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Speaker 1: that what we're doing? Apparently that's what happened with one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners Aiden. Oh no, so, Aiden, please tell

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Speaker 1: me that you were at a UFC fight watching the

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Speaker 1: melee in the octagon. Is that what you meant or

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Speaker 1: are we talking about your fists? No, man, it was

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Speaker 1: It was my fist, but it was all in my head. Wait,

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Speaker 1: what what I'll get there? That's oh my god? Well, no,

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Speaker 1: wonder anyone is not calling you back. Nobody likes fighting

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Speaker 1: if it does sound kind of weird at first glance. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but Aiden, I mean take us back to the ginning.

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Speaker 1: What's your date's name? Her name is Kim Okay, she

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Speaker 1: was cool. Yeah. I met her online and her profile

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Speaker 1: said my father used to say, whatever you do, do

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Speaker 1: When you laugh, you laugh hard, you laugh loudly. When

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Speaker 1: you eat, eat a ton of food. Right, Dad's like,

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Speaker 1: we have a lot in common. I'd like to feed

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Speaker 1: going to feed you a lot of food. Everyone says

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Speaker 1: So would you guys do? How'd you guys bond? It

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm assuming this bar has food. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: still that's not like a choice of food. He drinks

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Speaker 1: to eat. I don't think that that is a bad expectation. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this to rest? Maybe this is how the fight started. Yes,

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Speaker 1: there was food. Okay. She was the one that suggested

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Speaker 1: She was hilarious. We joked a lot, and you know,

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Speaker 1: And she liked the self punch. Yeah, she thought it

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Speaker 1: Second texting in a new relationship can be so dangerous

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Speaker 1: because they can ask you, Hey, what do you want

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Speaker 1: forget that. That's why when our listener Aiden said, Hey,

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Speaker 1: get my number? Good question. We had a listener give

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Speaker 1: a second Date Update. We're trying to help Aiden figure

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