1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. Guys and if you 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. Buggle up and 7 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here it 8 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter. All right, Thank you enoughhew. Subject is 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: my wife an undercover gold Digger To Stephen Shirley. My 10 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: wife and I have been married for over fifteen years, 11 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 1: and we've come close to getting a divorce a few 12 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 1: times in the past few years over our finances. My 13 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,200 Speaker 1: wife has had issues with managing money, so I don't 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: trust her when it comes to keeping up with our money. 15 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: We have always had separate accounts. I have a personal 16 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: savings account and I've been able to save a great 17 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: deal of money for our retirement. My wife does not 18 00:00:56,680 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: have access to this account. We have one share account 19 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: that I put money into each month for household expenses. 20 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: I am able to track it, but I've never had 21 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: a problem with her using the money for personal needs. 22 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: We both work, but I am the main breadwinner, and 23 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: I pay all of the bills in the house. That's 24 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: the house note, both car notes, and all of the utilities. 25 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: She pays her cell phone and American Express bills. In 26 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: the past two years, she has constantly nagged me to 27 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: see bank statements and a breakdown of our finances. It 28 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: makes me uneasy and she gets upset when I tell 29 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: her is not necessary for me to share that with her. 30 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: She told me I'm too secretive and she loves to 31 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 1: threaten me with divorce. I'm not being secretive, It's a 32 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 1: trust thing. And why does she need to know all 33 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: of a sudden, I am planning to retire with her 34 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: and I want to keep her in the same lifestyle 35 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: she's used to, But I don't know if we're going 36 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: to make it. She has been sleeping in the guest 37 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: room and she refuses is to have sex with me. 38 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: I'm a father, great provider, and god fearing man, but 39 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: this situation has me angry as heck. My wife won't 40 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: sleep with me unless I show her my bank statement. 41 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 1: It seems like, after fifteen years of marriage, my wife 42 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: has turned into a goal digger. Please help me figure 43 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: this out. Am I doing something wrong, what's up with her? Well, 44 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't think you're doing anything wrong 45 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: necessarily because you got to save money. You want to 46 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: have money for your retirement, your money. Your wife is 47 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: reckless with her money and with the money, so she 48 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 1: is not a good person to entrust your life savings 49 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: and your retirement funds with. And if she doesn't understand that, 50 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 1: that's on her, not you. I think that it's good 51 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: that you guys have separate accounts. I think it's good 52 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: that you guys share an account where and I think 53 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: it's great that you put money in it and pay 54 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: all of the bills. All those are pluses. What your 55 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:09,519 Speaker 1: wife is up to is anybody's guess. You know, if 56 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: she wants to see bank statements, because I don't know, 57 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: does she think or suspect that you're you're hiding money 58 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: from her or something? But I think, you know, in 59 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: this instance, it might be. I think it's okay for 60 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: you to sit her down and tell her this is 61 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 1: what's going on. You guys have been married for fifteen years. 62 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 1: That should garner some kind of trust in a relationship. 63 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: I mean, money is still like if not that still 64 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: the number one is definitely in the top two of 65 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: why relationships and marriages break up because of finances, because 66 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: you know, people are reckless when it comes to money. 67 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: She has her own job. What does she need to 68 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: see it for if you know, if you're saving and everything. 69 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: But if you guys are in a good marriage, I 70 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: think there does need to be some trust. Why don't 71 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: you want to show it? Sure? That? That is my question. 72 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: I don't think it's necessarily because you're being secretive or 73 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: trying to hide something. You just don't want her nagging 74 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: you to get that money. You've got to know that. 75 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: You know, a lot of times wives do go over spend. 