WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Stop That Ugly Duckling

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, there's gonna be so many awkward conversations this week

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<v Speaker 1>because it's Thanksgiving week. Podcast, we have a classic Awkward

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday phone call for your enjoyments. Maybe your preparation on

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<v Speaker 1>how you're going to handle your own awkward conversations coming up?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, yeah, you know, or what not to do? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, all things.

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<v Speaker 1>All the things are important, and what's most important is

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<v Speaker 1>you and being here and listening.

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<v Speaker 2>We love to read your comments. Yes, we love it.

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<v Speaker 2>And kill a.

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<v Speaker 1>Kim said, Oh my gosh, Kim from Queens, New York City,

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<v Speaker 1>sending love to y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys seriously help me keep my day moving.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, jose is my brother's name, and he wanted me

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<v Speaker 1>to give a shout out to all the joss.

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<v Speaker 2>In the world.

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<v Speaker 4>Stand up Joseph, because you count too.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really hard not to like someone named jose. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never met anyone I didn't like.

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<v Speaker 4>Name hose controversial.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like there's a lot of people that don't

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<v Speaker 5>like Jose.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I love you, you're the best. I'm not the best.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, here we go. Awkward Tuesday starts now.

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<v Speaker 5>It happens in movies and reality TV shows all the time.

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<v Speaker 5>People meddling in the dating lives of their other friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, in real life all the time, you know, is.

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<v Speaker 5>It okay to do that? Because if it is? And Brook,

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<v Speaker 5>after this is over, Alexis says, she has some thoughts

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<v Speaker 5>on your current situationship with.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy that you live with, just if you're open

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<v Speaker 2>to them it's a marriage.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, but Brook's life aside. We are about to

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<v Speaker 5>do some love life meddling today because one of our

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<v Speaker 5>listeners swears she has a really, really good reason she

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<v Speaker 5>needs to stop her close friend from going out on

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<v Speaker 5>a blind date and she wants our help to block it.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I know you're skeptical, but you might be on her

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<v Speaker 5>side when you hear why in a brand new Awkward

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<v Speaker 5>Tuesday phone call. Next, It's awkward, It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 5>As an adult going out with high schoolers. Bad idea,

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<v Speaker 5>terrible idea. Get word, that's what I said, bad idea?

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<v Speaker 2>So DoD Chalantley though.

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<v Speaker 5>What about going out with people you knew from back

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<v Speaker 5>when you were in high school? Is that okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Totally different?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, one of our listeners, Carrie says, absolutely not. What

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<v Speaker 5>terrible horrible idea to date your old high school class mate.

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<v Speaker 5>Apparently that's why she needs our help today, Carrie, Welcome

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<v Speaker 5>to the show. Hi thinks sounds like high school drama

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<v Speaker 5>is still following you right into adulthood.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh yeah, it's weird. And let me just let me

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<v Speaker 3>just specify. I'm not opposed to other people dating people

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<v Speaker 3>that they knew in high school, but not my friend Justin.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, just Justin.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not even other people from your high school.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just Justin.

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<v Speaker 5>This is a special case. What's going on with Justin?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? So just and our friends, we've been friends, like

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<v Speaker 3>you said, since high school. We're now in our late twenties.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, And the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Day he told me, hey, I'm going on a date.

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<v Speaker 6>It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't even imagine who I'm going to date with.

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<v Speaker 3>And it turned out to be this girl we knew

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<v Speaker 3>in high school, Catalina Leana.

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<v Speaker 5>What's with Catalina?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she was the awkward girl. She was like kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like science peaky, a little.

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<v Speaker 2>Still bullying, the awkward girl in high school. Are we

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<v Speaker 2>over that?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, no, no, no, Like she knew she was awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>She was like the awkward smart science. Ye girl, listen,

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<v Speaker 3>I was a little awkward. It's just I was able

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<v Speaker 3>to play it off better than she was.

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<v Speaker 5>You must have had somebody at your school who was

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<v Speaker 5>like that at handling their mess and that was the awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you better at chemistry? That was our chemistry class?

