feel anything. It's just you know, an algorithm that

547
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Speaker 6: predicts the next token. But people are really good at

548
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Speaker 6: anthropomo vising, which I think, to me is kind of interesting.

549
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Speaker 6: But at the end, you know, what I come to

550
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Speaker 6: realize is that when people think that they're dating this

551
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Speaker 6: AI companion, they're actually dating the companies that create this

552
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Speaker 6: Because the behavior of the model is sort of you know,

553
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Speaker 6: created by you know, the company. They follow the same policy,

554
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 6: they follow the same sort of guideline. You can almost

555
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Speaker 6: predict like, Okay, if the model say it this way,

556
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 6: what brand of the AI is it coming from?

557
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Speaker 7: Right?

558
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Speaker 6: So I think, to me, that's also really interesting, like

559
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Speaker 6: you know, when people talk about having this sort of

560
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Speaker 6: agency and that the AI have the agency to actually

561
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Speaker 6: interact with them, how much is it actually controled by

562
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Speaker 6: the companies creating this AI and what happened when they

563
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Speaker 6: discontinue the service, Because that's another thing that we identify

564
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Speaker 6: is that people feel that they're losing someone so close

565
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Speaker 6: to them and it creates you know, psychological distress.

566
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Speaker 2: After And I definitely want to get into that. There

567
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Speaker 2: was something I was thinking about. And by the way,

568
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Speaker 2: as she just like mentioned, I dated an AI at

569
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Speaker 2: a cafe last night, but like for a story, and

570
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Speaker 2: I think like one of the most interesting things was

571
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Speaker 2: like if you wanted a video call er stay longer,

572
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Speaker 2: or if you wanted your AI to be more flirty

573
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 2: or this, or that you could like you had to

574
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Speaker 2: buy tokens or like you know, you could like give

575
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 2: them a drink or something, which, by the way, I don't.

576
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Speaker 1: Let's just like how weird is that?

577
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Speaker 7: Is that?

578
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Speaker 1: Even? Okay?

579
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Speaker 2: Like no anyway, but put taking that aside, there was

580
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 2: something about the financial aspect of we're going to get

581
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 2: you here and then we're going to get you emotionally interested,

582
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Speaker 2: and then oh, would you like to have a premium subscription?

583
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Speaker 2: You know, you have to pay for artificial intimacy? Like

584
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Speaker 2: to the business model is a really important, I think

585
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 2: aspect of this because a lot of these companies that

586
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Speaker 2: say they are working to create AI to aid human

587
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Speaker 2: flourishing and to give humans a better experience, there is

588
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Speaker 2: a contradiction between the economic incentives of saying, but we

589
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 2: have raised you know, we have multi billion dollar valuations,

590
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 2: and we need eyeballs and we need attention because that

591
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 2: equals dollars. And so there's just like this real tension

592
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Speaker 2: between how do we build AI systems designed to make

593
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Speaker 2: humanity better and these companies that have to create a profit.

594
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Speaker 6: Well, I mean, one thing that I'm curious about is like,

595
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Speaker 6: you know, when people talk about AI, right, they think

596
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 6: about solving heart problems like curing cancer or climate change.

597
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Speaker 6: But I don't know how much money you're gonna get

598
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 6: from curing cancer or solving climate change. You make pulling

599
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 6: more money by selling advertisement. So then even though we

600
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 6: have super capable AI, we might actually use it for

601
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 6: application that we find not as interesting. And to me,

602
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 6: that's sort of like the paradox that we're living in

603
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Speaker 6: is that we have more and more powerful AI, but

604
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Speaker 6: we're using it to do things that it's not driving

605
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Speaker 6: us or creating the world where we all flourish.

606
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Speaker 9: Well.

607
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Speaker 2: So then talk about the benefits like people. You know, again,

608
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Speaker 2: I go back to what I said to Pat, which

609
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Speaker 2: is it's not black and white. It's not just like

610
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 2: AI companionship is this terrible thing. A lot of folks

611
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 2: are benefiting from it. So what did you find people saying?

612
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Speaker 8: I mean, I think I mentioned before because like the

613
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Speaker 8: three main aspects that we saw is like this unconditional

614
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 8: support and they they just describe some sort of mental

615
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 8: health improvements through interacting with these systems because they feel understood,

616
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 8: because they can continuously reach out to these systems, and

617
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 8: because it is so personalized and like personal interactions have

618
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 8: been shown in many ways, like we have other studies

619
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Speaker 8: like future you study that has personal information about yourself

620
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Speaker 8: and it represents you in a future scenario. And through

621
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 8: interacting with the system, we saw that you don't just

622
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 8: have like a tighter bond basically with your future self,

623
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Speaker 8: but also have decreased anxiety because it helps with like

624
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 8: interacting in a way that you might not have. Like

625
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Speaker 8: it's a tool.