76 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: You know. That's why if you open up the trunk 77 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 1: right now, you'll probably find some shoeboxes brand new shoes 78 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: that she hasn't snuck in the house yet. You know. 79 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: It's kind of you know, it's kind of just what 80 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: we do, some of us. Some of us, I mean, 81 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,840 Speaker 1: we do, you know. But as far as he're not 82 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 1: sleeping with you, that that's a bit far. Because you 83 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: won't show her the bank statements and all of that 84 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,559 Speaker 1: unless she has something else planned. I think it's really 85 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: really immature of her to threaten you with divorce because 86 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: of this situation. That's not cool. I don't think that's 87 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: something you should play with. But I think there is 88 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: a communication situation going on here too. You may not 89 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: want to do it, but just show her, you know, 90 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,840 Speaker 1: maybe that'll calm her down and settle her down and 91 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,039 Speaker 1: tell her the reasons you're doing this. You know you 92 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 1: want to continue her lifestyleing you're really doing it out 93 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 1: of love and stuff. But she's selfish more than being 94 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: a gold digger, Steve, it's my wife an undercover gold digger. Well, 95 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 1: y'all been married fifteen years, y'all and came close to 96 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: divorce in a couple of times. Then you say that 97 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 1: your wife got issues with managing money, so I don't 98 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: trust her when it comes to keeping up with our money. 99 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: There's a little confusion here. We've always had separate accounts, 100 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 1: so there were the fifteen years you've had that. I 101 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: have a personal savings account and you've said you've been 102 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: able to save a great deal of money for our 103 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: retirement and your wife ain't got access to it. Y'all. 104 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 1: Gotta shared account that I put money into for households 105 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: that I'm able to track. But I've never had. And 106 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: then you said, but I've never had a problem with 107 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: her using the money for her personal needs. Well, if 108 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: you've never had a problem with her using the money 109 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: for your personal needs, what was the several divorces about. See, 110 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: there's a little confusion going on here, brother. You all 111 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: have come closer getting the divorce over finances. You don't 112 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 1: have a problem with her using the money for personal needs? 113 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 1: Did you say? Ten seconds? Days we both worked. I'm 114 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: the main brandwinner, and I pay all the bills in 115 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: the house, house called all issutilities, and all she paying 116 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: her cell phone, the manage. Well, when you make a 117 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: lot of money, though, if you're paying all that and 118 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: still saved a lot of money for y'all's retirement, and 119 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: you don't have a problem with her spending for her 120 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: personal needs, I'm trying to figure out what the damn 121 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: problem is. I love him all right, and hold that thought, Steve. 122 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 123 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour, subject is my wife 124 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: an undercovered gold digger? We'll be back to find out 125 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, Come on, 126 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,799 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letters. Subject is my wife an 127 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: undercovered gold digger. This is kind of a confusing letter, y'all. Couse, 128 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: you've been closer getting divorce a couple of times because 129 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: you don't trust you with the money. Y'all in had 130 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: separate accounts, but you got this one account where you 131 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: say the great deal of money for y'all's retirement. Your 132 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: wife don't have access to it. Y'all got to share 133 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: the account y'all put money into and you ain't never 134 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: had a problem with her using the money for her 135 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: personal needs. If you've never had a problem with that, 136 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: why have you all been getting a divorce? I'm confused. 137 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: We both work. You the main brandwinner. You pay all 138 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: the bills in the house. She pay her cell phone 139 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: an Americans present. Now, in the past two years, here 140 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: we go, she has constantly nagged me to see bank 141 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: statements and a breakdown of our finances. Okay, most women 142 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: want to know what's going on in their life. Since 143 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: you have this separate account, she's asked you to see it. 144 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: Now then you are uneasy with it, and she get 145 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: upset because this is what you didn't tell the grown woman. Now, 146 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: it's not necessary for me to share that with you. Wow, 147 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: waymant doc hold a partner. I gotta tell you something real, 148 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: honest man. You talking to a grown woman who's married 149 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: to you, and you have a separate account that she 150 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: has found out about, and you saved a great deal 151 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: of money for retirement for you all. And she asked 152 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: to see the bank statement of the finances of y'all's life, 153 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: of which you all contribute y'all's money into this account, 154 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: but you pay the bills and then you tell her 155 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: it ain't necessary for you to share that with her. 156 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: Dog reverse this for a second. This is what This 157 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: is how Margie wins all arguments with us. She says, 158 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: reversed this. D Suppose I said that to you, and 159 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: you know that's how she went all our arguments. Yeah, 160 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: that's whenever. But she only do that when I'm dead wrong. 