1 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: What's up is Angelie and it's time for lip service. 2 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: I'm g G. MacGuire, I'm Stephanie Santiago. Now I just 3 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 1: want to before we get started today, talk about mood. 4 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:21,760 Speaker 1: What kind of mood is everybody? And you know how 5 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: we have the mood Instagram, So describe your mood. I 6 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: just want to get a feel for the room. I'm happy, hey, 7 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: fake smile, I'm happy. Like it's too deep. We're not 8 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: gonna get into the sun of now. I mean, I 9 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: had a long, hot ass day, but regardless of a 10 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 1: little wave in New York, regardless, i made it here 11 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: from my little two hour travel and I'm happy to 12 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: see my girls. So happy to have a drink, because 13 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: that's the first thing everybody came in here said, I 14 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 1: need a drink today. Let me hear my ice jiggle. 15 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: That's definitely what kind of mood are you in today? Um, 16 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: I'm I'm a little de us today, but I'm getting 17 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: away though, I'm drinking and I'm gonna be happy and 18 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: like just a few minutes, there's some good things and 19 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: bad things that happened for Stephanie. First of all, you're 20 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: gonna be on good day New York right. Yeah, I'm 21 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: gonna be on Good Day in New York tomorrow morning 22 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: at nine am. That's awesome. Well, by the time this 23 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: air is no but yeah, by the time of over 24 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: been on earlier this morning. Yeah, but you were one 25 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: of the sexiest people on Instagram. Yes, and sexy New 26 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: Yorkers on Instagram for them in the New York Post. 27 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: I came out in the paper this past Sunday, so um, 28 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: Fox five brust out to me, and I'm going to 29 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: interview with Good Morning America tomorrow morning. Yeah, I'm gonna 30 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: The bad day is that our boyfriend went to jail yesterday. 31 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: So good things, bad things. Yeah, my boyfriend went to 32 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: jail yesterday. So I'm a little down in the duves. 33 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: I'll be all right, okay, all right. Mood is what 34 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: will we say for that? Mood is like gray, I'm 35 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: feeling very great. Good. I think I'm great too. You're 36 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: a little gray great. The summer is ending. I'm feeling 37 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: a little sad about that. I feel like people are 38 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: still trying to, like, you know, beat thoughts out here. 39 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: I just I don't know. I'm I'm dreading cuffing season. 40 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: I'm dreading it. You're dreading it and I'm dreading it. Man. Okay, so, 41 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: last time we spoke to you on the Breakfast Club, 42 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: you just broken up with your boyfriend who was your 43 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: trainer as well. But you're still in great shape. So 44 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: that's goodness, that's all. That's all. Well, now, what are 45 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,959 Speaker 1: you feeling so upset about? You broke up with him? Well, 46 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: he actually broke up with me, like for real, for real, 47 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: in the in the in the grand scheme of things 48 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: he done. He left me. But I mean I deserved it. 49 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: We were fighting so um no, I think. I mean 50 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: I tried to move on a little bit and it didn't. 51 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: It didn't bode so well for me. It's hard sometimes 52 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 1: when you break up with somebody where they break up 53 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: with you and then you go out with somebody else, 54 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: it's always super critical because you compare them to the 55 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 1: person who you was just with and it's like a rebound. Yeah, 56 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: it's just he's just messy, and it just it gets 57 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: on my nerves. I think. I'm just I'm just frustrated 58 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: because I give so I give, I give people the 59 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt, like I'd be giving people too 60 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: much credit. Who did you give the benefit of the 61 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: doubt too. Girl, A new guy, this guy, there's not 62 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: enough vodka for this. Now. I want to know because 63 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: sometimes guys make mistakes and we need to let them know. 64 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: What is What is it that bothers us that you did? So? 65 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: What did he do that bothers you? Um, it's really 66 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: just it's just running game. Like I feel like in 67 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 1: the very beginning, I'm real clear, like I've I've had 68 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: a pretty shaky I've had a shaky pass, Like I've 69 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: done my share of foul foul stuff. So, I mean, 70 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: I understand how the game is supposed to be played right, 71 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: so you don't pretend to be some innocent virgin and 72 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 1: they never did anything, not by any means. But I'm 73 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: also a professional, so I understand the rules. I understand 74 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: how it feels to go. If you're a guy, you 75 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: should play by certain rules. Certain things should not be 76 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: out of hand. And I just felt disrespected. What are 77 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: the rules for the guys? I just feel like there's like, 78 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: if you're gonna do shady's stuff, like it should never 79 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: get back to me. So in other words, respect me 80 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: enough that if you're gonna do something stupid, don't get caught, 81 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: don't get caught, because that means you were careless. You 82 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: were careless, orp and slopping comfortable. You were comfortable, so 83 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: you didn't think enough of me to really cover your tracks. 84 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: I don't like that. Or just don't do anything stupid 85 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: or possible something, don't be don't be a completely you 86 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: know completely make better decisions, Make better decisions. So what 87 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: are you looking for now? I'm looking for more money, 88 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: more alcohol, And that's what I'm looking for actually, because 89 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: those are things that bring me a lot of joy. Well, 90 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: I think I can help you. I'm like, I feel 91 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: like I'm spitting at the right couch for more alcohol, 92 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: more shoes, and more money. So were good? All right? Now? 93 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: We were talking about this earlier because what I want 94 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 1: to do now is focus on helping men. You know, 95 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: we're not here to bash y'all because sometimes guys feel 96 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: like we said, oh, y'all talk so much shit. We 97 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: don't all cheat, we don't all to do this. And 98 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,359 Speaker 1: I was having a conversation about four play and I 99 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: do feel like guys need tips on how to give 100 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: better for play because sometimes guys think four plays I 101 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 1: spit on my dick or spinning your pussy and then 102 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: have sex with you and and that's it. So I 103 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: want to help them mount and let them know what 104 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: are certain things that they need to do for us, 105 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: because I do feel like four plays so important for women. 106 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: In order for sex to be great, four play has 107 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: to be great for a woman especially. I think, so, um, 108 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: you gotta let the oven preheat before you stick it in, 109 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: That's right, Like you got you have to sample it 110 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 1: a little bit too. You gotta, I need, I need, 111 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: I need the whole thing to be completely devoured before 112 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: we can. You gotta. You have to just like you 113 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: have to savor the appetizer first, like you gotta just yeah, 114 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 1: I need that, I need that before we get before 115 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: So you have to eat my pussy first? Is that? 116 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: Which is absolutely all right? That's a muss And I 117 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: do feel like that too. I always say a guy 118 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 1: should definitely go down on you before they have such 119 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 1: as a respecting respect the boy. I think, Um, I 120 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 1: think a lot of kissing is important and four play 121 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: like only on the mouth like an anerthize stomach, not 122 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: and not like licking because guys confused like little guys 123 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: kisses with slob right. I hate when people slapping on 124 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: me right, like, you know, like kissing me on my neck, 125 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: but like like, don't stick your tongue out and look 126 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: at like a dog. And there is a fine line 127 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 1: between like a soft, like a supple bite and a 128 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 1: real bite, like I'm really I'm yellow like me. I'm 129 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: gonna like that hurts. Yeah, people like pain. I'm not 130 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 1: really into pain. I like bites. Pain is good and 131 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: the right at the right time and the right amount 132 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: of pain. Too much pain and the wrong time, it's 133 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 1: just the timing is off and it gets a little weird. 134 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: It's yeah, you're like, now a little break right. I like, 135 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: I like bite, like on my neck. I like to 136 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: get slapped, but that's like four play. We didn't get 137 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 1: there yet, I said, I like a little pain. Don't 138 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: slap me doing like you don't slap me when you 139 00:06:56,440 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: don't not play. I think that far play please thought 140 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 1: it for a place. But you know, like I like 141 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 1: to get a bit on my neck, but I don't 142 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: like to get bit on my back. Okay, it hurts. 143 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 1: I think that guys need to be more aware that 144 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:15,119 Speaker 1: intimacy is just what a woman craves sometimes, like guys 145 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: aren't as affectionate as we might want them to be sometimes, 146 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 1: and I feel like they need to realize that we 147 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: want that, like we want all of the kissing and 148 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 1: the touching and the licking and the rubbing and all 149 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: of that. You know, somebody told me that fingering is childish. 150 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: I like it. I don't mind it. I like it. 151 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: Here for it, like it's yeah, I like my pussy 152 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: and put finger. Yeah, I love that. It's like a 153 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: gentle slide and then it's one finger and then it's too, 154 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: like it's a gradual like you're taking me on a 155 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: journey right now, that journey and with this thing, or 156 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: because if I was ting, you can make somebody actually 157 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: or yeah, absolutely I come from. So that's why I 158 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: think sometimes guys like as things they did when they 159 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: were younger that they feel like, oh, I don't have 160 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: to do that anymore, because that was before I was 161 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: having sex. I was fingering girls and doing this, and 162 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: I don't do it anymore, And you have to do 163 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: just like y'all want us to do those things that 164 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: we did. Imagine, I said, well, I used to get 165 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: blow jabs before, but I don't do it anymore because 166 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: that's childish, right. I used to look the balls or 167 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: doesn't really but it doesn't really matter, so never mind, No, 168 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: they're still there, bro what you mean? So I always 169 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: think that fingering is important, of course I think or 170 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: else sex is important? What else is important for it? 171 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: And you say kissing, nipping important, don't don't not doing 172 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: and like one like you said, when you get to 173 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 1: chapter four, chapter four or five and you already you 174 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: already in it, that's when you could. I like that. 175 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: I like to be choked a little too. I'm with you, 176 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: I love to be but you can't forget about the 177 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: nipples in the fourth place, right, like guys forget about 178 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 1: nipples like it's not about the under like the under 179 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: the like I need you to be wrapped up the 180 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: area all that active with my areola. Sometimes I feel 181 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: like um brush, like they're um like ignored. They don't 182 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: got enough love exactly right you space nipple is a 183 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 1: very sense sometimes just like the point to you just yeah, 184 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: when I was a kid, that was it was like 185 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 1: a really big thing for a girl to have big 186 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: brass and a lot of times they have no hips, 187 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 1: but boobs were like everywhere everybody focused on the boobs. 188 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 1: Now asses, Now I feel like everybody forgot about the 189 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 1: tits and they're going for the ass. But that point is, 190 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: don't forget anything. Don't forget the nipples, don't forget the ass, 191 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: don't forget the vagina. But also every woman has a 192 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: different spot, Like every woman has a different spot on 193 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: their body that's like take go down the spine like 194 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: it's for summus, the neck for sum mus, the hip 195 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: like it's the inner thigh. Because you know, there's certain 196 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: places every woman has her own kind of you know, 197 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 1: and different guys are able to make you feel a 198 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 1: different way. Like sometimes a guy might do something that 199 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: you love when this guy does it, but if somebody 200 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: else did it to you later on you're like, yeah, 201 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: that doesn't do it for me. Or something that you 202 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: think you don't like, you end up liking that a 203 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: certain guy does it. So maybe one day I like 204 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: getting fingered when when the right guy doesn't, you don't 205 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: like any finger No, really, I feel like I'm getting 206 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: get me the dick. Let's play we're talking about. You 207 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: don't want four plays? So when is your four play consistent? 208 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: I just your ideal, just intimacy, yeah, but just no fingering. 209 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 1: I don't want you to finger me when I want 210 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: something in my vagina, I want your penis. What about 211 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 1: a finger in your butt? Well? During four plays? Chapter five, five, five, 212 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 1: that's a move up five, but not not until chapter five. 213 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: All right, what's your so any other tips that we 214 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: have because I just want to make sure guys get it? 215 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 1: What about sucking toes? Oh my god, that's so annoying. 