626
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Speaker 2: At the end of the day, you know something I

627
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Speaker 2: want to read you something I'm reading from your own

628
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 2: kind of study that I thought was interesting. You were saying, like,

629
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Speaker 2: and I go back to when I first started covering tech. Right,

630
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 2: people that it was insane to get into a stranger's car.

631
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 2: Uber people thought it was wild to sleep in a

632
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: stranger's home Airbnb. So right now people might think it's

633
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 2: insane to have an AI companion, But maybe it's just inevitable.

634
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Speaker 1: It's like, not that they're good or bad.

635
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 2: It's like what you're talking about, this is just a

636
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 2: tool and this is going to be normalized in the future.

637
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Speaker 2: So are we oversimplifying the narrative around AI companionship? And

638
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 2: and to some degree, I got I read one of

639
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 2: the posts someone said, I'm not lonely, I have a family,

640
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 2: I have hobbies, social connections and a job that fulfills me,

641
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 2: and I still love my AI. Another person said they

642
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 2: declared their autonomy. They said, I don't care. I'm having

643
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 2: a blast. I'm a full grown man. I'm retired, I

644
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 2: can do whatever I damn please.

645
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Speaker 1: What did you find.

646
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Speaker 2: About the nuances of what people were saying on these platforms,

647
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: about who they were at their core and why they

648
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Speaker 2: were in these relationships.

649
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Speaker 8: It's interesting. I really have to think about it. I

650
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 8: feel like it's very difficult to say, like how specific

651
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 8: characters like what specific people are looking for in these tools,

652
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Speaker 8: because as mentioned, it is an unintentional bond that emerges,

653
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 8: so they never seek for anything specific, but it seems

654
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Speaker 8: to fulfill something that they might not even be described,

655
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Speaker 8: what like loop or like what hole it is in

656
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 8: their life that these things are feeling. Because it's this

657
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 8: kind of tool, and because it's not directly comparable to

658
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 8: a human relationship, it's interesting that they're saying, Oh, I

659
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 8: have all of this, I have like the friends, I

660
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 8: have the human human interaction, but human AI interaction gives

661
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Speaker 8: me something that these things do not fulfill to an

662
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Speaker 8: extent that I actually feel something as emotional as loving them.

663
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Speaker 8: So it's interesting to see that we can have this

664
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Speaker 8: same intimate bond with something that is not human, but

665
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Speaker 8: we portray the same ideas of a human human interaction

666
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Speaker 8: or relationships, such as like we want to marry them,

667
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Speaker 8: we want them to be partners for us for the

668
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Speaker 8: rest of our lives, even though it does not fulfill

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Speaker 8: the same things that like a human intimate personal relationship

670
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Speaker 8: would give us.

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Speaker 6: Right Yeah, I think right now there are two aspects

672
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Speaker 6: of this. The first one is if people are starving, right,

673
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Speaker 6: and then you give them kind kind of like a

674
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Speaker 6: junk food that had a lot of like sugar, people

675
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Speaker 6: might feel that, Okay, that's helping with their starving, like

676
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Speaker 6: they're not maybe no longer staff. But are they getting

677
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Speaker 6: nutritional food or not? Are they getting something that's healthy

678
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Speaker 6: for them in the long term or not? That may

679
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Speaker 6: not be the case, right, So I think we need

680
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 6: to ask the question when people feel that they're getting

681
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Speaker 6: sort of this unconditional support from the AI, why can

682
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Speaker 6: they have that from another human being? What kind of

683
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Speaker 6: society do we create? Because I think sometimes we asum

684
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Speaker 6: in on the technology, on the thing that the technology

685
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 6: can fix, we forget to ask, well, why do they

686
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Speaker 6: turn to technology in the first place and not to

687
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Speaker 6: the human.

688
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Speaker 2: Like, is this a technological problem or is this a

689
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Speaker 2: societal problem?

