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Speaker 2: Don't given them a bu buss.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, listening to to.

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Speaker 3: I don't Joy?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Joy, you don't love you? Turn I can't.

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Speaker 3: You probably got to turn the mouth. Turn A wad

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Speaker 1: Come come out? You think?

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Speaker 6: Uh huh, I sure will. Now, Good morning everybody. You

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Speaker 6: are listening to the voice, come on now dig me

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Speaker 6: one and only. Steve Harvey Man old man, got a

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Speaker 6: radio show. I said yesterday, I was trying to do

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Speaker 6: something with it. Like I said, you know that the

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Speaker 6: trying part is over. I'm actually doing something with it now.

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Speaker 6: I told you that the only way to find your

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Speaker 6: real purpose, your real mission in life, you're real what for?

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Speaker 6: The thing that you got to go get it get

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Speaker 6: after is you got to connect with God. You have

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Speaker 6: to connect with him because as your creator, no one

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Speaker 6: knows better what you were made for than your maker.

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Speaker 6: I mean that just I mean, man, and you just

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Speaker 6: make a lot of common sense, don't it. I mean, really,

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Speaker 6: you know, people kill me with with the lack of belief.

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Speaker 6: I'm listening to me. I don't really into explaining all

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Speaker 6: that a way. If that's how you feel, then gone

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Speaker 6: and get to feel and how you feeling with it.

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Speaker 6: But let me explain something to you. I just don't

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Speaker 6: see how. What is this conscious that eats away at

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Speaker 6: you from time to time? Where does the moral barometer

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Speaker 6: come from that exists in your life? What makes you

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Speaker 6: know the difference between right and wrong with Where did

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Speaker 6: your conscience come from? What is your need to cry

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Speaker 6: out from? What does the word Lord help me come from?

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Speaker 6: Why when you get in a in a dog place

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Speaker 6: and you whisper Jesus, where that come from?

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Speaker 7: Huh?

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Speaker 1: What is that? You know?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 6: What are these promises come from that we make, these

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Speaker 6: deals we cut, that we make with a higher power.

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Speaker 1: Why why when you're at your lowest moment? Man?

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Speaker 6: You you you, you, you turned somewhere. Okay, enough of that,

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Speaker 6: I've I've explained my side of it. And as a

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Speaker 6: matter of fact, God is really almost unexplainable to me.

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Speaker 6: I want, I want, I want to share something with

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Speaker 6: you about well, when you strike out to find your mission,

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Speaker 6: or how about when you strike out on your mission

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Speaker 6: once you discover what your purpose is? Or let's simplify,

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Speaker 6: what happens when you set a goal and you're ready

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Speaker 6: set an ambition in front of you or put something

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Speaker 6: want to become successful at. What's the mind set that

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Speaker 6: you have to develop? There are three things you must

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Speaker 6: first ask, You must then believe, and you must then receive.

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Speaker 6: Now the received part, all these parts, iss got a

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Speaker 6: have not because you ask not Why don't you ask?

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Speaker 6: But then after you ask, here's the kick. You got

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Speaker 6: to believe that it can happen for you. Stop looking

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Speaker 1: Then I'm not saying that specific way.

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Speaker 6: I'm just saying that a success can happen for you,

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Speaker 1: Now here's the cold part. Receive it? Oh what you mean?

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Speaker 1: Receive it? I ask for it?

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Speaker 6: I believe in it, why would I not want to

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Speaker 6: receive it? Act like it, Act like it's already there.

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Speaker 6: Realize that, man, it's just days away, and how many

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Speaker 6: It's gonna happen tomorrow, next week, in thirty days. We

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Speaker 6: Come on, now, let's get real. Let's not leave out

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Speaker 6: the other duel. You got to work. But now hear

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Speaker 6: Don't worry about the arrival date. Act like it's there.

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Speaker 6: the process of finding your mission, fulfilling your mission, uncovering

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Speaker 1: And people fail to look at that part. They keep

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Speaker 6: It's like when you take a little kid on a

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Speaker 1: Are we there yet? Are we there yet? Boy?

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Speaker 6: If you just look out the window, see where we

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Speaker 6: Look at these trees, look at the views we got. No,

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Speaker 6: we ain't there yet, But Lord have mercy, look at

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Speaker 6: what he's showing us along the way. Smell the roses,

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Speaker 6: and see what he's doing for you, because the journey

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Speaker 6: Understand this, that the journey is a process. But all

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Speaker 6: are going to happen to you along the way, Man,

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Speaker 6: that will be so.

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Speaker 1: Gratifying and fulfilling.

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Speaker 6: Where the journey is joyful, there is joy in the journey.

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Speaker 6: You don't have to be there to appreciate the ride.

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Speaker 1: Stop getting mad because you ain't at the arrival data.

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Speaker 1: Your dreams ain't come true yet.

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Speaker 6: Look up, Look up. You might discover, man, that you're

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Speaker 6: living better. You might discover that you don't have a

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Speaker 6: What you tripping for because you ain't got the million yet.

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Speaker 6: Remember when you didn't have nothing. Be grateful for the

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Speaker 6: where you wanna be, But man, can't you thank God

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Speaker 6: that you ain't where it was?

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Speaker 1: How about that one?

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Speaker 9: Huh?

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Speaker 1: All right, you're listening hard morning.

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Speaker 6: Show ladies and gentlemen, boys, girls, circus performers, athletes, talk

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Speaker 6: show host, social media influencers, inmates, faith based people, pastors,

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Speaker 6: choir members and stripples. Yeah yeah, former drug dealers.

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Speaker 1: May I have your undivided attention.

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Speaker 6: This is Steve Harvey Morty shows A different call.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was aught to call. That was just a call.

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Speaker 1: That's all that Waserry. Hey, good morning Steve. I love it.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Colin Farrell, Good morning Steve. What's up? Crew?

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Speaker 6: Uh? The most promising young up and coming comedian that I.

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Speaker 1: Know, Junior morning, Uncle, my mentor man, how you feelish Leaden,

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Speaker 1: Jim mckin, pranks, Nephew.

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Speaker 10: Turn saw your side Top of the Morning, Baby Thursday

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Speaker 10: idea like Steve.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I just did it.

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Speaker 6: I wasn't, I wasn't nothing with it, ain't no that,

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Speaker 6: ain't open it to no song and nothing, you know,

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Speaker 6: just sang it to my damn self for god, I

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Speaker 6: was on the video really really just I just started

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Speaker 6: singing anywhere they fool You're on the radio, Steve.

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Speaker 1: You know you're having fun at your jumps. Yeah, that's cool.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you, remember the other day, a couple.

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Speaker 9: Of days ago, we got really deep one morning when

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Speaker 9: we opened the show and talked about our regrets and stuff.

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Speaker 10: Again.

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Speaker 9: Well, we're not doing that again, you can't. We're not

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Speaker 9: doing that again, Steve. I just wanted to. I just

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Speaker 9: thought about something that I didn't regret in my life,

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Speaker 9: you know, because you have you do have regrets. But

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Speaker 9: one thing I do not regret, and that's well, should

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Speaker 9: I say it? I was just singing it to myself anyway.

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Speaker 9: One thing I don't regret is cutting off my six finger,

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Speaker 9: because you know, I had an extra finger on each hand.

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Speaker 1: I got them cut off. I was kissing because that

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Speaker 1: I don't regret doing that. I just wanted to.

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Speaker 6: I tell you right now, if you shake my hand,

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Speaker 1: And that's what was happening when I was little. Nobody

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Speaker 6: I shake your hand now, I'm gonna try to feel

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Speaker 6: I don't, yeah, it's got to be at least a

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Speaker 6: little shiny spot me.

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Speaker 1: I told you, just yeah, that's my that's my. Did

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Speaker 11: Nail than now.

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Speaker 12: Nail?

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Speaker 1: It was just about that.

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Speaker 6: I'm just most people only got phetoes because the baby

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Speaker 1: It's just tucked off in there. Yeah, but if you

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Speaker 2: Okay, get my toe, yeah, Carlo hoos right now, Yeah,

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Speaker 9: I forgot Carlin Brokers all right, coming up to thirty two.

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Speaker 6: I got a partner that ain't got a big toe

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Speaker 6: and he wears samd.

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Speaker 1: Oh and got to stay leading forward. Slip, that's just

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Speaker 1: a fly. All right, we gotta go.

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Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty two, after the hour, we will

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Speaker 9: hear from the nephew yet again as he runs that

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Speaker 9: prank back.

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Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show. All right,

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Speaker 1: it's time now to start your morning off with the

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Speaker 1: nephew and run that prank back. What you got for

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Speaker 1: his nef? No blacks for you? Let's go get though

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Speaker 8: Hello, I'm trying to reach Nicole, please, this is she?

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Speaker 8: How you doing?

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Speaker 5: Listen? I'm giving you a call you. You happen to

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Speaker 5: be uh in a relationship with a with a black man?

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Speaker 8: Am?

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Speaker 5: I am? I right?

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Speaker 12: I'm sorry? Who is this?

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Speaker 8: My name is Brian, uh well, I don't want to

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Speaker 11: Okay, and and I'm sorry, why are you calling?

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Speaker 5: Okay? Now you you you are a Caucasian woman? Correct?

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Speaker 11: Why I'm still trying to get to why are you

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Speaker 8: What's going on is uh, I'm with an organization and

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Speaker 8: we're calling people who are in interracial relationships, and from

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Speaker 5: Correct, yes, okay.

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Speaker 8: I'm with n b f U and that's uh. N

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Speaker 11: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. At first, I don't know who

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Speaker 5: Okay, well when.

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Speaker 8: NBF you man, it's been around since the early nineteen forties.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I can imagine. I can imagine that. And I'm

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Speaker 12: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 11: Obama's mother was white. Are you gonna go knock on

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Speaker 12: What the hell?

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Speaker 5: You don't have time to knock on Obama's door. He's business.

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Speaker 5: I'm trying to do is get the rest of.

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Speaker 8: The came.

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Speaker 5: Hey black, And that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 11: Trying to tell us we can't be together because you're

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Speaker 13: He's calling, yo, what's up?

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Speaker 12: What is.

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 12: Who?

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Speaker 5: Who? Who is this?

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Speaker 13: This is that I'm a man who lives.

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Speaker 8: Okay, this is g J. Jodiah Malcolm. And what I'm doing, man,

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Speaker 8: is we we You know, I'm with an organization called

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Speaker 8: there's no blacks for you. Which what we're trying to

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Speaker 13: What you're talking about you getting? Man? You are what what?

