Speaker 1: What's up is Angelie and it's time for lip service.
Speaker 1: I'm g G. MacGuire, I'm Stephanie Santiago. Now I just
Speaker 1: want to before we get started today, talk about mood.
Speaker 1: What kind of mood is everybody? And you know how
Speaker 1: we have the mood Instagram, So describe your mood. I
Speaker 1: just want to get a feel for the room. I'm happy, hey,
Speaker 1: fake smile, I'm happy. Like it's too deep. We're not
Speaker 1: gonna get into the sun of now. I mean, I
Speaker 1: had a long, hot ass day, but regardless of a
Speaker 1: little wave in New York, regardless, i made it here
Speaker 1: from my little two hour travel and I'm happy to
Speaker 1: see my girls. So happy to have a drink, because
Speaker 1: that's the first thing everybody came in here said, I
Speaker 1: need a drink today. Let me hear my ice jiggle.
Speaker 1: That's definitely what kind of mood are you in today? Um,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a little de us today, but I'm getting
Speaker 1: away though, I'm drinking and I'm gonna be happy and
Speaker 1: like just a few minutes, there's some good things and
Speaker 1: bad things that happened for Stephanie. First of all, you're
Speaker 1: gonna be on good day New York right. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be on Good Day in New York tomorrow morning
Speaker 1: at nine am. That's awesome. Well, by the time this
Speaker 1: air is no but yeah, by the time of over
Speaker 1: been on earlier this morning. Yeah, but you were one
Speaker 1: of the sexiest people on Instagram. Yes, and sexy New
Speaker 1: Yorkers on Instagram for them in the New York Post.
Speaker 1: I came out in the paper this past Sunday, so um,
Speaker 1: Fox five brust out to me, and I'm going to
Speaker 1: interview with Good Morning America tomorrow morning. Yeah, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: The bad day is that our boyfriend went to jail yesterday.
Speaker 1: So good things, bad things. Yeah, my boyfriend went to
Speaker 1: jail yesterday. So I'm a little down in the duves.
Speaker 1: I'll be all right, okay, all right. Mood is what
Speaker 1: will we say for that? Mood is like gray, I'm
Speaker 1: feeling very great. Good. I think I'm great too. You're
Speaker 1: a little gray great. The summer is ending. I'm feeling
Speaker 1: a little sad about that. I feel like people are
Speaker 1: still trying to, like, you know, beat thoughts out here.
Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I'm I'm dreading cuffing season.
Speaker 1: I'm dreading it. You're dreading it and I'm dreading it. Man. Okay, so,
Speaker 1: last time we spoke to you on the Breakfast Club,
Speaker 1: you just broken up with your boyfriend who was your
Speaker 1: trainer as well. But you're still in great shape. So
Speaker 1: that's goodness, that's all. That's all. Well, now, what are
Speaker 1: you feeling so upset about? You broke up with him? Well,
Speaker 1: he actually broke up with me, like for real, for real,
Speaker 1: in the in the in the grand scheme of things
Speaker 1: he done. He left me. But I mean I deserved it.
Speaker 1: We were fighting so um no, I think. I mean
Speaker 1: I tried to move on a little bit and it didn't.
Speaker 1: It didn't bode so well for me. It's hard sometimes
Speaker 1: when you break up with somebody where they break up
Speaker 1: with you and then you go out with somebody else,
Speaker 1: it's always super critical because you compare them to the
Speaker 1: person who you was just with and it's like a rebound. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just he's just messy, and it just it gets
Speaker 1: on my nerves. I think. I'm just I'm just frustrated
Speaker 1: because I give so I give, I give people the
Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt, like I'd be giving people too
Speaker 1: much credit. Who did you give the benefit of the
Speaker 1: doubt too. Girl, A new guy, this guy, there's not
Speaker 1: enough vodka for this. Now. I want to know because
Speaker 1: sometimes guys make mistakes and we need to let them know.
Speaker 1: What is What is it that bothers us that you did? So?
Speaker 1: What did he do that bothers you? Um, it's really
Speaker 1: just it's just running game. Like I feel like in
Speaker 1: the very beginning, I'm real clear, like I've I've had
Speaker 1: a pretty shaky I've had a shaky pass, Like I've
Speaker 1: done my share of foul foul stuff. So, I mean,
Speaker 1: I understand how the game is supposed to be played right,
Speaker 1: so you don't pretend to be some innocent virgin and
Speaker 1: they never did anything, not by any means. But I'm
Speaker 1: also a professional, so I understand the rules. I understand
Speaker 1: how it feels to go. If you're a guy, you
Speaker 1: should play by certain rules. Certain things should not be
Speaker 1: out of hand. And I just felt disrespected. What are
Speaker 1: the rules for the guys? I just feel like there's like,
Speaker 1: if you're gonna do shady's stuff, like it should never
Speaker 1: get back to me. So in other words, respect me
Speaker 1: enough that if you're gonna do something stupid, don't get caught,
Speaker 1: don't get caught, because that means you were careless. You
Speaker 1: were careless, orp and slopping comfortable. You were comfortable, so
Speaker 1: you didn't think enough of me to really cover your tracks.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Or just don't do anything stupid
Speaker 1: or possible something, don't be don't be a completely you
Speaker 1: know completely make better decisions, Make better decisions. So what
Speaker 1: are you looking for now? I'm looking for more money,
Speaker 1: more alcohol, And that's what I'm looking for actually, because
Speaker 1: those are things that bring me a lot of joy. Well,
Speaker 1: I think I can help you. I'm like, I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm spitting at the right couch for more alcohol,
Speaker 1: more shoes, and more money. So were good? All right? Now?
Speaker 1: We were talking about this earlier because what I want
Speaker 1: to do now is focus on helping men. You know,
Speaker 1: we're not here to bash y'all because sometimes guys feel
Speaker 1: like we said, oh, y'all talk so much shit. We
Speaker 1: don't all cheat, we don't all to do this. And
Speaker 1: I was having a conversation about four play and I
Speaker 1: do feel like guys need tips on how to give
Speaker 1: better for play because sometimes guys think four plays I
Speaker 1: spit on my dick or spinning your pussy and then
Speaker 1: have sex with you and and that's it. So I
Speaker 1: want to help them mount and let them know what
Speaker 1: are certain things that they need to do for us,
Speaker 1: because I do feel like four plays so important for women.
Speaker 1: In order for sex to be great, four play has
Speaker 1: to be great for a woman especially. I think, so, um,
Speaker 1: you gotta let the oven preheat before you stick it in,
Speaker 1: That's right, Like you got you have to sample it
Speaker 1: a little bit too. You gotta, I need, I need,
Speaker 1: I need the whole thing to be completely devoured before
Speaker 1: we can. You gotta. You have to just like you
Speaker 1: have to savor the appetizer first, like you gotta just yeah,
Speaker 1: I need that, I need that before we get before
Speaker 1: So you have to eat my pussy first? Is that?
Speaker 1: Which is absolutely all right? That's a muss And I
Speaker 1: do feel like that too. I always say a guy
Speaker 1: should definitely go down on you before they have such
Speaker 1: as a respecting respect the boy. I think, Um, I
Speaker 1: think a lot of kissing is important and four play
Speaker 1: like only on the mouth like an anerthize stomach, not
Speaker 1: and not like licking because guys confused like little guys
Speaker 1: kisses with slob right. I hate when people slapping on
Speaker 1: me right, like, you know, like kissing me on my neck,
Speaker 1: but like like, don't stick your tongue out and look
Speaker 1: at like a dog. And there is a fine line
Speaker 1: between like a soft, like a supple bite and a
Speaker 1: real bite, like I'm really I'm yellow like me. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna like that hurts. Yeah, people like pain. I'm not
Speaker 1: really into pain. I like bites. Pain is good and
Speaker 1: the right at the right time and the right amount
Speaker 1: of pain. Too much pain and the wrong time, it's
Speaker 1: just the timing is off and it gets a little weird.
Speaker 1: It's yeah, you're like, now a little break right. I like,
Speaker 1: I like bite, like on my neck. I like to
Speaker 1: get slapped, but that's like four play. We didn't get
Speaker 1: there yet, I said, I like a little pain. Don't
Speaker 1: slap me doing like you don't slap me when you
Speaker 1: don't not play. I think that far play please thought
Speaker 1: it for a place. But you know, like I like
Speaker 1: to get a bit on my neck, but I don't
Speaker 1: like to get bit on my back. Okay, it hurts.
Speaker 1: I think that guys need to be more aware that
Speaker 1: intimacy is just what a woman craves sometimes, like guys
Speaker 1: aren't as affectionate as we might want them to be sometimes,
Speaker 1: and I feel like they need to realize that we
Speaker 1: want that, like we want all of the kissing and
Speaker 1: the touching and the licking and the rubbing and all
Speaker 1: of that. You know, somebody told me that fingering is childish.
Speaker 1: I like it. I don't mind it. I like it.
Speaker 1: Here for it, like it's yeah, I like my pussy
Speaker 1: and put finger. Yeah, I love that. It's like a
Speaker 1: gentle slide and then it's one finger and then it's too,
Speaker 1: like it's a gradual like you're taking me on a
Speaker 1: journey right now, that journey and with this thing, or
Speaker 1: because if I was ting, you can make somebody actually
Speaker 1: or yeah, absolutely I come from. So that's why I
Speaker 1: think sometimes guys like as things they did when they
Speaker 1: were younger that they feel like, oh, I don't have
Speaker 1: to do that anymore, because that was before I was
Speaker 1: having sex. I was fingering girls and doing this, and
Speaker 1: I don't do it anymore, And you have to do
Speaker 1: just like y'all want us to do those things that
Speaker 1: we did. Imagine, I said, well, I used to get
Speaker 1: blow jabs before, but I don't do it anymore because
Speaker 1: that's childish, right. I used to look the balls or
Speaker 1: doesn't really but it doesn't really matter, so never mind, No,
Speaker 1: they're still there, bro what you mean? So I always
Speaker 1: think that fingering is important, of course I think or
Speaker 1: else sex is important? What else is important for it?
Speaker 1: And you say kissing, nipping important, don't don't not doing
Speaker 1: and like one like you said, when you get to
Speaker 1: chapter four, chapter four or five and you already you
Speaker 1: already in it, that's when you could. I like that.
Speaker 1: I like to be choked a little too. I'm with you,
Speaker 1: I love to be but you can't forget about the
Speaker 1: nipples in the fourth place, right, like guys forget about
Speaker 1: nipples like it's not about the under like the under
Speaker 1: the like I need you to be wrapped up the
Speaker 1: area all that active with my areola. Sometimes I feel
Speaker 1: like um brush, like they're um like ignored. They don't
Speaker 1: got enough love exactly right you space nipple is a
Speaker 1: very sense sometimes just like the point to you just yeah,
Speaker 1: when I was a kid, that was it was like
Speaker 1: a really big thing for a girl to have big
Speaker 1: brass and a lot of times they have no hips,
Speaker 1: but boobs were like everywhere everybody focused on the boobs.
Speaker 1: Now asses, Now I feel like everybody forgot about the
Speaker 1: tits and they're going for the ass. But that point is,
Speaker 1: don't forget anything. Don't forget the nipples, don't forget the ass,
Speaker 1: don't forget the vagina. But also every woman has a
Speaker 1: different spot, Like every woman has a different spot on
Speaker 1: their body that's like take go down the spine like
Speaker 1: it's for summus, the neck for sum mus, the hip
Speaker 1: like it's the inner thigh. Because you know, there's certain
Speaker 1: places every woman has her own kind of you know,
Speaker 1: and different guys are able to make you feel a
Speaker 1: different way. Like sometimes a guy might do something that
Speaker 1: you love when this guy does it, but if somebody
Speaker 1: else did it to you later on you're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that doesn't do it for me. Or something that you
Speaker 1: think you don't like, you end up liking that a
Speaker 1: certain guy does it. So maybe one day I like
Speaker 1: getting fingered when when the right guy doesn't, you don't
Speaker 1: like any finger No, really, I feel like I'm getting
Speaker 1: get me the dick. Let's play we're talking about. You
Speaker 1: don't want four plays? So when is your four play consistent?
