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Speaker 1: This is intergalactic John, This is Alien Sam on the

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Speaker 1: these interstellar stories. I think my friend might be Bridezilla.

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Speaker 1: Should I skip the wedding?

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Speaker 2: I mean, do you hear like thunderous footsteps in the distance,

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Speaker 2: do you hear the cries of dinosaurus?

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Speaker 3: Then you might need a run. You might want to.

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Speaker 1: I was asked to be at the wedding of a

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Speaker 1: friend of mine. We are close and hang out regularly,

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Speaker 1: but she and I do not have a history of

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Speaker 1: talking about deeper serious things. I see her more of

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Speaker 1: a as a party type friend. By the way, this

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Speaker 1: your own stories, go to our slash Okay storytimes. When

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Speaker 1: things have happened in my life, breakup, death of apparent

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Speaker 1: health issues, she wasn't really there for me. I was surprised.

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Speaker 1: I was considered. I thought that was going to be

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Speaker 1: like she always, you know, had my back. He's like, no,

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Speaker 1: sheems is kind of terrible.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she was kind of one of those friends who's

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Speaker 3: not there for you. It just sucks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was surprised I was considered close enough to

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Speaker 1: be in her wedding. As some of us know, you

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Speaker 1: can meet someone for two weeks and then be invited

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Speaker 1: to their wedding. Pan to Riley, Pan to Riley. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: shout out to the wedding we're going to in a month.

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Speaker 1: But I was flattered and excited to be asked of

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Speaker 1: the wedding. Nonetheless, the bride booked a wedding venue that

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Speaker 1: cost twenty five thousand dollars just to rent the estates.

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Speaker 1: This does not include food, beverages, tables, chairs, et cetera,

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Speaker 1: et cetera.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't you just like want twenty five thousand dollars for

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Speaker 2: anything else besides just being at a place.

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Speaker 1: Hey, it's pretty. I'm gonna be a princess in my castle.

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Speaker 1: You tell me you were gonna put a price tag

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Speaker 1: on out, but it's not yours though, Oh.

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Speaker 3: It's on today.

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Speaker 2: If you bought the castle for twenty five k I'd

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Speaker 2: be like phenomenal. So you tell me I'm not a

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Speaker 2: princess queen that deserves everything. I would never tell you

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Speaker 2: that on your wedding.

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Speaker 1: But you just did uninvited, uninvited, just kidding, you're invited.

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Speaker 1: So her original budget was thirty k all in. She

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Speaker 1: figured she would subsidize the exorbitant rental costs by charging

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Speaker 1: the out of town guests that were coming into the

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Speaker 1: wedding to stay at the estate, which would sleep over

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Speaker 1: twenty five people.

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Speaker 2: You're you're subsidiz You're subsidizing the cost of your wedding

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Speaker 2: with your friends.

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Speaker 3: She is offering them a room, though, what are you

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Speaker 3: the CIA? Like, yeah, do they charge for you know,

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Speaker 3: they subsidized.

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Speaker 2: I was watching some secret agent stuff like last night

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Speaker 2: and this morning.

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Speaker 3: Dude, like secret agents. They're all over the place.

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Speaker 2: You might you might actually be like walking into like

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Speaker 2: the vacuum store you buy vacuum there, Just kidding. Those

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Speaker 2: are all CIA operatives. But they did just sell you

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Speaker 2: a vacuum boo. It's crazy. They're all over there. They're

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Speaker 2: trying to suck the truth.

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Speaker 3: Out of me. But I won't let it. I won't

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Speaker 3: let them, not today, Satan.

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Speaker 1: But oh my god, back to the agent of evil

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Speaker 1: that is this Bridezilla. She asked me if I was

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Speaker 1: okay with paying two hundred dollars a night for the room,

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Speaker 1: which I said yes to as this is a going

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Speaker 1: rate for the hotels in the area and it would

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Speaker 1: be nice to just stay on the premises. I knew

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Speaker 1: I was sharing my room with the maid of honor,

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Speaker 1: but I was under the impression that the two hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars was for both of us. Soon after accepting, my

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Speaker 1: new boyfriend was also invited to attend with me. At

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Speaker 1: this point, I asked if we could have our own

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Speaker 1: room instead, if there was one still available. She tells me, yes,

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Speaker 1: the cost will just be four hundred dollars a night.

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Speaker 1: Your wedding is not that cool, sorry, dude.

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Speaker 2: You know what four hundred dollars can get a night

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Speaker 2: can get you pretty much anywhere you want, dude.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, she I think she was. Honestly, I feel like

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Speaker 1: she was on the line or close to something, because listen,

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Speaker 1: literally last night, me, Riley, Sam and Iima booked all

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Speaker 1: of our stuff, right, It's not zero dollars, like, we're

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Speaker 1: still spending money. So I do think it is kind

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Speaker 1: of an interesting idea, like, oh, what if you have

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Speaker 1: like a wedding venue that also has like rooms or something,

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Speaker 1: and you can kind.

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Speaker 3: Of like configure it.

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Speaker 4: John this is what I want.

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Speaker 5: This is what I want, Yes, okay Riley's workhouse in

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Speaker 5: the woods. Yes, and it's huge. And then in the

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Speaker 5: backyard you do the wedding and then everyone stays in

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Speaker 5: the house like that weekend and.

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Speaker 1: You just say, hey, would you be down to spend

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks a night to help cover it instead of

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Speaker 1: doing it's cheaper than a hotel. And see this is

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Speaker 1: where I'm like, this could have actually been a great idea. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but she she fumbled the back.

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Speaker 3: Why don't we just have everyone sleep in their cars?

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Speaker 3: What are we doing?

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Speaker 4: Or hear me out, why don't we go further out?

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Speaker 4: Hear me out?

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Speaker 3: Tents? Tents? Yes, Harry Potter.

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Speaker 5: That remember when they went to the games and they

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Speaker 5: win the tins and they were houses in the tents.

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Speaker 3: Well that those were tartist tents.

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Speaker 4: Okay, get tartest tints?

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Speaker 3: They don't what tenths tartest? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Doctor who bigger on the inside? I see bigger on

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Speaker 2: the inside.

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Speaker 4: Got It's like a Genie bottle, you know how, Like

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Speaker 4: they got a whole mansion in there, do they?

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Speaker 3: I thought the whole thing was that the Genie bottle

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Speaker 3: was cramped.

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Speaker 4: That's what they want you to think they're actually comfortable.

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Speaker 3: In those genies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're just they've got it made. Sometimes they're just

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Speaker 2: looking for sympathy, those genies.

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Speaker 3: How did we get here? This is amazing, well, opie says?

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Speaker 1: I told her, I was confused, as it was two

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars a night before, and that rate was for

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Speaker 1: me to not only share a room, but to share

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Speaker 1: a bed with.

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Speaker 3: This made of honor ooh saucy.

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Speaker 1: At this point I told her that I simply could

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Speaker 1: not afford to pay that much.

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Speaker 3: It would have been twelve hundred dollars for three nights.

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Speaker 3: Three yikes.

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Speaker 1: She continued to push about how she wanted the entire

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Speaker 1: wedding party to stay at the venue. Mind you, it's

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Speaker 1: a destination wedding and this was eight months before the wedding,

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Speaker 1: so she would have been easily able to fill my

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Speaker 1: spot if needed, and there were plenty of rental options nearby,

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Speaker 1: even walking distance from the estate. She doesn't care, You

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Speaker 1: don't care, She does not care. I ended up writing

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Speaker 1: her an incredibly uncomfortable email, telling her all the trips

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Speaker 1: she had planned, all based around visiting family, the holidays

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Speaker 1: and one wedding that my boyfriend is in two weeks

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Speaker 1: before that wedding, and how I simply could not afford

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Speaker 1: it and wish I could twelve, I can't afford to

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Speaker 1: pay for your wedding, my bad. Hey, could you, uh,

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Speaker 1: could you just give me a wrench for my wedding?

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Speaker 3: Could you just come on give it to.

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Speaker 2: Me, come on subsidize me. Yeah, this is your wedding,

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Speaker 2: your responsibility. I'm as much as I do love the

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Speaker 2: idea of like what Riley talked about, like renting, you know,

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Speaker 2: renting a room in a cabin or something like cute

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Speaker 2: and cool like that.

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Speaker 3: This is your wedding. Yeah, it's your responsibility. You can't

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Speaker 3: stomach twenty five k for the estate? Guess what? Oh

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Speaker 3: my god, you don't have to You don't have to

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Speaker 3: do that. Incorrect. You could go to the beach. Let's

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Speaker 3: go to the beach.

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Speaker 1: Are you telling me that me, as a princess, should

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Speaker 1: have to abandon my castle and go on on the

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Speaker 1: beach with the pores?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: And if you keep and if you keep talking like that,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna turn you into the little mermaid because I'm

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Speaker 2: throwing you in the ocean.

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Speaker 3: Oh but you forgot one thing. I got feet. Uh, oh,

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Speaker 3: what do you call them? What's what's?

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Speaker 2: Or?

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Speaker 3: No, what's this? Legs? Got? Okay, No, we can't sing.

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Speaker 2: That we can't sing, that we can't sing that Disney

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Speaker 2: will drone strike the house?

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Speaker 3: Please mouse? So uh.

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Speaker 1: She didn't respond to the email, and we agreed to

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Speaker 1: meet in person to discuss it. When we went out

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Speaker 1: before our meeting to talk about this, my boyfriend texted

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Speaker 1: me with a surprise that he bought us tickets to

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Speaker 1: a concert that I wanted to go to, but I

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Speaker 1: and I shared this news with the group about how

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Speaker 3: I sent the disturbance to the force.

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Speaker 1: That night, I got a few extremely angry texts suggesting

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Speaker 1: if anything, I shouldn't go to the wedding two weeks

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Speaker 1: before hers to save the money, in which my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: is a groomsman and it's the first time I get

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Speaker 1: to visit his hometown, which is a big deal to us.

