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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: All right, so you're in a relationship, right, Maybe it's

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Speaker 2: brand new relationship, or maybe you moved in with each other.

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Speaker 2: With your new relationship, you know, it's getting to know someone.

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Speaker 2: You get to know someone, especially if you take a

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Speaker 2: vacation with him, as Gandhi you did with Brandon. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I did you get to know someone the good and

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Speaker 2: the bad. Yeah. And then of course Samantha moved in

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Speaker 2: with her boyfriend will Oh. Yeah, you guys have spent

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Speaker 2: the night with each other many times. Yeah, but what

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Speaker 2: happened that totally melted your eyebrows.

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Speaker 3: I have learned that William is really desperate for me

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Speaker 3: to be able to use the bathroom in front of him.

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Speaker 2: No, he does, okay, hold on here around here.

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Speaker 3: He considers it to be the height of comfort and

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Speaker 3: trust in a relationship. He thinks, if you could do that,

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Speaker 3: you're all the way with the comfort.

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Speaker 2: So you so you will go into the bathroom and

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Speaker 2: start looking in the mirror and you're getting ready. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and he'll come sit down on the ball next to you.

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Speaker 3: He's done that several times already. And I just have

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Speaker 3: to run regardless of the situation.

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Speaker 4: It's not okay, it's not okay.

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Speaker 3: But he wants me to you know, he wants to

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Speaker 3: trade places. You want to to be comfortable. Here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: I am ninety nine percent saying no, but I want

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Speaker 3: to maybe consider a bet that I really want something

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Speaker 3: from and I'll use that as leverage.

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Speaker 2: Well no, no, no, no, how many don't you have? What

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Speaker 2: you have one bathroom? Oh yeah, okay?

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Speaker 1: Does it lock?

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Speaker 3: Medium?

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Speaker 2: So I'll come home, well, Alex, and I'll come home

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Speaker 2: from dinner. He'll go, I'll go to go, okay, go,

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Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, you know, you hear these

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Speaker 2: foul noises, But what do you do? Close the door?

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Speaker 2: Here's reason he keeps it open. But he I know

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Speaker 2: he keeps it open on purpose because you know, it

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Speaker 2: just irritates the whatever out of me. And you hear

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Speaker 2: these noises, you know what the noises are? You know

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Speaker 2: what you you know those things? I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to hear that. I don't want to hear

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Speaker 2: your air propulsion. I don't want to hear you getting

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Speaker 2: left off off the.

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Speaker 3: Toilet, or he has this breathing thing sometimes.

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Speaker 2: Before and then you hear this, You hear this? Ah, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to hear that. But so you're saying

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Speaker 2: that it's not just going to the bathroom for Will.

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Speaker 2: Will believes it. As a couple, you can further bond

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Speaker 2: with each other if you open that door and just

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Speaker 2: you know, use the bathroom together, no matter what you're doing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he says, there's nothing to be embarrassed about.

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Speaker 2: Yes, a body poops. No, that's gross.

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Speaker 3: I don't really want to do it, guys.

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Speaker 4: I like, sexual attraction is a thing, right, Can you

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Speaker 4: still be sexually attracted to someone after watching him take

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Speaker 4: a du.

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Speaker 3: Well, currently it still is. He's really gambling with that,

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Speaker 3: really gambling.

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Speaker 2: No, But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: If I could find a bet, like like maybe get

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Speaker 3: him to get rid of his collection of cargo shorts

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Speaker 3: or something, and I.

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Speaker 4: Think that's worth it, I.

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Speaker 3: Might well not yet I haven't pulled the trigger on it,

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Speaker 3: but I know there's something out there where I will

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Speaker 3: use that as leverage and I will get that bet.

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Speaker 2: But then you have to poop in front of well

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Speaker 2: only if I lose tell you what.

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Speaker 5: That's not?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Scotty B. So it all changes when you get married,

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Speaker 2: because when Amy and I got married on our wedding night.

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Speaker 5: We were in the hotel and I was sitting on

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Speaker 5: the toilet and Amy was at my feet as we

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Speaker 5: were opening the gifts.

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding like it was nothing?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 2: No, married for hours, that's right, that's when it starts. No,

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Speaker 2: there's there's stuff coming out, but there was money in

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Speaker 2: the envelopes. It didn't matter. He couldn't wait.

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Speaker 4: No, opened the gifts.

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Speaker 2: Oh dear god, what's scared? God? I know she's she's crossed.

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Speaker 7: When you start to normalize that kind of thing in

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Speaker 7: a relationship, all the mystique is gone. I want I

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Speaker 7: want to always look at you as an angel. I

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Speaker 7: want to worship you.

