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Speaker 1: One of our most listened to second date updates on

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Speaker 1: our podcast happened just a few months ago, involving a

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Speaker 1: girl who used a very unusual strategy to impress a

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Speaker 1: guide during her first date. Okay, now, Brooke thought it

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Speaker 1: was quirky and hilarious. Alexis felt it was kind of ick.

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Speaker 2: Did we not agree?

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Speaker 3: We always agree on dating, like you were always taking

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Speaker 3: my tips and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Sure, I'm not gonna spoil it, But ever since that aired,

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Speaker 1: we've had a lot of people texting in wanting to

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Speaker 1: know what happened to that couple. Well, we finally have

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Speaker 1: an answer for because we got in touch with them

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Speaker 1: and all of us were blown away by what's happened

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Speaker 1: since their original call. We're gonna play the original audio

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Speaker 1: for you and then find out what's new right after

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Speaker 1: when we do your second date update update, next second

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Speaker 1: date update. Is it possible to be too hot to date?

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Speaker 1: Asking for a friend?

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Speaker 3: Nobody in this room could answer you.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, If you look on TikTok right now, there's all

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Speaker 1: these videos of beautiful models complaining that no men will

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Speaker 1: approach them because guys are too intimidated.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, my best friend is gorgeous and she

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Speaker 3: always had that problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, got to talk to them.

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Speaker 1: It was all part of Poser's hashtag ask a hot

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Speaker 1: Girl out without peeing yourself challenge. Yeah, didn't go so

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Speaker 1: well pants.

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Speaker 3: Sorry.

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Speaker 1: That might be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen,

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Speaker 1: is facing in her love life right now. She's worried

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Speaker 1: maybe she was too attractive during her first date. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, try not to make fun of you right

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Speaker 3: out of the gate.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel sorry for you already. What we want

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Speaker 1: to learn more? How you doing?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry? Can I just this was a one night phenomenon.

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Speaker 4: I am not that hotpo like.

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Speaker 1: A true hot girl. Anyway, we'll hang up on this girl.

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Speaker 3: What happened?

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Speaker 1: We're just joking around with you. Tell us about the

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Speaker 1: guy that you ended up going out with. What's his name?

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Speaker 4: His name is Ben. I don't even know if you

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Speaker 4: could call it going out last week, I was supposed

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Speaker 4: to meet up with my friend, just get some drinks

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Speaker 4: or whatever. Girl of nights. I have this thing where

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Speaker 4: I like to wear these one piece outfits now, like

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Speaker 4: a jumper, Like a jumper.

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Speaker 1: Yeah oh yeah, yeah, like those babies wear that you

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Speaker 1: zip up from the foot all the way to the neck.

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Speaker 3: Like I will say, I wish they had a zipper

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Speaker 3: down the wall, because going to the bathroom in a

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Speaker 3: jumper is really.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, I keep going. You're looking good.

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Speaker 4: So I'm saying, it's a bar waiting for my friend

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Speaker 4: and she is running late, and meanwhile guys are like

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Speaker 4: sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting with me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, girl.

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Speaker 4: And there's this one guy in particular who is just

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Speaker 4: like absolutely my type from head to toe, Like he

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Speaker 4: was even wearing like the outfit my high school crushy

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Speaker 4: corduroys and a little black polo show. And he had

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Speaker 4: a beard just like he was way taller than me.

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Speaker 1: It's good. It's good that you got over him. So

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Speaker 1: did the ban approach you then?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: I mean I thought maybe he was looking my way

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Speaker 4: a little bit, but like I said, I was really

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Speaker 4: feeling myself, so I went up to him.

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Speaker 3: As you watch all the other boys be jealous, not cool.

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Speaker 1: In your situation in saying that.

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Speaker 3: Jealous, I'm all about this.

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Speaker 4: Well, Okay, here's where it gets a little bit weird

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Speaker 4: because I've never had anything like this happened to me before.

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Speaker 4: So I'm like, I'm sitting with him and I'm chatting

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Speaker 4: with him, and I'm clearly into him. And the bartender

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Speaker 4: comes over and interrupts because some other guys sent me

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Speaker 1: Nice while you're talking to the guy that you wanted.