Speaker 1: I just your ideal, just intimacy, yeah, but just no fingering.
Speaker 1: I don't want you to finger me when I want
Speaker 1: something in my vagina, I want your penis. What about
Speaker 1: a finger in your butt? Well? During four plays? Chapter five, five, five,
Speaker 1: that's a move up five, but not not until chapter five.
Speaker 1: All right, what's your so any other tips that we
Speaker 1: have because I just want to make sure guys get it?
Speaker 1: What about sucking toes? Oh my god, that's so annoying.
Speaker 1: You don't try to stuck my toes. I had a
Speaker 1: guy sucks my toes one time. For everything else that's
Speaker 1: too far. It was just a random situation, and I
Speaker 1: actually really enjoyed it. We called they came from out
Speaker 1: of nowhere. I'm like, listen, if you're gonna put my
Speaker 1: feet in your mouth, what else are you gonna put
Speaker 1: in your mouth? I mean, we we all have amazing
Speaker 1: toes in these kinds to clear but really clean, and
Speaker 1: I keep them done. But come on, it's just yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know all you think about. It's like, man,
Speaker 1: I stepped barefoot from the shower to this day, I
Speaker 1: don't know what kind of pumps nocks. What if the
Speaker 1: guy wants you to massage his feet, I'm not a
Speaker 1: post that. If you're my man. If we're to get
Speaker 1: like you're my man and some guy that's just some
Speaker 1: casual thing. You ain't. I'm not touching your feet, you
Speaker 1: most guys, most guys keep their feet like away guys
Speaker 1: hide their feet, but most guys like that, Like you're like,
Speaker 1: I feel like a guy, and I need to see
Speaker 1: a guy's told so I know it's real, Like I
Speaker 1: gotta see what your feet look like for me to
Speaker 1: really feel like we need something real. One woman actually
Speaker 1: sent me an email to asking and she said that
Speaker 1: she's been married for six years and has never seen
Speaker 1: what that's like. A guy saying he never saw this
Speaker 1: girl without makeup on. I actually actually know a girl
Speaker 1: who's been in a relationship for three years and she's
Speaker 1: never he's never seen her without weave or a wig
Speaker 1: ever never, I've never seen it. No, she's got hair,
Speaker 1: but I mean she's always got a weave in or
Speaker 1: she's always got a wig, Like it's always something. He
Speaker 1: never sees her, never never sees it without Does he
Speaker 1: want to? I don't. I don't know. It's been like
Speaker 1: three years, but it's still just like damn for real.
Speaker 1: I mean, like pink panthers sneaking out with your like,
Speaker 1: come on, No, that's too that can think about it.
Speaker 1: We don't want guys to see us not looking good,
Speaker 1: Like when when that FaceTime lights up, girl, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm all natural. I when it comes to that. The
Speaker 1: only time I put makeup on is when I'm working.
Speaker 1: I wear no makeup all the time. I will take
Speaker 1: that ben out my Yeah, Like I don't like I'm
Speaker 1: on FaceTime no makeup. I don't even care, Like straight
Speaker 1: out of my bed, like wiping across on. I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm going to get a FaceTime. I may actually
Speaker 1: sleep in my makeup, like just in case, Like hey baby,
Speaker 1: it's like because when you face time, you gotta get
Speaker 1: like the right band. Yeah, oh it's definitely. I'm definitely yeah, definitely.
Speaker 1: Never mind. All right, now, what about us? Like what
Speaker 1: do we do? What are your tricks during four play
Speaker 1: that you do to man everything but penetration. What are
Speaker 1: some things that you think guys like a lot of
Speaker 1: guys try to front, but a lot of guys do,
Speaker 1: like when you lick the booty hole, they do like
Speaker 1: that episode, we should do us. It's true. We're like
Speaker 1: a lot of guys, says, We're like six minutes and
Speaker 1: we're talking about booty. I'm just we need to I
Speaker 1: want to get a survey done for real. Now, this
Speaker 1: is what I need. I need for people want to
Speaker 1: be an anonymous. It's gotta be anonymous though, because I
Speaker 1: want to hear some guys that that will really admit
Speaker 1: to not a finger. We're not talking about no, I'm
Speaker 1: talking about it. It's a little, just a little. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of lookin at the tip of the tongue.
Speaker 1: But what about you guys have like Harry assholes? Does
Speaker 1: that matter? I mean, I'm never coming. It hasn't been
Speaker 1: that bad any guy that I'm what do you go
Speaker 1: to look at guy's asshole and you can taste a
Speaker 1: little sh I would have already died. And I feel
Speaker 1: like it tastes like like booty tastes like pennies anyway,
Speaker 1: Like if you're penny. I never tasted a penny, but
Speaker 1: like if you like, if you hold a penny of head, penny,
Speaker 1: that's what it's your old copper as It doesn't necessarily
Speaker 1: mean it's not clean, but you but you know what too,
Speaker 1: to be fair, just because I'm a woman, if I
Speaker 1: was to go down there and it's too clean, like
Speaker 1: there's powder it's most like Shae Butter. I'm gonna look
Speaker 1: at you a little like, wait a second, there's a
Speaker 1: problem with a guy having a clean booty hole, and
Speaker 1: there's a person if it's too clean, it's there's no hair,
Speaker 1: and it's all like hair that I'm looking at you
Speaker 1: a little. You actually ass as a straight man. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna look at you a little crazy. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So if you tasted a little something, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I would die. No, but I would die. I would guys.
Speaker 1: I feel like I wasn't more conscious about wiping though
Speaker 1: it really conscious, you know what. I was just gonna
Speaker 1: be a funny story. One time one of my friends,
Speaker 1: she um, we were somewhere anyway, she met this guy,
Speaker 1: took him to the room. And why did he go
Speaker 1: and take a ship after they had sex and then
Speaker 1: try to come right back into bed and have sex.
Speaker 1: He should have gotten the showers? Am I the only
Speaker 1: person that likes to take a shower after I go
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, there's no I'm if I'm at home,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm getting in the shower a little there's
Speaker 1: nowhere spelling. Then taking a ship and then trying to
Speaker 1: put your clothes right. But I think guy should do
Speaker 1: that too. Of me. If you need to take a ship,
Speaker 1: go to take a bath, get in the water, take
Speaker 1: a bath. All right? So what is the other tips
Speaker 1: before I play for men? What do you do the guys?
Speaker 1: Besides um Bridge said your go to movies. You like
Speaker 1: to lick the booty hole. I mean it's it's a
Speaker 1: gradual day. I don't think that guy would let me
Speaker 1: do that. I don't know how to make that happen.
Speaker 1: It depends on the guy that you win. So it's
Speaker 1: gotta be a real you gotta it's gotta be a
Speaker 1: conversation first. You can't just go right in for it
Speaker 1: because that's like I kind of feel like you can't
Speaker 1: discuss it first because if you never talked about it. Now,
Speaker 1: I feel like guys not you do. Yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: like guys like you'll be sucking their dicking and like
Speaker 1: their leg a little, you know what, I want you
Speaker 1: to lick their that's a good point. Yeah, they do
Speaker 1: that little. So you've asked guys like can I look
Speaker 1: your asshole? I just know I just asked, what if
Speaker 1: there's if there's do you like theads? No, I just
Speaker 1: ask if there's anything that's awful in man, if they
Speaker 1: don't say that, and if they don't say that, if
Speaker 1: they don't say that, well, I asked, I asked. You
Speaker 1: told me nothing. You told me there was no rules,
Speaker 1: no going two big burly men coming to rout. I
Speaker 1: don't alright, So Stephanie, what about you for a four
Speaker 1: play with some of your go to I mean for
Speaker 1: four play? I like, um, I find that you know,
Speaker 1: Spanish guys don't like it, but I like to like
Speaker 1: lick nipples and I like to like be you know,
Speaker 1: pay attention and like kiss a lot on the knack
Speaker 1: and the face and you know, and then go down
Speaker 1: to like oral. That's what I do, like you, but
Speaker 1: they don't like it. Like my current Boyfrienk was like, guys,
Speaker 1: my current boyfriend, if I try to lick his nipples,
Speaker 1: he's like giving me the stiff arm, like pushing me away,
Speaker 1: like boy. But he also might be like this feels
Speaker 1: too good. I'm like, that's what I tell him. I
Speaker 1: like joking around. I'm like, you love it, don't fight it.
Speaker 1: Like me to lick him right here on his arm.
Speaker 1: That's different right here, but it probably is like a
Speaker 1: real sensit. I could I could see that that could
Speaker 1: be a sensitive I had a boyfriend that I used
Speaker 1: to want me to always run my nails up and
Speaker 1: down his forearm, Like he'll be driving at HAF it's
Speaker 1: more arm down and I'll be running my my nails
Speaker 1: up and down his forearm. That was an old boyfriend
Speaker 1: when I was like seventeen. She had disclaimer anybody else.
Speaker 1: I don't want anybody. It's Lord's twenty years ago. Do
Speaker 1: you think about it? And you know what else? Is
Speaker 1: always good for playing a massage exactly? I like to rob.
Speaker 1: I like to rob a lode. And I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: not type of lover though, Like I'm I'm a very
Speaker 1: submissive given lover. What about during a massage? Now here's
Speaker 1: a question I have. How low is too low to go? Like?
Speaker 1: Is it weird to like massage your guys? But I
Speaker 1: would not massage you guys. I've never tried it. But
Speaker 1: the only time I'm touching the guys but is when
Speaker 1: I'm grabbing it to pull him in deeper. Other than that,
Speaker 1: I'm going to keep my hand. You don't slap his
Speaker 1: ask something. I don't think I've ever slept what you left?
Speaker 1: No shot? Please? That was? That was? I feel like
Speaker 1: they would make it. I'm uncomfortable, Like what right, he's like,
Speaker 1: who's talking now? I don't even like grabbing uses when
Speaker 1: the guys inside of me. I think it might cause
Speaker 1: for an awkward moment. But if you're pulling him in,
Speaker 1: I mean it's a it's a hip though, or it's
Speaker 1: a thigh, it's a thigh of grabbing it. But yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like more from the side. You can't like your
Speaker 1: legs around and pull your legs. No grabbing, spreading in
Speaker 1: all right? Now, what about taking the condom off? When
Speaker 1: do you say it's okay for us to have raw sex?
Speaker 1: How do you know it's okay to have a row
Speaker 1: sex with the guy? Has anybody ever really made a
Speaker 1: guy go get like STD tested and do all of
Speaker 1: that stuff? I did. Actually, if they tell you to
Speaker 1: do I did once. I did once only because I
Speaker 1: only because I was I just was like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: My mom My mom is My mom is a midwife.
Speaker 1: She taught sex that at my junior high school. Okay,
Speaker 1: so when I was like fourteen, she came in and
Speaker 1: was showing us pictures like hey, guys, like, it's mom,
Speaker 1: this is what kind of looks like for everybody. And
Speaker 1: we were all sitting there like so I think maybe
Speaker 1: the second or the second guy that I slept with,
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, we have to go to
Speaker 1: attested together. That's but it wasn't romantic at like said
Speaker 1: like seventeen eighteen though we were kind of but when
Speaker 1: you guys went say you stopped using condoms, that was
Speaker 1: the point of its not okay now with your last boyfriend,
Speaker 1: when did you say, okay, we're not going to use
Speaker 1: condoms at all. Is it a discussion or does he
Speaker 1: just slide up in there? I mean, honestly, I feel
Speaker 1: like the first the first time, it's not it's like
Speaker 1: unquote unquote unprotected um. Because I've always been on the
Speaker 1: pilm my whole life. I think I feel like the
Speaker 1: first time is it's not discussed, like it almost happens,
Speaker 1: that just happen because it's a hot and heavy moment
Speaker 1: and y'all just in it and you just go he
Speaker 1: just slides in and you're like, oh man, we didn't
Speaker 1: and it's too late. And after that we was too
Speaker 1: late discussion. It's like, well, never mind, has anybody ever
Speaker 1: gone from not using condoms back to using condom? No? No, never,
Speaker 1: because once you take that kind of the first time,
Speaker 1: already picked off all those botes, that's it. Stevery to
Speaker 1: the guy. Let's go get tested together. Um No, I'm
Speaker 1: too paranoid to have real sex. I could call how
Speaker 1: many guys I've have real sex with. On one hand,
Speaker 1: I'm very paranoid, like my one of my sister's uncles
Speaker 1: died of AIDS when I was a kid, So forget it,
Speaker 1: Like I lost my virginia with a condom, okay, and um,
Speaker 1: I just feel like if if you're ready to take
Speaker 1: off the condom, you should be ready to have a
Speaker 1: baby or ready to die. So that's that's when you die.