161 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: She don't do that when she wrong. When I reverse it, 162 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 1: she reverse it back. She real tricky up. She told 163 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: me that I'm too secretive and she loves to threaten 164 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: me with divorce. Well, dog, see you say that there's 165 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: all this money over here, but the money ain't in 166 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: her house. She trying to figure out what is it 167 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: going somewhere? Else, and you're telling her us in an account. 168 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 1: She says, show me the account, and you tell her 169 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: she don't need to know. And then she say you 170 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: being secret and you say, I'm not being secretive. Okay, dog, 171 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: what you want to call He said, it's a trust thing. 172 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: But dog, you're keeping a secret from your wife. So 173 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: she is right about that. You are being secretive. But 174 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 1: I know when you're saying, because you don't trust it 175 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: with the money. And why does she need to know 176 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:56,559 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, Wait a minute, hold up, dog, 177 00:09:57,200 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: what woman don't have a right to know what's going 178 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: on in her life? You think if she finds out 179 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: the money that she gonna spend it, But you already 180 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: got it protected because she don't have access to it. 181 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 1: So now the fact that you won't show it to 182 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: her ever, has created a huge problem. I'm planning to 183 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: retire with her. She don't know that. See, now we 184 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,959 Speaker 1: got an insecurity issue going on because you got all 185 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 1: his money stacked off to the side. She don't know 186 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: about if she don't know, if you're gonna take it 187 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: off with another woman, she don't know, if you're gonna 188 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: keep it for yourself. She don't know what it is. 189 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: I'm planning to retire with her, and I want to 190 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: keep her in the same lifestyle she's used to. Damn, bro, 191 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I hear what you're saying. You got a 192 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: good heart. I think you're phrasing it wrong to the 193 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 1: woman though, but I don't know if we're gonna make it. 194 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: Hold up, So you're gonna rish your marriage of a 195 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: person you want to retire with because she think you 196 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: got a secret. You don't trust her spending. You ain't 197 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: gonna show her that account. And now she threatened you 198 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: with divorce. And now she'd moved into the guests room. 199 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: And we ain't having sex. We're not having sex. You 200 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 1: can read all these papers. Hold on, hold on, We're 201 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: not having sex. Don't you know what I mean? You 202 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: know what I mean received you from the sea. This 203 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: isn't statements. I'm a father, great profather and a god 204 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 1: fearing man. Stop stop bringing the Lord in this. This 205 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 1: ain't got nothing through the Lord. Doc. Why did the 206 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: Lord tell you to keep the secret? So since I 207 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 1: dragged the Lord into this? But this situation makes me 208 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: angry as heck. My wife won't sleep with me unless 209 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: how I show her my bank statements. It seems like 210 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: I got fifteen years of manage when my wife has 211 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: turned into a gold digger. Doc. See you're you're attaching 212 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: terms to this woman. I understand the problem you have. 213 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: You're saying you can't trust her with money, but you 214 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: gotta fixed where she can't move the money. But now 215 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: you don't want to show us that, because what's she 216 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: gonna do? You think she's gonna spend more? Who? And 217 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: you think she to turned into a gold digger dog? 218 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: Just been the same woman for fifteen years. That's why 219 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 1: y'all didn't had a several divorces, but her threatening you 220 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 1: with divorces because you won't show her the paperwork, which 221 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: makes her think as a woman, something else is happening. 222 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: Please help me figure this out. Am I doing something wrong? Yes? 223 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:25,679 Speaker 1: What's up with her? The question is what's up with y'all? 224 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: You don't trust her and she don't trust you. What 225 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: y'all man? We are and this ain't gonna work, partner, 226 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 1: and this really ain't got a damn thing to do 227 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: with money. Fifteen years, you don't trust her, You can't 228 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: count on her, and she thinks she won't trust you, 229 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:47,679 Speaker 1: and she can't count on you. Unless y'all get real transparent, 230 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 1: real quick, y'all ain't gonna make it, homie. Yeah all right, Steve, 231 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: thank you. Post this paperwork this evening at Steve hars 232 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: over here this evening in this band. Also check out 233 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast coming up to forty six after 234 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 1: the hour, Sir, I'm going to be looking forward to post. 235 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: Terry Crew says apologized to Gabrielle Union. We'll talk about 236 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 1: that right after this. You're listening to This Day Morning show.