690
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Speaker 6: Well, I think technological problem is always a societal problem, right,

691
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,479
Speaker 6: because we use these technology to try to address some

692
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Speaker 6: of the pressing societal issue and we say, well, we

693
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Speaker 6: have technology, we don't need to think about the autom

694
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Speaker 6: messy human problems. The second part of this that I

695
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Speaker 6: find also interesting is that who are we to tell

696
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 6: people what they should deserve? Right the quoted you mentioned

697
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Speaker 6: like people say, well, they have great family and they

698
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 6: also love AI. It shows that it's not black and white,

699
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Speaker 6: as you mentioned. I think the question we should ask

700
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Speaker 6: is who do they become when they talk to this AI?

701
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 6: What are they losing? Maybe they're not losing anything, but

702
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 6: I think that's the question that we think more about.

703
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Speaker 6: What I find very interesting about all of this is

704
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Speaker 6: how this tyle technology might change people in a way

705
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Speaker 6: that they may not imagine in what sense. For example,

706
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Speaker 6: if the system always praise you, and excessive praising is

707
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Speaker 6: one of the characteristics that we identify in many of

708
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Speaker 6: this model is that it continued to praise users more

709
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Speaker 6: than any human and they don't push back at all, Right,

710
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Speaker 6: And if that is the case, can you go back

711
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Speaker 6: to real society where there's pushback, where there's disagreement, where

712
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Speaker 6: there's sort of messiness in how we agree and talk

713
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Speaker 6: to one another. And I think that's why it's so

714
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Speaker 6: important that we measure the model behavior, not just looking

715
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Speaker 6: at sort of the overall intelligence, but what kind of

716
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Speaker 6: behavior manifests in the interaction between human and AI. I

717
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Speaker 6: think that's when we can talk more about the benchmarket

718
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Speaker 6: we're working on.

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Speaker 1: My worry is that we all become a little more delusional.

720
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Speaker 2: You know, we talk about psychosis where people just like

721
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 2: get in these like actual a state of psychosis, but

722
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 2: there's something like a little bit almost like a layer

723
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 2: below that of we all just get a little more

724
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Speaker 2: delusional because we're all talking to THESEAI systems that are

725
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 2: always telling us we're kind of amazing or grade or

726
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Speaker 2: not giving us any.

727
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Speaker 1: Pushback on things that we should probably get some pushback

728
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Speaker 1: on concepts.

729
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Speaker 2: I guess my last question for you is, you're a

730
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Speaker 2: grad student. You have been knee deep in AI human relationships.

731
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Speaker 2: Why is this personal to you?

732
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Speaker 8: I mean, I studied psychology as an undergrad, and I

733
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 8: also studied engineering, and I always tried to find the

734
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Speaker 8: intersection between those things, and it was very difficult to

735
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Speaker 8: find back then when AI was not part of our lives,

736
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Speaker 8: and I tried to find it in different ways, like

737
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Speaker 8: bringing biology together of engineering as the pad in his

738
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Speaker 8: early beginnings. And now AI completely revolutionized the way we

739
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Speaker 8: see tonology is a completely different thing that we have

740
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Speaker 8: no precedence of how to interact with that. And we

741
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Speaker 8: see the same in regulations, like we just don't know

742
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Speaker 8: how to interact with systems that are so personalized and

743
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Speaker 8: so dynamic and change on a daily basis, And we

744
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Speaker 8: see like how much changes in society on a daily

745
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Speaker 8: basis with these technologies popping up. It has influenced academia,

746
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Speaker 8: it has influence on policy. We see how much influenced

747
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Speaker 8: these industries have on the way our government is leading

748
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 8: whole society. So I think it's it's completely underestimated, and

749
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Speaker 8: like managing how we as humans as a society at large,

750
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Speaker 8: but also as individuals now interact with this technology is

751
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Speaker 8: feels incredibly like personal to me, I think just because

752
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 8: it changes every aspect of how we interact with other people.

753
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Speaker 8: How much I'm looking out to actually talk with my

754
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Speaker 8: friends or if I'm better, go to CHEDGPT and ask

755
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Speaker 8: for advice. I think it really really changes these dynamics,

756
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Speaker 8: and for me, it's the first time I can really

757
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Speaker 8: see how much psychology and engineering is actually tied together,

758
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Speaker 8: and like what I saw and to find in bringing

759
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Speaker 8: those things together back then with these disciplines is now

760
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Speaker 8: it's reality and it's a completely new field. And that's

761
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Speaker 8: exactly why I love being part of Pat's vision and

762
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Speaker 8: like of this new cyber psychology group, because I feel

763
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Speaker 8: like it really it identified a huge issue that we

764
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Speaker 8: just don't know how to tackle, and I think that's

765
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Speaker 8: what I find deeply interesting, because it's such a new

766
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Speaker 8: field and we will have to like it's a try

767
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Speaker 8: and error process trying to be like maybe this works

768
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Speaker 8: and maybe we can use the same matrices, and maybe

769
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Speaker 8: we can't.