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Speaker 13: What kind of organization has that.

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Speaker 5: Y'all are tripping. Okay, brother, let me have youthing. You

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Speaker 5: don't feel empty without the sister on your side. You

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm asking you, brother.

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Speaker 13: I got I got plenty of black women on my side,

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Speaker 13: but that don't mean that I had to be in

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 13: I don't feel empty. That's the first problem with your organization,

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Speaker 13: right that the premise is wrong.

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, okay, But brother, what we're trying to do, man,

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Speaker 8: we don't want to lose our race. We don't want

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Speaker 8: if blacks continue to date and mate with blacks, then

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Speaker 13: What do you get this number from?

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Speaker 8: Man?

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Speaker 5: Excuse me?

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Speaker 13: How do you get this other in the first thing?

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Speaker 5: Dude? I mean, I ain't got time for all this.

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Speaker 13: Man, it's some no offense brow you Why.

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Speaker 5: Are you calling us hey man? Because on y'all interracial couple.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, but what this is happening that ain't none of

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Speaker 5: Hey, but it is my businesses I'm with. If I'm

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Speaker 5: with NBLU, know that who you with, you are a

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Speaker 5: black person that are integrated within another race. And what

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Speaker 5: we're trying to do, man, is get you to understand

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Speaker 5: to come back to your race and be comfortable and

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Speaker 5: happy in your right.

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Speaker 13: Oh you really now come back to my race.

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Speaker 5: I ain never left my raised dog.

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Speaker 13: You a trip him, y'o and be you you y'all,

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Speaker 13: get off a phone. Man, don't call here no more?

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Speaker 8: With that?

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Speaker 5: Do you think that you are happier with a Caucasian

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Speaker 13: Man, I didn't even know. I don't want to entertain this.

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Speaker 13: Don't call here no more. Don't call there no more.

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Speaker 8: Let me ask you, brother, be a man and answer

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Speaker 8: the question of do you know what.

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Speaker 13: You about to get your dog?

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Speaker 5: You know? You really you really gonna get? Will be

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Speaker 5: a man? You know what?

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Speaker 13: If you bring it over here, you'll find out how

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Speaker 5: Hey, man, don't catch your doing what man while I'm

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Speaker 5: in the middle of asking you these questions, because I

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Speaker 13: It on over and see what you're trying.

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Speaker 5: I'm asking you about these relationships. Man, are you more

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Speaker 5: comfortable in a relationship with a Caucasian woman than you

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Speaker 13: God, I told you, man, it ain't even about that,

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Speaker 13: and we ain't even going into that. So look, just please, brother,

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Speaker 13: can you stop calling him? Don't call my mother.

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 5: We'll call all inter racial people around the country. That's

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Speaker 5: what NBFU dog. We call all of y'all and we

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Speaker 5: try to talk some sensing to you and see if

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Speaker 5: you can change the world and go back to the

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Speaker 5: racist from which is you came.

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Speaker 13: You're tripping, Yeah, you're a really tripping man.

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Speaker 5: You know what.

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Speaker 13: Obviously he's just a mental institution you calling from because

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Speaker 13: there's something wrong with you. So look, don't call in

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Speaker 13: no one, and we ain't got no more problems out.

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Speaker 8: I say this, I'll say this to you. I'm going

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Speaker 8: to your your girl's job and I'm talking to her

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Speaker 8: face to face tomorrow about this whole situation.

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Speaker 13: You know what, And you're gonna get.

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Speaker 5: Your No, I ain't getting my foot. I'm going tomorrow

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Speaker 5: and I'm talking matter of fact, I ain't even called

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Speaker 5: to talk to you. You put im back on the phone.

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Speaker 5: Hen with you.

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Speaker 13: Put up back on the phone, show us at her job,

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Speaker 13: demands he would have.

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Speaker 5: I'm showing up at her job. Put her back on.

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Speaker 13: The phone, show up at her job, demse he would happen.

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Speaker 5: You gonna change, man, You change.

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Speaker 13: I don't know me from the beginning. How you gonna

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Speaker 13: tell them down and change?

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Speaker 5: You don't know me? Look at I know how you

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Speaker 5: brothers get me.

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Speaker 13: I'm as black as I ever was. You can't mess

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Speaker 13: with my blackness because of who I'm dating. You show

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Speaker 13: up at her job tomorrow, You're gonna get your.

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Speaker 5: You ain't gonna sit in print me man, I am

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Speaker 5: with him.

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Speaker 11: You're doing if you you don't work him? I up

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Speaker 11: and now I'm worked out here.

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Speaker 5: You're done.

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Speaker 11: You're done, So you can stop calling the house.

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Speaker 5: And I'm going to your job tomorrow. Do you want

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Speaker 5: them say I'm coming to glean?

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Speaker 8: Do?

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 12: You are you leave?

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Speaker 5: Matter of fact, you can have your man at your

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Speaker 5: job at lunchtime. Not only am I gonna talk to

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Speaker 12: Not gonna be any talking.

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Speaker 11: You show up, There's not gonna be any talking.

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Speaker 5: And you have a discussion to uphold and okay, you know.

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Speaker 12: What that's it's saying, are you on what the fool

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Speaker 5: Can I say one more thing to you? What this is? Nephew,

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Speaker 5: Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show? You just got

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Speaker 5: prank by your girlfriend? Oh my goodness. Wow, gotta ask

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Speaker 5: y'all before I leave. And I need to hear this

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Speaker 5: from both of y'all. What is the baddest radio show

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Speaker 13: Show?

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Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you? Coming up next, ask the CLO.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show.

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Speaker 9: It's time to start the show off with the CLO.

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Speaker 9: Steve Harvey is our chief love Officer. This one is

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Speaker 9: from Melanie in Canada. Melanie writes, I'm thirty seven years

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Speaker 9: old and I'm dating a forty year old man that

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Speaker 9: I met online. We've been together for a few months

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Speaker 9: point where it's offensive to me. For example, on our

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Speaker 9: my cooking needs work, and he's.

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Speaker 1: Told me, I'm a terrible driver.

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Speaker 9: I know he's got to truly like me, because if

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Speaker 9: he didn't, he would tell me, is this an acceptable

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Speaker 12: Or not.

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Speaker 1: At all?

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Speaker 6: I don't know where you got all this love from

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Speaker 6: your breath? Stink, you can't cook in your ass. He

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Speaker 6: don't like your drive. Wow, that's to begin any and

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Speaker 6: as you get married that Liz go bro.

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Speaker 1: I'm just here to.

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Speaker 6: Tell So if I were you this old we in love,

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Speaker 6: I would you know we're over the dating game.

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Speaker 1: It's only been how long, Cheerley?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 1: A few months? Yeah, just a few.

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Speaker 6: Lady, you don't even know this man. A few months?

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Speaker 6: It is not in those time. Now, he's brutally honest.

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Speaker 6: What's what's behind that brutal honesty? What else is brutal?

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Speaker 1: I don't like Yeah, I don't like that, you know?

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Speaker 6: So if I were you, I would spend a little

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Speaker 6: this quick to be this harsh with you, wait till.

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Speaker 1: Something's wrongs mean? It don't sound like she have it?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that was their first date. He only said it

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Speaker 9: one time, according to her Tierra in Culver City, California, says,

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Speaker 9: I'm in my mid thirties and I've been with a

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Speaker 9: great guy for a few months. I'm into polyamory, and

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Speaker 9: my best friend and I are lovers too, But my

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Speaker 9: and mind. For the first time in a long time,

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Speaker 9: I have a guy that I really like. Should I

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Speaker 9: and my best friend? Or should I keep this one

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Speaker 9: all to myself?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 6: I can't advise you this foolishness. I've never seen this

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Speaker 6: workout for anybody.

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Speaker 1: I haven't.

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Speaker 6: Now it may, but I haven't seen it work out

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Speaker 6: have it. That's always the case. Yes, Look, why you

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Speaker 6: just go on and do your thing. You ain't finna

446
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Speaker 6: have nobody all to your damn self because you ain't

447
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Speaker 6: all You don't see. If you want to be somebody somebody,

448
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 6: then somebody gotta be your somebody. But everybody can't be

449
00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 6: everybody's everybody. What about you wanna be somebody somebody? Somebody

450
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 6: gonna want to be your somebody. But everybody can't be

451
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 6: everybody's everybody because that wasn't hit up going on right.

452
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 1: Here, they're just doing everybody.

453
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Speaker 6: You know, you can't belong to everybody in just them

454
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Speaker 6: because somebody ain't gonna go along with the rules.

455
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Speaker 1: I thought we was doing everybody.

456
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Speaker 6: Now if your girlfriend to introduce you to it, and

457
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Speaker 6: you would hub but you want him, but you don't

458
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Speaker 6: want him to be with her. Oh that ain't had

459
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 6: his work because probably gonna want to crackle.

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Speaker 1: Yes, probably gonna yeah.

461
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Speaker 6: I don't know what all poly Emma who whatever, will

462
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Speaker 6: probably gonna want to crack.

463
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Speaker 14: I have to watch everybody everything, Marie.

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Speaker 9: All right, here we go. We're moving on. Celestia and Austin. Austin,

465
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Speaker 9: Texas says. I'm thirty one years old dating a thirty

466
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Speaker 9: nine year old guy that can't get his mother out

467
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Speaker 9: of his love life. Whenever he invites me to a

468
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Speaker 9: family function, his mother invites his ex girlfriend. His ex

469
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Speaker 9: still hangs with his mother like they're best friends. His

470
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Speaker 9: mom even had a fortieth birthday dinner for this girl

471
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Speaker 9: at her house and blamed me when my ex didn't

472
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Speaker 9: come to the party. My man said that his mom

473
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Speaker 9: is deliberately doing things to irritate me.

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Speaker 1: So why does he allow this? Good question? Well, I mean,

475
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Speaker 1: what can he disallow.

476
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Speaker 6: He can't make his mama stop talking to his ex

477
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Speaker 6: girlfriend because his mama messy. Very He can't tell his

478
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Speaker 6: mama you can't have this girl over your house no more.

479
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Speaker 6: And he can tell his mama, mom, don't throw her

480
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Speaker 6: no party. But a mama don't like the new girlfriend.

481
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Speaker 6: She want an old girlfriend to wind and old girlfriend

482
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Speaker 6: is fine, rubbing it in your face. If he ain't

483
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Speaker 6: gonna make it convenient for you, why you making it

484
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Speaker 6: convenient for him?

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Speaker 1: Exactly? He getting what he want.

