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Speaker 1: Lemagne the guy he stood the plane in this Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: and we got our guest hosts in the building who

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Speaker 1: was here before me again this morning, and he came

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Speaker 1: the right way this morning, ladies and gentlemen, Ray J

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Speaker 1: is here. Dropped a bomb for Ray J. BIGI is here.

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Speaker 1: I'm happy day too, No nonsense, Ray to day. I'm

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Speaker 1: here to handle business and give my and give my

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Speaker 1: give my opinions on things. Ray is a big mogul man.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why it is hilarious to you. Right,

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Speaker 1: Ray did the show yesterday. You know race had people

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Speaker 1: been hitting them up, crazy Racey. Even walking down the street,

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Speaker 1: people like, oh I heard you on broklast club today, yadoya.

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Speaker 1: So Ray came in here today with all his products.

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Speaker 1: Yes he did. Yes, he didn't leave nothing nothing. I

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Speaker 1: see one of these blood bags. No, that's that's a

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Speaker 1: merry bag. That's not it's a mirry the company and

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Speaker 1: marry the gene company. I asked my wage, he said,

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Speaker 1: what are they? Blood? Black? Quite blood? I know That's

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Speaker 1: why I like it. But they got them. They got

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Speaker 1: blue ones and I think other colors too. You got

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Speaker 1: all his raycom products, Herbert rawling here, crystals, gonna be

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Speaker 1: here doing breakfast this morning, yea. And then also I

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Speaker 1: was hot yesterday, so I got the Raytronics fan cool

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Speaker 1: me down. Now, I ain't doing that no more, no,

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Speaker 1: because my my, my breast was out yesterday and it

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Speaker 1: was you know, my breath. You knew, you knew you

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Speaker 1: had those breaths before you took You didn't know now

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Speaker 1: when I was looking in the mirror fam earlier that day,

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Speaker 1: a little perky, just so I was hid and kind

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Speaker 1: of here from the whole thing. But then y'all caught

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Speaker 1: me here cut you on the side. Yeah, I saw

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Speaker 1: the drop. I'm like, they called me. And then it

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Speaker 1: was like mean. It was very meanful, Yanul, so good

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Speaker 1: about it though. I don't mind being meanful. But today

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Speaker 1: I want to showcase a different side, to show the balance.

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Speaker 1: And then Crystal Friday is when I go back to

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Speaker 1: lit right, Okay, Okay, okay, what I'm saying Crystal Friday,

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Speaker 1: Crystal Coming Friday, Crystal Coming Friday. Crystal here right now,

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Speaker 1: Crystal squad here right now. Shout out to Jacu JC Yes.

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Speaker 1: Um but yeah no, we were here and um and

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Speaker 1: we actually setting up a Crystal campaign downstairs, a commercial

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Speaker 1: and stuff too. So if I got my air piece

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Speaker 1: people downstairs. Ray J emotion boy, Crystals, My wife and

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Speaker 1: I in business with Crystals. Crystals coming to our home

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Speaker 1: state of South Carolina. That's what it did. Ye yes, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah. So shout out to Crystal one more time.

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Speaker 1: They've been doing some real cool stuff with ray J.

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Speaker 1: As far as our commercial, you gotta drop on the

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Speaker 1: box for two Chains too. You know he used to

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Speaker 1: create a walking into directly to Crystals. Got Dope to

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Speaker 1: change man, Two Chains super fly too. Come on, we

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Speaker 1: had on that the brunch. Come on, man. Now, For

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Speaker 1: heavy on the East Coast. It's a restaurant that's else Sliders,

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Speaker 1: So you know the slider Burgers slide of chicken sandwiches.

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Speaker 1: They got slid they got breakfast everything. Okay, yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: let's got the new breakfast too. They got the new

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Speaker 1: breakfast from six to eleven. They got the side chicks

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Speaker 1: Like you ever wanted a side chick? Yes, um, but

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Speaker 1: we're talking about them, were talking about sliders, talking about you. No,

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Speaker 1: not like that. But this is your But here's what's crazy.

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Speaker 1: This is your opportunity to experience a side chick the

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Speaker 1: right way, like how you did that? Right? But ray

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Speaker 1: J's getting in Mooshity got the mascarat out and uh

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Speaker 1: They got a book we over me. We're gonna be

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Speaker 1: stop doing the mask garat on camera. You're giving away

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Speaker 1: me yesterday. Were mad about that. Why because people be

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Envy, They you know, graves be jumping out.

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Speaker 1: So now I just wanted to show everybody that you know,

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you want to go gray, die

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Speaker 1: Next will tell you the youngest person I think to

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Speaker 1: winning forty eight million dollars. We'll talk about the Next

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Speaker 1: is the breakfast Club Morning Only. Everybody is DJ Envy

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Speaker 1: Scholamine the guy. We are the breakfast Club. We got

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Speaker 1: our guest hosts Ray J in the building. Yes, indeed

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Speaker 1: for show man, I feel at home today, Man, you

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Speaker 1: There was an earthquake yes today that killed so far

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Speaker 1: over four thousand people tonight, the most powerful earthquakes that

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Speaker 1: the day. We now know more than thirty seven hundred

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Speaker 1: making this plea. We have informations hundreds of patients are

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Speaker 1: quote deployed quickly to the region. Act happen Monday morning.

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Speaker 1: Why was that earthquake, so deadly man, Lord ha Mercy

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Speaker 1: after shot man. They said fifty six hundred buildings were destroyed.

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Speaker 1: But if you think about it, if those are buildings

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Speaker 1: you play with mother nature if you want to. You

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Speaker 1: if you want to, when when when? When? When? When

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Speaker 1: God is ready to shut things down and things get

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Speaker 1: shut down? Yeah, and it's not even there's nothing you

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Speaker 1: can do about it. Don't matter what your financial status is,

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Speaker 1: don't matter what your race is, your sexuality, what you

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Speaker 1: identify as. When it's when it's over, it's over. Yeah. Now,

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Speaker 1: in some good news in Canada, an eighteen year old

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Speaker 1: time she ever played the lotto because she just turned eighteen,

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Speaker 1: the lotto. So she just won forty eight million dollars.

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Speaker 1: How she put up, didn't say, I don't even know

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Speaker 1: if she's single or what. But she got forty million dollars.

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Speaker 1: You said, you don't know if she's single. That's what happens.

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Speaker 1: I don't know people gonna be hollering her, like Craze,

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Speaker 1: what did you talk right after you? How much she

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Speaker 1: paid the tickets? And you talk about a single or

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Speaker 1: what I gonna put Logan on? It got crazy? Scott

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Speaker 1: gonna fly Logan to Canada? Why not? Man? I wonder how?

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Speaker 1: I wonder how Canada's tax is at eight. I know

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Speaker 1: it's different from here. I know that having that money

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Speaker 1: so I prayed that, Yeah, I pray that young lady

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Speaker 1: do with that money. Gonna reach out now a single

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Speaker 1: A single ticket in Washington yesterday matched all winning numbers

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Speaker 1: it's not you, then it's not you. Then I didn't

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Speaker 1: even know Powerball is on Monday. I thought power Ball was.

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Speaker 1: Look at that one is probably might have wanted something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you could have won something. That's time I played with Saturday.

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Speaker 1: When when did you feel like they change these things,

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Speaker 1: the bigger, these jack pots getting I don't remember Powerball

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Speaker 1: and seven million dollars. Oh they took the tax run. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they took it. They didn't want to pay no monthly

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Speaker 1: when they claimed it already. They just want yesterday. No, no,

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Speaker 1: that's what they would win when they pick it up,

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Speaker 1: they already know they won. No, they're just waking up

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Speaker 1: didn't even look back. Congratulations to that. It depends, but yeah, congratulations.

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Speaker 1: And lastly, AMC Movie Theater. I think this is pretty small.

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Speaker 1: They should have did this a long time ago. They're

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Speaker 1: charging more for good seats in movie theater. So you

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Speaker 1: know how you have the middle roll and it's closer,

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Speaker 1: they're charging for that now. Now you know, before you

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Speaker 1: So it's the same thing if you're on a plane

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Speaker 1: you want to fly first class or Delta comfort or

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Speaker 1: the same thing. You want to go to the game.

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Speaker 1: If you closer, it's gonna cause you more money. So

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Speaker 1: now movie theaters are starting to do that as well.

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Speaker 1: The reason I really don't like that for movie theaters

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Speaker 1: is because you're just getting people to come back to

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Speaker 1: movie theaters because really the best feat to watch a

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Speaker 1: movie is in your house, right, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: So to charge people more money for a better seat,

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Speaker 1: they shouldn't do that, And they probably got to do

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Speaker 1: that or closed the movie. They're probably aren't making no money,

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Speaker 1: the movie theater having to pay more money for a

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Speaker 1: better seat. Sit your ass in the back. No, I'm

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Speaker 1: sitting my ass at home. The top seats is cool, too,

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Speaker 1: little bit into a fake kiss. Luked Lauren London, making

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Speaker 1: doctor Umar proud and really mighty got picked up in

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Speaker 1: the movie. But the life was me and Andrew thinking

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Speaker 1: about launching the podcast. Man, that's what we're thinking about.

424
00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:03,480
Speaker 1: I thought Rayel about to get up it kiss me.

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Speaker 1: Man got him in the middle of the brain got

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Speaker 1: up and he was like, wait a minute, are you

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Speaker 1: telling me that you can kiss and not kiss? Start

428
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Speaker 1: walking towards that about it's real early right now. But

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Speaker 1: that I wonder why. I guess she just didn't feel

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Speaker 1: comfortable kissing anybody. Drop on a clothes bomb because she

431
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Speaker 1: lives in the doctor rum. That's why. Because doctor what

432
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Speaker 1: what Doctor Umar we're talking about? You don't believe in that.

433
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Speaker 1: You don't believe in black on white relationships, you don't

434
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Speaker 1: believe black on white people should be together. Black and

435
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,879
Speaker 1: white people should be married dating any of that yet,

436
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Speaker 1: and if he feels like, if you do it, you

437
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Speaker 1: might be entitled to some slashes lashes some way like

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Speaker 1: like lashes like for your eyes, not eyelashes like back

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Speaker 1: in the day's slave lashes. Lord, have mercy. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know. I really don't know if Lauren and Jonah kissed.

441
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Speaker 1: I saw it. I can't tell. I guess it now

442
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Speaker 1: when Andrew know that, and when Andrew puts it in

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Speaker 1: my head and I look, I'm like, damn it, do

444
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Speaker 1: look fake? He just didn't get somebody with the same hair, dude,

445
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Speaker 1: and then just do it like that and just be

446
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Speaker 1: a real humans? Only, can you can clear this up?

447
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Speaker 1: Can you? Can? You? You You gotta can? Only can you

448
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: can confirm this? Man? Can you barrass? All right? Well

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Speaker 1: that is your rumor report. Now when we come back,

450
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Speaker 1: your president's gonna address the nation. We'll tell you what

451
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Speaker 1: he'll be discussing tonight. So don't move. We'll get into

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Speaker 1: it next. It's the breakfast Club, the morning, the breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Your mornings will never be the same. Thank you for synthesizers,

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Speaker 1: instant replay. Peanut butter and standard time. Are these just

455
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Speaker 1: words strugging together or is it just some connection between them.

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Speaker 1: I don't have the answer, but Crown Royal does. Curious.

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Speaker 1: Well that's an itch. You can scratch this Super Bowl Sunday.

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Speaker 1: Please drink responsible morning. Everybody is dj n V Charlemagne

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Speaker 1: the guy. We are the breakfast club. We got our

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Speaker 1: guest host, ray J. Hill. I thought I thought I

461
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Speaker 1: was just the host though, Like we we talked and

462
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Speaker 1: I said, you know, I like it. I like the seat,

463
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Speaker 1: and you know, I feel I feel at home. I

464
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 1: keep saying I'm at home, meaning like like I'm at home.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You got that heavy ass,

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Speaker 1: mon Claron, It's fly though, that's why you're still We

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Speaker 1: still got the trench. It was it. It was the outfit.

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Speaker 1: But I get comfortable. Okay, all right, but let's get

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Speaker 1: into front page news. Now, your president, ray J. President

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Speaker 1: Biting is going to be delivering the State of the

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Speaker 1: Union tonight. At you listen, y J. That sounded good,

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Speaker 1: but I know now you're president ray Jah for a minute,

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Speaker 1: right listen, I'm I'm I'm for the people, what people

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Speaker 1: for the people. But he is gonna be talking about

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Speaker 1: a bunch of different issues China, climate control, gun violence, imbrigation, UH, opioids, Ukraine,

476
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Speaker 1: and he's gonna be talking about taxing UH people that

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Speaker 1: make over two hundred and fifty thousand dollars more. That's

478
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Speaker 1: called taxing the rich. He's gonna be talking about taxing

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Speaker 1: them more. They're not taxing the rich. They all say

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Speaker 1: that in this cap they're not taxing the rich because

481
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Speaker 1: the rich is what keeps them in power. So he's

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Speaker 1: gonna be talking about that, COVID nineteen and health, education

483
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Speaker 1: and the economy. He's going to be addressing all this

484
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Speaker 1: tonight again at nine pm Eastern time. If you want

485
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 1: to check that out, Yes, China is on that list. Now,

486
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 1: why I think a lot of people might not be

487
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 1: checking out the president is because Lebron he might be

488
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 1: breaking the record tonight, which is the problem with our country.

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Speaker 1: By the way, what you just said is what's wrong

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Speaker 1: with our country. In the nutshell that he might be

491
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Speaker 1: breaking the record tonight. He needs thirty six points. Now,

492
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Speaker 1: Kareem abdul Jabal, who is the current league leader, he

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Speaker 1: will be in attendance. So if Lebron scored thirty six

494
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Speaker 1: points or more, he will be the new leader. Now

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Speaker 1: they're saying tickets are going for like sixty nine thousand dollars,

496
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Speaker 1: nine thousand dollars for wear to see Lebron play tonight. Yeah,

497
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Speaker 1: that's no no no, yes, no, no, no, no, that

498
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Speaker 1: is courtside. And then they're saying nine rows back, forty

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Speaker 1: two thousand dollars, forty two thousand. I only pay like

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Speaker 1: forty five hundred for my courtside tickets. It's a big

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Speaker 1: night Lebron. Kareem. What do you think he would have

502
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Speaker 1: came to the game tonight if he wouldn't be possibly

503
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Speaker 1: be record now, he would just at Yeah, yes, I

504
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Speaker 1: think he's at the game because Lebron is possibly gonna

505
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Speaker 1: break the record. No, that's that's what I'm saying. I'm curious,

506
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Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm over here, I want to I'm doing

507
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Speaker 1: my job asking like how what I thought? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

508
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch it on television, And by the way,

509
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Speaker 1: watch the State of the Union in the night watching that. Yes,

510
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Speaker 1: I like I like stuff like that. You think it's

511
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Speaker 1: a coincidence that they put Lebron on the same time

512
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Speaker 1: the State of the Union. They want to distract you

513
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Speaker 1: from what's really important out here in this country. So

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Speaker 1: they want you to watch Lebron or they want you

515
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Speaker 1: to watch the State of the Union. Which one are

516
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Speaker 1: you watching. I'm not really a basketball watcher. Man, Like,

517
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Speaker 1: if I go to the game, either I'm betting on

518
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Speaker 1: it or I'm like just I need something to do,

519
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Speaker 1: some raycon drives or something I like being on you

520
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: when you're watching them. I'm gonna watch the State of

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Speaker 1: the Union and shout out to LA. I love y'all,

522
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:57,680
Speaker 1: but hey, man, I gotta do. I kind of want

523
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Speaker 1: to watch Lebron. They're gonna get me a good update

524
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Speaker 1: to me the Union. Now, y'all should have saw that

525
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: me and they did when Lebron was like mad about

526
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 1: the foul. Then they playing one wish and it looked

527
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 1: just like the move I was doing. He was like

528
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: he was like mad about all right, well, lax your

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Speaker 1: front page news. Now when we come back, we got

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Speaker 1: some special guests joining us. We have the Elisis. They

531
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Speaker 1: have a new book out, Kadeen and Devout Elis. We

532
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 1: over me and we're gonna talk to them next. So

533
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Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Waked that

534
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Speaker 1: ass up? Nine about to go crazy. But this ray

535
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Speaker 1: J and I've officially joined the Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club.