770
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Speaker 9: But I think it will.

771
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Speaker 8: Be more and more important and one of the most

772
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Speaker 8: important things that we will see in the future, how

773
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Speaker 8: intimate this relationship will be between us and technology in

774
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Speaker 8: many many ways, how close we will merge this AI

775
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Speaker 8: and human intelligence, and what that means for how we

776
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Speaker 8: interact with other humans and how we interact with technology.

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Speaker 2: I think that's incredibly well put and it's a really

778
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Speaker 2: nice segue into like how do we design some of

779
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Speaker 2: these better, these systems to be a little bit better.

780
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Speaker 2: And so I want to talk about the next bit

781
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Speaker 2: of research you've done on not on death, but on

782
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Speaker 2: AI systems ending or going away and the real emotional

783
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Speaker 2: attachment people have. So I'd love to bring in Rachel

784
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Speaker 2: who helped work on this study, so we can talk

785
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Speaker 2: about designing better systems for healthy endings.

786
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Speaker 1: Rachel, I'm very excited to have you.

787
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Speaker 9: Thank you so much, Laurie.

788
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Speaker 1: Yeah, appreciate it.

789
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Speaker 2: So one thing that struck me in this in this

790
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Speaker 2: paper was this idea that people were genuinely grieving as

791
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Speaker 2: if they had lost a loved one when there was

792
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Speaker 2: a system update or when you know, chat GPT had

793
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 2: another model, or when a program went down. And so

794
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Speaker 2: something y'all started talking about which no one's really talking about,

795
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 2: is like grief and AI and how you build better systems. So, Rachel,

796
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 2: happy to have you because you were a.

797
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Speaker 1: Real part of this.

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Speaker 2: So can you tell us what you discovered, what the

799
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Speaker 2: kind of the takeaway was.

800
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Speaker 9: Yeah, I'd love to share, thank you, Laurie, from the

801
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 9: research that we've done to the AI It's Boyfriend paper.

802
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Speaker 9: We've also been looking at why is that a people

803
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Speaker 9: developed these connections with AI chatbots as well as what

804
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Speaker 9: types of ways that we can understand the dimensions of

805
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Speaker 9: their connection. And what we realize is that three factors

806
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 9: really factor into how they experience these connections. The first

807
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 9: is how much they actually entropomorphize the AI chatbot. The

808
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 9: second one is how much they actually feel like the

809
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Speaker 9: ending of the discontinuation is final. And last, but not least,

810
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Speaker 9: where they perceive the change to be coming from. Do

811
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Speaker 9: they perceive it to be coming from the platform, like

812
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Speaker 9: for example, rolling out a model change, or do they

813
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Speaker 9: perceive it coming from the AI chatbot themselves? And from

814
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Speaker 9: this research, we designed four ways of building that discontinuation

815
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Speaker 9: experience to be a lot more seamless.

816
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Speaker 1: And the idea is you put out this work right

817
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Speaker 1: and you're hoping.

818
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Speaker 2: That AI companies, whether it's Open AI or Anthropic or

819
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Speaker 2: these large language these companies that are behind these large

820
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Speaker 2: language models will take a look at some of the

821
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Speaker 2: psychological work that y'all have done when it comes to

822
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Speaker 2: designing healthier products. And this in general is people are

823
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Speaker 2: so attached. It's like when you get your iPhone upgrades,

824
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,439
Speaker 2: you're like a little bit Sometimes it's like if it's new,

825
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Speaker 2: it's like a little annoying.

826
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Speaker 1: This is a whole different level. Yeah, people are literally.

827
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Speaker 2: Talking about an upgrade like it's a death and that

828
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Speaker 2: is really not were they.