Speaker 1: Are you ready to die? I was ready to die.
Speaker 1: Now taking off the condom is not. I'm just saying
Speaker 1: that's where you die. That's when I that's when do
Speaker 1: you take off the condom when you're right down? I'm
Speaker 1: not ready to die, ready to die. I'm not ready
Speaker 1: to die. It's crazy to birth control like you everything.
Speaker 1: Would you tell a guy that would you die for
Speaker 1: this pussy? Ready? If I was stroke enough, I would
Speaker 1: probably say something like I've been with guys that I
Speaker 1: wanted so bad and I know that they're incredible lovers,
Speaker 1: and we'll be and we'll be in the spot and
Speaker 1: there's no condoms and they're like, oh, the fun if
Speaker 1: there's no condoms, And I'm like, fuck it, I'm going home.
Speaker 1: No condom. I'm going you can't go to the store.
Speaker 1: You want to go to the store, either go to
Speaker 1: the store. We're going back to the store. Yeah. And
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I've had one time I was with
Speaker 1: a guy and we weren't even serious and we have
Speaker 1: been having sex for a while, and he tried to
Speaker 1: suck me rowing I was like, oh, I was like
Speaker 1: never like you and I will never have a baby
Speaker 1: because we do look at that. Guys a little weird
Speaker 1: if they don't know it's like that, and they tell
Speaker 1: it like ruins everything, like how people you're doing this
Speaker 1: with and it's like you want to suck me? Bro?
Speaker 1: You fucking everybody row like I don't, I don't trust it,
Speaker 1: and I'm time everything I'm gonna telling you. Sometimes guys
Speaker 1: don't anticipate that they might be able to have sex
Speaker 1: with you, and if they don't have a condom on them.
Speaker 1: They kind of feel like because there's that period of
Speaker 1: time when they have to go get when the two
Speaker 1: could change your mind. Right by the time he gets
Speaker 1: up and it's like, I'm gonna vent to the store,
Speaker 1: he comes back, You're fully clothed, Like I just thought
Speaker 1: about it. Right while you were at the store, I
Speaker 1: started bleeding at a second thought. I changed my mind,
Speaker 1: dried up while you left. And I'm telling with this guy.
Speaker 1: He was so upset. He was so upset. We never
Speaker 1: spoke again because I didn't want to have real sex
Speaker 1: with him, and honestly I didn't want. I didn't care
Speaker 1: to speak to him anymore. I wouldn't talk to anybody
Speaker 1: to try to pull that on me. Oh and I
Speaker 1: had another guy. When I had another guy back in
Speaker 1: the day before I had my son. He um whatever,
Speaker 1: I was dating him. I knew him from when we
Speaker 1: were kids, and and we started dating or whatever, and
Speaker 1: we were, um, we were having sex. We were at
Speaker 1: my apartment. We were having sex, and um he tried
Speaker 1: to sun me roll and I was like, no, we
Speaker 1: need a condom, So I gave him the condom you
Speaker 1: had it. I had a condom. I was home, and
Speaker 1: you know, we were fucking and it felt like raw suck.
Speaker 1: He took it off, so I go and look in
Speaker 1: the nicker didn't have the condom on. I kicked him
Speaker 1: out of my house. It was like two thirty in
Speaker 1: the morning. I threatened him. I went and I got
Speaker 1: an STD test. I went crazy. I was paranoid for
Speaker 1: like two months because of this, because that's the first
Speaker 1: thing you do if your boyfriend cheats on you, girl,
Speaker 1: the first thing you do, first thing you do right,
Speaker 1: and then now do you get to test? You texting?
Speaker 1: And you'd be like because in you now I'm in
Speaker 1: the doctor's office, exactly. I just did this like two
Speaker 1: months ago. That's how you feel. My man wasn't even cheated.
Speaker 1: I just suspected it and I was wrong. And you
Speaker 1: gotta text h maybe like if I had something I'm
Speaker 1: saying and it ended up paying for my g y
Speaker 1: M visit. It's like that. It's like you have you'll
Speaker 1: ever seen Why did I get married? Yes, and home
Speaker 1: girl gets contracted disease. But she got it from from
Speaker 1: other dude and brought it back and he's like, well,
Speaker 1: I wasn't even I didn't get it from my baby.
Speaker 1: She was like you're right, or you didn't get it
Speaker 1: from your baby mom's you got it from Walter because
Speaker 1: I got it? No, that was that was? Was that
Speaker 1: why did I get married? Yeah? And that's why did
Speaker 1: I get married to the I love that movie, but
Speaker 1: me too. I just I feel like it's it's always
Speaker 1: an uncomfortable conversation to have, but I feel like you
Speaker 1: gotta have it really, like just break the ice, like
Speaker 1: get it out the way earlier. What abit if you're
Speaker 1: dating a guy and he and you asked me, have
Speaker 1: you ever had an STD? Right? Do you ask that?
Speaker 1: And if he tells you yes, I did, does that
Speaker 1: change anything? No, depends on what the s CD is. Right.
Speaker 1: It's not good to something that goes away. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean if you told me and then we're gonna have
Speaker 1: a hold, that changes the whole conversation. Yeah, that's quiet
Speaker 1: I had. But you know, like, yeah, I had. I
Speaker 1: had clamdia when I was eighteen. I don't even want
Speaker 1: to know that. That's too much for me. I don't
Speaker 1: think a guy would be honest anyway, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't think guys would be honest even now. I
Speaker 1: think they were, because they'd be afraid that if they
Speaker 1: told they're not going to be honest but having STD
Speaker 1: in the past, and they're not going to be honest
Speaker 1: about liking that bootyhole. Look, but we knew they love it.
Speaker 1: See so I look like and you've had STD to
Speaker 1: lick my man's ass. He would drop kick me. You think.
Speaker 1: Never I joke with him, and you know I'm with it.
Speaker 1: You know I'm with you. I'm with he drinks Tennessee,
Speaker 1: he will straight up drop kick me. Now what if?
Speaker 1: What if when he gets out of jail he likes it.
Speaker 1: Stop playing out of jail, he's gonna have the hairless
Speaker 1: But what I always wanted you to try? You never
Speaker 1: and he gonna hit you with that mud doesn't even
Speaker 1: like to funk me in my ass, like we like
Speaker 1: we wanted to try it, and he's like, no, I
Speaker 1: don't really like that, right, Yeah, he's not circumcised. He
Speaker 1: doesn't like having he's circumcised. No, he's not, so he
Speaker 1: gets smegma. No, he's so clean still underneath you never
Speaker 1: never like telling you penis. It's like dead cells or something.
Speaker 1: And like, I'm sorry that non circumcis. That's a deal
Speaker 1: breaking for me. I don't care how many is not? Like?
Speaker 1: Not have not? You know why? I like? You know
Speaker 1: why I like to fun with guys who have uncircumcised
Speaker 1: penis because I know that they have to be extra
Speaker 1: clean with themselves. You know, I don't because if you
Speaker 1: don't take care of it, you know, but you like,
Speaker 1: if you don't take care of it and I go
Speaker 1: down on you, I will smell it, you know, and
Speaker 1: that that's disgusting. Many guys have you mess that have
Speaker 1: been uncircumcised. I've been friends for you. It's not a preference.
Speaker 1: It's not a preference because I honestly think that penis
Speaker 1: looks prettier when it's a circumcis because I don't have
Speaker 1: to play you hoodie back. No, but it looks. But
Speaker 1: some like I've been, Um, I don't know where you guys,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of men out there that are uncircumcised,
Speaker 1: and um, you know some guys have a lot of skins,
Speaker 1: especially a lot of island there not circumcise. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: and um, like I mean my my current boyfriend, he's
Speaker 1: he's so clean and like he smells. So it's still
Speaker 1: different with the uncircumcised penis. No, it doesn't I think
Speaker 1: it feels different for them because they have two different sensations.
Speaker 1: They have the sensation of sex with the skin over
Speaker 1: the head, and then they have the sensation of sex
Speaker 1: when the skin goes back so painful? Is that different?
Speaker 1: When you give a blowdown, don't you gotta hold it
Speaker 1: back right now? That's another thing when you give a blowjob,
Speaker 1: like you really have a lot of right, that's too
Speaker 1: much skin, so you guys leave it. That's what she
Speaker 1: was doing. It's just too much. Like I don't know
Speaker 1: what kind of dick's break, are you gonna park like players? No,
Speaker 1: but you know, I'm when given when you when you're
Speaker 1: giving a blowjob to a guy with a circumtan dick,
Speaker 1: you have to pay attention to what they like, you know,
Speaker 1: Like some guys don't want you to push the skin back.
Speaker 1: They want you to suck their dick over the skin, okay,
Speaker 1: and then other you know, or you gotta like build
Speaker 1: up into pushing the skin back. You can't just go
Speaker 1: with like back and then and then go and then
Speaker 1: go crazy, you know, you have to like build it up.
Speaker 1: So it's like driving stack two hands. I don't use
Speaker 1: hands when i'm I don't I don't use hands. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't use my hands when I'm giving a job.
Speaker 1: Not usually no, because I feel like yeah for the guys,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't hands on the guys. I find
Speaker 1: guys like when a yeah you got. The only time
Speaker 1: I'll use the hand is like if I need to
Speaker 1: use my hand to push it behind, like my tonsils
Speaker 1: like to push it, you know, to push it back
Speaker 1: for deep throating. It has to be a bad dick
Speaker 1: like to you know, to have to use the hands
Speaker 1: for me to be pushing it. No, but you know
Speaker 1: you I could do it. I could. I could push
Speaker 1: the dick. Usually I could push the dick back without
Speaker 1: using my hands. But it's like if he has like
Speaker 1: a monster dick, I might need to my hands. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I need my hands now. I
Speaker 1: like to like I do like dutty wines. Do you
Speaker 1: have a playlist because this stuff like like like what's
Speaker 1: another good song to sectic took and type a fight
Speaker 1: song and people fight too, and it's all right, so
Speaker 1: duty one is a good one. Whatever. No, I don't
Speaker 1: you know, like the duty wine have motion. I think guys,
Speaker 1: I think this except for girls because you know, a
Speaker 1: lot of girls don't know how to suck dick and
Speaker 1: they just want to go up and down and they
Speaker 1: think like take the shop like you need to sucking playlist,
Speaker 1: but will be on the dick sucking playlist. Dick sucking playlist,
Speaker 1: good girl, because that, let me tell you, that's a
Speaker 1: good on you. Hold you you were you ready to
Speaker 1: die for the dick with you just not even thinking?
Speaker 1: You call you clock out, blackout. It's all about silent
Speaker 1: to would you No? That's stuff. You gotta have a
Speaker 1: dance to it though, besides the duty white with us?
Speaker 1: What's a good dick sucking danced? Wan is good? The
Speaker 1: hand motion no? Not not on the head motion, not
Speaker 1: the not the body the head banger no, because bang
Speaker 1: your head too. Yeah, what about Harlem shake? Could you
Speaker 1: harlem shake? You go? You gotta be active with your tongue. No,
Speaker 1: because guys sometimes like if they want to watch what
Speaker 1: you're doing some But that's that's just for that's just
Speaker 1: for ships, you know, for the is yours, that's for
Speaker 1: the vis when they ask you questions and you have
Speaker 1: your dick and you have their why are you? It's
Speaker 1: like being at the dentist and they're trying to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Why would you do That's such a good question.