216 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: You don't try to stuck my toes. I had a 217 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: guy sucks my toes one time. For everything else that's 218 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: too far. It was just a random situation, and I 219 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: actually really enjoyed it. We called they came from out 220 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 1: of nowhere. I'm like, listen, if you're gonna put my 221 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:10,719 Speaker 1: feet in your mouth, what else are you gonna put 222 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: in your mouth? I mean, we we all have amazing 223 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: toes in these kinds to clear but really clean, and 224 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: I keep them done. But come on, it's just yeah, 225 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: I don't know all you think about. It's like, man, 226 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: I stepped barefoot from the shower to this day, I 227 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: don't know what kind of pumps nocks. What if the 228 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: guy wants you to massage his feet, I'm not a 229 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: post that. If you're my man. If we're to get 230 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: like you're my man and some guy that's just some 231 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: casual thing. You ain't. I'm not touching your feet, you 232 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: most guys, most guys keep their feet like away guys 233 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: hide their feet, but most guys like that, Like you're like, 234 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 1: I feel like a guy, and I need to see 235 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: a guy's told so I know it's real, Like I 236 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: gotta see what your feet look like for me to 237 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: really feel like we need something real. One woman actually 238 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: sent me an email to asking and she said that 239 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: she's been married for six years and has never seen 240 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: what that's like. A guy saying he never saw this 241 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: girl without makeup on. I actually actually know a girl 242 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: who's been in a relationship for three years and she's 243 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: never he's never seen her without weave or a wig 244 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: ever never, I've never seen it. No, she's got hair, 245 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 1: but I mean she's always got a weave in or 246 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 1: she's always got a wig, Like it's always something. He 247 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 1: never sees her, never never sees it without Does he 248 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: want to? I don't. I don't know. It's been like 249 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: three years, but it's still just like damn for real. 250 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 1: I mean, like pink panthers sneaking out with your like, 251 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 1: come on, No, that's too that can think about it. 252 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 1: We don't want guys to see us not looking good, 253 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: Like when when that FaceTime lights up, girl, I mean, 254 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: I'm all natural. I when it comes to that. The 255 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: only time I put makeup on is when I'm working. 256 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 1: I wear no makeup all the time. I will take 257 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 1: that ben out my Yeah, Like I don't like I'm 258 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 1: on FaceTime no makeup. I don't even care, Like straight 259 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 1: out of my bed, like wiping across on. I feel 260 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 1: like I'm going to get a FaceTime. I may actually 261 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: sleep in my makeup, like just in case, Like hey baby, 262 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:21,439 Speaker 1: it's like because when you face time, you gotta get 263 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 1: like the right band. Yeah, oh it's definitely. I'm definitely yeah, definitely. 264 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 1: Never mind. All right, now, what about us? Like what 265 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: do we do? What are your tricks during four play 266 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: that you do to man everything but penetration. What are 267 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: some things that you think guys like a lot of 268 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: guys try to front, but a lot of guys do, 269 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 1: like when you lick the booty hole, they do like 270 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 1: that episode, we should do us. It's true. We're like 271 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 1: a lot of guys, says, We're like six minutes and 272 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: we're talking about booty. I'm just we need to I 273 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 1: want to get a survey done for real. Now, this 274 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:04,679 Speaker 1: is what I need. I need for people want to 275 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:06,839 Speaker 1: be an anonymous. It's gotta be anonymous though, because I 276 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:09,680 Speaker 1: want to hear some guys that that will really admit 277 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: to not a finger. We're not talking about no, I'm 278 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: talking about it. It's a little, just a little. There's 279 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 1: a lot of lookin at the tip of the tongue. 280 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: But what about you guys have like Harry assholes? Does 281 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: that matter? I mean, I'm never coming. It hasn't been 282 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: that bad any guy that I'm what do you go 283 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: to look at guy's asshole and you can taste a 284 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: little sh I would have already died. And I feel 285 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: like it tastes like like booty tastes like pennies anyway, 286 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 1: Like if you're penny. I never tasted a penny, but 287 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 1: like if you like, if you hold a penny of head, penny, 288 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 1: that's what it's your old copper as It doesn't necessarily 289 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: mean it's not clean, but you but you know what too, 290 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 1: to be fair, just because I'm a woman, if I 291 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: was to go down there and it's too clean, like 292 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: there's powder it's most like Shae Butter. I'm gonna look 293 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: at you a little like, wait a second, there's a 294 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: problem with a guy having a clean booty hole, and 295 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: there's a person if it's too clean, it's there's no hair, 296 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: and it's all like hair that I'm looking at you 297 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: a little. You actually ass as a straight man. I'm 298 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 1: gonna look at you a little crazy. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, okay, 299 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: So if you tasted a little something, oh my god, 300 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 1: I would die. No, but I would die. I would guys. 301 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: I feel like I wasn't more conscious about wiping though 302 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 1: it really conscious, you know what. I was just gonna 303 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: be a funny story. One time one of my friends, 304 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: she um, we were somewhere anyway, she met this guy, 305 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 1: took him to the room. And why did he go 306 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: and take a ship after they had sex and then 307 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 1: try to come right back into bed and have sex. 308 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: He should have gotten the showers? Am I the only 309 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: person that likes to take a shower after I go 310 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 1: to the bathroom, there's no I'm if I'm at home, 311 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm getting in the shower a little there's 312 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: nowhere spelling. Then taking a ship and then trying to 313 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: put your clothes right. But I think guy should do 314 00:15:58,040 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: that too. Of me. If you need to take a ship, 315 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: go to take a bath, get in the water, take 316 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 1: a bath. All right? So what is the other tips 317 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: before I play for men? What do you do the guys? 318 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: Besides um Bridge said your go to movies. You like 319 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: to lick the booty hole. I mean it's it's a 320 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 1: gradual day. I don't think that guy would let me 321 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: do that. I don't know how to make that happen. 322 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: It depends on the guy that you win. So it's 323 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 1: gotta be a real you gotta it's gotta be a 324 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 1: conversation first. You can't just go right in for it 325 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: because that's like I kind of feel like you can't 326 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: discuss it first because if you never talked about it. Now, 327 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 1: I feel like guys not you do. Yeah, I feel 328 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: like guys like you'll be sucking their dicking and like 329 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 1: their leg a little, you know what, I want you 330 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 1: to lick their that's a good point. Yeah, they do 331 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: that little. So you've asked guys like can I look 332 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 1: your asshole? I just know I just asked, what if 333 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: there's if there's do you like theads? No, I just 334 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: ask if there's anything that's awful in man, if they 335 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: don't say that, and if they don't say that, if 336 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 1: they don't say that, well, I asked, I asked. You 337 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: told me nothing. You told me there was no rules, 338 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: no going two big burly men coming to rout. I 339 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 1: don't alright, So Stephanie, what about you for a four 340 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: play with some of your go to I mean for 341 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: four play? I like, um, I find that you know, 342 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,919 Speaker 1: Spanish guys don't like it, but I like to like 343 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:12,679 Speaker 1: lick nipples and I like to like be you know, 344 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 1: pay attention and like kiss a lot on the knack 345 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 1: and the face and you know, and then go down 346 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: to like oral. That's what I do, like you, but 347 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 1: they don't like it. Like my current Boyfrienk was like, guys, 348 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: my current boyfriend, if I try to lick his nipples, 349 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: he's like giving me the stiff arm, like pushing me away, 350 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: like boy. But he also might be like this feels 351 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: too good. I'm like, that's what I tell him. I 352 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 1: like joking around. I'm like, you love it, don't fight it. 353 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 1: Like me to lick him right here on his arm. 354 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: That's different right here, but it probably is like a 355 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,920 Speaker 1: real sensit. I could I could see that that could 356 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 1: be a sensitive I had a boyfriend that I used 357 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 1: to want me to always run my nails up and 358 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,879 Speaker 1: down his forearm, Like he'll be driving at HAF it's 359 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 1: more arm down and I'll be running my my nails 360 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,479 Speaker 1: up and down his forearm. That was an old boyfriend 361 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: when I was like seventeen. She had disclaimer anybody else. 362 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: I don't want anybody. It's Lord's twenty years ago. Do 363 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 1: you think about it? And you know what else? Is 364 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: always good for playing a massage exactly? I like to rob. 365 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 1: I like to rob a lode. And I'm like, I'm 366 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:27,880 Speaker 1: not type of lover though, Like I'm I'm a very 367 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 1: submissive given lover. What about during a massage? Now here's 368 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 1: a question I have. How low is too low to go? Like? 369 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 1: Is it weird to like massage your guys? But I 370 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 1: would not massage you guys. I've never tried it. But 371 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: the only time I'm touching the guys but is when 372 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 1: I'm grabbing it to pull him in deeper. Other than that, 373 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to keep my hand. You don't slap his 374 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 1: ask something. I don't think I've ever slept what you left? 375 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 1: No shot? Please? That was? That was? I feel like 376 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 1: they would make it. I'm uncomfortable, Like what right, he's like, 377 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 1: who's talking now? I don't even like grabbing uses when 378 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 1: the guys inside of me. I think it might cause 379 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:14,959 Speaker 1: for an awkward moment. But if you're pulling him in, 380 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:16,640 Speaker 1: I mean it's a it's a hip though, or it's 381 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 1: a thigh, it's a thigh of grabbing it. But yeah, 382 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:26,919 Speaker 1: it's like more from the side. You can't like your 383 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 1: legs around and pull your legs. No grabbing, spreading in 384 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 1: all right? Now, what about taking the condom off? When 385 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: do you say it's okay for us to have raw sex? 386 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:39,879 Speaker 1: How do you know it's okay to have a row 387 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 1: sex with the guy? Has anybody ever really made a 388 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 1: guy go get like STD tested and do all of 389 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 1: that stuff? I did. Actually, if they tell you to 390 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 1: do I did once. I did once only because I 391 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: only because I was I just was like, I don't know. 392 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,679 Speaker 1: My mom My mom is My mom is a midwife. 393 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 1: She taught sex that at my junior high school. Okay, 394 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 1: so when I was like fourteen, she came in and 395 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 1: was showing us pictures like hey, guys, like, it's mom, 396 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 1: this is what kind of looks like for everybody. And 397 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:06,119 Speaker 1: we were all sitting there like so I think maybe 398 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: the second or the second guy that I slept with, 399 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,159 Speaker 1: I was like, all right, we have to go to 400 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:14,359 Speaker 1: attested together. That's but it wasn't romantic at like said 401 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 1: like seventeen eighteen though we were kind of but when 402 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 1: you guys went say you stopped using condoms, that was 403 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: the point of its not okay now with your last boyfriend, 404 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 1: when did you say, okay, we're not going to use 405 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: condoms at all. Is it a discussion or does he 406 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: just slide up in there? I mean, honestly, I feel 407 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: like the first the first time, it's not it's like 408 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,879 Speaker 1: unquote unquote unprotected um. Because I've always been on the 409 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 1: pilm my whole life. I think I feel like the 410 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 1: first time is it's not discussed, like it almost happens, 411 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 1: that just happen because it's a hot and heavy moment 412 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 1: and y'all just in it and you just go he 413 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 1: just slides in and you're like, oh man, we didn't 414 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,239 Speaker 1: and it's too late. And after that we was too 415 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 1: late discussion. It's like, well, never mind, has anybody ever 416 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 1: gone from not using condoms back to using condom? No? No, never, 417 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: because once you take that kind of the first time, 418 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 1: already picked off all those botes, that's it. Stevery to 419 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 1: the guy. Let's go get tested together. Um No, I'm 420 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: too paranoid to have real sex. I could call how 421 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: many guys I've have real sex with. On one hand, 422 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,959 Speaker 1: I'm very paranoid, like my one of my sister's uncles 423 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: died of AIDS when I was a kid, So forget it, 424 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 1: Like I lost my virginia with a condom, okay, and um, 425 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,479 Speaker 1: I just feel like if if you're ready to take 426 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: off the condom, you should be ready to have a 427 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: baby or ready to die. So that's that's when you die. 428 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 1: Are you ready to die? I was ready to die. 429 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: Now taking off the condom is not. I'm just saying 430 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 1: that's where you die. That's when I that's when do 431 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 1: you take off the condom when you're right down? I'm 432 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: not ready to die, ready to die. I'm not ready 433 00:21:48,119 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 1: to die. It's crazy to birth control like you everything. 434 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: Would you tell a guy that would you die for 435 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 1: this pussy? Ready? If I was stroke enough, I would 436 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: probably say something like I've been with guys that I 437 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: wanted so bad and I know that they're incredible lovers, 438 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: and we'll be and we'll be in the spot and 439 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 1: there's no condoms and they're like, oh, the fun if 440 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: there's no condoms, And I'm like, fuck it, I'm going home. 441 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 1: No condom. I'm going you can't go to the store. 