536
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Speaker 1: It was first date, but you know, you're learning the

537
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: book that we have a very rich history. He and

538
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: I actually went to elementary school together, so it was

539
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 1: the thing where our pass kept crossing over the years.

540
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: And finally that first date was after meeting him at

541
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Speaker 1: a banquet. We have to sit and chat and it

542
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: was just something about his charisma and his energy. He

543
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: like whatever he said he wanted to do in his life,

544
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: thus far, he had gotten it. So I was like, oh,

545
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Speaker 1: this this could be something. Did you know she was

546
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: the one he was the first time I got Nah?

547
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: Actually it was man, that's gonna hit me with the

548
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: Kevin Harten. I didn't say no like that, like damn,

549
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: we're talking our podcast and we said in the book

550
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: like she told me she loved me after two weeks

551
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: and I was like, thanks. I didn't know it could

552
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 1: have been was so you didn't say it back? Nah?

553
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: I said thanks? And the reason why I said thanks

554
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: and I still came back for more after the thanks? Right,

555
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: So who was the crazy one? But here's the thing though,

556
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 1: I said thanks because I was like I don't want

557
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 1: to lead her on. Am I going to be a

558
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 1: liar and be like I love you and then not

559
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: know if we're gonna be together? So I was like,

560
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to say, so I said thanks.

561
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,119
Speaker 1: It makes me think, like, can you have a future

562
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: someone if you can't see a future with someone like

563
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: you saw the future with him? Yeah, I did, And

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00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 1: it's funny. It's just the vibe I think that we

565
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: had from early. It was just talking about hopes and dreams,

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Speaker 1: and he always like a guy that was just far

567
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 1: beyond his years, like even with plans for what he

568
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 1: wanted to do financially with his life and his future.

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Speaker 1: And he knew that he didn't want to play football

570
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Speaker 1: a long term. He wanted to eventually be an actor.

571
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, how are you gonna do that?

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Speaker 1: He's like, I'm gonna ride out on the scholarship. I'm

573
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Speaker 1: gonna see if I could make the NFL. If I'm

574
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: at least on the practice squad, I can make a

575
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: little money to build a little nest egg, move back

576
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 1: to Brooklyn and get a round stone renovated. We live

577
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 1: on the bottom floor, like we had a whole thing

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00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: planned that was the first date. We talked about the

579
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: first day, first day. Eighteen year old kids don't speak

580
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: about building their life like that. But when I remember,

581
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Speaker 1: if they think I was thinking like that at eighteen,

582
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 1: So did you ever think because he played football, he

583
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: was an athlete, like, oh, he's gonna be one of

584
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: those Oh absolutely absolutely. People warned me too. They were like, oh, like,

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00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: don't even get to involved. Especially once time came for

586
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: the NFL and he was a prospect. They were like,

587
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: this is the part where you guys go your separate ways.

588
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: Let him so, as Willows, you focus on what you

589
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: gotta focus on, and if you make it out on

590
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: top after he's out there with these NFL groupies, then

591
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 1: maybe things will work out. And then went both ways.

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Speaker 1: They told me when I went to go play football,

593
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: she wasn't gonna wait for me. She was still in

594
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: schools to get her master's degree. Everybody's like, you think,

595
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: while you playing ball, she's gonna be sitting back at

596
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: how she just waiting for you to come back. And

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00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: it was part to me. I was like, dang, that's

598
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 1: a tall tax. And it made me insecure. Like there's

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Speaker 1: a story we talk about in the book when we

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00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,719
Speaker 1: couldn't find her for a day. She was coming back

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Speaker 1: from Tracks in Brooklyn. Yeah, it was like a little

602
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: lounge I used to go to every Thursday with my

603
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: home girls. And she ran into her uncle on the

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00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: way back, and he was like, you're not driving back

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Speaker 1: to Long Island. You're gonna come stay when you know

606
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: you're drinking or whatever, and he was She's like, I

607
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: wasn't drinking, I'm gonna meal. So he went to stay.

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00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: She stayed, uncle fell asleep, left her car, her phone

609
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: in the car. She always calls me when she gets back.

610
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: So now I'm in the locker room, I'm getting ready

611
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: for team meetings, and I don't get no phone call.

612
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 1: I get no phone call at all. I wish woman

613
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: understood that, but I really do understand how that makes

614
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 1: us feel when you'll talk about it, because I used

615
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: to tell her all the time, like, how do you

616
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: not call me when you get places to this day?

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00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: So now I'm in the locker room, NFL rookie. I

618
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: didn't even get to practice. I didn't get to practice

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00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 1: because after that, her mom called me, so, hey, we

620
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: haven't heard from now you cry? You cry? What? No

621
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: nasty snot somebody got my good man. Like I'm crying, bawling.

622
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: Then my mom calls me, Um, I think you should

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Speaker 1: come home. They found her, and they don't want to

624
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 1: tell me because I'm buying myself in Detroit. So I

625
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: go to the security office Detroit, Detroit. I go to

626
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: my end of the NFL security's office. I'm like, yo, um,

627
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: they can't find my girlfriend. And they've been having issues

628
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 1: with people breaking in people's house, taking people's family members.

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Speaker 1: This happens in the league a lot. So they're like,

630
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:43,959
Speaker 1: all right, you know, we're gonna get our people involved.

631
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: They called FBI, they broke into her phone, they called

632
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: campus security, broke into everything, like text measures everything right,

633
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 1: They're like, we have nothing. We found nothing, like we

634
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: don't know where she is. Give me a times man,

635
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: how long? What's that matter of dropped her? My friend?

636
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: Another thing that you support into me? And this guy

637
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: parked me into my parking spot and wouldn't let me

638
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: out the spot unless I gave him my number. That's

639
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: the last conversation she had had one just like it

640
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: was like, no, I need your number, and I'm like,

641
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: I'm really trying to get this parking spot. So he

642
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: was trying to bullieve me to get my number, and

643
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: I told him what was happening, so he thought, for sure, homeboy,

644
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 1: follow me. Yeah, And I wasn't even thinking to put

645
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: two and two together, so it was if I maybe

646
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: two am, but yeah. And literally as I turned the block,

647
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: I pull up and my uncle looks and he's like hey,

648
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: and I was like yeah, Uncle Emil big time, protected

649
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: like you're not driving. He was like, you're about to

650
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: drive to Long Island and yeah. I was missing for

651
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 1: about two am to ten am, and then she got

652
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 1: to her phone. It was just like, yo, what's going on. Yeah.

653
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 1: I woke up. I'm like, oh my god, where's my phone.

654
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: I get to the car and I was like, oh,

655
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: it's dead. The minute I turned the phone on, it's

656
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: like forty eight text messages, thirty something voicemails. My mom

657
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: is in tears. She was like, don't you ever do

658
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 1: that again? Develos on his way home. I'm like what

659
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: that part? And I was like, why don't get make

660
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: it to practice? Lines got me to flight. Oh my god,

661
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: I'm in. I'm on my way to the airport. My

662
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: phone rings at first when I was calling her, it

663
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: went dead. Now, I'm like, they got her phone, they

664
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: turned it off. They sending me the voicemail. Then I

665
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: see a phone call from the boss. I got and

666
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: there's the boss and I'm like, not about to ask

667
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: you for some money. Whoever, this is about to ask

668
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: some money. So I pick up the phone. Yeah, I'm like,

669
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, who this. She's like, hey, babe, I tell

670
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: you everything I went through. Right, you would think my

671
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: wife learned right again? What happened this past weekend? Again?

672
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: She went to get a massage, right, and she texted me, Hey, babe,

673
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: I'm here. I'll be on my way home. I'll be

674
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 1: home at six. Right, it's five forty five. I'm thinking

675
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: she gotta be on her way home. I'm calling like

676
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 1: ten minutes straight. Now I'm in a call. I'm about

677
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: to pull out. I get a phone call. Hey babe.

678
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, I'm gonna get all my kids phone.

679
00:32:57,040 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: I got through sixty sixty. You know whatzy, But what

680
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 1: pisses you off the mostes how nonchalant they act like

681
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: it's nothing but learn I was just on the massage table. Man.

682
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: I don't know why our minds worked like that, but

683
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: we think the worst worst an argument like after that,

684
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: because now you just can't let her lift. But it's

685
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: the second time you gotta give a grace. You talk

686
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: about it in the new book. You have to give

687
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: you your partner grace. Yes. Yes, So that's the biggest

688
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: thing for us is learning how to communicate. You know,

689
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: we came from different communication style. Yeah, I grew up opposite.

690
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: I grew up at an athlete. Nothing was ever good

691
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: enough for my parents, right, They were always being on

692
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: hard on me like that. Then my football coaches extremely

693
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: hard on me, but that made me successful. So I

694
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: felt like, if you love someone and you want them

695
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: to be successful, you should be hard on them. So

696
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: I used to be hard on my girlfriend if I

697
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: saw that she wanted to do something to say, which

698
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: she was like, how are we gonna do that? She

699
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: says she wanted to do TV. How are we gonna

700
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 1: do it? I'm on her, Oh, TV, they weigh one

701
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty pounds. You need to be in the gym.

702
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: What are your grades? Like, you said, you want to

703
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: do this, you need to recoll more content And she'd

704
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 1: be like, bro, I thought I was doing the right thing.

705
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: And after five years of marriage, That's when I kind

706
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 1: of realized he was taking the football approach. He was like,

707
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm a teammate, yes, but I'm not like a teammate

708
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 1: on the football field. So coming from a background where

709
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: my family rarely like had extensive conversations about anything, it

710
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 1: was more so if something happened, you didn't feel so

711
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 1: good about it, you feel a way it'll blow over,

712
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 1: let's just sweep it under the rug. So attacking things

713
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: head on, communicating about problems, talking about how you felt

714
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,399
Speaker 1: like there was a huge learning curve for me. We're

715
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 1: just figuring out how to just eloquently even expressed or

716
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 1: formulate in my mind, how to tell him how I

717
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: felt about it. So people see us now and they're like, man,

718
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 1: I want to find me a devoal I want to

719
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: find me a codeine. So we're like, well, devalikade you

720
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: see today is not the Devalikadeen that first met each other.

721
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 1: This is twenty years in the making. We have more

722
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: with Cadeen and de val Atlas. When we come back.

723
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: The book will with me. It's out today. It's the

724
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: breakfast club of the morning. Everybody is DJ Vne the

725
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: god Ray j Our co host we're still kicking it

726
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: with Dean and de vow ellis Charlemagne. You know. In

727
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: the book, y'all talk about a friendship and how friendship

728
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: is the core of the relationship, which I agree with too,

729
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: But some people would say a love should be the

730
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 1: core of a relationship over friendship. What would y'all say that.

731
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 1: I would say this, more friendships last than intimate partners.

732
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: People have boyfriends and girlfriends in and out of their

733
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,319
Speaker 1: entire life, but some people have friends their whole life,

734
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 1: and those friends are allowed grace. Right. You have friends

735
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 1: that may do something to you like that's my homeboy,

736
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 1: We'll figure it out. But a lot of times when

737
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 1: it's love, it's like you hurt me, And when you

738
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: hurt me, I can't take I can't you know, rekindle

739
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: that hurt. This is what we've learned over the past

740
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 1: couple of years. I no longer try to validate my

741
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: actions by dismissing the way she feels about it, you know,

742
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of times in intimate relationships,

743
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 1: not in friendships, people do that. If your friend is

744
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: hurt by something, a lot of times, as your friend,

745
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: you'd be like, oh my bad, I didn't mean to

746
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: hurt your feelings. But then when your girl does something

747
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: or your girl's feelings are hurt, it's like, well, I

748
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: didn't mean to hurt you. I did it like this,

749
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be hurt. You can't tell people not to

750
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: be hurt by something you did. They didn't ask to

751
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: be hurt. They hurt. So what we've learned how to

752
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,240
Speaker 1: do was just accept the other's feelings. You feel that way,

753
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna explain to you why I did it. I

754
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:14,959
Speaker 1: didn't mean to hurt you, but I accept the fact

755
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: that you feel that way. And it's not just a

756
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: for a man to do to a woman. I'd be

757
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: wanting my feelings to be validated to you. Know what

758
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, that's and that's the manliest thing I

759
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 1: can say about it. When my wife started to validate

760
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 1: my feelings and say she understands how I feel, she

761
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,439
Speaker 1: didn't always agree, but she understood, I said, at least

762
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,439
Speaker 1: if you can understand, we can move forward. And that's

763
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: that's why I feel like friendship to me is the foundation,

764
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: because you have funds for life. Now, let me ask you, know,

765
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 1: what do you think about that? No, I think He's

766
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:42,919
Speaker 1: spot on with that, and it's funny. For a while

767
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 1: with Devout, I would encourage him to speak his mind

768
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: and say how he felt, and then at the same

769
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: time be like, man, you're bitching and moaning every day

770
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: about something like literally, I was like, since when did

771
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: the feelings become what you said? We were having a discussion, right,

772
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:00,879
Speaker 1: and this is what a first time in my life.

773
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: I was just like, well, I'm gonna be honest, this

774
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 1: is how I felt to hurt my feelings and I'm

775
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: going through what I hurt my feelings. She goes, sound

776
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:12,919
Speaker 1: like a man, how do you respond? So me being

777
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 1: a very immature person, and I am I said, I

778
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 1: don't got to sound like a I canna get me

779
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: another because now I'm trying to hurt her like we

780
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: were like twenty six seven immature. And we tell these

781
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: stories in the book because we like to tell people

782
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: the stories too through the trauma. I'm not gonna make

783
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,879
Speaker 1: it seem like everything was picture perfect, because when people

784
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,439
Speaker 1: fall into a situation in a relationship where they hurting

785
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,439
Speaker 1: each other, they feel like I'm the only relationship going

786
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: through this. And since I'm the only relationship going through this,

787
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get out of here. But nah, were just like, listen,

788
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 1: that hurt my feelings. That hurt my feelings. I don't

789
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 1: mean to do that. I didn't mean to say that.

790
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: How can we get back to what we want to do?

791
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: And we try to I try to encourage it now too,

792
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 1: because I mean so often women are trying to pull

793
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: at their men to tell them, how do you feel?

794
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: What do you need? What do you want? And the

795
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: fact that I have a husband who I think is

796
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: sometimes even an oversharer, like sometimes we just talk. Like

797
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 1: for us, marriage seems to be one continued long conversation,

798
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 1: like it just never ends, like we're always talking about something.

799
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 1: So that's the thing that's been our saving race for us.

800
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: It's like just being upfront about how we feel off

801
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 1: the bat, so there's no guessing involved. Now he's acting now,

802
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 1: well he's been acting for a long time now, So

803
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 1: did you ever have a problem with him lip blocking

804
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: with other I looky like this really let me now

805
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 1: we're extending my poorn vocabulary. But anyway, no, I actually

806
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 1: I think because I understand the industry, and then I realize,

807
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: like these sex scenes ain't really nothing super sexy about it.

808
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: I think about the environment that he's in when they're

809
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 1: actually filming that. Um. But a funny story. Two years ago,

810
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 1: actually almost two years he was filming an episode of

811
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 1: Sisters or a season of Sisters. So I'm simultaneously watching

812
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: the episodes that are on air and he warns me

813
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: that he has this shower scene coming up with his

814
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: coast or Crystal. So I was like, okay, all right,

815
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: and he was just like just so you know, like

816
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 1: it it's gonna be a little intense. And I'm like,

817
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: I went tense is going to be for DT, Like

818
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 1: that's BT. So the episode comes on and I see

819
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: the valve got Crystal like legs over his shoulder. She's

820
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: up against the shower wall. It's a blue light and

821
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 1: I'm then it's just going and it's going, and I'm like, oh,

822
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:32,280
Speaker 1: that's what we're doing, right. So I'm like, okay, cool.

823
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: So what I did? I go on Amazon. I was

824
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: like blue light bulb. So I ordered me a blue

825
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: light bulb, a blue light bulb, and the lamp came

826
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: to the door. I screwed that joint in. He came

827
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: home one day before Valentine's Day and I was like

828
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: oh you here, I went, put that thing together, put

829
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 1: the blue light on. We only had the air mattress

830
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 1: in the bedroom at this point. And let me tell you,

831
00:39:54,960 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 1: got to work in our son, Dakota. It's the product

832
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: of the blue which is kind of weird because it

833
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 1: was inspired from a scene between him and Crystals his godmother.