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<v Speaker 5>Right, Yeah, in about that. So that's bad news that

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<v Speaker 5>your friend might be going out with your awkward kid

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<v Speaker 5>from high school.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm going to give you a little more backstory

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<v Speaker 3>before I tell you why that's bad. Okay, he got

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<v Speaker 3>hooked up through another friend of ours from high school

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<v Speaker 3>who was connected. She had a crush on him from

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<v Speaker 3>high school. Blah blah blah blah. So they like got

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<v Speaker 3>each other's phone numbers. We're talking. He still has no

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<v Speaker 3>clue what she looks like. No one could find her

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<v Speaker 3>on social media. Well I was curious, and I discovered

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<v Speaker 3>that her parents got divorced and she took her mom's

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<v Speaker 3>maiden name. So I found her on social media under

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<v Speaker 3>her maiden name.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, snooping, So why are you doing all this work?

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<v Speaker 2>He's just going out on.

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<v Speaker 3>A date because she's gorgeous. I mean, she's like Scarlet

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<v Speaker 3>Johansson Britain's met.

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<v Speaker 5>That's amazing. Why is it bad? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Generally that is great for her. I'm happy for her,

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<v Speaker 3>But here's the same guys. I don't want him to know,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm I kind of have a thing for Justin.

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<v Speaker 7>It we've known each other for so long.

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<v Speaker 3>It just a few years ago started, and I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>ready for him to know. I need more time. But

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<v Speaker 3>if he gets put in front of this girl, I

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<v Speaker 3>have no chance.

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<v Speaker 5>This is why it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Good being nerdier in high school, because she actually has

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<v Speaker 4>probably a cool personality too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, they're not helping, Jose. I mean you sounded petty

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<v Speaker 1>and I get why you're jealous. Can you admit it

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<v Speaker 1>that all makes sense?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I just I don't think I could compete.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you don't want Justin going out with the now

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<v Speaker 5>pretty girl? Is Justin the type of guy that's into

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<v Speaker 5>pretty women?

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<v Speaker 3>Or is there any guy that's not into pretty women?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, no, please, I'd prefer an ugly, stupid woman.

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<v Speaker 2>So wait, what do you want to do though?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you just finally want to tell him how you

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<v Speaker 1>feel before he goes out with her?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not ready at I need more time, but

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<v Speaker 3>I just need this figure out to convince him not

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<v Speaker 3>to go out with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, you could just stay in this like nothing zone,

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<v Speaker 2>but I have a crush.

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<v Speaker 5>Okah, I mean this is tricky, Like Alexis, what do

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<v Speaker 5>you think about this situation, trying to stop your friend

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<v Speaker 5>from going out with somebody hotter?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's the nicest thing to do,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would do it probably myself too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but why didn't you just tell the guy that

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<v Speaker 2>you like him? Yeah, Like, you're in your late twenties

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<v Speaker 2>at this point, you got to shoot your shot. How

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<v Speaker 2>many decades have you been waiting?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe she's waiting till he gets married and then divorced,

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<v Speaker 5>so that his confidence is so low he'll settle for anything.

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<v Speaker 5>That could be a good strategy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what if he likes you too, and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are both just living in this world of not telling

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<v Speaker 1>each other.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's kind of why I feel like I

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<v Speaker 3>need a little more time, Like I haven't really tried

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<v Speaker 3>to look for the signals and stuff, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like lighting the fire. Now you realize, Oh, he's

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<v Speaker 4>not going to be single.

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<v Speaker 2>For fully like him until he found somebody hotter. And smarter.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, listen, let me say, like he stated, other girls,

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<v Speaker 3>and this is going to make me sound really superficial,

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<v Speaker 3>but they didn't feel like competition to me, and so

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that I really realized it until like

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<v Speaker 3>a woman came along that would totally blow me out

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<v Speaker 3>of the water. Now I wouldn't have a chance.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, now the gloves are coming off this.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want our help doing?