442 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 1: You want to go to the store, either go to 443 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 1: the store. We're going back to the store. Yeah. And 444 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I've had one time I was with 445 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: a guy and we weren't even serious and we have 446 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 1: been having sex for a while, and he tried to 447 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 1: suck me rowing I was like, oh, I was like 448 00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,440 Speaker 1: never like you and I will never have a baby 449 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 1: because we do look at that. Guys a little weird 450 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: if they don't know it's like that, and they tell 451 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:53,479 Speaker 1: it like ruins everything, like how people you're doing this 452 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 1: with and it's like you want to suck me? Bro? 453 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 1: You fucking everybody row like I don't, I don't trust it, 454 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 1: and I'm time everything I'm gonna telling you. Sometimes guys 455 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 1: don't anticipate that they might be able to have sex 456 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 1: with you, and if they don't have a condom on them. 457 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 1: They kind of feel like because there's that period of 458 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:10,640 Speaker 1: time when they have to go get when the two 459 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: could change your mind. Right by the time he gets 460 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 1: up and it's like, I'm gonna vent to the store, 461 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: he comes back, You're fully clothed, Like I just thought 462 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 1: about it. Right while you were at the store, I 463 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: started bleeding at a second thought. I changed my mind, 464 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 1: dried up while you left. And I'm telling with this guy. 465 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 1: He was so upset. He was so upset. We never 466 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:34,880 Speaker 1: spoke again because I didn't want to have real sex 467 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 1: with him, and honestly I didn't want. I didn't care 468 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: to speak to him anymore. I wouldn't talk to anybody 469 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,479 Speaker 1: to try to pull that on me. Oh and I 470 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 1: had another guy. When I had another guy back in 471 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 1: the day before I had my son. He um whatever, 472 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 1: I was dating him. I knew him from when we 473 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,360 Speaker 1: were kids, and and we started dating or whatever, and 474 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 1: we were, um, we were having sex. We were at 475 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: my apartment. We were having sex, and um he tried 476 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,239 Speaker 1: to sun me roll and I was like, no, we 477 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,639 Speaker 1: need a condom, So I gave him the condom you 478 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 1: had it. I had a condom. I was home, and 479 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 1: you know, we were fucking and it felt like raw suck. 480 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 1: He took it off, so I go and look in 481 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 1: the nicker didn't have the condom on. I kicked him 482 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 1: out of my house. It was like two thirty in 483 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,880 Speaker 1: the morning. I threatened him. I went and I got 484 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: an STD test. I went crazy. I was paranoid for 485 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 1: like two months because of this, because that's the first 486 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 1: thing you do if your boyfriend cheats on you, girl, 487 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 1: the first thing you do, first thing you do right, 488 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 1: and then now do you get to test? You texting? 489 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 1: And you'd be like because in you now I'm in 490 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 1: the doctor's office, exactly. I just did this like two 491 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 1: months ago. That's how you feel. My man wasn't even cheated. 492 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 1: I just suspected it and I was wrong. And you 493 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: gotta text h maybe like if I had something I'm 494 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 1: saying and it ended up paying for my g y 495 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,360 Speaker 1: M visit. It's like that. It's like you have you'll 496 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: ever seen Why did I get married? Yes, and home 497 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: girl gets contracted disease. But she got it from from 498 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 1: other dude and brought it back and he's like, well, 499 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 1: I wasn't even I didn't get it from my baby. 500 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 1: She was like you're right, or you didn't get it 501 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,639 Speaker 1: from your baby mom's you got it from Walter because 502 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,879 Speaker 1: I got it? No, that was that was? Was that 503 00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 1: why did I get married? Yeah? And that's why did 504 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 1: I get married to the I love that movie, but 505 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: me too. I just I feel like it's it's always 506 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 1: an uncomfortable conversation to have, but I feel like you 507 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 1: gotta have it really, like just break the ice, like 508 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,439 Speaker 1: get it out the way earlier. What abit if you're 509 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 1: dating a guy and he and you asked me, have 510 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,880 Speaker 1: you ever had an STD? Right? Do you ask that? 511 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,199 Speaker 1: And if he tells you yes, I did, does that 512 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,880 Speaker 1: change anything? No, depends on what the s CD is. Right. 513 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 1: It's not good to something that goes away. Yeah, I 514 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 1: mean if you told me and then we're gonna have 515 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,160 Speaker 1: a hold, that changes the whole conversation. Yeah, that's quiet 516 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,119 Speaker 1: I had. But you know, like, yeah, I had. I 517 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,199 Speaker 1: had clamdia when I was eighteen. I don't even want 518 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 1: to know that. That's too much for me. I don't 519 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,919 Speaker 1: think a guy would be honest anyway, you know, you know, 520 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 1: I don't think guys would be honest even now. I 521 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: think they were, because they'd be afraid that if they 522 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: told they're not going to be honest but having STD 523 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 1: in the past, and they're not going to be honest 524 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,119 Speaker 1: about liking that bootyhole. Look, but we knew they love it. 525 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:09,879 Speaker 1: See so I look like and you've had STD to 526 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: lick my man's ass. He would drop kick me. You think. 527 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 1: Never I joke with him, and you know I'm with it. 528 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 1: You know I'm with you. I'm with he drinks Tennessee, 529 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 1: he will straight up drop kick me. Now what if? 530 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:28,479 Speaker 1: What if when he gets out of jail he likes it. 531 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 1: Stop playing out of jail, he's gonna have the hairless 532 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 1: But what I always wanted you to try? You never 533 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 1: and he gonna hit you with that mud doesn't even 534 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 1: like to funk me in my ass, like we like 535 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 1: we wanted to try it, and he's like, no, I 536 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 1: don't really like that, right, Yeah, he's not circumcised. He 537 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 1: doesn't like having he's circumcised. No, he's not, so he 538 00:26:56,119 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: gets smegma. No, he's so clean still underneath you never 539 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:09,639 Speaker 1: never like telling you penis. It's like dead cells or something. 540 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: And like, I'm sorry that non circumcis. That's a deal 541 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: breaking for me. I don't care how many is not? Like? 542 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 1: Not have not? You know why? I like? You know 543 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,199 Speaker 1: why I like to fun with guys who have uncircumcised 544 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: penis because I know that they have to be extra 545 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 1: clean with themselves. You know, I don't because if you 546 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,199 Speaker 1: don't take care of it, you know, but you like, 547 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 1: if you don't take care of it and I go 548 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 1: down on you, I will smell it, you know, and 549 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 1: that that's disgusting. Many guys have you mess that have 550 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 1: been uncircumcised. I've been friends for you. It's not a preference. 551 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,680 Speaker 1: It's not a preference because I honestly think that penis 552 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,680 Speaker 1: looks prettier when it's a circumcis because I don't have 553 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 1: to play you hoodie back. No, but it looks. But 554 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,640 Speaker 1: some like I've been, Um, I don't know where you guys, 555 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 1: there's a lot of men out there that are uncircumcised, 556 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 1: and um, you know some guys have a lot of skins, 557 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 1: especially a lot of island there not circumcise. Yes, yeah, 558 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 1: and um, like I mean my my current boyfriend, he's 559 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 1: he's so clean and like he smells. So it's still 560 00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 1: different with the uncircumcised penis. No, it doesn't I think 561 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 1: it feels different for them because they have two different sensations. 562 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 1: They have the sensation of sex with the skin over 563 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 1: the head, and then they have the sensation of sex 564 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: when the skin goes back so painful? Is that different? 565 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 1: When you give a blowdown, don't you gotta hold it 566 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 1: back right now? That's another thing when you give a blowjob, 567 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 1: like you really have a lot of right, that's too 568 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: much skin, so you guys leave it. That's what she 569 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 1: was doing. It's just too much. Like I don't know 570 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: what kind of dick's break, are you gonna park like players? No, 571 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 1: but you know, I'm when given when you when you're 572 00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 1: giving a blowjob to a guy with a circumtan dick, 573 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: you have to pay attention to what they like, you know, 574 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: Like some guys don't want you to push the skin back. 575 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 1: They want you to suck their dick over the skin, okay, 576 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,240 Speaker 1: and then other you know, or you gotta like build 577 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: up into pushing the skin back. You can't just go 578 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: with like back and then and then go and then 579 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,959 Speaker 1: go crazy, you know, you have to like build it up. 580 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 1: So it's like driving stack two hands. I don't use 581 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,040 Speaker 1: hands when i'm I don't I don't use hands. I don't. 582 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 1: I don't use my hands when I'm giving a job. 583 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: Not usually no, because I feel like yeah for the guys, 584 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't hands on the guys. I find 585 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 1: guys like when a yeah you got. The only time 586 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: I'll use the hand is like if I need to 587 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: use my hand to push it behind, like my tonsils 588 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: like to push it, you know, to push it back 589 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 1: for deep throating. It has to be a bad dick 590 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: like to you know, to have to use the hands 591 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 1: for me to be pushing it. No, but you know 592 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,720 Speaker 1: you I could do it. I could. I could push 593 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: the dick. Usually I could push the dick back without 594 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: using my hands. But it's like if he has like 595 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 1: a monster dick, I might need to my hands. Yeah, 596 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if I need my hands now. I 597 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: like to like I do like dutty wines. Do you 598 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:28,720 Speaker 1: have a playlist because this stuff like like like what's 599 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 1: another good song to sectic took and type a fight 600 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 1: song and people fight too, and it's all right, so 601 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: duty one is a good one. Whatever. No, I don't 602 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 1: you know, like the duty wine have motion. I think guys, 603 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 1: I think this except for girls because you know, a 604 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 1: lot of girls don't know how to suck dick and 605 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 1: they just want to go up and down and they 606 00:30:54,080 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: think like take the shop like you need to sucking playlist, 607 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: but will be on the dick sucking playlist. Dick sucking playlist, 608 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 1: good girl, because that, let me tell you, that's a 609 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 1: good on you. Hold you you were you ready to 610 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 1: die for the dick with you just not even thinking? 611 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:20,640 Speaker 1: You call you clock out, blackout. It's all about silent 612 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: to would you No? That's stuff. You gotta have a 613 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: dance to it though, besides the duty white with us? 614 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 1: What's a good dick sucking danced? Wan is good? The 615 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 1: hand motion no? Not not on the head motion, not 616 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 1: the not the body the head banger no, because bang 617 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 1: your head too. Yeah, what about Harlem shake? Could you 618 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 1: harlem shake? You go? You gotta be active with your tongue. No, 619 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: because guys sometimes like if they want to watch what 620 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,720 Speaker 1: you're doing some But that's that's just for that's just 621 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 1: for ships, you know, for the is yours, that's for 622 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: the vis when they ask you questions and you have 623 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:07,280 Speaker 1: your dick and you have their why are you? It's 624 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 1: like being at the dentist and they're trying to talk 625 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,600 Speaker 1: to you. Why would you do That's such a good question. 626 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 1: I hate when I'm sucking dick and the nick is 627 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 1: asking me a question. So you're like, you like, shut 628 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 1: the right, I'm going, yeah, I'm just gonna. I'm not 629 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: even saying you you're talking too much. If you don't 630 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 1: shut the funk up and let me do this, you 631 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,320 Speaker 1: don't just let me work right now? I got no 632 00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:37,760 Speaker 1: work questions during If you asked you a question during 633 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 1: the blood, put his dig down and be like, what 634 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 1: did you want to talk about the conversation forget what 635 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 1: I was doing. Let's get back to you. This is 636 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 1: more important, right all right? Now, here's something else I 637 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 1: wanted to talk about. Lingerie? Oh god, all right now, 638 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: how many of us use lingerie? And do you think 639 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: that guys like it? Because I've heard a lot of 640 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 1: guys say that lingerie. They don't really think it's a 641 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 1: big deal. They're like, okay, you wear it when you're 642 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 1: walking cool? And then now what so are you No? 643 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 1: I used to be a stripper. I don't wear panties. 644 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 1: I don't I don't even have a brow on today. 