Speaker 1: I hate when I'm sucking dick and the nick is
Speaker 1: asking me a question. So you're like, you like, shut
Speaker 1: the right, I'm going, yeah, I'm just gonna. I'm not
Speaker 1: even saying you you're talking too much. If you don't
Speaker 1: shut the funk up and let me do this, you
Speaker 1: don't just let me work right now? I got no
Speaker 1: work questions during If you asked you a question during
Speaker 1: the blood, put his dig down and be like, what
Speaker 1: did you want to talk about the conversation forget what
Speaker 1: I was doing. Let's get back to you. This is
Speaker 1: more important, right all right? Now, here's something else I
Speaker 1: wanted to talk about. Lingerie? Oh god, all right now,
Speaker 1: how many of us use lingerie? And do you think
Speaker 1: that guys like it? Because I've heard a lot of
Speaker 1: guys say that lingerie. They don't really think it's a
Speaker 1: big deal. They're like, okay, you wear it when you're
Speaker 1: walking cool? And then now what so are you No?
Speaker 1: I used to be a stripper. I don't wear panties.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't even have a brow on today.
Speaker 1: But but you don't want to wear something like super
Speaker 1: dirty and nasty and sexy. So when he walks in,
Speaker 1: he's like, damn, the only thing he wanted to see
Speaker 1: me in some shoes with a night heal or some
Speaker 1: thought high boots or something. No lingerie here. I mean,
Speaker 1: if he asks for it, then I wear it. I
Speaker 1: have some ship, you know, from from the old days
Speaker 1: that if I can pull out the box or something,
Speaker 1: pulling out the old luxury. I mean, yeah, a lot
Speaker 1: of little garter, a little garden stock, and with that
Speaker 1: tashment a little that's a little at a lot of
Speaker 1: little fun. If he asked for it. But I'm not.
Speaker 1: That's not my goal to thing into it. I'd rather
Speaker 1: just be naked. The good shoes. Yeah, it's like, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, hold on, what's you who makes this? Just
Speaker 1: throw your leg up one time. It's the bottom. It's
Speaker 1: just like, okay, I'm with it, he's with it. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I like lingrei either. First of all,
Speaker 1: it's expensive, let's talk about that. And it's kind of
Speaker 1: it's kind of a ways like I don't want to
Speaker 1: walk into I'm not gonna spend a thousand dollars on
Speaker 1: all the thousand dollars because guys, but guys don't care
Speaker 1: if it's love pla or not. You target well, I
Speaker 1: mean I date some shallow guys, so I think the
Speaker 1: guys I date will give is this victorious Like you
Speaker 1: just said, Calvin Klein, target label the labor A lot
Speaker 1: of guys with labor hordes, they're gonna do. So once
Speaker 1: you wear lingerie once, can you wear it again? Or
Speaker 1: the guy we'll see the same guy or like sere
Speaker 1: that last weeks. Here's the thing. I actually I bought
Speaker 1: a couple of pieces and then they got ruined, like
Speaker 1: they got ripped, and I was like, well this is
Speaker 1: why wa wait wait wait wait wait back it, back
Speaker 1: it up. I bought and it got ripped? How did
Speaker 1: it get ridden? He ripped it off? Too much of?
Speaker 1: I should absolutely too much of. And if she spends
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars on lingre, you had not just rip it.
Speaker 1: But this is my point, and replace it and you
Speaker 1: gotta buy a whole new one, going to go online
Speaker 1: pick out a new set, and we're gonna have to work.
Speaker 1: But that's why maybe it's not worth it to by
Speaker 1: expens again. It depends on the guy that you're with.
Speaker 1: And it also depends on the occasion. If, like said,
Speaker 1: if you request it, it's different you want. If you
Speaker 1: request it, then been by all means we'll pull something
Speaker 1: out for you. But otherwise it's not. On a regular
Speaker 1: Thursday night, you're about to get this. You about to
Speaker 1: get these young calvins. If all right, Stephanie ling me.
Speaker 1: I like wearing Lingerie, but I put it on and
Speaker 1: then it's like the guy comes in the room and
Speaker 1: he rips it off. It's over. They don't. I don't
Speaker 1: even feel like that, Like I could buy these. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you, I've invested so much money into good underwear
Speaker 1: or like not Victoria's secret crop, like good underwear three
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollar bras. I can't do that, like
Speaker 1: really good underwear. And you know these are it feels
Speaker 1: soft and it fits well, and I'm like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna wear this, and I'm gonna wait for him to
Speaker 1: come home and put some shoes on. And as soon
Speaker 1: as the nigga sees that I have shoes on, it's over.
Speaker 1: That's you didn't even notice. So you rather invest in
Speaker 1: the shoes. Oh, the shoe is always more worth While
Speaker 1: men loved having sex with girls and shoes. That's that's it,
Speaker 1: just is what it is, whether it's like a Christian
Speaker 1: Louba town or a pare Jordan's guys just like ste
Speaker 1: with girls and sneakers. I got my new Jordan's on baby.
Speaker 1: They like it, like it. If he's intims, he'll be
Speaker 1: happy with you and anything. Honestly, what about is there
Speaker 1: anything that a guy can wear that we care about? No, No,
Speaker 1: it's weird, right yeah, yeah, it's a little weird. I
Speaker 1: remember when I first started dating and entertainment. I used
Speaker 1: to really really love dating guys with like sick diamond earrings,
Speaker 1: Like I thought it was the sexiest thing in the world.
Speaker 1: But now I don't really notice what the guys like.
Speaker 1: A couple of chains, not a lot, Not like too
Speaker 1: much because then it's gonna hit me in the face
Speaker 1: at some point, I'm gonna have cuts, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Tell me you can't be all that, but
Speaker 1: you're chain dipping into my vaginas you go down. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's it's cool. This is cold metal on my on
Speaker 1: my one right now. A couple of a couple of chains.
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that. What about tattoos? I love tattoos.
Speaker 1: To love tattoos, I mean, I'm guys like me said, yes, um,
Speaker 1: tattoos are sexy, but it's not something that a guy
Speaker 1: has to have. Sometimes just are into tattoos. But when
Speaker 1: you know those that are What about beards? I love
Speaker 1: facial hair. I don't like beers. I like, um, I
Speaker 1: liked a little, like it when it's growing. I like
Speaker 1: it when it's when it's nice and roomed and fresh.
Speaker 1: Going crazy with these new beards, like they look like lumberjacks,
Speaker 1: it gets itchy down there. It's kept. I look at
Speaker 1: these guys with these beards, and I think their beards
Speaker 1: smells like whatever they ate. So if you ate a
Speaker 1: now you got a pizza beer bill over your beer
Speaker 1: and disgusting. Like all right, now here's the next question. Vacations. Okay, okay, Now,
Speaker 1: going on vacation with a guy, I feel like that's
Speaker 1: a big commitment. Now I'm gonna tell you my own
Speaker 1: opinion on it. All right. It's I can't go on
Speaker 1: vacation with a guy that I haven't slept with it.
Speaker 1: I don't know like that. I just don't want to
Speaker 1: do it because A I don't want to be stuck
Speaker 1: somewhere with somebody where If you're go on vacation with
Speaker 1: a guy, that's automatically if you haven't slept with him yet,
Speaker 1: that means you have to kind of yeah, it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're gonna have sex the first time. That's like saying okay,
Speaker 1: it's about to go down, Like, oh, I accept to
Speaker 1: share a room with you. I need to know you
Speaker 1: really well to feel like I want to even spend
Speaker 1: time that I could have been spending, getting money doing
Speaker 1: something else. For some pieties working how long is a
Speaker 1: vacation always like a weekend? Because you do a weekend
Speaker 1: with somebody, this is like a week like we about
Speaker 1: a week. I can't be alone with a guy for
Speaker 1: a weekend if I don't know him like that. If
Speaker 1: I if I don't feel like I already know and
Speaker 1: like you a lot you've got and we have and
Speaker 1: we have potential relationship, I don't want to do it.
Speaker 1: Some girls would be like vacation, let's go. I'm in,
Speaker 1: But I can't really do it just because I know,
Speaker 1: like if I go and I don't have a good time,
Speaker 1: there's a million other things I could have been doing,
Speaker 1: and it's gonna bother me, and I'll be annoyed and
Speaker 1: it might not work out. What do you think. I
Speaker 1: love vacations, especially going to come along with passport stamps
Speaker 1: and new experiences and places that I haven't been, or
Speaker 1: that well, let's go for the weekend. What you think? Um,
Speaker 1: it depends on the destination. No, for real, because I
Speaker 1: can go, I can go with somebody ignored the ship
Speaker 1: out of them and have a great goddamn time and
Speaker 1: I have to worry about having sex with them because
Speaker 1: if I say no, then I say no. I'll take
Speaker 1: some tamplines with me and be like, look like I
Speaker 1: gotta string no. Sorry oops. But then don't you feel
Speaker 1: like it could be annoying though, because now I'm stuck
Speaker 1: here with somebody that I don't even like. I actually,
Speaker 1: you know what, I went on vacation, um, not too
Speaker 1: long ago with a guy that I wasn't really I've
Speaker 1: known him for a long time, but we were never
Speaker 1: in a really ship, so I've assumed like I was
Speaker 1: not dreading going on vacation, but I was a little
Speaker 1: worried because I thought that we would be out of
Speaker 1: the country together for a whole weekend and I maybe
Speaker 1: would not have enjoyed his company. And I actually did
Speaker 1: enjoy his company. He wasn't annoying. We had great sex,
Speaker 1: and the beach was nice, and we ate and drank
Speaker 1: and it was a good time. But then after that,
Speaker 1: you're like, all right, thanks for that, thanks for the
Speaker 1: past ports stamp. What do you think vit? I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not opposed to the idea of a vacation.
Speaker 1: I think I think you get to know somebody for
Speaker 1: real when you are away with him. I think there's
Speaker 1: two ways you can get to get to know a guy.
Speaker 1: If you live with him, and if you go on
Speaker 1: vacation with him, you get to see what his habits
Speaker 1: are like. When he gets to the hotel, what does
Speaker 1: he do? Does he just throw his ship all over
Speaker 1: the room? But what if it's super early, he doesn't
Speaker 1: live in the same state as you. You'll just been
Speaker 1: kind of talking on the phone, and then he's like,
Speaker 1: you know, but you'll been talking a lot. Well, there's
Speaker 1: gotta be a significant amount of like physical time spent together,
Speaker 1: like an accumulation of like we've gone on dates, we've
Speaker 1: we've you know what I mean, Like you say to
Speaker 1: my house, I staid at your house, like we we
Speaker 1: have to be on that level of comfort before. But
Speaker 1: I don't think it needs to be you're my boyfriend,
Speaker 1: I'm your girlfriend before we take a trip together. I
Speaker 1: feel like, See, I'm not opposed to you saying let's
Speaker 1: go somewhere and I go with my friends or whatever,
Speaker 1: and you happen to go at the same time that
Speaker 1: I go, and then we just hang out when we
Speaker 1: get there. I think that's a perfect first trip with
Speaker 1: somebody that you don't know like that, because I don't
Speaker 1: want to feel like it's just me and you we
Speaker 1: go away, And I'm cool with it just me and
Speaker 1: you we go away, but it's got to be someplace
Speaker 1: where there's no pressure. Like we can't go to like,
Speaker 1: you know, France for four days. Like that's not romantic,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like it's really romantic. It's
Speaker 1: a lot of like we ain't in love. It's not
Speaker 1: not that kind of party we're gonna We're going to
Speaker 1: Jamaica for four all right, I'm down for Jamaica four
Speaker 1: a weekend. Let's go we out Like I'm cool with
Speaker 1: that because I also I also trust myself enough to
Speaker 1: know that if I'm wherever I'm at, I'm gonna have
Speaker 1: a good time. So if so, even if you're not,
Speaker 1: because by the way, there's nothing worse than going on
Speaker 1: vacation with somebody and you don't have a good time
Speaker 1: with them, and that's how and you get into a
Speaker 1: fight or it just doesn't go the way that you
Speaker 1: anticipated it, because that's the kind of thing that can
Speaker 1: make the break of relationship. Well that's the thing too.
Speaker 1: You have to discuss who's paying for the vacation, if
Speaker 1: you like, if you if you paying for the vacation.