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Speaker 2: This is just all choose the path of peace, fused

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend. Forget this wedding, dude, this is turning into

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Speaker 2: a nightmare.

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Speaker 1: Remember at the mere beginning of the story, Opie was like, Hey,

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Speaker 1: we weren't that close. She hasn't been there for me,

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Speaker 1: so I was kind of surprised me the wedding. This

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Speaker 1: is like a I'm sorry, but this seems like a

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Speaker 1: throwaway wedding for op right, and then the.

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Speaker 3: Wedding for obvious, So he's not a it's like a bonus.

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Speaker 3: It's a great point that you bring up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's never really been there for me throughout all

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Speaker 2: the hardest events of my life.

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Speaker 3: But I guess I'm involved in her wedding.

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Speaker 2: Guess what you don't have to be, especially if it

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Speaker 2: cost twelve K and the time you have to take

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Speaker 2: off from work, both of you. I assume, Yeah, if

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Speaker 2: you're out there for like four or five days or

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Speaker 2: I think it was three, wasn't it?

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Speaker 3: That could be a weekend. But regardless, it's like, no

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Speaker 3: focus on you and your boyfriend. Focus on you, my bro.

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Speaker 1: I'm aghast and honestly feel like she's a selfish bridezilla

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Speaker 1: and is off horaka. Every time we talked about this,

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Speaker 1: she gave me two options. One pay two be the

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Speaker 1: worst friend ever?

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Speaker 2: Are we even friends?

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Speaker 3: Do you know my middle name? Well, that's actually kind

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Speaker 3: of a hard one because I don't know anyone's middle

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Speaker 3: name here. I'm gonna say.

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Speaker 2: Yours is Kentavious and yours yours is Riley.

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Speaker 3: Yours' that's not my middle name?

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Speaker 2: Uh, yours tone to tone Tony Riley, Tony Wilson and

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Speaker 2: John Contavious Fry.

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Speaker 3: Riley McClure Wilson. Oh, I actually should have known that

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Speaker 3: it's in your profile.

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Speaker 4: Then. And then John Ralph park it starts with be

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Speaker 1: You're so close John Randolph park Hill, park Hill by

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Speaker 3: Sounds like you need to own at least one third

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Speaker 1: Bro bro Me Me and the Latinos were locked in

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like she's like in the wedding.

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Speaker 3: Why am I your bridesmaid? Why are we doing this?

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Speaker 3: Maybe they just don't have a lot of friends.

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Speaker 1: She just needs She's like, hey, we ran out of

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Speaker 1: I get free labor. Yeah, hey you're a groomsman. Hey, bride'smaid.

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Speaker 1: Could you go and set up hours of decorations? Could

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Speaker 2: Right, not to mention now it's like, you knoww you're

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Speaker 3: Not only a racket. Not only am I not gonna

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a racket. Wow, get out of there.

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Speaker 1: This is crazy now. I do not like the maid

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Speaker 3: Need to drop out of this wedding. Yeah, it's like,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: It's a trust your gut, dude, Like, get your time

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Speaker 2: If this was like your best friend for a fifteen

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Speaker 2: Like that'd be one thing.

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Speaker 3: Yes, this is not that case. You don't care about you,

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Speaker 3: You don't care about you. Go enjoy They'll take a

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Speaker 1: She gossips, talks crap about her friends all the time,

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Speaker 1: burned before. We have never fought, and nobody knows how

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Speaker 1: wedding festivities. For months, I've been inquiring about the shower

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Speaker 2: Ah didn't ahoy anyways.

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Speaker 3: I also offered other local suggestions.

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Speaker 1: She consistently read my messages on Facebook and didn't respond

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Speaker 1: most important question. Their wedding is on Halloween, and she

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Speaker 3: All she tells me is that she.

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Speaker 1: Is going to pay for ten girls to fly to

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Speaker 4: Oh my no, no, I doubt that.

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Speaker 2: I guarantee you there's gonna be a hidden itemized.

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Speaker 3: Bill involved with this trip.

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Speaker 1: Like so many things pop up when I hear this one,

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Speaker 1: why not just use that money towards your subsidation subsidization

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Speaker 1: so you don't have to charge your guests. And two,

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Speaker 1: this just seems like a recipe for disaster with this group.

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Speaker 2: I agree both fronts. Front number one, I say, she's

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Speaker 2: not intending to pay for any of this. Yeah, they're

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Speaker 2: gonna get there and she's gonna be like, oh something's

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Speaker 2: something's like going on with the card, Like Sandy, can

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Speaker 2: you like put the room charges like on your card?

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Speaker 2: I promise I'll pay back. That would be my guest yus.

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Speaker 2: That's my theory.

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Speaker 4: We need more shots, but like my card won't.

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Speaker 1: Work, dude, shots and drinks and in Vegas where they're

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Speaker 1: gonna be going, and you.

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Speaker 5: Gotta gamble some dude, and you gotta get some local talent.

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Speaker 2: You gotta get some dances, get some local talent. We

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Speaker 2: need some sausage packers to show up tonight.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: What some sausage packers. You got a lot of sausage

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Speaker 2: or packing the sausage in Vegas?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they show up to your door, uh, disguise as

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Speaker 3: And then you walk in and then filled.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm starting to sense what kind of sausage is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a whole meat factory walks in your door. Homegrown,

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Speaker 1: a whole homegrown salami shows up at your doorstep slams

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Speaker 1: on the table.

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Speaker 3: Do they do that?

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Speaker 2: Well, you can find out. Yeah, meatpacking. Hr please, Oh

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Speaker 2: you don't want that.

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Speaker 3: Someone give me that number. You don't want more info

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Speaker 3: on that? Christian? Oh God.

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Speaker 1: So she says this Vegas trip is her gift to

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Speaker 3: She also says that we'll leave eight am on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: And we'll return at eight am from Vegas on Sunday,

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Speaker 1: only to go straight to the bridle shower. So it's

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Speaker 1: like twenty four hours, including flights. This is insane an

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Speaker 1: exhausting weekend, to say the least. When she sends out

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Speaker 1: I was asked via four different Facebook messages what kind

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Speaker 1: think it would make everyone more comfortable to know what

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Speaker 1: also pointed out that four people going to the bachelorette

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Speaker 1: friend's engagement. Dude, they're doing a Friday night dinner, hopping

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Speaker 1: on a plane Saturday eight am, twenty four hours, we're

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Speaker 1: turning back Sunday eight am, and then somehow doing some

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Speaker 1: other bridal shower dinner, some sort of event right after.

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Speaker 5: That, and just go starting sound like Sofia, what she's

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Speaker 5: all the time throwing parties, doing stuff that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Way, this is beyond Sophia. That is Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I'm leaving just hearing that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Ilie, Yeah, I mean if this is how the

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Speaker 6: what is the wedding going to be?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I couldn't.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't possibly stay after all of this nonsense. They

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Speaker 3: No way. Also, talk to me the guy she's marrying.

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Speaker 3: What that poor fellow? I haven't even thought about that

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Speaker 3: guy is? Well are they? I mean, she's marrying someone they're.

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Speaker 2: Spending like twenty five Maybe they're just like nefarious. There's

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Speaker 2: a lot of hand They gotta have at least a

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Speaker 2: little money. If you're just gonna spend what thirty thousand

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Speaker 5: It sounds like she looks like she has money, but

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Speaker 5: she's asking her friends to make four hundred dollars a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's just what inconsiderate, like narcissistic people would do.

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Speaker 3: Where it's like, why wouldn't my friends want to pay

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Speaker 3: to be wed.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, Like if the guy was rich, then she was

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Speaker 5: just be like, Oh, it's covered, I can do whatever

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Speaker 5: I want.

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Speaker 3: That's true. I'm not Yeah, I'm getting the sense of

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Speaker 3: this is.

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Speaker 1: Lives like the Joneses, but has you know negative you

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Speaker 1: know is lives rich off of death.

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Speaker 2: You can make six figures a year, but if you

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Speaker 2: spend thirty k on a wedding, that's a third of

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Speaker 2: your salary for the year gone before tax gone. That's

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Speaker 2: still a lot of money.

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Speaker 3: All I'm saying is, don't let your your future wife

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Speaker 3: listen to this.

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 3: Just I'm gonna thrug her ear holds. We're gonna go.

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Speaker 2: Under a see we it's free. Go down where it's public.

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Speaker 2: Oh girl, you love it, take it from me, Let's go.

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Speaker 3: That was great. Back to the story.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I had no idea she had booked

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Speaker 1: she'd want to book them for eight am and that

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Speaker 1: they were on hold. She didn't communicate this with anybody,

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Speaker 1: and I was constantly being asked for clarification and details

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Speaker 1: because I'm in the wedding party and nobody else we

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Speaker 1: know is finally She messaged me back a very long

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Speaker 1: and angry message about how she's offended. We are concerned

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Speaker 1: with partying on Friday, and if anybody has an issue

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Speaker 1: with that, they don't have to go, or they can

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Speaker 2: I'm like, seriously offended at the amount of buzzkill in

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Speaker 2: this chat. Okay, if anyone's concerned about partying Friday and

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Speaker 2: then immediately doing something else and on Saturday morning and

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Speaker 2: then something else, just like lose my number.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I'm concerned about being awake for thirty six hours straight.

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Speaker 3: My bad. Oh that's on me for not knowing anything

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Speaker 3: that you didn't tell me. I didn't know you were

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Speaker 3: so weak.

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Speaker 1: It was extremely rude, especially because I've been nothing but

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Speaker 1: and said that I had no idea she had already

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Speaker 1: booked them, and that she had been so generous and

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Speaker 1: we were all happy to leave at eight am, that

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Speaker 1: there is no problem at all, and we can just

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Speaker 1: ignore that suggestion to come in around lunchtime instead. After

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Speaker 1: she had read all the messages, she texted me thirty

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Speaker 1: two of the girl's flights now came in at three

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Speaker 1: forty pm and everyone.