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Speaker 6: He got you and his mama cool, but you ain't

487
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 6: got nothing you want.

488
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 1: You won't even have all of him.

489
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Speaker 6: She mad at you because you didn't let him call

490
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Speaker 6: her birthday part.

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Speaker 9: He's not a great guy if he doesn't stop this foolishness.

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Speaker 1: All right, We're moving on.

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Speaker 9: Isabelle and Clearwater, Florida, writes, My husband had an affair

494
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Speaker 9: a year ago that resulted in a child that I

495
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Speaker 9: have to raise. The child's mother was sent to jail

496
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Speaker 9: for selling marijuana, and she came to me apologized for

497
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Speaker 9: the affair and asked me to take her baby. I

498
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 9: don't have any kids, and this child looks so much

499
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Speaker 9: like my husband that it makes me ill. He's doing

500
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Speaker 9: everything he can to work things out with me, but

501
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Speaker 9: I'm ready to leave.

502
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Speaker 1: She's ready to leave. This is.

503
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Speaker 9: And she says she wants to take the baby with

504
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Speaker 9: her Steve, but he says she can't take the baby

505
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Speaker 9: with her, and she doesn't want to stay.

506
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Speaker 1: So what does she do now? Well, you have no

507
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Speaker 1: rights to the baby.

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Speaker 6: I don't thing unless the mother signed the rights over

509
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 6: to you. She asked you. But that's the father. So

510
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 6: the father and the mother have the rights. Who is

511
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 6: this woman? He was sleeping with their smoking weed and

512
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 6: selling it and her ass is going to jail and

513
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 6: now you but but the baby make you look sick?

514
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 6: Make you sick because he looked just like her. But

515
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 6: now you want to leave him, but you want to

516
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 6: keep the baby. Say you want to take the thing?

517
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 6: To make you sick every time you.

518
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: Look at it? With you? What's wrong with you? It

519
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: makes no sense?

520
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 6: Damn Give that man the baby and go start your

521
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 6: life over.

522
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Speaker 1: Yes, all right, thank you clo, you're listening Morning show?

523
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 1: All right?

524
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 9: Thanksgiving Wow, did it come fast this year?

525
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: It's here.

526
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 9: Yeah, we're all gathering around the Thanksgiving table dinner conversations.

527
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 1: It can be a little tense, you know.

528
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 9: So we just want you guys to prepare with some

529
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 9: phrases that you should have void at holiday dinners so

530
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 9: we can just, you know, all have a good time

531
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Speaker 9: with our family and friends. Okay, like for instance, yeah, okay,

532
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 9: for instance, Steve, when you start a sentence with you

533
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 9: should have you should have? You know, the words should

534
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 9: you know can make a person feel judged or disappointed.

535
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 1: You see where I'm going with that. You should have

536
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: let somebody else fix Yeah, yeah, that's hurtful. You should

537
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: have you should have left the marshmallows at that's like that.

538
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 1: I'm with you. I'm with you on that. My feelings

539
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:37,360
Speaker 1: are not hurt.

540
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 6: Or how about this, I know it's pot look, but

541
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 6: you should have just came.

542
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 1: Without the po There ain't no luck in your Yeah,

543
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: stuff like that, Steve, you got it, or.

544
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Speaker 9: You know, avoid saying that, Yeah, avoid saying this, you know,

545
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 9: because this is definitely this could start.

546
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: One right here. Can you believe what your president just did? Yeah? Yeah?

547
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: It can lead to an argument and a fight.

548
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 14: You know, politics, everybody in agreement on my family. My family,

549
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 14: all good with that. That's gonna get the party popping

550
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 14: right there.

551
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so you're not gonna avoid saying it.

552
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, you can talk politics in my house.

553
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 6: Everybody at my house in the same political mindset.

554
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: You don't have you you are a Republican at the table.

555
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 15: You need to keep it to you you. Okay, let's

556
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 15: get back to the house. Let's get back to the

557
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 15: food for a minute. How about this one.

558
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 9: You know, the best turkey I ever had was say

559
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 9: it again, the best turkey I ever had.

560
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: Was was my mama that. Yeah, yes, that'll set it off, Steve.

561
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: If you say something like that's true though, you don't

562
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 1: have to always tell the truth.

563
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 6: Though, No, no, no, no, see Charley, she once again?

564
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 6: Uh huh, Well all need to make up your man?

565
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 6: Did you all want us to be true?

566
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 4: Oh?

567
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: You want? These last year were good, we're laying on Thanksgiving.

568
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: Tell the truth.

569
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:32,959
Speaker 9: It's a good time to ask that question. Yeah, you know,

570
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 9: like if you start a sentence with when are you going.

571
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 6: To learn how to cook?

572
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: Don't do that. When you're gonna finally let him go Okay,

573
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: that's the.

574
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 9: One, right, because you don't want to make anyone feel

575
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 9: defensive or put anyone on the spot or anything like that.

576
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: Is when is you gonna stop using drugs? Wow? Really

577
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: a little bit question? Yeah, just tell me that's what's

578
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: gonna come out. I don't know why we.

579
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 2: See the bag like, I ain't go ahead, I don't

580
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: know what's wrong with you. I want to go to

581
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 2: your house, but just come over there fifteen minutes.

582
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 9: You ain't gonna be able to take you're lying fifteen

583
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 9: if it starts off with that, Yeah, I believe you.

584
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 14: Susie walking the dope? When is you going to stop using?

585
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 14: You show up every yere looking like this?

586
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: How about right here? Now?

587
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 6: How about this right here? Sit somewhere where I can

588
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 6: see where you're going? Where you're going?

589
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: Bathroom ain't that way? Ain't no bathroom that way?

590
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 9: And you know, trying not to open up a conversation

591
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 9: or start a sentence with when are you going to.

592
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 1: Don't do that one? Or remember the time you feed

593
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: on yourself?

594
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 7: No?

595
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: Yea, my uncle Everett, thanks, he used to go he

596
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: was drunks.

597
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 6: Ain't nobody won't the bust out laughing everybody laughing. But

598
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 6: then wait a minute, Wait a minute.

599
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 9: Hold up, did you hear about Don't start it with

600
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 9: that one, because that can mean yeah, you're gossiping about

601
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 9: you know, somebody, your husband.

602
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 6: What what did you hear about your husband?

603
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 9: Oh, that's gonna get it started right there in the

604
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 9: backroom with Coral.

605
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: Cora. Not Cora Cora. Yeah, those are just conversation starters.

606
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: You don't do that.

607
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 10: Yeah, Oh, this is gonna happen Thanksgiving Thursday. Trust me,

608
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 10: this is gonna happen. Well, I'll admit this.

609
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 6: None of that happens at my house because I have

610
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 6: no one at my house on Thanksgiving. As big as

611
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 6: you create, nobody create no drama my house.

612
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 9: Oh oh okay, I thought you were saying you had

613
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 9: no one at your house. I was like, as big

614
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 9: as your family is, Steve.

615
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: Oh, the house gonna be packed. Yeah. I don't do drumming. Yeah,

616
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 1: not at the house, everybody. No, don't ask me to play.

617
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: I don't do that.

618
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,719
Speaker 6: You know, the game night, I might come in there

619
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,239
Speaker 6: for a couple of minutes, but that's it, y'all. Know

620
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 6: what I'm doing. I'm gonna eat and I'm sitting in

621
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 6: front of this TV. Oh I'm staring at it. And

622
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 6: sometimes you're gonna come in there and the TV gonna

623
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 6: be staring at me.

624
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: Just walk back out, don't come in here. Just in

625
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: the heat. I wanted this one. Keep five places on,

626
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: don't cut it off, so.

627
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 9: You don't mind them being in your house. A lot

628
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 9: of people just don't bother you. Let your You don't

629
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 9: want to know why the people there.

630
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, Marjorie's really good at that too, because she tells

631
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 6: them this Steve, that Steve all don't.

632
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: Bring your friends and your friends won't pictures. Oh god,

633
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 1: I could get that. Yeah, that ain't happening.

634
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 9: Meanwhile, at our house, all they want to talk about

635
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 9: is you. Yes, Steve, come on, yeah.

636
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: I just when they want me to tell Steve something

637
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: for they.

638
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 9: Always tell him give them. Can you just give this to.

639
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 10: Steve for me? Just the best seller right now? We

640
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 10: just get it to Steve. I'm not going to get

641
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 10: your book to the one kill me.

642
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 6: Okay, I got this book of mine I want you

643
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 6: to read. I didn't read the foe I wrote.

644
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 9: You're listening Morning show all right, guys, and it's time

645
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 9: now for a round of would you rather? Would you

646
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 9: rather date someone with their ex's name tattooed on their chest?

647
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 9: Or would you rather date someone whose ex lives next door?

648
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 10: Be yeah, you can. You can't just have Tremaine cross

649
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 10: your chance. That's all I see every day? Know, yeah,

650
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 10: I can't do that.

651
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: But you'll see him. He lives next door. You're gonna

652
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: see him. I become friends with him. I'm cool Tremaine.

653
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 1: You see him. Everything.

654
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 6: Well, I'm not gonna do is see Tremaine every time

655
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 6: I look at her chest though, That's not what I'm going.

656
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 1: Oh so it's the location of as well.

657
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 7: Okay, okay, because I looks at that a lot chess

658
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 7: in but I can't have that.

659
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 2: There no Tremaine neighbor.

660
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 1: That's how you go.

661
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 10: And then.

662
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: And if you talk to Tremain long enough, you're fed.

663
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:45,720
Speaker 1: I was wrong with her. Hello, now that's true?

664
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 5: All right?

665
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 9: Would you rather live in a different fancy hotel every

666
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 9: night with unlimited room service credit?

667
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 1: Or would you rather live in your.

668
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:58,280
Speaker 9: Dream home mansion but not be able to hire any help?

669
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 10: Oh hell no, just manson, you're falling apart.

670
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm in season.

671
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 6: Living in that big dust as house.

672
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: We've seen it.

673
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 14: When your staff all walk at your house.

674
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: We see how you are. How does the act? I

675
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: can't find them.

676
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 6: I ain't gonna do that, But I don't live in

677
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 6: a different hotel room.

678
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: Everything every night.

679
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 16: But you have unlimited room service credits every single night.

680
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 1: Are living your dream? He thank that man.

681
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 10: We're talking about four seasons, were talking about uh uh,

682
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 10: the Mandarin Boys.

683
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: Boy, we talk about some. We talked about love every

684
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: the new Noble Hotel in Atlanta. But you gotta move

685
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 1: every night every night.

