WEBVTT - Episode 15 Ft. Bridget Kelly

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<v Speaker 1>What's up is Angelie and it's time for lip service.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm g G. MacGuire, I'm Stephanie Santiago. Now I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to before we get started today, talk about mood.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of mood is everybody? And you know how

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<v Speaker 1>we have the mood Instagram, So describe your mood. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to get a feel for the room. I'm happy, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>fake smile, I'm happy. Like it's too deep. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get into the sun of now. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a long, hot ass day, but regardless of a

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<v Speaker 1>little wave in New York, regardless, i made it here

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<v Speaker 1>from my little two hour travel and I'm happy to

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<v Speaker 1>see my girls. So happy to have a drink, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's the first thing everybody came in here said, I

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<v Speaker 1>need a drink today. Let me hear my ice jiggle.

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<v Speaker 1>That's definitely what kind of mood are you in today? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm a little de us today, but I'm getting

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<v Speaker 1>away though, I'm drinking and I'm gonna be happy and

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<v Speaker 1>like just a few minutes, there's some good things and

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<v Speaker 1>bad things that happened for Stephanie. First of all, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be on good day New York right. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be on Good Day in New York tomorrow morning

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<v Speaker 1>at nine am. That's awesome. Well, by the time this

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<v Speaker 1>air is no but yeah, by the time of over

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<v Speaker 1>been on earlier this morning. Yeah, but you were one

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<v Speaker 1>of the sexiest people on Instagram. Yes, and sexy New

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<v Speaker 1>Yorkers on Instagram for them in the New York Post.

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<v Speaker 1>I came out in the paper this past Sunday, so um,

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<v Speaker 1>Fox five brust out to me, and I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>interview with Good Morning America tomorrow morning. Yeah, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>The bad day is that our boyfriend went to jail yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>So good things, bad things. Yeah, my boyfriend went to

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<v Speaker 1>jail yesterday. So I'm a little down in the duves.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be all right, okay, all right. Mood is what

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<v Speaker 1>will we say for that? Mood is like gray, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>feeling very great. Good. I think I'm great too. You're

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<v Speaker 1>a little gray great. The summer is ending. I'm feeling

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<v Speaker 1>a little sad about that. I feel like people are

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<v Speaker 1>still trying to, like, you know, beat thoughts out here.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't know. I'm I'm dreading cuffing season.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dreading it. You're dreading it and I'm dreading it. Man. Okay, so,

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<v Speaker 1>last time we spoke to you on the Breakfast Club,

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<v Speaker 1>you just broken up with your boyfriend who was your

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<v Speaker 1>trainer as well. But you're still in great shape. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's goodness, that's all. That's all. Well, now, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling so upset about? You broke up with him? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he actually broke up with me, like for real, for real,

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<v Speaker 1>in the in the in the grand scheme of things

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<v Speaker 1>he done. He left me. But I mean I deserved it.

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<v Speaker 1>We were fighting so um no, I think. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to move on a little bit and it didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It didn't bode so well for me. It's hard sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>when you break up with somebody where they break up

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<v Speaker 1>with you and then you go out with somebody else,

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<v Speaker 1>it's always super critical because you compare them to the

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<v Speaker 1>person who you was just with and it's like a rebound. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just he's just messy, and it just it gets

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<v Speaker 1>on my nerves. I think. I'm just I'm just frustrated

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<v Speaker 1>because I give so I give, I give people the

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<v Speaker 1>benefit of the doubt, like I'd be giving people too

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<v Speaker 1>much credit. Who did you give the benefit of the

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<v Speaker 1>doubt too. Girl, A new guy, this guy, there's not

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<v Speaker 1>enough vodka for this. Now. I want to know because

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes guys make mistakes and we need to let them know.

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<v Speaker 1>What is What is it that bothers us that you did? So?

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<v Speaker 1>What did he do that bothers you? Um, it's really

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<v Speaker 1>just it's just running game. Like I feel like in

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<v Speaker 1>the very beginning, I'm real clear, like I've I've had

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty shaky I've had a shaky pass, Like I've

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<v Speaker 1>done my share of foul foul stuff. So, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand how the game is supposed to be played right,

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<v Speaker 1>so you don't pretend to be some innocent virgin and

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<v Speaker 1>they never did anything, not by any means. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>also a professional, so I understand the rules. I understand

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<v Speaker 1>how it feels to go. If you're a guy, you

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<v Speaker 1>should play by certain rules. Certain things should not be

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<v Speaker 1>out of hand. And I just felt disrespected. What are

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<v Speaker 1>the rules for the guys? I just feel like there's like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna do shady's stuff, like it should never

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<v Speaker 1>get back to me. So in other words, respect me

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<v Speaker 1>enough that if you're gonna do something stupid, don't get caught,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get caught, because that means you were careless. You

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<v Speaker 1>were careless, orp and slopping comfortable. You were comfortable, so

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't think enough of me to really cover your tracks.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that. Or just don't do anything stupid

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<v Speaker 1>or possible something, don't be don't be a completely you

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<v Speaker 1>know completely make better decisions, Make better decisions. So what

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<v Speaker 1>are you looking for now? I'm looking for more money,

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<v Speaker 1>more alcohol, And that's what I'm looking for actually, because

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<v Speaker 1>those are things that bring me a lot of joy. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I can help you. I'm like, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm spitting at the right couch for more alcohol,

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<v Speaker 1>more shoes, and more money. So were good? All right? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>We were talking about this earlier because what I want

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<v Speaker 1>to do now is focus on helping men. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not here to bash y'all because sometimes guys feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we said, oh, y'all talk so much shit. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't all cheat, we don't all to do this. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was having a conversation about four play and I

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<v Speaker 1>do feel like guys need tips on how to give

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<v Speaker 1>better for play because sometimes guys think four plays I

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<v Speaker 1>spit on my dick or spinning your pussy and then

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<v Speaker 1>have sex with you and and that's it. So I

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<v Speaker 1>want to help them mount and let them know what

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<v Speaker 1>are certain things that they need to do for us,

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<v Speaker 1>because I do feel like four plays so important for women.

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<v Speaker 1>In order for sex to be great, four play has

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<v Speaker 1>to be great for a woman especially. I think, so, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta let the oven preheat before you stick it in,

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, Like you got you have to sample it

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit too. You gotta, I need, I need,

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<v Speaker 1>I need the whole thing to be completely devoured before

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<v Speaker 1>we can. You gotta. You have to just like you

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<v Speaker 1>have to savor the appetizer first, like you gotta just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I need that, I need that before we get before

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<v Speaker 1>So you have to eat my pussy first? Is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Which is absolutely all right? That's a muss And I

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<v Speaker 1>do feel like that too. I always say a guy

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<v Speaker 1>should definitely go down on you before they have such

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<v Speaker 1>as a respecting respect the boy. I think, Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of kissing is important and four play

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<v Speaker 1>like only on the mouth like an anerthize stomach, not

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<v Speaker 1>and not like licking because guys confused like little guys

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<v Speaker 1>kisses with slob right. I hate when people slapping on

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<v Speaker 1>me right, like, you know, like kissing me on my neck,

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<v Speaker 1>but like like, don't stick your tongue out and look

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<v Speaker 1>at like a dog. And there is a fine line

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<v Speaker 1>between like a soft, like a supple bite and a

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<v Speaker 1>real bite, like I'm really I'm yellow like me. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like that hurts. Yeah, people like pain. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>really into pain. I like bites. Pain is good and

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<v Speaker 1>the right at the right time and the right amount

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<v Speaker 1>of pain. Too much pain and the wrong time, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just the timing is off and it gets a little weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's yeah, you're like, now a little break right. I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I like bite, like on my neck. I like to

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<v Speaker 1>get slapped, but that's like four play. We didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>there yet, I said, I like a little pain. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>slap me doing like you don't slap me when you

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<v Speaker 1>don't not play. I think that far play please thought

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<v Speaker 1>it for a place. But you know, like I like

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<v Speaker 1>to get a bit on my neck, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like to get bit on my back. Okay, it hurts.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that guys need to be more aware that

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<v Speaker 1>intimacy is just what a woman craves sometimes, like guys

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<v Speaker 1>aren't as affectionate as we might want them to be sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like they need to realize that we

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<v Speaker 1>want that, like we want all of the kissing and

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<v Speaker 1>the touching and the licking and the rubbing and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. You know, somebody told me that fingering is childish.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. I don't mind it. I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Here for it, like it's yeah, I like my pussy

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<v Speaker 1>and put finger. Yeah, I love that. It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>gentle slide and then it's one finger and then it's too,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's a gradual like you're taking me on a

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<v Speaker 1>journey right now, that journey and with this thing, or

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<v Speaker 1>because if I was ting, you can make somebody actually

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<v Speaker 1>or yeah, absolutely I come from. So that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>think sometimes guys like as things they did when they

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<v Speaker 1>were younger that they feel like, oh, I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to do that anymore, because that was before I was

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<v Speaker 1>having sex. I was fingering girls and doing this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do it anymore, And you have to do

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<v Speaker 1>just like y'all want us to do those things that

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<v Speaker 1>we did. Imagine, I said, well, I used to get

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<v Speaker 1>blow jabs before, but I don't do it anymore because

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<v Speaker 1>that's childish, right. I used to look the balls or

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't really but it doesn't really matter, so never mind, No,

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<v Speaker 1>they're still there, bro what you mean? So I always

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<v Speaker 1>think that fingering is important, of course I think or

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<v Speaker 1>else sex is important? What else is important for it?

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<v Speaker 1>And you say kissing, nipping important, don't don't not doing

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<v Speaker 1>and like one like you said, when you get to

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<v Speaker 1>chapter four, chapter four or five and you already you

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<v Speaker 1>already in it, that's when you could. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to be choked a little too. I'm with you,

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<v Speaker 1>I love to be but you can't forget about the

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<v Speaker 1>nipples in the fourth place, right, like guys forget about

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<v Speaker 1>nipples like it's not about the under like the under

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<v Speaker 1>the like I need you to be wrapped up the

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<v Speaker 1>area all that active with my areola. Sometimes I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like um brush, like they're um like ignored. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>got enough love exactly right you space nipple is a

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<v Speaker 1>very sense sometimes just like the point to you just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when I was a kid, that was it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a really big thing for a girl to have big

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<v Speaker 1>brass and a lot of times they have no hips,

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<v Speaker 1>but boobs were like everywhere everybody focused on the boobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Now asses, Now I feel like everybody forgot about the

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<v Speaker 1>tits and they're going for the ass. But that point is,

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<v Speaker 1>don't forget anything. Don't forget the nipples, don't forget the ass,

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<v Speaker 1>don't forget the vagina. But also every woman has a

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<v Speaker 1>different spot, Like every woman has a different spot on

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<v Speaker 1>their body that's like take go down the spine like

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<v Speaker 1>it's for summus, the neck for sum mus, the hip

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<v Speaker 1>like it's the inner thigh. Because you know, there's certain

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<v Speaker 1>places every woman has her own kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and different guys are able to make you feel a

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<v Speaker 1>different way. Like sometimes a guy might do something that

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<v Speaker 1>you love when this guy does it, but if somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else did it to you later on you're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't do it for me. Or something that you

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<v Speaker 1>think you don't like, you end up liking that a

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<v Speaker 1>certain guy does it. So maybe one day I like

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<v Speaker 1>getting fingered when when the right guy doesn't, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like any finger No, really, I feel like I'm getting

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<v Speaker 1>get me the dick. Let's play we're talking about. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't want four plays? So when is your four play consistent?

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<v Speaker 1>I just your ideal, just intimacy, yeah, but just no fingering.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want you to finger me when I want

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<v Speaker 1>something in my vagina, I want your penis. What about

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<v Speaker 1>a finger in your butt? Well? During four plays? Chapter five, five, five,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a move up five, but not not until chapter five.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, what's your so any other tips that we

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<v Speaker 1>have because I just want to make sure guys get it?

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<v Speaker 1>What about sucking toes? Oh my god, that's so annoying.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't try to stuck my toes. I had a

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<v Speaker 1>guy sucks my toes one time. For everything else that's

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<v Speaker 1>too far. It was just a random situation, and I

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<v Speaker 1>actually really enjoyed it. We called they came from out

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<v Speaker 1>of nowhere. I'm like, listen, if you're gonna put my

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<v Speaker 1>feet in your mouth, what else are you gonna put

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<v Speaker 1>in your mouth? I mean, we we all have amazing

0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:19.800
<v Speaker 1>toes in these kinds to clear but really clean, and

0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.360
<v Speaker 1>I keep them done. But come on, it's just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know all you think about. It's like, man,

0:11:24.520 --> 0:11:26.480
<v Speaker 1>I stepped barefoot from the shower to this day, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what kind of pumps nocks. What if the

0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:39.800
<v Speaker 1>guy wants you to massage his feet, I'm not a

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<v Speaker 1>post that. If you're my man. If we're to get

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<v Speaker 1>like you're my man and some guy that's just some

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<v Speaker 1>casual thing. You ain't. I'm not touching your feet, you

0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:50.360
<v Speaker 1>most guys, most guys keep their feet like away guys

0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:53.440
<v Speaker 1>hide their feet, but most guys like that, Like you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a guy, and I need to see

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<v Speaker 1>a guy's told so I know it's real, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta see what your feet look like for me to

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<v Speaker 1>really feel like we need something real. One woman actually

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<v Speaker 1>sent me an email to asking and she said that

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<v Speaker 1>she's been married for six years and has never seen

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<v Speaker 1>what that's like. A guy saying he never saw this

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<v Speaker 1>girl without makeup on. I actually actually know a girl

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<v Speaker 1>who's been in a relationship for three years and she's

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<v Speaker 1>never he's never seen her without weave or a wig

0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:21.760
<v Speaker 1>ever never, I've never seen it. No, she's got hair,

0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:23.440
<v Speaker 1>but I mean she's always got a weave in or

0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:25.440
<v Speaker 1>she's always got a wig, Like it's always something. He

0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.200
<v Speaker 1>never sees her, never never sees it without Does he

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<v Speaker 1>want to? I don't. I don't know. It's been like

0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:34.040
<v Speaker 1>three years, but it's still just like damn for real.

0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:40.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like pink panthers sneaking out with your like,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, No, that's too that can think about it.

0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:44.760
<v Speaker 1>We don't want guys to see us not looking good,

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<v Speaker 1>Like when when that FaceTime lights up, girl, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all natural. I when it comes to that. The

0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:55.920
<v Speaker 1>only time I put makeup on is when I'm working.

0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:59.319
<v Speaker 1>I wear no makeup all the time. I will take

0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:03.360
<v Speaker 1>that ben out my Yeah, Like I don't like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on FaceTime no makeup. I don't even care, Like straight

0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:09.840
<v Speaker 1>out of my bed, like wiping across on. I feel

0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:11.679
<v Speaker 1>like I'm going to get a FaceTime. I may actually

0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:16.160
<v Speaker 1>sleep in my makeup, like just in case, Like hey baby,

0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:21.439
<v Speaker 1>it's like because when you face time, you gotta get

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<v Speaker 1>like the right band. Yeah, oh it's definitely. I'm definitely yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>Never mind. All right, now, what about us? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>do we do? What are your tricks during four play

0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:41.120
<v Speaker 1>that you do to man everything but penetration. What are

0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:44.480
<v Speaker 1>some things that you think guys like a lot of

0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:47.440
<v Speaker 1>guys try to front, but a lot of guys do,

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<v Speaker 1>like when you lick the booty hole, they do like

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<v Speaker 1>that episode, we should do us. It's true. We're like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of guys, says, We're like six minutes and

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about booty. I'm just we need to I

0:14:01.120 --> 0:14:03.120
<v Speaker 1>want to get a survey done for real. Now, this

0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:04.679
<v Speaker 1>is what I need. I need for people want to

0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:06.839
<v Speaker 1>be an anonymous. It's gotta be anonymous though, because I

0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:09.680
<v Speaker 1>want to hear some guys that that will really admit

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<v Speaker 1>to not a finger. We're not talking about no, I'm

0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:14.160
<v Speaker 1>talking about it. It's a little, just a little. There's

0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:18.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot of lookin at the tip of the tongue.

0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:20.960
<v Speaker 1>But what about you guys have like Harry assholes? Does

0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:24.200
<v Speaker 1>that matter? I mean, I'm never coming. It hasn't been

0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:26.520
<v Speaker 1>that bad any guy that I'm what do you go

0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:28.240
<v Speaker 1>to look at guy's asshole and you can taste a

0:14:28.240 --> 0:14:33.560
<v Speaker 1>little sh I would have already died. And I feel

0:14:33.600 --> 0:14:35.920
<v Speaker 1>like it tastes like like booty tastes like pennies anyway,

0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:41.720
<v Speaker 1>Like if you're penny. I never tasted a penny, but

0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:45.600
<v Speaker 1>like if you like, if you hold a penny of head, penny,

0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:51.640
<v Speaker 1>that's what it's your old copper as It doesn't necessarily

0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:53.400
<v Speaker 1>mean it's not clean, but you but you know what too,

0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:55.440
<v Speaker 1>to be fair, just because I'm a woman, if I

0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:57.200
<v Speaker 1>was to go down there and it's too clean, like

0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:59.080
<v Speaker 1>there's powder it's most like Shae Butter. I'm gonna look

0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:01.520
<v Speaker 1>at you a little like, wait a second, there's a

0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:03.360
<v Speaker 1>problem with a guy having a clean booty hole, and

0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:06.600
<v Speaker 1>there's a person if it's too clean, it's there's no hair,

0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:09.520
<v Speaker 1>and it's all like hair that I'm looking at you

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<v Speaker 1>a little. You actually ass as a straight man. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna look at you a little crazy. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So if you tasted a little something, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I would die. No, but I would die. I would guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I wasn't more conscious about wiping though

0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:28.000
<v Speaker 1>it really conscious, you know what. I was just gonna

0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:30.040
<v Speaker 1>be a funny story. One time one of my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>she um, we were somewhere anyway, she met this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>took him to the room. And why did he go

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<v Speaker 1>and take a ship after they had sex and then

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<v Speaker 1>try to come right back into bed and have sex.