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Speaker 3: Else arrived in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Easy, so simple, not crazy at all. I was aghast.

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Speaker 1: Why would she do that? When I told her I

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Speaker 1: had no idea they were booked and to just forget

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00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 1: about it, I knew she was using this as an

445
00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 1: opportunity to poison me to the bride and say how

446
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,080
Speaker 1: ungrateful I am and how I am more concerned with

447
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 1: partying quote unquote. The night before I asked her why

448
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:19,399
Speaker 1: she did this and expressed that she didn't need to

449
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:20,800
Speaker 1: no response.

450
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 3: I'm not responding either, I'm leaving.

451
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 4: I'm no one.

452
00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,959
Speaker 2: I'm not responding to any of these people for months

453
00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 2: and months, like I.

454
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,479
Speaker 3: Don't know why. I hope he hasn't pulled out at

455
00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 3: this point. Mm hmm. Just do drop off the face

456
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:33,040
Speaker 3: of the earth right now.

457
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:36,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, get out of there, turn off your phone, and

458
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,040
Speaker 2: go to an island of some kind.

459
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,640
Speaker 3: For twelve hundred dollars you could find an island, yeh.

460
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 1: Literally take that money and go on a vacation with

461
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 1: your boyfriend. Although I wonder, I don't know if this

462
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 1: was set explicitly yet or not.

463
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 3: Did she already give her the money for the hotel stay.

464
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wonder, I feel like I feel like yes,

465
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 1: I feel like yes. Maybe we'll get confirmation, but Opie

466
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 1: says the next day, she messaged me that everyone's changed

467
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:06,159
Speaker 1: her flights till later, So it's all fine, Okay. The

468
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:12,119
Speaker 1: bachelorette weekend was by far the worst weekend of my life.

469
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 3: Who could have seen that coming. I have spent weekends

470
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 3: in hospitals that were more bearable.

471
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's an attle bit of downtime in the hospital weekend.

472
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:25,879
Speaker 3: The rest.

473
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels like you had to run around for

474
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:33,119
Speaker 2: probably sixty plus hours while also around the most insufferable people.

475
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 1: As soon as we all hugged and set our helloes

476
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 1: at the airport, she started with a sentence, so, ope,

477
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:44,479
Speaker 1: since you moved the flights for everyone. I was taken aback.

478
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,639
Speaker 1: I couldn't even say anything. She said it so loudly

479
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,399
Speaker 1: in front of the bride, so that I was blamed

480
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: for this. I didn't say anything as we just started

481
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,160
Speaker 1: the trip and I was honestly hoping it was an

482
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 1: isolated comment and I didn't want to start a fight

483
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 1: with her in front of everyone. She's crazy, I'd rather

484
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 1: wipe my butt with her and her drama.

485
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 2: That's probably not gonna make it better. From the sounds

486
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 2: of things.

487
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 3: You're gonna get rash.

488
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 4: So it sounds like sandpaper.

489
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, for real, dude, buttholes are sensitive. I learned

490
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 3: that recently. You know, they made that.

491
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 2: Out of the same uh cells as your lips. That's

492
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:20,679
Speaker 2: the same kind of skin cells as your lips.

493
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 5: Right at about you learned that recently that your buttholes sensitive.

494
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,439
Speaker 1: But holes are sensitive. It's just a it's a universal thing.

495
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 1: It's universal thing. It's newly learned knowledge. What bro, You've

496
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 1: had one your whole life.

497
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, but like, I'm not like trying to figure out

498
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 5: how sensitive it is back there?

499
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 3: You know, Well, this is just this is just a fact.

500
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 3: You could just google it.

501
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 4: I don't know that sounds like John went through some

502
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 4: experimental things.

503
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 3: Nah, dude, it's just it's just a rilly. Are you

504
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 3: trying to shame John for a sensitive.

505
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to get more knowledge.

506
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 3: Are you trying to say your butt's not sensitive?

507
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 2: Right?

508
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 4: It might be.

509
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 3: I don't know, dude. All of our booty holes are,

510
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 3: are riley? Do you not wipe? I do wipe then

511
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 3: you know, yeah, but I don't know. That's what.

512
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 2: Let's not entertain this nonsense that you are unfamiliar with

513
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 2: your own butthole.

514
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 3: You've wiped it, your whole life, almost Dakota, a gentleman shake.

515
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 3: I call it like I see it. Okay, so I do.

516
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 1: Oh god, well, booty holes aside hope, he says. I

517
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: attempted to clear things up with the bride on the

518
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 1: way to the plane and explained how and explained how

519
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 1: when I had asked, I had no idea they were booked,

520
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 1: and told her not to change them.

521
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 4: What Harry spaghettios.

522
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, no, that's a thing, a thing. Oh god,

523
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 3: I love it. Yeah yeah, that's okay, shout out to

524
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 3: Harry's because.

525
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 4: I found it.

526
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: Oh baby, but she did anyways, She responded dismissively and said, hmm, yeah,

527
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about the flights, okay. When we

528
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: got to our suite, it's literally probably ten thousand dollars

529
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,479
Speaker 1: to rent for the evening, if not much more. It

530
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 1: had two bathrooms, a DJ booth, massage room, multiple lounges,

531
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: a TV room with a bar and pool table, et cetera.

532
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 1: The bride gets angry and says, oh, we should have

533
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 1: come it in aym.

534
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 3: Why are you doing all this for like one? They

535
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 3: literally have like an afternoon in there.

536
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like what when when we could have used

537
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 1: this ten thousand dollars towards her castle?

538
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: We're like any like you could have used ten thousand dollars,

539
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 2: like buy jet skis.

540
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 3: Dude, no sense is being made here. Jet Skis would

541
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 3: make ten times more sense than this anything else.

542
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: I tried to explain my mix up again in front

543
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,719
Speaker 1: of everyone, and nobody said anything. It was as if

544
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: I was just speaking to myself. From this point on,

545
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 1: anything I said, did suggest it, etcetera was taken in

546
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: the worst possible of light. I was ignored, dismissed, and

547
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: blamed for everything.

548
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 2: Okay, I leave if this is happening. Yeah, after several hours,

549
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 2: I leave.

550
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: We were barely friends to begin with. I think we

551
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: need to just kind of like go our separate ways.

552
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 3: Wish you the best. Yeah, I don't know, I feel

553
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 3: like chat. Let me know what you think. Please put

554
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 3: in the comments below what you would do it.

555
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 2: I'm enjoying Vegas by myself and I'm sleeping in the tunnels.

556
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we can pull it leave or not?

557
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 3: What do we feel?

558
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 2: Also, I feel obligated to say, don't go in the

559
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 2: Vegas tunnels.

560
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 3: Oh, don't go in there. But what if I want

561
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 3: to swim. That's the worst thing you can do in there.

562
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, that's why they're so dangerous, because when they flood,

563
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 2: they every Yeah, everything gets washed out.

564
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 3: But then I can prove to the world that I

565
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 3: am indeed the new Michael. I don't know, I'm we're

566
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 3: looking to give you that one. I can do it.

567
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:54,719
Speaker 4: Let's give it to him.

568
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 3: Believe in me. All right, I'm numbered here, I'm out numbered.

569
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 3: I got to accept it.

570
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: So I suggested we got to eat before show, only

571
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: to be snapped at and told they were ordering room service.

572
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: We ended up going to eat because everyone was hungry

573
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: and that was the most practical thing to do. I

574
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: spent twenty dollars in craps betting and lost it in

575
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: one role, but then was basically called out by the

576
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 1: bride for being cheap and not wanting to play anymore

577
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: and just watch when only her in the Maid of

578
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: Honor were playing. This wasn't a group activity, and we

579
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: had just said that we would leave to play something else.

580
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:31,159
Speaker 1: I got us all on the VIP list for Omnia

581
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: that everyone said they wanted to go to.

582
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 3: I'm guessing that's a club of So it's a nightclub.

583
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 3: Uh huh.

584
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: Because I've never been there from his days of debauchery,

585
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: you just know what it is.

586
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 3: Many stories, Oh God, Actually really quick. My Vegas story.

587
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 2: I went there with my girlfriend at the time, and

588
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 2: we fell asleep at eleven thirty and woke up at

589
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 2: two and went no.

590
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 4: We were like, we're gonna take.

591
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 3: A real quick nap.

592
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: And we woke up in the middle of the night

593
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 2: and we were like, no, we've messed it up.

594
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 3: Wow. I don't think it was eleven thirty. I think

595
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 3: it was like nine. We were like to take a quick.

596
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 2: Nap all through the nights, slept through the entire evening.

597
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, but hey, you got sleep. We did get some

598
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 3: good sleep.

599
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: Bad I've got I've got a crazy Vegas story. Maybe

600
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: a ending, okay storytime story for you if you make

601
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: it to the end. Don't freaking leave. Which is also

602
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: one of the harder places to get into, only for

603
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: everyone to arrive late, upset and not order drinks the

604
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: entire time. In fact, I was talking to my friend

605
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,719
Speaker 1: who got us in, only to be told that we

606
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: were leaving without any warning. I quickly trailed behind my

607
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 1: group by about thirty seconds, only to overhear them talking

608
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: badly about me and how I was going to stay

609
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: back and leave the party, which is something I have

610
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: never done and would never do.

611
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 3: Maybe we changed that today, Yeah, maybe just do that anyway?

612
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 3: What is up with you don't know why we do

613
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 3: these things? Man? Bring the comments? Why are we hanging

614
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 3: out with a bunch of people who don't like us? Now?

615
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: Everywhere we walked, the three cronies, the bride, her mom,

616
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: and made of honor were always talking badly about me.

617
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: I would hear them say my name, look back at me,

618
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 1: and whisper. I was called out for being on my

619
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 1: phone in the taxi coordinating the Hominia VIP list because I.