686
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,439
Speaker 10: We'll just move quick, bringing on it. Look, look, one

687
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 10: baby bunch of drum off, let's move.

688
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: Let's all right. It's gonna be rough either way. I

689
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 1: had to go on to a different hope.

690
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 5: All right.

691
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: Last one with you guys. Why Steve out there cutting

692
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 1: the yard on this fifty summer?

693
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:32,399
Speaker 6: Keep it out there a whole week. He gets fell off

694
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,359
Speaker 6: of it Friday. Pick him up and he were hunt

695
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 6: and he ain't got no chef.

696
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: You know. All right, guys, that's today's rounded.

697
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 9: Would you rather us at his gato?

698
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 12: Not?

699
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 6: Let these people get climbing over the wall talking to him.

700
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 9: You're listening Morning show? All right, it is time for

701
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 9: Junior's truth be told.

702
00:37:56,520 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, Shirley. Thanksgiving is coming up.

703
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 14: Yeah, it's almost a big Now we have discussed all

704
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 14: of the things we've discussed when people need to brain food, Yeah,

705
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 14: full time dinner start, Yeah, beginning coming.

706
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: We've discussed all this.

707
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 14: One thing we have not discussed what the one thing

708
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 14: where your ass need to leave old again. Yeah, we

709
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 14: have a discussed now people. People don't know when to leave.

710
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 14: There's time they need to leave. There are statements that

711
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 14: will be made you need to adhere to and understand, like,

712
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 14: well does it see when you hear that, start getting

713
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 14: your keys in your hand. We need hear some James something.

714
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 14: It's time to go. You can't spend all day here.

715
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 14: Then a start at too treated like a restaurant. How

716
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:44,280
Speaker 14: long you saying that you sit down at two? About

717
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 14: three point thirty? You gone same way.

718
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: About and half. That's our half off the game. We

719
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 1: forget all. You ain't come over here for the game.

720
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: You came to eat.

721
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 14: If you full, if I see you kick off of shoot,

722
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 14: your ass got to go. Yeah, No, you ain't staying

723
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 14: here all day now. My mama tied, she done cooked

724
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 14: every thing, she can feed everybody.

725
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 1: What else can we talk about? We distrusted everything. We

726
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: know Walter got out of jail.

727
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 14: We know had it had a hard train player, we know, yeah,

728
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 14: we know, we know Mail got another baby.

729
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: We got all after we cover they're still having kids.

730
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: Mail will still have a kid for your forty five.

731
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 6: You have made Come on, man, your name Meilbourne? You

732
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 6: probably you probably now you probably through. Haven't made anybody

733
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 6: that named Melbourne?

734
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: The what is the name after with the Steve? Do

735
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 1: what your age? Your name is Agnes? You probably had

736
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 1: all them. You probably got you.

737
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 14: But we done covered everything we can talk about. We know,

738
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 14: we know Junior went back into rehaal.

739
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: We got that. Everything is covered.

740
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 14: Let's just go ahead and go home.

741
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: We just need to go home.

742
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 10: She's through having Beatrice.

743
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 6: Beatrice Odetta is not having it.

744
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 1: That what he got out of it.

745
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 6: I'm giving you the names where I can assure you

746
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,439
Speaker 6: if this is your name, you are at an age

747
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 6: where you are beyond child very years.

748
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: So Journals is through having baby. You want another one?

749
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: Go ahead? Henrietta, Henrietta, she through having kids. Henrietta too

750
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 1: is distant. Yeah, you know, go ahead. Gwen when is

751
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: through having.

752
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 6: When fifty because she got a fifty year old names.

753
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 6: See his names. Once you have an old name, you

754
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 6: can quit having babies. If your name is Bob, probably

755
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 6: having kids. I'm just saying, ain't nobody named Bob was

756
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 6: still having kids? Not Bob, have a kid, had a

757
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:15,279
Speaker 6: bit through having kids?

758
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: Done Gladys. Yeah, that's right up there with Agnes.

759
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'll tell you who Jackie is.

760
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: I tell you that.

761
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 9: I'm sorry Mary, Marjorie all of that.

762
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, Mar last night, I ain't even sleep in the

763
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 1: bed last oh esther Steve, you forgot about?

764
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, because Roe slept with his last night. I took

765
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 6: my shower, man, I was tired of here because I

766
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 6: fell asleep in my office.

767
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:49,280
Speaker 1: So what of them sayings?

768
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,800
Speaker 6: I took a shower, came into the bedroom, out of

769
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:56,280
Speaker 6: my bathroom, put my light on, my little phone, rose

770
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 6: in the bed.

771
00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: I just turned around. I'm not and to do this.

772
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: She'll have her set her damn heel in my eye.

773
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 1: About Winton Stephen Winston was little man. Kids? Man, They

774
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: just they sleep bad, don't. I was a bad kid.

775
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: Got nowhere to go. I gotta go to work.

776
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 6: You in here sleeping bag on your side right in fact,

777
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 6: to your room to damn? Why are you waiting Noah

778
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 6: in his band? Why you got to sleep in there

779
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 6: sleeping none? Okay, well, Papa, don't't sleep with you.

780
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: Turn off. But it hurt it though, Yeah, Papa wants

781
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: the nephew of the prank phone call right after.

782
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 9: You're listening morning show coming up at the top of

783
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 9: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry

784
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 9: letter for today, the subject keep your nasty hands off me.

785
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: Right now. It is the nephew.

786
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 9: He is here with today's frank punk called what you

787
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 9: got nest.

788
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: Su giving with cousin Benji giving with cousin.

789
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:21,800
Speaker 5: Is Hello, Hello?

790
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 13: Who is this this Glendon?

791
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 5: Who is this this busie? I'm college is Miss Purvis though.

792
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 12: You know she's doing here right now, but this is

793
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 12: her daughter?

794
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 5: Is there a problem? Oh no, this this this Benjie.

795
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 5: This Mama Mama Loa's nephew. Who again, it's Blanda, mamad

796
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 5: Mama Looa jo Ain't it ain't it correct?

797
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,320
Speaker 12: Mama Lords and miss herbst sister.

798
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm Benjy. I'm nephew from the other side of

799
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:54,360
Speaker 5: the family. You say your name was no Glenda? Okay,

800
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:55,720
Speaker 5: what time y'all supposed to get.

801
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 12: In and we should leave there by the afternoon.

802
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 5: Okay, uh is it's purpose? And she is your mama

803
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 5: making the dressing?

804
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 12: Yeah, she's making enough for about forty five people. Actually,

805
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 12: h this was discussed about a month ago.

806
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 5: Right y'all on the y'all they had the conference call,

807
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:17,800
Speaker 5: the conference the family had the conference call, right, yes, sir? Okay,

808
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 5: now listen, what the reason why they got me to call?

809
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 5: They wanted me to go in and call and I

810
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 5: was trying to get me his purvis. She's not there.

811
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:27,439
Speaker 12: No, she's not here.

812
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 5: What's wrong?

813
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:28,839
Speaker 4: Oh?

814
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 5: Okay, they're not gonna They're not gonna need her to

815
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:33,800
Speaker 5: do the to do the dressing.

816
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 12: And why wouldn't they need her to do this? And

817
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 12: she would make it for ten years?

818
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 5: We did.

819
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 12: We just discussed this.

820
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,359
Speaker 5: So what do you mean they say that they got

821
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 5: somebody down here that's gonna do the dressing, especially since

822
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 5: y'all traveling. Y'all ain't got to bring it, you know,

823
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,479
Speaker 5: and be traveling with it. But they got somebody gonna

824
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 5: do the dressing.

825
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 12: Okay, Well, first of all, who are you your Benjie?

826
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 12: What is your name?

827
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 5: That was not my name? Benjamin but they called me Benjie.

828
00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 5: But but but like I say, uh, I'm on the

829
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 5: other side of the front. I ain't on y'all side.

830
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 12: Okay, Well, I'm still trying to figure out why you

831
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 12: calling me because she's been making a dresser for ten years,

832
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 12: like I said, And I mean it's been discussed. So

833
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 12: I don't even know why why you're calling me. I

834
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 12: don't even know you.

835
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, what I'm trying to explain to you this

836
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 5: right here is dad they got so y'all ain't got

837
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 5: to worry with bringing the dressing. They got somebody gonna bring.

838
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 5: They got somebody down here that's gonna cook it. So

839
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 5: in other word, what you know, if you can tell

840
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 5: miss Pravis she ain't got to worry about the dressing

841
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 5: this year.

842
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 12: Oh so you want me to tell my mama got

843
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 12: that she's been making dressing for ten years that y'all says,

844
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 12: y'all ain't worried about She shouldn't have to make this

845
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:41,439
Speaker 12: year because we're driving now, we Optember year. So I'm

846
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 12: not gonna do that to her. So, I mean, I

847
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 12: don't I don't even know who you are to be

848
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 12: calling me anyway, Why can't somebody calling me that I

849
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 12: know regarding this.

850
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, you gunn the right.

851
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 12: I am Glunda.

852
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 5: All right, listen, let me say this because I don't

853
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 5: mind saying what everybody thinking, what most people don't want

854
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 5: to say. Let me say this right here. Really, what's

855
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 5: going on is just right here. A lot of people

856
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 5: in the family, you know, don't really don't, don't really

857
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:11,720
Speaker 5: like miss Pravis dressing.

858
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:19,240
Speaker 12: Benjamin, who you supposed to be? Let me sprind something

859
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 12: need ma. Mama gonna make her dressing.

860
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 5: You gonna keep it.

861
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 12: And we ain't bringing that on with us, so you

862
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 12: could tell your family that I said that because you

863
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 12: understand me.

864
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 5: I mean, first of all, you got to understand that

865
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 5: I'm bringing news that that people don't them voted on

866
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 5: and it's what everybody want to do. Don't nobody.

867
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:42,240
Speaker 12: Why didn't Nick house we had a meeting. I'm dressing

868
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 12: she've been making the ten years. Ain't nobody been saying nothing?

869
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,280
Speaker 12: And guess what one of them up in that house.

870
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 12: Nobody better not be walking up and through that're talking

871
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 12: about my mama either, and you gonna go keep it.

872
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 5: Okay, we see right there? Why why if people don't

873
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 5: like the dressing, Glinda, why you want to make submit

874
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 5: everybody to have it to eat it if they don't

875
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 5: like it?

876
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 12: You don't know. I don't know you, well, I no, no, Benjamin,

877
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:07,720
Speaker 12: Benjie who.

