WEBVTT - Brown Girls Grinding with Loren LoRosa 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:08.440 and the Black Effect Network. 0:00:08.520 --> 0:00:12.600 So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion 0:00:13.200 --> 0:00:16.239 who talks. 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:18.880 What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:21.959 new episode of We Talk Back, a show dedicated to 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:25.360 you dreamers and chasers. It's your co host, AJ Holiday. 0:00:25.440 --> 0:00:26.040 What's up to you? 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:30.120 Hey, y'all, It's official Tmvan. I love y'all. Thank y'all 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:34.680 for tuning in. Again. We got a guest with us today. 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:37.760 Laura le Rossa. Do her introduction. I know you got it? 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:39.880 Yeah, so why you let me do it? Okay? You're 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:42.360 not be writing nice little introductions for the guests. Okay, 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:46.920 all right, y'alls listen. Today's guest is simply a brown 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:50.440 girl grinding okay. A former news producer for TMZ, also 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:53.800 on air talent for over seven years. Also for the 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:57.360 past year, y'all have seen her as a recurring guest 0:00:57.360 --> 0:01:00.360 host on The Breakfast Club with CHARLAMAGNEA God and DJ 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:04.240 Envy and Again. She's a producer, she's a model, she's 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:08.040 an actress. She's dominating and documenting her journey through the 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:11.240 world of entertainment via lifestyle vlogs on her self produced 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:14.880 YouTube channel, Lauren lo Rosa TV. And at the end 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:17.920 of the day, it's Lauren Lorosa. You like that? 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:19.199 Yes, I love. 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:21.160 How you bought it all together. At the end of 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:23.360 the day, it's new too, So you've been you, you 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:24.280 did your research. 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:26.080 How y'all doing. 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:27.720 I'm so happy to be here. I'm so happy to 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:29.399 be with girls that talk back, because maybe I'll be 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:31.080 talking back and maybe like share up. 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:33.920 Yes, how was y'all? Weekend? 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:34.640 It was good? 0:01:35.080 --> 0:01:35.839 Not cool? 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:36.679 What'd you do? 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:38.360 I don't really do much and nothing. I went out. 0:01:38.480 --> 0:01:41.840 I had some friends in town. I newly got a 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:45.480 place here in Jersey, so just like letting people know 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:47.319 that I'm here and like popping out a little bit, 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:49.840 like dinners and stuff like that. Nothing too too crazy. 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:52.360 What about you? 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:54.520 I've been sick? The fuck? 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:55.480 What is happening? 0:01:55.760 --> 0:01:55.840 Was? 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:56.840 Yeah? 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:59.640 Then I saw this post on social media how everybody sick? 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:02.280 So apparently there's something going around. And the only place 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:03.840 I've been to was the grocery store. 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:06.360 It's like a cold, but it sounds like the flu. 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:11.119 Yeah, no, no, yeah, I call I called a SAT 0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:16.040 I was like hello, I was like, to you I 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:24.400 was like, goddamn, girl. 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:26.760 I'm sweating right now, Like I really need like a 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:29.040 fan and the ice pack. I'm so hot, but it's 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:32.880 coming out. That's my weekend, y'all. 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:35.080 Let me tell y'all about my weekend. So one of 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:38.400 my good friends, she was having her twin babies christen 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:41.600 this weekend in Atlanta. So I went down to celebrate 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:43.440 the babies and go to the christening and it was 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:45.400 such a good time. And at the end of the 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:48.480 church service, my friend pulled me to the front. She 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:50.280 was like, I want to let get the pastor to 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:53.480 pray for you. So I went to the front and 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:55.840 the pastor like it was two of them that was 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.280 praying over me, and both of them took that holy 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:02.200 oil and we're like, put it in their hand right, 0:03:02.919 --> 0:03:05.440 and they laid hands on my head right and it 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:07.440 was mashing it in. I feel like the pastor was 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:09.200 making trying to make me go down, but I was like. 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:10.040 I'm not going down. 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:14.640 I'm not going down. I'm not going down. So he 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:18.600 was just mashing that holy oil right into my lace. Baby. 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:19.440 By the time I. 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:22.840 Got out, just moved back because the oil movie. 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:25.320 Baby, I was lifted. I was lifted in the spirit, 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:28.000 and so was my lace. My ship was so high up. 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:32.880 I was like, oh, oh my god, it looks so bad, y'all. 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:35.640 And I just had to walk around talking everybody. Had 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:38.880 you enjoyed the service? Lace? Just standing up. 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:42.680 Some good today because because. 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:46.840 I had to take that thing up and set put 0:03:46.880 --> 0:03:49.680 it back down and you wanted to push it back anyway. 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:50.560 So there you go. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:54.120 Yeah, like a hand shout and that is. 0:03:55.760 --> 0:04:00.760 It looked good. I feel like that on purpose. They 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:02.320 was trying to see if that was your hair or not. 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:06.880 It was two it was two men too hens right there. 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:12.680 I was like, oh, thank you God, but too yes yes, 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:15.000 So hopefully the prayers come true. Amen. 0:04:15.960 --> 0:04:16.360 Amen. 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:20.400 So our first segment of the show is called Stupid 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:22.680 Internet News. I don't know if you've seen it or 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:24.479 heard it before, but it's just our Sins of the 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:27.200 week where we discussed everything dumb that's going on in 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:30.240 the world, everything that's good. So let's get into it. 0:04:31.920 --> 0:04:35.080 Let's talk about Chris Brown and all. Start. You see 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.480 that over the weekend Chris Brown going on. I saw 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:40.320 that you had a post recently about Chris. 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:43.000 Grow They still I'm still getting onplications and people were 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:43.760 so angry at me. 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:49.120 Yes too, how about that? 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:52.200 Like they like they like, they're like, fuck her, that's 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:53.640 why she didn't get the breakfast club job. 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:57.719 Now, people was on there saying that the big man. 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:01.040 That's like, that's like the lightest of of the comments. 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:03.719 But when you when you talk about anything Chris Brown, 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:06.520 especially if you're not saying sending him to hell and 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:08.440 do rid of him, people wanna you know what I mean, 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:10.240 that's gonna happen. I saw it though, and I was like, 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:12.239 we still arguing about. 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:15.280 Chris, right, all right? So that's my whole point, right right. 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:17.240 So what happened over the weekend For people who don't know, 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:20.080 Chris Brown is slamming the NBA and claiming he was 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:23.560 disinvited from the least annual NBA All Star Celebrity Game 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:27.080 due to his past domestic violence controversies. The R and 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.720 B singer posted several screenshots of emails on his Instagram 0:05:30.760 --> 0:05:33.680 story early Saturday morning, which appeared to be sent by 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:38.200 the NBA. Now, do we feel like it's about Rihanna still? 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:39.800 Because that ship old as hell. 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:44.520 I think it's about all of the eth But you 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:48.000 got Rihanna, you got Caruci who had called police reports. 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:51.040 You have just everything that has followed him since, Like people, 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:52.800 he's just been like the bad kid in school. 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:54.800 He can't shake it. 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:56.760 So people, I think people, brands are afraid to touch him. 0:05:56.760 --> 0:06:00.760 I mean, yeah, it's that's what I think too, because 0:06:00.800 --> 0:06:04.000 I mean, here we have doctor Dre has a whole 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:07.000 award named after him at the Grammys, and he's a 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:10.840 known woman beater. I feel like Doctor Dre's stuff never 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:13.320 really stuck though, Like to be honest with you, like, 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:15.880 I think because Michelai had that whole like what was 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:16.720 it like a docu. 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:17.359 Sente or something like it was. 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:20.120 Whatever situation. 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:24.080 Yeah, I think that that the age groups matter too, 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:26.240 because like social media and all that stuff was a 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:28.480 lot bigger when even though it's even bigger now when 0:06:28.480 --> 0:06:32.039 the Chris Browniana stuff happened. And I also think Rihanna 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:35.400 is like she was then it is now the girl 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:37.240 and as sad as it is, it's like I think 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:40.200 when black women are like beating bruises and what battered, 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:43.279 the world already cares to a certain extent and not really, 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:46.240 but if you're not like a Megda Stallion or Rihanna, 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:48.720 like if this was any other woman, Like people don't 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:49.640 even talk about Crucci. 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:51.240 Mm hm, you know what I mean. 0:06:51.240 --> 0:06:52.920 So I think with doctor Dre he kind of got 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:55.320 able to like move around it because the women weren't 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:58.839 like big householdines. He was so basically doctor Dre, Doctor 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:02.520 Dre beat the right bitches, what I mean, that's what 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:04.800 it looks like like No for real though, because it. 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.800 All from a time where it just gotta be a bigger. 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:11.200 And there was a yeah, a lot of stuff I 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:13.760 think too during their times. I don't think we know 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:16.360 because of the music, the lyrics, like everything. A lot 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:19.480 of stuff during their time was excusable. 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:22.760 For what they were. Like they like we we talked back. 0:07:22.800 --> 0:07:25.320 Now he's your podcast, So it's a little bit different 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:26.840 now these days, Like it wasn't. 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:28.640 It wasn't the same, Dame we. 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:35.520 Fight back because who we shoot back over here that 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:43.000 we shoot first first. 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:42.960 The right one. 