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<v Speaker 6>Then?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, are we calling Justin and telling him not to

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<v Speaker 2>go out with her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Yeah, this is convincing Justin not to go out

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<v Speaker 3>with her, telling them that you like him exactly.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, chances that's all our job to come up with

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<v Speaker 8>a way to convince Justin to cancel his date with

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<v Speaker 8>the now gorgeous looking Catalina without letting her know that

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<v Speaker 8>she's gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, listen, you don't have to keep rubbing in how

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<v Speaker 3>gorgeous she is. I get. I obviously know what I've

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<v Speaker 3>seen her.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you can be named Catalina without being

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely drop gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 5>She's not gorgeous, She's just stunning. And we're going to

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<v Speaker 5>Justin to not go out with her. We'll give us

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit of advice and let you make your

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<v Speaker 5>awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward, it's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 5>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. If you're just joining us

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<v Speaker 5>for this awkward Tuesday phone call, it's a story that

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<v Speaker 5>really speaks to my soul. The awkward kid in high

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<v Speaker 5>school who was maybe a little shy, did school plays

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<v Speaker 5>and chess club, and during field trips he would crawl

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<v Speaker 5>underneath the seats on the bus and then pop up

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<v Speaker 5>from below and say guess who. They were completely undateable

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<v Speaker 5>back then, but a few years ago by and now

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<v Speaker 5>they've matured mentally and physically.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you still do that bus thing.

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<v Speaker 5>And that ugly duckling has grown into an undeniable, bubbling

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<v Speaker 5>cauldron of raw desire. That's acid, it's undeniable. And your listener, Carrie,

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<v Speaker 5>she's not that person. She's actually kind of threatened by

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<v Speaker 5>that person. That's why she wants our help to stop

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<v Speaker 5>her friend Justin from going out with the awkward girl

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<v Speaker 5>from high school who's now blossomed into the female me.

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<v Speaker 5>Why why did you want to do that, Jeff? Because

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, secretly, she does have some feelings for justin,

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<v Speaker 5>but isn't ready to tell him that Carrie. Your goal

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<v Speaker 5>is to convince him to not go out with.

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<v Speaker 3>Her, right, yeah, exactly?

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<v Speaker 2>All right?

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<v Speaker 5>But how are we gonna do that? I think Jose

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<v Speaker 5>has an idea for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so look, we kind of want him to just

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<v Speaker 4>naturally not like her anymore and pass up on the date.

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<v Speaker 4>We have to do the old fashioned high school trick, start.

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<v Speaker 5>A rumor about her.

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<v Speaker 1>What's that?

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<v Speaker 4>I heard she made out with her and it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>that long ago.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you that brother's review of the kids was not good?

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<v Speaker 3>You are the words I mean. I think it would

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<v Speaker 3>be effective, but that's the little.

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<v Speaker 5>Means that's gross. We're gonna You're gonna have to play

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit dirty to get what you want. What

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<v Speaker 5>do you think, bro?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, listen, I don't think it's about putting the hot

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<v Speaker 1>girl down.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's about building him up. He doesn't even

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<v Speaker 2>know this girl is hot.

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<v Speaker 1>All you need to say is, listen, you are so hot,

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<v Speaker 1>you're so beyond blind.

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<v Speaker 2>Dates like so above that. Then you tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Him I have the most gorgeous friend ever that I

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<v Speaker 1>have to set you up with. She's funny, she's everything

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<v Speaker 1>you've ever been looking for like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't tell you who it is.

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<v Speaker 5>It's Brooke. She wants to go with your guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Competition and then you drop it on him later when

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready that the mysterious perfect woman is you?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh wow?

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<v Speaker 3>Like what if I meet him at a restaurant, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>the one that walks in, Then I have to deal

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<v Speaker 3>with the potential rejection of him being like, what are

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<v Speaker 3>you doing here?

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<v Speaker 1>All guy friends want to sleep with their girlfriends.

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<v Speaker 5>There is Brooks advice just sleep around. All right, let's

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<v Speaker 5>just give him a call and we're gonna let you

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<v Speaker 5>make your awkward Tuesday phone call and try and convince

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<v Speaker 5>him not to go out on his date. We're here,

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<v Speaker 5>We're here for you, all right, We're down the number

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<v Speaker 5>right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, good luck?