878
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 5: I want you. I'm mama Lord's nephew from the other

879
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:13,800
Speaker 5: side of the family exactly. And I don't know you, okay,

880
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 5: And it really really to the back all that, I

881
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 5: don't really know you. But I'm but but I'm but

882
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 5: I'm man up. I'm man up to call you and

883
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 5: tell you what we're gonna do and what we ain't

884
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 5: gonna do.

885
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:27,359
Speaker 12: Well, I know what I said. I want to pay

886
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Speaker 12: it again. She's gonna make say dreassic you gonna eat

887
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 12: it if we gonna go all day?

888
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, right there, listen, And I know this might

889
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 5: be hard for you to understand what you grew up

890
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 5: with liking everybody else might not like people.

891
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 12: Say what you want to. I ain't gonna even remember

892
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 12: you know way, so you ain't looking like it because

893
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:51,240
Speaker 12: you ain't done around. But she making dress now.

894
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 5: First of all, when y'all get down here, it's gonna

895
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 5: already be some more dressing here, okay, okay, And she

896
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:58,880
Speaker 5: gonna make country and said, and we gonna see.

897
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 12: Now, and we got gona it's not even fan that

898
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 12: I said. I got to say because you're not gonna.

899
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 5: Hurt my mama feeling okay, there ain't nobody to try.

900
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 5: That's why I'm trying to tell you to tell her

901
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,879
Speaker 5: that don't make it now, so she don't even bring

902
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 5: it down.

903
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 12: We are ain't gonna get anyway.

904
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 5: Heiny, Look, I'm finna say this here because every dealer

905
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 5: you ain't really understanding what I'm saying to you. I'm

906
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 5: gonna say it's clear as I can say. If y'all

907
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 5: come down here with that dress, I promise you we

908
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 5: already got dressing made. We throwing that dressing in the

909
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 5: trash so everybody can get the dressing that we made

910
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 5: for him. Three blake, that's what we're doing.

911
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 12: Please let me find something in you. I'm gonna be

912
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 12: on dressing the troth and if I find out you

913
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 12: that through my mama dressing in the trash, it's gonna

914
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,799
Speaker 12: be some if we're gonna set that out. I'm not

915
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 12: playing with you this. What's you funny to me? I'm

916
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 12: gonna call ain't killing We don't hire on this compas common.

917
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 12: Ain't none of them falling up the call us and

918
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 12: telling us to bully, but now they gonna set you'll

919
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 12: stop up. Don't even know your I guess they found

920
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Speaker 12: like you was kind in the world being benjaf I

921
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 12: don't even know your rap. I'm telling you now, Tim

922
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 12: that playing with you. I'm telling you anybody work my

923
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 12: mama feeling it won't be some in this and I'm

924
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 12: telling you a y'all gonna be y'all feeling down now,

925
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 12: but I'm funding y'all have one.

926
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 5: Can I say something else to you? I wish you would.

927
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 5: Can I tell you what else they were saying? They

928
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 5: wanted me to tell you this, Glinda, this is nephew.

929
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 5: Tell me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your cousin

930
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Speaker 5: Sheila got me the prank phone called you.

931
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Speaker 12: Come you fine? You're about to make me?

932
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 5: Said it off?

933
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 12: What because that man, this Fani was.

934
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Speaker 5: It wasn't gonna be tenshum baby.

935
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Speaker 12: Because I don't go have my brother's work, y'all play,

936
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Speaker 12: it's gonna be canceled.

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Speaker 5: Made one last question before I let you go. What

938
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Speaker 12: Steve Harvey Morning Show.

941
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948
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949
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Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's

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955
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 9: to read this one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, love it. Yeah, let's free book up and hold

957
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Speaker 1: on ty you We got it for you.

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Speaker 7: Here.

959
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter.

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00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:31,240
Speaker 9: Subject, keep your nasty hands off me. Dear Stephen Shirley

961
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:33,400
Speaker 9: I am a thirty year old woman that's in a

962
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 9: dirty situation with my man. I love my man and

963
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,319
Speaker 9: couldn't have asked for a better partner, but there's one

964
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 9: thing about him that ticks me off. He hates to

965
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 9: wash his hands. We've been together for six years and

966
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 9: we just got engaged. We moved in together last month,

967
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 9: and that's when I noticed his nastiness. He works long

968
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 9: days at a factory and when he comes home, he

969
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 9: changes his clothes and flops down on the bed.

970
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: At first, I didn't.

971
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 9: Want to say anything and nag him about it, but

972
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 9: last week I couldn't hold it any longer. When I

973
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 9: questioned him, he asked me, why was it bothering? Was

974
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 9: it bothering me because they're his hands and his germs.

975
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 9: I didn't care to argue with him, so I let

976
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 9: it go. Over the weekend, he was in our garage,

977
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 9: tinkering around with his car and working on his motorcycle.

978
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,879
Speaker 9: He came straight into my kitchen and opened the refrigerator

979
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 9: to get a beer, and then proceeded to get the

980
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 9: bread out of the pantry to make a sandwich. There

981
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 9: was a visible trail of oil and grime everywhere.

982
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 1: He touched.

983
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 9: I just stood there and watched him so I could

984
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 9: go behind him and sanitize the kitchen when he finished.

985
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: Whenever he's in.

986
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 9: The bathroom, there's a flush and then the door opens

987
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 9: right afterwards. I decided to take the same attitude with him,

988
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 9: and I started with holding sex. I told him I

989
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 9: didn't want his germs from his hands on me. I

990
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 9: told him he would have to thoroughly wash his hands

991
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 9: and clean under his nails daily, or he's cut off

992
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 9: from touching me. That caused an instant argument, and he

993
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 9: says he can't marry a woman who treats him like

994
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,839
Speaker 9: a child. I can't believe that he's upset, that he's

995
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 9: that upset. I don't want to get an infection from

996
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 9: his nasty hands on me. How should I handle this?

997
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:23,919
Speaker 1: Please? Help?

998
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 13: Well?

999
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 9: I think you are handling it. I mean you have

1000
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,359
Speaker 9: asked him, You've asked him nicely. You've not nagged him

1001
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:33,800
Speaker 9: about it. You know, you've told him about the germs,

1002
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 9: how you don't want to get an infection. You're not

1003
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 9: treating him like a child. I don't think you're doing

1004
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 9: that at all. You are expressing how you feel about

1005
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 9: what he's not doing. And that's simply being clean. I mean,

1006
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 9: you find out a lot about a person when you

1007
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 9: move in together, and that's one of the things maybe

1008
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:50,800
Speaker 9: you didn't notice in the six years you guys have

1009
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 9: been just dating before you got engaged. So now everything's

1010
00:53:55,200 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 9: come to light. You know, it's just amount of simply

1011
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 9: being clean and good hygiene. Okay, for me, cleanliness is

1012
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 9: just a deal breaker.

1013
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:06,320
Speaker 8: It just is.

1014
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:09,400
Speaker 9: Anyone who doesn't watch their hands after using the bathroom,

1015
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 9: come on, now, they're just nasty, just nasty. He's even

1016
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 9: all in the kitchen, going all in the refrigerator and

1017
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:18,240
Speaker 9: touching stuff, making sandwiches and stuff.

1018
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: No, you gotta wash your hands. What are you doing?

1019
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 9: You know, So after you've done everything, including withholding sex,

1020
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 9: and he still won't wash. I hope his hands is

1021
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:34,319
Speaker 9: the only you didn't mention anything else. But I hope

1022
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,719
Speaker 9: that's that's it. I mean, yeah, it would do more

1023
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 9: than just tick me off. I'm just telling you, I

1024
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 9: would be absolutely mad and appalled.

1025
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 1: What makes I just.

1026
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 9: Think you know, what makes you think he's gonna change

1027
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 9: after marriage? He's not gonna change. So if you don't

1028
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 9: get this situation settled before marriage, you're gonna be even

1029
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 9: more frustrated once you get you know, until death do

1030
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,879
Speaker 9: you part vows involved. So you're gonna have to deal

1031
00:54:59,880 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 9: with this, I mean, and he doesn't seem to be

1032
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:04,879
Speaker 9: wanting to hear anything you have to say.

1033
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,800
Speaker 1: So, oh no, this may not missed. Nasty may not

1034
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 1: be your man after all.

1035
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 6: See, surely I agree with one hundred percent of everything

1036
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 6: you've said. So that's a wonderful letter. But we're dealing

1037
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 6: with something here that's kind of crazy. Now you've been

1038
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:31,720
Speaker 6: together six years and you got engaged, and you moved

1039
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 6: in together last month, six years and you just now

1040
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 6: noticed in last month he nasty?

1041
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,760
Speaker 1: What what do you must have been living in the most.

1042
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:53,319
Speaker 6: Unobservational six year period enter any relationship. He work out

1043
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 6: a factory, He come home, change his clothes, flop down

1044
00:55:58,840 --> 00:55:59,439
Speaker 6: on the bed.

1045
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: Right now. When you work in a factory, which I have,

1046
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 1: you smell like the factory.

1047
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 6: It's a different air in the factory, man, because it's

1048
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:19,040
Speaker 6: in a confined space and the oil, the machinery, the combustion,

1049
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 6: all of that combined.

1050
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 1: It's just in the air.

1051
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 6: Every factory has a certain smell to it. You know,

1052
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 6: you at work, if you blindfolded by the smell. It

1053
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 6: gets in your clothes, it's in your hair. Now, it's

1054
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 6: all under his nails. You just not noticing this. Then

1055
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 6: you question him about it, and he asked you why

1056
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:46,240
Speaker 6: I was bothering him because they his hands and his germs.

1057
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 1: Well, your hands and your germs touch me.

1058
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 6: So you've done what you should have done. You've retracted

1059
00:56:55,239 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 6: from having sex. Now he mad at you, And now

1060
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,760
Speaker 6: he said he don't know if he can get married

1061
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 6: to a woman that treats him like a child. He

1062
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 6: done opened up the pantry with refrigerator. I mean the

1063
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 6: bread made a sandwich. You got a visible trailer all

1064
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 6: and grime everywhere he touched. He making sandwiches reaching down

1065
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 6: in the bread.

1066
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 12: Ain't what.

1067
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 1: You open the refrigerator over? How many times have you

1068
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: got slapped up sideject?

1069
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 6: You don't come in this house and open this frigerator

1070
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 6: without washing your hands.

1071
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 1: Seen too many ass whipopers for that.