0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:44.320
<v Speaker 1>He should have gotten the showers? Am I the only

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<v Speaker 1>person that likes to take a shower after I go

0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:50.400
<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom, there's no I'm if I'm at home,

0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:53.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm getting in the shower a little there's

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<v Speaker 1>nowhere spelling. Then taking a ship and then trying to

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<v Speaker 1>put your clothes right. But I think guy should do

0:15:58.040 --> 0:15:59.760
<v Speaker 1>that too. Of me. If you need to take a ship,

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<v Speaker 1>go to take a bath, get in the water, take

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<v Speaker 1>a bath. All right? So what is the other tips

0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:06.560
<v Speaker 1>before I play for men? What do you do the guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Besides um Bridge said your go to movies. You like

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<v Speaker 1>to lick the booty hole. I mean it's it's a

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<v Speaker 1>gradual day. I don't think that guy would let me

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I don't know how to make that happen.

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<v Speaker 1>It depends on the guy that you win. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be a real you gotta it's gotta be a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation first. You can't just go right in for it

0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:22.560
<v Speaker 1>because that's like I kind of feel like you can't

0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:24.960
<v Speaker 1>discuss it first because if you never talked about it. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like guys not you do. Yeah, I feel

0:16:29.280 --> 0:16:30.920
<v Speaker 1>like guys like you'll be sucking their dicking and like

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<v Speaker 1>their leg a little, you know what, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to lick their that's a good point. Yeah, they do

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<v Speaker 1>that little. So you've asked guys like can I look

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<v Speaker 1>your asshole? I just know I just asked, what if

0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:42.880
<v Speaker 1>there's if there's do you like theads? No, I just

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<v Speaker 1>ask if there's anything that's awful in man, if they

0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:47.240
<v Speaker 1>don't say that, and if they don't say that, if

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<v Speaker 1>they don't say that, well, I asked, I asked. You

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<v Speaker 1>told me nothing. You told me there was no rules,

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<v Speaker 1>no going two big burly men coming to rout. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't alright, So Stephanie, what about you for a four

0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:04.560
<v Speaker 1>play with some of your go to I mean for

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<v Speaker 1>four play? I like, um, I find that you know,

0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:09.919
<v Speaker 1>Spanish guys don't like it, but I like to like

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<v Speaker 1>lick nipples and I like to like be you know,

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<v Speaker 1>pay attention and like kiss a lot on the knack

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<v Speaker 1>and the face and you know, and then go down

0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:22.320
<v Speaker 1>to like oral. That's what I do, like you, but

0:17:22.359 --> 0:17:28.040
<v Speaker 1>they don't like it. Like my current Boyfrienk was like, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>my current boyfriend, if I try to lick his nipples,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like giving me the stiff arm, like pushing me away,

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<v Speaker 1>like boy. But he also might be like this feels

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<v Speaker 1>too good. I'm like, that's what I tell him. I

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<v Speaker 1>like joking around. I'm like, you love it, don't fight it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like me to lick him right here on his arm.

0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:51.960
<v Speaker 1>That's different right here, but it probably is like a

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<v Speaker 1>real sensit. I could I could see that that could

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<v Speaker 1>be a sensitive I had a boyfriend that I used

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<v Speaker 1>to want me to always run my nails up and

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<v Speaker 1>down his forearm, Like he'll be driving at HAF it's

0:18:00.960 --> 0:18:04.080
<v Speaker 1>more arm down and I'll be running my my nails

0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:06.479
<v Speaker 1>up and down his forearm. That was an old boyfriend

0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:10.000
<v Speaker 1>when I was like seventeen. She had disclaimer anybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want anybody. It's Lord's twenty years ago. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think about it? And you know what else? Is

0:18:17.680 --> 0:18:21.000
<v Speaker 1>always good for playing a massage exactly? I like to rob.

0:18:21.520 --> 0:18:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I like to rob a lode. And I'm like, I'm

0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:27.880
<v Speaker 1>not type of lover though, Like I'm I'm a very

0:18:28.000 --> 0:18:32.240
<v Speaker 1>submissive given lover. What about during a massage? Now here's

0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:35.399
<v Speaker 1>a question I have. How low is too low to go? Like?

0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:38.200
<v Speaker 1>Is it weird to like massage your guys? But I

0:18:38.240 --> 0:18:41.320
<v Speaker 1>would not massage you guys. I've never tried it. But

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<v Speaker 1>the only time I'm touching the guys but is when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm grabbing it to pull him in deeper. Other than that,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to keep my hand. You don't slap his

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<v Speaker 1>ask something. I don't think I've ever slept what you left?

0:18:56.119 --> 0:18:59.480
<v Speaker 1>No shot? Please? That was? That was? I feel like

0:18:59.480 --> 0:19:04.879
<v Speaker 1>they would make it. I'm uncomfortable, Like what right, he's like,

0:19:04.920 --> 0:19:10.160
<v Speaker 1>who's talking now? I don't even like grabbing uses when

0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:12.560
<v Speaker 1>the guys inside of me. I think it might cause

0:19:12.640 --> 0:19:14.959
<v Speaker 1>for an awkward moment. But if you're pulling him in,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a it's a hip though, or it's

0:19:16.640 --> 0:19:21.880
<v Speaker 1>a thigh, it's a thigh of grabbing it. But yeah,

0:19:22.000 --> 0:19:26.919
<v Speaker 1>it's like more from the side. You can't like your

0:19:26.960 --> 0:19:32.080
<v Speaker 1>legs around and pull your legs. No grabbing, spreading in

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Now, what about taking the condom off? When

0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:38.600
<v Speaker 1>do you say it's okay for us to have raw sex?

0:19:38.680 --> 0:19:39.879
<v Speaker 1>How do you know it's okay to have a row

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<v Speaker 1>sex with the guy? Has anybody ever really made a

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<v Speaker 1>guy go get like STD tested and do all of

0:19:44.240 --> 0:19:45.679
<v Speaker 1>that stuff? I did. Actually, if they tell you to

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<v Speaker 1>do I did once. I did once only because I

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<v Speaker 1>only because I was I just was like, I don't know.

0:19:52.000 --> 0:19:53.679
<v Speaker 1>My mom My mom is My mom is a midwife.

0:19:53.760 --> 0:19:55.720
<v Speaker 1>She taught sex that at my junior high school. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so when I was like fourteen, she came in and

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<v Speaker 1>was showing us pictures like hey, guys, like, it's mom,

0:20:00.480 --> 0:20:03.560
<v Speaker 1>this is what kind of looks like for everybody. And

0:20:03.560 --> 0:20:06.119
<v Speaker 1>we were all sitting there like so I think maybe

0:20:06.160 --> 0:20:07.920
<v Speaker 1>the second or the second guy that I slept with,

0:20:07.960 --> 0:20:09.159
<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, we have to go to

0:20:09.200 --> 0:20:14.359
<v Speaker 1>attested together. That's but it wasn't romantic at like said

0:20:14.400 --> 0:20:17.600
<v Speaker 1>like seventeen eighteen though we were kind of but when

0:20:17.600 --> 0:20:19.560
<v Speaker 1>you guys went say you stopped using condoms, that was

0:20:19.600 --> 0:20:23.000
<v Speaker 1>the point of its not okay now with your last boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>when did you say, okay, we're not going to use

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<v Speaker 1>condoms at all. Is it a discussion or does he

0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:29.800
<v Speaker 1>just slide up in there? I mean, honestly, I feel

0:20:29.800 --> 0:20:32.000
<v Speaker 1>like the first the first time, it's not it's like

0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:34.879
<v Speaker 1>unquote unquote unprotected um. Because I've always been on the

0:20:34.880 --> 0:20:36.480
<v Speaker 1>pilm my whole life. I think I feel like the

0:20:36.520 --> 0:20:38.960
<v Speaker 1>first time is it's not discussed, like it almost happens,

0:20:38.960 --> 0:20:40.560
<v Speaker 1>that just happen because it's a hot and heavy moment

0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:42.040
<v Speaker 1>and y'all just in it and you just go he

0:20:42.160 --> 0:20:43.800
<v Speaker 1>just slides in and you're like, oh man, we didn't

0:20:45.320 --> 0:20:47.239
<v Speaker 1>and it's too late. And after that we was too

0:20:47.320 --> 0:20:51.800
<v Speaker 1>late discussion. It's like, well, never mind, has anybody ever

0:20:51.840 --> 0:20:55.480
<v Speaker 1>gone from not using condoms back to using condom? No? No, never,

0:20:56.080 --> 0:20:58.240
<v Speaker 1>because once you take that kind of the first time,

0:20:58.760 --> 0:21:05.680
<v Speaker 1>already picked off all those botes, that's it. Stevery to

0:21:05.760 --> 0:21:08.159
<v Speaker 1>the guy. Let's go get tested together. Um No, I'm

0:21:08.200 --> 0:21:10.119
<v Speaker 1>too paranoid to have real sex. I could call how

0:21:10.119 --> 0:21:12.240
<v Speaker 1>many guys I've have real sex with. On one hand,

0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:15.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm very paranoid, like my one of my sister's uncles

0:21:16.000 --> 0:21:18.280
<v Speaker 1>died of AIDS when I was a kid, So forget it,

0:21:18.400 --> 0:21:22.200
<v Speaker 1>Like I lost my virginia with a condom, okay, and um,

0:21:22.320 --> 0:21:24.479
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like if if you're ready to take

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<v Speaker 1>off the condom, you should be ready to have a

0:21:26.280 --> 0:21:30.840
<v Speaker 1>baby or ready to die. So that's that's when you die.

0:21:31.000 --> 0:21:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to die? I was ready to die.

0:21:37.040 --> 0:21:41.040
<v Speaker 1>Now taking off the condom is not. I'm just saying

0:21:41.119 --> 0:21:43.240
<v Speaker 1>that's where you die. That's when I that's when do

0:21:43.320 --> 0:21:45.320
<v Speaker 1>you take off the condom when you're right down? I'm

0:21:45.359 --> 0:21:48.119
<v Speaker 1>not ready to die, ready to die. I'm not ready

0:21:48.119 --> 0:22:01.040
<v Speaker 1>to die. It's crazy to birth control like you everything.

0:22:02.800 --> 0:22:04.320
<v Speaker 1>Would you tell a guy that would you die for

0:22:04.359 --> 0:22:08.960
<v Speaker 1>this pussy? Ready? If I was stroke enough, I would

0:22:08.960 --> 0:22:14.800
<v Speaker 1>probably say something like I've been with guys that I

0:22:14.840 --> 0:22:17.800
<v Speaker 1>wanted so bad and I know that they're incredible lovers,

0:22:18.119 --> 0:22:20.080
<v Speaker 1>and we'll be and we'll be in the spot and

0:22:20.119 --> 0:22:21.840
<v Speaker 1>there's no condoms and they're like, oh, the fun if

0:22:21.840 --> 0:22:24.080
<v Speaker 1>there's no condoms, And I'm like, fuck it, I'm going home.

0:22:24.640 --> 0:22:28.119
<v Speaker 1>No condom. I'm going you can't go to the store.

0:22:28.480 --> 0:22:29.639
<v Speaker 1>You want to go to the store, either go to

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<v Speaker 1>the store. We're going back to the store. Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, I've had one time I was with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy and we weren't even serious and we have

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<v Speaker 1>been having sex for a while, and he tried to

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<v Speaker 1>suck me rowing I was like, oh, I was like

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<v Speaker 1>never like you and I will never have a baby

0:22:45.520 --> 0:22:47.359
<v Speaker 1>because we do look at that. Guys a little weird

0:22:47.480 --> 0:22:49.000
<v Speaker 1>if they don't know it's like that, and they tell

0:22:49.080 --> 0:22:53.479
<v Speaker 1>it like ruins everything, like how people you're doing this

0:22:53.520 --> 0:22:55.119
<v Speaker 1>with and it's like you want to suck me? Bro?

0:22:55.440 --> 0:22:59.120
<v Speaker 1>You fucking everybody row like I don't, I don't trust it,

0:22:59.359 --> 0:23:02.360
<v Speaker 1>and I'm time everything I'm gonna telling you. Sometimes guys

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<v Speaker 1>don't anticipate that they might be able to have sex

0:23:04.920 --> 0:23:07.160
<v Speaker 1>with you, and if they don't have a condom on them.

0:23:07.280 --> 0:23:09.480
<v Speaker 1>They kind of feel like because there's that period of

0:23:09.480 --> 0:23:10.640
<v Speaker 1>time when they have to go get when the two

0:23:10.680 --> 0:23:13.760
<v Speaker 1>could change your mind. Right by the time he gets

0:23:13.880 --> 0:23:15.440
<v Speaker 1>up and it's like, I'm gonna vent to the store,

0:23:15.760 --> 0:23:17.840
<v Speaker 1>he comes back, You're fully clothed, Like I just thought

0:23:17.840 --> 0:23:23.359
<v Speaker 1>about it. Right while you were at the store, I

0:23:23.359 --> 0:23:27.240
<v Speaker 1>started bleeding at a second thought. I changed my mind,

0:23:27.720 --> 0:23:30.920
<v Speaker 1>dried up while you left. And I'm telling with this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>He was so upset. He was so upset. We never

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<v Speaker 1>spoke again because I didn't want to have real sex

0:23:34.880 --> 0:23:36.760
<v Speaker 1>with him, and honestly I didn't want. I didn't care

0:23:36.800 --> 0:23:39.000
<v Speaker 1>to speak to him anymore. I wouldn't talk to anybody

0:23:39.000 --> 0:23:40.479
<v Speaker 1>to try to pull that on me. Oh and I

0:23:40.520 --> 0:23:44.159
<v Speaker 1>had another guy. When I had another guy back in

0:23:44.200 --> 0:23:46.879
<v Speaker 1>the day before I had my son. He um whatever,

0:23:46.880 --> 0:23:48.399
<v Speaker 1>I was dating him. I knew him from when we

0:23:48.400 --> 0:23:51.360
<v Speaker 1>were kids, and and we started dating or whatever, and

0:23:51.400 --> 0:23:53.200
<v Speaker 1>we were, um, we were having sex. We were at

0:23:53.200 --> 0:23:56.840
<v Speaker 1>my apartment. We were having sex, and um he tried

0:23:56.840 --> 0:23:58.239
<v Speaker 1>to sun me roll and I was like, no, we

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<v Speaker 1>need a condom, So I gave him the condom you

0:24:00.680 --> 0:24:03.080
<v Speaker 1>had it. I had a condom. I was home, and

0:24:03.440 --> 0:24:06.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, we were fucking and it felt like raw suck.

0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:08.359
<v Speaker 1>He took it off, so I go and look in

0:24:08.400 --> 0:24:11.760
<v Speaker 1>the nicker didn't have the condom on. I kicked him

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<v Speaker 1>out of my house. It was like two thirty in

0:24:13.640 --> 0:24:16.880
<v Speaker 1>the morning. I threatened him. I went and I got

0:24:16.880 --> 0:24:21.600
<v Speaker 1>an STD test. I went crazy. I was paranoid for

0:24:21.640 --> 0:24:24.360
<v Speaker 1>like two months because of this, because that's the first

0:24:24.359 --> 0:24:26.680
<v Speaker 1>thing you do if your boyfriend cheats on you, girl,

0:24:26.720 --> 0:24:31.320
<v Speaker 1>the first thing you do, first thing you do right,

0:24:32.480 --> 0:24:34.119
<v Speaker 1>and then now do you get to test? You texting?

0:24:34.200 --> 0:24:35.560
<v Speaker 1>And you'd be like because in you now I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor's office, exactly. I just did this like two

0:24:41.240 --> 0:24:46.119
<v Speaker 1>months ago. That's how you feel. My man wasn't even cheated.

0:24:46.160 --> 0:24:48.240
<v Speaker 1>I just suspected it and I was wrong. And you

0:24:48.280 --> 0:24:50.520
<v Speaker 1>gotta text h maybe like if I had something I'm

0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:52.960
<v Speaker 1>saying and it ended up paying for my g y

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<v Speaker 1>M visit. It's like that. It's like you have you'll

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<v Speaker 1>ever seen Why did I get married? Yes, and home

0:24:58.880 --> 0:25:01.480
<v Speaker 1>girl gets contracted disease. But she got it from from

0:25:01.800 --> 0:25:03.640
<v Speaker 1>other dude and brought it back and he's like, well,

0:25:03.680 --> 0:25:05.320
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't even I didn't get it from my baby.