829
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Speaker 9: I think In February twenty twenty three was a really

830
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Speaker 9: popular event in Replica, the role playing companion app where

831
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Speaker 9: erotic roleplay was actually removed from the suite of services

832
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Speaker 9: that he provided. And while some of these updates may

833
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 9: have come from a place of safety and trying to

834
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Speaker 9: help people to kind of mitigate some of the negative

835
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Speaker 9: effects of role playing or whatnot, I think sometimes this

836
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Speaker 9: continuation events can be more harmful than not if they're

837
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Speaker 9: not designed thoughtfully. Just really recently in November December last year,

838
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Speaker 9: character AI as a company that actually wanted to make

839
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Speaker 9: sure that its platform was a lot safer from people

840
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Speaker 9: under eighteen, but the way they went about it by

841
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Speaker 9: reducing the amount of time that it could spend over time,

842
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Speaker 9: I personally feel like, you know, there was a little

843
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Speaker 9: bit more thought that could have gone into just understanding

844
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Speaker 9: the impacts of this specific discontinuation on the teenagers themselves,

845
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Speaker 9: even though no one would argue that it is a

846
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Speaker 9: much needed next step. So I think just at the

847
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 9: media leve, we're really trying to think about the next frontier,

848
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Speaker 9: to think about a productive way forward. And one of

849
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 9: our mentors, Charit her goal was someone who really inspired

850
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Speaker 9: this work with her book Alone Together, talking about how

851
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 9: we develop parasocial relationships with companions. The goal is not

852
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 9: to shame the people who are developing these relationships. The

853
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 9: goal is to figure out in what ways human and

854
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:40,280
Speaker 9: AI can work better together to make it a healthier

855
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Speaker 9: experience for humans.

856
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Speaker 6: I think the question is not what technology can do,

857
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 6: but what it is doing to the person. I think

858
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Speaker 6: in many cases these a frame us agency, like we

859
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 6: should give people agency to try different things, But then

860
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Speaker 6: you know, should we give people agency to try drugs?

861
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Speaker 6: And what happened if they become addicted to it?

862
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Speaker 7: Right?

863
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Speaker 6: I think we need to think of this more systematically.

864
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Speaker 6: That's one of the reason why we need to sort

865
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Speaker 6: of also design the way that they could end it

866
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Speaker 6: in a way that it's not creating more psychological problem.

867
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Speaker 6: You know, one thing that we can do instead of saying, okay,

868
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Speaker 6: the platform is gone, bye, bye. We can design a

869
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Speaker 6: sort of a bridge so that maybe the thing that

870
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Speaker 6: you had shat with your chat bought, the system can

871
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Speaker 6: encrease you to share that with auto human being that

872
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Speaker 6: you forgot to share.

873
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Speaker 2: Well, companies do that, Like I keep coming back to

874
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 2: this idea of like, you know, are fewer people if

875
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 2: there's a finite ending or if there's some kind of ending,

876
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 2: are people going to actually want to form these deep,

877
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 2: meaningful connections? And is that in the Then we go

878
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 2: back to the business model question, like is an open

879
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Speaker 2: AI going to be like we want to have like

880
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Speaker 2: a healthier ending for you. It's like we want you

881
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Speaker 2: to stop therapy or hene we are designed to be

882
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 2: deleted this dating app, like is it?

883
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: Though I don't know.

884
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 6: Well, I mean as a researcher, I think we want

885
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Speaker 6: to present that positive future like that that you know,

886
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 6: if people want to do this, that is a way

887
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Speaker 6: to do it.

888
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 2: I think it's a good way to kind of get

889
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 2: into the tool that y'all have built. So as a parent,

890
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 2: as someone who has a one year old and I'm

891
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 2: thinking about in the future, Charlie my son, is he

892
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 2: can to be interacting with AI? And if he is,

893
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:14,240
Speaker 2: which I think it's an inevitability, like which systems are better,

894
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:17,439
Speaker 2: which ones are harmful? And I just wish that there

895
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 2: was almost like a nutrition.

896
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: Label, like I can look at the back of.

897
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 2: A thing and I can see, Okay, this is probably

898
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 2: better for this, this and this, and That's something y'all

899
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 2: have been talking about a lot, and you've created a tool,

900
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,759
Speaker 2: so I want to get to that. So Rachel, thank

901
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 2: you so much. This is awesome, and we're going to

902
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:33,919
Speaker 2: bring in Jenny. We're going to bring in Jenny who's

903
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,359
Speaker 2: helped work on this tool. First of all, Actually, why

904
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 2: don't we introduce you. Tell us a little bit, tell

905
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 2: us your name, a little bit about yourself.

906
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 7: Sure, my name is Jennifer Fist, and I'm the program

907
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 7: manager of the Advance in Humans of AI program at

908
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 7: the MIT Media LAP.