834
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 1: Actually yeah, and he's you know, born months later, so

835
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 1: I can't tell him that story. I don't think I'll

836
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: save the I can't tell him like, oh you were.

837
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: But I will say this though, I'm very deliberate. I'm

838
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: making sure that she is in contact with the women

839
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 1: that I have these scenes with. So, for example, when

840
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,439
Speaker 1: we did our chemistry, read me and Crystal, Crystal face

841
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 1: timed her. I let her know beforehand, like, you know,

842
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 1: we have some sex scenes. To me, I don't want

843
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 1: it to ever be a thing where she feels uncomfortable.

844
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: You go to a red carpet or you go to

845
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: an event, and that's the woman that I had a

846
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: sex scene with, and it's the first time you have

847
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: a meter. It's like, nah, y'all have this conversation beforehand.

848
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: I'm always respectful, especially to my costars, like I'm never

849
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 1: going to cross that line because after the whole Me

850
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: Too movement, you realize how easy it is for someone

851
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 1: to feel uncomfortable in your presence. Have you ever felt

852
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: uncomfortable in the workplace. I've never felt uncomfortable, to be honest,

853
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: and I'm not going to out anybody, but women are

854
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 1: very sexual to in the workplace. You know, they say

855
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: stuff they you know, a woman mate, smack you on

856
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: the butt if you know what I'm saying. If they think,

857
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,439
Speaker 1: it's just that type of environment, and you may feel

858
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: comfortable as a man saying oh, if that's what we're doing,

859
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: that's what we're doing. But what I equated to, which

860
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 1: may not be right, is kind of like I could

861
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: make a joke on a white boy. If you make

862
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: a joke on me about my blackness, I'm gonna be pissed. Right,

863
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: if a woman says something to me about my physique,

864
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna eat that. I'm not gonna now just comment

865
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: about her body every time I see her. You know

866
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 1: what sounds crazy? Let me have your question, right. So

867
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 1: people got on me about a couple of weeks ago

868
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: because my wife went on a twenty day trip. Yeah,

869
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 1: and they were like, how dare you how you let

870
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 1: her go on the scene? Would you let your wife

871
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: go to twenty day trip? So here's here's my thing.

872
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: I don't know how she would survive without me and

873
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 1: the kids for twenty days. And she would spend the

874
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 1: whole time calling me to fast time the kids and

875
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: it wouldn't out me. Yeah, me, I don't know how

876
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: I would survived without my wife for twenty days. If

877
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: Kay tells me she wants to do something, I'm gonna

878
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: be a one hundred percent behind it. But it's also

879
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: a challenge to me six kids, no wife, I mean

880
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 1: and mean you could do that? Bro, I'm just six?

881
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: Did you could do that? The math w work was hard.

882
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:24,320
Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna third grade third grade because that's

883
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: what the common mas started regroup in the common chord, bro, Bro,

884
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: me you on everything. Me and Jackson almost came to

885
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 1: blows because I was trying to tell him old school

886
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: carry the one and He's like, no, you gotta make

887
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: it go to ten. And I'm like, I've been I've

888
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: been doing math my whole life. You put put the

889
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 1: one on top of that cross the eight hundred, and

890
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: he was just like, no, said you're gonna tell me no,

891
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: I'm your father. I don't care what your teach to say. Right,

892
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: he was right to make all of the equations go

893
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: to ten for some reason. Yes, And then it comes

894
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: back around about answer when you could have easily did

895
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: it in three seconds. I said, I am not having

896
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 1: a stroke trying to figure this out with my eight

897
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 1: year old. Yeah, I've been getting that assignment to my

898
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 1: wife raised and they come home is bad. So we

899
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: had a lot of up here guest host and I

900
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: see she came to mind it because I heard her

901
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: her clip on people not wanting to be married now

902
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: are aspiring to me different. I mean, I guess it's

903
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 1: a case by case basis, but it doesn't. It's not

904
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,399
Speaker 1: something that's highlighted is the best thing all the time. Right.

905
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 1: So I think the Vale and I, much like many

906
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 1: other couples, because quiet as this kept, we're not an anomaly,

907
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,800
Speaker 1: like there are a lot of like you're a happily

908
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 1: married man, happily marriment. There are a lot of happily

909
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: married people running around. So I just feel like by

910
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: us sharing more of those stories, it's a way to

911
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 1: kind of help the narrative around marriage. But also too,

912
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 1: like I said earlier, making sure people know like do

913
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 1: I aspire to marriage? Right? You can't find somebody and

914
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: be like, oh, well, this person makes me want to

915
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: be married, because what happens that puts the onus on

916
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 1: that person to always be this perfect image of what

917
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: you were, what they were when they that you were,

918
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: you know, and that put that's so much pressure on

919
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: one person. So what if they falter, what if they change,

920
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 1: what if they outgrow something? Then are you still a

921
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 1: marriage person or not? You know? So I think you

922
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 1: really need to decide like is that something you aspire

923
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: to first and then go from there. We have more

924
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: with Codein and de vou Ellis when we come back

925
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 1: that book we over me. It's out today. It's the

926
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning everybody. Ray j Our co host.

927
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with Codein and de vou Ellis, Charlemagne.

928
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: I have a chapter called There's a Marriage After This

929
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 1: Wedding break that there So while we were writing the book,

930
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,360
Speaker 1: we had discussed what I thought process was about getting

931
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: engaged in being married, and Codein had admitted that she

932
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: had never really thought about the marriage. Nope, anytime, yeah,

933
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:47,720
Speaker 1: anytime I had conversations with anyone regarding marriage or the wedding.

934
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: It was the wedding. It was you know, what dress

935
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 1: are you gonna get? And who's the floor ist? And

936
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: it was the planning of the day. At no point

937
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: in time did anyone pull me aside and say, kadein, like,

938
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: once you get married, here are some things to expect. Right.

939
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: You watched these Disney movies and it says happily ever

940
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 1: after no one sees what happens, they ride off into

941
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: the sunset. So I felt like I was left in

942
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: the dark. I feel like it was a setup. I

943
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 1: felt like nobody prepped me on anything. And then I

944
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 1: think there was also a beauty in that though, because

945
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: I felt like if I were to get advice from

946
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 1: aunt's uncles or grandmothers, it might have also been their

947
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 1: jaded perspective of what their marriage was like. And I'm

948
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: like that could have been a turnoff too. But it

949
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 1: was particularly difficult because I just did not think about

950
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: or plan for what life was going to look like

951
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 1: after the wedding. So the pressure comment had triggered a

952
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: lot of women because they felt like, oh, so she

953
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 1: pressured you to get married, And I was like, It

954
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:39,280
Speaker 1: wasn't the pressure to get married. It was the pressure

955
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: to take care of all of the responsibilities once you

956
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: decide you're going to marry a woman. For example, I

957
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 1: have to save the money to get you a ring.

958
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: I have to decide how we're going to propose. I

959
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 1: have to decide after we get married, what else our

960
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 1: life going to look like if we have financial issues.

961
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 1: No one ever says, what's your wife doing. They always

962
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 1: look at me as a husband and be like So

963
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: there was a lot of pressure on me to make

964
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: sure or that I'm doing everything that I can to

965
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 1: be the husband and I want to be on top

966
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: of that. Once I proposed, I had got cut six

967
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,919
Speaker 1: weeks after by the NFL, so I didn't have a job.

968
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 1: So there was a lot of pressure on me because

969
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:13,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, here I was. I was in the NFL

970
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 1: when I proposed, and now we're planning a wedding and

971
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,240
Speaker 1: I'm no longer in the NFL. How do I sustain

972
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: the lifestyle of someone who was making a half a

973
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 1: million dollars a year when I make no money. So yeah,

974
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: there was a lot of pressure on me. But I

975
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: understand how a lot of women could have taken that

976
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 1: word pressure and felt triggered by it. But to me,

977
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, as the man, I didn't care about the

978
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 1: wedding at all. I didn't. I was focused on the marriage.

979
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: I said, Okay, after we get married, where we're gonna live.

980
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:39,320
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do for work? What am I

981
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: gonna do for work? All we're gonna have children? How

982
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: most men feel, because I look at it the same way,

983
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: like we spend all this money for this, yeah, right that.

984
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 1: Let's do the future. Let's do the house, Let's do

985
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 1: the savings, let's do the investments, Let's do this because

986
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: that's just for the show. Broad it's my guys. Get

987
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 1: he said. Me and my wife got it together together

988
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: on that come up. You know what I'm saying, Like

989
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 1: we worry about things that it's what you got a

990
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: partner for. She gonna be with you. If that's the fact,

991
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: I mean, think about it. After the whole wedding situation

992
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 1: happened and then we went back, you know, the wedding

993
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,399
Speaker 1: was over. You know, it's spend for yourself. At this point,

994
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 1: ye Diva looked at me. He said, you know, I

995
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 1: don't want to go to Canada because he had an

996
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: opportunity to play ball in Canada. He said, y'all want

997
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: to start a business and maybe work towards this acting career.

998
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, well, what we gotta

999
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: do on everything? We had a house in Michigan. It

1000
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 1: was on an acre. Who's on an acre? Four bedrooms,

1001
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: five bathrooms, living room, diningroom, everything. Now we're back in

1002
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 1: an apartment in Crown Heights and she's on the bus.

1003
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: When I tell you my ego was freaking crushed, I'm like,

1004
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: I should sit in the bathroom. Sometimes I go in

1005
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 1: the bathroom, going in the bathroom. Babe, I'd be on

1006
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 1: the toilet, just sitting there, just like how did I

1007
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 1: end up back here? And I got this woman that

1008
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 1: I asked to be my wife, and now she got

1009
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 1: to go to the mall and work. Like imagine you

1010
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 1: tell a woman, yeah, I'm gonna be an actor. I

1011
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 1: don't want to play football no more. I don't know

1012
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: how I'm gonna be an actor, but I'm gonna be acting.

1013
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: A matter of fact, I'm open a gym. I don't

1014
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 1: have no experience in kinesiology. But you tell your woman

1015
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 1: is and she goes, Okay, how are we gonna do that.

1016
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 1: You don't got to tell me that. Imagine, we've been

1017
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: through I know y'all both been through it. So when

1018
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 1: you when you hear like when people say, you know

1019
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 1: why you love marriage so much, that's why I got

1020
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: a partner when when it was the worst or the worst,

1021
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: I could likely right here, how many days did we

1022
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: eat grits? Yo? This is after the NFL grits grit today.

1023
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: That might be why. That's Jackson, our oldest son loves

1024
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 1: gritz and eggs like that's this thing. And it might

1025
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: be because three times a day I was not trying

1026
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,800
Speaker 1: to go buy those steaks. Hungry buddy. When you want breakfast,

1027
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 1: you want breakfast, dinner right breast, breakfast, grits and eggs

1028
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: every day. Can we give some of these books away?

1029
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: We got to a pair give over We over Me man,

1030
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 1: that's right, eight hundred and five eight five, one oh five,

1031
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: and we got two books to give away. We keep

1032
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: it off four books you brought up so we can

1033
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: give it away. We gonna give two books away today.

1034
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:02,719
Speaker 1: Call us up right now and pick up the book

1035
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 1: We Over Me, And we appreciate you for joining us. Guys,

1036
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: subscribe to the Dead Ass Podcast on Patreon. You can

1037
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: watch all the video content on Patreon. We got some

1038
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: live shows coming up Detroit. We still got tickets if

1039
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: y'all out there. Yeah, I from DAS podcast dot com.

1040
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 1: Go to dadas podcast dot com. The last few tickets

1041
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: in Detroit. Everywhere else has sold out, LA sold out,

1042
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: Texas to sold out, Chicago sold out, all of the

1043
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: book tours sold out. New York, DC, Philly, Philly, and

1044
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: Atlanta is all sold out. So we'll see y'all in Detroit.

1045
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: I love Sisters, man, but see I watched Sisters from

1046
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: the perspective of a comedy. Oh for sure, you have

1047
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 1: to comed He's not the one way to do hit

1048
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: the dudey and he's spun around my property ticket. Let

1049
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:50,919
Speaker 1: me tell you, let me tell you the truth about Sisters.

1050
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: And when people don't understand, y'all watch Telling Novellas. No,

1051
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I know, I know they are so Telling

1052
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 1: Novellas is a soap opera comedy in the soap opera

1053
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: so one. But for Sore Sisters, they were just like,

1054
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: why is this on prime time? Tyler put a soap

1055
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 1: opera on prime time and added comedy to it. So

1056
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: it's like a tele novilla. That's why the numbers are

1057
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 1: so crazy. But people who watch it don't understand. They're like,

1058
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: this is funny, but it's not supposed to be funny.

1059
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: It's supposed to be a drama. Why don't they want

1060
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: you to hate so much? I don't know. And it'd

1061
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: be I don't understand. It'd be black women be wanting

1062
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 1: me to hate Karen so much, and I'm like, yo,

1063
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: Karen might be carrying my baby. We had a three

1064
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 1: year relationship. I would never hate that woman. They're like, nah,

1065
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: she mad disrespectful to Fatima. A lot of it is

1066
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 1: the fact that people love Fatima so much and she's

1067
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: the antithesis of what I need in a woman. So

1068
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: they're like, you gotta hate her in order to love her,

1069
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, it's a divine dichotomy. I can

1070
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 1: love both of them at the same time. Yeah, but no.

1071
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: Divine economy is the fact that two things that the

1072
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 1: opposite can exist at the same exact time, and people

1073
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: often think that they can't. Right. So it's like my

1074
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,319
Speaker 1: ex and my current girl, I have to hate her

1075
00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 1: in order to love my girl properly. No, I don't.

1076
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,439
Speaker 1: I can still have love for her. It just didn't

1077
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 1: work out for us because she wasn't my one. This

1078
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 1: one is my one. I have loved for her, but

1079
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 1: I am in love with Fatima. And that's a great

1080
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:10,800
Speaker 1: question because on Twitter that's what I'm always arguing with people.

1081
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: Why you still talk to Karen? Why would I not?

1082
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 1: Every woman deserves respect, especially if she might be carrying

1083
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: my child, right because exactly that was a debt. This

1084
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: is why Charlemagne got the good job. Always what they

1085
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: asked me, why do you still talk to Karen? We

1086
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 1: have a travel show coming out with the Boys. It's

1087
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: coming out actually this Friday, February tenth, so make sure

1088
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 1: that's a good time. Oh I do have one more question.

1089
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 1: How do you feel about putting your family out there

1090
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: so much? So as the kids get older, I'm not

1091
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: sure how much more they're going to be right out there.

1092
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: I'm just being out. It got to a point where

1093
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 1: we're asking Jackson like, hey, do you want to be

1094
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: on camera? And Jackson say no, answers no always yeah.

1095
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,760
Speaker 1: Cass has always been no real loves the camera. At first,

1096
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 1: this was a way for me to share my life,

1097
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: like I'm an artist. If I was a rapper, i'd

1098
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,760
Speaker 1: be rapping about my family, you know. But I'm starting

1099
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: to realize, like my kids need to have say in

1100
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 1: what their likeness is and just for safety proposely too.

1101
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: Yeah that's me. I'm mama beer mode. So I have

1102
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: the time like, nope, leave them out. No, even if

1103
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: people see it's in public. For the most part, people

1104
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,760
Speaker 1: are very respectful. They'll come up and say from a distance,

1105
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: but they see it's with the kids that kind of noted, like,

1106
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 1: you know, stay back and stuff. So we have a

1107
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:29,360
Speaker 1: good strong, I hate saying fan base, but supportive. But

1108
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 1: the kids, as they get old, especially going to traveling

1109
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: on the I'm probably gonna phase them back. I don't

1110
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: want them to have to walk around with security because

1111
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 1: their parents, you know. I just don't want them to

1112
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: have to. I want them to live some days. I

1113
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: want to phase it all the way off for social

1114
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 1: media and just shut the whole, the whole joint down. Well,

1115
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: she never wanted to do social media. This is what

1116
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: crazy moments where I like go back and forth about

1117
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: it just because again, safety protective, mama bear all that.