0:25:05.320 --> 0:25:06.480
<v Speaker 1>She was like you're right, or you didn't get it

0:25:06.520 --> 0:25:08.639
<v Speaker 1>from your baby mom's you got it from Walter because

0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:11.879
<v Speaker 1>I got it? No, that was that was? Was that

0:25:11.920 --> 0:25:13.920
<v Speaker 1>why did I get married? Yeah? And that's why did

0:25:13.920 --> 0:25:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I get married to the I love that movie, but

0:25:18.080 --> 0:25:20.359
<v Speaker 1>me too. I just I feel like it's it's always

0:25:20.359 --> 0:25:24.000
<v Speaker 1>an uncomfortable conversation to have, but I feel like you

0:25:24.080 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 1>gotta have it really, like just break the ice, like

0:25:25.960 --> 0:25:27.439
<v Speaker 1>get it out the way earlier. What abit if you're

0:25:27.480 --> 0:25:29.280
<v Speaker 1>dating a guy and he and you asked me, have

0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:31.880
<v Speaker 1>you ever had an STD? Right? Do you ask that?

0:25:32.080 --> 0:25:34.199
<v Speaker 1>And if he tells you yes, I did, does that

0:25:34.320 --> 0:25:37.880
<v Speaker 1>change anything? No, depends on what the s CD is. Right.

0:25:38.240 --> 0:25:40.760
<v Speaker 1>It's not good to something that goes away. Yeah, I

0:25:40.800 --> 0:25:43.080
<v Speaker 1>mean if you told me and then we're gonna have

0:25:43.119 --> 0:25:46.160
<v Speaker 1>a hold, that changes the whole conversation. Yeah, that's quiet

0:25:46.200 --> 0:25:48.119
<v Speaker 1>I had. But you know, like, yeah, I had. I

0:25:48.160 --> 0:25:51.199
<v Speaker 1>had clamdia when I was eighteen. I don't even want

0:25:51.240 --> 0:25:52.720
<v Speaker 1>to know that. That's too much for me. I don't

0:25:52.720 --> 0:25:54.919
<v Speaker 1>think a guy would be honest anyway, you know, you know,

0:25:55.080 --> 0:25:56.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't think guys would be honest even now. I

0:25:56.760 --> 0:25:58.520
<v Speaker 1>think they were, because they'd be afraid that if they

0:25:58.520 --> 0:26:00.720
<v Speaker 1>told they're not going to be honest but having STD

0:26:00.800 --> 0:26:02.119
<v Speaker 1>in the past, and they're not going to be honest

0:26:02.119 --> 0:26:04.119
<v Speaker 1>about liking that bootyhole. Look, but we knew they love it.

0:26:04.320 --> 0:26:09.879
<v Speaker 1>See so I look like and you've had STD to

0:26:09.960 --> 0:26:14.000
<v Speaker 1>lick my man's ass. He would drop kick me. You think.

0:26:14.080 --> 0:26:17.879
<v Speaker 1>Never I joke with him, and you know I'm with it.

0:26:17.960 --> 0:26:22.920
<v Speaker 1>You know I'm with you. I'm with he drinks Tennessee,

0:26:23.000 --> 0:26:26.320
<v Speaker 1>he will straight up drop kick me. Now what if?

0:26:26.840 --> 0:26:28.479
<v Speaker 1>What if when he gets out of jail he likes it.

0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:36.160
<v Speaker 1>Stop playing out of jail, he's gonna have the hairless

0:26:37.600 --> 0:26:43.200
<v Speaker 1>But what I always wanted you to try? You never

0:26:43.400 --> 0:26:46.040
<v Speaker 1>and he gonna hit you with that mud doesn't even

0:26:46.080 --> 0:26:48.080
<v Speaker 1>like to funk me in my ass, like we like

0:26:48.119 --> 0:26:50.040
<v Speaker 1>we wanted to try it, and he's like, no, I

0:26:50.040 --> 0:26:53.000
<v Speaker 1>don't really like that, right, Yeah, he's not circumcised. He

0:26:53.040 --> 0:26:56.119
<v Speaker 1>doesn't like having he's circumcised. No, he's not, so he

0:26:56.119 --> 0:27:04.280
<v Speaker 1>gets smegma. No, he's so clean still underneath you never

0:27:04.760 --> 0:27:09.639
<v Speaker 1>never like telling you penis. It's like dead cells or something.

0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:12.240
<v Speaker 1>And like, I'm sorry that non circumcis. That's a deal

0:27:12.280 --> 0:27:14.040
<v Speaker 1>breaking for me. I don't care how many is not? Like?

0:27:14.280 --> 0:27:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Not have not? You know why? I like? You know

0:27:17.040 --> 0:27:19.199
<v Speaker 1>why I like to fun with guys who have uncircumcised

0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:22.000
<v Speaker 1>penis because I know that they have to be extra

0:27:22.040 --> 0:27:24.679
<v Speaker 1>clean with themselves. You know, I don't because if you

0:27:24.720 --> 0:27:27.199
<v Speaker 1>don't take care of it, you know, but you like,

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:28.560
<v Speaker 1>if you don't take care of it and I go

0:27:28.640 --> 0:27:31.320
<v Speaker 1>down on you, I will smell it, you know, and

0:27:31.359 --> 0:27:34.919
<v Speaker 1>that that's disgusting. Many guys have you mess that have

0:27:34.960 --> 0:27:38.960
<v Speaker 1>been uncircumcised. I've been friends for you. It's not a preference.

0:27:39.000 --> 0:27:42.680
<v Speaker 1>It's not a preference because I honestly think that penis

0:27:42.680 --> 0:27:45.680
<v Speaker 1>looks prettier when it's a circumcis because I don't have

0:27:45.760 --> 0:27:48.800
<v Speaker 1>to play you hoodie back. No, but it looks. But

0:27:48.920 --> 0:27:51.640
<v Speaker 1>some like I've been, Um, I don't know where you guys,

0:27:53.960 --> 0:27:56.240
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of men out there that are uncircumcised,

0:27:58.000 --> 0:28:01.200
<v Speaker 1>and um, you know some guys have a lot of skins,

0:28:01.440 --> 0:28:07.399
<v Speaker 1>especially a lot of island there not circumcise. Yes, yeah,

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:12.000
<v Speaker 1>and um, like I mean my my current boyfriend, he's

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:15.560
<v Speaker 1>he's so clean and like he smells. So it's still

0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:19.080
<v Speaker 1>different with the uncircumcised penis. No, it doesn't I think

0:28:19.119 --> 0:28:21.879
<v Speaker 1>it feels different for them because they have two different sensations.

0:28:21.920 --> 0:28:25.399
<v Speaker 1>They have the sensation of sex with the skin over

0:28:25.480 --> 0:28:27.480
<v Speaker 1>the head, and then they have the sensation of sex

0:28:27.600 --> 0:28:32.240
<v Speaker 1>when the skin goes back so painful? Is that different?

0:28:32.280 --> 0:28:33.920
<v Speaker 1>When you give a blowdown, don't you gotta hold it

0:28:33.960 --> 0:28:36.320
<v Speaker 1>back right now? That's another thing when you give a blowjob,

0:28:36.359 --> 0:28:43.960
<v Speaker 1>like you really have a lot of right, that's too

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:46.600
<v Speaker 1>much skin, so you guys leave it. That's what she

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:49.160
<v Speaker 1>was doing. It's just too much. Like I don't know

0:28:49.200 --> 0:28:55.360
<v Speaker 1>what kind of dick's break, are you gonna park like players? No,

0:28:55.680 --> 0:28:57.880
<v Speaker 1>but you know, I'm when given when you when you're

0:28:57.880 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 1>giving a blowjob to a guy with a circumtan dick,

0:29:00.480 --> 0:29:03.160
<v Speaker 1>you have to pay attention to what they like, you know,

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:05.800
<v Speaker 1>Like some guys don't want you to push the skin back.

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:08.600
<v Speaker 1>They want you to suck their dick over the skin, okay,

0:29:08.800 --> 0:29:11.240
<v Speaker 1>and then other you know, or you gotta like build

0:29:11.360 --> 0:29:14.600
<v Speaker 1>up into pushing the skin back. You can't just go

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:18.800
<v Speaker 1>with like back and then and then go and then

0:29:18.880 --> 0:29:21.959
<v Speaker 1>go crazy, you know, you have to like build it up.

0:29:22.440 --> 0:29:25.600
<v Speaker 1>So it's like driving stack two hands. I don't use

0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:29.040
<v Speaker 1>hands when i'm I don't I don't use hands. I don't.

0:29:29.080 --> 0:29:31.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't use my hands when I'm giving a job.

0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:36.880
<v Speaker 1>Not usually no, because I feel like yeah for the guys,

0:29:37.000 --> 0:29:39.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't hands on the guys. I find

0:29:39.840 --> 0:29:43.520
<v Speaker 1>guys like when a yeah you got. The only time

0:29:43.640 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll use the hand is like if I need to

0:29:46.560 --> 0:29:49.600
<v Speaker 1>use my hand to push it behind, like my tonsils

0:29:49.640 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 1>like to push it, you know, to push it back

0:29:52.240 --> 0:29:58.240
<v Speaker 1>for deep throating. It has to be a bad dick

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:00.880
<v Speaker 1>like to you know, to have to use the hands

0:30:01.840 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 1>for me to be pushing it. No, but you know

0:30:06.200 --> 0:30:08.720
<v Speaker 1>you I could do it. I could. I could push

0:30:08.760 --> 0:30:11.440
<v Speaker 1>the dick. Usually I could push the dick back without

0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:14.080
<v Speaker 1>using my hands. But it's like if he has like

0:30:14.080 --> 0:30:17.080
<v Speaker 1>a monster dick, I might need to my hands. Yeah,

0:30:17.160 --> 0:30:18.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I need my hands now. I

0:30:19.040 --> 0:30:23.200
<v Speaker 1>like to like I do like dutty wines. Do you

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:28.720
<v Speaker 1>have a playlist because this stuff like like like what's

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:32.840
<v Speaker 1>another good song to sectic took and type a fight

0:30:32.920 --> 0:30:37.080
<v Speaker 1>song and people fight too, and it's all right, so

0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:41.440
<v Speaker 1>duty one is a good one. Whatever. No, I don't

0:30:41.440 --> 0:30:43.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, like the duty wine have motion. I think guys,

0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 1>I think this except for girls because you know, a

0:30:49.960 --> 0:30:51.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of girls don't know how to suck dick and

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 1>they just want to go up and down and they

0:30:54.080 --> 0:31:00.920
<v Speaker 1>think like take the shop like you need to sucking playlist,

0:31:00.960 --> 0:31:04.120
<v Speaker 1>but will be on the dick sucking playlist. Dick sucking playlist,

0:31:06.360 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 1>good girl, because that, let me tell you, that's a

0:31:09.640 --> 0:31:13.760
<v Speaker 1>good on you. Hold you you were you ready to

0:31:13.840 --> 0:31:16.040
<v Speaker 1>die for the dick with you just not even thinking?

0:31:16.080 --> 0:31:20.640
<v Speaker 1>You call you clock out, blackout. It's all about silent

0:31:20.760 --> 0:31:29.280
<v Speaker 1>to would you No? That's stuff. You gotta have a

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:32.080
<v Speaker 1>dance to it though, besides the duty white with us?

0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 1>What's a good dick sucking danced? Wan is good? The

0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:38.880
<v Speaker 1>hand motion no? Not not on the head motion, not

0:31:39.040 --> 0:31:45.520
<v Speaker 1>the not the body the head banger no, because bang

0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:48.200
<v Speaker 1>your head too. Yeah, what about Harlem shake? Could you

0:31:48.240 --> 0:31:53.240
<v Speaker 1>harlem shake? You go? You gotta be active with your tongue. No,

0:31:53.320 --> 0:31:55.800
<v Speaker 1>because guys sometimes like if they want to watch what

0:31:55.880 --> 0:31:58.720
<v Speaker 1>you're doing some But that's that's just for that's just

0:31:58.880 --> 0:32:01.000
<v Speaker 1>for ships, you know, for the is yours, that's for

0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:03.160
<v Speaker 1>the vis when they ask you questions and you have

0:32:03.280 --> 0:32:07.280
<v Speaker 1>your dick and you have their why are you? It's

0:32:07.320 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 1>like being at the dentist and they're trying to talk

0:32:09.520 --> 0:32:11.600
<v Speaker 1>to you. Why would you do That's such a good question.

0:32:11.680 --> 0:32:14.960
<v Speaker 1>I hate when I'm sucking dick and the nick is

0:32:15.000 --> 0:32:19.080
<v Speaker 1>asking me a question. So you're like, you like, shut

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:25.440
<v Speaker 1>the right, I'm going, yeah, I'm just gonna. I'm not

0:32:25.560 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 1>even saying you you're talking too much. If you don't

0:32:28.760 --> 0:32:30.640
<v Speaker 1>shut the funk up and let me do this, you

0:32:30.680 --> 0:32:32.320
<v Speaker 1>don't just let me work right now? I got no

0:32:32.480 --> 0:32:37.760
<v Speaker 1>work questions during If you asked you a question during

0:32:37.760 --> 0:32:39.280
<v Speaker 1>the blood, put his dig down and be like, what

0:32:39.400 --> 0:32:46.800
<v Speaker 1>did you want to talk about the conversation forget what

0:32:46.840 --> 0:32:48.200
<v Speaker 1>I was doing. Let's get back to you. This is

0:32:48.240 --> 0:32:50.880
<v Speaker 1>more important, right all right? Now, here's something else I

0:32:50.920 --> 0:32:54.120
<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk about. Lingerie? Oh god, all right now,

0:32:55.160 --> 0:32:58.080
<v Speaker 1>how many of us use lingerie? And do you think

0:32:58.080 --> 0:33:01.080
<v Speaker 1>that guys like it? Because I've heard a lot of

0:33:01.120 --> 0:33:03.520
<v Speaker 1>guys say that lingerie. They don't really think it's a

0:33:03.560 --> 0:33:05.480
<v Speaker 1>big deal. They're like, okay, you wear it when you're

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:09.600
<v Speaker 1>walking cool? And then now what so are you No?

0:33:10.840 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I used to be a stripper. I don't wear panties.

0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:16.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't even have a brow on today.

0:33:17.360 --> 0:33:19.200
<v Speaker 1>But but you don't want to wear something like super

0:33:19.320 --> 0:33:21.640
<v Speaker 1>dirty and nasty and sexy. So when he walks in,

0:33:21.760 --> 0:33:23.720
<v Speaker 1>he's like, damn, the only thing he wanted to see

0:33:23.760 --> 0:33:26.440
<v Speaker 1>me in some shoes with a night heal or some

0:33:26.560 --> 0:33:29.360
<v Speaker 1>thought high boots or something. No lingerie here. I mean,

0:33:29.520 --> 0:33:31.880
<v Speaker 1>if he asks for it, then I wear it. I

0:33:32.040 --> 0:33:34.560
<v Speaker 1>have some ship, you know, from from the old days

0:33:34.640 --> 0:33:36.360
<v Speaker 1>that if I can pull out the box or something,

0:33:36.640 --> 0:33:44.080
<v Speaker 1>pulling out the old luxury. I mean, yeah, a lot

0:33:44.160 --> 0:33:46.960
<v Speaker 1>of little garter, a little garden stock, and with that

0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:49.560
<v Speaker 1>tashment a little that's a little at a lot of

0:33:49.640 --> 0:33:52.080
<v Speaker 1>little fun. If he asked for it. But I'm not.

0:33:52.200 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 1>That's not my goal to thing into it. I'd rather

0:33:55.080 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 1>just be naked. The good shoes. Yeah, it's like, wait

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:02.480
<v Speaker 1>a minute, hold on, what's you who makes this? Just

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:05.720
<v Speaker 1>throw your leg up one time. It's the bottom. It's

0:34:05.760 --> 0:34:07.960
<v Speaker 1>just like, okay, I'm with it, he's with it. I

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:09.520
<v Speaker 1>don't know if I like lingrei either. First of all,

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:12.080
<v Speaker 1>it's expensive, let's talk about that. And it's kind of

0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:13.600
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of a ways like I don't want to

0:34:13.600 --> 0:34:15.239
<v Speaker 1>walk into I'm not gonna spend a thousand dollars on

0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:23.400
<v Speaker 1>all the thousand dollars because guys, but guys don't care

0:34:23.400 --> 0:34:27.120
<v Speaker 1>if it's love pla or not. You target well, I

0:34:27.160 --> 0:34:29.200
<v Speaker 1>mean I date some shallow guys, so I think the

0:34:29.239 --> 0:34:32.000
<v Speaker 1>guys I date will give is this victorious Like you

0:34:32.239 --> 0:34:36.640
<v Speaker 1>just said, Calvin Klein, target label the labor A lot

0:34:36.680 --> 0:34:38.719
<v Speaker 1>of guys with labor hordes, they're gonna do. So once

0:34:38.760 --> 0:34:40.719
<v Speaker 1>you wear lingerie once, can you wear it again? Or

0:34:41.320 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 1>the guy we'll see the same guy or like sere

0:34:44.160 --> 0:34:47.640
<v Speaker 1>that last weeks. Here's the thing. I actually I bought

0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 1>a couple of pieces and then they got ruined, like

0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:52.160
<v Speaker 1>they got ripped, and I was like, well this is

0:34:52.239 --> 0:34:54.160
<v Speaker 1>why wa wait wait wait wait wait back it, back

0:34:54.200 --> 0:34:58.359
<v Speaker 1>it up. I bought and it got ripped? How did

0:34:58.400 --> 0:34:59.800
<v Speaker 1>it get ridden? He ripped it off? Too much of?

0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:02.440
<v Speaker 1>I should absolutely too much of. And if she spends

0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:05.320
<v Speaker 1>a thousand dollars on lingre, you had not just rip it.