1072
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 9: Harrd hang on stead Well, yes, yeah, we'll get part

1073
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 9: two of Steve's response coming up in twenty three minutes

1074
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 9: after the hour subject keep your nasty hands off me.

1075
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

1076
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 1: hard Morning show.

1077
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 9: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letters.

1078
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 9: Subject keep your nasty hands off me.

1079
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 1: Interesting letter.

1080
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 6: The woman's been dating this man. She's thirty years old,

1081
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 6: dating this man for six years. They finally got engaged.

1082
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 6: She moved in and she noticed the last month his nastiness.

1083
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 6: He works in the factory, he comes home, changes his clothes,

1084
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 6: flops down on the bed. She mentioned to him that

1085
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 6: that was bothering her. He didn't understand it. He said,

1086
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 6: why are you tripping these is my hands in my germs.

1087
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 6: She won't to wash his hand. She didn't want to

1088
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 6: argue with the man. So then he was outside working

1089
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 6: on the car and the motorcycle. Came in the house,

1090
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 6: opened the refrigerator and left a trail of grime. He

1091
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 6: made a sandwich without washing his head. You can see

1092
00:58:37,200 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 6: grime everywhere.

1093
00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 1: Goes in the bathroom, she hears a flush. The next

1094
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 1: thing you know, here in the hallway talking, I'm out,

1095
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 1: I'm no watch.

1096
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 6: So she decided to take the same attitude with him,

1097
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 6: and the lady started withholding sex. Told him I didn't

1098
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 6: want his germs from his hands on me unless he

1099
00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:00,479
Speaker 6: thoroughly washed his hand and clean under his nail daily

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Speaker 6: or these cut off from touching me instantn argument this food.

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00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 6: Mister Nasty says, I can't marry a woman that treat.

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Speaker 1: Me like a child. Well, she can't marry man to

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00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: act like a child. So what is your two kids

1104
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 1: getting married?

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00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 8: Right?

1106
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 6: It's time to break up. But I think I have

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00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 6: a few solutions. There are some things that you might

1108
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 6: have to try, lady. Obviously, withholding sex, he's not equating

1109
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 6: that to cleanings because now he tripping. I think you

1110
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 6: gotta do little things to attract his attention. All of

1111
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 6: this has to do if the kitchen and things you

1112
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 6: can do to get him to understand the necessity for cleaning.

1113
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 6: Here's a couple of suggestions you might want to try

1114
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 6: the next time y'all sit down and eat a meal,

1115
00:59:57,680 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 6: take your shoes off, put them on top of the table.

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01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: I don't say nothing, Just keep eating. Don't say anything.

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01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: Here's another suggestion.

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Speaker 6: You come out the bathroom and while y'all in the

1119
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 6: living room, while y'all in the chichen fit eat, just

1120
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Speaker 6: bring some tarlet tissue in there. Set it in the

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Speaker 6: middle of the table. Don't open your damn mouth. Get

1122
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:30,400
Speaker 6: you a sugar bowl, go outside, put some dirt in it.

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01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 6: Put that on the table, and when you make his food,

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01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 6: open it and just sprinkle a little dirt around the

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Speaker 6: edge of his plate.

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01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 1: Don't say an.

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01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 6: You like, just sprinkling around the plate, keeping it all

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01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 6: over on his side of the table. It just it'll

1129
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 6: make him feel more at home. Don't say nothing. Don't

1130
01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 6: say nothing. From now on, when it's time to make

1131
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 6: his sandwich. I want you to start reusing as much

1132
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:08,360
Speaker 6: bread as you can. Yeah, you know, just reach down

1133
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 6: in there, get the end out the trash and put

1134
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 6: little peanut butter on it. Make little lord dirt piaces

1135
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 6: and just make a plate with just broken pieces of

1136
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 6: bit reuse bread. Matter of fact, before you make his

1137
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 6: sandwich with the bread, wipe off the.

1138
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: Counter with a slice of bread.

1139
01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:34,480
Speaker 6: Make his damn saying, oh, oh, you got to do

1140
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 6: serious to take his draws.

1141
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 1: Take a pair of his draws. Yeah, just the.

1142
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 6: House with it, wax the furniture, and then you hand

1143
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 6: them to him and tell him have a nice day

1144
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 6: at work.

1145
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 1: Put them on. That's how you draw.

1146
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, you have to do things to people who are

1147
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 6: nasty and don't even mention it.

1148
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: Baby, what is you?

1149
01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 6: What is you washing the floor and in handing me

1150
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 6: these draws, say, don't worry about it's just germs. You

1151
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 6: going to have to do things like that, fellas.

1152
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,000
Speaker 1: You have any suggestions, Yes, I have something. I have

1153
01:02:07,040 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: a couple right here.

1154
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 17: What do you have to lead his underwear, his underwear

1155
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 17: that he took off the night before, Wrap his sandwich

1156
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 17: with it, and then wrap that in doom in the

1157
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 17: fall when he go to work to eat his sandwich. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1158
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:28,560
Speaker 17: do that said the fall.

1159
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:32,640
Speaker 1: His sandwiches just wrapped in his drawl and his sandwich

1160
01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: is wrapped.

1161
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 17: In his drowsy. Now if he likes I got most

1162
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 17: men like you know, we like bananas. Peel the banana,

1163
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 17: peel it down. Put the banana in his socks. Put

1164
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:49,959
Speaker 17: that in you much fox?

1165
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:55,000
Speaker 1: Yeah? And know that his banana? Yeah, but I got it.

1166
01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 1: Since you brought up socks, Yeah, I have a number one.

1167
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:04,200
Speaker 1: Wash him factress socks in a pot on the stove.

1168
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 1: I was, but serve it also as socks soup.

1169
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 17: Add to that, put put some chicken in there so

1170
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:17,959
Speaker 17: he didn't decide to eat around the sock.

1171
01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 1: Funker socks soup. Yeah, bunk chicken chicken, chicken and right

1172
01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 1: socks soup.

1173
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 14: When they gonna need something to drink, They gonna need

1174
01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 14: something to drink the bathroom.

1175
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: Get that picture? Fill it up, same color lemonade.

1176
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Speaker 10: Yeah, that's another funk. All we gotta get Toberry Letter.

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01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 9: If you have any suggestions, uh to Steve Harvey f

1178
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 9: M on Instagram and Facebook. Also check out the Strawberry

1179
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 9: Letter podcast on demand. You're listening.

1180
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 1: Morning show. All right, guys, it is.

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Speaker 9: Time for comedy roulette. Time for these four brilliant comedians

1182
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:10,240
Speaker 9: we have on the show to shine.

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01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 1: Brilliant, brilliant.

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01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 9: All right, here go to categories Excuses people give for

1185
01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 9: gaining weight over the holidays, things people blurt out at

1186
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 9: Thanksgiving dinner, and crazy names for gospel plays. Let's spend

1187
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 9: the wheel of crazy names for gospel plays.

1188
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: Give me the gospel plays right there. That's kind of

1189
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:42,040
Speaker 1: how your career started, right, nephew, old smoke crack. All right,

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01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 1: let's spend the wheel and see what we can. How

1191
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:52,040
Speaker 1: long is the wheel?

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Speaker 12: All?

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Speaker 5: Hey?

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01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 1: Look, things people blurt out at Thanksgiving dinner. Let's go

1195
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 1: crazy things people blurt out and things.

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01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 9: Get it.

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01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 3: You ain't got no regular sized pools in it.

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01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 1: Damn all right, come on, Junior. Things people blurt out

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01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 1: at Thanksgiving dinner, coughing here and see what happened. I

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01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 1: know that's right, Junior, Nephew. Things people blurt out at

1201
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner. Uh your prayer. I need to be sixty

1202
01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:36,720
Speaker 1: seconds or less. Don't do this today. Don't do this today?

1203
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:40,200
Speaker 1: All right? Things people blurt out at Thanksgiving dinner seeing

1204
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 1: who the hell?

1205
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 5: Wait?

1206
01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 1: All addressing? Right? Things people blurt out and things getting dinner?

1207
01:05:51,160 --> 01:06:01,240
Speaker 1: So you're pregnant every year? Oh, Junior. Things people blurt

1208
01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:05,120
Speaker 1: out at Thanksgiving dinner. Steve Harvey in a game O

1209
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:06,440
Speaker 1: come get day kids.

1210
01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 3: I'm in seventeen, but he really yellow. That's what I love.

1211
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 9: People blurt out at Thanksgiving dinner.

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01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 1: This girl, Come on, Jr. Who right? Glass car got

1213
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 1: me blocked in? Out? People blurt out at Thanksgiving dinner.

1214
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 6: Nephew, no, because Junior kind of got mine because mine

1215
01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 6: was simple?

1216
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 1: Who dried buwer?

1217
01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:43,800
Speaker 12: You got me blocked in.

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01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 1: That, Ladies and gentlemen.

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01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 9: Is comedytte from my four brilliant comedience on the show

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01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:56,520
Speaker 9: Thank you Guys. We'll have more of the Steve Harby

1221
01:06:56,560 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 9: Morning Show right after this you're listening Steve Morning Show.

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01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:06,080
Speaker 9: Going home for the holidays can be a nightmare for

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01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 9: some people who dealing with bickering family can ruin anyone's holiday,

1224
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:15,040
Speaker 9: but the real horror comes when it's time to go

1225
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:19,360
Speaker 9: to sleep. Being forced to crash in either your childhood

1226
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:23,440
Speaker 9: home or a relative plan over Thanksgiving or Christmas up

1227
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 9: cane why they stand. It can definitely get awkward, which

1228
01:07:27,760 --> 01:07:30,080
Speaker 9: is why it shouldn't surprise us that a new survey

1229
01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:34,600
Speaker 9: finds at fifty two percent of adults say they've made

1230
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:38,200
Speaker 9: up some sort of excuse specifically to avoid uncomfortable sleeping

1231
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:39,760
Speaker 9: arrangements over the holidays.

1232
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Speaker 1: Fifty two percent. That's over half, So you should Yeah,

1233
01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:46,200
Speaker 1: if I can walk to my kitchen Friday, I have

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01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: to thank in my drawls. There's a prop. Hey, listen

1235
01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 1: to me.

1236
01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 6: Why does holidays have to be for all family?

1237
01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

1238
01:07:59,640 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 8: You know?

1239
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 1: He ain't no law say all family got to come over,

1240
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: All family got to be together.

1241
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 6: Most of these people in your family that you don't

1242
01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 6: like anymore, I'm married and have their own family.

1243
01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:17,240
Speaker 1: Well, don't you invite together? The family is coming together.