1118
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: So we just try to take the measures necessary. What

1119
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: we do involve them. But the Traveling Show was fun

1120
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:55,760
Speaker 1: because it was something that we got to do, travel

1121
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 1: to the US a little bit with the guys, and

1122
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 1: we executive produce a lot of content. I'm I'm not

1123
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:04,280
Speaker 1: about letting anybody else have autonomy over my children's likeness

1124
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 1: or my family's like we did. We turned out a

1125
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: whole lot of stuff, like our manage over it is

1126
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: in the corner to be looking at us sometimes like really,

1127
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 1: y'all really don't want to do that, And I'm like,

1128
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to do it if we can't control it.

1129
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: So um, we're just trying to own this as best

1130
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: as we can and just you know, be we over

1131
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: me till we die. Here we go over the books

1132
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 1: out right now right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

1133
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 1: Everybody is dj n V, Charlemagne the guy. We are

1134
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, our guest hosts. I don't think he left,

1135
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 1: he's not him. I don't know where j went his

1136
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 1: old crew. Everybody left a product his products here. The

1137
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: change is here. Zapples uses his bags in here. I

1138
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: wonder what's in that back? What you think is in

1139
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: those bags? I don't want you ain't I ain't got

1140
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 1: nothing to do with that. All right. Well that's one

1141
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: thing I don't do it and go to other people's stuff.

1142
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's get to the room as let's

1143
00:53:54,040 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 1: talk Chris Brown or you gossip and when you chatty report?

1144
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:03,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess were on the Breakfast Club? This

1145
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,320
Speaker 1: weere the t spells right right on the Breakfast Club?

1146
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:10,319
Speaker 1: Now you know. Grammy night, Chris Brown posted a bunch

1147
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 1: of Instagram posts. One was who the f is Robert

1148
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: Glasper after Robert Glasper one Best R and B Album

1149
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: for Black Radio three. Then Chris Brown posted, I gotta

1150
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,280
Speaker 1: get my skills up. I gotta start playing the harmonica.

1151
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 1: Then he posted a picture of himself playing the actual harmonica. Well,

1152
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:29,359
Speaker 1: I guess Chris thought about it and said, you know what,

1153
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 1: let me hit Robert on DM and said, you know, look,

1154
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: congratulations my brother. I would like to apologize if you

1155
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,359
Speaker 1: took offense to my reaction at the Grammys. You were

1156
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: not the intended target. And I know I came off

1157
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,720
Speaker 1: really rude and mean. After doing my research, I actually

1158
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:48,359
Speaker 1: think you're amazing. The organization isn't doing us blacks our

1159
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 1: due diligence. You and I should never be in the

1160
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 1: same category. Two different vibes and genres. So from one

1161
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,799
Speaker 1: black man to another, congratulations, hope you are able to

1162
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: feed your family for life. God bless my g. How

1163
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 1: are the two different vibes the genres though, R and

1164
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 1: bas R and B like like, like, what's what's the difference?

1165
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:08,719
Speaker 1: I don't know because I've never really listened to Robber

1166
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: Glass was, so I couldn't tell you. But I guess

1167
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 1: maybe he's I don't know. I think the problem a

1168
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 1: lot of times is people think just because they haven't

1169
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 1: heard something or because they don't know about something, they

1170
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:21,759
Speaker 1: don't think that that's something is big, you know what

1171
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: I mean. So you don't realize how many people are

1172
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 1: into a Robert glassber simply because you're not tuned into

1173
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 1: Robert Glassbow. But I never heard Have you ever heard

1174
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 1: a Robber Glass for song? I personally haven't, But I

1175
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: don't know what it is somebody has. But you know,

1176
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 1: maybe he has a point, Like I think that's what

1177
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 1: Nicki Minaj was trying to say before when they were

1178
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 1: talking about rap and pop and how they put some

1179
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 1: records in the pop category, wouldn't put her records in

1180
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 1: the rap category, and she was just saying it has

1181
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:46,879
Speaker 1: to be equal across the boards. I just never heard

1182
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: the brothers you know heard this music too. To think

1183
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:51,840
Speaker 1: with Nicky, she was a victim of her her own success,

1184
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 1: because sadly, whenever artists get as big as somebody like

1185
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 1: a Nicki Minaj just gotten, they start labeling them pop chus,

1186
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 1: whack margery. Reality is popular just short for popular. Correctly,

1187
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: If that's the case, hip hop has been pop music

1188
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:07,880
Speaker 1: for the past twenty five thirty years because you're the

1189
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:11,359
Speaker 1: most popular. John Now also during first take, I don't

1190
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: know if you've seen that. Stephen A. Smith and Jay

1191
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: Williams got into a nasty disagreement and argument talking about

1192
00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:21,359
Speaker 1: Kyrie Irvin yesterday. I'm just saying how it's interesting to me.

1193
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 1: It just carries such a bigger momentum in particular with

1194
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 1: you anything anybody, you know what, Stop telling us what

1195
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: you find interesting to just tell us what you feel.

1196
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 1: No my job. You say you say I find it interesting.

1197
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 1: You always say that. Say what you're saying. He thinks

1198
00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 1: you're too preoccupied with Kyrie, too hard on Kyrie. How

1199
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: many times have I mentioned Kyrie Irving over the last

1200
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: time I don't seem to go. I don't seem to

1201
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 1: me to want being triggered. Right now, I'm always triggered.

1202
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 1: No you're not. Oh, yes I am. No you're not. Yes,

1203
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 1: i am no, you are not. Okay, I've seen you.

1204
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 1: I watched your so ever, So what I'm watching Kyrie?

1205
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: Or is this person? I don't want it to be

1206
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:00,399
Speaker 1: person for me with Kyrie? Yes, you want in person.

1207
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 1: You of all people, with all the interests, you have

1208
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: got the nerve to sit there in national television. Tell

1209
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 1: me I'm getting personal with a player. That's why we

1210
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: love first take for that exactly, Reas, because they do

1211
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: get personal debate, Yes, Attenion, Yes, and yes, everybody's personal.

1212
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 1: There's not a person that you know, steps in front

1213
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: of a microphone, you know who doesn't take certain things

1214
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 1: personal for whatever. Absolutely, you know, it just depends what

1215
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 1: the situation is and and all you might have a

1216
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: relationship with the person all you might really see where

1217
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 1: the person is coming from. Like everybody approaches this with

1218
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 1: a certain level of you know, taking it personal. Absolutely.

1219
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 1: Ray Jay's back, Yep, I'm back. I'm happy to be here.

1220
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: Spokes Nah, I want to, but I left it in

1221
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 1: upstairs you know it's legal in New York. You know that. Yeah,

1222
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I left it upstairs, but then

1223
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 1: I feel like I wanted to come back and here

1224
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 1: with a with a clear line and a pure heart.

1225
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 1: Why you got your shades on and your hoodie up

1226
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: so crazy? I'm looking suspicious Now now you look less suspicious.

1227
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 1: Suspicious but not. Lastly, Shannon Sharp were talking about John

1228
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 1: John Moran and his crew over the laser incident. If

1229
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 1: you don't know the laser incident. Allegedly John Morand's crew

1230
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 1: seeing the rafts and shine the laser on them, and

1231
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 1: it was this big thing, and Shannon Sharp talks about it.

1232
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 1: Jar's a really good basketball player. John did everything he

1233
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 1: could lift himself and his family out of this type

1234
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: of environment and to get away from this. And for

1235
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: some reason he wants to surround himself with these type

1236
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: of people. Why they are you not hard? That's not

1237
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: your life. People that in that life would give anything

1238
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 1: to be in your life. For some reason, you work thirty,

1239
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 1: you work out, you got all two hundred million dollars contract,

1240
00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 1: and you want people in the NBA to thank you,

1241
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 1: hood to thank you gangster because you wrote with these

1242
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 1: type of people. But you're putting yourself in Harve's way

1243
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: when you don't after all you're doing. Yeah, but to

1244
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 1: my own I'm gonna let him middlefield another day. I'm

1245
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:51,680
Speaker 1: gonna do this. You're not gonna do nothing what you're

1246
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: gonna do and get yourself in trouble, put yourself in

1247
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: your family in the harvesway when you don't have to

1248
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: show what it was as a laser like this one. Probably, No,

1249
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: I was upstairs. What do you mean it's up at

1250
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 1: J Cole where I want the point at J Cole. No, No,

1251
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 1: you're gonna ruin your whole life, Ray j ceo, ray

1252
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: Con it's one hundred million dollar company. You're gonna ruin

1253
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: your whole life pretending to be a thug. Well, I

1254
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 1: I'm a founder, but shout out to Rayle, he the CEO.

1255
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I want to I'm gonna

1256
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: cso because I'm good at strategy. Okay, but I will

1257
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 1: say that that is that is John Morn's best friend, right,

1258
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: so they grew up with each other. But as his

1259
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 1: best friend, knowing what John Moran has his steak, he

1260
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 1: should fall back a little bit. But he shouldn't put

1261
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 1: his friends, you know, life in jeopardy and friend's career

1262
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:41,720
Speaker 1: in jeopardy. He did a gun No, we don't know.

1263
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 1: I see that. The problem, I don't know what it is.

1264
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,120
Speaker 1: You always only tell one side of the story. I'm

1265
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 1: the job Moran. It's been proven that the NBA could

1266
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 1: not corroborate the claim that John moranch entourage pointed gun

1267
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:55,480
Speaker 1: laser at the end of Lads a lesson laser, right

1268
00:59:55,560 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 1: or whatever, it could be a lesson gun lazer in

1269
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 1: the headline, and they said an investigation was conducted following

1270
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 1: the reports and the NBA could not corroborate correct So

1271
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: why people running with that story? Then they're not you

1272
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, These stories is getting out. I

1273
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: love like they're going to like for me, it feels

1274
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:13,840
Speaker 1: like it's a lot of smoking mirrors. But the reason

1275
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: I said that is his best friend did run on

1276
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 1: the court and start arguing with players. Oh that's different. Well,

1277
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: the game happen. The players wasn't gonna jump him. Now

1278
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 1: if somebody came out of the stand, I get it.

1279
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 1: I like his GNA. You know, it's just the reflex

1280
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 1: we see. You know what I mean, we saw who

1281
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: was about to scrap and Nipsey stood up God bless

1282
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,000
Speaker 1: the dead and about to pull his pants up and

1283
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 1: run on the court and looked like he was about

1284
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 1: to Squadron was about to get into it was. Don't

1285
01:00:42,880 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 1: remember what it was. I'm just saying, that's just the reflex.

1286
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: You see one of your peoples on the court, you

1287
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 1: might be like, oh, you know what I mean. Yeah,

1288
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 1: I like John and I like Shannon Sharp Shannon Sharpers.

1289
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: He'd be keeping in one hunting having the cold outfits too.

1290
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 1: He just started getting the cold office. Now. Yeah, he

1291
01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 1: had the card and get carneg the car card again.

1292
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: How he said, Cardigan, Cardigan, Cardigan. That's what that chain

1293
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 1: almost looked say. It looked like it's say until I

1294
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 1: put my glasses on my goodness as I say, solo, man,

1295
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: give me a donkey to man. Four after the hour, Man,

1296
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna have a conversation about why it is necessary

1297
01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: that we all pay attention to Proverbs thirteen twenty four. Okay,

1298
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 1: you know that proverb about sparing the rod, spoiling the child,

1299
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 1: or something like that. We'll talk about it. Four after

1300
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 1: that hour, talking fishing rod. Are we talking talking to

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01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:31,240
Speaker 1: Rod you pulled out on don't do it, don't do

1302
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: It's a married man over, It's a breakfast club. Good morning,

1303
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Your morning's will never be the same.

1304
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:42,120
Speaker 1: Thank you for synthesizers, instant replay, peanut butter and standard time.

1305
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 1: Are these just words struggling together or is it just

1306
01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 1: some connection between them? I don't have the answer, but

1307
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:50,920
Speaker 1: Crown Royal does. Curious. Well, that's an itch. You can

1308
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:58,439
Speaker 1: scratch this Super Bowl Sunday. Please drink responsible, you get drunk,

1309
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:10,440
Speaker 1: you are I'm gonna fatten all that around your man,

1310
01:02:10,720 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 1: Totton Blowers. Many waited for Charlemagne to make a judgment

1311
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 1: who was gonna be on the donkey of the day.

1312
01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 1: They chose you at pitching. Who's donkey of the day

1313
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: to day? Well, donkey today for Tuesday, February seventh is

1314
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 1: one of the most heart woman donkeys I've heard in

1315
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,840
Speaker 1: a long time. Okay, Now, today's donkey is only thirteen

1316
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 1: years old. To he's a juvenile and his name hasn't

1317
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: been released. Okay, I don't have a problem with that,

1318
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 1: because public shame and ridicule isn't what this boy needs

1319
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:40,520
Speaker 1: at thirteen. He needs discipline, love and based off the

1320
01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: crime he committed. Probably some psychotherapy, No, not probably, This

1321
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:46,120
Speaker 1: young man needs a psychotherapy. Trust me. If I had

1322
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 1: gotten psychotherapy at thirteen, I wouldn't have made a lot

1323
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:50,440
Speaker 1: of the mistakes I made. Okay, Young brothers, just be

1324
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 1: needing attention and guidance, Okay, in an outlet to express

1325
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,960
Speaker 1: off frustrations, because when we don't get that attention and guidance,

1326
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:59,520
Speaker 1: we contend to make poor decisions. And that's what happened

1327
01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: to this thirteen year old young Nancy. He decided to

1328
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 1: put the pistol to the pastor. That's right, Lord, day

1329
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 1: down here, robin reference. Let's go to KMLVCVS poll for

1330
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:12,959
Speaker 1: the report. Police the carjackings and stolen cars in St.

1331
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 1: Louis is not slowing down. The latest victims a church

1332
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 1: pastor and a local children's charity. The pastor tells News

1333
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: four he's thankful to be alive after two boys appeared

1334
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 1: to be in middle school put a gun to his

1335
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 1: face and took his van. This is surveillance video of

1336
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 1: the incident last night and the parking lot of Chronult

1337
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 1: Baptist Church in South Saint Louis. Please say the two

1338
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 1: boys did not get far. They hit other cars as

1339
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 1: they drove away and abandoned the van they stole just

1340
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:43,200
Speaker 1: a few blocks from the church. Pastor says he had

1341
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 1: to explain to the teens how to start the vehicle

1342
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 1: because they seemed to be inexperienced thirteen and because of

1343
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 1: their inexperience. Because of that, I didn't want them to say, Hey,

1344
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 1: this isn't working out. Shoot the guy in goal. I mean, seriously,

1345
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 1: I was trying to think a step ahead of them.

1346
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 1: The teens ran from the scene. The pastor says he

1347
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 1: pressed charges because he wants to hold them accountable and

1348
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:09,560
Speaker 1: he wants to prevent this from happening to anyone else.

1349
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 1: I agree with him. Okay. When I was young, my

1350
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 1: daddy salute the Cowboy and Kifield South Carolina dropping a

1351
01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:17,280
Speaker 1: clue bump from my pops man. My daddy used to say,

1352
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 1: boy them and words so crazy they were shooting church. Okay.

1353
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: The meaning behind that in some places used to be

1354
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 1: considered sacred some people, you know, some people used to

1355
01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 1: be considered sacred. I mean, the toughest gangsters wouldn't dare

1356
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 1: robber pastor. Okay, robbing a reverend is like robbing God

1357
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,000
Speaker 1: to a certain extent. And now we know why Jesus

1358
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 1: has not fulfilled his promise to you Christians of coming back.

1359
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 1: Why would he all right, think about that for a second.

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01:04:40,720 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 1: Y'all been killing God's messengers, Jesus being one of them

1361
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 1: for the longest. Now y'all jacking them? How are you

1362
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 1: sticking up the scripture? Spit up? Okay? Now I know

1363
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 1: y'all heard me say, this is one of the most

1364
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:53,320
Speaker 1: hot woman donkeys I've heard, Okay, in a long time.

1365
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't have let with that because y'all probably

1366
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 1: wondering what was so a hot woman about the pastor

1367
01:04:57,800 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: getting robbed dance? There's nothing, okay, but everything that happened

1368
01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 1: after that. See, that little boy got caught, okay, and

1369
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 1: he's currently childed with for us degree robbery. You know

1370
01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:08,000
Speaker 1: how he got caught, not just because they erect the cause.

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01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:11,440
Speaker 1: It's because someone identified that little boy and turned him in,

1372
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 1: not just to someone someone who knows him very well.