0:35:05.440 --> 0:35:08.960
<v Speaker 1>But this is my point, and replace it and you

0:35:09.040 --> 0:35:10.920
<v Speaker 1>gotta buy a whole new one, going to go online

0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:12.600
<v Speaker 1>pick out a new set, and we're gonna have to work.

0:35:12.600 --> 0:35:14.080
<v Speaker 1>But that's why maybe it's not worth it to by

0:35:14.120 --> 0:35:17.719
<v Speaker 1>expens again. It depends on the guy that you're with.

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:20.359
<v Speaker 1>And it also depends on the occasion. If, like said,

0:35:20.360 --> 0:35:22.120
<v Speaker 1>if you request it, it's different you want. If you

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:24.359
<v Speaker 1>request it, then been by all means we'll pull something

0:35:24.400 --> 0:35:26.440
<v Speaker 1>out for you. But otherwise it's not. On a regular

0:35:26.480 --> 0:35:28.200
<v Speaker 1>Thursday night, you're about to get this. You about to

0:35:28.200 --> 0:35:32.759
<v Speaker 1>get these young calvins. If all right, Stephanie ling me.

0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:36.120
<v Speaker 1>I like wearing Lingerie, but I put it on and

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:38.600
<v Speaker 1>then it's like the guy comes in the room and

0:35:38.800 --> 0:35:40.919
<v Speaker 1>he rips it off. It's over. They don't. I don't

0:35:40.920 --> 0:35:42.799
<v Speaker 1>even feel like that, Like I could buy these. I'm

0:35:42.920 --> 0:35:45.840
<v Speaker 1>telling you, I've invested so much money into good underwear

0:35:45.920 --> 0:35:49.799
<v Speaker 1>or like not Victoria's secret crop, like good underwear three

0:35:49.840 --> 0:35:52.279
<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty dollar bras. I can't do that, like

0:35:52.480 --> 0:35:55.600
<v Speaker 1>really good underwear. And you know these are it feels

0:35:55.680 --> 0:35:58.880
<v Speaker 1>soft and it fits well, and I'm like, oh, I'm

0:35:58.920 --> 0:36:00.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna wear this, and I'm gonna wait for him to

0:36:00.520 --> 0:36:02.880
<v Speaker 1>come home and put some shoes on. And as soon

0:36:02.920 --> 0:36:05.839
<v Speaker 1>as the nigga sees that I have shoes on, it's over.

0:36:05.960 --> 0:36:08.440
<v Speaker 1>That's you didn't even notice. So you rather invest in

0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:10.600
<v Speaker 1>the shoes. Oh, the shoe is always more worth While

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:14.239
<v Speaker 1>men loved having sex with girls and shoes. That's that's it,

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:17.120
<v Speaker 1>just is what it is, whether it's like a Christian

0:36:17.200 --> 0:36:21.279
<v Speaker 1>Louba town or a pare Jordan's guys just like ste

0:36:21.440 --> 0:36:24.520
<v Speaker 1>with girls and sneakers. I got my new Jordan's on baby.

0:36:25.480 --> 0:36:28.400
<v Speaker 1>They like it, like it. If he's intims, he'll be

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:31.480
<v Speaker 1>happy with you and anything. Honestly, what about is there

0:36:31.480 --> 0:36:35.200
<v Speaker 1>anything that a guy can wear that we care about? No, No,

0:36:35.640 --> 0:36:38.640
<v Speaker 1>it's weird, right yeah, yeah, it's a little weird. I

0:36:38.719 --> 0:36:41.520
<v Speaker 1>remember when I first started dating and entertainment. I used

0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:46.160
<v Speaker 1>to really really love dating guys with like sick diamond earrings,

0:36:46.440 --> 0:36:48.520
<v Speaker 1>Like I thought it was the sexiest thing in the world.

0:36:49.080 --> 0:36:51.440
<v Speaker 1>But now I don't really notice what the guys like.

0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:55.400
<v Speaker 1>A couple of chains, not a lot, Not like too

0:36:55.480 --> 0:36:56.799
<v Speaker 1>much because then it's gonna hit me in the face

0:36:56.840 --> 0:36:58.120
<v Speaker 1>at some point, I'm gonna have cuts, you know what

0:36:58.120 --> 0:37:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean? Tell me you can't be all that, but

0:37:01.480 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 1>you're chain dipping into my vaginas you go down. Yeah,

0:37:04.120 --> 0:37:06.480
<v Speaker 1>it's it's cool. This is cold metal on my on

0:37:06.600 --> 0:37:10.000
<v Speaker 1>my one right now. A couple of a couple of chains.

0:37:10.000 --> 0:37:13.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm not mad at that. What about tattoos? I love tattoos.

0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:19.759
<v Speaker 1>To love tattoos, I mean, I'm guys like me said, yes, um,

0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:22.839
<v Speaker 1>tattoos are sexy, but it's not something that a guy

0:37:22.920 --> 0:37:26.480
<v Speaker 1>has to have. Sometimes just are into tattoos. But when

0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:29.839
<v Speaker 1>you know those that are What about beards? I love

0:37:29.920 --> 0:37:32.840
<v Speaker 1>facial hair. I don't like beers. I like, um, I

0:37:32.960 --> 0:37:36.600
<v Speaker 1>liked a little, like it when it's growing. I like

0:37:36.719 --> 0:37:40.080
<v Speaker 1>it when it's when it's nice and roomed and fresh.

0:37:40.560 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 1>Going crazy with these new beards, like they look like lumberjacks,

0:37:44.640 --> 0:37:51.560
<v Speaker 1>it gets itchy down there. It's kept. I look at

0:37:51.640 --> 0:37:53.720
<v Speaker 1>these guys with these beards, and I think their beards

0:37:53.719 --> 0:37:56.440
<v Speaker 1>smells like whatever they ate. So if you ate a

0:37:57.040 --> 0:38:00.239
<v Speaker 1>now you got a pizza beer bill over your beer

0:38:00.280 --> 0:38:09.719
<v Speaker 1>and disgusting. Like all right, now here's the next question. Vacations. Okay, okay, Now,

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:13.680
<v Speaker 1>going on vacation with a guy, I feel like that's

0:38:13.680 --> 0:38:15.359
<v Speaker 1>a big commitment. Now I'm gonna tell you my own

0:38:15.440 --> 0:38:18.239
<v Speaker 1>opinion on it. All right. It's I can't go on

0:38:18.360 --> 0:38:20.960
<v Speaker 1>vacation with a guy that I haven't slept with it.

0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:22.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know like that. I just don't want to

0:38:22.520 --> 0:38:24.480
<v Speaker 1>do it because A I don't want to be stuck

0:38:24.560 --> 0:38:27.279
<v Speaker 1>somewhere with somebody where If you're go on vacation with

0:38:27.320 --> 0:38:29.319
<v Speaker 1>a guy, that's automatically if you haven't slept with him yet,

0:38:29.320 --> 0:38:31.440
<v Speaker 1>that means you have to kind of yeah, it's like, oh,

0:38:31.480 --> 0:38:33.600
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna have sex the first time. That's like saying okay,

0:38:33.760 --> 0:38:36.640
<v Speaker 1>it's about to go down, Like, oh, I accept to

0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:38.440
<v Speaker 1>share a room with you. I need to know you

0:38:38.560 --> 0:38:40.399
<v Speaker 1>really well to feel like I want to even spend

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:42.879
<v Speaker 1>time that I could have been spending, getting money doing

0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:45.400
<v Speaker 1>something else. For some pieties working how long is a

0:38:45.440 --> 0:38:47.680
<v Speaker 1>vacation always like a weekend? Because you do a weekend

0:38:47.719 --> 0:38:49.399
<v Speaker 1>with somebody, this is like a week like we about

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:51.719
<v Speaker 1>a week. I can't be alone with a guy for

0:38:51.800 --> 0:38:54.000
<v Speaker 1>a weekend if I don't know him like that. If

0:38:54.040 --> 0:38:55.920
<v Speaker 1>I if I don't feel like I already know and

0:38:56.080 --> 0:38:58.880
<v Speaker 1>like you a lot you've got and we have and

0:38:58.960 --> 0:39:01.360
<v Speaker 1>we have potential relationship, I don't want to do it.

0:39:01.480 --> 0:39:03.880
<v Speaker 1>Some girls would be like vacation, let's go. I'm in,

0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:06.160
<v Speaker 1>But I can't really do it just because I know,

0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:08.520
<v Speaker 1>like if I go and I don't have a good time,

0:39:08.560 --> 0:39:10.200
<v Speaker 1>there's a million other things I could have been doing,

0:39:10.360 --> 0:39:12.360
<v Speaker 1>and it's gonna bother me, and I'll be annoyed and

0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:15.680
<v Speaker 1>it might not work out. What do you think. I

0:39:15.840 --> 0:39:18.800
<v Speaker 1>love vacations, especially going to come along with passport stamps

0:39:18.840 --> 0:39:22.120
<v Speaker 1>and new experiences and places that I haven't been, or

0:39:23.000 --> 0:39:31.000
<v Speaker 1>that well, let's go for the weekend. What you think? Um,

0:39:32.000 --> 0:39:35.560
<v Speaker 1>it depends on the destination. No, for real, because I

0:39:35.640 --> 0:39:37.799
<v Speaker 1>can go, I can go with somebody ignored the ship

0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:40.000
<v Speaker 1>out of them and have a great goddamn time and

0:39:40.120 --> 0:39:41.799
<v Speaker 1>I have to worry about having sex with them because

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:43.520
<v Speaker 1>if I say no, then I say no. I'll take

0:39:43.560 --> 0:39:44.840
<v Speaker 1>some tamplines with me and be like, look like I

0:39:44.880 --> 0:39:47.839
<v Speaker 1>gotta string no. Sorry oops. But then don't you feel

0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:49.719
<v Speaker 1>like it could be annoying though, because now I'm stuck

0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:51.960
<v Speaker 1>here with somebody that I don't even like. I actually,

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:54.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I went on vacation, um, not too

0:39:54.640 --> 0:39:57.960
<v Speaker 1>long ago with a guy that I wasn't really I've

0:39:58.000 --> 0:39:59.560
<v Speaker 1>known him for a long time, but we were never

0:39:59.600 --> 0:40:03.279
<v Speaker 1>in a really ship, so I've assumed like I was

0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:05.200
<v Speaker 1>not dreading going on vacation, but I was a little

0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:07.239
<v Speaker 1>worried because I thought that we would be out of

0:40:07.280 --> 0:40:09.879
<v Speaker 1>the country together for a whole weekend and I maybe

0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:12.480
<v Speaker 1>would not have enjoyed his company. And I actually did

0:40:12.600 --> 0:40:14.840
<v Speaker 1>enjoy his company. He wasn't annoying. We had great sex,

0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:17.360
<v Speaker 1>and the beach was nice, and we ate and drank

0:40:17.440 --> 0:40:19.960
<v Speaker 1>and it was a good time. But then after that,

0:40:20.040 --> 0:40:21.960
<v Speaker 1>you're like, all right, thanks for that, thanks for the

0:40:22.000 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 1>past ports stamp. What do you think vit? I mean,

0:40:25.680 --> 0:40:28.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm not I'm not opposed to the idea of a vacation.

0:40:28.440 --> 0:40:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I think I think you get to know somebody for

0:40:30.600 --> 0:40:32.799
<v Speaker 1>real when you are away with him. I think there's

0:40:32.800 --> 0:40:34.520
<v Speaker 1>two ways you can get to get to know a guy.

0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:35.880
<v Speaker 1>If you live with him, and if you go on

0:40:36.000 --> 0:40:37.800
<v Speaker 1>vacation with him, you get to see what his habits

0:40:37.800 --> 0:40:39.279
<v Speaker 1>are like. When he gets to the hotel, what does

0:40:39.280 --> 0:40:40.600
<v Speaker 1>he do? Does he just throw his ship all over

0:40:40.640 --> 0:40:42.560
<v Speaker 1>the room? But what if it's super early, he doesn't

0:40:42.560 --> 0:40:44.120
<v Speaker 1>live in the same state as you. You'll just been

0:40:44.200 --> 0:40:46.239
<v Speaker 1>kind of talking on the phone, and then he's like,

0:40:47.320 --> 0:40:49.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, but you'll been talking a lot. Well, there's

0:40:49.200 --> 0:40:52.240
<v Speaker 1>gotta be a significant amount of like physical time spent together,

0:40:52.360 --> 0:40:55.320
<v Speaker 1>like an accumulation of like we've gone on dates, we've

0:40:55.600 --> 0:40:57.120
<v Speaker 1>we've you know what I mean, Like you say to

0:40:57.160 --> 0:40:59.320
<v Speaker 1>my house, I staid at your house, like we we

0:40:59.440 --> 0:41:01.480
<v Speaker 1>have to be on that level of comfort before. But

0:41:01.560 --> 0:41:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it needs to be you're my boyfriend,

0:41:03.120 --> 0:41:05.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm your girlfriend before we take a trip together. I

0:41:05.120 --> 0:41:07.399
<v Speaker 1>feel like, See, I'm not opposed to you saying let's

0:41:07.440 --> 0:41:10.040
<v Speaker 1>go somewhere and I go with my friends or whatever,

0:41:10.200 --> 0:41:12.360
<v Speaker 1>and you happen to go at the same time that

0:41:12.440 --> 0:41:14.520
<v Speaker 1>I go, and then we just hang out when we

0:41:14.600 --> 0:41:17.440
<v Speaker 1>get there. I think that's a perfect first trip with

0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 1>somebody that you don't know like that, because I don't

0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:21.360
<v Speaker 1>want to feel like it's just me and you we

0:41:21.480 --> 0:41:23.960
<v Speaker 1>go away, And I'm cool with it just me and

0:41:24.000 --> 0:41:25.440
<v Speaker 1>you we go away, but it's got to be someplace

0:41:25.480 --> 0:41:27.520
<v Speaker 1>where there's no pressure. Like we can't go to like,

0:41:28.440 --> 0:41:31.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, France for four days. Like that's not romantic,

0:41:32.000 --> 0:41:33.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Like it's really romantic. It's

0:41:33.560 --> 0:41:35.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot of like we ain't in love. It's not

0:41:35.239 --> 0:41:36.759
<v Speaker 1>not that kind of party we're gonna We're going to

0:41:36.880 --> 0:41:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Jamaica for four all right, I'm down for Jamaica four

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:40.520
<v Speaker 1>a weekend. Let's go we out Like I'm cool with

0:41:40.600 --> 0:41:43.160
<v Speaker 1>that because I also I also trust myself enough to

0:41:43.280 --> 0:41:45.719
<v Speaker 1>know that if I'm wherever I'm at, I'm gonna have

0:41:45.800 --> 0:41:47.960
<v Speaker 1>a good time. So if so, even if you're not,

0:41:49.120 --> 0:41:51.200
<v Speaker 1>because by the way, there's nothing worse than going on

0:41:51.280 --> 0:41:53.279
<v Speaker 1>vacation with somebody and you don't have a good time

0:41:53.360 --> 0:41:55.239
<v Speaker 1>with them, and that's how and you get into a

0:41:55.320 --> 0:41:57.120
<v Speaker 1>fight or it just doesn't go the way that you

0:41:57.200 --> 0:41:59.799
<v Speaker 1>anticipated it, because that's the kind of thing that can

0:41:59.840 --> 0:42:02.440
<v Speaker 1>make the break of relationship. Well that's the thing too.

0:42:02.520 --> 0:42:05.759
<v Speaker 1>You have to discuss who's paying for the vacation, if

0:42:05.840 --> 0:42:08.280
<v Speaker 1>you like, if you if you paying for the vacation.

0:42:08.360 --> 0:42:09.719
<v Speaker 1>I need to know. My name has to be on

0:42:09.840 --> 0:42:12.239
<v Speaker 1>this room. I need to know if there's no there's

0:42:12.239 --> 0:42:14.120
<v Speaker 1>if there's any issues, if anything goes down and you

0:42:14.200 --> 0:42:16.200
<v Speaker 1>happen to decide we get into a fight, whatever the

0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:18.239
<v Speaker 1>case is. You're not putting me out nowhere. That's not

0:42:18.320 --> 0:42:21.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, can you imagine? I listen, I had

0:42:21.640 --> 0:42:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I heard it. Had a horrible, horrible story told to

0:42:24.200 --> 0:42:26.560
<v Speaker 1>me about a girl, a friend of a friend, that

0:42:26.640 --> 0:42:28.680
<v Speaker 1>went on vacation with her man he paid for the

0:42:28.719 --> 0:42:30.719
<v Speaker 1>whole thing. They got into a fight. He left her

0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:33.360
<v Speaker 1>there like was piste off at her and left like

0:42:33.600 --> 0:42:35.600
<v Speaker 1>like a day or two early, and left her there,

0:42:36.600 --> 0:42:38.800
<v Speaker 1>So she ended up having to spend like like like

0:42:39.440 --> 0:42:42.319
<v Speaker 1>seven or like an extra night in the hotel because

0:42:42.320 --> 0:42:43.960
<v Speaker 1>it was it would have cost her like seven hundreds

0:42:44.000 --> 0:42:46.080
<v Speaker 1>to change your flight, like it would have just been crazy.

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:48.360
<v Speaker 1>It was like some wild and Saint Bart's left her

0:42:48.400 --> 0:42:52.280
<v Speaker 1>there and that's and that's the end of the relationship.