Speaker 1: I need to know. My name has to be on
Speaker 1: this room. I need to know if there's no there's
Speaker 1: if there's any issues, if anything goes down and you
Speaker 1: happen to decide we get into a fight, whatever the
Speaker 1: case is. You're not putting me out nowhere. That's not
Speaker 1: Oh my god, can you imagine? I listen, I had
Speaker 1: I heard it. Had a horrible, horrible story told to
Speaker 1: me about a girl, a friend of a friend, that
Speaker 1: went on vacation with her man he paid for the
Speaker 1: whole thing. They got into a fight. He left her
Speaker 1: there like was piste off at her and left like
Speaker 1: like a day or two early, and left her there,
Speaker 1: So she ended up having to spend like like like
Speaker 1: seven or like an extra night in the hotel because
Speaker 1: it was it would have cost her like seven hundreds
Speaker 1: to change your flight, like it would have just been crazy.
Speaker 1: It was like some wild and Saint Bart's left her
Speaker 1: there and that's and that's the end of the relationship.
Speaker 1: That's it always quiet. I'm that's no now it's a
Speaker 1: fight if I see you now and you left me
Speaker 1: in a foreign place, bro because I remember my family
Speaker 1: not a vacation with her boyfriend and they actually and
Speaker 1: they were in Jamaica and they got into a huge
Speaker 1: by instant words because you know, it's how it didn't
Speaker 1: make those long distance out of the country calls and everything.
Speaker 1: And she kept calling me. I was liked, girl, stop
Speaker 1: calling me. Your phone was gonna be crazy. But it
Speaker 1: was awful of her because I'm not the country. I'm
Speaker 1: with this guy that I'm not getting along with. Bang Stephanie,
Speaker 1: what do you think about vacations? Well, for me, I
Speaker 1: mean when I first when I first became single three
Speaker 1: years ago, I I kind of burnt myself out. I
Speaker 1: traveled the whole world from like Japan, Tokyo, the islands,
Speaker 1: you know, Like it was like, yeah, I traveled so much,
Speaker 1: So at this point, I just I don't want to
Speaker 1: travel with anybody unless it's my friends, my girlfriends, or
Speaker 1: somebody i'm really in love with. Like, I don't trust
Speaker 1: any of these guys. They get on my nerves as
Speaker 1: soon as I get on the airplane that I'm like,
Speaker 1: they're crazy. So for my guys, definitely, no, I swear
Speaker 1: I can't. I just rather like, let's just go on
Speaker 1: a local date. I don't want to travel with anyone.
Speaker 1: I can't go on vacations with guys that I'm just
Speaker 1: getting to know because nine out of ten times, again
Speaker 1: on my nerves and I end up buying. This has
Speaker 1: happened to me several times. I end up getting my
Speaker 1: own room and spending just as much money as they
Speaker 1: spent to bring me out. So so what was the point?
Speaker 1: I remember? One time, I end up by myself. That's
Speaker 1: what happens. One time I was had this chip plan
Speaker 1: with my ex boyfriend and we were going away and
Speaker 1: I knew I didn't want to be with him anymore,
Speaker 1: but the CHIP was planned for like five months, so
Speaker 1: I didn't want to break up with him before the trip.
Speaker 1: I actually was like, I'm a way till after because
Speaker 1: I felt like that would be kind of wrong. He
Speaker 1: couldn't do nothing with my flight, So we went on
Speaker 1: the trip. Every night, I made sure he got so
Speaker 1: drunk that he passed out so I didn't have to
Speaker 1: have sex with him. Damn it was. Yeah, it was off,
Speaker 1: but actually I didn't have a bad time. I didn't
Speaker 1: have a bad time. It was funny. And then as
Speaker 1: soon as we got back, I just stopped dating him.
Speaker 1: But the only reason I did it was because I
Speaker 1: you're going this vacation, I'm up every night. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna get no pussy's over. I only did it because
Speaker 1: I didn't want to ruin it because I knew what
Speaker 1: you couldn't even put it on him with the sun,
Speaker 1: with the sun coming up, like you don't want it.
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying, Like like I've been on vacations,
Speaker 1: Like I've been on vacations with ex boyfriends, trying to
Speaker 1: work it out, trying to make it better, and it
Speaker 1: just makes it worse and I just end up. What
Speaker 1: happens with me is we'll be on the resort and
Speaker 1: I'll leave your way as to hang out with like
Speaker 1: the people who work at the resort and didn't workers exactly,
Speaker 1: I like at the all inclusive bar by my I
Speaker 1: actually went on vacation with one of my exployments. It
Speaker 1: was his mind's fiftieth birthday. Was a family trip and
Speaker 1: we ended up getting into it. Me and him ended
Speaker 1: up getting into it. It doesn't work, and I went
Speaker 1: and got my own room. That's what happens with me.
Speaker 1: That's exactly what happens to me. I'm totally but at
Speaker 1: this point, like I'm totally unmoved with traveling, Like it's
Speaker 1: it's like I've been everywhere already. But that's why I
Speaker 1: feel like a when it's important to me sure you
Speaker 1: have enough money that if you need to have to
Speaker 1: get your flight, you're able to do that. That's important.
Speaker 1: I'm very grateful that I always did have the money.
Speaker 1: You have to make sure that you're okay so that
Speaker 1: if things don't work out or whatever. But I do
Speaker 1: feel like if you accept a trip from a guy,
Speaker 1: that there is some type of expectation that goes with that.
Speaker 1: Right if you're paying for my flight and you're paying
Speaker 1: from my room and all of that and we're going
Speaker 1: away together. We plan to have sex with you. We're
Speaker 1: going to share now that you have to. But that's
Speaker 1: the expectation that comes along with the whole situation. Like
Speaker 1: if I don't want to as to you, I shouldn't
Speaker 1: be going on a trip with you that you like.
Speaker 1: I can't really think of a time that I traveled
Speaker 1: with a man and I didn't bust it for him
Speaker 1: one time. I can't. I can't bust Most of the
Speaker 1: traveling that I've done, fortunately, has been with the same person.
Speaker 1: That's good. Yeah, and you've been on a lot of
Speaker 1: those trips, um and we were like in a real
Speaker 1: relationship and we would like have our little arguments, but
Speaker 1: it was never to the point where I felt like
Speaker 1: getting out with the yah. Yeah yeah, yeah, I've actually
Speaker 1: made friends with a lot of us. Yeah, well, because
Speaker 1: I'm always I'm too. I've only I've only gone on
Speaker 1: a few trips with guys with boyfriends, and it's been
Speaker 1: and it's always been great. If we get into an argument,
Speaker 1: we get into a fight, i'd be making friends with
Speaker 1: the rest. You want to act up air and it's
Speaker 1: gonna be Carlo has been holding you down all day.
Speaker 1: If you if you have a boyfriend and you guys
Speaker 1: planning a vacation together. Do you think that he has
Speaker 1: to pay for you? Yeah? Or do you can you
Speaker 1: pay for yourself? I mean it depends if he's planning
Speaker 1: the trip. He yeah, if he's planning. If I planned
Speaker 1: a trip, I'm paying for this, my treet. I am right, yes,
Speaker 1: But if he planned that, babe, we should go to yes,
Speaker 1: baby to pay for that's how. Yeah. And I've done
Speaker 1: that for guys. I've done that, you know, I take
Speaker 1: up No, I'm lyne. I took a guy to my Miami.
Speaker 1: That's not for real, right, I was funny, what's funny
Speaker 1: taking let's let's let's not even Puerto Rico. But this
Speaker 1: is the funny part is I took then into Miami
Speaker 1: and it was Memorial Day weekend, so I never you know,
Speaker 1: I took him to Miami and we started arguing it
Speaker 1: was my trip. I took him. I paid for the room,
Speaker 1: I paid for his flight, you know whatever. He was
Speaker 1: paying for dinners or whatever. But we got into an argument.
Speaker 1: It's Miami, man, I know a lot of people. You
Speaker 1: don't want to with me in Miami. Yeah, So I
Speaker 1: was like, all right, I don't know about exactly made
Speaker 1: to get picked up on the boat. You yeah, like
Speaker 1: like I had us saying at the Dream Hotel. You
Speaker 1: know that's regular. I made one phone call. I had
Speaker 1: a room at the Montreal that I did not pay for.
Speaker 1: Like I was like, you know, I know so many people,
Speaker 1: and he was he was by himself. He was living
Speaker 1: a dream at the Dream Home too, calling me and
Speaker 1: I'm like with my whole girls and me, I'm like, nigga,
Speaker 1: take your guys back to New York. Anybody gets time
Speaker 1: figure and you're welcome, by the way, because yeah, but
Speaker 1: like if you said yeah, you're you're welcome, now you
Speaker 1: gotta stand saying because you're welcome. But you know, I agree,
Speaker 1: like if you if he's playing a trip, he should
Speaker 1: pay for everything. Maybe you could pay for a dinner
Speaker 1: or something, or maybe buy him a nice gift while
Speaker 1: you traveling. I went that though, because if you pay
Speaker 1: for everything, then yes, I'll pay for like the dinner
Speaker 1: even or for shopping. I'll buy you something like something cute,
Speaker 1: you know, something romantic, something soul. Gifts are always a
Speaker 1: good likeing for guy. It's the little things that can
Speaker 1: I'm a gift giver. Yeah, me too, me too. A
Speaker 1: lot of women are more are very giving. But could
Speaker 1: you date a guy who wasn't a gift giver? No?
Speaker 1: No hesitation? Well no, because I put a lot of
Speaker 1: thought into what a guy likes. What you like, what
Speaker 1: you certain certain small things, what you the kind of
Speaker 1: food you eat, how you know what mean, the kind
Speaker 1: of things, that kind of drinks you. I'm paying attention
Speaker 1: to what you like. It's all encompassing for me. So
Speaker 1: if I'm taking the time out to do that and
Speaker 1: really be attentive to that, you need to do the
Speaker 1: same thing. It's amazing how many guys can say that
Speaker 1: they've never been in a relationship where they really had
Speaker 1: to go above and beyond. Like I've come across a
Speaker 1: lot of guys who have been like, well, I've never
Speaker 1: had to do anything like this for girlfriends that I've
Speaker 1: had before. I don't really know how to do certain things.
Speaker 1: That's when you teach them. Yeah, And they'll say, you
Speaker 1: have to teach me, And I don't really want to
Speaker 1: teach anybody. I do mind, I don't. I don't like
Speaker 1: teaching anything. I feel like it's just why I like
Speaker 1: dating guys to tell you what you need to do.
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at the teaching me neither, Like I
Speaker 1: feel like it's something you as a woman, You're always
Speaker 1: going to have to teach the man something. And always,
Speaker 1: even if you think somebody that's older, you're gonna have
Speaker 1: to retrain and unlearn whatever the last bit did. And
Speaker 1: then if it's a younger guy, you gotta really you
Speaker 1: gotta no no better. I got to help him out.
Speaker 1: That's what I like about dating older guys is that
Speaker 1: I never have to teach them how to eat my pussy.
Speaker 1: They always already know. But everybody likes and we talked
Speaker 1: about this. We all like different things. I feel like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I like a little if I like to
Speaker 1: get stuck, I don't like to. I don't like. I
Speaker 1: don't like. You're the only person I know who likes
Speaker 1: tea and know. But you know, I like I like
Speaker 1: um like for me, like my my clip is really
Speaker 1: like the guys having a dentist in your pus. It's
Speaker 1: just a but like my clip is like really hidden,
Speaker 1: you know, Like I have a all clip. Like my
Speaker 1: pussy is fat, but in the inside everything is like micro.
Speaker 1: Everything is so small on the inside, so like I
Speaker 1: need some pressure I need roughness to feel it looks like.
Speaker 1: I take pictures of it. I take pictures and you
Speaker 1: send them to people. No, I just want to know
Speaker 1: what it looks like like if I'm having a good
Speaker 1: day or something happens if I'm home, and because I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a good day pussy shot. I mean I'm
Speaker 1: a frequent I'm a frequent masturbator. Whether I'm every day,
Speaker 1: your nails, there's no where to lose the vibrators of
Speaker 1: all but my fingers are long, so we get a
Speaker 1: lot done done. My nails actually work out very well
Speaker 1: because the gen you get to that spot, there's a
Speaker 1: spot that's like right underneath and the water spot the
Speaker 1: water spot, and you get right underneath when you get
Speaker 1: inside the it just it touches a little gentle with myself.