645 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 1: But but you don't want to wear something like super 646 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:21,640 Speaker 1: dirty and nasty and sexy. So when he walks in, 647 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 1: he's like, damn, the only thing he wanted to see 648 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 1: me in some shoes with a night heal or some 649 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 1: thought high boots or something. No lingerie here. I mean, 650 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,880 Speaker 1: if he asks for it, then I wear it. I 651 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 1: have some ship, you know, from from the old days 652 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 1: that if I can pull out the box or something, 653 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 1: pulling out the old luxury. I mean, yeah, a lot 654 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 1: of little garter, a little garden stock, and with that 655 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 1: tashment a little that's a little at a lot of 656 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: little fun. If he asked for it. But I'm not. 657 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 1: That's not my goal to thing into it. I'd rather 658 00:33:55,080 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: just be naked. The good shoes. Yeah, it's like, wait 659 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,480 Speaker 1: a minute, hold on, what's you who makes this? Just 660 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 1: throw your leg up one time. It's the bottom. It's 661 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 1: just like, okay, I'm with it, he's with it. I 662 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 1: don't know if I like lingrei either. First of all, 663 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 1: it's expensive, let's talk about that. And it's kind of 664 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 1: it's kind of a ways like I don't want to 665 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,239 Speaker 1: walk into I'm not gonna spend a thousand dollars on 666 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 1: all the thousand dollars because guys, but guys don't care 667 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 1: if it's love pla or not. You target well, I 668 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: mean I date some shallow guys, so I think the 669 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 1: guys I date will give is this victorious Like you 670 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 1: just said, Calvin Klein, target label the labor A lot 671 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 1: of guys with labor hordes, they're gonna do. So once 672 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 1: you wear lingerie once, can you wear it again? Or 673 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,080 Speaker 1: the guy we'll see the same guy or like sere 674 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 1: that last weeks. Here's the thing. I actually I bought 675 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 1: a couple of pieces and then they got ruined, like 676 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 1: they got ripped, and I was like, well this is 677 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 1: why wa wait wait wait wait wait back it, back 678 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 1: it up. I bought and it got ripped? How did 679 00:34:58,400 --> 00:34:59,800 Speaker 1: it get ridden? He ripped it off? Too much of? 680 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 1: I should absolutely too much of. And if she spends 681 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,320 Speaker 1: a thousand dollars on lingre, you had not just rip it. 682 00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 1: But this is my point, and replace it and you 683 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: gotta buy a whole new one, going to go online 684 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 1: pick out a new set, and we're gonna have to work. 685 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 1: But that's why maybe it's not worth it to by 686 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 1: expens again. It depends on the guy that you're with. 687 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,359 Speaker 1: And it also depends on the occasion. If, like said, 688 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 1: if you request it, it's different you want. If you 689 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,359 Speaker 1: request it, then been by all means we'll pull something 690 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 1: out for you. But otherwise it's not. On a regular 691 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: Thursday night, you're about to get this. You about to 692 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 1: get these young calvins. If all right, Stephanie ling me. 693 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 1: I like wearing Lingerie, but I put it on and 694 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 1: then it's like the guy comes in the room and 695 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:40,919 Speaker 1: he rips it off. It's over. They don't. I don't 696 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,799 Speaker 1: even feel like that, Like I could buy these. I'm 697 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,840 Speaker 1: telling you, I've invested so much money into good underwear 698 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 1: or like not Victoria's secret crop, like good underwear three 699 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,279 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollar bras. I can't do that, like 700 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 1: really good underwear. And you know these are it feels 701 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,880 Speaker 1: soft and it fits well, and I'm like, oh, I'm 702 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:00,480 Speaker 1: gonna wear this, and I'm gonna wait for him to 703 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,880 Speaker 1: come home and put some shoes on. And as soon 704 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,839 Speaker 1: as the nigga sees that I have shoes on, it's over. 705 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,440 Speaker 1: That's you didn't even notice. So you rather invest in 706 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 1: the shoes. Oh, the shoe is always more worth While 707 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,239 Speaker 1: men loved having sex with girls and shoes. That's that's it, 708 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: just is what it is, whether it's like a Christian 709 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:21,279 Speaker 1: Louba town or a pare Jordan's guys just like ste 710 00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 1: with girls and sneakers. I got my new Jordan's on baby. 711 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 1: They like it, like it. If he's intims, he'll be 712 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:31,480 Speaker 1: happy with you and anything. Honestly, what about is there 713 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 1: anything that a guy can wear that we care about? No, No, 714 00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 1: it's weird, right yeah, yeah, it's a little weird. I 715 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: remember when I first started dating and entertainment. I used 716 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 1: to really really love dating guys with like sick diamond earrings, 717 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,520 Speaker 1: Like I thought it was the sexiest thing in the world. 718 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,440 Speaker 1: But now I don't really notice what the guys like. 719 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,400 Speaker 1: A couple of chains, not a lot, Not like too 720 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:56,799 Speaker 1: much because then it's gonna hit me in the face 721 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 1: at some point, I'm gonna have cuts, you know what 722 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 1: I mean? Tell me you can't be all that, but 723 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,000 Speaker 1: you're chain dipping into my vaginas you go down. Yeah, 724 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,480 Speaker 1: it's it's cool. This is cold metal on my on 725 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 1: my one right now. A couple of a couple of chains. 726 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:13,320 Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that. What about tattoos? I love tattoos. 727 00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 1: To love tattoos, I mean, I'm guys like me said, yes, um, 728 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 1: tattoos are sexy, but it's not something that a guy 729 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 1: has to have. Sometimes just are into tattoos. But when 730 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,839 Speaker 1: you know those that are What about beards? I love 731 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,840 Speaker 1: facial hair. I don't like beers. I like, um, I 732 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:36,600 Speaker 1: liked a little, like it when it's growing. I like 733 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: it when it's when it's nice and roomed and fresh. 734 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:44,480 Speaker 1: Going crazy with these new beards, like they look like lumberjacks, 735 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 1: it gets itchy down there. It's kept. I look at 736 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,720 Speaker 1: these guys with these beards, and I think their beards 737 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 1: smells like whatever they ate. So if you ate a 738 00:37:57,040 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: now you got a pizza beer bill over your beer 739 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 1: and disgusting. Like all right, now here's the next question. Vacations. Okay, okay, Now, 740 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 1: going on vacation with a guy, I feel like that's 741 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,359 Speaker 1: a big commitment. Now I'm gonna tell you my own 742 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,239 Speaker 1: opinion on it. All right. It's I can't go on 743 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,960 Speaker 1: vacation with a guy that I haven't slept with it. 744 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: I don't know like that. I just don't want to 745 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 1: do it because A I don't want to be stuck 746 00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,279 Speaker 1: somewhere with somebody where If you're go on vacation with 747 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,319 Speaker 1: a guy, that's automatically if you haven't slept with him yet, 748 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,440 Speaker 1: that means you have to kind of yeah, it's like, oh, 749 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,600 Speaker 1: we're gonna have sex the first time. That's like saying okay, 750 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 1: it's about to go down, Like, oh, I accept to 751 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,440 Speaker 1: share a room with you. I need to know you 752 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,399 Speaker 1: really well to feel like I want to even spend 753 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,879 Speaker 1: time that I could have been spending, getting money doing 754 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 1: something else. For some pieties working how long is a 755 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:47,680 Speaker 1: vacation always like a weekend? Because you do a weekend 756 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,399 Speaker 1: with somebody, this is like a week like we about 757 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 1: a week. I can't be alone with a guy for 758 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 1: a weekend if I don't know him like that. If 759 00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:55,920 Speaker 1: I if I don't feel like I already know and 760 00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,880 Speaker 1: like you a lot you've got and we have and 761 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 1: we have potential relationship, I don't want to do it. 762 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,880 Speaker 1: Some girls would be like vacation, let's go. I'm in, 763 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: But I can't really do it just because I know, 764 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,520 Speaker 1: like if I go and I don't have a good time, 765 00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 1: there's a million other things I could have been doing, 766 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,360 Speaker 1: and it's gonna bother me, and I'll be annoyed and 767 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 1: it might not work out. What do you think. I 768 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,800 Speaker 1: love vacations, especially going to come along with passport stamps 769 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 1: and new experiences and places that I haven't been, or 770 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 1: that well, let's go for the weekend. What you think? Um, 771 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:35,560 Speaker 1: it depends on the destination. No, for real, because I 772 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 1: can go, I can go with somebody ignored the ship 773 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,000 Speaker 1: out of them and have a great goddamn time and 774 00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:41,799 Speaker 1: I have to worry about having sex with them because 775 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: if I say no, then I say no. I'll take 776 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:44,840 Speaker 1: some tamplines with me and be like, look like I 777 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:47,839 Speaker 1: gotta string no. Sorry oops. But then don't you feel 778 00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:49,719 Speaker 1: like it could be annoying though, because now I'm stuck 779 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:51,960 Speaker 1: here with somebody that I don't even like. I actually, 780 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 1: you know what, I went on vacation, um, not too 781 00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 1: long ago with a guy that I wasn't really I've 782 00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 1: known him for a long time, but we were never 783 00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:03,279 Speaker 1: in a really ship, so I've assumed like I was 784 00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 1: not dreading going on vacation, but I was a little 785 00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:07,239 Speaker 1: worried because I thought that we would be out of 786 00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,879 Speaker 1: the country together for a whole weekend and I maybe 787 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 1: would not have enjoyed his company. And I actually did 788 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,840 Speaker 1: enjoy his company. He wasn't annoying. We had great sex, 789 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,360 Speaker 1: and the beach was nice, and we ate and drank 790 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 1: and it was a good time. But then after that, 791 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:21,960 Speaker 1: you're like, all right, thanks for that, thanks for the 792 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 1: past ports stamp. What do you think vit? I mean, 793 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,360 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not opposed to the idea of a vacation. 794 00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,480 Speaker 1: I think I think you get to know somebody for 795 00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,799 Speaker 1: real when you are away with him. I think there's 796 00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 1: two ways you can get to get to know a guy. 797 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:35,880 Speaker 1: If you live with him, and if you go on 798 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:37,800 Speaker 1: vacation with him, you get to see what his habits 799 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:39,279 Speaker 1: are like. When he gets to the hotel, what does 800 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 1: he do? Does he just throw his ship all over 801 00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: the room? But what if it's super early, he doesn't 802 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,120 Speaker 1: live in the same state as you. You'll just been 803 00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 1: kind of talking on the phone, and then he's like, 804 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 1: you know, but you'll been talking a lot. Well, there's 805 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,240 Speaker 1: gotta be a significant amount of like physical time spent together, 806 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:55,320 Speaker 1: like an accumulation of like we've gone on dates, we've 807 00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: we've you know what I mean, Like you say to 808 00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,320 Speaker 1: my house, I staid at your house, like we we 809 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,480 Speaker 1: have to be on that level of comfort before. But 810 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,080 Speaker 1: I don't think it needs to be you're my boyfriend, 811 00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 1: I'm your girlfriend before we take a trip together. I 812 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,399 Speaker 1: feel like, See, I'm not opposed to you saying let's 813 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:10,040 Speaker 1: go somewhere and I go with my friends or whatever, 814 00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,360 Speaker 1: and you happen to go at the same time that 815 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 1: I go, and then we just hang out when we 816 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,440 Speaker 1: get there. I think that's a perfect first trip with 817 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,319 Speaker 1: somebody that you don't know like that, because I don't 818 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,360 Speaker 1: want to feel like it's just me and you we 819 00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,960 Speaker 1: go away, And I'm cool with it just me and 820 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:25,440 Speaker 1: you we go away, but it's got to be someplace 821 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,520 Speaker 1: where there's no pressure. Like we can't go to like, 822 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 1: you know, France for four days. Like that's not romantic, 823 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:33,560 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like it's really romantic. It's 824 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 1: a lot of like we ain't in love. It's not 825 00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:36,759 Speaker 1: not that kind of party we're gonna We're going to 826 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:38,880 Speaker 1: Jamaica for four all right, I'm down for Jamaica four 827 00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: a weekend. Let's go we out Like I'm cool with 828 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 1: that because I also I also trust myself enough to 829 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 1: know that if I'm wherever I'm at, I'm gonna have 830 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:47,960 Speaker 1: a good time. So if so, even if you're not, 831 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 1: because by the way, there's nothing worse than going on 832 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,279 Speaker 1: vacation with somebody and you don't have a good time 833 00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,239 Speaker 1: with them, and that's how and you get into a 834 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 1: fight or it just doesn't go the way that you 835 00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,799 Speaker 1: anticipated it, because that's the kind of thing that can 836 00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 1: make the break of relationship. Well that's the thing too. 837 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,759 Speaker 1: You have to discuss who's paying for the vacation, if 838 00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:08,280 Speaker 1: you like, if you if you paying for the vacation. 839 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:09,719 Speaker 1: I need to know. My name has to be on 840 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,239 Speaker 1: this room. I need to know if there's no there's 841 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,120 Speaker 1: if there's any issues, if anything goes down and you 842 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,200 Speaker 1: happen to decide we get into a fight, whatever the 843 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,239 Speaker 1: case is. You're not putting me out nowhere. That's not 844 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:21,480 Speaker 1: Oh my god, can you imagine? I listen, I had 845 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 1: I heard it. Had a horrible, horrible story told to 846 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 1: me about a girl, a friend of a friend, that 847 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 1: went on vacation with her man he paid for the 848 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 1: whole thing. They got into a fight. He left her 849 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,360 Speaker 1: there like was piste off at her and left like 850 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 1: like a day or two early, and left her there, 851 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:38,800 Speaker 1: So she ended up having to spend like like like 852 00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:42,319 Speaker 1: seven or like an extra night in the hotel because 853 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 1: it was it would have cost her like seven hundreds 854 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 1: to change your flight, like it would have just been crazy. 855 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,360 Speaker 1: It was like some wild and Saint Bart's left her 856 00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:52,280 Speaker 1: there and that's and that's the end of the relationship. 857 00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,160 Speaker 1: That's it always quiet. I'm that's no now it's a 858 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:56,680 Speaker 1: fight if I see you now and you left me 859 00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,959 Speaker 1: in a foreign place, bro because I remember my family 860 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,600 Speaker 1: not a vacation with her boyfriend and they actually and 861 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:05,719 Speaker 1: they were in Jamaica and they got into a huge 862 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:07,399 Speaker 1: by instant words because you know, it's how it didn't 863 00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,280 Speaker 1: make those long distance out of the country calls and everything. 864 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,080 Speaker 1: And she kept calling me. I was liked, girl, stop 865 00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 1: calling me. Your phone was gonna be crazy. But it 866 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:15,879 Speaker 1: was awful of her because I'm not the country. I'm 867 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,880 Speaker 1: with this guy that I'm not getting along with. Bang Stephanie, 868 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,759 Speaker 1: what do you think about vacations? Well, for me, I 869 00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:25,440 Speaker 1: mean when I first when I first became single three 870 00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,640 Speaker 1: years ago, I I kind of burnt myself out. I 871 00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:35,240 Speaker 1: traveled the whole world from like Japan, Tokyo, the islands, 872 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:44,560 Speaker 1: you know, Like it was like, yeah, I traveled so much, 873 00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 1: So at this point, I just I don't want to 874 00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:51,320 Speaker 1: travel with anybody unless it's my friends, my girlfriends, or 875 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,320 Speaker 1: somebody i'm really in love with. Like, I don't trust 876 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 1: any of these guys. They get on my nerves as 877 00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,759 Speaker 1: soon as I get on the airplane that I'm like, 878 00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,440 Speaker 1: they're crazy. So for my guys, definitely, no, I swear 879 00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:05,520 Speaker 1: I can't. I just rather like, let's just go on 880 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 1: a local date. I don't want to travel with anyone. 