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:45.679 But I think it is whack for all these different 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:50.120 organizations to initiate these invitations to Chris Brown only to 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:51.840 pull him back because this is not the first time 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:54.840 it's happened. I can't recall off hand the last time, 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:57.840 but this I've definitely seen this type of shit happen 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.560 with him before, Like just like he said, just leave 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:03.680 him alone. He'll go wherever he's appreciated, you know what 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:04.160 I'm saying. 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:07.840 So so Ruffles came out, and Ruffles was like, get 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:09.640 somebody else to do it. The wind on the door, Yeah, 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:13.440 like doesn't look even crazier because like y'all not even standing. 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:15.400 One of the brands gotta stand on something, and one 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:17.480 of y'all are not. Neither one of y'all are standing 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:20.000 on anything. So now it looks like y'all scared to 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:21.480 be like, oh, we don't want to sit next to him, 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:23.120 but y'all don't want to say that. It's like pick 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:25.160 a side, right, y'all. 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.480 Be having too much fucking air in that bag of chips? 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:32.800 Why is that much air? Let's talk about that. 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:37.640 We only even tenor ruffles anyway. 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:38.840 The sound cream and Cheddar is the only one. We 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:41.400 y'all only put ten chips in the bad and get 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:41.840 it together. 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:46.280 Nah, but the world ain't never gonna let Chris Brown 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:48.640 let us down, and like it's it's okay, like right, 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:51.079 some people are forever gonna feel like that man deserves hell. 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.280 And if that's how you feel, that's how you feel, 0:08:53.360 --> 0:08:56.360 and if you don't, that you don't. But when it 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:58.040 comes to the brands, I never want us to think 0:08:58.040 --> 0:09:01.240 that these brands get too straight out exactly, particularly us, 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:04.320 but especially once you got a little tainted version of 0:09:04.400 --> 0:09:06.480 us like that. They're gonna protect their business. I don't 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:09.640 care how black the company team looks or whatever. 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:11.439 Business is. Business is business. 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:14.680 Quick. Everybody jumped off that deep that p did train 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:16.360 got the hell up out. 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:19.480 Of the baby do we? 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:21.040 We don't drink deliere. 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:22.400 I never drunk it. 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:26.880 I liked I like. 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.520 I mean, if if niggas had it in the section 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:34.880 I was drinking, wasn't it was the owned by a 0:09:34.960 --> 0:09:35.480 black man? 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:36.240 That was that? 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:40.679 It wasn't? But really was it? Because you got out 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:43.400 of your whole, Brandy? 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:47.600 If it were what we got left, we got douce, 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:50.000 we got the DT award. 0:09:50.160 --> 0:09:53.040 No, we don't have none of them things. BT is 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:57.120 not black owned, nor is for real because he was 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:59.760 just in the whole thing with who owns do say 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:04.880 all simately lois vatan right like the whole like the 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:10.760 whole you know, conglomerate. Yeah, so you know these are partnerships. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:12.880 So you're not good for the brand. 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:13.959 A lot of times though. 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:18.200 A lot of times though, because I think with the 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:20.600 situation with Diddy, it made people be like, oh, this 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:22.000 is what I'm talking about. Black people don't know how to 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:24.320 do business. And then they have the conversation about jay 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.439 Z and him being a capitalist, and I think people 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:28.079 need to understand the two of like, you got to 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:29.320 scale up before you can. 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:30.000 Completely own it. 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:32.720 You wouldn't be able to put duce out the way 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:36.120 that it is if jay Z primarily but we don't 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:38.599 have a lot of private label, black owned companies that 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:40.439 can help him scale. So it's like, what the hell 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:42.920 is he supposed to do? So everything is only gonna 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:44.320 be black on to a certain extent. They got mad 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:47.880 at remember Honey pot, Yes they got mad at her 0:10:48.000 --> 0:10:52.199 when she sold. They got mad at uh. 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:53.840 Yeah, we get mad. 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:55.680 But it's like, yo, what we how are we supposed 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:57.559 to scale the business there? But a like running back, 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:59.000 I don't know, I feel like I. 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:00.000 Feel like capitalists. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:02.280 That's one of the things I know, right, But that 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:04.200 is one of the things they never wanted us to learn, 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:07.120 especially like during slavery and shit, like the science of business, 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:09.920 because anytime a black person creates something and it gets 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:13.400 so big, they come in with this number you can't deny, right, 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:17.000 and you sell the thing with honeypot is like you 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:19.520 start looking at the ingredients on shit before and after, 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:21.920 you know, after his bot. I'm not sticking that up. 