Speaker 1: So it works out well. I'm when my nails, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like I take I take it. I'm like I've done
Speaker 1: it with the camera to see like that it looks like.
Speaker 1: Because also the other part of it is too. If
Speaker 1: I ever come across the guy that doesn't know my
Speaker 1: body makeup, I want to I wanna be able. I
Speaker 1: gotta be able to tell you what it be like, okay,
Speaker 1: a diagram to the right of that, Like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be able to give you accurate directions on how to
Speaker 1: how to please. You're gonna take some pictures of my
Speaker 1: vagina lytiate you don't even need to take handmera and
Speaker 1: just had spread it around. Yeah, yeah, I know if
Speaker 1: my vagina was like again, I know stephan he does
Speaker 1: because she showed us like, oh pretty much putty looked yesterday.
Speaker 1: I spent a lot of time for my life naked,
Speaker 1: so I kind of have a visio of like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so you don't have pictures though, of your vagina. I
Speaker 1: don't keep that type of stuff. I don't have my
Speaker 1: phone at it. But I'm not keeping don't I've lost
Speaker 1: too many phones that have like pictures of my naked body.
Speaker 1: But I will say this, but so what because if
Speaker 1: your face isn't in it, who can Well, yeah, that's straight.
Speaker 1: Well you know what I have. I have. I I
Speaker 1: have a I don't really want to call it traumatizing,
Speaker 1: but I've gotten myself into a situation a few years
Speaker 1: back where I had this one picture of myself that
Speaker 1: I had taken at the strip club and it was
Speaker 1: so bombed that I sent it to like every guy,
Speaker 1: and um, you know, niggas talk more than bitches and
Speaker 1: they like the bragg and ship. So this guy is
Speaker 1: like going through pictures in his phone and showing people.
Speaker 1: And he showed my boyfriend. Oh my god, bro, that's terrible.
Speaker 1: He showed my boy to him. Yeah, that's one thing
Speaker 1: I don't do. I don't send a real serious well
Speaker 1: guess what. There was a photo exactly and guess you
Speaker 1: can guess what. Ever, since then, I have not said
Speaker 1: I haven't even sent him a picture of my job.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. When camera phones first came out,
Speaker 1: I used to send pictures and get pictures to everybody. Everybody.
Speaker 1: Oh I have a next cell with a camera phone.
Speaker 1: I'm sending naked pictures to everyone. I'm away to parent
Speaker 1: and this now forget it, now you come back. OK.
Speaker 1: The thing, there's no bad naked pictures of me out there,
Speaker 1: a man, That's what I'm talking about. Like, you know what,
Speaker 1: nobody sends bad naked pictures that he picture you getting
Speaker 1: a full front of you, get cakes on the side.
Speaker 1: You're getting a little that little v cut in the
Speaker 1: hell that might actually listen. We don't know how we
Speaker 1: can sell a couple of and I don't always tell
Speaker 1: my facetip. But I've had too many tattoos to say
Speaker 1: it's not me. So I just don't take naked pictures
Speaker 1: well for me, Like when, like I said, a couple
Speaker 1: of years ago, I used to send them out, but
Speaker 1: now today President Day, Yeah, everybody want to see that. No,
Speaker 1: but now like it's it's like pulling teeth together to
Speaker 1: send you even even you want to see me, baby,
Speaker 1: just call me in FaceTime. FaceTime. You can't get me
Speaker 1: a picture on my face for me to say. You
Speaker 1: pose the question though, because this was a conversation I
Speaker 1: had and I actually went on the snapchat ran about
Speaker 1: a friend of mine perpetually gets dick pis. Oh I
Speaker 1: think dick picks are so tacky. I asked for it
Speaker 1: because here's the thing. I'm not like, I'm a I'm
Speaker 1: a little bit, I'm a I'm a freak, but I'm
Speaker 1: not a pervert. So I'm not gonna look at your
Speaker 1: at your like for a filtered dick. And that's the word, Like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so on the dick picky. This
Speaker 1: is a problem. The only problem I have a dick
Speaker 1: picks is a if I'm not even never had sex
Speaker 1: with you, never did anything, you send a dick pick.
Speaker 1: I have a problem with that because I didn't ask
Speaker 1: you to send this, okay, and thinking other girls probably
Speaker 1: have this one or one of the spade, because you
Speaker 1: know this is the picture, you know you said you
Speaker 1: sent it to everybody else, And then I don't need
Speaker 1: an Ashley dick pick. You put some motion on that ship.
Speaker 1: I don't want to dick pick at all. I don't
Speaker 1: want to. Don't mind dick picks. I don't mind either
Speaker 1: if I ask you, I don't want it. I wish
Speaker 1: I wish my man could send me a dick pick
Speaker 1: from jail. I don't want to dick picks, so I
Speaker 1: don't want to selfie. I don't want any picks. I
Speaker 1: don't Penises can be beautiful. I think so too. I
Speaker 1: think they are two, but they're beautiful in my vagina
Speaker 1: and in my mouth. Thank you. You don't want to
Speaker 1: see a picture of your man's penis? No, sorry, but
Speaker 1: the iPhone now is not going to do a man's
Speaker 1: penis any justice. I'm thinking, at the length of this,
Speaker 1: this is ten megapixel camera. We're doing no type of
Speaker 1: magic with this phone right here. Now, I've seen some
Speaker 1: nice dick picks. I'm not I've seen some nice ones soon.
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean I want But the worst thing is
Speaker 1: when a guy is just randomly send you like you
Speaker 1: know what the worst is if a guy sends you
Speaker 1: a dick pick and you don't say nothing, that's what
Speaker 1: I'll do. I was like, and then he hits you like, um,
Speaker 1: did you get so? You know? I got that? Sad?
Speaker 1: You know what's the word? So of a guy? A
Speaker 1: guy's like, send me a picture and you send him
Speaker 1: like a cute little selfie and he sent you a
Speaker 1: dick pick back, and you just be like, how are
Speaker 1: you taking it? There? You send you a dick pick
Speaker 1: that you don't want to hit him back and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: this is Bridget's boyfriend. You know what's mad uncomfortable is
Speaker 1: if it's like on cute, like damn nig you was
Speaker 1: cute up like you're hard ready to go for right
Speaker 1: because when the archives I was sexing you about the
Speaker 1: same football, you can't pick you can't. But that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. If it's unwarranted, So what you're doing over
Speaker 1: there and we weren't even in this in this type
Speaker 1: of conversation, and you just let you live over there
Speaker 1: by yourself. I'm gonna question you a little bit. Probably
Speaker 1: it was an oldie in the archives he had that
Speaker 1: we made too much information, like I didn't need to
Speaker 1: know you had a hard but I feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: he took twelve of um listen, we're selfie queens, at
Speaker 1: least twelve here on the couch. Like you think about
Speaker 1: him with snap snap snaps. I don't know. It's always
Speaker 1: an warranted though. It's always when you don't ask for
Speaker 1: it that the guy want to send it because he
Speaker 1: don't want to. It's just kind of like, let me
Speaker 1: just let you know where my head is. But I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you what pretty dick swag at Gmail. That
Speaker 1: is the email that I have if you want to
Speaker 1: send pieces of a peanuts and we'll take a look
Speaker 1: at it and analyze it. A lot of people have
Speaker 1: send pictures sometimes and the best thing to do is, yes,
Speaker 1: do something like put something next to it so we
Speaker 1: can get an idea. Like for breeze, can I look
Speaker 1: at every time I look at my remote control? I
Speaker 1: can't look at it the same because I feel like
Speaker 1: God's really used the remote control for the cable and
Speaker 1: the cable to measure their dick. Do you want to
Speaker 1: got to masturbate in front of you? If I have
Speaker 1: my period? Like, how would you? I still think my
Speaker 1: mouth was good. I had. I had a guy masturbate
Speaker 1: in front of me, and it was kind of hot.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, right, it was a little
Speaker 1: hot because he was looking at me, so it was
Speaker 1: like you turn off, So you really you having a
Speaker 1: moment and what were you doing? What I was just
Speaker 1: I was just talking nasty to him, like asking him
Speaker 1: and it was work. It worked. It was that sounds
Speaker 1: like a good time. That sounds like it's the ultimate
Speaker 1: confidence booster. I'm just sitting there, like sitting on it's
Speaker 1: just sitting their legs open like pussy dripping, and you
Speaker 1: just there, you just doing your thing and I'm talking
Speaker 1: You're just going come on you? Um no not? Did
Speaker 1: it come? Yeah? And then so you didn't want to
Speaker 1: have sex, you were okay with him, just cool. I
Speaker 1: was cool with that. I wasn't even in the mood
Speaker 1: to have sex. It was what was fine. But but
Speaker 1: all of that nasty talking on that that didn't make
Speaker 1: you in the mood like it did. But at that
Speaker 1: at that moment too though, I just I kind of
Speaker 1: felt like I kind of feel like I kind of
Speaker 1: like like I'm winning right now, like this is my
Speaker 1: moment and I'm a shine for a minute and then
Speaker 1: maybe we'll get back to the later. Yeah, And that
Speaker 1: sounds like a really big turn on. It would be
Speaker 1: for me. Where I'm masturbating and you're masturbating, we're just
Speaker 1: going off. But you also, you can just look at me.
Speaker 1: You don't even have to touch me, and that's enough
Speaker 1: for you. If you sleep, What if you're sleeping and
Speaker 1: he's next to you and you wake up. I've been
Speaker 1: through that where I'm sleeping and my man is like
Speaker 1: touching my ass, jiggling my ass, jerking off, and I
Speaker 1: wake up like, damn, you could have just sucked me right.
Speaker 1: You didn't have to masterate. You couldn't just do all that.
Speaker 1: But he wasn't trying to get in trouble. He had
Speaker 1: he would have had we would have had to believe
Speaker 1: the bed to get the condom and come bad. He
Speaker 1: was doing a lot in the middle of the night. Yes,
Speaker 1: and sometimes guys masturbate because it's easier. They don't feel
Speaker 1: like going do all the trouble at having sex. They
Speaker 1: just want to come real fast and not have to
Speaker 1: please you. That's selfish. But if you're I don't mind,
Speaker 1: wake me up, hit me and hit with the dick
Speaker 1: likes somebody hit me in the head like a guy
Speaker 1: slapping in the face with this. You know I'm not
Speaker 1: here for that. I'll be feeling away like like do
Speaker 1: you think this is we're doing a porn Like? What
Speaker 1: do you think it's a little just feel good, It's
Speaker 1: very It is just like not like I know you
Speaker 1: saying your dick I say, I wasn't saying that's what
Speaker 1: I want. I'm just saying, do what you gotta do
Speaker 1: to wake me up, niga, because you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna like. I don't let a lot of sit in.
Speaker 1: Just slide in, bro, just sliding. I just post up
Speaker 1: like old make it wet, like you're listening waking up
Speaker 1: to penis? Is it really really waking up to dick
Speaker 1: inside me? Its greatest. If your girl doesn't like to
Speaker 1: wake up to get a new girl, yeah, that's a
Speaker 1: problem because I think I like it even if I'm
Speaker 1: in a bad mood. If we're fighting and you come
Speaker 1: up on me while I'm sleeping, I'm gonna take it,
Speaker 1: and I might a little be mad at you afterwards,
Speaker 1: be hit and was gonna be passed. But I'm absolutely
Speaker 1: gonna you hit this one real quick. I love that
Speaker 1: I gotta get up earlier. Help you precious to me,
Speaker 1: I don't wake Angela up. I no, no, no, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say. I have to love you for you to
Speaker 1: feel like that's okay because I sleep like four hours
Speaker 1: a night, right, four things? Yes, So once I fall asleep,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be hard, and and don't take it mad long, like,
Speaker 1: don't wake me up and then try to strangle. Won't
Speaker 1: prefer for you to master that's a quickie time. So
Speaker 1: if you're gonna wake me up to have sex, please
Speaker 1: let it be five minutes or less because because I
Speaker 1: gotta go back to sleep, I promise you. I'm looking
Speaker 1: at the clock thinking about, like how much more sleep?