881 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 1: I can't go on vacations with guys that I'm just 882 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 1: getting to know because nine out of ten times, again 883 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:15,359 Speaker 1: on my nerves and I end up buying. This has 884 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,680 Speaker 1: happened to me several times. I end up getting my 885 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,400 Speaker 1: own room and spending just as much money as they 886 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 1: spent to bring me out. So so what was the point? 887 00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:24,960 Speaker 1: I remember? One time, I end up by myself. That's 888 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,640 Speaker 1: what happens. One time I was had this chip plan 889 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: with my ex boyfriend and we were going away and 890 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,320 Speaker 1: I knew I didn't want to be with him anymore, 891 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,239 Speaker 1: but the CHIP was planned for like five months, so 892 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,719 Speaker 1: I didn't want to break up with him before the trip. 893 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,879 Speaker 1: I actually was like, I'm a way till after because 894 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,160 Speaker 1: I felt like that would be kind of wrong. He 895 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,520 Speaker 1: couldn't do nothing with my flight, So we went on 896 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,000 Speaker 1: the trip. Every night, I made sure he got so 897 00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:46,600 Speaker 1: drunk that he passed out so I didn't have to 898 00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:50,680 Speaker 1: have sex with him. Damn it was. Yeah, it was off, 899 00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 1: but actually I didn't have a bad time. I didn't 900 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:54,799 Speaker 1: have a bad time. It was funny. And then as 901 00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,600 Speaker 1: soon as we got back, I just stopped dating him. 902 00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,840 Speaker 1: But the only reason I did it was because I 903 00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 1: you're going this vacation, I'm up every night. You're not 904 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: gonna get no pussy's over. I only did it because 905 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:10,400 Speaker 1: I didn't want to ruin it because I knew what 906 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:11,920 Speaker 1: you couldn't even put it on him with the sun, 907 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,040 Speaker 1: with the sun coming up, like you don't want it. 908 00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying, Like like I've been on vacations, 909 00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,880 Speaker 1: Like I've been on vacations with ex boyfriends, trying to 910 00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:24,759 Speaker 1: work it out, trying to make it better, and it 911 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 1: just makes it worse and I just end up. What 912 00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,840 Speaker 1: happens with me is we'll be on the resort and 913 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:31,480 Speaker 1: I'll leave your way as to hang out with like 914 00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,680 Speaker 1: the people who work at the resort and didn't workers exactly, 915 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 1: I like at the all inclusive bar by my I 916 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,560 Speaker 1: actually went on vacation with one of my exployments. It 917 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:43,680 Speaker 1: was his mind's fiftieth birthday. Was a family trip and 918 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,480 Speaker 1: we ended up getting into it. Me and him ended 919 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,399 Speaker 1: up getting into it. It doesn't work, and I went 920 00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 1: and got my own room. That's what happens with me. 921 00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 1: That's exactly what happens to me. I'm totally but at 922 00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,200 Speaker 1: this point, like I'm totally unmoved with traveling, Like it's 923 00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,040 Speaker 1: it's like I've been everywhere already. But that's why I 924 00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,200 Speaker 1: feel like a when it's important to me sure you 925 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,080 Speaker 1: have enough money that if you need to have to 926 00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:06,680 Speaker 1: get your flight, you're able to do that. That's important. 927 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,879 Speaker 1: I'm very grateful that I always did have the money. 928 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:12,279 Speaker 1: You have to make sure that you're okay so that 929 00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,600 Speaker 1: if things don't work out or whatever. But I do 930 00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:16,480 Speaker 1: feel like if you accept a trip from a guy, 931 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,719 Speaker 1: that there is some type of expectation that goes with that. 932 00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,239 Speaker 1: Right if you're paying for my flight and you're paying 933 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:23,719 Speaker 1: from my room and all of that and we're going 934 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:27,640 Speaker 1: away together. We plan to have sex with you. We're 935 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,399 Speaker 1: going to share now that you have to. But that's 936 00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,360 Speaker 1: the expectation that comes along with the whole situation. Like 937 00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:34,840 Speaker 1: if I don't want to as to you, I shouldn't 938 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,000 Speaker 1: be going on a trip with you that you like. 939 00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:39,320 Speaker 1: I can't really think of a time that I traveled 940 00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,279 Speaker 1: with a man and I didn't bust it for him 941 00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 1: one time. I can't. I can't bust Most of the 942 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:52,040 Speaker 1: traveling that I've done, fortunately, has been with the same person. 943 00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: That's good. Yeah, and you've been on a lot of 944 00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 1: those trips, um and we were like in a real 945 00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:05,360 Speaker 1: relationship and we would like have our little arguments, but 946 00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:06,800 Speaker 1: it was never to the point where I felt like 947 00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:12,920 Speaker 1: getting out with the yah. Yeah yeah, yeah, I've actually 948 00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:16,680 Speaker 1: made friends with a lot of us. Yeah, well, because 949 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,560 Speaker 1: I'm always I'm too. I've only I've only gone on 950 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,839 Speaker 1: a few trips with guys with boyfriends, and it's been 951 00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 1: and it's always been great. If we get into an argument, 952 00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:25,200 Speaker 1: we get into a fight, i'd be making friends with 953 00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:31,680 Speaker 1: the rest. You want to act up air and it's 954 00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,919 Speaker 1: gonna be Carlo has been holding you down all day. 955 00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:37,560 Speaker 1: If you if you have a boyfriend and you guys 956 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,560 Speaker 1: planning a vacation together. Do you think that he has 957 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,920 Speaker 1: to pay for you? Yeah? Or do you can you 958 00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 1: pay for yourself? I mean it depends if he's planning 959 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:46,919 Speaker 1: the trip. He yeah, if he's planning. If I planned 960 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,319 Speaker 1: a trip, I'm paying for this, my treet. I am right, yes, 961 00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 1: But if he planned that, babe, we should go to yes, 962 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,879 Speaker 1: baby to pay for that's how. Yeah. And I've done 963 00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 1: that for guys. I've done that, you know, I take 964 00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,360 Speaker 1: up No, I'm lyne. I took a guy to my Miami. 965 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,360 Speaker 1: That's not for real, right, I was funny, what's funny 966 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:10,560 Speaker 1: taking let's let's let's not even Puerto Rico. But this 967 00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:13,040 Speaker 1: is the funny part is I took then into Miami 968 00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 1: and it was Memorial Day weekend, so I never you know, 969 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 1: I took him to Miami and we started arguing it 970 00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,000 Speaker 1: was my trip. I took him. I paid for the room, 971 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,759 Speaker 1: I paid for his flight, you know whatever. He was 972 00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,800 Speaker 1: paying for dinners or whatever. But we got into an argument. 973 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 1: It's Miami, man, I know a lot of people. You 974 00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 1: don't want to with me in Miami. Yeah, So I 975 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 1: was like, all right, I don't know about exactly made 976 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,880 Speaker 1: to get picked up on the boat. You yeah, like 977 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,360 Speaker 1: like I had us saying at the Dream Hotel. You 978 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:45,960 Speaker 1: know that's regular. I made one phone call. I had 979 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,360 Speaker 1: a room at the Montreal that I did not pay for. 980 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,160 Speaker 1: Like I was like, you know, I know so many people, 981 00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:55,239 Speaker 1: and he was he was by himself. He was living 982 00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,320 Speaker 1: a dream at the Dream Home too, calling me and 983 00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,800 Speaker 1: I'm like with my whole girls and me, I'm like, nigga, 984 00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,400 Speaker 1: take your guys back to New York. Anybody gets time 985 00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:05,600 Speaker 1: figure and you're welcome, by the way, because yeah, but 986 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,279 Speaker 1: like if you said yeah, you're you're welcome, now you 987 00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:12,640 Speaker 1: gotta stand saying because you're welcome. But you know, I agree, 988 00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,120 Speaker 1: like if you if he's playing a trip, he should 989 00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:16,960 Speaker 1: pay for everything. Maybe you could pay for a dinner 990 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:19,359 Speaker 1: or something, or maybe buy him a nice gift while 991 00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,600 Speaker 1: you traveling. I went that though, because if you pay 992 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 1: for everything, then yes, I'll pay for like the dinner 993 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 1: even or for shopping. I'll buy you something like something cute, 994 00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:34,640 Speaker 1: you know, something romantic, something soul. Gifts are always a 995 00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 1: good likeing for guy. It's the little things that can 996 00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:41,160 Speaker 1: I'm a gift giver. Yeah, me too, me too. A 997 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,640 Speaker 1: lot of women are more are very giving. But could 998 00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,680 Speaker 1: you date a guy who wasn't a gift giver? No? 999 00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:50,360 Speaker 1: No hesitation? Well no, because I put a lot of 1000 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,320 Speaker 1: thought into what a guy likes. What you like, what 1001 00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:54,880 Speaker 1: you certain certain small things, what you the kind of 1002 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:56,560 Speaker 1: food you eat, how you know what mean, the kind 1003 00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:58,640 Speaker 1: of things, that kind of drinks you. I'm paying attention 1004 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:01,400 Speaker 1: to what you like. It's all encompassing for me. So 1005 00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 1: if I'm taking the time out to do that and 1006 00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 1: really be attentive to that, you need to do the 1007 00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,880 Speaker 1: same thing. It's amazing how many guys can say that 1008 00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,080 Speaker 1: they've never been in a relationship where they really had 1009 00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,840 Speaker 1: to go above and beyond. Like I've come across a 1010 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,040 Speaker 1: lot of guys who have been like, well, I've never 1011 00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:17,000 Speaker 1: had to do anything like this for girlfriends that I've 1012 00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 1: had before. I don't really know how to do certain things. 1013 00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,440 Speaker 1: That's when you teach them. Yeah, And they'll say, you 1014 00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,279 Speaker 1: have to teach me, And I don't really want to 1015 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,320 Speaker 1: teach anybody. I do mind, I don't. I don't like 1016 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,200 Speaker 1: teaching anything. I feel like it's just why I like 1017 00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,759 Speaker 1: dating guys to tell you what you need to do. 1018 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,000 Speaker 1: I'm not mad at the teaching me neither, Like I 1019 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:36,040 Speaker 1: feel like it's something you as a woman, You're always 1020 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:40,040 Speaker 1: going to have to teach the man something. And always, 1021 00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:41,880 Speaker 1: even if you think somebody that's older, you're gonna have 1022 00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 1: to retrain and unlearn whatever the last bit did. And 1023 00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:46,360 Speaker 1: then if it's a younger guy, you gotta really you 1024 00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,560 Speaker 1: gotta no no better. I got to help him out. 1025 00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:51,000 Speaker 1: That's what I like about dating older guys is that 1026 00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:52,920 Speaker 1: I never have to teach them how to eat my pussy. 1027 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,640 Speaker 1: They always already know. But everybody likes and we talked 1028 00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:59,120 Speaker 1: about this. We all like different things. I feel like, yeah, 1029 00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 1: you know, I like a little if I like to 1030 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,800 Speaker 1: get stuck, I don't like to. I don't like. I 1031 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:05,799 Speaker 1: don't like. You're the only person I know who likes 1032 00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:09,279 Speaker 1: tea and know. But you know, I like I like 1033 00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,399 Speaker 1: um like for me, like my my clip is really 1034 00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:23,799 Speaker 1: like the guys having a dentist in your pus. It's 1035 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:27,440 Speaker 1: just a but like my clip is like really hidden, 1036 00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,880 Speaker 1: you know, Like I have a all clip. Like my 1037 00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,960 Speaker 1: pussy is fat, but in the inside everything is like micro. 1038 00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:36,759 Speaker 1: Everything is so small on the inside, so like I 1039 00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:41,000 Speaker 1: need some pressure I need roughness to feel it looks like. 1040 00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:47,200 Speaker 1: I take pictures of it. I take pictures and you 1041 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:48,920 Speaker 1: send them to people. No, I just want to know 1042 00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,600 Speaker 1: what it looks like like if I'm having a good 1043 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,160 Speaker 1: day or something happens if I'm home, and because I mean, 1044 00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:56,400 Speaker 1: I'm I'm a good day pussy shot. I mean I'm 1045 00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 1: a frequent I'm a frequent masturbator. Whether I'm every day, 1046 00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,440 Speaker 1: your nails, there's no where to lose the vibrators of 1047 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:08,120 Speaker 1: all but my fingers are long, so we get a 1048 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:13,560 Speaker 1: lot done done. My nails actually work out very well 1049 00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,000 Speaker 1: because the gen you get to that spot, there's a 1050 00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:19,320 Speaker 1: spot that's like right underneath and the water spot the 1051 00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,359 Speaker 1: water spot, and you get right underneath when you get 1052 00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:25,880 Speaker 1: inside the it just it touches a little gentle with myself. 1053 00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:30,799 Speaker 1: So it works out well. I'm when my nails, Yeah, 1054 00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:33,080 Speaker 1: like I take I take it. I'm like I've done 1055 00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:35,120 Speaker 1: it with the camera to see like that it looks like. 1056 00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:37,120 Speaker 1: Because also the other part of it is too. If 1057 00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:39,080 Speaker 1: I ever come across the guy that doesn't know my 1058 00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,000 Speaker 1: body makeup, I want to I wanna be able. I 1059 00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,040 Speaker 1: gotta be able to tell you what it be like, okay, 1060 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:48,399 Speaker 1: a diagram to the right of that, Like, I'm gonna 1061 00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,840 Speaker 1: be able to give you accurate directions on how to 1062 00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 1: how to please. You're gonna take some pictures of my 1063 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:57,440 Speaker 1: vagina lytiate you don't even need to take handmera and 1064 00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:05,279 Speaker 1: just had spread it around. Yeah, yeah, I know if 1065 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:09,120 Speaker 1: my vagina was like again, I know stephan he does 1066 00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:12,880 Speaker 1: because she showed us like, oh pretty much putty looked yesterday. 1067 00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 1: I spent a lot of time for my life naked, 1068 00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,839 Speaker 1: so I kind of have a visio of like, yeah, 1069 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,920 Speaker 1: so you don't have pictures though, of your vagina. I 1070 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:25,000 Speaker 1: don't keep that type of stuff. I don't have my 1071 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 1: phone at it. But I'm not keeping don't I've lost 1072 00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 1: too many phones that have like pictures of my naked body. 1073 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,920 Speaker 1: But I will say this, but so what because if 1074 00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:34,200 Speaker 1: your face isn't in it, who can Well, yeah, that's straight. 1075 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:39,160 Speaker 1: Well you know what I have. I have. I I 1076 00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,759 Speaker 1: have a I don't really want to call it traumatizing, 1077 00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:45,400 Speaker 1: but I've gotten myself into a situation a few years 1078 00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:49,200 Speaker 1: back where I had this one picture of myself that 1079 00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:51,640 Speaker 1: I had taken at the strip club and it was 1080 00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,439 Speaker 1: so bombed that I sent it to like every guy, 1081 00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:59,360 Speaker 1: and um, you know, niggas talk more than bitches and 1082 00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,279 Speaker 1: they like the bragg and ship. So this guy is 1083 00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:04,560 Speaker 1: like going through pictures in his phone and showing people. 