0:42:52.360 --> 0:42:55.160
<v Speaker 1>That's it always quiet. I'm that's no now it's a

0:42:55.200 --> 0:42:56.680
<v Speaker 1>fight if I see you now and you left me

0:42:56.760 --> 0:42:59.959
<v Speaker 1>in a foreign place, bro because I remember my family

0:43:00.000 --> 0:43:03.600
<v Speaker 1>not a vacation with her boyfriend and they actually and

0:43:03.960 --> 0:43:05.719
<v Speaker 1>they were in Jamaica and they got into a huge

0:43:05.800 --> 0:43:07.399
<v Speaker 1>by instant words because you know, it's how it didn't

0:43:07.440 --> 0:43:10.280
<v Speaker 1>make those long distance out of the country calls and everything.

0:43:10.520 --> 0:43:12.080
<v Speaker 1>And she kept calling me. I was liked, girl, stop

0:43:12.160 --> 0:43:14.040
<v Speaker 1>calling me. Your phone was gonna be crazy. But it

0:43:14.160 --> 0:43:15.879
<v Speaker 1>was awful of her because I'm not the country. I'm

0:43:15.920 --> 0:43:18.880
<v Speaker 1>with this guy that I'm not getting along with. Bang Stephanie,

0:43:18.920 --> 0:43:21.759
<v Speaker 1>what do you think about vacations? Well, for me, I

0:43:21.920 --> 0:43:25.440
<v Speaker 1>mean when I first when I first became single three

0:43:25.520 --> 0:43:28.640
<v Speaker 1>years ago, I I kind of burnt myself out. I

0:43:28.840 --> 0:43:35.240
<v Speaker 1>traveled the whole world from like Japan, Tokyo, the islands,

0:43:38.160 --> 0:43:44.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, Like it was like, yeah, I traveled so much,

0:43:44.719 --> 0:43:47.520
<v Speaker 1>So at this point, I just I don't want to

0:43:47.600 --> 0:43:51.320
<v Speaker 1>travel with anybody unless it's my friends, my girlfriends, or

0:43:51.440 --> 0:43:54.320
<v Speaker 1>somebody i'm really in love with. Like, I don't trust

0:43:54.360 --> 0:43:56.719
<v Speaker 1>any of these guys. They get on my nerves as

0:43:56.760 --> 0:43:59.759
<v Speaker 1>soon as I get on the airplane that I'm like,

0:43:59.800 --> 0:44:03.440
<v Speaker 1>they're crazy. So for my guys, definitely, no, I swear

0:44:03.640 --> 0:44:05.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't. I just rather like, let's just go on

0:44:05.560 --> 0:44:07.520
<v Speaker 1>a local date. I don't want to travel with anyone.

0:44:07.760 --> 0:44:10.120
<v Speaker 1>I can't go on vacations with guys that I'm just

0:44:10.320 --> 0:44:13.680
<v Speaker 1>getting to know because nine out of ten times, again

0:44:13.719 --> 0:44:15.359
<v Speaker 1>on my nerves and I end up buying. This has

0:44:15.360 --> 0:44:17.680
<v Speaker 1>happened to me several times. I end up getting my

0:44:17.760 --> 0:44:20.400
<v Speaker 1>own room and spending just as much money as they

0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:22.680
<v Speaker 1>spent to bring me out. So so what was the point?

0:44:23.040 --> 0:44:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I remember? One time, I end up by myself. That's

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:27.640
<v Speaker 1>what happens. One time I was had this chip plan

0:44:27.760 --> 0:44:30.680
<v Speaker 1>with my ex boyfriend and we were going away and

0:44:30.760 --> 0:44:32.320
<v Speaker 1>I knew I didn't want to be with him anymore,

0:44:32.360 --> 0:44:35.239
<v Speaker 1>but the CHIP was planned for like five months, so

0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:37.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to break up with him before the trip.

0:44:37.800 --> 0:44:39.879
<v Speaker 1>I actually was like, I'm a way till after because

0:44:39.920 --> 0:44:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I felt like that would be kind of wrong. He

0:44:41.200 --> 0:44:43.520
<v Speaker 1>couldn't do nothing with my flight, So we went on

0:44:43.560 --> 0:44:45.000
<v Speaker 1>the trip. Every night, I made sure he got so

0:44:45.120 --> 0:44:46.600
<v Speaker 1>drunk that he passed out so I didn't have to

0:44:46.640 --> 0:44:50.680
<v Speaker 1>have sex with him. Damn it was. Yeah, it was off,

0:44:50.880 --> 0:44:53.560
<v Speaker 1>but actually I didn't have a bad time. I didn't

0:44:53.600 --> 0:44:54.799
<v Speaker 1>have a bad time. It was funny. And then as

0:44:54.840 --> 0:44:56.600
<v Speaker 1>soon as we got back, I just stopped dating him.

0:44:56.880 --> 0:44:59.840
<v Speaker 1>But the only reason I did it was because I

0:45:00.760 --> 0:45:03.400
<v Speaker 1>you're going this vacation, I'm up every night. You're not

0:45:03.400 --> 0:45:09.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna get no pussy's over. I only did it because

0:45:09.040 --> 0:45:10.400
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to ruin it because I knew what

0:45:10.520 --> 0:45:11.920
<v Speaker 1>you couldn't even put it on him with the sun,

0:45:12.040 --> 0:45:15.040
<v Speaker 1>with the sun coming up, like you don't want it.

0:45:16.360 --> 0:45:18.960
<v Speaker 1>But that's what I'm saying, Like like I've been on vacations,

0:45:19.040 --> 0:45:21.880
<v Speaker 1>Like I've been on vacations with ex boyfriends, trying to

0:45:22.239 --> 0:45:24.759
<v Speaker 1>work it out, trying to make it better, and it

0:45:24.920 --> 0:45:27.279
<v Speaker 1>just makes it worse and I just end up. What

0:45:27.400 --> 0:45:29.840
<v Speaker 1>happens with me is we'll be on the resort and

0:45:29.960 --> 0:45:31.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll leave your way as to hang out with like

0:45:31.600 --> 0:45:34.680
<v Speaker 1>the people who work at the resort and didn't workers exactly,

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:38.239
<v Speaker 1>I like at the all inclusive bar by my I

0:45:38.320 --> 0:45:40.560
<v Speaker 1>actually went on vacation with one of my exployments. It

0:45:40.640 --> 0:45:43.680
<v Speaker 1>was his mind's fiftieth birthday. Was a family trip and

0:45:43.800 --> 0:45:45.480
<v Speaker 1>we ended up getting into it. Me and him ended

0:45:45.520 --> 0:45:48.399
<v Speaker 1>up getting into it. It doesn't work, and I went

0:45:48.440 --> 0:45:51.000
<v Speaker 1>and got my own room. That's what happens with me.

0:45:51.200 --> 0:45:53.520
<v Speaker 1>That's exactly what happens to me. I'm totally but at

0:45:53.600 --> 0:45:56.200
<v Speaker 1>this point, like I'm totally unmoved with traveling, Like it's

0:45:56.280 --> 0:45:59.040
<v Speaker 1>it's like I've been everywhere already. But that's why I

0:45:59.120 --> 0:46:01.200
<v Speaker 1>feel like a when it's important to me sure you

0:46:01.280 --> 0:46:03.080
<v Speaker 1>have enough money that if you need to have to

0:46:03.160 --> 0:46:06.680
<v Speaker 1>get your flight, you're able to do that. That's important.

0:46:07.320 --> 0:46:09.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm very grateful that I always did have the money.

0:46:10.360 --> 0:46:12.279
<v Speaker 1>You have to make sure that you're okay so that

0:46:12.360 --> 0:46:14.600
<v Speaker 1>if things don't work out or whatever. But I do

0:46:14.719 --> 0:46:16.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like if you accept a trip from a guy,

0:46:17.360 --> 0:46:19.719
<v Speaker 1>that there is some type of expectation that goes with that.

0:46:19.920 --> 0:46:22.239
<v Speaker 1>Right if you're paying for my flight and you're paying

0:46:22.320 --> 0:46:23.719
<v Speaker 1>from my room and all of that and we're going

0:46:23.760 --> 0:46:27.640
<v Speaker 1>away together. We plan to have sex with you. We're

0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:30.399
<v Speaker 1>going to share now that you have to. But that's

0:46:30.440 --> 0:46:33.360
<v Speaker 1>the expectation that comes along with the whole situation. Like

0:46:33.400 --> 0:46:34.840
<v Speaker 1>if I don't want to as to you, I shouldn't

0:46:34.840 --> 0:46:37.000
<v Speaker 1>be going on a trip with you that you like.

0:46:37.120 --> 0:46:39.320
<v Speaker 1>I can't really think of a time that I traveled

0:46:39.400 --> 0:46:42.279
<v Speaker 1>with a man and I didn't bust it for him

0:46:42.320 --> 0:46:48.160
<v Speaker 1>one time. I can't. I can't bust Most of the

0:46:48.320 --> 0:46:52.040
<v Speaker 1>traveling that I've done, fortunately, has been with the same person.

0:46:53.200 --> 0:46:57.200
<v Speaker 1>That's good. Yeah, and you've been on a lot of

0:46:57.239 --> 0:47:02.040
<v Speaker 1>those trips, um and we were like in a real

0:47:02.520 --> 0:47:05.360
<v Speaker 1>relationship and we would like have our little arguments, but

0:47:05.400 --> 0:47:06.800
<v Speaker 1>it was never to the point where I felt like

0:47:08.640 --> 0:47:12.920
<v Speaker 1>getting out with the yah. Yeah yeah, yeah, I've actually

0:47:12.960 --> 0:47:16.680
<v Speaker 1>made friends with a lot of us. Yeah, well, because

0:47:16.719 --> 0:47:19.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm always I'm too. I've only I've only gone on

0:47:19.600 --> 0:47:21.839
<v Speaker 1>a few trips with guys with boyfriends, and it's been

0:47:21.880 --> 0:47:23.680
<v Speaker 1>and it's always been great. If we get into an argument,

0:47:23.719 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 1>we get into a fight, i'd be making friends with

0:47:25.239 --> 0:47:31.680
<v Speaker 1>the rest. You want to act up air and it's

0:47:31.719 --> 0:47:34.919
<v Speaker 1>gonna be Carlo has been holding you down all day.

0:47:35.600 --> 0:47:37.560
<v Speaker 1>If you if you have a boyfriend and you guys

0:47:37.600 --> 0:47:39.560
<v Speaker 1>planning a vacation together. Do you think that he has

0:47:39.600 --> 0:47:41.920
<v Speaker 1>to pay for you? Yeah? Or do you can you

0:47:41.960 --> 0:47:45.000
<v Speaker 1>pay for yourself? I mean it depends if he's planning

0:47:45.040 --> 0:47:46.919
<v Speaker 1>the trip. He yeah, if he's planning. If I planned

0:47:46.920 --> 0:47:49.319
<v Speaker 1>a trip, I'm paying for this, my treet. I am right, yes,

0:47:49.680 --> 0:47:52.040
<v Speaker 1>But if he planned that, babe, we should go to yes,

0:47:52.120 --> 0:47:55.879
<v Speaker 1>baby to pay for that's how. Yeah. And I've done

0:47:55.920 --> 0:47:58.080
<v Speaker 1>that for guys. I've done that, you know, I take

0:47:58.239 --> 0:48:00.360
<v Speaker 1>up No, I'm lyne. I took a guy to my Miami.

0:48:00.480 --> 0:48:04.360
<v Speaker 1>That's not for real, right, I was funny, what's funny

0:48:04.840 --> 0:48:10.560
<v Speaker 1>taking let's let's let's not even Puerto Rico. But this

0:48:10.719 --> 0:48:13.040
<v Speaker 1>is the funny part is I took then into Miami

0:48:13.360 --> 0:48:18.560
<v Speaker 1>and it was Memorial Day weekend, so I never you know,

0:48:18.680 --> 0:48:21.000
<v Speaker 1>I took him to Miami and we started arguing it

0:48:21.120 --> 0:48:23.000
<v Speaker 1>was my trip. I took him. I paid for the room,

0:48:23.040 --> 0:48:25.759
<v Speaker 1>I paid for his flight, you know whatever. He was

0:48:25.800 --> 0:48:28.800
<v Speaker 1>paying for dinners or whatever. But we got into an argument.

0:48:28.880 --> 0:48:31.000
<v Speaker 1>It's Miami, man, I know a lot of people. You

0:48:31.040 --> 0:48:33.560
<v Speaker 1>don't want to with me in Miami. Yeah, So I

0:48:33.680 --> 0:48:37.200
<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, I don't know about exactly made

0:48:37.800 --> 0:48:39.880
<v Speaker 1>to get picked up on the boat. You yeah, like

0:48:40.440 --> 0:48:43.360
<v Speaker 1>like I had us saying at the Dream Hotel. You

0:48:43.400 --> 0:48:45.960
<v Speaker 1>know that's regular. I made one phone call. I had

0:48:46.000 --> 0:48:48.360
<v Speaker 1>a room at the Montreal that I did not pay for.

0:48:48.840 --> 0:48:51.160
<v Speaker 1>Like I was like, you know, I know so many people,

0:48:51.239 --> 0:48:55.239
<v Speaker 1>and he was he was by himself. He was living

0:48:55.280 --> 0:48:58.320
<v Speaker 1>a dream at the Dream Home too, calling me and

0:48:58.400 --> 0:49:00.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm like with my whole girls and me, I'm like, nigga,

0:49:01.120 --> 0:49:03.400
<v Speaker 1>take your guys back to New York. Anybody gets time

0:49:03.480 --> 0:49:05.600
<v Speaker 1>figure and you're welcome, by the way, because yeah, but

0:49:05.880 --> 0:49:08.279
<v Speaker 1>like if you said yeah, you're you're welcome, now you

0:49:08.360 --> 0:49:12.640
<v Speaker 1>gotta stand saying because you're welcome. But you know, I agree,

0:49:12.719 --> 0:49:15.120
<v Speaker 1>like if you if he's playing a trip, he should

0:49:15.120 --> 0:49:16.960
<v Speaker 1>pay for everything. Maybe you could pay for a dinner

0:49:17.160 --> 0:49:19.359
<v Speaker 1>or something, or maybe buy him a nice gift while

0:49:19.360 --> 0:49:21.600
<v Speaker 1>you traveling. I went that though, because if you pay

0:49:21.640 --> 0:49:23.920
<v Speaker 1>for everything, then yes, I'll pay for like the dinner

0:49:25.520 --> 0:49:29.680
<v Speaker 1>even or for shopping. I'll buy you something like something cute,

0:49:29.880 --> 0:49:34.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, something romantic, something soul. Gifts are always a

0:49:34.719 --> 0:49:38.120
<v Speaker 1>good likeing for guy. It's the little things that can

0:49:38.360 --> 0:49:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm a gift giver. Yeah, me too, me too. A

0:49:41.239 --> 0:49:43.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of women are more are very giving. But could

0:49:43.680 --> 0:49:45.680
<v Speaker 1>you date a guy who wasn't a gift giver? No?

0:49:48.080 --> 0:49:50.360
<v Speaker 1>No hesitation? Well no, because I put a lot of

0:49:50.360 --> 0:49:52.320
<v Speaker 1>thought into what a guy likes. What you like, what

0:49:52.480 --> 0:49:54.880
<v Speaker 1>you certain certain small things, what you the kind of

0:49:54.920 --> 0:49:56.560
<v Speaker 1>food you eat, how you know what mean, the kind

0:49:56.560 --> 0:49:58.640
<v Speaker 1>of things, that kind of drinks you. I'm paying attention

0:49:58.680 --> 0:50:01.400
<v Speaker 1>to what you like. It's all encompassing for me. So

0:50:01.520 --> 0:50:03.520
<v Speaker 1>if I'm taking the time out to do that and

0:50:03.640 --> 0:50:05.600
<v Speaker 1>really be attentive to that, you need to do the

0:50:05.600 --> 0:50:07.880
<v Speaker 1>same thing. It's amazing how many guys can say that

0:50:07.920 --> 0:50:10.080
<v Speaker 1>they've never been in a relationship where they really had

0:50:10.120 --> 0:50:12.840
<v Speaker 1>to go above and beyond. Like I've come across a

0:50:12.880 --> 0:50:15.040
<v Speaker 1>lot of guys who have been like, well, I've never

0:50:15.120 --> 0:50:17.000
<v Speaker 1>had to do anything like this for girlfriends that I've

0:50:17.040 --> 0:50:20.080
<v Speaker 1>had before. I don't really know how to do certain things.

0:50:20.200 --> 0:50:22.440
<v Speaker 1>That's when you teach them. Yeah, And they'll say, you

0:50:22.520 --> 0:50:24.279
<v Speaker 1>have to teach me, And I don't really want to

0:50:24.360 --> 0:50:26.320
<v Speaker 1>teach anybody. I do mind, I don't. I don't like

0:50:26.440 --> 0:50:29.200
<v Speaker 1>teaching anything. I feel like it's just why I like

0:50:29.360 --> 0:50:31.759
<v Speaker 1>dating guys to tell you what you need to do.

0:50:32.080 --> 0:50:34.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm not mad at the teaching me neither, Like I

0:50:34.040 --> 0:50:36.040
<v Speaker 1>feel like it's something you as a woman, You're always

0:50:36.080 --> 0:50:40.040
<v Speaker 1>going to have to teach the man something. And always,

0:50:40.160 --> 0:50:41.880
<v Speaker 1>even if you think somebody that's older, you're gonna have

0:50:41.960 --> 0:50:44.560
<v Speaker 1>to retrain and unlearn whatever the last bit did. And

0:50:44.600 --> 0:50:46.360
<v Speaker 1>then if it's a younger guy, you gotta really you

0:50:46.440 --> 0:50:48.560
<v Speaker 1>gotta no no better. I got to help him out.