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Speaker 5: And competitive guy being like, hey, bro, sorry, I see you.

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Speaker 5: She walked to you, but I still got her over

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Speaker 3: Did did he seem to like that, like as like

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Speaker 4: I mean, he had a beard, so it was pretty

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Speaker 1: Was he mostly beard?

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Speaker 3: No idea like I picturely bore like five o'clock shadow

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Speaker 4: That was like a little bit awkward, So I kind

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Speaker 4: at the other guy like, uh, thanks, but what the

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Speaker 4: heck and just ignored him and went back to talking

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Speaker 4: to Ben.

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Speaker 1: Must have made him feel good.

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Speaker 4: But here's the thing, guys, Then it happened again.

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Speaker 3: What whoa wait? Saved dude? Like save dude, kid?

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Speaker 4: Now different dude, can you send me a link to

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Speaker 4: your jumps.

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Speaker 1: I want that.

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Speaker 4: I had like some sort of magical magnetism going on,

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Speaker 4: and I just I just I like saluted that guy awkwardly,

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Speaker 4: like okay, captain, and.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking about setting you a drink right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the bar seems like the coolest place. It's got captains,

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Speaker 1: it's got lumberjacks Brooksilver in the back saying like, how

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Speaker 1: do you do?

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Speaker 2: Do you? Mama?

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Speaker 1: Tell because I'm out of your commentation. That the weirdest bar.

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Speaker 1: How did this interaction between you and Ben? How did

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Speaker 1: that end?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 4: I mean eventually my friend let me know that she

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Speaker 4: wasn't coming, and I was like, that's actually fine.

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Speaker 1: I forgot about and.

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Speaker 4: We hung out for the rest of the night, had

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Speaker 4: a fantastic night. He gave me his number, I gave

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean that's basically been Did you.

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Speaker 3: Ask him if he was single? Like, point blank?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, no, I have not.

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Speaker 2: Actually, this is mind blowing.

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Speaker 5: Because even if he wasn't interested in you, the fact

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Speaker 5: that you were like literally swatting other men away in

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Speaker 1: That alone would make a guy just all you back in.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, any attention, not him.

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Speaker 4: I've been theorizing because obviously I've been thinking about nothing

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Speaker 3: Always that hot, like when they turn the lights on

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Speaker 3: you're like, you have to understand.

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Speaker 4: Like for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is,

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Speaker 4: I don't have to put an outfit together.

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Speaker 2: It's like no effort. It's like I don't want to

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Speaker 2: make up. Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: I'm with you, Okay, you and your magic Onesie. Hold on,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna play a song that we'll call Ben for you,

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Speaker 1: and we'll try and get your second date update.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I'm suddenly feeling very.

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Speaker 1: Hold on.

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Speaker 4: Update.

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Speaker 3: You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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Speaker 3: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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Speaker 3: right after you here Part two.

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Speaker 1: Hey, if you're just joining us, it's the sequel to

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Speaker 1: Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dream Costen and the

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Speaker 1: Magic Due Attracting Onesie.

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Speaker 3: Alexis just wants to link.

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Speaker 1: Because she went out and wore the one specific jumper

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Speaker 1: that made her look real fine that night, so guys

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Speaker 1: at the bar kept sending her drinks, which was a

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Speaker 1: good thing, except it was happening while she was sitting

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Speaker 1: down with the one dude that she really wanted to

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Speaker 1: be with, a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently

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Speaker 1: more beard than body. Yeah, but she's worried. Maybe all

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Speaker 1: that attention from other guys was a little bit intimidating

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Speaker 1: to Ben, and it could have scared him away.

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Speaker 3: How could a guy with a beard like that be intimidated.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what happened, but he's not asking me out,

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Speaker 4: so I mean, whatever it is, I want to know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe his beard got caught on the door and he's

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Speaker 1: just he can't get home to make the call to you.

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Speaker 1: So let's find out. Here we go. Hello, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it sounds right. Hey, is this Ben the beard?

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Speaker 2: What I mean? Ben?

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Speaker 1: Ben with a beard? This is Ben? Sorry, he sounded

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Speaker 1: exactly like I thought.

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Speaker 5: I think Ben just flustered everyone in the road.

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Speaker 3: I know Ben.