1373
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 1: In fact, the person knows that little boy better than

1374
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 1: he knows himself. Let's go to NBC five for the report.

1375
01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: Please new details tonight about a thirteen year old accused

1376
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: of pointing a gun at a pastor's face and then

1377
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 1: stealing his card. Today we learned the teenager's mom is

1378
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 1: the one who turned him in. Today, that teenager faced

1379
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 1: a family court judge and five un years sides. Justina

1380
01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 1: Cornell's in studio right now to explain what's next. Yeah,

1381
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:38,160
Speaker 1: make an ann. So the thirteen year old boy, his family,

1382
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 1: and the victim of the crime, we're all in court. Today.

1383
01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: A pastor, Mike Coleman with the corondal Let Baptist Church

1384
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:46,000
Speaker 1: learned that the thirteen year old boy will stand custody

1385
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 1: for the time being. Wednesday morning, one of the teams

1386
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 1: arrested a thirteen year old was in court. Police say

1387
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 1: his mom turned him in over the weekend, his mother

1388
01:05:55,360 --> 01:06:00,280
Speaker 1: becoming aware of the event in questioning her son, earning

1389
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:05,280
Speaker 1: him over to this juvenile court for prosecution, and investigators

1390
01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:09,040
Speaker 1: are still working to locate the second suspect. God, God

1391
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 1: bless that mom. Round of applause to that mom. Man,

1392
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 1: salute to that mom. I don't know how old that

1393
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 1: mom is, but that mom clearly is works too hard

1394
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:19,240
Speaker 1: on her camel. She has clearly cleaned up her sins,

1395
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 1: been baptized, give her ties and offering. She clearly has

1396
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 1: done everything she needed to do to get into heaven,

1397
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:27,040
Speaker 1: and she is not about to lose her blessings fooling

1398
01:06:27,080 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 1: with this little human who came out her vagina. Okay,

1399
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 1: she is not about to be a necessary to his

1400
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 1: holy heist. Now is this an example of gentle parenting

1401
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 1: or conscious parenting? Because gentle parenting is the parenting style

1402
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 1: as composed of empathy, respect, understanding, and boundaries. Conscious parenting

1403
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:46,040
Speaker 1: is about letting go of you know, parents, ego, desires,

1404
01:06:46,040 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 1: and attachment. So which one is it conscious parenting gentle parenting?

1405
01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:52,720
Speaker 1: Or is this simply find somebody else to do it parenting? Okay?

1406
01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 1: And when I say find someone else to do it,

1407
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 1: this means that as a mom, she probably has done

1408
01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 1: so much to keep him out this position, but that

1409
01:06:58,320 --> 01:07:01,280
Speaker 1: little hard headed boy won't listen. Okay. She'd probably been

1410
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 1: telling them, you're gonna end up in jail a day

1411
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:05,160
Speaker 1: if you keep going down the path you're going down.

1412
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:07,920
Speaker 1: And now look jail at thirteen because you out here

1413
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 1: thieving for offerings. Okay, So now I didn't do all

1414
01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 1: that I can do. Now I'm letting the system put

1415
01:07:13,280 --> 01:07:15,480
Speaker 1: some fear in you Okay. If one does not discipline

1416
01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:18,280
Speaker 1: a child, he or she will never learn obedience and

1417
01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 1: good manners. In this case, if Mama don't turn this

1418
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:23,520
Speaker 1: thirteen year old boy in, he's gonna end up dead,

1419
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:26,840
Speaker 1: are in prison forever, because if you're already robbing passes

1420
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 1: that thirteen, my god, and I'm not mad at his

1421
01:07:30,040 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 1: mother at all. If you think your mother is a

1422
01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 1: snitch and opt, then set you're asking that juvenile detention

1423
01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: center until you get some sense about you, because you

1424
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 1: got life all the way effed up. Now, let me

1425
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:42,040
Speaker 1: ask two fathers in the room. You got envying Ray J. Hill.

1426
01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 1: Thirteen year old child robs the pass that gunpoint your child,

1427
01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 1: you're turning them into police. Thirteen year old, it's your child,

1428
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:55,560
Speaker 1: and he oh, I'll turn my own child in. Would

1429
01:07:55,560 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: you did he take all the the collection to like

1430
01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 1: all of the like any from the dat man he

1431
01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 1: robbed the path to pathtor was sitting in his car. Man, Oh,

1432
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 1: but he didn't take to collect like the church money

1433
01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 1: that they gave because it matter. He tried to rob

1434
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:10,560
Speaker 1: the bath gun taking my cunt my son home. And

1435
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 1: then I'm talking to him, Okay, I gonna report him

1436
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:16,080
Speaker 1: to the police. It's my son thirteen years old. He

1437
01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:18,720
Speaker 1: already putting pistols to pastors. But that's like, if you

1438
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 1: like these, if there's a bunch of people tripping on

1439
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:25,200
Speaker 1: people snitching like and they just friends like it, my

1440
01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:27,639
Speaker 1: son Bridge, I don't want to be a snitch. I'm

1441
01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 1: just saying there's a difference between snitching and then turning

1442
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 1: your your son. Like that's over. I'm not turning my son.

1443
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:38,799
Speaker 1: That's like, that's a different words. He didn't kill nobody.

1444
01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 1: He robbed him. I'm gonna beat his ass and robbing

1445
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 1: him with a pistol now, I'm gonna make him bring

1446
01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:47,519
Speaker 1: that gun and wasn't loaded. I'm gonna maker bring the

1447
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 1: stuff back. You know, we're gonna believe, we're gonna leave

1448
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 1: it at the pastor's door. And then he beat his ass.

1449
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:53,160
Speaker 1: But I'm not taking what did he take from it?

1450
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:56,520
Speaker 1: I guess you know, if they don't learn the consequences

1451
01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 1: of their actions, right, you know, it's only gonna escalated.

1452
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:01,759
Speaker 1: They already putting the pistol to the path at thirteen

1453
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:06,000
Speaker 1: turn my son and my master have that made him

1454
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 1: rob him? What did he take from that chair? Narrative?

1455
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 1: It's not all the way there. He was just saying,

1456
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 1: like he robbed the pastor for what Jesus, what did

1457
01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 1: he get from the pastor? In his pocket? Like, what

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01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 1: did he get from him? Did he take his wallet?

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01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 1: Did he take maybe took his wallet, maybe took some money,

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01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:28,760
Speaker 1: maybe took his jewelry. Watch always always remember proverb of

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01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:31,759
Speaker 1: thirteen twenty four. Whoever spares the rod hates their children.

1462
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 1: But the one who loves their children is careful to

1463
01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:36,639
Speaker 1: turn they after the police when they out here committing

1464
01:09:36,680 --> 01:09:39,679
Speaker 1: crimes against clergyman, Please let remy ma give this little

1465
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 1: thirteen year old juvenile who robbed the reverend the biggest

1466
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 1: he huh, he shout out to remy man. I want

1467
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 1: to do this show with you, Remy, and we gotta

1468
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 1: get on the phone. Would you turn in your child?

1469
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. So you just gave us that, give

1470
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 1: that hosh do this. Oh he brought the pastor and

1471
01:09:57,880 --> 01:10:00,000
Speaker 1: when he goes to come from and then just gonna

1472
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:04,560
Speaker 1: happened to this. I applaud this momb for doing it,

1473
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 1: but I don't know what I would do. I wouldn't

1474
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 1: I like how you guys go give that go back

1475
01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 1: and forth and stuff I guess dope, and I don't

1476
01:10:11,280 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 1: have a fun So four daughters, I don't know. I

1477
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:17,000
Speaker 1: really don't know. You ran up in the hammer. And

1478
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:19,720
Speaker 1: when I think I don't know, I'd be thinking, Dan,

1479
01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:21,439
Speaker 1: what did I do wrong that she would have to

1480
01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 1: do that? I'm not you know what I mean? I'm not.

1481
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a herberall. What herberall? It's a natural, addie,

1482
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 1: all right, what are we doing next? We had uh, ellis,

1483
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 1: ellis is here last last hour? That's right to have

1484
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 1: a book out right now? Okay, yes, but they said

1485
01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 1: this was interesting. Listen, get a chapter called there's a

1486
01:10:45,040 --> 01:10:48,200
Speaker 1: marriage after this wedding? Break that down. So while we

1487
01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:50,679
Speaker 1: were writing the book, we had discussed what I thought

1488
01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 1: process was about getting engaged in being married, and Kadan

1489
01:10:54,360 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 1: had admitted that she had never really thought about the marriage. No, anytime,

1490
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:02,080
Speaker 1: any time I had conversations with anyone regarding marriage or

1491
01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:04,439
Speaker 1: the wedding, it was the wedding. It was you know

1492
01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:06,879
Speaker 1: what dress are you gonna get? And who's the florist,

1493
01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:09,080
Speaker 1: and it was the planning of the day. At no

1494
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 1: point in time did anyone pull me aside and say,

1495
01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:14,240
Speaker 1: kadein like once you get married. Here are some things

1496
01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 1: to expect, right. You watch these Disney movies and it

1497
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 1: says happily ever after, no one sees what happens after

1498
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:22,040
Speaker 1: they lied off into the sunset. Correct. But it was

1499
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:24,560
Speaker 1: particularly difficult because I just did not think about or

1500
01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:26,360
Speaker 1: plan for what life was going to look like after

1501
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:29,479
Speaker 1: the wedding. M Is that something that we do? What

1502
01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:32,120
Speaker 1: you mean, work on the marriage? Yet? Do we plan

1503
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 1: for life after the wedding? Or is there even a plan?

1504
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:37,639
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? There is there a blueprint

1505
01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:39,680
Speaker 1: to being married. Let's talk about it when we come back.

1506
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:41,920
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one on five one. We

1507
01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 1: all married brothers a pair. We'll discuss when we come back.

1508
01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:46,920
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, yep, yep. It is

1509
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 1: waked that ass up nine about to go crazy. But

1510
01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:55,360
Speaker 1: this ray J and I've officially joined the Breakfast Club.

1511
01:11:56,080 --> 01:12:02,519
Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club adj Envy Charlemagne the guy. We are

1512
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:05,639
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Our guest host, ray J is here.

1513
01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:08,599
Speaker 1: I know no nonsense, Ray to Day, that's right now.

1514
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:11,360
Speaker 1: We were talking about the Elliss who joined us earlier,

1515
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,439
Speaker 1: Codein and the vow, and we were talking about their

1516
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 1: relationship and talking about marriage after wedding, and this is

1517
01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:19,640
Speaker 1: what they said. You have a chapter called there's a

1518
01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:22,840
Speaker 1: marriage after this wedding break there there. So while we

1519
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 1: were writing the book, we had discussed what I thought

1520
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:28,960
Speaker 1: process was about getting engaged in being married, and Kadein

1521
01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:33,040
Speaker 1: had admitted that she had never really thought about the marriage. Nope, anytime,

1522
01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:37,200
Speaker 1: anytime I had conversations with anyone regarding marriage or the wedding,

1523
01:12:37,280 --> 01:12:39,719
Speaker 1: it was the wedding. It was you know, what dress

1524
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 1: are you gonna get? And who's the florist? And it

1525
01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 1: was the planning of the day. At no point in

1526
01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:46,640
Speaker 1: time did anyone pull me aside and say, Kadein, like,

1527
01:12:46,840 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 1: once you get married, here are some things to expect. Right.

1528
01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 1: You watch these Disney movies and it says happily ever

1529
01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:55,160
Speaker 1: after no one sees what happens after they ride off

1530
01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:58,000
Speaker 1: into the sunset. Correct. But it was particularly difficult because

1531
01:12:58,000 --> 01:13:00,200
Speaker 1: I just did not think about or plan for life

1532
01:13:00,280 --> 01:13:02,400
Speaker 1: was gonna look like after the wedding. Yeah, they have

1533
01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:04,560
Speaker 1: a great chapter in the book called you know, the

1534
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 1: marriage after the wedding, And basically, you know, it's the

1535
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:10,040
Speaker 1: work that has to be done after you say I do,

1536
01:13:10,280 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 1: and I don't know if there is a blueprint to

1537
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 1: being married, Like what is the work that needs to

1538
01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:17,200
Speaker 1: be done after one is married. I don't know if

1539
01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 1: marriage is something you can gain plan for. I think

1540
01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:21,479
Speaker 1: you know, with marriage, we got to remember the fourth agreement,

1541
01:13:21,520 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 1: which is always do your best. Because I don't believe

1542
01:13:23,280 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 1: you could prepare for everything that marriage with go at you. No,

1543
01:13:25,680 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 1: you definitely can't prepare. And like you said, marriage is

1544
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:30,439
Speaker 1: something that you consistently work on. I mean, it's so

1545
01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:32,960
Speaker 1: many different people. People are growing, people are involved. You

1546
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 1: have to understand people's feelings that it's not just because

1547
01:13:35,439 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 1: y'all have been dating, but now you have to understand

1548
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:39,200
Speaker 1: somebody when you go to work and you and you

1549
01:13:39,320 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: come home and you had a bad day, you take

1550
01:13:41,200 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 1: that energy out on your partner, how to deal with it,

1551
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:45,519
Speaker 1: how to deal with everything in a relationship. So let's

1552
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:50,559
Speaker 1: go to you, right, we've been married for six years.

1553
01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:53,280
Speaker 1: Six years. Congratulations. You had a lot of ups and downs.

1554
01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:57,040
Speaker 1: Public somethings have been public. Y'all call for divorce sometimes

1555
01:13:57,080 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 1: and got back together. Y'all back together now? Yeah, I

1556
01:13:59,479 --> 01:14:02,400
Speaker 1: love friends us man, and I think that a lot

1557
01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:04,400
Speaker 1: of times. I mean, because I can only listen to

1558
01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:07,120
Speaker 1: people who's been married for twenty years or fifteen, and

1559
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:09,680
Speaker 1: they they kind of gave us like the timing of

1560
01:14:09,760 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: when it gets rough and then you get over this

1561
01:14:11,560 --> 01:14:13,680
Speaker 1: year hump and then it kind of smooths out. How

1562
01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 1: long you've been married twenty two I've been married twenty fourteen.

1563
01:14:17,479 --> 01:14:20,120
Speaker 1: I'm not good at man, I got it. But I've

1564
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 1: been with my wife between five years. I've been eight years,

1565
01:14:23,400 --> 01:14:26,400
Speaker 1: nine years. I'm doing my wife for twenty five years.

1566
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:30,320
Speaker 1: I've been so around the like sixth seventh year, was

1567
01:14:30,360 --> 01:14:32,920
Speaker 1: it rough or a fifth fourth to fifth? Um? I

1568
01:14:32,960 --> 01:14:35,680
Speaker 1: mean you guys have been married for so long and no, no, no, yes,

1569
01:14:36,000 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 1: with marriage, yes, because when I got married, I hadn't

1570
01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:41,360
Speaker 1: let go of a lot of my childish ways. So

1571
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 1: I was still out here in these streets, you know

1572
01:14:43,479 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 1: what I mean, doing things I ain't had no business doing.

1573
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:47,240
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, infidelity and all of that.