620
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 3: Was distracted and not being at the party.

621
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: I did not take my phone out once except for

622
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: picks for the group and coordinating the guest list, which

623
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: only took during the cab rus Yeah.

624
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 2: Also, what are you my math teacher? I'm on my

625
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 2: phone too much in the taxi?

626
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 3: Who are you illegal? Lock her up?

627
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 1: When we got ready for the evening, the maid of

628
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: honor told us to get ready in one of the

629
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: spare rooms. We brought our stuff in there to get ready,

630
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: with no assumption that we would sleep in a bed

631
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: because there weren't enough beds for people. Everyone else would

632
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,959
Speaker 1: sleep on a couch in this room with with with

633
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: multiple lounge rooms and pool tables, and they have a

634
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: DJ booth, but not.

635
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 2: Enough bed You spent you're telling me you spent ten

636
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 2: grand on a room and you forgot the most important part.

637
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 3: The freaking beds.

638
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 4: Bro too far gardian.

639
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 3: They don't need to sleep absolute dufases.

640
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

641
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 3: Also conspiracy theory.

642
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: I'm just throwing it out there right now, and this

643
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: is going to be a plot to us that changes

644
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: the story. Bride hooks up with someone. Yeah, during this

645
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: bachelorette part.

646
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 3: I love that theory. Yeah, I love that.

647
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: I'm calling it, Oh boy, I'm calling it to be

648
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 1: told later, when I changed into my pajamas by the

649
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 1: mother that I was not meant to sleep in there,

650
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: I explained that I just left my stuff there to

651
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: get ready and I knew I wasn't sleeping there. She

652
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: went on and on about it, as if I was

653
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: trying to inappropriately take the room for the goddess that

654
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: is the maid of honor. So by two forty five am,

655
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: everyone except for the three Cony's are starting to fade.

656
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 3: Mind you, we all have flights back at either eight

657
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 3: thirty or nine thirty am. We are like six seven

658
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 3: hours away from our flights.

659
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 2: It's the worst trip I've ever heard in my life.

660
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 1: And we have to go st right to the bridle

661
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: shower after we go home for fifteen minutes of changing time.

662
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 1: I have multiple sclerosis and have trouble walking and also

663
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: have fatigue issues. I need to sleep. If I don't

664
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: get sleep, I get sick and honestly can barely walk

665
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: even with a brace. This is crucial, and everyone at

666
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: this party knows that. Yeah, they're all probably talking bad

667
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: about it behind your back, Yeah, like ooh, she doesn't

668
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 1: want to stay out with.

669
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 3: Directly to your face.

670
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 2: From the sound of it, it's like they're not even

671
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 2: They're like, yeah, you with your stupid back, be stupid,

672
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 2: and I hate you and your back's messed up and.

673
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 3: I hate you.

674
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: Sorry, I have an illness. Yeah, sue me that, I'll

675
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: see you back. Obie says, I am pushing myself to

676
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: the absolute max by walking all day and night in Vegas,

677
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 1: drinking which I don't normally handle well, and staying up late.

678
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: The party had no signs of stopping, and bed slash

679
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: couches aren't being assigned. When I ask about sleeping arrangements,

680
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: I'm ignored. In fact, the only thing I do here

681
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: is the bride being a complete brat and talking badly,

682
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: very loudly about anyone who wants to go to bed

683
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: as lame and ruining the party because it's her bachelotte

684
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: party and we're in Vegas, and on and on. Also,

685
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: since I'm sleeping on the couch as pretty much the

686
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: mother yelled at me and told me to do so,

687
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 1: I can't sleep anywhere quiet. All of the lounges with

688
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: couches are in open areas except for the room where

689
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: people up are partying.

690
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 3: So now they're partying in the in the room in

691
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 3: the hotel. Why did we go? This is so? Yeah?

692
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 3: Why did we go? I wouldn't go to this? I

693
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 3: hate this kind of stuff.

694
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, op OPI doesn't deserve Opie is so within her

695
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: right to leave. And she was like, oh, I've.

696
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 3: Never you know, bailed, and I never would. Who cares?

697
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 3: This is? This is for your for your your health.

698
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 2: Never bailing is a non existent stat line that no

699
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: one on the face of the earth is tracking except

700
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 2: for you. And it's not doing you any good. It's

701
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: not gonna get you a job, it's not gonna get.

702
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 3: You a partner.

703
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 2: It's not gonna do anything except make you miserable. Right now,

704
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 2: just serve it. Be in touch with yourself. And if

705
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 2: you're like I hate this, don't want to be here,

706
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 2: don't be.

707
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 3: There, you don't deserve it, come on too much.

708
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: I can't sleep in a cold room without a pillow,

709
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: on a couch without any sheets or blankets, with music blasting,

710
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: people playing pool and being wasted. I decided to attempt

711
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: to go to sleep on the massage on the massage

712
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: table with a sheet, only to fear that would roll

713
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 1: over and unlive myself by accident in the middle of

714
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: the night.

715
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're just flopping right on the ground if

716
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 2: you do that, I mean, how high up is the

717
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 2: massage did dude? I mean, dude, even just like two

718
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 2: or three feet and you just fall back first with

719
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 2: multiple scrosis. That's a bad recipe.

720
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 3: Massage table was in Vegas, so I forgot.

721
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 2: There's like a pyrotechnic show that surrounds the massage table.

722
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 3: You fall off and you just burn the flames. Part

723
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 3: of the DJ. The pyrotechnique is that pyrotechnique massage.

724
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 1: Oh god, So I finally got up and it's now

725
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 1: three thirty am and everyone is still up and partying

726
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: and has to be awake for their flight at six am.

727
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 1: I'm assuming since nothing has slowed down, they aren't sleeping at.

728
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 3: All before their flight. Yeah, babe, they're not. They're not,

729
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 3: They're not.

730
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: I go back and ask if they're planning on staying

731
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: up all night, and if so, if I could please

732
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 1: have a bed, just oliver twist.

733
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:33,280
Speaker 3: Be sir, may I have May I have a bed? Please?

734
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 3: I have a pillow, just one little bed just for

735
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:42,760
Speaker 3: meted it a pillowcase to cuttle up under perhaps.

736
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 1: But I was told by the Maid of Honor that

737
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: they weren't going to bed, and she said yes that

738
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: I could have one.

739
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 3: Okay, the first, the first.

740
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: And only thing that's gone right, this entire trap, the

741
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 1: first shred of human decency. I slept for three hours

742
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 1: until we had to get up for a flight. Ask

743
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: forward to the shower, the baby, the bridle shower where

744
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: the mother finds out that I slept in a bed

745
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: which the Maid of Honor came into eventually for a nap,

746
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: I assume, and was chastised once again.

747
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 3: By who the mom? The mom. The Mom's like, you slept, Yeah,

748
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 3: and you slept. You disgust me.

749
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: Listen to go to It's disgusting enough that she slept,

750
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: But the ultimate crime is she slept in the maid

751
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 1: of honors bed. Who said it was okay to sleep there?

752
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 1: How dare you assume just because she says, hey, it's fine,

753
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: you can go ahead and sleep there, that you can,

754
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 1: you can go ahead.

755
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 3: And sleep, don't. I don't know what I was thinking.

756
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 2: Fifteen years jail, Yeah, fifteen five years jail?

757
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: Oh, bro try try three thousand years. Yeah, we need to.

758
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 1: We need to make an example out of you.

759
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 3: Okay, we're gonna put.

760
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 2: You in a jail cell and then launch the jail

761
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: cell into low Earth orbit, and then you're gonna stay

762
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 2: there for three thousand years.

763
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 3: Value you understand all the wrongs.

764
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 2: You look up in the late in the night sky

765
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,760
Speaker 2: and we'll say, there goes there, she goes, there goes Ope.

766
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 3: She slept in that bed for three hours distance.

767
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: So this maid of Honor, I have never felt so

768
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:24,760
Speaker 1: mistreated or disgusted. This maid of honor has completely poisoned

769
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: the bride and mother against me, my friend. The bride

770
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: doesn't even care enough to ask my side, or is

771
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 1: any interest when I say something other than what she's

772
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: been told about me. This maid of Honor is the savior.

773
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: She has taken us all here, and I'm the ungrateful

774
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: witch who is making everything difficult and being selfish. I

775
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 1: have no interest in being her friend anymore, and honestly

776
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 1: considered flying home Saturday night and thought about dropping out

777
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 1: of the wedding completely.

778
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 2: Yes, don't cheer, she's not gonna do it. Yeah, I

779
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:02,359
Speaker 2: mean yeah, yes, at least let's think about it.

780
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 3: Do it? Do it for God's sake? No, we got

781
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 3: to do it.

782
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,760
Speaker 2: This is like going to a wedding for your enemies

783
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 2: at this point, Yeah, why would.

784
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 3: You do it?

785
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 1: They obviously hate me? Why do they want me to

786
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 1: be there? Whipping boy? What is going on? So?

787
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 3: Reddits?

788
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 1: The wedding is this Saturday, and I am meant to

789
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: go on Friday to help set up for the wedding.

790
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 1: I'll probably be asked to move tables since I'm so

791
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: mobile sarcasm. Besides the bride, maid of honor, and Mom,

792
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: everyone else attending are my close friends, many I never

793
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 1: get to see because they live in other countries. I

794
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: want to go because I don't want to miss out

795
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: on being with them.

796
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 3: I love those people.

797
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 1: However, I'm worried I'll continue to be the scapegoat for

798
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 1: everything that goes wrong, talked about badly, and my weekend

799
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 1: will still be completely miserable.

800
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 3: Is it worth it to go? Should I drop out?

801
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 2: Now?