0:50:49.320 --> 0:50:51.000
<v Speaker 1>That's what I like about dating older guys is that

0:50:51.040 --> 0:50:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I never have to teach them how to eat my pussy.

0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:55.640
<v Speaker 1>They always already know. But everybody likes and we talked

0:50:55.640 --> 0:50:59.120
<v Speaker 1>about this. We all like different things. I feel like, yeah,

0:50:59.160 --> 0:51:00.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, I like a little if I like to

0:51:00.640 --> 0:51:03.800
<v Speaker 1>get stuck, I don't like to. I don't like. I

0:51:03.840 --> 0:51:05.799
<v Speaker 1>don't like. You're the only person I know who likes

0:51:05.840 --> 0:51:09.279
<v Speaker 1>tea and know. But you know, I like I like

0:51:09.520 --> 0:51:12.399
<v Speaker 1>um like for me, like my my clip is really

0:51:12.520 --> 0:51:23.799
<v Speaker 1>like the guys having a dentist in your pus. It's

0:51:23.880 --> 0:51:27.440
<v Speaker 1>just a but like my clip is like really hidden,

0:51:27.520 --> 0:51:29.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, Like I have a all clip. Like my

0:51:30.000 --> 0:51:32.960
<v Speaker 1>pussy is fat, but in the inside everything is like micro.

0:51:33.440 --> 0:51:36.759
<v Speaker 1>Everything is so small on the inside, so like I

0:51:36.880 --> 0:51:41.000
<v Speaker 1>need some pressure I need roughness to feel it looks like.

0:51:42.080 --> 0:51:47.200
<v Speaker 1>I take pictures of it. I take pictures and you

0:51:47.280 --> 0:51:48.920
<v Speaker 1>send them to people. No, I just want to know

0:51:49.000 --> 0:51:50.600
<v Speaker 1>what it looks like like if I'm having a good

0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:53.160
<v Speaker 1>day or something happens if I'm home, and because I mean,

0:51:53.239 --> 0:51:56.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm a good day pussy shot. I mean I'm

0:51:56.400 --> 0:51:59.440
<v Speaker 1>a frequent I'm a frequent masturbator. Whether I'm every day,

0:52:02.040 --> 0:52:05.440
<v Speaker 1>your nails, there's no where to lose the vibrators of

0:52:05.520 --> 0:52:08.120
<v Speaker 1>all but my fingers are long, so we get a

0:52:08.200 --> 0:52:13.560
<v Speaker 1>lot done done. My nails actually work out very well

0:52:13.760 --> 0:52:16.000
<v Speaker 1>because the gen you get to that spot, there's a

0:52:16.040 --> 0:52:19.320
<v Speaker 1>spot that's like right underneath and the water spot the

0:52:19.480 --> 0:52:22.359
<v Speaker 1>water spot, and you get right underneath when you get

0:52:22.400 --> 0:52:25.880
<v Speaker 1>inside the it just it touches a little gentle with myself.

0:52:25.920 --> 0:52:30.799
<v Speaker 1>So it works out well. I'm when my nails, Yeah,

0:52:30.840 --> 0:52:33.080
<v Speaker 1>like I take I take it. I'm like I've done

0:52:33.120 --> 0:52:35.120
<v Speaker 1>it with the camera to see like that it looks like.

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Because also the other part of it is too. If

0:52:37.120 --> 0:52:39.080
<v Speaker 1>I ever come across the guy that doesn't know my

0:52:39.200 --> 0:52:41.000
<v Speaker 1>body makeup, I want to I wanna be able. I

0:52:41.040 --> 0:52:43.040
<v Speaker 1>gotta be able to tell you what it be like, okay,

0:52:44.800 --> 0:52:48.399
<v Speaker 1>a diagram to the right of that, Like, I'm gonna

0:52:48.400 --> 0:52:50.840
<v Speaker 1>be able to give you accurate directions on how to

0:52:51.400 --> 0:52:53.040
<v Speaker 1>how to please. You're gonna take some pictures of my

0:52:53.160 --> 0:52:57.440
<v Speaker 1>vagina lytiate you don't even need to take handmera and

0:52:57.600 --> 0:53:05.279
<v Speaker 1>just had spread it around. Yeah, yeah, I know if

0:53:05.320 --> 0:53:09.120
<v Speaker 1>my vagina was like again, I know stephan he does

0:53:09.200 --> 0:53:12.880
<v Speaker 1>because she showed us like, oh pretty much putty looked yesterday.

0:53:13.000 --> 0:53:15.000
<v Speaker 1>I spent a lot of time for my life naked,

0:53:15.200 --> 0:53:17.839
<v Speaker 1>so I kind of have a visio of like, yeah,

0:53:18.200 --> 0:53:20.920
<v Speaker 1>so you don't have pictures though, of your vagina. I

0:53:21.000 --> 0:53:25.000
<v Speaker 1>don't keep that type of stuff. I don't have my

0:53:25.120 --> 0:53:27.200
<v Speaker 1>phone at it. But I'm not keeping don't I've lost

0:53:27.239 --> 0:53:29.680
<v Speaker 1>too many phones that have like pictures of my naked body.

0:53:29.800 --> 0:53:31.920
<v Speaker 1>But I will say this, but so what because if

0:53:31.960 --> 0:53:34.200
<v Speaker 1>your face isn't in it, who can Well, yeah, that's straight.

0:53:34.480 --> 0:53:39.160
<v Speaker 1>Well you know what I have. I have. I I

0:53:39.280 --> 0:53:41.759
<v Speaker 1>have a I don't really want to call it traumatizing,

0:53:42.080 --> 0:53:45.400
<v Speaker 1>but I've gotten myself into a situation a few years

0:53:45.480 --> 0:53:49.200
<v Speaker 1>back where I had this one picture of myself that

0:53:49.320 --> 0:53:51.640
<v Speaker 1>I had taken at the strip club and it was

0:53:51.840 --> 0:53:54.439
<v Speaker 1>so bombed that I sent it to like every guy,

0:53:56.160 --> 0:53:59.360
<v Speaker 1>and um, you know, niggas talk more than bitches and

0:53:59.400 --> 0:54:02.279
<v Speaker 1>they like the bragg and ship. So this guy is

0:54:02.400 --> 0:54:04.560
<v Speaker 1>like going through pictures in his phone and showing people.

0:54:04.719 --> 0:54:08.560
<v Speaker 1>And he showed my boyfriend. Oh my god, bro, that's terrible.

0:54:08.960 --> 0:54:12.120
<v Speaker 1>He showed my boy to him. Yeah, that's one thing

0:54:12.160 --> 0:54:16.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't do. I don't send a real serious well

0:54:16.960 --> 0:54:20.759
<v Speaker 1>guess what. There was a photo exactly and guess you

0:54:20.840 --> 0:54:23.439
<v Speaker 1>can guess what. Ever, since then, I have not said

0:54:23.480 --> 0:54:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I haven't even sent him a picture of my job.

0:54:25.680 --> 0:54:27.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. When camera phones first came out,

0:54:27.880 --> 0:54:31.840
<v Speaker 1>I used to send pictures and get pictures to everybody. Everybody.

0:54:31.960 --> 0:54:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh I have a next cell with a camera phone.

0:54:34.280 --> 0:54:36.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm sending naked pictures to everyone. I'm away to parent

0:54:36.880 --> 0:54:43.080
<v Speaker 1>and this now forget it, now you come back. OK.

0:54:43.320 --> 0:54:45.680
<v Speaker 1>The thing, there's no bad naked pictures of me out there,

0:54:45.719 --> 0:54:48.680
<v Speaker 1>a man, That's what I'm talking about. Like, you know what,

0:54:48.960 --> 0:54:52.680
<v Speaker 1>nobody sends bad naked pictures that he picture you getting

0:54:52.680 --> 0:54:54.440
<v Speaker 1>a full front of you, get cakes on the side.

0:54:54.480 --> 0:54:56.000
<v Speaker 1>You're getting a little that little v cut in the

0:54:57.640 --> 0:54:59.560
<v Speaker 1>hell that might actually listen. We don't know how we

0:54:59.600 --> 0:55:01.839
<v Speaker 1>can sell a couple of and I don't always tell

0:55:01.880 --> 0:55:03.799
<v Speaker 1>my facetip. But I've had too many tattoos to say

0:55:03.840 --> 0:55:06.000
<v Speaker 1>it's not me. So I just don't take naked pictures

0:55:06.200 --> 0:55:08.160
<v Speaker 1>well for me, Like when, like I said, a couple

0:55:08.200 --> 0:55:10.080
<v Speaker 1>of years ago, I used to send them out, but

0:55:10.280 --> 0:55:21.440
<v Speaker 1>now today President Day, Yeah, everybody want to see that. No,

0:55:21.880 --> 0:55:24.719
<v Speaker 1>but now like it's it's like pulling teeth together to

0:55:24.760 --> 0:55:27.480
<v Speaker 1>send you even even you want to see me, baby,

0:55:27.520 --> 0:55:31.000
<v Speaker 1>just call me in FaceTime. FaceTime. You can't get me

0:55:31.280 --> 0:55:33.239
<v Speaker 1>a picture on my face for me to say. You

0:55:33.280 --> 0:55:35.279
<v Speaker 1>pose the question though, because this was a conversation I

0:55:35.360 --> 0:55:37.080
<v Speaker 1>had and I actually went on the snapchat ran about

0:55:38.200 --> 0:55:42.400
<v Speaker 1>a friend of mine perpetually gets dick pis. Oh I

0:55:42.480 --> 0:55:46.279
<v Speaker 1>think dick picks are so tacky. I asked for it

0:55:46.480 --> 0:55:48.480
<v Speaker 1>because here's the thing. I'm not like, I'm a I'm

0:55:48.480 --> 0:55:49.960
<v Speaker 1>a little bit, I'm a I'm a freak, but I'm

0:55:49.960 --> 0:55:52.040
<v Speaker 1>not a pervert. So I'm not gonna look at your

0:55:52.280 --> 0:55:57.680
<v Speaker 1>at your like for a filtered dick. And that's the word, Like,

0:55:58.360 --> 0:56:01.880
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I'm so on the dick picky. This

0:56:02.040 --> 0:56:03.480
<v Speaker 1>is a problem. The only problem I have a dick

0:56:03.520 --> 0:56:06.719
<v Speaker 1>picks is a if I'm not even never had sex

0:56:06.800 --> 0:56:08.480
<v Speaker 1>with you, never did anything, you send a dick pick.

0:56:08.520 --> 0:56:10.560
<v Speaker 1>I have a problem with that because I didn't ask

0:56:10.600 --> 0:56:14.160
<v Speaker 1>you to send this, okay, and thinking other girls probably

0:56:14.200 --> 0:56:16.680
<v Speaker 1>have this one or one of the spade, because you

0:56:16.840 --> 0:56:19.960
<v Speaker 1>know this is the picture, you know you said you

0:56:20.000 --> 0:56:23.080
<v Speaker 1>sent it to everybody else, And then I don't need

0:56:23.200 --> 0:56:26.319
<v Speaker 1>an Ashley dick pick. You put some motion on that ship.

0:56:26.520 --> 0:56:28.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to dick pick at all. I don't

0:56:28.160 --> 0:56:30.239
<v Speaker 1>want to. Don't mind dick picks. I don't mind either

0:56:30.280 --> 0:56:32.680
<v Speaker 1>if I ask you, I don't want it. I wish

0:56:32.719 --> 0:56:34.359
<v Speaker 1>I wish my man could send me a dick pick

0:56:34.400 --> 0:56:36.400
<v Speaker 1>from jail. I don't want to dick picks, so I

0:56:36.440 --> 0:56:39.640
<v Speaker 1>don't want to selfie. I don't want any picks. I

0:56:39.640 --> 0:56:42.600
<v Speaker 1>don't Penises can be beautiful. I think so too. I

0:56:42.640 --> 0:56:44.360
<v Speaker 1>think they are two, but they're beautiful in my vagina

0:56:44.440 --> 0:56:49.160
<v Speaker 1>and in my mouth. Thank you. You don't want to

0:56:49.160 --> 0:56:51.719
<v Speaker 1>see a picture of your man's penis? No, sorry, but

0:56:51.800 --> 0:56:53.920
<v Speaker 1>the iPhone now is not going to do a man's

0:56:53.960 --> 0:56:56.120
<v Speaker 1>penis any justice. I'm thinking, at the length of this,

0:56:56.239 --> 0:56:58.840
<v Speaker 1>this is ten megapixel camera. We're doing no type of

0:56:58.880 --> 0:57:00.640
<v Speaker 1>magic with this phone right here. Now, I've seen some

0:57:00.760 --> 0:57:04.120
<v Speaker 1>nice dick picks. I'm not I've seen some nice ones soon.

0:57:04.600 --> 0:57:06.960
<v Speaker 1>That doesn't mean I want But the worst thing is

0:57:07.080 --> 0:57:12.520
<v Speaker 1>when a guy is just randomly send you like you

0:57:13.680 --> 0:57:15.160
<v Speaker 1>know what the worst is if a guy sends you

0:57:15.160 --> 0:57:17.720
<v Speaker 1>a dick pick and you don't say nothing, that's what

0:57:17.840 --> 0:57:20.360
<v Speaker 1>I'll do. I was like, and then he hits you like, um,

0:57:20.400 --> 0:57:25.520
<v Speaker 1>did you get so? You know? I got that? Sad?

0:57:25.920 --> 0:57:28.720
<v Speaker 1>You know what's the word? So of a guy? A

0:57:28.800 --> 0:57:30.520
<v Speaker 1>guy's like, send me a picture and you send him

0:57:30.520 --> 0:57:31.960
<v Speaker 1>like a cute little selfie and he sent you a

0:57:32.040 --> 0:57:34.480
<v Speaker 1>dick pick back, and you just be like, how are

0:57:34.480 --> 0:57:36.720
<v Speaker 1>you taking it? There? You send you a dick pick

0:57:36.800 --> 0:57:38.280
<v Speaker 1>that you don't want to hit him back and be like, hey,

0:57:38.400 --> 0:57:42.640
<v Speaker 1>this is Bridget's boyfriend. You know what's mad uncomfortable is

0:57:42.960 --> 0:57:44.960
<v Speaker 1>if it's like on cute, like damn nig you was

0:57:45.040 --> 0:57:47.240
<v Speaker 1>cute up like you're hard ready to go for right

0:57:48.280 --> 0:57:52.680
<v Speaker 1>because when the archives I was sexing you about the

0:57:52.720 --> 0:57:57.560
<v Speaker 1>same football, you can't pick you can't. But that's what

0:57:57.600 --> 0:58:00.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. If it's unwarranted, So what you're doing over

0:58:00.160 --> 0:58:01.919
<v Speaker 1>there and we weren't even in this in this type

0:58:01.960 --> 0:58:04.240
<v Speaker 1>of conversation, and you just let you live over there

0:58:04.280 --> 0:58:06.800
<v Speaker 1>by yourself. I'm gonna question you a little bit. Probably

0:58:07.120 --> 0:58:10.600
<v Speaker 1>it was an oldie in the archives he had that

0:58:10.680 --> 0:58:12.920
<v Speaker 1>we made too much information, like I didn't need to

0:58:12.960 --> 0:58:14.640
<v Speaker 1>know you had a hard but I feel like, you know,

0:58:14.760 --> 0:58:18.840
<v Speaker 1>he took twelve of um listen, we're selfie queens, at

0:58:18.960 --> 0:58:22.720
<v Speaker 1>least twelve here on the couch. Like you think about

0:58:22.800 --> 0:58:26.200
<v Speaker 1>him with snap snap snaps. I don't know. It's always

0:58:26.240 --> 0:58:27.960
<v Speaker 1>an warranted though. It's always when you don't ask for

0:58:28.000 --> 0:58:29.200
<v Speaker 1>it that the guy want to send it because he

0:58:29.240 --> 0:58:30.840
<v Speaker 1>don't want to. It's just kind of like, let me

0:58:30.880 --> 0:58:32.040
<v Speaker 1>just let you know where my head is. But I'm

0:58:32.040 --> 0:58:34.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you what pretty dick swag at Gmail. That

0:58:34.440 --> 0:58:36.080
<v Speaker 1>is the email that I have if you want to

0:58:36.080 --> 0:58:38.160
<v Speaker 1>send pieces of a peanuts and we'll take a look

0:58:38.200 --> 0:58:40.520
<v Speaker 1>at it and analyze it. A lot of people have

0:58:40.600 --> 0:58:44.320
<v Speaker 1>send pictures sometimes and the best thing to do is, yes,

0:58:44.520 --> 0:58:46.160
<v Speaker 1>do something like put something next to it so we

0:58:46.200 --> 0:58:50.840
<v Speaker 1>can get an idea. Like for breeze, can I look

0:58:50.880 --> 0:58:52.600
<v Speaker 1>at every time I look at my remote control? I

0:58:52.640 --> 0:58:54.280
<v Speaker 1>can't look at it the same because I feel like

0:58:54.400 --> 0:58:58.120
<v Speaker 1>God's really used the remote control for the cable and

0:58:58.360 --> 0:59:02.640
<v Speaker 1>the cable to measure their dick. Do you want to

0:59:02.640 --> 0:59:05.320
<v Speaker 1>got to masturbate in front of you? If I have

0:59:05.440 --> 0:59:08.360
<v Speaker 1>my period? Like, how would you? I still think my

0:59:08.440 --> 0:59:11.000
<v Speaker 1>mouth was good. I had. I had a guy masturbate

0:59:11.000 --> 0:59:12.640
<v Speaker 1>in front of me, and it was kind of hot.