1574
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:50,560
Speaker 1: So yes, yes, so yeah, so around this time, like

1575
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:53,240
Speaker 1: I just felt like it, you know that I really

1576
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 1: wanted to, um, just be a good husband, but then

1577
01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:58,559
Speaker 1: I'm only got be a good father and the time

1578
01:14:58,640 --> 01:15:02,639
Speaker 1: and away from them then kids and not being there

1579
01:15:02,840 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 1: every single day every hour, you know, did you have

1580
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:07,920
Speaker 1: a lot of insecurities? For myself, I had a lot

1581
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 1: of insecurities, and being married it kind of exposed that,

1582
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:15,559
Speaker 1: Like what what do you mean, Um, my wife is beautiful,

1583
01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:18,360
Speaker 1: she's smart, she's intelligent, and I had a book come out,

1584
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:19,880
Speaker 1: So yeah, we had a book came out, so real life,

1585
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:22,160
Speaker 1: real love. We talk about that, and at first I

1586
01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:24,839
Speaker 1: was scared that if she left, she might see somebody

1587
01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:27,000
Speaker 1: that's smarter than me, that looks better than me. That

1588
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:29,719
Speaker 1: it's not hard, though, it's very hard. It's very difficult,

1589
01:15:29,720 --> 01:15:37,559
Speaker 1: actually low, very hard, very difficult. It's actually very difficult

1590
01:15:37,640 --> 01:15:46,599
Speaker 1: trying to be serious fund serious. I'm saying, y'all making

1591
01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:48,920
Speaker 1: me lit because y'all like I want to get litter

1592
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:54,799
Speaker 1: because y'all making me laugh. I'm trying. Let's being serious,

1593
01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:56,479
Speaker 1: you want to joke. So what's the work that y'all

1594
01:15:56,560 --> 01:16:01,640
Speaker 1: had to do in our marriages? Compromise community, compromise, communication

1595
01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:04,960
Speaker 1: and also yeah, communication And really it's like if you

1596
01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:07,800
Speaker 1: feel a certain way, express yourself about it absolutely, if

1597
01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:09,880
Speaker 1: you let it linger, and then nobody knows, and then

1598
01:16:09,920 --> 01:16:12,320
Speaker 1: it's just the attitude that's in the air and you

1599
01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:14,720
Speaker 1: just what's wrong? Were you scared to express yourself? Were

1600
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 1: you scared to ask questions? At times? Yeah, it depends

1601
01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 1: on the question, because there's questions you want to ask it,

1602
01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 1: but can you handle the answer. What do you have

1603
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 1: to compromise a lot of things? Just making sure that

1604
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:29,120
Speaker 1: I that I stay in communication all the time, UM,

1605
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 1: listening more, UM, going out more, and spending time outside

1606
01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 1: and inside and really just kind of like making my

1607
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:44,479
Speaker 1: wife my close friend absolute and roll and we roll

1608
01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:47,519
Speaker 1: together and we do everything like as far as fun

1609
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:50,200
Speaker 1: together because a lot of times dudes want to go

1610
01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:52,240
Speaker 1: hang out with their friends and have the fun and

1611
01:16:52,320 --> 01:16:55,519
Speaker 1: then come back and you got to think your girl

1612
01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:58,160
Speaker 1: or to do being in the house for days and

1613
01:16:58,280 --> 01:16:59,719
Speaker 1: you just want to come back and lay up because

1614
01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:02,240
Speaker 1: you then we all got it. You had a long week, right,

1615
01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 1: We've been scared of scraping a lot of different ways.

1616
01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:07,920
Speaker 1: You know rated you know they you actually got in

1617
01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:11,160
Speaker 1: divorce papers, right, Well yeah, well actually we both fouled.

1618
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:14,760
Speaker 1: Well I fouled, she fouled. They really want that though,

1619
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 1: I think deep down we didn't. You know what I'm saying,

1620
01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:20,560
Speaker 1: But a lot of times people are stubborn, stubborn and

1621
01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:23,600
Speaker 1: and and I think it hurts to think that a

1622
01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:25,400
Speaker 1: lot of times. If your ego got in the way

1623
01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 1: and you actually got divorced and you didn't want to,

1624
01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:30,240
Speaker 1: but you're how I got that's scary. What did your

1625
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:32,400
Speaker 1: friends and you know you're very close to your mom,

1626
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:35,599
Speaker 1: of course, what did your family and say during that time?

1627
01:17:36,400 --> 01:17:39,960
Speaker 1: I really don't go to them for that for relationship advice,

1628
01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:43,360
Speaker 1: but because yeah, I think that's that's dangerous, right. I

1629
01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:47,439
Speaker 1: love princess, she loves me. Can't nobody tell me how

1630
01:17:47,520 --> 01:17:49,479
Speaker 1: to feel or what to do. They can only guide

1631
01:17:49,520 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 1: you and help you. But when they're done telling you

1632
01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:53,640
Speaker 1: what you what you either want to or not, you

1633
01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:55,760
Speaker 1: still got to go back home, right and you still

1634
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:57,800
Speaker 1: got to deal with it from a man's perspective or

1635
01:17:57,800 --> 01:18:00,599
Speaker 1: a woman's perspective. So I just think just that one

1636
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:04,479
Speaker 1: on one, tight knit nobody can come in between these walls.

1637
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 1: And if we got issues's deal with them. If we don't,

1638
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:10,439
Speaker 1: then let's enjoy ourselves together and like, what do you

1639
01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:13,799
Speaker 1: think about what we did? That's when they get beside

1640
01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 1: the TV show. Was there? Did y'all go see therapy

1641
01:18:17,600 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 1: or a therapist or was it you know, pastor preacher

1642
01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 1: or somebody to be the middle person in between y'all

1643
01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:25,840
Speaker 1: or y'all just worked it out yourselves. We just worked

1644
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:28,439
Speaker 1: it out, and I know we went. We had a therapist.

1645
01:18:28,600 --> 01:18:30,719
Speaker 1: Like a lot of stuff we do on the show,

1646
01:18:31,680 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 1: it's still needed. Do you get what I'm saying in

1647
01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:36,200
Speaker 1: the show? For me? When I watched each season, I'm

1648
01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:38,760
Speaker 1: like every like the first few seasons, I love hip.

1649
01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:41,800
Speaker 1: I was terrible. I was embarrassed to be who I am.

1650
01:18:42,000 --> 01:18:45,679
Speaker 1: You were right, and I looked at myself. Nobody needed

1651
01:18:45,720 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 1: to tell me what I did. I could see it right,

1652
01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:50,720
Speaker 1: and so I used the show every year to either

1653
01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:55,799
Speaker 1: watch myself do bad or see myself enhance and upgrade.

1654
01:18:55,840 --> 01:18:57,920
Speaker 1: And so that's why I appreciate loving him, which is

1655
01:18:57,960 --> 01:19:01,439
Speaker 1: crazy because a lot of people would never saying, but

1656
01:19:01,560 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 1: I just do because I was able to. I was

1657
01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 1: able to watch my plays and then make my changes

1658
01:19:06,160 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 1: from watching myself. I'm glad y'all beat that courage man,

1659
01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:12,000
Speaker 1: because reality TV breaking couples apart. I'm glad I'm the

1660
01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:16,160
Speaker 1: only one. I'm the only one getting Can we have it?

1661
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:20,360
Speaker 1: Can we have a bomb to drop a ball? Which

1662
01:19:20,840 --> 01:19:23,880
Speaker 1: his bomb on clu so clue has his own bomb here. Yeah,

1663
01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 1: I know he always been dropping bombs. But yeah, so

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01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:29,439
Speaker 1: you got you guys don't have one? Now were clues?

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01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:32,920
Speaker 1: What do you have that sound effect? I don't know.

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01:19:33,680 --> 01:19:37,720
Speaker 1: You don't have enough guys. You gotta get who does

1667
01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:41,360
Speaker 1: the who he hot? Who does that? Donkey? Oh? Real one? Really?

1668
01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:42,559
Speaker 1: I got a real one. I bought a real one

1669
01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:45,960
Speaker 1: in here. We recorded it live. It was crazy, not

1670
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:48,439
Speaker 1: yet old. So how did you make the donkey do it?

1671
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:50,120
Speaker 1: Did you hit him like he had he go? Here?

1672
01:19:51,280 --> 01:19:52,920
Speaker 1: You know what I did? Really? I played one wish

1673
01:19:52,960 --> 01:19:54,479
Speaker 1: and then you put a little pinky in it. And

1674
01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:56,240
Speaker 1: I'm just about to say you was doing too much

1675
01:19:57,280 --> 01:19:59,640
Speaker 1: like that. I don't trying to wear out. They go.

1676
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:01,920
Speaker 1: I would have gonna say something, but then you actually

1677
01:20:02,040 --> 01:20:04,840
Speaker 1: was going there, So I'm like, damn, okay, what happens?

1678
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:07,599
Speaker 1: Has add this weekend? Like we just go all over

1679
01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:09,880
Speaker 1: the places? The question is eight hundred and five A

1680
01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:13,280
Speaker 1: five after the wedding, the marriage, that's when the marriage

1681
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:16,800
Speaker 1: starts for being married? What does the work that wins

1682
01:20:16,800 --> 01:20:18,680
Speaker 1: to be done? All right, let's talk about it when

1683
01:20:18,680 --> 01:20:20,280
Speaker 1: we come back. It's the breakfast club God morning after

1684
01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:23,240
Speaker 1: the wedding, you go have a good time well after

1685
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:25,120
Speaker 1: you know what. It's the Breakfast Club and one I'm

1686
01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:37,920
Speaker 1: saying it's time to get it popping legally call Merefast Club.

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01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:45,880
Speaker 1: Topic Morning everybody, DJ and V Charlomagne the guy. We

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01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:48,280
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. Our guest host Ray J is

1689
01:20:48,280 --> 01:20:51,639
Speaker 1: still here, no nonsense, Ray to day, raycon Global period

1690
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:53,599
Speaker 1: and if you just joined us, we were talking about

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01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:56,519
Speaker 1: the Elisis Cadine and de Val. That book We Over

1692
01:20:56,640 --> 01:21:00,400
Speaker 1: Me is out right now we over we over me

1693
01:21:01,320 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 1: like we together over me by myself that we over me?

1694
01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:12,000
Speaker 1: What about he and she or they d I just

1695
01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:14,320
Speaker 1: asked a lot of questions. That's it's cool. I'm curious.

1696
01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 1: So we're asking about the blueprint for marriage, right, and

1697
01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:18,960
Speaker 1: we got to think he talked to us. So I

1698
01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:23,920
Speaker 1: think that if you get premarital counseling, prenoto counseling will

1699
01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:26,240
Speaker 1: give you a foundation to actually build off of a

1700
01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:28,600
Speaker 1: lot of people don't want to subscribe to it, but

1701
01:21:28,800 --> 01:21:30,760
Speaker 1: it gets your mind off of the wedding and it

1702
01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:35,839
Speaker 1: allows you to build with one another. And our premarrital

1703
01:21:35,920 --> 01:21:39,519
Speaker 1: counseling included what didn't we see growing up? What are

1704
01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:41,920
Speaker 1: things that we would like to carry over. What are things?

1705
01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:46,080
Speaker 1: And that allowed us to say, Okay, unconsciously, we may

1706
01:21:46,160 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 1: do things that we start growing up. So if I

1707
01:21:49,520 --> 01:21:51,679
Speaker 1: start to act out a certain way, my husband would

1708
01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:54,640
Speaker 1: be prepared mentally to say, Okay, that may not be

1709
01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:57,840
Speaker 1: her consciously doing that. That may be an unconscious thing

1710
01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:00,760
Speaker 1: that she's repeating from what she started growing up. I like,

1711
01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:04,720
Speaker 1: didn't now have a conversation with one another, so he

1712
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:06,599
Speaker 1: can point it out to me and said, hey, remember

1713
01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:09,479
Speaker 1: we talked about this. You know this is you're starting

1714
01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:12,760
Speaker 1: to do X, Y and Z, which to prepare me

1715
01:22:12,880 --> 01:22:16,559
Speaker 1: not to take it personally. So I think there's pre

1716
01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:19,880
Speaker 1: marital counseling, and then that a lot allows you to

1717
01:22:19,960 --> 01:22:22,439
Speaker 1: have a person that you can now go to two

1718
01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:24,760
Speaker 1: or three months later when things start to appear and

1719
01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:27,760
Speaker 1: creep up, and I think this should be I think

1720
01:22:27,800 --> 01:22:29,720
Speaker 1: there should be somebody before you get married to talk

1721
01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:32,640
Speaker 1: to that break things down. Don't don't mind Charlomagne and Ray.

1722
01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:37,000
Speaker 1: They're not laughing at you clothing. But I read with

1723
01:22:37,040 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 1: you and I agree with you. Vicky's right, But Ray

1724
01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:44,320
Speaker 1: looking at me like I visited of Vicky and I'm

1725
01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:46,479
Speaker 1: and I'm into it and I'm focused in the look

1726
01:22:46,520 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 1: at me and see me focused and start laughing, and

1727
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:50,920
Speaker 1: I was like, dang, I was so focus. And then

1728
01:22:51,800 --> 01:22:54,160
Speaker 1: both of y'all go to the principal's office. Both principal's

1729
01:22:54,160 --> 01:22:56,920
Speaker 1: office right now, Vickie, not wrong. Though y'all would teaches nightmares.

1730
01:22:56,920 --> 01:22:59,000
Speaker 1: I could tell like both of y'all would teaches nightmare

1731
01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:03,960
Speaker 1: was No, it wasn't. I wasn't laughing. It got funny,

1732
01:23:04,040 --> 01:23:06,200
Speaker 1: it got funnier. Vicky, You're right, that should be pre

1733
01:23:06,320 --> 01:23:09,080
Speaker 1: marriage counseling, that that help couples and break things down.

1734
01:23:09,160 --> 01:23:11,920
Speaker 1: That that, especially Newly, was just don't know because there's

1735
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:13,559
Speaker 1: so many things that I didn't know about him. Sure,

1736
01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:16,960
Speaker 1: charlotmade and definitely no, no, Vicky for real, No, you right,

1737
01:23:17,200 --> 01:23:19,599
Speaker 1: Vicky hung up. But you know, think about premun think

1738
01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:21,960
Speaker 1: about premrido counseling. Even though I do agree with Vicky,

1739
01:23:22,439 --> 01:23:25,360
Speaker 1: you don't know what you're talking to the premarital counselor

1740
01:23:25,360 --> 01:23:28,000
Speaker 1: about because you haven't even encountered another of the issues

1741
01:23:28,080 --> 01:23:30,280
Speaker 1: that you're having your marriage, right, but the premountain marital

1742
01:23:30,360 --> 01:23:33,000
Speaker 1: counsel's life, how was her relationship? You get what I'm

1743
01:23:33,040 --> 01:23:37,000
Speaker 1: saying right counsel but then like you're talking about a

1744
01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 1: counselor without the facts of science, right Like, it's a

1745
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:42,160
Speaker 1: I don't know how their relationship is. You don't know

1746
01:23:42,200 --> 01:23:44,680
Speaker 1: how the doctors doctor. If he's a hard doctor, he's

1747
01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:47,759
Speaker 1: gonna make sure your heart works. And a marriage counselor

1748
01:23:48,240 --> 01:23:50,560
Speaker 1: is like, I can't and shout out to all the

1749
01:23:50,560 --> 01:23:52,479
Speaker 1: marriage counsel I don't want to mess up nobody's business.

1750
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:55,320
Speaker 1: But there's no scientific fact that's true, saying is right

1751
01:23:55,520 --> 01:23:59,680
Speaker 1: right relationship, a marriage counselor, every everybody else, everybody else

1752
01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:02,400
Speaker 1: saying it's all opinionated. It's like saying I hate this song,

1753
01:24:02,479 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 1: but then it turns into being a here. Sometimes the

1754
01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:06,519
Speaker 1: marriage counselor is just dare to be a conducted though

1755
01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:09,439
Speaker 1: right like, because you're already having a problem. Communicate referee

1756
01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:12,080
Speaker 1: exactly if the marriage counselors on the guy side, the

1757
01:24:12,120 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 1: girl gonna trip on the marriage counselor, but the marriage

1758
01:24:14,160 --> 01:24:16,080
Speaker 1: counselor should be a referee in the middle. That's letting

1759
01:24:16,160 --> 01:24:18,519
Speaker 1: both sides speak and both sides thoughts be hurt. But

1760
01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 1: if one side and the marriage counselor knows that one

1761
01:24:20,920 --> 01:24:22,639
Speaker 1: side is right, and the other one needs to work

1762
01:24:22,720 --> 01:24:25,280
Speaker 1: more on the right side because then the wrong side

1763
01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:26,920
Speaker 1: gonna trip and say, let's get a new one that's

1764
01:24:26,960 --> 01:24:29,599
Speaker 1: on my side. I'm with you. If I had one wish, yeah,

1765
01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:33,040
Speaker 1: no doubt. I would you do one wish, take another call.

1766
01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:35,519
Speaker 1: But we can't. Oh we need to drop this up.

1767
01:24:35,640 --> 01:24:38,200
Speaker 1: And and it's not raining today, so let's one wish

1768
01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:42,000
Speaker 1: is not gonna not pop off that real ring a

1769
01:24:42,040 --> 01:24:45,240
Speaker 1: little X at the fake rain. But I still gave

1770
01:24:45,240 --> 01:24:47,559
Speaker 1: a little edge like two fifty to do the video work.