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<v Speaker 6>Hello? Hey, how's it going? Hey care? Bara? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Not much? How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just killing some time before I have to go

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<v Speaker 6>to work? What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 7>She wanted to chat say hey, oh, did Billy get

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<v Speaker 7>a hold of you?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I assume you're talking about the blind date that

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<v Speaker 6>I mentioned the other day.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, no, I just meant about hanging out next weekend.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, we're gonna Now that you mention it, are

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<v Speaker 7>you Are you still doing that.

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<v Speaker 6>He's still going to hang out with I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>very I'm very curious. I mean, he mentioned that Catalina's

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<v Speaker 6>doing all kinds of neat things right now, and I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know, I just figured, what the hell? Yeah, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, this is kind of weird. But I kind

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<v Speaker 7>of heard something really random recently about.

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<v Speaker 6>Her, like a rumor, A rumor, what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, so I heard that she was at a party

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<v Speaker 7>like a month ago and kind of made out with

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<v Speaker 7>their brother.

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<v Speaker 6>What where did you hear this?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know, just randomly.

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<v Speaker 6>Randomly what?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I don't know. But like, blind needs are really weird,

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<v Speaker 7>aren't they? Like, are you sure you really wanted a

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<v Speaker 7>blind date? I mean you're so cool and like you're

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<v Speaker 7>good looking, and you really want to like go through

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<v Speaker 7>the awkwardness of a blind date and all that.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean it's just a blind date. I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>going to marry the girl. Just figured meet up for

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<v Speaker 6>a cup of coffee then just talk, you know, you

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<v Speaker 6>know what?

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<v Speaker 7>How about this? Like I have a friend, she's awesome,

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<v Speaker 7>she's great, she's super hot. What have I set you.

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<v Speaker 3>Up with her? Instead?

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<v Speaker 6>You you want to set me up on a blind date.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it's not a blind date because I've seen her

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<v Speaker 7>and I know her well. But like Helen, and no

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<v Speaker 7>one has seen her.

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<v Speaker 9>None of us is like talk to her in a

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<v Speaker 9>long time. I mean, I guess you guys have been texting.

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<v Speaker 9>That's something, but like you.

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<v Speaker 7>Know, I don't know. This might be better.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, tell me about this friend of yours.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, she was great, you know, like you would.

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<v Speaker 7>I think you really like her. She's you would totally

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<v Speaker 7>get along. I know you guys have a lot in common,

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<v Speaker 7>and I know one hundred percent that she does not

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<v Speaker 7>make out with her brother at party.

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<v Speaker 6>I certainly hope not.

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<v Speaker 5>Laughing too hard?

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<v Speaker 6>Justin, Hey, justin, Well, are you at a party or something?

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<v Speaker 6>What's all that laughter?

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<v Speaker 5>I think we're kind of a party. We're we're a

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<v Speaker 5>morning radio show. Justin called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Why did you go.

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<v Speaker 2>With Thodays Advice?

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<v Speaker 5>I thought that was solid, though.

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<v Speaker 6>I am so lost right now.

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<v Speaker 5>You're on the radio right now, man, Okay, we're doing

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<v Speaker 5>a segment called an Awkward Tuesday phone Call. Carrie reached

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<v Speaker 5>out wanting a little bit of help to talk to

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<v Speaker 5>you about your upcoming blind date with this girl. We're

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<v Speaker 5>not so sure it's a good idea for you to go.

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<v Speaker 6>Out with her because of the brother thing or I.

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<v Speaker 5>Mean, that's just one of many many.

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<v Speaker 1>Reasons, because car Carrie does have someone really cool that

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to set you up with.

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<v Speaker 6>Harry, What exactly is going on here? This is is

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<v Speaker 6>a little weird.

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<v Speaker 10>Okay, listen, justin, I I haven't been super honest with you.

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<v Speaker 10>I have not been the best friend in the sense

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<v Speaker 10>that I discovered Katalina's social.

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<v Speaker 6>Media, and well you found her social media. What does

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<v Speaker 6>she look like?

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<v Speaker 5>That sound is probably all you need to know.

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<v Speaker 4>Just new rumor coming in. I hear she looks like

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<v Speaker 4>oscar the Grouse, like a muppet whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>Who cares what she looks like. You're not the type

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<v Speaker 5>of guy that bases a relationship on looks. Are you?