1084 00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:08,560 Speaker 1: And he showed my boyfriend. Oh my god, bro, that's terrible. 1085 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:12,120 Speaker 1: He showed my boy to him. Yeah, that's one thing 1086 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:16,880 Speaker 1: I don't do. I don't send a real serious well 1087 00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:20,759 Speaker 1: guess what. There was a photo exactly and guess you 1088 00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,439 Speaker 1: can guess what. Ever, since then, I have not said 1089 00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:25,640 Speaker 1: I haven't even sent him a picture of my job. 1090 00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,839 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. When camera phones first came out, 1091 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:31,840 Speaker 1: I used to send pictures and get pictures to everybody. Everybody. 1092 00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:33,640 Speaker 1: Oh I have a next cell with a camera phone. 1093 00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,839 Speaker 1: I'm sending naked pictures to everyone. I'm away to parent 1094 00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:43,080 Speaker 1: and this now forget it, now you come back. OK. 1095 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 1: The thing, there's no bad naked pictures of me out there, 1096 00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,680 Speaker 1: a man, That's what I'm talking about. Like, you know what, 1097 00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:52,680 Speaker 1: nobody sends bad naked pictures that he picture you getting 1098 00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,440 Speaker 1: a full front of you, get cakes on the side. 1099 00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:56,000 Speaker 1: You're getting a little that little v cut in the 1100 00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,560 Speaker 1: hell that might actually listen. We don't know how we 1101 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:01,839 Speaker 1: can sell a couple of and I don't always tell 1102 00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,799 Speaker 1: my facetip. But I've had too many tattoos to say 1103 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:06,000 Speaker 1: it's not me. So I just don't take naked pictures 1104 00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,160 Speaker 1: well for me, Like when, like I said, a couple 1105 00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,080 Speaker 1: of years ago, I used to send them out, but 1106 00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 1: now today President Day, Yeah, everybody want to see that. No, 1107 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,719 Speaker 1: but now like it's it's like pulling teeth together to 1108 00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,480 Speaker 1: send you even even you want to see me, baby, 1109 00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:31,000 Speaker 1: just call me in FaceTime. FaceTime. You can't get me 1110 00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:33,239 Speaker 1: a picture on my face for me to say. You 1111 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:35,279 Speaker 1: pose the question though, because this was a conversation I 1112 00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 1: had and I actually went on the snapchat ran about 1113 00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 1: a friend of mine perpetually gets dick pis. Oh I 1114 00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:46,279 Speaker 1: think dick picks are so tacky. I asked for it 1115 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:48,480 Speaker 1: because here's the thing. I'm not like, I'm a I'm 1116 00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:49,960 Speaker 1: a little bit, I'm a I'm a freak, but I'm 1117 00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:52,040 Speaker 1: not a pervert. So I'm not gonna look at your 1118 00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:57,680 Speaker 1: at your like for a filtered dick. And that's the word, Like, 1119 00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,880 Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm so on the dick picky. This 1120 00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:03,480 Speaker 1: is a problem. The only problem I have a dick 1121 00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,719 Speaker 1: picks is a if I'm not even never had sex 1122 00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:08,480 Speaker 1: with you, never did anything, you send a dick pick. 1123 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:10,560 Speaker 1: I have a problem with that because I didn't ask 1124 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:14,160 Speaker 1: you to send this, okay, and thinking other girls probably 1125 00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:16,680 Speaker 1: have this one or one of the spade, because you 1126 00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,960 Speaker 1: know this is the picture, you know you said you 1127 00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:23,080 Speaker 1: sent it to everybody else, And then I don't need 1128 00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:26,319 Speaker 1: an Ashley dick pick. You put some motion on that ship. 1129 00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:28,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to dick pick at all. I don't 1130 00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:30,239 Speaker 1: want to. Don't mind dick picks. I don't mind either 1131 00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:32,680 Speaker 1: if I ask you, I don't want it. I wish 1132 00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:34,359 Speaker 1: I wish my man could send me a dick pick 1133 00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:36,400 Speaker 1: from jail. I don't want to dick picks, so I 1134 00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:39,640 Speaker 1: don't want to selfie. I don't want any picks. I 1135 00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:42,600 Speaker 1: don't Penises can be beautiful. I think so too. I 1136 00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:44,360 Speaker 1: think they are two, but they're beautiful in my vagina 1137 00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:49,160 Speaker 1: and in my mouth. Thank you. You don't want to 1138 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:51,719 Speaker 1: see a picture of your man's penis? No, sorry, but 1139 00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:53,920 Speaker 1: the iPhone now is not going to do a man's 1140 00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,120 Speaker 1: penis any justice. I'm thinking, at the length of this, 1141 00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,840 Speaker 1: this is ten megapixel camera. We're doing no type of 1142 00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:00,640 Speaker 1: magic with this phone right here. Now, I've seen some 1143 00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:04,120 Speaker 1: nice dick picks. I'm not I've seen some nice ones soon. 1144 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:06,960 Speaker 1: That doesn't mean I want But the worst thing is 1145 00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 1: when a guy is just randomly send you like you 1146 00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,160 Speaker 1: know what the worst is if a guy sends you 1147 00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:17,720 Speaker 1: a dick pick and you don't say nothing, that's what 1148 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:20,360 Speaker 1: I'll do. I was like, and then he hits you like, um, 1149 00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:25,520 Speaker 1: did you get so? You know? I got that? Sad? 1150 00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:28,720 Speaker 1: You know what's the word? So of a guy? A 1151 00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:30,520 Speaker 1: guy's like, send me a picture and you send him 1152 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:31,960 Speaker 1: like a cute little selfie and he sent you a 1153 00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,480 Speaker 1: dick pick back, and you just be like, how are 1154 00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:36,720 Speaker 1: you taking it? There? You send you a dick pick 1155 00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:38,280 Speaker 1: that you don't want to hit him back and be like, hey, 1156 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:42,640 Speaker 1: this is Bridget's boyfriend. You know what's mad uncomfortable is 1157 00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,960 Speaker 1: if it's like on cute, like damn nig you was 1158 00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:47,240 Speaker 1: cute up like you're hard ready to go for right 1159 00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:52,680 Speaker 1: because when the archives I was sexing you about the 1160 00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:57,560 Speaker 1: same football, you can't pick you can't. But that's what 1161 00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying. If it's unwarranted, So what you're doing over 1162 00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:01,919 Speaker 1: there and we weren't even in this in this type 1163 00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:04,240 Speaker 1: of conversation, and you just let you live over there 1164 00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:06,800 Speaker 1: by yourself. I'm gonna question you a little bit. Probably 1165 00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:10,600 Speaker 1: it was an oldie in the archives he had that 1166 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:12,920 Speaker 1: we made too much information, like I didn't need to 1167 00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:14,640 Speaker 1: know you had a hard but I feel like, you know, 1168 00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:18,840 Speaker 1: he took twelve of um listen, we're selfie queens, at 1169 00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 1: least twelve here on the couch. Like you think about 1170 00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 1: him with snap snap snaps. I don't know. It's always 1171 00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:27,960 Speaker 1: an warranted though. It's always when you don't ask for 1172 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:29,200 Speaker 1: it that the guy want to send it because he 1173 00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:30,840 Speaker 1: don't want to. It's just kind of like, let me 1174 00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:32,040 Speaker 1: just let you know where my head is. But I'm 1175 00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,200 Speaker 1: gonna tell you what pretty dick swag at Gmail. That 1176 00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,080 Speaker 1: is the email that I have if you want to 1177 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:38,160 Speaker 1: send pieces of a peanuts and we'll take a look 1178 00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,520 Speaker 1: at it and analyze it. A lot of people have 1179 00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:44,320 Speaker 1: send pictures sometimes and the best thing to do is, yes, 1180 00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,160 Speaker 1: do something like put something next to it so we 1181 00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:50,840 Speaker 1: can get an idea. Like for breeze, can I look 1182 00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:52,600 Speaker 1: at every time I look at my remote control? I 1183 00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,280 Speaker 1: can't look at it the same because I feel like 1184 00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:58,120 Speaker 1: God's really used the remote control for the cable and 1185 00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:02,640 Speaker 1: the cable to measure their dick. Do you want to 1186 00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:05,320 Speaker 1: got to masturbate in front of you? If I have 1187 00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:08,360 Speaker 1: my period? Like, how would you? I still think my 1188 00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:11,000 Speaker 1: mouth was good. I had. I had a guy masturbate 1189 00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:12,640 Speaker 1: in front of me, and it was kind of hot. 1190 00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, right, it was a little 1191 00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:16,520 Speaker 1: hot because he was looking at me, so it was 1192 00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:18,920 Speaker 1: like you turn off, So you really you having a 1193 00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,560 Speaker 1: moment and what were you doing? What I was just 1194 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,440 Speaker 1: I was just talking nasty to him, like asking him 1195 00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,080 Speaker 1: and it was work. It worked. It was that sounds 1196 00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:29,840 Speaker 1: like a good time. That sounds like it's the ultimate 1197 00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,280 Speaker 1: confidence booster. I'm just sitting there, like sitting on it's 1198 00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:35,080 Speaker 1: just sitting their legs open like pussy dripping, and you 1199 00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:36,760 Speaker 1: just there, you just doing your thing and I'm talking 1200 00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:41,720 Speaker 1: You're just going come on you? Um no not? Did 1201 00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:44,640 Speaker 1: it come? Yeah? And then so you didn't want to 1202 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:46,320 Speaker 1: have sex, you were okay with him, just cool. I 1203 00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:47,920 Speaker 1: was cool with that. I wasn't even in the mood 1204 00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:49,720 Speaker 1: to have sex. It was what was fine. But but 1205 00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:51,720 Speaker 1: all of that nasty talking on that that didn't make 1206 00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,560 Speaker 1: you in the mood like it did. But at that 1207 00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,160 Speaker 1: at that moment too though, I just I kind of 1208 00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:57,240 Speaker 1: felt like I kind of feel like I kind of 1209 00:59:57,480 --> 00:59:59,720 Speaker 1: like like I'm winning right now, like this is my 1210 00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:01,000 Speaker 1: moment and I'm a shine for a minute and then 1211 01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:02,400 Speaker 1: maybe we'll get back to the later. Yeah, And that 1212 01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,280 Speaker 1: sounds like a really big turn on. It would be 1213 01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:08,880 Speaker 1: for me. Where I'm masturbating and you're masturbating, we're just 1214 01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:11,280 Speaker 1: going off. But you also, you can just look at me. 1215 01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:13,400 Speaker 1: You don't even have to touch me, and that's enough 1216 01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:15,520 Speaker 1: for you. If you sleep, What if you're sleeping and 1217 01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:19,000 Speaker 1: he's next to you and you wake up. I've been 1218 01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:22,400 Speaker 1: through that where I'm sleeping and my man is like 1219 01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,760 Speaker 1: touching my ass, jiggling my ass, jerking off, and I 1220 01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,320 Speaker 1: wake up like, damn, you could have just sucked me right. 1221 01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:30,320 Speaker 1: You didn't have to masterate. You couldn't just do all that. 1222 01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,400 Speaker 1: But he wasn't trying to get in trouble. He had 1223 01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,360 Speaker 1: he would have had we would have had to believe 1224 01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:36,600 Speaker 1: the bed to get the condom and come bad. He 1225 01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:39,440 Speaker 1: was doing a lot in the middle of the night. Yes, 1226 01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:42,640 Speaker 1: and sometimes guys masturbate because it's easier. They don't feel 1227 01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:44,320 Speaker 1: like going do all the trouble at having sex. They 1228 01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 1: just want to come real fast and not have to 1229 01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:51,480 Speaker 1: please you. That's selfish. But if you're I don't mind, 1230 01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:53,680 Speaker 1: wake me up, hit me and hit with the dick 1231 01:00:54,200 --> 01:01:02,000 Speaker 1: likes somebody hit me in the head like a guy 1232 01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:03,640 Speaker 1: slapping in the face with this. You know I'm not 1233 01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:06,880 Speaker 1: here for that. I'll be feeling away like like do 1234 01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,080 Speaker 1: you think this is we're doing a porn Like? What 1235 01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:11,760 Speaker 1: do you think it's a little just feel good, It's 1236 01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:14,800 Speaker 1: very It is just like not like I know you 1237 01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:17,760 Speaker 1: saying your dick I say, I wasn't saying that's what 1238 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:19,640 Speaker 1: I want. I'm just saying, do what you gotta do 1239 01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:21,560 Speaker 1: to wake me up, niga, because you know what, I'm 1240 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:23,080 Speaker 1: not gonna like. I don't let a lot of sit in. 1241 01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:27,760 Speaker 1: Just slide in, bro, just sliding. I just post up 1242 01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:33,160 Speaker 1: like old make it wet, like you're listening waking up 1243 01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:36,680 Speaker 1: to penis? Is it really really waking up to dick 1244 01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:40,920 Speaker 1: inside me? Its greatest. If your girl doesn't like to 1245 01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:42,880 Speaker 1: wake up to get a new girl, yeah, that's a 1246 01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:46,560 Speaker 1: problem because I think I like it even if I'm 1247 01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:48,600 Speaker 1: in a bad mood. If we're fighting and you come 1248 01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:51,200 Speaker 1: up on me while I'm sleeping, I'm gonna take it, 1249 01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:53,120 Speaker 1: and I might a little be mad at you afterwards, 1250 01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:55,400 Speaker 1: be hit and was gonna be passed. But I'm absolutely 1251 01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:59,240 Speaker 1: gonna you hit this one real quick. I love that 1252 01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:05,320 Speaker 1: I gotta get up earlier. Help you precious to me, 1253 01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:07,520 Speaker 1: I don't wake Angela up. I no, no, no, I'm 1254 01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:09,440 Speaker 1: gonna say. I have to love you for you to 1255 01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:12,240 Speaker 1: feel like that's okay because I sleep like four hours 1256 01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,440 Speaker 1: a night, right, four things? Yes, So once I fall asleep, 1257 01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,560 Speaker 1: it's gonna be hard, and and don't take it mad long, like, 1258 01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:21,760 Speaker 1: don't wake me up and then try to strangle. Won't 1259 01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,760 Speaker 1: prefer for you to master that's a quickie time. So 1260 01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:26,800 Speaker 1: if you're gonna wake me up to have sex, please 1261 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,000 Speaker 1: let it be five minutes or less because because I 1262 01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:31,480 Speaker 1: gotta go back to sleep, I promise you. I'm looking 1263 01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:33,400 Speaker 1: at the clock thinking about, like how much more sleep? 1264 01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:37,360 Speaker 1: And my I don't mind. I don't mind when when 1265 01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:40,040 Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend masterbated, he doesn't, but 1266 01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 1: I masterbate all the time, and he gets bad. Right, 1267 01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:44,520 Speaker 1: you always tell us that he doesn't. I bet you, 1268 01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:47,400 Speaker 1: I Jael, he wants you to masturbate, right, Yeah, he's 1269 01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:51,440 Speaker 1: gonna be like every day I think on my masterbate 1270 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:55,960 Speaker 1: every day to me to make me sleepy. I did it. 1271 01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,240 Speaker 1: Sometimes I do it late at night, but sometimes I'll 1272 01:02:58,240 --> 01:02:59,920 Speaker 1: do it to start my day. When you mask me 1273 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:03,520 Speaker 1: in the morning, it's like waking, bake, and then masturbate 1274 01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:05,280 Speaker 1: and then get up and and I wish I would 1275 01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,920 Speaker 1: get up early enough to masturbate before work. That's not 1276 01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:12,520 Speaker 1: happening because I'm always in a rush. By the time 1277 01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:14,080 Speaker 1: I wake up. I have to get up every morning 1278 01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:17,440 Speaker 1: at four am. That's already hard. So by the time 1279 01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:19,400 Speaker 1: I'm always rustling, resting, rushing. You try to get to 1280 01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:22,280 Speaker 1: work on time, it's not gonna happen like that. Actually, 1281 01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:24,680 Speaker 1: two minutes in the shower or whatever long it takes. 