1771
01:24:47,920 --> 01:24:49,479
Speaker 1: Let's work it and you made it all back that

1772
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:52,200
Speaker 1: the big we're working gold Yeah, yeah, no doubt. I

1773
01:24:52,280 --> 01:24:54,439
Speaker 1: mean the whole album Win Gold Ray is still spending

1774
01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:56,120
Speaker 1: one which money you don't get it twisted, the whole

1775
01:24:56,160 --> 01:24:58,439
Speaker 1: album win Gold. I'm at you know twe ninety nine.

1776
01:24:59,000 --> 01:25:01,960
Speaker 1: Oh man, Well, what's gonna let that story? After ask

1777
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:05,200
Speaker 1: the mother of the story is like, you know, the independent, No,

1778
01:25:05,479 --> 01:25:07,719
Speaker 1: it's not to be independent when you're on the record,

1779
01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:12,639
Speaker 1: you can't be independent. Get in trouble, right the trouble.

1780
01:25:12,720 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 1: You asked me what did the record do? I said that,

1781
01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:17,960
Speaker 1: I said, what's the moral of the story? Are they

1782
01:25:18,040 --> 01:25:21,920
Speaker 1: going to go be independent that I took overall this

1783
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:24,040
Speaker 1: work in y'all talk about marriage on the radio, and

1784
01:25:24,040 --> 01:25:26,080
Speaker 1: you said the moral of the stories to be independent, No,

1785
01:25:26,240 --> 01:25:28,759
Speaker 1: be independent for the music because we was like we're

1786
01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:30,760
Speaker 1: all over the place where like the topics, it's got

1787
01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:32,880
Speaker 1: going into in and out of stuff, and you know

1788
01:25:32,920 --> 01:25:36,120
Speaker 1: I got ray d D. The moral of the story

1789
01:25:36,320 --> 01:25:38,080
Speaker 1: is that you know there is work to be done

1790
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:40,560
Speaker 1: after somebody is married, and don't be afraid to do

1791
01:25:40,640 --> 01:25:42,679
Speaker 1: that work. That's that goes without saying like we gotta

1792
01:25:42,720 --> 01:25:44,439
Speaker 1: go to like your kid gotta go to school, we

1793
01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:46,040
Speaker 1: gotta go to work. Of course, it's work to be

1794
01:25:46,080 --> 01:25:48,599
Speaker 1: done after the marriage. The worst one yall the couple.

1795
01:25:48,640 --> 01:25:50,479
Speaker 1: But first off, the work gotta be done after the man.

1796
01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:52,400
Speaker 1: I gotta get it in for a little while. We married,

1797
01:25:54,240 --> 01:25:55,760
Speaker 1: all right, when we come back, we got your room,

1798
01:25:56,040 --> 01:25:58,080
Speaker 1: put it in. We just got married, so legally now

1799
01:25:58,120 --> 01:25:59,920
Speaker 1: we can have a good time. So let's spiritually get

1800
01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:02,400
Speaker 1: that in for a little while. And then if it's

1801
01:26:02,439 --> 01:26:04,680
Speaker 1: problems that pull up, would deal with them. But right now,

1802
01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:07,000
Speaker 1: life is good. Let's live, Let's enjoy the wedding. After

1803
01:26:07,040 --> 01:26:08,760
Speaker 1: the wedding, let me let me be in it. And

1804
01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:13,240
Speaker 1: marinate in it for at least a couple of weeks. Okay,

1805
01:26:13,560 --> 01:26:18,280
Speaker 1: at least when we come back and got rumors were talking.

1806
01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:20,760
Speaker 1: Wendy Williams, I don't move. It's the breakfast Cloak Morning,

1807
01:26:20,760 --> 01:26:27,120
Speaker 1: said Wendy Williams, coming in here. No, no, it's the

1808
01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:37,479
Speaker 1: Breakfast Morning, the breakfast Club power one oh five one,

1809
01:26:38,160 --> 01:26:41,760
Speaker 1: The breakfast Club Morning will never be the I'm telling

1810
01:26:43,240 --> 01:26:46,280
Speaker 1: Ray here reading books about cheating morning. Everybody. We are

1811
01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:48,479
Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Ray j our co host is here.

1812
01:26:48,520 --> 01:26:53,040
Speaker 1: Let's get to the rumors to talk. Wendy Williams, the

1813
01:26:53,200 --> 01:26:56,920
Speaker 1: name or you've gossip and when you chatting is the

1814
01:26:57,040 --> 01:26:59,040
Speaker 1: rub report? I mean, I guess we're on the breakfast Club.

1815
01:26:59,080 --> 01:27:03,080
Speaker 1: This is where the tea spells the breakfast Club. Now

1816
01:27:03,640 --> 01:27:06,040
Speaker 1: we're looking for it's like a ghost beaten up rage.

1817
01:27:06,800 --> 01:27:09,360
Speaker 1: Don't try to deflect from that book. You really new here.

1818
01:27:09,760 --> 01:27:13,040
Speaker 1: We're looking for his wire right, why you wi No? No,

1819
01:27:13,120 --> 01:27:19,600
Speaker 1: the why to plugging is now, Wendy Williams. Uh, it

1820
01:27:19,680 --> 01:27:22,800
Speaker 1: seems like a judge claimed. A judge said that they

1821
01:27:22,840 --> 01:27:25,639
Speaker 1: will not have to resume cutting alimony checks to Kevin

1822
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:29,320
Speaker 1: Hunter her ex anymore. Now, Kevin Hunter said, my car

1823
01:27:29,400 --> 01:27:32,200
Speaker 1: insurance hasn't been paid as a result of not receiving

1824
01:27:32,280 --> 01:27:35,000
Speaker 1: monthly severance payments. He said, I'm behind on my credit

1825
01:27:35,080 --> 01:27:37,639
Speaker 1: card payments because I have no money since these payments

1826
01:27:37,720 --> 01:27:41,479
Speaker 1: were suspended. He says, my life has been greatly affected

1827
01:27:41,560 --> 01:27:45,440
Speaker 1: since the plane off stopped making payments under our settlement agreement.

1828
01:27:45,520 --> 01:27:47,240
Speaker 1: Now we all know Wendy was making at one time

1829
01:27:47,640 --> 01:27:50,720
Speaker 1: ten million a year fifty five thousand. An episode on

1830
01:27:50,800 --> 01:27:52,800
Speaker 1: the way on the Wendy Williams showing, now he said

1831
01:27:52,840 --> 01:27:57,360
Speaker 1: he's behind on his bills because of that. Get it together.

1832
01:27:58,200 --> 01:28:02,320
Speaker 1: I'm back now and some Ray j News. Now ready,

1833
01:28:02,320 --> 01:28:03,519
Speaker 1: you want to tell the people what what you were

1834
01:28:03,520 --> 01:28:06,760
Speaker 1: doing yesterday. I wonder why you're reading that book. Oh

1835
01:28:06,880 --> 01:28:09,360
Speaker 1: there's two about the book. Shot shout out to Mama.

1836
01:28:10,600 --> 01:28:12,280
Speaker 1: I didn't know because I hate being in the news.

1837
01:28:14,200 --> 01:28:16,719
Speaker 1: This book is called Why Men Plus Women? She shout

1838
01:28:16,760 --> 01:28:19,080
Speaker 1: out to Mama Jones. Shout out to Jim Jones, Shout

1839
01:28:19,080 --> 01:28:20,800
Speaker 1: out to the whole family. I went over there. I

1840
01:28:21,080 --> 01:28:24,160
Speaker 1: had some chicken and some yams and some greens, and

1841
01:28:24,240 --> 01:28:26,880
Speaker 1: it was really good. And I told Mama Jones please

1842
01:28:26,920 --> 01:28:29,160
Speaker 1: burn my chicken because I don't like my chicken, medium

1843
01:28:29,200 --> 01:28:31,760
Speaker 1: will Why are you reading that book? Though she gave

1844
01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:33,320
Speaker 1: it to She said she got a book coming out,

1845
01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:34,760
Speaker 1: and I said, well, can I have it? And can

1846
01:28:34,840 --> 01:28:36,400
Speaker 1: you please sign up for me? Because I like that

1847
01:28:36,520 --> 01:28:38,200
Speaker 1: when people write books, I like to put them up

1848
01:28:38,240 --> 01:28:39,800
Speaker 1: and then like have them. What they say, you have

1849
01:28:39,920 --> 01:28:42,240
Speaker 1: no reason to read that book as a married man, no,

1850
01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:45,320
Speaker 1: like she the name of the book is Why Women

1851
01:28:45,360 --> 01:28:51,040
Speaker 1: and Why Men. That's the first song, why why No no, no,

1852
01:28:51,320 --> 01:28:53,360
Speaker 1: no no no. On the back it does say there's

1853
01:28:53,360 --> 01:28:56,880
Speaker 1: a two there's two sides, so this side. She said,

1854
01:28:56,960 --> 01:29:00,559
Speaker 1: you got to read it from the back. You don't

1855
01:29:00,600 --> 01:29:04,080
Speaker 1: need to know how. But she got ready, you know,

1856
01:29:04,200 --> 01:29:05,720
Speaker 1: so you got the front and then you got the

1857
01:29:05,800 --> 01:29:09,000
Speaker 1: back and the back was hidden from the back or something.

1858
01:29:09,040 --> 01:29:11,000
Speaker 1: She used the term not for me. I'm just saying

1859
01:29:11,000 --> 01:29:13,160
Speaker 1: because she family. Now I look at her like like

1860
01:29:13,400 --> 01:29:18,679
Speaker 1: my auntie, right, Mama Jones, Mama Jones, and mama her book. Yeah,

1861
01:29:18,760 --> 01:29:21,639
Speaker 1: Mama Jones. Book. That chicken was good last night because

1862
01:29:21,640 --> 01:29:23,280
Speaker 1: a lot of people are afraid to burn the chicken

1863
01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:24,840
Speaker 1: like I needed to. I need you to burn the

1864
01:29:24,880 --> 01:29:28,639
Speaker 1: chicken because I like it. Well, huh, because I don't

1865
01:29:28,800 --> 01:29:33,200
Speaker 1: like chicken. I don't like my chicken medium well through

1866
01:29:36,120 --> 01:29:38,320
Speaker 1: juicy chicken. Now, Also, you were talking about something that

1867
01:29:38,400 --> 01:29:40,599
Speaker 1: you got going on Friday. You got a video. Oh yeah,

1868
01:29:40,640 --> 01:29:42,479
Speaker 1: so shout out to my group. It's the first time

1869
01:29:42,600 --> 01:29:46,439
Speaker 1: we're ever putting out a music video. Rs VP, Ray J, Sammy,

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Speaker 1: Bobby V and Pleasure P. We were. We launched the

1871
01:29:50,160 --> 01:29:52,840
Speaker 1: first video Friday. I want to do it here first. Okay,

1872
01:29:52,920 --> 01:29:54,920
Speaker 1: I want to do it here at the breakfast club first?

1873
01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:56,479
Speaker 1: What do you mean to do it here? I don't

1874
01:29:56,479 --> 01:29:59,200
Speaker 1: want to drop the video. Oh y'all, don't do this radio.

1875
01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:04,040
Speaker 1: They can't see it. He could. Oh yeah, I want

1876
01:30:04,040 --> 01:30:06,880
Speaker 1: to play a thing yeah yeah, well I want to

1877
01:30:06,920 --> 01:30:10,640
Speaker 1: play yeah. Well, because it's the Southern song called I Like.

1878
01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:14,000
Speaker 1: That's the real single for radio money everywhere. It's like

1879
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:16,559
Speaker 1: our biography because it's like a seven minute song, six

1880
01:30:16,600 --> 01:30:18,479
Speaker 1: minute record. Oh, we're not doing it. No, That's why

1881
01:30:18,479 --> 01:30:20,559
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you guys about that now. Yeah,

1882
01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:22,160
Speaker 1: we're not doing it. No, no, no, no, no no.

1883
01:30:22,840 --> 01:30:24,160
Speaker 1: The last thing I got it, the last thing I

1884
01:30:24,200 --> 01:30:25,360
Speaker 1: want to talk about. I don't even know if you

1885
01:30:25,400 --> 01:30:27,280
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. But something interesting you said.

1886
01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:29,960
Speaker 1: I was saying, behind the scenes, ray J goes left

1887
01:30:30,000 --> 01:30:32,639
Speaker 1: and right when he has conversations. If everybody out there listening,

1888
01:30:32,640 --> 01:30:35,360
Speaker 1: I was, yeah, ray d D. I was selling ray

1889
01:30:35,400 --> 01:30:37,280
Speaker 1: d h D. And I was telling them that, you know,

1890
01:30:37,360 --> 01:30:39,360
Speaker 1: I would love to see a conversation between him and

1891
01:30:39,439 --> 01:30:41,960
Speaker 1: fifty because fifty is the same way. They just talk

1892
01:30:42,280 --> 01:30:44,120
Speaker 1: on purpose. He talk about everything. And he said that

1893
01:30:44,200 --> 01:30:46,839
Speaker 1: he actually had a conversation with fifty. I had multiple

1894
01:30:46,920 --> 01:30:50,640
Speaker 1: conversations with fifty five minutes. No, yeah, one one conversation

1895
01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:54,360
Speaker 1: me and Jackie had with fifty. U. Fifty was moving around.

1896
01:30:54,360 --> 01:30:56,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if he didn't like our idea or

1897
01:30:57,720 --> 01:30:59,479
Speaker 1: or he liked it, and he was just like let

1898
01:30:59,520 --> 01:31:01,120
Speaker 1: me just like, I gotta get it in before I

1899
01:31:01,160 --> 01:31:03,439
Speaker 1: get on the plane. But so you got to say

1900
01:31:03,479 --> 01:31:07,120
Speaker 1: another word. I say that again. Y'all were having a

1901
01:31:07,200 --> 01:31:10,920
Speaker 1: conversation on FaceTime and where were you on FaceTime? Jackie

1902
01:31:10,960 --> 01:31:14,799
Speaker 1: Long set it up and Fifty took a dump conversation

1903
01:31:14,840 --> 01:31:16,240
Speaker 1: in the meeting that I had when I was in

1904
01:31:16,320 --> 01:31:18,760
Speaker 1: a pitch, so he was pitching something to him. Yeah,

1905
01:31:18,960 --> 01:31:20,880
Speaker 1: and he was in the middle taking the pool. No,

1906
01:31:21,040 --> 01:31:24,719
Speaker 1: he went in and just comfortable enough. He felt comfortable

1907
01:31:24,840 --> 01:31:27,280
Speaker 1: enough to where he felt like, you know, That's what

1908
01:31:27,360 --> 01:31:29,519
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It could have been like we we found

1909
01:31:29,760 --> 01:31:31,720
Speaker 1: that these my boys, let me go get let me

1910
01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:33,360
Speaker 1: go take a dump real quick, and then let me

1911
01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:35,560
Speaker 1: let me listen to the meeting. Maybe it was just

1912
01:31:35,720 --> 01:31:39,760
Speaker 1: like just like I'm gonna just dump. Did he call you?

1913
01:31:40,160 --> 01:31:44,599
Speaker 1: I don't think Curtis is gonna like this, No, gonna

1914
01:31:44,600 --> 01:31:47,160
Speaker 1: like you putting this kind of information just it was.

1915
01:31:47,240 --> 01:31:49,200
Speaker 1: It was to me, I felt it was some gangs.

1916
01:31:49,320 --> 01:31:51,240
Speaker 1: It was gangster. It was like we got you know

1917
01:31:51,280 --> 01:31:54,200
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, We got a little bit, No we

1918
01:31:54,320 --> 01:31:56,080
Speaker 1: got It felt like we got a little homeid in

1919
01:31:56,160 --> 01:31:58,360
Speaker 1: the meeting because maybe the idea wasn't good. Maybe he

1920
01:31:58,479 --> 01:32:06,920
Speaker 1: just had to do dude, Maybe who had just that semple?

1921
01:32:07,080 --> 01:32:09,479
Speaker 1: Remember Fifth, I told you that that you did that

1922
01:32:09,640 --> 01:32:11,920
Speaker 1: when we was talking. You think he didn't know he moved?