1244
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:19,320
Speaker 1: Don't you invite who you want to invite?

1245
01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:20,559
Speaker 9: Over your house, but you.

1246
01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:22,800
Speaker 1: Don't like them, and you're gonna have them over.

1247
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:26,599
Speaker 10: Well, you try to tolerate them, but that's the problem

1248
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 10: for the occasion for the holidays.

1249
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't do that.

1250
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 6: I don't do that, And my wife honors that requested me.

1251
01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 6: Don't have nobody at my house on my limited time

1252
01:08:36,120 --> 01:08:37,080
Speaker 6: off that I don't like.

1253
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:38,320
Speaker 1: Just do that for me?

1254
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:40,880
Speaker 2: Is that a lot of What about people that go

1255
01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,639
Speaker 2: over their mom's house, right, or they go over their parents'

1256
01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:46,439
Speaker 2: house and they gotta stay and put up with people

1257
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 2: that they don't like for the sake of their parents.

1258
01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1259
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 3: That's on youall.

1260
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,040
Speaker 1: I don't go no where I ain't like. I think

1261
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 1: here's the biggest problem, not you. But you may not

1262
01:08:55,680 --> 01:08:58,400
Speaker 1: like who's coming, but you dealing well when they get down,

1263
01:08:58,400 --> 01:08:58,840
Speaker 1: I'm gone.

1264
01:08:59,240 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 12: You can.

1265
01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:05,639
Speaker 1: Like, I'm cool with the family. It's who the family

1266
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 1: bring with them. They don't tell you.

1267
01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:11,360
Speaker 10: Once again, my wife got a cousin always gonna bring somebody.

1268
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:13,040
Speaker 10: We don't know who the hell he is. And you

1269
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 10: got a's the whole damn So you can't know. You

1270
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 10: can't relax.

1271
01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:19,120
Speaker 1: I don't need to get him to have two spoons

1272
01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 1: and keep clicking them together so I know where you at.

1273
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 9: Well, when you invite them, do you say plus one?

1274
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 9: Or you just invite them and they bring someone? They

1275
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:26,840
Speaker 9: don't let you know.

1276
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: She just come over with somebody knew everything, or they

1277
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:32,400
Speaker 1: already en route.

1278
01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 14: It's kind of bring such and such my aunt, my grandmother, sisters.

1279
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 14: When she come over, I leave because ain't nobody telling

1280
01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:43,160
Speaker 14: me about her condition? Neither unt, anybody told me that

1281
01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:48,640
Speaker 14: she her her memory going, Yeah, I don't like that

1282
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:52,679
Speaker 14: because she's surprised about everything. She don't remember nobody nothing

1283
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 14: her Hey, ain't Then she said, who is that?

1284
01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:02,120
Speaker 1: Who is that right there? Yeah, you don't want to

1285
01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 1: do that. I ain't gonna do it five hours of that?

1286
01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:07,320
Speaker 1: Here your plate? What's this on this plate?

1287
01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:07,800
Speaker 8: What is that?

1288
01:10:08,720 --> 01:10:11,600
Speaker 1: That's turkey and dressing that you don't know? This is

1289
01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:14,760
Speaker 1: the reason we here today. Yeah, you don't know that.

1290
01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 1: And then you got to mash it up for you.

1291
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:19,919
Speaker 14: You know what I'm saying, Like, she go to the restroom,

1292
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:21,320
Speaker 14: then come back and say hi, I get to the

1293
01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 14: bathroom you just left out of there.

1294
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:26,960
Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna do it for five hours. I'm sorry,

1295
01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that, I'll leave. You ain't got to

1296
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:32,360
Speaker 1: come over. That's the reason were.

1297
01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:34,840
Speaker 8: How you don't know.

1298
01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:37,479
Speaker 1: Turkey dressing when you see it?

1299
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 9: Man?

1300
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:41,880
Speaker 1: You know who else I don't.

1301
01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 6: I don't like them people that come over to the

1302
01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 6: house and take more food with them than they come on.

1303
01:10:51,320 --> 01:10:55,720
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm telling you, man, like are you for real?

1304
01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 11: Man?

1305
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, you're just gonna cut out half a pan to

1306
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:02,720
Speaker 6: dress it. You got a spatulafeh you take it so

1307
01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 6: much dressing out you're using a special don't but you

1308
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:08,559
Speaker 6: in that threefol time?

1309
01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 1: But do they bring their own aluminum foil in their bag?

1310
01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 1: Stuff being the car?

1311
01:11:13,320 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 9: Uh huh?

1312
01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I still have to go kid.

1313
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 6: You know what they got these new ziploc bags just

1314
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 6: bigger than a gallon.

1315
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:23,400
Speaker 1: Baby. More of the show right after these jams, you're

1316
01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:25,920
Speaker 1: listening Morning show.

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Speaker 9: We're getting in the holiday spirit, of course, and there's

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Speaker 9: a new trend for some.

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01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:34,720
Speaker 1: But Steve, I think you've been doing this for a

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Speaker 1: while at your house.

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Speaker 9: Studies show that only one Christmas tree just isn't enough

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01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:42,280
Speaker 9: this year, and homeowners plan to fill their homes with

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01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 9: multiple Christmas trees. They core experts waight in and agree

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01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:50,240
Speaker 9: that the Christmas joy needs to be spread beyond just.

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Speaker 1: The living room.

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Speaker 9: Trees belong all over your home, like in the bedroom

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01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:57,960
Speaker 9: places like that. So so my question to you is

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01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:00,120
Speaker 9: do you agree with this? And how many trees are

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01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 9: you guys gonna put up this year?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, couldn't have your main tree, and then you can

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01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 6: have little trees. MARCHI has done that before we got

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Speaker 6: the main tree. We have like smaller trees somewhere, maybe

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01:12:11,400 --> 01:12:15,040
Speaker 6: two something like that. I've seen. It's just festive you.

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01:12:15,280 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 6: It just makes you feel good all over. It's just

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01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:19,679
Speaker 6: once a year, you know. But if you can't afford

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01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:22,439
Speaker 6: to get that one damn tree and be quiet, damn

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01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:25,280
Speaker 6: this article. You ain't got to read every article and

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01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 6: use it. No, I wish to hear my ma would

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01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 6: have went in there and told my daddy she's want

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01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 6: two trees this year. We're gonna buy two damn trees for.

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Speaker 5: What you can.

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01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:43,519
Speaker 1: Well, we have a long time getting on of this

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01:12:43,560 --> 01:12:44,479
Speaker 1: little tight ass house.

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01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:51,760
Speaker 6: Now we're gonna sit on porch, you know, roller on

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01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 6: them gonna still if you put it on that porch,

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01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 6: because they're gonna think it's some boxes up under there.

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01:12:55,240 --> 01:12:56,800
Speaker 6: So we don't need to put that tree on the porch.

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Speaker 9: All right, So do what makes you feel happy and

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01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 9: in the spirit. All right, we'll have more of the

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Speaker 9: Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: We'll play around it. Would you rather? Right after this?

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01:13:11,160 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 1: You're listening hard Morning Show? All right, guys, and it's

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01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:17,200
Speaker 1: time now for a round of would you rather?

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01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:21,920
Speaker 9: Would you rather date someone with their ex's name tattooed

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01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 9: on their chest? Or would you rather date someone whose

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01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 9: ex lives next door?

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01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 10: B Yeah, I'm okay. You can't just have Tremaine cross

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01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 10: your chest. That's all I see every day?

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01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 1: No, that's her. Yeah, I can't do that. Well, but

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01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:42,320
Speaker 1: you'll see him.

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Speaker 9: He lives next door.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna see him. I'm cool Tremaine, you see him everything.

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01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 6: Well, I'm not gonna do is see Tremaine every time

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01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 6: I look at her chest though, That's not what I'm

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01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:56,920
Speaker 6: going to.

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Speaker 7: Oh, so it's the location of as well. Okay, okay,

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01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:03,519
Speaker 7: because I looks at that a lot.

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01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:14,639
Speaker 1: Chessing. But I can't have it there, No Tremain neighbor.

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Speaker 1: That's how I go.

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Speaker 8: And then.

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Speaker 1: And if you talk to Tremain long enough, you're fed.

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01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:28,800
Speaker 1: I was wrong with her. Hello, Now that's true. All right.

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01:14:29,240 --> 01:14:32,479
Speaker 9: Would you rather live in a different fancy hotel every

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01:14:32,640 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 9: night with unlimited room service credit? Or would you rather

1375
01:14:36,200 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 9: live in your dream home mansion but not be able

1376
01:14:38,880 --> 01:14:40,160
Speaker 9: to hire any help?

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01:14:41,640 --> 01:14:41,800
Speaker 8: Oh?

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01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:46,320
Speaker 1: Hell huh, that is mansion. Just falling upon.

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01:14:54,080 --> 01:14:55,920
Speaker 6: Living in that big dust as house.

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01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:03,720
Speaker 1: We've seen it when your staff all walk get your house.

1381
01:15:03,720 --> 01:15:09,280
Speaker 1: We see how you act? How does the act? I

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01:15:09,360 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 1: can't find?

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01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:10,240
Speaker 5: Then?

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01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna do that. But I don't live in

1385
01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:17,879
Speaker 1: a different hotel room.

1386
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:22,799
Speaker 16: Every day every night, but you have unlimited room service

1387
01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:24,320
Speaker 16: credit every single night?

1388
01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:25,880
Speaker 1: Are living your dream?

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01:15:27,040 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 10: He thank that man. We're talking about four seasons. We're

1390
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:35,559
Speaker 10: talking about uh uh, the Mandarin Boys. Boy, we talk

1391
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:38,960
Speaker 10: about something. We're talking about love every day, the.

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01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 1: New Noble Hotel in Atlanta. But you gotta move every

1393
01:15:45,120 --> 01:15:49,040
Speaker 1: night every night. We'll just move, well quick, bring on

1394
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:51,920
Speaker 1: and look, look one baby bunch of drum let's move.

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01:15:52,040 --> 01:15:58,680
Speaker 1: Let's all right. It's gonna be rough either way. I

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01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:01,559
Speaker 1: had to go onto a different all right. Last one

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01:16:01,640 --> 01:16:04,240
Speaker 1: with you guys. Why is Steve out there cutting the

1398
01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:05,479
Speaker 1: yard on this fifty summer?

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01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 6: Been out there whole week, didn't have a gardener? He

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01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:16,519
Speaker 6: can't fell off of it Friday up and he with

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01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:18,320
Speaker 6: he ain't got no chef, you know.