1282 01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:26,920 Speaker 1: But you think that when you masturbate it takes you 1283 01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:29,840 Speaker 1: a lot quicker to come than when you have sex. Yeah, 1284 01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:33,680 Speaker 1: every time you percentage wise, how many times percentage wise 1285 01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:37,040 Speaker 1: would you say you come during sex? Um, honestly depends 1286 01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:40,360 Speaker 1: on the guy. Do you come from vaginal intercourse? Yeah, 1287 01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,360 Speaker 1: but there's certain angles, like I gotta be on top. Yeah, 1288 01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:47,400 Speaker 1: well I gotta be on top, or I gotta be 1289 01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:49,680 Speaker 1: like my leg's gotta be positioned a certain my leg's 1290 01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:51,680 Speaker 1: gotta be like closed position a certain way. Like they 1291 01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:53,720 Speaker 1: gotta be me too, me too, Like that's kind of 1292 01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:55,560 Speaker 1: how that goes, Like because the guy, the last guy 1293 01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:57,600 Speaker 1: that I was dealing with, was curved a little, so 1294 01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,840 Speaker 1: it was like it worked out really well that my 1295 01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:02,000 Speaker 1: it just so happens that there's a spot for me 1296 01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:04,680 Speaker 1: that works in the exact direction. So if I'm laying 1297 01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:06,240 Speaker 1: if I'm laying down and he's just going for it, 1298 01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:09,240 Speaker 1: it's it's easy, breezy. And if you can find if 1299 01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:11,520 Speaker 1: you can find five minutes ties, yes, if you can 1300 01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:13,080 Speaker 1: find a guy that can make you come all the time, 1301 01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:15,800 Speaker 1: you gotta it's hard to break keep him. Oh my god, girl, 1302 01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:19,720 Speaker 1: it's my dream. So glad to back up with a 1303 01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:22,080 Speaker 1: guy that can make you come, because there's a lot 1304 01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:24,960 Speaker 1: of guys who can't. Who can't it's all mental when 1305 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:28,240 Speaker 1: you it's vaginal up. Know that when you when you 1306 01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 1: are having sex with someone, it's different when you when 1307 01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,400 Speaker 1: somebody's eating the box, it is a lot easier to Yeah, 1308 01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:34,800 Speaker 1: there's nothing I can envision I can envision another man 1309 01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:38,680 Speaker 1: eating box and were good. But if we're having sex 1310 01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:40,760 Speaker 1: and you make me come like that, oh it's over. 1311 01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,480 Speaker 1: It's quiet. I'm putty in your hand. But you know, 1312 01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:45,320 Speaker 1: it's way easier to break up with a guy who's 1313 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:46,840 Speaker 1: not that good and bad they can't make you come. 1314 01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:48,800 Speaker 1: You break up with a guy that can. That's the 1315 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:51,200 Speaker 1: guy you keep going back to, because you'd be home, 1316 01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:54,120 Speaker 1: you'd be drunk, like you aren't going to be tonight. Come. 1317 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:59,000 Speaker 1: So I come so fast from vaginal inter course I 1318 01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:01,880 Speaker 1: wish I did. Yeah, I think it takes my cliters 1319 01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:05,320 Speaker 1: works better from the inside than the out, Like it 1320 01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:07,520 Speaker 1: takes me like a good twenty minutes to come from 1321 01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:13,200 Speaker 1: oral I could be having sex. Vaginal is hidden and 1322 01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:20,800 Speaker 1: tiny microtopic. Everything is really small, like you said, it's 1323 01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:25,040 Speaker 1: very micro there. But from the inside, I come in 1324 01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:28,360 Speaker 1: five minutes. I'm good. What's crazy than when I'm on 1325 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,520 Speaker 1: top it's a rub there's a rubbing. There's like a 1326 01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:33,880 Speaker 1: friction that happens on the clip while he's inside that ship. 1327 01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:38,120 Speaker 1: Yeah that I think that's when you're on tapp a female. 1328 01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:40,800 Speaker 1: Just the angle of that right, And for me, when 1329 01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:43,080 Speaker 1: I'm on my back and like my legs are pushed 1330 01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:46,880 Speaker 1: where my knees are like hitting the bed where is 1331 01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:50,000 Speaker 1: tilted up exactly, my pelvis is tilted up like I'm 1332 01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:52,480 Speaker 1: on my back and my knees are like all the 1333 01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:57,000 Speaker 1: way back like held, I feel like I come really Like, Now, 1334 01:05:57,080 --> 01:05:58,880 Speaker 1: what if a guy during sexcess to you, I'm going 1335 01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,880 Speaker 1: to have a baby with you? Oh? Is that a 1336 01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 1: turn on? Our turn off? Oh no, hold on, Oh no, 1337 01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:11,200 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Me and my man we talk 1338 01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:13,439 Speaker 1: about having babies. Who we're having sex all the time. 1339 01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:15,880 Speaker 1: Ain't no baby's coming out of here all the time. 1340 01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:19,600 Speaker 1: Look at you. That's that's but you know what, I 1341 01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:22,320 Speaker 1: know that right now I don't want to have another child. 1342 01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:26,680 Speaker 1: But during sex, yeah I do come inside you. You 1343 01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:29,840 Speaker 1: let him come inside you? Yeah, she'd be, she'd be, 1344 01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:34,280 Speaker 1: she'd be with the condom quick though. She like me 1345 01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:37,160 Speaker 1: and Ralph definitely have real sex. For sure, we definitely 1346 01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:41,520 Speaker 1: have real So you let him come inside for years? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1347 01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:46,000 Speaker 1: but yeah I've let him come in sign me. But 1348 01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:48,680 Speaker 1: you know there's this thing like everybody should know about. 1349 01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:55,800 Speaker 1: It's called Plan B. But full three days, I'm sorry 1350 01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:58,480 Speaker 1: to come inside you all the time. Though it's a 1351 01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:00,440 Speaker 1: lot of Plan B. You know what I'm saying, it's 1352 01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:01,880 Speaker 1: a lot. Well, then you should just get on the 1353 01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:04,560 Speaker 1: pill though you can't take time. I don't let him 1354 01:07:04,600 --> 01:07:06,959 Speaker 1: come inside of me all the time. I don't. I don't, 1355 01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 1: and and honestly, like it's just not good. It's not 1356 01:07:10,600 --> 01:07:12,320 Speaker 1: a good idea. But when you're in the heed of 1357 01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,280 Speaker 1: a moment, at the moment having sex, you know, you 1358 01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:18,280 Speaker 1: become a come downstairs, you're in love and the sexiest 1359 01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:22,920 Speaker 1: man says to you have a baby. I'm like, what 1360 01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:24,400 Speaker 1: were naming the baby? By the end of the night, 1361 01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:27,400 Speaker 1: we were like, but I'm on the pill, and hey, 1362 01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:32,200 Speaker 1: but I'm saying with this little role, it's like, you know, 1363 01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:35,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to commentside because you're gonna have an abortion, 1364 01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:38,880 Speaker 1: and I don't. I don't. I've never I've had one abortion, 1365 01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,240 Speaker 1: and it was because like the pregnancy was I've only 1366 01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:44,040 Speaker 1: been pregnant three times. I had my son, and then 1367 01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:45,920 Speaker 1: I had a miscarriage and then I had an abortion. 1368 01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:48,120 Speaker 1: But I had to have an abortion because I just 1369 01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:51,800 Speaker 1: had gotten breasting plans, so the pregnancy was already good. 1370 01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:53,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know. You can't have to you can't have 1371 01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:55,960 Speaker 1: a baby with person. I had rather away got them 1372 01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:59,160 Speaker 1: done while I was pregnant, and I didn't know until 1373 01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:02,280 Speaker 1: after they were in my period, my period. I was 1374 01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:04,320 Speaker 1: supposed to get my period the day of surgery and 1375 01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:07,200 Speaker 1: it um. It never came. So I was like, well, 1376 01:08:07,240 --> 01:08:09,680 Speaker 1: maybe you through the because I'm stressed. But then I 1377 01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:12,040 Speaker 1: started feeling symptoms, so we took a pargnicy So they 1378 01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:14,520 Speaker 1: told you you should have an abortion. Yeah. No, the 1379 01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:17,560 Speaker 1: pregnancy ended up being um in my tooth. It was 1380 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:21,400 Speaker 1: a topic. I had that, so I had an abortion. 1381 01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:25,479 Speaker 1: But you know, like he technically, if if it's a topic, 1382 01:08:25,560 --> 01:08:30,920 Speaker 1: it's not an abortion. Yeah, it's an emergency emeruse. I've 1383 01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:35,240 Speaker 1: had that. I've had two of those on the pill. Listen, girl, 1384 01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:38,639 Speaker 1: this was way back in the day. Yeah, you would 1385 01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:40,560 Speaker 1: have had a baby though if you were pregnant. No, 1386 01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:42,160 Speaker 1: I don't think I would have. But I had a 1387 01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:44,800 Speaker 1: nice topic pregnancy and I had a felopian super moved. 1388 01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:49,360 Speaker 1: I don't have one internally like I was in the end. 1389 01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:52,920 Speaker 1: It was bad, like I could have died. Yeah, happened 1390 01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,960 Speaker 1: to me. I haven't been pregnant since it's you don't 1391 01:08:56,000 --> 01:09:01,559 Speaker 1: want to hell and you know you got pregnant, you would, okay, 1392 01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,599 Speaker 1: And you know he's like he's like, he's like, I don't. 1393 01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:08,639 Speaker 1: He's like, I don't. Just don't. No, I'm not on Listen, 1394 01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:11,160 Speaker 1: I'm not on birth control. Me and him we had 1395 01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:13,559 Speaker 1: five years in. We're kind of in a weird place 1396 01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:15,720 Speaker 1: right now. I don't know what to call it where 1397 01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:18,280 Speaker 1: we are, but we're still having unprotected sex and he's 1398 01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:21,680 Speaker 1: still dropping off them babies in my vagina and I 1399 01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:26,519 Speaker 1: don't get pregnant, but you're on a pill. No, it's meant, 1400 01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:30,320 Speaker 1: you know, if you want to get pregnant, take some vitamins. 1401 01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:32,599 Speaker 1: I don't want to get bregnant. I'm just saying if 1402 01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:36,360 Speaker 1: you do, I don't want to get pregnant. And I'm 1403 01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:38,760 Speaker 1: not taking vitamins. I'm not taking birth control. He comes 1404 01:09:38,800 --> 01:09:40,880 Speaker 1: in me every time we have sex, and I have 1405 01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:43,679 Speaker 1: not been pregnant, and neither one of us want babies. 1406 01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:46,800 Speaker 1: But you know, man, he's coming inside of me and 1407 01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:49,479 Speaker 1: he's like, oh, we'll finish, and he's like, oh, like, 1408 01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:51,000 Speaker 1: I don't even want to look at you, because if 1409 01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:52,800 Speaker 1: you have an abortion, I hope be so tight. And 1410 01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:55,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, does he know that you take playing b no, 1411 01:09:55,760 --> 01:09:58,640 Speaker 1: you eat them things like he doesn't know, he's not 1412 01:09:58,720 --> 01:10:02,519 Speaker 1: gonna hear this for two years. Oh shit, he doesn't know. 1413 01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,720 Speaker 1: The whole body's going about two years. I've never gonna 1414 01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:11,960 Speaker 1: do a lip service. And when playing a Stefanie, Hey baby, 1415 01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,040 Speaker 1: you're selling these dreams. Yes, let's have a baby. What 1416 01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:21,000 Speaker 1: are we gonna name it? Ralph Jr. Alright, well, listen, 1417 01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:23,120 Speaker 1: Bridget Kelly, thank you so much for joining us for 1418 01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:25,880 Speaker 1: lip service, always having me. I always tell people how 1419 01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:28,800 Speaker 1: much fun she is to listen, and Andie always I 1420 01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:32,439 Speaker 1: know this is fun. We gotta do this because we 1421 01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:34,800 Speaker 1: had a lot we on ye. Lip services like the 1422 01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:37,680 Speaker 1: ultimate girl talk. It has to be. But I told 1423 01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:39,320 Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta come on. She did? She 1424 01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:41,400 Speaker 1: hit me? She was like can I do? I was like, 1425 01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:43,880 Speaker 1: I was like a litten. I was a Bridget Cally. 1426 01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:45,479 Speaker 1: First of all, if you've ever seen her show, you 1427 01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:49,160 Speaker 1: know that she's very raw. But I'm like lyrics imo, 1428 01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:52,000 Speaker 1: But I love that. I love But you know, you 1429 01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:54,080 Speaker 1: have to get listen. There's not enough people that tell 1430 01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:55,640 Speaker 1: the truth, and the majority of the time when the 1431 01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:59,080 Speaker 1: people do tell the truth, everybody gets scared offended. Are 1432 01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:03,280 Speaker 1: you gonna get back to get X. No, no, no, okay, 1433 01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:10,120 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think you know what 1434 01:11:10,280 --> 01:11:12,760 Speaker 1: what you know what for we were together for four years. 1435 01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:15,320 Speaker 1: It was really really hard. He's as far as I'm concerned, though, 1436 01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:16,880 Speaker 1: he's the one that got away. You know, everybody got 1437 01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:18,800 Speaker 1: that one. That's like, damn, I wish I could have 1438 01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:21,240 Speaker 1: made a couple of different decisions, maybe moved a little differently. 1439 01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:23,479 Speaker 1: He's my ex is definitely the one that got away, 1440 01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:26,760 Speaker 1: hands down, So why not because he hates me? He's 1441 01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:29,880 Speaker 1: not going back to me. That's the worst. When you 1442 01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:33,360 Speaker 1: break up with a guy, you're like, because because I'm 1443 01:11:33,439 --> 01:11:36,599 Speaker 1: doing great right now. So it's like he's I'm sure 1444 01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:39,720 Speaker 1: that it's like damn, like that bit like she really 1445 01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:42,960 Speaker 1: like she hate you because you're doing great. No, I 1446 01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:45,320 Speaker 1: think he just it's just he's not. We're not we're not, 1447 01:11:45,439 --> 01:11:47,360 Speaker 1: we're not speaking. We don't, we don't. We don't get 1448 01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:49,920 Speaker 1: on like that no more. But um, what if he 1449 01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:53,799 Speaker 1: called you, would you be with he wouldn't. He wouldn't, 1450 01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:56,840 Speaker 1: he wouldn't. He blocked me. He blocked me an all things. 1451 01:11:56,880 --> 01:12:01,960 Speaker 1: What then are you crazy? Blocked you? I'll call him 1452 01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:12,720 Speaker 1: from google boys, I make a big Instagram, I think, 1453 01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:16,600 Speaker 1: But well, he just he blocked me because I he 1454 01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:18,920 Speaker 1: thought that he was like in his head about what 1455 01:12:19,360 --> 01:12:21,120 Speaker 1: I was doing with my life. So it's like he 1456 01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:22,560 Speaker 1: didn't want to see what was going on with me. 1457 01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:23,720 Speaker 1: He didn't want me to see what's going on with 1458 01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,240 Speaker 1: this and follow you. Why do you have to block you? 1459 01:12:26,400 --> 01:12:28,120 Speaker 1: That's just because he did that to make you. He 1460 01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:29,720 Speaker 1: did that to make me mad. He also did it 1461 01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:31,000 Speaker 1: because he's like, I don't want her to be able 1462 01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:33,519 Speaker 1: to see what I'm doing now, like you can't just 1463 01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:36,280 Speaker 1: go and see anyway, which I get, I understand. Listen 1464 01:12:36,360 --> 01:12:38,679 Speaker 1: by all means, I know what that feels like. Because 1465 01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:40,559 Speaker 1: now I'm in a situation dealing with a guy where 1466 01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:42,200 Speaker 1: I'm kind of like I'm low key ready to block 1467 01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:44,000 Speaker 1: him to like you're doing a lot, You're doing all 1468 01:12:44,040 --> 01:12:46,760 Speaker 1: the wrong ship, Like come on, are you gonna still 1469 01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:48,120 Speaker 1: talk to him though, even though he's doing a lot 1470 01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:50,600 Speaker 1: and doing the wrong ship The new guy, Um, you 1471 01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:53,360 Speaker 1: know what it is. He's young. He's young, and I 1472 01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:55,599 Speaker 1: think he needs to learn, So he's on time out. 1473 01:12:56,200 --> 01:12:57,800 Speaker 1: He's gonna have to learn, He's gonna have to learn 1474 01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:00,160 Speaker 1: a different way, because I was trying to teach give 1475 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:02,000 Speaker 1: you board the cheat sheet, like, listen, this is how 1476 01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:07,720 Speaker 1: we how. He's twenty six, so he's young. So I mean, 1477 01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:10,280 Speaker 1: it's okay. You're not built for this right now, that's fine. 1478 01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:11,680 Speaker 1: I was trying to give you a cheat sheet so 1479 01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:13,880 Speaker 1: you could cut a couple of corners if you want to. 1480 01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:17,840 Speaker 1: But he ain't. There ain't, So he's gonna to learn different. 