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Speaker 2: I don't need to know you say that angels don't

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Speaker 2: pooh no, But I.

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Speaker 7: Want to know ninety percent of you. That last ten

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Speaker 7: percent keep in the bathroom. You could cause long term

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Speaker 7: damage to your relationship because then.

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Speaker 2: You might start looking at other people.

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Speaker 8: And look at that as yeah, frog, what, well, here's

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Speaker 8: the problem in my house. And I don't understand why

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Speaker 8: this is a thing. If Lisa passes gas, she's like,

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Speaker 8: nobody's supposed to say anything, But if I do it,

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Speaker 8: she yells at me.

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Speaker 2: Well, there's no that. It makes no sense.

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Speaker 8: No, why Like why am I not allowed to fart?

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Speaker 8: But she's okay with it, Like it's okay for her,

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Speaker 8: it's an accident.

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Speaker 2: Why but you she probably lets one slip. You're the

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Speaker 2: kind of guy who lifts one leg and pulls the

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Speaker 2: other arm in like that exactly what I did last

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Speaker 2: night in the bathroom. I'm like, wait, I put my

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Speaker 8: I'm like wait, wait, wait for it, and then I

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Speaker 8: pulled down on it like a horn.

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Speaker 2: Well, I like, okay, So there is a difference. I've

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Speaker 2: got Victoria here, Hi, Victoria. I so you've been married

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Speaker 2: five years? Now is this behavior common in your relationship?

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Speaker 2: Of five year marriage?

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Speaker 6: I mean, you know, we've been together for about ten

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Speaker 6: years and married for five and is only within the

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Speaker 6: last year because of our living situation that my husband

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Speaker 6: has been able to accept the fact that I'm just

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Speaker 6: gonna walk into the bathroom only within the last year,

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Speaker 6: like he used to you know, keep the door closed

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Speaker 6: and last while he was in the shower, so I

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Speaker 6: couldn't even look in the mirror, like there's one bathroom

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Speaker 2: So wait, wait, wait, what what changed? I mean, what

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Speaker 2: changed that now makes it all okay for all the

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Speaker 2: all the walls to come down.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm not sure he's so.

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Speaker 6: I'm not sure he accepts that it's okay. I think

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Speaker 6: it's because of our living situation, only having one bathroom

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Speaker 6: in the house of six people on a baby, that

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Speaker 6: he's just he just had to accept it.

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Speaker 1: No matter what's this.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, Victoria. This is the difference

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Speaker 2: between me and Alex or me and you're you.

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Speaker 9: Uh.

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Speaker 2: I close the door and lock it even if I'm

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Speaker 2: maybe it's just habit. It's just habit. I'm not I'm

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Speaker 2: not expecting someone to like you're pulling I who are you?

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Speaker 2: Why are you here? Victoria?

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Speaker 6: Now I'm a complete opposite. Doors always open.

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Speaker 2: All right, Victoria, thank you? Thanks for listening to us.

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Speaker 2: People know, Hi Jackie, Hi, Elvis.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I'm so glad I finally got through.

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Speaker 1: It's taking me years to talk to you guys. I'm

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Speaker 1: so excited.

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Speaker 2: Well, isn't it said? It took the conversation of poohing, No,

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Speaker 2: I open the door for you. What's going on? Jackie?

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Speaker 1: So I've been married for almost two years and I

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Speaker 1: still refuse if my husband has to go. Number two, Nope,

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Speaker 1: it's completely out of the question. Number one, that's that's questionable.

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Speaker 1: You know. That one we're okay with. But still no,

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Speaker 1: absolutely not. The sounds and the smells. You know, I

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Speaker 1: have to keep the door closed for him and vice

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Speaker 1: versas for me.

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Speaker 2: Yes, for you good, you know you're I guess we're

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Speaker 2: all different. You know, there's there's a vegetarians, there's meat

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Speaker 2: eating people, and then there's poohing in front of people

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Speaker 2: both ends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, especially guys. No offense to you guys,

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Speaker 1: but you guys make a lot of more noises.

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Speaker 8: That's not that's not fair to generalize.

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Speaker 2: I'll be very honest with you. Mine are like the

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Speaker 2: little little rabbit pellets. You never know who they're.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 1: And then my husband's in the bathroom like at least

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Speaker 1: a half an hour, and we only have like like

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Speaker 1: of commission for like a half an hour, so I

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Speaker 2: It's like, well, I know, okay, I know, since we've

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Speaker 2: gotten this gross, let's let's let's just keep moving forward, Jackie.

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Speaker 2: So it's one thing to like, you know, do the deed,

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Speaker 2: and then you have to you have to clean up.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be there during the clean up

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Speaker 2: one I'll five. I don't want to be there for that. Hell,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be there.