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<v Speaker 5>Just come on?

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<v Speaker 6>Like I said, at the very least, we would just

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<v Speaker 6>get a cup of coffee and catch up a little bit.

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<v Speaker 6>That doesn't mean we go on the second date or anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it starts with coffee drinking. Next thing you know,

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<v Speaker 5>brothers are kissing.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I don't feel like any of this is helping you. Guys,

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<v Speaker 3>did you.

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<v Speaker 2>Need to do the thing?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, okay, okay, I think this has become too

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<v Speaker 7>much of an awkward quagmire for me not to say

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<v Speaker 7>the thing that I have been trying to not say.

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<v Speaker 2>Say the thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Carrie, what thing?

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<v Speaker 7>What?

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<v Speaker 6>I still don't know what the hell is going on here?

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<v Speaker 7>We have such a good connection, and I just kind

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<v Speaker 7>of wondering if, like, maybe there's a mutual attraction beyond

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<v Speaker 7>friendship between us.

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<v Speaker 5>It is, m what do you think?

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<v Speaker 6>So you dragged me through a whole radio show to

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<v Speaker 6>finally spill the beams here.

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<v Speaker 5>Be maybe she was nervous.

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<v Speaker 7>Obviously, I realize now this is not the.

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<v Speaker 9>Right way to do it. I just I just thought

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<v Speaker 9>it like maybe we needed some more organic time to

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<v Speaker 9>let it evolve. But then I saw Katalina and I

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<v Speaker 9>would have no chance if you met her.

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<v Speaker 1>That is not true, justin don't you think that Carrie

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing? Could you see something more between you two?

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<v Speaker 6>Have you ever picked I wouldn't have been friends with

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<v Speaker 6>her for the last decade if I didn't think she

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<v Speaker 6>was amazing. You We've talked about this, you always you

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<v Speaker 6>know undersell yourself, see, and to be perfectly honest, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I think you kind of went about this the wrong way.

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<v Speaker 6>Is so finally getting this out in the open. But hey,

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<v Speaker 6>might make a great story for our first date.

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<v Speaker 5>So justin you're into the idea of maybe going out

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<v Speaker 5>with Carrie here, not a friend date, like a romantic date.

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<v Speaker 6>I wouldn't mind one bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Really it sounds justin like you have liked her for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time.

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<v Speaker 6>To be probably honest, I have.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Oh my god, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Was afraid that I was in the but you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I just kind of I just you know, like you said,

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<v Speaker 6>we've been friends for a long time. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 6>how you felt, so I didn't want to like ruin

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<v Speaker 6>a good thing.

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<v Speaker 7>But yeah, both kind of been idiots.

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<v Speaker 5>In all of our years here. I never thought brooks

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<v Speaker 5>advice of just sleep with all of your friends what's

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<v Speaker 5>the worst happen would actually work. Good job, bro, you

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<v Speaker 5>gonna find out.

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<v Speaker 2>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Actually, I think that one

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<v Speaker 2>was really cute. Yeah, we were. I had an update

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<v Speaker 2>from them.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a lot of drama to just ask someone

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<v Speaker 1>out that you've known for a long.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Just telling your closest friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I have a crush on you.

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<v Speaker 5>Crossing that borders hard.

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<v Speaker 2>They can't kiss you. That's what I'm straight.

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<v Speaker 5>For, straight for it after ten years of friendship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Bill, the first time I kissed one of my

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<v Speaker 1>best friends, Oh this is I was like sixteen, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like my second kiss I'd ever had

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<v Speaker 1>and the first one went horribly wrong. So this one

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<v Speaker 1>was really good and I got so excited.

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<v Speaker 2>I high fived him afterwards.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, I was like.

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<v Speaker 2>And he was like, she goes Brooke, don't ever do

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<v Speaker 2>that again. You're close enough he could tell you that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's still one of my best buddies.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so any this couple, Pa, I think what I think.

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<v Speaker 1>What this is is if you have a crush, just

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<v Speaker 1>tell him all right, there's nothing, yeah, friendship and then

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<v Speaker 1>when that backfires, call us okay and we'll do it

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<v Speaker 1>another awkward Tuesday for you, or you can always submit

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