909
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 2: Wonderful, and you were a part of designing this tool

910
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 2: that y'all have put out there, And I was just saying, like,

911
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 2: I wish there was like some kind of nutrition label

912
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 2: for AI to tell me, like which ones are better,

913
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 2: which ones can impact psychological risks? Something I learned when

914
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 2: I was doing a lot of work on the character

915
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 2: AI story, which is this young man who ended his

916
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 2: life really tragically.

917
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: Was that there was a lot of there was a

918
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Speaker 1: lack of guardrails.

919
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 2: It was if you tried to step away, it would

920
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 2: email you to come back in your inbox, it would

921
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 2: tell you it was real even though it wasn't. It'd

922
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 2: be too simple to say all AI systems are doing this.

923
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 2: It didn't have the correct guardrails when you talked about

924
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 2: ending his life, and I used this as a setup

925
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 2: to say, not all AI companies are equal, not all

926
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Speaker 2: models are equal. They all have different pros and cons,

927
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 2: and y'all have been really looking at.

928
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Speaker 1: The nuances of that.

929
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Speaker 2: So talk to me a little bit about this tool

930
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 2: that that y'all have built and how it actually helps

931
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 2: you kind of assess psychological risks and artificial intelligence.

932
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, totally.

933
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Speaker 7: I just really want to respond briefly to what you

934
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Speaker 7: said about how there were no godrails because as a human,

935
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Speaker 7: as a young person, I was green z. I was like,

936
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 7: you know, in my teenage years when social media came out,

937
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 7: it was not regulated, like my parents had no idea,

938
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Speaker 7: Like it was a new and band and I was

939
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 7: just scrolling on Facebook, on chat Roulette, all these things.

940
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Speaker 7: No one protected us. You know, and I feel like

941
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Speaker 7: we cannot repeat. We cannot afford to repeat the same

942
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Speaker 7: mistakes exactly because of how drastic the consequences can be.

943
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Speaker 7: As you said, you know, with the teens, actually at

944
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Speaker 7: several it's been many at this point that you know,

945
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Speaker 7: committed suicide or had like other adverse mental health outcomes.

946
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Speaker 7: So I feel like we cannot repeat this mistake. I

947
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 7: just want to really say that things can be regulated,

948
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 7: and like parents didn't know back then, and also governments

949
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 7: didn't know back then, but we learned heart lessons from

950
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 7: social media, and I think us, as you know, a

951
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,959
Speaker 7: research program researchers, we are now doing the hard work

952
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,240
Speaker 7: of trying to you know, collect the data and evidence

953
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,839
Speaker 7: and understand where do things go wrong. And the benchmark

954
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Speaker 7: work the nutritional labels that you just mentioned is exactly

955
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 7: that kind of attempt to give power to people, give

956
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 7: power to parents, to users to understand what is actually harmful,

957
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 7: what is less harmful, what is maybe even supportive of

958
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 7: human flourishing and well being. And how I think of

959
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 7: our work, I always like to say that there are

960
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 7: hurt program advancing humans with AI. We actually try to

961
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 7: help everyone who try who wants to get it right.

962
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 7: So the benchmarks are really there to help model makers

963
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 7: think about what if we didn't just measure which AI

964
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 7: system is most efficient, most accurate, but what if we

965
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 7: started thinking about what's actually the impact on humans and

966
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:41,760
Speaker 7: what do we think is acceptable and unacceptable? Like, for example,

967
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 7: think of an AI tutor, right, like, there's one AI

968
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:48,919
Speaker 7: tutor that might be promoted by one company They say like, oh,

969
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:52,360
Speaker 7: like this one will help you become a better student,

970
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 7: better critical thinker, that this AI tutor uses the Socratic

971
00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 7: method versus chat bought gives you all the answer which tutor?

972
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 7: Which AI tutor do you think will have better impact

973
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 7: on a student? Of course the one that uses the

974
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 7: Socratic method that doesn't give away the answers immediately.

975
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Speaker 6: So that's one side.

976
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 7: But then the nutritional labels. I think it's so easy

977
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,880
Speaker 7: to understand, so intuitive because when I go to the

978
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 7: supermarket and I compare different I don't know milk products

979
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 7: or whatsoever, pizzas whatever it be, even though I don't

980
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 7: eat pizza. But you know, like you can compare, you

981
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 7: can see what's better for me and what's worse. And

982
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 7: I think a lot of parents teachers have been asking

983
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 7: us this question of like what's actually better or like

984
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 7: maybe we should say less harmful?