802
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: If so, do I say why? Or perhaps say I'm

803
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: not feeling well or something like that. I feel like

804
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,919
Speaker 1: I should go, keep my head down and not allow

805
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: them to abuse me. And I I know that, and

806
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: I know what to expect. When the wedding ends, I'll

807
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,959
Speaker 1: distance myself massively until the bride is out of my life.

808
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 2: Thoughts, you don't know the bride Though you just said

809
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 2: you don't know the bride, you don't really know the bride.

810
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 4: You don't know the maid of honor either.

811
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:13,840
Speaker 3: We're all of these.

812
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 2: Friends that you claim to be like so like like

813
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 2: close to or like missing? Are they were they all

814
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,959
Speaker 2: there on the trip that you just took the bachelorette trip.

815
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 2: Were they not there? Was it someone else?

816
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 3: The bridesmith dude.

817
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 2: Like, if if any of those friends you're talking about

818
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 2: are the ones that were there on that trip, don't go.

819
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: I think for clarity, I believe the friend she's referring

820
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: to are just guests of the wedding that she has

821
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,399
Speaker 1: not seen or interacted through this whole journey so far.

822
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would.

823
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 2: I would go with the context of all my friends

824
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 2: I haven't seen in bajillion years or there, and I

825
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: want to see them.

826
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 3: I would go.

827
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 2: And if you're asked to do anything, just be like, no, nope,

828
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 2: can't do it. My back, my back, my back, yeah,

829
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,720
Speaker 2: there you go. Whoa yeah, And then just family program

830
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 2: just you know, enjoy your friends then and be like, I.

831
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 3: Don't know they wrote me into this. I don't want

832
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 3: to do that.

833
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 2: I don't even know. We don't even know the bride.

834
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 2: How are you a brides made? You don't know the

835
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: bride you were?

836
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:19,319
Speaker 1: You were hired and honestly low key, even beyond being

837
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: labor even beyond being you know, a source of cash

838
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: deciphon out from you.

839
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 3: I almost get the feeling.

840
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: Like they're like, oh, we need we need like a

841
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: punching bag, like we need we need someone that we

842
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: can gossip about and you know, make it fun.

843
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 3: For us because we stuck. That's almost like it almost

844
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 3: feels planned.

845
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I guess you know there there's definitely

846
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 2: been cases where that does happen. But I don't know,

847
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 2: is it worth it to spend twelve hundred Like I

848
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 2: don't know, like how much money are you spending on

849
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:49,240
Speaker 2: going to the wedding?

850
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,959
Speaker 3: How like we can we can we hold any other way?

851
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 2: You can hang out with them after the wedding, group

852
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 2: text your friends.

853
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 3: I'm honestly, I'm honestly, what are we doing for wedding

854
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:01,400
Speaker 3: or na?

855
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 1: I'm naw because I think that, like, think about this,

856
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 1: if you like collapsed, you know, would it have been

857
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 1: worth it? And I'm like no, like, yes, you want

858
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: to see your friends, it would have been It would

859
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 1: have been great. But the problem is all of these

860
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 1: women are gonna be there even if you say no

861
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: to everything they ask.

862
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 3: I think they're gonna make your life. Yeah, I don't know.

863
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 2: Just reach out to your friends, figure out how to

864
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,280
Speaker 2: hang out with them, not at the wedding. I guess yeah,

865
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 2: because this sounds like a terrible situation for you.

866
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, uh, do it with everyone in town.

867
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: Do a little uh like brunch or something after right

868
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 1: after the wedding, and invite the friends who can make it.

869
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

870
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 1: I think I think that's the best that you get

871
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: to see some of the friends and you don't have

872
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 1: to deal with it.

873
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 4: Got one, naw.

874
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 3: Okay, Wait, the bride is her good friend? I'm seeing

875
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 3: in the comments the boat Ladies and gentlemen.

876
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 2: Ah, I the mother of the bride. She doesn't know

877
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 2: either way, dude. Yeah, too much, too much, too much,

878
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,320
Speaker 2: too much? And if the bride is her friend or

879
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 2: was she treating her like crap at her badge threat weekend?

880
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: It's insane, It's absolutely insane. Well, ladies and gentlemen, the update.

881
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 1: Here we go, boys and girls. Update. I am divorced

882
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 1: and had a therapist around the time that I was

883
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 1: going through that we are being dropped in the.

884
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 3: Middle of it.

885
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: Okay, but but Dakota, I haven't spoken to her in

886
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 1: over two years. I ended I ended up scheduling a

887
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 1: skype session with her to get her take on how

888
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,320
Speaker 1: to handle this ridiculous situation.

889
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, how we understand? How do I divorce my friends? Yes,

890
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 3: how do we guess? Good question? Can we divorce our

891
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 3: friend at the wedding? That's what I want to know.

892
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:40,399
Speaker 1: Her overwhelming response, which I'm sure many of you would

893
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: agree with, was why the heck are you in this

894
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 1: wedding and letting these people treat you this way?

895
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 3: Why bear question?

896
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: Besides the fact that all of my friends from all

897
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 1: over would be at this wedding, the bride is an

898
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: integral part of my social circle. Everyone I know knows her.

899
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: She alan's fun things all the time for our group

900
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: of friends. So when the original debacle with the room

901
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 1: cost came about, I thought about dropping out then, but

902
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,840
Speaker 1: honestly was fearful about how it would affect me socially.

903
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: I see now that that was a huge mistake. If

904
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: any of my quote unquote friends were to take or side,

905
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: or if I wasn't included in future things. That's a

906
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 1: small price to pay for only having people in my

907
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: life that treat me how I should be treated.

908
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, get yeah, yeah, getting hot in here because oh

909
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 2: peace cooking? Oh god, and it is getting oh peace

910
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: cooking up?

911
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 3: Is it really? Oh yeah?

912
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 2: I can't feel it, it's getting I'm a cold I'm

913
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:39,399
Speaker 2: a cold man.

914
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 3: Oh God, I'm a cold man. It's cold stuff. Uh.

915
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: Now, after talking to the therapist, we decided that I

916
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 1: would in fact go okay because I wanted to see

917
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: my friends and stick to my obligation. But I just

918
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't let them mistreat me or affect me. Everything they said.

919
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,799
Speaker 1: I would ignore if I could smile and move on.

920
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 1: If things got bad, I would just say I wasn't

921
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: feeling great, so I needed to retreat to my room

922
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: to rest.

923
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 3: A good plan. Honestly, I don't know.

924
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 1: Just quick take, Dakota, do you think that's a good

925
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 1: move or would you still dip?

926
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 3: What are you thinking?

927
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 2: It's just so hard to judge, because that's really it's

928
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 2: like a complicated little political system like situation. Yeah, I

929
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 2: would just I would probably go and like just not

930
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 2: invest you know. But I'm a psycho, so I can

931
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:31,280
Speaker 2: go places and if the people are like.

932
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 3: You suck, I don't like you. You do this, you

933
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 3: do that, I go. I do want to see you

934
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 3: in a situation like that. I feel it could be entertaining.

935
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:46,319
Speaker 2: I had a situation where at some random party, these

936
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:48,400
Speaker 2: two know it all thought they were grilling me on

937
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 2: like philosophy or like whatever, like they, oh.

938
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 3: Look this chilly, stupid little boy.

939
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 4: He doesn't know what he's doing.

940
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 2: And I just had them running around in circles like

941
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 2: trying to chase philosophical cons that have no answer. And

942
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 2: they thought I was being the dumb one. And I'm like,

943
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 2: you guys are just wasting your all of your breath

944
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 2: and come on, I have you arguing about how a

945
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 2: quarter at the bottom of a salt shaker is actually

946
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 2: made out of salt because you can't prove it's not.

947
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 2: They're like, that's the silliest that's the dumbest argument I've

948
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 2: ever seen. I'm like, well with this, yeah, and they're

949
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 2: like well, and I'm just like, yeah, this is great.

950
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: Moral of the story. Play the annoying people. Don't let

951
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 1: them play you ye, moral stories, you do not care.

952
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: Don't care, move on, so Op says. The wedding itself

953
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: wasn't too terrible. I mentioned that I had MS previously

954
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: in all the stresses and the wedding and the shenanigans

955
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: in Vegas the week before.

956
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 3: Left me wiped out.

957
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 1: I ended up arriving to the wedding the day before,

958
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 1: hours later than I was originally supposed to. So I

959
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 1: told the bride in advance that my MS was acting

960
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: up and I really needed to take it easy and

961
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 1: sleep in, which was true and she was.

962
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 3: Kind about that. Okay.

963
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: Finally, by doing that, I avoided almost all of the

964
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,479
Speaker 1: day before prep, which was a godsend because that's when

965
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 1: Momzilla was bossing everyone around. The day of the wedding

966
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 1: was pretty good, except for Momzilla being nervous and rude,

967
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 1: but thankfully she wasn't only directing that at me as

968
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,879
Speaker 1: and lots of people were annoyed with her. The Maid

969
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: of honor was also on her best behavior because she

970
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: was so nervous about her speech. The wedding night was

971
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: a blast, Okay. I got to hang out with all

972
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 1: my friends like I wanted, which was awesome.

973
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 3: We were told to clean up at the wedding at

974
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 3: the end of it.

975
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 1: Of course, we couldn't hire the cleanup crew, you know,

976
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 1: got to put our friends into Janner's outfits, of course,

977
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 1: which none of us were expecting. Anne was a pain,

978
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: but all in all, I was glad I went now.

979
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 1: The day after the wedding, a large group of us

980
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: went to get brunch and we decided to go back

981
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 1: to the estate and use their amazing pools for the

982
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: rest of the day.

983
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 3: Since I arrived later in the day before the wedding.

984
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: And then had the wedding, I wasn't able to take

985
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: full advantage of this amazing estate.

986
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 3: I was really excited to do that.

987
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: Well, when we were turned earned to the estate, the

988
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: bride tells me that everyone is going to a nearby

989
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: hotel to use that pool instead.

990
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 3: This made no sense to me.