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Speaker 1: Sorry. My name is jeff I also have a beard,

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Speaker 1: but probably not as nice as yours. I host a

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Speaker 1: morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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Speaker 1: and we're hoping to talk with you a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 3: You can also hear some podcasts too, if you want

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Speaker 3: to look us up on like Spotify any of that.

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Speaker 3: We're there.

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Speaker 2: Uh all right, cool, that's all we wanted to say.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for your time, Den Sometimes. No, we're really calling

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Speaker 1: because we're doing something called a second date update. We're

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Speaker 1: trying to help one of our listeners get ahold of you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: her name's Kristen, and you met her out at the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it wasn't really a first date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Uh, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen. She had a

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Speaker 3: really cute jumper on. Most guys don't recognize that stuffe language.

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Speaker 2: No, Oh my gosh, I do know. I know who

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we got to talk to her. She sounded awesome,

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Speaker 5: She wasn't like full of herself at all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's super fun. She's right. Okay, I'm sorry. She

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Speaker 2: told you that we hung out or something stiled a

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Speaker 2: radio station and we hung out.

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Speaker 1: She said that she met you out at the bar

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Speaker 1: the other night and was having a really nice time

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Speaker 1: and then afterwards. It's been kind of hard getting ahold

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Speaker 1: of you and she's curious, why.

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Speaker 2: Wow, this is this is so crazy?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, this isn't a normal thing that happens,

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Speaker 1: but we're really hoping to help her out because she's

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Speaker 2: Who does that? Who does that? That's so she's just

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Speaker 2: kind of messed up.

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Speaker 3: What did she do something to you?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I was the situation was like I

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Speaker 2: saw her at a bar, and like she came over

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Speaker 2: to me and we started chatting, and she was really funny.

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Speaker 2: But I mean like she got like a drink from

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Speaker 2: another guy.

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Speaker 1: I guess, Yeah, she mentioned that to us a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Is that something that intimidated you?

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Speaker 2: I mean not really not at first. I mean I

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Speaker 2: like a second time, I was like, oh, hell no,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but how are you How are you blaming her?

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Speaker 2: That's not her fault. So, like the situation that happened

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Speaker 2: not doing that? Oh, I'm talking to this girl right now,

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Speaker 5: Talk man to man real quick and just say, hey, bro, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Right and you want to wrestle Beard's over now.

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Speaker 5: If he's like, back off, but if you're like, hey, man, politely,

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Speaker 5: I'm trying to talk with her, and you know, I

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Speaker 3: So what did he say?

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Speaker 2: He said he didn't send it.

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Speaker 1: What.

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Speaker 3: Oh, so then you just obviously got the wrong dude, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like it was somebody else.

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Speaker 1: The bartender said.

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Speaker 2: It wrong, No, because like the bartender pointed to the

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because they're across the room. So the bartender was.

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Speaker 3: Like, from him, So you went to the bartender.

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Speaker 2: So I walked over to the bartender and I asked

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Speaker 3: He just pointed the dude out.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, he didn't want to start or something.

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Speaker 2: It was just weird that he was being coy and

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Speaker 1: That Kristen does.

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Speaker 2: She pays the bartender to like send a drink to

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Speaker 5: Way do you believe that I'm going to start doing this?

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Speaker 3: You think?

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Speaker 1: Do you think that's true?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Because the second he like admitted it, he was like,

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Speaker 2: don't tell her she does this often, Like she comes

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Speaker 3: Month or so, spot like he doesn't. He didn't for

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Speaker 1: That's kind of nice. Yeah, i'mot to keep track of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you think that's a red flag? You don't

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Speaker 2: That's so it's so weird, Like I feel like it's.

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Speaker 3: Just trying to pump up her own confidence that some

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Speaker 3: another guy, which is a really intimidating thing to do

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Speaker 1: True, I mean, it sounds so outlandish. You guys are

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Speaker 1: all believing it I'm still not sure if this is

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Speaker 1: actually true. Okay, I think you should just ask Kristin directly. Kristin,

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Speaker 1: did you pay the bartender to send you drinks?

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Speaker 4: Of course not.

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Speaker 2: That's ridiculous, Ben, I forgot to tell you.