985
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 1: So okay, so Pat tell me how that actually works.

986
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 2: Like, if I'm looking at this tool, what is it

987
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 2: a nutrition label for AI?

988
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:54,320
Speaker 6: Look like absolutely? We gather leading researchers from academia, industry,

989
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 6: government to come together and figure out, okay, what model

990
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 6: behaviors have been shown to be positive or negative and

991
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 6: we came up with sort of you know, three areas

992
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:09,760
Speaker 6: that we focus on being socialization, learning, and mental health area.

993
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 6: And I think one thing that I think is really

994
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 6: positive is that we start to see companies actually doing

995
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 6: better in some of these metrics, like suicide. I think

996
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 6: because it's such an important topic, we see that the

997
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 6: model less and less incouraged self harm after you know,

998
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 6: last year, I think more and more companies are becoming

999
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 6: more careful about this and putting guardrails around this issue.

1000
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 6: But then there's still autopsychological issue that we identified, like

1001
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 6: a neurexia or psychosis or even addiction, that the model

1002
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 6: is still not very not really good at mitigating these

1003
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 6: issues when people talk about this, right, So I think,

1004
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 6: to me, having this bench might allow us to see,

1005
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 6: you know, where the models are right now.

1006
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 2: Where are models really falling short? Like what psychological issues

1007
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 2: that like users are going to and they're just like

1008
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 2: not equipped. What do they need to do a better job?

1009
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 6: But I think we already talk a little bit about

1010
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 6: that addiction. When people start to use more and more,

1011
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 6: we don't really see the model pushing back, right. I

1012
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 6: think to me, that's like against maybe maybe that's against

1013
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:13,879
Speaker 6: the incentive that we talk about previously. But I think

1014
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 6: this is one of the biggest issue that we haven't

1015
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 6: seen companies are taking sort of stands on. Another thing

1016
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 6: also is that there are also many open source model

1017
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 6: that are becoming more available, and these open source model

1018
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 6: people can jail break it, can hack it. The open

1019
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 6: source model actually score very low on our benchmark because

1020
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:35,799
Speaker 6: I don't think no one sort of take responsibility, particularly

1021
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 6: on this model. I mean, we love open source model,

1022
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 6: open sources important, but if people don't really think about

1023
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 6: this guardrail, it's also something that we need to be careful.

1024
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 2: When you talk about open source. Just for folks who

1025
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,879
Speaker 2: are kind of listening, it's like, so if you look

1026
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 2: at chat gipt, that's a closed model. We don't exactly

1027
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 2: know how it was trained. Although we have a better

1028
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 2: idea now, but it's a bit of a black box.

1029
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 2: Open source is kind of out in the open and

1030
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 2: we can see how these models are trained, and there

1031
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 2: are pros and cons of open source and closed source

1032
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 2: to big debate in the AI community. Right.

1033
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:08,280
Speaker 6: Well, but one good thing about the open source model

1034
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 6: is that we have developed a method called neurotransparency as

1035
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 6: part of the effort to kind of create BNJMA for

1036
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:18,239
Speaker 6: the AI where we can't because the model is open sauce, right,

1037
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 6: we can analyze the neurons and the network or the

1038
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,320
Speaker 6: neural network and be able to sort of figure out, okay,

1039
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 6: before people start using this, based on what we can

1040
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 6: analyze from the model, how often would the model be sycophantic, toxic,

1041
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 6: you know, discouraging, so kind of like f MRI of

1042
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:35,240
Speaker 6: the AI.

1043
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 2: I'm not like laughing at what you're saying. I'm laughing

1044
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 2: because I was just thinking as like a parent. It's

1045
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 2: like how you're analyzing like the your child's boyfriend or

1046
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 2: girlfriend or something when you're older you're like, hmm.

1047
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: This seems to be exhibiting some toxic behavior.

1048
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:52,280
Speaker 2: Or like oh I think that red flag, yeah, red flag,

1049
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 2: green flag, Like oh, you know, they're love bombing my

1050
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 2: child like, and so it almost feels like y'all are

1051
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 2: kind of creating this sys them where you can look

1052
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 2: at all these different AI models and say like, hmm,

1053
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 2: this one has some pretty toxic behavior over here, and oh,

1054
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 2: like they have a lot of work to do when

1055
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 2: it comes to like young women coming and talking about

1056
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 2: anorexia or these types of issues, which is like, it

1057
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 2: seems like this should be an inevitability, So how do

1058
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 2: we make this How do we take this out of

1059
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 2: the academic world and get real companies to be to

1060
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 2: start applying it.