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01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:22,599
Speaker 9: All right, guys, that's today's round of would you rather

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01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 9: coming up that morning at his.

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01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:28,599
Speaker 1: Gat of nothing? These people are climbing over the wall

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01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:29,559
Speaker 1: talking to him.

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01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:33,320
Speaker 9: Only happen forty nine minutes after our last break of

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01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:35,720
Speaker 9: the day, and we'll close out the show right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show.

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01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 9: All right, guys, here we are our last break of

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01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 9: the day. Happy Thanksgiving week. It is then you know something, baby, I.

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Speaker 6: Was just in my closing remarks this to people that

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01:16:56,240 --> 01:17:01,200
Speaker 6: you take this time that they call Thanksgiving and you

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01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:06,920
Speaker 6: implemented in your daily regiment. Stop waiting to Thanksgiving, to

1414
01:17:07,240 --> 01:17:11,439
Speaker 6: thank God for the year, thank God for the blessed man.

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01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:15,719
Speaker 6: We ought to be doing this every single day, every

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01:17:15,960 --> 01:17:21,759
Speaker 6: single day. Look, I don't celebrate Thanksgiving for any other reason,

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01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:25,719
Speaker 6: just except just to see my family. That's the only

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01:17:25,840 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 6: reason I have Thanksgiving. I could care less what they

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01:17:29,240 --> 01:17:32,639
Speaker 6: talking about. Some pilgrims and the matter horn and then

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01:17:33,320 --> 01:17:37,040
Speaker 6: Native Americans that rescue them. They should have left all

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01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:40,280
Speaker 6: of them on that damn boat. Shouldn't have made now quilt,

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01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 6: shouldn't have planned it now, row a corn. If you'da

1423
01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:45,240
Speaker 6: knew this what they was gonna do to y'all, man,

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01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:48,360
Speaker 6: I'd have let they add freeze out there on that

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01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:52,400
Speaker 6: damn rock. Really, really, man, if you knew this what

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01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:55,240
Speaker 6: they was gonna do, would you not have left them

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01:17:55,320 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 6: on Plymouth Rock right where they was? I mean, let's

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01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:01,519
Speaker 6: just be real. Let's just deal with the real history

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01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:04,719
Speaker 6: of what this country has done. So instead of getting

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01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 6: into that, let's be thankful all year round. I mean, man,

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01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:12,920
Speaker 6: take some time out and put this in your every

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01:18:13,160 --> 01:18:16,880
Speaker 6: day regimen. Don't let a day go by that you

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01:18:17,120 --> 01:18:21,719
Speaker 6: don't wake up and give God thanks. Stop laying down

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01:18:21,840 --> 01:18:24,960
Speaker 6: at bed at night without thanking God for your day.

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01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:27,600
Speaker 6: The fact that you are able to lay there and

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01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:32,000
Speaker 6: lay down and get a chance to recuperate, regenerate yourself

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01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:34,519
Speaker 6: to go out here and deal with it tomorrow, that's

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01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:38,120
Speaker 6: another reason to be thankful. Don't wait on Thanksgiving to

1439
01:18:38,200 --> 01:18:41,800
Speaker 6: be thankful. Spend some time with your family, enjoy them.

1440
01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:45,200
Speaker 6: You know, there's some people that ain't hear this Thanksgiving

1441
01:18:45,280 --> 01:18:48,200
Speaker 6: that was at the last one. You know, you got

1442
01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:51,160
Speaker 6: to think about that. You gotta thank God that you

1443
01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:55,519
Speaker 6: still here, you still have a measure of health. You

1444
01:18:55,600 --> 01:18:59,280
Speaker 6: don't stop talking about what you don't have, and how

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01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 6: about if you because on some of the things that

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01:19:01,240 --> 01:19:04,560
Speaker 6: you do have. You know, I was praying about this

1447
01:19:04,920 --> 01:19:07,120
Speaker 6: certain deal I wanted to happen, you know, and I

1448
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:11,519
Speaker 6: was just I kept hampering and just hammering the prayer

1449
01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:13,599
Speaker 6: home that I want this deal. I want this deal.

1450
01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:16,880
Speaker 6: I want this deal. And God reminded me of something.

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01:19:17,400 --> 01:19:21,760
Speaker 6: How he did it, I can't share it, but he

1452
01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:25,040
Speaker 6: reminded me of something. He said, Steve. It's almost like

1453
01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:27,880
Speaker 6: I didn't hear a voice or nothing, but it came

1454
01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:30,360
Speaker 6: to me in the form of Steve, have you stopped

1455
01:19:30,439 --> 01:19:33,920
Speaker 6: to take a look at what I've already done for you? So,

1456
01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:36,200
Speaker 6: while you sitting up in here with all this concern

1457
01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:39,759
Speaker 6: about what you don't have, have you taken a look around,

1458
01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:44,320
Speaker 6: young man, at what I have done for you. Have

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01:19:44,600 --> 01:19:49,240
Speaker 6: you not taken an inventory of all the blessings I've

1460
01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:52,280
Speaker 6: given to you that you didn't even know you had

1461
01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 6: come in your way? Do you know all the grace

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01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:57,200
Speaker 6: that I've afforded you in your life? Do you know

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01:19:57,240 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 6: how many times I've forgiven you? Do you have any

1464
01:20:01,400 --> 01:20:04,400
Speaker 6: idea of the number of times I had your back

1465
01:20:04,439 --> 01:20:06,680
Speaker 6: when you didn't know I was covering you. Do you

1466
01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:09,240
Speaker 6: know how many times I work stuff out on your behalf,

1467
01:20:09,360 --> 01:20:12,559
Speaker 6: So when you walked into the room, it was already done.

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01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:16,760
Speaker 1: Do you know the rooms that are speaking your name

1469
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:19,160
Speaker 1: right now? And you have no idea that I'm arranging

1470
01:20:19,240 --> 01:20:20,120
Speaker 1: things in your life?

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Speaker 6: You study asking me for something, boy, But have you

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01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:28,519
Speaker 6: stopped to remember what all I have done for you?

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01:20:28,880 --> 01:20:31,519
Speaker 6: You tell people all the time that you one of

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01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:35,360
Speaker 6: my favorites, But do you know why you one of

1475
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:37,400
Speaker 6: my favorites? Have you taken the time to go down

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01:20:37,479 --> 01:20:39,719
Speaker 6: the list of stuff I've done for you? Steve Harvey,

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01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:45,000
Speaker 6: And Man, when I do that, I get real quiet.

1478
01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:50,280
Speaker 6: I get real quiet because God been good to me.

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01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:57,120
Speaker 6: But if you take an inventory of your life, I

1480
01:20:57,240 --> 01:20:59,840
Speaker 6: bet He been good to you too. But see what

1481
01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:02,839
Speaker 6: you gotta do is you got to stop comparing yourself

1482
01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:05,519
Speaker 6: to others. Just go down the list of what He

1483
01:21:05,640 --> 01:21:08,720
Speaker 6: done for you. Skip the car you see in the

1484
01:21:08,760 --> 01:21:10,960
Speaker 6: neighbor's yard every year. You don't know what that neighbor

1485
01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:14,240
Speaker 6: going through. Some of these people barely making payments on

1486
01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:16,760
Speaker 6: this stuff Right here, Man, there's people doing stuff just

1487
01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:18,880
Speaker 6: to show out. You don't even know what's going on

1488
01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:22,080
Speaker 6: up the street. There's some people out there you see

1489
01:21:22,160 --> 01:21:24,680
Speaker 6: waving at you in that driveway. They ain't happy at all.

1490
01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:27,559
Speaker 6: You better go in there and be good with your spouse.

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01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:28,920
Speaker 1: Man.

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01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:31,040
Speaker 6: If you got a good if you got a good husband,

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01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:34,880
Speaker 6: you better be grateful. If you got a good wife,

1494
01:21:35,080 --> 01:21:38,840
Speaker 6: you better be grateful. If your family still love you,

1495
01:21:39,120 --> 01:21:43,960
Speaker 6: you better be grateful. Man, you got a roof over

1496
01:21:44,040 --> 01:21:48,000
Speaker 6: your head, you better be grateful. You eating be grateful.

1497
01:21:49,080 --> 01:21:52,240
Speaker 6: It's so many things to be grateful for. God has

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01:21:52,320 --> 01:21:55,760
Speaker 6: been good to you. I'm just a reminder because I

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01:21:55,840 --> 01:21:59,200
Speaker 6: had to remind my stupid self sometime sitting up here,

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01:21:59,280 --> 01:22:02,559
Speaker 6: steady ass for more and then forgetting to be grateful

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01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:04,439
Speaker 6: for what I got. Man, God said, you must be

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01:22:04,479 --> 01:22:07,960
Speaker 6: out your mind. Have you lost it completely? Of all

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01:22:08,040 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 6: the things I've taught you, you can't remember to be

1504
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:14,040
Speaker 6: grateful to me? Are you kidding me? Steve Arvey? So,

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01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:16,559
Speaker 6: Steve Arvey had to strained himself out. So I'm telling

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01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:21,360
Speaker 6: y'all here's my suggestion to you. Be grateful year round.

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01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:26,800
Speaker 6: Make sure every day and every night is filled with gratitude.

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01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:28,680
Speaker 1: Now in between that.

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01:22:29,160 --> 01:22:32,160
Speaker 6: You can send all your requests to God, lay them

1510
01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:35,840
Speaker 6: at his feet. Don't ever stop asking, don't ever stop wanting,

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01:22:36,000 --> 01:22:41,559
Speaker 6: don't ever stop praying. But before you pray, tell God

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01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:44,200
Speaker 6: that you're grateful for all he's done. Before you ask

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01:22:44,400 --> 01:22:47,640
Speaker 6: for one thing from him, tell him how much you

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01:22:47,640 --> 01:22:51,439
Speaker 6: should that you appreciate all he's done for you. That

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01:22:51,840 --> 01:22:57,720
Speaker 6: simple application of gratitude will change your attitude, which will

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01:22:57,800 --> 01:23:01,600
Speaker 6: then have a direct effect on your altitude.

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Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks. If you did not like those.

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Speaker 3: Closures, I hope you can't.

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Speaker 1: Find you playing bank saucetation. Have a great holiday, everybody,

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01:23:16,400 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 1: We love you.

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Speaker 9: Harvey contests no purchase necessary, void were prohibited. Participants must

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01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:24,000
Speaker 9: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless

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01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:27,880
Speaker 9: otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM

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Speaker 9: dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey Warnings Show