0:59:12.680 --> 0:59:14.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, right, it was a little

0:59:14.560 --> 0:59:16.520
<v Speaker 1>hot because he was looking at me, so it was

0:59:16.600 --> 0:59:18.920
<v Speaker 1>like you turn off, So you really you having a

0:59:19.040 --> 0:59:21.560
<v Speaker 1>moment and what were you doing? What I was just

0:59:21.680 --> 0:59:24.440
<v Speaker 1>I was just talking nasty to him, like asking him

0:59:24.440 --> 0:59:26.080
<v Speaker 1>and it was work. It worked. It was that sounds

0:59:26.080 --> 0:59:29.840
<v Speaker 1>like a good time. That sounds like it's the ultimate

0:59:29.880 --> 0:59:32.280
<v Speaker 1>confidence booster. I'm just sitting there, like sitting on it's

0:59:32.280 --> 0:59:35.080
<v Speaker 1>just sitting their legs open like pussy dripping, and you

0:59:35.200 --> 0:59:36.760
<v Speaker 1>just there, you just doing your thing and I'm talking

0:59:37.880 --> 0:59:41.720
<v Speaker 1>You're just going come on you? Um no not? Did

0:59:41.760 --> 0:59:44.640
<v Speaker 1>it come? Yeah? And then so you didn't want to

0:59:44.640 --> 0:59:46.320
<v Speaker 1>have sex, you were okay with him, just cool. I

0:59:46.400 --> 0:59:47.920
<v Speaker 1>was cool with that. I wasn't even in the mood

0:59:47.920 --> 0:59:49.720
<v Speaker 1>to have sex. It was what was fine. But but

0:59:49.880 --> 0:59:51.720
<v Speaker 1>all of that nasty talking on that that didn't make

0:59:51.760 --> 0:59:53.560
<v Speaker 1>you in the mood like it did. But at that

0:59:53.680 --> 0:59:55.160
<v Speaker 1>at that moment too though, I just I kind of

0:59:55.240 --> 0:59:57.240
<v Speaker 1>felt like I kind of feel like I kind of

0:59:57.480 --> 0:59:59.720
<v Speaker 1>like like I'm winning right now, like this is my

0:59:59.800 --> 1:00:01.000
<v Speaker 1>moment and I'm a shine for a minute and then

1:00:01.000 --> 1:00:02.400
<v Speaker 1>maybe we'll get back to the later. Yeah, And that

1:00:03.040 --> 1:00:05.280
<v Speaker 1>sounds like a really big turn on. It would be

1:00:05.880 --> 1:00:08.880
<v Speaker 1>for me. Where I'm masturbating and you're masturbating, we're just

1:00:08.960 --> 1:00:11.280
<v Speaker 1>going off. But you also, you can just look at me.

1:00:11.320 --> 1:00:13.400
<v Speaker 1>You don't even have to touch me, and that's enough

1:00:13.440 --> 1:00:15.520
<v Speaker 1>for you. If you sleep, What if you're sleeping and

1:00:15.600 --> 1:00:19.000
<v Speaker 1>he's next to you and you wake up. I've been

1:00:19.080 --> 1:00:22.400
<v Speaker 1>through that where I'm sleeping and my man is like

1:00:22.840 --> 1:00:25.760
<v Speaker 1>touching my ass, jiggling my ass, jerking off, and I

1:00:25.840 --> 1:00:28.320
<v Speaker 1>wake up like, damn, you could have just sucked me right.

1:00:28.440 --> 1:00:30.320
<v Speaker 1>You didn't have to masterate. You couldn't just do all that.

1:00:30.680 --> 1:00:32.400
<v Speaker 1>But he wasn't trying to get in trouble. He had

1:00:32.440 --> 1:00:34.360
<v Speaker 1>he would have had we would have had to believe

1:00:34.440 --> 1:00:36.600
<v Speaker 1>the bed to get the condom and come bad. He

1:00:36.720 --> 1:00:39.440
<v Speaker 1>was doing a lot in the middle of the night. Yes,

1:00:39.520 --> 1:00:42.640
<v Speaker 1>and sometimes guys masturbate because it's easier. They don't feel

1:00:42.640 --> 1:00:44.320
<v Speaker 1>like going do all the trouble at having sex. They

1:00:44.400 --> 1:00:46.400
<v Speaker 1>just want to come real fast and not have to

1:00:46.480 --> 1:00:51.480
<v Speaker 1>please you. That's selfish. But if you're I don't mind,

1:00:51.840 --> 1:00:53.680
<v Speaker 1>wake me up, hit me and hit with the dick

1:00:54.200 --> 1:01:02.000
<v Speaker 1>likes somebody hit me in the head like a guy

1:01:02.040 --> 1:01:03.640
<v Speaker 1>slapping in the face with this. You know I'm not

1:01:03.720 --> 1:01:06.880
<v Speaker 1>here for that. I'll be feeling away like like do

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<v Speaker 1>you think this is we're doing a porn Like? What

1:01:09.160 --> 1:01:11.760
<v Speaker 1>do you think it's a little just feel good, It's

1:01:11.880 --> 1:01:14.800
<v Speaker 1>very It is just like not like I know you

1:01:15.200 --> 1:01:17.760
<v Speaker 1>saying your dick I say, I wasn't saying that's what

1:01:17.880 --> 1:01:19.640
<v Speaker 1>I want. I'm just saying, do what you gotta do

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<v Speaker 1>to wake me up, niga, because you know what, I'm

1:01:21.560 --> 1:01:23.080
<v Speaker 1>not gonna like. I don't let a lot of sit in.

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<v Speaker 1>Just slide in, bro, just sliding. I just post up

1:01:27.840 --> 1:01:33.160
<v Speaker 1>like old make it wet, like you're listening waking up

1:01:33.200 --> 1:01:36.680
<v Speaker 1>to penis? Is it really really waking up to dick

1:01:36.720 --> 1:01:40.920
<v Speaker 1>inside me? Its greatest. If your girl doesn't like to

1:01:40.960 --> 1:01:42.880
<v Speaker 1>wake up to get a new girl, yeah, that's a

1:01:42.960 --> 1:01:46.560
<v Speaker 1>problem because I think I like it even if I'm

1:01:46.560 --> 1:01:48.600
<v Speaker 1>in a bad mood. If we're fighting and you come

1:01:48.680 --> 1:01:51.200
<v Speaker 1>up on me while I'm sleeping, I'm gonna take it,

1:01:51.280 --> 1:01:53.120
<v Speaker 1>and I might a little be mad at you afterwards,

1:01:53.160 --> 1:01:55.400
<v Speaker 1>be hit and was gonna be passed. But I'm absolutely

1:01:55.440 --> 1:01:59.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna you hit this one real quick. I love that

1:02:01.240 --> 1:02:05.320
<v Speaker 1>I gotta get up earlier. Help you precious to me,

1:02:05.400 --> 1:02:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't wake Angela up. I no, no, no, I'm

1:02:07.520 --> 1:02:09.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna say. I have to love you for you to

1:02:09.480 --> 1:02:12.240
<v Speaker 1>feel like that's okay because I sleep like four hours

1:02:12.280 --> 1:02:15.440
<v Speaker 1>a night, right, four things? Yes, So once I fall asleep,

1:02:15.840 --> 1:02:18.560
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be hard, and and don't take it mad long, like,

1:02:18.760 --> 1:02:21.760
<v Speaker 1>don't wake me up and then try to strangle. Won't

1:02:21.800 --> 1:02:24.760
<v Speaker 1>prefer for you to master that's a quickie time. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna wake me up to have sex, please

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<v Speaker 1>let it be five minutes or less because because I

1:02:29.040 --> 1:02:31.480
<v Speaker 1>gotta go back to sleep, I promise you. I'm looking

1:02:31.520 --> 1:02:33.400
<v Speaker 1>at the clock thinking about, like how much more sleep?

1:02:33.440 --> 1:02:37.360
<v Speaker 1>And my I don't mind. I don't mind when when

1:02:37.640 --> 1:02:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend masterbated, he doesn't, but

1:02:40.120 --> 1:02:43.040
<v Speaker 1>I masterbate all the time, and he gets bad. Right,

1:02:43.080 --> 1:02:44.520
<v Speaker 1>you always tell us that he doesn't. I bet you,

1:02:44.560 --> 1:02:47.400
<v Speaker 1>I Jael, he wants you to masturbate, right, Yeah, he's

1:02:47.440 --> 1:02:51.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna be like every day I think on my masterbate

1:02:51.480 --> 1:02:55.960
<v Speaker 1>every day to me to make me sleepy. I did it.

1:02:56.240 --> 1:02:58.240
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I do it late at night, but sometimes I'll

1:02:58.240 --> 1:02:59.920
<v Speaker 1>do it to start my day. When you mask me

1:03:00.000 --> 1:03:03.520
<v Speaker 1>in the morning, it's like waking, bake, and then masturbate

1:03:03.640 --> 1:03:05.280
<v Speaker 1>and then get up and and I wish I would

1:03:05.360 --> 1:03:07.920
<v Speaker 1>get up early enough to masturbate before work. That's not

1:03:08.040 --> 1:03:12.520
<v Speaker 1>happening because I'm always in a rush. By the time

1:03:12.560 --> 1:03:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I wake up. I have to get up every morning

1:03:14.120 --> 1:03:17.440
<v Speaker 1>at four am. That's already hard. So by the time

1:03:17.440 --> 1:03:19.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm always rustling, resting, rushing. You try to get to

1:03:19.440 --> 1:03:22.280
<v Speaker 1>work on time, it's not gonna happen like that. Actually,

1:03:22.320 --> 1:03:24.680
<v Speaker 1>two minutes in the shower or whatever long it takes.

1:03:25.240 --> 1:03:26.920
<v Speaker 1>But you think that when you masturbate it takes you

1:03:27.240 --> 1:03:29.840
<v Speaker 1>a lot quicker to come than when you have sex. Yeah,

1:03:30.280 --> 1:03:33.680
<v Speaker 1>every time you percentage wise, how many times percentage wise

1:03:33.720 --> 1:03:37.040
<v Speaker 1>would you say you come during sex? Um, honestly depends

1:03:37.080 --> 1:03:40.360
<v Speaker 1>on the guy. Do you come from vaginal intercourse? Yeah,

1:03:42.760 --> 1:03:45.360
<v Speaker 1>but there's certain angles, like I gotta be on top. Yeah,

1:03:45.440 --> 1:03:47.400
<v Speaker 1>well I gotta be on top, or I gotta be

1:03:47.560 --> 1:03:49.680
<v Speaker 1>like my leg's gotta be positioned a certain my leg's

1:03:49.720 --> 1:03:51.680
<v Speaker 1>gotta be like closed position a certain way. Like they

1:03:51.760 --> 1:03:53.720
<v Speaker 1>gotta be me too, me too, Like that's kind of

1:03:53.760 --> 1:03:55.560
<v Speaker 1>how that goes, Like because the guy, the last guy

1:03:55.640 --> 1:03:57.600
<v Speaker 1>that I was dealing with, was curved a little, so

1:03:57.720 --> 1:03:59.840
<v Speaker 1>it was like it worked out really well that my

1:04:00.160 --> 1:04:02.000
<v Speaker 1>it just so happens that there's a spot for me

1:04:02.160 --> 1:04:04.680
<v Speaker 1>that works in the exact direction. So if I'm laying

1:04:04.680 --> 1:04:06.240
<v Speaker 1>if I'm laying down and he's just going for it,

1:04:06.600 --> 1:04:09.240
<v Speaker 1>it's it's easy, breezy. And if you can find if

1:04:09.280 --> 1:04:11.520
<v Speaker 1>you can find five minutes ties, yes, if you can

1:04:11.560 --> 1:04:13.080
<v Speaker 1>find a guy that can make you come all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta it's hard to break keep him. Oh my god, girl,

1:04:16.280 --> 1:04:19.720
<v Speaker 1>it's my dream. So glad to back up with a

1:04:19.760 --> 1:04:22.080
<v Speaker 1>guy that can make you come, because there's a lot

1:04:22.120 --> 1:04:24.960
<v Speaker 1>of guys who can't. Who can't it's all mental when

1:04:25.000 --> 1:04:28.240
<v Speaker 1>you it's vaginal up. Know that when you when you

1:04:28.360 --> 1:04:30.400
<v Speaker 1>are having sex with someone, it's different when you when

1:04:30.440 --> 1:04:32.400
<v Speaker 1>somebody's eating the box, it is a lot easier to Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing I can envision I can envision another man

1:04:34.920 --> 1:04:38.680
<v Speaker 1>eating box and were good. But if we're having sex

1:04:38.800 --> 1:04:40.760
<v Speaker 1>and you make me come like that, oh it's over.

1:04:41.000 --> 1:04:43.480
<v Speaker 1>It's quiet. I'm putty in your hand. But you know,

1:04:43.680 --> 1:04:45.320
<v Speaker 1>it's way easier to break up with a guy who's

1:04:45.320 --> 1:04:46.840
<v Speaker 1>not that good and bad they can't make you come.

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<v Speaker 1>You break up with a guy that can. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>guy you keep going back to, because you'd be home,

1:04:51.280 --> 1:04:54.120
<v Speaker 1>you'd be drunk, like you aren't going to be tonight. Come.

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<v Speaker 1>So I come so fast from vaginal inter course I

1:04:59.080 --> 1:05:01.880
<v Speaker 1>wish I did. Yeah, I think it takes my cliters

1:05:01.920 --> 1:05:05.320
<v Speaker 1>works better from the inside than the out, Like it

1:05:05.400 --> 1:05:07.520
<v Speaker 1>takes me like a good twenty minutes to come from

1:05:07.880 --> 1:05:13.200
<v Speaker 1>oral I could be having sex. Vaginal is hidden and

1:05:13.400 --> 1:05:20.800
<v Speaker 1>tiny microtopic. Everything is really small, like you said, it's

1:05:20.920 --> 1:05:25.040
<v Speaker 1>very micro there. But from the inside, I come in

1:05:25.160 --> 1:05:28.360
<v Speaker 1>five minutes. I'm good. What's crazy than when I'm on

1:05:28.520 --> 1:05:30.520
<v Speaker 1>top it's a rub there's a rubbing. There's like a

1:05:30.640 --> 1:05:33.880
<v Speaker 1>friction that happens on the clip while he's inside that ship.

1:05:34.680 --> 1:05:38.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that I think that's when you're on tapp a female.

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<v Speaker 1>Just the angle of that right, And for me, when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on my back and like my legs are pushed

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<v Speaker 1>where my knees are like hitting the bed where is

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<v Speaker 1>tilted up exactly, my pelvis is tilted up like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on my back and my knees are like all the

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<v Speaker 1>way back like held, I feel like I come really Like, Now,

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<v Speaker 1>what if a guy during sexcess to you, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to have a baby with you? Oh? Is that a

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<v Speaker 1>turn on? Our turn off? Oh no, hold on, Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. Me and my man we talk

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<v Speaker 1>about having babies. Who we're having sex all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Ain't no baby's coming out of here all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at you. That's that's but you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that right now I don't want to have another child.

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<v Speaker 1>But during sex, yeah I do come inside you. You

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<v Speaker 1>let him come inside you? Yeah, she'd be, she'd be,

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<v Speaker 1>she'd be with the condom quick though. She like me

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<v Speaker 1>and Ralph definitely have real sex. For sure, we definitely

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<v Speaker 1>have real So you let him come inside for years? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah I've let him come in sign me. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know there's this thing like everybody should know about.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called Plan B. But full three days, I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>to come inside you all the time. Though it's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of Plan B. You know what I'm saying, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Well, then you should just get on the

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<v Speaker 1>pill though you can't take time. I don't let him

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<v Speaker 1>come inside of me all the time. I don't. I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>and and honestly, like it's just not good. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea. But when you're in the heed of

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<v Speaker 1>a moment, at the moment having sex, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>become a come downstairs, you're in love and the sexiest

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<v Speaker 1>man says to you have a baby. I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>were naming the baby? By the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>we were like, but I'm on the pill, and hey,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm saying with this little role, it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to commentside because you're gonna have an abortion,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't. I don't. I've never I've had one abortion,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was because like the pregnancy was I've only

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<v Speaker 1>been pregnant three times. I had my son, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I had a miscarriage and then I had an abortion.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had to have an abortion because I just

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<v Speaker 1>had gotten breasting plans, so the pregnancy was already good.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. You can't have to you can't have

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<v Speaker 1>a baby with person. I had rather away got them

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<v Speaker 1>done while I was pregnant, and I didn't know until

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<v Speaker 1>after they were in my period, my period. I was

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to get my period the day of surgery and

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<v Speaker 1>it um. It never came. So I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you through the because I'm stressed. But then I

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<v Speaker 1>started feeling symptoms, so we took a pargnicy So they

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<v Speaker 1>told you you should have an abortion. Yeah. No, the

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<v Speaker 1>pregnancy ended up being um in my tooth. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a topic. I had that, so I had an abortion.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, like he technically, if if it's a topic,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not an abortion. Yeah, it's an emergency emeruse. I've

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<v Speaker 1>had that. I've had two of those on the pill. Listen, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>this was way back in the day. Yeah, you would

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<v Speaker 1>have had a baby though if you were pregnant. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would have. But I had a

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<v Speaker 1>nice topic pregnancy and I had a felopian super moved.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have one internally like I was in the end.