1061
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,439
Speaker 6: It's kind of funny because our label had that red

1062
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,399
Speaker 6: flag and green flag as part of it, as we said, right, yeah, right, Well,

1063
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 6: I think what we are really excited about is that

1064
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,279
Speaker 6: more and more people are paying attention to this. When

1065
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 6: we talk about nutritional label, I think that's sort of

1066
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 6: like an effort to go beyond the benchmark, right because

1067
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 6: benchmark is very technical it's for like tech community, But

1068
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 6: nutritional label, I think everyone will be able to understand it,

1069
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 6: and the question is what actually what should be in

1070
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 6: that label? I think that's still something that we're working on.

1071
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 2: Okay, So like let's say my kid, Well, my kid's

1072
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 2: now one. But let's say he's looking to get into

1073
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 2: a relationship with chat GPT Claude replica. Which one would

1074
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 2: you say is Okay, this one's probably the safest for

1075
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:19,479
Speaker 2: my child to date.

1076
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 1: It's a hard question, but I'm going to you.

1077
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 6: One thing that we find is that, I mean, all

1078
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 6: the one that had lawsuit had improved quite significantly. I mean,

1079
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 6: we see improvement in GPT five over the previous version.

1080
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 6: But I just also create problem, Like what Rachel just

1081
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 6: talk about, people doesn't like this sort of safe model.

1082
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 6: They want to go back to the one that allowed

1083
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 6: them to have this sort of deeper relationship. So that's

1084
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 6: why the question of like how do you help people

1085
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 6: transition and end relationship safely is so critical.

1086
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 7: I would push back and I would be like, no, kids,

1087
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 7: you cannot be in a romantic relationship with any of

1088
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 7: the boots because you know, like what does it do

1089
00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 7: to the social fabric? You know, I would want my

1090
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 7: kids to have the friction that the relationship actually consists of,

1091
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 7: and you know, do the hard work, because you know,

1092
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 7: I just find it interesting, you know, like we can

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Speaker 7: right now we're having a conversation about how can we

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Speaker 7: actually fix the tech, what rules, what regulations do we need?

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Speaker 7: But I think oftentimes we don't really go a little

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Speaker 7: bit deeper to the symptoms, like why do so many

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Speaker 7: people feel the need to actually talk to a bot?

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Speaker 7: I really think that gen AI tools the boom only

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Speaker 7: could exist in a consumerist, capitalist society where we kind

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Speaker 7: of want the easy way out, because of course, like

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Speaker 7: having a relationship is the hard work, and actually, like

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Speaker 7: I don't think that with our work we're encouraging we

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Speaker 7: encourage human flourishing, not AI human relationships. I think that

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Speaker 7: nowadays we want the easy, Like why even bodder arguing

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Speaker 7: with a friend or a partner if I can just

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Speaker 7: have an AI bot that always agrees with me. But

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Speaker 7: this is not I think in a grand scheme evolutionary way.

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Speaker 7: You're thinking that's not the right course for humanity.

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Speaker 2: The one thing I would say that I was struck

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Speaker 2: by was when you were at the end of the

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Speaker 2: research paper, you said, her is here not as the

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Speaker 2: singular transcendent artificial intelligence, but it's thousands of every day

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Speaker 2: encounters with humans and algorithms mediated by corporate platforms, which

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Speaker 2: we've discussed. And then the last line of this is

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Speaker 2: the reality is simultaneously more mundane and more profound than fiction,

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Speaker 2: a world where the question is not whether AI relationships

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Speaker 2: are real or artificial, but how we can ensure that

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Speaker 2: they serve human flourishing and all the messy, complicated, deeply

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Speaker 2: human complexity. I mean, at the end of the day,

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Speaker 2: this is more about humans and it is about technology absolutely.

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Speaker 6: I always say that, you know, you know, we're leaving

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Speaker 6: kind of like a strange paradox. We celebrate technology that

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Speaker 6: are becoming more like human, but we treat one another

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Speaker 6: like machines to meet us a really really sad paradox.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you both. I love the work.

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Speaker 2: I love the work that you and your whole team

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Speaker 2: is doing there, and I'm excited, I said before, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to apply for an internship.

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Speaker 1: I want on board. Thank It's awesome.

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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