991
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: Why paid twenty five thousand dollars for an estate and

992
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 1: not even use it?

993
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 3: Boob job part three or part two?

994
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 4: Remember that story where all the all the friends.

995
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 5: Paid the girls so she could get a boob job

996
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 5: that she was cheating on the doctor with.

997
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 3: Yes? No, yes?

998
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 4: Is this a sequel?

999
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:39,399
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know. Yeah it was.

1000
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, wedding has gone wrong too, Rise of

1001
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:44,839
Speaker 1: the Silicone.

1002
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 3: What if they'd never actually paid for that estate?

1003
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: They were like, remember, we have rich friends that paid

1004
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: mind you that paid ten thousand dollars for a one

1005
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 1: bedroom hotel room.

1006
00:46:57,880 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 4: Dude, that even crossed my mind? Why why did not

1007
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 4: I think that?

1008
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 3: Bro?

1009
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: Honestly, Okay, the we we are usually gods at calling

1010
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: it this this none of us, none of us are coming.

1011
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: Kimberly Fine says already called it. Okay, Kimberly Fine, listen.

1012
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 3: You are you are on it. I can't I can't lie.

1013
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,479
Speaker 3: But uh, I I didn't see the comment. I didn't

1014
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 3: see the comment ice swan boobies. Yeah, it was so,

1015
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 3: she said.

1016
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 1: She asked everyone to pitch in like seven or eight

1017
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: grand for this ice wan.

1018
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 3: The ice wan was the boom job, the ice swan.

1019
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she tried to She tried to sneak off

1020
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: and get uh and get the operation during the like

1021
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: a bachelorette trip.

1022
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 3: I'd be concerned.

1023
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 2: I'm concerned with all elements of that because regardless if

1024
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 2: my friends, like I want an ice wan, I'm like,

1025
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 2: part of me just feels like that's racist to have

1026
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 2: an ice swan. I feel like it's a level of

1027
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 2: like nefarious, dastardly, like.

1028
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 4: Where's the race come into this.

1029
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 3: It's just a vibe.

1030
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 2: I feel like, if like you went to like an

1031
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 2: old like clan function in the eighties or something, they'd

1032
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 2: have an ice swan.

1033
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 3: Tell me I'm wrong.

1034
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 5: I think they would have something else made of ice,

1035
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 5: what like a burning cross?

1036
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 3: No, you can't make a burning cross.

1037
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:23,399
Speaker 2: Maybe their outfit, that's it's they'd have the ice Wan,

1038
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 2: and I no one can tell me I'm wrong.

1039
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 5: I think everyone could now if they had an Icewan

1040
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 5: and they spraypanted a black maybe okay.

1041
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 2: But it's inherently elitist, right, It's gotta be inherently classist,

1042
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 2: and classism and elitism go right in there together with racism.

1043
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 1: I've I've got to say to Codea, this is like,

1044
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 1: this is like the the platinum like Emmy warned, winning

1045
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: free Association thought that you've ever had, Like this is like,

1046
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: I don't.

1047
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 3: Even think it's a free So I think this is

1048
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 3: like a certainty certainty. I don't know.

1049
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: I've never seen an ice Swan in the world. Ladies

1050
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, please chime in on this. In the I

1051
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: feel like the comments are going to be a blaze

1052
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 1: with this.

1053
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 2: I'm wrong, Dakota and editors need to cut that out.

1054
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 2: Oh do they like the Icewans over there in Sweden?

1055
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you know I heard some stuff about Sweden.

1056
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 4: All right, let's get going.

1057
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 3: Uh oh, let's get going.

1058
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,720
Speaker 1: So we're going back to the story and send people

1059
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:22,839
Speaker 1: to a worse pool. Well, since I was leaving that day,

1060
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I took some time to pack up

1061
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: our room, clean up, and wait for some friends to

1062
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,840
Speaker 1: come to the estates that were taking a home that

1063
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 1: we're going home with us. This took about an hour

1064
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: and a half. We figured we'd go to the hotel

1065
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: pool and then drive home directly afterwards. Right before we

1066
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: were going to head out to the hotel, we realized

1067
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 1: that my cooler was missing from the room. Odd so

1068
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,760
Speaker 1: when we go to the main house, look around, no cooler.

1069
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: Then we were told by the groom's mother to check

1070
00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 1: and see if it's by the pool.

1071
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 3: That's when we see that the party was in.

1072
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: Fact there, that over twenty five people were hanging out

1073
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:01,400
Speaker 1: by the pool at least two hours. They were all

1074
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 1: pretty tipsy and comfortable, and that the bride's brother took

1075
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,840
Speaker 1: my cooler from my room without asking me.

1076
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 3: I was so hurt. How come nobody told me about

1077
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,799
Speaker 3: the change of plans. Why didn't someone text, call, or

1078
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 3: just walk to my room at the estate and let

1079
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 3: us know?

1080
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 4: We know why?

1081
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 2: Because they don't They These people aren't your friends. It

1082
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:24,280
Speaker 2: feels like it feels more and more with every sentence.

1083
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 2: People aren't your friends.

1084
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is we shouldn't have gone.

1085
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry we shouldn't have. I thought it was gonna

1086
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:34,320
Speaker 1: work out, but the vibes are not there. The bride

1087
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: saw us arrive at the pool and didn't move, and

1088
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 1: then very CASHU was like, oh, I didn't have my phone?

1089
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 3: Did you end up going to the hotel? Sorry?

1090
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 2: Oops?

1091
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 3: She didn't care at all.

1092
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,720
Speaker 1: If she had made that mistake and was honestly embarrassed

1093
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,280
Speaker 1: about it, I would have expected something like, oh my gosh,

1094
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: I'm so embarrassed. I forgot to tell you that we

1095
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 1: were just staying here. I don't have my phone with me.

1096
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 1: It just slipped my mind. I'm so sorry. Please join us.

1097
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:02,240
Speaker 1: But no, that's not how it wins. Also, now my cooler.

1098
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: Now my cooler is the adult soda cooler. And if

1099
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,239
Speaker 1: I want to leave this place with my cooler and

1100
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 1: the cold food, I brought a sap. Now I'm the

1101
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,879
Speaker 1: villain for taking the adult soda cooler, and a bunch

1102
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 1: of wasted guys are promising to return it to be

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00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 1: Oh no.

1104
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 4: Wo we'll take it.

1105
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 3: Bye.

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00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 1: Oh thank you, No, I'll thank you cool Nope, Oh yes,

1107
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: because I trust anybody at that wedding to take care

1108
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 1: of my things or have my best interest in mind.

1109
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: We take the cooler and left them with some bowls

1110
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,840
Speaker 1: from the kitchen. When I said my goodbyes and was

1111
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: waiting in the car, I found out that the bride

1112
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 1: told my best friend how incredibly lame I am and

1113
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 1: how disappointed in me be in we, ladies and gentlemen,

1114
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 1: I will be forever disappointed, nay, completely ashamed of you.

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00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 1: You will never redeem yourself in my eyes because of

1116
00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:58,760
Speaker 1: one reason.

1117
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 3: Dakota, And what reason would that be?

1118
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 1: Because they're not choosing to take advantage of the fact

1119
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 1: that we have over two thousand episodes fifty three straight

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Speaker 3: Going to be there to go to all be ashamed.

1124
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 2: It's true, and I'm I'm astounded that there are people

1125
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 2: while you're not ready to accept that it's disgusting.

1126
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 3: It's disgusting, but some brave people out there will do it.

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00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 2: There are brave, brave folk, Dude, among us American heroes.

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Speaker 3: We've got a little bit left of the story, let's

1129
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 3: dive right in. We all know how we feel. We

1130
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 3: all know how we feel.

1131
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 1: Needless to say, I made the wrong decision months ago

1132
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: to stay in this wedding. I should have seen her

1133
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 1: selfish reaction to the money for the room as a

1134
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 1: much larger issue, not just a bridezilla moment.

1135
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 3: Throughout the wedding I overturned.

1136
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,879
Speaker 1: I overheard her talk badly about her own brother, how

1137
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 1: the groom's family is odd and poor, and even spoke

1138
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 1: badly to me about my best friend. She is nowhere

1139
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:09,919
Speaker 1: near the person I had thought she was, and I'm

1140
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: honestly still appalled by it all.

1141
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:12,720
Speaker 3: Lesson learned.

1142
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 1: Don't let anyone mistreat you at any time, no matter

1143
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 1: the circumstances. I wish I felt relief over this already,

1144
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:23,840
Speaker 1: but I don't. I'm hoping that comes with time. You

1145
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: know what did ope? You know, choose to you know,

1146
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 1: self torture and go through this.

1147
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:34,400
Speaker 3: Yes, but the lesson learned I think is invaluable.

1148
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't go to places with people who don't like you. Explicitly,

1149
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 2: don't like you very obviously, almost proudly, don't.

1150
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 3: Like you straight up.

1151
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,360
Speaker 1: They're they're they're excited to say how how how terrible

1152
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 1: you are straight up.

1153
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:58,399
Speaker 3: But ladies and gentlemen, that is the end of this story. Hey,

1154
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:00,760
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1158
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Speaker 2: I've debated for the past almost two years about posting

1163
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Speaker 2: anything about this, but it still haunts me every time

1164
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 2: I see my.

1165
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,240
Speaker 3: Family, especially my sister.

1166
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 2: My husband, twenty seven male, and I twenty four female,

1167
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 2: started dating in twenty twenty. We were doing long distance

1168
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,839
Speaker 2: for two years before I moved two hours away from

1169
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,839
Speaker 2: my hometown to be closer to him. We both are

1170
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 2: very much date for marriage people, and I was and

1171
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 2: still am absolutely submitting with this man. So it was

1172
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Speaker 2: the r slash Okay story time subreddit. So I also

1176
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 2: am very different from the rest of my family, and

1177
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:14,439
Speaker 2: living at home with them was, to put it lightly, toxico,

1178
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 2: just a cesspoola toxic waste. As soon as I graduated

1179
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 2: college and found a job in my now home city,

1180
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,880
Speaker 2: I moved out. We talked about getting married, me and

1181
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 2: my boyfriend, but across a few personal roadblocks in my

1182
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 2: family like people passing away severe illnesses, YadA YadA, we

1183
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:37,799
Speaker 2: found it inappropriate to celebrate a potential proposal and postponed

1184
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 2: our plans for engagement and marriage for almost a year.