Speaker 1: And my I don't mind. I don't mind when when
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend masterbated, he doesn't, but
Speaker 1: I masterbate all the time, and he gets bad. Right,
Speaker 1: you always tell us that he doesn't. I bet you,
Speaker 1: I Jael, he wants you to masturbate, right, Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: gonna be like every day I think on my masterbate
Speaker 1: every day to me to make me sleepy. I did it.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I do it late at night, but sometimes I'll
Speaker 1: do it to start my day. When you mask me
Speaker 1: in the morning, it's like waking, bake, and then masturbate
Speaker 1: and then get up and and I wish I would
Speaker 1: get up early enough to masturbate before work. That's not
Speaker 1: happening because I'm always in a rush. By the time
Speaker 1: I wake up. I have to get up every morning
Speaker 1: at four am. That's already hard. So by the time
Speaker 1: I'm always rustling, resting, rushing. You try to get to
Speaker 1: work on time, it's not gonna happen like that. Actually,
Speaker 1: two minutes in the shower or whatever long it takes.
Speaker 1: But you think that when you masturbate it takes you
Speaker 1: a lot quicker to come than when you have sex. Yeah,
Speaker 1: every time you percentage wise, how many times percentage wise
Speaker 1: would you say you come during sex? Um, honestly depends
Speaker 1: on the guy. Do you come from vaginal intercourse? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but there's certain angles, like I gotta be on top. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well I gotta be on top, or I gotta be
Speaker 1: like my leg's gotta be positioned a certain my leg's
Speaker 1: gotta be like closed position a certain way. Like they
Speaker 1: gotta be me too, me too, Like that's kind of
Speaker 1: how that goes, Like because the guy, the last guy
Speaker 1: that I was dealing with, was curved a little, so
Speaker 1: it was like it worked out really well that my
Speaker 1: it just so happens that there's a spot for me
Speaker 1: that works in the exact direction. So if I'm laying
Speaker 1: if I'm laying down and he's just going for it,
Speaker 1: it's it's easy, breezy. And if you can find if
Speaker 1: you can find five minutes ties, yes, if you can
Speaker 1: find a guy that can make you come all the time,
Speaker 1: you gotta it's hard to break keep him. Oh my god, girl,
Speaker 1: it's my dream. So glad to back up with a
Speaker 1: guy that can make you come, because there's a lot
Speaker 1: of guys who can't. Who can't it's all mental when
Speaker 1: you it's vaginal up. Know that when you when you
Speaker 1: are having sex with someone, it's different when you when
Speaker 1: somebody's eating the box, it is a lot easier to Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's nothing I can envision I can envision another man
Speaker 1: eating box and were good. But if we're having sex
Speaker 1: and you make me come like that, oh it's over.
Speaker 1: It's quiet. I'm putty in your hand. But you know,
Speaker 1: it's way easier to break up with a guy who's
Speaker 1: not that good and bad they can't make you come.
Speaker 1: You break up with a guy that can. That's the
Speaker 1: guy you keep going back to, because you'd be home,
Speaker 1: you'd be drunk, like you aren't going to be tonight. Come.
Speaker 1: So I come so fast from vaginal inter course I
Speaker 1: wish I did. Yeah, I think it takes my cliters
Speaker 1: works better from the inside than the out, Like it
Speaker 1: takes me like a good twenty minutes to come from
Speaker 1: oral I could be having sex. Vaginal is hidden and
Speaker 1: tiny microtopic. Everything is really small, like you said, it's
Speaker 1: very micro there. But from the inside, I come in
Speaker 1: five minutes. I'm good. What's crazy than when I'm on
Speaker 1: top it's a rub there's a rubbing. There's like a
Speaker 1: friction that happens on the clip while he's inside that ship.
Speaker 1: Yeah that I think that's when you're on tapp a female.
Speaker 1: Just the angle of that right, And for me, when
Speaker 1: I'm on my back and like my legs are pushed
Speaker 1: where my knees are like hitting the bed where is
Speaker 1: tilted up exactly, my pelvis is tilted up like I'm
Speaker 1: on my back and my knees are like all the
Speaker 1: way back like held, I feel like I come really Like, Now,
Speaker 1: what if a guy during sexcess to you, I'm going
Speaker 1: to have a baby with you? Oh? Is that a
Speaker 1: turn on? Our turn off? Oh no, hold on, Oh no,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Me and my man we talk
Speaker 1: about having babies. Who we're having sex all the time.
Speaker 1: Ain't no baby's coming out of here all the time.
Speaker 1: Look at you. That's that's but you know what, I
Speaker 1: know that right now I don't want to have another child.
Speaker 1: But during sex, yeah I do come inside you. You
Speaker 1: let him come inside you? Yeah, she'd be, she'd be,
Speaker 1: she'd be with the condom quick though. She like me
Speaker 1: and Ralph definitely have real sex. For sure, we definitely
Speaker 1: have real So you let him come inside for years? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but yeah I've let him come in sign me. But
Speaker 1: you know there's this thing like everybody should know about.
Speaker 1: It's called Plan B. But full three days, I'm sorry
Speaker 1: to come inside you all the time. Though it's a
Speaker 1: lot of Plan B. You know what I'm saying, it's
Speaker 1: a lot. Well, then you should just get on the
Speaker 1: pill though you can't take time. I don't let him
Speaker 1: come inside of me all the time. I don't. I don't,
Speaker 1: and and honestly, like it's just not good. It's not
Speaker 1: a good idea. But when you're in the heed of
Speaker 1: a moment, at the moment having sex, you know, you
Speaker 1: become a come downstairs, you're in love and the sexiest
Speaker 1: man says to you have a baby. I'm like, what
Speaker 1: were naming the baby? By the end of the night,
Speaker 1: we were like, but I'm on the pill, and hey,
Speaker 1: but I'm saying with this little role, it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to commentside because you're gonna have an abortion,
Speaker 1: and I don't. I don't. I've never I've had one abortion,
Speaker 1: and it was because like the pregnancy was I've only
Speaker 1: been pregnant three times. I had my son, and then
Speaker 1: I had a miscarriage and then I had an abortion.
Speaker 1: But I had to have an abortion because I just
Speaker 1: had gotten breasting plans, so the pregnancy was already good.
Speaker 1: I didn't know. You can't have to you can't have
Speaker 1: a baby with person. I had rather away got them
Speaker 1: done while I was pregnant, and I didn't know until
Speaker 1: after they were in my period, my period. I was
Speaker 1: supposed to get my period the day of surgery and
Speaker 1: it um. It never came. So I was like, well,
Speaker 1: maybe you through the because I'm stressed. But then I
Speaker 1: started feeling symptoms, so we took a pargnicy So they
Speaker 1: told you you should have an abortion. Yeah. No, the
Speaker 1: pregnancy ended up being um in my tooth. It was
Speaker 1: a topic. I had that, so I had an abortion.
Speaker 1: But you know, like he technically, if if it's a topic,
Speaker 1: it's not an abortion. Yeah, it's an emergency emeruse. I've
Speaker 1: had that. I've had two of those on the pill. Listen, girl,
Speaker 1: this was way back in the day. Yeah, you would
Speaker 1: have had a baby though if you were pregnant. No,
Speaker 1: I don't think I would have. But I had a
Speaker 1: nice topic pregnancy and I had a felopian super moved.
Speaker 1: I don't have one internally like I was in the end.
Speaker 1: It was bad, like I could have died. Yeah, happened
Speaker 1: to me. I haven't been pregnant since it's you don't
Speaker 1: want to hell and you know you got pregnant, you would, okay,
Speaker 1: And you know he's like he's like, he's like, I don't.
Speaker 1: He's like, I don't. Just don't. No, I'm not on Listen,
Speaker 1: I'm not on birth control. Me and him we had
Speaker 1: five years in. We're kind of in a weird place
Speaker 1: right now. I don't know what to call it where
Speaker 1: we are, but we're still having unprotected sex and he's
Speaker 1: still dropping off them babies in my vagina and I
Speaker 1: don't get pregnant, but you're on a pill. No, it's meant,
Speaker 1: you know, if you want to get pregnant, take some vitamins.
Speaker 1: I don't want to get bregnant. I'm just saying if
Speaker 1: you do, I don't want to get pregnant. And I'm
Speaker 1: not taking vitamins. I'm not taking birth control. He comes
Speaker 1: in me every time we have sex, and I have
Speaker 1: not been pregnant, and neither one of us want babies.
Speaker 1: But you know, man, he's coming inside of me and
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, we'll finish, and he's like, oh, like,
Speaker 1: I don't even want to look at you, because if
Speaker 1: you have an abortion, I hope be so tight. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, does he know that you take playing b no,
Speaker 1: you eat them things like he doesn't know, he's not
Speaker 1: gonna hear this for two years. Oh shit, he doesn't know.
Speaker 1: The whole body's going about two years. I've never gonna
Speaker 1: do a lip service. And when playing a Stefanie, Hey baby,
Speaker 1: you're selling these dreams. Yes, let's have a baby. What
Speaker 1: are we gonna name it? Ralph Jr. Alright, well, listen,
Speaker 1: Bridget Kelly, thank you so much for joining us for
Speaker 1: lip service, always having me. I always tell people how
Speaker 1: much fun she is to listen, and Andie always I
Speaker 1: know this is fun. We gotta do this because we
Speaker 1: had a lot we on ye. Lip services like the
Speaker 1: ultimate girl talk. It has to be. But I told
Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta come on. She did? She
Speaker 1: hit me? She was like can I do? I was like,
Speaker 1: I was like a litten. I was a Bridget Cally.
Speaker 1: First of all, if you've ever seen her show, you
Speaker 1: know that she's very raw. But I'm like lyrics imo,
Speaker 1: But I love that. I love But you know, you
Speaker 1: have to get listen. There's not enough people that tell
Speaker 1: the truth, and the majority of the time when the
Speaker 1: people do tell the truth, everybody gets scared offended. Are
Speaker 1: you gonna get back to get X. No, no, no, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think you know what
Speaker 1: what you know what for we were together for four years.
Speaker 1: It was really really hard. He's as far as I'm concerned, though,
Speaker 1: he's the one that got away. You know, everybody got
Speaker 1: that one. That's like, damn, I wish I could have
Speaker 1: made a couple of different decisions, maybe moved a little differently.
Speaker 1: He's my ex is definitely the one that got away,
Speaker 1: hands down, So why not because he hates me? He's
Speaker 1: not going back to me. That's the worst. When you
Speaker 1: break up with a guy, you're like, because because I'm
Speaker 1: doing great right now. So it's like he's I'm sure
Speaker 1: that it's like damn, like that bit like she really
Speaker 1: like she hate you because you're doing great. No, I
Speaker 1: think he just it's just he's not. We're not we're not,
Speaker 1: we're not speaking. We don't, we don't. We don't get
Speaker 1: on like that no more. But um, what if he
Speaker 1: called you, would you be with he wouldn't. He wouldn't,
Speaker 1: he wouldn't. He blocked me. He blocked me an all things.
Speaker 1: What then are you crazy? Blocked you? I'll call him
Speaker 1: from google boys, I make a big Instagram, I think,
Speaker 1: But well, he just he blocked me because I he
Speaker 1: thought that he was like in his head about what
Speaker 1: I was doing with my life. So it's like he
Speaker 1: didn't want to see what was going on with me.
Speaker 1: He didn't want me to see what's going on with
Speaker 1: this and follow you. Why do you have to block you?
Speaker 1: That's just because he did that to make you. He
Speaker 1: did that to make me mad. He also did it
Speaker 1: because he's like, I don't want her to be able
Speaker 1: to see what I'm doing now, like you can't just
Speaker 1: go and see anyway, which I get, I understand. Listen
Speaker 1: by all means, I know what that feels like. Because
Speaker 1: now I'm in a situation dealing with a guy where
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like I'm low key ready to block
Speaker 1: him to like you're doing a lot, You're doing all
Speaker 1: the wrong ship, Like come on, are you gonna still
Speaker 1: talk to him though, even though he's doing a lot
Speaker 1: and doing the wrong ship The new guy, Um, you
Speaker 1: know what it is. He's young. He's young, and I
Speaker 1: think he needs to learn, So he's on time out.