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<v Speaker 1>It was bad, like I could have died. Yeah, happened

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<v Speaker 1>to me. I haven't been pregnant since it's you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hell and you know you got pregnant, you would, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know he's like he's like, he's like, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I don't. Just don't. No, I'm not on Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not on birth control. Me and him we had

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<v Speaker 1>five years in. We're kind of in a weird place

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I don't know what to call it where

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<v Speaker 1>we are, but we're still having unprotected sex and he's

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<v Speaker 1>still dropping off them babies in my vagina and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get pregnant, but you're on a pill. No, it's meant,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you want to get pregnant, take some vitamins.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to get bregnant. I'm just saying if

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<v Speaker 1>you do, I don't want to get pregnant. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not taking vitamins. I'm not taking birth control. He comes

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<v Speaker 1>in me every time we have sex, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>not been pregnant, and neither one of us want babies.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, man, he's coming inside of me and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh, we'll finish, and he's like, oh, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to look at you, because if

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<v Speaker 1>you have an abortion, I hope be so tight. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, does he know that you take playing b no,

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<v Speaker 1>you eat them things like he doesn't know, he's not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hear this for two years. Oh shit, he doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole body's going about two years. I've never gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do a lip service. And when playing a Stefanie, Hey baby,

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<v Speaker 1>you're selling these dreams. Yes, let's have a baby. What

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<v Speaker 1>are we gonna name it? Ralph Jr. Alright, well, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>Bridget Kelly, thank you so much for joining us for

1:10:23.200 --> 1:10:25.880
<v Speaker 1>lip service, always having me. I always tell people how

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<v Speaker 1>much fun she is to listen, and Andie always I

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<v Speaker 1>know this is fun. We gotta do this because we

1:10:32.479 --> 1:10:34.800
<v Speaker 1>had a lot we on ye. Lip services like the

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<v Speaker 1>ultimate girl talk. It has to be. But I told

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I gotta come on. She did? She

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<v Speaker 1>hit me? She was like can I do? I was like,

1:10:41.680 --> 1:10:43.880
<v Speaker 1>I was like a litten. I was a Bridget Cally.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, if you've ever seen her show, you

1:10:45.560 --> 1:10:49.160
<v Speaker 1>know that she's very raw. But I'm like lyrics imo,

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<v Speaker 1>But I love that. I love But you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to get listen. There's not enough people that tell

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<v Speaker 1>the truth, and the majority of the time when the

1:10:55.760 --> 1:10:59.080
<v Speaker 1>people do tell the truth, everybody gets scared offended. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you gonna get back to get X. No, no, no, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. I don't think you know what

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<v Speaker 1>what you know what for we were together for four years.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really really hard. He's as far as I'm concerned, though,

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<v Speaker 1>he's the one that got away. You know, everybody got

1:11:16.920 --> 1:11:18.800
<v Speaker 1>that one. That's like, damn, I wish I could have

1:11:18.840 --> 1:11:21.240
<v Speaker 1>made a couple of different decisions, maybe moved a little differently.

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<v Speaker 1>He's my ex is definitely the one that got away,

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<v Speaker 1>hands down, So why not because he hates me? He's

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<v Speaker 1>not going back to me. That's the worst. When you

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<v Speaker 1>break up with a guy, you're like, because because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing great right now. So it's like he's I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>that it's like damn, like that bit like she really

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<v Speaker 1>like she hate you because you're doing great. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>think he just it's just he's not. We're not we're not,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not speaking. We don't, we don't. We don't get

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<v Speaker 1>on like that no more. But um, what if he

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<v Speaker 1>called you, would you be with he wouldn't. He wouldn't,

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<v Speaker 1>he wouldn't. He blocked me. He blocked me an all things.

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<v Speaker 1>What then are you crazy? Blocked you? I'll call him

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<v Speaker 1>from google boys, I make a big Instagram, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>But well, he just he blocked me because I he

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<v Speaker 1>thought that he was like in his head about what

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing with my life. So it's like he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to see what was going on with me.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't want me to see what's going on with

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<v Speaker 1>this and follow you. Why do you have to block you?

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<v Speaker 1>That's just because he did that to make you. He

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<v Speaker 1>did that to make me mad. He also did it

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<v Speaker 1>because he's like, I don't want her to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to see what I'm doing now, like you can't just

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<v Speaker 1>go and see anyway, which I get, I understand. Listen

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<v Speaker 1>by all means, I know what that feels like. Because

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm in a situation dealing with a guy where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of like I'm low key ready to block

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<v Speaker 1>him to like you're doing a lot, You're doing all

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong ship, Like come on, are you gonna still

1:12:46.800 --> 1:12:48.120
<v Speaker 1>talk to him though, even though he's doing a lot

1:12:48.200 --> 1:12:50.600
<v Speaker 1>and doing the wrong ship The new guy, Um, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is. He's young. He's young, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think he needs to learn, So he's on time out.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gonna have to learn, He's gonna have to learn

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<v Speaker 1>a different way, because I was trying to teach give

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<v Speaker 1>you board the cheat sheet, like, listen, this is how

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<v Speaker 1>we how. He's twenty six, so he's young. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay. You're not built for this right now, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to give you a cheat sheet so

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<v Speaker 1>you could cut a couple of corners if you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>But he ain't. There ain't, So he's gonna to learn different.

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<v Speaker 1>Wa He's gonna have to learn either with somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>or with my silence. You don't have to you want

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<v Speaker 1>to eat that ship, peace man. They should have never

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<v Speaker 1>made that block feature for I phone. They should have definitely,

1:13:29.760 --> 1:13:31.880
<v Speaker 1>I definitely needed to block a couple. We need that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even tell you how many times Rob and

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<v Speaker 1>I were arguing and I was calling him too much

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<v Speaker 1>and he blocked me, so I started calling him from

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<v Speaker 1>other phones. You're crazy, I'm crazy, crazy up. I will

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<v Speaker 1>show up at the dough like, here's the thing. If

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<v Speaker 1>you have if I'm telling you how crazy I am

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<v Speaker 1>and the phases of my crazy in the very beginning,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're still showing up and signing up every day,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't. Guys. You like guys like crazy crazy I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna like I was at with Stephanie the other night.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole time she was with her man on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>We were having a great time, but she kept getting

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<v Speaker 1>up to go are you on the phone? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I had out the phone. She was like, where are

1:14:07.960 --> 1:14:10.280
<v Speaker 1>you right now? I'm coming there, And then he would

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<v Speaker 1>call it back and be like, oh, we move. We

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<v Speaker 1>went here and said okay, you're where now? Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>called the uber, I'm on my way. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>dick on one hundred, I'm not about that. I'm too

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call a T and T because I know

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<v Speaker 1>all the codes you don't want to show and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't you don't want to tell me where you are.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna show up to everywhere you be until I

1:14:32.200 --> 1:14:35.840
<v Speaker 1>find you. Because it's like that. That was like that camera.

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<v Speaker 1>That camera's same, like I know which you don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know what studio. I'm an show up every I'm not

1:14:42.880 --> 1:14:46.960
<v Speaker 1>doing all that I've showed up to. He's like, I'm

1:14:47.000 --> 1:14:53.240
<v Speaker 1>not doing all that happy right at home. No, I'm

1:14:53.240 --> 1:14:55.080
<v Speaker 1>being home too. But I'll send some people after that,

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<v Speaker 1>will I would you know what I will do with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl though you know you have to know, like

1:15:00.400 --> 1:15:02.479
<v Speaker 1>crazy girls tell us, you have to know if you're

1:15:02.479 --> 1:15:04.960
<v Speaker 1>dealing with a crazy girl and she's really crazy. She

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<v Speaker 1>got at least two friends that are more rock crazy

1:15:09.400 --> 1:15:15.880
<v Speaker 1>down at least two in the arsenal ready to Ratty

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<v Speaker 1>the clutch, yes, like, don't don't do it, don't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm Stephaniely you good. I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. Oh yes, let's take a shot. Okay, be

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<v Speaker 1>right back. I gotta take this phone call. Gonna take

1:15:26.840 --> 1:15:28.360
<v Speaker 1>this call. We was in the hood too, she was

1:15:28.439 --> 1:15:31.479
<v Speaker 1>standing outside and I had on this slutty ass draw

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<v Speaker 1>no underwear. That's what I'm saying. I either dressed way

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<v Speaker 1>down or somebody was like. Somebody was like, I think

1:15:38.640 --> 1:15:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I saw a Stephanie's vagina. He said that, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>they're I was. I was saying, we were going way through.

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<v Speaker 1>We were going through another jail situation. Remember, yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was super I was like crying. I was all

1:15:56.040 --> 1:16:00.280
<v Speaker 1>stressed out. But I mean, I'm another and previous are is.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have to do this in this time, but

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<v Speaker 1>in other times, like we'll be arguing and he'll feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm calling him too much. So he'll block me

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<v Speaker 1>for a little while, and I got I got my

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<v Speaker 1>second phone on deck. He'll block the second guy blocks me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call you from the third phone. Block me

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't get in touch with you. There's text free,

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<v Speaker 1>there's there's um that's a crazy count boys. There's a

1:16:26.000 --> 1:16:30.920
<v Speaker 1>jack like I'm calling you for magic Jack. All these

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<v Speaker 1>like WiFi phone numbers, single free phone app. I'm gonna

1:16:35.960 --> 1:16:38.280
<v Speaker 1>call you. I have one number. You can block that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna need to call somebody to get a restraining

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<v Speaker 1>order because I'm gonna be sitting on that young porch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be sitting on that porch. Block come here, come

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me. You gotta now phone off because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep calling your number. You block all the numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm showing up. I'm gonna pop up, but you know

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<v Speaker 1>the nigga knows that, so he'll he'll email start answering number.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I won't pretend I'm to show up, but I

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<v Speaker 1>won't really come. No, I'm not gonna like I did

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<v Speaker 1>that one time to one of my ex boyfriends. So

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<v Speaker 1>I would always tell him, like if I knew he

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<v Speaker 1>was doing something he was supposed to do I would

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<v Speaker 1>tell him I was on my way, but I'd really

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<v Speaker 1>be at home. So one time I really went and

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<v Speaker 1>what was he doing? He was in bed with another chick.

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<v Speaker 1>I climbed in through the window, climbed in through the window.

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<v Speaker 1>But it wasn't It wasn't like I had to. It

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<v Speaker 1>was the easy window to climb in. It was on

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<v Speaker 1>the it was on the same level and Jordan's by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, so she's always ready. I just took the screen.

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<v Speaker 1>I just took the screen out the window. It was summertime.

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<v Speaker 1>I took the screen out the window, walked in and

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<v Speaker 1>he was upstairs with a chick. She was naked in

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<v Speaker 1>the bed. What did you do? Do you drag her? All? Know?

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<v Speaker 1>She got up, She was nervous, she was scared. She

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<v Speaker 1>got up, got out, and as soon as she left,

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<v Speaker 1>I said it all right, that's it, I'm done, and

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<v Speaker 1>I left. Wow, I could I could never have gone

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<v Speaker 1>down like that for me. Listen, sometimes you gotta be

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<v Speaker 1>so mad. You got to be calm, you know. I

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<v Speaker 1>first I made him player and she was He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>she don't mean nothing to me, She's nobody. That's even

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<v Speaker 1>worst of that's even worse when you compromising the real

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<v Speaker 1>ship for the fake. Imagine you naked in the bed

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<v Speaker 1>and the guy says that about you. What time? My

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<v Speaker 1>exest girl jumped and then we came in the fire escape,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know it's New York, we got fire escapes.

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<v Speaker 1>And this girl came in through the window, through the

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<v Speaker 1>fire escape. And you know, I'm a light sleeper. So

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<v Speaker 1>I woke up and I had on I'll never forget it.

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<v Speaker 1>I had on a yellow bra and panty and it

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<v Speaker 1>was a cheap, like twenty bra and panty, said probably

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen years old. I was a kid, and I jumped

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<v Speaker 1>out the bed and I gave this girl the worst

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<v Speaker 1>ass of her yellow and I busted her as like

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<v Speaker 1>I heard her come in through the window, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>heard the window open and I looked. I woke up

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<v Speaker 1>and I saw her coming in and I just charged her. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you already knew who she was when she

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<v Speaker 1>came in. It was the nigger's wife. He was, but

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<v Speaker 1>they were broken up. They were broken up, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was just a soccer. So she's the wife. She's a wife,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's the wife. I was living with him. I

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<v Speaker 1>was living with him, and they have been separated, but

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<v Speaker 1>they were married, legally married. I need that divorce paper

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<v Speaker 1>before I'm moving in with you. Just technically. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>could take everybody the court here today. I couldn't imagine, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you rocked his wife. Wait said no, I didn't climb

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<v Speaker 1>in the window. That bit shot to jump out the window.

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<v Speaker 1>She was probably it was an ex It was way back,

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<v Speaker 1>like a long time ago. And um, it was back

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<v Speaker 1>when I was dancing before I moved to Land. I

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<v Speaker 1>was dancing at this club in Philly, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>this girl that was working there. Me and his sister

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<v Speaker 1>was working together actually, and I just had a feeling

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<v Speaker 1>that something went right. So he was at his sister's

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<v Speaker 1>house and I went there and the nephew saw me

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<v Speaker 1>at the door and let me in, and knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>he had company upstairs, then if you let me in.

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<v Speaker 1>And I went up to his room and he's sitting

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<v Speaker 1>in the chair and the girls on the floors like

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<v Speaker 1>his dick, and I kicked the door in, like really, nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>what the fun? You know? And then the girl got

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<v Speaker 1>up and saw me, and she jumped out the window

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<v Speaker 1>like she tried to jump out the window, like she

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<v Speaker 1>try to kill herself. She tried to jump out the

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<v Speaker 1>window to get it, and guess what, I fucking whipped

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<v Speaker 1>his ass, broke up with him and the bitch that

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<v Speaker 1>I've never seen the girl again. She never came back

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<v Speaker 1>to work. I was waiting for that as to come

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<v Speaker 1>back to work too. I came to work every day

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<v Speaker 1>with a pony tell some sneakers win. I thought, I

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<v Speaker 1>want the whoop. I ass so bad, and she never

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<v Speaker 1>came back. Wrong, she never came back to work. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never ever seen till this day, I've never ever seen

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<v Speaker 1>that girl again. Wow, damn, you know what. The only

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<v Speaker 1>reason because she wasn't wrong, like I understand, she was

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<v Speaker 1>like scorn, you know, like she was upset and a

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<v Speaker 1>little bitter that the guy was giving me so much attention.

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<v Speaker 1>But the only reason it was just like my first

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<v Speaker 1>reaction like to of course, because one you have no

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<v Speaker 1>clothes on and you was sleep to you sleep, and

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<v Speaker 1>three you this is like this is what it was. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even think about who it was. I just

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<v Speaker 1>grabbed her and it was so bad, like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even want to talk about it, but it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty bad. It was bad, like what it was bad,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I really beat her bad, like I beat her.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he do? He tried to break it up

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<v Speaker 1>or castingbody. You got to be ready to fight. He

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<v Speaker 1>was a real dick. He was standing over watching me

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<v Speaker 1>beat her like that said stop it. Like he didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't pull up. He was like, world because I

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<v Speaker 1>got like I got really swollen, like I was punching

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<v Speaker 1>her a lot in her eye and it got really swollen.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's when he stopped me, like he noticed, like

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<v Speaker 1>it was getting swollen really fast. What a gentleman, but

1:21:34.960 --> 1:21:39.519
<v Speaker 1>he was. He was awful like that. You know who

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<v Speaker 1>to call now if we need to run up on

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<v Speaker 1>some funny I know trying to We talked about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not fighting no more right, we're talking about yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>unless I have to defend myself, unless there's a girl

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<v Speaker 1>climbing into my one bow. Let's bridget Kelly cause she

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<v Speaker 1>called my friend. I have I have phases of crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna pop off at first. The second phase is

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna speak to you really respectfully like an adult.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the last. This is this is your get

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<v Speaker 1>out of jail for a free card. Like I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>let you know what it's gonna be after this. Once

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<v Speaker 1>it escalates beyond this point of this conversation, then there's

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<v Speaker 1>a problem where there's a real Then it's it's blackout

1:22:16.240 --> 1:22:19.799
<v Speaker 1>like girls, and then we're rolling up on somebody, somebody's

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<v Speaker 1>getting beat up, somebody's getting me down. It's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a lot like don't push me to that point. But

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing is, like, this is the tone of

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<v Speaker 1>voice that I keep. I'm blond now, like I just

1:22:27.360 --> 1:22:31.120
<v Speaker 1>heard say it with a smile. I'm really a nice

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<v Speaker 1>girl deep inside. But if you push me past this

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<v Speaker 1>point right here that we're in this inner peace moment.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not a stay yoga moment. Beyond this moment,

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<v Speaker 1>Heaven help you. All right, Well that is lips know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stepping in Santiago. I'm g g McGuire and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Bridget Kelly. Wow, And that's the crazy cows. Don't give

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<v Speaker 1>a fun. I got a whole lot of fun in

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<v Speaker 1>my system. Money part of my DNA makeup. It's called buckets.