1185
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 2: Then in mid twenty twenty three, we found out I

1186
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:44,280
Speaker 2: was pregnant.

1187
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 3: Wow, got a baby.

1188
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 2: I'm sure the family's going to be thrilled about that, right,

1189
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:54,760
Speaker 2: Oh boy?

1190
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 3: I hope.

1191
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 2: So my husband and I were absolutely thrilled, as we

1192
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 2: all always talked about having children, and though this was

1193
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 2: before marriage, we are Catholic, I see you.

1194
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 3: We were certain that this was what we wanted.

1195
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 2: We decided that we wanted to be married when the

1196
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 2: baby arrived, so we had eight months to plan an

1197
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 2: entire wedding. His family was more than supportive and helped

1198
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:22,359
Speaker 2: us from the day we told them the news.

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Speaker 3: All the way until now. My family was the exact opposite.

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00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 3: Here we go.

1201
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 2: We drove back to my parents' house, sat down with

1202
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 2: my mom and dad at the dinner table, and we

1203
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 2: told them about the pregnancy. To say they were angry

1204
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:39,960
Speaker 2: would be an understatement.

1205
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 3: Oh boy.

1206
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 2: To sum it up, my mom cried and yelled about

1207
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 2: how she quote with she could be happy.

1208
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 3: For me, and that I hadn't even lived my life yet,

1209
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,720
Speaker 3: and why weren't you on birth control? Thought we were Catholic?

1210
00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 2: Well, Nika Lane, yeah it might have been, because that's

1211
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 2: probably not allowed, right.

1212
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 3: Do the Catholics do that? Do the Catholics do that?

1213
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm not tapped in. I feel like

1214
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 3: that's their whole thing. Is they have a thousand children?

1215
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 2: Catholics? Sound off? Is birth control aloud? I don't know,

1216
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 2: sound off. I'm not in it. My dad yelled at

1217
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 2: my now husband to get his head out of his

1218
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 2: behind if he thought he could raise a child and

1219
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 2: finish school at the same time, he's in nursing school.

1220
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 3: So what are they? What are these people screaming about?

1221
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 1: Like?

1222
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 2: Are these these this kind of response is so dumb

1223
00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 2: because you're not accomplishing anything.

1224
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 3: Direct your only the only thing you need.

1225
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 2: To do here is going, Oh my god, it's it's amazing,

1226
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 2: and we're gonna be as next to you.

1227
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 3: During the whole process. I'm gonna help you. Yep.

1228
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 2: It was about forty five minutes straight of them yelling

1229
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 2: at us, while my husband defended me and admittedly did

1230
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 2: most of the talking. We left abruptly and headed home,

1231
00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 2: myself in tears and my heart absolutely shredded. Now my

1232
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 2: sister comes into the picture for some background. My sister

1233
00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 2: twenty six, is two years older than me and a

1234
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 2: carbon copy of my mom, very moody, very unapproachable. We

1235
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 2: are complete opposites. In our childhood was a lot of

1236
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 2: me trying to be friends with her and her pushing

1237
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 2: me away, rolling her eyes, the usual big sister stuff.

1238
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 2: I guess my most vivid memory of this is actually

1239
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 2: on video.

1240
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 3: Oh my.

1241
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 2: I went through a phase of wanting to make videos

1242
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 2: pre YouTube blogger vibes, and there is one where I

1243
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 2: panned the camera over to my sister and ask her

1244
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 2: to say hi, to which she looks over at me, scoffs,

1245
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 2: and tells me to leave her alone. Okay, we never

1246
00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 2: really spoke on a regular basis, and but you know,

1247
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 2: really quick, I'm not a sibling. I'm an only child,

1248
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 2: but I had cousins. That is very normal behavior. I know,

1249
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 2: op is like my sister never liked me, but it's like,

1250
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 2: that's big sister response right there.

1251
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 1: Listen if you are, if you're making your very first

1252
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 1: YouTube videos, you're putting yourself out there, maybe the most

1253
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: vulnerable thing you can do in your life, and you

1254
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 1: get up, Oh.

1255
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 3: Stop tucking to man. I mean yeah, but like you know,

1256
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 3: soul crush, your soul's crush.

1257
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:16,080
Speaker 2: I just mean that it's not an uncommon sibling dynamic

1258
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 2: for the older sibling to just be like, oh, leave

1259
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 2: me alone a lot, right.

1260
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 3: I don't know. You can feel how you want to

1261
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 3: feel about it. I don't know.

1262
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 2: My cousin's siblings all beat the heck out of each

1263
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 2: other with pillows and oh god like and it sounds

1264
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 2: not bad, but it's like they would stuff them down

1265
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 2: to the bottom of the pillowcase and then like spinning around.

1266
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:41,440
Speaker 2: They were basically like like pillow flails, and we would

1267
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 2: cancuss each other with them.

1268
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 3: Look, it was so much fun. Oh.

1269
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 2: We never really spoke on a regular basis, but we

1270
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 2: were somewhat polite with one another over the occasional text

1271
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 2: and whenever we saw each other at family gatherings or

1272
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 2: home visits. My husband didn't like my sister, but was cordial,

1273
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 2: and she clearly felt the same way about him, which

1274
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 2: she would later openly say. I had specifically said at

1275
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 2: the end of the conversation quote unquote with my parents

1276
01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 2: that I would tell other family members when we were ready,

1277
01:00:11,240 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 2: as I was thoroughly traumatized by the shouting match with

1278
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 2: my parents. Two days later, I get a call from

1279
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 2: my sister. She immediately asked about the pregnancy, as my

1280
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 2: mom had already told her everything, excluding the hurtful things

1281
01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 2: that my parents had said to my now husband and me.

1282
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,160
Speaker 2: I told her the whole story and mentioned that I

1283
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 2: would be getting married within the year prior to the

1284
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 2: baby's arrival. Her response was are you sure sure? But

1285
01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 2: that eye roll and as skeptical okay, and the call ended.

1286
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 2: Over the next two months, my parents at some point

1287
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 2: decided that the fight had never happened and never apologized,

1288
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 2: and would show up at my apartment door with my

1289
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 2: aunt and grandmother in tow unannounced to visit since I

1290
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 2: wasn't telling them every detail about my life.

1291
01:00:55,960 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: Shocker, I know this is heading once that baby popped out.

1292
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 1: They want it all. That's what they want it.

1293
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 3: They want that baby. That's why they're like, will you

1294
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 3: plum fool, pull your head out of the sand.

1295
01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 2: You'd think, dang ostrich, you think you can raise this

1296
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 2: baby while going to nursing school.

1297
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 3: Give it to me.

1298
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 2: Shoot, I don't respect you.

1299
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 1: You can't nurse anything, especially this baby, So I will

1300
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: take it.

1301
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, give it to me. H yeah, yeah, yea yea

1302
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 3: ya ya yea yea ye.

1303
01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:25,520
Speaker 2: This is an entire story in itself that I'll spare

1304
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 2: you for now. But essentially they would show up try

1305
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 2: to convince me to forgive them without saying they did

1306
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:31,959
Speaker 2: anything wrong.

1307
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 3: Huzza. My mom still entirely denies ever saying that.

1308
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 2: I wish I could be happy for you comment, but

1309
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 2: I will never forget it.

1310
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,240
Speaker 3: Gotta love it when parents do that, right. I didn't

1311
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 3: say that.

1312
01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 2: Is seared into my frontal lobe, come on, or my

1313
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 2: hippo campus My bad. That's frontal lobe is responsible for personality,

1314
01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 2: not memory. I had started planning our wedding with the

1315
01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 2: help of my now sister in law, who was super

1316
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 2: supportive and helpful with color ideas cupcake selections, table arrangements,

1317
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Speaker 2: et etc. I never expected the fun stuff that comes

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01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 2: with weddings since we had eight months to plan everything.

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01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 2: So when it came to selecting our bridal party, I

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01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 2: didn't have much in mind from maid of honor duties.

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01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 2: My husband was set on his brother being his best man,

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01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 2: and I paired his wife, my sister in law, as

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Speaker 2: my maid of honor. Despite the tension in my family

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01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 2: and my sister openly not liking my husband, I reached

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01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 2: out to my sister and asked her to be a

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Speaker 2: part of my big day and support me as one

1327
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 2: of my bridesmaids. She agreed at first, Okay, here it comes, folks,

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01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 2: we know what happens now yep, sister goes, Why am

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01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 2: I not the most important one? Aren't pay your sister?

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01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 3: Oh I can't I wear a white dress? Why do

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01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:53,480
Speaker 3: you get too?

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Speaker 2: After speaking with her, she followed up with a text

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01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 2: and asked if I was having a maid of honor.

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01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 2: I said yes, but I have my sister in law

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01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 2: in that position. Immediately, my sister said that she was

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01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 2: owed the maid of honor position since she is my

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01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 2: only blood related sister and that if she wasn't going

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Speaker 2: to be made of honor.

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01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 3: Then she wasn't comfortable being just a bridesmaid.

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01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 2: I tried to explain that there wasn't even really a

1341
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 2: maid of honor with duties in the wedding at all.

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01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 2: It's just a title to put on our wedding booklet.

1343
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 2: This is where I'm probably a little bit of an ahole.