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:24.240 I'm like, cuci no more. I'm sorry because we already 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:25.800 know y'all have been fucked with the hair products for 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:28.160 how many years? You got black women with cervical cans 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:29.960 and all the type of shit going on, Like we 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:31.960 have to be concerned about those things. And if we 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:35.000 are the ones that put your your product, you know, 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:37.800 at the top, we do, you do owe some type 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:39.680 of loyalty a little bit, you know what I'm saying, 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:42.840 Like I understand, like the partnership's black effect, you know, 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:44.959 in partnership with iHeart, a lot of people's talking shit. 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:48.000 Oh Charlamagne don't own as yes he does, he owns 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:51.520 fifty one percent, right, so it's still his business. But 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:53.839 in order to get as big as you want to get, 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:57.520 you do have to partner with these bigger, bigger companies. 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:00.400 But at some point, I don't know, at some point 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:02.679 we got to take a stance and we got to 0:12:02.720 --> 0:12:04.440 be able to put other people in places, just not 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:06.720 today with some of these brands. 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:11.320 Y'all wion't take a staying nothing. But we collected they. 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:14.120 Want to it out there. Get Timeline. 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:19.520 Y'all listen after she put that tattoo in her face, 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:22.160 and I was like, Lord, just Jesus takes you moving back. 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:22.560 In with him? 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:26.320 She moved in with him, jail, I don't want it. 0:12:27.200 --> 0:12:29.400 She moved back into the crew. I don't know. 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:31.360 I don't know what what that looks like for her, 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:32.640 and that baby moved back into the crib. 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:33.080 And once that. 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:35.320 Happened, I said, I don't know what type of what 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:38.880 is over there. The way he be busting down. I 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:39.840 never want to be that. 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:42.560 I never want Those are demons. 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:44.319 I just met one of the girls. 0:12:44.360 --> 0:12:46.040 Get away, Okay. 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:49.400 I just met one of those. Is crazy. I just 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:50.440 met one of those. 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:53.560 It's like, I can I can see the demon like. 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:56.480 Get away, get away? 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:59.400 All right? So now did y'all see over the weekend, 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:04.679 this mother she was excited that her daughter was embarking 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.040 on her business as a waxer, and she was like, 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:10.520 I'm teaching my child a generational wealth. And she done 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:13.280 had twenty four clients, and then we see this image 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:16.720 of this young baby over a woman's vagina, you know, 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:20.839 and the vagina has blurred out obviously. But this lady 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:25.680 went to jail yesterday. They arrested her for sexual child 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:28.480 abuse or child abuse neglect. I don't want to say 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:31.120 sexual child neglect. How do y'all feel about that? Do 0:13:31.200 --> 0:13:33.160 y'all feel like that was actually child neglect? 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:36.520 Absolutely? I felt like it should have happened before it happened. 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:40.480 I was hope, not hoping, because I find it so hard. 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:42.480 As much as as much shit as I talk, I 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:45.400 do like have a tough time super condemning people, right, 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.680 so I try to like play devil's advocates. Sometimes this 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:52.600 is a situation where I cannot play Devil's advocate because 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:56.079 at what point she just didn't have the wherewithal to 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:57.440 know that that's child abuse. 0:13:57.559 --> 0:14:00.480 She was ignorant. I don't feel like it was like 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:03.960 a sexual act of any sort. I just feel like 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:06.120 she was an ignorant mom who thought this was her 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:09.240 trying to give her child some education so she could 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:12.560 make money for herself. That's what it's five. 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:16.520 Years old, working a seven hours shift. Yeah, that's child later. 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:19.520 The hardest, but not even the ship. 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:23.280 It was hard to see the little girl with the 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:25.960 like this in between the spread legs, Like I just 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:27.840 feel like there are certain things that you're as a 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:30.840 as a kid, as a baby that just shouldn't you 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:32.760 shouldn't be exposed to right away. But I don't know 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:34.360 about y'alling how y'all grew up. I mean, my mom 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:38.040 was to have me waxing. No no, I for keep forgetting. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:39.600 I can say certain words on her. My mom was 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:41.640 having me waxing, no coochies and nothing like that. But 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:43.880 I was the oldest in the household, and I'll be 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.880 watching this this girl she writes letters to the oldest 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:50.320 black like their older black daughters or whatever, and she 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:51.920 talks about how like years I don't know if this 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:53.280 was the oldest child or not, but she talks about 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:56.120 how you'res exposed and stuff so early, and it's because, 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:57.960 like your parents, OKI are trying to get you ready 0:14:57.960 --> 0:14:59.640 because the world they did, you know, they sposed so 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:02.000 much sh her way, but it takes away from you 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:06.080 being five. She should be cocoa melon and not like 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:09.240 waxing people's melons for real. Like that shit is crazy 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:09.560 to me. 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:14.320 It was hard to watch, I agree, and especially like 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:17.000 you don't even really understand your own anatomy yet at 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:19.400 five years old, so to be looking at some adult 0:15:19.440 --> 0:15:22.200 women's vagina, like it's just a lot, it's too much. 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:24.240 You still say in private parts and don't forget that 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:25.960 people are fucking That's what. 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:29.600 I was trying to wax in these people exactly. That's 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:32.000 what I told Sam earlier. Like what if? Because I 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:34.880 feel like, for whatever reason, we think women are exempt 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:38.160 from being predators when they are apex predators a lot 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:42.320 of them. Okay, so you have women in the community 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:45.560 who probably eviolated little girls before. Now they know that 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:49.480 this particular wax pallar has five year olds giving wax jobs, Like, 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:51.400 why would I not go get waxed by this five 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:53.080 year old? If that's the type of shit I'm into? 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:56.680 Like her mom put her in danger, Yes, her mom 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:57.360 put her in danger. 0:15:57.480 --> 0:15:59.480 Wax is high because if it was a man, so 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:01.520 many very like are you say if it was a 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:03.880 man doing it like a man like letting his son 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:06.000 do that type of shit, like the world would be 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:06.680 an uproar? 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:11.600 Yeah right, what they don't? 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:15.120 Because I feel like people got mad at no, for real, 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:17.640 I feel like men people got mad when Boozy was 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.280 talking about how he like his son was young and 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.080 had like what was it the sun got hit or whatever. 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:24.640 But there was so many people that was like, I 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:27.160 mean shit, at least you know he not gay, Like 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:30.760 they were rationalizing it, like it's a little different with 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:31.160 you don't know. 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:34.840 Let me tell y'all something. This makes me think of 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:37.160 a childhood story of mine where I got I got 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:39.400 a spanking for this, and I shouldn't have gotten a speaking. 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:42.400 So I remember the cnsay that we had as a kid. 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:44.880 Did I tell this story? I already No, I don't know. 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:47.120 But you remember the see and say you pulled the 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:49.280 string and it be like he hanged and be pointing 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:53.320 at whatever animal and it's spin around y'all. Remember, no, no, Lauren, 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:57.320 no cnsay. It was like a little toy and it 0:16:57.560 --> 0:16:59.640 have like an arrow to have animals all around it 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:02.200 and the string and it'll spin around and it'll stop 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:04.359 on the animal and when the string goes in, it'll 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:08.240 make the animal sound. Okay, the eighties anyway, So I 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:11.560 used to love that toy, right, and my mom was 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:13.280 I think we were getting dressed to go somewhere. She 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:15.600 had me already dressed and she was in the bathroom 0:17:15.600 --> 0:17:18.240 getting dressed, but she left the bathroom door open and 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:19.840 I was just sitting on the floor playing with my 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:22.399 see andsay, and I looked in the bathroom. She was 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:25.240 she wasn't clothed yet, and I saw a string hanging 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:26.800 out of her and I was like, oh, ship, my 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:33.639 mama is a I went up. I went up, I 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:37.960 went up and pulled that string. Baby, whatever was in 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:47.199 there flew out on me, and I was I was 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:49.679 like four or five years old, and I thought my 0:17:49.720 --> 0:17:53.600 mama was a censa. And I got popped because then 0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:55.720 she had to change my clothes. She's like, I can't 0:17:55.760 --> 0:17:58.840 even stay used the bathroom by myself. And then I 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:00.600 think that was the she started lock of me out 0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:05.879 the bathroom. I didn't get so did that? Did that? 0:18:05.960 --> 0:18:08.320 Did that haunt you in your experience when you started. 0:18:08.080 --> 0:18:13.720 Using yes, I won't even use this, won't use I 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:14.280 won't use that. 0:18:14.400 --> 0:18:17.320 I'm sorry, I know what has happened. 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:18.680 Happened? 0:18:19.080 --> 0:18:28.000 My mom is a singing rain so crazy. 0:18:28.560 --> 0:18:30.560 At least that's all you pizza in the bathroom and salt. 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:31.680