1923
01:32:13,520 --> 01:32:15,280
Speaker 1: Fifth is busy doing a lot of stuff. So you

1924
01:32:15,320 --> 01:32:18,040
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. If I don't believe man, you

1925
01:32:18,080 --> 01:32:22,080
Speaker 1: didn't believe me about the Eddie League. At the end

1926
01:32:22,120 --> 01:32:24,680
Speaker 1: of the week, I'm putting the compilation together of all

1927
01:32:24,840 --> 01:32:28,040
Speaker 1: Ray Jay's unbelievable stories. I might even have somebody animate

1928
01:32:28,160 --> 01:32:30,000
Speaker 1: him that Eddie Murphy went when you say you picked

1929
01:32:30,080 --> 01:32:31,760
Speaker 1: him up in the g wagon that nobody in the

1930
01:32:31,840 --> 01:32:35,800
Speaker 1: America had fifty Yeah, but now fifty dump in front

1931
01:32:35,800 --> 01:32:40,719
Speaker 1: of you while you and Jackie Eddie Murphy. Eddie Murphy

1932
01:32:40,800 --> 01:32:42,920
Speaker 1: had the g wagon but the two door that was

1933
01:32:43,000 --> 01:32:45,320
Speaker 1: not in, and so he saw I had the four door. Brandy,

1934
01:32:45,360 --> 01:32:48,000
Speaker 1: it was Brandy of driving brand a man. Ya don't believe.

1935
01:32:49,200 --> 01:32:51,360
Speaker 1: Shout out to Shout out to Crystal. We got the

1936
01:32:51,400 --> 01:32:55,120
Speaker 1: people getting hungry, me hungry. It's the Breakfast Club. We'll

1937
01:32:55,160 --> 01:32:58,760
Speaker 1: be right back. Don't go nowhere, Fifth Breakfast Club. Your

1938
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1945
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Speaker 1: dj n V Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club,

1946
01:33:25,640 --> 01:33:27,479
Speaker 1: our special guest hostess here at ray J. Now we

1947
01:33:27,520 --> 01:33:30,080
Speaker 1: got a Black History Month moment. We do man salute

1948
01:33:30,120 --> 01:33:31,920
Speaker 1: to my dude, B dot Man. You know, every day

1949
01:33:32,000 --> 01:33:35,160
Speaker 1: during Black History Month, the Black Effect iHeartRadio podcast Network

1950
01:33:35,200 --> 01:33:37,360
Speaker 1: puts out a podcast called I didn't know? Maybe you

1951
01:33:37,479 --> 01:33:40,120
Speaker 1: didn't neither? Okay, and I got something today that maybe

1952
01:33:40,160 --> 01:33:43,519
Speaker 1: you didn't know? Did you know black people save PEPSI? Huh?

1953
01:33:43,760 --> 01:33:46,080
Speaker 1: Did you? My man? Beat that's gonna break it down

1954
01:33:46,120 --> 01:33:50,080
Speaker 1: for you. I didn't know, didn't didn't. I didn't know.

1955
01:33:50,920 --> 01:33:56,519
Speaker 1: I didn't. John Pemberton a pharmacist in Atlanta. He invented coke,

1956
01:33:56,880 --> 01:34:00,320
Speaker 1: but that was actually his second drink. His first mention

1957
01:34:00,400 --> 01:34:03,960
Speaker 1: was in eighteen eighty four called French wine coca. It

1958
01:34:04,080 --> 01:34:06,280
Speaker 1: was really just a copycat of a French wine that

1959
01:34:06,439 --> 01:34:09,200
Speaker 1: had cocaine in it. In eighteen eighty five, right when

1960
01:34:09,280 --> 01:34:13,400
Speaker 1: the product was about to start poppington, Atlanta outlawed alcohol sales.

1961
01:34:13,640 --> 01:34:16,000
Speaker 1: So that's when Pemberton went to work on a different

1962
01:34:16,160 --> 01:34:22,000
Speaker 1: ring that had the same medicinal effects, introducing coca cola.

1963
01:34:22,160 --> 01:34:25,360
Speaker 1: In eighteen eighty six. They started calling coca cola the

1964
01:34:25,560 --> 01:34:29,800
Speaker 1: intellectual beverage among well off whites. In eighteen ninety one,

1965
01:34:30,040 --> 01:34:32,720
Speaker 1: it was revealed that cocaine was in coca cola, so

1966
01:34:32,840 --> 01:34:37,360
Speaker 1: that's when the drinks start getting marketed as refreshing versus medicinal.

1967
01:34:37,880 --> 01:34:40,720
Speaker 1: Then they started the glass bottles in eighteen ninety nine,

1968
01:34:40,960 --> 01:34:43,439
Speaker 1: and that changed the game because now anybody can get

1969
01:34:43,520 --> 01:34:46,200
Speaker 1: Coca Cola if you got a nickel, black or white.

1970
01:34:46,400 --> 01:34:48,599
Speaker 1: And then white folk did not want black folk drinking

1971
01:34:48,640 --> 01:34:51,680
Speaker 1: that good Coca Cola. That was the intellectual beverage. So

1972
01:34:51,840 --> 01:34:55,400
Speaker 1: because Coca Cola had cocaine in it, white newspaper started

1973
01:34:55,479 --> 01:34:59,800
Speaker 1: reporting Negro cocaine fiends were raping white women and the

1974
01:35:00,040 --> 01:35:03,040
Speaker 1: police were powerless to stop him. By nineteen o three,

1975
01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:06,080
Speaker 1: they took the cocaine out and added more sugar and caffeine.

1976
01:35:06,640 --> 01:35:09,200
Speaker 1: I didn't know none of this. I also didn't realize

1977
01:35:09,240 --> 01:35:11,720
Speaker 1: that Pepsi in nineteen forty was in the dirt trying

1978
01:35:11,760 --> 01:35:14,080
Speaker 1: to keep up with Coca Cola. Se Coca Cola had

1979
01:35:14,120 --> 01:35:16,519
Speaker 1: the six ounds bottles for a nickel. Pepsi went to

1980
01:35:16,600 --> 01:35:19,160
Speaker 1: the twelve ounce bottles for the nickel, but that didn't

1981
01:35:19,200 --> 01:35:22,000
Speaker 1: help him. Jeff made the drink look cheap, but Dan

1982
01:35:22,080 --> 01:35:25,160
Speaker 1: Pepsi got smart. Pepsy said, you know what, Cocacola, don't

1983
01:35:25,200 --> 01:35:28,200
Speaker 1: go over there to the hood. We should Pepsi put

1984
01:35:28,280 --> 01:35:32,799
Speaker 1: together a Negro markets department, y'all in the nineteen forties

1985
01:35:32,840 --> 01:35:36,599
Speaker 1: and fifties to increase sales to blacks, and it worked

1986
01:35:36,680 --> 01:35:39,160
Speaker 1: like hell. The president of Pepsi at the time was

1987
01:35:39,240 --> 01:35:42,160
Speaker 1: Walter mac He put together a team of black marketers

1988
01:35:42,320 --> 01:35:45,880
Speaker 1: to promote sales in black communities. Only, instead of making

1989
01:35:45,960 --> 01:35:49,120
Speaker 1: black folks look goofy in the butter jokes, Pepsi promoted

1990
01:35:49,160 --> 01:35:51,680
Speaker 1: a different image of black folk in his advertising. Had

1991
01:35:51,760 --> 01:35:54,320
Speaker 1: Duke Ellington on that joint. By the time the fifties

1992
01:35:54,400 --> 01:35:57,719
Speaker 1: was over, Pepsi sales increased dramatically. They was out selling

1993
01:35:57,800 --> 01:36:00,599
Speaker 1: coke in the black community by a marginal three to one,

1994
01:36:01,760 --> 01:36:04,960
Speaker 1: and the drink not the narcotic, because they were probably

1995
01:36:05,000 --> 01:36:08,360
Speaker 1: moving that narcotic. The technique of selling to jezz black

1996
01:36:08,439 --> 01:36:11,320
Speaker 1: folk was so successful that it would come to be

1997
01:36:11,479 --> 01:36:15,800
Speaker 1: known as niche advertising as an approach for carving out

1998
01:36:15,840 --> 01:36:18,640
Speaker 1: a distinct place in the markets. It still used that

1999
01:36:18,760 --> 01:36:22,600
Speaker 1: today black folk, whoa he's so powerful. Now take that

2000
01:36:22,760 --> 01:36:25,560
Speaker 1: the school work or church, Richard, Because I didn't know,

2001
01:36:26,080 --> 01:36:34,760
Speaker 1: maybe you didn't either. You welcome Pepsy, that's right, Make

2002
01:36:34,840 --> 01:36:37,240
Speaker 1: sure you subscribe to the I didn't know. Maybe you

2003
01:36:37,320 --> 01:36:40,280
Speaker 1: didn't neither podcast and salute to my guy b dot man. Um,

2004
01:36:40,600 --> 01:36:43,400
Speaker 1: you know yesterday I posted that I didn't know, maybe

2005
01:36:43,479 --> 01:36:47,400
Speaker 1: you didn't either, is being taught as curriculum in fifteen

2006
01:36:47,520 --> 01:36:50,880
Speaker 1: schools in North Carolina, man, so b Dot, salute to

2007
01:36:50,960 --> 01:36:52,559
Speaker 1: you and all the great work that you're doing. Man.

2008
01:36:52,640 --> 01:36:54,400
Speaker 1: And you know this is what it's all about. You know,

2009
01:36:54,400 --> 01:36:56,280
Speaker 1: when you start to see things that you're putting out

2010
01:36:56,320 --> 01:36:58,840
Speaker 1: on your platforms, you know end up in schools and

2011
01:36:58,960 --> 01:37:00,840
Speaker 1: you know, being able to teach these babies. That's the

2012
01:37:00,880 --> 01:37:03,439
Speaker 1: beautiful thing, especially in this era, because if we don't

2013
01:37:03,560 --> 01:37:06,479
Speaker 1: educate our kids, nobody will. Can't rely on other people

2014
01:37:06,520 --> 01:37:08,320
Speaker 1: to do that. So make sure you subscribed to the

2015
01:37:08,600 --> 01:37:10,400
Speaker 1: I didn't know, Maybe you didn't need a podcast on

2016
01:37:10,479 --> 01:37:13,040
Speaker 1: the Black Effect. iHeartRadio podcast Network. Slew to my guy

2017
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Speaker 1: b dot all right, and our daily Bread is back,

2018
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Speaker 1: So make sure you log on to Breakfast club online

2019
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Speaker 1: dot com the register for your chance to get some

2020
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Speaker 1: cash right. Shout out to Mordecai Motion and Brenda Thompson

2021
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Speaker 1: of Brooklyn. They just picked up a Crown Royal bag

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Speaker 1: of a thousand dollars so special thanks to our friends

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Speaker 1: at Crown Royal Positive dotes up next morning. Everybody is

2024
01:37:33,400 --> 01:37:37,160
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Charlemagne, the guy Rayja invented the word cap.

2025
01:37:37,200 --> 01:37:38,680
Speaker 1: Remember when ray J was gonna love and hip hop

2026
01:37:38,760 --> 01:37:42,840
Speaker 1: and his cap. You invented cap. We all to breakfasts

2027
01:37:42,880 --> 01:37:45,080
Speaker 1: of all. He told ed he picked up Eddie Murphy

2028
01:37:45,120 --> 01:37:47,240
Speaker 1: and a g wagon that nobody else had in the world.

2029
01:37:47,600 --> 01:37:50,240
Speaker 1: He said he was in a meeting with took a

2030
01:37:50,320 --> 01:37:52,400
Speaker 1: dump in front of him and Jackie Longo. He took

2031
01:37:52,400 --> 01:37:53,920
Speaker 1: a dump in the meeting out in front of us,

2032
01:37:54,080 --> 01:37:56,439
Speaker 1: like I couldn't see him actually dumping because he was dumping.

2033
01:37:56,600 --> 01:37:57,800
Speaker 1: Now he's telling us he don't want to be on

2034
01:37:57,880 --> 01:38:02,200
Speaker 1: BMF because he started being BMW. Didn't want to be Power.

2035
01:38:02,360 --> 01:38:04,679
Speaker 1: I said, I didn't want to be on Power because

2036
01:38:04,680 --> 01:38:06,360
Speaker 1: I auditioned and I didn't get this. I don't want

2037
01:38:06,400 --> 01:38:08,840
Speaker 1: to try no more. Where West Team come into place

2038
01:38:08,960 --> 01:38:13,040
Speaker 1: because West Dem is my brother. He the first person

2039
01:38:13,120 --> 01:38:14,840
Speaker 1: I ever let me drive a billy when I didn't

2040
01:38:14,840 --> 01:38:16,519
Speaker 1: have and I have a billy. That's what made me

2041
01:38:16,640 --> 01:38:21,720
Speaker 1: want to have a belly. That is a lie. West

2042
01:38:22,040 --> 01:38:24,200
Speaker 1: was when when they was in the streets, that was

2043
01:38:24,320 --> 01:38:30,599
Speaker 1: yo here yo t T. I didn't even have a license.

2044
01:38:30,680 --> 01:38:33,920
Speaker 1: Ye Yo, t please respond to the Breakfast Club and

2045
01:38:34,080 --> 01:38:36,120
Speaker 1: let them know you was the first person to let

2046
01:38:36,160 --> 01:38:37,640
Speaker 1: me drive a billy. You let me hold it for

2047
01:38:37,720 --> 01:38:42,760
Speaker 1: three days. Bet you gotta stop this man. You gotta

2048
01:38:43,160 --> 01:38:44,439
Speaker 1: at the end of the week, I don't want to

2049
01:38:46,840 --> 01:38:48,920
Speaker 1: and somebody gonna animate it for me. I don't know

2050
01:38:49,000 --> 01:38:51,160
Speaker 1: where to go because I'm mad, because I'm right here,

2051
01:38:51,240 --> 01:38:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm telling you really like this ain't right. Ta. Can't

2052
01:38:55,960 --> 01:38:58,760
Speaker 1: you please respond in the Breakfast Club and say, Yo, Ray,

2053
01:38:59,000 --> 01:39:02,080
Speaker 1: rain capping, rain capping on nothing. I wear a cap

2054
01:39:02,240 --> 01:39:05,559
Speaker 1: and still don't cap, can you? It's on a positive

2055
01:39:05,560 --> 01:39:07,080
Speaker 1: little ray. It's time to get a pa So shout

2056
01:39:07,080 --> 01:39:10,439
Speaker 1: out to Crystal Um, yep, and I got a big

2057
01:39:10,520 --> 01:39:12,600
Speaker 1: ott platform coming. I want to I want to do

2058
01:39:12,720 --> 01:39:15,640
Speaker 1: some shows with y'all too. Um. I'm going through some

2059
01:39:15,760 --> 01:39:18,400
Speaker 1: stuff right now. It's getting a little bit like it's

2060
01:39:18,439 --> 01:39:20,439
Speaker 1: getting a little bit of ratchet, and then the shows

2061
01:39:20,520 --> 01:39:22,400
Speaker 1: is getting a little bit intense. Shout out to the

2062
01:39:22,479 --> 01:39:25,120
Speaker 1: Dosh network. Um, I want to have a few more

2063
01:39:25,160 --> 01:39:27,960
Speaker 1: meetings this week to understand the subject matter, because I

2064
01:39:28,000 --> 01:39:30,120
Speaker 1: want to make sure it's not too out of control.

2065
01:39:30,680 --> 01:39:32,720
Speaker 1: The numbers are gonna go crazy on dosh because the

2066
01:39:32,800 --> 01:39:35,920
Speaker 1: content is so loud. Okay, where do I fit in

2067
01:39:36,040 --> 01:39:40,520
Speaker 1: and hear? Morally? Dosh? Where am I with this more integrity?

2068
01:39:40,720 --> 01:39:42,800
Speaker 1: With my integrity? All right, that's it, That's what I

2069
01:39:42,840 --> 01:39:49,120
Speaker 1: wanted to say. I'm okay. We had to shout out

2070
01:39:49,120 --> 01:39:51,960
Speaker 1: to Crystal. They got the pimento cheese that I like, Crystal.

2071
01:39:52,160 --> 01:39:54,280
Speaker 1: I think what Ray is trying to say is if

2072
01:39:54,320 --> 01:39:58,679
Speaker 1: it drains you, it's not for you. They always breakfast club.

2073
01:39:59,400 --> 01:40:00,639
Speaker 1: You don't finish what y'all done.