1344
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 2: I just didn't want my sister as my maid of

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01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,479
Speaker 2: honor since we have never really gotten along. She didn't

1346
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:37,640
Speaker 2: like the man I was marrying, nor did she support

1347
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 2: the marriage at all, and she had completely different ideals

1348
01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:43,400
Speaker 2: and tastes from me. I was simply too exhausted of

1349
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 2: this constant arguing over a day that is supposed to

1350
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 2: be a day of my husband and I getting married

1351
01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 2: to get into yet another argument justifying why I chose

1352
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 2: my sister in law over my sister. And you're not

1353
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 2: a nahle for that. No, it's not like your sister

1354
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:00,680
Speaker 2: was going to be like, oh, well, now that you

1355
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 2: said that, I respect your decision. Yeah, yeah, you made

1356
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 2: the gut check call of like, all right, I'm not

1357
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 2: gonna explain. You know, it's like when like a little

1358
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 2: kid asks you a question that's like that is way

1359
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 2: too complex for me to answer for you to understand, buddy,

1360
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,680
Speaker 2: So you just go like, I don't know, you.

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01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 1: Know, it's honestly, I think the answer is a hey, look,

1362
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 1: it's it's just my wedding and that's just what.

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01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 3: I like to have. Yeah, sister in laws made of honor.

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01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 3: I don't know if she's not even doing anything. I

1365
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 3: don't know. Playcader just being like, I don't ah, I

1366
01:04:31,520 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 3: hate you as don't say that.

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01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:38,600
Speaker 2: I had already had to change most of what I

1368
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 2: had always dreamed of for my wedding due to the

1369
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 2: time crunch and not fitting into my dream dress with

1370
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:47,040
Speaker 2: my eight month pregnant belly. I wanted my sister in

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01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 2: law to be my maid of honor because she had

1372
01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 2: been my best friend and greatest support for the past

1373
01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:54,920
Speaker 2: three plus years. This did not sit well with the

1374
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:58,240
Speaker 2: rest of my family since I'm two hours away. My

1375
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:03,880
Speaker 2: family did a solid job of spreading across my aunt's cousins, grandparents, neighbors, etc.

1376
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 2: That my sister was a victim and I was so

1377
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 2: inconsiderate for not having my sister in my wedding. Before

1378
01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:11,960
Speaker 2: I could ever tell anyone my side of the story,

1379
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 2: keep in mind she turned down being a bridesmaid. Her decision.

1380
01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,440
Speaker 2: I would receive cards in the mail, phone calls, and

1381
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:25,919
Speaker 2: text messages from my family and extended family asking why

1382
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 2: my sister wasn't in my wedding and why I was

1383
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 2: pushing away my family when they had done nothing wrong

1384
01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:34,479
Speaker 2: and it doesn't end here. Five minutes before I walked

1385
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 2: down the aisle, the priest officiating our wedding walked into

1386
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 2: the room where I waited anxiously to see my husband.

1387
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:41,920
Speaker 3: He came up to me.

1388
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 2: We spoke about some wedding stuff, and at some point

1389
01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 2: he goes, oh, yeah, on my way.

1390
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:49,080
Speaker 3: Here, your sister accosted me in the hallway. She asked

1391
01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 3: why I, the priest, didn't convince you to make her

1392
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:54,160
Speaker 3: your maid of honor. I just thought you should know.

1393
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah.

1394
01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:05,040
Speaker 3: She was coming down with literal holy retribution.

1395
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:07,840
Speaker 1: Literally like, bro, how come you not bring you the

1396
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:10,560
Speaker 1: wrath of God on her for her miscretions?

1397
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 3: What is that movie with Ed Nortoney plays that king

1398
01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:17,880
Speaker 3: King in Heaven? Is that? What that is? Silence?

1399
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 2: Silence, silence, sister in law? A neglectful sister is talking? Okay.

1400
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 2: I was livid after eight months of planning my own wedding,

1401
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 2: dealing with hiccups in venue payments and other details, going

1402
01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:38,479
Speaker 2: through my first pregnancy with only my husband and his

1403
01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 2: family as support, my own family constantly gaslighting me and

1404
01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:45,680
Speaker 2: interrogating me on why my sister wasn't in my wedding,

1405
01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 2: dealing with constant sickness in general anxiety, literally my entire

1406
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 2: life changing. Now she chooses my wedding day to stop

1407
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 2: the priest in the hallway and ask why today wasn't

1408
01:06:59,400 --> 01:06:59,919
Speaker 2: about her?

1409
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 3: Wow, whoo, Send her back to the.

1410
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:07,919
Speaker 2: Factory, brother, She needs a she needs a settings system reset.

1411
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:11,479
Speaker 3: Reboot that girl. Whoo, golly woo.

1412
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 2: The ceremony was the beautiful, but I spent the entire

1413
01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 2: time fighting back tears from being so overwhelmed and dreading

1414
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 2: my own wedding reception, which would have all of the

1415
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 2: extended family that had been on my sister and mom's

1416
01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 2: side of this feud. During the mate of honor speech,

1417
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 2: which I had asked my cousin to record, my sister

1418
01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 2: stomped across the floor in her heels, interrupting my sister

1419
01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 2: in law, who is pretty soft spoken even with the microphone.

1420
01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 3: She's just like that was weird.

1421
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 2: I don't know why that was done, but I guess

1422
01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 2: I'll just continue on with my speech. And I have

1423
01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:51,440
Speaker 2: nothing against sister in law. She's a sweet pie, so spoken,

1424
01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 2: sweety pie. Yeah, this is great in this bit I've craft.

1425
01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:58,880
Speaker 2: In a moment, I just assumed it was one of

1426
01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:01,920
Speaker 2: the kids being from with the tantrum. It wasn't until

1427
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 2: other guests came up to me and asked what my

1428
01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 2: sister problems was and how rude it was to disrupt

1429
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 2: the speech that I realized.

1430
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 3: It was her.

1431
01:08:09,160 --> 01:08:11,800
Speaker 2: Honestly, the rest of the wedding and what went wrong

1432
01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 2: could make a whole other post. Maybe I'll update with

1433
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,160
Speaker 2: that crap show, but for now, I'll save it for later.

1434
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 2: And by the way, you can save over twelve hundred

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Speaker 2: odd give all right, and you can listen to it

1440
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 2: until the cows come home boo, And they're coming home

1441
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 2: in fifty three days, let's go. And that's how many

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Speaker 2: days where the stories we at.

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01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 3: Oh god, so we have.

1444
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 2: A little bit more story here, Give it to me.

1445
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 3: Are we going to kick the family on like before

1446
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 3: the reception? Yeah?

1447
01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 1: Honestly, at this point, I think you need to send

1448
01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:03,599
Speaker 1: him down and be like, listen, either you start behaving

1449
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:07,839
Speaker 1: or you're gonna be escorted out security. Let's get some security,

1450
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 1: Let's get some let's get some muscle on the scene.

1451
01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:11,680
Speaker 1: And'd be like, yeah, I would love to have my

1452
01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:15,719
Speaker 1: family here. But as Helena Bain says, so many full

1453
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:19,720
Speaker 1: grown toddlers. You can't say a baby. If you be

1454
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:21,639
Speaker 1: a baby, then I take you off a little nappy.

1455
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:26,919
Speaker 3: It's trummy baby, night night. Yeah, so I think I agree.

1456
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 2: I think there should be a two strike system. You

1457
01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 2: mentioned my sister being shoot, how she should have been

1458
01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 2: a maid of honor. Once I let it go, you

1459
01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 2: mentioned it twice. You're being removed by Terry get Terry's

1460
01:09:39,320 --> 01:09:40,800
Speaker 2: seven feet tall, and.

1461
01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:46,519
Speaker 3: Terry crews muscle, His pets are bouncing. He's a space

1462
01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 3: specimen slapping you with him.

1463
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:52,320
Speaker 2: They call him scary. Terry's okay, fine, And here's the

1464
01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:55,719
Speaker 2: story now here. We are over a year into marriage

1465
01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:58,439
Speaker 2: and with a beautiful one year old daughter, I don't

1466
01:09:58,439 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 2: speak to my sister much and have mostly forgiven my parents.

1467
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:04,320
Speaker 2: I still struggle with thinking about the screaming and hurtful

1468
01:10:04,320 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 2: words when they babysit our daughter. I never spoke to

1469
01:10:07,280 --> 01:10:09,760
Speaker 2: my sister about her behavior on my wedding day, and

1470
01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 2: I just keep any conversation with her minimal. Am I

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01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:15,000
Speaker 2: the a hole for not making my sister my maid

1472
01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 2: of honor at my wedding even though she said she's

1473
01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:20,400
Speaker 2: entitled to it just by being my sister? No, hey,

1474
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,559
Speaker 2: it's Sam. We'll get back to the stories. But here's

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01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 2: a hole for letting those people babysit your kid.

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01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:31,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't got to do that.

1478
01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe she needs to help watching them, but hey,

1479
01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 3: at the end of the night, not the a hole.

1480
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 2: You gotta find a different if those people are like

1481
01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 2: screaming at you, and I don't know, I would be like,

1482
01:10:42,920 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 2: if you scream them.

1483
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 3: I'd get cameras. You need nanny cams.

1484
01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:47,640
Speaker 2: You need to make sure that they're not yelling at

1485
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,280
Speaker 2: the kid or screaming at the kip while they're watching it,

1486
01:10:49,400 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 2: Because I get it, sometimes you need that support system

1487
01:10:53,120 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 2: of like all right, free childcare through my family understandable.

1488
01:10:58,160 --> 01:11:00,439
Speaker 3: However, you need to make sure that they're treating kid right.

1489
01:11:00,520 --> 01:11:03,320
Speaker 3: That's right, not the A hole. And you know you

1490
01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:04,439
Speaker 3: can go even further. You can.

1491
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:07,760
Speaker 1: You can give them some distance, protect the kiddos. But

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, we are the A hole because that

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Speaker 1: is all the content we have for this episode. That's true.

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