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Speaker 1: Christen's on the other line listening. She wants to talk

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Speaker 4: So embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed, but this is embarrassing for everyone.

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Speaker 4: Okay, first of all, that is not even Drew. That's

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Speaker 4: complete nonsense. I would never do that. But let's say

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Speaker 5: I don't believe her.

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Speaker 4: I was listening and Ben's all like, oh, she's messed up,

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, have you never seen the movie Clueless?

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Speaker 3: Clueless?

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Speaker 4: Remember she sends herself talkless and flowers, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: In high school. I don't think they could be at a.

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Speaker 1: Year to somebody that's denying it. You sure do know

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, you guys. A magician never reveals their secret.

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Speaker 1: There we go, Okay, let me get random. Is it

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Speaker 3: Does it even matter?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 3: Who cares? She sounds awesome.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you can kind of hear what she's saying

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Speaker 2: right now. She's making it seem like it's not that

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, if you're starting off on the wrong

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Speaker 4: So you are, like, I feel like you're taking this

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, then if you think that I'm taking

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Speaker 2: I'll ask you again, did you do it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Of course I did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 5: Though she got a flirty and it's like all of

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Speaker 2: It works.

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Speaker 3: It's what Dane is. It's like, you know, trying to

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Speaker 3: She just used a different method.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I

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Speaker 1: do need to let Ben know that there's another woman

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Speaker 1: who wants to send you a gift card to go

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Speaker 1: on a date. Would you like that gift? Hard?

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Speaker 2: Ben?

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Speaker 1: Because Ben, if you say yes, then you can go

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Speaker 1: out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that.

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Speaker 2: Uh you know what? Sure? Yeah, why not? But you

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Speaker 2: have one strike against you right now? You know you

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Speaker 2: on a warning?

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Speaker 3: Okay, sounds like a naughty thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay. Agree. You know I have never ever cheated

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Speaker 1: To insist that no one else to worry.

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Speaker 4: It's brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: It's been a few months since we did that second date,

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Speaker 1: and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back

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Speaker 3: But we don't.

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Speaker 1: Only Ben agreed. Kristen actually sent us an email calling

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Speaker 1: Ben a bunch of names. I don't know why, but Ben,

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Speaker 1: can you shed some light on the situation. Tell us

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Speaker 1: what happened? You do?

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Speaker 3: Maybe they were sweetheart, Maybe she was calling you sweetheart

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Speaker 3: and babe that's the name.

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Speaker 1: I can tell you that.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 3: Dude?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I absolutely know why she refused to be

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Speaker 2: but it was a different one than we went to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we give you a gift certificate. So

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Speaker 3: what happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no. And I was like, you know,

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Speaker 2: which is I decided to pull the same joke that

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Speaker 3: You had pretend women sending you drinks.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, that's it. I got there early and I told

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Speaker 2: my day comes in. Yeah, and maybe wait like five minutes,

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Speaker 2: and then can you bring me a vodka soda and say, like,

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Speaker 2: point to the cutest girl in the bar, like, say

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Speaker 2: it's from her. Do you mind?

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Speaker 1: That's exactly what she did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I thought it was obvious, obviously funny, right right,

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Speaker 2: But then when the bartender did it, she was furious.

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Speaker 3: Why Why was she so mad? Did she think you

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Speaker 2: Or I don't think that she really got the joke

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Speaker 2: kind of play damage control, and I like rushed up

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Speaker 2: like it was a joke, and then she like got

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Speaker 1: Whoa, she was the one that came up with this joke.

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Speaker 3: It's not as funny when a guy does it. Do

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Speaker 1: You can't do the joke.

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Speaker 3: But she seems so cool, not so unstable.

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Speaker 1: That's what happens with all those cool girls. They're cool

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Speaker 1: one second, nightmares the next Bundy.

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Speaker 3: So was that the end?

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Speaker 2: Well? Yeah, I mean I guess she just got a

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Speaker 3: Obviously she really was doing it because she had kind

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Speaker 2: Yeah it was a bummer, but whatever.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, did you get that woman's number that sent you

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Speaker 3: the drink?

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Speaker 2: If I can get it, will you guys help me

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's for sure.

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Speaker 3: It obviously went so well the first

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Speaker 4: Time brooking Jeffrey in the morning,