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Speaker 4: What kind of are we talking about?

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Speaker 2: You know, you got it. Sometimes it takes more effort

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Speaker 2: than others. Sometimes it's like, you know, dust and you're good.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's it's a mess.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 8: What about when I leave the room, should I announce like, hey,

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Speaker 2: That's being polite, all right? Well, Jackie, thank you for listening,

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Speaker 2: and I agree with you. This is why we need doors.

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Speaker 1: Oh exactly. Thank you guys so much. Elvis you know

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Speaker 1: I'm big fans of you guys and the whole show.

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Speaker 2: And Alex Well, thank you, thank you so much. I

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Speaker 2: appreciate it. Jack You have a beautiful day. Thanks for

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Speaker 2: listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Thank you you too. Thanks.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so upset.

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Speaker 4: I'm so disturbed right now.

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Speaker 2: Thank me too. But we have we have all these

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Speaker 2: calls coming in. There's this is like this relatable thing. Wait,

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Speaker 2: hold on, I was told to go to one more

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Speaker 2: then we can move Donnie. Yeah, so you and your boyfriend? Hi,

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Speaker 2: So you and your boyfriend. You're so into each other.

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Speaker 10: How's that okay? So we invade each other's spaces like

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Speaker 10: all the time. So we've been together for ten years.

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Speaker 10: So like sometimes I'll say, hey, come hold my hand

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Speaker 10: while pooh because I'm having a difficult time and you

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Speaker 10: need to be here for this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like he's in the delivery room.

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Speaker 10: Exactly.

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Speaker 1: You're delivering something.

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Speaker 10: Sometimes it's a support time.

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Speaker 2: But if someone says to me, but it's not like

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Speaker 2: giving birth to a baby, it's a totally different thing.

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Speaker 2: If someone says to me, I really have to pooh,

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Speaker 2: I'm dilated three centimes. I think he really should go pooh.

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Speaker 2: All right, Donnie, thank you for listening. And you're the

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Speaker 2: last call we're gonna take on this. I swear I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna direct this right at straight and night. Hi, my friend,

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Speaker 2: how are you today?

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Speaker 6: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Elvis Drand do you consider yourself a modern man?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Hm, yes I do. I mean I don't know

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Speaker 5: the definition according to you, but I'm sensitive.

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Speaker 2: I can cry.

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Speaker 5: Is that party?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 5: Oh, very I'm one of the best listeners ever.

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Speaker 2: You don't know. You're openly, openly affectionate. Yes, yeah, you'd

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Speaker 5: No, Roggy's fine with that, Scary's fine with that. You're

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Speaker 2: Are you okay discussing your mental health?

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Speaker 2: What do you think modern man?

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Speaker 4: Do I think I am one?

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Speaker 2: I believe that God to be honest, I would love

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Speaker 2: I keep saying, Alex, go ahead, I want you to

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Speaker 2: I don't I wouldn't mind being the homemaker, the guy

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Speaker 11: But you know what's funny going through what we have

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Speaker 11: you realize that if you did do that, how many

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Speaker 11: if I didn't do this, I wouldn't need that, like totally,

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Speaker 11: you would save money. So, you know, might be a

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Speaker 11: good thing, Elvis.

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Speaker 2: No, you know, I can eat zucchini every day. I'm

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Speaker 2: growing it. Yeah, becoming self sufficient with zucchini. We have

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Speaker 2: Autumn is online twenty four. Let's see what her situation is. Hello, Autumn,

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Speaker 2: welcome to the show. How are you feeling today?

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Speaker 6: I'm feeling great.

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Speaker 4: How are you?

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Speaker 2: We're doing very well. I'm becoming very comfortable becoming a

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Speaker 9: So I actually bring home plice as much money as

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Speaker 9: he likes to brag and say I bring home the

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Speaker 9: whole pig.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yea, So he loves it. He's into it, he's proud

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Speaker 2: of you, and he has no problem with it. Good.

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Speaker 2: You know what. I love hearing that because I think

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Speaker 2: I'm expected to do this, so therefore I must do that. Well,

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Speaker 2: how do you feel about it? Though? I mean, did

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Speaker 2: Making more money? Yeah, you just know he's a cool guy.

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Speaker 2: He's okay with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, So it's a cool situation. I bet

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Speaker 2: there are a lot of people out there listening and going, God,

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Speaker 2: I wish my situation was like that. But yeah, you

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Speaker 2: keep living your great life. Autumn. You sound awesome. You

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Speaker 2: sound like you've got a lot of positivity going, and

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Speaker 2: it's great to know that you're listening to us. Thank

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Speaker 2: you so much.

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