Speaker 1: He's gonna have to learn, He's gonna have to learn
Speaker 1: a different way, because I was trying to teach give
Speaker 1: you board the cheat sheet, like, listen, this is how
Speaker 1: we how. He's twenty six, so he's young. So I mean,
Speaker 1: it's okay. You're not built for this right now, that's fine.
Speaker 1: I was trying to give you a cheat sheet so
Speaker 1: you could cut a couple of corners if you want to.
Speaker 1: But he ain't. There ain't, So he's gonna to learn different.
Speaker 1: Wa He's gonna have to learn either with somebody else
Speaker 1: or with my silence. You don't have to you want
Speaker 1: to eat that ship, peace man. They should have never
Speaker 1: made that block feature for I phone. They should have definitely,
Speaker 1: I definitely needed to block a couple. We need that.
Speaker 1: I can't even tell you how many times Rob and
Speaker 1: I were arguing and I was calling him too much
Speaker 1: and he blocked me, so I started calling him from
Speaker 1: other phones. You're crazy, I'm crazy, crazy up. I will
Speaker 1: show up at the dough like, here's the thing. If
Speaker 1: you have if I'm telling you how crazy I am
Speaker 1: and the phases of my crazy in the very beginning,
Speaker 1: and you're still showing up and signing up every day,
Speaker 1: you can't. Guys. You like guys like crazy crazy I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna like I was at with Stephanie the other night.
Speaker 1: The whole time she was with her man on the phone.
Speaker 1: We were having a great time, but she kept getting
Speaker 1: up to go are you on the phone? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I had out the phone. She was like, where are
Speaker 1: you right now? I'm coming there, And then he would
Speaker 1: call it back and be like, oh, we move. We
Speaker 1: went here and said okay, you're where now? Okay, I
Speaker 1: called the uber, I'm on my way. I was like,
Speaker 1: dick on one hundred, I'm not about that. I'm too
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call a T and T because I know
Speaker 1: all the codes you don't want to show and you
Speaker 1: don't you don't want to tell me where you are.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show up to everywhere you be until I
Speaker 1: find you. Because it's like that. That was like that camera.
Speaker 1: That camera's same, like I know which you don't even
Speaker 1: know what studio. I'm an show up every I'm not
Speaker 1: doing all that I've showed up to. He's like, I'm
Speaker 1: not doing all that happy right at home. No, I'm
Speaker 1: being home too. But I'll send some people after that,
Speaker 1: will I would you know what I will do with
Speaker 1: a girl though you know you have to know, like
Speaker 1: crazy girls tell us, you have to know if you're
Speaker 1: dealing with a crazy girl and she's really crazy. She
Speaker 1: got at least two friends that are more rock crazy
Speaker 1: down at least two in the arsenal ready to Ratty
Speaker 1: the clutch, yes, like, don't don't do it, don't do it.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm Stephaniely you good. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm good. Oh yes, let's take a shot. Okay, be
Speaker 1: right back. I gotta take this phone call. Gonna take
Speaker 1: this call. We was in the hood too, she was
Speaker 1: standing outside and I had on this slutty ass draw
Speaker 1: no underwear. That's what I'm saying. I either dressed way
Speaker 1: down or somebody was like. Somebody was like, I think
Speaker 1: I saw a Stephanie's vagina. He said that, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: they're I was. I was saying, we were going way through.
Speaker 1: We were going through another jail situation. Remember, yes, so
Speaker 1: I was super I was like crying. I was all
Speaker 1: stressed out. But I mean, I'm another and previous are is.
Speaker 1: I didn't have to do this in this time, but
Speaker 1: in other times, like we'll be arguing and he'll feel
Speaker 1: like I'm calling him too much. So he'll block me
Speaker 1: for a little while, and I got I got my
Speaker 1: second phone on deck. He'll block the second guy blocks me.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you from the third phone. Block me
Speaker 1: and I can't get in touch with you. There's text free,
Speaker 1: there's there's um that's a crazy count boys. There's a
Speaker 1: jack like I'm calling you for magic Jack. All these
Speaker 1: like WiFi phone numbers, single free phone app. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: call you. I have one number. You can block that.
Speaker 1: You're gonna need to call somebody to get a restraining
Speaker 1: order because I'm gonna be sitting on that young porch.
Speaker 1: I'll be sitting on that porch. Block come here, come
Speaker 1: talk to me. You gotta now phone off because I'm
Speaker 1: gonna keep calling your number. You block all the numbers.
Speaker 1: I'm showing up. I'm gonna pop up, but you know
Speaker 1: the nigga knows that, so he'll he'll email start answering number.
Speaker 1: Because I won't pretend I'm to show up, but I
Speaker 1: won't really come. No, I'm not gonna like I did
Speaker 1: that one time to one of my ex boyfriends. So
Speaker 1: I would always tell him, like if I knew he
Speaker 1: was doing something he was supposed to do I would
Speaker 1: tell him I was on my way, but I'd really
Speaker 1: be at home. So one time I really went and
Speaker 1: what was he doing? He was in bed with another chick.
Speaker 1: I climbed in through the window, climbed in through the window.
Speaker 1: But it wasn't It wasn't like I had to. It
Speaker 1: was the easy window to climb in. It was on
Speaker 1: the it was on the same level and Jordan's by
Speaker 1: the way, so she's always ready. I just took the screen.
Speaker 1: I just took the screen out the window. It was summertime.
Speaker 1: I took the screen out the window, walked in and
Speaker 1: he was upstairs with a chick. She was naked in
Speaker 1: the bed. What did you do? Do you drag her? All? Know?
Speaker 1: She got up, She was nervous, she was scared. She
Speaker 1: got up, got out, and as soon as she left,
Speaker 1: I said it all right, that's it, I'm done, and
Speaker 1: I left. Wow, I could I could never have gone
Speaker 1: down like that for me. Listen, sometimes you gotta be
Speaker 1: so mad. You got to be calm, you know. I
Speaker 1: first I made him player and she was He was like,
Speaker 1: she don't mean nothing to me, She's nobody. That's even
Speaker 1: worst of that's even worse when you compromising the real
Speaker 1: ship for the fake. Imagine you naked in the bed
Speaker 1: and the guy says that about you. What time? My
Speaker 1: exest girl jumped and then we came in the fire escape,
Speaker 1: because you know it's New York, we got fire escapes.
Speaker 1: And this girl came in through the window, through the
Speaker 1: fire escape. And you know, I'm a light sleeper. So
Speaker 1: I woke up and I had on I'll never forget it.
Speaker 1: I had on a yellow bra and panty and it
Speaker 1: was a cheap, like twenty bra and panty, said probably
Speaker 1: eighteen years old. I was a kid, and I jumped
Speaker 1: out the bed and I gave this girl the worst
Speaker 1: ass of her yellow and I busted her as like
Speaker 1: I heard her come in through the window, Like I
Speaker 1: heard the window open and I looked. I woke up
Speaker 1: and I saw her coming in and I just charged her. Oh,
Speaker 1: and so you already knew who she was when she
Speaker 1: came in. It was the nigger's wife. He was, but
Speaker 1: they were broken up. They were broken up, and she
Speaker 1: was just a soccer. So she's the wife. She's a wife,
Speaker 1: and she's the wife. I was living with him. I
Speaker 1: was living with him, and they have been separated, but
Speaker 1: they were married, legally married. I need that divorce paper
Speaker 1: before I'm moving in with you. Just technically. I wish
Speaker 1: could take everybody the court here today. I couldn't imagine, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you rocked his wife. Wait said no, I didn't climb
Speaker 1: in the window. That bit shot to jump out the window.
Speaker 1: She was probably it was an ex It was way back,
Speaker 1: like a long time ago. And um, it was back
Speaker 1: when I was dancing before I moved to Land. I
Speaker 1: was dancing at this club in Philly, and it was
Speaker 1: this girl that was working there. Me and his sister
Speaker 1: was working together actually, and I just had a feeling
Speaker 1: that something went right. So he was at his sister's
Speaker 1: house and I went there and the nephew saw me
Speaker 1: at the door and let me in, and knowing that
Speaker 1: he had company upstairs, then if you let me in.
Speaker 1: And I went up to his room and he's sitting
Speaker 1: in the chair and the girls on the floors like
Speaker 1: his dick, and I kicked the door in, like really, nigga,
Speaker 1: what the fun? You know? And then the girl got
Speaker 1: up and saw me, and she jumped out the window
Speaker 1: like she tried to jump out the window, like she
Speaker 1: try to kill herself. She tried to jump out the
Speaker 1: window to get it, and guess what, I fucking whipped
Speaker 1: his ass, broke up with him and the bitch that
Speaker 1: I've never seen the girl again. She never came back
Speaker 1: to work. I was waiting for that as to come
Speaker 1: back to work too. I came to work every day
Speaker 1: with a pony tell some sneakers win. I thought, I
Speaker 1: want the whoop. I ass so bad, and she never
Speaker 1: came back. Wrong, she never came back to work. I've
Speaker 1: never ever seen till this day, I've never ever seen
Speaker 1: that girl again. Wow, damn, you know what. The only
Speaker 1: reason because she wasn't wrong, like I understand, she was
Speaker 1: like scorn, you know, like she was upset and a
Speaker 1: little bitter that the guy was giving me so much attention.
Speaker 1: But the only reason it was just like my first
Speaker 1: reaction like to of course, because one you have no
Speaker 1: clothes on and you was sleep to you sleep, and
Speaker 1: three you this is like this is what it was. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't even think about who it was. I just
Speaker 1: grabbed her and it was so bad, like I don't
Speaker 1: even want to talk about it, but it was. It
Speaker 1: was pretty bad. It was bad, like what it was bad,
Speaker 1: Like I really beat her bad, like I beat her.
Speaker 1: What did he do? He tried to break it up
Speaker 1: or castingbody. You got to be ready to fight. He
Speaker 1: was a real dick. He was standing over watching me
Speaker 1: beat her like that said stop it. Like he didn't.
Speaker 1: He didn't pull up. He was like, world because I
Speaker 1: got like I got really swollen, like I was punching
Speaker 1: her a lot in her eye and it got really swollen.
Speaker 1: So that's when he stopped me, like he noticed, like
Speaker 1: it was getting swollen really fast. What a gentleman, but
Speaker 1: he was. He was awful like that. You know who
Speaker 1: to call now if we need to run up on
Speaker 1: some funny I know trying to We talked about this.
Speaker 1: I'm not fighting no more right, we're talking about yeah,
Speaker 1: unless I have to defend myself, unless there's a girl
Speaker 1: climbing into my one bow. Let's bridget Kelly cause she
Speaker 1: called my friend. I have I have phases of crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pop off at first. The second phase is
Speaker 1: I'm gonna speak to you really respectfully like an adult.
Speaker 1: This is the last. This is this is your get
Speaker 1: out of jail for a free card. Like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: let you know what it's gonna be after this. Once
Speaker 1: it escalates beyond this point of this conversation, then there's
Speaker 1: a problem where there's a real Then it's it's blackout
Speaker 1: like girls, and then we're rolling up on somebody, somebody's
Speaker 1: getting beat up, somebody's getting me down. It's gonna be
Speaker 1: a lot like don't push me to that point. But
Speaker 1: here's the thing is, like, this is the tone of
Speaker 1: voice that I keep. I'm blond now, like I just
Speaker 1: heard say it with a smile. I'm really a nice
Speaker 1: girl deep inside. But if you push me past this
Speaker 1: point right here that we're in this inner peace moment.
Speaker 1: This is not a stay yoga moment. Beyond this moment,
Speaker 1: Heaven help you. All right, Well that is lips know
Speaker 1: I'm stepping in Santiago. I'm g g McGuire and I'm
Speaker 1: Bridget Kelly. Wow, And that's the crazy cows. Don't give
Speaker 1: a fun. I got a whole lot of fun in
Speaker 1: my system. Money part of my DNA makeup. It's called buckets.