1481 01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:19,559 Speaker 1: Wa He's gonna have to learn either with somebody else 1482 01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:21,639 Speaker 1: or with my silence. You don't have to you want 1483 01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:24,599 Speaker 1: to eat that ship, peace man. They should have never 1484 01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:29,719 Speaker 1: made that block feature for I phone. They should have definitely, 1485 01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,880 Speaker 1: I definitely needed to block a couple. We need that. 1486 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:33,880 Speaker 1: I can't even tell you how many times Rob and 1487 01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:36,280 Speaker 1: I were arguing and I was calling him too much 1488 01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:38,280 Speaker 1: and he blocked me, so I started calling him from 1489 01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:43,040 Speaker 1: other phones. You're crazy, I'm crazy, crazy up. I will 1490 01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:45,320 Speaker 1: show up at the dough like, here's the thing. If 1491 01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:48,080 Speaker 1: you have if I'm telling you how crazy I am 1492 01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:50,240 Speaker 1: and the phases of my crazy in the very beginning, 1493 01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:52,599 Speaker 1: and you're still showing up and signing up every day, 1494 01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:56,880 Speaker 1: you can't. Guys. You like guys like crazy crazy I'm 1495 01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:58,840 Speaker 1: not gonna like I was at with Stephanie the other night. 1496 01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:01,559 Speaker 1: The whole time she was with her man on the phone. 1497 01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:03,639 Speaker 1: We were having a great time, but she kept getting 1498 01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:05,639 Speaker 1: up to go are you on the phone? Yeah? Yeah, 1499 01:14:05,680 --> 01:14:07,920 Speaker 1: I had out the phone. She was like, where are 1500 01:14:07,960 --> 01:14:10,280 Speaker 1: you right now? I'm coming there, And then he would 1501 01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:11,479 Speaker 1: call it back and be like, oh, we move. We 1502 01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:13,760 Speaker 1: went here and said okay, you're where now? Okay, I 1503 01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:15,360 Speaker 1: called the uber, I'm on my way. I was like, 1504 01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:20,400 Speaker 1: dick on one hundred, I'm not about that. I'm too 1505 01:14:22,320 --> 01:14:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call a T and T because I know 1506 01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:27,680 Speaker 1: all the codes you don't want to show and you 1507 01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:29,160 Speaker 1: don't you don't want to tell me where you are. 1508 01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:32,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna show up to everywhere you be until I 1509 01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:35,840 Speaker 1: find you. Because it's like that. That was like that camera. 1510 01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:38,280 Speaker 1: That camera's same, like I know which you don't even 1511 01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:42,720 Speaker 1: know what studio. I'm an show up every I'm not 1512 01:14:42,880 --> 01:14:46,960 Speaker 1: doing all that I've showed up to. He's like, I'm 1513 01:14:47,000 --> 01:14:53,240 Speaker 1: not doing all that happy right at home. No, I'm 1514 01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:55,080 Speaker 1: being home too. But I'll send some people after that, 1515 01:14:56,520 --> 01:14:57,920 Speaker 1: will I would you know what I will do with 1516 01:14:57,960 --> 01:15:00,240 Speaker 1: a girl though you know you have to know, like 1517 01:15:00,400 --> 01:15:02,479 Speaker 1: crazy girls tell us, you have to know if you're 1518 01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:04,960 Speaker 1: dealing with a crazy girl and she's really crazy. She 1519 01:15:05,040 --> 01:15:07,559 Speaker 1: got at least two friends that are more rock crazy 1520 01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:15,880 Speaker 1: down at least two in the arsenal ready to Ratty 1521 01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:19,080 Speaker 1: the clutch, yes, like, don't don't do it, don't do it. 1522 01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:22,240 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm Stephaniely you good. I'm like, yeah, 1523 01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:24,439 Speaker 1: I'm good. Oh yes, let's take a shot. Okay, be 1524 01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:26,800 Speaker 1: right back. I gotta take this phone call. Gonna take 1525 01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:28,360 Speaker 1: this call. We was in the hood too, she was 1526 01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:31,479 Speaker 1: standing outside and I had on this slutty ass draw 1527 01:15:31,920 --> 01:15:35,840 Speaker 1: no underwear. That's what I'm saying. I either dressed way 1528 01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:38,559 Speaker 1: down or somebody was like. Somebody was like, I think 1529 01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:42,120 Speaker 1: I saw a Stephanie's vagina. He said that, Oh my god, 1530 01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:46,680 Speaker 1: they're I was. I was saying, we were going way through. 1531 01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:52,240 Speaker 1: We were going through another jail situation. Remember, yes, so 1532 01:15:52,439 --> 01:15:55,960 Speaker 1: I was super I was like crying. I was all 1533 01:15:56,040 --> 01:16:00,280 Speaker 1: stressed out. But I mean, I'm another and previous are is. 1534 01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:02,240 Speaker 1: I didn't have to do this in this time, but 1535 01:16:02,720 --> 01:16:04,960 Speaker 1: in other times, like we'll be arguing and he'll feel 1536 01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:06,720 Speaker 1: like I'm calling him too much. So he'll block me 1537 01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:09,040 Speaker 1: for a little while, and I got I got my 1538 01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:11,880 Speaker 1: second phone on deck. He'll block the second guy blocks me. 1539 01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:14,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you from the third phone. Block me 1540 01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:18,439 Speaker 1: and I can't get in touch with you. There's text free, 1541 01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:25,160 Speaker 1: there's there's um that's a crazy count boys. There's a 1542 01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:30,920 Speaker 1: jack like I'm calling you for magic Jack. All these 1543 01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:35,880 Speaker 1: like WiFi phone numbers, single free phone app. I'm gonna 1544 01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:38,280 Speaker 1: call you. I have one number. You can block that. 1545 01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:40,120 Speaker 1: You're gonna need to call somebody to get a restraining 1546 01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:41,880 Speaker 1: order because I'm gonna be sitting on that young porch. 1547 01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:44,479 Speaker 1: I'll be sitting on that porch. Block come here, come 1548 01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:46,840 Speaker 1: talk to me. You gotta now phone off because I'm 1549 01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:53,639 Speaker 1: gonna keep calling your number. You block all the numbers. 1550 01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,360 Speaker 1: I'm showing up. I'm gonna pop up, but you know 1551 01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:59,920 Speaker 1: the nigga knows that, so he'll he'll email start answering number. 1552 01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:05,080 Speaker 1: Because I won't pretend I'm to show up, but I 1553 01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:08,400 Speaker 1: won't really come. No, I'm not gonna like I did 1554 01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:10,760 Speaker 1: that one time to one of my ex boyfriends. So 1555 01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:13,120 Speaker 1: I would always tell him, like if I knew he 1556 01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:15,040 Speaker 1: was doing something he was supposed to do I would 1557 01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:16,599 Speaker 1: tell him I was on my way, but I'd really 1558 01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:20,640 Speaker 1: be at home. So one time I really went and 1559 01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:23,160 Speaker 1: what was he doing? He was in bed with another chick. 1560 01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:26,120 Speaker 1: I climbed in through the window, climbed in through the window. 1561 01:17:26,520 --> 01:17:29,160 Speaker 1: But it wasn't It wasn't like I had to. It 1562 01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:31,479 Speaker 1: was the easy window to climb in. It was on 1563 01:17:31,600 --> 01:17:36,280 Speaker 1: the it was on the same level and Jordan's by 1564 01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:38,200 Speaker 1: the way, so she's always ready. I just took the screen. 1565 01:17:38,280 --> 01:17:40,800 Speaker 1: I just took the screen out the window. It was summertime. 1566 01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:42,960 Speaker 1: I took the screen out the window, walked in and 1567 01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:44,720 Speaker 1: he was upstairs with a chick. She was naked in 1568 01:17:44,760 --> 01:17:47,600 Speaker 1: the bed. What did you do? Do you drag her? All? Know? 1569 01:17:48,200 --> 01:17:50,400 Speaker 1: She got up, She was nervous, she was scared. She 1570 01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:52,280 Speaker 1: got up, got out, and as soon as she left, 1571 01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:54,160 Speaker 1: I said it all right, that's it, I'm done, and 1572 01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:58,040 Speaker 1: I left. Wow, I could I could never have gone 1573 01:17:58,040 --> 01:18:00,080 Speaker 1: down like that for me. Listen, sometimes you gotta be 1574 01:18:00,160 --> 01:18:02,920 Speaker 1: so mad. You got to be calm, you know. I 1575 01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:12,200 Speaker 1: first I made him player and she was He was like, 1576 01:18:13,160 --> 01:18:15,240 Speaker 1: she don't mean nothing to me, She's nobody. That's even 1577 01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:18,000 Speaker 1: worst of that's even worse when you compromising the real 1578 01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:20,280 Speaker 1: ship for the fake. Imagine you naked in the bed 1579 01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:22,840 Speaker 1: and the guy says that about you. What time? My 1580 01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:25,960 Speaker 1: exest girl jumped and then we came in the fire escape, 1581 01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:28,120 Speaker 1: because you know it's New York, we got fire escapes. 1582 01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:30,720 Speaker 1: And this girl came in through the window, through the 1583 01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:33,400 Speaker 1: fire escape. And you know, I'm a light sleeper. So 1584 01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:35,680 Speaker 1: I woke up and I had on I'll never forget it. 1585 01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:37,720 Speaker 1: I had on a yellow bra and panty and it 1586 01:18:37,840 --> 01:18:40,960 Speaker 1: was a cheap, like twenty bra and panty, said probably 1587 01:18:41,200 --> 01:18:44,559 Speaker 1: eighteen years old. I was a kid, and I jumped 1588 01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:46,639 Speaker 1: out the bed and I gave this girl the worst 1589 01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:52,800 Speaker 1: ass of her yellow and I busted her as like 1590 01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:54,519 Speaker 1: I heard her come in through the window, Like I 1591 01:18:54,600 --> 01:18:56,640 Speaker 1: heard the window open and I looked. I woke up 1592 01:18:56,680 --> 01:18:59,880 Speaker 1: and I saw her coming in and I just charged her. Oh, 1593 01:19:00,760 --> 01:19:02,479 Speaker 1: and so you already knew who she was when she 1594 01:19:02,560 --> 01:19:05,280 Speaker 1: came in. It was the nigger's wife. He was, but 1595 01:19:05,360 --> 01:19:08,000 Speaker 1: they were broken up. They were broken up, and she 1596 01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:10,880 Speaker 1: was just a soccer. So she's the wife. She's a wife, 1597 01:19:10,960 --> 01:19:14,160 Speaker 1: and she's the wife. I was living with him. I 1598 01:19:14,280 --> 01:19:16,000 Speaker 1: was living with him, and they have been separated, but 1599 01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:20,559 Speaker 1: they were married, legally married. I need that divorce paper 1600 01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:22,599 Speaker 1: before I'm moving in with you. Just technically. I wish 1601 01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:27,200 Speaker 1: could take everybody the court here today. I couldn't imagine, Yeah, 1602 01:19:28,800 --> 01:19:34,639 Speaker 1: you rocked his wife. Wait said no, I didn't climb 1603 01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:36,439 Speaker 1: in the window. That bit shot to jump out the window. 1604 01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:39,840 Speaker 1: She was probably it was an ex It was way back, 1605 01:19:40,160 --> 01:19:43,559 Speaker 1: like a long time ago. And um, it was back 1606 01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:45,360 Speaker 1: when I was dancing before I moved to Land. I 1607 01:19:45,400 --> 01:19:47,479 Speaker 1: was dancing at this club in Philly, and it was 1608 01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:50,000 Speaker 1: this girl that was working there. Me and his sister 1609 01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:52,960 Speaker 1: was working together actually, and I just had a feeling 1610 01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:56,040 Speaker 1: that something went right. So he was at his sister's 1611 01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:58,880 Speaker 1: house and I went there and the nephew saw me 1612 01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:00,519 Speaker 1: at the door and let me in, and knowing that 1613 01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:03,080 Speaker 1: he had company upstairs, then if you let me in. 1614 01:20:03,240 --> 01:20:04,960 Speaker 1: And I went up to his room and he's sitting 1615 01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:06,560 Speaker 1: in the chair and the girls on the floors like 1616 01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:09,840 Speaker 1: his dick, and I kicked the door in, like really, nigga, 1617 01:20:09,920 --> 01:20:11,920 Speaker 1: what the fun? You know? And then the girl got 1618 01:20:12,040 --> 01:20:14,639 Speaker 1: up and saw me, and she jumped out the window 1619 01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:16,000 Speaker 1: like she tried to jump out the window, like she 1620 01:20:16,439 --> 01:20:17,920 Speaker 1: try to kill herself. She tried to jump out the 1621 01:20:17,920 --> 01:20:20,280 Speaker 1: window to get it, and guess what, I fucking whipped 1622 01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:22,320 Speaker 1: his ass, broke up with him and the bitch that 1623 01:20:22,360 --> 01:20:23,960 Speaker 1: I've never seen the girl again. She never came back 1624 01:20:24,000 --> 01:20:25,400 Speaker 1: to work. I was waiting for that as to come 1625 01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:26,680 Speaker 1: back to work too. I came to work every day 1626 01:20:26,680 --> 01:20:29,000 Speaker 1: with a pony tell some sneakers win. I thought, I 1627 01:20:29,080 --> 01:20:30,800 Speaker 1: want the whoop. I ass so bad, and she never 1628 01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:33,439 Speaker 1: came back. Wrong, she never came back to work. I've 1629 01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:35,360 Speaker 1: never ever seen till this day, I've never ever seen 1630 01:20:35,400 --> 01:20:38,680 Speaker 1: that girl again. Wow, damn, you know what. The only 1631 01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:41,240 Speaker 1: reason because she wasn't wrong, like I understand, she was 1632 01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:43,400 Speaker 1: like scorn, you know, like she was upset and a 1633 01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:46,599 Speaker 1: little bitter that the guy was giving me so much attention. 1634 01:20:46,680 --> 01:20:48,599 Speaker 1: But the only reason it was just like my first 1635 01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:52,160 Speaker 1: reaction like to of course, because one you have no 1636 01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:55,760 Speaker 1: clothes on and you was sleep to you sleep, and 1637 01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:59,200 Speaker 1: three you this is like this is what it was. Yeah, 1638 01:20:59,360 --> 01:21:00,920 Speaker 1: I didn't even think about who it was. I just 1639 01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:03,800 Speaker 1: grabbed her and it was so bad, like I don't 1640 01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:05,160 Speaker 1: even want to talk about it, but it was. It 1641 01:21:05,240 --> 01:21:07,720 Speaker 1: was pretty bad. It was bad, like what it was bad, 1642 01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:09,960 Speaker 1: Like I really beat her bad, like I beat her. 1643 01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:11,680 Speaker 1: What did he do? He tried to break it up 1644 01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:15,400 Speaker 1: or castingbody. You got to be ready to fight. He 1645 01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:17,960 Speaker 1: was a real dick. He was standing over watching me 1646 01:21:18,080 --> 01:21:20,920 Speaker 1: beat her like that said stop it. Like he didn't. 1647 01:21:20,960 --> 01:21:23,800 Speaker 1: He didn't pull up. He was like, world because I 1648 01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:27,240 Speaker 1: got like I got really swollen, like I was punching 1649 01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:29,599 Speaker 1: her a lot in her eye and it got really swollen. 1650 01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:31,600 Speaker 1: So that's when he stopped me, like he noticed, like 1651 01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:34,840 Speaker 1: it was getting swollen really fast. What a gentleman, but 1652 01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:39,519 Speaker 1: he was. He was awful like that. You know who 1653 01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:40,920 Speaker 1: to call now if we need to run up on 1654 01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:48,519 Speaker 1: some funny I know trying to We talked about this. 1655 01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:52,439 Speaker 1: I'm not fighting no more right, we're talking about yeah, 1656 01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:55,240 Speaker 1: unless I have to defend myself, unless there's a girl 1657 01:21:55,240 --> 01:21:58,800 Speaker 1: climbing into my one bow. Let's bridget Kelly cause she 1658 01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:01,759 Speaker 1: called my friend. I have I have phases of crazy. 1659 01:22:01,800 --> 01:22:03,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pop off at first. The second phase is 1660 01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:05,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna speak to you really respectfully like an adult. 1661 01:22:05,960 --> 01:22:07,519 Speaker 1: This is the last. This is this is your get 1662 01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:08,960 Speaker 1: out of jail for a free card. Like I'm gonna 1663 01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:10,519 Speaker 1: let you know what it's gonna be after this. Once 1664 01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:13,400 Speaker 1: it escalates beyond this point of this conversation, then there's 1665 01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:16,120 Speaker 1: a problem where there's a real Then it's it's blackout 1666 01:22:16,240 --> 01:22:19,799 Speaker 1: like girls, and then we're rolling up on somebody, somebody's 1667 01:22:19,800 --> 01:22:21,680 Speaker 1: getting beat up, somebody's getting me down. It's gonna be 1668 01:22:21,680 --> 01:22:23,800 Speaker 1: a lot like don't push me to that point. But 1669 01:22:23,920 --> 01:22:25,080 Speaker 1: here's the thing is, like, this is the tone of 1670 01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:27,280 Speaker 1: voice that I keep. I'm blond now, like I just 1671 01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:31,120 Speaker 1: heard say it with a smile. I'm really a nice 1672 01:22:31,160 --> 01:22:33,280 Speaker 1: girl deep inside. But if you push me past this 1673 01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:35,679 Speaker 1: point right here that we're in this inner peace moment. 1674 01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:38,559 Speaker 1: This is not a stay yoga moment. Beyond this moment, 1675 01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:43,000 Speaker 1: Heaven help you. All right, Well that is lips know 1676 01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:46,599 Speaker 1: I'm stepping in Santiago. I'm g g McGuire and I'm 1677 01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:54,439 Speaker 1: Bridget Kelly. Wow, And that's the crazy cows. Don't give 1678 01:22:54,479 --> 01:22:56,519 Speaker 1: a fun. I got a whole lot of fun in 1679 01:22:56,600 --> 01:23:00,439 Speaker 1: my system. Money part of my DNA makeup. It's called buckets.